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Thats never been the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:39 PM
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And also only like 10 percent of young guy are getting 90 percent of the girls. So it’s literally MOST guys that improve over time. They just refuse to accept the reality of it. Getting women is a skill that you learn. Getting men is not a skill .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:04 PM
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yeah they don't realize how hard it actually is. I'm attractive enough to match with the women I want to date but I still get ghosted 90 percent of the time, that's just what it is. They've showed me their accounts and they have 10,000+ matches. I'm in the running but I'm never the first pick of the litter. As a guy who's medium attractive its not much different than a guy that's a 2/10. You basically have to be 8/10 or higher to get through the noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:18 AM
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Same once I turned 25 it was exponentially easier. this is all giga cope. unless you're really lucky to be a slayer most guys improve with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:08 AM
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Yeah for sure. I hang out with almost exclusively lower class white people. Everyone I know voted for Trump. Most people I know are not ashamed to be sexist/racist even women. I have a hard time understanding anecdotes from middle/upper class people. It's a different culture to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:05 AM
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Sounds great but there is no evidence for what you are claiming. You are claiming that narcissists are less attractive but the evidence shows that they are actually more attractive and they have more sexual partners than people are not narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:10 PM
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If its unattractive how come so many women say they've dated a narcissist compared to the number of them in the population. Its attractive to women just not in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:19 PM
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I would rather rather experience the love since i haven't experienced that before. I've never experienced women wanting me for anything other than sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:31 AM
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It takes years or at least months to know if someone is a bad person. If it takes you that long to feel attraction you are demisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:29 PM
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That is asexual/demisexual. Most people feel attraction within seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:03 AM
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Actually bumble is the one with the worst gender disparity. Hinge has the most women but it’s still very unbalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:08 PM
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I could care less what I “present” as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:58 AM
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It doesn't influence my expectations in relationships at all. Because it is completely irrelevant. Relationships are about polarity/duality. 2 people can hate each other and have a "good" relationship. Friendships are more about enjoying each others company or having a shared goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:25 AM
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its been proven many times not only in regards to dating but as a transcendental principle of reality. So not only is it true, its more true than what we commonly thing of as the standard for truth. And even if we lived in a completely different culture, society, or even physical reality, it would still be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:23 AM
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What I wear says nothing about what I do in my free time. That seems very presumptuous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:20 AM
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Its actually women that say things like this. It's women that statistically have a rape fetish and like to be degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:18 AM
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Male friendships are completely different and male/female relationships are not friend ships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:18 AM
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I would rather change my identity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:17 AM
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It happens in every relationship I have had so I wouldn't think much of it anymore. The first couple times it was upsetting I guess but its just what it is. Women in this generation can't be expected to be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:16 AM
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I don't think fashion says anything about who I am as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:14 AM
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I dont want to be liked for "who i am as a person". That implies that they like you for your character/behavior AKA what you can do for them. I actually dont care about being liked at all. It would make no difference if my woman likes or dislikes me. What I want is mutual attraction like a magnetism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:13 AM
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In my experience none of that really matters. Its just looks money and status. A guy can be super confident but if he's low status and ugly he will just be seen as arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:11 AM
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Definitely not. That would feel really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:07 AM
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how does having a certain style/grooming make a guy more compatible, that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:07 AM
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I don’t agree. I think it’s better to be honest and even confrontational at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:49 AM
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well narcissism has been shown to be an attractive trait to the opposite sex. So its not that they are unaware, they actively select for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:57 PM
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Being agreeable doesn't mean you are a good person. I'd argue it actually makes you a worse person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:55 PM
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Your anecdotes are meaningless. I’ve been working out for 10+ years and been on and off of gear/steroids. Girls really do not care what your muscles look like. It’s mostly pheromones which can increase if you’re healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:31 AM
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nobody cares about your muscles. You think guys would like a girl more because she had big muscles? It does nothing to change your looks. "social skills" as people call it doesn't exist. you are either born autistic or you are not. And sure, some poor people have become rich but 99 percent of the time your social class is what you are born into (That's been true for 99 percent of history).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:16 AM
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yes it is impotant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:00 PM
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why do you ask the question just to get mad at the answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:20 PM
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conservative. christian. Not promiscuous. Morally good. Good mother. Doesn't drink/drugs. We keep telling you and you never listen anyways so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:06 PM
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Looks money and social skills are 90 percent not your control. You are born with those things for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:03 PM
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I'm highly disagreeable and I have a hard time seeing how its a disadvantage. It helps me win in every aspect of life. I mostly see guys who are too agreeable that are struggling. I view dating as a war between the man and the woman where you either win or lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:01 PM
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I dress like a emo weirdo and im heavily tattood lol dont care how they dress as long as its flattering. i dont know i dont tell any story i dont believe that clothing matters no i dont think it matches my values. because im a conservative christian which seems to surprise people. no- i don't think like minded people gravitate towards me. I think weirdos gravitate towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:40 AM
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ND is better than NT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:36 AM
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Dr. House MD "The Doctor" from doctor who "Charlie", "Mac", and "Dennis" from "its always sunny in Philadelphia" "Barney Stinson" from "How I met your mother" "Dwight", "Michael", "Stanley", "Creed", "Kevin", "Angela", "Toby" and "Meredith" from "The Office" (The gag of the show is everyone except Jim and Pam are neurodivergent) "Daryl Dixon" from "the walking dead" "Joker" and "Batman" from the DC franchise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:34 AM
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Thats already been known. Red pill originated from fuckbois at US universities that figured out to get the most women interested in them. It's always been the mentality of the successful men. Incels have always been diametrically opposed to red pill and either go with blue pill or black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:01 PM
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this comment aligns with my experience as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:39 PM
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yeah that doesn't work that well when you're 6'2 have a full beard and chest hair, 2 to 1 shoulder to waist ratio, and a brow ridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:36 PM
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Fighting my ops and getting bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:00 AM
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Yes job but fun one. yes fun and irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:03 PM
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He believes looks are the only thing that matters. That is the definition of black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:27 PM
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Clavicular is black pill. He's basically as far from red pill as you can get. No red piller would agree with anything clavicular says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:52 AM
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thanks sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:27 AM
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No the problem is that men overvalue safe and predictable. Men should strive to be more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:27 AM
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No, I like the challenge of being a man. Being a woman is too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:24 AM
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That site is run by a group of people that we are not supposed to talk bad about. But lets just say they haven't been known to be the most trustworthy group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:23 AM
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That's completely irrelevant. They know exactly what they are doing already. They know who is a player and who is a nice guy. The problem is they want the player to commit to them and he won't. The whole idea that women don't know what they are signing up for is silly. They know they are a side piece...LOL. They just think they are going to win anyway. The only "advice" I would give women is to find Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:22 AM
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lol. every unhealthy enneagram is equally a problem. unhealthy 6- extremely jealous/paranoid unhealthy 8- extremely controlling and domineering unhealthy 9- doormat unhealthy 2 - simp unhealthy 1 - slut shamer unhealthy 5 - intellectualizes feelings and creates a system unhealthy 7- gets bored and cheats unhealthy 4- doesnt want a "normal" relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:18 AM
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lol i dont believe that. I believe people can learn to love each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:32 PM
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And they can’t acknowledge this. On the one hand they all insist that men grow up and get more mature and stable but they refuse to acknowledge that means that they are dating older men (even when every study shows that they tend to couple with men older than them)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:48 PM
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So women are only capable of loving chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:47 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:46 PM
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Yeah I’ve found that as my attractiveness increases I get punished more for being vulnerable like I’m literally not allowed to have feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:43 PM
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You can’t just change the definitions of words. You’re describing behavior not personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:42 PM
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Right I’m an outlier but the point still stands. A girl who is younger doesn’t get handicapped in the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:48 AM
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That’s old red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:46 AM
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The type of women I am interested in IRL agree with my viewpoints. Some of them even said they like andrew tate. Its more common than you would think in conservative Christian communities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:58 AM
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That is like you said propaganda which is put out to turn men and women against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:55 AM
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i graduated college when I was 19. And I am not saying i am king of the hill now but it is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:54 AM
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i don't believe in casual sex and have never hooked up. I am looking for marriage only
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:52 AM
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early success can be a curse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:17 AM
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yeah I also want someone who I enjoy spending time with. I enjoy spending time with people who are considered "uncool" and "unfun".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:15 AM
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based enfp take
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:01 AM
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yeah and he is also giga autistic, extreme social anxiety, has no real job, no real friends, no hobbies other than looksmaxxing. but he has looks money status so has girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:55 AM
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a lot of overalap there, though they do have different "types"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:52 AM
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I care about the maturity of her relationship with God. Money is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:51 AM
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If they are not attractive to women? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:49 AM
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Ask any woman how many men they find attractive. It is under 50 percent for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:48 AM
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No its because they are not masculine enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:44 AM
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Personality is innate and developed at a young age when the ego forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:43 AM
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Its called pareto principle. The top athletes and rappers report numbers in the 1000s. Women rate 80 percent of men as unattractive according to OKcupid studies. Studies on college campuses show 80/20 and that sexual success is linked to height/girth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:43 AM
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Men do have to change, they need to work harder and become more masculine. Women also have to change to become more feminine. They both need to improve if they want to attract better partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:38 AM
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they repel women because they dont have looks money status
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:37 AM
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its nobodies fault, thinking someone is at fault is a blue pill POV. Its just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:36 AM
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It's a societal-wide issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:35 AM
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There's no actual evidence of guys caring about that. It sounds like maybe you just got into different social circles with more high earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:34 AM
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right. my personality is perceived as more masculine and "tough" now . but thats just because my appearance changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:33 AM
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moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:32 AM
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the top 20 percent of men get a ton of success in college the bottom 80 percent get very little. Its been studied over and over. If you slayed in college you are more attractive than you think (either looks or social status comes into play)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:31 AM
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They take you more seriously because a bartender is seen as promiscuous which lowers your status as a woman (as a man it would increase your status to be a bartender)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:30 AM
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no its just experience. my personality is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:28 AM
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They are even trying to say that making money and going to the gym changed my personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:28 AM
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That is most young men 17-21 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:27 AM
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They aren't personality flaws. I just improved my material conditions. My personality is much worse than before and I am a complete tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:23 AM
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That takes time man. And I was never a loser I was just perceived that way by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:22 AM
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People are constantly telling young men that they are misogynists or it is somehow their fault they are not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:22 AM
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There's not much nuance as you think. Men become more attractive over time. women dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:20 AM
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Thats exactly my point. It took me almost 10 years to become the man i am today. We need to stop telling men that its a personality flaw if they aren't getting women. Its just that they haven't put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:19 AM
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Being fun to hang with is just not important to me whatsoever. I care about people's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:11 AM
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Its the same options you were just overlooking those guys when you were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:56 AM
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Its sad to me that women care about those things. I literally couldn't care less if you are cool/fun. I care that you have good values, religious devotion, capacity to be a mother among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:52 AM
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Couldn't be any more out of touch. As a guy who is looking for something serious i pretty much only encounter women who are looking for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:45 AM
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Men don't want someone who is cool/fun/interesting. Those are traits that women look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:39 AM
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get help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:43 AM
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None of that stuff helps either. I had a professional take photos of me and design my profile and it did much worse than just having shirtless selfies of my abs. The women were much less likely to engage with me. Looks money and status is what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:37 PM
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no woman has given me that advice. Most of the women I talk to are very red pilled and have told me to focus on getting my money up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:37 PM
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Where is the evidence that more women are extroverted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:21 PM
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Most women are not highly educated, and most men are not pursuing highly educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:18 PM
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Only constant is you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:00 PM
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as the small percent of men that are responsive it makes the dynamics even weirder for me. And i somehow seem to end up with the women who are spontaneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:59 PM
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then how come i get hit on by gay guys constantly but never had a woman genuinely interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:58 PM
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being an introvert is a bad thing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:55 PM
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yeah i got professional photos and it didn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:50 PM
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problem is we want the girls that we like not the girls that like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:16 PM
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No it’s not it’s just terrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:11 AM
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Then why do women almost always misunderstand me and misattribute things to me and I almost never have issues communicating with men. I think women suck at reading autistic guys just as bad as autistic guys suck at reading women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:06 AM
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But it’s wrong a lot. Especially for neurodivergent people. I get read completely wrong on the regular and people admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:04 AM
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I don’t support sex except for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:59 AM
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Nobody said anything about casual most of us want to get married and have a family like normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:57 AM
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No I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:04 PM
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most young men are broke. like a third are NEET. a bit of money definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:13 PM
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no its not this just terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:38 PM
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because it seems to matter to women. try picking up women in a toyota corolla and living in your parents basement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:34 PM
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she treats you differently than other people. for example shes friendly to everyone but shes a bitch to you (she wants you), shes a bitch to everyone but nice to you (she wants you). Shes a bitch to everyone and a bitch to you (she doesnt want you), shes nice to everyone and nice to you (she doesnt want you). Its literally that simple, dont overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:32 PM
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anyone thats been around already knows that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:45 PM
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it feels like even when i do get matches/dates its a complete mismatch. Like women in the current system are horrible at telling who would be a good match for them. The women that agree to go on dates with me have virtually no chance of hitting it off. And I've tried so many times to redo my profile its always the same problem. My personality just does not match how I come off in photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:41 PM
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A lot of guys work 60 hours a week and don't meet any women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:36 PM
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i mean thats the same for me as a man. I feel like men and women are more similar than we realize
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:32 AM
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i mean yeah im a right wing wackjob living in one of the most liberal cities in america i do think it plays a role although i cant exactly move right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:31 AM
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You’re wildly missing the point. Men actually do this to shit test women. They’ll say something sexually inappropriate to see her reaction. If she’s interested in you she’s not going to react nearly as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:30 PM
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I'm sorry but that is just so far down on the list of things I care about. This seems like it only applies to you since you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:00 AM
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We need to get rid of the idea that it's the guys who are unattractive who are the ones struggling the most. Guys in their 20s are the most likely to be involuntarily single and celibate, and they are on average a lot more attractive than guys in their 40s. Not to mention the extreme looksmaxing trends that men are feeling pressured towards that they never were before. What we are dealing with is a complete societal shift towards a world where we are more "connected" than ever but more lonely th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:48 AM
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That is exactly how the apps USED to work until AI came along and they implemented "Engagement optimized algorithms", the research shows that if they rig the game causing you to lose for a while, and then allowing you to win some days later, you spend more time swiping on the app compared to if winning was fair and consistent. This is because it exploits feedback loops in the brain the same way a casino does. When we talk about dating apps being rigged, we mean that it is LITERALLY rigged, not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:35 AM
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Nah I’ve experienced first hand getting literally 0 matches for over a year and then all of a sudden they lifted my shadow ban and I had dozens of matches within a day. With the same photos. They are definitely doing some shady stuff recently and I want transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:33 PM
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Yeah get rid of inheritance , disallow rich people from controlling the government, disallow monopolizing entire economic markets, have the wealthy pay their fair share of taxes. The economy is a huge part of what’s rigged and it affects dating. Now break up the dating apps monopoly , don’t allow one company to own all the apps. Audit the AI algorithms which hide/shadowban/gameify male accounts. Get rid of fake female accounts. Promote more women to join. Make it easier to match with people that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:46 PM
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Dating is pretty much winner take all at this point. A male 5 won’t even be getting 3s anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:46 AM
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also autistic but i seem to have the opposite issue. very confrontational and i get into fights everywhere. Not much impulse control. I'm known as a huge dickhead And only toxic women want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:58 AM
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I don’t think women are shitty people that can’t feel love to most men. I just think our society is kinda rigged so that the guys who have a lot of success continue to have even more success like a snow ball effect and the guys that get rejected have low self esteem and continue to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:42 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:08 PM
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Conservative/christian, wants kids or single mother with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:18 PM
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ND but I come off as dark triad. The girls that like me have all said they are attracted to serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:49 PM
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only problem is in my case i end up with someone i dont like at all. the people that view me as a 10 has no overlap with the people i view as a 10 and im not just talking about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:07 PM
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Funny. I don’t know anyone that works a 9 to 5. Literally no one in the circles I’m in. I feel like office workers live in their own bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:19 AM
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Most liberal guys are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:13 AM
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That is lust / sin. Only God can save them. A man should do what is right not what is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:12 AM
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Life starts for men at 30. When have you ever heard a woman say "i was a loser growing up but now that im more mature I get tons of boyfriends" vs you hear guys every day experience that. Every time it is studied scientifically red pill is proven true, blue pill is 100 percent debunked, and black pill is 50 percent debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:01 AM
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Never cheated and won't associate with anyone who does that. That is considered adultery and should be punishable by imprisonment, in some cases the death penalty. It may sound harsh, but the biblical law is harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:54 AM
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My parents are both liberal and I’m far right .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:04 AM
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Agreed. I’m the hard working jacked guy who is a total dork , never been to a party or drank alcohol , religious and socially conservative. It’s nice to know that people think im a complete loser for not having a girlfriend, though i dont care because only Gods opinion matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:43 PM
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Yeah it’s not like I don’t have options I just don’t find them acceptable. Just like a lot of women find me unacceptable for being religious, sober, and conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:35 PM
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No woman I know wants a liberal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:29 PM
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No its not mainstream. Red pill is the normal mainstream view. Heck, even black pill is becoming mainstream. You have kids in high schools now a days smashing their face with a hammer and taking steroids to looksmax.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:32 PM
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It’s just a cognitive distortion bro. It’s not that you’re a 5’4 Asian guy with a lisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:11 PM
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That’s crazy because surveys show that vast majority of men are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:29 AM
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If you don’t have a family I wouldn’t say successful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:28 AM
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Im a regular at the gym and at church. I don’t go out or hit on girls! My hobbies are martial arts and guns. If I meet a women that’s single I’m skeptical for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:27 AM
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im in my 20s , 6 foot 2, 6 pack, extreme top 1 percent extrovert according to personality tests. These are all objective things. Have no dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:57 AM
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Literally none of that matters. You can be a homeless racist and get a girlfriend... The only thing that matters is being in the right social circle of people that would be willing to date you. Socializing doesnt matter if you are with a crowd of people that considers you fundamentally undateable for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:55 AM
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Single moms are the only viable dating partners. If a woman is 25+ with no kids she is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:52 AM
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I love my job! And I work for myself! And all I’ve ever wanted is to provide for a family
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:17 AM
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Agreed and they generally have higher libido than men, they just aren't into short/ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:19 PM
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yeah every women I have dated has had a HIGHER libido than mine. (Wanted sex at minimum twice per day often 3+). Im hella confused by people saying that women have lower libido than men I think they just aren't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:17 PM
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yeah same. most girls would call me poor on unmatch instantly if i even suggested something like that. I really wish we could see what people look like who comment on threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:14 PM
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yeah it seems like once again women mistake sexual attention for guys actually liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:09 PM
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great. I'll rather have the good girl. Something for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:07 PM
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I value neurotypicality over all else. I would rather date a neurotypical 5/10 than a model who is neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:29 AM
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I look like a scene kid and it only attracts low tier neurodivergent women. I would recommend normie maxing if you want to access higher tier Becky’s and Stacy’s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:25 AM
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you're proving my point...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:41 AM
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Theres no such thing as an "asshole" or a "gold digger". All people inherently have those qualities. There is just weak people and stronger people. This is why we are having such a disconnect. Blue pillers operate from a completely different ontological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:21 AM
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No actually they need to have lower standards. You gotta accept what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:17 AM
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I've seen guys built like a 12 year old girl have body count over 100. The amount of women you meet and how aggressively you hit on them seems to be the biggest factor even bigger than looks/money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:31 AM
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Agreed! No advice works when you're a complete weirdo as a lower-class blue-collar guy neurodivergent with 150 IQ not many people have anything in common with me. im not relatable to anyone. not likable. The only advice thats helped is from other people that are also neurodivergent and degenerates but it still hasn't helped in terms of finding a Long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:29 AM
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its made no difference for me. The only thing that matters is social status. There are frat guys that barely lift a dumbbell but meet 100s of girls per week because theyre in the right social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:15 AM
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Most women I talk to IRL agree with my views. Granted I mainly associate with Lower class white women that voted for Trump… so I’m not sure how other demographics think…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:09 PM
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Yah and that is a big reason a lot of guys are opting out. For a low height or low status guy what You’re getting is someone who adds nothing to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:36 PM
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true. we guys have no problem waiting years for a girl we actually want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:33 AM
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Yeah I’ve done all that and I only get attention from women with mental issues, most of the time cheating on their partner, abusing stimulants etc Normal well adjusted women aren’t going to want to date an incel just because you got big muscles, money , and confidence. You’re playing in The BPD, autistic, drug addicted, daddy issues league. You’ll never have access to the women blue pilled normies/chads have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:05 PM
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yeah i realized that and i gave up on dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:15 PM
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this is so funny lmfao i relate so much to him. thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:54 PM
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idk dude the women that like me on dating apps are either morbidly obese or have some kind of disability like down syndrome. I would say 95 percent of woman i see irl are more attractive than my options on dating apps. And I still get rejected on the apps 90 percent of the time. I really don't think you should take apps as a measure of where you stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:48 PM
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yes - that is most of the girls in their early-mid 20s. Most of the girls I meet only want to hook up. And the ones that are interested in settling down are going for guys that are older/richer. As a young guy interested in starting a family dating apps and dating in general is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:39 AM
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Lmfao same the women I met up with turned out to be like meth addicts or strippers or OF but had lied about it. .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:49 AM
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You have to use it to your advantage I’ve been saying that for years . People know that I’m weird but that can also make you seem like a genius or visionary. You have to play your cards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:22 AM
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Yeah idk my friends that are unemployed drug addicts do much better with women compared to me who is sober and runs my own business goes to therapy etc. it’s more about access to women than your personality qualities. How would women even see my qualities I barely meet women. Compared to guys that party all day and meet women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:18 AM
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I payed thousands of dollars to have a professional take photos of me and organize my profile. I got less matches than when I just had mirror selfies of my Abs and nothing in my bio. And the matches were much lower quality. The reason why so many men’s profiles are designed to look stuck up and boring is because it appeals to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:15 AM
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yeah for real. As a gen z older generations are seemingly absolutely confused why I can't find anyone to date (cute, tall, built good, good career). All the women around me are "dating" guys that are literally top 1 percent in some way (famous athletes, musicians, wealthy bankers etc.) despite being average looking. And they all complain about the same thing - he's dating 20 other women. Being a good tier guy isn't enough to pull anymore. You have to be on a whole other level. In the past you on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:48 AM
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it really doesn't... most of the richest people are autist. also social skills doesnt exist. only normie/autist/psychpath
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:54 PM
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yeah i realized that recently too. I have horrible hand of cards in terms of socializing/dating. I get rejected by most people i interact with. Widely unpopular/disliked. Controversial. Start fights. but I have top 1 percent IQ (according to tests growing up) and I have top 1 percent industriousness according to personality tests. So i am just not going to focus on socializing/dating and Just focus on making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:22 AM
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You guys always focus on these straw man arguments. “Billy boring” can just find a boring plane wife. The boring guys are rarely struggling that much. It’s the guy that’s a real weirdo. Not necessarily ugly but most girls say “he’s not my type”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:09 AM
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im not attracted if she is too easy. she has to put up a significant amount of resistance for me to be most attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:36 PM
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Yeah I agree. What does it matter if im tall and fit, they can always just find another tall/fit guy that is more their type. It really doesn't solve much if you aren't fitting into a common archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:33 PM
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yeah but its still fairly competitive. you still have to be 6ft+, attractive, and fit. difference is millenial women are ok with you being neurodivergent, its actually seen as cool/artsy in their generation. For a lot of them icons like kurt cobain were prominent autistc/adhd people. Gen Z women just associate anything neurodivergent with being a groyper/incel. Pop stars growing up were neurotypical like justin bieber, zayn, harry styles. Its a huge generation gap. And the other thing is the wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:16 PM
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I dont like my last name I would rather take theirs!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:33 PM
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That's how I am, I'm not interested in someone unless I can compete and win them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:32 PM
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No- as a gen z its because women have extremely high standards that 90 percent of men can't meet. Looks, height, income, neurotypicality all have to be there or they'll literally roast you to your face.; I just gave up trying to date within this generation and date older women. They are so much nicer to be around. They actually allow you to take them out on dates instead of just expecting sex immediately. They are also more forgiving of me being neurodivergent- they tend to see it as something u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:30 PM
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Well I would love a long term relationship but girls don't really feel the same way about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:49 PM
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so where do we meet women like you then? All the women I meet want nothing but hookups, I can't find anyone who wants a relationship/marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:30 PM
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Yeah it’s just a cope. I have no social skills . I’m autistic. I’m hated by most people. Girls still try to hook up with me. Granted im cooked in terms of finding a actual relationship but I guess I have some kind of sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:48 PM
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Yeah I’m sure men are less misogynistic on the construction crews /s. Over 50 percent of men admit to being right wing. When you vote anonymously it’s like 80-90 percent of straight white men voting for trump. Same for red pill. Almost every guy I’ve ever talked to has been red pilled and the exceptions are usually black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:20 PM
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If men try to to flirt with female retail workers they get posted online and police called on them. The fact that you can’t tell the difference between socializing as a woman and a 200-300 pound man just shows how clueless you are. You’ve never had people move to the other side of the street when you walk by.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:18 PM
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Blue pill isn’t mainstream. Everyone in US fraternities believes in red pill. That’s literally where it came from. Most young men are red pilled if successful, black pilled if unsuccessful. Blue pill is mostly women and gays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:54 PM
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Natural selection already solves this. Humans are not very good at genetic engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:52 PM
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No the average woman would completely fail at being a man, they have no skills to be a man. Try socializing like a woman when you look like a big hairy man. No one will be friendly towards you as a man. People won’t look at you won’t smile at you won’t chit chat with you. Nothing that works for you socially as a woman would work for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:49 PM
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Yeah maybe if you are really hot it could work but for normies you have to status max to get results
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:00 PM
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Why would exchange numbers when I can exchange social media and show off all my cool pics/videos and my thousands of followers. If you exchange numbers its because your social media presence sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:37 PM
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Chronically online take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:39 PM
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And then they choose to live in areas with only rich white people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:06 AM
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THe manosphere isnt whats radicalizing people. Its their experience in high school/college where only the top chads get all the girls. And then they look for reasons why they feel so lonely and hopeless. Without the manosphere giving reassurance and a path forwards you would see a lot more violence, shootings, gang activity etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:06 PM
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No - what would be the point without love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:02 PM
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Most women in my culture are homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:46 PM
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He’s not wrong though. Most women I know hate lgbt and it’s considered a sin and associated with promiscuity and drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:34 AM
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press x t doubt. im a guy in a female dominated field and not only am i getting none, nobody of the guys is. The girls are incredibly cold and stand-offish towards the guys compared to a more balanced 50/50 environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:57 AM
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Again - autism has nothing to do with status. Autism doesn’t have anything to do with being a loser nerd just because a lot of loser nerds are autistic. Just as many chads are Autistic. Most celebrities are autistic. Kanye? Autistic asf . Eminem? Autistic… Michael Jackson? Severely autistic. Autism is just a neurodivergence that can make you either low status or high status but it makes you not a normie or NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:15 AM
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Again - autism has nothing to do with status. Autism doesn’t have anything to do with being a loser nerd just because a lot of loser nerds are autistic. Just as many chads are Autistic. Most celebrities are autistic. Kanye? Autistic asf . Eminem? Autistic… Michael Jackson? Severely autistic. Autism is just a neurodivergence that can make you either low status or high status but it makes you not a normie or NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:13 AM
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Not goth so I don’t fit in there, I’m Very conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:09 AM
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What if they’re neurodivergent in the exact opposite way from you. What if one person is an extremely top 1 percent extrovert and the other is an extremely top 1 percent introvert. Both highly neurodivergent but is it a good match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:06 AM
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ago Women that I know irl have shared even more red pilled ideas with me than even the fuckbois I’ve met. Seriously. No one has red pilled me more than women. It takes a while to get to the point where women are actually honest with you but when they are they are hella red pilled. Blue pill is largely a male dominated group. By definition. Women have never been blue pilled. Blue pill is someone unaware of female nature. Women know their own nature instinctively, that’s why they hate themselves s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:03 AM
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Yeah I think that’s the disconnect. As a gen z guy we grew up in a world where only frat guys/“chads” were partying with women. And a lot of guys have never even talked to a girl irl. From talking to older generations it was vastly different. A common trope for gen z male friend groups is one guy in the group gets girls constantly and no one else in the group ever has had a girlfriend. That’s where the 80/20 thing came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:59 PM
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To me none of that factors into your rating out of 10. It’s entirely your face
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:55 PM
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Yeah I noticed that too. They just fall for whoever they spend the most time around regardless of the qualities of that person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:28 PM
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Only if you’re in a social group with a bunch of short people. If all your friends are equally tall it makes no difference. You still have to mog.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:23 PM
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No I’ve seen it get worse in my life time. If anyone tells me otherwise that straight up gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:07 AM
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It’s called Maya in Hinduism. It’s all illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:09 AM
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Absolutely not true. There’s a lot of hyper sexual ND women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:28 PM
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Ugly guys who are spiteful and angry get women. Being spiteful and angry is a good thing. Aggression is a good thing. Being straight up evil is a good thing. Be anything but nice/good and you’ll do better with women. Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:11 AM
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Good… I can feel your anger… gives you focus makes you stronger. Let the hate flow through you..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:28 AM
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It’s called sarcasm dude calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:24 AM
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I don’t think anybody needs to go to college it’s a scam for both genders. 18 years of school is plenty. Used to be much less and people learned more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:24 AM
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Ye I agree. I grew up in an environment where sex was very rare.there were like 4-5 couples in our high school and no one else was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:19 PM
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Taking exogenous testosterone doesn’t make you a man. I’ve taken loads of exogenous hormones and never had any increased libido from it. What I had was increased muscle, body hair, acne. The typical effects of steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:33 PM
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A lot of areas of the country are heavily skewed towards men. We are talking 55 sometimes 60 percent or more of the young population is men. These cities tend to be extremely hypergamous. One example is San Diego. Not uncommon to see model tier men with mid women there. But if you’re a woman who lives in an area with a lot of young women you won’t know what these guys are talking about. You may even live in a city with a lot of hot women dating mid dudes. I can drive 40 minutes outside my city a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:29 AM
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What city? Seoul?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:26 PM
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Doesn’t matter it’s all based on looks. Im a far right extremist but I can date liberal girls because I have a emo alternative appearance . I have no chance at dating conservative girls despite sharing all the same values as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:47 PM
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For those of us that went to college through Covid there wasn’t a lot of shared spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:42 PM
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Why? Dancing is fun it’s a great activity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:39 PM
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So as a emotional immature and disagreeable person what am I supposed to do. It seems like my only Option to have casual relationships and try to trap the woman by getting her pregnant. (Seems immoral but it feels like I’ll never be chosen as the long term option)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:52 PM
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Finally someone said it. Women perceive me as an asshole and fuckboi. I can get matches on apps but it’s not anyone I’m in any way compatible with and they only want casual sex never a relationship. It’s over if you don’t look like their idea of what a husband should look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:50 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:42 PM
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I’ve been bullied and treated very poorly by women my whole life, called ugly and unloveable , that i should unalive myself etc. multiple instances of them making up false allegations , multiple careers ruined. Any bullying I experienced from male peers was very short lived and had little consequences. Women seem to have no empathy towards me whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:23 PM
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Im the unlucky and outlier that you described. Don't meet any women and don't fit into any social group. i have seen seriously unattractive guys that have had way more success than me because they have a normie personality or fit into some kind of subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:37 PM
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LOL they don’t wanna talk about that. How many times you hear of a guy that didn’t get laid until he got older with more experience and money. I’ve never heard of a women that didn’t get laid until later in life. Unless she was morbidly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:59 PM
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Wrong it’s the opposite. White collar work is disappearing and women are now selecting for men who can make good laborers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:29 AM
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For real man as an autistic person I’m able to speak just fine, I’m considered confident and well spoken actually, but I get ostracized every where I go because people get a “weird vibe” from me and think that I’m dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:24 AM
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Oh my god that’s actually crazy. That perfectly explains the rise of incel culture in America now that white collar work has largely evaporated. Being autistic I got straight As in school but when I graduated college there was no good job for me so now I’m just a Autist that does manual labors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:19 AM
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ive ben to them and its a sausage fest, 90 percent dudes like every other meet up that ive been to. its just a bunch of sweaty dudes running around and a couple girls there with their boyfriend. Meeting a single girl IRL is borderline impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:07 PM
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Yes, I get cat called and harassed by gay guys many times and hit on a lot . Im told have an attractive body all the time. It does nothing for attracting women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:58 AM
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I would take A and A
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:09 PM
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I don’t meet any single women in my profession or day to day life. Like maybe 1 in the past year. If you’re in a environment where you are constantly meeting available women that seems like it would skew your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:07 PM
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Red pill has nothing to do with conservative gender roles. Red pill is a philosophy based around how to pick up girls in clubs and prioritize short term relationships over long term. What you’re talking about are people who are socially conservative and would probably hate red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:00 PM
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Plenty of violent autistic guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:36 PM
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Based. Until you’re committed you should be flirting with every girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:23 PM
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so only the top 10 percent of men should even talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:38 PM
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Being a beta isn’t a bad thing. There’s a reason why most people are betas. It’s the most successful strategy overall. Being a alpha is high risk high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:19 PM
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I disagree. The most successful and desired men are all betas. Most billionaires and millionaires are betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:17 PM
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It’s true but you can still aura farm and extravagant max
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:11 PM
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I feel you Man. I’m 6’2 , have the V shaped athletic body etc It doesn’t really help much when you’re very socially weird. The only attention I get is girls that are already in a relationship or marriage wanting to fck me. But I don’t have the personality or social skills to get a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:32 AM
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Eh not true for me . Normie women hate me. But alt/ND women want me. Maybe that’s true for normie guys but if ur a real weirdo ur going to have niche appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:59 AM
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Wrong question. The question you should be asking is why is it SO much worse for men now that they’re become NEETs and unaliving at unprecedented rates. It shouldn’t be THAT bad and in the past it wasn’t. Society is going through growing pains.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:05 PM
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Women have it easier until age 33 then it reverses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:53 PM
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I’m a good person and wish I didn’t have to act like a asshole to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:51 PM
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Yet I’m better than women think I am. Women literally beg me to degrade them and fuck them in front of their boyfriend and I will never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:50 PM
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high trust low trust are the same as alpha/beta but its different than attractiveness. if women have a strong preference for high or low trust faces it can override their preference for attractive faces. But its all Looks its just looks goes far beyond attractiveness. Whether you look like a idiot or not is also looks. Whether you look like a gentleman is also looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:38 PM
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i treat women better than blue pilled men because I actually question them and encourage them to improve and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:37 PM
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location dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:18 PM
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Then why are women always surprised by my behavior? I'm always told that I'm much nicer than people expected of me based on my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:15 PM
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anything other than looks is shallow. If you dont prioritize looks you are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:05 PM
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no actually what guys get wrong is its a completely different scale. attractive vs unattractive is completely different scale from high trust/low trust. You can be chad and be beta. You can be ugly and be alpha (and still fuck a lot). But its entirely genetic whether you are alpha/beta (its based on your facial structure which guides how people view you via the Pygmalion effect)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:00 PM
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change your flair to red pill. there is nothing blue pilled about that perspective, telling men they need to sexualize women in order to be chosen is a red pill theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:56 PM
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stop listening to what they say. look at the scientific literature which proves red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:54 PM
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I agree. If you’re together too much the woman gets sick of you (proven). Its best for the man to be gone sometimes (mimics natural hunting/war patterns)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:35 PM
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Yah women always tell me I need to be nicer but it’s never worked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:56 PM
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theyre all mid. Taylor Swift actually is borderline ugly. sydney sweeney and Emilia clarke are hot. Girls are really clueless about which girls guys think are ok looking and which girls guys would do literally anything to have a chance with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:59 PM
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No not all men are into novelty. Only R selective men are. K selective men want the same woman forever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:18 PM
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Women aren’t doing anything wrong. They’re genuinely more desirable than men. The average woman is a 7 the average guy is a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:17 PM
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It’s not easier for guys to get love/relationships. 90 percent of women who have shown interest in me only want to hookup. A large portion of those are women who are already married/partnered. I have much fewer options than women seem to think. My N number is a lot lower than women expect it to be. Most women seem to have no idea how lonely most men are or are just willfully ignorant. A lot of us are not interested in casual sex. The guys who want casual sex are the same guys that approach every…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:11 PM
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Idek a lot of the girls I know would never even consider to date a progressive guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:58 PM
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Where are you located where this is the case? All the women I personally know exclusively date blue collar guys and think the golden retriever guys are gay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:36 PM
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99 percent of academics are lower class
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:24 PM
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Mick Jagger was hot as hell. What even are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:31 AM
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try to get as much simps and attention as possible. try to get guys to fight over me for the fun of it. Never commit to any guy since they could all potentially abandon me. Try to get as much free stuff from guys as I can, do OF/stripping if possible. Id spend all my money on injections/implants, spend all my free time in the gym and doing makeup. Honestly makes me realize that I'm a very toxic person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:23 AM
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Because we have more in common with people our age and we get more positive feedback. Very few matches on dating apps are with older women for me. Women tend to want to date someone their age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:01 AM
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It actually is worse than that. Good people are hated by society, while the sociopaths are extremely popular. The average person is very bad at deciphering the moral value of another person. When women say that they didn’t realize the guy was toxic, they’re telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:34 AM
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Yes I view life as if it were a game. You’re either a winner or a loser. If you have children who are attractive you win. If you have ugly children or deformed children or no children you lose. You compete with other men (challengers) over women (prizes). You can ally with other men but only if you are not fighting over the same female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:31 AM
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There are 21 year old women that already have 3-4 kids. Theyre definitely an adult by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:22 PM
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yah that too. its just a lack of social skills. Why not work on that instead of blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:55 PM
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if they ask that always give a non answer. The wrong answers are yes (too forward), no (sounds unconfident) or maybe (sounds insecure). The right answer is a non answer like "oh i just thought it would be fun" "Oh i just wanted to check out this new bar" They hate the idea of thinking "oh this guy has always had a crush on me and he finally asked me out" it makes it seem like you're a pussy that had to work up the courage to ask her out. That's whats going through her head. For a girl to hookup …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:53 PM
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yeah these guys ruin any chance they get by making it awkward then they complain about being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:02 PM
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You have no game. Seriously dude? You don't tell her you have a crush on her, You just ask to hang out and grab drinks and you see where it goes. Always be unclear with your intentions and if they aren't vibing with you just move on to the next girl. Fuckbois run through multiple girls at every place they work. This is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:01 PM
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nothing would ever change my mind. The amount of women willing to cheat on their boyfriend/husband with me has already red pilled me permanently and I will never trust women ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:08 PM
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most red pillers are "chads". red pill doesn't work if you aren't attractive in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:05 PM
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Its true. Everyone kept telling me im crazy when I say that every couple I see walking around is super hot guy with a homeless looking girl. Come to find out the area I live is significantly more men than women. Drive an hour away and the difference is mind boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:07 AM
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PLEASE DONT BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE EL LSSEEE PLEASE DONT HAVE SOMEBODY WAITIN ON YOU OUUUUU
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:48 PM
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And that about sums up the problem. Women are looking for the perfect guy. Guys for the most part will take any fertile willing female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:43 PM
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i know you are but what am i
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:14 PM
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yeah im tired of fighting with 100 other guys over these obese girls that we don't even want anyways. Its completely ridiculous. and the only girls who I get are BPD and have no intention of doing anything but ruining my life. every single girl ive dated got with me by cheating on their boyfriend or husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:54 AM
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male body standards doesn't have to do with genetic, its to do with steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:23 AM
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Society doesn't "progress" . Its a cycle. We become more technologically advanced and then we destroy ourselves with the technology and so on. Past societies in ancient egypt and other places were far more "progressed" but that doesn't mean anything since everything is temporary. Your purpose as a human is to produce attractive children that are able to reproduce themselves. Its all just a endless loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:40 PM
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Compatibility and those sorts of ideas are made up . That doesn't exist. What exists is attraction and procreation. The feelings of compatibility (Which is just a chemical reaction of oxytocin) always go away if you don't have kids. Thats why couples that don't have kids always break up after a few years even if everything was going good so to speak. If you have kids then your oxytocin will continue and you will have a more or less "successful" relationship since the point of a relationship is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:32 PM
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thats not true. Men surpass women in bulemia even at this point. Men surpass them in plastic surgery . Lookism for men has hit the breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:25 PM
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We need to get past the idea that choosing based on looks is shallow. In fact its the deepest thing that you can do. Its shallow to choose someone with a nice personality that you get along with, That could potentially be giving ugly genes to your kids. The best thing you can do for your future kids is to choose a spouse that is physically attractive because good looks will give your kids the best opportunities. If you are choosing a partner based on any factor other than facial attractiveness y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:21 PM
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im autistic but im just viewed as being a dickhead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:09 PM
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thanks for that. Yeah it does suck constantly being seen as a "bad" person or "rude" and everything you do or say is wrong. But in another circle of people I don't have any of those problems at all. I dont think its a social norm i think its a difference. I feel that neurotypical people are the rude ones by feigning kindness all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:02 PM
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then how come when I was on hinge I was able to talk to attractive women that actually messaged me FIRST. IRL women will flirt with me. But on facebook dating I scrolled for over a year without a single match. Some of these apps are actually rigged and shadow ban your account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:56 PM
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depends wildly on if you pay for premium and if you are shadow banned on that platform. I payed for hinge for one month and had girls way out of my league messaging me first. Unfortunately it banned me and i cant use hinge anymore. Using free version of tinder only match with woman I would consider below me (very out of shape etc.) Using facebook dating never gotten a match ever. Used for 3 months without ever matching with anyone. completely destroyed my self esteem for a while. Overall I've go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:27 PM
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so a bunch of nice good looking guys and none of them good enough for you. sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:22 PM
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Red pill is a philosophy that tells you to never have long term relationships, marriage or kids. Anyone talking about gene pool is black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:19 PM
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Well autistic people tend to dominate many areas of the world. Most billionaire CEOs are autistic. Most top MMA fighters are autistic. Most top bodybuilders are autistic. In a hypercompetitive environment autistic people always win because they can focus on one thing and obsess over it much better than a normal person can. That's why autism remains prevalent in the population despite its shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:17 PM
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Aggression is one of the core symptoms of autism so thats false. A lot of bodybuilders and MMA fighters are autistic. Thats why you hear people say "You'll never be a top fighter if you aren't autistic". Its possible but since autism is such an advantage you rarely see non autistic people succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:15 PM
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being neurodivergent is in fact such an advantage that it overrides significant disadvantages like being short. Example - Charles Manson - short and not particularly good looking but had a entire harem because he was clinically insane. If you're neurotypical just give up its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:36 PM
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lol what???!! me and my guy friends compliment each other all the time. what a weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:52 PM
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"even non neurotypical men". jesus ur a moron. Neurotypical = normie. Neurodivergent is far superior. "hes just too boring" -> she says about her normie bf while shes fucking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:37 AM
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Yeah this is false. Im 6'2 200lbs and I get called short and skinny by women constantly. "too small to be a real man". I get compliments from men all the time, women just insult and belittle me. Their standards are crazy. A lot of them say they only date NFL/MLB/NHL players etc. and require you to be huge like 250+ pounds. Hypergamy has sent their standards to the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:05 PM
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why do women prefer hookups to relationships then? Most of the women I swipe on say they are looking for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:57 PM
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BPD and NPD have heavy overlap. Highly comorbid Narcissism and Mania get confused a lot too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:41 AM
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yep. i know 2 women so far who are NPD and were given a diagnosis of Bipolar. Funnily they both talk about their trauma constantly and use it as an excuse for why they act the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:23 AM
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again the answer is the same. Go to the gym. People react way different to your neurodivergence when ur jacked and shredded
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:04 PM
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Men aren't denying this. We admit it. Women never admit to dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:35 AM
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HUH? red pill literally tells men to not have relationships with women and just pursue casual. What are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:52 PM
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source? Most couples I see are not matched
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:26 AM
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As a guy on online dating you have to be as generic as possible. It works via an elo system similar to chess, if you match with people you get a higher "rating" and get shown to more attractive women. If you make your profile unique your rating goes down and you don't get matches, or get unattractive ones. That's why it appears that all men are very generic/boring. In reality they aren't, but they have to appear as such due to the rules of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:53 PM
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Then ur going to be dealing w/ a shitty dating pool. A lot of the good men are gone by that point and the cheaters/crazies are recycled back into the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:32 AM
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unironically agree more with u than any other woman on her even though you are arguably insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:37 PM
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No even if ur white its not enough. Chad takes all when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:36 PM
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Men dont want to marry a midlife woman. They want to marry a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:20 PM
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Most guys don't have extensive social circles with single women in them. Most guys are working 50-60 hours a week to try to pay the bills and most of them are working in male-dominated jobs without a lot of women in their workplace. Thats why so many guys are on dating apps or cold approaching, they dont meet women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:32 PM
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I've only ever been successful IRL. Never get more than "hey" and then no response ever again on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah me and my friends noticed that too - that we are admired by MILFs. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:55 PM
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so there's women who want a boring midget who is a complete failure in life. and there's men who want a ugly grandma? press x to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:53 PM
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All men think like this. Just like women want a guy who’s successful and interesting and tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:00 PM
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Dtf ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:36 PM
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Because the worse I treat women the more they want to date me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:56 AM
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Even Within red pill there’s different strategies. There’s fuck boi. Theres evil beta. There’s false blue pill. There’s right wing authoritarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:53 AM
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Based and red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:46 AM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:45 AM
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They should be getting advice to get advice from their older male friends IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:05 AM
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i mean u get what u can get. Only certain women are going to be accessible to you. A lot of guys can't get anything. If i had a choice I would choose the same giga stacy every guy would choose but im fine with Psycho samantha as it is, They all have the same plumbing at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:02 AM
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yeah thats why its been said many times. Find a guy who's similar to u but more successful with women and do what he says to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:56 AM
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more on my Only Fans just 10 bucks per month! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:33 AM
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most ppl in these communities are . thats pretty much assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:59 AM
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There's certain trends but theres more to seduction than just your physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:58 AM
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I agree, its very individual as far as what journey you are on and what areas you need to grow in. I prefer to think of it from a Jungian perspective, I think if psychologists were more well versed in that then more people could benefit from therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:56 AM
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r/nothingeverhappens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:55 AM
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yeah its 100 percent about looks but Im trying to get people to realize is ur looks is more than just ur attractiveness. Its also ur vibe/personality and ur perceived competence, trustworthiness , extroversion etc. All those things are looks. In fact when girls say u are boring its actually a looks issue sometimes that u actually look boring. Or other times its a issue with how u are socially awkward. Its hard to say what the issue is without seeing at least the person's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:54 AM
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sometimes girls like a douchey guy though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:51 AM
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what if hes a gym cel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:51 AM
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for sure thats all stuff that applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:50 AM
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Well for some of us it’s all we can get. We don’t all have access to the highest quality women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:20 PM
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I disagree with that it’s about ur behavior and specifically which type of women ur going for. When I was going for women who I’m not their type I had no results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:18 PM
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Impossible to say without seeing ur face. It’s based on how ur face appears to people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:15 PM
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its the advice given by fuckbois/redpillers to other fuckbois/redpillers which works for them. I dont think it necessarily works for everyone though. If it did we wouldnt have guys who are blue pillers. I think blue pill works for a different type of guy, I've straight up seen it man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:38 PM
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literally said in my response that number 9 is an exception. should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:30 PM
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No women shouldn't have these privileges unless they prove they can handle them with the exception of number 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:01 PM
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im gen z. I've never seen that and I never knew anyone who was religious except for in movies. Everyone in my high school and college and everyone in my family was basically atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:44 PM
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no ive never seen that. gay people have always been accepted from what ive seen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:43 PM
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yeah compare that to the american school system where the high school jocks have the parties and invite all the girls. The richest guys get into frats where they have access to sorority girls. The average guy coming up in america doesn't have any interaction with girls. Ur right. Its not even that girls want rich guys. those guys are the ones that have access to social circles with girls in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:33 PM
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idk man ive never experienced that. being gay has always been accepted in our generation. It seems like something you would see in one of these old movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:22 PM
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I've never seen anyone get bullied for being gay but I have seen women reject them and make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:00 PM
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so if you dont have the looks you can never start. So what are all the men who aren't good looking supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:07 AM
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its been mainstream for a while. Every fuckboi and frat guy knows red pill. most learned it from their older male friends/siblings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:25 AM
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thats not true. every fuck boi i know quotes red pill ideas left and right. Every frat guy knows red pill. Outside of reddit, red pill is just facts. only incels on reddit and women promote blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:23 AM
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So you can't create attraction except for looks, and you need attraction for a relationship to work. You admit that. but you are still saying looks aren't all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:20 AM
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it literally does. ppl literally say every day that guys who are not attractive could get with women if they improved their approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:13 AM
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that doesnt sound very blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:56 AM
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Nope. Most incels hate red pill like hate hate hate. They literally made a forum called PUAhate where they hate on red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:14 PM
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The worst part about it that they get wrong is that incels HATE red pill. like hate hate hate. They literally created a forum called PUAhate where they hate on red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:13 PM
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Uhh no that sounds more like black pill. Red pill was created by pick up artists in the US for picking up girls at clubs. It has little to do with incels. 99 percent of all fuckbois follow red pill. If incels followed it they probably wouldn't be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:11 PM
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no black pill is nothing to do with society, thats red pill. Black pill is a belief system that attraction is purely genetic and that if you aren't attracted women you are a genetic failure due to your poor bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:09 PM
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What??!! Red pill never taught men to be traditional. The whole point of red pill was telling men not to get married and to just have casual sex with women. That's literally the whole point. Traditional marriage is what would be considered blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:06 PM
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They know , they just don't like the way it sounds and how it makes women look bad. They want to think of it as that they seek personality traits like ambition, drive etc. instead of financial status even though it directly correlates. And they seek "confidence" instead of height. Just so happens that tall men are perceived as confident. and they seek "friendliness" instead of looks even though people determine how friendly you are by your face. Women just want to mystify everything and prevent …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:04 PM
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That's not true. The original red pill content creators were in their late 20's/30's in the 2010s and theyre over 40 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:00 PM
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I was never taught to provide for women lmfao what is this shit. Genuinely don't understand these posts where people claim they were "taught" blue pill ideas their whole life. By who??? As early as elementary school and middle school I remember the chads pulling all the girls and all of the red pill ideas becoming obvious. Blue pill to me was always pertaining to guys who fall in love for the first time and become delusional from all of the oxytocin etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:58 PM
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ideally yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:26 AM
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Different people are complaining about different things. I for one am not looking for a virgin and don't care about what her body count is. I also don't want someone submissive. I want a boss bitch or whatever its called.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:25 AM
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That's pretty typical. You see a lot of girls dressed very revealing, but rarely see any guy interact with them, theyre just talking to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:23 AM
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Couldn’t agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:31 PM
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If women dont approach men they want , they select for the type of men who approach women. Which tends to go along with a lot of unsavory traits, psychopathy/narc/mach etc. Those are the men who approach the most women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:20 PM
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Yeah I actually agree completely with u. Its refreshing to see a woman I can actually agree a lot with. I know there are good women but its like how do you find them if they dont make themselves available. So we tend to focus on what we can find. I feel like both men and women should be holding their own gender accountable more. Like a lot of those "fuckbois" on the apps arent even really fuckbois. I have friends that arent like that at all, but portray themselves as it because they've learned t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:19 AM
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Then why does almost every guy I know get cheated on by almost every girl they date . Like seriously why is there this huge disconnect. How old r u and where do u live
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:29 AM
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Because these are the people who are constantly in the dating pool. When you open apps and swipe on it this is the people you encounter. A high percentage of the good girls are married or taken
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:27 AM
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its worse than that. The data absolutely proves that men with higher IQ have less female partners. They are actively gaslighting about what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:55 PM
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Counterpoint - I'm a gifted kid with a bunch of intellectual interests, written several books on ancient history, have a career and my own business. All the women I see in dating apps have nothing in their bio, and bring nothing except pics of alcohol and bikinis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:14 PM
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im not going to change my profession to appease women. Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:11 PM
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these are pretty basic positions that most people know to be true its just not Politically (real politik) correct
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:53 AM
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they should if they want to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:40 PM
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Then why are so many people corroborating what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:08 PM
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and how much did you fuck him and suck his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:56 PM
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yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:55 PM
0

all women think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:47 PM
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I agree, I used to go with that back when i worked as a cook. Everyone is this thread is blue pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:47 PM
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if you do anything outside of being a traditional 1950's man they make fun of you post on social media etc. They want a guy to be a traditional man, go to church, read the bible etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:41 PM
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Yep. Women rigidly enforce gender roles onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:34 PM
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Most people are not very mature though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:32 PM
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Its like how some guys go out in a suit and claim to be a lawyer. Its just dressing the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:31 PM
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classic denial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:30 PM
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it happened to me every day. Women just didn't respect me since I wasn't doing a masculine job. Women rigidly enforce gender norms onto men otherwise they get the "ick"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:28 PM
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they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:28 PM
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damn he sounds like a G. Respect!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:27 PM
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most men don't enjoy monogamous partnership. They tolerate it and pretend to like it so they can enjoy the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:26 PM
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well im a shallow person as well so I have no problem with dating someone shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:25 PM
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all women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:23 PM
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believe me, it happened to me almost every day. And working with children is worse because they assume you are a p3do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:21 PM
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The goal of men is sex, not marriage, thats why most female dating advice sucks. The goals are women are completely opposite the goals of men , that's why we are at odds with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:21 PM
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they won't laugh if they never find out ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:19 PM
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It's a lot easier than you would think. They rarely look into it that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:19 PM
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teacher/nurse etc. occupations that are primarily done by women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:17 PM
-9

How will they find out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:14 PM
0

its mostly maxilla, but also eye area and ramus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:40 AM
1

similar life experience for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:28 AM
1

i mean thats what they are talking about. Attractiveness is based on maxilla
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:55 PM
1

Yes they do. They say stuff like “he’s so handsome he’s so hot”. They stuff like that when someone has a well developed maxilla
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:29 PM
1

I would say estrogen is more important for libido as a man, Ask any man who crashes their estrogen levels you basically become asexual. But on reddit they act like testosterone is this magic hormone that makes you super horny. Its really just an androgen meaning a hormone that masculinizes you and keeps your overall energy and vitality up as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:43 AM
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Yeah exactly man. I have the same philosophy. Theres a reason why every single religion tells you that you have to keep female sexuality under control. Its because if you don't polyamory will happen and society will collapse. Its not bad or good, its just how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:42 AM
1

it is. Men are very sensitive to estrogen levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:36 AM
1

They need to convince the beta male that they have low libido so they dont know about what they are doing with the alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:30 AM
-1

where do u think the concept comes from...reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:06 AM
1

If you havenet experienced this side of women its because they never have seen you as a alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:56 AM
-2

Then why is it getting upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:56 AM
1

It does support it. Because until we recognize that women are inherently deceptive about their sexuality we can't have a real conversation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:53 AM
-1

How come only women seem to claim that its false. Men from experience agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:52 AM
1

In practice you can by leaving him in a state that is biologically referred to as "finished".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:51 AM
1

Women have a dual sexual strategy where they have sex with chad and financially are supported by billy beta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:50 AM
1

Yeah I agree with this. They keep trying to argue as if women's libido is the same as men's only lower . in reality its completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:48 AM
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The first link is about how women care much more about sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:47 AM
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It happens more often than you think. Just doesn't happen to you. Ask a chad about their experience, its often mind blowing how often they get sexually assaulted and women will do anything to have their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:42 AM
4

That's not true. The term woke wasn't even around when red pill forums started in the 2000s/early 2010s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:40 AM
1

Gay women are much more promiscuous. Their divorce rate is over triple compared to gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:39 AM
1

Not by PIV alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:39 AM
2

Yeah I've heard the same from many women who are honest about their sex lives. The man can almost never keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:34 AM
1

A male can only produce a certain amount of semen per day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:32 AM
1

https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/06/turns-out-women-have-really-really-strong-sex-drives-can-men-handle-it/276598/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:30 AM
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As I explained, they are ravenous only towards one man. Their sexuality only gets activated when they find someone who meets the biological model of a alpha male. men have a horniness factor of 6/10 that applies to 50 percent of women. Women have a horniness factor of 10/10 that applies to only the alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:29 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategic_pluralism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:27 AM
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essentially yes. Women are much closer to their natural urges and nature in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:25 AM
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No you are misunderstanding. Women just have a different type of sexuality, but in magnitude it is much greater than men. Men have horniness at a 6/10 that applies to 50 percent of women. Women have a horniness factor of 9/10 which applies to only 10 percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:25 AM
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Yeah... That's the type of stuff they tell to Billy Beta. She would rather choke to death than stop sucking on chad's cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:23 AM
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Most women are "lesbians" so to speak until they encounter a alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:22 AM
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Research the phenomenon known as "ball draining" in sexual biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:21 AM
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How many women have you seen say stuff like "I never knew I was straight till I met him". "I thought I didn't like sex till I had sex with him". Him meaning chad. Its obvious that women have a sexuality which only gets activated by certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:19 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategic_pluralism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:17 AM
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Women have a evolutionary imperative to lie about how horny they are for chad and what their actual sex drive is like. Otherwise they would never be able to get partnered to average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:15 AM
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Research is false because women have an evolutionary imperative to lie about how horny they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:14 AM
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https://www.psypost.org/women-are-more-likely-than-men-to-consider-ending-a-relationship-due-to-sexual-disagreements/ https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/06/turns-out-women-have-really-really-strong-sex-drives-can-men-handle-it/276598/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:14 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:08 AM
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keep gooning my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:03 AM
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Testosterone's effect on libido seems to actually be much more prominent in women than in men. Women become very sexually aggressive when given testosterone, whereas men typically level out over the course of a steroid cycle. While women have lower testosterone than men their sensitivity to it is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:03 AM
3

You belong in a museum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:56 AM
1

Considering that 90 percent of women cheat and 2/3 of children are not of the father that thinks its theres, yeah should be mandatory testing. We don't live in the days anymore where adulterers could be prosecuted So its obviously run rampant to where you'd be hard pressed to find a child that knows who their real dad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:52 AM
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YeH it is the same. Just like men find the same women attractive. Attractiveness is something we all agree on it. Thats why we say someone is a 10 or a 6. Its because we agree on who is beautiful and who is ugly. It has to do with the shape of your Maxilla and The angle of your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:50 AM
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Why would you think red pill has anything to do with family values. It was designed by pick up artists in America for picking up girls in clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:46 AM
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It's not cultural, there's no proof of that. Even black guys prefer white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:47 PM
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its actually closer to 90 percent of women that cheat. They just dont admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:08 PM
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that is a super biased POV. You're probably being willfully unaware. I've never dated a girl that didn't cheat. And same with my male friends. We've yet to encounter a girl who is loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:07 PM
2

they arent getting approached because they rejected all the men who approached them. and men have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:35 PM
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yeah people are saying to "meet more women IRL", WHEN?! I spend most of my time working and there are not any single women at my work place. The very little time I have free I spend with friends/family, and studying so I can get into a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:31 PM
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i have all of those, its still not enough. They demand higher. 500K for gen z girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:18 PM
1

shy around women doesnt necessarily mean hes quiet. He could be a extrovert , just nervous around women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:08 AM
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how does he stand out. Most guys act shy around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:02 AM
2

Yes absolutely. I can't even get an unattractive loser to consider dating me yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:06 PM
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First guy is that fuckboy guy i have seen on tik tok. Second guy is Sean O'Pry. I think first guy is good looking but only has niche appeal due to his race. Sean O'Pry is beautiful , but in a kind of unsettling way. I think Pete Davison slays more than either of them unironically. He's way more normal looking which is going to be more appealing to most people. The problem with PSL theory is that people are attracted to people with more normal faces, not these extreme giga mogger faces. Someone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:54 AM
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Unless ur a top tier slayer . shes right. The guys you mentioned are slayer tier .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:31 AM
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ur autistic and focusing on weird details. His face is physically attractive to women and closer to an 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:30 AM
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thats cope. Pete Davidson is a chad slayer just based on being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:29 AM
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hes seen as charismatic because hes physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:29 AM
1

i would say so yeah. In terms of savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:26 PM
1

In america yes. The average person lives paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:44 PM
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i would consider that broke yeah according to womens standards. I got laughed at for making that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:28 PM
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im into bad bitches i aint into these nice girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:22 PM
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I'm a regressive man. I want a woman who disrespects me, insults my intelligence and values, and fails to contribute to society in any positive way. She has to provide for me. She has to have more money than me. She has to own a house and a car and buy stuff for me. I just want my intellectual and emotional superior. Now tell me what is so liberal and progressive about all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:20 AM
2

Nice cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:50 AM
1

why would guys not be interested in poetry. Im pretty sure most poets i can think of are men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:54 PM
2

thats how they prefer you view them too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:53 PM
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Every time it has been studied, people prefer white faces and rate them as more attractive and friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:49 PM
4

most "hispanic" people are of european origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:00 PM
4

so many issues. First of all women are already extremely picky choosing only the top 5 percent of men. That will only get worse if you become more picky. Secondly, you'll never get accurate answers from men for those questions not in 1 million years. As soon as men figure out which answers are the most popular among women they will choose those answers. Just how men on dating apps lie about being left wing/liberal. This just shows how little you understand the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:14 PM
12

This sarcasm right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:08 PM
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yeah that's because humans find white people more attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:06 PM
1

so make women even pickier than they already are. yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:05 PM
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This won't work. As soon as data comes out on what parameters are most popular, every guy will switch their parameters to that and you'll be back to not knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:03 PM
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That would just amplify the current problem lol. "allow women to be even pickier than they already are".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:02 PM
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funny because i feel the same from the women i interact with. I dont game or watch anime but almost every girl i matched with asked me to do those thing and was completely uninterested in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:46 AM
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and how is your personality supposed to shine through when they swipe left after one pic of you. they never answer taht.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:44 AM
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overthinking neurotic checking in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:40 AM
2

How is not about fertility? The point of dating is inseminate a woman to reproduce your genes. If she's not fertile she isn't a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:34 AM
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Its not about preference. They literally arent fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:19 AM
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It’s hard for a lot of men to relate to being burned out dating since at least a third of men have never been on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:17 PM
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Yes it literally does. How are you supposed to inseminate someone who is fertile. Are you serious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:13 PM
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They do NOT count. They are not part of the reproductive pool because they've biologically expired. They are either mothers or they are genetic failures that never reproduced. Stop moving the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:23 PM
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So basically all the women on here lied when they said dating IRL was easier. The standards on dating apps are actually lower than irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:12 PM
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theyre finally starting to admit the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:10 PM
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37 year old women are past the fertility window. They arent relevant when it comes to dating since they are already expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:07 PM
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If this guy is average then im giga chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:15 AM
2

There's two different chads. The PSL chad and the highschool bully chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:12 AM
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Why would I want to date someone who’s settling for me because they couldn’t keep any of the hot guys they dated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:59 PM
1

WRONG. Black pill forums have been around since before Peterson posted a single video
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:58 PM
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What r u talking about the government wants u to abort your kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:55 PM
1

Yeah it’s true. Mmm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:52 PM
1

good looking guys tend to be the most delusional and blue pill not understanding that their experience is completely foreign to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:55 AM
3

it isn't that you think it. It's what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:49 AM
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its happened many times, once they see my low snap score and low followers on instagram its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:47 AM
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apparently people think im weird because i have "new age" beliefs like astrology and i wear vintage clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:21 PM
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the top guys have a main bitch, side bitch, and booty call. Other guys have nothing. Its been explained many times to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:13 PM
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There gender ratio on apps is proportional to the amount of people who are single. 70 percent of men are single and only 30 percent of women are single. Women have hobbies they just dont need to go to meet ups and groups because they meet tons of guys every week through apps. Even if they fuck them and don't see it going anywhere theyll still be friends and just lie about how they met
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:41 PM
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Girls don't join hobby oriented activities or groups. They dont have to because they have dating apps to get any guy they want . Any group/meetup is 90 percent guys And if you do find a girl they reject you unless ur a chad. Even nerdy sally wants GigaChad Hyperautist. Girls are not attracted to normal guys PERIOD. END OF STORY. Girls are attracted to CHADS. Girls see normal guys the way that straight guys see Guys - 0 ATTRACTION
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:29 PM
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Is this a area thing? I've never met a woman who identified as conservative. I've barely even met any guys that identify as conservative either. 99 percent of people i interact with are liberal or at least claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:22 PM
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^ I already put way more time into my appearance/gym etc. than the previous generation did. And I still get rejected by 99 percent of girls for not having any instagram followers. When girls answer questions about unattractive guys they always answer it in terms of Eugene arm pit stain. They dont realize that Brad Normal and Everyday Joe get 0 pussy as well because they see them as NPCs only a small fraction of men can fit the standards and you are seeing that reflected in the fertility crisis a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:19 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:15 PM
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I do all of those things. Everyone tells me that I'm muscular/athletic and have good sense of style. And I go after girls that put in no effort and still get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:14 PM
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and where do you find these girls? And how do you signal to them that you're a nerd without ruining your chances with other girls. The optimal strategy as a guy on dating apps is to never express anything outside of the mainstream because it lowers your likes and fucks up your algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:12 PM
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That fits with my experience. I went from being considered "unattractive" as a teenager to "attractive" in my twenties by developing myself (growing to 6'2, mewing, roiding) . Still get rejected by 99 percent girls. Unless you reach the chad tier its pretty much over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:08 PM
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Never. No one has ever introduced me to a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:01 PM
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top chads have a main bitch and side bitch and also a booty call. This is whats throwing off the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:37 PM
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Thats giga coping. Most women prefer older men. 95 percent women who have pursued me and 95 percent of my matches on apps have been younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:13 PM
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complete opposite experience for me. Only way I've been able to meet women is IRL. On apps I cant get a single reply from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:10 PM
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Its actually much worse than you think. Looking at the data only 0.5 percent of couples met in college now a days. It used to be the number one way to meet people. Now its not because the girls in college all use tinder to hook up with the giga chad slayermaxxed PSL God of the campus. So now enrollment is dropping for men even though theres a 60/40 women/men ratio on most campuses, the guys know its over regardless because of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:09 PM
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because they are already in a situationship. Stats show 70 percent of men are single only 30 percent of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:05 PM
1

Not everyone with autism has special interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:34 PM
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no im natty now. I have the typical tall and ripped body that they claim to want but its not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:17 AM
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Ive been going to the gym for 6 years, did 2-3 years of roiding (which also got rid of my baby fat so I actually look my age) I love the gym but its never helped with girls Still get few matches on apps and they rarely reply. Many dating apps dont even allow you to be shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:11 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:38 AM
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This isn't a new idea at all. Its called adultery, it used to be illegal and you would be publicly shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:20 AM
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yeah exactly. Only chad seems to matter. The friends im talking about are normie btw, not even talking about incels/truecels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:18 AM
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Just because you're both autistic doesn't mean that you are similar in any way. A lot of the traits of autism can be the literal reverse of each other. For example sensory sensitivity and sensory seeking. All things considered, theyll choose someone similar to them who doesn't have autism. If anything they would be neutral to autism, but thats hard to believe because all people have a negative bias towards autistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:16 AM
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because its the overwhelming reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:41 PM
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yeah same actually. I think the biggest slayers are neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:38 PM
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Ill never understand this perspective since all my male friends want commitment/marriage and are unable to find it from modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:29 PM
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its not 50/50. studies showed that 60 percent of men are single and only 30 percent women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:59 AM
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i go to all those locations and never once got any girls there (other than friends) and at every meet up I go to like 90 percent of the guys there are single. I think you just dont view us as people because we arent chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:50 AM
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im gym maxxed but apps still suck im going to lat america already spanish maxxed for the past 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:40 PM
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i have experience with women but only because i looksmaxxed. before looksmaxxing girls wanted me dead and tried to get me arrested for false accusations constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:30 PM
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women talk about sex much more than men. It rarely comes up among guy friends except smash or pass occasionally. Its almost all women talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:24 PM
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dating apps is how people meet now. 60+ percent of couples met on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:19 PM
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i said money doesnt matter for attraction. They aren't attracted to the guys that are funding their rich bitch lifestyle. They view them as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:14 PM
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The money copers are peak delulu thinking you can walk around looking like penguin from batman with a wad of hundreds and pick up girls. Chad has no job. Addicted to drugs. Offputting personality. And women chase after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:13 PM
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I even explained it to my mom whats going on and she's like "well it makes me sad because all these girls are going to end up single in their 30s with no kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:11 PM
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we are headed rapidly towards an unironic incel uprising and civil war in america and most people still have their head in the sand. In 5 more years you'll hear mainstream discussing it and how they had no idea it was coming
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:09 PM
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cant lower something that doesnt exist (by and large)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:08 PM
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From what I see the hot girls are single yes. They tend to congregate in groups of hot girls and have a lot of daddies or OF making them millions if not more and by age 20 they begin to view men as groveling subhumans whose purpose is to empty their wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:56 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ArlY8EKc8Vw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:54 PM
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sending love and hope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:53 PM
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women don't care how much money you make. Money is a man made piece of paper that only recently in history existed. That has nothing to do with biology and what causes attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:53 PM
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sugar dating if ur older and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:48 PM
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I've literally witnessed it changed in just 5-10 years. Growing up average guys had a chance. Now only chad or chad+
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:45 PM
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Its ironic because the guys that know what women want are the fuckbois so women indirectly select for fuckbois and then get upset when they find out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:45 PM
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money plays no role in attraction. Attraction is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:26 PM
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It just isn't happening like that any more for our generation. Mid looking guys have been squeezed out of the dating pool. And the amount of people meeting in HS/college now is very low. 60+ percent are meeting by apps. Next highest percent is by work. Both are very competitive. 50 percent of guys didnt date as teenagers at all. another chunk of 30 percent got lucky once or twice. only the top 20 percent have any dating life so to speak and its heavily skewed to the top 5 percent. Its a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:24 PM
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you say you aren't attracted to top 5 percent guys but you are describing a top 5 percent guy. The amount of guys that are routinely successful with women from a young age like you describe is only 5 percent. 50 percent of guys in our generation didnt date a girl in their teenage years at all. You're just failing to realize that this guy is above the norm. He is also considered good looking . 80 percent of men are considered below average looking by women. You're also talking about a different g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:04 PM
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That's just not how men work. You are trying to attribute female sexual selection to men. Men will procreate with almost any woman given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:59 PM
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r/deadbedrooms It seems most women arent attracted to their partner based on what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:02 PM
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again it seems to be something only women speak about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:02 PM
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Only the top 5 percent chads can choose a woman. Its mainly women that choose men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:01 PM
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Well that’s the question. That’s why a lot of men have given up all together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:39 PM
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So women are only attracted to 5 percent of guys and of those guys they are attracted he also has to have good banter and flirting or she loses attraction. So really we’re looking at 2 percent of guys that get 90 percent of girls .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:38 PM
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All women feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:59 PM
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Where has it been debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:57 PM
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Women get to do that most men don’t have any choice and go with the first girl that likes them because that’s their only option. Then the woman grows to resent the man over time realizing that he doesn’t like her at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:52 PM
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I’ve never heard a guy mention chemistry before. It seems like it’s just girl speak for whether she sees you as a chad. Guys use more simple language like “hot or not”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:49 PM
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yeah well I haven't gotten a single one so realize that thats the norm for 95 percent of guys. The top 5 percent chads get 95 percent of the matches from girls. shortcopers think you can get girls just by being tall. that was true in 2018 maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:54 AM
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i have ripped 6 pack, 6'2 and I get 0 matches on apps. Girls have walked up randomly given me their number irl. If you aren't male model its absolutely over on apps. Yall are delulu thinking if you just were tall and abs you would get dates. 0 matches in over a year. Unless ur male model u gotta go outside, apps dont work for normies period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:52 PM
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and women should accept that their chad will always have multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:01 AM
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girls reject 95 percent of guys based on looks alone, being awkward rarely comes into play except in rare edge cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:15 PM
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none of these shows are real. Same as the ones where they ask ppl stuff in the street. all scripted. dude there was even a show where they compete over that gorlock the destroyer guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:05 PM
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no it will be all dudes like every app
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:03 PM
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Intelligent people dont believe in authority. You have it backwards. The smarter guys get more girls. If you were actually smart u would figure out how to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:59 PM
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They dont have social circles. They just see this stuff online or hear about third hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:57 PM
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wait what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:56 PM
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cant escape biology as much as you try
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:47 AM
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the truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:09 PM
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that's what its like being a guy. is this a surprise to you>?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:37 PM
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probably because ur socially awkward like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:36 PM
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Ur talking about betas. Betas already get laid. The majority of men getting laid are betas. Incels are sigmas/omegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:33 PM
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doesn't sound like that worked for you. most of the guys on these apps are not trying to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:20 PM
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stop goin on apps then thats the whole point of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:46 PM
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Im completely ripped but thats average for my area. I only know like 1 fat guy. And i dont know anyone that doesnt dress well and style their hair. people are already doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
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yeah i guess its just a coincidence that the guy they like always ends up being the one with male model features, tall etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:35 PM
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Thats Cope-Pilled. Only the top 5 percent chads have consistent access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:28 PM
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You would have more IRL scenarios back in the day so people who are incel in modern day (95 percent of current men) a lot would have had a chance. Its gone from 80/20 to 95/5 and everyone is coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:43 PM
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if theres so many nerdy guys out there then why am i always getting pursued by nerdy women that I have nothing in common with. It seems like the opposite to me. Theres more girls that are nerdy/introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:39 PM
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skill issue? Theres guys whos whole game is living near the bar and letting them crash there when they are wasted...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:55 PM
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imagine being this mad that you cant kill your babies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:15 PM
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And thats like 0.0001 percent of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:00 PM
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its the same thing its always been. Eye Area, and Maxilla. Theres nothing else. If you have beautiful eyes and maxilla u can do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:52 PM
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just abuse substances and go after drunk women bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:35 PM
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This is all a bunch of BS from the gen alpha kids joining. Blue pill was people who believe in love/romance/destiny. Red pill is get money fuck hoes. Thats what it was. literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:16 PM
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most of the people flaired blue pill have red/black pill ideas. I dont think there really is a blue pill except the people living in illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:52 PM
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If you're an ugly man women wont talk to you even as friends so they will never have that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:47 PM
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theyre just delulu same with lip fillers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:41 PM
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yeah worked great for zach effron
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:40 PM
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being on the spectrum doesnt matter at all if ur hot and have looks money status. Some of the biggest fuckbois of all time are raging autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:39 PM
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Theres no evidence that personality traits play a role in attractiveness. That is pseudoscience which has been systematically disproven by statistical regression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:57 PM
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Every time theres a thread about what body type women are attracted to the out of shape ones say they dont want a ripped guy and they want someone more similar to them. And guys dont tell u not to be picky, they tell u to be realistic in the sense that ur all dating the same guy and you cant have him anyway. Guys tell you to actually find a relationship partner instead of having a situationship/harem because everyone would be more happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:52 PM
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looks height and dark triad is what makes a man attractive according to science.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:16 PM
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Yall women are telling us to hit on fat chicks same time as the fat chicks told us they dont want us fit guys anyways because they cant relate to us being active all the time. Women arguments are basically just "get fucked haha loser if u cant get a girl thats ur fault". No wonder no one listens to you guys advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:01 PM
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How the fuck do you "convince" someone to be attracted to you. They either are or they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:29 PM
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RP is just a pickup art for how to pull drunk girls at clubs. It was never any more than that. And it works for what its supposed to. Every fuckboi uses the same strategies because they work. Does it work in other situations with girls who are sober and aware, thats outside of the scope. RP does not have anything to do with long term relationships because it doesnt believe in them. Blue Pill think red pill are talking about LTR when they arent which leads to confusion. In reality blue and red pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:10 PM
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Chads treat women good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:46 PM
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Yeah but it’s gone from 80/20 to 90/10 and people are feeling it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:38 PM
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But even in a platform where personality plays no role whatsoever such as dating apps women are still just as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:46 PM
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Because that’s how the apps algorithms work. That’s what we’ve been saying this whole time. If you aren’t universally attractive your profile doesn’t even show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:43 PM
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90 percent of men have no standards. only the top 10 percent chads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:13 PM
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yeah its crazy to me hearing about these guys saying they are unattractive and getting dates on the apps. I dont get a single match. Im 6'2 and jacked. I ran out of people ages ago without 1 single match.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:07 PM
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actually sub 5 are more common these days because of obesity and other diseases. In nature it would regress to the mean but thats not whats going on right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:43 AM
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That has nothing to do with attraction. If I tell a woman I have a billion dollars in my bank account that doesnt make her fall in love with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:42 AM
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“Just adjust your facial features bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:02 PM
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nah its actually worse than that. The 2/10 women reject the 5/10 guy, and even the 6/10 and 7/10. If you arent 8+ as a guy you get nothing. And almost every couple I see the guy is signicantly more attractive than the girl OR has significantly higher status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:10 AM
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find God. Drugs and casual sex will not make you happy in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:19 AM
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"just use substances and go after intoxicated women bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:04 PM
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tate is 100 percent autistic in the way he approaches life, his rigid views etc. His dad was known as an autistic savant in the chess community and its very genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:59 PM
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Women often choose autistic men. Andrew Tate is highly autistic and has no issues attracting women. these guys are just copers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:38 PM
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and theres women who call male models ugly. whats ur point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:57 PM
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first of all i think that is unrealistic because guys and girls typically have different interests. And yeah If im very physically strong, good at running a business i dont need someone to do those same things. I would be more attracted to a girl that likes gardening/decorating since its something i wouldnt be good at doing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:49 PM
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I dont get that. If theyre already artistic what do they need you for? If I bring a certain trait to the table thats what I offer. Why would I need a woman to offer the same shit. I would want her to offer someting i dont have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:40 AM
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same as a guy i like fighting lifting weights and guns etc... this is such a reddit type of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:39 AM
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couldn't disagree more. I dont care whatsoever if they share my interests. im interested in guy things - fighting weapons etc. And girls like makeup and doodling. Why would u expect to like the same things as another gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:29 AM
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No his biggest issue was being a fucking loser doomscrolling coomer with no friends and no life. Top G Tate is highly autistic and uses it to his advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:56 PM
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more often its mid women with tall/attractive boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:52 PM
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Most guys in our generation are- according to the data. 1/3 have had no interaction with women ever. 1/3 have had minimal sexual interaction with women. Only 1/3 of the men are the ones actually date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:50 PM
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that guy and his friend was pranking you. It sounds like ur on the spectrum and not aware you are being bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:47 PM
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i dont drink or do drugs personally. I dont go to festivals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:29 PM
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What if im low inhibition but all the women around me are high inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:56 PM
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im just a truth teller. Ugly women have more options than attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:07 PM
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Yet you see it all the time. From age 13 the average girl has daddies and pay pigs paying her thousands per month just to get bread crumbs of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:23 AM
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Even obese/ugly girls have 100s of guys fighting over them at any given time. You have to be pretty unattractive to not have men trying to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:05 PM
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yeah because thats where we live and thats the women we interact with every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:33 PM
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That is top cope. Women have higher sex drive than men its just only directed at the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:23 PM
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if thats true you are in the bottom 10 percent of women. Average women get solicited for sex every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:23 PM
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thats because of living in the middle of nowhere like you just said. Living in LA it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:22 PM
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career doesnt affect SMV of women and club owners have high social status. She's actually dating a guy who is out of her league based on this description.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:20 PM
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its not a medical condition, its a neurological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:27 PM
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every time they've studied it the incels are slightly left leaning and tend to vote democrat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:17 PM
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Cope. Elon is a diagnosed autist who is blatantly autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:24 AM
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Can’t stand him
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