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That’s what we all mean when we make a claim about preferences unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:37 PM
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That’s what we all mean when we make a claim about preferences unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:37 PM
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Looks like I have to translate womanese again 😒: “I didn’t like your question so I use the excuse of women not being a monolith to not answer the question” How about this: True or False, women like masculine men (being strong willed is masculine)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:15 AM
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True or False: women like strong willed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:56 AM
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Because I am fluent in womanese so I’ve learned to read between the lines accurately when they say things. Example: “I like personality over looks” translates to “I like him to be hot AND have a personality” Or “I only like nice guys” translates to “I only like hot and masculine guys that’s kind to me a lot of the times”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:54 AM
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Isn’t that what you meant? Is what I fixed not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:34 AM
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Girls ONLY like strong willed men FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:21 AM
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Only incompetent and weak men feel like these things burden them. Even women don’t want men that feel like their responsibilities are burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:24 PM
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Submissive men aren’t your natural type tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:13 PM
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No it’s reality. All a man has to do is be physically dominant with a woman and she’ll submit, no matter if she’s married or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:12 PM
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If it was up to me, I wouldn’t let the minority of women like you poison the cultural norms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:04 PM
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No Hinge and Tinder are very popular and doing well in their niche market. Bumbles market just failed them because it was not sustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:03 PM
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LOL I have women doing things for me but I don’t allow it because I’m suppose to be in control
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:02 PM
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lol just because they carry weapons around doesn’t mean their fighting in the wars
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:01 PM
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I’m saying that it is Patriarchy that provides for women in all facets of life. The Patriarchy even gave women their rights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:01 PM
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It’s the area you’re in. Go to most other areas and even feminist expect men to pay for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:59 PM
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No it is rare to find. You’re just a masculine woman and are friends with other masculine women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:59 PM
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No they shouldn’t continue that teaching. You find it rare because it is rare and not common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:56 PM
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No you’re supposed to be lovers. Friendship is for platonic relationships. Romantic relationships involves lovers. The man is the master because he’s dictating the direction, level, and pace of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:56 PM
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She’s not gonna demand him because he’s always the one in charge and women do not choose a man they have to babysit. Women are the ones that babysit by the man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:55 PM
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Yes let’s get women added to the draft so they can serve us not only in the household and kitchen but also in the battlefield by being our cooks for soldiers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:54 PM
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But women believe all men are misogynists and all benefits from the patriarchy, and if that’s the case, any man women get with means they love misogynistic and patriarchal men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:51 PM
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You’re not really lucky because all it takes is a man that’s more masculine and assertive than you to steal you from your husband 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:49 PM
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That’s why I said it’s a benefit for those who are stuck in their situation without any motivation to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:29 PM
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Birds of a feather flock together. Y’all are clearly the masculine ones in your relationships and I admire yall breaking the norm but yall are just a small minority that I hope never grow up to be anything significant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:28 PM
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You clearly are 😂 I feel sorry for you because you’re with a submissive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:26 PM
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You’re just deluding yourself. The best advice for a woman is always run and never engage a man because you don’t know what he’s capable of
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:25 PM
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That’s the ones that survived. You and I can agree that the scenarios where women escaped versus caught is probably 100 to 1. Women are weak compared to the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:24 PM
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You do have to understand that that’s how it is in this modern age but traditionally women would prefer to be SAHM and be with a man that works a skilled job that can covers a families expenses
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:03 PM
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Clap for yourself. You’re like 1/1000 of women that do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:01 PM
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But that’s unfair to those who are geo locked and can’t meet women in other areas without significant costs to move or relocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:57 PM
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Providing direction is providing leadership and the master/servant dynamic is ideal for any relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:16 AM
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Nope. It’s more like “obey me”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:12 AM
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She won’t tell me because I’ll be the one deciding that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:12 AM
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Why would she fear someone that protects them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:40 PM
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The blue collar and white collar worker was the original idea of a provider with SAHM system. Yes it is true. Women are terrible in the line of battle. The other men would not take them seriously and can easily overpower them and abuse them if they’re by themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:38 PM
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I’m promoting men like your bf and father and others that you need in your life to make you feel safe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:32 PM
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The patriarchal man protects his woman and takes care of her needs. That’s why women promote “soft life”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:32 PM
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It doesn’t have to be even 1% of the global population. All that matters is that it has a sizable amount of users and is also failing as an app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:31 PM
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You’re in the very small minority of women so stop acting like that’s true. I’m basing my conclusion from Bumble (an app where women make the first move). It has millions of women on there and now the company is leaning towards bankruptcy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:30 PM
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To provide direction and proactively guide the relationship towards different levels like bf/gf, fiancé, and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:29 PM
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Self defense training for women is just a waste of time. Men are naturally stronger than woman. All he needs is to get ahold of you and no amount of self defense training can save you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:28 PM
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Or you can have your man protect you from dangerous men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:27 PM
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Because it fits our patriarchal view that women are too weak to do war (which is painfully true). No it is an average experience. Especially amongst blue collar workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:26 PM
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I’ll take your word for it, since it applies to you. But the women in my life and the ones I’ve seen in life an on social media, they cringe at the idea of doing what they believe men should be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:24 PM
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Well it’s not like you women are getting the importance of men in your lives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:23 PM
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They are great safe options. You’re just being in denial of the value of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:22 PM
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But you do have to understand that as you go up in class level, it’s very much leaning towards the husband providing the finances and woman being SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:22 PM
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No because she’s fulfilling her tasks her husband assigned to her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:21 PM
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If the man catches you off guard without your weapon, what are you gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:43 PM
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Guns wont protect you against a man that really wants to harm you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:43 PM
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Clearly they have 50 million global users which is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:42 PM
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They don’t contribute financially. They contribute socially by raising the man’s kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:39 PM
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No because women need the patriarchy to protect them from violent men. Thats why they marry men of the patriarchy so they can get protection from other violent men. She no longer has to protect herself anymore. Her patriarchal man protects her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:38 PM
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It’s more likely more men have weapons than women. Men obsess over weapon carrying than women. So yeah, you’re gonna need a man to protect you from other weapon carrying men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:28 PM
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I’m using Bumbles failure to highlight my point that women do not want to be leading men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:26 PM
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Those women are in the minority. Are you telling me that every woman in your life is asking men on dates, paying for wedding rings and houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:17 PM
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They get to be provided for financially and physically (a house, children, and not much financial responsibility). Men made the decision and no feminist is fighting to repeal that decision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:10 PM
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But you’re not the average women. I can go up to any random woman and ask them these questions and they’ll say that that’s the men’s responsibility. That’s why Bumble failed. Women don’t wanna take the initiative on things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:07 PM
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You marry men in the patriarchy to get its benefits. Also, women are exempt from being drafted (female privilege)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:06 PM
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Other men and women and poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:05 PM
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No they aren’t. Even the bumble app has failed because women arent taking the initiative to message men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:05 PM
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Security
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:56 PM
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Yes they do. Are the women asking out men on dates and paying for them. Are the women paying for wedding rings and weddings and the houses they’re spouses will live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:55 PM
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No it’s leadership because decisions are being made for your benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:54 PM
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Because you’re inexperienced in choosing others. Being yourself means you’re well experienced about yourself, but choosing the right partner only comes from experience and wisdom. That’s why so many nice guys pick women that don’t really like them (and rich people choosing others that only want them for their money)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:51 PM
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But that’s the general mindset. People always say commitment is the foundation of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:49 AM
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Because there are desperate people that will mask their desperation to be with you. You can be yourself and know a lot about yourself but there are people that you do not know and can trick you into a long term relationship and you wouldn’t know if they’re genuine or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:24 PM
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Because there’s a difference in skill when it comes to making yourself a good partner and finding yourself a good partners, and even greater skill in getting a good partners who genuinely like you back. There are plenty of relationships with one partner that doesn’t really like the other partner back (which is why the divorce rates are so high)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:31 PM
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That stuff doesn’t help you find a good partner. The one that likes you back
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:48 PM
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Let’s stop lying guys: men want sluts. That’s why they brag about sleeping around. They want easy women so they can sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:56 AM
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They’re just angry that money isn’t the answer to their lack of attractiveness to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:03 AM
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They can actually but men are not competent enough to develop sexual attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:19 AM
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Fair enough. Men are more horny than women, but women can be very horny, but they’re taught to keep it lowkey. I’ve seen women sexually assault a man. See video below https://youtu.be/IGci1WAyDlE?si=Lu_IEOvskGwqWJ68
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:18 AM
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Yes they get spontaneously horny especially during their ovulation period. Women still masturbate a lot of times so this whole myth of low libido is just an excuse to say you’re not sexually attracted to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:47 PM
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That just meant you jus weren’t sexually attracted to your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:43 PM
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They are secret nymphos. I can show you videos of women posting thirsty comment on social media posts of hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:59 PM
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You do self pleasure often don’t you? So you can’t use the menstrual cycle excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:58 PM
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You’re welcome sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:58 PM
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Low libido means that you have a hard time getting aroused. But that’s false because women masterbate often so it’s not low libido issue and I’ve seen women post thirsty comments on social media posts of hot men or men with a dick print
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:57 PM
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No that’s false because I’m confident that women masturbate often so low libido is not an issue because if that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:55 PM
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So low libido is not an issue for women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:06 AM
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Have your last partners washed their asses often?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:50 AM
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Agreed, but let’s not act like they don’t like untamed animals when they are aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:06 AM
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No they don’t. They have low libido for men they don’t like or find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:01 AM
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No I’m saying that men that aren’t in charge tend to get lazy in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:58 AM
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No, one needs to be a leaders to be able to manage the relationship so there’s no chance of laziness or uselessness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:47 AM
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They’re aren’t skipping, they’re renting motel rooms in the same town
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:47 PM
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Women actually. You can see all of them complaining on social media about their men being lazy or useless or unhelpful. You never hear them saying that their men were leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:29 PM
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No it is true. There are a lot of relationships dissatisfaction because there’s no leadership in the relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:23 PM
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A leader is a boss and decision maker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:07 PM
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Someone has to lead the relationship because if not, the relationship will be boring and unordered
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:06 PM
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Women will date a skinny awkward man if his face card never declines.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:30 AM
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I was born with my audacity for free so I’m gonna use it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:17 PM
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Oh how the tables have turned on women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:33 AM
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Women like to be treated like that. Read their smut books
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:15 PM
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You’re suppose to dominate her in bed. If she’s doing the starfish, then I had bad news for you….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:00 PM
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Wow I’m so happy for you that you and your finally have the love life yall have been wanting 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:57 PM
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The emotional connection is the byproduct. The physical connection is the main focus
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:06 AM
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Not really because men still suck at sex and women complain about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:04 AM
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So it’s 18 minutes of foreplay and 2 minutes of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:01 AM
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I agree sweetheart. If you’ve been married for a while and you still struggle, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:00 AM
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Yeah they have a lot more sex than singles but if the quality of sex goes bad, they married couple might as well be single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:52 AM
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That’s the issue. Not a lot of men are competent enough to improve their sex skills because they finish within a couple pumps or a few seconds, so it’s hard to develop the competence if you don’t have the stamina or endurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:49 AM
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Well if a man is worried his wife would leave or the man is thinking of cheating has one root cause: his wife is restricting or denying him sex which means he’s not good at sex or not good enough based on her past sex experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:47 AM
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Yes they do face the same issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:40 AM
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Why would you say that? I’ve had sexual experience as well. I know how to have sex and I never had to rely on emotional connection to climax my partners. Are you even good at sex? Does your partner finish?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:39 AM
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Agreed. Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:37 AM
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But the physical connection is why matters. You don’t get orgasm from emotional connection. Emotional connection is for aftercare or foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:32 AM
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No the women never said their husband was a virgin and there’s rarity of men virgins compared to women virgins so it’s experienced men that are sexually incompetent in marriages with unfulfilled women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:30 AM
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Agreed. You can also develop the skill during marriage too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:29 AM
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You can’t just neglect what women themselves said. It’s reality that not a lot of married couples have good sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:28 AM
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You don’t need multiple partners. You really just need a long term relationship with the someone you’re not serious with and get it down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:27 AM
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And will leave their current partner if the toxic guy got his life together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:27 AM
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I agree. This is something men have to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:26 AM
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I also find the positive responses as not sincere. It’s hard to get honesty out of women about their spouses or honesty for anything for the fear of being judged. A lot of women said that they had great emotional connection during sex which means the sex was subpar and they had emotional connection to make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:25 AM
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Thanks for this post OP. I’m saving it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:24 AM
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Based. I’m saving the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:21 PM
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So if I touch a woman nonsexually like out my hands on her shoulder or back or in the arms, do I still need consent for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:16 PM
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Thanks for letting me win in a female dominated competition 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:14 PM
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If the person feels uncomfortable they should ask for consent. So now it’s not about consent but about if it’s sexual or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:00 PM
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So you won’t take the man’s word for it it because he’s a man. That sounds sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:54 PM
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But you support the belief that men should value consent before doing anything to women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:47 PM
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So hold women accountable. You’d go to war to hold men accountable if they did the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:35 PM
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These kinds of women who champion consent are just hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:33 PM
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So you don’t really care about consent then. You just don’t like men and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:31 PM
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So we’re okay forgoing consent if it’s not verbally said for women but we argue that men should care about consent at all times even if the woman doesn’t say anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:31 PM
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I guess I meant principles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:58 AM
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holds your hand and looks you dead in the eyeSo it’s not a standard if you don’t apply it to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:41 AM
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My point is that people don’t have standards for people they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:24 PM
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Exactly because they’ll give it up for the guy they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:36 PM
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You mean 4me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:53 PM
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I’m sure she will. That line was too smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:21 PM
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I’m sure if I was hot enough for you, you’d throw all that out the window. Women forgo all rules for men they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:48 PM
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I’m decent looking at least so why not me 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:44 PM
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So you’re still gonna hold out??? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:44 PM
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If it ever came down to that, we’ll just date our other woman:
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:37 PM
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Pick me first!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:30 PM
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So, in the end, nothing really changed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:29 PM
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But that doesn’t mean that the men they want, want them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:29 PM
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But you’re more valuable than a traffic cone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:28 PM
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But I can make it worth your while
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:28 PM
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Thank you for this post OP! Being forthcoming dries a woman’s desire so bad especially if she finds you unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:51 PM
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Yeah I meant lust 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:56 PM
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They’re not rapey because it’s socially and culturally and morally unacceptable. But they will list after a woman that wears provocative clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:15 PM
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They know they’re being abusive. They just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:53 AM
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I agree. I also know that there are plenty of “those men” and I would like to protect my baby from them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:05 PM
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Women are the same. I literally watched a video where women were sexually harassing a man for having a large “member”. They were forcefully trying to touch it and squeeze it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:51 PM
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We can understand the circumstances of the child’s condition and work to address it and cover it up. Like women understand their condition as well an can dress and cover up sweetheart 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:47 PM
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No it’s just how human beings behave. Be honest and the the truth shall set you free sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:46 PM
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Well we gotta get the baby covered up right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:36 PM
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Actually the origins of pants sagging goes back to prison times where inmates would sag their pants to indicate their interest in anal sex, so that’s a bad example. Not a lot of women are part of the Brat group or aesthetic so them wearing it doesn’t make sense. I also know that there are women that wear mini skirts with no panties on, so that’s why miniskirts are worn by women that go out to nightclubs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:17 PM
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Women are the same. I can send you a clip of a podcast where women sexually harassed a man because he has a long p*ins and it was showing through his pants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:29 PM
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Nope I never said that. I’m just saying that you can’t be ignorant of biological and psychological effect clothing has on people. The same way you see someone is a suit of business formal attire and you feel Ike you need to respect them or see them as respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:08 PM
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Nope I’m saying that we all know psychologically what happens when we wear certain clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:56 PM
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That’s fine by me. We do that anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:55 PM
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They are sexual that’s why they’re censored when it comes to content for general public. Midriffs, low cut blouse, micro mini skirts and high slit dresses are always going to convey sexuality because there’s plenty alternates to those kinds of dresses. Same with women. When a woman see a bulge in the pats of a man, they think all sexual things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:53 PM
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Sweetheart, all I said was that was what we actually like. Doesn’t mean we deserve it but we prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:48 PM
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So women dress like sluts in rebellion of being told to not dress like sluts??? I’m still trying to find the logic in this action. If your dad tell you not to dress like a slut, are you going to disobey him and dress like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:46 PM
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How else do you interpret it? Are you saying that it should be interpreted that even though you’re revealing your sexual parts, you’re also doing reverse psychology to let men know you’re not looking for anything sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:45 PM
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So they have a slutwalk to prove their message 🤨 sounds counterintuitive don’t you agree? It’s like dressing as slaves to protest slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:43 PM
1

You gotta scratch that itch right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:41 PM
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Wearing clothing that make PUBLIC your PRIVATE areas is indeed is sexualizing yourself. It’s hard for women to be honest about this topic. It’s okay to be seen as a slut. They even have a slutwalk, so just embrace the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:38 PM
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If I wear a police office outfit and someone comes to me to help them with a crime, would it wrong for me to deny them because I’m not trying to convey to them that I’m a police officer even though I’m wearing what they wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:32 PM
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These guys are being disingenuous. All men want is for a woman that’s hot and give them easy access to sex. Everything else is arbitrary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:30 PM
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Talk to your fellow women about that. They’re the ones popularizing MICRO miniskirts and only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:29 PM
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Yes it does! You can rent a girlfriend if you have money!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:50 PM
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No no no no no 🙂‍↔️ the most successful men are misogynistic. Being toxically masculine is the best way to have success with women 🙂‍↕️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:24 PM
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Women want a family more than men because of the oxytocin hormone. Men just want to have a partner that they can protect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:53 PM
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People are so immature that they get into bad relationships and are afraid to quit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:19 AM
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Is your man black too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:16 PM
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So how do you discern what’s a grift and what’s genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:39 PM
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But you have women reposting and commenting supporting such trends? So you’re saying I shouldn’t believe such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:39 PM
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You’re very much right about the experience of a SAHM. You’re either busy children or bored at home alone and your spouse isn’t there to provide for stimulation and interaction after they get home and sometimes your spouse secretly resents you if things aren’t perfect for them (even though it’s what they agreed to). I do see what you mean where you handle your responsibilities out of duty instead of passion. Our predecessors did a lot of things out of obligation and not interest. Do you agree th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:38 PM
2

For example, you see that huge tiktoker that makes food all the time wearing a maid outfit and to find out that she’s not traditional but does it for social media
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:03 PM
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So you’re saying this is all just commercialization of the traditional lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:01 PM
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Because if they don’t love it, they won’t behave well to make it admirable. How can you say someone is doing something honorably if they’re doing it begrudgingly? The things to like about the lifestyle is that women get to raise their children while being taken care of (which they always proclaim on social media). Being a SAHM is basically a house manager. Truth be told, men are the same as women when it comes to the traditional lifestyle. They both like the idea of it but sometimes hate it in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:59 AM
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I do find it honorable but I’ve experienced that women secretly hate living the traditional lifestyle but they like the idea of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:34 AM
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Then why do women promote that kind of lifestyle on social media if they’re not passionate about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:33 AM
2

Well why are plenty of women on social media promoting that lifestyle if it’s not something they actually like but like the idea of?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:32 AM
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I do realized that now. You can’t be groomed and trained to be someone you’re not. You have to actually have a passion for that kind of lifestyle to actually enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:41 AM
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That’s crazy but not surprising. I can see that she hates the lifestyle and resents the religion. I guess could you say that unless they actually love that lifestyle on their own before they meet their partners, no woman should be forced to be a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:38 AM
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Traditional roles for women are good but unless the woman was raised to love it, she’ll get bored of the role and/or bitter about it after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:08 AM
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Just have sexual discipline and that would solve all your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:29 AM
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I think it’s more that women don’t want to be judged because they’ve been coddled by their dad and mom since birth. They virtue signal because they’ve been virtue signaled to in their upbringing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:30 AM
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You’re right. Men are full of BS too. They say they want a good girl virgin traditional person but you see them chafing drunk easy women and expecting sex after the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:27 AM
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So basically Misogyny is what women really want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:18 AM
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Women publicly condemns misogyny, but privately indulge in the fantasy of misogyny to no end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:17 AM
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Not really. Lower birthrates means that the next generation won’t be able to have options on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:16 AM
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If any guy prioritizes anyone or anything over their girlfriends, they don’t like actually like their girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:36 AM
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Yeah they are. Also, every women does love a misogynist just like every guy does like a crazy woman. It’s all depends on the degree of their toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:00 PM
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Yeah but that’s a minority of them tho because they almost always go to developing countries to chase these women and not developed countries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:41 PM
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It’s not a bad thing but let’s call it what it is really is: sex tourism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:10 AM
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No but I’m determined to make sure my vision is fulfilled. I do not want to lose attraction to my partner by any means because that will lead to resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:49 AM
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😂😂 I did a social experiment on social media and feminists also were flirting with me when I was saying misogynistic things to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:04 AM
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Running and hitting the gym and eating healthy will seriously improve the health of your skin and contribute to you maintaining a youthful look
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:56 PM
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Yep there are attractive people on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:55 PM
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Well there’s a better chance of having good looking kids with a good looking person than with an ugly person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:16 PM
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Pleasure before pain. Par for the course for all relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:15 PM
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There’s one guarantee: that your kids are going to be good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:08 PM
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If he wasn’t misogynistic, was he toxic a little? Because I believe there’s no way that he’s an ex unless he was problematic to a point that it was irreconcilable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:01 AM
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I would like to ask: were your last few relationships with guys who weren’t misogynistic at all or they were kinda toxic. The reason why I ask is that I did a social experiment where I made an account that solely about promoting misogyny and I got more engagement from women in that account than I ever did. Even when I told women they’re meant to be dominated and used as slaves, they still reciprocated and flirted back and forth with me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:23 PM
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Agreed. It’s hard to be a misogynist if you look like a goblin and act like one. In your case, I’m pretty sure you’d appreciate a sprinkle of misogynistic behavior in the recipe of a kind personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:12 PM
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Well women are attracted to misogynistic men so I guess it’s par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:04 PM
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Truth be told, slut shamers are typically one of the biggest sluts behind the scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:19 PM
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Yeah exactly. It makes dating easier when you know if she doesn’t like you, it’s not your personality, she’s just not attracted to you
/r/BlackPillScience17/10/25 06:52 PM
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Looks so matter but it’s always something that’s hard to change. That’s why we all focus on personality because it’s easier to accept than the harsh truth about looks
/r/BlackPillScience17/10/25 06:34 PM
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Only because she’s gained weight. Once she’s back in shape, it’s all good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:51 AM
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Hit the gym during her recovery period and then afterwards, put another baby in her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:45 AM
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No way!!! I’m gonna hit that gym every month after each child birth. Sexiness is important in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:42 AM
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Yes they do. Especially if she’s no longer sexy as she was before pregnancy or youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:40 AM
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Women lie, men lie. Men lie to women about loving them so they can get sex, and women lie to men saying they love them so they can have security
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:21 AM
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Genuinely nice guys are plentiful. There are plenty of guys that are unconditionally nice but that’s unattractive to women because those guys typically don’t have a backbone and are pushovers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:44 AM
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But it does hold water. Good man is typically a beta man in terms of personality, not the “nice guys” that you are referring to that are actually buttholes. Real Good men typically are typically men with kind personalities and are seen as beta when challenged by alpha/aggressive men and women don’t like such personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:42 AM
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Alright now you’re underselling 😂 there’s 52 weeks in a year and as long as they go out once a weekend and hookup, they can easily rack up numbers. Oh and don’t forget Spring Break week 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:17 AM
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But isn’t that what most women do in high school and college? They literally get ran though and go through hooking up with a lot of guys before they graduate college
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:13 AM
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Women do want to sleep with 100 men but they’ll be slut shamed by other women and men do they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:54 AM
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Women are desperate for sex because even when they aren’t having sex, they’re still masturbating everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:53 AM
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No there was a guy that left the line but his face was shown and he recently killed himself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:52 AM
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Traditional man will choose A both times but a Modern man would choose B both times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:17 AM
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No some do because of mutual attraction. there’s to be true mutual genuine desire for the other, where you’re mutually obsessed with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:35 PM
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A lot of public figures have skeletons in their closets 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:11 PM
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The truth is this: not a lot of guys can handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:38 AM
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We should teach men how to be more attractive and have interesting lives so they don’t have to cold approach and have women come to them naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:20 PM
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Women love misogynistic men and men love toxic women. The circle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:52 PM
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It won’t work because guys don’t really care about social stuff. That’s something women are more naturally interested in. Guys care about physical things related to anything they can build or engineer. If it’s not something performance based or competitive, you’d have a hard time getting guys onboard naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:31 PM
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It’s because men don’t keep them accountable. The reason why any women gets away with anything is because men don’t care about it as long as they get to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:18 PM
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Because we are taught to earn her attention instead of letting a woman give us their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:08 PM
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I guess I got a lot of work to do before that age!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:59 AM
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It’s just the assumption that they would have things figured out by their age or have wisdom instead of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:58 PM
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“Do as I say, not as I do” it’s true for men too 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:59 PM
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I stopped dating women to focus on improving myself as a man so I can be a better partner for my future wife
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:54 PM
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Well I guess you’re right about that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:55 AM
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You’re right. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:54 AM
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It’s okay to say you found men unattractive back then. There are plenty of women looking 👀 at weddings. That’s why they have the bouquets throw to symbolize the next woman that’s going to get wed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:15 PM
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You do have a point. I will concede that bring stylish does improve your looks. I guess it just matters if you’re able to get fashion level dressing, which is hard for men that aren’t into such things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:12 AM
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It was a guy that gave me that compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:03 AM
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You can do a lot of things to make your face better if you’re average looking, but I’m talking about make a baby cry kind of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:24 AM
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That’s reasonable. The looks will get the relationship started but personality is what keeps it long lasting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:22 AM
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It’s not underestimating but it’s just being realistic. Even if they went from 2 to 8 in terms of style, that won’t change the fact that they’re facially unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:20 AM
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Because it’s the best place to meet single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:22 AM
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😂😂 that’s a good point. Why did you date those kind of guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:22 AM
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I will agree that it will lead to a great conversation and a good time and vibes. But will you give the guy a chance to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:26 PM
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Well not really. Tell me this: even if you had a guy that dressed well and smelled good but was facially unattractive, would you still give him a chance to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:17 PM
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Dressing well is important, it’s just that it’s one of the important factors to bring attractive versus the be all end all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:35 PM
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True. It does help with the aesthetics of the environment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:14 PM
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Someone actually complimented me and told me that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:14 PM
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Well I dressed the best out of all the guests at a wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:13 PM
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Yep! I’ve even dressed the best at a wedding and still got rejected when I approached some women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:09 PM
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Dressing nice means nothing if you’re still ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:51 PM
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It’s more of women are attracted to competence. A charming guy is socially competent versus an asshole. An asshole is only successful if he’s physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:16 AM
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Tennis or boxing or any other individual sports
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:14 AM
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Cooperation is only useful if you’re in a team environment, but competition involving individual performance requires Machiavellian tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:14 AM
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It all depends on the competition. Some competitions require you being Machiavellian
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:12 AM
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Thank you for the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:09 AM
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Thanks for the Ted Talk!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:06 AM
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I guests just cope for not being able to be attractive physically and in personality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:07 PM
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1000000%. I guess that’s the true wisdom. Do as they do, not as they say. So the most important thing is to be attractive
/r/BlackPillScience27/08/25 04:38 AM
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So you know too?! I guess I gotta follow Clinton and Trump’s examples
/r/BlackPillScience27/08/25 04:37 AM
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You make good points. I guess there value in understanding the nuances in all these paradigms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:36 AM
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Would it be bad rephrase it to “women are attracted to toxic masculine men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:04 PM
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It’s something if they’re pursuing a case for over $100 million
/r/BlackPillScience25/08/25 03:54 PM
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Yes that’s what I mean
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 06:44 PM
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I agree with what you said. It’s just that we should focus more on the behaviors of people versus what they proclaim to prefer?
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 05:32 PM
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It’s just that they say the opposite when asked about it
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 05:15 PM
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But it’s the what validates the consent that matters. Women always say that they’re attracted to personality and don’t like to be sexualized but it seems like those standards are nonexistent in the presence of someone attractive
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 05:14 PM
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Gotta watch out for that. They know they can trap you with allegations later on and make money off of you
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 05:10 PM
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Yes we need science because women will swear up and down that personality matters over looks and that they don’t like to be sexualized by anyone.
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 05:09 PM
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But for the women, they’re dating up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:05 PM
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Isn’t hypergamy where you “date up” to being with a more valuable partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:02 PM
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But they’re using their money as leverage to gain those chicks. That’s why it’s hypergamy. They’re going to countries where they can their average wealth to get a chick from the area
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:00 PM
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But you’re (typically) going to a poorer country to get women because the dollar is worth more there. You never see passport bros go to Europe or China or Even Australia. They always go to Colombia or Thailand or Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:17 PM
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The issue is that they shit on American women as if they’re not promoting hypergamy themselves by going overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:15 PM
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Marriage is not the issue for rich men. It’s just the societal stigma on getting ironclad prenups. If men promoted getting prenups, you’d have less hate for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:26 PM
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What do you expect men to learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:34 PM
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Okay I see what you mean. I appreciate the explanation and it changed my viewpoint on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:08 AM
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There’s no real spending limit for sex (look at sex work culture/strip clubs). The only bottle neck is that prostitution is not accessible or organized like brothels. I’m very sure it can easily become cheap and affordable once theres competition the market is saturated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:07 PM
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lol you’re such a dom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:19 PM
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Who is the demographic and where is the geographic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:14 PM
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Thank you! We’ve been listening to all these “pills” when in reality, nobody follows them when given the opportunity for someone they want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:45 PM
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She’s looking for a provider because if she wasn’t, she wouldn’t have cheated with him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:39 PM
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That’s the truth actually. Jeff Bezos looks like he’s having a midlife crisis and is trying to rebrand himself now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:38 PM
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Is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:27 PM
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But you can’t get people if you don’t get to approach them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:36 AM
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So you’re saying it’s not natural to cold approach?? How do you think our ancestors mated?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:34 AM
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I propose making prostitution legal and affordable, then it’ll help quell male thirstiness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:03 AM
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It’s because prostitution isn’t made legal and popular. If that happens and is affordable, dating would no longer be a priority for a lot of men. They’ll quell their sex drives every day if they want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:02 AM
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Don’t forget to sign up for our next course at “Good Dick University”, where we teach how to give good dick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:22 AM
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No it’s like this: if you’re ugly and simping, the Redpill is for you. If you’re handsome and masculine, Redpill is not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:27 PM
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I like your take. I’m saving this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:26 PM
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If a woman is seriously attracted to a guy, she’s gonna move it along by force lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:17 PM
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Actually he will have more success if the girls approach him because its guaranteed attraction versus having to play the numbers game when you approach woken
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:16 PM
2

So you’re saying that you don’t like strong dominant men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:38 PM
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Why yikes??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:13 PM
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Women like dominant and aggressive men. It’s just part of their nature (like how men love beautiful women). 50 shades of grey proved how women like those types of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:46 PM
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You’re so hot when you angry lol but seriously tho, women like strong men and strong men are most likely misogynistic. 50 shades of grey proved what women like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:44 PM
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But they can’t take responsibility because it’s something they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:43 PM
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It’s like human nature showing off how it operates 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:41 PM
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Because the men in the relationship should be holding them accountable not society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:30 AM
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Well it’s not more so about listening to her to appease her, but you listen to her to learn more about her deeply and master that knowledge so you know how to handle her if the problems arises in other circumstances. Women like competent men that know them more than they know themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:29 AM
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Yeah if they did, then this sub and other social media wouldn’t be full of complaints about see precise issues and we wouldn’t have guys like Andrew Tate and freshandfit be the figure heads of this movement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:26 AM
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Men are not logical so let’s stop with that myth. Men are psychotic and women are emotional. If men were so logical, they wouldn’t be complaining about relationships issues. A relationship is like a car. The same way they’re are different cars with different types of builds, it’s the same way with different types of relationships. You just gotta know how each car is built and functions and you can know how to fix it, similar to a relationship with a women. If you don’t know your woman inside and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:25 AM
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But from a physical standpoint, you try to maximize what you can regarding height and looks (if desperate, get surgery). But most men can max out their charisma if they really wanted to and they can have interesting lives that allow them to attract women that live a similar lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:21 AM
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Indirect communication just requires a higher level of IQ to discern. It requires intuition. That’s why it’s like a puzzle. Puzzles don’t tell you the answer right away, but only the intelligent can figure out the puzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:13 AM
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It doesn’t matter if she’s not satisfied, as long as she respects you, that’s all you should care about. When a woman respects you, she won’t dare shit test you for fear of losing you but not a lot of men are respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:08 AM
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For the men women don’t love, what they need to become is a man they respect. Because if a woman respects you, she’ll follow your lead easily and see you as better than her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:06 AM
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No what I’m presuming is that they have the ability to achieve success despite their traumatic upbringing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:05 AM
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It doesn’t matter about entitlement but security. Guys really don’t want to get into a relationship with an ugly person are only dooming themselves because like attracts like and if you’re only able to get with ugly people, then accept it and use them as experience until you get the women you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:04 AM
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They’re only never satisfied to men that they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:02 AM
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Not it’s easy because if you based your relationships and principles and leadership and trust and communication and collaboration, you’ll more than likely have a successful relationship. But people skip all that and just base their relationship on love and it fails
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:01 AM
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But apart from men who complain this sub, you see men complain in social media and you even have redpill guys like Andrew tate and freshandfit and rollo tomasi and others somplainjng as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:00 AM
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Not all women are the same but a lot of them react similarly to the same influences of leadership and strength
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:58 AM
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Why not just go for the ugly ones and at least gain experience so you can then get the mid ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:58 AM
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Why do you say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:56 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:55 AM
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But they can learn it. If men can learn physics and chemistry and calculus, they can learn how to be emotionally intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:54 AM
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That’s a fair point, but based on all the posts that are in this sub, I guess it’s a fairly large amount of men that aren’t too problem solvers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:53 AM
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It all depends on her trust in you as her man. If she refuses to open up to you, then you haven’t laid the firm foundation of trust or you have to build a deeper level of trust in her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:52 AM
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I’m referring to the other attractive aspects of yourself like attractiveness based on your lifestyle and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:51 AM
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No matter what type of strength you have, it always falls into the category of mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual strength. If you can display these kinds of strengths, she will always follow you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:50 AM
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How does it work then in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:46 AM
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It’s the same analogy when it comes to being in a relationship as it is a vehicle. The same way you have to know your vehicle inside and out in order to solve its issues is the same way you have to know your partner inside and out in order to solve any relationship issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:45 AM
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No that’s impossible. They are able to attract women but it’s just the woman they want. There’s a woman for every guy but it may not be the woman you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:43 AM
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Women, no matter what they say, love when a man is in control and love to follow a man. That’s why we men to behave like men and be strong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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No women are good at communicating, that’s why a majority of them work in roles where they work with people like the medical field and education field. It’s just that women are maters of nonverbal communication and it’s a higher level of communication that men have to learn how to do. Men can learn it because they use nonverbal communication a lot of times when playing team sports so they are capable of learning it when it comes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:40 AM
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Then get that base amount of emotional intelligence. It’s that simple. It’s like interpersonal communication is men’s kryptonite
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:38 AM
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But men can learn it. Men aren’t that incorrect that they can’t learn to be emotionally intelligent. Or are you insinuating that they are that incompetent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:37 AM
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I agree. You rarely ever have men keeping each other accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:01 AM
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Attraction is not everything. You can still be attractive because you’re well experienced and have an interesting personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:01 AM
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If you have emotional intelligence or social skills you can easily read their body language and know something is wrong and just communicate that you’re gonna patient with them until they’re able to open up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:58 AM
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Women only do that when they don’t respect the man. If man were strong and masculine, they wouldn’t tolerate such petty issues and their women won’t give them issues to avoid losing their men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:56 AM
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Darn 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:55 AM
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Ehh it’s like when men would spend all their time and money on project cars that are almost impossible to fix but they keep at it until they get it working. If a woman is inventing problems to start an issue, then you learn to get to the deep root cause of her problem and solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:49 AM
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Because AI sexbots are in high demand among men. That’s why it’s natural for men to objectify women. Also that’s why a lot of men just want sex from women and why men are a majority of “grapists”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:02 PM
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Men objectify women a lot that’s why AI sexbots are in high demand. That’s why women complain that men use them for sex because that’s all that a lot of men want from women. That’s why they seek for a relationship/dates with men before having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:00 PM
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It’s simple, just know what each persons principles (implicitly and explicitly). No one goes against their principles no matter how bad or good, so once you know them you should have a great idea about the person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:12 PM
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Having female friends just shows you have a secure personality that doesn’t see women as sex objects
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:40 AM
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You can just get a pre-nun and not have to worry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:45 PM
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I mean the celebrity crush is your girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:56 PM
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I was implying that you were in a relationship with your celebrity crush
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:36 PM
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Same. Nothing beats human psychology, not even culture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:01 AM
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There’s no problem with marriage but men just don’t love the person enough to get married. If your celebrity crush wanted to get married to you, you’d say no? Highly unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:00 AM
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A lot of men are afraid of marriage because they’re just incompetent when it comes to choosing a partner, hence the fear of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:58 AM
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Which goes back to the previous point is that women pride themselves on being caretakers and men pride themselves on being providers. Human psychology will always dictate this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:57 AM
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The reason is because it shows commitment. When you’re working at your job, you have a document that says you’re the employee and have the rights of an employee. Having the marriage title is for social, economical, and marital reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:54 AM
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Yeah I agree with this opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:47 AM
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I wouldn’t take the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:38 AM
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Scandinavian countries are that liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:29 AM
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There’s alimony where women pay the jobless men in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:24 AM
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There’s no point of getting a woman that’s attracted to you if you repel her through your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:37 AM
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You’re 100% right. They see it as went pay for sex even though it’s the most practical way for sexless men to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:59 PM
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Excessive kindness is weak. Selective kindness is strength
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:45 PM
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You’re right. It is good for approach anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:58 PM
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Cold approach is valid and worth it, but u find it more effective if you cold approach in a social setting than out in public if you want to have better results
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:21 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:45 AM
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Yes, though a minority, we do exist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:39 PM
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Bro they can paper abort by using a condom. We men need to start taking responsibility for getting women pregnant that we don’t want to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:14 AM
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Women just hate weak men in general. Whether it’s weakness in character or personality or physical strength
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:52 AM
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Men are psychotic but they don’t have women. They hate that they can’t control women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:51 AM
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The issue is that women are more considerate when describing things because women naturally don’t wanna hurt people’s feelings. So when they say they want a nice guy, they really mean: a strong and attractive Man that is kind. The reason why I say that is because I’m a nice guy, truly. I’m too kind and people pleasing. But I realize they women don’t want that, even the nice girls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:50 AM
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Yo I’m saving this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:54 PM
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I appreciate that 😊 I’ll upvote you too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:37 PM
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Also be someone that she’s can be obsessed with long term. After marriage, don’t let yourself go or you’ll have a dead bedroom. Strive to be sexier every year and she’ll never let go of you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:01 PM
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That’s true. Idk why men dog women about hypergamy. It’s human nature to want the best option. Why would we wanna be with someone we don’t feel is the best we can have? Men basically want women to be mediocre, or in other words, hypogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:59 PM
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That’s good for women then since they don’t have to deal with the Madonna/whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:51 AM
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I can find plenty of guys like that because guys typically want to have sex with their wives WAYYYY more often than their wives want to have sex with them. It’s even a popular trend of social media of wives playing out the idea of trying your avoid sex with their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:47 AM
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It’s not like they have a choice because that’s always going to be factor when they get into a relationship with a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:43 AM
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But I’ve seen seen a lot of woman with good looking men in my religious community because no one wants to be with someone that people don’t find attractive or approve of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:42 AM
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Okay makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:37 AM
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Phew! Good thing I don’t use only fans at all. Why pay when you can get it for free? On the other hand, wife is a compliment because it’s someone you see as marriage material and you take serious while the other one is just a placeholder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:37 AM
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But you wouldn’t make them wait would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:34 AM
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I agree with you. A lot of women say one thing but react in another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:27 AM
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Are you sure about that? I’m pretty sure it started as a date and then hookup and then “relationship/husband material”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:26 AM
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More like “wife” and “whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:24 AM
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A lot of women won’t get married to a guy they’re not attracted to. Now there are some that would not be sexually attracted to the their husbands and those are obvious, but we can’t just assume that husband material equates to being unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:22 AM
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It makes sense because you don’t want it, but let’s say you were dating Henry cavill or Brad Pitt, would you make them wait or not bend your standards for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:19 AM
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Making a guy wait doesn’t guarantee relationship success because some guys are just patient to get sex. Now if the guy tells you to wait to sleep with you, then he’s more than likely serious about you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:18 AM
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It’s also bad to get rejected by someone within a mutual community because then everyone knows about the rejection and it might affect your reputation/prospects with the women in the community
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:40 PM
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Not really. Just Google search and you’ll find a lot of escort services
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:48 PM
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Also, there are very few men that are so hot that women would be more willing to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:55 PM
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Why is sex work not legalized?? We legalized gay marriage and marijuana but not sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:52 PM
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You’re right on this issue. Guys that take girls on dates to get sex are just lying to themselves about not wanting a relationship with a woman when they can just go buy sex from a prostitute or escort and call it a night. I’m surprised that men that just want sex don’t just promote sleeping with prostitutes or escorts so they can get their rocks off without the whole dating process
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:51 PM
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But wouldn’t self love mean enforcing safe sex (I.e. using condoms for men) so they wouldn’t have to waste money on plan B or abortion procedures?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:46 PM
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It’s rare to have a deadly pregnancy. It’s just mind boggling that women would be okay with abortion as if it’s not the direct denial of their own motherhood. I thought self love was what women preach. Abortion is not self love at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:23 PM
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I’ve never really understood why women are so passionate about abortion. I thought women loved motherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:08 PM
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It is prison but that’s the best option because as much as men say that women are emotional, they keep forgetting to mention that guys are more psychotic than women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:15 AM
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Yes. The issue is that if women were honest about men they’re attracted to, there’d be a lotta broken hearts and some men committing crime against women that aren’t attracted to them. It’s socially and physically safer for women to be “nice” about their attractions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:35 PM
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Men care about looks WAY more than personality. If she’s cute and isn’t TOO crazy, she’ll be fine in the dating scene. But women do care about personality so yeah it suck’s if you have mental illness. The best way to overcome that issue is to be more hot and sexy than your mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:39 PM
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I agree that women can have personality types, but they generally like men that are attractive. Wouldn’t it suck to know that your spouse can’t call you beautiful because they married you for your personality and not your looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:28 PM
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Everyone has a type. It may not be to chads, but it could be alt types, intellectual types, religious types. It doesn’t have to be physical types, it can be personality types sometimes. However, by nature we are hardwired to be attracted to one type of person: an attractive person. Attraction to personality and other characteristics are just nurture aspect of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:23 PM
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It’s actually a compromise. If they’re not your type, you can love them but not be attracted to them. That’s why you hear the term “settle”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:47 PM
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It’s more of a new term for F-Boys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:43 PM
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You’re completely right. Men mostly date up in terms of looks if they can. They want to be with someone that they can show off as their beautiful partner versus someone they feel nothing for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:49 PM
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I respect that. Well then your type of guy would be different from the generic kind of guy since you don’t like to be constantly communicating with people. Normally, if you’re interested in someone, unless your profession is has you busy the whole shift, even during lunch break, you’d be more open to communicating it’s them frequently. But you’re different so I understand where you’re coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:41 PM
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Women do date down and settle for someone less than their standard if they have no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:30 AM
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Think about this: if Chris hemsworth or Henry cavill was texting you, you’d make time to text him back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:25 AM
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I live in the Midwest when you join a community of certain people (like religious community or fitness community or ethnic community), and once you’re in those communities, you have plenty of women to talk to but also have to watch your reputation since people will know who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:46 AM
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It’s not necessarily the “no” but the social implications of their rejections. If you’re in a community and you get rejected constantly, you’re gonna get a bad reputation from women and even if you get rejected in public, other women may see that you got rejected and act accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:39 AM
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I’m extroverted as well to the point I just go out by myself to parties and bars and talk to women easily. I dress nice, I make them laugh, I flirt with them and get them engaged, but even after all of that, I still get rejected. It’s tough when you have a clapped face. P.S. I’m also 6’5 so I’m pretty tall as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:38 AM
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OP I understand your point. So what you’re saying is pretty much just fit yourself into a type of person you want to attract and then just focus on those types of people. Pretty much: there’s someone for everyone, you just have to be their types
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:33 AM
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Then just have simple, high, and realistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:34 AM
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For future reference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:46 AM
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I’m saving this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:17 PM
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Okay see what you mean. So pretty much be physically attractive but also funny and social to ensure a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:26 PM
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Why do you not agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:25 PM
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But if you’re hot, wouldn’t the sexual attraction you garner be enough to keep her interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:30 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement bro 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:29 PM
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I see what you mean. For women, it’s mostly physical (facial) attractiveness that matters before personality. Just try to improve what you can physically and mitigate what you cant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:29 PM
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What else do you not agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:25 PM
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Honestly, just doing cardio would be enough for health reasons, but unless you’re playing sports, there’s not the inherent motivation to get fit unless it’s for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:25 PM
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So instead of pretending, those types of men should strive to incorporate the values of men that are sexy into their own character. So you’re saying that it’s only worth it to be with women that share compatible values as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:24 PM
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That’s true. Men don’t achieve great things to impress other men, it’s mostly to impress other women. That’s why we get power and money so we can get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:52 PM
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I agree. They’re probably more shallow, since they’re so selective about men. I’m already 6’5 so I guess I have that going for me. Guess I gotta hit the gym then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:51 PM
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Do you agree with everything else he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:51 PM
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So you’re saying that men should strive for great accomplishments in order to be garner sexual attraction with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:50 PM
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So you’re saying that you just have to get fit and muscular and then you’ll fit into the type of sexy man women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:49 PM
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But if you were raised in a very conservative environment, can’t you still become sexy? Plus, what makes having connections with those who share your same values, something that’ll have you become sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:48 PM
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But isn’t sexual attraction a purely physical thing versus a personality thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:45 PM
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It’s because women find most men unattractive and men find most women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:42 AM
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So the solution for men is to become sexually attractive, but how do you become sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:40 AM
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Thanks for that. It makes me more enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:37 AM
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But dating honestly is just developing physical attractiveness and an attractive personality. Once you have those two things you should have success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:09 PM
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The solution is that men should try to just learn how to be attractive. Develop that skill, master it, and then have success in dating. If guys can invest the time and energy they invest in games or sports into becoming attractive, then they’ll be more successful in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:05 PM
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The best advice for any men is for them to transform themselves to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:57 PM
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😂😂 I love your honesty. That’s what I learned: don’t believe what people say, only what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:58 PM
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Treat her like a human means treating her like a platonic friend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:08 PM
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Penis size is like your facial looks. It’s not something you can change naturally so just accept it and find a way to work with it to have a successful dating life. Or if you’re that worried about it: get surgery and enjoy any length you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:48 PM
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Some women do suck but men make it seem like all women suck. And those men that do that…suck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:31 PM
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The answer is that men that are not good with women or have healthy relationships with women like to complain and accuse women of things that that they theorize.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:40 PM
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Women don’t want assholes, they want men that are ASSERTIVE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:05 PM
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I agree. It seemed like he was forcing the image that open relationships can work. Plus also, he slept around and cheated on her but couldn’t handle her cheating on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:17 PM
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I agree. Not all woman are the same. Based on the concept of nature vs nurture, some women may operate based on nature in stead of nurture, and some women may operate based on nurture vs nature. I was wondering if in your situation, it’s more nurture vs nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:31 PM
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You’re right. All women aren’t the same. It’s just me wondering which women have more nurture than nature and which have more nature than nurture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:58 PM
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I know that but I’m focusing more on this issue: nature vs nurture. By nature, it is believed that women want a dominant man, but then by nurture, women can develop a dominant personality and then want a submissive man. So which is true then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:37 PM
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So you’re the dominant woman in your relationship? I thought women didn’t like that dynamic in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:47 PM
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I agree. Nothing matters if you’re unattractive. Confidence doesn’t matter if you’re unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:52 PM
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Men usually pick up toxic behaviors from their friends as well. It’s all about it maturity of the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:50 PM
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Or you couldn’t stick it to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:22 PM
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They only get more attractive if they put in effort in the right areas, but yes, the main principle of being attractive is like the principle of gravity. It’s always the law
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:00 PM
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Honestly, all it takes is one drunk hangout on e evening and I’m pretty sure you and your male friends would bang each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:58 PM
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Well what really matters is that you’re attractive or hot. That makes your life so much easier when talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:33 AM
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I applaud your comment. It’s just brutal truth. The most important thing in a relationship is attraction and guys are afraid of the uncomfortable truth that they may not be attractive to their girl and they try to compensate by personality or money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:31 AM
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Men don’t care because men mostly care about looks so as long as she’s not crazy or annoying, we just don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:01 PM
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You’re right. Men don’t care. As long as she’s attractive and not too annoying, we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:01 PM
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You’re 100% right. People just want to be with someone they like, whether men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:03 PM
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That’s pretty much it. It’s not complicated. Either she’s attracted to you or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:39 PM
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I’m in my late 20s. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:30 AM
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Well we could get to know each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:50 PM
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I’m a male virgin. Can I DM you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:57 AM
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You’ve never been with a male virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:32 AM
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Platonic companionship with men is already a given in a man’s life. What’d you mean by platonic companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:38 AM
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But guys have platonic relationships with other guys. Why would we want platonic relationships with women when we’re looking to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:32 AM
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A lot of men can do all of that: travel, develop friendships, have hobbies, etc. but at the end of the day, you’re still lonely because you don’t have a partner. Those are all good distractions, but that’s all they are: distractions. They don’t solve the root need of a companion. You can achieve great things but if you have no one to share it with, then it’s meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:28 AM
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M’lady 🤨 do you not like being someone’s preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:23 AM
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You’re my type lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:22 AM
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Wait so what you’re saying is that not being boring borders on the edge of toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:04 PM
1

I believe you’re correct on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:14 PM
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Women can and have probably said that before on previous posts. We’re all wired to value attraction for short term fun and character and personality for long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:32 PM
0

Incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:21 PM
2

I agree, but normally atheists and agnostics normally started out as Christian before leaving the religion but they kept the morality and values. Though you date those guys that are Christian like, would you say you’re Christian like as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:49 PM
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Aren’t those kinds of men typically the same coin but different sides? Well, what kind of men are you attracted to them? I’m assuming Christian men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:04 PM
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I just comparing your response to the OP’s post. Based on what OP posted, would you be attracted to men like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:49 PM
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Would you attracted to the men that are crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:41 PM
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He would either 1) chalk it up to her just not being interested in him and he can go talk to another girl and see if she’s interested. Or 2) decide to improve his attractiveness by either improving his conversation skills or physical attributes (muscles, jaw line, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:36 PM
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I just find it interesting that a lot of guys are willing to contribute to a woman’s body count but then get mad at a woman with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:31 PM
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And more ironically, the RPers are trying to sleep with her on the first date, so it’s confusing why they Shane these things. I just find it interesting that a lot of guys are willing to contribute to a woman’s body count but then get mad at a woman with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:31 PM
1

Well men also pigeon hole other men into the box of “resource dispensers” so it’s not helping their cause for solving their emotional well-being. I believe men can find women like that but then again, you have to be at a level of maturity yourself to be able to notice and attract a woman like that, which sucks because a lot of men are not mature nor have good father figures to look up to (which is why the Red Pill is so popular). You have two choices: choose a woman who can handle a man that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:43 PM
1

I can read all about Stoicism but what I’m saying is the popular interpretation of Stoicism. Stoicism is conflated with indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:16 PM
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I believe the purpose of having a partner is for them to be able to help provide an ancillary view that could help with dealing with the issue. If you don’t have a partner that is emotionally mature or wise enough to be useful or helpful, then you’re just wasting time with someone who is just there for sexual value and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:16 PM
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Why is my statement so funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:08 PM
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Is that a laughing emoji lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:06 PM
1

Isn’t that what stoicism teaches? Stoicism teaches the absence of emotion. You don’t see Stoics who are joyful do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:18 AM
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No it’s just that women are raised to be nice and kind so they’re not gonna be as aggressive as guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:43 AM
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No it’s just that women are biologically more caring and nurturing than men since it’s needed to raise children, so they’re naturally nicer than men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:42 AM
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Showing the wrong/toxic emotion is lack of emotional control. If you’re feeling happy or joyful, be joyful. Don’t put your joy away so you can be “stoic”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:36 AM
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It’s simpler to deal with the root cause of the emotion like a mature person than just ignore it and be stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:35 AM
1

No I don’t believe that. When you’re saying, you get pretty comfortable with someone after at least a year of dating so you do get an idea of how they are before marrying them. So what you’re saying is that when you’re dating, you pretty much hide aspects of your life to the other person for years? That’s not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:33 AM
1

No he should just be able to choose a woman who is emotionally mature so he can be vulnerable to her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:31 AM
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Yes they do. They literally talk down on women who have higher education, saying they are gonna be more likely to divorce more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:19 AM
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But the Red Pill doesn’t teach that. They say educated women are more career oriented and not suitable for housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:22 PM
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No, he’s taking about women getting an education. Red pill guys want a woman whose a housewife but don’t raise their daughters to be housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:44 PM
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No you don’t make sense. He would just hire a nanny to homeschool her and teach her how to be a housewife wouldn’t he?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:43 PM
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So, in essence, only approach if you have confidence, or you feel that you’re attractive, or you have a great personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:08 PM
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Actually I’m curious: are you saying that even ugly or average girls are not attracted to those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:38 PM
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Has your coworkers tried having someone hook them up with a wing woman so they can have better success with getting with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:48 PM
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I like your solution. If you’re not having success, then it might be because you’re in an area that doesn’t suit you. You can move to a different area and see if you can have success that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:43 PM
1

Hmmmmm…..you sure I’ve been brainwashed by the red pill to be an ATM?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:25 AM
2

But you have to get that guy that has shape shifting powers so you can have him transform into a rat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:56 PM
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Most men do want to be used as ATMs. That’s why we’re always was saying “be a provider”, you have to make more money than the woman, you have to pay all the bills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:54 PM
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I’ll take the rich man in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:19 PM
2

So if you were to choose one for LTR, which one would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:06 PM
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Desperate or not, easy sex is easy sex to a guy. You’re telling me you’d deny easy sex just because it was bad before
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:56 AM
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You’re right, but more often than not, a man doesn’t care if she’s good in bed as long as he get his orgasm and be done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:02 AM
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I agree with you. Women that complain about men leaving after sex are either lacking self awareness or are not genuine about the whole situation. Men who leave women after sex just are not looking for a relationship. The women should expect that with any guy she sleeps with that she is not in a relationship with. The solution for the woman is just to have better self control and get the guy to have a relationship with her for a considerable amount of time before having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:31 AM
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All it takes is for a young man to be different and show her a better way, for her to stop her old validation seeking behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:36 AM
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It’s just being a respectful person, both to her and yourself. It’s just to be an example of how it should be instead of how it’s been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:34 AM
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That’s why I think a lot of men nowadays are just plain selfish. They want the sex without the investment in the relationship. I believe it should be a win-win situation. The guy invests in to the relationship with the woman and then the woman gives him the sex he desires. Both parties win
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:42 PM
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Incredible. Sounds like a lot of men are hypocrites. Or they don’t know what they want, like they say women are like as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:24 PM
0

I think your answer is the best out of all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:41 PM
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Agreed. They have a long lasting relationship and experience that helped the get there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:30 PM
1

My point is is that men respect Veterans and their sacrifice for their country but why don’t they respect each other and their sacrifice for their families more? Is Fatherhood not more important than being a veteran?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:00 PM
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Well why is Veterans Day more popular than Fathers Day? We can start figuring it this mystery by finding out why men care more about Veterans Day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:10 PM
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There always a demand for Valentine’s Day. Women want it and couples definitely want it so there’s definitely demand for it. I’ve never heard Presidents’ Day become a popular day but it makes sense because there’s demand for it by political media. Father’s Day is just not popular as it should be because Men just don’t care enough to make it a holiday. Men would be passionate about Veterans Day but not as passionate about Father’s Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:55 AM
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Billionaires control members of congress so if they really wanted to, they can get the government to let them solve the problem of world hunger without the red tape of regulations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:50 AM
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Well they can’t be incentivized to find a way to make money if there’s no demand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:54 PM
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The reason why is simple: men don’t care at all about women lacking appropriate social skills. In general, men don’t hold women accountable for that because they don’t care if a woman has social skills, they care more if she’s attractive. And because they don’t care, women as result will not care about their lack of socks skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:45 PM
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Well it helps that he was a celebrity in the manosphere and had mainstream popularity so it would be easy for him to have success with women. I just say that because he had actually multiple marriages fail and he only took accountability for it because his audience pressured him to versus it being already handled in private. My thing is that he and others in the manopshere seem to be grifters (hustlers) but I can’t blame them because we all gotta get our money somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:07 PM
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He has given marriage advice in addition to dating advice. Especially when you have married women or divorced women call in to his show
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:02 PM
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I understand that and I’m grateful that he accepted his past. However, if that’s the case, do you think if he applied his own advice, would he have been successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:22 PM
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But he doesn’t have marriage success so how can he give us advice on successful relationships when he himself was unsuccessful in his relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:38 AM
1

Well it doesn’t make sense. If a man works hard out of love it is because it is the product of love. But if he does it out of obligation, then he’ll say it’s because he has to. Men will work day and night on a project and if you ask them why, they’ll say they love it. So in the the same way, men will work day and night for their family, and if you ask why, it is because they love their family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:40 PM
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Honestly, a lot of ultra conservative communities/cultures are racist, but it’s not a bad thing when it comes to dating. They just prefer their own race above others, which, I was taught, was necessary for the survival of the identity and gene pool of the community. I can attest that interracial children suffer identity issues a lot and are shunned from their respective communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:45 PM
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They both partners must develop a system that allows for them to both contribute to the easing of their child. Even if the man did a lot of the work for the first 3 years, men are generally hardworking in the sense that they will work to death on something they care about, and judging that a guy would care about their child, it’s not unreasonable to believe that he’d do all that work for the rest of the child upbringing because he loves his child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:25 PM
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I agree. It is both their responsibility. It’s just that most men will volunteer to cover 100% off the expenses if they were able to. A lot of men normally promise their women that they would provide financial comfort for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:21 PM
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After that, it still does make sense. If you make more than enough to cover it, you can volunteer to do it. Also, it depends on your perspective. If you’re conservative, you’d be more inclined to cover it. If you’re more modern, then you wouldn’t be inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:00 PM
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In my culture, we don’t do interracial relationships because we’re really conservative and want to keep the gene pool homogenous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:58 PM
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Because that’s his contribution to the child birth. While his wife is laboring to give birth, it’s his responsibility to cover the expenses, so it’s 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:42 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:51 PM
0

Well men mostly care about looks, while woman care about looks but also personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:47 PM
2

Yes sir!! Insecurity always ruins a relationship. Might as well be up front with it than waste the others time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:12 PM
1

That’s another good example but to me it’s more complicated. It’s more like this: women value sex in a relationship the same way men value revealing them to their friends and family. When you don’t take what you value seriously, then don’t be hypocritical about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:57 AM
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I agree. It is very manipulative. That’s why I’m confused with women try to rationalize it instead of just admitting it is immature and insecure. It’s either you’re someone whose values that from the beginning or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:35 PM
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It’s just an analogy. I was using the analogy to compare it to women and their casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:31 PM
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I agree with that. Y’all are the horniest especially when y’all are ovulating. But the difference is that guys will sleep with almost anyone when they’re horny, compared to a woman who would have to think about the guy she’s about to sleep with (barring birth control).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah you can have casual hook ups. Everyone does now. But it’s because of birth control that makes it easy for you. I’m talking about if there was no birth control, you wouldn’t be doing that. For guys, condom or no condom, we are still smashing a hot homeless woman if given the chance. So there’s that difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:32 PM
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I agree. They don’t normally marry young and they don’t have much kids so therefore they tend to have happier marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:29 PM
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The difference is that you’re only do it with male partners that you have some level of relationships with, but guys will do it even with a hot homeless women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:56 AM
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No maturity does not always correlate with age. That’s why there’s so much divorce and bad relationships nowadays, especially among adults. Maturity is all about how you handle your life and the decisions you make. You just have to mature yourself, which would allow you to connect with other mature people your age or any age and then have a better chance to find a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:43 AM
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No not necessarily. What determines a successful relationship is more often the maturity of the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:52 PM
2

It’s red pill ideology, which isn’t always rooted in truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:51 PM
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That’s the general notion but not the absolute truth. Sometimes good men and women want to wait a little longer than 30 due personal ambitions or for their own personal growth reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:50 PM
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No that is called wisdom. Maturity is more about character and behavior that’s adult like. You can be mature and still settle down young if you’re confident in your ability to handle a relationship properly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:47 PM
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It actually depends on maturity. A young and mature man would want to settle down early
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:46 PM
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Also, by 40, you just don’t really care about things you did before or gave up on your standards because you just want to be in a happy relationship. So you settle because if you could’ve gotten in a happy relationship at an earlier age, would you? If you answer yes, then you’ve settled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:43 PM
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It’s only settling because there’s this notion that the best you could’ve gotten would’ve been the time of college up until your 30s because all the good men and women are normally “cuffed” by then and those who are single past 30 have some undesirable traits that’s allowed them to not be snatched up by someone by then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:41 PM
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Rephrase: Men are more PSYCHOTIC than women and women are more EMOTIONAL than men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:09 PM
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I agree. A lot of men really have nothing to offer apart from financial security. I think men should also incorporate other “indicators” of security such as mechanical skills or some prominence in the community to provide value for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:05 PM
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I don’t like the red pill but I would like to overdose on you 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:03 PM
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It’s because you have a big magnet behind you making me hard as a metal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:57 PM
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You know? Chads are typically used today but what happened to F*ck Boys? Did those guys magically disappear?? Those guys are the ones that are really getting most women than Chads. Those guys typically aren’t Red Pill because they just seduce women and enjoy playing the game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:23 AM
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But if they’re traditional, they’ll still be looking for someone to have children with, and sometimes they can’t find a good traditional man to get married to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:37 AM
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Actually there are very traditional American women but you have to be in religious or ethnic communities to experience them. If a man chooses another woman from another country, he’s being liberal because even traditional women in those other counties would choose their own men over others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:21 AM
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Lol clearly the women in western cultures by your opinion. Also, western men aren’t generally traditional unless they’re religious so pretty much you get liberal women because men typically willl not marry religious woman unless they’re religious themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:53 PM
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I agree. Men typically don’t lead but just be a money provider for the woman and nothing else. When it comes to leading, the practical application is when a man sets the relationships values and principles and the culture of the family as well as the general guidelines about how the family operates in any circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:09 PM
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I think the issue is that you just don’t have an interesting personality. That could be what is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:50 AM
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That same thing goes for Andrew tate. Shock value and drama
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:42 AM
4

Maybe he’s weird or autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:30 AM
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Or guys that do not have a personality. So then all their awesome life adventures and stories are boring to experience and listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:29 AM
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It’s simple: he has no personality. He has an interesting life but has no personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:27 AM
2

Or simply, if he’s unattractive, he’s desperate. But if You find him hot, he’s charming but you don’t like that he puts in low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:25 AM
2

It’s that the guy is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:23 AM
1

I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:22 AM
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I do want to ask: have you tried the average looking girls or worst case scenario even girls that are desperate to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:13 AM
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Well have you determined the root cause of why no one wants to date you? What if you’ve tried everything but you never solved the real issue of why you’re not getting dates or in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:12 AM
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The plain and simple way to make girls approach you in a bar setting is just be super attractive, whether it’s by clothing or looks. Form yourself to be super attractive, and like bees to honey and flies to food, the women will start approaching you with no effort on your part.
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