| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.I got a “Reddit Cares” message 😂. Die mad, scrotes. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:05 AM |
| 183 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.They hate single moms because they know they can’t “dangle the carrot” of maybe wanting to marry and have kids with us someday. Can’t tell you how many men did that years ago when I was on old. Most single moms I know don’t want more kids. Scrotes know one of the very few things they offer is that they can help procreate. When that’s already covered they get super low self-esteem as now they have even less to “offer.” Additionally, I’ve never met one guy that dated or dates a single mom that now… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 20 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?Fr. Could you imagine a woman on old saying something like, “Your profile was enjoyable until the last bit.” to a man? It’s so socially accepted that men can neg women and “take them down a notch” that people rarely realize that it wouldn’t be acceptable or “cute” if it was the woman doing the negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:25 PM |
| 35 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?Above commenter is right. Also, he’s likely to waste even more time because his likely response will just make you angry and then you’ll waste time being angry over what some random douche on the internet said to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?He’s not curious; he’s baiting you. If he was genuinely curious he wouldn’t have put the not-so-subtle neg in his top text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 90 | Successful dating experienceYes, absolutely don’t “take the lead.” While we find the other person taking the lead endearing and courteous, many men (due to media influence or i don’t know) see it as an act of desperation and will put you in the “sex only” category. Most men will not respect women who take the lead and think they are desperate. It’s really ridiculous. I remember years ago I had a very demanding job so I would have to “take the lead” out of sheer necessity (ie if the man said he wanted to take me to dinner t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 146 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.Fr. My ex only got therapy after I left and repeatedly told him he needed therapy (not saying I would get back with him if he did, just saying that I think he needs therapy for his anger issues), as a way to “show me” he was trying to work on things and wanted us to work out. He later angrily said he didn’t need to work on himself at all and that his “therapy” (with a church pastor his mom also was seeing, conveniently at the same exact time) was solely focused on “what I did” and how to deal wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 118 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.So he’s DM’ing other girls and has mental health issues that ‘you’ had to convince him to work on? And that makes him a keeper with “green flags?” Uh, no. 😂 So sad that younger women are going to see this ad (not that they don’t see enough like it already). “Hey women, you better always work or you’re a lazy gold digger! 50/50 or your a gold digger! Always look flawless (taking up a bunch of time and money) or you aren’t a good enough woman! Don’t forget to do the majority of housework and child… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 01:39 PM |
| 173 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.My guess is if she would have given him her pin without making a fuss, he would’ve also stopped by the ATM to “help himself” because wouldnt a good girlfriend loan him $400 anyways? It’s no big deal. Why would she make such a fuss /s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 13 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceDon’t send her here lol. We don’t need that type in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Be careful posting elsewhereI got tagged as a male somehow in the level up sub so can’t post there. Bizarre. No one will tell me why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 87 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴And even makes clear to everyone that after the first date she splits the bill, likely so she doesn’t get branded a “gold digger” by commenters. Yeah, you’re totally a gold digger if you think a man that is courting you should pay the $15 for your fettuccine. /s. The bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:47 AM |
| 89 | They use our Rape Kits as evidence against us: heads up!Sad thing is they prob did a rape kit, told the victim there wasn’t enough evidence/bruising/etc or that they think the prep has a “good argument” that it was consensual so they will choose not to prosecute, but hey, when we can catch you (the rape victim, who they likely did not help) because of the dna we took during one of your most vernerable moments, it’s A-OK! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 17 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Wait, is that a real title, “dogtor?” I fucking love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 25 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Omg I went through the same thing with a person who had a similar or same “super impressive” occupation he likes to tell everyone about (starts with a P 😉). I unfortunately also had a child with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 30 | Lots of "Good Guy" Monday Morning Quarterbacks in This StorySo Bauer didn’t report Pearce after Bauer was pretty certain a rape had occurred, all because Pearce called him a “party pooper?” What a world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 3 | It’s the weekend!! Let’s have some fun. Thought I’d share some of the recent DM’s (I never respond) I’ve received.They did the same to me before. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateThis is hilarious. He spent all that time talking about women approaching men and how “pathetic” they are, instead of I don’t know, just not paying attention to things that don’t effect them and don’t harm anyone? Some men are just obsessed with women no matter what women do, like what a weird thing to write a whole screed on: women who are not harming anyone, just approaching men. What a world we live in lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 03:54 AM |
| 23 | Grace Millane - Murdered by her Tinder date - This is why we vet ruthlessly💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:31 AM |
| 11 | I present you the most useless man on planet earth!I’ve always thought this was wild. My understanding is that Reddit corporate even tells mods of sub things like to make sure people aren’t brigading, harassing others, using racist language, etc. so they are literally telling these unpaid people how to mitigate the company’s risk and liabilities, while also not paying them. That’s always seemed wild to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:46 AM |
| -1 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.I didn’t read the comments when I posted, only the original post. After I commented I saw one comment where someone said she looked through her post history and he is an alcoholic. Did not see the rest of that stuff when I posted. I think that’s where the disconnect happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:45 AM |
| -6 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.Dang, why are you so mad? Going off the post only, I suggested she suggest he get checked for adhd and leave if he refuses. She never once stated in her post that he is financially burdening her. I don’t think one suggestion after a two and a half year relationship is somehow horrible and that instead, with literally very little context given, I should encourage her to immediately dump him. “Can’t hold down a job” means different things to different people. Some people, like my ex, have a proble… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:27 AM |
| -10 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.Because I knew most people would say to leave him but to me he may have diagnosed adhd, which I am sympathetic to, so I would give him one chance to find out if he had something like adhd. She does not specify whether “can’t hold down a job” means job hopping every six months or if it means she is paying all of his bills or something. Job hopping while still paying all of your bills is a bit different than not having a job and having someone pay them all for you, and she did not specify. And tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:03 AM |
| -14 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.I'm going to go against the grain here a bit and suggest that he may have undiagnosed ADHD (super common) as the symptoms cause people to switch jobs a lot, get fired, or have major anxiety about looking for/finding a job because of rejection sensitivity disorder. THAT BEING SAID, I would suggest he get checked for it. If he does not want to get checked for it that is a sign that he is not willing to admit he has a problem and/or does not want a solution. That would be a major dealbreaker. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 18 | we hold SO Much power over men. even if you are partnered up already or not interested in a relationship at all, you can still empower women (and yourself) by spreading the fds messages.I appreciate your post but I’m going to have to disagree. I believe women have power when they basically ignore the advantages men have over them and ignore their attempts to “knock them down a peg,” and surpass lazy/low-effort but well-connected men academically and/or in the business world. I do not believe it is helpful to have women use “sexual selection” and some men’s codependency/need for therapy as a way to feel powerful. A man’s codependency/need for therapy/need for female approval doe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 67 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I’m going to say racism and “selective” devil’s advocating. I have never known a man (or woman) who was racist that also wasn’t a misogynist. I’ll use “selective devil’s advocating” in the racist/sexism context and in just a sexism context: White, rich college man accused of rape, little to no details given out. Scrote: “Well she was probably drunk and asking for it or she’s just accusing him because she wants attention/wanted a relationship and he just wanted a hookup/etc” Black, rich (or poor)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 52 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Wow. I never thought about this as a red flag but looking back, the only people who I have known who have done this had all later been proven to be misogynists. There is one comedian who I used to really like who does this and it’s clear from some of his bits that he hates women. He seems like he likes and respects his wife but that could just be the image he’s putting out or that he likes and respects her because she “falls in line.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Jesus wept (photo not mine)Coalition for Liberation of Itinerant Tree-dwellers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I don’t know if a political add is allowed but this just made my blood boil.I didn’t watch it because I saw what some commenters mentioned it gets into but let’s not forget that the “other” major party has horrible people that despise women as well. Also, Weinstein, Epstein, and the majority of their ilk who either participated or helped cover it up were all party of the “other” party as well. That’s all to say, don’t just trust someone who has a “D” next to their name. Numerous “D’s” (for one example, Al Franken) only PRETEND to be allies to get votes. You have to look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 31 | No wonder I saw few/if any women and children rushing to the outgoing planes to leave Afghanistan. Apparently, the military was letting men/allies through but refusing to let their families come through the airport gates.I would think that if that is the case it would still be incredibly difficult considering the Taliban now rule. To me the government’s first priority should be women, children, and those who were allies. I know a Mexican family who the father petitioned to bring his family over and it took YEARS and a ton of red tape. These women and children may not have years, there is no guarantee that the men that left will even try to petition for the family to come over or that the Taliban would even allow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:50 AM |
| 192 | No wonder I saw few/if any women and children rushing to the outgoing planes to leave Afghanistan. Apparently, the military was letting men/allies through but refusing to let their families come through the airport gates.There should be a tag for “government hates women.” (Half-joking mods, you guys are going a great job). So I hate the news because I have enough negative things going on in my life that I don’t need more negativity (media thrives of negativity no matter who is in office) but I was trying to see what Biden was talking about live, so I Google’ed, “Biden,” and some news articles came up about how an Afghan interpreter who helped rescue Biden, Kerry, and some other Sen. in 2008 when their helicopter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Dababy makes some (really stupid and uneducated) verbal comments and gets “cancelled” by a ton of companies/sponsors. Chris Brown beats the crap out of women and no one cares. The most (painfully) ironic thing was that news outlets were publishing “Chris Brown’s reaction to Dababy’s remarks.”I don’t remember him being cancelled. I hear his music played all the time and see girls doing tik tok dances to his stuff,etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 15 | Unruly scrote duct-taped to seat after allegedly assaulting flight attendants l GMAI read an article where he screamed at everyone that his parents were “worth 2 million dollars” 🤣 I was like, don’t a lot of upper middle class people have a net worth of around 2 million dollar when they are almost at retirement? Not me of course 😂, but a lot of ppl. Idk I just laughed when he acted like it was a big deal that his parents are allegedly worth 2 mil. I mean I would love to be worth 2 mil but it’s not at all rich enough to scream about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 56 | John Lennon was a horrible man.It really bothers me that Chris Brown is still played on the radio. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 618 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Something I wished I learned when I was younger: always trust your gut. I could go on and on and wax poetic about this but just always remember to trust your gut. Full stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 66 | Seeking advice on serious situation with teen daughterShe might not have enough money for an attorney 😕 Guys like this will bleed you dry from the start. Ask me how I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:32 AM |
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