| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 620 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram? | Conversation | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 66 | Stepped out of my comfort zone for the first time today | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 03:53 AM | |
| 46 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair? | Conversation | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 02:49 AM |
| 28 | Boomhauer Gets It | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:10 AM | |
| 24 | First cold approach went decent :) | Field Report | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is not talking enough a bad thing? | PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 12:17 AM |
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| 3 | Is it still possible for me (27M) to become a high value male?Dude who gives a shit, there are literally people starving and dying. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | My first approach.That's brutal OP. Just work on your energy OP, game that shit. If you come off as just a happy, confident guy it'll make others happy. If you come off as timid it'll make others uncomfortable and skeptical. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 10:35 AM |
| 15 | I’m with 4 girls right now and theyGirls are like this on the phone, but when they're in person they act completely different and are naturally drawn to charisma and confidence. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Finally grew some balls and started approaching strangers, here's what happened.Great stuff! Would love to see more. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?Half my father figured are fucking cartoon anime characters lmao Looking at you, Naruto. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How has COVID changed your approachHow much success have you had overall? I'm assuming you do this in grocery stores, walking downtown, etc? | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | In my opinion everyone has their own gameIs the best thing to do to start a friendly 3-7 minute conversation and simply be upfront & tell her you'd like to take her out for coffee/dinner/a walk sometime? | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Try To Get RejectesLove it! I would be a little afraid of not trying as hard because I'd expect a rejection. I really need to start doing more approaches though. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 7 | New city. No friends. Pandemic. Where do I go to meet girls? How does one find “networking events” or random happenings in a city?I just moved too! I go on long walks downtown because I'm still getting comfortable with the area and try to daygame when I see someone interesting. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | First cold approach went decent :)🥳🥳🥳 this is fucking amazing to read brother, I was grinning like a school girl the entire time. Thank you for taking the time to write this out :) I really enjoyed this. I've wanted to stop girls I see on the street in the city center but everyone always looks so busy lol - do most women really not mind it? | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 3 | First cold approach went decent :)Please update and lmk how it went! Rooting for you man | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | First cold approach went decent :)Good on you for finding a good girl! I used to have friends exactly like the girl you described which is why I was criticized her so much. The constant negativity is annoying. If you spend too much time with them you become some soyboy who doesn't think they're worthy to be in her presence. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | First cold approach went decent :)I really need to take advantage of it! | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | First cold approach went decent :)Sorry but your friend sounds like a shallow bitch who will be overweight in a failing marriage by the time she's 33. I don't give a fuck what girls like her think no matter how hot they are. Pussy all feels the same and your right hand has tighter grip anyway. No need to worship them at all. Why do you think they're telling you this shit in the first place?? They love the attention and bragging about it. You want to find a quality, genuine girl and not someone who is bitter and spends her free t… | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | It’s been 4 months on delivered. Should I text her again?You should've moved on 3.5 months ago king. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | First cold approach went decent :)All of us want someone to talk to man - especially now since we were shut in and alone during the pandemic. Even cute girls get lonely when they fall trapped into the same boring routine. Maybe someone with more experience can correct me but I really doubt you're bothering a girl when you're simply (respectfully) trying to get to know her; I think it's quite admirable. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:23 PM |
| 11 | First cold approach went decent :)Dude just don't fucking think about it and do it. Don't be so timid. I'm the last motherfucker who should be approaching girls like that, I'm a solid 5'4 and dumber than a jar of pickles. But I did it and she was more receptive than any girl on Tinder has ever been. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | My first cold approachFucking make it normal, champ. I just moved to a major city here in the US. Finally grew a pair and approached a girl and it was so worth it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Thanks for letting my post stay <3 The reason I posted it here is because every girl today expects you to have an Instagram account. Asking a girl for her number? "No, but let's trade Instagrams!" They judge your Instagram page like they do a Tinder profile. Don't have 10,000 followers? You're a creepy low value male with a boring life. Don't have the best pictures showing off the highlights of your life? You're a cheap fuck who probably can't afford to take her out for dinner. The fact that I a… | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Yea | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?I don't understand the hype surrounding that shitty documentary lol, haven't seen it yet but we've known the negative affects of social media and how they collect our data since 2012. I just got sick of having my value determined based off how many likes my post get/how many followers I have. Whenever I try to talk to a girl, they ask for my Instagram first. I refuse to participate in the game any longer. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Bundesliga had some crazy surprises as well. I really needed to get back into keeping up with everything! | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Nooooo, I've been a bit busy ever since celebrating Bayern's CL win. Haven't kept up with Premier League at all! | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Respect to you king! :) | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?That's great! I'm a bit behind on One Piece but need to catch back up. Trust your friends dude lol, you'll definitely love it! One thing that often irked me about Naruto was the lack of world building... fans did a better job at that shit than Kishimoto did. Lack of world building isn't a problem in One Piece at all! | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Same! You have identical interests as me :) do you read manga or mostly watch anime? I wouldn't suggest watching it, but if you're fine with reading manga you should check out One Piece! | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:20 AM |
| 18 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?You don't even have to try to own it, I'm actually super proud not to have an Instagram. It shows you don't follow society like a blind sheep & makes you a little more mysterious. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?I love Naruto too! You gave a great username, friend. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 55 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?I completely agree with all points. One thing you didn't touch up on a whole lot is that a girl will ask for your Instagram and determine that you are low value because you don't have 10,000+ followers. It's ridiculous and just easier not to participate in that game imo Also, nice username :) | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?I felt similar in regards to maintaining an online presence. I don't mind Facebook too much because it's more private, but Instagram just felt like an endless dick measuring contest. It feels really nice to be anonymous again. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?My problem is that you can go up to a girl, ask for her number, and she'll snap back asking for your Instagram. Lot's of people these days judge you based off the amount of followers you have and pictures you upload to determine your worth. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 0 | The Three Ways to Meet Women: A Social Circle, Cold Approaches, and Dating AppsLmfao you literally listed every location ever. Since when does this sub listen to women? As long as you're respectful about it and socially aware enough to notice when a girl has rejected you it's perfectly fine & natural. | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I did my first approach!! WOWAwesome work man, who gives a shit if she gets in touch - you have hundreds of us patting your back for your hard work. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get with 18-20 year old girls vs. 21 to 25+ year old girls?Thanks a lot :) I sorta live in a dead area and I guess that's really had a tank in my confidence. I don't really see young people often. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝Me either lol | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Is it easier to get with 18-20 year old girls vs. 21 to 25+ year old girls?Are most younger girls open to older guys? I'm 22 and feel shy about approaching 18-19 year old girls because I feel they'll view me as an old grandpa. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 08:38 AM |
| 13 | Is our future really going to be us being banished to dating apps?If you watch street interview videos on YouTube, a lot of girls don't like dating apps either. They prefer to meet guys in an acquainted friend circle or when a non-creepy stranger is confident enough to approach them. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my life in every way possibleGreat post, thanks for sharing! :) | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 14 | What Jehovah's Witnesses can teach you about approaching womenAdultery probably | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Can you date without the apps?Fuck that subreddit, they all say cold approaching is worse than killing a puppy. Reddit attracts a particular crowd, so they aren't really the best source. All my friends that are girls hate dating apps and wish someone approached then at the grocery store. | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Can you date without the apps?I complimented a beautiful woman at an airport in Paris once. It went great, she really melted. I want to do it more. | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Tinder time wastersLove the insight :) thanks man | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Tinder time wastersInstagram is not real life man. It's more fun to be the anonymous fun guy at the party with no social media who is dancing on the table, than the guy with 100,000 followers worried maintaining some kind of image Don't place so much value on how others perceive you. Who cares. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Tinder time wastersAn actual fun person with high charisma couldn't give 2 shits about trying to impress some tinder girl with high quality pictures. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Tinder time wastersHow much more successful is cold approaching really? Moving to a big city soon & can't wait to give it a try. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair?She sent me a screenshot complaining about how he was "so gross" even though she was way more invested into his conversation than mine. Also made time to hang out with him while whenever I asked to take her out somewhere nice it felt like I was pulling teeth. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair?I don't face too many problems approaching, but keeping their interests afterwards is the hard part. So much ghosting, it's insane. I thought I finally found someone I clicked with, but even she turned out to be suspect of flaking for some fuck who works at Wendy's. I'm not sure I have the energy for this anymore. I just see high class escorts to meet my emotional/sexual needs these days - they're a lot more sincere | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with ghosters or girls who aren't straight up with you?Needed to hear this. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys deal with ghosters or girls who aren't straight up with you?How the fuck are we men even supposed to cope with this? I'm really not trying to sound like an incel but this makes me want to curl in a ball and cry. I can't imagine living my life constantly putting up a clown act or balancing a unicycle on a string afraid to "bore her." | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 12 Progress ReportMe too! | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 12 Progress ReportDon't be so negative, it's only day 12. Practice makes perfect! | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Any guys who couldn't get any female attention until they were 25+? What changed?you can act like a cool guy and make her believe that you have experience, or find a virgin girl, that's it. Or you can spend $800 for 2 hours with a beautiful, caring hooker in a nice hotel in a nice city. Safe, clean, comfortable environment. Don't ask me how I know lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | For the ones who have had a lot of success: do you still sometimes feel like certain women are out of your league?What does it take to attract a broke college girl if you're a not-so-broke college guy? | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 6 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Holy shit this really out it to perspective lmao. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 6 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Do you appreciate when guys make an attempt at conversation with you? I remember years ago /r/askwomen would go on and on about how it was disrespectful, annoying, etc. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 22 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)That makes sense, but what sets apart apart a man you've met in person so drastically? It's insane how much more success I have irl vs online being a short guy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 38 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Why is it like this? Such an interesting phenomenon. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 18 | I (M 26) went to the club alone and lost my virginityIf anyone says something, just say your group called it quits early. Or own it, confidence is sexy. | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Talk to 6, get cold shoulder. Talk to 8 or 9, get a great reaction. WHAT THE HECKLiterally all you need to do to find a girlfriend is be a cool dude with no expectations that this girl is gonna go out with you. How does this sentence make any sense? I do agree that it's better to go through life with no expectations- it hurts less when you weren't expecting anything major in the first place. However, one should still carry themselves with confidence; if you're approaching girls with the thought "this won't lead to anything anyway" then you've already rejected yourself before… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.I recently went to an art museum for a school assignment and I was surprised at how many young, attractive women were walking around alone. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Boomhauer Gets ItI recommend everyone watches King of the Hill s6 e6. Great episode. If you need the link, please feel free to PM me. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls is more simple than you thinkThe less fucks you give, the less fucks you lose. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Wanna get to know my neighbor better...stay in the friend zone first Can you please elaborate? I'm in a similar situation, but I can't tell if she only wants to be friends or also sees the benefits of the situation of being friends w/ ez weekend sex | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to talk too much?YES! I get told I don't talk enough, but no one really gives a fuck what a guy really has to say. Do more listening and people will find you more interesting instead of telling everyone your life story seeking validation. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Stepped out of my comfort zone for the first time todayShe was amazing. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 7 | Stepped out of my comfort zone for the first time todayI was thinking about asking her for her Facebook or Snapchat or something! But due to the fact that she lived in another country (pretty sure she was French) I didn't really think it would be a good idea. Also didn't want it to seem like I only complimented her to get her contact info...maybe if we would've had more time to talk, then sure, but we were both rushing to our corresponding connecting flights. | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 10:34 AM |
| 20 | How to handle flakiness?whatever you do, don't go chasing after them thinking that there was something wrong with YOU which made the flake. Fuck em. They're the ones who missed out | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 01:25 AM |
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