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It's natural to feel down when a relationship doesn't pan out, so don't beat yourself too much for being bummed about it. Have your pity party, grab a few beers, and then challenge yourself to move on. You're out there taking chances so give yourself massive points for even trying. As for moving on right away, why do you want to? (honest question) Having a woman is supposed to compliment your already existing enjoyable life. If you're engaging in activities you enjoy, than a woman (or a friend, …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 09:24 PM
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Sounds like she just wants the attention and has no intention of taking it anywhere with you.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 08:32 PM
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"I know."
/r/askTRP17/08/15 07:13 PM
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How about something like, "Hey, I've got plans this weekend but let's grab that ice cream on Monday." sent early this afternoon (Friday). I always respond like I'm texting while there is a break in work/fun for me (sometimes true, sometimes not). If you overthink when to respond, it will come across as overthought.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:31 PM
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Agreed; This is argument bait. The only thing I could think of while reading it was, "oh well, got laid at least".
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:39 PM
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I'd wait. Just enjoy the relationship right now. A couple of days won't make or break the ring thing.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 08:55 PM
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It might be smart to hang back for a day or two and let him come to you. When he does, you might clarify what is expected of you. Is he looking for general ideas so he can purchase it on his own? Is he wanting to go with you and pick out the exact one? Communicating your concerns of not becoming "crazy need to get married now" girl will help during this.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 08:49 PM
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Yes, just enjoy the ride and don't rush it. It sounds like he took a big risk in admitting this. I wouldn't be afraid to visit about it every now and then. Plus remember he's got to start saving up for the ring as well, so give that some time as well.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:00 PM
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I would say it is a very good thing. He's said he plans to commit to you (barring any craziness, as you said). I'd imagine what he's doing now is mentally and financially preparing. Just give him some space to get ready for this next step. If you start nagging him now, he might feel you've begun transforming into a nagger and he should rethink this marriage thing.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 06:40 PM
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I don't have kids, but I think it's good you didn't immediately 'abandon' your little girl to go flirt. Not necessarily for the red pill stuff, but more for just being a good dad. From what it sounds like, she is interested in getting to know you. I'm sure as a single mom herself it's difficult to find guys to date, so she's jumping at the 'set up' orchestrated by your friends. As for the date, I wouldn't go into it with a set mindset of 'as short as possible'. I agree that group dates are hokey…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:32 PM
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Believe what she does, not what she says. If she is staying with you and not making a big deal out of things then keep going. If she is having inner turmoil over the decision, it's not your problem. Stay your course and don't take responsibility for her emotions (they are hers to deal with). You've stated what you are going to do. It's up to her to be a mature woman and exit if that's not what she wants. But just to be sure, wear a rubber. If she's ambivalent, a baby might seem like a good probl…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:39 PM
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If she texts that she's busy and doesn't offer anything else, just send a "thumbs up" emoji. Short and to the point.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:24 PM
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I think you should ask yourself if you really want to date this girl at all. This is a lot of BS to put up with before you've gotten anything. Take the time that you've devoted to internet stalking and call/text one of your other plates or do something productive. You're playing her game and winning nothing. If you had a girl just a pretty or fun on the line, would you work this hard for this HS flake?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:18 PM
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If you're keen on trying to salvage this relationship, tell her if she goes on this trip then the relationship won't be the same when she returns. If she goes, wait till she returns, tell her it's over and move on. If she stays then you have options. But, it sounds like she's gone to pound town with this guy and you're SOL.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:33 PM
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Try Volunteer Match. I used it for a while and had decent results. I enjoyed volunteering for a while, but I met more like minded people and had more fun by developing a hobby and finding a club/group that did those things.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:28 PM
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"How long have you had that problem?"
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:44 PM
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No, that's crap. Soon it will be, "take out the trash and I'll have sex with you". Call her on the tit-for-tat shit, it's not attractive.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:17 PM
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