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| 10 | I consider myself a rational, humble, down-to-earth, realistic man. How do I get delusional confidence?Everyone knows they have shortcomings, even the most confident people you meet. I don't mean to be harsh, and I know you've already somewhat commented on this, but it sounds from your comments that you're asking 'I have all these things that are supposed to be going for me, why don't I feel good about myself?' That's a much deeper question. I suggest reading David Deida - The Way of the Superior Man, it might be useful. Start to make yourself the ideal you and you'll realize that so few people p… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:25 AM |
| 1 | A difficult social situation, how I failed to succeed and what, if anything can be done to salvage it.A lot of the other comments have more specific advice which I totally agree with, but I think the comment giving you props and suggesting to keep pushing yourself is the most on point. You sound like the kind of person who's getting comfortable in social situations and pushing yourself which is the #1 most important thing. For so so many of us, myself included, having a solid conversation with a girl was the first step. The next step is making the undertones of that conversation sexual. Somethin… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Non-reactiveness vs displaying full range of emotions, I need help in regards to this conceptOn some level, you're always going to be reactive, or what's the point in interacting with another person? I think the main thing to try and avoid is certain emotional reactions that the girl you're talking to intended. More than anything else avoid insecurity about your own statements/views, etc. I like to think in terms of 'what if this wasn't an attractive girl?' If what they have to offer in non-sexual terms elicits an emotional reaction, then that's OK, but if you find yourself reacting dif… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 01:59 AM |
| 3 | If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out?I just want to let you know you're in a great spot. It might not seem like it right now, but if you've managed to get several girls interested in you with no intention(more importantly, girls you were also interested in), you've obviously got several things working for you. There might be massive gaps in your game, but as you start to learn more about yourself and the framework of attraction, it sounds like you'll realize you already have a bunch of things going for you that you won't need to sp… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 01:46 AM |
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