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I love my husband more than anything else in the world. We’ve been together for 9 years this month. He’s absolutely my best friend. It’s always bizarre to me when people talk about how they can’t stand to be alone with their partner for too long at a time. My husband and I got COVID last month, and spent two and a half weeks straight in the house together. We didn’t once fight or get tired of being around each other, and we spent the majority of that time in the same room together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:31 PM
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I know a whole lot of men who would kill for a wife who was just kind, trustworthy, and dependable. Most of the people I know also dislike a woman bully, (We all know the type. “Your ex is so ugly.”, “That girl looks slutty.”… we get it, you’re jealous.) and I know so many woman like this who have a hard time maintaining relationships. Maybe the men in my area are really simple, but all of my husband’s friends just want a wife who’ll respect them, love them, and maybe cook a nice meal once in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:27 PM
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My husband is 5’7. I’m 5’0, and he’s the perfect height. I don’t know many women dating men that are 6’0+ honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:14 PM
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We need to just accept that every single person has preferences. We shouldn’t have to be shamed or feel bad for it. Whether you can find a partner under the guideline of those preferences is a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:11 PM
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I think my husband is significantly more attractive than me. But I wouldn’t say there is a particular theme when it comes to our friends and the people around us in their relationships. It’s pretty mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:48 PM
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I feel like it’s really individual. Men shouldn’t be judged for having a preference on the amount of sexual partners a potential spouse has had in their past. Some people don’t care at all (and if anything, prefer to have women with more experience), and some men care a lot. I don’t know why people care so much about individual sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:57 PM
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I have received quite a bit of judgement for being a more traditional wife. Honestly it’s a dynamic that works incredibly well (at least for my husband and I). My husband works a good job, and I stay home. He handles bringing in money. I handle keeping the house clean, happy, and in order. I take care of him, and he takes care of me. It’s a major misconception that stay-at-home wives/homemakers are lazy and useless. It’s a major misconception that men who are the only ones making money in the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:35 PM
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You absolutely can be agnostic and still hold traditional views on marriage dynamic. My husband and I are both agnostic. I’m a stay-at-home wife, and a homemaker. I keep my home spotless, cook, and take care of myself well. My husband works his ass off, and than he comes home to a happy and stress-free environment. A marriage dynamic does not have to be about religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:21 PM
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And you are absolutely entitled to that opinion!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:55 PM
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Whatever you say, my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:52 PM
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I have two things I’d like to say. I do carry a gun, and have a lifetime permit to do so. It does make me feel safer, as well as many of those around me. However it shouldn’t be my responsibility as a woman to ensure that every man I don’t know is on their best behavior and doesn’t act out toward me or others around me. PEOPLE (men and women) should be raised to be respectful and competent adults that understand boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:30 PM
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When it comes to women, I agree with you in many ways. I would say I’m not a very attractive person naturally, but I do take care of myself well and try to carry myself in a confident way. I don’t partake in gossip, and I smile and build people up every chance I get. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and he still acts as if I’m the most beautiful human being he’s ever seen. His coworkers and friends frequently ask him things like “How do I get myself a wife like that?”. I wish tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:06 PM
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I don’t believe in the draft as a whole, but if men have to be registered than women should be as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 AM
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I’m sorry, but you seem worked up about this topic, and in my experience it isn’t worth debating with someone who isn’t open to both sides of an idea. It’s totally okay that you feel the way you do, we are all entitled to have opinions!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:12 PM
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And it’s totally okay if that’s your personal preference! Everyone has preferences!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:07 PM
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I didn’t say that people DONT get judged, I said that they SHOULDNT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:43 PM
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Men shouldn’t be judged on number of sexual partners either in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:35 PM
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I really appreciate your respond, thank you for your input!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:06 PM
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It all situationally depends. I think men are often undervalued in the home setting, but I think women are often undervalued in a professional setting. It would take a whole book for me to explain all of my views and standpoints in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:04 PM
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Yes, we met in a choir class when I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:55 PM
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This is really a positive and constructive response! I appreciate your input!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:54 PM
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Honestly, that’s good to know. I made this account a while back, but I only recently really started using Reddit, so a lot of things are new to me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:53 PM
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As I stated above, I don’t need a group. Sometimes it’s just nice to have a community to discuss and chat with. I don’t really have a “group” where my husband and I are living.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:52 PM
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I know. As I stated, I’d just love to have a group of like-minded people to occasionally discuss and chat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:51 PM
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I would really appreciate if you could possibly message me a clearer definition of a “Red Pill Woman”, as I have always considered myself one, but I suppose I might not fit that label?
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 03:24 PM
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And to the men that care that she has done sex work, maybe they aren’t the men for her and she shouldn’t value their opinion. Most mature adults wouldn’t care how many sexual partners or experiences their partner has had in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 03:17 PM
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Honestly, I cannot tell you what’s right for you or not. We had bickers as teenagers that we certainly do not have now. I would make certain that the person you are dating is interested in the same kind of future that you are, and always let them know what’s important to you when it comes to how you want to be treated (and clarify with them how they would like to be treated). Everyone loves differently, so this is important!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 07:27 PM
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I started dating my husband when I was 14, and he was 15. We’ve been together for 9 years. He’s my absolute best friend. We hardly ever fight. The communication is great, and our dynamic is beautiful. Do not let anyone tell you what is or isn’t the right way to go about seeking out your desired goals.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 07:21 PM
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If you have to ask yourself whether he is being sincere with you in regards to his feelings, you are either experiencing some level of trouble with your relationship or you are experiencing some insecurity. In the case of the second one, please try not to take this out on your partner and recognize we all occasionally experience insecurities in one form or another, and they aren’t usually based in reality.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 11:11 AM
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I’ve asked my husband many times whether he would prefer I get a job, and he says that he’ll support me no matter what but he really loves me being home. I think the part I feel guiltiest about is that I’m really good at keeping the home in good shape, so I have a bit more free time than my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/21 04:38 PM
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I appreciate your comment. I do not have social anxiety. I love people. I’m actually a very social person. My fears are more centered around having a health crisis, and yes, these fears are made worse when I’m out away from home. But I do exposure every single day, and I’m on the road to recovery! My anxiety disorder was very much worse in the past. When I quit my last job, mistreatment from a particular manager was the last straw. And when we decided I was going to stay home, we absolutely didn…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/21 04:17 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate your words!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/21 03:36 PM
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