Pantalooney Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed?		Pantalooney	/r/seduction	26/03/12 07:01 PM
9	Why are you always so happy?		Pantalooney	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	At what age did 18 year olds become a no-go for you guys? Hard to say because i came out of a long term relationship just before it. I was 26 at the time.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 03:28 PM
9	At what age did 18 year olds become a no-go for you guys? Mostly after going on a date with one. Found that the lack of life experiences made for shallow conversations.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 03:13 PM
1	Holy fucking christ i'm lonely If you are truly happy independantly, your mindset will go from 'my life won't be happy without a girl' to 'any girl would be lucky to be with me'. You started your mindset to a winning lifestyle by doing some changes in your life. The final step is self-love. I still feel frustration from op and that is a red flag for most girls. You can't be petty or frustrated, it might be your 4th or your 32nd first date but it is the first one with that person. She has to see you at your best.	/r/seduction	11/12/18 02:33 PM
2	So frustrated with life and love right now. Youre close to a campus. Find some activites that you could meet girls. Its less awkward to approach there. Maybe a team sport, a gym class or a art class. Dont stress it, it will come with the right attitude.	/r/seduction	08/12/17 10:17 PM
4	How do I stop looking like I want to murder people? In the private of your home tho. You might look like a bigger psycho when smiling at inanimate objects in public.	/r/seduction	16/08/17 05:17 PM
2	Give up for now? The problem is that in your head the only way to get laid is by going to a bar and drinking. There are other ways to pick up. Personally I feel like the nightlife scene is too crowded to have a good chances to pick up. Girls have so much possibilities that they won't go for you if you lack that extra edge that you get with practice. Read on day game. Be confident in what you can offer. You can also be aware of what you could fix, but do not overthink it, it shouldn't stop you from getting what y…	/r/seduction	19/07/15 01:49 PM
1	Do any other introverts feel they need to put on a facade? It will get better with practice. I too was a massive introvert and the more I spent time discussing with people (male or female), i build my own extroverted facade that I was comfortable presenting. It turns out this facade is a part of me I hadn't experimented before and I proundly present now. It turns out people in general love having chill and smooth introverts around. You might run into girls that are not interested in you, but that a problem for everyone. You will meet some people who you…	/r/seduction	31/05/15 12:19 PM
1	Women's smile. By main school, I imagine you were talking about high school. People in high school were mean. Ignore what happened there, people outside will note laugh at you if you have acne. She was probably smiling at you because she found you cute. Smile back, be happy, talk to people and fuck what your dad told you! Be the living proof that he was wrong!	/r/seduction	08/05/15 03:40 PM
1	I'm not sure where I'm heading. RE: 33M never been in relationship You sound like a very interesting person...You just lack practice. It is never too late to start. Breaking out of your shell will not happen right away. Posting here shows a will and I am sure you will be able to find something . Have you tried online dating? It might not be the way you will find the woman of your life, but I still consider it practice. You seem like a genuine guy and i'm sure plenty of single ladies would want to meet you. If there are any questions, we are here to help.	/r/seduction	04/04/15 06:37 PM
1	Hey guys, I'm a Nerd Virgin, which books do you guys recommend on how to speak to women and be their friends? Read the post, still a virgin	/r/seduction	14/02/15 06:03 PM
7	I don't feel like girls can be attracted to me Exactly, i know a ton of dude who can offer soooo much to any girls but that qhole mindset of 'i have self-confidence issue' is what pushes girls away from them. OP you have to understand that we all do, it is human nature to doubt ourselves and wanting the be liked. You seem like a genuine guy ( just by coming on this subreddit means a lot) you are better than half the guys out there already.	/r/seduction	20/10/14 03:14 AM
1	I don't feel like girls can be attracted to me Dont push it, continue to have fun. Be confident about what you have to offer, always try to make yourself better. You might not be the prettiest, the smartest but you can offer more than a ton of other guys. If a girl is not interested to join your life, fuck her, shes missing out. With that mindset ive been doing great. You care too much about that. Let it go, it will come.	/r/seduction	20/10/14 03:11 AM
2	Looking for advice on how to be less intimidating to women. Get some girl FRIENDS! If girls can join in without feeling like a piece of meat youre bringing back home. I strongly suggests havinh girls atound to make them feel at ease. I also agree with the rest of the people here saying NOT to dress down. You still want to seem alpha and you still need to act alpha!	/r/seduction	12/09/14 05:00 PM
2	You guys must spend a lot.... Someone is shallow	/r/seduction	08/07/14 10:59 PM
1	How to game with very limited budget? I met my current gf in deep debt. You need to explain your situation, if she is worth a damn, she will understand. If you dont tell her, she will think youre cheap, if you tell her, at least she will see the effort you put.	/r/seduction	08/07/14 10:47 PM
14	Ok..how do I dance in clubs? Depends on the type of edm club youre going to.If its more of a show type where people are all facing the dj and jumping around, let loose know, have fun, no one is watching! If its more of a traditional club setting where people stand in circle to dance together, keep it more low key, basic two stepping, smooth head and arm movement. Remeber to always keep smiling no matter what. As a person who is also from a metal background I prefer the shows, you will have much more fun and it feels a lot m…	/r/seduction	30/05/14 01:13 PM
11	Any older virgins successfully turned it around? I've talked to a lot of chicks on the issue of virginity and suprisingly a lot of them dont mind, they actually would like to take a guys virginity. It makes them feel special. If the girl is not a whore who bases her relationships only on sex it will go well. You just have to pick the right girl and be honest. As a person who lost his virginity at 21, you are not late, losing your virginity is not a race.	/r/seduction	07/04/14 05:35 PM
5	Any older virgins successfully turned it around? Did you read the questions or just the title? We're downvoting not because we are jealous but because your brag brought nothing to the conversation.	/r/seduction	07/04/14 05:29 PM
3	What's worse than rejection? Talk to her, be easygoing, do not hit on her upfront. If she gives you attention, invite her for a coffee. If she says no, then no hard feelings, you need to stay light in the workplace.	/r/seduction	15/03/14 02:14 AM
1	I am a 20year old virgin and want to change that. Totally forgot the title, ill check it out as soon as im free! But I read basically the most popular seduction books. If you check google im sure you'll be able to find the same ones.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 11:32 PM
1	I am a 20year old virgin and want to change that. This subreddit is a great read to help you grow with this. As I said, I was a awkward, shy and antisocial 19 year old virgin. Now im 22 and im in a happy 2 year relationship. The first step to success is desire to do so. You show that you want to by coming here. Read a lot on here, check out seduction books. The more you read, the more you have ways to succeed. I know it seems cheesy and hard to walk up to a girl and just say 'hi!' and start talking but it can work. Be easygoing, be cool and wit…	/r/seduction	28/01/14 11:07 PM
1	I am a 20year old virgin and want to change that. Alright, first of all embrace who you are. Love who you are. As you said you are a dog chasing a car. Stop trying so hard. How to feel better? Two things that worked for me. 1st:feel good about your body, go to the gym. Love your image. 2nd: Try picking up, get to learn how a girl fonctions and reacts to what you say. Yes, you might get rejected. Yes you mights get friendzoned. But you need to try to succeed. If you have any questions dont hesitate, I have been in the same ship as you.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 07:08 PM
1	Girl mentions she has a date before we're getting drinks later this week. She can also translate it into unorginality, watch out. By the way, why is this chick talking to you about her other dates?	/r/seduction	11/01/14 08:08 PM
3	Why do I feel like a failure if sex doesn't happen? If you try too hard it becomes apparent for them. If you only want to get in their pants they wont want to be with you. They gave more attention to your friend for that reason. You need to project a good vibe and show interest, not too much, you dont want to come off as easy. Chill out, smile and have a good time.	/r/seduction	11/01/14 08:03 PM
1	Rave/EDM Show Game Go chill with the smokers! You dont have to smoke, just go take some air. Talk to them and you can go dance with her after.	/r/seduction	23/12/13 06:23 AM
3	Going clubbing tonight. I'm pretty new to this and have some club-specific questions on how to approach Dont approach on the dance floor, at some point of the night just roam arund the club and talk to a couple people. In these clubs music is really loud so you can t really comnunicate well. I met a couple girls at raves where I just talked outside and we went back in, held her end to go through the crowd ( since its packed ) and danced with her. If it doesnt work, who gives a crap, have fun, just show youre a fun guy. Btw dont grind for the love of god unless she REALLY wants it.	/r/seduction	17/08/13 09:58 PM
1	I've never touched women, where do I start? Youre welcome, but dont forget, you are still young. You maybe were educated in a world where these rules of no touch may stand true but there is s reason you came here, you dont feel right, you might want to change how you act with others. It is a problem that you feel too awkward to touch people. And you were brave enough to ask help here. It takes balls to do what you just did. Next step though is applying some of the things you read here. As I told you, go ask someone the time, thank her and…	/r/seduction	13/08/13 06:56 PM
0	I've never touched women, where do I start? Choo choooo all aboard!	/r/seduction	13/08/13 06:46 PM
5	I've never touched women, where do I start? No one will be attracted to you if you dont convey a attractive personnality. Its not all about the look my friend. I know it can be awkward at first to get close to someone. But be fierce, be brave, fucking go ahead and touch people. People cannot get you arrested if you touched them on the shoulder on the hand. If people question why you touch them, just say that you are a person that shows his emotions through touch. A friend of mine does that and it is really not awkward, it is a thing that …	/r/seduction	13/08/13 06:43 PM
5	Virgin for life?! I had a similar story, I was very self focused. Had similar thoughts and became somewhat desperate, but you know what helped me? Gaining friends, growing a entourage.. I went up to guys, girls and just chatted with them.. not to lose that virgin branding in my brain, but to just loosen up my social interaction and it is way easier to meet and be comfortable with someone if you already have friends in common. Yes, there have been times I didnt get what I wanted with a girl, you can't push anyone …	/r/seduction	12/05/13 04:05 PM
4	Is snapchat effective? Nope. Its less effective than texting and texting is not effective at all. You cant convey anything through it.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 04:43 AM
2	As a woman with a mediocre appearance, how to do I attract and seduce men who are appearance based? Theres nothing sexier than a confident girl. The way you look at someone with that fire in your eyes is a super turn on, the way you move and talk! Be confident! Most girls dont know but even if you're semi hot, and a man can feel that confidence in you, he will probably want to feel his penis in you too. I dont go for cute chicks with issues, instead after descent looking girl that will give you a good time with no problems.	/r/seduction	18/02/13 10:29 PM
6	I royally screwed up my weekend and now recognize my AFC status. Acceptance and starting new. You said : I worry might people think. You need to change that. Stop caring for people that dont really matter after all. You should be proud to say that you went on a date with someone (especially if they are HB8) even if it did not work out, you tried and thats all thats important. Btw most people dont care who you go on a date with, its a normal thing to date, youre not in high school anymore. If someone judges you, they are assholes, and you shouldnt care about them.	/r/seduction	31/01/13 11:58 AM
3	I am such a beta, that I'm beginning to hate my life. (If it's too long, just read the bold print for the story.) http://alltheragefaces.com/img/faces/large/sad-i-know-that-feel-clean-l.png	/r/seduction	01/09/12 01:08 PM
3	I am such a beta, that I'm beginning to hate my life. (If it's too long, just read the bold print for the story.) That's alpha as shit bro! Girls opening you , you should be proud! ;) Worst case, next time you see that chick, tell her you broke up with your girlfriend and you are interested! You need more experience, learn to stop caring what the others think, live YOUR life. No one wants to waste it away. Just start gradually and you will realise soon that people care about what you say. I use to keep everything inside and now i am not scared anymore of what people think, Express yourself, people will like…	/r/seduction	01/09/12 01:02 PM
3	How Do I Break The Foreveralone Self-Loathing Feedback Loop? (Inner Game-ish) Been there done that brother, forget about the ladies for a while. Hit the gym, fuck what the others think, you can fix your life in that simple step, it might be long but it took me a year, now im in shape, happier and i met someone awesome i love spending my days with. if my lazy ass did it, anyone can.	/r/seduction	31/08/12 08:25 PM
1	got friend-zoned and still confused. Look, don't be a dick. Hang on with her last few days, then stop the contact with her. if you do that to her now, forget about her, don't act like a cry baby, be cool and do not lose your cool. Be nice now, wait a while to meet her in the future. change some things, be more alpha and then we will see next time you meet her.	/r/seduction	27/08/12 03:52 PM
2	'Are you guys dating ?' i actually started dating a girl that way! The guy asks if we were dating, i said of course, put my arm around her waist and go for the kiss. She actually kissed back! Just don't make it awkward	/r/seduction	12/07/12 02:35 PM
15	Summary of being attractive: Screenshot of 4chan - Wanted! http://i.imgur.com/1cYyZ.jpg Here you go ;) I kept it saved in my favourites, it really helped me too!	/r/seduction	07/07/12 05:21 PM
2	I hesitated and now there's another guy. What's my next move? If there is chemistry, play on it, but don't forget to push / pull often to keep her interested. It is not a desperate case, try your luck, if it fails, you will have no regrets at least. You seem like a cool guy, you'll manage to find someone else.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 05:09 PM
1	Very Confused, Dont know what to think go for it, you have nothing to lose...	/r/seduction	19/06/12 02:58 PM
-1	Why are you always so happy? she already knows its size ;)	/r/seduction	30/03/12 06:24 PM
3	Why are you always so happy? I've told her that before but she still thinks i laugh at her...	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:55 PM
3	Social game and AFCs I've had a 'may the best man win' situation in the past. But what sucks with these is that it feels like a race and some (or even all) parties of the race might rush just to get that chick before the other one. A man that tries to hurry things too much is a massive turnoff.	/r/seduction	27/03/12 05:28 AM
1	What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed? Imagine if that doesnt work, it will be so fucking awkward with that chick after! :P wish me luck!	/r/seduction	27/03/12 05:16 AM
3	Extreme case of the 'bitch butterflies' Stop ignoring her that bad, she's going to think you are not interested. You should say something along the line of: Hey, i saw you at the party the other day, but had to leave early ( DONT SAY WHY ;) ) I'll make it up to you! Let's go grab some dinner and drink this week! I'm free day 1 or day 2 (two options always works best) How does that sound? then after that its up to you wether she accepts or not, there is too much options in that scenario! But if she does accept, you do have already a to…	/r/seduction	27/03/12 05:14 AM
2	To Beard or not to Beard, that is the question I rock a beard too and i've had lot of attention from it. Having a beard during summer is not THAT bad, you should keep it! Try it out and if it annoys you that bad, then you should get rid of that extra sexiness!	/r/seduction	27/03/12 05:08 AM
1	What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed? I'll bring up the conversation at a later time in a more private setting and i'm pulling this off! This is genious!	/r/seduction	27/03/12 04:56 AM
11	What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed? good to hear, and i added a little pfffff at first, very spontaneous, kept it light , thanks!	/r/seduction	26/03/12 09:39 PM