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And why do you think that is ? Because they are very rare exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:24 PM
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Thousands out of billions is definitely less than an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:11 PM
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So you have been together with the person you married since just before 30 ? Isn't that like what everyone here is saying ? That most promiscuous people regardless of nen ir women would face difficulty after 30 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:42 AM
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The source of thier unhappiness is the kids. The same source that you are using also says that married women without children's are much more happier than the single women. Kinds in general bring unhappiness as a whole due to the sheer responsibility of it which will not ket you have your "fun" in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:15 AM
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Unfortunately this only proves how little he cares for you. I mean if he is some evolutionary outcast then maybe he is different but no normal man or women doesn't not mind thier partners being with someone else whilst being in a relationship with them. There are always some unknown factors at work here if they want to and more often than not those factors have formed to cope with trauma or something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:49 AM
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The right to vote thing is the biggest propaganda of feminism. Throughout the world in most countries women got the right to vote either simultaneously or within a year or 2 of time when the other 95% of common men got the right to vote.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/22 11:24 AM
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And more often than not , a guy or girl with high body count can conveniently overlap with also having a shit upbringing and bad childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:33 PM
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If the affirmative action is in firm of reservations then. Sure there are plenty of men who would try for that job. There definitely is no lack of jobs that pay less than teachers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 06:31 AM
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They could use their favourite Affirmative action to get more men into education to men the difference but unfortunately they don't really want equal representation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 01:40 AM
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Love the analogy. It's perfect really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/22 11:56 PM
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Holy shit, i thought it was just dancing and drinking or something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/22 09:32 AM
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Same in India.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 11:29 PM
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But everyone in the media is indeed using the "simplified version as gospel and is pushing the agenda that women will always be paid 30% less than thier male counterparts in a job.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 11:15 PM
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The thing that most people that argue about gender wage gap ignore is that of if two men have graduated from same college with same percentage and have same experience and same job in same company their wage isn't guarenteed to be the same. There will still be differences in them. It only increases with more different elements.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 11:13 PM
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They will simply ignore the issue by saying the perpetrators are also mostly men so the victims don't matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 11:11 PM
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Absolutely. Obviously true. But age and beauty is to women what money is to men. Very critical and important. Nobody is stopping 30+ yo women to also start dating a 22 yo guy , if she is attractive (as you say) and us further in career then most nen wouldn't really mind that much. But that women us looking for a guy who she can immediately marry and raise children with. Not all obviously but most of them. And in this hurry if they choose badly and end up as single mothers. For women , dating as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:22 PM
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Cuz the kind of people who used to be attracted to you aren't anymore. Also biological clock clicks a lot faster for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:41 PM
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Because tall genuinely good , loyal, hardworking men with low n count and family oriented will never be on the market. Like maybe twice or thrice in their lifetime for short periods of times. The desire to be with top men is much more competitive and fierce than it is for top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:29 PM
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This is true if she settles down with him and wants to purse relationship with him before she crossed her 25-27 age. Or if they also had a casual sex first and then she decided she want to pursue the relationship with him. Her having very low standard with hot guys but imposing rules on the other guy at the later stage only shows her hypocritical nature. And yes ofcourse she could have changed in the mean time and decided she doesn't want to be the town train but two issues arise from it. Past i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:24 PM
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Yeah no. That's not how it works. Men can't just do a hoe phase like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:10 PM
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Yeah I ain't white either. Also there were much more white and brown slaves than black slaves in history so curb your "because I'm black I'm expert in slavery issues" mindset. Basically you are taking these rare scenarios and trying to show them off as they are the normal which they aren't. By your logic, all nuclear plants should have exploded cuz they were build very poorly because you can see how badly the management and safety was in Chernobyl. At one point you say there is massive stigma ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:59 PM
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Even many corporate employees have quarters,food and clothing , this doesn't make them housewives. They can also leave the job anytime they want. The difference here indeed us choice. She can buy and wear whatever clothes she want and eat whatever food she wants using money earned by her husband. To compared housewives to slaves at a time where there were actual slaves is an insult to all the hardwork and cruelty that slaves endured. You are looking at the world in a very narrow minded and biase…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:41 PM
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Because there is a time lag in between. Women lose interest in crying men slowly but surely over time within few weeks to months. So from their perspective they just fell out if love for some unknown reason (they will not even dig deeper into themselves to know why) From men perspective it's obviously because of them being vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:22 PM
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Nobody is undermining thier part in the marriage. These type of argument comes when one talks like one person's part is greater than the other. If people claim that a sahm is equal in a marriage then. Nobody would have an issue with treating her as equal as long as they are married. In a divorce it's a different matter altogether. Sure house spouse share if work is tough. Earning enough money is no walk in the park either. Who ever had less earning capabilities should take over house chores or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:14 PM
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It all comes down to priority. You don't give more of your time as priority to some female friends. You give that time to prospective girlfriend only and you should make that clear in the beginning or within 3 days. You can obviously also be a sholder to cry on and hang out with friends but only if you strictly view her as a friend only. If you are attracted to her then you gotta let her know that she is special to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:06 PM
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Is she not being provided house and food that she didn't earn and is she not being all kinds of clothes , jewelery and all kinds of crap from money that she didn't earn in return for providing services that altogether wouldn't even cost half of what a maid would ? Are they not her children as well ? So why you talk like she is raising someone else's kids ? In more scenario than not the holidays and family gathering were the wife's idea in the first place. They forcefully make thier husband's agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:24 AM
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Yes a virgin women is most probably physically incapable of doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:22 PM
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Yes , men do that not women. It's very rare fir women to know what she likes and be able to different kind of positions on her first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:12 PM
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Nah. Divorced singled mothers above age 28 and widowers of any age are different from single mothers who gave childbirth out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:52 AM
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Yes and I said that for HVM. It absolutely doesn't mean that LVM would give commitment but that is quite literally how the world world. LVM have to get into relationships to get sex regularly. Is that fair ofcourse not. But that's how it is. So the chances are considerably higher with MVM or LVM than with HVM. If you want relationship that is. But I suspect would just say that to keep up appearances. There wouldn't be so many divorces and break ups in the name of "finding themselves" if it was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:21 PM
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Why are you shifting goalposts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:00 PM
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A real warrior isn't afraid to get blood on his sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:07 PM
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You've never met the entitled princess, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:49 PM
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What are you doing here ? This sub is for non sensical , illogical people who are suffering dye to current dating setting. A successful person (dating terms) with logic and reason and common sense will have a hard time in this sub ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:48 PM
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The number of guys who are in their 30's and are demanding a virgin princess are equal to the amount of single mothers who are demanding a 666 guy in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:44 PM
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The number of guys who are in their 30's and are demanding a virgin princess are equal to the amount of single mothers who are demanding a 666 guy in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:44 PM
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The heck are you talking about ? As someone else in here said to you, you really are expert at willfull ignorance. Men here state that 25 yo women have 50 guys before him isn't as attractive as a 25 yo women who had 3-4 guys and only in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:41 PM
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Right back at ya. This isn't 50's and men know that by the age of 19 , 90 % women in dating pool have atleast yad sex once. So the hymen concept is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:39 PM
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How can you say women fear that men only care about hymen but at the same instance gaslit and dismiss men's fear that they will only be used for their wallet or status ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:36 PM
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That's just something women love to say to Shame men who doesn't want promiscuous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:34 PM
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Well that is basically the same statistic that young women are doing with HVM. They know he will never give commitment yet they try to tie him down with sex in hopes he will stay. So the only think women are willing to give in a relationship is sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:26 PM
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Unfortunately properly and openly addressing those standards is inconvenient to women's dating privileges. So they wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:33 PM
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Try saying to any man in 22-29 age or even college guys that you will give them $500 to sleep with you. 90% of single men would agree on spot. Women can attract desirable men regardless of their age and beauty if she has money as well. I still don't understand why single older women donot try to date younger men the way older men try to date you get men. Especially if they think men are so lucky to be able to do that or they despise him for being able to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:29 PM
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So you are saying women only look at men like ATM machines ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:16 PM
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Hey, his wife probably spends more than that in a single afternoon. And doesn't give anything back to him either. So from his perspective it's quite a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:07 PM
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Now go check the writers for the shows with the troupe specified here. And see how many are female writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:50 AM
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"AS LONG AS MY PARTNER WAS PULLING THE WEIGHT MAJORITY OF TIME" is the key phrase here. So if he asked you to do share 40% of chores for 3 out of 7 days in week. Would that be considered as them pulling thier weight ? If not then how much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:19 AM
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It's also highly due to the environment and care if parents. If the parents are caring then they would be much more caring and give much more attention to a girl than a boy. People simply say boys are easy and neglect they boys which is not true. Boys do also need as much care. But girls are seen as someone to protect so they are given much more care. This is ONE of the reasons why girls mature faster than boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:57 PM
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For a 10/10 yes it is easy. For a 9/10 maybe. Rest all its extremely stressful job and risky job. Even normal celebrities face huge amount of issues with degenerate fans. I can only imagine how difficult life must be for someone in porn industry or stripper industry. I'm don't support them in any way and think most of the youth in our generation have porn addiction problems but it's absolutely true that people in porn industry, they face the kind of issues that we couldn't even dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:50 AM
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Yes. People who had loose morals are having very high number while people with done standards are having very few. It's in the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:37 AM
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No. If sex is as important then you need to break up and then find it somewhere else. Cheating is cheating. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:54 AM
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The Naked Man. Works 2/3 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:51 AM
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I donno, maybe thier own addictions. But it is proven that many many women have stoped working cuz the hand out by govt was higher if they are unemployed single mother than if they are working. This proves how incompetent they are. Not all children require 24/7 care. Once the baby reached 6 -7 she they can semi taje care if themselves. So why do these mother's still depend on handouts that are unaccounted? I'm all for helping single mothers if they actually do use all of it for the. Child. But t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:13 PM
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Not to mention , until the last 100 years, the man who is typically in bb scenario isn't exactly a BB. He is only called a BB because he is having to settle for a low value women who is not desirable anymore by others (reasons can be anything from age to single mother to broke to anything). 100 years ago, the situation wasn't like this. People were far less promiscuous and are far more dedicated to the family image than individuality and "fuk you, got mine" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:00 PM
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So Is unaccounted hand outs to single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:55 PM
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In a world of strict monogamy the "sexuality" wouldn't matter though. Because the women /man is restricting thier sexuality to relationships and marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:00 PM
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Weren't you the one that said stuff like "Men want women to love them for just being men, they want women to have sex with them just for being themselves" etc kind of BS. This is the one I was talking about. Men never said that you should remain as you are and women should accept you for who you are. Cast majority of time men always push others to do better (if there are no psychopaths that sabotage others intentionally) they dint tell them "you are perfect the way you are" BS. It's the women's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:48 PM
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And women are much more harsher on pick me women as well. Just like men are harsher on simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:43 PM
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Yup. The higher the n count, the higher the chances of them cheating or getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:42 PM
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But sharpner does become blunt the more pencils it sharpens. Also why exactly would the pencil that is sharpened by many different sharpners become blunt ? Don't all sharpners perform almost the same way ? Your analogy makes no sense. Atleast the key and lock one makes a little bit sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:38 PM
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Yup. Slutty men and slutty women are a major turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:32 PM
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As the guys said most of the women that don't want commitment anymore (as you said) are one who were already married/had children if their own . And are into Late 40's. Not to mention even if they wanted commitment most of them wouldn't be able to get the commitment from men they want at that age. There are some exceptions like soccer mom etc but vast majority can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:32 PM
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And what all places would be a good one for doing all the things you mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:20 PM
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Also be yourself and you don't need to change for anyone else etc are the feminism kool aids. Throughout history men have never said such things until maybe 80 years ago. If nen spout such nonsense like she should be happy with who you are , then that's the feminism speak through men who believed that feminism truly dies want equality. Whereas reality couldn't be anymore different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:01 PM
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OMG can you be any more delusional and generalize people ? Like seriously, how can you generalize half if population and blame everything on them ? If people are not logical and are highly emotional then that applies to women as well. Women would also want to be with all kinds of different nen and all if them providing and protecting her and only her. Obviously everybody is going to desire the best of best but for most men unless they adjust themselves will forever remain alone. Unlike most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:57 PM
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Cuz EMPOWERMENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:42 PM
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There are plenty of organisations that help children with basic things like food and shelter. If what I said was not acceptable the. Why did you not comment anything on accountability ? Why not create a system where the mother should submit bills of child care and the govt reimbursed. Or govt first sends money and unless she submits bills, can also be soft copy through mail, she wouldn't get next hand out. Handouts without accountability is the breeding ground for exploitation regardless of circ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:25 PM
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It's the same almost for all species. Male are much more beautiful and attractive where as female are mostly plain looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:17 PM
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What do you mean child poverty and child malnutrition? If the mother is unable to raise the child then the child should be with the father. If father is also unable then the child should be in foster care. The burden of your children shouldn't entirely be in others. Education And food ? I can understand. But the school should be providing free education and 2 meals for the children. Single Mother shouldn't receive money that will be most probably be unaccounted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:12 PM
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Hey, you don't have to worry about bb man. Our govt is taking in the role of man and the expense of men. Basically govt will keep on using the tax money to pay for the single mothers. This way women will have to depend on men even less than before. Men dont even have to provide resources anymore(which is like thier most important role throught history). Govt will take your resources and give it to women weather you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:51 AM
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I can agree to your first statement but your second one seems highly farfetched. Please provide your reasoning as it's highly illogical. As per your first point, they consider beta bucks as a loser only if the women has been sexually liberal and promiscuous throughout her youth and is only settling with the loser because he provides stability (probably for her child from another father as well) . If most women limit themselves to relationships /marriages then I don't see why men would think othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:42 AM
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It's not that men have no standards. Its more, most men can't afford to have decent standards. Becsuse svg women's standards are already filtering like 70% of avg men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:34 AM
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He literally said "men would say no to bring emotionally abused" and you got sexual access to women from that ? Bro get your brain checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:28 AM
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And that is enough. Limiting yourself to relationships/marriage is all that men are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:24 AM
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Asians are kinda racist huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:06 AM
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Yes and it is accepted and natural that world considers men as shallow and 95% of time brand the word predator to any man. But the opposite is not being done. If women are shallow then atleast acknowledge it and no man would bother trying to please you anymore. But that is too much privilege loss for women. Being silent and acting like a saint gets them way more privileges than being honest about their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:03 AM
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Yes men can absolutely have preference. But the society as a whole doesn't allow men to freely express their preference or shame them if they reject someone for not being thier preference. Where are the BMI filters ? Why is only height accepted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:58 AM
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Bro, seriously. You worded everything amazingly. The lack of single direction that the entire comment belongs to makes it a bit rough but overall what a analysis. Seriously I'm gonna copy it and look it up whenever I need clarity in what I should strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:43 AM
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Or maybe most of the men frikin died before they even got the chance to reproduce. Remember that men were the one who always rushed thier lives for all kinds if stuff. The life expectancy is just different. Also women used to give birth to 10 + children as well in their lifetime. So your premises is mostly wrong. Edit : also I'm pretty sure the concept of beauty is quite different back then. A fat person is regarded as the most beautiful one. I remember a famous Roman quite that goes like this A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:08 AM
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Yes. Commitment is where they gatekeep they will gladly have sex with all the women they can though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:05 AM
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For this to work, they have to first stop sponsoring handouts to single mothers. Large part of women's attraction to make evolutionarily is his resource gathering and protection. If the gift takes care of resources and protection then what's the use of another man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:00 AM
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Nah even if mgtow was widely succesful. That is out of 10 men , 9 go mgtow and only 1 is willing to be with women , then 9 out of 10 women would sleep with that one guy , get pregnant and survive with single mother hand outs by govt which is sponsored by all 20 members including the 9 mgtow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:57 AM
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Atleast they won't be single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:44 AM
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You see if everyone was beating thier wives, drank excessively gambled and neglected thier children , then the father's would choose a guy who is least likely to kill his daughter. Where as women on the other hand donno squat at the young age of 15-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:30 AM
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Why do you think society created monogamy and marriage ? These are exactly the kind of things that are created to ensure equal distribution of male to female resources. We don't need to bring anything back. We just need to follow the damn rules and vows that we take seriously. But that's too difficult for some people. With the way things are going there are going to be a looooot more single mothers and mistresses and a lot more inexperienced or lonely men. And soon after just like how buying a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:26 AM
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There is a difference between not picking shorter heights and picking a friggin 6'9 though. That not tall. That ultra tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:18 AM
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You see the biggest issue here is that most of the men got confused with the feminism kool aid that they drank. Men don't become attractive to women by being more like a woman to make her comfortable. NO. Feminism is very loud and clear on you are perfect the way you are and rest if the world should bend to your whims and demands. This works for women but absolutely doesn't work for men. And some of them realise that what they did was wrong but are unable to become more like men cuz any men supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:27 AM
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A kind man can be kind to his male peers as well and not expect sex. Not all those who are not Chads will expect sex for every action they take. Even a kind man would get angry if a women was stringing him along and then dismiss everything. It's not some unnatural phenomenon to get angry when they got rejected. Acting on that anger to intentionally negatively effect the man/women is the issue. If a normal man was trying to flirt with a women, and she is accepting if all his advances , gifts , di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:06 PM
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Oh ok so you are basically saying you lie to get laid. And say others that you know lied to get laid. Go lie somewhere else please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:13 PM
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Almost anybody can be in a relationship if they just lie. Just lie your way through is not a good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:02 PM
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There is no choice for men though. So don't act like there is. Even if men wanted custody of thier child, courts didn't allow it. You yourself said equal custody is bad for the child when this would solve half the problems. Just like how there are literally no parental privileges for men. You don't need to constantly be there for children once they reach 5-6 years age. They will be busy with school themselves. Plenty of men and women do a job change well into their 30's and 40's and start as fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:27 PM
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Oh young men /women who haven't settled yet value money alright. It's just that they don't get the option to show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:12 PM
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That's a very morally black advice /fact you are stating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:11 PM
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Homicide victims are 3 times more men than women. The ratio of disadvantages and the advantages they get to cover those disadvantages is not at all equal or fair. What the hell kind of reasoning is if you can't protect mother you can't protect children ? What is foster parent system there for then ? You just kept repeating the same thing multiple times in different sentences. That women are less financially stable due to children. But that is not a fact. There are plenty of financial stable wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:34 AM
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Based on the risk of being treated as a creep if a man tries to flirt with someone you see in any place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:44 AM
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It's funny how you ignored the second part of my comment which give more context since people below 30 are the ones I said that are facing issues and they are the one who mostly only know dating though tinder style online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:39 AM
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It was tinder which first commercialized online dating. Just like it was Facebook which first commercialized social media addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:32 AM
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People who are just 40 now were 30 when tinder was first created. They dated at the time of before tinder and metoo movement which leds to one wrong look at a person getting you imprisonment and having a permanent mark on your record.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:20 AM
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I 100 % agree that the system is screwed. But isn't it another proof that women are always protected at the expense of men ? Single mothers don't just get hand out for child support but for their own min maintainance as well. They don't even di checks on how the money is being spent. Even if that is not the case there are hundreds of free shelters to help women for even 1 shelter to man. I too hate this shit system but I hate it even more cuz of its discriminating nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:17 AM
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Don't act like that means women are victims cuz they are literally not working and taking advantage of welfare. Govt should really stop rewarding bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:34 AM
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Which is why the govt shouldn't get involved at all. Or get involved very minimally. If a mother can't even take care of her child when education and meals are taken care of by govt then she is just as much failure of society as the man who couldn't pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:21 AM
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If it's obvious that he wouldn't even do house chores in the house that his child literally lives in , then why do you expect him to do community service ? By cleaning the local park and trimming the bushes etc ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:14 AM
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Because that is what the stupid 3rd wave feminism has taught men and women and that became the standard for everyone cuz that's all media talks about and almost all the dating advice for men gets banned everywhere it is the only one they are left with. Women absolutely have already been in the take me as I am. And saying this is how the world should work. And men following this stupid advice don't realise that it only works for women since they never had to put any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:16 AM
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Nobody is stopping older rich women from dating younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:06 AM
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The simp mentality and women are wonderful effect is strong with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:52 AM
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Yeah no. Women claim they would rather be with the kind man. But thier dick carousal though out thier youth says otherwise. Current dating model is a defective one. Either men should stop dating younger women or older women should start dating younger men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:48 AM
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That's just crazy talk. Men do try to have sex with as many people as possible and so do women. Women also try to give birth to as many children as possible with different men so that there would be societal responsibility on their children and many men's resources would go to her and her children. It's really shitty how you stated the truth for men but twisted and ignored majority of women's evolutionary mating method. Also if we go by those animal,bird,insect standards then for majority of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:43 AM
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That's crazy advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:33 AM
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Nobody is saying they aren't having sex. Even people in teens are having sex. You are looking at it all wrong. The issue here is that people who are not having sex is increasing very rapidly. Obviously people who have sex are still in majority. But the other side is increasing exponentially since online dating started. I.e post 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:32 AM
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This is classic example of interpreting data to wrong conclusions. Nobody is denying that vast variety if nen are getting into relation with women. The problems are when more women are in relationship than men which could only conclude they are a either a side piece/mistress. And the biggest problem is that the % of men who are not getting into relationship is raising rapidly. Especially educated ones. There was a research where 33% of male graduates from MIT are virgins. Not just a low success …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:27 AM
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And lots of these couples are well inti thier 30's and 40's so wayy before influencers and online dating era. It's the young generation i.e below 30 that are facing issues with relationships and celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:18 AM
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Because they claim to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:52 AM
1

Then you don't get to ask men to do your house chores either. Especially after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:46 AM
1

And is also very miniscule in percentage when compared to child support from father to mother. But that's not what I'm saying. What I said was the amount that mothers receive from the fathers through child support will be reduced cuz the father is being given equal responsibilities. And that would never happen cuz there are literal careers and industries that are built on divorce settlements and child support payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:06 PM
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How is not doing anything equal to punishing ? That is very twisted way of looking at things. It doesn't breach any children rights. If the parent is unable to support their child then the only thing govt is supposed to do at Max is provide free education and free food at these education institutes. There should not be any money sent to the parent. If need school fees then they should submit an application and the school will directly recover the funds. Or they should provide the bills for the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:01 PM
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For this to work they first have to bring equal parental rights. Which will never work cuz that would mean less child support payments to the mother's that actually do recieve child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:57 PM
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Then why does govt keep spending millions and millions if dollars every year to welfare of singke mothers if they are financially stable ? You comments cleary show how much if a privileged life you have lived cyz your comments and example are only if women who have privilege if being financially stable. There are a lot more eho aren't financial stable and depend on govt to cover for their stupid selection system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:53 PM
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Fyi. I'm pro choice until 20 weeks. But even abortion bring legal all theses years have not stopped the exponentially increasing single mothers. Basically the govt should stop covering for a women's shitty selection of men. And only then will there be any significant change in the riding single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:48 PM
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For research purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:35 PM
0

Git I'm sick of wage gap nonsense. A lot of men don't recieve same wages as thier colleagues despite working the same amount of working hours as well. It all comes down to negotiation and how valuable you are and how good you present yourself. Also men earn more cuz they are the ones who work most overtime and sacrifice many things in their life to earn a decent wage. Please refrain from using anecdotal examples. "Women are the biggest victims of war" there has never been a more stupid and entit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:27 PM
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And if she complaints about it then the bar really isn't low is it ? She does want him to help in house chores as well. The bar is considered low if him not working in house after working all day at work doesn't bother her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:25 PM
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Who do you think demonized the image of men ? There are good men and there are bad men. But throughout history there were more good men who helped women than there were bad men who oppressed them. Also the ones who act all surprised and shocked are the other moms who think men are useless . Isn't that the fault of women for prematurely judging half the population is useless and only they know better ? There are more men who do all the stuff you mentioned than there are that don't, but no keep fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:17 PM
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You didn't explain anything truthful. Just your own twisted perspective and forceful application of double standards for one side while ignoring the other side. How much percentage of women do you think are the main source of income in a family or even in a relationship? No men don't get the same. Even if the have children and a man is staying home he will still be treated as a lazy bum who is leeching of his wife money. While the other way around is wayy less judgemental. Women fight and die in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:13 PM
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Have you even checked the dats you posted ? Frigging 51% of men below 29 are single. And for most of their life until 65+ very few women are single when compared to male population. The very high stats of women are heavily carrying the low male statistical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:03 PM
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You didn't mention stuff like if a women isn't working not a big deal. But if a man isn't working then he is scum if society who doesn't deserve to live. If a women nit buying regular luxury accessories or if the man isn't buying expensive diamond stuff then society turns to msn and sees him as a useless piece if shit for not taking proper care if his wife. If society god forbid ever sees a women doing any sort of hard work like mowing the lawn then it's the same useless piece if shit lazy scum …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:51 PM
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What country are you from ? Cuz unless there is some kind of major risk, most of your countries women if they had reasonable standards then they would have been picked up by first world countries old men already as trad wives.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 10:07 AM
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Hey, as long as you also posses all these qualities then I don't see anything hypocritical here. Good for you , for having good standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:57 AM
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Are you a broken record or something? I specifically asked what it means ? And you still saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:58 AM
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And what exactly are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:12 AM
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Not really. The amount of people who are in a relationships is way lower than what it used to be a few decades ago though. Especially for men which can only happen if women are content being the mistress of be part of harem to high status man than settle with a lower status one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:00 AM
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I do agree that most women who do casual are looking for a relationship with the ones they do casual with. But just like how he wouldn't give commitment to her she also isn't giving any opportunities for anyone below the high status ones that she is being casual with. In his eyes she is not good enough for commitment and in her eyes anyone less than him are not good enough for anything. Nothing will change unless they stop entertaining the casual hook ups with people above thier status. But unfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:40 AM
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Your initial comments made a bit sense. But later comments just wayy out of loop. Your are creating a exceptional scenario for an exception person then basing an opinion on that scenario and then giving that scenario as an example for based stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:33 AM
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So how many couples have you seen where the women is taller than the man ? And how many couples have you seen where the man is taller than the women ? I'm the the answer is more than enough proof. The kind of girls you are describing will fit the min 6 feet nor nothing girls but fir majority of women being taller than themselves is very obvious must have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:18 AM
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Meaning , by following dating advice given by women, a man can never be equal to the women he is dating. They will obviously be equal in name and in insta hashtags but not IRL cuz women will not set a good standard for how a women should contribute to the marriage/relationship. But yeah it mas miscommunication on my part since I thought you said to follow dating advice from women content creators where as you didn't actually say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:38 AM
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I agree with your example. But following women content creators for success with women is a very bad idea though. It will certainly feel like a good idea for women but it's really not. Women rarely ever set the standard for themselves in these media so although it may or maynot bring sucess with women, it will certainly be one at higher cost than normal to men. Example : they will simply say men have to schedule thier timetable to spend time with women, but will never say the same to a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:18 AM
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Thnak you for your contribution. It was very helpful. Especially the phrase that men rate first and test later where as women test first and rate later. Also that for most women that say the bar is very low, they should also give clarity that even if a person has met the set bar she wouldn't be willing to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:45 AM
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Yes. And what exactly do you think thier standard are ? I mean obviously even I wouldn't wanna be with someone with such an attitude but I'm just trying to understand their thought process. Like does the guy have to be a 666 package to be considered average ? Cuz i though 666 guys were the peak of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:02 AM
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I sont think it's meaningless entirely. Cuz almost all will agree that for a man to be average he atleast has to be earning enough money to sustain himself. I Think most people also wouldn't want someone to be murderers. There are exceptions ofcourse. But if we take what you said we the standard then there is no discussion to be had at anything. Anything in social sciences can be individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:00 AM
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What you said us exactly what's happening right now with online dating and casual hook ups but in reverse. Attractive men are having ons with plenty of women including unattractive ones. It is just inflating thier ego pretty highly and then they end up being alone and maje it less likely fir them to try harder to be more attractive or a better women. Inflated ego + entitlement can lead to monkey branching regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:41 AM
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And there are definitely more unattractive men with attractive women than the other way around. I too personally don't believe these women who claim they like the personality of the guy. But we can't do anything except take thier word at face value or exclude them as exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:35 AM
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They do the surname change because back then surname indicated thier profession. And to make the women a part of the family she will be staying at from then on. Unlike now, people back then used to stay at a single place for generation and generations due to family business. Also the concept of dowry isn't really compatible with that "women were sold off by thier father's" statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:20 PM
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Yup. More assumption and judgement. Not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:36 PM
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Unless you are implying that men are more religious than women I don't see how this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:29 PM
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It showed higher in another year, when the topic was different. It showed it was higher when the topic was no sex in last year. Not for frikin 12 year from 18-30 in which there were more men % than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:28 PM
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Why do you keep saying they are the same source ? When they are clearly not ? Also the source I provided had multiple charts not just one. Better to read fully before making immature comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:24 PM
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Ahh assumptions. Classic you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:19 PM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/_cingraham/status/1111607604348805120?lang=zh-Hant Don't act like you are some 70 something guy who ruled the entire world. You barely even reached half your life. So hold off on the "I know how the world works, I know what everyone on the internet personality and their entire history " type comments. It's really ironic how you keep saying I think I know everything cuz i obviously never once stated that only I know everything. You on the other hand kept saying such sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:19 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. But there will certainly be no scarcity of people like you who say others are always wrong and only they know everything despite being barely 3-4 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:12 PM
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That certainly didn't stop them from only marrying higher status ones than thier own family status though (meaning her father status) . Why do you think stories like princess being with stable biy are soo popular cuz they never ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:09 PM
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I don't see why that matters here. Also please hold off on the "that is so immature" type comments please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:04 PM
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There is a huge difference between not having sex for 12 years(also most probably never had before cuz the kinda people who would have had sex for such long also wouldn't have been able to do it earlier) and not having sex for just last year. So no it doesn't use the same source. It may seem similar but the source is not the same .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:04 PM
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And and that is the effect of feminism. But even without any such movement men's age have also obviously increased from 22 to 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:56 PM
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Absolutely agree that more people meet online now than before. But less and less people are getting married. And forget about marriage and relationships even the virginity percentage amongst men below age 30 is increasing at a higher rate. https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/upv1uy/oc_young_male_virginity_on_the_rise/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share If everyone is getting into relationship and are happy then why would this be increasing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:55 PM
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https://www.infoplease.com/us/family-statistics/median-age-first-marriage-1890-2010
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:50 PM
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This seems highly optimistic. Considering as I said earlier, most of the people in the 30+ age category that have the 73% taken status are not victims of online dating and current extreme standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:41 PM
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Majority of the 30+ people are not victims of extreme online dating and extreme standards from women. If the 50+ % of young men who are in their youth are not in a relationship then how exactly is the model working out ? Majority of people FORMED relationships. Its past tense. Since those 30+ people very likely git married way before reaching 30 which is not the case for current youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:38 PM
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Majority of the 30+ people are not victims of extreme online dating and extreme standards from women. If the 50+ % of young men who are in their youth are not in a relationship then how exactly is the model working out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:36 PM
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It literally said right in your own source that 51% of men under 29 age are single. Do you even check your own source ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:33 PM
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Please give me source for that highly suspicious statistics. Also does it not take into account how many divorces happen after 30 ? Which result in divorcee men being single again while nobody wanting to be with them ? I mean singles mother's absolutely have tough time in dating but it gets much worse for single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:25 PM
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I guess he should have said that the current setting isn't working for the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:20 PM
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This is like one of the worst wrong conclusions you can come at with the available data.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:31 PM
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No no, men will still get used for their $ by women. It's just that unlike previously where incompetent men and low status men used to die in war, now those sort of men just remain virgin and asocial for thier longer lives. Nothing much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:43 AM
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This give the perception that most women either competent and from major cities. Which is not true. There are two sides to this. In most scenarios an incompetent man would just die of somewhere with his genetics ending with him but that's not the case for women as she can find someone who is willing to be with her. Even with her incompetence she would be able to find some low status guy somewhere who is willing to take care of her. There are plenty of women, if not majority of them are either no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:41 AM
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Nah, they would have gotten paid even if he lost though. The house always wins.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 07:16 PM
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It's overly represented in this sub. Try talking such issues somewhere else you just get banned from there. It's not considered an issue even when in a scenario where this is the actual biggest issue.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:49 AM
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Obviously not.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 08:48 AM
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Possibility yes. Doesn't mean the only one responsible. Remember 100% of paternity frauds are done by women.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 08:23 AM
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Well if he is making $100 a year and she is making $10-20 a year and they can't afford a maid then some has to pick up the house chores. Similarly if the women is making more than double the salary then the man should pick up more house chores. Unfortunately IRL women rarely ever pick sone one in lower status than themselves and then cry victims and patriarchy. If someone wants to be high status in relationship they should either become high status or pick low status one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:49 AM
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So what efforts are the women doing fir a man, you know other than all the expensive make up and designer dresses etc that they buy for themselves yet blame society for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:40 AM
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Basically it's emotion vs logic.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 08:27 PM
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And obviously single women also can't and definitely won't offer thier empty bedroom to any men or even a couple. Because they are also potential demons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 07:14 PM
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You do realise that's the issue with the "N count" is that people judge others based on thier views on sexual relations right ? People with conservative or very selective views on sexual relations would really be a high on N count. What's even worse are the people who change thier views after all the ONS. It's not absolute obviously but there is an extremely high chance that they changing thier views so that they can settle down with a mature person but don't realise they themselves don't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:44 PM
2

If it's protecting themselves without throwing insults at others or accusing them without any reason then i don't think there would be any backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:37 PM
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We are not obliged to help or protect "strangers" and their feelings. Gender is secondary. If it was our mother or sister or girl friend or friend or wife or even a cousin that we know of then we would be more than happy to assume responsibility/protect or take care of them with our life at stake. "Stranger" that we met few hours or days ago is the key point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:49 PM
2

I'm from India of Hindu religion. We don't have a tradition of mutilating children.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 12:29 PM
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Withholding social infrastructure to push women out of the workforce while making them privately finance raising their children is peak capitalism and pure evil. Who knew not giving free money to women will push them out of workforce. I "Privately finance raising your child" lmao, Taking care of your own child is capitalism? " Wow.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 12:58 AM
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And promiscuity is the text book definition of loose morals and instability and defective pair bonding not to mention also insecurity and lack of self confidence. Doesn't stop you all from spouting improbable exceptions about how a stripper can also be nobel prize winner about string theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:48 AM
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Rather than rethinking about her decision she will file a harrasment case against Quasimodo and demand $120 as compensation.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:50 AM
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Well I only have 3-5 female friends that I'm still in contact with. But I also have a dozen of female cousins nd relatives that I'm very close with. (yeah I'm from Asia so family is much bigger than just parents and siblings) so I guess I'm safe for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:50 PM
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Lmao bro this is not school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:41 PM
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This is very optimistic theory and if true then majority of men would be more than happy but unfortunately it's not. First of all Majority of the long term stats that we have are from a different period of time than the current era that have different standards. All we have data on is short relationship and ons which overwhelming support hypergamy. And we all know we cannot get to to long term stage without passing through short term. In long term stats its not that older and heavier women picke…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:33 PM
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What exactly are you imagining when he said women attraction is malleable ? You think he is telling the govt to forcebly inject chemicals into women's brain to make them attracted to certain person or change the laws so that in a situation where two genders are falling not just one gender (women) is provided with safety net and then given helicopter ride back to land while we let the other gender free fall ? What do you think exactly he meant by that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:36 AM
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Men porn addiction is similar to women's social media addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:52 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but looking ons in tinder/ok cupid then getting Pikachu faced when you get ghosted after ons is really a Pikachu face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:49 AM
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You basically described hypergamy then proceeded to say there is no hypergamy. The issue here is that even the 1% women who are attracted to ginger or girls that are into metalhead are attracted to the top % and would rather be with the them than try the gamble with others. This is obviously not viable in long term hence why as women age (post 30 )they realise majority of them will never get proper commitment from the HSM and will then look at other options available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:44 AM
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So ? What does that have to do with vouchers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:29 AM
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Your comment is very wrong but why exactly do men have to initiate or pay for things ? Aren't women strong and independent? Where is the equality? Why do they need to be taken care of by men ? I mean majority of men are happy to do it but only when we don't get labelled and say we are inbuilt toxic for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:01 AM
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Wtf who is manipulating who ? Why is women free will in question here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:56 AM
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Bro the two biggest factors in war throughout history are wealth and women. Also your first sentence screams idiot cuz that like saying women are more likely to be r@ped cuz they are more likely to be in situation that facilitate being a victim of crime which I obviously disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:54 AM
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I don't think they forget about it. It's like we not talking about sun rising in the east just cuz we don't talk about it doesn't mean we don't know it's true. You also gotta see that countless laws and rules have been passed and enforced to make the second line less true. But absolutely nothing had changed in first line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:47 AM
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Absolutely agree. I mean forget extreme bias social media like Twitter, even in reddit if you post one singke wrong thing or say one wrong word in women community you will straight up just get banned but in most male community there will be plenty of people to change your mind how is this not being looked at ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:37 AM
4

Women or men who should be more understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:33 AM
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First of all any rp,bp,incel community would love to have conversations with any women , yes they would be a bit aggressive in the conversation but they would happily oblige if any women wants to have an honest conversation about what/why they are the way they are. Second the whole reason those communities are does cuz they have been abused/mistreated/burnt/misunderstanding/ruined by women in thier life. So correct me if I'm wrong but when was the last time you saw a domestic violence victim cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:28 AM
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Because in hypergamy 1:1 ratio is not possible. There will always be men who can have more women and many men that have none. So as long as women have no issue with being another member of a man's harem or no issue with being 4th or 5th wife then it's no issue for women. Men on the other hand have plenty of issues cuz it's literally not possible for everyone to have a partner. Like even if all men are 6ft, good hygiene can take good care of women there will always those who end up alone. I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:38 PM
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Hypergamy is born from women not men. The issue here is that even if men care about women paycheck and prioritise women other features before physical attractiveness she still wouldn't be viable option . The women who has better features and is only disadvantages in physical attractiveness will also try to hustle men that are above her in status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:43 PM
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It certainly wouldn't not help her case. Hypergamy can also work in reverse it's just rare. Op has also mentioned economic status, education status and physical attractiveness when he age introduction to each group just that he emphasised more on attractiveness than others when he came to women. If a women is being pushed into being a women 3 solely cuz of her lower physical features then they could also play the man's game, they could earn more/learn more household works and how to take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:19 PM
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"only top 20% men" There fixed your comment for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:57 PM
1

Having sex in a LTR don't usually come under topics raised here. I mean having sex in Later is as common as water is wet. Unless you are in a DB situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:55 PM
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It would have if not for the Chinese and other MNC buying up all the real estate. There was a plan made by an MNC in is where they buy up an entire town and every house, shoo etc would be owned by that mnc. Don't have link but go search Google on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:53 PM
1

If you wanna see traditional settings then check out Asia (excluding Japan and South Korea) not Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:42 PM
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That's how it has always worked . There is no master plan for going towards utopia. Just what worked and what didn't work. Men literally are the Expendables gender in everything. It is definitely not a fair system which why the system tried to reward men in other ways. But currently men are still expected to maintain that status quo but slowly one by one all the rewards are being taken away. For example Now why exactly should men pay for the date when both genders are working ? But anytime men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:18 PM
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What so now men are suddenly supposed to be magically so perfect in knowing what they want and when they want it ? He literally said it ate him up meaning he tried to ignore his boundary or preference but it just didn't sit right with him and ignoring those boundaries casued him more anguish than the benefits of being in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:12 PM
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Men would have similar views as in they experience much more issues than women and they are being constantly told to man up etc. And the same people that encourage us to be more open and share our feeling would inevitably look at us as a burden unless we pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:10 PM
1

Like on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:51 PM
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Trust me avg men face way more shaming than avg women. Especially after they become adults. Basically men having standards is seen as a misogynist oppressive trash. While women having standards is seen as "knowing thier worth".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:43 PM
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Look you do t get to choose your good parts and leave the bad parts as you wish. Your entire analogy is wrong and even if it isn't I already stated how it doesn't make sense as having a high number if previous pets would mean either they abandoned them if that they are dying on which case bith can in one way it another be blamed on irresponsibility of the owner. I have also previously mentioned in other comments that my theory only works under certain age group. High number obviously doesn't mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:38 PM
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Well there already was a solution to it that has been working for thousands of human history. Getting married early without encouraging people to have 100's of partners before and without incentivizing divorce by giving one gender a safety net and letting the other gender free fall into all kinds of chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:22 PM
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This will come of a mighty offensive to other people but this is why you don't ask fish for tips on how to catch the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:19 PM
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That makes absolutely no sense. Your comment is based on the premise that people with low n count are like that because they hate sex. Which isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:51 PM
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Absolutely and women go absolutely bonkers whenever they find any trace of that men having those preferences and entire world is behind them as well as one wrong comment towards women would get your life cancelled. They immediately label those men as a misogynist women pressing Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:45 PM
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In that theory it would only make sense the owners are either abandoning ther pet midway or thier let died which would translate to breaking up or thier partners dying. Both seem like a bad choice. So in conclusion to why this anology doesn't work is cuz as you mentioned earlier pet and human anology is closer to parent and child than romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:09 PM
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I have also made it pretty clear that my theory is not the only thing that goes into decision making but is just one part of why people are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:02 PM
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I know this is false but Newton finding the gravity theory is also because of influence on him from apple falling on his head. Doesn't make gravity any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:01 PM
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In your anology puppy is equal to low experienced person. And a 7-8 year old dog with 4-5 owners throughout his/her life will be the usual more experienced person. So how good would you feel the loyalty of the dog towards you would be when the dog already had many owners before you ? It is ofcourse possible that dog would only be loyal to you and wouldn't care anymore about thier previous owners. But this is an extremely perfect and ideal scenario and we all know life is anything but perfect and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:56 PM
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i have already pointed out how your anology doesn't make any sense or in fact proves my point of this post in the above comment about at 7-8 year old dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:37 PM
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At this point you are just contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:30 PM
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Yes it does come from parents but it's not limited to parents. I have seen plenty of people drink themselves to death and overdose themselves over emotional DMG casued when thier SO left for someone better (not just breaking up but monkey branching cuz if they just broke up and are single many would still try to convince him/her to give another chance). But as I said my personal experience doesn't mean anything when discussing in grand scale. I can only conclude that emotional baggage comes from…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:29 PM
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As I have stated earlier your entire premise depends upon people being emotionally ideal humans who carry no baggage whatsoever with not even minute obligation or connections to thier past which I highly doubt. Having no experience comes with its own baggage but a bad emotional past baggage is much more of an issue than an inexperienced baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:17 PM
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Honestly I hate this anology as this compared animals with humans and that makes no sense but here I go. Lmao why you talking puppy into consideration? Take a 7-8 year old dog into consideration who had also been shifted between 6-7 owners already. Now how loyal would the dog be to you and only you ? You saying it will never go to it's previous owner of they called her with thier special signal or keyword ? See the flaw in your logic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:13 PM
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Your entire reddit history is filled with accusing others of insecurity/fear. I guess even if the moon suddenly crashes into earth you would just say moon was insecure about his capabilities so he gave up and crashed. People mourn the life they left behind as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:03 PM
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You do know that your opinion established through personal experience means squat when a larger demograph of people are in question right ? Only logic and results from previous experiences/experiments can be taken into account. But your entire premise is based on past experience being irrelevant so it makes little to no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:43 PM
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Wanna know a reason people cite for cheating and when asking their partner for an open relationship? They are too used to novelty of being with multiple people. They aren't content with monagomous relationship anymore. They have too many choice and even though they selected the best that they thought at the time they think they could do better are too bored with monagomy that they want the thrill of being with new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:31 PM
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Man, I'm getting so sick of you all saying these made up scenarios where everyone is ideal and perfect and 100% trusting of everyone and have no emotional baggage no matter what they experienced in the past. Plenty of perfectly normal relationship would crumble and have crumbled with something as small as a wrong text message that is misunderstood. Don't go acting like every is so mature and so understanding of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:26 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't it like a fact that sex with someone you love and trust feels wayy better than a ons ? So how can you say sex has nothing to do with love and partnership ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:02 AM
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He is clearly uncomfortable with his ex so why you calling it insecurity when in reality is his preference and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:47 AM
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As long as it clear, cuz your phrasing gave mixed meanings. Glas we can agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:51 AM
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You do know that the reason women check the phones is to make sure thier partners is not sleeping or even flirting with others right ? Men and women want the same thing it's just that due to existence of hypergamy and Incel frustration it just works in a twisted way with no body getting thier way. Neither women not men can stand the thought of thier SO being with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:45 AM
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You speak like women or for that matter Majority of people are insecurity free and are soo open minded. Which is obviously not true. More women check thier partners mobile and invade thier so privacy than the other way around. The simple fact that when a man is being possession or jealous over his women he is shamed and called out but when a women is being possesive and jealous it is seen as love and that "she just doesnt want to lose you" is proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:36 AM
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Basically women want a man who is bad to everyone else but good to her. Men want a women who is good to everyone but bad (kinky) to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:31 AM
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So you are saying if OP was a throwaway account then you would not shame him in anyway ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:26 AM
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ONS is also much much easier for women than men. So basically a women who is not in s relationship can still be having all her physical needs met. But for majority of men unless they are either in a relationship or are trying to be in s relationship they have no chance if thier needs to be met.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:17 AM
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You all do understand that you are basically proving his point right. The moment he touched topic regarding promiscuous nature you all are shaming him and labling him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:48 AM
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Not to mention after they get rejected by those men at top they take it out on rest of men and resort to shaming them for not treating her like a angel who fell from heaven. I hate to say the stereotypes but most people just donno what they want and this is more true for women than men. First thing they gotta understand is thier entire thinking is based on there is always someone out there for someone. Which is not at all true for men. If women don't succeed in dating they only have to lower thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:43 AM
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You are grossly overestimating the amount of people who are actually passionate about something in thier life. Humanity is always moving forward because of passionate and capable people but they amount to maybe 5% of population. Majority of people don't have the luxury to be passionate about working on something something when they are tooo tired after work. If you are passionate and not much capable then you would be seen as ever worse than non passionate people cuz your passion would make othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:36 AM
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Perfect anology. If I have my free award I would have given it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:21 AM
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People demonize the hard working women who date down and gives chance after chance ? What ? The biggest reason strong female superhero are demonized is cuz majority of then inhibit traits that man men have been cancelled over. Half of thier personality and lines is just saying stupid shit like "a nuclear bomb can't kill me cuz I'm not a man" , I will never make any kind of mistake and am always morally correct because I'm not a man etc. Nit to mention all the toxic traits of arrogant sociopathic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:17 AM
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Gwen Stacy is the best gf Spiderman ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:55 AM
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For most people anything higher than themselves is high and anything lower than them is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:46 AM
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Yes because the guy they like is already physically attractive. This is why most women want men to work on thier "personality" because men who are physically attractive aren't always the ones with best mindset. It's like that saying that goes behind every successful man there is a women which can also be Interpreted as women rarely go after unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:30 AM
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Finally showing your true inner thoughts. All I'm saying is this is nothing new. Hypergamy exists since forever. This is how it worked and this is why many hate the system as well. Cuz the person who is famous will have soo many options that he wouldn't settle even if he got an 10/10 partner cuz other 10/10 also want to be with him. And the betrayed partner complain about men being pigs and that all she wants is a good natured person all the while not even considering lowering her shallow standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:14 AM
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Why are you shaming people into dating others they aren't compatible with ? How would it be happy years of his mind is never at peace ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:06 AM
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Being hot and being promiscuous aren't mutually exclusive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:52 AM
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Isn't it true that majority of swinger couple break up though ? It's also true that many monagomous relationship fail as well. But it's just about statistics and survival of fittest. I believe there must be a reason as to in majority of the world civilization with monagomous relationship survived while open relationship didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:49 PM
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And they also chose multiple others before you for a "reason" as well. I appreciate your optimism but that's really not how it usually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:44 PM
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The existence of hypergamy negates your entire comment. Guys never had any power of "allowing" women to sleep with whoever they want. If women wants to sleep around she will sleep around but this will not help your avg make in any way and will only help high status men. Instead of having ons once it twice a week they will be having them everyday. That is all. Your avg make would still not benefit in anyway from promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:34 PM
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If we are to take your post at face value then struggling single mothers shouldn't exist. Which they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:11 PM
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Putting aside all the hypothetic krap aside, first in my opinion J seems highly immature and confused of what he wants especially in the end when he suddenly decides he is not ready for serious commitment. Hypothetically if I was in J position I would stop all contact with other sexual prospects right after the first date with M.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:08 PM
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Here I thought this sub is international accepting. Are saying west people are more promiscuous than east people ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:01 PM
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In any country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:53 PM
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Ofcourse, there is no other perfect way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:50 PM
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If only most are like that. Unfortunately they aren't. It's certainly possible in theory but much much more rare in practicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:38 PM
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Congratulations, you have made the entire existence of this sub pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:30 PM
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And that's just your personal opinion based your personal life. You are obviously justified in think so just like how I can also also have my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:23 PM
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And that's perfectly fine values to have as long as your SO also have similar values. Just don't bully and shame others who don't share similar sets of values or preference. Just to clarify I have no intention of offending anyone or declaring what is right or wrong. Just here to provide a theory on what goes on the sub concious minds of those who aren't as accepting of promiscuous people for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:20 PM
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For majority of young people. Obviously people above the age of 35-40 care way less about the number just like how people above 40-50 care less about your new partner having a child before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:15 PM
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Not everyone is having 90% of thier sexual history in ONS as you mentioned in another one of your comment. So you probably come under exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:12 PM
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You literally said you would not consider having LTR with 90% of men you have slept with. Does that mean 90% of your sexual history is just ONS ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:09 PM
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Bro I'm in now way promoting being celibate till marriage. Just stating that high number of relationship isn't really an attractive prospect. People have gone through sexual revolution they have seen the other end/side of sexual liberation and although obviously not encouraging celibate the trend on quality over quantity is coming back , just at a snails pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:05 PM
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The issue here is when you are in fact trying for LTR the person on the other side have no idea if he is a STR or LTR. And you having that many would only discredit your word. He/she may still trust in you based on what you say but I feel like you don't tell people on your first date that you are only looking for STR or LTR. So people who you want LTR with might just pass up on you even though you both want the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:58 PM
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Exactly. But just to clarify majority of what I said is a about society not pressuring women to work 60 hours a week and treating them as useless memeber of community if they don't. Also what back plan bro ? If married then they can get alimony, if a mother they can get child support. And regards laws that I mentioned don't singke mothers get help from govt if the ex husband isn't pulling her weight ? I dont think I have ever seen a homeless women unless she is some kind of addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:31 PM
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Your last paragraph a out people treating you the way you treat yourself is just chef's kiss Obviously there are exceptions to this but this holds true to atleast 50% of people in 50% of time. And that is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:11 PM
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I guess I should have made the comment gender neutral. Nobody would want to work unfulfillng work. You yourself said if they have Rick patents it husband so you do agree that if economic needs are met they they would not work. And her I truly do it blame them. Man/women anyone would want to take a break in current heavily carrot and stick rat race. The only issue is that in general society is more forgiving of women who dont participate in the economic rat race that it is of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:07 PM
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You are basically promoting hypergamy, nothing more. If everybody is famous then nobody is. Extremely few people would have the drive to become famous if the incentive of getting a good partner is not available.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:56 PM
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Remove the quota system in literally every single thing then talk about women earning more than men. If everything that you say is true than less portion of women are competing for a post and even in that selection they are being given quota/reservation for it. So the competition for something is much much easier for avg women than it is for avg men. There are ofcourse exceptions for this. But do note that publicity of diversity also plays a role is twisting the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:37 PM
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Ahh yes ofcourse, the milienium old forced competition btw men that is enforced by women gatekeeping the reproduction. Nothing new here. Next one plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:32 PM
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If he doesn't treat experienced people as damaged goods then he is free to have any preference as long as it's legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:29 PM
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I know right. I personally know plenty of women who don't work even after age of 25 and those who do work low stress Jobs for the sake of pride and would leave the job as soon as the opportunity occurs. Obviously my personal experience means squat when dealing with huge demograph but plenty other people are like that as well. Why would anyone want to work day and night breaking thier backs when you could simply stay at home and work 2 hours in the morning and 2 hours at night ? Especially when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:23 PM
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Man if I had my free award I would have given you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:18 PM
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It us d to be like that. Not anymore. Currently unless the women is past 25-30 they rarely keep long term relationship as the primary goal. Casual sex and casual relationship is what most people are following.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:12 PM
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You mean mass shooting in a country where mass shooting is a weekly sport ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:03 PM
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Yeah I understand that but there are some me tal abuses like some ultimatums, balant disrespect etc that are also absolute deal breakers for me. So I had to include them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:09 PM
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Oh, I should have mentioned "for me" at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:21 PM
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I donno about others but the two non negotiable deal breakers are CHEATING 2.ABUSE (PHYSICAL /MENTAL)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:37 PM
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First of all there hasn't been an incident. Second even if the someone is breaking the washrooms toilets and flooding the entire bathroom it still doesn't justify locking up the washroom for an entire gender.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 11:16 AM
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They are called Mary Sue and male version of it are called marty sue. Best example of Mary Sue is Rey from star wars and Mulan in live action.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/22 12:24 PM
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First of all I'm glad you are talking all this time to prove that you are a feminist who also advocates to men issues the thing is you say these words while in the real world these terfs and feminist unfortunately does overlap like a lot. As much as toxic masculinity is a real issues, the laws written that are enforceble are much more of an issue which btw lean very heavily into women. It's quite clear that you do practice critical thinking which is a must for actually seeing what's going on beh…
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:58 AM
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I got an easy proverb for you. Find out who you can't criticize , they are the one who are controlling you. People having no issues with #killallmen or #allmenarerapists etc and social media /govt not taking any actions against them while any criticism towards men in mainstream media will get you cancelled for life is making it pretty clear what's what. Not to mention one incel doing a public shooting in a country where public shooting is a weekly occurence and so the entire world accuses all mr…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 04:25 PM
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The issue is that all the "normal" ones have no issue with supporting the crazy ones when it's convenient to them and then distancing themselves by saying not all feminist are like this and these people are just bad bunch of very good rational thinking feminists. And it's understandable to do cuz, hey who wouldn't want extra privileges at the expense of others but just do go rub it in thier face by saying things you don't mean.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:40 PM
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Oh yes allies ofcourse. Just like how many feminists organisations protested that safehouses exclusive for men that are effected by domestic violence are very oppressive and need to be shut down ? Or the "allies" that also organised protests pulled fire alarms to forcebly stop people from discussion men issues officially in an University? Which allies are you talking about ? Men fell for the pseudo care that feminists have shown and fell even deeper when it was used against them. Honestly as muc…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:35 PM
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Is it perhaps possible that lota of men are having more and more insecurities cuz they are being taught they all are inherently toxic and will only be not toxic if and only if they are serving women in one way or another ? Or perhaps maybe it's possible that one gender having special privileges means the other gender losing out on the fair chance ?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:09 PM
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The mere presense of quotas or reservation are the opposite of equality.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:02 PM
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Please tell us more about what happened and where it happened. Also pls don't forget to let us know why it happened as you seem pretty clear that the discrimination happened soley based on the gender which I find not possible unless it's in sports.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:00 PM
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Men also gets harassed. You thing the drill seargent takes the soldiers feelings into consideration? Flash news in war the soldiers feeling don't matter. In fact the soldier that has feelings is far f om ideal soldier. We can talk about how that's unfair and how military should be like field trip to Disneyland but that really isn't how it works and it never did.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 02:57 PM
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And as I said , most people here when they say feminism they mean third wave feminism. Feminism has long finished it work and then some.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 02:59 AM
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As much as I agree with everything you said, having the ability to be financially independence is actually worth all the issues and trouble it caused.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 05:40 PM
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Remember op these people that came to you telling how she cheated on you are probably the same people who also probably told your wife that you are cheating on her in many previous instances. I donno the full story and weather or not infidelity occured but don't take the words of gossiper at face value.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 05:29 PM
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As someone else already saud earlier these are old school thoughts. When literally half of entire population has rebelled against traditional roles and values and refuse to adhere to them the the other half has no benefit from following traditional norms either. I would still give up my life for my family if needed but definitely not to some random women. Basically chivalry doesn't return any respect/benefits anymore.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 05:18 PM
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Bro why you bringing a feminist from feminism movements of 1800's ? Everyone here would absolutely agree with first wave feminism, more than half might even agree with second wave, it's the third wave that's the toxic sewage that we Al have issue with.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 04:53 PM
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You don't have to worry about them. If the people from quotas/reservation/those that are given special privileges get stuck somewhere or commit blunders then they will simply again blame men for it in some sort of twisted way. If they can't get a sale they will blame it on misogyny. If they couldn't finish project they can blame it on company pressing them with ruthless deadlines.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 01:00 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:54 AM
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Sauce pls, and if in YouTube then a link would be great as well. Thank you.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 04:04 AM
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Oh they will make a big deal of nov 19th just not for IMD but for world toilet day. Google will also give doodles of toilets in it's sear h bar.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 05:31 AM
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