Paininabox Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Choosing a beautiful girl or a normal girl. Men blinded by oneitis will still wonder about variety just like women do. Men just want a different beautiful whereas women want a different alpha. No matter how excellent you are in all sorts of alpha ways, someone out there is going to be alpha completely differently and that novelty gets them huge points. Hypergamy is not a game you win; it's a Sisyphean task. There exists a needless schism in this sub between people who emphasize the bootstrapping, self-improvement, and self-respect aspect …	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/17 07:36 AM
3	An uncommon opinion about the PUA industry: in my opinion, PUA "GAME" is a bit of a lie The PUA community is good at getting guys to experience failure and to develop the mindset that what they think about themselves is more important than what they think others think of them. It's a bit too surface level and fake-it-until-you-make-it, but PUA do get people to actually take shots at women. TRP is more about becoming someone who is confident, fit, etc, and then getting to a point where you naturally do what a PUA does. I think both communities attempt to solve the same problems, but…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 06:18 AM
6	Here's what I learned from being in a relationship with an active user of TRP, as a woman. Here's what worked and what didn't work. So, he is still having sex with you, flirting with other girls, not being intimidated by beauty, and keeping it cool. That you think this doesn't work is indicative, in and of itself, of solipsism; that you think what you think his goals were and what you think did or did not work is the same way he thinks is untrue. I skimmed this, because it quickly became apparent that the vast majority of this was mental masturbation and very little honest introspection. Most importantly, you forget the most…	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/17 12:56 AM
1	I have a tinder harem of women wanting to get pregnant. Why I think this is bad: Watch as the government strips you of everything you have because you thought mothers could sign away the child support rights of their children. Why create 20 children who you cannot have any involvement in their lives? Just another generation of blue pill white knights who think they can milady their way into tail and of broken girls with Daddy issues trying to see how much cock it takes to feel like a man loves them.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/17 10:25 PM
2	Red Pill Spokesman ~16% of Americans have a gym membership. Of those that do, 44% visit that gym 100 times in a year (actually committed to fitness). I got tired of looking for statistics, but let's conservatively estimate that 50% of those people actually lift weights as opposed to mess around on various cardio machines. Of those that lift weights, let's conservatively estimate that 60% actually use weights with technique good enough to get results. Of those that do that, let's estimate, conservatively, that 60% …	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/17 06:30 AM
2	The solution to the problem "who is the right man for my daughter" or bluepers "no red pillers have daughters" problem. Considering how much of a cliche it is that pastor's daughters slut it up after getting out from under Dad's thumb, this kind of post is patently ridiculous. How is it any different from the covert contract of a blue pill boy trying to chore play his GF out of her panties? Somehow, if you're red pilled enough, logical enough, with enough magic dad frame, that you're going to save your poor daughter from fucking everything up. Nevermind the fact that women inherently do not understand anything ov…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/17 09:30 AM
1	Let's talk hypergamy The problem with hypergamy is that it can run unchecked. To a woman, a man is a long term investment. She picks a guy at her peak attractiveness and femininity, he takes the helm as captain in her life. She degrades in quality, particularly when she hits the wall. The woman who is enslaved to her hypergamy constantly changes who she is going with, making poor choices, never actually committing. She will never see the payoff of seeing that initial investment and growing it. Particularly when you …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/17 06:58 AM
3	Int women's day - something from history to remember. I can respect that women kept the country going, but there is no oppression here. What is the alternative? You going to tell a man who got drafted, after working as a railroadman for 10 years, that he was replaced and has no job anymore? Are you expecting the British economy to simply materialize jobs for what soldiers made it home? Do you suppose that most women who lost their job were doing that job because they were forced to do so for survival? Do you think this was done to be mean to women?…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/17 08:29 PM
1	Why you need to unsubscribe from pussypass NOW TRP is about sexual strategy. The fact that women want the same man through hypergamy, that humanity cares more about women than men due to gynocentrism, etc., have only asymptotic relation to socialism, communism, libertarianism, capitalism in that they all vaguely have to do with people interacting with others. The only valid conclusion, politically, you can make from the revelation of TRP is that women selfishly pursue their own interests and will use men's inclination to self sacrifice, mani…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/17 07:38 AM
12	Why you need to unsubscribe from pussypass NOW No true Scotsman... Hypergamy, game, gyncocentrism, and frame have literally nothing to do with social organization. You are a zealot. Why are you endorsed again?	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/17 02:06 AM
9	Why You Shouldn't Start With Starting Strength Starting as an utter novice, I've been doing Starting Strength for the last 4 months and this criticism is overblown. I had a small strain in my back from bad squat form, but it only lasted a week and showed me where my form was bad. If you can get someone to teach you the movements, you can save yourself some trouble. With watching numerous videos on form, practicing with low weight, and using a mirror and camera, you can learn how to do this stuff safely. I even had someone check my form at th…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/17 04:28 PM
1	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old Only men respect what it means to have someone's word. To a woman, giving them your word is merely an avenue to them attacking your sense of self ("Oh, you're having second thoughts? You promised! What kind of man are you?") in order to enforce their wishes. Having a woman's word is subject to her feelz ("This isn't the marriage I signed up for when I said I do! I'm not happy, and I'm taking the kids with me to my mother's house!"). It is the height of ego and arrogance to allow people to abuse …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 05:27 PM
182	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old He owed her absolutely nothing. If this were a world where women actually did rely completely on a man to take care of them and all of their financial stability came from being with a good man and they had to respect their vows, then I would be more sympathetic. However, in the world we actually live in, none of that is true. She made the bet that social pressure would keep him tied down to her despite her not even remotely deserving a man that high in the SMP. This is extremely red pill. It is …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 05:04 AM
1	A simple framework for thinking more precisely about the alpha and the beta. I won't attempt to convince you that I've been reading manosphere content for a long time now and have read that post several times, because you seem to think you're giving me some Promethean fire. I made the point very clearly that "...there is an array of attributes that increase attractiveness from social intelligence to dominance..." I do not doubt the power of frame, confidence, etc. In fact, given the choice of having perfect looks to perfect frame and confidence, I would take the latter. …	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/17 09:37 PM
2	A simple framework for thinking more precisely about the alpha and the beta. Let's not delude ourselves into rationalizing that physical looks aren't a major part of attractiveness. Even in your example of going to club to find good looking insecure guys, even an insecure 10 will get laid effortlessly, though maybe not getting relationships. Yes, there is an array of attributes that increase attractiveness from social intelligence to dominance, but also physical attractiveness. It's ridiculous to say attractiveness is not based on physical appearance; it would only be ac…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/17 06:52 PM
28	Last night I [27 M] suffered a "heartbreak relapse" over my ex [32 F] She wasn't the one for you. You're a beautiful person who will eventually find the one for you. Just work hard so you can provide for your future family, and one day you will be the one laughing when you finally get the girl you were pining for. Just be your glorious, beautiful, self. I'm here for you, we all deeply care and understand where you're coming from and our hearts just go out to you in your struggles. It will hurt for a while, but eventually you will come to realize that we are all fr…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/17 05:23 AM
6	Question about RPW, TPR, and rape It would have been more genuine to simply say what you think instead of framing it as some precious attempt merely to understand and communicate. Disclosing what your basis of thought is would help people explain their thinking to you, no? This isn't so hard to understand, is it? If you had been honest about your intentions, it would have belonged on purple pill debate and never even made a ripple. That you frame it the way you have lets you slip it here. Very insincere. Secondly, lay off this v…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/16 07:34 AM
27	Question about RPW, TPR, and rape This is a very disingenuous post. You pretend to be asking for clarification about this when you are actually making a statement basically saying "How can you women share beliefs with men who view rape victims as unworthy women. Come on girls, support women! Yeah!" Think that this is going to cause some kind of cognitive dissonance that will save women from the red pill? It's cute that you framed this so subversively under the guise of just being a simple "question", no doubt because you just wa…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/16 06:06 AM
2	What are my girlfriends true intentions? We've been together about 2 1/2 years now You're 19. Saying you've been together for 2.5 years is like saying an 18 year old has been an artist since they started coloring at 5. No one likes to be told they're young, naïve, or inexperienced, but you are, objectively. Men are in their lowest SMV when they are young before they mature. You will command more valuable women when you are older, which is why she is holding children hostage from you. If you were an alpha, she would want your kids purel…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/16 12:41 AM
5	How do men want to stay with women as they age? Well, this is the hand you've been dealt. You get guaranteed SMV with an expiration date, men have to earn all of their SMV but don't have The Wall. You can prolong your SMV by taking care of yourself, you can date down to a beta who won't leave you, or you can develop other personality traits and skills that make you pleasant. Not being a shrill entitled woman goes a long way for men weary of beautiful women with huge egos. Honestly, no one cares if this hurts your feelz. This is just the way i…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 08:00 PM
3	"You pay for sex one way or another" is loser talk. If you are fulfilling all your goals in life, working out, earning money, have strong social connections, then you are going to be attractive to girls and you don't need to pay them. In fact, that's the point of this sub. Work on yourself, the pussy comes automatically. You seem to be deluding yourself that becoming awesome is somehow doing SMV BULLSHIT. Pussy is free, period. If you think it isn't, then you are pedestalizing pussy. Even if you're an ugly man and can't get laid, why pay for puss…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 07:26 PM
-1	"You pay for sex one way or another" is loser talk. You are speaking of having nice clothes, a good car, and a nice place to live like the only value they have is to get pussy. They make you look better, feel more confident, be more happy, and live a nicer quality of life totally apart from getting some strange. "If you're making 25k/month but it turns you into a disgusting blob of overworked putty, 500/mo in hookers is way more rewarding than wasting all that time trying to be trendy and blowing your cash on bullshit" Is literally the most ridic…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 06:38 AM
85	[FR] Plate explains why Red Pill men are "different". I had a girl who complimented my dick and I simply laughed at her and sarcastically asked her to tell me more about how great my dick was. Women are unconsciously Machiavellian. They know men feel most loved when they are respected, so they manufacture compliments. These compliments can be true or not, it really does not matter. She felt that she loved you in the moment, and so by putting her on the spot to manufacture an explanation of why she loved you, she carefully crafted those things that …	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/16 04:53 PM
3	When to Say, "No" To a Hoe There are a lot of incels out there that hide away from social events and aren't visible. Most men get no sex, some get the scraps, but it's only the upper echelons that can get pussy on a whim. Hypergamy. Sidebar shit.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/16 08:09 PM