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Party_Rebel/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 11:33 PM
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Same 20 years 1 apology I left her for those reasons among others and she still insists our failed marriage is 💯 my fault. She’s done writing chapters in your books of life boys. Now we get to write the next chapters the way we were raised to.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:58 AM
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What he said. You build yourself up and become best friends with the guy in the mirror and serve to make him better everyday. Then you’re confidence in yourself will get you all of the strange you can handle. Beware, I’m 46 and have a few fwbs for my needs. I wouldn’t date anyone unless we were best friends first and I would never involve the government in my love life again by signing that terrible contract that induces women to leave good men, take their kids, and get paid to do it. Fukc marri…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:52 AM
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I just signed my final divorce agreement Monday and got what I wanted. Kept the house, kept all of my 401k, joint legal and physical custody, and the kids are happy with the way things are but more importantly my kids know that it’s okay to leave a toxic marriage with an angry bitter spouse. My dad asked me why I wasn’t leading by example and I did a 180 on staying for the kids’ sake. I filed two weeks later and that was summer of 2020. Fight for your kids until they take them away and get comfo…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:40 AM
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Marriage is a bad contract and you shouldn’t sign it. This should be the first rule of Fight Club.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 03:48 AM
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Listen to Schism and read the lyrics. It describes why relationships fall apart. It helped me. Nice handle by the way!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 06:18 AM
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Are you listening to what the guys here are saying? Are you really listening or just entertaining our advice? I’m not trying to be condescending. I’m trying to help you understand the single vibration coming out of this particular thread. It’s not necessarily what you want or what you wanted to hear, but It is the Way. You are in a hole and we’re hear to show you how to build a ladder out of the shit surrounding you. First, YOU HAVE TO PUT THE SHOVEL DOWN. Let go of how she makes you feel. That’…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 07:14 PM
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Thanks. I have been in limbo for a while and even though I don’t think I can do any better than our temporary divorce decree, I’m ready to put the whole thing behind me. Your post helped me realize that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 04:39 AM
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I played before my divorce. Now I have a house to myself to play all night if I want too. Playing guitar and music helped me more than anything else. If you want to learn quickly, YouTube Now You Shred. It’s backing tracks that shows you which scales and which notes you can hit. And my hometown boy finally got his Daytona 500!! It was anticlimactic but I’m happy for Mississippi’s Stenhouse and Brad Dougherty.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 04:17 AM
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Man that’s a rough spot you’re in but you’ve got this. You know you do already. It shows through in what you wrote. So, focus on what you can take out of your situation. Imagine the personal and emotional armor you are going to have from surviving this chapter in your life. Plus, you get to write the next chapter; the comeback chapter. Always remember this: there is no money in the cure. The money is in the comeback. You’ve got this!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 06:44 AM
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This 100%. Lead by example! Show your kids that it’s okay to leave a toxic relationship. Create a happy, non-hostile home that is always available for them. Also consider that by staying in a bad marriage “for the kids” you are also leading by example. Do the right thing for the right reasons and you’ll get the right results. I think you already know this. It’s time to show them how much you love them.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 02:05 AM
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Living in the future causing anxiety. Living in the past causes depression. Live in the present. Forget about her, she’s behind you and you are here, where your feet are. Don’t let her in your head anymore. Enjoy this day. You’ve got this.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 07:59 PM
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T.I.M.E - You need to take some time and keep working on those good guy skills you already had and haven’t lost. She did you a favor and it is going to take you a year or so to realize that. She wasn’t happy with you? Guess what, she won’t be happy with the next guy or the next one. You, my friend, just got paroled from a toxic relationship prison without any of your kids involved. Trust me and the other guys out there that kids would make your situation ten times worse. I know you are hurting r…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 04:16 PM
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Remember the environment you and her created for those kids. You have to lead by example with your kids. She cheated, you left and showed your kids that they can leave a cheater as well. If you had stayed your kids may have grown up thinking cheating is forgivable and normal. Don’t go 12 rounds with yourself. It sounds like you did what was best for the children, and that alone should give you enough satisfaction to look forward and write the next chapter of your life with them, instead of being…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 04:06 AM
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Listen to our advice please. She will poison your young kids against you within months. You have to get in front of this and document (text) all that you can. She sounds bad enough already. I can only imagine how much worse she is willing to act through your divorce. It’s time to lead by example and show your kids that toxicity is not normal and staying with a toxic person is not mandatory. Lawyer. Don’t announce you moves before you make them. Good luck buddy
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 08:35 AM
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You need to look out for yourself. You’re going to lose something you’re not even considering losing right now. It could be alimony or hood credit or your house. If she hasn’t contributed a dime to your retirement she still gets half of what you saved during the marriage. The laws are so skewed towards women you won’t believe it. I bet she’s already talked to a lawyer. You should too. Don’t announce your move before you make it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 06:50 PM
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You’re attorney should recommend a legit private investigator. Trust me and the rest of us on the sub, WHEN she leaves you she is going to be the victim and you will most likely pay her because she will get your kids. It sounds like she is cheating and your PI will get you evidence so you can get out of this failed partnership without her poisoning your kids against you, taking half of your everything, including relationships with other people. Divorce laws in most states heavily favor the women…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/22 04:31 PM
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I am so busy being happy being myself I haven’t slowed down long enough to ask that question. It turns out I’m not a worthless piece of shit with a great career who just paid for everything and needed to be miserable. My bet is that you’ll find a similar road.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 06:41 AM
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There is no such thing as a former coach or a former marine.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 05:15 AM
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That is almost exactly what happened to me. She had hit me before and i never called the cops. She came at me one morning and I grabbed her and threw her down as she was throwing a punch. I immediately left the room and went and told my 7 and 10 year old daughters what happened. I never hit her or any woman by the way. Ten minutes after it went down as I’m talking to my girls and she has been screaming bloody murder she decided to call 911 and I was arrested and charged with domestic assault. I’…
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 04:33 AM
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Staying in a toxic environment for your kids is not the message you want them to receive from you. Lead by example and leave. Show them that it’s okay to remove themselves from a bad situation in life. Do the right thing for the right reasons and it will slowly become obvious where your intentions lie. Show your daughter the path to recapturing your own happiness. She needs to see you do it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 12:54 AM
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I am in the middle of a divorce. Similar circumstances. Everything changed when I told my dad I was staying with my wife for my two girls sake, so I could protect them. He simply said, "Son, why aren't you leading by example and showing them a better life instead of defending them against a bad one?" Lead by Example for your children and everything else will take care of itself. I promise.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/21 02:07 AM
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