PapaNarb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Any benefits to “playing it cool”?		PapaNarb	/r/seduction	11/10/18 05:36 PM

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3	What's your opinion on social media like instagram? I find it to be the most efficient way to communicate and engage with a broad audience. This is not just women, but friends and family. I post a broad mix of whatever interests me (mainly through stories). I’m able to gauge interest by who watches them regularly and often I’ll get an unprompted DM as well. IG is a low effort way of demonstrating high value, engaging with my friends and keeping up with what’s going on in the world. You can also slide into women’s DMs as well but I tend not to go …	/r/seduction	02/12/21 09:35 PM
7	Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30s New York. Every scene is here. Just have to find yours.	/r/seduction	30/11/21 11:14 AM
2	How to immediately get a date with a girl after a match? Sooner the better. I’ve sometimes done in 2-3 messages.	/r/seduction	09/11/21 03:50 PM
2	Problem with Transitioning Phone Numbers to Physical Dates i am recently single (after being married a looong time) and I’ve been seeing the same thing as well. Great convo, get number, but then radio silence eventually. Sometimes even if you have made out in person in the initial meeting. Can’t pinpoint the exact reason, but I think it depends on whatever dating market you are in, age of the girl and size of their dating pool. Remember, unfortunately everyone is competing for attention with social media and apps. My suggestion is that you don’t ask for…	/r/seduction	22/09/19 06:22 PM
1	Playing hard to get (or maybe more) Was more of an indirect invite - i.e. can’t make our date but my birthday is coming up this weekend, what are your plans, etc. But point taken.	/r/seduction	12/05/19 09:04 PM
2	First night game in a while Never tried that one, but I think the act of opening is more important than what the opener is.	/r/seduction	19/10/18 04:27 PM
1	First night game in a while What is that?	/r/seduction	19/10/18 04:23 PM
3	First night game in a while Talk to everyone, girls, guys, bartenders, etc. it helps to build social proof, but also removes the anxiety from approaching people. At night I also find people are more on the defensive, so don’t take it personally if approaches are less successful than during the day. Depending on where you live, it’s an excellent chance to build rapport with doormen of hotspots. You will be let in solo, which is often an impossibility with two guys. Make sure to remember their names for the next time you wan…	/r/seduction	19/10/18 03:52 PM
1	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Lol. Great point. Pop-up strip clubs (at least in NY) are also great for role-reversal. Girls constantly approach you and even if you are not interested in a dance, sometimes you just want to be polite. When you finally say no, they will say, “well why were you talking to me this whole time?” Because I was hoping she read my body language as disinterested. As humans, for whatever reason, we are non-confrontational in our social rejection.	/r/seduction	12/10/18 01:57 PM
1	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Ahh yes, had that with one of the girls. Kept asking me “what do you want” and whatever answer I gave was “no, what do you want”. Even said “to fuck you” and then she pulled some ninja type maneuver and said “I know, besides that”. I was fully stumped.	/r/seduction	11/10/18 11:48 PM
1	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Yeah, I would not characterize my MO as James Bond. I do “lone wolf” normally and it’s been a great way of meeting other alpha males/forcing me into social interactions. What do you think are the disadvantages of your transition? I have a hard time consistently doing the high energy thing as well. It’s this conundrum where I love going out, but I am also an introvert.	/r/seduction	11/10/18 09:58 PM
1	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Thanks. What else do I need to be doing?	/r/seduction	11/10/18 08:57 PM
2	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Hard to say as a lot of times both parties were quite wasted. I felt I struck a healthy balance about giving them attention and giving them space. In retrospect, I feel I erred on the side of going with the follow vs escalating to a make-out, etc. In one instance the girls friends intervened, in another she left at some point to talk to her friends (despite two seconds earlier putting my hands up her romper and telling me I was very naughty), and another we lost momentum as the bouncer deemed he…	/r/seduction	11/10/18 06:45 PM
1	Any benefits to “playing it cool”? Thanks. I agree somewhere along the line I should have advanced immediately (before friends mother hen, etc.) Any take on why approaching is working less with the same girls who then approach me?	/r/seduction	11/10/18 05:56 PM