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| – | Age gap relationships are psychologically optimal for both gendersWhy do guys constantly think old men are attractive to young women? Old men are mostly not attractive to young women, and no amount of money will change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:53 AM |
| – | Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment?What incentive is left? I…like him and enjoy my life with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 09:37 PM |
| 0 | What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”?People who brag that they have a high IQ sure do love to say the stupidest shit. You have no evidence that women who get high paying jobs aren’t “smart” with their money. You just made that up. You also have no idea what the scholarships for women in college are for, or which college they apply to. You just conveniently took a country wide statistic about attendance and compared it to specific degree-related scholarships provided by individual universities. You also have no evidence that “every … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:13 PM |
| – | Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifyingThey see it as a disqualifier for dating. I don’t want to date a gay man because I want my partner to be straight. That doesn’t mean being gay is negative. I also don’t want to date a guy who is super ripped. Not my thing. Doesn’t mean being ripped is negative. I don’t want to date someone who lives on the other side of the world. They have to live near me. That doesn’t mean they are a bad person or that something is wrong with them. It’s just an incompatibility. YOU as the person being rejected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 01:28 PM |
| – | Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifyingMen who get rejected view the reason for their rejection as a negative judgment on them, whether the woman thinks that or not. Just because someone doesn’t want to date you doesn’t mean you’re morally failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:25 PM |
| – | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:LOLLL you did not just bring up Hillary Clinton as an example of a female leader when she was never even president—classic right wing reality bending. I think we’re done here. You have demonstrated rudimentary knowledge of how to read studies—you think an abstract is sufficient evidence; you have no concept of percentages or statistics—you literally compared male and female leaders to coin flips; you have revealed that you dont even care to classify women correctly in their leadership positions—… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:Yet another article from you that is only an abstract with no actual numbers stated. Since you seem confused, let me give you a hypothetical. Let’s say there are 100 men and 1 woman. Let’s say 75 of the 100 men do x action, and the 1 woman also does x action. While you’d be technically correct in saying that “statistically a higher percentage of women do x”, you would not be correct in claiming that “women are more likely to do x”. In that study 100% of women do x, but that’s only because there’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:That article is taken through a euro-centric lens in a specific time period, and doesn’t list how many queens vs how many kings ruled during that time. You lack critical thinking skills. You’re probably the kind of person who googles “queens waged war more than men” in order to find the argument that suits your narrative. There has been an overwhelmingly higher number of male rulers than female, across the globe, across human history. Until you account for that, nothing you say is statistically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:You have no evidence that greater in group bias means that women are more likely to abuse their power against weaker individuals. You also don’t have any evidence that women are more likely to abuse their power against weaker individuals. We have thousands of years of history of mostly MEN doing this though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:Study after study does not show that men in power do not have group preference while in power. Statistics do though. Men at the very top surround themselves by men at the very top. If a male leader appoints a woman as his right hand or in his cabinet or as an advisor it’s considered “progressive” and called “DEI” by millions of conservatives. It’s a novelty. You don’t need studies to show that. It’s just evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:Still not enough evidence. Until we’ve had a comparable number of female leaders as male ones—not just “the first female ___ this country has ever had”—only then can we actually make a claim that women would be worse leaders. There are still far more male dictators than female ones. The case for men is extremely poor right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:You’re using “in group preferences” completely differently than what was studied in that paper. There is nothing in there that suggests that would women be worse leaders because of this. You just made a correlation backed by zero evidence. Also, if statistically there have been hundreds more male leaders throughout history, you can’t really compare the likelihood in a fair way, can you? If there are 25 male leaders and 1 female leader, and the 1 female leader wages war, while 19 male leaders wag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:00 PM |
| 6 | Feminists In Practice Believe in the Absolute, near Invariant Moral Perfection of Women. It is a Highly Dangerous View:By your argument, men should not be in power. Men have demonstrated how their tendencies in power include high levels of preference for their own group having power. They want their own group to be able to act with complete and utter impunity, as demonstrated by the current world. So we already know men can’t lead. Let’s let women do it, since they haven’t proven that they will screw up as badly as men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:40 AM |
| 7 | do you truly believe the bar is lower for men?What do you mean “low bar parenting praise isn’t a male thing, it’s a parenting thing”? It’s a male parenting thing. Are you looking for some low bar label that has absolutely no “title” associated with it? And if so, why does that have to be the case in order for the argument to be valid for you? You’re obviously thinking about this in the context of dating. So I could easily say, “it’s not a male thing, it’s a dating thing.” And that wouldn’t make any sense, because there is needless distincti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?You are blaming an entire generation of women for being lost due to indecision. Those are your words. I’m pointing out how stupid of a theory that is. If women wanted to have children, it’s just about the easiest thing a woman can do. Women are CHOOSING not to have children. They’re not suffering from indecision in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?So you do think we’re all stupid? Amazing to see the misogyny happen in real time. You think we’re all just looking around at all the men who want us and throwing our hands in the air, like “oh no, there’s too many options! I’m so confused for my entire life! Oops, I missed the window to have kids and now I’m childless forever!” Pleasseeeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?It’s crazy to read someone try to argue that indecision is why women aren’t having kids. You really think we’re all so stupid, don’t you? Or maybe…you do know the reason, it just hurts your ego to say the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?You can’t site the action as the reason for the action. Women opting out of being mothers isn’t a factor in women opting out of being mothers. WHY are women opting out of being mothers? WHY is motherhood not an attractive option for women? I think you know, but you don’t want to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?Hilarious to watch people twist logic into knots about the fertility rate. We have genders. Genders exist. Most people identify as male or female—the VAST majority. It’s other factors that are making having children untenable or unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 01:32 AM |
| 3 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menAs a woman who did at one point try to have casual sex, I will NEVER do it again. Not worth it. Too sketchy. Sex wasn’t that good. LTR sex is superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doMen commit far and away a higher percentage of lethal domestic violence against women than the reverse. You can cherry pick all the stats you want, but women are DYING at higher rates by men. You can’t win this argument. Men are more lethal, men are more murderous, men are more dangerous. It’s just a fact. I’m not talking about YOU personally, so stop being so emotional and accept the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doOk? I’m not saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doOk? I’m not saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doYou haven’t provided any relevant stats either homeboy. I’m just playing your game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doWhen did I ever say that? My argument is my original statement. The difference between strength in men and women isn’t marginal. It’s one of many reasons why there are more male perpetrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doExcept men are not programmed to not hurt women. They hurt women all the time. Every second of every day. Violence again women is a serious epidemic globally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doYou just made that up. Teenage boys can overtake fully grown women. Untrained men can outperform highly trained women. There’s nothing stopping men from using “the element of surprise” or “weapons”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 0 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Correct, and the commenter seems to be on the side of “babies with no agency whatsoever.” Just because women are generally pickier than men doesn’t mean women aren’t willing to participate. They’re participating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:41 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.You don’t even know yourself if you want kids, so who are you to recommend women who have “vehemently” decided they don’t want to be a wife or a mother that they should “take a long reflection”? Maybe YOU should take a long reflection on why you can’t decide what you want. This is one of the most hypocritical posts I’ve read on this sub in a while. Maybe look in a mirror, OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?No, they don’t. MEN on this sub say it. Are you admitting that you believe men are babies with no agency whatsoever? Because what’s what you’re saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:52 AM |
| 3 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Except women aren’t saying that—men are. And they’re wrong. That’s just a convenient phrase to absolve men of any agency or responsibility. But you’re not babies. You’re grown adults. You have influence over your romantic future. You can’t pretend like you have no control to avoid responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:14 AM |
| 5 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Isn’t a man whore just a man who sleeps around a lot? It’s the male equivalent of a slut, right? If that’s the case then I don’t see why you’d assume that they have bad behavior, in the same way that being a slut doesn’t mean men are rewarding bad behavior. There’s no reward. Some people sleep around more than others because they are able to attract a lot of people. You can be a man whore or a slut and still not be an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men doThe strength difference isn’t marginal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionStatus for men is wealth and whether or not they can get laid. Men who obsess about women’s preferences are also the men who are the most concerned with the status that women give them. Ironic. Women also want to date men who look like Henry Cavill, but we know realistically that that isn’t realistic. What women consider the most attractive and who they actually date are two different things. Just like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:34 AM |
| – | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardYou just made that up. Please show a study that has proven this. Also, short men can be violent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?Again, I think it’s fine to call someone out for not seeing something obvious. But if you spend most of your time criticizing them and not the cheater, then it makes you seem like a victim blamer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?Honestly I think it’s fair when you most of your time and energy criticizing the person who did the bad thing. Like, if someone was a cheater in the past, and they cheat again, but you spend all of your words criticizing the person who got cheated on rather than the cheater, then it’s not fair. You can’t be a victim blamer first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionWomen like tall guys, but that doesn’t mean they don’t date guys that are average for what they see in their day to day. The only men who have to worry are short men, and that’s because they become shorter than most women. So you could argue that women don’t date generally shorter than them in height, and that I would generally agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionI never said women don’t select for height. But I will repeat: men are already taller than women on average. So this isn’t classified as “dating up”. You’re already taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Why women date upwards, its ties to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis and evolutionThe only trend of SOME women dating up is about money. The average man is taller than the average woman, so you can’t really call a woman dating a taller man “dating up”. And status is just money. When you take wealthy men out of the equation (most men aren’t rich), you don’t see women dating up at all. If a man makes $50k and the woman makes $40k, you can hardly call this “hypergamy”. Way too many men who are concerned about women dating them for their “resources” don’t have any resources worth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:10 PM |
| 11 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?Not to be that person, but there have studies proving that statically as women age, they’re attracted to men who age with them; but as men age, they’re still only interested in women who are barely legal. Why? Because men of all ages want above average women. Women want men who are like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.No one who says “choose better” to an entire gender is a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Men are so desperate for relationships that they get into the first one that becomes available to them, without any consideration for if it’s actually a compatible match. And then when it does work out, it’s the woman who is blamed for not “choosing right”. You say you have agency, but men don’t act like they have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Do you have any agency at all? You can make your own opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.That’s what happens when you put women on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad?Yep. Doesn’t change anything of what I’ve said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad?If power = money in relationships, then it is unquestionably bad for ALL women to be in relationships where they have none of their own, or are wholly dependent on their partner’s money. Women MUST have their own money in relationships, or else the power is so imbalanced that the man can hold any leverage against her for her survival. This happens all the time with relationships where the woman never works and just raises the kids. Women can’t leave when things get bad. It’s like being a prisone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.While I think that’s totally fine, I do cringe at the categorization of paying for a date as a “sexual” boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.lol no. My opinion is that the Good Guys TM are also assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Because women aren’t perfect? And are just as likely as men to get into relationships with incompatible and bad people? And not all women “go through assholes first”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:32 PM |
| 12 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.If women are changing their tactics based on bad experiences with bad guys, and the “good guys” who asked women to “choose better” are still not happy, then the good guys are actually bad guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:30 PM |
| 16 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.That’s admitting that the “good guys” are actually assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:09 PM |
| 25 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Men want women to “stop dating assholes” but when they listen and start implementing things to make sure she’s not with an asshole, the “good men” freak out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Women are not masculine enough.Funny, when you were describing masculine attributes, I literally thought, “he’s describing women today.” But then your only practical examples were in relationships specifically. Newsflash, if women aren’t interested, they won’t take the kind of “masculine” initiative in relationships you’re thinking of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menIf you’re with a man who wants lots of sex, and you’re not like that, you shouldn’t be dating that man. That’s incompatibility. If you’re a man who is a slob, you shouldn’t be surprised when the woman breaks up with you. If NO woman wants to be with you because you’re dirty, that’s you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:34 PM |
| 18 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menWomen do leave men for being slobs all the time, what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:20 PM |
| 28 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menMen can create their own cleanliness threshold as much as they want. But if women don’t want to date them because of it, that’s the men’s faults for not improving themselves to be attractive enough to date. You can’t be a slob and then complain that women’s standards are too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:47 PM |
| 23 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesLeagues are made up and subjective and not a proper basis for an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:54 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.Men are all bothered by women having reservations and being cautious of men when they imagine themselves in that group, but the second you talk about being a protector, suddenly they feel a duty to separate her from men who might hurt her or hit on her unprovoked. Which one is it? If you have a girlfriend, suddenly you’re understanding of the threat of other men to her. And you’re suspicious of men who might try to hit on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itWhich is…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itPassport bros have earned their reputation. People in mixed nationality marriages where the woman’s country is poorer are not immediately stigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itMixed marriages doesn’t encapsulate what is happening in passport bro situations. I’m in a mixed race relationship. But not a passport bro one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itYou just found the time to argue with me, so what does that say about your priorities and how you really feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 18 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itNothing wrong with going abroad to look for love. But we all know that’s not what passport bros get shit on for. It’s the racism, the dehumanization, and the preying on the vulnerable. All passport bros are not guilty of this. But that sub and this community is filled with men who are, and the outside world doesn’t see the good passport bros calling them out. That’s why you ALL get a bad rep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't be angry at womenBecause progressives don’t actually win elections. If other men voted progressive, it would really help feminists do these policies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women did not develop compassion/empathy for men in general because it serves no evolutionary purposeYou’re only evidence is rhetoric. You have not provided any other evidence besides rhetoric. Both men and women sling abrasive rhetoric at each other. That is not how one gender disenfranchises another. If you wanna have an argument based on emotions, then look somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Women did not develop compassion/empathy for men in general because it serves no evolutionary purposeWomen are disproportionately NOT in power, and are using their power to help other women who are similarly disproportionately not in power to climb the ladder to access opportunities they wished they had had when they were breaking glass ceilings. So your only evidence is rhetoric, which means you've lost the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 10:31 PM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.You can’t answer because it will reveal how stupid of a request it is that OP is making | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women did not develop compassion/empathy for men in general because it serves no evolutionary purposeHow are women becoming hostile towards men as they gain more power? Where are women gaining more power? If your only evidence is rhetoric, then you’ve lost the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:52 PM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I would argue that women ARE telling men what they like, but as OP said, women are not a monolith, and so the answers vary slightly. The issue for men isn’t that women aren’t being truthful, it’s that women have variation. Women have been saying for decades that height is not the end all be all. Social skills, charisma, and just plain old dumb luck have SO much to do with it. In other words, height isn’t the only thing that matters, and how much it matters varies from woman to woman. You already… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:40 PM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.So if these truths are so self evident, why does OP feel the need for women to explain it to him like he’s five? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:10 PM |
| 0 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureI’m just scratching my head because you are claiming that a college degree is the CAUSE of a less promiscuous sex life, rather than a correlation. You even admit that IQ and social skills don’t perfectly correlate. And I don’t know why you need such a detailed description of terms like “charisma” and “social skills.” It seems daily self explanatory. Charismatic people draw people to them, are able to have engaging conversation with all types of people, are generally likeable by many, and are rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:48 PM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.How can the individual woman provide a generalized context of female desire if individual women differ? How does an individual woman provide this context? A mass email? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:36 PM |
| 10 | You shouldn't be angry at womenWhat do you mean? Feminists vote progressive in much higher rates than men, especially older men. Progressives are anti-war and anti-draft. That’s about as big of an action as anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:16 AM |
| 6 | As a single man who has no children, yes, I am expendable.Phew that was a wild ride reading that one. Started with an interesting debate about expendability and ended with Kiera Knightly. While I think the entire second half of your post is completely irrelevant, I do think it’s interesting to consider who should be sacrificed first. I don’t think human life should be characterized by value in this way. In a survival situation, there are too many factors at play to dwindle it down to “who will be missed more”. However, I do think children in general sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Women did not develop compassion/empathy for men in general because it serves no evolutionary purposeNow imagine if women were in charge, would they have done the inverse for men? They would have done so, so much better for men than what men did to women. A matriarchy is child-centered, circular, village-based system that prioritizes the most vulnerable and functions on a multi-generational support system. The world would be better off with women in power across the globe. The current system functions like this: men in power don't care about the average john doe. In fact, they screw over the av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:24 PM |
| – | Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women.Do you have any other examples besides makeup? Because that’s not an example that helps your case. Men literally are terrible at telling what is makeup and what isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.You have no idea why 41 women have declined a second date with you. To assume they are all rejecting you because you’re not traditionally masculine enough is making an insane assumption. Are you a femboy? If not, you’re not so far away from traditional manliness that this can be presumed to be the reason they have ALL rejected you. Why did you reject the women you didn’t like out of the 41? I’m sure it was for several reasons, dependent on the woman. That’s how those women think of YOU. All diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for meYou live together because there are things you can’t know about your partner unless you do so. It’s the same with sex. The biggest risk you take is getting locked into marriage with someone who you don’t know you’re compatible with. You have to check for sexual compatibility. You have to check with cohabitation compatibility. You can always break up and move out if you don’t like it. You risk nothing from a period of living together before marriage except a little chunk of time where you realize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?Men who don't care about body count are superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?Because I'm not attracted to men who are real trouble. That causes me stress, which feels bad. "Problematic" is a whole list of things. From my own life, I had this period where I wans't looking for a relationship, just casual sex, but I still rejected guys for being problematic. I once rejected a guy who sent me a dick pick unsolicited before we even had our first date. Ironically, if he had just not sent that pic, I probably would have slept with him. I once rejected a guy who acted like he wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?It is partly about body count, and that’s the part I addressed. If you want women to specifically address the other points you made, you need to make that clear in your question. The more comfortable around a man I am, the more “taboo” the sexual acts I am comfortable with, so that’s not a concern for me. If a future partner is concerned about my sexual acts from a previous partner out of insecurity or jealousy, then he’s not LTR material. I wouldn’t have sex with a guy who is so problematic tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 01:36 PM |
| 22 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?Any man who is concerned about my body count isn’t LTR material. The main reason I have limited my sleeping around is because sex with random guys is not that good, and there is way too much risk involved, both in my safety/comfort and things like STDs and pregnancy. Only a long term partner will have a chance to be able to help me experience excellent sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.Abusive? No one is forcing you to do any of this. No one owes you romantic validation. This is exactly what women talk about when they warm against “entitlement”. I’m a woman who pays for most of the dates I go on with my boyfriend, as in, I pay for both of us. I asked my boyfriend out initially. Women like me exist—we just don’t date men who consider planning for dates and putting in effort as abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:13 AM |
| 14 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.Are YOU? I’m saying a truth, which is that a woman who rejects you doesn’t automatically mean she thinks you’re disposable and worthless. Are you saying that this is what all women who reject men think of those men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:36 PM |
| 15 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.Just because a woman doesn’t want to date you doesn’t mean she thinks you’re disposable and worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:47 PM |
| 21 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.“Chad filter”? You’re attractive enough for them to want to go on a first date with you. I promise, it’s not your looks. Not having chemistry with someone is not a moral failing on your part, but it’s also not a moral failing on the women’s parts for not feeling it despite your efforts. You know what it feels like to not want to go on a second date with a woman—I’m assuming you feel like your reasonings are justified. And so are the women who don’t want to go on a second date with you. Getting m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:45 PM |
| 23 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.And out of those 41 first dates, you wanted to go on a second date with every single one of them? (Edit add on: 41 first dates is a lot for the average person. That means you’re attracting women. It’s something else that’s repelling them, and if you’re paying for everything, then it’s not your money.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardWhat is confusing about my comment? Women reject men for all sorts of reasons, but that doesn’t mean the reasons are all as bad as each other. If a woman rejects you for being short, and another man for being violent, that doesn’t mean she thinks you’re as bad as the man who is violent. I don’t even know why you bring up children, other than to make the case that women should sleep with even fewer guys than they already do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:52 PM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?The real world. Where men don’t save women. They only harass, threaten, and abuse them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:49 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?In this real life scenario when a woman is threatened by a man, men already don’t come to the rescue. Women do. We just want men to do what women are already doing for other human beings because it’s the right thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardWomen reject men all the time because those men are toxic, violent, sexist, unattractive, broke, and/or awkward. That doesn’t mean that being awkward is as bad as being violent. It just means that when you pretend like women’s vaginas are the arbiters of morality, you can come to stupid conclusions like “women prefer toxic men”. In reality, women ALSO date men who are all of the those things. Women date violent men, unattractive men, broke men, toxic men. It’s almost like women are people are ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:15 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillHow many violent misogynists do you know personally who have girlfriends, OP? Go through the male friends in your life who are in relationships—are they all violent misogynists? If yes, why are you friends to them? If no, then the only conclusion can be that women don’t like violent misogynists, right? Right? Or are we only comparing weak and shy guys to literal serial killers in order to make your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenAsking for feminists to not be immensely dismissive of men is vastly different than requiring feminists to dedicate the majority of their social justice efforts to male issues, in order to be considered “good” to men here. Feminists who are egalitarian are widely accepted in feminist circles. There is not a trend that feminists are being rejected in their own circles for not being pro woman enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Having increasingly high "standards" doesn’t make you more discerning, nor does it guarantee better relationshipsAgain, no one is arguing that there aren't diminishing returns at the extremes. The argument is where the line is. Men who argue that women have standards that are too high are just saying that their line is at a different place than where the women say the line is. The opposite is true too. Men who argue that they're somehow benefiting infinitely by forever lowering their standards are also just in disagreement as to where that line is of diminishing returns. So the question remains: where is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:39 PM |
| 11 | Having increasingly high "standards" doesn’t make you more discerning, nor does it guarantee better relationshipsI don’t think anyone believes that higher standards is always better—of course there is a point of diminishing returns. The debate is on where that line is, which you seem to be avoiding. Based on the way conversations on this sub go, I’m assuming you think that women’s standards are too high, at the point where there are already diminishing returns. Is that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:41 PM |
| 6 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenHere we go lol A non-answer because you have no argument. And sure, if you want to play dumb about extremely well known history, here are some examples: World War I: The Women's Peace Party led by Jane Addams, opposed U.S. entry into the war. It later became the U.S. branch of the Women's International League for Peace and Freedom. Vietnam War: Women were among the most visible leaders of the anti-war movement. Organizations included Women Strike for Peace, Another Mother for Peace, and many fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenJust based on your last sentence alone, I realize that this is a waste of time talking to you. You don’t even understand that being against the blackpill doesn’t mean you have to do everything against the traditional grain of relationships and attraction. You can date someone shorter than you and still think blackpill is stupid. And it’s not hypocritical. I can point to a thousand couples in real life that defy the black pill, and THAT is the evidence. Just like how voting records prove my other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenRaising the minimum wage, supporting unions which disproportionally help men in the trades, not going to war so as to send men to die, increased support for mental health so that men stop killing themselves, affordable education so it’s not impossible for men to get a degree, maternal/paternal leave… Shall I go on? My boyfriend is 5’9”, and hilarious that you think that this is some kind of gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?I go here for three reasons: 1) to get an understanding of how a certain type of man thinks—generally speaking, I mean men who feel like women have wronged them on a societal level—in order to better navigate my personal relationships with men in my life who I perceive to be romantically struggling; 2) to remind myself that men who genuinely believe toxic things exist, and they are all around us, very much in the mainstream; and 3) to dispel misinformation by challenging toxic generalizations of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenFunny how feminists like me vote for policies that help men, have a large number of male friends who I support and listen to, and are dating a man who is also a feminist. I love men. I’m surrounded by men all day. You just don’t like that I have arguments on Reddit against red pill and black pill men spewing toxic garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenMen love to say “you can’t be a feminist and a good person” on Reddit when i talk about my identity as a feminist. And ironically the only way they seem capable of admitting that I might be a good person is if I prove that I have dedicated most of my life’s efforts to helping male-specific causes. Like we’ve gotten to the point where the only accepted feminist is one who focuses on men’s rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:00 PM |
| – | Women are running an extremely agressive antiyouth campaignIsn't the pedophilia thing mostly about hairiness and acting helpless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:11 PM |
| -1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Nope, but doesn’t change anything I’ve said. I could be a man making this argument and it wouldn’t change anything I’ve said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:13 PM |
| – | Why can't women be funny?Why can’t men take jokes about small dicks and being short? Why can’t men be funny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:26 AM |
| -1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.You go to 4chan and you don’t see the word “foid”? Now I know you’re lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:47 AM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.And I’m jealous of the special privileges men get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:25 PM |
| 2 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Male criticism of women is not inherently misogynistic. It often is. But it isn’t inherently. I never said it was. Therefore any male criticism of women isn’t automatically jealousy. Misogyny is what I am arguing is rooted in jealousy. So if the behavior is misogynistic, I argue that it is rooted in jealousy. If it’s not misogyny, just criticism, then it may or may not be rooted in jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Because I’m not talking about other motives. I’m talking about jealousy. Just because I believe jealousy is the root psychologically doesn’t mean there aren’t other reasons on top of that. And it IS a hypothesis. I’m hypothesizing that jealousy is the root of misogyny and explaining why I think that. You’re free to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.I did establish that jealousy is the motive by explaining why in every one of my examples. You just didn’t agree with my explanations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Google “which is a more common term: foid or moid?” and let me know what you find. Bet you won’t do it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:05 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Well in my examples, I’m talking about misogyny, and not criticism. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:00 PM |
| -1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.You’re acting like MGTOW men are doing so within the confines of their own community, never making their loneliness apparent to others. When in reality, we both know that they get clumped into the loneliness statistics because they have self-opted into this classification. They want to be classified as such. They want society to know they feel they are lonely and have been wronged in some way. “We don’t need women, I live for myself” is one thing. “Women are at fault for not choosing the right m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.It’s THE example. You really going to act like you didn’t just get got? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Why wouldn’t it have happened naturally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:54 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Not all of them are unique to the present. Men have always had womb envy, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:50 PM |
| 0 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.It’s not an opinion. “Foid” came first. Foid is used much more pervasively. That’s a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:49 PM |
| -5 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Men who think they are equal contributors in creating life need to be humbled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:48 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.DNA is 50% mom and 50% dad genetically. But I’m obviously not talking about genetic contribution. I’m talking about everything else. The sacrifice. The bodily effects. The actual making of the human life form. Men get to claim 50% of the DNA, but they can only claim 0.01% of the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:48 PM |
| 4 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.The examples I gave apply to men today. If I wanted to make a case for misogyny in Roman Empire times I would use different examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:46 PM |
| 7 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.You are the first person who I have ever seen use this term. That’s because there is no online equivalent of “foid.” The term is SO much more pervasive than “moid” that it is kind of hilarious that you think you have an argument here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:45 PM |
| 4 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Famously, yes. Ever heard of Jesus Christ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:44 PM |
| 5 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.It’s because men won’t stop harassing, raping, and murdering us actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.That article says nothing about POLICY within companies that address DEI. It’s only language and the way they frame their values. And that’s because what MOST institutions do is ONLY talk about their values. There is no actual policy. There wasn’t really this policy to begin with—it was the rhetoric that anti-DEI people hated the most. They could do almost nothing about changing policy because there was no policy to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Depends on what “live minimalist” actually means. If you’re talking about a guy who doesn’t have a lot of things, lives a simple life, and doesn’t spend crazy money on anything—I just don’t see those men being a target of any notable societal-wide ridicule. In fact, besides the crazy billionaires who seem obsessed with the birth rate and therefore disprove of the ethos of the MGTOW movement, I don’t see many people at all doing anything that would constitute “patriarchal oppression.” Disproval a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:40 PM |
| 3 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Male contribution to physically creating human life is 0.01% and women’s is 99.99%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:32 PM |
| 5 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Semantics. There is no equivalent to “foid” for men. No one says “male humanoid.” I will ask again: do you think “foid” is simply a criticism and not blatant misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.In your case, privilege = access to sex from random men. Sorry, but that’s not a real privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:10 PM |
| 5 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.? I didn’t say female humanoid. I am talking about the extremely common term “foid” that is used to describe women in online male spaces. There is no online equivalent of “foid” that applies to men. No one says “female humanoid” or “male humanoid”. They do say “foid” though. Maybe don’t play dumb? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:28 AM |
| 2 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.How did you take a post about all of the ways men are misogynistic and flip it into “we live in a matriarchy”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:27 AM |
| 0 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.You think “foid” is a criticism and not blatant misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:21 AM |
| 6 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.So you think that my examples of misogyny are actually examples of criticism? You think that men who call women “foids” are just “criticizing” them? You think men who harass women on the street are just “criticizing” them? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:21 AM |
| 6 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.But for American men, they should be relieved, right? Because Trump ended DEI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:12 AM |
| 2 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.I thought Trump ended DEI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:01 AM |
| 10 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.Women’s freedom was built on blood, civil unrest, and mobilization. They aren’t taking men’s jobs. They’re getting paid for work they’ve always done, or for work they have every right to pursue. Women who raise the bar for their own lives also have every right to do so. There is no moral obligation for women to pair up with men that YOU deem are on her level. That’s for the man and her to decide. Everything you said proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman?Everything is a losing strategy for 99.99% of men. That doesn't mathematically make sense, and you know it's not true. That's true for any woman even in places where you're told you can approach. You're missing the point, despite the fact that this isn't even true. Randomly soliciting a woman for her number anywhere is a bad strategy. You have to be in social situations where you are naturally getting to know women. That could be as simple as a house party. A run club. A movie with friends. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?When you buy a car that requires a monthly subscription for heated seats that are already in the car, you are rewarding the manufacturer for nickel-diming you Even in this description, "reward" is not the proper word. You are paying money for a service that you want--the service could be stupid and you could be getting ripped off, but you're still exchanging monies for service. There's also the parallel of "options". You could get a car that has heated seats without extra cost, but maybe that's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman?It’s not about where. It’s about WHEN. Once again, not to beat a dead horse, but randomly trying to talk to a stranger you know nothing about and thinking you’d be a good match for a date is crazy thinking and a losing strategy for 99.99% of men. You don’t know if she’s single, straight, an appropriate age, or looking to date at all. That doesn’t even include other things like if she seems like someone you would actually enjoy being around. You cannot determine these things by looking at a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:48 PM |
| -1 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?That implies we are a meritocratic society, where behavior leads to outcomes justified by the nature of the behavior. We are not a meritocratic society, despite the propaganda saying otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?I take issue with the word “reward”. Women aren’t using their romantic attention to punish or reward men. They are attracted to men who are attractive. This makes sense. Why should women be attracted to men who they don’t like? And if you’re a man who has qualities she doesn’t like, her ignoring you isn’t a punishment—it’s a logical outcome of the circumstances. Of course men who are more outgoing and make more moves are more likely to attract more women. Mathematically they are putting themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:40 PM |
| 0 | What % of your attraction to a man is physical and what % is everything else?What do you do if the personality makes him more physically attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Inability to attract a woman isn’t always bad personality.It’s all about social kills my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.The wording is interesting. “Expect to have kids” in the future. Anyways, to answer your original question based on this data, we can surmise the women on this sub are more inclined to not want children than the national average. We can also surmise that not every woman on this sub is in the same category as the women surveyed in the study. Lastly, the women on this sub defending abortion and women not having kids are not necessarily of the belief that they themselves should have abortions or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:26 PM |
| 5 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Which sexual revolution? If you’re implying that one is uniquely happening now, I will point to the many other decades pre-dating the 21st century where people were hooking up left and right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:07 PM |
| 26 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.Men don’t even want to raise them, let alone have the fortitude to withstand pregnancy even if they could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.Is it a majority of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:01 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamI will reiterate that cold approaching is a losing strategy for 99.99% of men. That has nothing to do with how strong you come on. That’s just reality. Furthermore, if she thinks you’re “platonic” after a long time, it’s not because you didn’t come on strong enough. It’s because she was never into you and was never going to be into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Most women have someone.Not an extremist, just making a point about the mixed messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠Self worth = confidence! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamYou CAN do whatever you want. You won’t succeed hardly at all though. But if chances of success don’t matter to you, go for it. Cold approaching as many women as you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamThen let me clarify: men should only approach new women with platonic energy in social settings designed for strangers to meet. Only after connection is created should the man approach the woman with romantic intent. In other words, stop cold approaching women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:54 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamIf you just go up to a random woman and try to get her number, it’s a losing strategy. I don’t know what to tell you. If you want any chance at moving things towards romance, you have to establish a connection first. Are you saying there are no occasions that you can imagine where it’s normal to meet new people in an acceptable social setting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:35 PM |
| 3 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamHow do you initiate conversation with any stranger? If it’s a weird time to do so with a man, don’t do it with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 03:56 PM |
| -2 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamWhen: after we actually know something about each other, have demonstrated good chemistry, and interest in repeat interactions. Mutually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Most women have someone.Isn’t this exactly what men wanted though? Women who were crazy about them? Super attracted to them? The best she’s ever had… Whenever I talk about my man, who doesn’t meet the “requirements” that men here claim that all women want, I’m told that I’m just lying about my attraction to him or are a one in a million unicorn, where there can’t possibly be other women like me. We are told here that the worst thing a woman can do is settle for a man, especially when she’s “used up”. That she is lying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 03:42 PM |
| 0 | “Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional.You know that “just get over it” is not advice that anyone is giving. Finding contentment single, finding purpose outside of a relationship, these are all good goals to have. That is not the same as “just get over it.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | “Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional.It’s still good advice. Doesn’t matter the circumstances of who says it. You’re someone who found community, which led to a relationship. You could easily advise another man to do the same if that man is struggling to find a relationship. And that man could make your exact argument and say “it’s harder when you’re stuck in a rural town and there isn’t much going on.” And they’d be right. But the advice is still good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:21 PM |
| -1 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsSure, it's my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsWomen’s aren’t high enough! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Is true that men marry the convenient women they CAN have, while spend their lives secretly obsessing over the women they truly desire but can't have?Men also don’t believe women when they say they’re attracted to their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?I’m just confused over how 5” is somehow both average and small at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Is true that men marry the convenient women they CAN have, while spend their lives secretly obsessing over the women they truly desire but can't have?I feel like this entire thread is just men admitting to the very thing they’ve complained to us they are paranoid about—being with a partner who you don’t really feel ultimately sexual attraction towards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)That’s just your theory. My theory is that is has stopped a lot of men from approaching, many of whom include men who have no clue that they’re being scumbags. You think the men all know they’re being scumbags? Absolutely not. In fact, you’re probably actively friends with men who have been scumbags to women, you just don’t know it, and they act like they’re one of the good ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:50 PM |
| 8 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)When we say we don’t want men approaching, it’s because scumbags keep approaching up. So your issue isn’t with women, it’s with the scumbags. If THEY didn’t harass women, we wouldn’t have to have our guard up all the time. If most of the people who romantically approached you did so in an unwanted way, you’d want people to stop approaching you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:14 AM |
| 11 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)They don’t even understand when you make the “man hitting on a man” analogy to get just a shred of understanding of how women feel when a man hits on them that they have zero interest in. They always say “it’s different because I’m not attracted to men.” And it’s like…”when you approached me, I wasn’t attracted to YOU.” And they still don’t understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 13 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)That’s so true. They love to spout that one statistic about younger men not approaching women, as if it’s some sort of tragedy. They forget that most of our first times getting sexually harassed by men happened in our childhood. We don’t want that shit from anybody now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)There’s a difference between a woman not liking men and women not finding a man who she wants to date. I spent years searching for my person while not dating a single soul. Wasn’t because I didn’t like men. I was just really picky. You can’t claim that someone doesn’t like an entire gender just because they haven’t found someone they want to share their life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:21 PM |
| 18 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)What does men not approaching women have to do with that? I think it’s great men have slowed that approach since it never really worked to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:16 PM |
| 7 | I don't know how anyone can argue in good faith that dating apps aren't easier for women than menThis is a great example of the discourse, so thank you for proving my point. It’s extremely easy to say that dating apps make finding romance easier for women than for men. But dating apps aren’t easy for women. Compared to men, they’re easier. But when you are using a product, you’re not comparing it to men’s experiences. You’re just experiencing it. And the apps suck for a lot of women. They’re not fun. It’s draining. The conversations suck. It’s a huge time waste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:03 PM |
| 0 | The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male.We actually don’t know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 02:15 AM |
| 6 | I don't know how anyone can argue in good faith that dating apps aren't easier for women than menThen why do so many women hate dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?Why is that, do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?The fact that you think friends or no friends makes no difference is exactly why men are so fucking lonely. Obviously there are standards that actually are separated from attraction. But you understand that the 666 rule is like the smallest minority of women, right? Most women have no idea what that is. You’re taking the most extreme examples of standards, which is only disproving your own point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?It’s not a substitute, I never said it was. But without it, romantic loneliness is way harder than it needs to be. Part of how women are able to thrive without men and without sex is because of their social circle of support. Community is everything. Men have this tendency to think that a relationship will be a substitute for community. This is a false hope. Also, standards and attraction are absolutely linked. They are not that distinct at all. I’m attracted to men who are highly educated and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:37 AM |
| 12 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?Why does that leave men not being good enough as the only other source? Why are the two options only women’s standards are too high or men are genetic failures? You can’t make a woman like a man she doesn’t like. You can’t force her to lower her standards for attraction. It’s also not her fault for having them. You can have whatever standards you want. Men are free to sort women much more than they currently do, but because they are desperate, they do not. Women, to no fault of their own, are no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:19 AM |
| 14 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?See, here is a great example. I never said any of the things you quoted. My sympathy towards men doesn’t look like this, as I demonstrated. But you automatically equated my disagreement of the solution with lack of sympathy and downright dismissiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?I’m not following what your point is based on my what I wrote. It is true that men are struggling romantically. That’s not what I’m arguing. I’m saying that the solution is what we disagree on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:10 PM |
| 55 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?I think a lot of men here confuse sympathy with “we agree on the solution.” I have lots of sympathy for men. I acknowledge that a lot of men are struggling. A lot of men are lonely. A lot of men need help. But when the solution to male loneliness becomes “women need to give more men chances” or “women need to lower their standards” or “women need to use their vaginas to punish and reward men based on their behavior”…then I push back. A lot of times, this pushback is seen as lack of sympathy, whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Women naturally tends to make things harder for men, while men naturally tends to make things easier for womenI have never met a man who has no boundaries, no standards, who says yes to anything I want. Neither have you or anyone else here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:18 PM |
| 11 | Women naturally tends to make things harder for men, while men naturally tends to make things easier for womenThere are no men like that who exist. You just described a fictional person. Not a single one of these examples is embodied in a real human man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Fellas it isn’t a matter of women not being into you because of lack of moral character but seeing you as defective/incompetentPower and competence are not the same thing. I’d much rather have a man who is competent than powerful. I’d rather a man do chores well without me asking than a man who is someone’s boss. I’d rather a man know how to function well on his own than a man who owns a lot of things. Incompetence is an attraction killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men?Wouldnt date? Nah, women do that plenty. Women generally won’t sleep with men they don’t LIKE. While men seem to be perfectly fine with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 07:44 PM |
| 11 | CMV: women find male sexuality disgustingHow is it that every woman you know has been sexually harassed but you seem to believe men who sexually harass are so rare? There are far more men than you think who are guilty. Most women who have been sexually harassed have had their first experiences when they were younger than teenagers. Children. Now tell us that this experiences can’t shape our perspectives of male sexuality. UNWANTED male sexuality is unwanted. Don’t sexually harass us and don’t do shit without our consent. It’s that simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 25 | CMV: women find male sexuality disgustingBy your logic, OP, sexually harassment has no reason to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfortWe can only imagine where OP is getting his data… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:34 PM |
| 8 | Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfortNo one should believe the statistics reporting men who admit they have assaulted or raped someone. The percentage of offenders will be MUCH higher than what is reported. Why would a man admit he has assaulted or harassed someone? It is extremely likely that you personally know multiple men who are guilty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 03:48 PM |
| 21 | Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfortWhat do you mean that male violence statistics are overstated? I also want to bring up the phenomenon of victims vs perpetrators. Almost every woman you know has been sexually harassed, assaulted, or raped. Literally almost every single one. But almost every single man you know doesn’t sexually harass, assault, or rape women. So what is happening? Part of what is happening is that there are MANY MORE men who you know who are guilty than you know. They do not admit it or even recognize that they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 20 | Women, what if the problem isn’t men, but the criteria you use to choose them?They do the same with hotness correlating with asshole-ness. They use language to imply that all hot guys are assholes and all ugly or average guys are nice. Sorry, but a LOT of hot guys are really friendly and good people and a LOT of ugly/average guys are terrible relationship material and not nice people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 01:03 PM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.I repeat: slight deviation from the norm is not a death sentence. You can absolutely find women who do find sex with a slightly below average dick pleasurable. How can anyone answer “how many” women? No one can. It’s useless to try to identify a number. You only make yourself needlessly depressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:23 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.It’s only bad if you SIGNIFICANTLY deviate from the norm. You do not. Doesn’t mean you’re immune from having bad experiences or will never meet a woman who cares. But you’re not in a range where you are “doomed.” Your goal isn’t to have sex with every woman on the planet is it? There are plenty of women for whom your size is great. Average is great. A slight deviation from average is not a death sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:12 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?I have opinions, and I don’t believe women’s vaginas should be arbiters of morality. It’s all well and good though because they are not. Whether you want them to be or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 06:14 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?No, you wish for a thing that is irrelevant to justice to be an arbiter or morality because you simply feel emotions. Your emotions are overriding your logic. It doesn’t matter what your feelings are. Women’s vaginas factually are not, should not, and cannot be arbiters of morality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.It’s the employers who implement these quotas too you know. They have their own internal policies. And even if the government did force them to have a quota (there are very few examples of this), the rights of an employer is IRRELEVANT to a man’s romantic loneliness. An employer pays an employee to do a service that makes them money in turn. Men do no such thing for women directly in any way that should grant them some owed treatment romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:37 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Yes, tax payers are owed a service from their government because they have paid for it in their taxes. That is literally what taxes are. The argument you are using is lazy anyways. Women’s vaginas are not arbiters of morality because that is not their function—whether they care about morality in who they pick or not is irrelevant to this fact. You WISH women would use their vaginas to dole out justice like the tax payer funded government. But facts don’t care about your feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.What does a gender quota at a place of work have to do with women giving romantic attention to men? Do you consider romantic attention something that should be regulated by a governmental body or corporation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:27 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Women’s vaginas are not the arbiters of morality. They’re not the judicial system. Romantic attention is not owed, therefore it’s not relevant to fairness. Other things are owed, and the government has an obligation to step in—things that you mentioned in another comment, such as economic inequality and racism and human rights. To compare a tax payer’s governmental obligation to protect its citizens to a woman’s vagina is…crazy work on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:02 PM |
| 3 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.You’re “logic pill.” Think this one out. What do these men want that they’re not getting? Romantic attention from women. If women solve this problem, it means that they start giving men the romantic attention they want. The problem is that most women currently do not want to do this for most men because they do not like most men this way. That means that if women solve the problem, they are giving romantic attention to men when they do not want to. This is hardly a solution. In its darkest form,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:36 PM |
| 9 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Because men like to pretend like they have a moral high ground by bringing up other men’s issues, because they know that romantic loneliness isn’t as urgent of an issue as other things, despite it being the only thing they REALLY care about. Also because women shouldn’t actually solve this problem for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 04:41 AM |
| 4 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.We “realize” it, in the sense that we are aware that it sucks. We can’t do anything to change their circumstances. We can only say that it sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?No men they’re interested in. That’s already happening. So they’re just staying single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?What about people who are in long term relationships who aren’t planning on having kids? Kids aren’t always a factor, especially nowadays. Men are welcome to opt out if they think women aren’t worth it. It’s just that clearly they think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 2 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.What do you mean “what if?” It doesn’t change that the individual woman does not have a moral obligation to give any individual man romantic attention. There is no “societal” way that an individual woman gives a man romantic attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 2 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Again, separate issues. So you too believe that women have a moral obligation to give men romantic attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?Is it bad though? Is less married people objectively a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 07:50 PM |
| 7 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.What about if the men in question consider the pinnacle of men’s issues to be romantic loneliness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 12 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.This is the argument of somebody who absolutely believes that women have a moral obligation to give romantic attention to men. If you truly did not believe that women have this obligation, then you would not tie other human behaviors to the same philosophy. Treating someone with respect is a separate matter from giving someone romantic attention. Standing up for people who are being mistreated is a positive social good separate from the topic of romantic attention. The irony of this entire argum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?“Feels”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Are men who gossip or make fun of others generally considered attractive to women?Gossip? Well I love a juicy gossip. Bully—that’s a totally different thing and not acceptable. Making fun of people is not acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.It’s not a compliment when a man will fuck you out of desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Are you serious? This is such a classic exchange on this sub. Man complains about women. When asked what the realistic solution is, man suggests a hilarious idea that won’t actually work. Conclusion: men want to complain and expect women to solve their problems for them. Getting a trusted male family member involved is a terrible idea. In my own family, for example, the only male family member I am close enough to open up to is my grandpa who is 95 years old and definitely is not someone who I’d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?What should women do then? According to you? Not be pickier but also “select” better. How does one do that simultaneously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Ah, so really what you’re saying is women should lower their standards so virtually no men are left behind? And you think this will result in “better mate selection”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?If women aren’t good at mate selection, then they should be pickier, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?100%! Women need to raise their standards! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 02:29 AM |
| 21 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.Sorry, when you say “man flu”, do you just mean…men who get the flu? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:32 PM |
| 3 | If feminism and patriarchy didn’t exist, but you had to choose between marrying the love of your life and being a homebody all day and having no friends, or being a career women yet never meeting the love of your life or getting in any serious relationship, which would you choose?Why would OC think their opinion applies to all people? You already know the answer. We all know the answer. So why ask it other than to try to prove some point about women who choose career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:46 AM |
| 10 | If feminism and patriarchy didn’t exist, but you had to choose between marrying the love of your life and being a homebody all day and having no friends, or being a career women yet never meeting the love of your life or getting in any serious relationship, which would you choose?Do you even ask this question with genuine intention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.Men can leave relationships whenever they want, and they don’t have to get permission to do it. Is it your own life you want to improve or do you just want to win the rhetoric war? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:22 AM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.Women’s complaints about men don’t just come from random places. So to say they “just don’t really like men,” as if it’s some randomly occurring phenomenon that we have zero understanding of is not really a genuine read of the situation. Women don’t like when the solution to the male loneliness epidemic is for them to lower their standards or somehow transform who they’re attracted to. That’s why the only solution is for men to meet women’s standards. There is no other option, literally. And you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.What? When I say it’s for the man to decide, I mean it is the man’s decision whether the woman who is dating him is worth his time. In exactly the same way, it is the woman’s decision whether the man she is dating is worth her time. How is this falling onto the man’s responsibility in both scenarios? It’s not. It’s up to both people to figure out what their own standards are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.That’s for the man to decide. If he does not feel that the woman is adding to his life, then he can break up with her, or simply not date women who don’t meet this standard. The problem with getting an accurate number on this is that toms of men constantly settle just to have access to sex. They would rather have sex with a woman they don’t like than have no sex at all. That’s problem you men need to figure out amongst yourselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.Oh so you think OP is talking about 30 vs 25 year olds when he talks about older men dating younger women? No, you don’t. Because no one interpreted his post that way. Which makes your comment disingenuous. Women ALREADY date men who are older than them. Why bring up “older” if you don’t mean significantly older? As in…a young woman considering a man way older than her as OLD. Because it is RELATIVE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.Yeah, and to a 20 year old, a 40 year old is OLD. Old is relative. Do I need to repeat that again? Old is relative. Stop using YOUR definition of old and start thinking of old as a RELATIVE word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.I didn’t misrepresent anything. Would you like to put out some actual numbers to prove me wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 4 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?You actually wouldn’t know. Women don’t talk to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:32 PM |
| 10 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.“Old” is relative. Women already on average date “older” men, just not that much older. To a 20 year old, a 40 year old is old. You’re welcome to put in some actual numbers if you want to get specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 0 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?It’s not a trope. It’s true. Most women you know have rejected some man at some point because of some part of his personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:51 PM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.I mean, as a woman on this sub, I’m constantly bombarded by men who claim that if I don’t actively seek to address male issues then I’m not a good feminist or male ally. So it’s just interesting to be told that we don’t know what the problem is to be fixed when men here don’t stop talking about everything that encapsulates male issues. Maybe YOU don’t know what they are but the other men on this sub seem extremely clear about it. Of course, the number one issue for them (whether they say it out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:49 PM |
| 4 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?That doesn’t answer my question at all. If anything, you just insulted her intelligence. And you made yourself look like a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 3 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?Good for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?How is a mean message NOT insulting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.Yes, we are happier when our men actually improve our life. What a shocker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:25 PM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.What are you suggesting? That we don’t find a solution because the “cultural evolution” machine doesn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.I agree, men have to become better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:20 PM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.Popular, yes. A solution? Hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:00 PM |
| 34 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.What makes you think younger women will want old men en masse? Most young women find the average old man gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:48 PM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.Oh, I was close to agreeing with you until you started bringing up AI girlfriends as an actual solution to the male loneliness epidemic. I love splitting the cost of dates with my guy, and I am happy to have a very financially egalitarian relationship. But women like me are not attracted to men who say things like what you just said, OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:17 PM |
| – | What is so bad about directly asking for sex?Let me put it another way for you to understand: men would rather have sex with someone they don’t like than not have any sex at all; women would rather not have sex than have it with someone they don’t like. Are there exceptions? Sure. But men have made it abundantly clear that they don’t have to like or be attracted to a woman in order to decide that it’s worth having sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, how do you justify shaming men for watching porn, while at the same time labeling men who don't want their girlfriends to watch porn as insecure?This is what happens when you think all women morally must have the same views, or else they are “contradictory”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:37 PM |
| – | What is so bad about directly asking for sex?Because men have no issue having sex with women they don’t like. And women are not like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:32 PM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?Ok and? Men want someone they don’t have and no one can force the people they want to like them back. Nowhere did I say men had to be happy about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:30 PM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?They lack horny men lusting after them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:35 AM |
| – | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?I dont think romantic attention can be deserved by anyone. That’s called entitlement. Women DO receive more romantic attention than men. But not because they deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:18 AM |
| 5 | What is so bad about directly asking for sex?And there’s nothing inherently pleasurable about having sex with a stranger who comes up to you on the street. And in many cases, that could be simply unpleasant. Much more unpleasant than paying for someone’s nails. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:30 AM |
| 6 | What is so bad about directly asking for sex?It is when one person doesn't want to have sex with a total stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:05 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?The truth is that if men all got sex as much as they wanted, none of the stats you listed about suicide, education, or crime would even be mentioned by that many men at all. The root of their frustration is lack of romantic attention, as they’ve made clear over and over again by the things they’ve told us. That’s why this issue is so hard to fix. Many men bring up “men’s issues” disingenuously because they know that just complaining about lack of romantic attention doesn’t look good, and there’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 14 | What is so bad about directly asking for sex?“Hello stranger man, would you like to pay for my next nail appointment so my nails look pretty for you?” “Um, why would I do that? No thanks.” “Alright no problem!” If this is weird to you, then asking for sex in this way is a hundred times weirder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Women find good men sexually appealingHow is that circular? If you’re not immediately attracted to a person physical until discovering a personality trait, then it is the personality trait that has made them attractive. Emotional things translate to physical things. Maybe not for YOU. But again, that’s why I say don’t speak for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Women find good men sexually appealingWhy do you put men into “hot” and “ugly” as your only two categories, then yeah, I can see you coming to that conclusion. If only men were in those two categories in reality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Women find good men sexually appealingSame comment. It absolutely can make me horny. The thing you seem unable to grasp is CONTEXT. But I’m not going to bother going down that road because you seem only capable of absolutist thinking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Women find good men sexually appealingMost of those life long companion traits DO turn me on. So…I don’t really separate them. In fact, that’s why sex with a LTR is way better for me than sex with a ONS. The ONS is only attracting me with physical traits. The LTR is attracting me with both physical traits AND these “logical” qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingIt’s absolutist simple thinking. Red pill and black pill both suffer from this thought pattern. That’s why a lot of men complain that they were “tricked” by people saying they only need to be confident or kind. Where what people are really saying is that it HELPS to be confident and kind. It’s not like this singular trait guarantees you romantic success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingWhat is “logically attractive”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingIt’s not the ONLY thing required to be sexually attracted to someone obviously. If you’re nice but lack other qualities, it can make you not sexually attracted to a person. If you aren’t immediately attracted to someone, their goodness can absolutely make them sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:08 AM |
| -3 | Women find good men sexually appealingAs a woman, I vehemently disagree. I absolutely find goodness sexually attractive. Don’t speak for all of us, ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenOkay, so it sounds like you're doing what you have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood?It’s so incredibly common for men to bring up being single as an issue akin to abortion access or murder—and then propose a solution that genuinely is just “women need to pick men more”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenWhat can you think of to do that will result in meeting new people? What have you looked up online that occurs in your area? Also, what hobbies do you have or what areas of life are you interested in? Music? Volunteering? Animals? Nature? Art? Etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenI think bars aren’t going to be very useful unless you’re there with a big group of friends. How old are you? Do you live in a big city or a small town? Are you working? Do you have friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenAgreed that cold approaches are a losing strategy for 99.99% of men. Are you proactive in your social life? How many social things do you do generally? If you don’t want to do the apps, that’s the best way to meet women in an organic way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenWell, there is a nugget of truth and the things those people are telling you. I think many of us would agree that a bad relationship is worse than just being single. Unless you’re someone who enjoys conflict, bad relationships can be the most soul sucking horrible experiences of many people‘s lives. But good relationships do greatly improve your life, and I think many of us would agree that those relationship relationships are preferable to being single. You’re absolutely right though. You have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:14 PM |
| 2 | What do abusive men bring to the table?Every woman knows at least three other women who have rejected men for being assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?the kind and confidence slogan on Reddit is so rarely “the only thing you need is kindness and confidence and literally nothing else.” Often, especially with confidence, the commenters are responding to an obvious lack of confidence in the OP and are suggesting that this is something he may be lacking. It is so RARELY framed as the end all be all solution to anyone’s dating problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:19 PM |
| 0 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?There have not been enough women who have insisted that the only thing that women care about is confidence and kindness for as many men as you claim to believe this to be true. Even if the only media you commune are Reddit dating subs, you still cannot make this claim. This is much like the personality versus looks debate. You have countless men on the Internet falsely claiming that women have all been telling them that looks don’t matter at all. When the reality is that women have been saying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?This is so different from beauty expectations though. That commenter is explaining this concept in an extremely absolutist way. Unless they are autistic, it seems very silly to believe that the possession of a single personality trait will automatically result in a relationship with a whole other human being with a complex mixture of personality traits, values, and goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 0 | What do abusive men bring to the table?There are plenty of reasons men don't get any women. Being a misogynist could be one of them, or not. Being ugly could be one of them, or not. Being an emotional vampire could be one of them or not. That's because sex is not a reward, and women's vaginas are not the arbiters of morality. And yeah, your experience isn't invalid, but it's not the sole truth. Just because you've seen things with your biased perspective doesn't mean other realities don't exist. Plenty of men do actually get rejected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What do abusive men bring to the table?we are often told we fail due to our moral failings Such as? Meanwhile, I think most men would agree the biggest, most blatant misogynists irl are the ones that are never alone Perception bias. You just think that because you're looking for it. Meanwhile, women see tons of misogynistic assholes who have horrible success with women. So yeah. We 'focus on the abusers', because they are the ones women reward with their actions This statement is only true if you believe women's vaginas are arbiters … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What do abusive men bring to the table?If you would date shitty women, then you already have your answer. It’s clearly not about them being shitty. And if it’s not about them being shitty, then it’s worthless to talk about abusers at all, which is the exact point of my first comment. Clearly being worse does not stop someone from wanting to date someone, so rather than focus on men you don’t want to emulate, why don’t you focus on men you DO want to emulate? The “good guys”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:00 PM |
| 4 | What do abusive men bring to the table?What’s the difference between you dating shitty women, hoping to fix them, and then breaking up with them after bad behavior and all the women you criticize for doing exactly the same thing with shitty men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:50 PM |
| 3 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Well as a virulent social dancer, I have never once experienced that. Perhaps you’re doing a dance that’s more heavily male. I’ve found that the ones that are more sexual in nature attract way more men. While things like swing and west coast and ballroom are heavily female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?And yet there are countless examples that prove otherwise. Plus, the sheer amount of assholes that me and other women like me have rejected for being assholes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 5 | What do abusive men bring to the table?This is what happens when you believe that women’s vaginas are arbiters of morality. They are not. It is not women’s job to dole out justice thru who they fuck. Women are not Batman, but you act like they are. You know who also gravitates towards shitty men? Shitty women. Interestingly, you act like you’re interested in attracting those women as well, as if you’d rather then date you than the abuser they’re with. This is not black and white. Men in relationships are not inherently better people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?That’s on you, sorry. Most men do not have an issue understanding this concept. There are zero personality traits that work this way for any kind of relationship, platonic or romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeYou act like “adjusting standards” is some thing that women do out of the goodness of her heart. WE DONT WANT TO FUCK MEN WE DONT LIKE. You don’t understand this because YOU are so desperate that you would fuck a woman you don’t like. We are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?There is no single personality trait that, in a vacuum, will always guarantee sex for every man. If you don’t understand that then…no one can really help you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:49 PM |
| 12 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeThe answer to gender relations negatively affecting women is not for women to lower their standards and fuck men they don’t like. The answer the male loneliness epidemic is not for women to lower their standards and fuck men they don’t like. Men do that. Women do not. The answer is for men to stop fucking women THEY don’t like. Men would rather fuck a woman they don’t like than not fuck anyone at all. And that’s the crux of the problem. YOU inflate the market for women. YOU give women endless op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:44 PM |
| 2 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.For one, dance lessons are famously heavily women. In a group of 20 people there could be maybe 6 men on a regular night unless you’re in a huge city. So I don’t know what OP is talking about there. Sounds like he tried one dance lesson once, didn’t immediately get a date, and then bailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:38 PM |
| 16 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeI consume all of the content you mention and I have never once felt inclined to consistently go clubbing, think of the male species as evil, or be hyper sexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:26 PM |
| 6 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeWomen’s standards are not high enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:25 PM |
| 6 | What do abusive men bring to the table?But why focus on abusers? If you have no interest in being an abuser, then there are PLENTY of men in happy relationships who are not abusers. Why not focus on what THEY are doing right that women are attracted to? Why is there such an obsession with abusers if not to make some point about women actually being attracted to the abuse itself? That is why OP’s question is not even in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Men and women do not live the same lifeI never said anything of the sort. I’m arguing against the statement that OP made that the average man is alone and single his whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsAnother day, another MRA using the word “discrimination” wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Men and women do not live the same lifeWho determines that they’re similar levels of attractiveness? YOU? Lol that’s an opinion only. I don’t disagree that women on average have better social lives than men—that’s been studied and proven. I disagree with what you said in your OP, that the average man is single and lonely his whole life. That’s literally a falsehood. If you want to make a point, make it without saying something that’s completely fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.We completely agree on all of this. And as I’ve said, the result is already happening. More people are single. More women are swearing off men. More men are lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:56 AM |
| 6 | Men and women do not live the same lifeWhere did OP say this? If that’s what he meant, he should change the title to “men in this sub and average women in the real world do not live the same life.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:54 PM |
| 38 | Men and women do not live the same lifeThe average man does not spend his whole life single. That’s literally a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.You’re acting like all of these men who check my boxes will have all these women clamoring after them, allowing them be assholes to everyone with zero consequences. The problem with that assumption is that this would mean that we no longer share the same values. Someone who acts like an asshole because he thinks he can isn’t someone I’m attracted to anymore. So that eliminates that man from my dating pool too. So this idea that all these terrible men exist who check all these boxes isn’t really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Nobody is saying compatibility standards are bad. That's exactly what OP is saying. He is literally claiming that women expecting xyz from men before dating them is "anti-feminist". You can't complain about the pressure men feel to meet women's standards without complaining about the standards. If a large number of women want a man who is highly educated, financially successful, attractive, socially skilled, confident, well-traveled, emotionally intelligent, shares their politics, shares their v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 2 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Having high standards for looks doesn’t always result in preventing bad experiences. But having high standards for everything else absolutely does. For example, I’m highly educated, self sufficient, artistic, atheist, liberal, well travelled. It was important to me that I was with someone who was also highly educated, self sufficient, had curiosity about the arts, was not Christian, super liberal, and had some experiences beyond his own town. That narrows the pool quite a lot. I had to eliminate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Why is it look down upon for a man to use his nationality to his advantage in dating? How is this different than other desirable traits?Critics understand that some western women will be compatible with you, some won’t be. Passport bros have two bad experiences and think all women in that entire country are the same. We’re not comparing western women to women from other countries. You are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is it look down upon for a man to use his nationality to his advantage in dating? How is this different than other desirable traits?Why do passport bros think all western women are a monolith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:16 PM |
| 4 | CHIVALRY A SLAVERY: HOW MEN CAN WIN AGAINST WOMEN PRIVILEGE.OP’s solution to wanting socialism is to ignore women who want absolutely nothing to do with him. I’m sure that will work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:09 PM |
| 17 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyBy OP’s logic: No romantic attention + mean words = the worst abuse and violence that could ever befall men. Murder, rape, forced pregnancy = chill, not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Because men seem to prefer to have sex with a woman they don’t like than to not have sex with anyone. I already answered that. Also, jestermax is cringe af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:51 PM |
| 0 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.It is completely feminist for women to require men to live up to certain standards before dating them. This is beneficial to women because having higher standards has allowed women to avoid men they’re not interested in. That could be men who are not good for relationships. That could be men who they’re not attracted to. Could be men who they’re simply not compatible with. Men would benefit by this too, except men seem to prefer to have sex with a woman they don’t like than to not have sex with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 09:18 PM |
| – | Feminine men or non-traditional men are hated due to misandry, not misogyny.Considering gay men who act extremely feminine are not only majorly accepted in feminist circles, but praised for being themselves, I’d say your argument holds very little water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 07:56 PM |
| 3 | I noticed that many people are performative progressivesYes I did see that part. Same comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 13 | I noticed that many people are performative progressivesRead your whole post. Same comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:51 PM |
| 17 | I noticed that many people are performative progressivesNot wanting to date someone is not necessarily a sign that that person doesn’t support “equality”. That’s not what equality means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:38 PM |
| – | Women are likely blind to a lot of subtle pursuing men do.I don’t know, in my experience, a lot of men hear my dating story and quick to downplay the initiative that I took and elevate the initiative that my boyfriend took, in an effort to prove your exact point. When in reality, it paints a picture of two people choosing each other, which is a much more nuanced story and much closer to reality for a lot of couples. And in between there were all kinds of back of forth initiations that either of us could have shut down at any point. I was not blind to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:41 PM |
| – | Detachment is the best approach to dating for men.Are you one of those men who thinks that average and ugly men in relationships are not truly loved by their partners despite all the evidence to the contrary? Like you think all those women are secretly unattracted to them and actually lying about how they feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that straight men and women can actually be fully platonic friends?I have literally a dozen platonic male friends at least, and there is zero romantic feelings between us. Besides, you already move the goalpost in your body text. First it's men and women can't be fully platonic friends, then platonic friends apparently only counts if you hang out with them one on one, and if they're single. But either way, I absoutely have hung out one on one with platonic male friends with zero feelings between either of us, and in my general social circle, this is extremely c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Redpill guys will do anything to get women except being respectful to women.That's just cope. The reason a multitude of rape and sex trafficking charges were brought up against him is not because he has "enemies". It's because he is either is guilty of them, or he engaged in behaviors that were adjacent to them. This is not a smear campaign. Dozens of women have all separately come forward to accuse them . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Redpill guys will do anything to get women except being respectful to women.Source: trust me bro. The guy was arrested for sex trafficking. That’s NOT respectful or kind, believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Redpill guys will do anything to get women except being respectful to women.Ok you can choose any other red pill poster boy then. They’re all pretty problematic. The ones who have millions and billions of views and speak about the red pill are NOT representative of the red pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Redpill guys will do anything to get women except being respectful to women.If the redpill poster boy is Andrew Tate, then I think you have your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:15 PM |
| – | Why are so many women convinced that they’re morally superior to men?This isn’t gender specific. You have tons of men also convinced they are morally superior to women. What tends to happen on this sub is that men will complain about women’s dating standards, and women will respond by insisting that it’s not their moral obligation to change that. Because it’s not. And then men will interpret this to mean that they think all men are trash and women are superior and men have to be perfect or they get rejected. Men tend to equate morality with sexual validation. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Why even bother with the last statement if you’re not trying to be apologetic to the creepy men who give all men a bad name? Of course you’ve never observed cat calling. But we’re not talking about you. You wouldn’t notice because it didn’t happen to you. What a tone deaf thing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateYes, so perhaps men need to figure out how to support each other rather than relying on women to give them validation through sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Never said “everyone”. Funny how you are confident enough to put something in quotes that you just made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateLOL you don't think men shit on each other? Men are terrified of coming across as gay because of how other men are so judgmental of each other. They don't share emotions with each other. Also, women date fat men. Tons of my girl friends are with fat men. But either way, I don't see what social propaganda for men has to with this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Did i even remotely suggest that young boys aren't also objectified? I'm not talking about boys, I'm talking about girls, because that's the OC is talking about. If you grew up anywhere that wasn't in bumfuck nowhere with a population of 1,000, and you are a woman, you were VERY LIKELY objectified/sexually harassed as a child. For you to deny this is for you to deny the lived experience of MOST women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Oh, so when I was 11 years old and cat called and followed on a public street, that was me playing into sexual objectification? Was I so beautiful as a child that men around me had no choice but to sexualize me? Why do we always talk about objectification like it’s all only fans and Instagram models? The first time a woman is objectified is when she is a CHILD. And trust me, basically 100% of women you know have been objectified as children. That’s where it starts. That’s the CORE of the objecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionLiberal societies support the RIGHTS of these women. You said that companies take risks hiring women at all, which is not only unbelievably ignorant economically AND morally—and that’s why I said that women being in the workforce is a benefit. Because you were making it seem like women would be completely out of the workforce if not for the “generosity” of men. It’s unrelated. As usual. Whether or not men are given “a chance” has nothing to do with workers rights. That’s my whole point. One is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionPretty hilarious to watch you see real data and come to a completely unreal conclusion to fit your narrative. men in those companies work disproportionately harder There is nothing in the link you provided to suggest that men work disproportionally harder in those companies. It doesn't list companies. It doesn't list how hard men work in those companies compared to women. It doesn't support your argument at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:32 PM |
| – | Romance is dying because men and women know too much about each other.Do people think that society had the communication abilities of cavemen before social media or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionEquality is absolutely NOT accepted in all aspects of society. I don’t know what world you’re living in. Society and government OFTEN actively does NOT cater to female biology. Science and healthcare barely caters to female biology. And if you’re so confused as to why “equality” in dating gets a bad reaction, it’s very simple. It is because men like you complain to and at women, blaming women, for their dating habits whilst simultaneously comparing lack of male romantic attention to systemic civ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionLiterally not what I said. Just because the government shouldn’t get involved doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. Men being lonely is a problem. It’s just a bad comparison to worker’s rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThat’s literally not what im saying. Where did i say that ALL forms of sexism outside of work should be addressed? Im saying that OP’s comparison is bad. Because he’s comparing a social difference with a civil rights infringements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionSource: trust me bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionYou’re acting like there aren’t already tons of women who resign to low quality jobs or being housewives. We already have a society that has both kinds of women. Doesn’t change the fact that women have no moral obligation to give men any kind of romantic attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionEquality is NOT enforced in all aspects of society except dating. There are SO many areas where both the government and the people are not enforcing equality. That’s why your comparison is bad, because you use worker’s rights as a stand in for literally everything except dating. So you are able to make it seem like there is some kind of double standard. There is not, you just compared two things that are completely different. You don’t think men react to what they think is fair or moral? The ori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:52 PM |
| – | Let's have the uncomfortable conversationMaybe the government will start making immigration actually feasible, abortions will be considered as actual healthcare so women won’t be terrified of getting pregnant in the wrong place, and socialism will help lower income people have enough social safety nets to be confident enough to have children. I think this population decline (it isn’t declining globally) is a GOOD thing. The Boomers are fucking everything up, and we’re not replacing specifically that generation. It’ll course correct onc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:48 PM |
| 9 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionIt’s not even remotely a strawman. You compared the two with the express intent of complaining of a double standard that you believe should be rectified. According to you, “you can’t have equality in everything except the expensive, performative, high-risk part where men have to audition.” In other words, you’d like men to have access to dates the same way women have access to worker’s rights. This is a bad comparison because of my stated reasons above. How men react is dependent on what men thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:45 AM |
| 8 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionCompanies experiencing an “economic consequence” is just capitalistic speak for “company makes slightly less money.” Women entering the workforce has been one of the most influential economic growth factors of the 20th century. Companies know it. The government knows it. It is to everyone’s benefit for women to be included in the workforce, and certain protections need to be made to accommodate women having to give birth. Not because it simply “benefits women”, but because society will actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 8 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionI know you never said the government should get involved, but by insisting that dating is equivalent to workers rights, you imply that dating IS something the government should regulate. If you don’t believe that, then you should stop comparing dating to worker’s rights. We also do not police narratives about intersexual dynamics. There is rhetoric surrounding these topics, but there are quite literally no police involved with a narrative. You can’t literally police a narrative. Marriage and div… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:00 AM |
| 12 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionThe reason why anti-discriminatory work practices exist and are enforced by the government is not because it’s men’s responsibility to make women’s business lives easier. “Easier” is entirely the wrong word. It’s because discrimination in the work force has enormous economic ramifications that should not morally go unchecked by the government, for which its citizens vote and pay taxes. Women, by contrast, have no moral obligation to give men any kind of romantic attention for literally any reaso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:54 AM |
| 15 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionWhy does the dating world have to have the same moral objectives as the working world? Inequality in the work place is an infringement on civil rights. Men not getting dates isn’t an infringement on anything that a government should oversee. To claim that they are the same is to claim that the government should be regulating “equality” in dating. Obviously that’s insane. By contrast, men are allowed to—at any time—decide to raise their standards, choose to not pay more, or not plan/organize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 03:10 AM |
| 9 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammatePoor people tend to marry poor people. Middle class people tend to marry middle class people. Rich people tend to marry rich people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateObviously some do. Like me. And I'm not remotely alone in that. No one is forcing men to date down financially. It's just always interesting to me that men's advice is never for men to raise their standards to match women, it's always for women to lower their standards to match men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateI know it's not the norm. The norm is that people tend to pair up with people in their own socio-economic sphere. Not up or down. Just the same. OP asked when women will "settle" for men who earn less than them, and I chimed in to say that many of us already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:40 PM |
| 8 | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateYou're right. Most people date within their own socio-economic class. He and I actually do come from the same socio-economic class. We were both raised in very similar environments. He just happens to not make as much as me right now. But most people date people who are similar to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:32 PM |
| – | Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammateHi, woman here who makes twice as much as her partner. I even own property while he doesn’t. All of my girl friends make around the same amount as their spouses, and the ones that don’t are not “depending” on the man. They all work. Or they’re full time mothers. Or both. You’re living in a fantasy world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Misandry exists.You’re making it sound like any woman being alone with any man and feeling any amount of wariness makes that woman a misandrist. If I’m alone with a male friend, I’m not going to feel any anxiety. If I’m pumping gas at night and there’s only me and one other dude sitting on the curb doing nothing, I’m going to feel anxiety. And it will be because he’s a man. But every woman has had an experience in her life where she’s felt anxious because she’s alone with a man, because he’s a man. It doesn’t m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 9 | Misandry exists.If a woman feeling anxiety while being alone with a man makes that woman a misandrist, then every woman is a misandrist. Are you prepared to argue that every single woman is a misandrist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitledAnything desired is part of an incentive structure. Vaginas are not the exception. That's simply incorrect. There are tons of things that are desired that aren't part of incentive structures that would compel others to change their actions. I am a libertarian. If it was for me there would be no government. Then your argument falls apart even more. You want women and their vaginas to enact a power that not even the government is allowed to do. You want women and their vaginas to be more influenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:08 AM |
| 4 | If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitledEvery single human that decides to reward/punish behaviors in other humans is. You are still assuming that vaginas are rewards/punishments. Sex is not a reward for good/bad behavior. Insufficient Are you implying that the government should meddle in the affairs of who sleeps with who? Are you implying that this issue of men not getting sex is too big for government or too small? They are not obligated to reward morality and punish immorality. But if they don't I will judge them for being immoral… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itYou misinterpreted my first sentence. I’m not arguing that they are unique to women as a gender. Im saying the complaints aren’t new. Women have been complaining about men for all of human history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 7 | If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitledThis assumes that women’s vaginas are the arbiters of morality. They are not. The justice system is supposed to be that. Government. To claim that women’s vaginas are the arbiters of morality on a mass scale is to be entitled to a certain kind of justice that conveniently only women can enact. This is an extension of entitlement. Women are not obligated to use their vaginas to punish or not punish the moral failings of men. This also assumes that your first claim is at all scientifically accurat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.Men are free to have whatever standards they want. If you think a woman isn’t “bringing anything to the table” then don’t date her. Women make this decision about men all the time. It’s time that men have standards that weren’t absolute garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itWhat makes you think this is a unique complaint for women? Generations of older women have been passing down some essential advice to their daughters—don’t settle, don’t get married unless the man is exactly right, make your own money. Younger women are listening to horror stories of past generations and deciding to raise their standards to protect themselves. And both can be true. Women can complain that men aren’t meeting their standards and men can be trying really hard. A lot of men are exac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itIf only this were remotely reflected in women’s day to day lives. Not only do men never stop bothering us, but there is no shortage of men who are putting in tons of effort to date women. If anything, men are trying harder now than ever before because women aren’t satisfied with “I have a job”. And young men in general don’t have a house or any resources to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:16 PM |
| 4 | If a Straight Men's Attitudes Towards Other Men Were Like Most Women's Attitudes Towards Other Women, People Would Conclude the Man is Gay (or Bisexual)Most of this is just women not being strangled by the strict patriarchal boundaries that men are pressured into. Some are things that already apply to straight men, such as men’s magazines. A Vogue isn’t any different for women than a GQ is for men. The rest are hilarious to consider as they simply don’t apply to most women. Oral sex with women in college? Showers with their friends? The vast majority of women have not done these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.You keep using the word “fault”. I have never once used that word. You can keep arguing with yourself, if you like, but then I’m done with this conversation. Stop arguing against a point I never made. If a man is showing up with desire and a woman is not, then that is correct that there is asymmetry. They are not a good match. But you cannot force that woman to have desire for that man. You either part ways or the man does something to make the woman desire him. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.Women do not lack the implicit capacity to experience wanting. Myself and most of my girl friends have no problem experiencing see desire for our male boyfriends/husbands. For you to claim that women have no desire is to claim that ALL women in relationships are faking their desire. This is obviously false. Talking about whether or not women are willing to initiate courtship is a separate conversation. Whether they initiate can be unrelated to their desire, simply because so many men make the fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.It’s not men fault women lack implicit desire for the mLe form I didn't say it was men's fault. I'm saying it's men's obligation to be the solution. Men have no issues generating desire for women. Men do not generate their own desire. This is just how they are, due to no effort on their part. The "hunger" is not something men manufactured. You are trying to reframe this issue in extremely wonky ways to fit your narrative, but it's simply not that complicated. You can't force a woman to want some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Women have ruined cold approachingAs always, it's not about WHERE, it's about WHEN. Men who have acted like weird creepers have made women extremely wary about strangers walking up to them and trying to hit on them. That's not women's fault--that's creepy men's fault. And as a result, "good" men have to be "careful" about where they try to ask women out. What this means is that you generally can't just walk up to a woman who you know nothing about--whether she's single, straight, the right age, etc--and start trying to get her n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:44 PM |
| 8 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.The solution is not always men changing. In THIS case, that is the only solution, because as I said, you can’t force women to be “gotten” by men. The logical conclusion is that men have to make themselves something women desire. How is it women’s problem to trick themselves into wanting something they don’t want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.That’s…not what moving the goal post means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:31 PM |
| 6 | 🔵BP/Feminism pushes for equality in all aspects of society, EXCEPT dating, (where it arguably matters the most), shows that its destructive for societyThat’s an extremely ignorant take. WHY don’t women want to? Just because? No. It’s largely because it’s too expensive. There’s not enough support. There is too much sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.I’m not saying OP suggested force should be used. I mention force because it explains why there is only one solution to the problem OP stated. You are projecting so hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:57 AM |
| 13 | 🔵BP/Feminism pushes for equality in all aspects of society, EXCEPT dating, (where it arguably matters the most), shows that its destructive for societyHow would making it easier to raise children NOT encourage women to want to start families? Are you familiar with the reasons why women are hesitating now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:56 AM |
| 10 | Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis.I think that’s fair to say. There’s only one solution, which is for men to become something women want. You can’t force women to be “gotten” by men if they don’t want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:43 AM |
| 14 | 🔵BP/Feminism pushes for equality in all aspects of society, EXCEPT dating, (where it arguably matters the most), shows that its destructive for societyWhat are you talking about? The policies that would encourage women to, for instance, want to start families, are already supported by and large by feminists. Reproductive rights, maternity and paternity leave, free childcare, worker’s rights, access to property ownership, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Do you hide parts of your sexuality from your partner?Most men have “secret sexual basements”? I don’t know that. For me personally, I don’t keep stuff like that from my partner and I don’t believe he does from me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:27 PM |
| 2 | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.Totally agree, it’s so embarrassing when I see other women with these “alpha” guys who just act like buffoons and have zero tact. They’re unpleasant to be around, and they don’t take care of the group vibe at all. The best hangs are the ones with green flag guys who can make other people around him feel valued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:25 PM |
| – | Women supporting Isabel Rose proves that feminism is a cult and doesn't care about justiceWell seeing as 99% of feminists have absolutely no idea who the fuck any of these people are, I don’t think this really proves anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:19 PM |
| – | Hypothetical choice of daily visitor: You can only pick one.Why would I consent to having sex every day with a random stranger? Just cuz he’s hot? Takes a lot more than that to make me want to have sex with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:45 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?Again, it depends on the problem and it depends on who they blame for the problem and WHY they blame them. Women can complain about beauty standards without claiming that men are the only ones enforcing them. To say that only men perpetuate these standards would be a bag generalization and also inaccurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:40 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?Where did I say this about men? Please quote me. It really just depends on the generalization. Saying all women are shallow is a useless generalization. Saying all men are violent is a useless generalization. Saying women are more likely to date a man within her own socio economic circle is not a bad generalizations, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:36 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?Fine, then replace my statement with “his loneliness” and it’s the same point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 03:15 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?It sounds you want to be able to talk in absolutes. Sorry, but there is no point in engaging with you if you don’t acknowledge any amount of nuance or context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 03:14 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?And I’m telling you depends on the context. If men are actively hurting women, then it is men’s responsibility to stop. If a woman has a few bad dates, it wouldn’t really be fair to “blame all men”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:06 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?That’s a different topic I think. You can replace male loneliness epidemic with “his loneliness” if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:44 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?No? How did you come to that conclusion based on what I wrote? Absolutist statements will never work in your favor. As always, it depends what is being said and in what context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:42 PM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?Sure, depending on the context and how he says it, of course. A man who says that the male loneliness epidemic is because women have too high standards is blaming women for male loneliness on a systemic scale, which I would file under bad blame. A man who states that he feels sad and discouraged because he feels like he’s not enough for the women he dates is something I would file under not blaming women. Just to name two examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:47 AM |
| – | Would you consider a man entitled for wanting a romantic partner?Totally fine to feel frustrated. Feelings are not the problem. It’s when you outwardly blame women for not “choosing” you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:24 PM |
| -1 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.Why would that apply to all issues? I’m talking specifically about the issue YOU brought up. And yes, if it were a woman complaining about men’s standards, you’d be able to say the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:25 AM |
| -4 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.While I think it’s sad that anyone feels lonely, I don’t think women have any obligation to change their standards for men. If a woman would rather be single than be with a man who doesn’t meet her standards, that’s her prerogative. The most we can do is say, “That sucks that you aren’t able to date easily.” But we shouldn’t tangibly do anything to solve that problem for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 10:18 PM |
| – | How important is sex?Taxes are not payments for mistakes and shortcomings. That's not how any of that works. If you wanted fairness, you'd be very much in favor of welfare and social programs. You don't want fairness. You want women to need men for survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:10 AM |
| – | How important is sex?Yes, I'm starting to see that OP's revenge fantasy is to completely impoverish women so that they are forced to pair up with men to survive. Hilarious how he repeats over and over again how women don't owe men sex--he just wants women to have no other option for survival except to fuck men in order to eat. See guys? That makes OP one of the good ones! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:08 AM |
| – | How important is sex?You still make it sound like women don't pay taxes and get all the benefits, while men pay all the taxes and get none. But it doesn't matter whether or not you understand nuance. What does this have to do with men getting laid? Is your revenge fantasy to make women completely impoverished and oppressed so that they have to pair up with men in order to survive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:06 AM |
| – | How important is sex?OP thinks the netherlands gives disabled people sex partners through health insurance. He does not live in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:01 AM |
| – | How important is sex?em dashes are what make something AI generated, genius. Double dash makes a great case that nothing I wrote is AI generated. And it's not. I expected at least a little more effort from you in your response. That's the kind of response someone says when they have no real argument. Looks like you got got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 01:49 AM |
| – | How important is sex?Men as a group are a net positive on taxes and women are a net negative. So essentially it's men funding these programs for women. You make it sound like all men are homeless and all women have houses. It is obviously much more nuanced that than. Also, I'm not even talking about "programs". I'm talking about policies that keep housing prices in check, such as rent control, regulations on corporate ownership, punishment for landlord neglect, etc. Whether your gender as a whole pays more in taxes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 01:46 AM |
| – | How important is sex?Sex is important. Most people want sex. It is normal to be sad when you can't have sex while wanting it. However, sex and your example of housing are very different. In order for men to have sex with women, women need to consent to sex with that man. And, as you said, since no one is owed sex, there is no moral obligation for women to have sex with men. On the other hand, you could argue that a tax-paying citizen is owed a certain level of housing accessibility by their government, which control… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themOh and OP was arguing from a place of good faith? Complaining about male issues without listing a single one? Also, feminists don’t vote for progressive policies just because. They vote for progressive policies because they help the people who need help the most, and that includes men. That’s extremely intentional. It’s not an accident that they vote for policy that benefit men. It is absolutely on purpose. As usual, men like you are only satisfied when feminists go out of their way to do things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThat’s why I presented multiple options for what OP could have meant. OP brought up nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themI didn’t. That’s why I clarified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Men should realise that straight/hetrosexual women don't exist and gays are attracted to men more than women. Men instead should approach random men for friendships.Most men get married or have a relationship in their life. What you’re saying has a grain of truth to it, but what youre implying in your “percentage” is way off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 07:06 PM |
| 8 | Men should realise that straight/hetrosexual women don't exist and gays are attracted to men more than women. Men instead should approach random men for friendships.Then what’s the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:10 PM |
| 10 | Men should realise that straight/hetrosexual women don't exist and gays are attracted to men more than women. Men instead should approach random men for friendships.So? There’s no moral obligation for women to be attracted to men at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Men should realise that straight/hetrosexual women don't exist and gays are attracted to men more than women. Men instead should approach random men for friendships.That’s simply untrue. Please link the study that proves this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 05:57 PM |
| 46 | Men should realise that straight/hetrosexual women don't exist and gays are attracted to men more than women. Men instead should approach random men for friendships.Another day, another man on this sub who claims that women aren’t straight to square with his sad reality. Women are attracted to men, most women are straight statistically. That is a fact. If you want to deny that this is a fact, then you are not living in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolIt is really unbelievable that you can’t think of any acceptable in between. You can find out if a woman is single, straight, and the right age, within a few interactions with her. Hell, you could even find this out after talking a little while on the first time you meet her. But saying zero words to her and asking her out—the cold approach—is a terrible strategy. Seeing a girl a few times at repeat social events with friends is a great way to quickly get to know someone and see if there is mutu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themNo strawman. He simply didn’t provide any examples, so I had to put in a clarifying point about dating, which is completely relevant because that is the number one thing men on this sub complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolIt’s not about where. It’s not about who. It’s about WHEN. Cold approaching a woman who you don’t know anything about her— whether she’s single, the right age, straight, etc.—is a bad time to ask a woman out. Your chances of success will be slim to none. Asking out a woman who you’ve been friends with for years, who has shown zero sign that she’s romantically interested in you is also the wrong time to ask her out. Are you really so uncreative that you can’t think of any in-between zone between … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:41 AM |
| 4 | Hypothetical choice of daily visitor: You can only pick one.ew what the actual fuck? B. I do not want some stranger, i don't care how hot he is, coming into my isolated space trying to have sex with me every day. That sounds like daily rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themBut yet they don't need training to be biased in favor of girls, that just comes naturally? Do you think that all teachers only have biases towards girls? ALL teachers need this training. No, they turn a blind eye to misandry while yelling endlessly about misogyny. They're complicit as fuck about misandry in schools. Ah yes, the primary feminist platform--addressing grading biases against boys in school. We all know that feminists aren't worthy of having any opinions unless their entire platform… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themSigh. I always prove myself right. The uneducated vote the way they do for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themSo you just proved that you can't provide any evidence that conservative values have benefited society. You also proved that you don't know US history. Conservatives who like to make the claim that republicans freed the slaves prove their stupidity. Look up the two parties switching ideologies because of geographic movement. Actually, you know what, what am i even saying? You won't educate yourself. I'd bet all of my money that you will not look this up and not educate yourself, and you will con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolThat they need to constantly be in this alert state to not do anything wrong around women. They have learned that they shouldn't explain things too much or they are "mansplaining", they need to avoid sitting in the chair the wrong way, they need to avoid walking too closely to a woman on the street. Good. Men should ALL be more aware of how they engage in conversation, and make sure they're thinking of others and not just themselves all the time. Women have learned to be constantly alert around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themCool, so what's your strategy for making men not kill themselves? How about making guns harder to access, make life worth living with livable wages, walkable cities, and good public transit? How about encouraging men to find mentors and role models? How about making education more accessible, so there's not a financial burden? How about removing student debt for low income people? Oh right--those are all things that feminists are in favor of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themHow in hell does funding affect the biased treatment of boys and male teachers? Because teachers need training against biases, need resources to help manage boys who learn differently than girls, and need smaller classrooms so they can help students actually learn rather than just engage in grade-based schooling with zero support. Like...this is basic? Feminists push for legislation all the time, or are you going to deny that now? What they don't ever push against is anti-male bias in schools, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Are men justified in hating women?What do you mean is it justified? It’s reality. Men hate women in drastically large numbers all over the world. Men have already formed “team man” since the beginning of time. Men have discussed openly how little they respect women and it’s not new. You’re framing this like women have recently “united” (they haven’t) against men, so now isn’t it men’s turn. Men have been having their “turn” for millennia. It doesn’t matter whether it’s justified. This is how humanity has been for most of human h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themI said besides the draft, but okay haha. Feminism is very much in favor of ending the draft. That’s well documented. Re: retirement age, I would bet that the only attempts to make the retirement age equal have been about raising the retirement age of women to match the retirement age of men. Am I right about that? If that’s the case, yeah…no one wants their retirement age raised. Have there been discussions about lowering the retirement age of men to match women? Re: men’s mental health. I’m gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themAre you…serious? You think no one starves in the U.S. for economic reasons? Please tell me you’re joking. It’s amazing to see you admit that capitalism creates wealth inequality. And then defend it. Like “we don’t have a choice but to be cucks to our billionaire overlords”. Cmon, don’t be so lame dude. There are a hundred solutions and they still allow the US to build wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themYou literally claimed that there was. You said “some in the party leadership want the democrats to steer more towards tackling” men’s issues but “they don’t do it” because of feminists. But there’s no evidence that this is the case. Even your quote is not about men’s issues. It’s about “wokeness”, the all encompassing buzzword that just means anything that isn’t conservative at this point. Also, when in our conversation did you ask me to list men’s issues that I’m in support of? I happened to li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themSo you just admitted that you made this up. There is no example of a democrat who tried to put forth policies with the aim to solely benefit men, who had been convinced not to specially by feminist voters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:02 AM |
| -3 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThe fact that you think low pay has nothing to do with how teachers teach and who takes those jobs means you do not understand how funding affects whole industries at all. You also talk about feminists not voting for policies that don’t exist. Which anti-male bias in school policies have been voted on? I’m a feminist and I’ve never had the opportunity to vote for a policy such as this. Same with the NEET things. I’ve never had the chance to vote for or against programs that have excluded these m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWomen do not hate men for just existing. They are taught to be WARY of men from personal experience starting at a young age. Those two things are not the same, and men constantly conflate them. Also…plenty of men do not want gender equality. They actively say it on this sub every day. Today on this sub, a man was trying to argue that women are genetically predisposed to cook for a family instead of working. That’s dehumanizing women, and it’s one of thousands of examples. If you’re not the kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:12 AM |
| -1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themIs there even any substantial examples to back up this ludicrous claim? What Democrat has tried to put forth policies that have benefited solely men, but has been convinced not to by specifically feminist voters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themDo you understand why women only homeless shelters need to exist? Please show evidence that feminists specifically have shot down these efforts, and include their reasonings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Women need to cookNo it doesn't work like that. Yes it does, sorry, but that's reality. You really think you're an edge lord, don't you? The blatant sexism is something that we all know you are aware of in your rhetoric, and it's painfully sad that it makes you feel like a big man to say these things. You already know that women aren't predisposed to cooking, but I don't have to tell you that. Hope you find something better to do with your life, mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themNow twenty years later after those types of messages became common men are asking why women aren't taking just a little more initiative Why are you confused about this? They aren't taking initiative because they don't like the men they aren't taking initiative for. Why would I approach a man and ask him on a date if I don't want to go on a date with him? Women can make moves. Doesn't mean we like a guy enough to want to. and now people are quick to say things like women just biologically need a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:22 PM |
| -1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThey still won't focus on men's issues specifically. That's not true. They do address men's issues specifically, they just also address other people's issues as well. It's been well established in this thread that men like you actually aren't satisfied with programs that help men. They need to help men at the exclusion of everyone else. If a program helps homeless men, it's not enough that those men get helped. It only "counts" in your book if no one else is helped but men in that program. But t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWho's more likely to read books about feminism? Women who identify as feminists or men who don't? And either way, most feminists do not start out with the worldview that all women are victims and all men are bad. They learn what men are like by being shown it in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThe birth rate is stupid and unimportant propaganda filtered to you through billionaires who want more humans to underpay to enrich themselves. There is no evidence that feminism has destroyed the foundation of society except men who whine about not getting laid to point of destroying society themselves. Every major win economically and socially for the united states has been won by liberal values, not conservative ones. At every junction, conservatives have destroyed the economy, eliminated con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWe need to just make everyone starve equally then? How is THAT your conclusion based on what I said? How about no one starves? Or is that too socialist for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThe poor become richer when we do away with minimum wage. Before there was minimum wage, this did not happen. Only the rich became richer. Right now, minimum wage is not working because the minimum has not kept up with living costs. If it had, it would be working. The answer obviously is to raise the minimum wage, not do away with it. We've already seen what happens when we do away with it. There is already hard evidence to disprove your argument. The world becomes safer and less likely to enter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThe man vs bear thing is completely valid. And it worked. The point was to get men to think for a second about how much fear they actually provoke in women, to the point where a woman would choose a bear instead of a man. And it's not performative fear either. It's real. The men who chose willingly to not understand the purpose of the hypothetical are unable to empathize with the reality of women. It's as simply as that. You either accept that it's reality for a lot of women, or you deny women's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?Probably for a lot of different reasons: they don't need to pay for prostitutes because they have no trouble finding men to have sex with them; they don't consume pornographic material in the same way for some reason (I don't know why); they don't find the men being presented to them as attractive; they don't find the way they are presented to be attractive. Women WANT to want men. I think it's just a litle more complicated than "i'll pay to lust after men to scratch that itch" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?It doesn't work because women aren't interested. Why aren't women interested? Because they don't express their sexuality the same way men do, because they don't find the men in question attractive, there are many reasons that can't really be helped. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWhat you’re talking about is bullying which is unacceptable no matter who does it. Also, the issue you’re talking about is about neurodivergence, which is a more specific claim than “women don’t treat men with basic human decency.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themProvide evidence for your claim or go away. (Who wants to take bets that this guy is going to talk about women’s dating preferences?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWomen already treat men with basic human decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?What do you mean “why can’t” men? You answered your own question. They tried a few things, it wasn’t popular. Women aren’t interested, that’s why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themAgreed. While female genital mutilation is a certain kind of irreparable horror, I do think that on principle, men should choose if they want to be circumcised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themThen why does the population continue to explode? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themDo you derive your definition of feminism from feminists who have, for example, published books about the ideology? Or do you get it from manosphere lackeys who tell you what to believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themNope, I’m saying we can have services for men AND women. Why are men like you so quick to jump to “no one gets it if I can’t get mine”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themYes, I agree, that’s why we need MORE funding for mental health. MORE funding means MORE research which means MORE men get helped. You agree with feminists in this point. Women getting prison sentencing bias is something I’m happy to fight against, it just does not seem that big of deal compared to the much larger issue of men in general being the vast majority of criminal cases. Like, sure men should receive less harsh sentences—let’s tackle that. Let’s make prisons rehabilitation and not punis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themA non answer because you have nothing else to argue. And yes, ego. You are so butt hurt about the prefix “fem” that you will actively attack the very people who are doing ACTIONS to help men. I said this in another comment, but essentially men will work against their own TANGIBLE self interest because some women hurt their feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themSo now you’re arguing that men don’t need mental health services because it doesn’t work on them? Maybe we need more money allocated to mental health services so they can be BETTER so men are more likely to seek them out. Also, using an example of hysteria, which was used not to help women but to imprison them and silence them is pretty rich. Men do more crime for more reasons than they’re just poor. They’re also more capable of violence. If legislation were created opting to make it illegal, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themYou think because we “have” a service, that this means it’s working adequately or doesn’t need more funding? You’ve got to be joking. The answer isn’t to remove funding for women, it’s to fund it more so MORE people can access it. It’s very easy to do so, it’s just that our politicians are bought out. We live in a society extremely depleted of social services. But the average American doesn’t really understand this because of propaganda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themIf there’s no money in these services, how will you even begin to have a conversation on where the money goes? This is a basic first step. But sure, we can have a conversation about where that money goes. Some of the money will go to men, and some of the money will go to women. I can tell you that all of the money will not solely go to women. For many of these items, the majority of the money will actually go to men, because this is a man who need the services more. And if you wanna argue that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWe already have a functional system, as evidenced by the population continuing to explode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themYou just made that up. In 2024, reviews found that despite making up about 60% of people with psychiatric disorders, women only made up around 42% of participants in clinical trials for psychiatric drugs and devices. Some studies utilize more women, but that’s directly proportional to how many women are diagnosed. In the past, in fact, ONLY men were used because hormone inbalances from women were considered a disqualifying quality in a study. This is absolutely a poverty issue. The solution to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themI just listed about a dozen things that are included in progressive policy goals that help men who suffer from the exact men’s issues you listed. They DIRECTLY address men’s issues. How can progressive policy universally view men are perpetrators and only women as victims when almost all of their policies seek to help men who are struggling? What you are looking for are policies that are ONLY for men, such as how women have a whole amendment giving them the right to vote. But that desire actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themHow do you know when the threshold has been met? Why worry about population growth when we can’t even sustain the people that we have currently on the planet? To me, the issue isn’t that there are population declines, because there isn’t and the population only continues to explode. the issue is that there is such insane wealth and equality, that some people on earth have disgustingly exorbitant wealth, while others are starving. Things like pairing rates are just a distraction from the actual p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:53 PM |
| 9 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themPersonally, I don't think "kill all men" is an acceptable thing to say. But luckily, it's really been blown out of proportion. Women don't really say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Women need to cookAs i said cooking is laborious. I'd rather someone else do it. As a woman, I think cooking is laborious, and I'd rather someone else do it. Now what? Besides it's not natural for a lot of us men. Then why are all the top chefs in the world men? Sounds like you're just bad at surviving on your own. Isn't that fathers and husbands done for their families. Besides you don't get the ingredients for free or home in case you are a traditional wife. So it's not free food. There never is. Some way we me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:38 PM |
| 14 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themBecause you have a narrow view of how boys/men can actually be helped, and you incorrectly separate feminism from politics, which will always be impossible as politics is cemented as a core method of change in feminist ideology. You remind me of how people think that lowering the rate of abortions can be achieved by making abortions illegal, whereas the actual effective way to lessen the rate of abortion is to lower the cases of women needing them at all--either by making it more affordable to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:31 PM |
| 20 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themidgaf if feminism loves or hates men. I feel this way about men too! I don't care if they emotionally hate women or not. What actions do they do? How do they vote? If you hate women and don't want to date them or whatever, but everything you do fights for women's rights and makes women's lives better then...go for it! I'd rather a man hate women but vote progressive, than a man who claims he loves women but vote conservative, thus screwing all of us over. Everything you listed in progressive (fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Women need to cook"lending each other a hand" = profit off of the unpaid labor of my partner. Have you ever asked yourself why YOU don't want to be the one to do the cooking? What if the women in this scenario was the one who needed the help? Why don't modern men lend women a hand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:17 PM |
| 10 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWell for starters, blaming women for men being lonely is not a winning stance. We can agree that loneliness is bad. But how that loneliness is rectified is where the conversation usually disintegrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:13 PM |
| 8 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themSuicide rate: are you implying progressives don't care about mental health services? Because they absolutely are in favor of increasing mental health services, including directing exorbitant police funding into much needed mental health interventions that would directly impact the male suicide rate. Feminists vote for and are in favor of policies that would help men in this case. Sentencing disparity: this is a poverty issue. Crime incentives increase when poverty increases. The answer to addres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 14 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themMen will vote for the machine that enslaves them just to make a point to women who won't fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:55 PM |
| 21 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themWhat are you talking about? Men legally avoid being parents in staggering numbers. Where do you think all the single moms come from? The existence of legally allowed/incentivized gender discrimination against men. This does not count as an example. What is an example of gender discrimination against men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Women need to cookHone their skills? What skills? What yield? Based on the fact that you seem unable to function with ingredients that you may run out of (god forbid), and that you admit that you are simply average without mommy there to help you, I'd say that that you don't have many skills or "yield" to offer. Real men don't need a housemaid to succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:52 PM |
| 17 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themIf an issue affects poor people regardless of gender, it is not part of "men's issues" nor "woman's issues" Besides the draft and dating woes, which I both mentioned, what do you count as male issues that have nothing to do with poverty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:36 PM |
| 64 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themDon't get it twisted: feminists are mostly progressives, who mostly vote for progressive policies that directly address a number of male issues such as low wages for shit jobs, social services to low income people (which include men who are fall behind), and no wars that would require a draft. However, feminists are against women being blamed for men's dating issues and this idea that it's up to women to change their dating preferences so less men are lonely. In this particular men's issue, femi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | as a financial consultant, i’ve seen too many men go broke trying to impress women. why?I once went on a date with a guy who thought he’d impress me by tipping the bartender $100 on a $15 cocktail. He made a big deal of showing this off, which made the genuinely generous action lose all of its value to me. He also spent the entire date talking about his financial successes and didn’t ever bother to ask me about mine. So he didn’t even know that I made more money than him, and that this kind of financial flaunting did absolutely nothing for me. It was honestly bizarre seeing a grown… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 02:45 AM |
| 4 | why do your responses to men's statements sometimes not match what was actually said?I would rather a man who hates women emotionally but fights for our rights, holds men accountable, and doesn’t enact violence upon us, than a man who says he loves women but acts the opposite. The problem is that men who hate women do all of the above. Women who hate men don’t. They simply don’t date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:23 PM |
| 14 | Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves.Men are, on average, basically poor. Eventually, women discover that there’s no “gold” to dig, no resources that men provide. They teach their daughters to make their own money, so they do. And then they look for a man for other qualities, not his resources—and too many can’t clear that bar either. You’re living in a revenge fantasy. Men are not providers. Women are working. Women with kids are working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 01:25 PM |
| 3 | How attracted are you to a guy you “settled with” at age 30 compared to previous flings & relationships?I “settled” for flings who were attractive enough but not enough for repeat contact, and definitely not passing the bar for relationship material. I’m doing the opposite of setting in my 30’s. My guy is hot hot hot and great relationship material. Why would I settle with the person I want to be in a relationship with? They need to have the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 01:03 AM |
| 4 | What exactly motivates women to have sex with men?This is what happens when you’re so homophobic that you think anything remotely complimentary to your boys makes you gay—and that’s the root of your assumption that women who like the aesthetics of women’s bodies must also be gay. You can appreciate it without wanting to fuck it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)Such a funny joke. Ha. Ha. Ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:06 AM |
| 16 | Why do only 30% of young women have a favorable view of men (80% of young men have a favorable view of women)Then by definition they don’t hate all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 11:51 PM |
| -1 | AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs.If you say so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 02:33 AM |
| -1 | AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs.Doesn’t mean they don’t experience the same shame that men who pay for prostitutes do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 10:06 PM |
| 2 | The blue pill argument that women only care about men's personalities and do not care about a man's looks/status/money goes straight out the widow the second the man turns out be an abuser.That is not a blue pill argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 02:50 PM |
| 12 | When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay?Listen, if it makes you feel better to think that women don’t want to date you because they are mostly gay, then by all means, keep living in your fantasy or whatever. But don’t make up weird issues that don’t exist and talk about it like it’s some well known phenomenon that would inspire a legitimate debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 01:32 PM |
| 1 | AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs.Men who have ai robotic girlfriends will experience the same shame that men who pay for prostitutes often do, for the same reason. It’s pathetic, not a real substitute for a human woman, and embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 01:26 PM |
| -4 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.As I said, everyone is free to make the standards they want. When women have higher standards than what men provide, they complain that men aren’t meeting their standards. Women would love to be in a relationship with a guy who checks their boxes. But so often, the guy is a disappointment, so they end up single again. The difference is that women would rather be single than with a guy who isn’t meeting their standards. And the issue doesn’t seem to be that women can’t attract the men they want. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:21 PM |
| -3 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.The thing is, it doesn’t matter if you think that women are not as good as the standards they demand of their male partners. Everyone is free to make the standards that work for them. And if it doesn’t work for them, then they stay single. This goes both ways. If men are single because they are not good enough for a woman they wanna date, then they either don’t date or they improve to become attractive to that woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Positive masculinity is a scam.Ok? The point in my comment doesn’t change. Men who exude positive masculinity exist, and we point them out as examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Positive masculinity is a scam.Positive masculinity was a response to men saying that there are no positive male role models for them to look up to. There are in fact plenty of men who excuse positive qualities, put them in whatever category you want, but because they are MALE, we call them examples of “positive masculinity”. It’s not as deep as what you’re claiming. It’s just an alternative—not the ONLY alternative, just one of many—to the scourge of toxic masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:03 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONThere’s no greater threat to women than men. But even so, women don’t hate men. They are wary of men. They are suspicious of men. Men on the other hand kill women, harass them on the street, intimidate them for fun, etc. THAT is an indication of hate. Not women simply not marrying or having kids with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:53 PM |
| 4 | When is a man too picky or superficial?It’s only hard if you’re unable to handle being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:42 AM |
| 4 | When is a man too picky or superficial?Men can demand anything they wish. The catch is that women also have standards. And if a woman doesn’t want a man who expects her to do all those things, she can simply not date that man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:41 AM |
| 34 | When is a man too picky or superficial?No line. Be as picky as you want. Men need to be way pickier. They have dirt standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:55 PM |
| – | Can you guys stop bringing up sexual assault to men?It’s more unnecessary to sexually assault someone. Unfortunately, the heinousness of that act and the awareness needed to fight the constant threat of sexual assault takes precedence over your slight discomfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:15 AM |
| – | Can you guys stop bringing up sexual assault to men?Pretty wild to see a man equate sexual assault with talking about sexual assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointlessLike most people, I am with someone who reflects my own socio economic class. I have two masters degrees. My partner has a phd. We both make ~$150k (although I technically make more). We are both atheists, city dwellers, super progressive. It makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointlessThe amount of times I have said “this is what I want in my romantic life,” or even “this is what my romantic life actively looks like,” I get told I’m some 1 in a million unicorn or just straight up lying. Like…I’m not that special. I just an average woman. There are many, many like us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 3 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationThat’s why it’s so important to define “objectification”. Because when you realize it’s not just flirting, you can conclude that men also do not like this. Men are objectified by being forced to be drafted into the military. Their bodies are used as weapons. That is a fully dehumanizing thing that men experience. So men who claim they want to be objectified simply do not know what it means to be objectified. When you put it in a nonsexual lens, men understand immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:37 PM |
| 6 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationNo, see…women DONT like it if even a hot man objectifies them. They don’t like when their own PARTNERS objectify them—that’s why I wanted to clarify with you what you’re calling objectification. You even admitted that women in relationships don’t want to be objectified by their partners. But now you’re saying women do like it if the man is hot. See your contradiction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 8 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationI agree with much of this. But simply the title of your post is misleading. Women DO hate objectification. Full stop. Men hate it too, even though they also misconstrue the definition and make stupid statements like “men wish they could be objectified”. So in that sense, the conversation is not dishonest. It is fair to say that BOTH men and women misuse the term “objectification”. You included. But when you go further into your argument, I absolutely agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 12 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationBut you continue to not really define what objectification is. I argue as a woman in a relationship, I don’t want my boyfriend to objectify me either. I want my boyfriend to flirt with me—I don’t want him to treat me like an object. I want him to treat me like a human. So what behaviors are you associating to dehumanization and objectification? Because I feel like you keep skipping around what YOU are defining these things by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:25 PM |
| 16 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationFirst of all, you are conflating objectification with flirting. These are not necessarily the same things. So before you make any other part of your argument, you have to have a consistent definition of what an object objectification actually is. Assuming you’re just talking about flirting, you’re absolutely right, it does matter who is flirting with me. A stranger that I don’t know is someone who I don’t want to flirt with me. My own boyfriend? Please, flirt away. I don’t want some random guy m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Female hypergamy is not only alive but thriving.And you’re satisfied with that as evidence? You don’t think evidence like that exists for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Female hypergamy is not only alive but thriving.That’s not what I’m arguing. I’m pushing back on your claim that many women would rather be with a super famous hot man in a less committed role, as a separate behavior not also demonstrated in men. You claim there is data to support this? Show it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:22 PM |
| 5 | Doesn't this fact indicate that most women aren't straight?When your entire premise is based on a made up fact, yeah…I’d be confused too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Female hypergamy is not only alive but thriving.Don’t you think “many men” would also rather be with a super famous hot woman in a less committed role than be the husband of an average woman? And if you think for some reason that “many men” would not, then what biases have led you to believe that men are any different in this respect? Finally, what is an example of someone who has a higher income but is not of a higher social class? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:09 PM |
| 3 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.20% isn’t a lot if it’s not all 20% guys who are dating multiple women. You think 20% of men are cheaters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:01 PM |
| 4 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Where do women admit they are all dating the same guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 01:00 PM |
| 10 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?It’s the magical contradiction that demonizes women no matter what they do: either you have too high standards and are a shallow person, or you “settle” for a man for his “resources”. And god forbid you have high standards and THEN end up with a guy who other men deem is “safe.” Their conclusion will be that you had fun with other guys until you landed with the “secure” option. They will conclude this without knowing anything about your history, or the other guys you’ve been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Men are not radicalised enough and it's costing them.This is the sort of thing you write when your goal isn’t to improve men’s lives but to simply take down women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 10:36 PM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.“A lot of top 20% dudes” is not only your opinion, but by definition not A LOT of dudes. The more you talk, the more you prove my point. I said that women have no issue giving empathy to men who complain without saying absolutist, sexist, and entitled statements. And here we are, with women not showing you an ounce of empathy because you have made it clear that you don’t deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 10:35 PM |
| 5 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.There’s the absolutist statement that proves my point. “You ladies” is just women who didn’t approach you. Women have been rejected before. It is not as uncommon as you think it is. It’s just never happened to YOU. But you make such ignorant statements such as ladies don’t make the first move and can’t be rejected. I asked out my boyfriend. This already disproves your absolutist statement. You also continue to harp on studies that don’t prove your point. The average age difference in straight re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.A lot of men (like you) do not understand how extremely easy it is for women to show empathy to men for any of their woes—so long as the man doesn’t say something incredibly sexist, entitled, or absolutist. You can say that you’re lonely, but if in the same breath you’re blaming women for not using their vaginas as arbiters of morality…well, sorry. No empathy for you. Men like you seem incapable of complaining without comparison. If something is hard for you, you add that it’s hard harder for yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyOP isn’t saying that men are assholes for wanting relationships, or that men only want them to show off to other men. He’s saying a very real truth, which is that society tells men that they have failed if they aren’t having sex with women. Men can both want relationships AND they can feel like they have failed without one, at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 03:05 PM |
| 12 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyLiterally every day men most on here about needing validation from women, and being upset at not getting it because [insert blame of women’s dating choices]. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillI think it does. OP describes archetypes of the blue pill and a kind of man that the blue pill does not take responsibility for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsI'm not saying Megan is more famous than Elon Musk, I'm saying that it's not at all hard to see that the fame that accompanies a music career can eclipse the fame of athletes. Even the ones who are at the top of their field. My argument is that Megan Thee Stallion is more famous than Klay Thompson. And I stand by that argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsIn the US. Klay is known globally. This should tell us everything we need to know about your ability to think critically. Read that sentence slowly my dude. Now imagine if it were 100x harder to get a single Grammy. That would be the equivalent of winning the NBA Championship. He has done it 4 times. You just made up a stat about how hard it is to win a Grammy vs win the NBA. By that kind of reasoning, she is more popular than Jesus Christ because he has no Instagram and very few Youtube views a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:39 AM |
| 6 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”Yeah but smth happens, like anything, even the smallest sliver of anything. Anything meaning...men would be happier if women yelled obscenities at them on the street? Any attention is better than no attention? That's ridiculous. Once that aspect of your life gets so stale it almost rots, even negative attention becomes better than nothing, at keast you feel smth. Again, not saying it's right, still it feels good. You need therapy. Negative attention does not feel good to a well adjusted person. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.All I see are celebrity gossip articles that mention "alleged" diaries that have never been confirmed for clicks...? And definitely no evidence that he was a "known cheater" when Megan started dating him. But if you have any proof that I couldn't find, by all means, please link it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:33 PM |
| 7 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”You know how men call themselves "subhuman" because the way they are treated makes them feel worthless? That's the kind of negative association women have with objectification. It's not "oooh he thinks I'm sexy, score!" It's "he thinks I'm subhuman." "Something bad very often is better than absolute void" is not the comparison that you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 5 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillStop assigning ideology to the blue pill where it doesn't exist. Blue pill is anything that isn't red pill. It's everyone else. It doesn't have a playbook. It doesn't have a set of rules or advice. There is no blue pill advice apart from "any advice that isn't red pill." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.But the thing is this dude is known to be a cheater, he's in a field where men are known to cheat, his cheating is documented the dude made a diary at one point talking about how much he loves sex and cheating. Did you just make this up? Because I cannot find any evidence that this was a real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsIrrelevant comment from a sad, desperate little man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsWay more people know who Klay Thompson is, it's incomparable. Wrong. Just because you like Klay Thompson more doesn't change the fact that Megan is more famous globally. Megan Thee Stallion is a major pop culture figure. a Grammy-winning rapper with hit songs and crossover into film, TV, and brand deals. Did you know that not everyone follows sports? Evidence: Megan has ~32.8 million followers on IG. Klay has ~16.7 million. That's half of her follower count. Megan also has 10+ billion Spotify st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsYou’re saying this from the perspective of a dude-centered mainstream outlook. I’m not diminishing his accomplishments, I’m comparing their fame. You could be the no. 1 curler in the world, but your name will not be a household name. Megan is a global pop star. Klay is an American basketball star. The amount of people who know who she is vs him is…hardly comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsUhhh Megan is WAY more famous than Klay. He’s a basketball player. There are dozens and dozens of those. She’s a top level female pop star. There are about 10 of those. Guarantees Klay will never date someone as rich and famous as Megan again. Megan can easily bag an athlete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:35 PM |
| – | A woman’s bad experiences become boundaries and standards. Mens are insecurities and MisogynyYou can’t compare two different standards and then complain when one isn’t viewed the same way as the other. An accurate comparison to prove your point would be to compare a man who doesn’t want a woman with a high body count vs a woman who doesn’t want a man with a high body count. Right now, you’re comparing a man’s opinions about body count to a woman’s opinions about…well, a lot of different things, but not body count. If you want to convince anyone of the point you’re trying to make, you ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?I never said you said that. That’s what you took from the statement? Talking to men on Reddit is…exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:12 PM |
| – | For those that can relate. How does it feel to be aware that your probably going to not have a family but wanted to?I don't think it's insulting to ask if someone ever considered the beautiful act of adoption. I do think it's a little insulting to imply that adopted children aren't real family to the people who adopted them. But if you don't want a woman to be present at all in the comments, I'll respect that wish and peace out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:26 PM |
| – | Why do so many men think unattractive men treat women betterI agree, they're all wrong. They sure love fighting me about it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:20 PM |
| – | For those that can relate. How does it feel to be aware that your probably going to not have a family but wanted to?um...why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:18 PM |
| – | Why do so many men think unattractive men treat women better3 men? How about every self-professed ugly man on this sub who makes this exact claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:18 PM |
| – | For those that can relate. How does it feel to be aware that your probably going to not have a family but wanted to?Would you ever consider adopting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Men on this site say every day that it's "not fair" that other men can act like assholes and still get laid. That they have to act "good" because they're not hot enough to get laid and be an asshole at the same time. They even go as far as claiming that women are attracted to toxic behavior, as if that's a female specific phenomenon. It's bizarre. It's men admitting that they're upset that they have to act like good men while other men "get to be" assholes. At the heart of this statement is men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:16 PM |
| – | For those that can relate. How does it feel to be aware that your probably going to not have a family but wanted to?Out of curiosity, how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?I think framing bad behavior being accepted due to good looks as “not fair” is an extremely toxic mindset. What do you mean by not fair? Do you mean that you wish you could act poorly and get away with it? Do you desire to act like an asshole, and simply don’t because you think that’s the only way that you can get a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:44 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?Define “taken seriously”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?For me, it’s if you are caught asking out a ton of women in the same vicinity, if you’re overly suggestive, if you push back in any way to a rejection, if you move to physical touch upon first meeting someone, and if you demonstrate obviously negative social cues like staring too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:46 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?The man vs. bear is an opinion that a woman states when she is asked. Nowhere is the man vs. bear considered a fact or a science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 03:48 PM |
| -7 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?It “works” for women because there is facts and science that support it. Men are free to use facts and science to pick their issues too. The 80/20 rule is not a real science, so every time a man uses it to play victim, he gets laughed at. When a man uses real facts and science to claim victimhood, and accurately assesses who or what is to blame, I have no issue agreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?0.9% is 14.8 million men in the United States. That’s basically one in a hundred men. Walking down the street in a major city, one can easily pass by hundreds of men. And that’s only if you consider violent crime. If you also open up the umbrella to nonviolent, but inappropriate and unwanted behavior, the chance dramatically increases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Women are generally comfortable inviting other women into their social circle. Men are also comfortable with this, especially when you realize they are largely hoping for some kind of romantic attention from the interaction. Women are less comfortable inviting new men in for the exact reason men are thrilled to welcome women in. This is understandable. Men are also not as willing to let other men into their social circle for unclear reasons. So as I see it, it is largely up to men to be proactiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 12:28 AM |
| 20 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Oh for sure. Men need grace with not knowing how to perfectly ask someone out on a date. The creepiness fear is sometimes because women react badly to being hit on by someone they do y like. HOWEVER, there are clear lines in many cases. Some dudes are genuinely just creepy, and women have to be on guard for them. But men with the best intentions fear being considered a creep, and I think those guys should be given a lot of grace if they confess feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 04:38 PM |
| 5 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”Bingo. Some of my female friends have dated or married some dudes that actually repel me sexually. But hey, it works for them! They’re crazy about them. And they understand that how they see them isn’t how anyone else necessarily sees them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 02:34 PM |
| 2 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.But you’re not arguing whether women get more attention than men. You’re arguing a version of the 80/20 rule, which is making a numerical claim about how many women give attention to how many men. It’s not controversial for anyone to say that women get more attention than men. But that’s not what you’re arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 12:53 PM |
| 23 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.What are men providing? This is smelling like the gold digging complaints from men who have no gold to dig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 3 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.Pretty privilege is completely different from claiming that a small group of men get the most attention. Pretty privilege also applies to women. And generally speaking, it means that prettier people have advantages in life across many different areas, including dating. Perhaps you need to be more specific. How small a group of men? How much of the attention? Because if you start saying stupid stats that have been disproved like the 80 20 rule, then that is a ridiculous thing to attribute to pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 12:07 AM |
| 3 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.Huh? If a woman said something as silly as that, I’d definitely push back. Admittedly, I don’t have much opportunity to do that because women dont say this nearly as much as men. In fact, I rarely ever see this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content)Ok first of all, there is a HUGE difference between the BTS aesthetic and the femboy photo that you shared earlier. And if you can’t see that, I don’t know how to continue this conversation. BTS is a bunch of skinny guys who are Asian and have amazing stylists dressing them and grooming them. The photo you shared is a man cross dressing as a little girl. I also want to challenge your feeling that men going crop top dances have to get equal sexual attention as women. Why does this have to be equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content)Okay, so just like I predicted, this post has nothing to do with the titled subject of your post and everything to do with YOU wanting to be a femboy (or being attracted to femboys yourself). That photo you just showed? The overwhelming majority of men have no interest in doing that--not because society is shaming them out of it--but because they genuinely don't want to do that. So this is a personal fixation for you that you should probably unpack in a different post that's not disguised as som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:28 PM |
| 18 | Women have no idea what an average man isThis is an excellent comment. When men try to date, they are not physically able to try to date the entire population of a country, or a state, hell...not even really a city if it's big enough. As much as dating apps and social media have given us the illusion of globalism, in a community-centered activity such as dating, you're way more likely to be comparing people within the realm of your own socio-economic circle. That's why people tend to end up with people in their own socio-economic circl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content)When you say femboys, do you just mean...non muscular skinny guys? And when you say "feminine sexual validation", do you just mean skinny guys getting sexual attention? What is "feminine sexual validation"? Is it how much sexual validation you get? Is it the femininity of the person getting the sexual validation? Is it getting objectified and dehumanized? If yes, is getting objectified and dehumanized a privilege? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:10 PM |
| – | Future relationships especially amongst Gen Z are doomedWhat resources? Men are, on average, poor. Women are increasingly getting educated and making money and buying property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 08:20 PM |
| – | Why do women don't date shoort men?I’m above average height for a woman, and I’d like a man who is my height or taller. I’m 5’8” and my partner is like 5’8 1/2 “. I have never dated a guy who is above six feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content)I can answer your questions once I understand why you’re so fixated on this random femboy thing, which honestly is coming out of left field, and seems to be unrelated to the questions you’re asking. But you spend so much time talking about it that it’s obviously very much related to what you’re asking. I just don’t understand what the connection is for you. Like…is the essence of your post about femboys or about the difficulty of the dating market? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:48 PM |
| 14 | Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content)Sorry, I can’t answer any of your questions because I simply cannot get past your obsession with femboys. This is like some kind of kink for you? Or are you just describing the aesthetic of a not muscled jacked man? And do you realize that that aesthetic has been popular for a very long time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menShow the stats then we can discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menThe average age gap of a straight couple is a little over two years. That means that there are also some people who have age gaps much larger than that. So you can surmise that most women who are 28 or 29 years old are dating men 30 and above. And then you could extrapolate that a decent amount of women several years younger than that also are dating men over 30. This is just simple math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menBut that’s stat that you’re referencing is women under 30. If you have stats for women over 30, by all means, please present them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menIt’s not “young women”. It’s women under 30. And much of that 30% statistic is simply women dating men over 30. So it’s really not that skewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:44 AM |
| – | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.Not really. Women don’t want casual sex as much as men do overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:07 AM |
| – | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.He hasn’t found women who find him attractive enough and want to have casual sex. He has found women who find him attractive enough and want a relationship. He is not dating the same woman. Women have a variety of ideas of what is attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 02:20 AM |
| – | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.Casual sex = hot enough to have sex once and never again. Relationship = hot enough to have sex over and over again with the same person. I have never been that attracted to guys I had casual sex with. That’s why I “pump and dump”. If they were worth having more sex with them, I’d get into a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 07:49 PM |
| – | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menI can look around my own social circle and disprove that immediately. What are you talking about? When I first started dating my boyfriend he made $40k. At one point I was making over double what he was making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 01:09 PM |
| 0 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menIf you’re broke and ugly, yeah…not an attractive combo. But there is a HUGE middle ground between that and rich and hot. Most men are somewhere in the middle and most women in relationships are in relationships with men who are somewhere in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:22 AM |
| 1 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menYou can ALSO attract women by being tall, rich, and charismatic. These are not mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 8 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards men“Be yourself” doesn’t mean change literally nothing about yourself. That piece of advice is about finding authenticity, not being stubbornly mediocre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 11:57 AM |
| 0 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menI just said that those men are rejected because of their negative behavior. Me ALSO get rejected because they don’t have looks, money, or status. But I wasn’t talking about those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Women peak 18-25You’re not that much older. Eventually you either stop dating or you become the weirdo in your community who only hits on barely legal women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Do women really “rank” men and keep options open?I do not relate to a single part of your post. When I met my boyfriend, he was making less than $40k a year, drove a very old car that he still has to this day, and had three roommates. I have never “fallen back on others”. If I didn’t like a guy, I did not date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 11:53 AM |
| 7 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menWhy does you making yourself much more attractive negate the very real truth that plenty of men who demonstrate negative behaviors do in fact repel women due to those behaviors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Women peak 18-25OP, if you want to stop dating women after 22, then by all means, please remove yourself from the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:21 AM |
| 35 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menWhat is the contradiction? You described a guy who is attractive in many different ways and compared him to a literal basement dweller—were you ever of the belief that both of these types of men would attract women equally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:16 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveWhat you call poison, we call wisdom. Maybe it’s time men figure out how to not rely on women for their happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.I have been consistent from the beginning. You’re the only one who keeps bringing up unrelated topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.One is a trend and one is not. It is a trend that women complain about men not leaving them alone. It is not a trend that women are sad that men aren’t approaching them more. And don’t patronize me. I didn’t bring up the bear thing, you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Compare that to the number of women who continue to complain that men won’t leave them alone. Which one is bigger? We all know the answer, and it’s not even close. Also, don’t bring the bear thing into this because it only validates my argument. That’s about men being dangerous, and women not wanting to be stuck with them. That has nothing to do with women complaining about men not approach and everything to do with women not wanting men to be around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.It does not exist in a trending fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.You are claiming women are, in a trending fashion, complaining about men not pursuing them? Meanwhile, everyone else is seeing the exact opposite. We are seeing MEN constantly complaining that women aren’t going for them. “Where are all the good men” is not about men not approaching women. It’s about there not being a whole lot of men worth pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:40 PM |
| 13 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Because he literally made up a “male loser epidemic” and compared it to an equally made up “crisis of men” epidemic, designed to make it sound like women are crying about men not wanting to date them. When the reality is that women are fed up with the amount of men who won’t stop bothering them, while it’s men who are the most bothered by women not wanting to date them. The whole thing is a giant projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:50 PM |
| 18 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.You didn’t have to say it babe. Trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 03:26 PM |
| 49 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.OP is personally offended that women don’t want to date some men, therefore he expects women to also be personally offended if men don’t want to date some women. The well adjusted individual will say that no one should be dating anyone they don’t like, in either direction. That would be the worst outcome of all. So as a woman, if a bunch of men don’t want to date me, that’s completely fine. In fact, that’s preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?I mean, when you threaten to leave the dating pool like that and then fail to do what you say, it does make it kind of hard to believe you mean what you say. To the men who say this and then stop all of that, it is absolutely believable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few menNot only is this a total nonsequitor, but literally, leftists do not think the money they receive should be equally distributed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few menExactly, the amount of women I know whose boyfriends and husbands I can’t even IMAGINE thinking of in a sexual way…like, this is more about how traditionally attractive men have more romantic attention than the rest. For some reason this phenomenon freaks out so many guys. It doesn’t mean every other guy has zero chance of getting a girlfriend. It just means it’s easier for some guys than others. There is quite literally nothing that we do as humans that is equally easy or attainable for everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:11 PM |
| 12 | Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few menUnfortunately for a lot of teenagers, “lived experience” is indistinguishable from online content. They are more online than they are in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:57 PM |
| 26 | Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like?For me personally, I definitely initiate with guys I like. I don’t chase because I think that’s dumb. If they don’t like me, I’m not going to try to convince them. But in the past, I’ve absolutely initiated with men I liked. I asked my current boyfriend out after he threw a party and invited me and we had mad chemistry at the party. I literally sent him a text asking if he wanted to go for dinner later less than an hour after the party ended lol For dating apps, when I’ve wanted hookups, I’ve me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 06:25 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling menThat metaphor only works if you believe being a single man is comparable to being disabled. Also, I never said anyone was “jealous losers”. Those are your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling menWeak extension of the metaphor. If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with a man for ANY reason, superficial or not, it does not validate the rampant sexism that prevails in red pill communities. In my metaphor, the kid does not give his lunch money to the bully for free. He does not want to give his lunch money to the bully at all. And here you are, trying to make it seem like women want to be mistreated. Blaming women for the misogynistic bullshit coming out of the manosphere. And perfectly illu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling menYou’re still not answering the question. You want women to acknowledge they are at fault. At fault for WHAT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?Let’s say the standard set of widely held beliefs shared across societies of earth and printed in a multitude of religious texts that says that selflessness is generally good, and selfishness is generally bad, and that treating your neighbor with respect is generally good, and watching your neighbor suffer is generally bad. This can be seen clearly in this fictional scenario where the only thing driving the man’s motivation to help her is to attain sex from her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Women are the ones red pilling menIt’s not disingenuous, I’m genuinely asking. Because you never offer any clarity as to WHAT women are supposed to take accountability for and HOW they are supposed to take accountability, and the entire thesis of OP’s post is about women not giving men enough romantic attention—what the hell else is it supposed to mean? So if you mean something else, please describe WHAT and HOW otherwise everyone is just filling in the blanks based on OP’s post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 5 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?It quite literally makes her better than him morally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:52 PM |
| 7 | A red-pill man and a woman on an ISOLATED ISLAND: who would be the better man?So “simping” in this scenario is just not leaving your only companion on a deserted island to suffer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Women are the ones red pilling menYou said they chase after hot high status men even if those men are bullies and assholes. That does not mean “some”. That means women chase hot men, regardless of how they act. Period. And that’s not true. Women also reject hot high status men because they are bullies and assholes. You focus on the women who pursue because it’s easier to see that visually with your eyes. But you don’t focus on all the women NOT pursuing all around you. That is harder to focus on because it requires seeing beyond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling menNow you are arguing in favor of the definition of economic independence that you made up. I think your goal in this conversation is simply to be contrarian to everything I say, regardless of if your own arguments are consistent. I not going to have a conversation with a man who is arguing with a wall instead of with me. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Women are the ones red pilling menCan you answer the question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling menWhy, in your fantasy, are all popular boys and hot men bullies and assholes? Did you know that women also chase popular boys and hot men who are nice and great guys? They also reject boys of all looks for being bullies and assholes. Did you know that all of this happens at the same time because men and women aren’t monoliths? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:59 AM |
| 5 | Women are the ones red pilling menTake accountability for what? For NOT fucking you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Women are the ones red pilling menI already said this, but apparently you need it restated. “Economic independence” does not mean genders can survive if half the population stops participating. Economic independence does not mean genders are magically able to segregate and completely untangle each other’s impact on society. You are arguing against a definition that you made up, even after I clarified what I meant. “Gender ideology” is a meaningless term that you also just made up. Which gender ideology? Any gender ideology? The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:54 AM |
| 8 | Women are the ones red pilling menWhich fallen empires have been correlated with en masse female economic independence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:46 AM |
| 8 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?Where did I say it would make women have less mothering desires? Women who want to stay home and raise the kids would still have the choice to do so. But if you want kids AND you want to have your own career and ambitions, you also would be able to just like a man would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:07 PM |
| 16 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?So your definition of men “winning” is men essentially falling into their most violent, evil, oppressive ways? I couldn’t say the same for women—our definition of winning is not having to disrupt our hopes and dreams to do the bulk of child rearing. It’s not enacting mass oppression of men. Are you also implying that the only thing stopping men from rampant abuse and violence against women right now is that they view women as incubators for the child they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Women are the ones red pilling menPeople don’t build houses because of the generosity of their hearts. They do it because they get paid. It is a transaction of labor for money. Water does not come from men. Water is a naturally occurring resource. People who work in water supplies also do not do this work out of the generosity of their hearts. Workers get paid. Men are not the sources of electricity either. People who work in electricity also get paid for their work. Men are perfectly welcome to stop earning money in these jobs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 17 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?If we had accessible artificial wombs available to most women, and proven to be safe for the baby, I think a LOT of women would take advantage of this. And as a result, I believe women as a whole would have unprecedented levels of wealth and economic independence never seen in that demographic before. Men would be expected to help out with the child in equal measure because there’s no excuse about women biologically have to tend to the child more. If women’s careers did not get stalled because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 11 | Women are the ones red pilling men1) Loneliness should be addressed, but not by presuming that women should give more romantic attention to more men. It is not women’s moral obligation to satiate men’s romantic loneliness by giving them romantic attention. 2) Marriage dropping is neither good nor bad. It is just a trend. The only tangible negative outcome of this is that people who work in the wedding industry will have less customers. 3) Single mothers and abortion go hand in hand. Women who do not have access to abortion becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Women are the ones red pilling menDoesn’t excuse the rampant sexism in the movement. Men can and should be helped if they have been truly abused. At the same time, men of any background need to be called out for blatant sexist behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:03 PM |
| 16 | Women are the ones red pilling menI said nothing about the fall of the west. Why do you make a connection between women’s economic independence and the fall of the west? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Women are the ones red pilling menMen want to be victims so badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 70 | Women are the ones red pilling menThat’s correct. And that’s why women are supporting themselves more than ever before. Amongst first time home buyers, the biggest demographic is single women. The number of childless women grows every year. More women are getting college educations. Etc. Despite what society tells us about men and their supposed obligation to provide, enough women have been abandoned by men who claimed to support them that it has become clear that the stupidest thing a woman can do economically is be dependent o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:54 PM |
| 82 | Women are the ones red pilling menI mean, in the sense that women are not choosing men as much as men want to be chosen—sure, women are the “reason” for red pilling men. But that insinuates that there is blame that should be rectified by a change in action. When a bully hits a kid in school because the kid didn’t give up his lunch money, you can’t blame the kid for not giving the bully what he wants. That doesn’t justify the hate. Women are not getting married and having kids with men as much as in the past, but that’s not a jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:39 PM |
| – | People need to blame women moreI’m responding to the conversation I commented on where you started talking about advocating for empathy and another commenter asked for clarification on what practically that looks like and what examples of bad behavior are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 08:24 PM |
| – | People need to blame women moreA good place to stop repelling women is to stop spewing misogynistic horseshit like “people need to blame women more” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 07:35 PM |
| – | People need to blame women moreWhen you think not having sex is a form of persecution, then you come to the conclusions that OP has come to. When you think inaction is the same as active oppression, then you say things like what OP is saying. Women aren’t going to change their minds on who they pick just because men are unhappy that they are not getting picked. There is no crime committed by women not swiping on you or not fucking you or not being attracted to you. Let’s say all those stats you mentioned are completely true. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:16 PM |
| – | People need to blame women moreThey don’t fuck him. It’s literally just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:12 PM |
| – | People need to blame women more100% of men who cry about not receiving empathy like OP is are specifically talking about sex. They don’t want empathy alone because that wouldn’t change their situation. Dig a little deeper and op will reveal he’s like all the rest of them. He can’t name what empathy actually looks like because he just means sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:09 PM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerLet me say this very clearly: these studies provide ZERO evidence in support of your claim. The first one has a sample size of 30. Not only is that a pathetically small number, but there is nothing in that study that proves that the orgasms experienced by these women during PIV sex are orgasms through penetration alone. If a woman uses a toy, or her own hands while PIV is happening—none of that is disclosed. The study is not about PIV orgasm alone, it is about frequency of orgasm with PIV vs sol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:58 AM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerWell go ahead, link the study. I wanna know how much LESS emotional attachment I’m supposedly missing. And I would love to know by what measurement they are using. Is this on a scale of 1-10? Did they assess women’s emotional attachment based on their differing reactions between men who could make them orgasm like that and men who couldn’t? And pray tell, what else about the female orgasm do scientists purportedly understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 09:58 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youAmazing. Women have to have no sexual history, or else she doesn’t value intimacy. She can’t be a whore because that makes men insecure. But she also can’t wait to long to sleep with you because that means she doesn’t really desire you. Are you paying attention? This is the lose-lose scenario playing out in real time. Women can never win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:18 PM |
| – | What keeps men coming back to this sub?Look at all posts within the past 24 hrs on this sub. How many are pro women? A minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:44 AM |
| – | What keeps men coming back to this sub?You’re literally allowed to have a black pilled flare. You can say the word incel here. I don’t know what you’re censoring yourself for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:42 AM |
| – | What keeps men coming back to this sub?This sub is mostly men. And out of the men, a minority are blue pilled. Your reality is a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 11:51 PM |
| – | What keeps men coming back to this sub?Yeah any claims that this sub is somehow pro-women is crazy. It’s one of the only popular subs where you’re allowed to really push the boundary in rhetoric against women. Of course, there are TONS of smaller subs that do this and run rampant with it. But this is definitely the most populated place where blaming women for everything wrong about your life is completely accepted and mostly supported by other commenters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:20 PM |
| – | A woman is never "not ready for a relationship"I’ve literally made it explicitly clear to men that I was not looking for a relationship. Just hookups. And I meant it. So…that was rather easy to disprove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 14 | In their victimblaming men deny other men the agency and ability to make decisions, have characterYes, to go even farther, how often have we heard of these two fictional men portrayed as the only reality that exits? 1) Hot asshole who gets all the women. 2) Average nice guy who gets settled for. And men on this sub will genuinely believe there are essentially no other types of men. They can’t comprehend that hot assholes get rejected by women for being assholes. They can’t comprehend that average nice guys get women who are super attracted to them. They can’t comprehend that ugly or average … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:36 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.What if, what if, what if. They’re NOT as lethal as men, so why bother with theoreticals? This is a lived experience of women not some fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Where did I say there were no great safe options? I have a boyfriend. I love good safe men. Why are you defending violent men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:26 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Do you need it spelled out for you? Men are much more violent than women, therefore women do not have reason to be afraid from violence from other women. Only from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.In real life? Usually the woman who is getting attacked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:02 PM |
| 13 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Men really be making themselves look like great, safe options in these comments... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.You're just uneducated about the statistics regarding lethal violence. Let me educate you. In the US and many other countries, intimate partners are the biggest source of lethal risk for women, unlike for men. This means that "security" that men claim to provide to their partners is actually the exact opposite. Men commit the vast majority of lethal violence. Men make up over 80–90% of homicide offenders in most countries. Data on perpetrators may actually underestimate male dominance, because c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 8 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Men are much more lethally violent than women. It’s not even close actually. Women don’t need security from other women. They need it from other men. Full stop. Men are also largely poor. They benefit from partnering up with women as much as women do. Men who are married make more money than men who aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.From who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 05:01 PM |
| 4 | When guys say women tend to go for jerks, what is the jerk behavior?But like…what does this look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 03:46 PM |
| 6 | If women could detect misogyny/bitterness/dating frustration, the signs would be identified and widely publicizedYou know what older women are doing now? They’re warning younger women not to fall into the same traps they did. Older women are always informing younger women so younger women can make smarter choices. The result? Less women are getting married, less women are settling down before establishing her career, less women are having less children, less women are being stay at home mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Womensplaining is alive and wellIn a vacuum, no. But OP is intentionally speaking outside a vacuum, as it compares to women’s complains of mansplaining. It is comparative implicitly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 02:36 PM |
| 14 | Womensplaining is alive and wellOP must think mansplaining is only when men talk about men’s dating experiences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.Actually men are born followers. Men are much more interested in being told what to do and mindlessly obey orders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?You’re the one making the claim that sex=worth. I’m not pretending that there are studies that show this. It is simply a fact that a human being’s worth is not tied to their sexual success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How do women view friendship with men?Did you read what I wrote? Men can first change their dynamics with each other. If men can learn to be vulnerable with each other, it will be easier for them to do it with women. Did you read anywhere that I wasn’t interested in being vulnerable with my male friends? No, it’s that THEY aren’t comfortable with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:12 PM |
| 3 | How do women view friendship with men?Men have the power to change their dynamics first with each other. If men can learn how to be vulnerable and authentic with each other, it will be easier for them to do it with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 03:15 AM |
| 1 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicMen are a part of the society that puts pressure on women. Just as women are a part of society that puts pressure on men. Sorry, but you’re just wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 01:50 AM |
| 3 | How do women view friendship with men?In general, I’m not really able to be as vulnerable with my male friends. I feel like my female friends really do want to talk about difficult and deep things. But it never really feels like with my male friends that they would be comfortable with something like that. I do have one male friend that I think we do have a lot of vulnerable conversations with each other. But he’s an outlier. By contrast, I have a lot of female friends, who sort of automatically understand a lot of of the things that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 01:42 AM |
| 2 | How do women view friendship with men?I have tons of guy friends and a few who I’d definitely consider “inner circle” friends. I love my friendships with them. They’re not quite the same as my friendships with my best women friends, but I still value them equally. Honestly the person who would have been my real best friend became my boyfriend, so there is that too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?The only information that counts as data are peer reviewed studies with large sample sizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:40 PM |
| – | What has made you purple pilled?Christians seem to have no awareness that “Christ” is not the “other option” for so many people. It’s not like we’re out here choosing between xyz and Christ. I am atheist. God is not real. That is not an option at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 02:31 AM |
| 4 | What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive?Not being attracted to a man does not mean he is unattractive. It just means, most of the time, that we don’t know enough about him to know if we can be attracted to him. Another example: My girl friend has a boyfriend who is off limits for me, obviously. Therefore I am not attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Did you know that manosphere YouTube videos does not count as “data”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:12 PM |
| 1 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicDid you know that one can be pressured into things unrelated to whether or not they can get swipes on a dating app? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:11 PM |
| 13 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?…not wanting to date someone. There are plenty of people in your life you don’t want to date. Your grandma. The postman. The mayor. Do you think those people are beneath you simply because you don’t want to date them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?That statement means nothing. Women do not have the power to determine men’s worth individually or collectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 03:33 AM |
| 14 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?We don’t think you’re beneath us. Once again, not dating a man is not an indication of our judgment of your worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:11 AM |
| 3 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicI mean, there are other reasons women are pressured to look a certain way that have nothing to do with attracting men. Just because attracting the opposite sex is what pressures men to look a certain way doesn’t mean it’s the same thing that pressures women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 03:48 AM |
| 2 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicIt is fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:50 AM |
| 4 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicCorrect. Some men are catching up. Many are not. Meanwhile, it is virtually impossible for any woman, when she was young, to avoid the pressures from society to look a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:39 AM |
| 4 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicOh, don't get me wrong. Men have basically zero standards on dating apps. Women on dating apps have much more success than men because of that, and also because there are just way, way more men on dating apps. This doesn't change the reality that women have been pressured to improve their looks from childhood. And when you describe a 25 year old fit woman who has no makeup--you're imagining a woman who has very much put incredible effort into her appearance from childhood. By the way, I also don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:40 PM |
| 0 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicThat's why I specified "looks", not mental resiliency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:35 PM |
| 11 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicSo I used to be a dating app photographer, specifically for men. And one of the things that became such a common pattern that it was almost a joke was the amount of effort men thought they were putting into their photos that didn't gain them any matches. We always started our sessions with them showing me what they already have. A majority of the time, it was clear that they didn't bother trying to take photos specifically for their profile, and if they did, it was usually some horribly lit self… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 10:28 PM |
| 38 | In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamicSOME men are catching up to the kind of effort women have been pressured to put into their own looks since literal CHILDHOOD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 10:04 PM |
| – | The only real way to fix the dating market is to globalize itWhy, have you tried to date every woman in your age range in the town you live in? Have you tried to date every woman in your state? What about the whole country? Moving to a new country just introduces you to an equally small community that is just in a different country. Instead of going global, why don’t you just do more to increase the community you are currently in, which you have hardly explored? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 09:31 PM |
| 2 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.LOL so you just ignore the men who get super uncomfortable. Cool. Also, apparently you can’t seem to imagine that just because a person is the same gender as the one a woman is attracted to that this doesn’t mean she’s automatically open to being hit on by that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.Amazing how you fail to understand. How would a STRAIGHT man feel if he were getting hit on by another man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.If you’re aware of it then why did you not understand the metaphor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Would you be fine with not getting the "full Girlfriend treatment"?It's rather impossible to believe that my boyfriend gave a previous woman better treatment than what he is giving me, but even if he was (like let's say he was taking her out for a fancy dinner date every single week), it's not something I have time for or want, so it wouldn't bother me. It's all about what I want right now. So if he's not giving me what I want now, that's a problem. I much prefer the idea of a man doing for his woman what she wants, not what some other woman wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 09:58 PM |
| 0 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.Oooh you’re so close to getting it. Women don’t want to have sex with most men either. See how it feels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 09:40 PM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.For pregnancy? Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:14 PM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.Sperm from obese males is also extremely detrimental to the woman and the baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:30 PM |
| 17 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.That’s because the only analogy that men are capable of the having empathy for is if you ask them how they’d feel if another man acted that way towards him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:28 PM |
| 6 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?Um hi, fellow progressive women. This is THE progressive woman male archetype. Especially the not traditionally masculine part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 06:37 PM |
| 4 | The courting process never ends for men.Jesus how many dates is your significant other expecting you to take her on that you would get so exhausted from it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 02:02 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?“Just look around man” is literally “trust me bro”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?There are not countless examples of this though. There are also many examples of men interacting in much more vanilla sexual scenarios with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 01:59 PM |
| 17 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?You’re assuming those are 10 random women. When in reality, they have a common denominator with OP. Things like his personality, where he goes to meet women, which kind of women he finds attractive, etc., could contribute to that kind of result. To claim that 10 women out of literally millions of women means that there is a pattern is to simply not understand statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 01:00 AM |
| 77 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?How the fuck can you make a claim like “practically every woman under the age of 30” wants to do these things? And why is anyone responding as if this claim is fact? Have you fucked practically every woman under 30, OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:09 PM |
| -1 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.Says the guy who believes women’s accusations of male rape are false but men’s accusations of female rape is true. I happen to believe men when they say they were raped. Because I’m not a hypocrite, unlike you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenIn all the years I have been single in my life, I’ve been extremely contented. Like I said, I was lucky I found the right man. You’re obviously the kind of guy who thinks that only people who are currently going through exactly what they are claiming can actually speak about it with legitimacy. That’s like telling someone who used to be homeless that they can’t talk about being homeless because they’re currently housed. That’s not how logic works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.Lynch mobs? You mean the ones famously enacted by men? And what the fuck do you mean setting people up for robberies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.Then don’t say things you don’t mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:42 PM |
| 23 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenYes, a lot of progressive women will struggle to find a similarly progressive man. That’s why women are finding purpose and happiness single so as to not settle. Women in general are much happier being single rather than settling for a subpar relationship with a man who doesn’t share her morals. I’m lucky. I already found an equally progressive man who shares my morals, supports my career, and wants an egalitarian relationship as much as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:41 PM |
| 22 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenThen conservative men should be happy being used for their resources in return for a woman who is being used for her resources. Conservative relationships are the most transactional type. If you’re a conservative man, you should WANT to be used for your resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenirrelevant, try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:37 PM |
| 3 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.misreading cues is one of the main ways consent gets misunderstood in real situations. And men “consistently perceive a greater degree of sexual intent in women’s behavior” compared to women. Men are more likely than women to endorse myths like “rape accusations are often false”. Those men are also less likely to see explicit consent as necessary, cited in the same source. A Planned Parenthood survey found women had fewer misconceptions about consent and stronger agreement that consent should be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:11 PM |
| 3 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault."Siccing the mob on people" is the kind of thing a man who automatically believe a rape accusation is fake would say. And sorry, but rape and violence is completely different from "cancel culture". If you're too dense to see that, then we have nothing more to discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:07 PM |
| 38 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenThere’s way more conservative men than there are conservative women, especially in the younger generations. That’s why conservative men pretend like they’re “politically neutral” or “centrist” so they don’t immediately repel all the women they’re interested in. The best thing a woman can do is have a no tolerance policy for ANY romantic interaction with a conservative man. These men do not like women. They only like what women can do for them. They do not respect you as a human being. They only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:03 PM |
| 7 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.If my grandma had wheels she would have been a bike... Like...yeah, women are conditioned to always be looking out for their own safety and modify their behavior because men could just fuck us up if they wanted to. That's why women are better at understanding consent, that's why women have to mature earlier, that's why women have to be polite. That is nature, or at least the result of nature--and men's bad behavior. Women can't be as brutish and feral as men. So therefore we aren't. Same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.You literally think you're doing women a favor by flirting with them--that's the real Reddit take. And it wasn't one experience. It was pretty much every woman's childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 0 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.I get these ideas from living life as a woman. You know when I first got "flirted" with? I was 12 years old and the man was easily in his early 20's. I have the ick on behalf of the women who have the unfortunate experience of you flirting at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:39 PM |
| 1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.A non-answer that is easily disprovable. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:38 PM |
| – | Most of the time when "empathy is not enough" for a guy, it's just a disagreement about his problem itself.This is your second non-answer comment in a row. I think we're done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:37 PM |
| 3 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.Lolllll at their mercy? Enjoy your fanfiction bro. Why do so many men try to live out their revenge fantasy where they get to reject women who want them so badly. When in reality, we don't even know you exist. And we've mostly found our own partners and would appreciate it if other men just left us alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soCan you present any reason that it isn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:52 PM |
| 2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.Oh are we talking about NO men ever flirting with ANY women now? Is that how the goal post as moved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soFrom a single year, and half the links don’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:29 PM |
| 0 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.Literally other men agree with me. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:28 PM |
| – | Most of the time when "empathy is not enough" for a guy, it's just a disagreement about his problem itself.Actually it seems to be the only part of it that you count as empathy. And you don’t seem to see any issue with “I have it worse than you, agree with me or else”. Because you also apparently don’t have empathy for women who are thinking about their own safety as they try to meet men. And if you want to get into “who has it worse”, you’re always going to be up against physical safety fears that women have, which is a pretty indisputable reality that makes not getting matches on dating apps look l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:28 PM |
| 1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.You think we’re crying in our rooms at night because no man flirted with us today? We’re fine. We’re especially fine if one random dude like OP decides he’s not going to flirt with us because he’s trying to make a point about women wanting equality. In fact, when that happens, we’re thrilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soOh I know women can be evil. But if you’re going to make a claim about women in general and use a bad website with data from one year, I’m going to have to see better data. It’s very rare to see data presented in a legitimate way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:22 PM |
| -2 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soNope, you just suck at analyzing data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:19 PM |
| -2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.What do you supposed OP meant by that statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:19 PM |
| -1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.lol that’s simply untrue. You know what flirting at women is to most women? Harassment. Men on the street think it’s fun to try to flirt with random women walking by and it’s literally traumatizing. What men consider flirting is usually acting like uncivilized buffoons. Women are not missing being approached. We wish men would approach us EVEN LESS. You’re just coping because you like the fantasy of women’s demands backfiring on them and for them to come crawling back to you begging for you to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:18 PM |
| 0 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.I don’t know how often it has to be said, but equality doesn’t mean we all have the same experiences. Equality refers to systemic opportunity, economic mobility, and freedom from discrimination. Saying “oh you want equality, well that means everyone gets treated like shit!” is to completely misunderstand the word “equality”. Also, even if it was what equality means, why is the male version of acting the default? Why isn’t it how women are friends with each other? I’m so glad I’m not a man. I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.What do you consider to be chivalrous to random women you just met? For example, if I’m walking into a building and a man is behind me, I will hold the door open for him because that’s polite. This often gets described as chivalrous, but it’s just having good manners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:11 PM |
| -2 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soSorry, but data from a single year is hardly evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:47 AM |
| -6 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soNow it’s only a single year: 2006. Amazing how you extrapolate all of these claims from one year. Also, hilarious to extrapolate that this means anything more than men are more likely to do be perpetrators of child abuse than women, because way way more women are the sole care givers than men, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:47 AM |
| 2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.I’m thrilled when men don’t flirt with me. Most women are thrilled when most men don’t flirt with them. Tf you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:42 AM |
| – | Most of the time when "empathy is not enough" for a guy, it's just a disagreement about his problem itself.So your definition of “empathy” is just “agree that I have it worse than you”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:39 AM |
| -2 | We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic.“Treat them like other men” = be a sexist asshole with zero decorum or social skills and expect them to tolerate the disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:08 AM |
| -6 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soOk shall I dumb it down for you? It’s not a legitimate source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:04 AM |
| – | Most of the time when "empathy is not enough" for a guy, it's just a disagreement about his problem itself.Clearly you don’t understand how the way you word something can change the way your words come across. It doesn’t matter if a woman factually has not experienced loneliness to that degree. That doesn’t prevent her from showing empathy. What does prevent her from showing empathy is if someone angrily complains that she will never understand, therefore her words mean nothing. Would you show more empathy for a person who says “you will never understand what it’s like to be hungry!” vs a person who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?Again, what does that have to do with empathy? Women know that men get rejected by them. There is no mystery there. It’s not something that needs to be stated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?Yes, but why bring up women’s choices at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:25 PM |
| -3 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soThat breaking the science website looks like it was made by a third grader in the 90’s. You were so close to not invalidating yourself with phony sources! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?What does any of this have to do with my comment or the subject of the OP? Why even bring up the subject of women’s choices when talking about empathy towards men and the way men talk about their situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 09:24 PM |
| – | If you believe most men are unattractive then you should be ok with the current dating marketMen, generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 09:20 PM |
| 3 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?Are you implying that it's women's faults that men are lonely? Are you justifying blaming women for not sleeping with the "right" men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | average Men Don't have almost any advantagesI'm not arguing About women getting special treatment while pregnant. So what's all this then? "Pregnancy guarantees attention. Strangers open doors, offer seats, check on her well-being. Society rallies around pregnant women in ways it never does for struggling men. A man working himself to death or sleeping on the street receives no such concern. · Life taken care of: Pregnancy triggers an entire support system. Government programs, family support, workplace accommodations, and social sympathy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 07:52 PM |
| – | Most of the time when "empathy is not enough" for a guy, it's just a disagreement about his problem itself.Once again, it’s all about HOW the problem is stated. You’re conveniently using the term “dating disadvantages”, which allows you to use your imagination to fill in the most charitable explanation of how a man might talk about these disadvantages. “I don’t get matches on dating apps” is different from “women only think 5% of men are attractive.” “I wish I knew what it felt like to be complimented by a woman” is different than “women don’t even understand what it’s like to be lonely.” When you ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 07:46 PM |
| 7 | average Men Don't have almost any advantagesThis, ladies, is a great example of WOMB ENVY. Men who suffer from this like to speak highly of all of the temporary courtesies women sometimes experience from being pregnant, as if that makes up for the much more urgent negative experiences that comes from being the gender that gives birth, such as economic dependence, career stagnation, death, and body altering trauma. Men like this are so warped in their thinking that they believe that temporary courtesies are an indication of systemic advant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:40 PM |
| 2 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?I’m responding to OP’s question. You ranted angrily about how YOU don’t personally care about empathy, thus partially answering OP’s question. There are MANY men like you who say they want empathy but don’t care about receiving it and act hostiley when they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:30 PM |
| 3 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?Of course you’re allowed to want two things at the same time, but it is never framed this way. It framed as “if only women would show us empathy, it would make us feel better.” But it doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 03:47 PM |
| 8 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?See? Men say they want empathy but they are never satisfied with it. OP posted specifically about empathy, not PUA shit. And yet here you are, providing even more evidence for everyone to see that the whole “empathy” thing is mostly just bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 01:10 PM |
| 9 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?You are vastly mischaracterizing “I am lonely, I would like to have a relationship” statements. Ones that are called out for being entitled almost never stop at that sentence. There is almost always more that reveals they blame women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 01:08 PM |
| 53 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?“I am lonely, I would like to have a relationship” = I’m sorry you are feeling that way, that sucks. “I am lonely, and it’s women’s faults for having their own standards and choosing to fuck other men who are not me” = no empathy for you Oh and one more…when “empathy” is just a code word for “fuck me” then you also don’t get empathy. I’ve had plenty of conversations in this sub where I say “wow, that sucks, I’m sorry” and then ask them if that’s what they’re looking for—well it turns out that do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:11 AM |
| 0 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentThat's not an example of bodily autonomy, sorry! try again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentThat’s so easy to disprove. I believe in it. See? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great.That’s not what she’s saying. There are obviously men who are good and bad who women are not attracted to. But her point is that there just aren’t as many good men as men think there are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 01:37 PM |
| 0 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentOoh you’re also so close! It’s actually called bodily autonomy, not bodily anatomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutIf we are to believe you, which I do, then this is proof you have exceptionally low standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:38 AM |
| 13 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutThis isn't saying men don't have the same issue, but they are less affected as they are more honest about what they want, straight to the point and way less picky Maybe men should be a bit more picky so that it's not just the woman who has to do the vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:29 PM |
| 0 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentI hate to keep presenting you with facts, but being pregnant is zero steps away from the topic of bodily autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Women have more bodily autonomy than men.The genetics of the child actually have nothing to do with the bodily autonomy debate. It's not the body of the child that is the subject of the bodily autonomy debate. It is the body of the woman carrying the child. And without the condition of her carrying the child, you're actually the one who has to use "wriggle language" to make your point sound. Men raise children. Men contribute very very briefly to the making of children. Men do not physically have them. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 04:02 PM |
| 0 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentNo because that is in response to financial choices. That is at least two steps removed from a man’s bodily autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 10 | Women have more bodily autonomy than men.Men’s bodies literally are not involved in having children. That’s like saying the person who bought the box of pasta is as much of a chef as the person who cooked the meal. Men do not HAVE children. Men helped a woman to have children. But men do not themselves HAVE children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentHer choice to carry a baby has nothing to do with another person becoming a parent. Ooh, you're so close! That's exactly right--bodily autonomy is totally different from parental responsibilities. That's why it's the woman's choice what happens to her body, and why both parents have to pay to support a child if a child is born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentThe irony is that you compared being forced physically to being forced financially, when it is actually the woman who is being forced physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 03:37 AM |
| 32 | Women have more bodily autonomy than men.Men don't have to choose if their bodies have children or not because men do not get pregnant. How is this so complicated? What you're talking about is some form of financial autonomy or lack of accountability. But BODILY autonomy with pregnancy? It does not apply to men. I'll repeat that since I know you're already trying to respond. Men do not get pregnant, therefore their bodies do not have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 03:32 AM |
| 23 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Then you don’t care about facts. If you can’t admit that men are praised for this, then we have nothing else to debate. You simply don’t live in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:04 PM |
| 17 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Yes, they should be able to recognize that it is “basic shit,”. What do you think you are observing in your post question? That is women actively realizing that they’re with milk toast men and raising their own standards for their quality of life. Basic shit includes (before children): having good hygiene, doing chores around the house without asking, being financially responsible, knowing special dates, being nice, knowing how to take care of his own health, knowing how to feed himself, not bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:01 PM |
| 20 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Ah I see where the confusion is. I read “better than men” as in comparatively to men, as opposed to women being more concerned with your main topic. Now I understand. And by the way if you’ve never heard of the phenomenon of men getting praised for doing basic shit, then you live under a rock. I’m not here to argue whether or not men are praised for that—they are. And that’s why women are constantly having to wonder if they’re accidentally settling. Men sure as hell aren’t going to vet for stand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:51 PM |
| 51 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?The framing of this question is weird. You post it like it’s about women in competition with men. As if women want to make more money than men or be stronger than men or more successful than men. But what you’re actually talking about in the post is whether or not the woman feels she can do better for herself. For me, I think women suffer from low expectations of the men they date. If a man cleans the dishes, society tells us that’s like extra special. If a man does romantic gestures and remembe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:09 PM |
| – | Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatmentNope, you don’t get to deflect big guy. You are feeling based. I am facts based. You have yet to prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 09:17 PM |
| – | Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatmentOoh a you’re really gonna answer a question with another question. Sounds like someone doesn’t want to hear the facts and just wants to wallow in their feelings! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatmentMen in power act on the behalf of men. Would you like some facts to back up this statement? Or would you like to keep debating your feelings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:47 PM |
| – | Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatmentA gynocentric society would only be possible if that society is ruled by women in places of power. Since we have a pathetic representation of women in places of power, we are factually not a gynocentric society. That is a fact. You are arguing a feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:01 PM |
| – | Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatmentWow please tell me more about this fantasy world where the matriarchy runs everything and women benefit from all of it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Because this sub is mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What do you like about your husband/bf?He has extremely upstanding morals and values, he's very progressive and wants to help the least of us in our community. He's very intelligent too, well educated, well read, and a very discerning thinker. He really thinks before he speaks. He is extremely trustworthy, honest, kind, and sociable. He is a great friend to everyone who knows him, and supports me in my career ambitions with literally zero insecurity on his end. He makes me feel confident in my own body, cleans up around the house wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderYou want to see the stats then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderI literally make twice as much as my partner. Go home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs.Those are looking real progressive right now. The Republican run government continues to send billions of dollars to pointless Middle East wars. The GOP party platform overtaxes average Americans to pay for the undertaxation of the wealthiest billionaires. ICE is a rogue Republican military occupying our cities in the name of “defense” of our borders. Tell me more “lessons from the past” that somehow refute basic progressivism in the present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderYou’re flailing and becoming more and more incomprehensible with each comment. Try spell check sometimes. You just disproved everything you said before with your last sentence. You don’t speak on when what men do because you don’t date men. I do. So I speak on what men do. You’re just walking yourself into circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:43 AM |
| 2 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderOooh someone is big mad. Of course I know, and I know precisely because I’m a woman and I date men. I know what it’s like to interact with men who don’t like women, and that’s all it takes for me to block and delete them from existence. How would YOU know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of a man who is sexually perusing you but doesn’t even like you? I think between the two of us, the one who doesn’t know is YOU. Try again big boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderIt's not just a "few dates", it's paying for most things, often even most/all of the living expenses if they cohabitate. That's called having a stay at home mom, and if there's no children involved, that's just called being a sugar daddy. The vast majority of women do not expect the man to pay for literally everything whilst not having children. You just continue to make shit up. Single men earn less because they spend less, they don't have to support a wife and kids. Wrong again. Per-person spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:16 PM |
| -2 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderAnother easily disprovable statement, since clearly, I had quite a lot of an answer to this. Why even bother commenting when your comment is this weak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderIf you need to expend time or money then you are sacrificing those things, by definition. And women spend time and money, including an incredible amount of unpaid labor, "sacrificing" for their partner, too. But to claim that men sacrifice more because they pay for a few dates and have to be bothered to take initiative laughable. I don't, or at least not full time. You do realize that you're in the extreme minority, right? Most men are one missed paycheck away from financial disaster. Women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs.Ah so educate us, oh EXPERT, what about the Roman Empire should we be doing today to ensure our civilization survives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:48 PM |
| -1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderIt's literally the social life of most men , you think men aren't expected to do this ? Men who like women don't whine about standard gestures of love and care. Men who like women don't talk about settling for a woman primarily because he's too afraid to be single. Even the most feminist 50/50 women still expect men to pay for dates and be responsible of romantic gestures ... Men who like women don't consider a few paid first dates as evidence of the full capacity for romance in a human being. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs.The irony of you boasting about lasting traditions while referencing a famously downed empire is SO FUNNY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?You’re obviously only capable of seeing the world in absolutist terms, which is sad for you and great for the rest of us. Please continue to filter yourself out of the gene pool. The great irony is that you hate women and yet you get NONE, completely disproving your own theory. Obviously being an asshole DOES make men unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:47 PM |
| 7 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Like I predicted. So easy to disprove. Women choose for some combination of physicality and morality. For me personally, I don’t settle on either. And I suggest other women do the same. Enjoy your blackpilled life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs.Men do not care about legacy and civilization, otherwise men would be overwhelmingly progressive and vote for policies that preserve the environment, set up a better life for the next generation, and pass on wealth from one generation to the next. Instead, men vote for policies that enrich living men only, siphon money from the lower class to the upper class, and destroy the environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:38 AM |
| 9 | Dating is asymmetric by nature.Preach, girl. Same here. I’m really happy my standards are super high because it results in my happiness either way—stay single and have a good social life and career, or have all that plus a man who contributes positively to my life rather than being a slob and a drain on my peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:29 AM |
| 16 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Your comment is laughably easy to disprove. You’re so self hating and drunk on your blackpill bs that you can write comments like that with zero irony. So sad. I will remind you that in real life, good men get both rejected and chosen by women, and bad men get both rejected and chosen by women. There is no absolute truth. It IS complex. But I doubt any of this will register with your blackpilled brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:20 AM |
| 4 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderWomen don’t need anniversaries, holidays, or one-time proposals to inspire them to do things for their male partners. Women also don’t consider acts of love and care as “sacrifices,” as apparently you do. Between men and women, the gender that does the most actual sacrificing is quite obviously women. Not only do they often sacrifice their bodies to bear children, but they also sacrifice their economic mobility much more than men on average. Without children, one cannot really claim that any gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:02 AM |
| 16 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderSee this, ladies? This is evidence of a man who admits to settling for women he doesn’t actually like, and moaning about doing loving things for someone he’s supposed to love, all to avoid his own sad life being single. Be warned: men like this see you as only as an alternative to loneliness. They consider acts of love as chores to fulfill a societal need, not because it’s meaningful to you or demonstrative of care. They want sex from you and will grit their teeth doing anything else to avoid ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:00 AM |
| – | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Lol I’m not insecure, I just see through your bullshit. It’s your opinion that it’s the #1 blue pill talking point but you just made that up. Blue pill doesn’t have an ideology beyond being everyone who isn’t red pilled. Red pill made up the blue pill. And conveniently red pill just ascribes whatever ideology they want in the moment to blue pill because blue pill doesn’t have talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:16 PM |
| – | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Women like me don’t have shame. My thinking your comments are weird is not because of shame—it’s because men like you always get unnecessarily graphic in your depictions in an argument that does not even remotely necessitate such language, and those descriptions are always spoken in a way that is designed to be objectifying, porn-ifying, and demeaning towards women. You pretending like it’s some sex positive thing is not remotely convincing. By your definition, any man who exercises is red pille… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:58 AM |
| – | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.First of all, why do men like you have to be fucking disgusting? Be mature. If you think it’s so gross for men to nut inside women then you’re free to go nut inside men instead. No one thinks more about men’s cum than men. Second of all, I asked which advice women give that are red pill talking points and your answer was to claim that women like men they are attracted to. There is nothing red pill about that. Being attractive is attractive. Attractive people get more attention. There is nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Such as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:17 PM |
| -1 | The hypocrisy in asking men to be confident.You’re all over the place. Your claim is that people who say be confident are hypocritical. I’m saying they’re not because the advice doesn’t mean to ignore everything else that common sensically one should do to attract people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy in asking men to be confident.Ok trying to sift through the word salad…you’re saying that assholes still manage to get terrible women? And this somehow means that the advice “be confident” is now useless for all men? There is no magical formula that you can plug in that will spit out the woman of your dreams. Some attractive people get what they want, some don’t. Some unattractive people get what they want, some don’t. But dating advice is about increasing your CHANCES. So something like “be confident” is one of those chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:37 PM |
| 25 | Women should not be asked to settleI also don’t think women should settle in the personality and characteristics department either. Growing to love someone whose personality is initially a turn off is also usually a recipe for relationship disaster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:28 PM |
| 5 | The hypocrisy in asking men to be confident.Why do you think confidence means erase all social expectations? Isn’t it kind of implied that the advice “have confidence” doesn’t mean throw away every other good thing that could attract people? The advice isn’t singular. It’s not like if you have confidence you can disregard every other trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:26 PM |
| 4 | How should men try to present themselves as fulfilling basic requirements?And how old are you? Also, you can’t really talk about women’s preferences when you are directly judging men and calling them ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How should men try to present themselves as fulfilling basic requirements?Do you have eyes? Look at couples around you in real life. Women are with all types of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:57 PM |
| – | Being single and paying for it is far better than being a simp these days.Why are so many men obsessed with when you have sex with them? It’s not about comparitive “effort” in reality, because if it was, you’d have to prove that you somehow know specific details about how she acted in the past relationship and be able to compare it to the one with you. It’s really just about timing on when you have sex. I once spoke to a guy on this sub who claimed that if a woman took two dates to sleep with a previous guy but three dates to sleep with him, that this indicated some m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.It is vague because Blue pill is vague. Red Pill loves to ascribe numerous ideologies onto blue pill simply to be able to refute it. That’s the whole point of blue pill, to be anyone or anything that doesn’t agree with red pill. That is why it is accurate to say that the blue pill only exists within the confines of the red pill. It wouldn’t exist without redpill. Blue Pill doesn’t have an ideology—it’s simply everyone who isn’t red pill. It doesn’t mean they can’t share some beliefs. But red pil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.You have got to be a troll. I see now why you needed AI to write your post. Not a single coherent thought in sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.No, what you have just claimed is that blue pill believes the exact opposite of red pill, on every individual claim being made. That’s not what I am saying, and that’s not what the blue pill is. Blue pill is anyone who isn’t subscribing to the named ideology of red pill. It doesn’t mean every single thing in the red pill is not agreed upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Weak response. “No just wrong” is not a good faith debate response. You’re a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 11 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Let me try it even simpler for you. Red Pill defines the Blue Pill. The Blue Pill does not define itself beyond a rejection of the Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:51 PM |
| 14 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Ok so you’re not actually debating in good faith. Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:29 PM |
| 51 | Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional.Dude, be for real. The BP exits only through the lens of RP. The only real definition of BP is that it is just not RP. Everything else you just made up. Even your first example is something you just made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseThe only reason you’d come to this conclusion is because you think everything I wrote only applies to him and not to me. But I have all of the qualities I just listed that I want from him. That seems fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.I would love it if men stopped caring but men seem unable to stop. They persistently complain about women not fucking them. They constantly whine about how they’re oppressed because dating is hard wahhh. And here you are fantasizing about a society where you can hang out with your boys while women go to jail. If you believe Trump is a result of feminism, then the tables have already turned. We’re already in that fantasy society where the media has turned on women en masse. And guess what? You’re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:20 AM |
| 24 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.You're honestly trying to make the argument that men were less willing to fuck women they didn't think were attractive in the past than they are today? That's cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:10 AM |
| 23 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.Are Women the choosers? Yes or no? This kind of binary thinking is easy to conceptualize, but completely unrealistic in the real world. In a relationship where only one person chooses, that is a toxic imbalanced relationship built on coercion or apathy. Healthy relationships only work when both parties are actively making decisions that lead to each other. If you believe in the 60s a average Women was easily pulling male models like today The fact that you think average women are pulling male mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:45 AM |
| 24 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.Only a man could write about a dating market that requires both men and women's engagement and write "of course this only affects men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseYour main point was originally about effort. So why bring up the fact she didn’t put out as soon as you wanted in the first place? I asked you to explain what information you’d be learning about how she put in effort more in her past, and you didn’t provide any examples of what this information could be, and instead focused most of your answer on when she put out. This leads me to conclude that you don’t care or even know about whether she put in more effort for the last guy than you. She didn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseSo as I suspected, this isn’t about effort, it’s about how fast she puts out. Because as usual, men do not allow women to change their minds. This is why it’s a lose-lose for women. If you put out early, you’re easy and only looking to get pumped and dumped by Chad. If you change your mind and decide to wait, you’re “putting in less effort”. Men only want women to act one way with JUST THEM and no other guy, and they don’t want women to change or grow or act any different no matter who says what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseHow. Can. I. Answer. If. It. Got. Deleted. Are you okay? Like genuinely, are you good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseHow can I answer if I’ve read the post or not if the mods deleted it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseI mean, when I talk about my past relationships to the person I’m currently dating, it’s usually like “here’s why it didn’t work out,” and how much time we were together, that’s about it. What kind of information are you learning that would enable you to believe that she put in more effort for the last guy? And furthermore, are you making an argument that everyone should only date people who have never been in a relationship before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseHow would you know whether or not that person put in more effort into their last relationship compared to you? I’m genuinely asking, what scenario would allow you to be able to make a play-by-play comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:06 AM |
| 6 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseDoes it matter? If the mods deleted it then we will never know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:03 AM |
| 15 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseWho cares about what gold diggers on sugar dating websites do except for men who are looking for gold diggers on sugar dating websites? And you do realize that women who go on sugar dating websites are extremely rare and easily ignored by all men simply by not frequenting those websites? It takes a lot less than not being hot to get women to ignore you. As long as men do not meet the non-negotiable standards, they will be ignored romantically by women. As it should be. Why would women be with me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:42 PM |
| 10 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseDo you wanna try that comment again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:37 PM |
| 30 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromise100%. It’s not just that men want us to choose them, it’s that they want us to choose them first and never choose anyone else. If a woman doesn’t sleep with men, there’s a male loneliness epidemic. If a woman has a history of sleeping with lots of men before her, she’s used goods and is settling for you. It’s a lose lose situation as a woman. The only solution is to hold to your standards as a woman, observe men overtime to see what qualities they exhibit, and pair up accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:07 PM |
| 18 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseit is not beneficial for women to pair up with men we don’t want 👏👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:03 PM |
| 33 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseWell, sure, it would be nice to have all of those things. But a lot of those qualities that you listed are negotiable. And women know this, and understand that they’re not going to date Henry Cavill in real life. The non-negotiable characteristics are much harder to come by. Finding a man who adds to your peace that you’ve already established as a single woman, who doesn’t have toxic, anti-women ideologies, who actively supports you and your success without getting insecure, who is highly emotio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.What planet do you live on? The mainstream media already does insult women en masse. The fucking president of the United States doesn’t stop spewing sexist shit on a regular basis. You have a very gay fantasy. And that’s fine. Go be gay. But don’t hate women for your own internalized homophobia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Yes, if men raise their standards, sometimes that will result in being alone. Women are very familiar with this phenomenon. But women have figured out how to be content while single so it’s not a threat to their livelihood. Men should learn how to be content while single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 02:08 PM |
| 7 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?If you don’t think it’s possible for someone with a high body count to have any positive characteristics that you value in long term partners, then you do not stick to facts and logic. You are illogical and emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:58 AM |
| 6 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?Is it possible for someone with a high body count to have positive characteristics? Yes. Is it possible for a someone with a low body count to have negative characteristics? Yes. If you assume anything about a woman based solely on her body count, you are using your emotions to dictate your decisions and not facts and logic. Instead, you should observe her personality to see what qualities she possesses. You don’t know how the men see her who have slept with her. You are using your emotions to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?What is that even supposed to mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?“Men have no power because men have no power” means nothing. Men have no power because men have no standards. Men have no power because men go with any woman at all that chooses him rather than stick to any principles or considerations of compatibility. Men have no power because women have chosen NOT to settle for a myriad of things—and nothing is stopping men from doing the same. Men have no power because they choose to have no standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 10:05 PM |
| 8 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?Because men have no standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?Clearly you’re prepared to accept EVERY flaw. What’s one flaw you would consider a line crossed that would prohibit you from dating a woman? If you say “being a murderer” I’m going to laugh in your face. Because that would be entirely proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Asking women for advice does not work.If you don’t do any of the advice, you can’t trash it and say it doesn’t work—sorry, your excuses aren’t convincing in the slightest! “Invest in your social circle” means so many things: calling up your friends and organizing activities to do, going to every event you’re invited to, turning acquaintances into good friends, turning strangers into acquaintances, supporting them to show you care, asking for help with you need it, etc Waiting to ask out a woman until you know she’s available isn’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:42 PM |
| 16 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?80% and 20% not a bitch is dirt standards. Pathetically low standards. Embarrassingly nonexistent standards. If a man can’t reject a woman who acts like OC’s brother, then that is clear evidence that that man has subzero standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 07:46 PM |
| 11 | Sisters, can you tell us how your brothers are doing in the relationship realm?So in other words, men have zero standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Asking women for advice does not work.Invest in your social circle to meet women organically, wait to ask out a woman until you know she’s available and you’ve established some kind of chemistry, utilize the social resources made available in college to meet as many women as possible, don’t pay for sex, go to therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Asking women for advice does not work.Ok: you’re selecting sentences that you crafted to fit your narrative and are ignoring advice from women that has worked for men. If you ignore the instances where a woman’s advice has worked for a man, then you can come to sweeping generalizations about women’s advice, as you have. It’s amazing what happens when you include advice from women that have worked for men—suddenly it becomes impossible say “asking women for advice does not work.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Asking women for advice does not work.You’re selecting sentences that you crafted to fit your narrative and are ignoring advice from women that has worked for men. If you ignore every instance where a woman’s advice has worked for a man, then yes, you can come to a ridiculous absolutist conclusion, as you have. It’s amazing what happens when you include advice from a woman that has worked for a man—suddenly it becomes impossible to say “asking women for advice does not work”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:26 PM |
| 3 | are there women out there that just want sexWhy do men talk about women like they're aliens? Obviously there are women that exist on this planet who just want sex. Answering your question though doesn't really have anything to do with whatever situation your friend is going through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.What percentage of comments? Don’t ask a question you can’t answer yourself. You don’t know what percentage of passport bros videos are positive either. There are hundreds of YouTube channels dedicated to passport bros and you know for a fact that a majority of them have no hints of racism or misogyny? What percentage? How large of a majority? You can’t answer that. And who determines how many “bad actors” there are until the community deserves criticism? After all, is that not your whole argume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.That’s great. I think you as a man have much more influence on other men with this particular topic. I hope you keep posting this sentiment because men have embarrassingly low standards and take no accountability for the women they choose to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.Where do passport bros engage in discourse besides Reddit where you have made your observations about that community? Where is “elsewhere”? I can link to you any number of racist and misogynistic posts/comments from the sub on Reddit that has over 90k visitors and 1.5k contributions per week, which back up my claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Fantastic, it has taken me so long on the sub to find a man who agrees that men’s standards are in the toilet and that men should have more self-respect and stop just sticking with the first woman who says yes to them. This would solve so many issues. Men need to collectively raise their standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:11 PM |
| 6 | How women can find men that prioritize connection above sex10/10 This!!!!! People who think with facts ands logic understand that the only way to know someone is to observe their behavior in the present over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:04 PM |
| 11 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Are you saying that men should have higher standards, and should choose better women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.I hope the irony of your comment is not lost on you. How could you prove your own argument on this post based entirely on your own anecdotal opinion of the “feminist narrative”? You mentioned many different communities, and the one that I focused on you immediately admitted that you’re not familiar with it. So not only do you not have stats facts to back up your argument, the anecdotal examples you used are communities you’re not even familiar with. To answer your question: going abroad in searc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.I don’t “only” see misogyny. But that’s not the line by which we call out misogyny in a community. Passport bros generally do not regulate or sort out any of the discourse that blatantly stereotype and objectify women, and the quantity of content that they put forth both in comments and posts that demonstrate blatant misogyny suggests that there is a significant portion of passport bros who either hold these toxic views or do not feel compelled to call out their bros for holding those toxic view… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeBecause how hot a woman finds a guy is irrelevant to how hot YOU think she is compared to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeThat’s not a statement you can prove because “looks level” is loser fantasy bullshit speak. Why should i trust YOUR version of which men are hot enough for me to fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeThat’s another option. Either put more effort into the photos and/or make yourself physically hotter before you make a profile. Some guys are lucky and are naturally hotter than others and therefore have to work less. Some guys need to put in more effort than others. Most men are average and somewhere in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Is it common for you and your friends to suddenly lose interest in men?I mean yeah, you need to observe a human over time to determine if you have all the qualities one might look for in a partner. At some point, you may do or say something that displays a quality that makes you ineligible to be in a relationship with that woman. For me, I’ve lost interest when I heard a man’s politics leaning conservative; when I saw the inside of his apartment and how gross it was; and when a man tried to brag about his money to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:09 AM |
| 21 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.Every single example you mentioned contains pretty obvious examples of legitimate misogyny that deserves criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeThe hotter you are, the less effort you have to put in. The vast majority of men are not hot enough to put in no effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeSo I used to be a dating app photographer for men. And I have to say, after that whole period of my life, combined with what I saw on dating apps as a woman who was at one point on dating apps looking, that an astounding number of men THINK that they are putting in efforts into their dating app profile, THINK that they are trying to get good photos, but are actually putting in 10% of the effort that is needed to actually get photos that look decent. The standard for effort is extremely low, so l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Pro-male politicians don't need to improve men's lives to win. Degrading women's existence for male entertainment will be their strategy.What are the issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 12:42 AM |
| 8 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Men absolutely are valid in feeling this, especially when there's the feeling that the woman you're on a date with is just using you for a free meal. True gold diggers like this though, are rare, and they're easily rejectable. Stay away from women who don't accept a coffee date, or who scoff at things not being fancy enough, if you're the type of man who can't afford it and doesn't like women with these values. It comes down to men's standards. Men have ever power and every right to reject women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:07 PM |
| 15 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.100%. No one is forcing you to pay for dates. If an egalitarian relationship approach is an attractive and valuable trait to a man, and that trait filters out women who don't have that approach, then as a man, you have to take accountability and show egalitarian women that you are the kind of man she would want to be with. All these men out here wanting egalitarian women but not being the type of man an egalitarian woman wants... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueTruth!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueA non-response for a contentless post. fitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:58 AM |
| 11 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueYou just made all of that up. I could say the exact opposite— almost all men in the developed world are dating women out of their league— and I would be no more right than you. And if you want to understand how you look right now, just think about how you feel reading the reverse statement and realize that that’s how we feel about you. You’re ridiculous. You have no evidence to back up your OPINION. You have no evidence, not even one shred of real evidence that isn’t an EMOTION formed by your OP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:17 AM |
| – | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueHAHAHAHA this is some weird ass nonsense. Since when is it required morally, ideologically, or biologically for human beings to be romantically with their exact looks match? And looks match according to who—YOU?!? Gtfo. You don’t know who is attractive and who is not. You only know your own opinion. Not fact. OPINION. You really just pulled all of these statements out of your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 12:53 AM |
| – | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You just contradicted yourself like three times in a row. You make men look like assholes either way. Either they are jealous of the women because they wish they could sleep around like the very women they judge, OR they’re hypocrites who want to sleep around like “alphas” but judge women who sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 03:43 AM |
| 6 | If TRP wasn’t true, there wouldn’t be such immediate resistance to and censorship of itFlat earthers aren’t spewing blatant misogyny to people who are extremely impressionable though are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:12 AM |
| – | Trans-women are TRANS-women, not women. And vise versa.um WHAT? Providing documenting of your sex to enter locker rooms and bathrooms isn’t outlandish? That’s literally fascism. Sorry, to tell you. Funny how it slips into extremism so quickly, isn’t it? You’re literally inside the Venn diagram that is pro “show us your papers”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:33 PM |
| – | Trans-women are TRANS-women, not women. And vise versa.Those cases can be handled on a case by case basis. But to blanket ban transgender women from women’s locker rooms is only going to cause more issues. I’d rather handle the random person who takes their dick out in a women’s locker room than deal with the fallout of ALL of us having to prove our gender every where we go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 09:49 PM |
| – | Trans-women are TRANS-women, not women. And vise versa.I feel as if you’re seeing a very narrow image of what a trans woman or man looks like. You’re thinking of the Caitlin Jenner, the ones who haven’t completely masked their born gender to their chosen gender. When you talk about women’s bathrooms, you’re imagining essentially a transvestite in a woman’s space or a “badly disguised” man in a woman’s space. But…there are trans people that you walk past out in public who you would have ZERO idea are trans. You’d literally only know unless they told … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 09:04 PM |
| 5 | How many women actually want the alpha for a LTR?Same. Just using the term unironically is the biggest ick on the planet. “Alpha” is just a clever word for a guy who gets to fuck women quickly and leave them. There’s literally no other context for this word. If he were to be a provider, a carer, holding his weight in the home, caring for his family…that would hilariously make him a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 25 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealSorry, but telling men they CAN be whatever is about accepting men for who they are without judgment, not that men who do this will be drowning in pussy. You can wear a dress as a man and I will give you a high five for being you. But I know absolutely nothing else about you to know if we would be compatible dating each other. You can be non masculine and I will not lose any respect for you because of it—who knows if that mean I will want to date you. I already am dating a less masculine man who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.I brought up jealousy because that’s what makes it hypocritical to use the term. You can be jealous, but don’t be jealous AND use such derogatory term for a woman who is just doing exactly what you wish you could do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Are you serious? You literally just asked “why don’t women fuck men to get them to shut up about women fucking too many men?” To men like you, the solution is always “women fuck me now waahhhh!” And there’s no consideration at all for the fact that women are simply not attracted to men they don’t want to fuck. That in itself is another projection, since guys are well known for fucking women they aren’t attracted to and don’t like or respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.So if you can’t define at what point a woman is “ran through” how do you know if that term applies to me? It’s almost like you use it as an insult without actually caring about the meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:35 PM |
| 10 | For those of you who complain about men who complain about not getting sex in relationships, saying that they should just seek hookups instead, would you be fine with those men complaining about their lack of access to hookups? If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.How many men does a woman have to sleep with for her to have this label? Hmm? Tell us oh great arbiter of morality. Where is the official line? I’m sure it won’t be some random number you just pull out of your own ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.The negative behavior I’m referencing is men calling women “ran through” not women being promiscuous. I’m not talking about men’s desire to date those women or women’s sexual actions. I’m talking about men using this term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Yes, we continue to not sleep with men like you. Thank you for making that clear. They don’t want you. You don’t want them. My argument isn’t that you should want to date those women—reject women for whatever reason you want. My argument is that using this term to describe them is sexist, derogatory, and hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.There is no enforcement. Everyone will do what they choose. I’m arguing that men should choose to not use this term. And my argument is that it’s sexist and hypocritical. And that’s why men shouldn’t use it. Why dos negative behavior have to be coddled? Sometimes the best treatment is to demonize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:40 PM |
| -1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.This is one of the most entitled comments I’ve ever read. A woman has to personally act in a way that pleases some men just because he might want it one day? Give me a fucking break. Women dont give a shit what random guys prefer especially when they were never interested in fucking them to begin with. Your mindset is truly disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:59 AM |
| 7 | How promiscuous do you consider yourself to be?My history is only two things: I only get into relationships with people I develop feelings for and have known at a least a month before sex, and sleep with someone from online dating within on day of meeting them. Edit: actually wait one time I did sleep with an acquaintance after a week of knowing him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.True, that’s why it’s good to get tested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Wow so you really went from a thousand to 15 LOL that’s a random arbitrary number that you selected just because. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Oh we’re going up into the thousands now? What mystical man has slept with a thousand women pray tell? How many of these magical men exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Haha it’s men you have to tell this to, not women. Men who have had casual sex love a woman who hasn’t. Women date men all the time who have had sexual partners before them and it’s genuinely not an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Ah ok, so it’s fine if a woman has a high body count but they’re all purposeful one night stands or FWBs? Since she was never looking for a commitment in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Because those women aren’t jealous of men they consider short and virgins. I thought that was obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:35 PM |
| 2 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.I don’t think most men even remotely agree with you on that one… “perfectly fine”? Riiiiight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Keep walking it back...now sexism isn't bad because it's not a crime. Incredible. If you used your brain for one second, you'd realize that the law isn't the beginning and end of what's considered good and bad. You're exactly why women don't trust men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:51 PM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Oh so you're perfectly fine with women calling men short/broke/small dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Depends on what part of history and where you're talking about it. You're taking a very mid-20th century Western view of it. The Greeks, for example, were super promiscuous, and things like sexuality were considered completely fluid and encouraged. And even if you stuck to America in the 1700's, it was super common for brides back then to already have a child. Premarital sex was extremely common and in many circles, it was completely normal. The movies aren't a good source of your understanding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?I know I didn’t say “physical” fear in my original comment, I just said “fear.” But when you’re 11 years old and an older man starts shouting obscenities at you on the street, what you feel as a child IS physical fear. I thought that was implied. And again, if a man has a long history of getting abused by women, he’s got all the justification to be wary of women. It’s just not reality that almost every man you know has experienced that across his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Yes, in fact, the word promiscuous is much much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Oh now you’re walking it back. So you don’t call women that, you just think it. And when you’re around other men, you say it because you know it’s derogatory but your boys won’t call you out for it. Classic enabling sexist behavior amongst men. You know when men call women whores behind their back, it’s still sexist, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:04 PM |
| 0 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Something reasonable that indicates that you’re not a sociopath. You do realize that it’s entirely not normal to just say whatever comes to mind about another person just because you feel like it, right? Like…no one is going to stop you, but no one is going to like you or respect you. There’s countless instances where it’s not the right thing to do to say whatever you’re thinking about a person. You understand that, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:54 AM |
| 0 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.It’s…literally facts. I don’t know what else to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:52 AM |
| 0 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Oh so it’s justified to say whatever derogatory thought comes to mind about anyone because it’s a “description”? You can’t possibly be this obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:40 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Ok and? The insult is still degrading. It’s still intended to hate on women (not just that specific women but all women who share the same experiences). I didn’t say men should stop using the term to specific women. I said they should stop using the term, full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:37 AM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Victim blaming at its finest. That’s like saying that it’s bad to fat shame, but it’s fat people’s responsibility to get their bullies to stop fat shaming them by losing weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:58 AM |
| 0 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that we are sleeping around more than in past societies… Humanity has a long history of extreme promiscuity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:54 AM |
| -1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.That’s not what I said. It’s perfectly fine to reject a woman for having lots of partners before you. A mature man would simply walk away and politely decline. An insecure man lashes out and hurls derogatory insults like “ran-through” explicitly to degrade her. That’s the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:53 AM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.lol it’s not shocking in the slightest. That doesn’t mean it isn’t completely hypocritical. Again, and I can’t believe I have to keep saying this, but men can reject women for any reason. It’s not the rejection that is the issue. It is the label meant only to insult and demean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:59 AM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You’re really going to commit to “insecure” as being only ever thrown in men’s faces? Really? What about women who wear makeup and are accused of being insecure of their “real” faces? Or women who are accused of being insecure about their own body count and not telling others about it? Or women who date guys who “simp” for them, being called insecure for wanting the attention? It’s everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:58 AM |
| 6 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.But you’re justifying the insults in the name of “we’re allowed to rant”. So even thought YOU claim to not do it, you apparently think it’s okay for other men to. Is that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:55 AM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Then why don't you say, "my life sucks because I want to have sex and I haven't yet"? Why do you have to insult women for accessing sex, something that you clearly want? Is your logic that when things are considered "issues", it's a free pass to say whatever the fuck, but when it's "easy" then you're not allowed to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:44 AM |
| 7 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.oh, absolutely. Women who insult men's virginities and heights are being needlessly cruel and should stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.My issue is with the misogynistic insult upheld only by a thin double standard and originating mostly from jealousy. There’s nothing wrong with being jealous, but the let it out in this way, specifically when those actions are not actively harming you or anyone else… Some people deserve to be insulted. But women who are minding their own business and sleeping around are not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:17 AM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Why don’t they show their disapproval by not dating those women and leaving it at that? That’s not enough for them though is it? They have to lash out. And they lash out because they are insecure and jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:06 AM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.10/10 no notes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.100%. There is this assumption that a woman who has access to a guy that they perceive is hotter than them automatically translates to her having a high body count. I also hardly doubt that any of these men who use this term would even think of asking her what her body count is if they were presented with a real opportunity to have casual sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Well, I don’t agree with you, at least you’re consistent! Which is refreshing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 12:00 AM |
| 7 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.The men who enjoy casual sex with women, and then call them ran– through or even worse than the men who say it while projecting jealousy. That’s just called a blatant double standard. Also, I don’t know how much clearer I can get, But men are allowed to reject women for any reason, including because she has slept with other people before him. The rejection is not the issue. The issue is the use of this term. Like a woman can reject you because she thinks you’re too short. But if she is calling y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:53 PM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.OK, I agree? With everything except calling a man insecure. Being secure or insecure is not a gendered thing. The point of my post isn’t to say that any insult that you say to a woman is sexist. It is that this particular term is sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:50 PM |
| 2 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Then why the fuck are you arguing with me? That’s the whole point of my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:42 PM |
| 4 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Don’t you think you should be more worried about the virgin woman wanting to experience sex with other guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:41 PM |
| 4 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.lol then what so do you make of the not insignificant number of men who come to Reddit constantly to proclaim that they are bitter about not having access to casual sex, “teen love,” and “fun”? And that because of this their lives are essentially over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:41 PM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Do those women have a derogatory way of talking about men who have a high N count? If so, then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:30 PM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.How many partners does it take for you to call a woman "ran-through"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:25 PM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Of course it's not wrong to reject anyone for any reason. It's not the rejection that's the issue. It's the use of the term and its derogatory nature. It's hypocritical, especially when the men who use it are actually just jealous that the women are living life exactly as they'd want to if they were if their position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:24 PM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You're assuming that time doesn't exist. At any point, a man who has not had sex with a woman can become a man who has had sex. Just because he hasn't had sex before doesn't mean he will continue to not have sex forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:23 PM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You're absolutely welcome to not date anyone you don't want to date. That's not the issue I have. The issue I have is with the term "ran-through" which is sexist and needlessly insulting. When men insult a woman who is doing the very thing he wishes he could do, then it's beyond jealously. It's a double-standard. It's hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:22 PM |
| 4 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Has very little to do with believing dicks are ruinous. If sleeping with a man causes a woman's value to lower, then how are dick's not the thing that ruins the woman? Men have skirted accountability for too long. It takes two to tango. A hollow threat like 4B. Not hollow. Men who use terms like "ran-through" are less attractive to women, and are actively preventing women from sleeping with them. "She's ran through" is something men say to other men Then how do I know about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:20 PM |
| 5 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You can be promiscuous and be responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 16 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You and I both know that the men who refer to women as "ran-through" are not referring only to women who have slept with 100's of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:13 PM |
| 4 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.It is a threat when those men actively want a woman to sleep with them and women continue to choose not to. It's self-sabotage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:10 PM |
| 2 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.That's only true if you thinking having sex is reckless and irresponsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:07 PM |
| 2 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.How can it be unisex when "ran-through" very explicitly refers to a penis going into a vagina? It's literally in the name. I've never in my life heard anyone refer to men as being ran-through. Have you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:05 PM |
| 8 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Is it an empty threat? Or are the men who use terms like this already upset that women aren't sleeping with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Just because you have one aspect of you thats something doesnt define you. That's not what OP said. OP said you should sell your soul, which not only defines you, but is literally the whole essence of who you are. And like I said, yall throw that word around like the how the loose women I get with throw themselves around. Ah, okay, here's finally the evidence that this is all a projection. I feel sorry for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Nah I don’t buy it. Winning sports games and getting paid millions for it is a job. Wanting sexual validation from strangers is a desire born from being needy for others’ approval. That is the definition of insecurity. You are not secure in yourself. You need external validation in order to feel secure about yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Explain how selling your soul for validation from strangers isn’t evidence of insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Uh what? People statistically are more likely to date people in their own socio-economic circle, and the amount of equal earning (and women as breadwinner) households is only rising. That means that women are marrying men who make the same or even less than them in increasingly greater and greater numbers. Men are less useful for their money than ever before. The real truth is that it’s actually not impressive anymore to only bring money to the table. Women who are earning a lot are rejecting me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.Well yes, men often pushback on the idea that they all only want to fuck women, as opposed to date them and have an actual romance. I do believe men when they say they want more than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 05:05 AM |
| 2 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.What side? I’m on the “side” that believes that there are many many men who would want to date us, exactly as i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:51 AM |
| 2 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.It is because people dont use their partners and take them for granted in 100% similar ways. Isn't this obvious? So confirmed, you can't be bothered to name any other examples besides paying. I've given you so many opportunities, but you continue to not name any. I know you cant empathize because you're likely the one who does the expecting as a woman. If you were to tally up the amount of $ spent on meals between me and my partner, I outspend him 2-1. Nice try though. There arent that many, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:31 AM |
| 5 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.Okay, you still have only said a concrete thing that he pays for, which is dates. "In different ways" is not an answer. WHICH different ways? I'm starting to think that the only thing you really mean is that you don't like how men are more likely to be expected to pay for dates. And this paying for dates is the sole basis of your entire argument about men not caring. Okay...yes, if men "don't care" about losing out on the chance to date women who think paying for dates is a deal breaker, then th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 03:54 AM |
| 2 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.Okay, but you barely answered my question. HOW would that man be "used and taken for granted" in this situation? Just money? A man pays for a few dates and suddenly he's a walking ATM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 03:42 AM |
| 5 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.If a man meet's a woman's standards completely, then she will want to date him. How would that man be "used and taken for granted" in this situation? If he cares about dating her, that's great because she would also want to date him, given that he ticks all the boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 03:30 AM |
| -1 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.And when women see that a man cares too much, they don't reciprocate by also caring too much about men, instead they take advantage of men who care too much, either consciously or unconsciously. It's not so much about the man caring too much, it's more that we understand three things to be true: 1) there are many, many available men who would be eager to date us, 2) out of those men, there are some who actually do meet our standards, and 3) many of us would prefer to be single than with someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 03:16 AM |
| 10 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)Do you think the OC meant compared to 20 years ago? I don’t. How is it easier to be a woman today than it was 20 years ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:31 PM |
| 27 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)It’s also the easiest time to be a man but there’s no shortage of men complaining on this sub about how much they hate their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.I mean, this is going off tangent from what OP is talking about, but you’ve already stated moving the goal posts. Now it’s not enough to get hit on or complimented, but it has to be from your preferred women? Women get hit on all the time from guys who aren’t their type, but you’re saying that that doesn’t count now. Also, almost no one gets their #1 choice. Not women. Not men. We’re not all super models here. Honestly, it sounds like you have relatively similar experiences as women do in the da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.And that’s valid to want to give up on dating because you don’t ever receive compliments. That’s not what OP is saying though. OP literally said sell your soul in order to get compliments about your physique. Sounds like you and I actually agree on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.You’re welcome to make that fantasy a reality. We all know you won’t though. I personally would love it if random men stopped hollering at me in the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:58 PM |
| -2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.No, I get that. I understand that men don’t get complimented as much as they should. And there’s this nervousness about being perceived as gay if guys compliment each other—that’s a different topic entirely. But my main point is like…there’s a whole lot more to life than getting complimented on your physique. And it’s certainly not something to revolve your entire life around or sell your soul for as OP claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:29 PM |
| -2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.What is with the male obsession with being desirable? Like…I get that it’s nice to know someone likes how you look physically, but to say you should sell your soul for it just to get validation from complete strangers? Thats extreme and perhaps the most insecure thing I’ve ever heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.But you just cherry picked "icks" that match your narrative. What about the icks that are like, "he called himself an alpha," "he doesn't wash his ass", "he called someone gay as an insult", etc.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 11:23 PM |
| 15 | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessThe issue with TRP isn’t that it’s selfish, it’s that the movement is largely defined by the manosphere and every toxic sexist slimy pick up artist grifter that get rich from vulnerable men. Every moment is inherently “selfish” in that its goal is to improve the life of the people identified in the movement. BLM movement is trying to make life better for black people. Feminism is trying to make life better for women. Etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?And you are a great example why men get laughed at when shouting misandrist as if it's anything like being called a misogynist. Your argument is not sound. You just call anyone who doesn't agree with you a misandrist, which is not helping your case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?That doesn't matter. What do you mean it doesn’t matter? One comment ago, you challenged that individual experience counts. Now you’re saying it doesn’t? What matters can a man use them to do what you do with men? I already said that there is justification. And that gatekeeps men out of the discussion Sorry, but it doesn't work that way. I'm talking about a specific phenomenon where women are conditioned to fear men because of experiences from a very young age where women feel physically threate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:58 PM |
| – | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Taking it out on random people who are not responsible is entirely different from exerting caution around others based on past experiences. You are absolutely free to take caution around women to act in such a way to prevent yourself from being in a position where you could be falsely accused. Women are absolutely allowed to be wary of men and take precaution around them based on past experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?Of course individual experience counts. I just haven’t heard hardly any men describe this as their experience. Physical fear is what causes women to be wary of men, so that’s why I’m using it as a parallel. Again, if you want to open it up to something else, we can, it’s just not what I was originally talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?First of all, men are not called misogynistic for being wary of women after experiencing physical fear of women. If there’s justification, there’s justification. But don’t pretend that almost every man in your life has experienced physical fear from women from a young age. I’m happy to be convinced otherwise, I just have not seen data or enough men come forward with this claim to believe it to be true. As for your other questions, we can debate them if you want, but that’s not what my comment is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 04:24 PM |
| 21 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?I mean, it depends on what you consider misandrist. I’ve been called misandrist on this sub (and only on this sub), but it seems that the reason is always that I’m simply in a debate and the man arguing with me is upset that I don’t agree with him. For example, I consider women’s general wariness of men to be warranted due to our lived experiences feeling fear from a man’s actions starting from a young age. Some men believe that makes me a misandrist. I do not. And if you, OP, think that it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Can women truly love?Where am I infantalizing women? I’m empowering them by speaking aloud the things that generations of women have been forced to keep quiet. Saying that men want sex doesn’t mean that women don’t want sex. Why do you keep speaking as if I’m saying that? And why do you have an inability to argue without making weird mockeries of the person you’re arguing with with zero substance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Can women truly love?I didn’t say forcing. If a man wants it, and isn’t getting it, whether or not he is forcing it, it’s still him not getting something he wants. And again with a woman staying home—I never mentioned anything about forcing women to do it. I said WANTS. Every romantic relationship is transactional and should be reciprocal. But it isn’t also reciprocal and that’s when relationships fall apart. It’s the same thing about conditional love. Men love to bemoan how women’s love is conditional, while men’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Can women truly love?Alimony is vastly overused in examples of how men “get screwed” in divorce. Alimony is awarded when one person has had sacrificed years of their career for the household. Women who sacrifice their career in order for the man to have a family an a home life deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Can women truly love?If the woman is working then the man is going to lose even less money in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Can women truly love?Men bitch about transactional love while equally participating in transactional love, hence my original question. It doesn’t matter if sex is mutually beneficial—if a man isn’t receiving it when a woman doesn’t want to give it (which means its not mutually beneficial in that circumstance by the way) then he wants to leave. That’s a transaction. If a man wants a woman to stay home and raise his kids, that’s a transaction. If a man doesn’t want to be with a woman who is money obsessed and only wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Can women truly love?If the man isn’t providing in a marriage under an arrangement where he was expected to provide and she wasn’t expected to, then the woman absolutely has more to lose. He has (some) money to lose. She has no money at all, and receives some (often enough to survive for long) PLUS she has sacrificed any career advances for this arrangement. So it is nearly impossible for her to enter the job market and make a comfortable living for herself at her age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Can women truly love?OP said “use you for what you offer.” There was zero distinction between things that are mutually beneficial and things that aren’t. He specifically did not say “finances,” but you jumped to that because in your mind, that’s all that women care about. So who is doing the acrobatics here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.You're free to believe that men have been conditioned to fear false accusations by women. This in no way negates my claim that most women have been conditioned to physically fear men from a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 07:05 PM |
| 9 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Wouldn't expect you, a man, to understand the reality for women in any country. It should shock you how unaware you are of the female experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Oh, I'm not denying that. I'm certain that it does. In your case, you should be extra empathetic to women who have been taught to fear men, since you understand what it's like to fear women from a young age. The only difference is that you grew up to be stronger than the woman who beat you. Women don't grow up to be stronger than men that they fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.USA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.This is actually really interesting, because I was only considering severe beatings in this. But you're right, when you zoom out to things like slapping or hitting, it's more likely to be women. Obviously, women are more likely to be the sole parent when one parent dips, so that also explains it. Thanks for sharing, it definitely changed my perspective. (I don't think this at all counteracts my original point, which is that the overwhelming majority of women learn to experience fear from men fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Can women truly love?The fact that you’re even asking the question you did is indicative of your deep seated issues. That’s like asking if men can feel emotions. Like…how do you not automatically understand that believing all women do not have the ability to literally love is fucked up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Not nearly as much as men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Can women truly love?However OP is defining it is how I’m defining it. Whatever OP means by “cut you off” is what I mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:48 PM |
| 8 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Clearly you haven’t experienced getting verbally sexually harassed in public when you were a child. It’s terrifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Can women truly love?Just like women wouldn’t have a choice but to work it out with men who aren’t rich or who aren’t providing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:46 PM |
| 11 | Can women truly love?lol yeah all women just magically have no idea how to love. You sound actually crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:47 AM |
| 12 | Can women truly love?Then don’t date women. We can love. Maybe we just don’t want to love YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:40 AM |
| 25 | Can women truly love?Would you stay in a relationship with a woman who stops having sex with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:39 AM |
| 10 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.When was the last time you observed a female child living her life? My guess is when you were a child. And when you were a child you didn’t notice those things because they didn’t happen to you. It sounds like you personally don’t interact with scumbags, which is great. But nearly every woman you know, without exaggeration, has experienced fear due to a man starting from a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time?There’s a ton of ways men can be cute. Having a nice face is definitely a common one. His was…I don’t know how to describe it. He had a lean face, long, down turned eyes, full lips, large forehead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:26 AM |
| 31 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.At what age have young men typically been made to physically fear for their life by women? Don’t even bother answering because all know this isn’t even a close comparison. Men are afraid of other men, not other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 12:56 AM |
| 16 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.So because Hollywood decided to be less racists and sexist….women who have experienced harassment by men in real life act like they have been harassed by men in real life? Do I have that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 12:53 AM |
| 53 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.What the hell is a sensitivity focus group? You’re right—young women are conditioned to have a negative view of men. When I was around 11, I was cat called by a grown man while I was walking down the street. Men condition us to have negative views of men. It’s lived experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:58 PM |
| 2 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadIn a general sense for Science, women mature earlier than men. It’s literally been studied in neurological terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadSo instead of explaining what you DO mean, you just respond with vague negative statements? Explain yourself or admit you have no idea what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time?He was my height exactly. 5’8”. I do not know how to answer what a face and body “stat” is. He was lean. I thought his face was cute obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time?Best relationship for me was one where I met him at a party of a mutual friend. I told him about a concert I was playing in a few weeks and he actually showed up to support me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadhttps://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8461056/ https://biologyinsights.com/why-do-females-mature-faster-than-males/ https://academic.oup.com/cercor/article/25/6/1477/299218 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201312/scientists-identify-why-girls-often-mature-faster-boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadOh so when he uses the word “avoid” and “go for,” he just means rejecting and picking men as friends? Give me a break. It always comes down to sex. He’s saying quite clearly that men create their entire personality around whether or not they have had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 01:33 PM |
| 3 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadClassic. At least you’re admitting it—men can’t be mature or emotionally intelligent without women fucking them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 03:28 AM |
| 6 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadYeah, imagine how immature and emotionally stunted that makes men. Crazy, right? Men like you always think you’re NOT in the category of “super phenomenally stupid choices in dating.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 03:24 AM |
| 6 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadWomen grow up so much earlier than men can possibly even imagine. Women mature earlier than men by many years—science has literally proved this. Women deal with pain on a regular basis from a young age. Women are taught by men to fear men from a disgustingly young age. Men have no idea how the world forces women to grow up so, so young. Even under privileged circumstances. I come from a well off family. I was first sexually harassed on the street by an older man when I was 11. I was told when I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 01:54 AM |
| – | Blue Pill is a CultDefine the blue pill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Vague language is necessary for women’s world viewLol says a guy who probably believes in the male loneliness epidemic, a term so generic and undefined that men can’t even agree what it means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Other than physical contact, there is no difference between a friendship and relationship.This is why there is a male loneliness epidemic. Your definition of a romantic partner with women’s experience with platonic friends, just without the sex. You’re right in that you don’t want to necessarily open up to your friends in EVERY way, but I would bet all my money that you don’t even come close to crossing the line. And neither do women who open up to their friends and as a result feel less lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 02:44 PM |
| 8 | What do you like about men?For me and my guy personally? I love that he’s fit but not too bulky. Also….big fan of his dick. Not gonna lie 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themDo you have a habit of not reading sentences to their completion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 02:37 AM |
| 5 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themSo you’re saying that women, who are the victims of said sexism and violence, have to take the high road, while the men who are actively sexist towards those women get “understanding” and shouldn’t be called out? What you are demonstrating here is that you think men should be shown compassion for lashing out and women should be criticized for reacting angrily to blatant sexism and violence. You as a man are perfectly capable of interceding for women who are on the receiving ends of that rhetoric… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themYou’re making the slimmest of distinctions between men wanting to fuck women and men wanting girlfriends, as if this makes your argument more morally sound. It’s pretty much the same thing. You’re saying without any ambiguity that when women don’t give men what men want romantically or sexually, men will turn sexist. Let me clear—that is MEN’s fault. Not women’s. Morally, you cannot blame women in any way for not giving men romantic or sexual attention. Rejecting men is not grounds for actively … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themYou just said the rejections come before the misogyny—you can’t be more clear. Your claim is that men don’t get pussy, and as a result they turn sexist. That is YOUR claim. You don’t like how I phrased it even though my meaning is exactly the same as yours. I just stated mine clearer and without the mask. I will state this again—I am bullying men who spew misogynistic garbage. If those men happen to be ugly and autistic, this is just a coincidence. If an ugly and autistic man did not spew misogy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Many here Post stuff that is simply just not TrueWhere have you read anyone here claiming that most young men are currently in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themAny reason to not date someone is valid. You don’t want to date an obese woman? Don’t. You don’t want to date someone whose favorite color is purple? Don’t. I, for example, don’t want to date men who listen to Joe Rogan or voted for Trump. Or who are shorter than me. Valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themLOL so you’re saying men turn to sexism when women don’t fuck them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themYou can not date any one for any reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themThen those women are mean and they shouldn’t bully you. That’s not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themYeah, when the thing they say is that they think women should be forced to have sex with men or that women who are murdered by men were asking for it—no gymnastics needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themAny man who is upset at how little attention he gets from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themWhy don’t they have to prove they have any kindness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themI’m not proud of it. I just do it. Because, like you said, it’s our duty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:00 AM |
| 7 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themCongratulations. I do not bully them, and men rarely ever threaten me personally. Usually I’m making fun of men who generally call for violence or oppression against women. Feel free to link a comment where a man didn’t deserve to be bullied and I bullied him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themI bully them AFTER they call for violence against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themThe men who I bully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themNah, no goalposts moved. More often than not, men’s standards for what is considered misogynistic garbage is limited to “literally threatening to rape and kill women.” In fact, men are creative in all of the ways they say horrible things about women that don’t include those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themMen should have higher standards and more dealbreakers. But men never ever want to hear that. “Then we’ll get nothing.” That’s always the response I hear when I recommend that men have higher standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themThey don’t hold back when calling for violence against women. Why should I give them any kindness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:14 PM |
| 12 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themI pay taxes. I don’t kill or rape people. Societal duty done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:14 PM |
| 20 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themI love bullying men who spew misogynistic garbage and who complain about not getting pussy. They need to be called out for their horrible toxic beliefs. Men who have an issue with that are themselves toxic. I’m more than happy to help men who don’t exhibit gross entitlement to sex and who don’t think women are exempt from struggles in life or the dating market. Men ask for advice and then complain when self improvement is suggested. All we can do is shrug at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:53 PM |
| 8 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Yeah, words matter. Who woulda thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:43 PM |
| 18 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Not only are they filtering, but men are terrified of saying the wrong thing to their friends in case it gets construed as ✨GAY✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?I don’t get pleasure from it but I won’t change what I want. If you aren’t the person I’m looking for, you’re not compatible with me. Egg shell walk all you want or don’t. I won’t date you if I don’t like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:57 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Why do you say all of that as if I would someone think it’s okay for women to lie, but not men? Women shouldn’t lie. Men shouldn’t lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:33 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.In many way, yes. If you want to date someone you should talk about your past. I don’t think a play by play is necessary. But something like what your sexual history has contained and whether or not you’ve seen a hooker are all important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:29 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.To me, you’re less of a human for seeing a prostitute than you are for being a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:27 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.That’s because “losers” make it sound like their life is OVER because they didn’t experience teen love or casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:35 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Lol I rarely hooked up with 10’s. I found all most of those men to be not my type and annoying. Arrogant. Don’t get me wrong I also went on first dates with mid guys who I thought I’d give a chance and some of them were absolute arrogant pricks too. So I just went home alone. The guy I ended up doing a FWB with for like 8 months was a sleep deprived skinny little cat dude with huge eye bags. Where did I say anything suggesting that 80% of men are unmarriagable? Is this you trying to make a bizar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:33 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Don’t get me wrong, it’s my biggest dream that men stop looking to women to sexually validate them. I’m just saying that men who are looking for that won’t find it from a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:25 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.I believe hiding that information is a major violation of trust. The guys you know who have hid that from their wives and girlfriends are lying through omission about something that could very well be a deal breaker for them. How sad for their wives and girlfriends. You can not date someone for any reason. As a man you can not date women with high body counts. As a woman you can not date a man who has seen a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.The only time I really think it’s a good idea to see prostitutes is if you have zero desire or intention to date someone in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:21 PM |
| 6 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Mmmm hate to break it to you, but being an escort is not a normal activity. By definition you are not normal if you are an escort. Most prostitutes don’t do it for the love of it, they do it because they’re put into extreme positions that leave them little other option. And either way, the average prostitute is not going to protect you from drama any less than having a ONS will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.You said women always manage to make it sound so lame. So I asked what’s lame about it, and you randomly started talking about not being gay, which was not even remotely related to anything we were talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Uh no? Will you answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.You think well adjusted regular women are becoming escorts? Or that well adjusted regular men are seeing them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.LOL like having a long term arrangement with an escort doesn’t also frequently involve love hate drama filled shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.What’s lame about it? If you don’t have any experience with it, just say so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Uhhh just because you wouldn’t die for your hookup doesn’t mean you’re not experiencing a genuine connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:46 AM |
| 12 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Negatives: you don’t get the validation you’re so desperate for because you paid her rather than her wanting to naturally; you don’t experience the genuine connection with another person; a majority of women you want to date in the future will consider this a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemhttps://www.researchgate.net/publication/8512256_Unreported_cases_of_domestic_violence_against_women_Towards_an_epidemiology_of_social_silence_tolerance_and_inhibition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:40 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemIf your point didn’t prove my point, then you’d have a valid argument. If you don’t have a valid argument then that’s called being wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI didn’t say you were a part of the elite class. I said you being able to disengage gender from politics is because you have a certain privilege. And that’s true. Again, proving my point. Men are so sensitive and incensed by being told they have a certain privilege that they turn to violence and fascism. That’s the “slight” according to you. Being told you have a certain privilege. L. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:38 PM |
| 4 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemSame for women. It’s underreported for them too. So? People who are violently abused should report it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:26 PM |
| 4 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemIt’s only from a place of privilege that a man can claim that Trump’s ascendancy has nothing to do with gender. Do you think Epstein had nothing to do with gender too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 7 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemOP brought it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:07 PM |
| 4 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemHe literally didn’t win the popular vote of women. A 2 second google search can so easily prove this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:07 PM |
| 5 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemIf there was a mass trend of scorned women drugging and robbing men, it would be top news and everyone would be aware of it. There is in fact a mass trend of men drugging women, and that’s why everyone knows about it as a real thing. Lastly, as with pretty much every single post on this sub that calls for “compassion and empathy” for men’s dating woes, it inevitably comes down to one thing—they want women to fuck them. Men like OP want compassion for views and posts that often deserve being call… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:03 PM |
| 5 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemCall it compassion, pussy, whatever. It’s still a fact that men, when experiencing hardships caused by the other gender, lash out in far more violent and immoral ways than women do. And it’s women who, when they experience the most extreme form of well documented hardships caused by men, notably do NOT become killers, physical abusers, or violent criminals. Notice how men by and large do not experience those things at the hands of women. And yet they can’t handle it. Tell me, which one is worse—… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 01:46 PM |
| 8 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemWhite women who voted for that turd can get fucked. They’re already in the fafo stage anyways. The majority of women and especially YOUNG women voted overwhelmingly against fascism. The gap between young male and female voters is huge. And it’s the young women who are the ones on Reddit, not the old conservative ones. And besides, those white women don’t become murderers and pedos and rapists. Men are more violent, more dangerous, and more of a threat to society in every way. That’s literally a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:58 AM |
| 0 | What's something you've personally seen a man do, that's also something pretty much any man can do, that made him significantly more desirable to women?Why does it matter if it’s something he previously did not do? There isn’t a cheat code to making women attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:40 AM |
| 33 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemIf the solution is equality and treating people better, why do men when experiencing a lack of sexual validation from women or whatever you want to define as online bullying, vote in pedo racist fascists who fuck literally everyone over including themselves—but when basically every woman experiences harassment from dangerous men from a young age, as well as sexual violence and literal murder by men, they don’t turn on society and become fascist supporters? Why do women have a better ability to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doHaving $ is a positive trait because it means you will be able to contribute to a financially secure household. The vast majority of women who make $80k are not only accepting of men who make $300k. The vast majority of women who make $80k will end up with a man who also makes around $80k. The majority of women who make $300k will end up with a man who also makes around that much. People date within their socio-economic circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doWhat do you mean by “provide”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Drama keeps most relationships alive.A very small percentage of women actually love drama. Women don’t love drama any more than men love drama in their relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?Women initiate most divorces and break ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Drama keeps most relationships alive.False. There needs to be constant effort to demonstrate your love. That is different than drama. Drama is a great way to get a woman to break up with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Drama keeps most relationships alive.Some do. Many don’t. Women leave for many valid reasons, and men always seem to be blindsided. More men need to be aware of their lack of contribution to the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Drama keeps most relationships alive.Complacency with a status quo that devalues her time, causes her to pick up more responsibility, and be a mother to her partner IS bad and she should seek out someone better. Men love to use “drama” as a cop out for their poor behavior or as some sinister reason for why she broke up with them, rather than the more common truth. The women got sick of your shit and now she’s leaving to be with an actually good guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:20 AM |
| – | Women can't start having sex on the first dateAs someone who’s put out on the first date a fair number of times, it was neither option. Obviously I was pretty worried about safety regarding sex so I made sure they were clean, and we used condoms, AND I was on an IUD. And I wasn’t manipulated by Chad. They were just regular guys who I thought were hot enough to want to sleep with, and I had no intention of getting into a relationship with any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:04 AM |
| 30 | There is nothing sufficient proving bluepillBlue pill only exists within the confines of red pill. Red pillers named blue pillers and defined the blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 01:48 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menYeah no shit. But why would women ever want to lower to their standards just for men to get their dicks wet for their own sense of validation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:21 AM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menIs the utility in the room with us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:18 AM |
| – | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?It’s not complicated. Some people don’t end with who they want to. Some people do. You think “logic” means “if I didn’t experience it myself it can’t be true.” And that is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:18 AM |
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