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The big dicks were painful and I couldn’t wait to get it over with. The one small guy was sweet and a great kisser, so no, not awful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:15 PM
2

The ones that were too big/painful, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:57 PM
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Well, duh, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:11 PM
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Define "new".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:00 PM
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Men not being able to get into relationships. How else would one describe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:54 PM
5

I tried 8" and I couldn't even get the tip in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:53 PM
3

Because IME the men who are not as well endowed are self-aware enough to acknowledge this and focus their efforts on non-PIV activities. They make better lovers because they focus on pleasing a woman. Big dick guys think their dick does all the work for them. (Hint: it doesn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:51 PM
5

You let the opinion of one woman affect you so much? We're all different. Just sayin'. I know it's a hard concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:47 PM
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"Relationship crisis" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:44 PM
3

I agree, those are the best. But I need to be deeply emotionally involved with a man for PIV orgasms to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:43 PM
6

I do enjoy a good fingering (with only ONE finger). Sometimes more than oral. Tongue on my clit and one finger on my g-spot will send me into orbit. No dick needed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:36 PM
7

That sounds like a you problem. The one partner I had who was so fucking insecure about his dick size was not for lack of reassurance on my part. It was exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:31 PM
5

I mean, I think I'm in the minority in some respects, because when I tell a new partner "only one finger, please" when they finger me, they sometimes seem confused. Like, two fingers is not pleasant for me ever. Just need one! Also better to hit the g-spot that way IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:27 PM
6

Any reply that doesn't conform to their perceived misconceptions; we're either liars or an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:07 PM
8

Your perfect size is probably not my perfect size. This is something men refuse to grok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:05 PM
2

If that's how you want to interpret what I said, then by all means, IDGAF. IME, men who have been obsessed about their size watched too much porn and were exposed to unrealistic expectations. And yet again, if anybody body shames anybody else, regardless of gender and/or body part, they're an asshole. I don't associate with people who do such a thing. I recommend you shouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:54 PM
4

Men always support each other? GMAFB. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:49 PM
5

I'm sure there are women out there who are assholes. I don't hang out with those kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:47 PM
2

I said I don't do that (nor any woman I know). Clearly I wouldn't be hanging out with your ex-girlfriend, because she sounds like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:46 PM
4

Anybody who body shames other people is an asshole. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:41 PM
3

We have one of those pinned to the top of AskWomenNoCensor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:21 PM
17

That's bullshit. I've never commented on a man's size. Porn is the reason men feel inadequate because it's unrealistic (made by men for men). Your take is of the "terminally online" flavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:17 PM
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Except for men who make it their entire identity, and trust me: that’s not a positive or attractive trait. This. I broke up with a man because of his constant insecurity about his size (no matter how many times I reassured him). His attitude became really toxic and it ultimately led to the demise of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:00 PM
13

If they're above average, they hit my cervix and it hurts and/or it stretches me out too much and it hurts. Simple. Since you seem to be so obsessed with size, I just measured my favorite toy. It's 4".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:28 PM
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Just for funsies, I went back and looked on the website. This is the one. I hopped aboard the NOPE train so fast once I saw it in person and held it in my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:25 PM
7

Also: women aren't the only ones using dildos ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:07 PM
6

I also have a huge range of toys in all kinds of sizes, a set my husband brought had a truly massive one that I can’t use. Reminds me of this one time I bought a dildo off of a website solely based on the description "most popular". IIRC, it was 8". I took that thing out of the package and said to myself: "Nope, that thing isn't going anywhere near my vagina. Too big. Nope." It went straight into the trash. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:02 PM
7

Fat chance! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:54 PM
11

I've never taken a ruler to any man's dick, so I can't give you a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:52 PM
31

The big ones? Yes, they hurt! The one that was "too small", I couldn't feel inside of me. Give me average dick all day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:50 PM
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I honestly don't know why they do it. If they're faking it to get attention, I think it's pathetic. It annoys the crap out of me when men assume I can't lift things and pretend to be chivalrous or use it as an excuse to hit on me. If I need help, I can use my words and ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:49 PM
21

have you actually experienced both a very large and a very small penis before Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:38 PM
4

Again, are we pretending that women have had no role in "bigger is better?" Blame porn for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:24 PM
2

Just women? How far off of the subject can you get? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:10 PM
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They won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:54 PM
3

It makes them better equipped to communicate. IME (as stated previously)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:47 PM
6

IME people who are more educated can communicate and regulate their emotions better. Which is #1 in my book for a successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:56 PM
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And no, it isn't because we are threatened by intelligent women. It's because a woman's degree has zero impact on how good of a partner she will be. Yes, you* are and yes, it does. *generic you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:28 PM
3

Touch grass, dude. The real world isn’t TikTok videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:08 PM
3

We know men have fewer standards. This isn’t exactly news.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:55 PM
2

You go to college to get an education. If your vocabulary is at an eighth grade level, that’s a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:52 PM
1

I turned off my DMs because of too many pervs contacting me. That wasn’t my point, but whatever. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:17 PM
3

Kindness is the reason I fell in love with my boyfriend, even though he wasn’t my type physically (at first).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:08 PM
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Anyway. You're one of those, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:21 PM
1

Not the person I was asking, but ok. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:20 PM
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Lack of your EQ confirmed by this. Stay mad, bro. IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:18 PM
1

Women aren’t going to stop using makeup because of your feefees. You’re just looking to blame your dating woes on something external. Build a bridge and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:51 PM
1

Non sequitur says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:19 PM
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Dude. Makeup has been around for literally thousands of years. It's also a multi-billion dollar industry. But go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:53 PM
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I was asking what your end goal is here. What's the point of this rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:36 PM
2

Every single woman isn't wearing makeup. HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:34 PM
3

I propose due to makeup specifically So what's your angle here? Outlaw makeup? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:28 PM
1

This old chestnut again? Really? lol Women have been wearing makeup since Ancient Egypt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:49 PM
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First off: "jealous rage" ... LMAO. There are a few things wrong with this scenario. I don't shit where I eat (getting involved with a coworker is a no). If that's who he picks over me, then that's his choice. You can't force someone to be with you, no matter how much you might want that scenario. So, what would the purpose of getting upset about it be? Just wasted energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:20 PM
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Clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:15 PM
2

What the hell is this guy smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:56 PM
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You replied to me and then deleted it before I could respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:54 PM
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And you’re a man which means your orgasm was pretty much guaranteed. I wonder if your partners recall those experiences equally “wonderful”. I’d bet my house that they don’t reminisce about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:21 PM
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My parents were immigrants Then you’re just a garden variety hypocrite. (Nice attempt at a dirty delete.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:41 PM
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How many ONS have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:11 PM
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And now onto the second part, casual sex is way too dismissed. So, how many ONS have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:42 PM
6

So? Unless you have Native American blood, your ancestors were immigrants. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:26 PM
3

When I'm not in a relationship, yes! Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:47 AM
9

If being single and celibate is perfectly fine for some women though, having a low libido partner would be functionally the same in terms of sex. Being single and celibate is fine. That doesn't mean I'm not getting myself off regularly. It just means I'm not having sex with a partner. So no, it's not functionally the same. If I'm in a relationship, I want our libidos to be somewhat matched. I'm high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:45 AM
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I don’t think it sounds true at all. If you’re incapable of thinking for yourself, that is disturbing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:35 PM
2

That sounds like a “them” problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I broke up with a guy once because he couldn’t understand that how a man treats me outside of the bedroom directly affects my libido (read: willingness to fuck him). And I’m horny 24x7.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:37 PM
2

In other news: water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:33 PM
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How is it a gotcha? Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:32 PM
6

Because sex is important in a relationship. And yes, I absolutely would rather be single than in a bad relationship. What kind of question is this even?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:27 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:24 PM
12

Why do you care so much about other people’s reproductive choices? Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:23 PM
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My parents were 20 (mother) and 21 (father) when I was born. Yes, I wish they had been older. They were far too emotionally immature to raise a child properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:53 PM
2

Virtue signaling pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:19 PM
5

He gets off either way. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:16 PM
1

You didn't answer my question. How many times have you been cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:17 PM
1

Style and accessories are conscious choices that would qualify as personality. How do you know she doesn't have a stylist who picks out these things for her? (Hint: You don't.) You do know they still make hardback and paperback books. They make them, sure, but who reads hardback books in public anymore? Dancing and hustling in a special way indeed does make you special and is a personality/behavioral trait. Yeah, you see their body moving = appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:11 PM
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I don't know how you got that impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:48 PM
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Funny how these sort of videos you describe don't show up on my feed. At all. If it were so ubiquitous as you claim, you would think I would see the same amount. No? So, yes, it's your algo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:51 PM
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I fully acknowledge that domestic violence exists and is not a gendered thing. But if you're being inundated with such videos, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:34 PM
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A good start would be referring to us as women and not "females". HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:30 PM
1

accessory = appearance style = appearance she's dancing with rhythm = tells you absolutely nothing about her personality she's reading a good book = if you're getting close enough to see what I'm reading on my Kindle, that's fucking creepy she's helping a child tie their shoes = utterly banal and tells you nothing about her other than she knows how to tie shoes lol she's laughing in an adorable way = tells you nothing about her There's more to what women are than physical appearance. It's unfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:25 PM
2

Duh, of course not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:08 PM
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her unique grace, style, vibe, interesting accessory, communication-style, behavior, etc. that you find intriguing? How do you know any of these things by just looking at a woman for 5 seconds before you decide to cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:40 PM
1

it was sparked by the sheer number of videos I’ve seen online where women are full-on hitting their boyfriends Fix your algorithm, dude. You're falling for rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:30 PM
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Apples vs. oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:39 PM
1

I’m not taxed less on my income because I’m a woman. So yeah, taxes are gender neutral. HTH Unless you can show me a tax table that differentiates between women and men, because the one I see on the IRS site doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:56 PM
2

Taxes are gender neutral and based on income, not what's between our legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:40 PM
2

As if women don't pay taxes? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:56 PM
1

This society let my body be mutilated as a baby Put the blame squarely on your parents for that one. They could've (and should have) declined circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:46 PM
2

But also, let’s stop framing getting a girlfriend as a reward for good behaviour Let's start with treating women as equals and not some prize to be won.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:09 PM
1

Yes it is true that you have more options nowadays if you just wanna fuck. Plenty of hoes out there. Fucked plenty seemingly way out of my league. That being said if you are looking for LTR or marriage material the choices are almost non existent. Social media and politics fucks with womens brains. The same can be said for the opposite sex. This is not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:28 PM
3

You = generic you (men)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:11 AM
1

Good luck with that, mate 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:56 PM
1

Yeah, I want them to pass a law so that I can lift as heavy as my male counterparts at the gym. Guess what? It’s never gonna happen. Sperm leaves his body. His choice is over. Sperm is now in her body, she decides what happens. How is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:52 PM
0

Once the sperm has left the man's body, he's not in control of it anymore. Game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:42 PM
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Biology isn't fair. This has been well-established. Every fucking time we have these "discussions". If only there were a method that could contain the sperm. Hmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:36 PM
1

You. Are. Responsible. For. Your. Baby. Making. Batter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:09 PM
3

Finally, you get it. Problem solved. Once the sperm is deposited, men’s choice is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:31 PM
2

Don't fuck women you don't trust. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:22 PM
5

Consent to sex, and ejaculation is not consent to pregnancy. Wrong. You are consenting to the possibility of pregnancy when you decide where to deposit your sperm. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:20 PM
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But if you’re clear from even before the existence of a pregnancy I don’t see why any man should be on the financial hook. He went raw. Fuck around and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:51 PM
5

No, it really doesn't make sense to me, but I stopped caring about it and didn't ask any more questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:46 PM
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Better get yourself an AI girlfriend, then. You can't control what your partner thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:41 PM
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Sure, so you're ok with her fantasizing about other men, just not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:34 PM
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As a straight man I want to be in a long term relationship with an actual straight woman who is just as attracted to me as I am to her but it seems like they are a minority. Even if you find such a woman, what makes you think she won't be attracted to other men? What's your hangup about this hypothetical woman finding other women attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:23 PM
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That's what the Kinsey Scale is all about. It's been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:12 PM
5

Nope. You're cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:09 PM
1

He decides where he's going to deposit the sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:08 PM
0

Why is there one of these super defensive age gap posts every other day here. For the same reason there's one of those paternity testing posts in here every other day. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:13 PM
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No it’s not. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:48 AM
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but that ignores the real issue: in many places, they don’t even have the legal right to test their own child without the mother’s consent 5 out of 195 countries is not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:40 PM
-2

... and why wouldn't we? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:42 PM
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Sure it does. Do you not have bodily autonomy? (Hint: Yes, you do.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:22 PM
-1

It's really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:28 PM
1

This is patently untrue in the U.S. Look up the Hyde Amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:27 PM
6

What are you, the comment police?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:33 PM
1

Of course you are going to cherry-pick whatever highlights your confirmation bias and ignore the rest. Typical. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:25 AM
2

Which is why so many men don't bother reading profiles before swiping right and when confronted about that say: "I ain't got time for that!" https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1iymzfk/ill_answer_the_why_dont_men_read_our_profiles/ This puts the mental workload on the women because the guy can't be arsed to read a bio while taking his morning dump. And we say: "No, thank you."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:49 PM
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Wtf dude just jackoff and shut up, it's not as complicated as you are making it out to be I'd like to give this more than one upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:50 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:03 PM
2

That's your opinion and it affects my paycheck/bank account not one bit, so IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:43 PM
4

Yeah, because it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:36 PM
2

If your intentions are to prove the hospital didn't switch babies on you, testing the MOTHER and the baby is proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:40 PM
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Oh, boo hoo. You're "looked down upon"? Who gives a shit? Date you who want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:26 PM
2

Don't waste your breath. He's convinced of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:24 PM
2

If you test the mother and the baby in case there's a swap at the hospital, you're not accusing her of infidelity. Just get it and don’t mention it Then what the hell was this post even about? Soothing your paranoia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:16 PM
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If that's your real concern (which it's not, but ok), you can test the mother. In the US, there are multiple fail-safes in place now to prevent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:57 PM
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If the baby’s swapped at the hospital is that infidelity? That doesn't happen anymore (at least in the US) and even if you really wanted to check for that, you can test the mother, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:45 PM
1

Believe what you want, since that's what you're going to do anyway. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:39 PM
1

Yeah, I think you misread something. Like I said: relationship guy is hotter than hookup guy, because relationship guy is the whole package and not just occasional fun like the hookup guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:13 PM
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confirms paternity not fidelity It's one and the same, buddy. You can't have one without the other. You can't "confirm paternity" without accusing your partner of infidelity. Just because you don't "accept the premise" doesn't mean it isn't so. You're not being logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:09 PM
2

So you agree that it's not MOST.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:00 AM
1

but most women regularly snoop through their husband’s phone. Source? Nobody I know does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:50 AM
2

YES, a paternity test IS an expression of distrust. So we agree. That was what my comment was about since OP stated he didn't understand why that was the case. In every thread on paternity testing there are invariably women arguing that unless a man has a good reason, a paternity test is an expression of distrust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:32 AM
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I don't know what country you live in, but in the U.S. the baby doesn't leave the delivery room without it and the mom getting matching ID bracelets. Baby switching is practically unheard of nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:01 AM
1

That doesn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:57 PM
8

I don’t accept the premise that undertaking a paternity test is an accusation of infidelity. As they say: Facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:56 PM
2

Red herring, but ok. How is asking for a paternity test anything other than an expression of distrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:53 PM
7

This has to do with paternity tests, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:44 PM
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If a women has a "go bag", she has doubts about her safety.* If a man wants a paternity test, he has doubts about her faithfulness. It's a wash in my book. (*aside from the fact that everybody should have a "go bag" if they live in an area that is prone to natural disasters)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:35 PM
2

They're just pointing out the incongruency between being "ok" with a paternity test, but not wanting anyone to find out about it as it would reflect poorly on her (in her opinion). I don't know where you're getting the idea that they're offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:30 PM
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Those mean different things. This is certifiably whackadoodle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:20 PM
6

Well, I'm glad that paternity tests exists to calm your paranoia, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:04 PM
2

Yeah, I agree ... it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:00 PM
13

Can you not imagine a man who has 0 jealousy issues due to the paternity test? No. I cannot. Or if he wants one you imagine him to be more jealous in all scenarios? If the man I were to (hypothetically) have a baby with wanted a paternity test, I would take that as an accusation of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:55 PM
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Those type of women are also not trying to date me, so again, IDGAF about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:46 PM
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I mean, I wouldn't date that type of guy, much less have a child with him. I had one unreasonably jealous boyfriend in this lifetime. That was enough. I don't know any woman (or man) who wouldn't take offense to being accused of being unfaithful for no reason. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:41 PM
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I don't associate with those types of women, so IDGAF about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:34 PM
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And if you inform your partner before you start conceiving that you'll be requiring a paternity test in case of pregnancy, then you're golden. But do I believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child? No, I do not. It's definitely a sign of paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:33 PM
18

What else is it other than an expression of distrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:29 PM
28

In every thread on paternity testing there are invariably women arguing that unless a man has a good reason, a paternity test is an expression of distrust. Duh. What else is it other than an expression of distrust? You want the test? You pay for it. If it's so simple, easy, and cheap, just do it. I honestly can't understand the handwringing you guys do around this. Unless you live in France, it's easy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:24 PM
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Dude. After seeing some of your responses I don't think there's any way to explain it to you that you'll understand. Maybe someone else will have the patience. I don't. I don't date or fuck men I'm not attracted to. They're either attractive to me, or not. My FwBs are attractive to me, and if they had the other qualities that I require for a relationship, we would be in a relationship. Being an FwB is a failure to reach those metrics for being a guy I want to be in a relationship with. Unless of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:16 PM
3

🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:10 PM
6

Nope. They're just not relationship material for whatever reason. FwB = attractive to me + compatible in the bedroom Relationship guy = attractive to me + compatible in and outside of the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:04 PM
6

FwBs are not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:22 PM
1

What part of "women don't just want a rando to stick their dick into them"* do you not understand? We don't need apps for that. I could go down to the local watering hole on any given night and get laid within the hour. However, my chances of actually reaching orgasm are 100 times higher with my vibrator. *no matter how attractive he thinks she is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:04 PM
7

That's what Grindr is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:56 PM
3

Did you not see the /s? Men will fuck a warm loaf of bread and you wonder why women aren't falling over themselves because some rando thinks they're fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:44 PM
1

Yes, dating. As in: more than just a fuck. Humble awakening? WTF? All women know that "likes" on OLD are worth shit. That's why they ditch dating apps fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:37 PM
2

I fired up FB dating just for fun yesterday and within a few hours I got plenty of "likes" to scroll through. One guy seemed great and his profile checked a lot of my boxes! Woohoo! Then I scroll down ... his response to the prompt "My goal for 2025:"? To have sex at least once. Really? You're going to lead with that? Total turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:23 PM
2

They trip up eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:15 PM
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This entire sub is full of men complaining about not having the dating and sexual lives they want. This is never taken as a reflection of their own "unrealistic standards," it's largely espoused as a reflection of women's. I have to say I'm terribly amused (but not surprised) at how many men ITT completely missed the point of your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:28 PM
1

He didn't go on the dates that were arranged or move the messaging off the app to texting. That's usually when the mask comes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:09 PM
1

Explain that He didn't go on the dates. That's when the mask comes off for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 PM
3

Oh, no! Free will! The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:57 PM
3

Are those the percentages du jour? It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the female OkCupid users in this sample group rated 80% of the men in the group as "below average" in looks, they messaged the men on a normal bell curve, whereas while the male users rated women's looks on a normal bell curve, they only messaged the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:55 PM
6

Oooh, yeah ... I wanna be used as a human masturbation sleeve. Doesn't that sound like fun? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:45 PM
4

Are you seriously asking why someone with the same passion/niche hobby would be more attractive to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:37 PM
5

I do think that low effort from men is a symptom of the problem rather than the cause. No. Suicide swipers are not using the apps as intended. You're only supposed to swipe right on people you would actually consider dating. They are the problem and they ruined OLD for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:35 PM
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Instantly had 50 likes. Most men on the apps swipe right on anything that breathes. Getting likes as a woman means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:50 PM
3

If it's so prevalent and prominent (as you claim), surely there must be at least one publication you can name?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:45 PM
0

His comment would be considered "concern trolling". I was making fun of it. Yes! No need for strawmanning here (which is another phrase you guys use in this sub willy nilly, like gaslighting.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:43 PM
0

No, I meant his real reason was out of concern for women, which is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:16 PM
1

Which entitlement in particular are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:05 PM
1

Why do women need a taller man to feel "small and feminine"? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do men need a woman with smooth, shaved, hairless legs? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do women need a man who makes more money than them? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do men need a woman who is "gentle and submissive"? It doesn't matter. That's their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:57 PM
7

Which magazines are "hectoring" men into changing their beauty preferences for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:55 PM
2

If men made better choices, then "post nut clarity" wouldn't exist. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:29 PM
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openly and loudly criticizing men's beauty standards has been prominent in mainstream discourse as long as I have been capable of long-term memory Oh, like "hitting the wall" and being called "landwhales" (or fat chicks, in your case)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:26 PM
6

This again? Hasn't this topic been beaten to death in the last couple of weeks already?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:22 PM
1

More like: Quit complaining about the "monster" that the simps created and don't date them (but you won't, because you'll do anything to get your dick wet). *generic you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:19 PM
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after decades of men constantly being hectored that they need to critically examine their physical preferences Who's hectoring anybody? WTF? You (generic you) don't want to be with a woman who is overweight, then don't. Simple as. The whole "body positivity movement" is rooted in marketing. Most brands have promoted this because it aligns with profit, not altruism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:16 PM
3

Are these "feminists" in the room with us right now? Who's putting a gun to your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:05 PM
3

People are allowed to have whatever preferences they want. Whether you think they’re shallow or not, has no bearing on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:43 PM
3

Oh, sure! That’s the real reason. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:00 PM
6

“Shallow” is subjective. There is no universal punch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:46 PM
8

How is it beneficial to “all of us”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:33 PM
2

Keep wasting your time, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:02 PM
3

Yet again: What does that "like" get you if there's zero chance to get an actual date out of it because you didn't read her bio to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:54 PM
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if all men updated their bio , wouldn’t that significantly decrease the number of profiles women can read through? I would never swipe right on a guy with a blank bio or "just ask", so it's all the same to me. I know a lot of women do the same. Why would I swipe right on someone based on a picture alone? That's the whole point of a dating app is to get a bit of info on them before starting a conversation to see if you have basic compatibility. Otherwise, it's just the equivalent of cold approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:57 PM
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if they don't match back it does not matter what you do If women leave the apps prematurely because they have to wade through so much bullshit/suicide swipers, there are fewer women who will potentially match with you. You're shooting yourselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:22 PM
3

Are you new to this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:17 PM
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Better to match, start a conversation and waste both of your time when you find out your're incompatible because of the things you should have put in your bio. Makes sense. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:16 PM
5

And that's not the point of a DATING app. It's to find people you actually want to DATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:13 PM
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It does affect me as a woman because it drove me (and many other women) off the dating apps. It hurts men too because as a result, there are fewer women to choose from on the apps. Likes/matches are meaningless to women anymore because we know you swipe on anything that breathes, so it's not special anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:05 PM
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I'm not your "love". What does "engagement" do for you if there's 0% chance it will turn into an actual date, which is the whole reason of being on a DATING app. A one second dopamine hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:43 PM
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"Engagement" with women you're not compatible with and/or you wouldn't want to date anyway after you READ THE PROFILE is fucking worthless. Don't you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:14 PM
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Yup. It's a slog. That's why most women don't stay on the apps that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:52 PM
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Suicide swipers like you have ruined OLD. Full stop. The only way I can see dating apps having any kind of relevance again is to force users to only swipe right on the people they are actually willing to explore dating options. Swipe rate % should be visible to everyone and you should be able to filter on it. If a guy suicide swipes and then unmatches within (insert whatever short period of time) of the woman matching (because he only then reads her bio), you should get kicked off the platform. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:31 PM
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And women get frustrated with suicide swipers and leave the apps prematurely, leaving you even fewer chances of finding someone. You guys are shooting yourselves in the foot Good job, Ace!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:23 PM
1

Verbal consent still happens wtf? I’m just not signing a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:43 AM
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Yeah, who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:31 PM
2

Guys who suicide swipe have ruined OLD for everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:25 PM
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If I take the time to read every single profile It would take me 20 minutes. The horror! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:31 PM
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99% chance the person who swiped on me didn't actually read my bio. They are likely incompatible with me over something they didn't add in their bio, so I wasn't aware of when I swiped on them (ex. didn't mention in their bio that they are Catholic, Conservative, Pro-Life, etc). This is my main reason as well. It just gets to be a real PITA to sort through that bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:14 PM
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So how do you explain that I don’t find any of my girlfriends’ partners sexually attractive and vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:18 AM
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Yes, but … women’s attraction is very subjective. That’s what these “stats” don’t account for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:00 PM
2

I do a silent retreat once a year. I highly recommend it! I can give you recommendations if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:44 PM
1

I would agree that "some" is not "most". Maybe you watch different porn that I do, but the amount of women I've seen in porn who were authentically into it is in the single digit percentage range.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:32 PM
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Be more honest about the dating world. Don't give platitudes. Just say straight up that you expect a guy with abs Dude, the abs thing is in your head. Out of all the women I've been friends with only one has been very specific about being attracted to a man with a gym bod. This is not as universal as you're making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:26 PM
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Good! Leave me tf alone when I'm working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:04 PM
3

You said "many", not "all".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:09 AM
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No, many women actually are orgasming in porn. And if you believe this, I have some oceanfront property in Arizona to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:13 PM
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Good for him. All for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:43 PM
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ChatGPT says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:09 AM
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“As a woman myself” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:39 PM
7

who’s to say they don’t have any savings from their parents? What color is the sky on your planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:18 PM
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Ah, yes, that’s right. I forget y’all get your information from Reddit, TikTok, and YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:31 AM
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I’ve heard of way too many stories of women secretly thinking of and desiring that one guy from their past who was just “way better” Where have you “heard” this so many times?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:36 PM
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I would never combine finances again. I have my money. He has his. He makes about 1/4 of what I do, so expenses are split accordingly. To make things simple, we sat down and added up the regular household expenses (average) and he just transfers his 25% of it to me once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:09 PM
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What is this "shattered dreams" bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:19 PM
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We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:02 AM
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I was referring to the "2 months' salary" (now 3 months') guideline. That was directly attributed to the De Beers marketing campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:28 PM
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But the reason for that tradition is patriarchal. The reason is because De Beers flooded the market with a massive marketing campaign ("A Diamond Is Forever") starting in the late 40s and they promoted the (back then) 2 months' salary guideline. Before then, diamonds weren't the default choice for engagement rings. The whole wedding industrial complex is a racket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:04 PM
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I just skip to lying about having a boyfriend now. Saves time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:22 PM
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Only after I lied to him about having a boyfriend. Otherwise he would've kept cajoling me. Like I owe him a date because he told me that I'm attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:59 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:53 PM
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Guy: You're so gorgeous! Can I get your number? Me: Thanks, I'm not interested. Guy: But why??? I'm a great guy!!! Once you get to know me ... Me: Thanks, but I'm not interested. Guy: Just a cup of coffee! Me: Thanks, but I'm not interested. Guy: I'm really a great guy! I'll treat you like a princess! Just go out with me once! Me: (lying) I have a boyfriend. Guy: Oh. Well, why didn't you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:52 PM
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Clearly you've never been cold approached by a guy who won't take "no" for an answer until you say "I have a boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:34 PM
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Just matching your energy, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:43 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:39 PM
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I walked out on a guy once who took me to dinner at a high end restaurant (that usually takes weeks to get a reservation). He kept snapping his fingers at the server and acting like a jerk towards the staff while being "sweet" to me. I left after the appetizers. He was flabbergasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:27 PM
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Yeah, they will never understand this. I can go on date with a "hot" guy, but if he's rude to the wait staff, my attraction will evaporate as quickly as a drop of water on a hot sidewalk in Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:15 PM
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I get so fucking tired of the word "gaslighting" being tossed around so casually and completely overused (particularly in this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:05 PM
3

Something that I've noticed when browsing the TwoXChromosomes subreddit Well, there's your problem right there ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:41 PM
3

Did you really just “well, akshually” me. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:31 PM
2

My answer was pertaining to "what is actually gross"; nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:24 PM
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No. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:12 PM
4

So its about deeper research on what actually is 'gross' . This is something that is highly subjective. You can't quantify it on an objective scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:07 PM
7

I am also solidly in the "0 fucks given" camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:01 PM
2

I'll never suck your dick, so your opinion on this matters less than 0 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:51 PM
2

Why do you feel compelled to disclose this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:15 PM
0

You're surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:24 PM
2

Blowjobs provide zero pleasure for the woman Maybe for some women, but not this one. Degradation has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:22 PM
1

I love garden gnomes! What does that have to do with me paying more taxes than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:17 PM
-4

Dream on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:50 PM
-1

How about it's none of your business?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:40 PM
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It’s destroying heterosexual relationships. It's really not. Mountains out of molehills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:09 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:11 PM
2

Stacy values her Gucci purses highly and suffers emotionally when she can't get the newest one. I have 0 empathy for that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:52 PM
0

IMO, Bush won in 88 because he was WASP-ier and Dukakis was a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:55 PM
1

Hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:52 PM
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Hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:52 PM
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No. He said men need to raise their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:34 PM
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Because he doesn't understand why women aren't drooling over his 6-pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:32 PM
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Nah, I’ve been reading your comments to other people ITT. Unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:06 PM
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Why would consensual matter? Dude. What are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:51 PM
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A lot of guys want kids like a 5 y/o wants a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:47 PM
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Deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:44 PM
2

Stock prices surged, especially in the private prison sector. Along with Energy (because Trump wants to "drill, baby, drill" on protected federal land). Trump will ride the coattails of the Biden economy just like he did after Obama. And he'll take credit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:25 PM
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Women LOVE elon musk, saying he is the hottest man on earth usually. Along with Donald Trump, who women absolutely can NOT get enough of. You've GOT to be kidding me. I can feel a gag reflex coming on just thinking about those assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:13 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:45 PM
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This is not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:13 PM
0

JFC. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:57 PM
1

When it comes to humans in our infinite variety and emotions? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:50 PM
0

How would you describe the color "purple" to a blind person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:50 PM
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I think what both sexes do need to apologize for is an unwillingness to compromise. Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:00 PM
2

In what world is 1/3 a "majority"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:56 PM
5

Are you visually impaired?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:53 PM
1

You can't tell me that seeing the Grand Canyon on TV or just a picture of it is better than experiencing it IRL. It's a whole new dimension when you're taking it in with all of your senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:37 AM
3

Hard disagree. Observed vs. lived experiences are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:49 AM
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So how would one calculate these years? Contiguous? Longest relationship? Time served? Ratio of years single vs. in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:54 AM
2

Me too. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:49 AM
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I think it's kind of rare in any context to help others without getting some gratification out of it She might get some "warm fuzzies" from helping out as you would when you volunteer at a soup kitchen, but an orgasm? Highly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:16 PM
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Because the guy is pretty much guaranteed an orgasm. The woman "helping" out the guy? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:07 PM
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Single motherhood is an insidious form of child abuse I'm filing this under: "Most ridiculous claims on PPD"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:23 PM
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Nope. They hate single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:01 PM
2

There's 2 million or so people waiting to adopt healthy, white infants in the US. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:59 PM
6

An embryo is not a child. Here's proof: 1) Putting a baby in a freezer would kill it 2) Freezing an embryo preserves it Ergo, an embryo is not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:56 PM
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I'm a little skeptical that pro-lifers and single mom haters are the same people. I'm not sure where you live, but in the Southern US, they are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:40 PM
3

Because they're not having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:07 PM
6

Oh, this I gotta hear. lol Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:11 AM
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Nope. I make my own money tyvm. That’s not what I want a man for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:14 PM
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Wow. What great relationships you must have. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:08 PM
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So you think women are sex dispensers? Insert money, get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:04 PM
1

I mean, if all you want is a brood mare, hire yourself a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:52 PM
1

Yeah, I don’t believe that your “friends” think that women rate most men as a 1. That’s a dead giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:43 AM
1

Maybe not to you ... makes perfect sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:04 PM
1

According to women the average man is a 1. According to men the average woman is a 5 or 6. I have friends, I interact with people. You have some strange "friends", then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:22 PM
1

It means you're being vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:29 PM
1

That’s about as clear as a foggy mirror in a steam room.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:47 PM
1

Well sex isnt a mutual activity, its enjoyed by men, and tolerated by women. Jesus take the wheel!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:44 PM
0

I see a lot of unhappy women with the current dating environment Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:40 PM
4

This needs to be copy/pasted in just about every post in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:51 PM
1

Men who are discussing sex online are obviously self-selecting. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:47 PM
1

I don’t know why you perceived that as an insult. It was an honest question. How else can you know that “most men” prioritize pleasing their partners first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
1

most men prioritise satisfying their partner first Oh, really? How many men have you had sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:14 PM
1

He was hailed as a hero in the incel community
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:25 PM
1

I’m sure some MAGAts will make you out to be a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:23 PM
0

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:41 PM
2

Right? In what world?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:40 PM
2

I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:33 PM
5

Women don't suicide swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:20 PM
4

We also see how many women have sexualized Luigi Maglione because he is muscular. It's not because he is muscular, FFS. It's because he is conviction driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:19 PM
5

Eh, if he really only had 2 weeks to live, I'd maybe give him a pity fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:51 PM
11

The "study" you're talking about was an OkCupid blog post about data they took from a group of users of their dating site in 2009. You have to use the Wayback Machine to pull up the original post which doesn't list anything about sample size or sample selection or experiment methods. So, "study" is already generous. And here is the quote from that original blog post: And here's a TechCrunch article explaining the data from that same survey again: So, the "study" itself points out that while the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:38 PM
3

Dude. Nobody cares about your 6-pack. I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:37 PM
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The "study" you're talking about was an OkCupid blog post about data they took from a group of users of their dating site in 2009. You have to use the Wayback Machine to pull up the original post which doesn't list anything about sample size or sample selection or experiment methods. So, "study" is already generous. And here is the quote from that original blog post: And here's a TechCrunch article explaining the data from that same survey again: So, the "study" itself points out that while the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:30 PM
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Women also perceive most men as below average as per Okcupid. For the love of all that is holy, will you guys quit quoting this shit? It was a blog post from over 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:27 PM
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Me too! He's so my type, it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:10 PM
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Tom Cruise, objectively? Yeah, he's a movie star. Subjectively? Yuck to me. I would've fucked Goose over Maverick in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:15 PM
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Who is this "we all"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:10 PM
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Take Johnny depp, feminists lost their shit when a man who was falsely accused dared DARED to have his day in court. This is not a "feminist" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:01 PM
5

This has happened over a dozen times. Over a dozen? Suuuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 PM
1

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:43 PM
0

Only women is poly and getting sex. The dude is just watching That's not how polyamory works, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:38 PM
9

There is NO third option where you are both perfectly equal, and in reality does not exist either. Have you ever been in a relationship before? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:08 PM
-1

Have you guys never heard of the Kinsey scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:07 PM
1

Get back to me when women masturbate to pictures of Warren Buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:18 PM
1

Since you can't use the search function, apparently. Here. It's all here: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1hsm6yn/q4w_how_common_is_it_that_women_masturbate/ Which is the post I was referencing in my original comment ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:16 PM
1

What? Sorry, I was too busy rubbing one out to a picture of Warren Buffet. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:50 PM
2

The whole thing was debated in full in the thread that I referenced. I have no desire to rehash the whole thing. Avail yourself of the search bar. It wasn't about "how men experience sex", it was specifically about "what men/women think about when they masturbate to porn". Know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:39 PM
1

Sure. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:06 PM
1

Believe what you want dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:02 PM
1

Women are not sexually excited by a stack of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:50 PM
2

A guy can see the back side of a chick (just her ass) and without seeing her face or knowing ANYTHING AT ALL about her. Know whether he wants to fuck her. Yes, we are well aware that some men will fuck anything with a pulse. What else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:57 PM
1

One of my FWBs requested the Abella Danger fleshlight for Xmas. Not sure if it's because he likes her or because it closely resembles my lady bits. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:54 PM
0

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:26 AM
1

I don’t study porn or how men consume it. Why should I? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:23 AM
2

That’s not how I experience porn when I masturbate. Nor do most women. As was evidenced in the post/thread that I referenced. Did you not see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:15 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:52 PM
2

Around just 30 years ago, porn was mainly in magazines or VHS tapes you’d have to go out and buy. Oh, you sweet summer child ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:47 PM
2

More like women are underdiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:45 PM
2

"Logical" gender in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:38 PM
2

Like I said, get yourself a uterus and you too can partake!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:36 PM
2

Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:32 PM
1

If you get yourself a uterus and get knocked up, you too can (maybe) avail yourself of an abortion!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:31 PM
-1

Because their reproductive choice doesn't end when they decide where to deposit their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:29 PM
4

What if she's happy to have sex every day, but isn't into the stuff he gets off to in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:07 PM
0

Rookie mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:57 PM
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Personally, IDGAF if my partner watches porn as long as it doesn't interfere with our sex life (which has only happened once). That being said, in light of the recent "object of desire" discussion when masturbating, if I were a jealous person, I could see this being an issue for me perhaps? It seems that (at least from what most men described in this sub) when men are masturbating to porn they are fantasizing about fucking the actual woman on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:55 PM
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Retroactive jealousy is toxic. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:47 PM
4

Why are you raw dogging women you can't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:44 PM
1

Why are you fucking women you can't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:44 PM
1

Why are you fucking women you can't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:44 PM
8

Another day, another "paper abortion" debate on PPD! How many ways can they re-brand this? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:46 PM
1

You think beautiful women get things given to them for no reason at all, eh? Dude, I'm from Miami and did modeling on the side in my late teens and 20s. There wasn't a man out there who wanted to give me anything without expecting anything in return. But my original point was that you don't know what that hot girl leaving the gym in her beater car has in her bank account. There's nothing wrong with a car that's 15 years old. Maybe she just doesn't give a shit about cars as long as it drives well…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:47 AM
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Oh, you're one of those. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
1

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:33 AM
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You didn't read the original comment I made that you replied to? That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:32 AM
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I was in my 20s and 30s when I drove a "beater" car.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:18 AM
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I know this may seem foreign to you, but some people really only see cars as a method of transportation to get them from point A to point B reliably. I'll bet you that woman driving a "beater" doesn't have a car payment. Some of us also value being debt free over showing off for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:27 PM
1

Lol it's not about what I understand Lol then have a miscarriage yourself and see if that helps your understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:50 PM
1

Yes. They are mourning the potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:14 PM
1

Reread the title of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:04 PM
1

Thanks for mansplaining my own thoughts to me. So refreshing! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:55 PM
5

The way you describe it makes it sound like this mechanical process. Like oop, one sec, lemme just hit my orgasm button. That's exactly what masturbation is to me. "Enjoying the sunset" is for when I'm having sex with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:18 PM
5

Sorry, that's not making any sense to me. People have to work. We're not together 24x7. Depending on our schedules, sometimes we can only get together once or twice a week. They are FWBs. The value of our relationships is sex, essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:14 PM
5

I mean, if I know I'm seeing one of my guys that evening, I'll most likely hold off and save it for later, but when you get that itch, sometimes you gotta scratch it to get on with things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:03 PM
11

I can rub one out in under 5 minutes and get on with my day. Guaranteed orgasm. Some rando from Tinder? LOLOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:58 PM
8

You're kidding. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:44 PM
4

unwanted confessions of "I jerked it to your vacation photos" in my inboxes You just reminded me of one of my favorites: "You don't know how many times I've jerked off to your LinkedIn profile pic ..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:57 PM
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If I tell him that masturbating vs. having sex with another human are two entirely different experiences, his mind will be blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:19 PM
1

Yeah, but this one really takes the cake. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:42 PM
13

Yeah, that's some Red Pill delulu he's got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:31 PM
9

Now see, you are compartmentalizing. It's not just when masturbating. You're trying to tell me how my own thoughts and body works? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:29 PM
3

I mean, I still feels good, but it's more of a "means to an end".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:11 PM
6

We're trying to understand your comment, so why don't you explain it? It's not about the man; it's about the scene, the feeling. When masturbating, yes. What seems to be the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:57 PM
1

women need to lower their standards Good luck with that, buddy! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:50 PM
5

Wow, you've never been to France have you? Clearly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:46 PM
6

It's not an object or person that I'm thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:35 PM
7

We're not saying that we don't think about anything while masturbating, just that it doesn't center around an "object of desire" or thinking of a specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:15 PM
6

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:09 PM
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and sometimes it's just about getting rid of an urge. That's exactly what it is. I masturbate to get rid of the horny feeling and to be able to concentrate on something else and get on with the rest of my day. No, I do not have an "object of desire" in mind when I'm rubbing one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:19 PM
4

You couldn't waterboard that information out of my friends. Same the other way around, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:15 PM
2

"But I planned for the date and everything." This one's always a head scratcher for me. How hard is it to make a reservation at a restaurant? So exhausting! Amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:49 PM
1

Probably because very rich women are rare because ... patriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:14 AM
8

As a woman who dates men, I agree with his comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:59 PM
0

Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:57 PM
0

So you don't enjoy spending time with this other person and just see getting access to her pussy as some kind of reward for your "hard work"? That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:29 PM
2

"Work harder"? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:44 PM
1

They want her to be frigid and non-sexual with every other man in her life, but then turn into open and unrestricted sexuality exclusively for him. Which makes no sense, that’s not how it works, but this is all beside the point. Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:42 PM
2

For a hookup only? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:41 PM
-2

https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/is-there-a-single-young-male-crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:56 PM
-6

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:53 PM
-4

https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/is-there-a-single-young-male-crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:52 PM
5

So, it’s nebulous af. Thanks for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:52 PM
1

Like that shit doesn’t get posted here on a daily basis. 😂 You left out major details, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:35 PM
1

You and me both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:30 PM
4

What is this “popularity”? Amongst whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:30 PM
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Also "none of your g-d business".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:52 PM
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It's almost like you intentionally took the statement in the worst faith way possible. Welcome to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:11 PM
6

Free birth control and sex ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:08 PM
1

it has nothing to do with turning women into "products" Why not offer "men's night" then with free drinks for the guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:19 PM
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"elective and unspecified reasons" = none of your g-d business why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:08 PM
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I think in heterosexual relationships, men will mentally check out of their marriages, but won’t actually file for divorce because it seems like too much effort, having a wife (even if they’re not into her) still benefits them, and/or they don’t want to break up the family or disentangle the finances. So women get fed up and end up doing the filing more often. Yup. And they don't want to look like "the bad guy" for breaking up the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:24 PM
3

How did you get THAT from what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:10 PM
5

Being taxed up the wahzoo is better than having to fuck, marry, or have a child with an ugly, repulsive, socially inept incel. Or any of these leftover 40+ men that no one wants. I'm wincing right now just thinking about it. You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:44 PM
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Another option is to borrow from the 6% regressive head tax levied on childless women, the Soviet tax, but apply it to all older women who refuse to marry or remarry. You can fuck right off with that. Another option is to drastically reduce all retirement benefits for women (and women only), unless they are in opposite-sex marriages or opposite-sex common-law relationships. And you can fuck off even more with this one. And when you get there, fuck off from there too. Then fuck off some more. Kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:57 PM
0

Men should stop treating TikTok and YouTube as legitimate sources for information. Go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:51 PM
1

Apparently people don't know "this one simple trick" of using a different browser when watching porn. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:52 PM
1

You forgot the toothpick legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:04 PM
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It was a riff on all of the guys in this sub who claim that single moms with shitty baby daddies "didn't vet properly".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:41 PM
2

she was never great about knowing when she's ready to take a dick This sounds so ... bizarre to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:59 PM
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Curious as to why you'd be in a relationship with a woman you "really weren't that into"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:45 PM
10

So, are you saying he didn't vet properly? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:32 PM
3

A 5’9 man (which is average height) would choose a 5’3 woman over a 5’9 woman. You said: LOL no I said: LOL yes (speaking from experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:31 PM
4

Yeah, I don' t know what Bizarro World you guys live in or where you find these strange women. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:40 PM
0

Red Pill world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:24 PM
7

Yeah but sometimes they clearly do need help and they refuse it. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:21 PM
13

What are these "things" you do for women that make them less attracted to you? Very nebulous. What is "improve the material conditions of the woman"? Sounds super vague. What kind of "help" are you offering that makes women lose attraction to you? Did they ask for help?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:19 PM
4

LOL no. LOL yes, speaking as a 5'9" woman. Also, models are tall because the clothes hang off of their bodies better and they're just props to sell the product (clothing).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:12 PM
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Most people women don’t orgasm from hookup sex. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:57 PM
2

Or support free birth control for everybody along with sex education programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:29 PM
1

Ok, so if the woman went on one date and they started calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend and she got pregnant ... vs. the woman got pregnant from a guy who was a random hookup at a club That would make a difference to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:40 PM
3

If they are calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend and are exclusive, then it's a relationship There's nothing stopping two people from calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend after one date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:32 PM
7

Blasphemer! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:19 PM
1

Yes, as the higher earner, I cover more expenses. When I'm living with a partner, I generally split expenses based on the percentage of combined income (roughly).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:12 PM
1

as long as she didn't have the child through some kind of casual sex or FWB situation So, I'm curious. What would be the acceptable length of relationship with the father of the child be "appropriate" for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:09 PM
2

Sure, Jan. More likely, your "jokes" are inappropriate for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:07 PM
1

Regardless of income, both cohabiting parties are responsible for household maintenance, *unless otherwise agreed upon**.* As the higher earner, I'm more able to hire outside help to do some of my share, but that doesn't mean the party who earns less is more responsible for household maintenance, unless otherwise agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:05 PM
1

Say Jon and Jane were in a serious, long term relationship. They each work exactly 40 hours each per week, but Jane makes 3x the money as Jon. Can Jane be way slower with housework, get way less done since hours are the key? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:54 PM
3

Condoms are 98% effective when used properly. (At least according to the World Health Organization (WHO), the CDC, Planned Parenthood, and the Guttmacher Institute.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:39 PM
2

Why would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:33 PM
6

I would most certainly argue women are easier to offend This is not a gendered thing. Women as a whole are not "easier to offend".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:23 PM
1

Two lies in one comment, even. A two-fer!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:13 PM
9

Not rehashing this for the upteenth time with you, bro. There's a thread on this sub damn near every day about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:08 PM
14

It's very relevant. You could almost call it crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:03 PM
18

Huh. Where is this comment in the near-daily "paper abortion" posts? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:57 PM
9

Only a cotton-headed ninny-muggins! That's who!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:42 PM
1

There is no reason for you to know any more than you already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:00 PM
0

I consider a date a privilege for her. She has one chance to impress me. :snort: Good one, champ!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:28 PM
2

I might even take a date to a cheap burger place just to see how she will react. When a potential date asks for dining preferences, I will often suggest food trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:44 PM
0

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gbz24w/ppd_survey_results/ Mostly young. Mostly inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:01 PM
4

Last time, TRUMP DEPORTED.EVERY.SINGLE.ILLEGAL.... DOESN'T matter their race. That is a bald-faced lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:40 PM
1

Yeah, sure ... uh huh. /me backs away slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:50 PM
1

Just like Trump's "concepts of a plan". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:18 PM
1

The minds of Red Pillers are indeed a scary place. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:14 PM
1

Hilarious, dude :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:05 PM
1

What most men want is those first young 10 years. Do you not read this back to yourself and realize how positively creepy this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:49 PM
1

IME I'd say 6 months tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:44 PM
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Because there's more to sex with another human that just the few seconds of reaching orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:30 PM
4

Yes, it is fair. That's how this democratic republic works (in the US at least). "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:01 PM
1

I'd still go on a date with someone who is a few inches shorter than me if he ticks off some other boxes. It's how they handle themselves when they are "caught" that matters. It usually goes one of two ways: arguing with me about my own height laughing it off and carrying on with the date Guess which one happens most of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:53 PM
1

but if they tell the truth they also won't Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:39 PM
1

That's some grade A bullshit. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:36 PM
1

Dude, you have more issues than Vogue. Maybe go sort that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:05 AM
1

Churches used to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:41 AM
3

Emotional blackmail? WTF? I'm serious. There was a man on this sub very recently advocating to "just let kids starve" if the mother can't afford food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:35 AM
3

There's a world of difference between a childless woman struggling with infertility for something she's wished for all her life and a childfree woman whose worst nightmare is having to birth and rear a child. I don't know why you put childfree in quotes. What is 100% her fault? What will negatively affect her for the rest of her life? Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:32 AM
5

Oh, are you the guy who has been advocating to "just let the kids starve"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:29 AM
1

Duh. You said yourself they're not playing at the same intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:27 AM
7

IDGAF about the study. You were complaining about "having to support people who hate me and don't think of me as a human". Although I highly doubt that any single mother needing government assistance gives you even a nanosecond of thought, much less "hate" you (perhaps projection on your part?). My point was that paying taxes for things you don't agree with is a part of living in this society and it's not limited to your personal ire for single mothers who may need government assistance to feed …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:22 AM
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Clearly the average man is stronger than the average woman. The average woman would not qualify for a job that requires heavy lifting above her means. Neither would a man who couldn't meet the job requirements. Why is this such a hard thing for you people to grasp? A woman and a man doing the same job (where both meet the job requirements) should get paid the same. Why is this such a hard thing for you people to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:57 PM
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Why should a woman have that privilege? Did you skip classes in middle school where they explain how the mechanics of pregnancy work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:03 PM
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So if a wife takes a certain antibiotic because she had bronchitis and it nullifies the efficacy of her birth control, she gets pregnant and the husband doesn't want (another) kid. He should be able to just sign a piece of paper and say "not my problem; I didn't want it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:36 PM
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Can we limit the "paper abortion" posts to one a day? Nothing new is coming out of this one either. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:33 PM
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I don't know anybody IRL who takes in any government assistance to even remotely offset the taxes that they pay, unless you count my friend who lost a parent in the WTC. I too would like the norm of "not having to support costly government policies I don't agree with", but that's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:26 PM
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So would my vote count "more" if I pay more in taxes than most men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:11 PM
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No, wtf? If we have 100 boxes that need moved within an hour. As someone who trains 3-5 times per week at the gym, I'm going to be a lot more effective at it than the scrawny guy who struggles lifting the 30 lb bag of frozen fries at the fast food joint. It's about job qualifications. If you're not qualified to do the job, you don't get the job. Is your skull really that thick?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:51 PM
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Just making stuff up now. Yup. The ever-present red pill fever dreams. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:33 PM
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My great-grandparents loathed each other. They slept in separate bedrooms on the complete opposite sides of the house and avoided each other like the plague unless absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:30 PM
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Seriously, the fact that aqua tofana has recently become a topic of discussion again should give men that think like this a moment of pause. Shhhhhhh. Dammit, don't give all of our secrets away! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:20 PM
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It's sexist to say they shouldn't be given equal rights because of their sex, yes. So, avoiding the question. Gotcha. I'm against paper abortions because both parties involved in making the child should bear responsibility for raising/feeding it. The woman doesn't get pregnant in a vacuum. Where do you draw the line? What about a husband whose wife's BC failed because she was taking antibiotics and she doesn't want to abort and the husband doesn't want the kid? Should he just be able to absolve …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:15 PM
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You are considering a man and woman doing an hour of labour as doing the same amount of labour, it's not. Yes, it is. That's why job requirements exist. Same job. Same pay. It's quite simple, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:55 PM
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Except most work isn't static, some days there will be more, some days there will be less, and therefor it's a benefit to have those that can do physical labour in any of these stages with much better ease. You keep circumventing the issue that if the woman and man are physically capable of doing the same job, they are paid the same (or should be according to most labor laws). That the work isn't static doesn't matter one iota. If the woman is matching the man in physical labor, they get paid th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:30 PM
1

It's not annoying at all because it's a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:18 PM
1

The desire for kids is of course at least partially genetic. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:42 PM
2

Exactly. So we don't just breed mindlessly like other animal species do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:41 PM
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A male nurse with the same experience does not make more than a female nurse. They get paid by skill level. Anything with physical labour can be an aspect, men get paid more. Any job where a man and a woman can physically do the job equally, they should be paid equally. If the scrawny grocery store clerk can't meet the physical requirements to work on an oil rig, is it sexist if they don't hire him? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:38 PM
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Yes, and? What does that have to do with agreeing what should happen in case of an accidental pregnancy prior to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:25 PM
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If a man makes more money doing physical labor that a woman can't physically do, it's not sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:21 PM
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The question is about whether it's sexist. It's not sexist. It's a biological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:06 PM
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Do I look like I give a fuck? I did the responsible thing and fought hard to get sterilized. If you don’t want kids, you should do the same. Then you can have all the recreational sex you want! It’s great. Highly recommend it. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:22 PM
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He’s anti-choice. It’s their typical phrasing. It’s a dog whistle for “women aren’t allowed to enjoy sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:17 PM
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Is it sexist that men without uteri can’t give birth? It’s a biological imbalance due to the nature of pregnancy. It’s not sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:15 PM
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Incorrect on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:33 PM
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Get it in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:20 PM
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I doubt it. A guy who uses the phrase "recreational sex" unironically? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:16 PM
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When men without uteri can become pregnant, I'll be right up front marching with them for their right to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:08 PM
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Fuck around and find out. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:07 PM
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You were the one claiming she was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:07 PM
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I don't know what "recreational sex" has to do with anything, but yes, due to the mechanics of pregnancy your choice ends after the deposit of sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:46 PM
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A man has full control over his reproduction. He decides where to deposit his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:40 PM
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Non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:33 PM
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putting on a condom is already an implicit act of not wanting the woman to get pregnant Absolutely. But condoms are also used to protect from STIs. My original statement ITT: "A man's choice ends when he decides where to deposit his sperm." still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:29 PM
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Men can't get pregnant is a true statement and clearly not sexist. Yeah, I asked the same question. He can't answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:25 PM
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That topic can get tossed on top of the "worn out and beaten to death" pile as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:17 PM
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The fairest solution is for both parties to agree in advance what should happen in case of an accidental pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:16 PM
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Yet it doesn't. If you think abortions (or abortifacients) didn't happen before it was legalized, I've got news for you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:12 PM
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No clue. Can't answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:04 PM
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Is it sexist that men without a uterus can't bear children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:00 PM
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*there, but ok Again, how is it sexist exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:57 PM
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Ok, I'll bite. How is it sexist? Sexism implies discrimination. Is it sexist that men without a uterus can't bear children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:56 PM
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This shit again? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:46 PM
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I'm not shaming her. I said "speak for yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:43 PM
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It's not sexist. It's factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:41 PM
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Where tf is it a "taboo topic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:38 PM
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Men's choice ends when they decide where to deposit their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:26 PM
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Normal chicks don't describe themselves as "hitting the wall" at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:17 PM
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It's not taboo. What utter nonsense. What is swept under the rug are frank discussions about motherhood and what pregnancy can do to a woman's body. It's mostly sugar coated with "Oh, but it's all worth it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:06 PM
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Why should I? Are you paying my regular consulting fee? I’ll be generous and give you a discount. $200/hr and I’ll be your personal research assistant. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:16 PM
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Apparently you don't know what tangible means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:16 PM
2

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:16 PM
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I'm so surprised! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:56 PM
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JFC I'm about out of patience with you. How is it saving you money? Delulu. Actually, you know what? IDGAF anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:57 PM
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My comment was: What tangible benefit would you gain from "not being gaslit"? When you jumped in with your non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:38 PM
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Just be one of those guys who lists their age as "39" and then in the bio state: "Oh, hahaha! I put my age in wrong when I created my bio and I can't change it now! I'm really 63." It's like half of them with "oopsie, wrong age"!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:31 PM
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Then she's not gaslighting you. STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:25 PM
2

How is she gaslighting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:19 PM
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Totally depends on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:16 PM
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She's not gaslighting anybody. She's pretty upfront about what her expectations are. I don't agree with them, but that's not my problem. Again, do you know what gaslighting means? Clearly you don't, so quit using it as a catch-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:14 PM
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She's not gaslighting anybody. Do you know what gaslighting really means? She's pretty upfront about her ... preferences. Demented as I may find them to be. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:10 PM
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Non sequitur says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:03 PM
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So, no answer. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:54 PM
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Said the man ...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:42 PM
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The whole single, childless women over 30 are happier thing is a crock. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:41 PM
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Just playing the same game. It's really all about how he handles it. It's super rare that a guy will shrug it off and be confident about himself and carry on with the date as normal. The other "short kings" try to argue with me about my own height. Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:33 PM
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What tangible benefit would you gain from "not being gaslit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:23 PM
5

IDGAF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:21 PM
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For women to stop lying about the fact that they would rather be an exceptional man's side chick, than their equal's wife Even if this were true (which it's not), what difference would it make to you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:16 PM
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Are you invalidating OP’s experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:47 PM
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Your friend isn’t wrong. I automatically subtract at least 2” from a man’s listed height on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:16 PM
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They already lie about their height. All. The. Time. That’s not a pro tip, that’s a guarantee that there won’t be a second date. I love showing up on a first date in 4” heels as a 5’9” woman and watch them sputter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:13 PM
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So you pulled that 1% out of your butt. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:02 PM
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You asked what the assumption was based on. I gave you a concrete example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:34 PM
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It’s like when you cold approach a woman and she lies and says she “has a boyfriend”. Sometimes we just have to say things to get people to STFU about our highly personal choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:30 PM
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Less than 1%? What orifice did you pull that number out of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:21 PM
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This is 2024, not 1904.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:16 PM
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Explain why humans use birth control, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:07 PM
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My point is for point 2 to occur there needs to be the complete dismantling of gender roles across the board No, it just requires her to make the first move. It's not that complicated, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:00 PM
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Which gene is this trait carried on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:54 PM
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Then she will continue to experience a lack of dating options. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:53 PM
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Dating apps are not mandatory You're allowed to approach men yourself; you don't have to wait for them to approach you People lie so much on dating apps to bypass filters, it's almost a given
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:48 PM
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You do know that the desire to have children is not genetic, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:33 PM
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Comparing the comments on this post vs. the gender reversed one is quite entertaining. The amount men frothing at the mouth ITT is amusing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:32 PM
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Well, you go ahead then and pop out as many babies as you want! See how that works out for ya :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:18 PM
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Equality, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:09 PM
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You're advocating for people to have kids they don't want. What else would you like me to call it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:58 PM
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Dude, you're the one promoting forced birthing here, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:49 PM
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Jumping out of a plane with or without a parachute ... which one do you think will more likely result in death? So, women forced to give birth to children they don't want is your kink, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:38 PM
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LOL Love how you completely ignore the part about unwilling parents raising emotionally damaged children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:33 PM
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Hmm. Brand new account with negative karma. Did your other account get banned? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:24 PM
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What does that have to do with my comment? "I don't want to have kids" is a valid reason not to have kids. Just because they are "well off enough" to raise a single child doesn't mean they have an obligation to do so. Especially considering the potential (and likely) emotional damage to a child born to unwilling parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:12 PM
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Do you really want people who don't want kids to be unwilling parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:16 PM
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Did you sprain a muscle making that reach?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:11 PM
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Potential Links Between Premarital Virginity and Sexless Marriages Lack of Sexual Experience: People who wait until marriage for sex may lack experience or knowledge about their own preferences or their partner's, which can lead to sexual dissatisfaction later on. They may also struggle with sexual communication or navigating sexual compatibility. Cultural or Religious Expectations: Some people who abstain before marriage may view sex as a duty rather than a mutually fulfilling activity. Over ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:08 PM
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A week of antibiotics and it'll be a thing of the past. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:03 PM
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Nah, it's an actual classification rating that is assigned to documents. Are you talking US DoD?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:03 AM
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I mean if nonsense makes you feel better, by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:02 AM
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Because sometimes unclassified and classified information can be in the same document. Each paragraph will have the appropriate marking at the beginning. That being said "unclassified" is not technically a classification, but the default. More commonly now is Controlled Unclassified Information (was: For Official Use Only).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:25 AM
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You can only change yourself, bro. Complaining about women considering themselves "high status" ain't going to do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:17 AM
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Again, what does an arranged marriage have to do with a woman's security? How is it protecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:16 AM
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If you're going to reply to me, please make it make some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:42 PM
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Sure, Jan. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:25 PM
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More religious people that no sex before marriage is often tied to, have lower divorce rates as well. ... and a higher percentage of dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:17 PM
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So what if they do? That's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:16 PM
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Comments from men in this sub such as [verbatim]: "This whole thing keeps going just because I want sex with her. Otherwise i can't stand her"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:48 PM
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Well, you tell 'em since you have all the answers! If it's so easy, obesity wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:47 PM
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Getting an STI that is easily treatable? You've probably had a zit that took longer to heal. "Being disgusting" is your personal opinion. Do you think she gives a rat's ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah, isn't that what most men in this sub say? It's super easy! They can't understand why there are so many fat chicks because obviously all they would have to do is eat less and exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:06 PM
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Okay, so that's a no on security. What does an arranged marriage have to do with a woman's security?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:57 PM
1

So, why even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:48 PM
0

Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:41 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:28 PM
1

So what exactly are these “consequences” you speak of? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:26 PM
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If you truly didn't give a shit (which you claimed), you wouldn't have felt the need to add the last part. Especially because gonorrhea by all accounts is easily treated with antibiotics. So I'm not sure what kind of "consequences" you think this will have for her. Ooooooh! A week long of antibiotic pills with a side chance of getting a yeast infection. Such dire consequences!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:24 PM
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and she can deal with the consequences of those choices, starting with gonorrhea. Your sour grapes are showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I really don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:39 PM
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But how does it affect you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:16 PM
3

That’s a lot more nutritious than stale bread!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:29 PM
4

By that definition every date is interesting. Exactly. You don't need to spend $100+ on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:13 PM
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They're interesting because you're getting to know the other person better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:33 PM
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Red pill fever dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:30 PM
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Everything but the bread for the ducks. It's not good for them. Bring a bag of frozen peas. Don't believe me? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CC42Onyaap8
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:51 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:48 PM
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It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the female OkCupid users in this sample group rated 80% of the men in the group as "below average" in looks, they messaged the men on a normal bell curve, whereas while the male users rated women's looks on a normal bell curve, they only messaged the top 30%. So, really, what this sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:53 PM
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Chad-mirers? Testoster-bros? Broseidons?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:26 PM
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"Manospherians" somehow sounds way too sophisticated for what they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:11 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:08 PM
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Non sequitur much? I said for a close relationship I need to feel safe knowing he's not going to try and get into my pants. For an ONS, getting into my pants is the entire point. What circus? WTF are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:58 AM
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An ONS is not a close friendship. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:13 PM
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women have been so coddled in society they forget that wildlife and nature are truly dangerous just by themselves Have you never been camping? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:52 PM
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For close friendship? I need to feel safe around him. I need to feel safe knowing that he's not going to use any available opportunity to get into my pants. That he likes me as a person and not because of my looks. There are very few men like this in my life, but most of the time they are friends' spouses or gay men. The only single, hetero man I'm close friends with is a former coworker (work husband). We used to travel together for many years and get along very well. More of a brother/sister v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:42 PM
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FTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:53 PM
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That would depend on whether it's a material or minor breach of contract. So, make sure you get the "if wife doesn't put out, I get to do whatever I want" provision in your prenup, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:06 PM
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Yup. "Nach mir die Sintflut." IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:52 PM
0

Back then, your dating options were pretty much limited to your community and social circle. Back when?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:27 PM
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Male nurses are an immediate +3 in my book. They know anatomy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:27 PM
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Women slutting it up puts pressure on other women to slut it up when it comes to relationships. Cut the crap. No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:15 PM
1

Go read up on contract law.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:58 AM
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Dude. This is Reddit. You don't "own" this thread or govern how others use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:22 PM
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If you think I worry about the crap that delusional men post on Reddit, I have some oceanfront property in Arizona to sell you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:05 PM
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There is no such thing as true love coming from a woman; a woman will never be able to reciprocate the powerful, deep love that men show to their girlfriends and wives. I can't take anything you say seriously after a statement like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:14 PM
1

It wasn't even a study. It was a blog post from OK Cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:27 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:20 PM
4

The new default would be that sex only happens with an agreement. Do it. Or in absence of an agreement there is no child support. Nope. If there's no agreement, you don't get off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:19 PM
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Men should agree upfront (before sex) to pay or not pay for possible children indefinitely or till X date. All for it. Sign a contract before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:15 PM
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That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:15 PM
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Because he thinks it matters. Aside from the fact that there’s no such thing as two people who are identical in every way, it’s ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:01 PM
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>How so? You’re comparing hitchhiking with marriage. Seriously? >If the wife doesn’t hold up the agreement,I don't see why the husband should. Two wrongs don’t make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:03 PM
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I swear, every post on this sub today just gets dumber and dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:43 PM
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"Lots" - Source? Numbers? Again, do you have real life experience or are you just going off what you're reading on Reddit? Here, since you can't seem to use google: A significant number of women experience a temporary decrease in sexual desire after childbirth, but the majority eventually resume sexual activity. Permanent loss of interest in sex postpartum is uncommon and typically associated with specific health concerns that can be addressed with appropriate care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:28 PM
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Nothing is foolproof, no. If you can't reach a compromise, you divorce. That's literally why divorces exist. So the wife went from being heterosexual to asexual overnight? This is a major change in orientation. Either that or you don't know what being asexual truly means. Do you think people just switch from sexual to asexual? From being heterosexual to homosexual? This is some pretty strange thinking. Or you don' t understand how sexuality works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:18 PM
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There are too many variables to consider and individual circumstances. There's no one "right" solution for everybody. You need to get to the "why" first. I had a boyfriend once who about 6 months after he moved in with me started negging me on a regular basis. Then he was all shocked Pikachu when I wasn't in the mood to have sex with him at night. I told him that I didn't like his comments and it was hard for me to want to be intimate with him when he was low-key verbally abusing me. He didn't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:57 PM
4

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:35 PM
4

QED in that guy's case. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:32 PM
1

It's not. Plenty of people benefit from marriage counseling and work things out. What rock are you living under?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:26 PM
1

I'm not married now. He decided after 6 years that he wanted kids after all and we sat down, discussed it, and realized there was no compromise to be made and we divorced amicably. I don't advocate for marriage at all. My commitment to my partner doesn't change because of a government-sanctioned piece of paper. I stated elsewhere that the only reason I'd get married again is to provide my partner with legal protections; mostly in order to get my social security if I die before he does. I can see…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:21 PM
1

:crickets:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:17 PM
1

It's ok for either party to leave if they're unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:04 PM
1

How does the husband get sex without divorce? He doesn't. He needs to get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:01 PM
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So you're not married. That explains a lot. "Complaints I've read." :eyeroll: I have been married before. Money and/or sex were never an issue because we were sane and able to communicate with each other. Crazy, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:58 PM
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No. Are you serious? You can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:56 PM
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I said: Your analogy sucks ass. Not giving your wife money for a luxury handbag is not financial abuse. How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:54 PM
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No one is preventing her from getting a job if she wants to buy a gucci bag. Your analogies suck ass, dude. Yes, you can file a police report for financial abuse. They will likely get APS (Adult Protective Services) involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:38 PM
1

Then go down to the police station and file a report because your wife doesn’t want to fuck you. See how that goes. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:11 PM
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Makes no difference at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:06 PM
8

LOL Good one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:02 PM
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"Bad at sex" means not giving a rat's ass whether your partner is satisfied. You get yours and roll over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:26 PM
6

I mean, I'm getting wet just thinking about it! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:22 PM
2

Sex is important part of a relationship Agreed. Society unfairly force men to stay in sexually unsatisfactory relationship. Nobody is forcing anyone to stay in a relationship they don't want to be in. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:20 PM
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Dude. This again? Are you going to be making daily posts about the same damn thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:13 PM
2

Depends on your definition of gold digger. I think of those 20-somethings more like spoiled princesses; wanting that champagne lifestyle (clubbing, high end clothes, expensive bags, travel, etc.) and a guy to pay for it. Men their age can't afford it, so ... Never been my jam, but I see a lot of it in SoFla.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:58 PM
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5’9”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 AM
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Financial abuse is about financial control and manipulation. Look, dude. If you have a hard time with definitions, Google should be available on the same device that you access Reddit with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 AM
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Now you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:41 AM
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That’s a non-response if I ever saw one. 😂 Based on that, I'm going to guess that's a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:39 AM
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No, I divide you into two groups: Ones who clearly have no experience and are just regurgitating manosphere bullshit Ones who only have experience with vapid/shallow women and spout AWALT bullshit It's quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:29 AM
1

"Men like you"? You're all the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:45 PM
1

Well, I'm one. I won't date a guy taller than 6'2".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:34 PM
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Hair extensions are expensive, high maintenance, and a pain in the ass. That's a one way ticket to Nope-ville!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:31 PM
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Yeah y'all need to come to a consensus about the makeup shit fr Like, seriously. Make up your damn mind. (Not that I really care either way, I just think it's funny.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:28 PM
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$$$, silly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:26 PM
0

... and he's definitely not a MAGAt. So, bonus points!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:26 PM
2

I get massive push back every time I make the same point. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:22 PM
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Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:17 PM
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Sexual Monogamy: A commitment to having sexual relations exclusively with one partner. Sexual abuse? That's a stretch, homie. SA is defined as non-consensual sexual activity. If there's no activity, there can be no abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:17 PM
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Merely pointing out the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:14 PM
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I mean: https://np.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fppd-survey-results-v0-yx3bmyhlsxwd1.png%3Fwidth%3D371%26format%3Dpng%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D6334c30613d26e2c91ee2296ea627d0cacef95b0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:06 PM
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I think that could easily become an unfair partnership for the child free person. BTDT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:02 PM
3

That's your opinion. Are you active in the BDSM community IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:55 PM
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But this thrill only works when the man leading the dance does so with conviction. Incorrect. This thrill only works when the man has proven himself to be safe and respectful of boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:30 PM
1

You're comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:02 PM
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People who like six packs are the majority mainly men. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:07 PM
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"Loving" a guy for six pack abs is the definition of shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:06 PM
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he can take her stuff if they divorce Pre-marital assets aren't subject to division Duration/length of marriage matters Anybody with substantial assets who doesn't get a prenup is foolish
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:35 PM
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The only reason I'd ever get married again is so that my partner could receive my social security benefits if I die before he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:28 PM
2

... and shone a Klieg light on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:16 PM
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Cute creative writing assignment, but the difference is that stealing is against the law. The driver has legal recourse. $60 would be considered "petty theft" (a misdemeanor) and you can file a police report. You could also take them to small claims court. So, actually two legal paths! Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:13 PM
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Are you reading a different post? This one talks about shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:49 PM
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Extremely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:13 PM
1

... and how long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:47 PM
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So just follow OP’s advice and tell your wife that you’re going to go fuck other women. It’s not cheating if you tell her upfront according to him. See how that goes over. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:01 AM
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Like you said: they weren’t my kids. When their father put a gun to my head, all bets were off. Sorry, not sorry. They have a mother. I did what I could for them while they lived with me and the two older girls visit me often and ask me for cooking advice. You didn’t realize that kids come with a great time, money, and energy investment before you had them? I’m told its worth it if that’s your heart’s desire, but most people are aware of the tradeoffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:10 AM
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I'm not giving you parenting advice. If your wife was high libido when you first met and now she doesn't want to have sex with you, clearly you should be smart enough to realize there's got to be something more behind it other than "I just don't wanna anymore." Especially if she was HL before kids. Anyway. Do whatever you want (obviously). You want to stay in an unhappy/unfulfilling situation because of your kids, that's a choice. And it's a perfectly fine choice, but it is your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:51 AM
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Life's all about choices, dude. If your needs aren't being met, you can choose the status quo (put up and shut up) or attempt to make changes (talk to her about the fact that your unhappy about the lack of sex and see if she wants to meet you halfway, get a fleshlight, or see if she'll agree to open up the marriage, etc.) You got married and had kids with this woman. If you didn't know what you were getting into, then whose fault is that? I kinda get it. I had stepkids for a while who lived with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:36 AM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:21 AM
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Right. This is a conscious choice I made. I realized what a time and money suck kids are and it wasn't worth it to me personally. That being said, my best friend raised 4 kids and they still fuck like rabbits, so it's not a universal thing (the way you're portraying it).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:19 AM
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Nope. I chose not to. Not my jam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:16 AM
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I mean, I'm not your relationship counselor, but if you're partner is saying that "we've been together for 20 years, we don't need to have sex anymore" sounds like she doesn't enjoy it. Why would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:15 AM
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Has this been your personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:13 AM
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The difference is society views women's reasons for not wanting sex as justified Like what reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:59 AM
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Yes, I'm on HRT and it has increased my libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:58 AM
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Well then, you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 AM
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There's no blame until you figure out what the problem is. People just don't decide to not want sex anymore for no reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 AM
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Have you ever taken them? Because most of the men I've been with that needed them complained of side effects. Mostly headaches. They're not a panacea. Anyway. Her solution? Hormone replacement therapy. Commonly known as HRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:52 AM
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Welcome to Reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:47 AM
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I didn't say it magically solves all problems, but it certainly is a great place to start. You said the woman is "to blame" if she doesn't put out, so that would justify his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:46 AM
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A woman doesn't "just decide she doesn't want sex anymore". There's generally a reason. What if perhaps she goes through menopause and no longer has a sex drive, he's just supposed to accept that? Just stay married? What if he develops ED? Is she just supposed to accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:45 AM
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"Irreconcilable differences" is a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:38 AM
2

Deodorant is bad. Antiperspirant spray is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:32 AM
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You can have your preference all you want. That doesn't mean you get to dictate what other people do. Just don't date anyone who doesn't meet your preferences. What's the issue here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:31 AM
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There are two different conversations ITT. I'm trying to explain that it's cheating whether OP is open and honest about it with his "wife" or he's hiding it. If the wife isn't in agreement, it's cheating. Mr. Lousy is arguing that cheating is justified if the wife isn't putting out. Two different topics. There is no problem to be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:24 AM
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Not in a healthy relationship. No. That's not a thing. That's dysfunctional behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:03 AM
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If either person doesn't uphold their end of the deal, you either get counseling and work through it (Communicate! What a concept!) and if you can't resolve things, you divorce. Cheating isn't the solution here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:02 AM
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Like this really isn’t complicated. These guys are sure trying to make it be! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:44 PM
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Then don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:40 PM
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Tough cookies. Actions have consequences. If you don't like the consequences, don't cheat, or don't get married - plenty of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:37 PM
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He's claiming it's not cheating if he tells her upfront. That's the whole point of his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:36 PM
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Yes, I've mentioned that several times ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:35 PM
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Don't get married. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:35 PM
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Great! Glad we finally agree. Only took 3 times to point it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:34 PM
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Maybe your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because you reek of shit from not wiping your ass. That would certainly explain things!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:33 PM
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That's not the subject of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:28 PM
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OP would be cheating whether he announces it or hides it. Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:23 PM
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So you admit that it's cheating. Case closed. That's the whole point of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:22 PM
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You wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:20 PM
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The whole point of OP's post is that he's stating that cheating on her "in the open" isn't really cheating. It's only cheating if he hides it. Which is total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:20 PM
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If it's a two way street and everything is above board, that is an open marriage (or ethical non-monogamy).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:19 PM
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If she is honest about it, then it's fine. If she's honest about it upfront and you're fine with it, you're agreeing to having an open marriage. That's ethical. If she's honest about it upfront and you're not fine with it, it's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:17 PM
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Boundaries are for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:15 PM
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to my experience Sure, buddy. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say your "experience" is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:14 PM
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Why should he divorce her, go through the stress and hassle and cost of a divorce, probably lose the house he most likely paid for (either by being forced to move out or to list it for a partition action)? This would be called the "fuck around and find out" portion. Actions have consequences. She’s certainly free to divorce him now or after finding out the truth (if she ever does). But why “should” he divorce her if he doesn’t want to because the status quo is better? The whole point of OP's pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:09 PM
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If she's not holding up her end of the bargain, he can divorce her. Sure, he can cheat on her, but telling her openly versus hiding it from her doesn't make the cheating any less immoral or unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:08 PM
5

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:04 PM
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If she's not holding up her end of the bargain, he should get a divorce before fucking around with other people. Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:57 PM
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It's cheating whether the man or the woman does it. There's no gender difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:44 PM
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According to who are we owed honesty? Is this some moral duty? Yes. In a marriage (unless otherwise agreed upon) you're morally obligated to be honest with your spouse about fucking other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:42 PM
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He is free to divorce her if she isn't meeting his physical needs. Unless otherwise agreed upon, marriage implies monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:41 PM
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I guess if she's fine with it after knowing then it's whatever. Yeah, then that's her agreeing to having an open marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:40 PM
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Yes, and "It's totally OK!" because he's being upfront with her about it and not lying to her. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:55 PM
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Yes, for the millionth time in this thread. You're free to cheat on your wife. Being upfront about it doesn't make it moral or ethical though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:51 PM
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If she doesn't agree. It's cheating. Plain and simple. No matter how many times you try to state otherwise. No, she can't stop you. Cheating is not illegal. It is, however, immoral and unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:49 PM
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If your wife doesn't agree with you fucking other women, it's cheating. Doesn't matter whether you're hiding it or not. 0 difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:43 PM
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I said: Just because you announce to your wife openly that you will be fucking around on her doesn't make it "not cheating". You said: Well it is really!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:36 PM
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sex alone is not automatic reason to divorce Yes. Yes it is if that's your priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:34 PM
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Have you ever been in a relationship? This is some ridiculous bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:33 PM
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... and he can get a divorce and find someone who will fuck him. What's so hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:31 PM
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But her not having sex is also her being a shitty partner. Then you are free to divorce her and find someone who will fuck you. She is also free to divorce you if you cheat on her. You could also try talking to her or go to counseling to find out why she doesn't want to have sex with you. Did that ever cross your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:29 PM
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No, cheating is about breaking a tacit agreement. That being married also includes monogamy (unless otherwise agreed upon). Whether you hide it or not has no bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:25 PM
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He seems to want to justify his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:24 PM
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If your wife agrees to an open marriage? Fantastic! But just telling her you're going to fuck other people is being a shitty partner. Just because you're "honest and open" about it doesn't magically make it morally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:22 PM
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Sure, you can do that, but you're being a shitty partner and she has every right to leave your ass after something stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:19 PM
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Sure, you can do that, but you're being a shitty partner and she has every right to leave your ass after something stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:19 PM
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I didn't say cheating was illegal. Where do you see that I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:14 PM
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No, he says in OP: all you need is to inform them that you are planning to fuck someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:09 PM
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If you're upfront about it and your spouse is in agreement (read: open marriage), it's not cheating. all you need is to inform them that you are planning to fuck someone else. That is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:07 PM
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Yeah, I don't know why he's complicating things so unnecessarily. Seems pretty cut and dry to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:04 PM
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Finding a new partner without divorcing (or both agreeing to open up the marriage) is cheating. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:59 PM
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But I don't think husband should be forced to stay celibate if he doesnt want to. Not to say that wife should have sex with him whenever he wants. But he should be allowed to seek sex outside without much fuss. He's free to get a divorce and seek out a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:55 PM
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I just ate a bunch of brownies Wait. Aren't you the guy who complains about his weight? I'm not saying this to be mean, I just remember you commenting frequently on another sub I participate in that you can't find a girlfriend because you're overweight. Seems incongruent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:42 PM
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It shows you have no respect for your fellow humans, which is despicable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:26 PM
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Where's the ad hominem exactly? She called the behavior "degenerate".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:25 PM
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Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:16 PM
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Jesus fuck, what is your obsession with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:15 PM
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Then go hop a time machine back 100 years since you think it was so much better then. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:52 PM
2

Women refuse to take responsibility for themselves? So men bear no responsibility for the child they helped create?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:32 PM
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I'm serious, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:01 AM
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Que? You should submit to a drug test, because I'm pretty sure you've got some 'roid rage going on here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:48 PM
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What, another post you're going to turn around and delete in an hour because you can't handle the heat? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:40 PM
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None of my male loved ones are Red Pillers. They're sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:25 PM
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Of course. Why do you think I'm only starting to understand this? They want to keep you swiping as much as possible. They have no vested interest in anyone finding a true partner and leaving the app. Quite the opposite, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:46 PM
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Yes, that is a thing of the past. Gone are the days where women's partner choices were made for them. We're not going back to the 50s when women were regularly prescribed Valium just to get through their miserable days as housewives and slaves to their husbands. It's not common for the entire extended family to live in the same town or even state. Young people move away and make lives for themselves elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:41 PM
1

Then don't. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:26 PM
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fulfilling their ever increasing demands LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:23 PM
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Yeah, and people never change or men never put on a facade to get into women's pants. /s Still no reliable indicator as to how he's going to parent after the baby pops out and they're both sleep deprived for the first couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:53 PM
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There's no litmus test for parenting prior to becoming a parent. How are women supposed to make 99% sure? Tell me. You keep avoiding this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:14 PM
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You're the one putting the onus on women to "make 100% sure that the man will be a good parent" (your words). I'm asking you exactly how are women supposed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:57 PM
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Point being that men who suicide swipe are just going for matches. ANY match. Regardless of whether the women is compatible or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:56 PM
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And how exactly do you make 100% sure they'll be a good parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:44 PM
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Not if you pay for premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:30 PM
3

Cap the left swipe limit for WOMEN. ... and cap the right swipe limit for MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:55 PM
1

What I've done (but it felt super silly to me) is to hide a "code word" in my bio. Messages must contain the specific word in their message to make sure they actually read the bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:14 PM
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I have a lengthy profile - partly aimed at convincing the unsuitable to filter themselves out. And still, I was inundated with random men, most of whom don't have much of a profile, or really introduce themselves. Problem is, most guys don't read them. It's an exercise in futility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:10 AM
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So why do you bother with apps at all with that attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:18 PM
4

Ding! Ding! Ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:51 PM
6

For those men, filtering after matching takes less work. Definitely. That puts the onus on the women to sort. Then they get burned out quickly and leave the apps prematurely. The reason women don't suicide swipe is not because they are nicer or something No, lol. That's not why. It's because for the most part, women use the dating apps as they were meant to be used to the extent of: look at a profile, evaluate, then decide whether to swipe right or not. A lot of men just want "a match". They don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:21 PM
1

The majority of men suicide swiping ruined it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 PM
8

i mean why do you think so many women have left dating apps or are taking frequent breaks in the first place? They get overwhelmed with a lot of "bad" matches (men who don't read the bio before swiping, or as you said, they swipe on anything with a pulse). Sorting through a sea of shit isn't really enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:35 PM
1

Do you have a legitimate source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:31 PM
1

What consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:26 PM
8

"good men"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:26 PM
6

Unfortunately it won't work unless the majority of men quit suicide swiping. They've ruined it for everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:03 PM
13

This is stated on this sub repeatedly, yet this topic is regurgitated ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:50 PM
0

So confident!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:49 PM
1

Yes! Because women are flooded with "bad" likes, get overwhelmed and leave the app prematurely. It's a lose/lose for both men and women. When I was on the apps, about 90% of men clearly hadn't read my bio before swiping. It gets tiresome very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:46 PM
1

You do you, though. Oh, I do! No approval from you needed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:38 PM
7

Of course they wake up to a shit ton of matches. Men notoriously suicide swipe. Swipe right on anything with a pulse and wait for a match to actually read the woman's bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:35 PM
1

It's not "but I believe". It's "I have first hand experience" and "I've seen this with my own eyes in my friends', acquaintances', and coworker's relationships IRL." But like I said quite a few comments back. Believe what you want. That's what you're going to do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:31 PM
2

Loving travel is not a "current obsession", dude. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:28 PM
1

I don't live in isolation, so it's not just "my" experience. There's a whole world out there. You choose to judge others from on high with no real life experience in these matters. That says more about you. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:02 PM
1

Sounds like you are much more of the believe breed than I am. I am in the "I've lived a lot more life than you" camp. Real life experience vs. theory. What we call "street knowledge" vs. "book knowledge".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:54 PM
1

*many Believe what you want dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:47 PM
2

Get back to me when it's been more than 2 years. 2 months is not an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:40 AM
3

It's not even about single parenthood. I'm not a parent, but I've had a fair share of men change in behavior/mentality once they thought they had me "locked down" in an LTR. You can't keep up a facade for more than 2 years, IME. Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:27 AM
3

If you haven't, then you really have no leg to stand on. You're working off of a lot of assumptions and "I don't think it's plausible" when you've never experienced it yourself. But do go on with your Judgy McJudgerson self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:20 AM
3

I don’t think it’s plausible Have you ever been in a LTR with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:09 AM
4

It’s a fact that upper class women (proxy for intelligence really) are considerably less likely to end up as a single mother? They are simply more competent selectors. That’s the difference. No, that's not the reason why. Generally, as women's education levels increase, the number of children they have tends to decrease. (CDC data) A higher percentage of women with higher education/intelligence choose not to have children at all (compared to a HS degree).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:08 AM
1

The age ranges for "young men and women" in the study was 18-29 Women tend to get married at a slightly younger age Men will often delay marriage to focus on career establishment It stands to reason that women 25-29 are marrying (or cohabitating) with men 30-35 which would account for the slight lopsidedness in the men vs. women of the same age range being (or considering themselves) single. Not Chad somehow "hoarding all the wimminz".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:15 PM
1

You don't have to explain that to me. I know how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:53 PM
1

Then don't. Case closed. Who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:20 PM
1

It's 5% now? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:44 PM
1

Because you clearly couldn't read between the lines the previous numerous times I've told you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:36 PM
1

The age ranges for "young men and women" in the study was 18-29 Women tend to get married at a slightly younger age Men will often delay marriage to focus on career establishment It stands to reason that women 25-29 are marrying (or cohabitating) with men 30-35 which would account for the slight lopsidedness in the men vs. women of the same age range being (or considering themselves) single. Not Chad somehow "hoarding all the wimminz".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:34 PM
1

Never claimed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:29 PM
1

LPT: You can't change other people. You can only change YOURSELF and how you react to things. You can't change the people around you, but you can change the people that you're around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:26 PM
0

This is not gender specific. Nobody should date anybody else if it doesn’t improve their life. What’s the point even if not? Date to make your life miserable? Idiocy. JFC. This is an exercise in futility. I’ve got better shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:37 PM
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No, that’s you projecting. For the second time: I’m not saying all women are perfect. So, if you disengage from the people who are shitty, what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:32 PM
3

So every woman you encounter is like this? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:28 PM
2

I didn’t say they don’t exist. I’m saying choose not to surround yourself with people like that. Why do you choose to be around people who mock you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:17 PM
0

Send the liberal vegan man my way, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:13 PM
-1

I just know the people I hang out with aren’t like that. Remove yourself from toxic environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:51 PM
0

You need to find different friends, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:26 PM
0

We’re certainly not: insert pleasant conversation, dispense sex nao!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:23 PM
0

Defeatist all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:15 PM
1

Which is what just about every woman ITT is telling you is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:14 PM
2

Hint: it’s not shameful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:52 PM
1

Sex is not a “reward”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:51 PM
2

women have higher standards for hookups than they do for relationships What in the fresh hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:46 PM
3

Since when is it shameful to do things for others without getting anything in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:39 PM
-3

Women are not a “value proposition”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:35 PM
1

I see DnD on a guy’s profile and it’s an immediate swipe left. (Along with anything Renfaire, cosplay, LARPing, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:20 PM
2

He probably thinks she’s not wearing any makeup either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:18 PM
0

We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:09 PM
1

Entertainment value, for sure. But this sub is about discussing dating and relationships. Blackpill is like: it’s all shit and doom & gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:08 PM
-1

Yeah, I don’t get why black pilled guys participate in this sub so much 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:25 PM
4

Seriously. Dating is more that just getting matches. My swipe right rate on Tinder was something around 0.1% last time I was on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:27 PM
2

Of course he “promised” he was genuinely looking for an LTR 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:25 PM
2

Tons of guys on dating apps are looking for relationships LOL to the fucking HA!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:25 PM
3

Yes, unlimited options in a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:24 PM
4

You need to change your flair to Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:18 PM
1

Good thing it’s not real!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:13 PM
1

I was trying to make it simple. Still got twisted. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:13 PM
1

When I meet a guy, I’m either physically attracted to him, or not. Once that happens and I delve deeper (getting to know him better) attraction will increase the more compatibility I find. I don’t fuck men that I don’t find attractive nor do I get into LTRs with men I’m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:00 PM
2

More sexily? WTF is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:15 AM
1

🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:12 AM
5

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:08 AM
4

There is no “types of attractiveness”. It’s a binary. Yes/no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:07 AM
2

On what planet do you fuck people you don’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:22 AM
1

Like, duh. I wouldn’t have sex with a man I didn’t find attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:15 AM
1

That was the topic of this post. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:12 AM
2

Just because you copy/paste the same thing 10x doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:10 AM
7

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:16 AM
6

It only makes sense in your mind, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:15 AM
6

Romantic relationships != employment relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:10 AM
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Man I want to hook up with = attractive Man I want to be in an LTR with = attractive + compatible Fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:08 AM
5

You protect yourself from the unpleasant while also shielding yourself from the pleasant. Being leered at in public by strange men is not pleasant. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:49 PM
5

Ah, I was on my phone. Didn't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:52 PM
4

When I host dinner parties, I will almost always get at least one version of "You should open a restaurant!" kind of comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:48 PM
3

Yeah, but it helps to have a sous chef around sometimes. The deal usually is: I cook, you do the dishes (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:44 PM
6

Welcome to womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:23 PM
4

Yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:16 PM
8

I'm big on sports bras/workout tops. They give enough support for me (D - DD depending on the bra) and IDGAF how many guys are "offended" if I wear my workout clothes outside of the gym. Yoga pants all dayyyyyyy, baybee!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:15 PM
4

I guess it has to do with nipples and/or I'm told that the sway of boobs underneath fabric without being constrained by a bra is "too tempting".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:13 PM
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I'm a damn good cook and any long term partner should be capable as well. I don't expect it at my level, but you should be able to follow a recipe and put a meal together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:11 PM
4

It would be nice to go braless without being stared at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:07 PM
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hoping to get laid because casual sex doesn't exactly grow on trees for men In my case, we live too far away from each other for that to even be a possibility now, so that doesn't track. Besides, I don’t fuck married men (knowingly). He knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:10 PM
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I've got one from 22 years ago. He still texts me. Married with kids now. Tells me how he masturbates every night before he goes to bed thinking about me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:08 PM
3

Because there is no such thing as a "dating market".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:02 PM
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I would be puzzled because I can milk a man's index finger If I saw long term potential, I'd fix her up with a pompoir course and for him maybe some NoFap for a while Stick a fleshlight inside of me? Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:19 PM
1

What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:28 PM
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Just go and take a look at twoxchromosomes or any other female sub JFC you guys are obsessed with that sub. Seriously. Have you nothing better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:40 PM
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It’s so off-putting to watch a man erasing a shrunken, pale clitoris and pounding pale, un-engorged labia slicked with silicone lube that watching much of it will turn women off men forever. Yeah, and the guys are all: "Oooh, she's moaning and soooo into it! Clearly she's enjoying herself!" lol Like, dude, she's coked/drugged out of her mind and her pussy is as dry as the Sahara if it weren't for lube (and spit, ew).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:35 PM
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He ain't staying the night. Staying over and making breakfast is reserved for boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:18 PM
-1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:03 PM
1

My taxes go to a whole bunch of things I don't approve of. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:50 AM
2

All 3 of the examples so far have a ton of makeup on. And they're going on about "natural beauty". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:03 PM
1

You can tell she's not even wearing make-up. You're joking, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:01 PM
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Pick better women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:05 PM
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Paragraphs are your friend. It's really simple. Just press that key that says: "Enter" or "Return" every once in a while! HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:02 PM
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How the hell does somebody else's partner choice affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:55 PM
2

Yup. I wax from the neck down because it's my personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:32 PM
1

Like Jim Bakker, Ted Haggard, Carl Lenz, Newt Gingrich, Robert Morris, Larry Sebastian, Keith O'Brien? (The list goes on and on, but I'll stop here.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:29 PM
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Under his eye!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 PM
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Women acting unhinged? arrest them, lock them up. I'd say you're the one acting unhinged ITT. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 PM
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I mean would you go to work if you didn’t get paid? Romantic relationship != gainful employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:12 PM
2

Millions of women in the middle east stay covered up just fine, even though some of the hottest weather is in those countries. ... at the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:07 PM
1

Plus "3 hots and a cot"!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:04 PM
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Nobody wants to pay full price for a used game And the "What inanimate object can we compare women to" prize for today goes to ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 PM
1

Women don't listen to a goddamned thing men say about women's fashion or style. Because it's none of your g-d business what we wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:40 PM
2

Dude. We wish there were decent women-only gyms, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:34 PM
1

... or prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:34 PM
1

Red Pill fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:16 PM
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but in a relationship don’t be initiating sex and cuddles that much let her come to you. This would backfire with me. If my guy didn't initiate sex and cuddles, I'd think he's not attracted to me anymore, which would be a total turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:46 PM
1

Now you are implying that there aren't some men (5-10% or so) who are in high demand (usually based by some sort of...status they have: looks/wealth that sets them apart?) Red Pill bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:04 PM
2

Never in my life have I competed with another women for any man. He either wants to date me, or he doesn't. The fact that you use the term "high-status men" unironically tells me that this convo will go nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:38 PM
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TBH, I don't think he's trolling. In his previous post he commented to me that he didn't know that labeling it "Question for Men" meant that women wouldn't answer the same question. Just a n00b.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:34 PM
2

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:32 PM
1

One thing really doesn't have anything to do with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:00 PM
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What are these deeper causes that you ascribe to men objectifying women? Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:10 PM
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I assure you, I do not. Plenty of examples in this sub on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:37 PM
3

So, just your own "feelings".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:14 PM
4

Who is asking you to risk your physical safety for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:43 PM
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I need more information before I can answer these questions. - How do men "cater" to women? - What do you mean by "more in demand"? - What do you mean by "over-supplied"? - Need clarification on the previous 2 before I can answer this - Balance out what? - No. There are good men and good women. There are bad men and bad women. - Attraction is highly subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:24 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:20 PM
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Nah, plenty of red pill men compare women to inanimate objects such as cars ("high mileage"), talking about "SMV" (there is no "sexual market" unless you're talking about paying a sex worker) and comparing relationships with employment opportunities. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:10 PM
5

If only we had a crystal ball …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:48 PM
4

Women are commodities to them. Which is regularly proven in here with their "analogies".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:04 PM
2

Well, if you go by the latest survey, less than 1/5 of men in this sub consider themselves "blue pilled", so you're going to be getting more of those kind of answers than not. It is what it is in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:02 PM
1

Rule 11 Top-level comments to Debate posts must challenge the OP's view. Top-level responses to Question for X posts should come from the appropriate, respective group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:43 PM
2

Are you unfamiliar with the rules of this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:32 PM
2

It's labeled as a "Question For Men" (twice, even!). I am not man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:28 PM
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popcorn.gif Sitting back and waiting for all of the oh-so-predictable red pill answers to roll in. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:30 PM
10

LOL @ "over supply of men"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:13 PM
4

Ask Matt Gaetz. He was routinely fucking college age (and sometimes high school girls) in his late 30s and early 40s (and helping them with their "tuition" lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:12 PM
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Yeah, he's so logical. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:15 PM
2

A helluva lot more logical than "Chad is fucking 5 women at the same time".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:07 PM
1

Yes, we need more than superficial appearances to approach a man. This shouldn't be news to anybody. It was discussed at length in a separate post/thread a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
1

Look up "sealioning" and I bet your picture is featured in the definition!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:17 PM
2

I guess I have to distill it down further for you, since your powers of deduction seem to be lacking: The age ranges for "young men and women" in the study was 18-29 Women tend to get married at a slightly younger age Men will often delay marriage to focus on career establishment It stands to reason that women 25-29 are marrying (or cohabitating) with men 30-35 which would account for the slight lopsidedness in the men vs. women of the same age range being (or considering themselves) single. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:14 PM
1

That's not love. Google "NRE".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:06 PM
1

I get tired of typing it out. Maybe I should write it up and save it so I can copy/paste it every day when it comes up on this sub. The thing about statistics is that if you don't understand what they are actually representing, you run the risk of woefully representing them. It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:43 PM
1

Of course it's different. An employment relationship is where one person does work in exchange for a paycheck. It's transactional. No work, no paycheck. A (healthy) romantic relationship is not transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:31 PM
1

Do you know what comparing "apples to oranges" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:56 AM
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Trump rode the coattails of the good economy Obama left behind and he'll do it again this time around (and take credit for it, I'm sure). Biden administration passed the Infrastructure Investment and Jobs Act, CHIPS Act, Inflation Reduction Act, just to name a few. Part of the IIJA gave 80 million USD to the IRS to modernize and catch up on the backlog of audits focusing on high-income earners. As of July 2024, the IRS reported collecting over 1 billion USD in back taxes from high-wealth individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:17 AM
1

It's just regurgitated red pill propaganda (that we're all sharing men). Pasting the numbers from the Pew Study without any other context is bullshit, self-serving and proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:49 AM
0

Like I said: Keep thinking that. Nothing's going to change your mind, so I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:52 PM
1

My current FWBs are mid-30s, so 20 years younger than I am. I find men in their 20s a bit too inexperienced and immature for me. I'd love to find a man closer to my age, but they can't seem to keep up with me, so younger it is. I've found that 10 years younger works best for me for LTRs. Mainly I'm attracted to men who are intelligent, self-aware, brown hair, brown eyes, husky build, and a few inches taller than me. That hasn't changed in 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:45 PM
2

He just wants to whine and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:42 PM
1

Romantic relationships are not employment opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:32 PM
2

People are not money. People are not commodities. People are not one dimensional. Money is not sentient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:31 PM
0

There's no reasoning with your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:40 PM
1

This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:14 PM
2

The "why" was covered extensively in in this post/comments just a few days ago: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gqc4ud/question_for_women_how_often_in_your_entire_life/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:00 PM
0

Yeah, keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:09 PM
1

This is gibberish. This comment makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:44 PM
0

It’s some kind of red pill nonsense that makes them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 PM
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Leave it to you to try to equate porn to dating. Non-sequitur, much? Like, come on, dude. This post and most of your comments boil down to: "I believe women make bad choices, which makes dating harder for men". You're grasping for straws trying to find some kind of corollary. The porn industry is a market. Commodities are a market. Women are not commodities. Men are not "consumers" of women. People are not commodities. Relationships are not a market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 PM
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4.5" is NOT micro. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:52 PM
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Nah, just poking holes in your unsubstantiated theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:15 PM
3

Semen can be faked with a mixture of cornstarch and water, lotion, or egg whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:11 PM
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The amount of female actresses in comparison to male talent is staggering. Because straight men are the majority consumers of porn. It's called "supply and demand".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:01 PM
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Red herring. Again, what do women's choices have to do with men's biological urges?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:41 PM
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What does that have to do with men’s “biological urges”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:08 PM
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but wtf are you saying we should ignore basic human biology I have the biological urge to eat an entire 18" NY style pizza, but I know it's not good for me. You make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 PM
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Absolutely agree on free condoms, I'd even go for free IUDs, given IUDs are more effective than condoms and are far far far less likely to be used improperly, and it's not like you can forget to use one. Agree, but a man can't verify that the woman has an IUD and this discussion is all about the man's responsibility in all of this. I mean, if men say that to women, then those men are accused of being misogynistic. If they say what? Bring up a discussion about whether or not the woman would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:34 PM
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My solution would be to advocate for free condoms/birth control for everybody. That would be fair for both sides. If you're having sex with someone and don't discuss what might happen in the event of birth control failure, that's on you. If the woman doesn't believe in abortion, or would race to the clinic upon finding out she's pregnant, that's something you should know before you stick your dick inside her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:43 PM
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Because you (generic you) contributed 50% of the genetic material. When a child is conceived, both biological parents contribute to the act of creating life, making them equally responsible for the well-being of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:27 PM
1

How am I blaming men for not being able to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:21 PM
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those were addressed and changed. Until you can grow your own uterus and get impregnated, it won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
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Men's "choice" ends when they decide where to deposit their sperm. This is one aspect that can never be "fair" because our biological differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:57 PM
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the true culprit is religious conservatives In other news: water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:52 PM
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If you're at a singles mixer, it's absurd to complain about being approached. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:40 PM
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You said when it comes to fucking, she could be a puppy kicker, and you wouldn't care, as long as you were able to get your dick wet, and then turn around to say: Men like women for who they are ... That's backpedaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:22 PM
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I shouldn't approach unless I am extremely attractive. Again, because it doesn't seem to be sinking in: at a singles mixer, approaching other singles is the whole point of the event. Anybody saying otherwise, regardless of gender, is being disingenuous and unrealistic. I have seen women on different subs complain that there are no attractive men there. That is a whole different ball of wax. What women find attractive is highly subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:17 PM
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This was what other women told me Then those "other women" are being ridiculous because that is the expressed purpose of a singles mixer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:35 PM
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Don't try to date women at singles mixers Single mixers are specifically intended for the purpose of meeting potential dates. Yes, you are being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:21 PM
2

A lot of men and women just voted for Trump because they thought he would be better for the economy. Whether he will be or not is questionable, Trump will get to ride the "Biden economic upturn" coattails just like he did Obama's the first time around. He'll take credit for it, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:58 PM
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Yes, it can be dangerous for a woman to "use her words" and reject a man outright without couching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:17 PM
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Thousands ... Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
1

If you're so hellbent on having the last word, I'll let you have it. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
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Welcome to Reddit. It's not "my tactic". It's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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Would it be fair to say that you get really angry at women for doing what they prefer instead of using your tactic? because it really seems that way to me Nah, IDGAF what they do as long as they don't complain to me. You seem to be the one getting angry. I'm very much a "live and let live" person IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:49 PM
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Says the man who's likely never been stalked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:47 PM
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You're the one who seems to be getting their knickers into a twist. Maybe do some soul searching yourself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
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There’s a lot of 40 to 60 olus men who are in very good shape. "A lot" ... riiiight. Have you seen the guys in their 50s who are in the dating scene? I do agree that a healthy diet is a key factor. Eating a plant-based diet and exercising makes a huge difference. Finding a 40+ single vegan man is like finding a needle in a haystack. Every man I've been with who had to take ED meds complained about the side effects, mostly headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:43 PM
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I am neither hurt or upset. I just lack sympathy for anybody who just whines about their circumstances and sits by passively and waits for everybody else to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:37 PM
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I'm debating that "single women are dying for a man to ask her out in public or online". I don't know any single women who are "dying" for men's attention. It's not as ubiquitous as you're making it out to be. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:29 PM
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Have you ever looked at r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:27 PM
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Every single single women I know is truly dying for a man to ask her out in public or online. They are capable of approaching men themselves, are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:20 PM
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It's offline for maintenance today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 PM
1

Just rebutting your claim that "I never said that".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:09 PM
1

annoyed != enraged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:00 PM
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You're being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:59 PM
2

And Daddy has blue pills, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:57 PM
1

Are you American? I am and carry a super cute Glock .43 to fend off any actual threats, wether that be a male or female. I guess I wrongly assumed other women would have no problem being strong & independent & protecting themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:56 PM
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They're getting their financial means met, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:49 PM
1

Good for you. That doesn't mean women who don't want to carry a deadly weapon with them at all times don't want to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:31 PM
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It's not spineless to have no interest in small talk (that all men hope will lead to a hook up) with strange men. How dare you not be obsequious! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:27 PM
1

the male workers that I am reliant for my continued survival and comfort LOL How about the male workers who rely on my business to feed their families. It's the other way around, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:21 PM
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I am and carry a super cute Glock .43 to fend off any actual threats, wether that be a male or female You're proud of the fact that you have to carry a weapon whenever you go out in public? Are you even listening to yourself? I have a Glock 43X in a thumbprint safe attached to the side of my nightstand for protection, but I'll be damned if I have to arm myself 24x7 in order to leave the house. That's insane and certainly nothing I'd be proud to exclaim. Open carry can have a certain deterrent ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:19 PM
1

Misandry? Oh, puh-leeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:06 PM
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Did you not read my comment? I said: but I don't express it in such an acerbic tone. I don't think men are (inherently) evil and there's no mention of that in Woman 1's statement. Hyperbole much? Do I get annoyed that men seem to think they're entitled to my attention when I'm out and about running errands and minding my own business just because they think I look fuckable? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:05 PM
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IDGAF how attractive a guy is. If he's cold approaching me, I'm not biting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:03 PM
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She found a man over 40 who could get it up? He must've taken a fistful of blue pills!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:38 PM
4

Unfortunately I do have to go out in public. (How I miss the height of Covid sometimes!) If I'm running errands, I'm not looking to strike up a conversation with anybody. If I'm calling AAA to tow my car, then yes, by the nature of the transaction, I need to converse with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:15 PM
2

So as long as you the pay the men to help you, it’s ok for them to be in your vacinity & speak to you, gotcha. Yes, they're getting paid to do their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:09 PM
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Additionally a lot of women I know complain that men aren’t approaching anymore. They need to put on their big girl panties and start approaching men instead of sitting back like a wallflower waiting to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:05 PM
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I agree with Woman 1, but I don't express it in such an acerbic tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:04 PM
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Keep your head buried in the sand. See where it gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:35 PM
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LOL I'm in my mid 50s. I've lived a lot more than you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:30 PM
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I disagree with all of this. Especially with your trotting out that 20% bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:40 PM
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Baseline looks only get your foot in the door. Different women find different things attractive. It's highly subjective for women. If you have nothing in common, it won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:01 PM
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So that you get along in the long run. Common values, shared beliefs, etc. It's the very basis of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:55 PM
1

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:53 PM
2

The pornography industry has traditionally been male-dominated, with men holding the majority of producer roles (read: the ones making the most money off of porn). The majority of porn stars are women because the majority of porn consumers are men. Men who engaged in porn ... are you talking about male porn actors or male consumers? Both do so voluntarily. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:52 PM
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it's [pornography] an industry dominated BY women and Infact places a higher expectation on men than women This had me rolling on the floor laughing. You can't be serious. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:22 PM
0

Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:05 PM
2

That's a one-way ticket to r/DeadBedrooms. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:59 PM
2

I just can't parse what you're saying. What are you trying to get at?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:23 PM
1

Each woman is given 100000$ she can spend on the guy however she wants Did you miss this part?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:59 PM
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There are some women who sacrifice sexual attraction for babies or whatever, but this isn't most women in 2024 - which is why men are so mad and why this sub is even as active as it is. If we don't find what we're looking for, we just stay single This. I haven't been in a serious relationship for 8 years now and it's certainly not for lack of men chasing me. I'm fine with one or two FWBs until the right guy comes along, but I'm not holding my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:20 PM
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you don’t want the flame that burns super intense, you want the flame that burns low and steady That's just common sense and not gender specific. It's not all about "the tingles" (isn't that how red pillers put it?) My physical standards (what attracts me to a man initially) hasn't changed in 40 years. The difference is that the older women get (in general), the less shitty behavior we're willing to put up with. So overall, our standards get higher. There are milfs and that’s an exception. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:16 PM
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Older women will lower physical standards for a relationship. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:13 PM
1

I'll be sure to tell all of my friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:26 PM
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Casual just needs to be hot Relationships need to be hot and compatible This is the most succinct way to put it accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:21 PM
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No, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 PM
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My best friend (who is a G cup) says she gets more stares and leering when she wears a turtleneck vs. a shirt with a V-neck that shows cleavage. I could wear a potato sack and get ogled, so it really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:07 PM
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Because tiny Asian girls are very popular fetishized elsewhere. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:03 PM
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I'm not a man. There are plenty of men on this sub that will tell you this: Men lower their standards to have sex but raise it for romance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:45 PM
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Women raise their standards for sex but lower it for romance. Incorrect. It's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:40 PM
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Serious question: Do you sit around all day just trying to come up with "edgy" questions to post on this sub on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:37 PM
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Top 1% earner with a security clearance living in a 4,000+ sq ft house on multiple acres. But clearly, we're degenerates. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:31 PM
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I didn't ask you what kind of men don't like tattoos. I asked what kind of "lifestyle" you ascribe to someone who has tattoos. Ex-convict, punk girls, druggies who parties too hard in nightclub and drink beer like drink a water, basically women who are in transgressive underground society. This is a hilarious take. Thanks for the laugh this morning! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:23 PM
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Are you new to this sub? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:14 PM
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they just don't like such woman who live in a lifestyle associated with how much tattoo she has ... and what "lifestyle" would that be exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:02 PM
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Yes, no match = no sex. But you cannot assume that match = sex. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:47 PM
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Sure, if you have a decision tree with only two outcomes, it's easy. If you have a match, there are several possibilities. You match and then you: - look at the profile in detail and decide you don't want to take it any further - chat and you decide whether you do or don't want to take it any further (another fork in the decision tree) - meet for a first date and decide whether or not you want to take it any further (another fork in the decision tree) ... and so on, and so forth. It's not just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:52 PM
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Yes, it's called extrapolation. I'm aware. The point still stands that you cannot derive the number of sexual encounters from matches. Too many variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:32 PM
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I think the demographic results of the PPD survey can shed some light on this for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:29 PM
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I don't demand shit and I'm not responsible for other women. Seriously. You're barking up the wrong tree. Dating sucks for the majority of people. This doesn't need to be pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:24 PM
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Assumptions are not statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:21 PM
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There, there. /pats you on the head Will that make you feel better? Dude, I'm not your therapist. Get your validation elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:20 PM
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A lot of men just swipe right on every woman hoping for a match. They don't read the bio, they just swipe based on a 2 second glance at the first picture. That leaves the sorting to the women. I'd say 90% of the men who swiped right on me clearly did not read my bio. That's a waste of my time. Honestly, I enjoyed OLD when people only swiped right on profiles of people they took the time to read everything (not just a picture) and had a clear intention of getting to know the other person. Those d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:18 PM
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Even if those stats were accurate, they would tell you nothing about who is having sex with whom (or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:46 PM
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Dating apps have n-count records?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:24 PM
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It's really not, but you want to seem to make this about yourself. This thread isn't about men's issues. There are plenty of other posts in this sub for that on a daily basis that you can avail yourself of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:20 PM
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Get outta here with your common sense bullshit, woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:19 PM
2

What a lot of women don’t seem to understand is there’s men who will use the shotgun approach and like almost every woman. Hoping a few will match and they might get a date . Oh, we totally understand it. Suicide swipers have ruined it for both sides. Women get so overwhelmed with bogus likes, they don't stick around long. It's a lose/lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:16 PM
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You can take it however you want. Whether "it sucks for men too" is not the topic of discussion ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:09 PM
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Seriously. Have a look at the graphs and data again. "Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men." is not a reasonable conclusion. But it feeds into their confirmation bias, so ... (In all seriousness, thanks for doing the legwork on this.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:07 PM
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Him: Where are the women? Us: (examples) Him: No, not like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:20 PM
1

You just want to be a professional victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:19 PM
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Butthurt? Wut? Just amused at your backpedaling. Don't hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:29 PM
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No, twice a week with a personal trainer to develop a plan and check form. He can use the plan to go to the gym 4-5x a week. This is to build a healthy habit. Not looking to get ripped here (a lot of women don't find muscle-bound guys attractive - including me, and I'm a gym rat). Just want to get him toned and in shape-ish, but more importantly getting into the habit of working out regularly (and correctly) for physical and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:23 PM
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Suit yourself, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:18 PM
2

No, we're not. You said: I am saying that many women will find a guy who has lots of casual sex attractive What's the difference between the guy who has had a few serious relationships vs. "lots of casual sex"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:56 PM
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Volunteering at an animal shelter, or homeless shelter, or any multitude of worthy causes to expand your horizons and maybe meet new people is not nefarious. Worst case, you volunteered and did a little bit of good somewhere. Dogs at the shelter need to be walked. They're in a cage 24x7. It's like, 2-3 hours once a week (or really, as often or as little as you can make time for). You put one on a leash, go for a quick walk around the property (they usually have designated trails) give some pets …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:51 PM
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