On dating apps or to hookup with someone, it seems like women's dating standards are generally higher for hookups than relationships. Like, I only really see the superficial standards on dating apps that Red and Black pilers commonly talk about. On dating apps, these women will only swipe right on:- Over 6 feet
- Over 6 figures (or rich guys)
- 6 pack (Physically fit or highly fit men)
- 6 inches (I've seen women declare they want above-avg pp size on there, yes)
- Ultra-quality photos (IG model level)
- Highly charismatic

This guy is the very 0.000000001% if he exists at all, and even if he does exist at any chance. It is extremely rare that he would pick her, so they end up being single. Yes, I've seen women swipe right on guys who did not check all of these boxes, but they needed to at least have 2 of these at all times. I've literally even seem numerous videos of women filtering for these qualities. I would find more, but some of these videos are like over 30 minutes long.

While for relationships or something more long-term, it usually is:
- At least taller than me (by at least 2-3 inches on average)
- At least makes comparable if not more than me (similar or higher socioeconomic)
- Average size pp (They say it doesn't matter, but I've seen that its usually between "I can't feel anything" and "it hurts")
- In person
- At least average or decent social skills

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I just think that this phenomenon is a bit weird because for men, it is the exact opposite. I don't hookup, but if I did, I don't mind doing it with someone that is not a IG baddie (although preferrable) or flawless. She just has to be reasonable attractive and not batshit crazy. Of course, every man is different. But, I feel like this is pretty consistent with what I've seen with a lot of guys before who would do that. For relationships of course, the standards rise.

I think for relationships, she has to be more attractive than the requirement for a hookup (guys will say they don't matter at a certain point, but I think that's more about priorities, desperation, or settling rather than preference) with the addition of being enjoyable to be around and maternalistically competent (for marriage). But, you get the point. The bar gets higher for men, and it seems to get a bit lower for women, at least initially.

inb4 "because they matured/ they were young and dumb"

Yeah, I know. But, it seems like 30+ year olds and single moms are the same way. They also seem to almost have higher standards than young single women at times.

TLDR: Honestly, just stop after the "----" I guess.