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They both finished high school. Both have jobs. They make average salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:23 PM
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Nah dude, both my bros have been approached by women and they are as average as can be. They are 5’5” but even then that’s below average height for Latinos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:09 PM
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Agree. If men want to optimize their options, they need to be as diligent as gay men when it comes to self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:24 PM
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Regular nice man is probably thinking he’s a catch while gooning to instathots that look nothing like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:17 PM
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What you do is a reflection of who you are. It’s also more permanent Beauty ends pretty soon in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:23 AM
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Eh… I’ve had plastic surgery, had my hair chemically straightened, went through expensive acne treatment, paid for my own orthodontics, got laser hair removal and electrolysis on my face, have to watch what I eat constantly, considering getting a boob job, get pedicures, tweeze my eyebrows every day (they’re thick). Yet I still attract bald, chubby guys, oh…and married men for some reason. Thinking about not giving a shit anymore since the “juice isn’t worth the squeeze” If I was completely asex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:16 AM
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“This means short/unattractive men can have an opportunity at a beautiful woman.” So this is the goal. It was never about getting someone on your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:33 AM
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Game is also about knowing your limitations. A 5’8” balding dude shouldn’t really be going after a baddie. He should be going after his match.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:42 AM
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Yea, that’s why there’s the Reddit joke that people often say “my mom thinks I’m handsome” and why it’s always used as a joke. Most people understand your family members see you differently than the rest of the world. I think men who don’t understand this are being willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:53 PM
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A lot of men have not been confronted with a true ego death, and that’s what they need. Including handsome,rich, successful men. To be angry at the right of another to bodily autonomy is like throwing a temper tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:12 PM
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Some of these guys are pathetic and ruled by their appendage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:04 PM
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But aren’t men the primary selectors? I keep getting selected by married men. Single men don’t even look my way. Should I feel bad about not selecting these married men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:36 AM
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Generally a woman (like myself) who is against sex work and their patrons will be against promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:44 PM
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Yes and men are attracted to thots and corn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:11 PM
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Funny thing is men are more likely to remarry after a spouse dies than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:43 PM
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Yall just ignored the fact that I tried talking multiple times to him and he gave such dry answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:55 AM
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I’d like to see what kind of women you go for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:54 AM
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I liked a guy for the longest time. I would smile at him and give him prolonged eye contact, something I avoid doing with guys I don’t like. I would talk to him but he was very short/cold with me, so I stopped. My friend told him that someone she knew was into him and he said it could be messy to date someone you work with (which I agree in many ways). However, two years later I found out that he kissed/dated another of our coworkers who was still with her boyfriend at the time. So apparently I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:23 PM
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Well,, I think according to her analogy, she’s a super attractive woman so her experience is different than mine. I’m only terrified of the meth heads that hang out at the gas station. It’s safe to say most women don’t feel like her cause we are average or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:57 AM
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Human communication is more complicated and is not just comprised of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:41 PM
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I heavily police what I say in my life too. Most of the time I want to tell a lot of people to shut the fuck up or get the hell away from me and never speak to me. But I work with these people so I have to filter it lol it’s not exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:53 PM
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Stoic face Veiny hands Wide shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:07 PM
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I’m not dating anyone and I’m single, to me it just says he doesn’t like her all that much. I’m pretty sure I’d help any of my family members and my best friend in a situation like that, but also…you never really know unless it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:25 AM
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Yes. I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:34 AM
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They do now. Married men who are way older lol… When I was 26 they didn’t because I had acne and I was a little pudgy. I also didn’t know how to style myself properly. I have a small lip deformity that also can be off putting once you get closer to my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:22 AM
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My whole life. When I was 26 I started hanging out with another female coworker who also had never slept with anyone and sort of bonded over that and never being in a relationship. We started hanging out with one of my male coworkers and one day he vented to us that before his current girlfriend, he hadn’t slept with anyone for two years. He thought we would be flabbergasted like we would be shocked. My other female friend and I just looked at each other lol like try your whole life. Of course w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:03 AM
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I’ve never thought of a person as low value. I always think, hmm, I’m not attracted to him. Or, I don’t feel inclined to spend time with a person. Or, that person would likely bring me a lot a chaos in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:33 PM
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**Confident, good looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:12 PM
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Oh I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:18 PM
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Yep, this is going to sound a bit extra in today’s climate but I want someone I can merge souls with, not just a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:59 AM
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I only learned about him in college. It’s not part of the K-12 curriculum in the USA. Descartes, Kant, Socrates, Plato, Nietzsche, Sartre, Du Beauvoir are part of it. Wonder why he wasn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:20 PM
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Are you mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:29 AM
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It’s like the dudes that say that if they were a woman, they’d be an OF model.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:14 PM
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Why wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:32 AM
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Yea, children of Mexican immigrants. But even then, the few white/black women/non-immigrant women I know didn’t really sleep around all that much. There’s one I know that slept with 7 guys (which I hear is a bit above average) before the guy she married, then another woman who’s only ever been with her husband, then another who only was with 3 guys. I myself am a virgin because I hardly am ever attracted to anyone. The type of guys I’m into are very quiet and I’m quiet/shy too so it doesn’t work…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:26 AM
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Not in my social circle. Most of the women in my circuit slept with three or less men. They’re all married now or still in long term relationships with the same dude they got with at age 22-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:52 PM
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A man out of my league has never been into me that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:50 AM
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Yeah, we all do in public. But I take my mask off at home, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:12 AM
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Of the women I know, one or two had a hoe phase, two have always been hoes. Majority only had one or two serious relationships until they married. Then there’s me…nothing at all—I’m an outlier for sure though, I’m picky AF and not super attractive either :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:48 PM
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I had two uncles that died from Alcoholism. One of them was married to the first woman that aggressively pursued him. They had two kids. My uncle was an alcoholic because he had traumas that we might not know about. The woman he married has a great relationship with the rest of my uncle’s family. She worked full time while he was unemployed most of his life. My other uncle was limerent over another woman other than his own wife. His wife also pursued him and they married. He was also very unhapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:25 PM
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Why would the hot women get with average men though? Are we talking only hot women or women in general? What about ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:39 AM
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“Women” You should not want those women anyway if you are a good man yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:52 PM
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Yeah, they don’t care if the woman is a good woman as long as she’s hot too. Bad people go for bad people, who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:41 AM
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A friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:30 AM
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I feel empathy for men because of the expectation that they go to war. I feel empathy when they are told they should be the sole provider or that they should make more than their partner. I feel empathy for men who feel lonely because they can’t get a relationship knowing that they would be a good partner. I don’t feel empathy for men who can’t get laid and/or want to be players.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:50 PM
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Most? Idk about that. Also, it’s usually really hot women who can demand that, especially if they’re “childree.” If they’re what you consider your dating pool, then perhaps you need to adjust your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:12 PM
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Nope because I would actively trying to get them out of the lifestyle and many would not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:40 AM
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Y’all are so obtuse. Those campaigns were about self love and acceptance. No one was forcing you to like fat ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:30 PM
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Bro if you’re not doing anything creepy, then there’s no shame in working with children. I had great male teachers, coaches too. Were there a few bad apples that were eventually sent to jail…yes, but they were doing creepy things…idk, like taking 12 year old girls to his house without supervision, or taking pictures of boys underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:12 PM
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Did you just pull those percentages out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:03 PM
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And honestly, who cares if humanity goes extinct? Earth will still be here, thriving like before humans became came to fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:19 AM
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That last part is horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:26 PM
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Why? Most women like to live a peaceful and tranquil life. Drama can teach you lessons through others’ experiences. Also, we realize reality TV is mostly scripted. I don’t even watch reality tv but I do like movies with drama. I know it’s all fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:55 PM
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I’ve never watched Love Island, nor do I read romance books. I just don’t think it’s the equivalent to following instathots and paying for OF subscriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:54 PM
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He’s being disingenuous. Don’t even bother with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:16 PM
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Dumb take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:15 PM
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Nah, it’s more about the drama. Women love to see or hear about drama. It’s why we love telenovelas and dramatic tv shows, not because we fantasize about shallow relationships WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:13 PM
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In my 35 years of life, I’ve found that some of the most busted ass men will cheat, same applies to women. Could be a validation thing, could also be their level of horny and lack of ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:20 AM
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How old are you? Women have been talked about the same exact way for millenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:29 AM
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It could also be that women are more likely to not want to disfigure themselves and/or cause someone to find them in a traumatic way. That’s just my two cents but then again, we’d have to ask those who’ve only attempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:48 PM
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I think it’s a matter of perspective. I’ve always thought that you have to nurture relationships. Sometimes you get nurture right back from others and sometimes you don’t. For example, I spend lots of time with both my parents while a lot of men might find that weird. I noticed women expend more time helping out their aging parents (at least in my culture) I spend time listening to my friend’s dreams, aspirations, I treat her kiddos well, so she reciprocates in her own way. With my siblings, I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:45 PM
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She’s talking about the Bay Area, don’t act like the entire west coast of the United States isn’t far more progressive than the rest of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:31 PM
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Is this from that OKcupid study where the women also tended to message guys they rated below average whereas the men kept messaging the mostly above average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:25 PM
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Yeah, like I don’t get approached because I’m not really cute but I do get approached by older men 10+ years and that kind of sucks but I’m not yelling at the void that I don’t want to be approached. Every woman is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:15 AM
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Watch Pride and Prejudice (2005)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:02 AM
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Probably not even on his radar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:29 AM
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Why the denial though? Obese man decided to pursue me. Ok, that means that he chose to pursue me instead of an obese woman. Doesn’t that make him a selector?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:36 PM
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Yeah, men literally select who they’re going to pursue. In general, it starts with the man pre-selecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:30 PM
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Ok so here’s the thing. The type of women who are on Tinder nowadays are a subset of a type of woman. Tinder is known as a hook up app, which rewards shallowness, both in men and women. Also, most dating apps skew majority male, hence it gives the illusion of less women and therefore less variability. In real life, the type of women you are physically attracted to could also be a certain demographic. Women who are hyperfeminine tend to have very specific interests. You need someone who is pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:55 PM
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Eh, but the guy in question is also 50 years old while the girl is 35. Most women prefer a guy to be within 8 yrs or so older. If we’re talking pills, I I’d say it’s pretty pink pilled considering he isn’t pining for a woman his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:13 AM
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But guys do the eeew thing too. I’ve seen it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:26 AM
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Maybe that was her boyfriend and he saw the interaction from the sidelines?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:24 AM
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Women feel the same way often, however, I don’t think a woman is likely to replace him, singlehood is often more appealing than dealing with someone who doesn’t really provide what you need in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:48 PM
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Most parents/siblings, relatives of a woman would rather see her as a Walmart employee/construction worker/fast food worker than a sex worker, right? There’s a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:09 PM
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Yeah, if all he watches is big boobs or only black chicks when I’m Latina and have small boobs. He can go find himself a woman like that. I’d rather him not watch it while we’re in a relationship, but that’s his choice to make and I won’t force him to be with me. Obviously anything illegal is zero tolerance and anything involving violence is a massive red flag for me. Ever heard of Gisele Pelicot?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:18 PM
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I’ve never actually “started” dating so it’s not like I ever “quit” The only guys who ever show interest are red flags galore. I’ve only been attracted to very few guys. Granted I’ve never done online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:43 PM
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Didn’t the same study also say that women still messaged the guys below the 70%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:36 PM
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Hmm, I guess we’ll have to disagree on that. I’m not entirely sure I can sleep with someone I’m not attracted to. I don’t know how men experience attraction because I’ve never been a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:02 PM
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Meh, that’s assuming you have no agency when it comes to generosity, whereas in attraction—well, it’s hard to negotiate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:06 PM
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I don’t know if it’s just my social circle but my best friend is married to a guy 4 months older, my other friend is married to a guy 6 years younger, other friend in relationship with a guy 8 years younger, other friend, guy is 5 months older. My dad is 10 years older than my mom. So maybe it was more common back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:17 AM
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have your preferences dude. I don’t get how women shame your preferences? You like young women? Cool, have at it. You like big tits? It’s not like porn doesn’t have millions of big boob women… If what you’re referring to is the body acceptance movement, that’s not about attraction at all. It’s about seeing ourselves beyond our bodies. It’s not about what men want. There are standards I wish men didn’t have but I’m not going to fault them for having those standards. There’s a reason for their sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:39 PM
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Gay men marry less and are more likely to have open marriages, which most women are not into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:09 PM
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If you’re single, that’s between you and your conscience—if you’re in a relationship, then I consider that cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:06 PM
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The women who go for these guys are in the same circles as these men. What do you care what these type of women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:48 PM
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Yes there is. Aaron Taylor Johnson and his old af wife get shit on in instagram because her creepy ass got with him as a teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:43 AM
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You’re projecting what men feel onto women. I am happier than I would be if I was with a guy I was “meh” about. I’m single, but I’m also never hooking up with anyone. I’m happy considering what I have, but I know that I’d be happier if I was in a relationship with someone I love. This doesn’t mean I’m currently unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:08 PM
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You say very attractive women. Are you expecting the same? You can’t take generalize to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:01 PM
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How do you know these women have a promiscuous past? I hate this narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:34 AM
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Shallow people will often find themselves surrounded by other shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:11 PM
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Omg, are you autistic? Why would you think the guys swiping right were serious? Bruh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:10 PM
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Not sure about online dating but I know that in real life men tend to have higher physical standards and low standards on behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:05 PM
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Yes! For me it was around 2007-2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:38 PM
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humans get punished by others in general regardless of whether they are good/bad or male/female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:21 AM
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Interesting. When I was a teen, i remember googling questions about men and what to do if I liked a boy, etc. Anyway, I came across the “bodybuilding” forums that were so prevalent back then. What I read there made me scared to talk to men romantically for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:15 AM
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Honestly, it does bother me, but I don’t say anything. I have no control over my age just a much as short guys have no control over their height, or ugly people over our looks. Date whoever you want. The only thing I will definitely advise is that a woman dating a man 10+ years older at least for long term will become a caretaker eventually. However, it’s not something I would ever even mention to people outside the internet. No one cares about your opinion when you’re a 35+ year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:21 PM
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I wouldn’t mind it. The only concern is that he might be using po*n too much all those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:13 PM
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Your wife is like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:01 PM
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Less likely to marry and many have open marriages anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:40 PM
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Other women under 35 have personalities but they might not want to show you their personality for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:38 PM
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I’m not pretty and I look like an ogre in selfies. I’m scared of dudes wanting to sleep with me and then discard because of the way I look. Pathetic at my age but I literally have no experience, so online dating terrifies me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:00 AM
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Attention is currency for attractive women. Many are bots though. Some of them are insta thots, and others are online because that’s where they can meet other attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:59 AM
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Nah, he was having a hard time getting over another girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:55 PM
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My bro’s best friend is the girl he’s going to marry. It happens but you don’t hear about it all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:44 PM
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My limited experience says it depends. I’m thinking of all the good and bad to average partners of family members, friends, and acquaintances—It’s mixed. I know a few “uggos” that cheated on their wives repeatedly with their neighbor/sex workers/co-worker. They also at one time or another yelled, had anger issues, and some raised their hands at them. The one really handsome guy I remember didn’t cheat on her but he got into drugs and it all went to hell after that. I had a friend who’s been marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:53 PM
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I think women are vetting a lot more these days, less marriages and less divorce overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:50 AM
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Indeed they do. My family member initiated divorce because her husband of 20 years cheated on her with a woman 20 years younger. Should she have not filed for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:16 PM
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I don’t think that this has been common at all from the people I know at least not since the 90s. The only people I can think of who “settled” were aunts who were forced into marriage due to it being socially frowned upon to have a job (I come from a conservative subculture) They all had to marry in their teens or would then be considered leftovers. Currently, All of the other women who work and provide for themselves are very much attracted to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:08 PM
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Who says those kind of women already don’t? I don’t envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:43 AM
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Can someone with time debunk this stupid DV study? Wasn’t there a distinction made between Lesbians that had previously dated men vs only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:01 AM
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I’m not even lesbian and I know that many lesbian married couples. Where the hell do you live? Appalachia?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:55 AM
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Bros over here acting like women get compliments all the time. Some women do, others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:25 PM
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As soon as my brother got his first serous girlfriend, I told him to NOT turn into one of those people that forgets about their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:59 PM
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Tesla and Newton were celibate and lived very productive lives. I don’t want to minimize men’s lack of sex predicaments- but then the implication is that women are at fault for withholding. That is a slippery slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:53 PM
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Lighthouses too-also, most hermits are men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:50 PM
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Nope, First, I don’t hook up with anyone. Secondly, I would only date: guy who doesn’t feel too strongly about politics Guy who’s on the center left or very left (radical lefties can be annoying but it’s well meaning while the right is straight up hateful sometimes) Guy who is slightly conservative but didn’t vote for Trump (rare) I’m a spiritual person and I believe in the teachings of benevolent figures like Jesus Christ and the Buddha, for context. **keep in mind that women who care about thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:45 PM
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First of all, can you describe what an average woman looks like according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:57 PM
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Yes and no. Both my bros are short and have been successful with women. They admitted that other men were the ones who gave them shit for being short. I will say one of them is married to a psycho bitch but the other one is with a sweetheart woman. They do require more persuasion and reasoning to coax them into doing things for their own good cause it seems they have attentional deficits, could be the testosterone? They don’t seem to think as long term as myself. Men and women alike have bad peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:23 AM
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Most of the women I know have been with 3 or less guys. These are Hispanic women in southern CA. There are definitely outliers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:50 AM
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You honestly think the guys were serious about the pig woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:03 PM
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Average men do date casually, my brother’s friends are evidence of this. They may not have a girlfriend, but they date all the time. I also want to add that not all single women are dating casually. I know quite a few women who are single and have always been celibate or haven’t dated at all in years. Most of the women I know are married though. Most of the men I know are also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:04 AM
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I think if a woman you meet dresses a certain way and/posts thirst traps on social media, you probably shouldn’t expect her to change that…y’all need to date modest women if that bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:22 PM
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Nah not really. I remember this one fugly dude was obsessed with a girl that was super nice but oblivious about her level of beauty. He was always trying to get to her when she was single. Once she moved away the dude started hitting on the less attractive girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:54 PM
24

But don’t men choose who they’re going to pursue too? Like I remember back in college guys would generally go for the prettiest woman first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:50 AM
0

Why talk about it? I didn’t say I date. I said I don’t feel the incentive to date. Why the defensiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:34 AM
2

I don’t date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:37 PM
22

I empathize with men in that I sort of understand where they’re coming from. They find many women fuckable and in general, a woman tends to be an improvement in a man’s life. Women in general are a “plus” in a man’s life. I wouldn’t call myself gay or or even bisexual, but I just find women more visually nice to look at, tend to smell better, put more effort into their appearance etc. Not to mention that women tend to be more conscientious when it comes to holidays, family, celebrations, food et…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:41 PM
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That means he’s 55 which mean I wouldn’t want to have kids with him and honestly, why isn’t he trying to date women his age. So yea, I’d rather be single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:09 PM
10

Status can be part of personality, I don’t think they’re mutually exclusive. Status also means different things to different people. A highly respected scientist or writer is more attractive to me than a rapper or tik tok famous guy. There are also exceptions-I was once interested in a guy with no job, he wasn’t into me so I moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:09 PM
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Who are you trying to date? That’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:34 PM
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Because humans have higher order thinking. There’s a collective consciousness especially with the advent of the internet. People can learn about themselves through world events, political/sociological change, and others’ experiences. I think if there is a specific reason/point of life is to learn more about ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:32 PM
2

Yep. I’m in Southern CA and all if not most of the women I know are average. Average as in they’re not fat or skinny, they’re not lookers obviously, but also not hideous. Most of these women have told me that their first date involved coffee and usually they paid for their own, unless the guy insisted. The few women who get everything paid for tend to be quite pretty. They expect it because men are often quite happy to pay for it. I’ve only been on one date my whole life when I was 22. He paid f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:34 PM
6

Im number 2 but no romance novels. Just Reddit and philosophy books lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:40 PM
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Are you below avg or average? What kind of women are you going for? Are they chubby or just what is it that you deem about them that’s considered “lowering your standards”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:46 PM
3

Damn, sorry that’s been your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:02 AM
7

For real, WTF? Where are they meeting these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:47 PM
0

I do have a lot to figure out. And you’re right, that was kind of mean-spirited. I have struggled with my self esteem for so long. It wasn’t him per se that made me feel this way. If at that time I had other men hitting on me, I wouldn’t have really read so much into it. He was literally the only guy trying to hit me up. I was going to the gym, eating well, and was learning to be more feminine—he only talked to me once I had my acne under control and I had lost 40 lbs. At the time he wanted to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:44 PM
1

Well, yea, especially if no one I’ve liked has ever hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:47 PM
2

Absolutely not I’m a soon to be 35 year old woman who loves the idea of marrying someone and having one or two kids but it likely isn’t in the cards for me at this point. However, I also like the idea of not getting married at 20 to someone I’m not into and popping out 4 babies while I have to stay home. I like the fact that I can work and then come home to do whatever the fuck I want. I can work out, I can read philosophy, I can rot on my couch, and I also don’t have to clean after anyone else.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:20 AM
5

Part of this is true. I had a morbidly obese guy try hitting on me and it sent me spiraling because I always thought I was average, if slightly below, but this made me reevaluate. I’m fit, but my face is meh. I thought about it and I have no ill will toward this person. It does make me question why guys keep saying men go for women below them. I think both genders strive for something at least a little bit better. It’s why i get hit on by men in their 50s and not men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:55 PM
6

For real, years ago I saw a post in which a Redditor wrote that a relative of theirs killed his wife because she was ugly and was tired of looking at her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:49 PM
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There are chubby women who have a great sense of style or beautiful eyes. There are facially “meh” women who have beautiful hair and a killer body. I’m a facially “meh” woman and I know it takes confidence and extra motivation to even try to dress myself up, so I appreciate that in other women like me. I’m not lying when I give someone a compliment. It’s genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:04 PM
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Thing is, the average woman isn’t gonna have this privilege, since an average woman doesn’t have the luxury of having a dude make enough money for that. I do think pretty women need to watch out for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:13 AM
7

Post menopausal married women I presume
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:52 AM
2

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:16 PM
13

Because some do and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:37 PM
1

Oh wow, so of all the guys I work with and all the guys I see at the supermarket with the wives are above average? I went to the mall this weekend, all the men there with their girlfriends and wives are above. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:28 PM
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How, dude? The majority of men I know are average, and the majority are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:27 PM
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Im confused, you kind of contradicted yourself with “Just having sex with (relatively) attractive women is already a win.” An ugly/invisible woman is not “relatively attractive” You’re also implying that sex with an ugly women is a loss…so why would any ugly/invisible woman want to put herself through that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:24 PM
11

It would be cool but realistically, who’s going to enforce it to make sure there’s proof of the cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:50 PM
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If I like the guy. It doesn’t really matter. As long as he’s loyal and not lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:41 PM
3

Majority of users on swipe apps are men. Did you know the majority of users on Ashley Madison were also men? Of the small percentage of women who were part of Ashley Madison, the majority were bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:38 PM
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Bad part is bottom tier then means different things for each sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:25 PM
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y’all are exaggerating but I’m just telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:33 PM
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My 5’5” brother is part of that 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:19 AM
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Why, should he love the fact that she chooses to be with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:16 AM
3

Many men do like being independent, successful in their career, and taking care of their shit. For their own validation, not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:23 AM
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So do you think that women should bother dating average or below average guys if they would bounce as soon as they had the chance to sleep with any woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:12 AM
12

Do you think if tomorrow you woke up really hot you would do the same as those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:01 AM
4

I wonder if he tried orbiting mid girls his results would change?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:35 PM
6

Look dude, the only men I ask for help from are my brother and dad. Guess who I help all the time too—-brother and dad. I’m an average woman. If you are referring to hot/pretty women, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:43 PM
1

Stop, you’re making too much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:17 AM
1

Both are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:03 PM
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Some men are fat af and still hit on skinny girls. This is in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:13 PM
2

She’s actually better looking than him. He is fit but so was she. He’s average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:18 PM
5

This is a male perspective. Men tend to be taken care of by their wives into old age. They look for a “nurse with a purse” which makes sense why you feel this way. Doesn’t usually work in reverse. I’d rather be alone tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:15 PM
0

Sometimes guys have high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:38 PM
6

My face has masculine features and a noticeable asymmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:15 AM
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I own property, I have a good job, but I’m ugly so being an ugly woman automatically makes me a loser. I have been rejected by overweight guys with no job. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:06 PM
2

This is anecdotal but a family member of mine was cheated on by her husband with a younger woman. Guess who had to file for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:48 PM
3

Men and women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:58 PM
1

It’s one of those things where moderation is key. I don’t want children watching it. I don’t want a life partner who prefers it to being with me. I also don’t want a partner to compare their bodies to mine. I do find it a bit odd how much some people defend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:33 AM
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It seems to come down to that, that’s all that matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:17 PM
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Fun clown? They are friends because they have a lot in common. Gay guys tend to like a lot of the same things as straight women, which includes men!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:11 PM
0

I am calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:50 PM
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Not a man, but it’s kinda sad that you got no replies for this question. It’s a good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:36 AM
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How attractive were the men there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:33 AM
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Do they really regularly say they want to be approached by tall attractive men or are you just making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:31 AM
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Same. It’s weird to me that “short, fat, bald janitor keeps being used as a joke. However, I see this precise type of man partnered up everywhere I go. It’s not going to be a beautiful woman they’re married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:27 AM
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What if he cried about his ex? Or about being an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:01 PM
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Maybe we’re talking past each other. I have never hooked up and know that women who don’t like casual things generally avoid Tinder. If a woman is only looking for casual, makes sense for her to be on Tinder and makes sense for her to swipe right on abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:07 PM
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What kind of stalking did these women do? I have a tendency to get obsessed with men I like so I’ve been avoidant. I know that they won’t like me back and don’t wanna be a creep so I run away from dudes I like because I’m scared of being a stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:37 PM
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I wanna ask you what being “vulnerable” means. Cause there was once a guy I was sort of interested in but then he revealed he was an alcoholic ( I hardly drink). He also said he slept around. Those were red flags for me and I distanced myself. He wasn’t really over his ex though, I later found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:35 PM
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Exactly—my aunts suffered getting slapped around a being cheated in because they married men in their late teens, still virgins, then popped out 5+ kids. They were not allowed to work. These were the “traditional” marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:06 AM
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Yeah. Apparently women’s happiness and agency doesn’t count, hence why they think everything is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:03 AM
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Yep, would kill me to know a partner feels that way about me. What a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:06 AM
0

True but I don’t think most men like Danny DeVito’s wife either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:24 PM
1

The average man doesn’t talk about those things either. Ask him about the NFL, Formula 1, perhaps his favorite type of rifle .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:39 PM
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Context is important. I personally would, since I am approaching that same status. If it’s religion, pass. I am not religious though I am Catholic by birth. I’m spiritual but not a bible follower. If the reason is because he has high standards but he just wants to get it over with, I’ll pass. I don’t want to be someone’s “let me get it over with” or “I’m desperate, this girl will do” If the reason is he actually likes me and sees a future with me, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:59 PM
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Well I didn’t see that post but I guess I would think there’s nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:58 PM
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I’m a celibate woman. I’ve never slept with anyone. I prefer this to being forced to marry someone I don’t care to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:05 AM
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He probably was insulted you liked him. Lots of these guys don’t like it when a girl they don’t find attractive likes them, especially if it’s the only girl that ever liked him. Not saying you’re ugly or anything—just that incels often have higher standards than they let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:04 PM
1

It’s a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:47 PM
3

I wouldn’t care. I had them at 25 and know a woman who had them at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:54 PM
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I agree to an extent. I’m a woman and realize that there are vapid women all over the world. I just wish people wouldn’t lie to others. I don’t think people (men) in this regard know the amount of pain/hurt they cause these women. Perhaps she could have grown to be a better human being with time. When I was in my early 20s, people probably thought I was dumb, a dimwit, and socially retarded. I wouldn’t say I was extremely dumb, but I was socially anxious so I generally didn’t say much. I was sav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:57 PM
2

On instagram and Facebook I only get memes, cute babies/animals, and art. I never see what you’re mentioning,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:26 AM
2

You speak in hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:32 PM
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I don’t have much of anything against porn at a societal level. I don’t want kids to watch it and I certainly wouldn’t want a partner to watch it every day. But my question is…would men be more sexually frustrated without porn? Wouldn’t they just wank to their imagination anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:24 PM
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The fact is many of these dudes don’t notice the average and ugly couples going about their business in the world. They also don’t notice us below average girls either. Also, it’s true what you mentioned. There’s a very handsome man I met but he’s kind of a bore since he’s high all the time. Not sure if he’s just high or anxious could be either but I have no clue how to converse with this person. He’s just a colleague but it’s amazing how people, and this includes men! Just gravitate toward him …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:10 PM
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Umm ok, I get that some chicks dig money more than attraction. I suppose that’s why prostitution exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:33 PM
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Depends on Values. If she’s attracted to him, that’s great. If not, then that’s hell on earth…at least for me. I make enough money for myself but even when I made little money, I would have never entertained the idea of a transactional relationship like that. I’m sorry you’re going through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:29 PM
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You don’t know if the woman is happy in her relationship. If you truly believe this, why don’t you pursue an Indian man? They’re the thirstiest mfers on earth and they worship white women. I don’t even think you believe in what you just wrote. We all want mutual love and attraction. Its hardwired.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:21 PM
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It’s refreshing to see that not all guys are super thirsty. I actually don’t even approach guys I find attractive cause I assume they feel the way you do. I actually am the same way. I like being invisible most of the time, so I treat others as such. Maybe it’s solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:49 PM
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There are a lot of us. We aren’t hot or super attractive, we don’t drink much, we stay at home a lot, and have very few friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:26 PM
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Damn dude, seems pretty callous from you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:23 PM
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My question here is, do you see women as all the same? I know many women, including myself, who do not like “dumb” guys/meat heads. So wouldn’t the women who like those guys be considered dumb bimbos too, and hence low value (according to y’all) too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:15 PM
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These guys are extremely selfish. Some of them only realize how bad they acted when they have daughter/nieces and it hits them that someone could do this to them. Thankfully I’ve never been strung along like this. However, I can usually tell what type of man does this, and I honestly feel a lot of rage for the women who are lied to this way. And no, he’s not even the mythical Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:15 PM
1

I didn’t have much connection to my parents either. I was a naturally studious person who spent all evenings doing homework and watching tv/listening to music. If parents are interested, they will try to connect, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:12 PM
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Idk, is it? My brothers want me to be with a guy that makes at least close to how much I make or more. When I was young, my dad said he didn’t want me or my sister to get stuck with a guy with no ambition or work ethic. So even he wanted to us to marry into a better situation—not necessarily rich, but not being dragged down, especially when children are involved. I don’t need a guy that makes six figures, but I’m in my 30s so I’m not your target demographic. My nieces, friend’s siblings who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:58 PM
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Yep. I was watching some Jimmy Kimmel clips where an interviewer asks men questions about their kids and their wives. Many could not name their kid’s birthdays or middle names, the name of their kid’s doctors, the name of their wife/gf’s siblings. Kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:52 PM
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What young girl? Hot young girls, likely. Not average girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:33 PM
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You’re soooooo lucky. Unrequited love/like is my state of being unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:37 PM
1

Hmm Danny, Ron, and Trump are all married and have dated multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:24 AM
1

Your wife doesn’t find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:32 AM
1

I’ve seen bad rejections on both sides. The girl said NO! And then walked away. The guy made a eww/annoyed face and walked away Both were painful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:16 AM
2

Meh, not necessarily. I’ve seen some trash looking guys get lots of girls. And it’s not just me calling good looking guys “ugly” since my male acquaintances have agreed that those dudes are grodie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:24 PM
5

Y’all talk about female hypergamy like it’s not a male phenomenon too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:24 PM
1

I don’t wear makeup but I disagree with your opinion. I think the “no-makeup, makeup look” is fooling y’all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:12 PM
3

Plastic surgery existed before social media
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:06 PM
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In my early 20s I discovered that I had social anxiety and that I was also a lazy ass person. I discovered I don’t like drinking and that men didn’t really like me and I was ok with that. I liked reading, studying, and music.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:16 AM
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In my observations, the cuter guys tend to be more involved with the kid, but it could be because the cuter guys tend to be higher socioeconomic status where I live so they have higher standards for themselves and their behavior. Very preppy people who care a lot about their kids education , activities etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:59 PM
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Attractive women live rent free in your heads lol Who cares man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:17 PM
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The average woman doesn’t have 50 guys vying for her, that’s Stacy level status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:14 PM
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Average statistically or average surrounding me? The average (5-6) man around me is married and has been with the same girl since his mid twenties. The below average (4 or lower) men have either dated sporadically, are in long term relationship since their early 20s or are single. The hot men (7-8) have either been in a relationship since his late 20s/married, has had a string of relationships or is choosing the single life for a while. I don’t personally know any 9-10 men since they tend to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:16 AM
2

He’s not even ugly but his personality is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:07 AM
1

I suppose this is just a guy thing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:58 PM
1

Can I ask why they can’t just wank it? I’m not pro or against prostitution, I just wanna know,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:19 AM
2

Usually just avoiding the topic or avoiding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:52 AM
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I have made the first move a few times and it didn’t work out for me. As a woman, that shit is embarrassing. At least for men it’s expected to get rejected, but for women…damn, guess I’m that repulsive haha. I get it though, you can’t negotiate attraction, I don’t hate men for it and I also am ok with being alone for the rest of my life. I’m celibate too fyi, so people don’t make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:18 PM
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They do get insulted. In my 34 years on this earth I have known many people. Actually, more men than women in my life have expressed disgust at the types of women that have expressed interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:31 PM
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Meh, guys do too. My brothers have been approached by women before and they were annoyed they thought they had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:28 PM
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I just wasn’t physically attracted to them. Could be considered superficial I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:55 PM
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Yeah but the question is for attractive women so what’s it to ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:51 PM
5

Right? These are the men I’ve been into
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:24 AM
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It’s interesting because I went through a lot of shit growing up and I actually feel the opposite. I don’t want anyone to ever feel the way I felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:34 PM
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Sorry, I suppose because I come from very online female spaces and usually woc struggle feeling like the men of their cultures prefer white women. Especially black and south Asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:08 PM
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Im not saying it’s not difficult, I’m saying it’s not impossible. Where do you live? Being in a big city with and being willing to date ethnicities other than just white women will make it much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:02 PM
2

Nope. Also, Tinder is not for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:55 PM
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Mid 20s to retirement age. The youngest guy who happens to be short and chubby also has a girlfriend. Is she pretty? She’s not ugly but I wouldn’t say she’s pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:37 PM
1

This is so not true. All my short coworkers are married. I’m talking about 5’7” and below, even the 5’1” guy. My brothers are 5’5” and one is engaged while the other has been married forever. Are you introvert/shy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:24 PM
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I agree with you 100 percent. I posted this same thing a few weeks ago and I got downvoted so much lol. I remember thinking maybe the guy I liked was too attractive for me but then several people tried to fix me up with him even though they didn’t know I liked him. He just wasn’t interested and that’s ok. Another time I tried to “hit on” a chubby guy but he also wasn’t interested. Guys can also be picky and that’s fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:21 PM
4

Not most women dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:15 PM
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Yep, it’s all relative. My bff is married to a guy 4 months older. Other friend is 34 dating a 29 yr old guy, and other is 36 dating a 28 yr old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:12 PM
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This is gonna sound harsh but standards mostly. It takes discipline to not be fat in this modern world, especially in the west. Overweight women have lower standards and when it comes to their food, their health, and their men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:11 AM
2

But what if you could? If a woman threw herself at you or at least got very flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:32 PM
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Yes and no . I’ve liked guys who make a lot of money and I’ve also liked guys who make less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:15 AM
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He completely dodged your point. They’re hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:14 PM
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And? I know men who are losers that are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:48 PM
2

Yes, things have changed there now since it’s overrun by drug cartels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:43 PM
4

This true, also think it’s driven by them not seeing ugly women. Ugly and older women are invisible to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:42 PM
3

I’ve known a few and one of them was dating a much older lady that looked like a former felon. However, most are single. Most of them don’t go out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:39 PM
5

This is just my limited experience but my family comes from a part of a third world country where women up to the 80s were not supposed to work and were to marry men as providers. Many of them married men 5+ years older. About 75% of these women were beaten whether their husbands were sober or drunk. Half of the guys cheated on them with hookers or other single women. I think for someone like myself, it’s hard to say that this is better than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:20 PM
6

Im a woman and I’ve been rejected by all the guys I’ve ever liked. Doesn’t make me hate men. I just kind of accepted it and realized it may not be in the cards for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:58 PM
1

It’s crazy cause both my brothers were higher maintenance than my sister and I but then again I guess we are anomalies. My sister and I were quiet bookish nerds who wore the same hoody and jeans to school every day. My bros were so fashion conscious. They also dated and partied in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:29 AM
2

Umm, I wouldn’t describe the people I know this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:24 PM
4

Exactly. The people that associate with are not like he describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:23 PM
0

The creepy guys I know are the ones at work who are way older and love to make inappropriate comments to the younger women. (Not all) None of the young (age 18-40) guys are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:25 PM
66

Homeless men? Twice a year. Regular men? None
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:02 AM
1

from far I’m 6/10 From close 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:37 PM
0

I’ve heard that the majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration so it’s not that big of an issue I think. I have small boobs and I’ve always felt sort of “incomplete” if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:46 AM
6

This is me too! I have bought a condo and I just recently bought a car but people still treat me like a weirdo/kid because I don’t have a boyfriend. People make assumptions when you’re this age and single. They think you sleep around with whoever and that you are somehow devoid of substance and morals. I am happy to the extent that I am better being alone than with someone I don’t fully like. It’s lonely but it’s better than bad company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:57 PM
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In a way I do agree that some women can be very mean about announcing they want a tall man by disparaging short men. These women are usually called out though. However, I will say that often I hear men talking about how he doesn’t want fat bitches or ugly bitches and yet lots of us women don’t even bother telling these men anything because what’s the fucking point of engaging with someone who feels this way? Just yesterday I happened to watch a short video about guys hating some video game chara…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:07 PM
7

Tbf, I’d say of the people that I work with who have cheated, 75% men and 25% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:20 AM
1

Ok well it’s funny you say that because both my brothers have weak chins and they do fine.I have the thicker jaw out of all. I’m actually also thinner than all my siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:31 PM
9

I’d be like my brothers- 5’5”. They both did well for themselves as Latinos in SoCal. My sis is gay and also did well for herself. I arguably have it worse as a woman since I have some masculine features.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:44 PM
7

This is based on the OkCupid study? Didn’t that same study say that despite only finding 20% of the profiles attractive, the women were more likely to message the guys below the 20% while men aimed at the top female profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:26 PM
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Not knowing how to drive at least here in Southern CA would make it seem like you have a disability or are otherwise unfit to drive. Man or woman. Where do you reside?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:47 PM
1

How is that proof when there are literal short, balding dudes with girlfriends all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:06 AM
0

A combo of factors. He’s picky (nothing wrong with that) His personality is bland—talking to him is like pulling teeth. I’ve met guys like this and it feels like I’m bothering them. He has feminine energy (only a smaller percentage of women find that attractive) Bad breath?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:40 PM
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Well, I did mention it’s low, exactly how low? Hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:33 PM
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I agree. I don’t think my point above really negates it. I haven’t found a guy I really like that much for me to have kids with and risk leaving my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:41 PM
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Would I be happier in a marriage with a guy I love who has enough money for me to be a SAHM? Sure. The likelihood is very low though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:31 PM
6

I thought people were having less sex now, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:23 AM
3

I’ve never online dated but I’d say I’m a 6/10 from far and 4/10 up close (acne scars, face asymmetry/small boobs) The only guys who have openly hit on me are homeless dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:19 AM
5

But George Lopez is fucking ugly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:16 AM
1

Schopenhauer had documented mommy issues. Idk about Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:26 PM
1

Most of the time looking for a partner or a romantic interest has the ego at the forefront.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:23 PM
-7

It’s a way of gauging if she’s high value enough for that person to bother buying her a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:09 PM
5

I don’t think the pretty one will care but the uglier one will notice and it will hurt a bit but she’s probably used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:24 AM
1

Nothing would change for me at least, I don’t deal with men romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:43 AM
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It’s a fucking clown world they live in. They’re sad they have to see ads with fat people. Now more than ever they have po*n at their fingertips and they choose to complain about this? The nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:58 PM
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Why do y’all keep spinning this narrative that body positivity is about men wanting women? It’s really not this. It’s a direct reaction to the way women felt about themselves especially during the 90s with the waif like beauty standards. Eating disorders were on the rise for decades. Men can like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:47 PM
3

Why not be truthful from the beginning? I’ve lost my faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:10 PM
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Do they put makeup everyday? I don’t. My work colleagues don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:36 AM
1

3– even though it sucks that his standards are low. I don’t dig that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:29 PM
3

A medical assistant is working class
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 AM
1

I live on the West Coast so that tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 AM
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Often working class guys are pro-Trump, lots of those I’ve met hate on the whole idea of the “me-too” movement. Love guns (I don’t really care about this but the fervor behind it is off putting), they blame feminists on the fall of society. They also hate on academia often. Lots of homophobia and weirdly religious but only in some aspects. Now, this is just a generalization, I know there are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:46 PM
2

It’s not necessarily that though it does happen often. A lot of working class guys hold very conservative views that are not compatible with your average middle class woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:10 PM
1

Who knows man. I’m 34F and I’m so different than the person I was at 21-24. I lived at home with my parents, I was broke, had constant car issues, didn’t go out much, spent most of my time watching my favorite soap opera and hardly uttered a word to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:22 PM
6

Yep, generally the women who date younger men are quite hot themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:32 PM
6

The older women I know do go for younger men but they are women in their late 30s to 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:07 PM
13

Even if she’d stayed married to him I’m pretty sure she’d still be lonely and depressed. She shouldn’t have married the guy at all. He was way too fucking old, she’s a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:33 PM
13

Paulina Porizcova married her husband at 24
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:58 PM
0

You’re conflating attractive woman with woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:04 AM
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It’s evolutionarily advantageous to gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 PM
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She’s 34
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:11 PM
1

I read somewhere that older fathers are also more likely to have “ugly” children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:11 AM
5

Insecurity too. Look, we’re all human at the end of the day. I hate the idea of a guy my age only going for women in their 20s but I’m not gonna stop him or think he’s creepy (unless he’s going for barely legal). Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:09 PM
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The reason being is that he’s young and is more likely to change his mind about a lot of things, especially about dating an older woman. Also, it’s a bit exploitative to me when I think of dating a much younger man because I feel that I’m influencing him too much and I’d constantly be thinking that I’m interfering with the process of his maturation. I’m talking about 6+ years difference. Also has to do with insecurity, a young guy who likes older women might still be attracted to younger women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:55 PM
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Most women are not looking for a random hookup. You might think she’s there for a hookup because you’re projecting what you specifically are looking for. Being in a relationship with a much younger man is going to be challenging for most women for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:15 PM
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All the eternally single (ugly-ish) guys I know are pining over women above their league. All! They all want a thin, perky boobs, with a cute face…I think this is due to them being online a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:10 AM
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One in which people state their intentions clearly and they don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:02 PM
7

18-21 is too young. 25 and up is better just cause 18-21 feels exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:00 PM
1

The nose and the way the bottom half of his face is built. I can recognize lots of women find him hot but I just don’t. Also, I’m Latina and I tend to be more into Latinos or Mediterranean looking guys anyway so my opinion is irrelevant. The guy swims in pussy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:15 PM
1

Ok so next time this question is asked I won’t answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:09 AM
1

I like tall men, doesn’t mean I dislike shorter men. How am I spreading toxic bullshit if it’s what I like. If you like women with big boobs I don’t think that toxic I just know I personally wouldn’t be your cup of tea. The OP asked and I delivered. If my answer is useless because I’m older and ugly, well then the so-called black pill applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:02 AM
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AGE: between 28-38 ( I’m 34) PERSONALITY: reserved, quiet confidence, but thoughtful and introspective too SEX: he’s sexual but not too much, maybe a little less than the avg. guy INTERESTS: music, athleticism, learning VALUES: a mixture of modern and traditional beliefs HOW THEY TREAT ME: they see me as a person with thoughts and feelings first, so they’d treat me as such. I like my space but I also would like to cuddle and hug. HOW I TREAT THEM: I’d give them what they want without losing my i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:25 PM
1

Idk, just don’t find him hot, I think Prince was handsome, if we’re talking about singers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:18 AM
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I honestly don’t have much of one. About once a month I think about sex more or less but it’s not to the point that I would hop on Tinder or whatever people use for that. I rarely am physically attracted to anyone. In the last 10 years I’ve been physically attracted to 8 men out of hundreds I’ve met at work/acquaintances. Sure I’ve seen handsome men in the wild, after all, I live in Southern California, but I had no sexual thoughts about them…only the 8 men I mentioned above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:05 AM
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Interesting, I never found Usher remotely attractive….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:03 AM
6

So guys are with women they don’t really like? What would the woman he likes look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:08 PM
10

You said so yourself. The chick was hot, why not compare to a hot guy instead of the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:05 AM
5

Yep, my brothers would be out until midnight at age 16. Me? Only went out every other weekend to the movies and I was home by 8 pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:53 AM
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“A man is walking alone in a forest, he will be seen as a weirdo up to no good.” -If I see a man walking in the woods I assume he’s either hiking or walking. “A man is wearing a hoodie and trying to hide, he will be seen as a creep.” -This depends on context. Today I saw a guy doing that at a store and thought he might steal something. If I saw him doing that during the day in the city, I’d think nothing of it. If he’s doing that while walking right by me when it’s late at night, I’d be worried.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:31 AM
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So why are women judged for seeking attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:46 PM
6

It attracts a certain kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:13 PM
1

Ok but that’s all across the board right? Aren’t men getting fatter too? Do you honestly think that men’s arms are being twisted while they search this category in pron? Japan has such a low number of obesity and yet their searches are up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:44 PM
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What media has tried to convince men to like fat women???? The media had tried campaigning for women to like their bodies, I don’t think they’re asking men to like these bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:01 PM
3

Maybe for guys, I’m a woman and I can’t lower my physical standards since everything else I would find repulsive. I definitely don’t expect someone to be rich and they don’t have to make more money than myself. It’s my loss, ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:06 AM
1

If a girl likes you, that mean you give her feel good chems in her brain, which means everything you say will make her smile/laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:58 PM
3

Just the fact that you said “who?” Would probably make a girl think that she has no chance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:53 PM
3

I fucking suck at it. Girl game doesn’t exist if you’re not pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:56 AM
5

That’s so sad. I’ve always felt like I would be this type of woman because I’m slightly below average. Sucks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:07 PM
0

Yea, if a guy is hot, he will be hot, but until around age 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:40 PM
9

This is tame shit. I have been black out drunk, danced until the sunrise and I’m still a virgin…these dudes just wanna be victims so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:30 AM
8

I don’t think I’m special, I actually think I’m quite the opposite. No way in hell I’m going to date someone I’m not attracted to. Attraction is not negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:17 PM
14

It’s sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:48 AM
2

Dumpster dive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:09 PM
1

Well, in my limited anecdotal experience, I have never had casual sex and I’m a woman. I know I can get it, I just don’t really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:06 PM
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Yeah, I can’t imagine them not wanting to date a 5’10”. Though Latinas tend to stick to Latinos more but if you’re willing to learn about their culture, they could be interested. I think from my experience of my family members who have dated white dudes, usually the guy is quite funny/relaxed and he’s interested at least somewhat in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:24 AM
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Both my brothers are in relationships and they’re 5’5”. They also casually dated extensively before their serious relationships. They’re Hispanic but 5’5” is still short for Latinos. Also, the ugly and average guys at my job all have girlfriends and/or wives who they met in their early twenties usually. Working class folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:18 AM
2

Be honest. What kind of women are interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:18 AM
8

You’re right, a perfect guy wouldn’t watch it. Unfortunately perfection doesn’t exist. I think about it despite not being in a relationship. I tend to wonder how much my crushes watch it. I’ve been terminally online for a long time and the topic inevitably comes up. I would be lying if I said it doesn’t make me feel insecure, but I also don’t have a nice body and nice face. I wonder how hot women feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:36 AM
11

Depends what kind of girl you’re going for. I’m at Starbucks right now and I see couples. Average dude with average girl, neither are fit or rich looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:32 AM
2

You and your friends are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:19 AM
9

Logic out the window, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:15 AM
15

Way to miss her point. What she means, is given the opportunity, would guys stay faithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:00 AM
3

Sometimes I think y’all are bitter you can’t get the insta baddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:08 AM
2

Here’s my take. Could it be that he’s not properly conveying his interest in these women? Women don’t like to take risks with a guy who doesn’t even seem enthused to be there. Tell him to make sure he’s only dating women he really wants to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:12 AM
1

Your take reads of someone who is a sociopath. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:31 PM
3

Yeah but you need a job but you don’t really need a marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:27 PM
2

Of course, but that’s why she’s celibate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:26 PM
2

Lose an arm. Psychologically speaking, rape would have long lasting effects that I don’t think I can recover from. It might be like this for a lot of people. I don’t have children and no one depending on me so death wouldn’t be the worst things that could happen to me. I don’t fear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:44 PM
11

And yet the vast majority of Ashley Madison’s user base were men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:38 PM
4

Id rather die than be raped to be honest but I suppose that depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:13 PM
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Yikes, let’s hope you never reproduce. Or at least never have daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:24 AM
2

Dont males pick who they will pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:22 AM
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I occasionally get the passport bro subreddit suggested to me and three of the guys who post pics of themselves are fat. They endlessly complain about how fat and unattractive western women are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:17 AM
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Yep, and honestly, I wouldn’t want to bang a guy that my friends are banging…dirty D.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:56 AM
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One thing I want to mention here…true, women find a smaller percentage of men attractive, but I have to stress the fact that what I find attractive is not what my friends find attractive. I have friends who think some dude is hot (not muscular or tall) and I don’t. The guy I currently have a thing for is “meh” to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:55 AM
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Are you hot tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:34 AM
1

Eh, I disagree. I like what I like. If anything, I find most of my friend’s boyfriends/husbands very unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:04 AM
3

Guy friends who are happily married or guys who sleep around, whatever it is you are trying to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:27 PM
4

You don’t think Destiny was fucking other women. Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:36 PM
4

I hate that they’re moodier than men in general. Though it’s funny cause my best friend is definitely not moody. I’m also very moody so I understand but I still hate it lol I hate when women reject men in a shitty way. I don’t mean when the guy is persistent or he can’t take no for an answer, more like when he first approaches her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:49 PM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:40 PM
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Approach wherever you want, just doesn’t expect them to say yes to your advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:24 PM
4

Hey, I only have one and I’m not even autistic so you’re doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:53 PM
3

I tend to prefer the company of women. Any time I try to befriend a guy, he takes it the wrong way .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:46 AM
1

I’ve known more bad men than women. I will say it’s only anecdotal so I don’t know how much that weighs into it. Also, there are many cruel women too, just not as many as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:23 AM
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I like quiet men. Quiet confidence. A little nervous energy doesn’t hurt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:50 AM
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I have nothing against dating coworkers. If anything, I actually got rejected by a dude because he is a coworker (according to him, he may just not have been attracted to me) You can ask a girl out within a group of friends…but if she says no, don’t ask her friend, then her other friend going down the line from most attractive to the one you find least. I think y’all overwhelmingly ask out a smaller percentage of women and they’re sick of being approached. Most women aren’t approached as much as…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah, some women are promiscuous, but others aren’t. Ive never slept with anyone, my best friend has only been with her husband, my cousins have largely only been with 3 or less men. We’re not religious either…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:38 AM
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Was tinder the only thing you tried? I have to say I’ve never been on tinder because it’s known as a hook up app. Most women aren’t looking for some random hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:13 PM
9

Meh, my aunts would beg to differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:49 AM
8

Too many. I’m a woman and I hear more about men cheating or trying to cheat lol. It’s heartbreaking and depressing. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:29 AM
3

I went clubbing with my friends back in my early 20s and we never hooked up with guys. We would rarely even dance with guys. We dressed cute/tight dresses, but like I said, never hooked up. The most I ever did was make out with a guy friend and that’s because we were both drunk. We didn’t even like each other that way. When you’re drunk, standards fall and make you go stupid shit. I repeat, friends and I never met or slept with anyone while clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:24 PM
1

Of course! I think a lot of y’all are confusing “fat phobia” with forcing people to date fat ppl. This is totally not a thing. Just means that when you reject a fat person, don’t be an asshole about it. It also extends to fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:20 PM
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You’re probably basic yourself. I know plenty of women who like The Smiths and Nine Inch Nails vs Drake. Also, I know a few women who have androids too. Most people have iPhones anyway, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:17 PM
2

For sure. For a lot of women, we have to feel desired and at least average looking to feel worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:28 PM
1

My mom actually doesn’t want me to have kids. She says it’s a lifelong stress and worry. Even though as children we’ve all been good. Both my parents are neurotic so they worry about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:27 PM
8

It’s bad. I have deformity. I’m ok with it now. Thank you for replying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:40 PM
4

On the news, and a redditor posted that on another subreddit a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:31 PM
8

Well, resentment can come in many forms. I’ve seen a few cases where a husband killed his wife because she was ugly at one extreme and at another extreme they’d rather watch porn with cute women than be present with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:22 PM
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I agree! I think a lot of guys forget that they choose who to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:07 PM
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I was just thinking that I’m this type of woman. I’m ugly and my personality isn’t feminine, guys just don’t like me. Surprisingly, I’m ok with this now. It used to hurt a lot more. Before you say an ugly guy would be ok with me, I have zero libido and I don’t want to drag a guy down that path, not only that, but ugly guys resent their ugly wives, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:06 PM
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Well, if most men think like you, I’m glad I never participated in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:57 PM
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It’s based on genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:54 PM
1

Omg, Miami lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:59 AM
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No, but I know one woman who’s done it. She’s really hot and she hates men in general, I think it’s cause a lot of men are pervs when it comes to attractive women. I’m not talking average women, but attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:09 AM
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I got cat called when I was 12 by 30 yr old men. All I did was walk faster and looked down. Never been catcalled since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:02 AM
1

Happened to a family member
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:51 PM
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Yep, it’s a specific type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:45 AM
3

I think I’m boring because I’m a below average woman. Basically, no guy looks at me and gets feel good chemicals, you catch my drift? Personality wise, I’d say I have some interesting things to say and I’ve traveled extensively, well read. None of it matters if you don’t look the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:55 PM
4

I feel the same way as you. I’m 33 so past what these guys say is there target demographic. Even when I was 23, all i did was go to work, (had graduated college), would go running in the evenings, watch movies with my friend (a girl lol), and cry myself to sleep because I couldn’t find a job that paid more and didn’t involve me working evenings on the weekends. I wasn’t talking to any guys and legit no guys looked my way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:56 PM
0

Before anyone says that women can get any dude she wants—no. I don’t do casual and I want an actual relationship where a dude pulls his weight. I am fulfilled with my hobbies, interests, and family. A man should be a plus in a woman’s life. Unfortunately, of the many women I know, it’s often a detractor to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:18 PM
6

And Isaac Newton
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:23 AM
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The truth is there are awful people in both sexes. Choose not to associate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:10 PM
5

Isn’t the myth of Sisyphus used to represent life in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:11 PM
31

Ugly guys can also be assholes/abusive. Average women don’t have men falling over themselves to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:07 PM
2

Majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:31 PM
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“ I guess because deep down women know they don’t deserve kindness” Dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:12 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think they’ll ever get it. Part of me thinks they only want to interact with women they’re attracted to and thus pedestalize the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:23 PM
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Wow, ok, what kind of women are around. I legit don’t know what you’re talking about mini celebrities? You only following influencers and OF models?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:16 PM
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Ok, go cheat on someone for payback
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:38 PM
1

No, it’s coming from a person who reads what kind of shit men write about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:27 PM
2

Ugly women don’t register on their radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:12 AM
3

Are you for real? Do you go outside? My brothers are 5’5” and they both had girls in the their teens and early 20s, now one is married and the other is in a LTR. What am I missing here? Tons of guys here in California who are short and have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:08 AM
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Yeah, the two guys at my job who couldn’t get a chick kept going for the cutest girls. It’s hard to accept that you’re not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:06 PM
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This is kind of why I don’t really mind if I ever don’t get married. All of the work a woman has to do to keep her man interested is daunting. I work with a lot of men and it breaks my heart how many are trying to get with the prettier, younger girls even though they have a wife at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:53 PM
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Not necessarily. Growing up I heard about my all aunts getting beat up by their husbands for no reason. They got cheated on too. My dad never did that to my knowledge. There are good men, but I know what many men are capable of and I choose not to engage, especially as a below average woman. I heard about some woman who was killed by her husband just because she was ugly and was tired of looking at her (here in Reddit) Like I said, there are good men out there, but sometimes good men may come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:29 PM
3

Men definitely monkey branch. I’ve seen firsthand when a dude leaves his wife for a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:49 AM
2

You’re confusing love with lust. And even then, I doubt most women inspire lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:47 AM
2

And? Something wrong with that? Not usually into gym bros though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:26 PM
2

I don’t need a guy to make a certain amount of money. I need a guy I’m attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:29 PM
8

Your comment should be at the very top of this OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:58 PM
2

Interesting that you equate being hot with being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:56 PM
10

I feel bad for the guy who lives like me for a month then lol. I go to work, go to the store, spend time at a coffee shop, go home and do whatever I’m interested in and go to sleep. Does that sound different than the average male? Y’all think women are swimming in dick when the many of us are just living our lives alone too. I get lonely too…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:49 PM
3

In what world? I’d be pissed if my brother started dating an OF chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:20 AM
8

That’s precisely why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:23 PM
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Im a woman and I think being a dad would be awesome. Being a mom….I’m not completely sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:20 PM
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I agree. My aunts were all chaste and great mothers/homemakers and yet got treated like trash by their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:49 PM
6

Women bullies and men bullies gravitate toward each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:24 PM
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Nah dude. I’ve been alone my whole life but I’ve seen what my aunts and cousins have gone through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:51 PM
6

Yeah, they always add something about the dudes obviously being Chad so that’s why they were “bad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:51 PM
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I think being a single woman isn’t so bad. I like babies and I have nothing against most men. I just don’t know if being a single mother would be a great thing for me. It’s just that i have so many family members and friends, and acquaintances where the men burden the women often more than they add. The only reason I’d want to be with a guy is if he adds something to my life. I’m low libido so I think that’s also one of the reasons I’m ok for the most part. When I say many men burden women. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:15 PM
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Once again—attractive women live in your heads rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:36 PM
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I’m a single 33F and I don’t like cats at all. I do like birds though. I’ll be a single, bird lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:14 PM
1

No one matters lol. Ya think the sun will care who tf you are when it envelopes the earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:10 PM
1

The single guys I know are single because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:48 PM
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Yo, some of us peeps ain’t hoes and don’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:05 AM
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I see everyone as fully human. Doesn’t mean I want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:02 AM
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Yeah, he’s likely mid and the girls he goes for are cute. When he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:57 AM
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Omg, you realize that most implants look very fucking realistic , especially when done under the muscle. SMH. Men know nothing about plastic surgery lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:55 AM
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You completely misread the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:50 PM
2

Yeah. And the assumption is that he’s going to compare your body to the porn he’s been watching since age 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah, mine is all memes, rock bands, horror art, and cute animations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:25 AM
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Have you ever thought that maybe you just follow a bunch of women who are posting glamour shots and modeling on instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:14 AM
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This is why I don’t even try to date as an ugly woman. I know people like you exist, it’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:33 PM
1

Yeah, I look even worse with makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:24 PM
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women are held to a higher standard as parents. It could work but I don’t think they can be as lovable as a bad dad in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:37 PM
2

There’s only one guy I find attractive that a friend hooked up with. The rest? Hell naw. Also, my friends don’t really hook up with people all that much, but their relationships/husbands I find neutral/average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:16 AM
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Exactly. Reminds me of a case where a woman’s husband accidentally burned her face and then he left her months after because of the disfigurement. Life is one giant transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:00 AM
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I have called attractive guys creepy. Not to their face though lol Actually, most of the weirdos I’ve known have been kinda attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:28 PM
1

The unabomber was known to hate women and he actually grappled with the idea of becoming one. He had gender dysphoria too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 AM
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Their po*n brains convinced them that the average woman is a thin, perky larger boobed woman age 18-25. Never mind the fact that those women tend to have skillfully done plastic surgery .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:55 AM
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Hmm…I’ve seen it but I think I see the opposite a bit more so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:49 AM
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I suppose it depends where you work. I work in a very male dominated environment and the stuff the dudes get away with is pretty mind blowing. I don’t think I’ve ever heard any of the women say anything about short or bald dudes, but I had one guy approach me to say I look good in black, I said “thanks, this color gives the illusion of a slimmer figure” he then pointed at an obese coworker and said with shit eating grin, “but how come in doesn’t work for her?” Completely unprovoked. Women are a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:19 AM
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Not sure what kinds of harassment trainings you watch but at all the jobs I’ve had, they all have vignettes or examples where both men and women are harassed, whether it’s sexual, religious, ageist, or appearance based. I’m in California just for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:24 AM
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Money makes the world go round—the media covers it because it’s novelty, it’s controversial , and the men like you will get triggered, sending men like you into a frenzy on social media, the fat women will champion it, and the magazine makes a ton of money because of it, it’s simple. No one wants or cares if you fuck or love fat women, it’s all about money. If you can make body positivity for short men into a lucrative endeavor, you’ll be just as successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:37 AM
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You can find intellectual curiosity in women-generally those in higher education, those who go into teaching specific subjects etc. I’ve had more philosophical discussions with women than with men, likely because I hang out with women a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:06 AM
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Any companionship? I wonder what their AI girlfriends will look like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:57 AM
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Mr Darcy is my bf in my head so I imagine it’s like that for men who opt for AI gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:44 AM
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I’ll believe it when my friends actually start dating hot guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:06 PM
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The thing is, many men do this too. The amount of married average looking men who hit on my hot friends is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:05 PM
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Yeah there’s a guy at my work who I thought would be an “incel” according to this sub because he’s short, below average facially, and has bad breath. Then one day he mentioned his newborn baby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:26 PM
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Yeah, it’s not like they care about strange women either. Especially if that woman is over 35 or not attractive lol. The whole “male loneliness” issue aggravates me so much because it’s always within the context of “women have so many friends and they have it all”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:53 PM
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“Male” loneliness to me seems like men saying that women can’t be lonely. I think there’s loneliness in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:51 PM
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Wish I was lesbian. My brothers never had issues with women and my sister who is Lesbian also never had issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:04 AM
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Damn, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:02 AM
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Finding a guy who likes me as much as I like him. Marry, have one or two kids, travel together, enjoy each others company even when we’re quiet doing separate things in the same house.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:37 PM
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You should date younger women if you can. No one’s stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:59 AM
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Hmm, a high status millionaire who has the same personality as a cab driver is definitely possible, especially if the millionaire was born into wealth. Most cab drivers are immigrants or people with past criminal offenses, so it depends on the reasons. I make enough on my own so I would choose the cab driver, though it would kind of suck if he has to work weekends. If the cab driver and the millionaire are equally physically attractive and same personality, I’d take the cab driver. I don’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:04 PM
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Of course women are physically attracted to younger men. I’m 33 and I’ve been attracted to men 10 yrs younger. I realize it would likely go nowhere so I don’t consider them, they have a lot more to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:39 PM
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Good analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:20 PM
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If he’s looking for a job? Yes. If he makes less than me, yes. If he’s working at McDonald’s is he looking to become a supervisor or Manager in the future , then yes. I’m 33 so there’s context
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:00 PM
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Depends. I’ve been single for 33 years and have never been in a situationship or a hook up or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:44 PM
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I agree. The last time I had someone “interested” in me was 7 yrs ago. This guy was using all the pick-up terms and actions from the redpill/PUA handbook. I wasn’t interested because it didn’t seem genuine. He had a girlfriend a few weeks later. That shit makes me not want to date anyone, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:12 PM
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Is it cause all the single guys only care about Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:38 PM
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I don’t know any woman who has guys sending them DMs. The only ones that do are either super hot girls or girls with a lot of followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:46 AM
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More on the quiet side guys who have their own interests and there’s a mysterious air to them. Usually they’d be musically inclined, they’d like reading (could be any media) and don’t care much how they’re perceived. If he has a similar sense of humor and respects and likes my family and my personal space. Would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:27 AM
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It’s the same in Mexico City Metro (women only cars) and none of my male relatives (who happen to be very opiniated lol) have said anything negative about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:48 AM
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Are ya a dimwit? How many fucking interviews are there with male perps doing the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:40 AM
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33 yr old single celibate woman here So idk, but my brothers did ok so I guess the worst I could be is what my status is right now lol I’ve always been kinda weird and loner so I’d be a weird loner guy too. I’d be a short dude too but like I said, my brothers were hoes back in their single days, they’re much more social than I am. I feel bad for guys out there struggling, but I have enough things to worry about in my life and my own struggles with lack of companionship too, not to mention my own…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:27 AM
1

Latinos and Asians bring the average to lower heights I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:38 AM
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Depends on the guy. That guy on YouTube Jeff Nipard. He’s 5’5” and he’s hot. Even if he wasn’t super fit but just relatively lean. The two guys at my job who are 5’2” am both have wives/girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:52 PM
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The women who often say that have a contradiction in their minds. Let me explain, I know this chubby girl with huge ass and hips and she only dates Latinos and sometimes black guys. She realizes she is a 10/10 to that smaller subset of guys. However, I once asked her if she only like Latinos and she said she also likes white guys (she’s white) but they aren’t into her. So to them she knows she’s likely a 0/10. To them, if certain guys aren’t into them, they don’t factor them into their attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:20 PM
2

C is my type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:43 PM
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Idk but as a hairy woman I’ve thought about this a lot and my conclusion is always “it is what it is” I’ve never been in a relationship so only trim down there and my legs don’t see a razor unless I wear short in public. I shave my pits every third day and if wearing short sleeves. It sucks but what can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:37 PM
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Can I ask? What kind of women have hit on you that you didn’t find attractive? Any specific attributes/features?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:46 PM
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You said yourself, she is “quite attractive” not all women have this privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:44 PM
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She was body goals though. Every Latina wanted to have her body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:48 PM
3

I think a lot of guys feel this way but for some reason on Reddit they insist it’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:41 PM
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I think there’s a variety of answers that you can be given from a female perspective. I have acquaintances that are with men who I did not find attractive at all. I scratch my head and think…hmm ok? Whatever makes them happy. There are those couples who equally unattractive and I think, “I wonder if the guy watches po*n with way hotter women” and I wonder if she’s just with him cause she wanted kids and companionship. But then some do seem like they’re really in love. So, I think there are peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:38 AM
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I work a blue collar job with all kinds of men and most are in fact in relationships. Even the short ones. Are they dating hotties? Nah, they’re dating their equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:47 AM
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Coworker has first kid at 40 and is pregnant again now at 41. It’s possible if you do everything right, health wise. My aunt had her last daughter at 41 and she was an oopsie. Aunt wasn’t even “healthy” though. Sometimes it’s genetics. And sometimes people would rather not have kids when they’re in the 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:02 PM
1

It’s the ultimate form of validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:47 AM
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Somewhat but not much for me. However, I have friends who definitely think it’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:13 PM
1

Hmmm, well a 10-12 year old giving birth is more risky than a 35 yr old giving birth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:54 AM
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12
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:17 AM
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Many women are actually ok with that. As long as he isn’t a dull person and he’s not working fast food in the same position as the 16 yr olds lol.Now here’s the kicker, you’d have to find a woman who a little more down to earth, somebody who leans a bit more liberal and not super attractive. Pick your poison. I’m doing well for myself now but I come from a working class/poor background and I knew so many women who held the fort while their man made less money (and sometimes squandered it on stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:12 PM
1

Depends. I know a woman who divorced her handsome-ish husband and went with a fat ugly dude. The fat ugly dude treated her like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:02 PM
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Im 33F and in a similar boat to you. Combo of low libido and kind of unattractive—and I hardly find anyone attractive though. What’s your story?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:35 PM
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It just makes me think that men should hold themselves to those standards otherwise they’re hypocrites. I’ve never slept with anyone but I would still steer clear of guys who care so much about that. I don’t fault guys for wanting a girl that has the same n-count as them tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:03 PM
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No shit.Yet I feel I have to make it a point since it seems to bother men on this sub a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:09 PM
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For real, the shit I’ve seen dudes do for Stacy could make a lot of women bitter. The other thing is when lower tier women do get into relationships, their partner inevitably treats them like crap and/or would rather send messages to hot women on Facebook ( I’ve seen this happens to acquaintances many times) or they become po*n addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:18 PM
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I know you replied a while ago but do you consider yourself physically attractive? I’m the OP to what you replied but I’m probably a 4/10 though from a afar I look above average I think. I wish i found more men handsome. What kind of guys do you tend to find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:39 PM
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I agree. I honestly think this is spurred by po*n. They see the way the men on there are treated and expect women to treat them like that even though they’re not Chad. I’m a becky and I know guys won’t treat me like Stacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:51 AM
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I mean sure, some women are very attracted to fuckboys, however—when I say “he’s a fuckboy”…I mean that I wouldn’t be interested in a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:20 PM
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Usually if they have a perspective that I’ve never encountered, or if I can learn from them in any way. Also, would do anything to be a beautiful woman but I’m not even close. It sucks, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:36 PM
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I guess I don’t mind being single. I have a pretty low sex drive and kind of a loner. I think these standards are innate to me. I don’t need a guy to make more money than me and I don’t need him to be funny, or charismatic. He just has to be physically attractive to me and compatible enough otherwise I don’t really feel like it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:48 AM
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I’m very picky and this is why I’m single while all my friends are with guys who are their attractiveness equals so take this with a grain of salt. I like tall, broad shouldered men with a full head of hair. I’ve never slept with anyone so I don’t really know if I can feel lust with any other type of guy. When I see a guy like this, I don’t automatically feel lust. However, it’s those type of men I can picture myself being intimate with, as cringe as that sounds. Keep in mind that I have friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:28 AM
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That one flew over your head. The guys obviously matched with her as a joke. They were playing along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:00 AM
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You do not understand the female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:42 AM
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This has already always been my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:26 AM
2

I’m not autistic but I do the things you do here because I have social anxiety due to being an ugly-ish woman. You probably have social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:41 PM
1

Yeah ok but hot women can get away with shit that average women cant. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:43 PM
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Most women aren’t near or around the squat rack because that shit is intimidating when there’s 10 dudes hovering around vicinity. I use free weights at home and many women do Pilates in women only fitness classes.. I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:47 PM
1

She? It’s dude who posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:44 PM
1

So I work with a lot of guys ( a few 100+) who are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s.I find most of them neutral. There’s a tiny few who are outright “hot” (they range from age 27-40) and a few that are cute. The rest are “meh” but I also don’t talk to them much. I assume when I talk to them, that would change. I think if they were all in their late 20s, early to mid thirties, I’d find more of them attractive from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:33 PM
1

Do you think a lot of guys on here have higher standards than they let on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:20 PM
1

I found the “plain” janes cuter than the “average joes” I think the last pic of the guy is cute. The first guy need to shave his hair and the he’ll be cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:17 PM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:51 PM
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Idk, hottest dude I personably met is married to a doctor and the few other hot guys I know are dating women who have at least a 4 year degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:02 AM
2

Well, I was in college from 2008-2012 and my friends circle all had an average n-count of 1. People are going to believe what they want to believe regardless of the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:57 AM
2

Wish I was a lesbian honestly. My sister is a lesbian and she’s had it much better than me. Lesbians aren’t looks oriented at all, they seem to have lower physical standards but definitely higher personality standards. My two brothers also have had fairly easy dating lives despite being short dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:16 AM
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You act like all women are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:36 AM
2

Attractive poor man. As long as he is looking to improve his situation and isn’t just playing video games during his free time. If he has debt, is he working to pay it off? If he’s working at a fast food place, is he looking for better opportunities? Or is he trying to be the shift supervisor? I’m 33 F
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:29 PM
2

If it helps, I’m 33F and I don’t participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:20 AM
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I always think of people like Jane Austen, Emily Dickinson—they were forever alones. So many people never married back in the day, especially those who had enough wealth to support themselves until death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:36 PM
1

Same thing for men. Men ignore glaring red flags in women if she’s hot too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:28 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:56 AM
6

Thing is, they complain that no girl wants to date or they post things about being a nice guy lol Like duh, don’t keep going after the gym bunny when you have Cheeto dust in your shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:34 PM
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You think this is a generational thing? Like gen z men are more likely to feel this way? Cause all the older men (millenials/Gen X) I know who are fat and/or sort of ugly always hit on the skinny cute chicks. Even their friends have told them to get in shape if they want those kinds of women. but they don’t really listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:28 PM
1

My brothers warned me against pursuing men because it makes me look desperate and more likely to get used by men who feel “meh” about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:15 PM
1

I’m 33
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:54 AM
2

Tbh, no man has ever asked me out in public. Maybe they’re targeting the top girls and those girls arectired of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:46 PM
1

Salma is 56 yrs old, is she considered middle age still or a senior?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:38 PM
2

All the women I personally know don’t go for tall men who make more than 100k, on the contrary. I don’t know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:35 PM
2

Yep. I wear sweats and a long t-shirt to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:37 PM
6

Most women aren’t the prom queen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:00 PM
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What is considered early?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:44 PM
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I never thought I’d be making over 100k in my life and I never thought about a potential partner’s income when I was younger either. Never thought about their height much. Am I more physically attracted to taller men? Yes. But there are more short, average salary dudes on this earth, so I can’t demand shit when I’m not really hot myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:01 PM
2

Do most women even demand a man like that? If you’re only attracted to partying, golddigging thots, then I guess you’re fucked. The average woman isn’t demanding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:58 PM
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Not into tats but the two on the right are the handsomest. All of them are, and none would be interested in me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:01 PM
2

Wasn’t that study from an earlier year? Though I saw a later year where that percentage was a lot lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:26 PM
1

I value men on their looks too, their values/ethics second. If I’m not physically attracted to a guy, I won’t be interested. If he has good values, then his income won’t necessarily matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:07 PM
1

Doesn’t make sense, if a guy isn’t getting laid, how would he know what he can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:29 PM
0

If a lot of these guys think those are threes, makes sense why they’re not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:03 PM
5

She’s definitely not above average but she’s also not a 3. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:01 PM
5

Im a girl and I’m just really interested to see what an example of a 3 is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:12 PM
9

The most attractive girls that I personally know are with either a mediocre looking guy cause she doesn’t realize there are guys beyond her neighborhood or they are actually with a handsome guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:51 PM
1

Right? If dudes are willing to stick their d in any woman, how is it validating? If that guy says he wants to be in a relationship with you when he has another option or options—that’s validating. Women don’t want desperate chumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:19 AM
2

As much as it pains me to say it (as a flat chested woman) yes, their boobs get them men. Moms side of the family has huge“bahookas” and they range from pudgy to obese. I’m skinny because if I gain weight, none of it goes to boobs, strictly to my gut and love handles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:15 AM
6

Why the hatred for ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:11 AM
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I’m a below avg woman and I’ve never slept with someone. Most of the women I know are in long term relationships since age 18. I only know two that are promiscuous but I don’t think their n count surpasses 20
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:06 AM
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For sure. I wish I could find a guy who I like and likes me back as much as I like him. Chances are pretty slim when you’re a below average woman. The guy will probably watch porn of much prettier women or will inevitably fantasize about cuter women he knows. I don’t wanna deal with that y’know? I have a very low disgust threshold so being with a guy I’m not attracted to makes me physically nauseous. I don’t know how sex workers do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:46 PM
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I wish I could find more people like you in my life. My best friend has been with her husband for 15 years, and my other good friend hooking up with a guy I had a crush on (she didn’t know that). Most women my age (33) have kids or are partnered up. People view single women like us with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:43 PM
5

Why do you speak in absolutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:08 PM
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Meh, I consider myself an ugly-ish woman. None of the guys I’ve ever liked have liked me back and the few who’ve found me cute don’t really seem enthused to pursue anything other than cordial pleasantries. However, I know I’m happier being by myself than being with someone I’m not really into. I rarely am attracted to anyone, so the odds of me finding anyone are slim. Sure, I may have options compared to a below average man—but those options have to compete with my peaceful life. Im not going ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:04 PM
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It would have been different if I had been born 30 years earlier—if porn wasn’t so ubiquitous, high definition, and accesible. I probably would have just avoided watching rated R movies with my kids until age 13/14. If they somehow got their hands on magazines or pics at a slightly earlier age? There’s nothing I could do about it if they hide it well. However, with high speed internet and it pervading pretty much every social media platform, I would monitor every thing up to age 16 I think. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:00 AM
1

You should probably watch “That 70s Show”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:10 AM
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This has always been my gripe with men who are terminally online. Average women don’t look like your hyperfeminine porn stars and insta thots. They look like a regular woman at Walmart. If they’re going to cry that women’s standards are too high, maybe they should take a good look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:11 AM
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It’s not just a women phenomenon, men go through it too. It’s annoying AF that lots of men think only women get hung up on someone. Also, I’ve seen women get hung up on some fat, pig looking mfers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:13 PM
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I think someone already pointed it out but just because I reject someone doesn’t mean I think I’m above them. If anything, the very few guys I’ve rejected always ended up with women I consider cuter/hotter than me. It’s really about the individual. I have a type of guy that I like and I’m low libido as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:07 PM
3

What’s an example of a 1/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:04 PM
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What kind of people are you going for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:33 AM
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Looks matter to all women, why do you think they fall in love with actors, boy bands, etc. I always had crushes on actors as a kid. The issue here is that I see women hooking up and in relationships with guys who I don’t consider attractive, which, to me means that there are men out there who don’t have to be handsome to get women. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:06 PM
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If anything I’d argue it’s the opposite. Men seemed to be more affected by peers and society when it comes to looks, just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:03 PM
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Idk, most couples I see are evenly matched but sometimes I see some busted dudes with hot chicks and sometimes I see really hot dudes with cute but sort of meh chicks. I live in LA metro for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:37 PM
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Most of the women on there aren’t even average, a lot of them are actually above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:29 PM
1

So you start talking about pretty women and their pretty privilege but you realize most women don’t have pretty privilege, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:27 PM
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Yep, the bond I have with my family is stronger than any bond I’ve ever had with anyone. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship but I know that my family will always be there regardless of any dude I might meet along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:19 AM
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Of course you have a preference for white women. Probs why you’re having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:54 AM
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Bro, so these unattractive men you want women to date are only monogamous because they’re forced to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:22 PM
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Oh, he knows. My friend told him and he said he wasn’t interested. Though he shoots (what I consider) flirty glances at me when I see him. I think he’s probably flattered but doesn’t find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:47 PM
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I guess objectively you could say that’s true. However, There’s more nuance to it. Men want to better themselves more often so they can get many women while women want to better themselves so they can get their best man. I personally am surrounded by men and women who never tried to improve themselves all that much so when men speak of this phenomenon, it’s all online. In my reality (I grew up working class) both the men and women were pretty equal in terms of effort, and dare I say, the women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:42 PM
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I agree with the first two but definitely not the third. I like all animals except bugs. Our aversion to certain bugs/insects is there for a reason. They carry disease and have the potential to cause us harm. Even my brothers will scream in horror around roaches. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:28 PM
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Wow, I didn’t know I was loved just for existing. The people who love me are my parents and siblings. They love me because of those reasons. Same as my brothers, I love them because they are my brothers. Do you have family?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:29 PM
1

Actually made me more interested in him. Don’t think he finds me attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:47 AM
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I like their jaws (thicker than women’s) Their height (taller than women) They’re more broad and thicker boned and muscles (even the “scrawnier” men) Their deeper voices Their physical strength The fact that they can grow facial hair All of those physical things that make them different in relation to women. All the other things like eye shape, lip shape, smell, hair color etc. those are characteristics that Both men and women possess so that’s why I didn’t really bring those up. In terms of per…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:06 AM
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It depends on whether he wants to improve or not. I know several chronically single men. Two very handsome: one is super quiet, may be on the spectrum. I hit on him but he wasn’t interested (which is fine, I was probably shooting out of my league) He doesn’t seem to be into dating. people around me have told me we would have made a cute couple. Second one: pothead, said he thought I was cute but he’s too young for me. He knows I think he’s cute. I told him. Currently hooking up with a chubby but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:28 PM
7

How would they have an intense and intimate relationship if they aren’t feeling it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:19 PM
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Moral of the story, being good looking makes people treat you better. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:48 AM
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Bruh, this happens the other way too, it’s human nature. What do you think happened when I finally cleared my acne and lost weight as a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:46 AM
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Do you interact with women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:26 AM
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Cleaning??? I wish I enjoyed that as a hobby. Fucking hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:12 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think they even see the inconsistencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:45 PM
3

By definition I can’t be attracted to someone I consider unattractive. I can be attracted to someone others don’t find attractive. People have questioned why I liked a guy who looked like “a frog” and another guy who was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:27 PM
2

What percentage do you reckon? Just an anecdote here—I’ve never had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:39 PM
1

I look better without makeup because no matter how expensive the foundation I get, it highlights my acne scars. Eye makeup looks bad on me, except eyeliner. Since I have long lashes, mascara makes them look spidery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:23 PM
9

When you say reject, how so? I was rejected by a coworker when I expressed interest in him but we never went on a date or anything. I still say hi to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:55 PM
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Me too, I never had that “hoe phase” but sometimes I wish I did so that at least I could have enjoyed myself while these dudes still accuse women like us. Just to rebel, I think I’ll wait until my late 30s, get myself a boob job and I’ll become a cougar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:52 PM
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Yeah, lesbians have called me cute/pretty and guys are meh about me and they always have a thing for boobs, at least the guys I know in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:51 PM
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Lol and for me it’s the opposite, as a small boobed woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:44 PM
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Beg to differ. The dudes that I know who can’t get women are always going for women about two points above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:41 PM
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Men never say they’re beautiful. Not even 10/10 men. However, they do constantly hit on the hotter girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:34 PM
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First of all, this isn’t all women. It’s like saying, why are all men adrenaline junkies, they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:59 AM
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What percentage of women do you think sexual attention on Instagram/Facebook. I’d say it’s a much smaller percentage than the amount of men who watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:06 PM
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I’m 33 and I’ve found guys age 23-45 attractive. Would I seriously date them? No. I want to date with long term intentions. If a 27 yr old guy wants to settle down asap then I’d consider him. If a 40 yr old wants the same, I’d also consider him. So ages 27-40 is my age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:24 PM
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I think the issue here is that a woman stating what she finds attractive in a man when a man who doesn’t fit the criteria is present—would be considered crude. For example, I like tall men (doesn’t mean I’m entitled to one, I know). Yet I would never state this in front of men because most of the men in my life are quite short (I’m Latina). I’m a woman who hangs out with women since I was a kid. Women state their preferences to other women, they aren’t shouting it to everyone. I’ve seen ugly-ish…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:16 PM
1

Only guys that know I’ve been interested in them have been from work and one guy from high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:28 PM
7

If a guy would rather go with a AI woman, that’s fine. I can’t live up to AI and honestly, lots of women have already lost their partners to porn and OF. I’ve been single my whole life, won’t change anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:48 PM
1

Maybe because I live in Southern California and many men here are short. They also don’t rely on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:28 PM
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This is a strange take. I know short and average men who pump and dump women. it’s not just about lowering one’s standards, rather knowing how to vet these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:33 PM
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Never. Well, about 6 months ago, a guy asked me for gas money, gave him 5 bucks and then he asked for my number. He had face tattoos and looked like smoked meth. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:58 PM
2

Haha! My sis is the butch in her relationship and she’s definitely the shorty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:54 PM
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To be fair, I don’t care much for cats but seeing a guy with a puppy 🐶 is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:52 PM
6

Cause you made the distinction of “mid”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:54 AM
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Yes. People who do this of either gender are morally bankrupt and not someone I ever want to associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:17 PM
3

What if the girl was gorgeous, would that change your perspective on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:14 PM
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Henry Cavill in his 20s was divine. Matthew McFadyen when he played Mr. Darcy. Armie Hammer in Man from U.N.C.L.E. before the whole cannibal stuff lol Right now, no one. Had a mild crush on the guy who plays Aemond Targaryen (with the eye patch) when I was watching HOTD but I suppose it’s mostly context dependent. Also had a mild crush on Pedro Pascal in TLOU but now I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:23 PM
3

The music video depicts it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:28 AM
2

Yeah, it’s so weird seeing their points of view when my friends and I had n counts of two or less by age 30, and we’re not religious. They seek promiscuous women, they find them, then they think all women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:21 PM
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Yeah, nasal distortion and a visible scar put me off. There’s also the movement of the upper lip that may be affected. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:18 PM
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I had an otoplasty. Made me go from 4 to 4.5/10 lol but if I had a lip lift and the results came out good, I could be 6/10. Unfortunately this procedure is really risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:53 PM
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Anyone who says they love someone and the proceed to cheat is a liar. All the answers so far…damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:43 AM
5

Bro, I’ve seen much more of the opposite. Men leaving their girls for a younger, prettier one. Sometimes they don’t even bother leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:40 PM
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I think the internet has helped with this. The same way redpill spaces have grown, so have YouTube and other channels that make women very aware and cynical, and life experience too. I have some attractive coworkers and all of them at one time or another have been hit on by men in relationships.This legit has made me very closed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:58 PM
14

Ive noticed this about men in their 30s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:53 PM
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Bro, Mexico is the West and yet short men get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:30 PM
7

All of these women are average in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:37 AM
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You could go to Colombia and actually get it for free unless you’re quite unattractive. If you’re white, Latinas will match with you as long as you’re not ugly. This is better than actually paying for it since you don’t know if the girls are being forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:18 AM
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Well, of the two friend zoned guys I know, both facially like 3-4/10 and went for girls 5-6/10. One of the dudes was chubby and was going for a skinny/fit girl. The other guy was skinny at least and was going after a girl who had big fake boobs and a tiny waist but she was definitely better looking than him. Another thing to note, attraction can be a little more complex. There are men in my life who are objectively way more attractive than me, doesn’t mean I want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:59 PM
10

Most of the friend zoned men I know have always gone for girls out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:39 PM
7

All her guy friends are Chad? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:38 PM
2

Well, that’s depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:09 PM
1

I see it both ways. Most couples I see are average. Sometimes the guy is cuter, most of the time when there’s a mismatch, the girl is cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:57 PM
5

What if you put an untrained 35 yr old man to fight with an untrained 25 yr old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:38 AM
2

I’m not complaining. I’m just saying that your stupid narrative that all women get approached hundreds of times isn’t true. I don’t give a shit that they don’t approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:26 PM
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By this logic, men are the first selectors since they are the ones who select what women they’re going to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:35 PM
19

I look like my brother and he got lots of women. Guess who’s ugly and never gets guys to ask her out? Suppose it depends on the features.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:38 PM
0

I don’t understand. What do you mean by “better treatment”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:43 AM
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It kind of is a hassle. If I’m going to shave my legs everyday then you better be worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:58 PM
27

This tracks. At work some guy kept saying this one dude was a virgin because of the way he looked. Turns out the “virgin” dude was married to a really cute girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:26 PM
34

I would rather make out with Charlize Theron than with the dude you mentioned. Would you rather make out with Henry Cavill or some morbidly obese woman with sores.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:14 PM
2

This is interesting. I’m not really a good looking woman but a few times I’ve shown a picture of a guy that I like to my brother, he says the guys seem either too ugly, too fat, or a loser. I think some guys IRL have higher standards for their family members. My cousin was dating a darker skinned, short Latino (we’re of Latino origin) and her dad made fun of her for it. I mention IRL because on Reddit, the men state that all women have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:58 PM
1

Wouldn’t them rejecting the local men in favor of foreign men make it so that she is looking for a top man? Most western men have more resources than the local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:54 PM
1

This again? Do men love women unconditionally? What a joke. What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:56 PM
3

Mid is average tho isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:18 PM
1

Do you think it has something to do with porn and Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:15 PM
14

Didn’t have a party stage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:33 AM
35

This is my case. Single guys from high school/college now knocking on my door after ignoring my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:38 PM
1

Haven’t used them yet but plan on starting next month, once I feel a little less yuck about my body. I’m hoping it’s not entirely depressing. The reason I’d be using it is because men in real life are not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:28 PM
7

This is exactly what happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:01 AM
2

What do you mean you’re mainly into anime women? I got depressed when a guy I started chatting with all of a sudden brought anime characters into the conversation, talking about their big boobs. Guess what, I have small boobs :( This place is depressing, but so is real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:16 PM
3

maybe the women around your age are all partnered up by now and the younger ones may not find you attractive anymore? Or they filter out by age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:38 AM
2

Yep. The one of the guys was chubby but facially unattractive too and legit had a crush on one of the prettiest girls. He also only started trying to flirt with me once I had a mini glow up. Same with the other guy. He was slim but facially unattractive. Only liked super slim bigger boobed women. Like, damn no wonder you can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:35 AM
3

Online meaning not exclusively Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:39 AM
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Why don’t you go out at all? This isn’t be being judgmental I’m just curious. The reason I say this is because almost everyone I know is in relationships, including my 5’5” brothers. My chubby cousins are dating chubby guys. My best friend married the guy she met and n High school. Also, just because 80% of the women on Tinder find 20% of the men attractive doesn’t mean they only go for these guys. Wasn’t there a stat that said that women messaged men below that threshold too? I’m 33 but my 22 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:40 PM
7

You understand that most women aren’t hooking up with guys in Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:27 PM
0

All the average men I know in their 20s-30 are in relationships. The two hottest guys I know are single. A few of the handsome men are married. The few ugly-ish guys I know are single but they always go for pretty women only, this is the truth, at least in real life. I’ve never online dated so I don’t know the dynamic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:26 PM
9

Can I ask you what makes these women who you sleep with less attractive than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:19 PM
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One thing I don’t understand is why men one here are so hyper focused on OF women as if the majority or a large percentage of women are involved in it. This leads me to believe that men on here are constantly watching and contributing to these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:02 PM
4

Honestly, as a woman I wouldn’t mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:28 PM
1

5’9” isn’t really a problem. It’s average height and most men are your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:24 PM
2

I’m 33 and the most handsome guy in my department is 27. So men in their mid-late twenties look the best imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:21 PM
8

I’m 33. At this point I wouldn’t be against it, but he’d have to really be a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:00 PM
1

Well then that’s the fucking problem. Is your complaint that you can’t get women or that you can’t get the insta thotties you jerk off to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:36 PM
3

Yeah, now that you mention it. I have a friend who just started seeing a much younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:42 PM
6

Well, I’m single af and I don’t own any luxury products. I think the most expensive article of clothing I own are my shoes and those are converse lol I make pretty good money so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:07 AM
7

Girl is more attractive than the guy but both are above.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:33 PM
4

Most of the people I see doing polyamory are ugly af. They find each other attractive I guess. I’m uggo too but I am repulsed by that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:36 PM
2

Most of the people I see doing polyamory are ugly af. They find each other attractive I guess. I’m uggo too but I am repulsed by that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:36 PM
2

Didn’t notice that detail. It’s difficult to gauge what then is the cause. Most of my friends are in committed relationships where either they are to be married soon or are already married. Like I said, I have that one friend who might say she’s in a relationship. I don’t know, I’m a single woman who’s never dated so I’ve never shared a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:09 PM
1

I have a friend who I think would say she’s in a relationship with a guy. I think the guy would say he’s not in a relationship since all they do is sleep with each other and talk casually. They are exclusively sleeping with each other though. I think the discrepancy comes from the wording. I wonder if they ask people whether they are in a “serious relationship” if the stats would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
1

Lots of women who are on meds would probably be in jail or self deleted if it wasn’t for the meds. Men go to jail and self delete at higher rates than women but they’re also less likely to be on meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:58 AM
14

A woman who belittles you at a minor inconvenience. I don’t mean in a joking way or when you really fuck up. More like when you miss an exit on the freeway and she lashes out. Should never call you “stupid” or “ idiot” unless you straight up cheated on her or squandered your life savings. “Not like other girls” she thinks all other women dislike her. My guy friend learned this the hard way. Those who demand you pay for everything. Either way seems like guys don’t care because looks are the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:49 AM
8

Same thing but vice versa. Men I knew who went for the Stacies in high school-mid twenties now hit me up on social media. I think it’s human nature. I just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:16 PM
5

What is it about your personally that you think throws women off? I seem to be attracted to men who are quiet and sort of have poker face most of the time. However, when I try to talk to them, I get the impression that they dislike me. Do you think that’s your case? Maybe the women think you don’t like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:14 AM
2

Yes and no. More cautious and less rose tinted glasses about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:53 AM
1

This is a roundabout way to say you can’t back up your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:39 PM
2

It’s a hypothetical the addresses the principle. If his loyalty is contingent upon his lack of options, how is that a win?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:39 PM
1

One feature on my face is very unattractive as a woman. I suppose I can have it corrected with plastic surgery but my family is very against it and I know it would be a cause for shame/embarrassment seeing as I’m 33 and everyone at work/friends are used to seeing me in a certain way. The surgery is also very risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:15 PM
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So women are just supposed to go for the guys with absolutely no options because supposedly he will wait. However, if he were to become very attractive overnight he would definitely try to cheat or date other women. Is that supposed to sound romantic and/or virtuous? This is the implication of your grievance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:11 PM
2

Vast majority of women aren’t using the services provided by this woman so there’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:13 PM
1

Believe me, unless a woman is extremely shy, if she actually likes you, she will put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:06 PM
2

I wish they were more honest about it. But alas, I’ll wallow in my own self pity and hope these guys one day realize that not all women have a million options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:56 PM
-1

I recommend you go into your local Walmart or target and observe the couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:41 PM
6

I completely agree with you here. Guys choose who they pursue. I’m a below average woman and I’ve never been pursued. All the men who have met me have chosen to not pursue me—there’s a lot more agency than they let on. I have a friend (haven’t seen her in a while) who I can guarantee has never had a guy show interest because let’s face it…not all of us women are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:40 PM
1

Was at work, refreshed my feed a few times during my break until I gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:52 PM
3

I’d say bad and I’m a woman. I’ve had a married Chad try to get my attention (back when I wore a mask so he couldn’t see my full ugliness) but it made me feel like utter crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:44 PM
2

I had a crush on a fat guy last year but he wasn’t interested. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:40 PM
9

Depends on social circles, really. Friends and I are independent, working women who have an education. We don’t expect men to pay for first dates. I’m a millennial though so I don’t know how gen-z girls operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:31 PM
3

Thing is, what I find attractive is different to what my friends find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:28 PM
4

I’m surprised by the fact that he received letters from women despite him being gay. I wonder if he received letters from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:32 PM
1

Nope, a mix of feelings. I’m somewhat below average due to one feature on my face. Otherwise I’d be above average. If an “ugly” guy approaches me I feel mixed feelings: somewhat flattered, also a bit of doubt (since I always think desperate men are the type to go for me), and a bit of regret that I’ll have to reject since I’d probably wouldn’t be interested. When I think more about it, makes me feel worse about myself but whatever, it is what it is. For context, the last guys to approach me were…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:16 PM
2

I’ve never been in a relationship or hooked up with anyone. I have, however, been really attracted to a man. It’s rare that I’m attracted to someone so I assume that the thought process of a woman who is fuckzoned is “I can’t let go because the dopamine this man gives me is nothing compared to what I’ve had in the past” it’s all about reward at a basic biological level. This is why I don’t put myself in situations that can cause this dynamic. It’s like a drug for a woman, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:10 PM
1

Personally know more men that cheat and try to cheat. So there’s my anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:04 PM
0

Weirdly, the only two NEETS I know are gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:57 PM
3

Do you only get unattractive women into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:23 AM
1

Wow, this take is interesting. What if they were to get women who don’t have only fans and have at least some type of education—which is the actual typical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:44 PM
3

It’s not a problem but it depends. Guys who often watch anime are obsessed with huge boobs—I don’t have tits so I can’t live up to that fantasy. Video games are fine as long as he doesn’t play the whole day, but that’s the same thing with watching football all day. Variety is the spice of life. Having different interests is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:45 AM
17

I’m 33 and still haven’t had sex so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:41 AM
4

Meh, for many it’s biological. As a young girl in a heavily Hispanic/Asian area, I thought I was mostly asexual. I had crushes here and there but it was rare. When I started working at a place with lots of taller men I suddenly realized I wasn’t in fact asexual. I have a thing for tall guys. I don’t feel I deserve one nor do I demand, or shit on short guys. All my family members are short men and they do well for themselves with Hispanic women. My female cousins all got with shorter men. I’m a H…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:31 PM
2

Honestly, it’s sort of the way many, if not the majority of women look at it. Keep your standards—genuine attraction shouldn’t really be compromised. Someone always gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:16 AM
2

My first question, are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:17 PM
8

Not for a death, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:09 AM
14

So she dumped you because she didn’t want to deprive you of sex any longer. Not because you opened up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:08 AM
2

You know what? No guy has ever paid for my drinks. I’m below average tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:06 AM
4

How soon after did they end it? Could it be another reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:48 AM
1

I am not but Ive been on it to manage my acne. Didn’t make a difference in libido. I’m single and no bc Have never had sex so I haven’t used anything else. I’m naturally low libido. I’m sure the low self esteem and depression contributes to that. But also, I hardly see any guys I find attractive so that may be why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:16 AM
2

Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:49 PM
6

thinking a guy should always pay for the first date. I think the first date should always be split in half. Women who hit men thinking it’s ok because they’re weaker. Shaming male physiques. I think it’s ok if a guy says he doesn’t want to date “landwhales” as long as he’s ok if women say they don’t want to date “manlets” same applies for women. If you say you don’t like short guys, those same guys can say they don’t want to date flat chested women (I say this as an A cup woman) Not letting the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:38 PM
3

Sucks being a hairy woman though. Ever met a woman from Southern Europe or the Middle East? I’m Mexican American but have heritage from Spain…hairy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:58 PM
4

Yeah, feels like men think that everyone is hugging and kissing me just because I’m a woman lol —first of all, the USA is not a culture where people regularly touch each other so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:55 PM
1

I suppose I have the “privilege” of being seen as an option for sex since I’m a below average woman. (Tho I’m celibate) I think people feel less threatened by women, especially someone like myself, 5’1” small frame. Most women like other women more than men so perhaps I get slightly better treatment from women than I would if I was a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:53 PM
13

It’s a minority. Most people I know are of similar class and income. The guys who post about this are exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:34 PM
2

If I see a hot guy, usually I’ll fix my posture and take a double look. Other than that, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:38 PM
1

Are you conventionally good looking? Noticed you mentioned the women are conventionally good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:02 AM
1

Yep! Ever been to West Hollywood? My god. So many hot men. Most of them gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:44 PM
2

You ask good questions. This guy made too many assumptions in one paragraph lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:43 PM
2

When you say “women” do you mean only attractive women? Cause us normie women don’t get shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:21 PM
1

How soon tho? Coworkers having kids in their late 30s/early 40s so….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:01 PM
33

Yep. Attractive women are living in your head rent free and lol because you can’t have them. Instead you have to settle for average Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:10 AM
10

Idk, I’m not alarmed about it. I’ve had too much pain in my life already to worry about the population decline. I’m not childfree but I’ve never found a guy that I’d like to be a father of my kids because it’s never a mutual thing. It’s not like I can Will myself to like someone. Many of my aunts who had like 5+ kids had to endure a lot of mistreatment, cheating, beatings, and now have to be their husband’s caretakers. I’m enjoying the decline myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:10 PM
1

I think I’m a 4 though gay guys and women say I’m pretty sometimes. But it seems that all the guys in my league or below always went for the hot girls and since now in their early thirties they’re lonely, they’re coming out of the wood work to try to entice me…no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:34 PM
8

Depends on the reason. If he can get girls in his caliber but he prefers an escort because she’s hotter—hard pass. If he used an escort because he just wanted to get his virginity taken or something like that, then I’m ok with that, as long as the escort was a professional and not a street girl. Women off the street are usually victimized by pimps and taken when really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:07 PM
14

Ive never seen someone say you need to find fat women attractive. The only thing I hear people saying is don’t be a douche to fat women just because you think they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:53 PM
1

He seems like a parody character from SNL or MADtv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:01 AM
8

Bro, even the fat slobs take it to sex. Not just fuckbois
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:30 PM
6

Yeah, there’s a guy I was really into and he rejected me. It’s possible he’s above my league but it’s also possible he just wasn’t looking for a relationship or anything. I don’t understand why they think everyone is like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:34 PM
7

He has no friends. Most of the issues a lot of men here have could be solved if they had a social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:30 PM
1

Yeah, cause the majority of women are on this page. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:37 PM
19

This is what it’s always been about. I think they watch so much porn and follow instathots that the idea of marrying a regular woman is repulsive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:27 AM
8

For real. I’m probably 4-5/10 and good looking guys don’t even glance at me haha. The only time they did was when I was wearing a mask. Hell, even 4-5/10 men don’t look at me. Usually homeless guys like me tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:59 PM
1

Wasn’t there a post recently that stated that more men are having more sex in the current years?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:11 AM
0

Idk, I’m a woman and I’ve never had casual sex so it’s difficult to gauge how much I would even want casual as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:53 PM
1

Maybe not anymore that she’s 41, I could see why a twenty something guy would think that. Either way, you have too high standards if you think she’s average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:45 PM
3

Natalie is well above average while Cera is average to below if we are to look at them without considering their stardom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:31 PM
0

Yes, but they’re chubby/short and they want a skinny, cute girl. If they went for girls in their league, they could get laid for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:37 PM
1

I like some men but they are not interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:56 AM
1

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:09 AM
1

Fair as long as he can back it up with evidence that they were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:40 AM
2

They don’t think they deserve anything. No one deserves shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:26 AM
1

It’s not about deserving or not deserving. You’re either attracted to someone or you aren’t. Dim witted comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:11 AM
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I’m pretty sure the the guys who matched with her did it as a joke, it’s obvious her face is photoshopped. It’s only the ppd circlejerk autists that believe it’s legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:42 AM
1

It’s either or, really. You could say the same about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:34 AM
20

Im one of them. Two famous ones in the past were Jane Austen and Emily Dickinson. Miranda Hart is a comedian known for being one. As far as the percentage? I’m not sure how many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:37 PM
5

If you see his post history…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:55 AM
7

How do you know you’re more attractive than your dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:31 PM
3

Thanks for the answer. I’m a woman but I agree with your observation. I’m about a 30 minute drive south of Los Ángeles and I’m 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:15 PM
2

Just from looking at a guy and thinking “hot”? Tall, broad-ish shoulders, nice jaw but not necessary, a full head of hair, bigger, deep set eyes. I’ve found shorter men hot too, usually they are a smaller version of the tall guy. There’s a difference between hot and attractive tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:26 PM
6

It’s not creepy but I wouldn’t date someone who does. It’s just not the type of guy I’m into.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:28 AM
18

All the “average” women I know are married or in long term relationships. I’m a below average woman and I just stay at home, work, hang with family and I don’t really talk to men outside of platonic interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:01 AM
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It’s more that there are lots of pretty women out there, so if you do ask us out, it means we stood out from the rest of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:34 AM
1

Most women don’t have simps because most women don’t post thirst traps because most women know it’s meaningless. Ya get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:40 AM
1

But it’s meaningless and most women know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:02 PM
1

What kind of women are you going for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:05 PM
3

Bro, you overestimate the amount of women who even have simps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:57 PM
1

I don’t mind a loner but it gives me pause and I’ll think about whether he actually enjoys his time with me or if he’s only with me for superficial reasons. If he treats others with respect and actually makes an effort with my loved ones, nothing else matters all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:56 PM
2

I never had a boyfriend or hooked up in high school or college and I’m ok with that. Some people just need extra validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:54 AM
3

Well, I’m single and I don’t have sex so how are you going to differentiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:44 AM
3

It depends. There are women out there who are in their 30s who you may think are in their 20s. I know many people out there who look much younger than they are, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:58 PM
15

Yeah if a guy out of my league feels like he’s doing me a favor, then I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:51 PM
2

No age, really. Some people don’t really like to date (much like myself). If he’s a player? Next. If he’s socially awkward? I’m socially awkward, don’t know how that would work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:37 PM
1

Can I ask you something? How did you guys meet? when you approached, were you sure he liked you? Or did you think he might be interested but maybe not? Do you consider yourself physically attractive? Sorry for the questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:11 PM
3

Bro, I work at a warehouse. I make good money because this job is strenuous and is known to wreck your body, among a few more cerebral responsibilities. I think most men AND women would benefit from having service/retail jobs and physical jobs at least for some time of their life. I’ve had them both and I think I’m a better person now than I was a few years ago because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:32 PM
0

Women who aren’t Barbie are bottom of the barrel?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:59 PM
6

I’m a 33 year old woman. Most men that I find physically attractive are age 22-35–youth is attractive but around age 30 is when you start to see the difference in lifestyle for both sexes. Most men my age are balding or have bigger bellies. If you’re talking about wealth and confidence, then yes that makes sense. Lots of men are confident at age 22 though. I have friends who got together at age 18 and have built their wealth together as a couple, but they aren’t super attractive people, just ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:40 PM
4

Some people are naturally like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:27 PM
6

Yep. I was 22 in 2012 and I was single but I wasn’t sleeping around. I just chilled at home with my family or I was at work or hanging out with my friends who were in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:14 PM
2

my younger cousin and her boyfriend are an average couple. She’s pretty but doesn’t have an hourglass body shape, sort of squarish upper body and her boyfriend is not ugly, sort of unremarkable and probably 5’6” but he’s super easy to talk to. I’d say they’re average because the guys around my area tend to be shorter. Both are age 22. I actually do think she’s prettier than him objectively but they love each other very much so they’re perfect for each other. Another cousin who has a gorgeous fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:08 PM
5

Instead if whine, change it coffee, instead of cats, make it a puppy and a birb, instead of Zoloft, change it to zyrtec lol Look, if the guy I like prefers a fembot to me, I’d rather have the alternate life. What do the eggs mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:56 PM
8

She had bad acne that she treated with accutane. I took this drug and it’s no joke. It caused severe eye dryness, my hair started falling out, back, knee, and ankle pain, lost hearing temporarily. I would do it again if it meant I wouldn’t disgust others with my acne. The world is really superficial, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:42 PM
6

I hear it’s also because toward the end of your menstrual cycle (late 30s to menopause) you’re more likely to release multiple eggs each time you ovulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:22 AM
5

She had a kid in her late twenties and kept trying to have one right after all the way into her late 30s. Out of nowhere she ended up pregnant at 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:04 PM
2

Go ahead and get the dolls, the sooner the better, honestly. I‘ve never participated in the “sexual market place” anyway. Also, the most important thing this tells me that these men want all women to look like that and they aren’t actually attracted to average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:51 PM
11

My neighbor tried to have kids for years in her 20s and 30s. She ended up having a kid at 45. This isn’t to say that all 45 year olds can have kids. Just that anything can happen for good or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:33 PM
3

So 43 percent have this and people ignore that the majority don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:28 AM
5

She’s 5-6 in my opinion but this gives me insight on what men consider average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:01 PM
0

All incels are virgins, not all virgins are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:23 PM
-6

I’ve never heard a woman making fun of a virgin. Only incels, but not virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:59 AM
1

Could it be that you think women in their 30s are in their 20s? Today one of my coworkers asked how old I turned recently and told her 33. She and everyone else thought I was in my mid twenties. I asked her how old she is and said 36. She’s petite like me but I thought she was younger than me, by a lot. She and I don’t have any children so that may factor into it. Every person I’ve met assumes I’m in my 20s. We’re both Latina, exercise, don’t drink much, non-smokers, and take care of our skin— s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:41 AM
1

My aunts all married in their teens, had multiple children and didn’t live super nice lives. They just never went to a shrink and didn’t believe in therapy. Things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:36 AM
3

Yeah. Ive gone without sex for 33 years, so if I was told that I’ll never sleep with anyone, I’d just shrug and keep living my life. If I was to kill myself , it’s definitely for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:33 AM
-2

This is delusional. Ugly peeps end up with each other all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:20 PM
2

I wish I could get implants too but the judgment from family..what’s funny is all my cousins and sister/mom have big bewbs. I got genes from my dads side of the fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:03 PM
3

My standards are that he at least graduated high school and that he’s making enough money to support himself without much debt. Personality wise- I’d hope that he’s liberal/moderate, open minded but also not a deviant. Interested in many intellectual topics and cultural knowledge and that he has a good sense of humor—he doesn’t have to be funny but I like guys who can laugh at themselves and absurdities of life. He’d absolute have to like my family. Now…all the other things you listed I really d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:40 AM
3

At age 62? I guess we can go to cougar bars lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:26 AM
6

Yep, think if I don’t marry in my 30s, I’ll probably do this. My parents live together but have separate rooms. They love each other, but both are very independent people with different circadian rhythms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:24 AM
7

Kinda sucks you have this view of women. I’m 33 and have gone on only one date my whole life. Why don’t guys just admit it’s about the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:04 PM
1

Many here are very intelligent…others, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:17 PM
4

Im súper left leaning but I don’t think 14 year olds should have hormone therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:17 PM
1

Nobody or hardly any one. I still think J. Lo, Salma Hayek, and Shakira look great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:38 PM
3

What other subreddits do you guys follow? I’m looking for something as stimulating or even better than r/purplepilldebate . Intelligent discussion, dissenting views etc. Science/culture/ history too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:36 PM
2

I see average men and women together every day of my life. They desire each other I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:13 AM
1

This could be seen as a good thing though. I don’t want some guy to settle for me just because he’s lonely and horny…that’s sad for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:06 AM
1

Ok whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:13 AM
5

For real. I’m thin and there are countless women who weigh more than myself and have men thirsting over them. It’s all about the face. There was a question on r/askmen recently asking whether the face or body is most important and the majority agreed on face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:40 PM
1

The few things I’ve seen with him speaking always seems like a parody. I’m a millenial so idk if maybe gen z has different parameters for social cues now. It’s like when I used to watch Andy Samberg on SNL playing a dude bro or a douchy suave man. I could see some people on the autism spectrum falling to his rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:17 PM
1

Not my fav. But it’s cool. I’m not judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:13 PM
0

They’re invited because they are the only ones willing to go on their shit shows and these dudes are only attracted to these type of chicks. They’re sure as hell aren’t attracted to nerdy, librarian, or sophisticated types.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:09 PM
1

Come to my mom’s house. She will feed you good tamales
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:07 PM
9

Same with dudes. Cousin got threatened by her high school boyfriend with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:06 PM
4

Hey, I think you replied to the wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:56 PM
18

My guy friends say their girlfriends were crazy or controlling, most people say shit about their exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:28 PM
5

They even had pictures of women they dated on bodybuilding.com., calling them meh and sloots etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:37 AM
2

Yeah, no one is perfect, but some things are worse than others.. Cutting someone off in traffic isn’t the same as repeatedly cheating on your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:35 AM
-1

I’ve experienced the same but from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:04 PM
0

Men are even more critical of a man’s looks than women are. My cousin’s dad complained that her bf was too short and my bro said the guy I had a crush on looked like a frog.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:41 AM
1

This is my issue too. Pregnancy sounds awful and is going to wreck my body. Do I want to do it twice? Sibling can be such a great thing and I always wonder if it’s selfish to have only one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:45 PM
1

Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:12 PM
2

Ad hominems. Are you going to answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:17 AM
3

So what’s your grievance, then? What realistic/reasonable standard do you think women should have? Also, it’s hard to differentiate the blackPillers from those who aren’t. There are posters here who believe that what your hyperbole states is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:10 AM
8

Yeah, I don’t mind when guys get annoyed at some women for saying they want someone over 6 ft tall. What annoys me is when they say every woman wants a tall boyfriend when in reality you see men of every height with girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:27 PM
6

They will if she’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:26 PM
7

Most women aren’t Stacies though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:33 PM
3

No really, even when without the hyperbole—you realize most men are in relationships. My bros are 5’5” a little overweight and they still got girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:04 PM
1

No. Im a woman and i don’t have children. I still consider myself a woman. If the question asked, what things make a person low value, I would have answered that. But he asked specifically about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:30 PM
0

Did you see that I posted about dead beat mothers? Or those who don’t take responsibility for their actions? There are things that I disapprove of both in men and women so I didn’t address those, but if the question asks about women specifically… What is the biggest difference between men and women? What makes a woman different from a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:24 PM
5

Construction requires skill and intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:16 AM
12

No woman says that here. It’s always the black pill dudes who claim this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:35 AM
42

It’s hard to answer because if a woman is super hot but she’s an absolute bitch then she’s low value to me, but she’s not considered low value to men. I digress. In my opinion, a low value woman is someone who doesn’t take responsibility for her actions. Women who have two to three baby daddies and can’t even afford the children. Women who sleep with married men or men in relationships. Women who expect to be taken care of without much contribution except what’s between their legs (gold diggers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:18 PM
1

I’d take the guy who I click with the most. I like quieter guys and I make enough money to where I don’t care as much about what a guy makes as long as he’s responsible with finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:10 PM
24

Im a woman and i consider a high n-count anything over 8 for both men and women. However, I have an n-count of 0 so a guy having more than 3 is too high for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:07 PM
2

Ew, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:19 PM
6

Would love a guy who wouldn’t even escalate to sex in the first 5 dates, so ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:20 AM
5

You can though. Millions of women remove their body hair for that preference. I’m a hairy woman and I expect to remove my hair if I ever have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:45 PM
3

Jon Hamm was hot in his 30s, I actually had a crush on Chris Pratt when he was chubby, and Oscar Isaac does nothing for me. Still, these guys are exceptional men and they don’t represent 40 something year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:12 AM
7

Why can’t you believe her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:09 AM
1

In the olden times before men weightlifted and trained in mma, the men hunted and had equal amount of bone and muscle density, the taller men always had an advantage because height=more muscle, more bone, and more wingspan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:41 AM
1

Well, I haven’t been asked out unless I really doll up and straighten my hair, and that was 3 yrs ago. Men don’t like my natural self.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:00 PM
1

I’d only want a relationship with someone who I feel enthused about—I would hope that would be a mutual feeling between myself and the other person. I doubt any guy would be giddy about being with me, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:59 PM
7

Im ugly-ish and i have a hard time being around people all the time. The thought of being intimate with a guy I’m not attracted to is repulsive. I hardly find any men attractive. I’m ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:57 PM
9

I honestly don’t care either way. If a dude wants to be with his VR pron instead of me, what can I do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:37 PM
2

Age 22- nonexistent Age 32- nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:26 PM
2

Bro, do you realize why women have a better sense of smell and better color discernment than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:18 PM
1

Kind of forced to. I used to go back to my room and family would call me anti-social and would constantly give me shit for it. If you want to move up in career/organization, you have to reach out to people and learn proper language/body language. If you’re not nice/welcoming as a woman, you’re called a bitch from the get-go and people treat you like shit if you don’t. Some of the good things: We know there are perks to talking to others. We know that if I talk to someone to help them out if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:16 PM
2

My family (parents, siblings) are the only reason I haven’t abandoned the USA and moved to a rural town in Mexico. Somewhere cute like San Miguel Allende. I feel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:58 PM
1

The only reason I don’t approach is guys are willing to say yes just for the sex, without regard to me as a person. It’s not because I necessarily feel unsafe. Even my brothers have told me not to ask men out because according to them, it’ll be too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:29 PM
1

NO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:21 PM
1

Pardon the ignorance but is furry art sexual in nature? Why furry and not landscapes like Bob Ross or dark shit like Stephen Gamell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:42 AM
2

Why do y’all think we’re here on this planet? I keep going back to the belief that we are the universe experiencing itself. It’s tiresome if I’m being honest. Working 40hrs a week, pop out a few babies, then rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:39 AM
1

Ooh! Being part of a book club seems like it would be so fun. My best friend doesn’t read much and I’m not really close to the acquaintances that do read. What is your favorite book(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:36 AM
1

Is your world building just for fun or do you guys plan on making a game or a book out of it? Seems cool. I once started writing a book (in Spanish) but then started noticing lots of clichés in my plot and characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:12 AM
1

Maybe you’re just a night owl? I was home, sick with Covid these past few days and kept sleeping at 2-3 am and waking at 11 am. Legit a lot of my depression subsided. Some of us had to be the night watch back in the Stone Age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:58 AM
2

What kind of conversations/topics of interest do you tend to have with interesting people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:53 AM
2

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:45 AM
10

Meh, not really. If a guy would rather see a prostitute than be with me, means he’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:34 AM
6

Status and legitimacy. I come from a conservative immigrant family. They’d rather me be single forever than be a forever girlfriend because they think a guy like that is looking for opportunity to jump ship. It’s what the women and MEN in my family believe, not necessarily my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:32 PM
0

For sure, it’s just hard when I don’t see men at all. When I go out for groceries and the gym, it’s always older gentlemen or guy in their early 20s. Men my age don’t seem to come out much. The guy I had a crush on at work is single and in his 30s, very quiet, and just my physical type. He doesn’t date (from what I’ve heard). He himself said he wouldn’t date someone from work. I haven’t online dated because I’m scared and I don’t know how to take pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:14 PM
2

Had braces when I was 25 and my coworkers all kept saying I looked a like I was 15…I’m also short and not very curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:24 PM
1

Bout to be 33, (am told I look mid 20s) unmarried, sort of vibing, not fucking around at all. Sadly attracted to a coworker and he’s not into me…so, yeah. Been decorating my home a bit lately, reading, watching lots of YouTube, learning music theory and guitar. Pondering my and everyone’s existence and wtf it all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:17 PM
1

Yeah, used to want to die every month. My periods aren’t bad anymore. Now I wanna die occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:08 AM
5

Whatever happened to Gigababe aka a femcel/hardcore feminist something else that I can’t remember? Anyone know? She was fucking badass. Miss her diatribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:05 AM
1

Meh, I think most men who appeared to “give up” never even tried to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:01 AM
1

No attractive guys stared at me when I was 12 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:51 AM
0

Meh, I’ve seen creepy handsome guys be creepy because they feel they can get away with it, ugly dudes leave me alone, since I’m ugly too. The only guys who were creepy to me back in the day was when I was 12 and they’d stare me down (these were guys in their 30s) and ugly af too. So, I guess there’s some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:04 PM
6

Chubby, weak-ish chin (double chin too lol) and was shorter than 6ft, though not short either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:12 AM
8

Well, in her case she actually lost her virginity to him in her late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:05 AM
1

Where do you live/see these women, and what age ranges?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:04 AM
3

One of them is married and the other actually did reject me. I’m a virgin because I rarely am attracted to anyone and I don’t want to risk putting anyone through a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:03 AM
6

Not racist at all. She’s got the ideal proportions and the guy who happened to be into her was super handsome and muscular, she still ended up rejecting him over the chubby Hispanic guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:50 PM
20

Bro, she’s chubby and he’s chubby, she actually had a Tyrone after her but she still ended up pining for this chubby dude…so… nooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:00 PM
92

I have friends who’ve been strung along by non top tier men so it’s not just the chads who pump and dump. As a woman, it’s gotta be confusing when manosphere keeps saying top tier men use women but then when she goes for a guy on her level he still doesn’t care for her. I don’t date or anything but this is just from my observations. It ain’t just chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:48 PM
1

I don’t understand why guys on ppd seem to ignore this. I’m a woman and I’ve watched porn before and all it makes me do is feel terrible about my body and the way I look because if a guy has been jerking off to these beautiful women, he’s likely not going to find me attractive—and I’m not even fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:27 PM
1

For real, it’s really convenient to shop there when you’re out of detergent and butter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:22 PM
2

Bro, I’m a woman making good money and I shop at Walmart, they have cute clothes for women and they also have all my skin care necessities. I’m slightly below average in my opinion though I’ve been called “cute” many times by homeless men, old ladies, lesbians, and gay men (straight men ignore me). Even f by miracle I married “up”, I would still shop there. I’ve seen hot women and men there too but it’s quite rare. To reiterate what the above poster said, I see below average women with below ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:20 PM
1

Is there a way you can move to a liberal country?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:08 PM
4

Twice in my life. Happened when I was 28 and then again at age 30. Very Weird. Also, they had similar body types. I wasn’t horny, it was just like…damn, he’s definitely someone I’d like to have skin to skin contact with and someone I want to snuggle up to. I’m also a virgin so maybe it’s a little different for me than other women. I did find myself imagining certain things with these men though, as time went on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:21 AM
1

Sorry if I misunderstood but you’re a 5’8” Asian guy? Do you get non-Asian girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:58 PM
1

Temps- 85 degrees Fahrenheit and I live in California People?: Henry Cavill and Megan Fox before the surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:54 PM
7

I think men and women do the same shit. I’ve seen dudes fuck around (doesn’t have to be Chad) and then when they hit their 30s all of a sudden they’re feeling lonely and will take a more plain girl. Same shit, different packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:40 PM
4

I’m talking about fatties of both sexes. Wasn’t the OP talking about such people? Attractive, successful, intelligent women are with their counterparts and some may even go to Walmart occasionally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:38 PM
1

I’m not butt hurt. I want kids but I realize there are valid reasons as to people not wanting kids. I also think you’re simplifying evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:36 PM
7

Most guys won’t leave their wife but many would rather have a side hoe than leave if it ever gets to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:20 PM
3

Bro, who cares, we all end up insect food. And in a few million years the sun will swallow up the earth anyway. People not wanting kids will always exist, genetic variability will keep these type of people on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:16 PM
1

I’m almost 33 yrs old, I’m not becoming a doctor/engineer. Realistically, most billionaires aren’t trying to date a 33 year old though. If I was a 22 year old and I wanted to be a doctor, the. I don’t know if I would go through with a marriage like that. Self actualization is a huge part of the human experience and if you try to deprive someone of that, it may become an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:11 PM
11

Why don’t people go to Walmart or even Target and observe the couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:07 PM
1

First, if I’m married to this hypothetical billionaire, it means I’m in love with him. 2nd, this means I get to stay with my kid/s for a few years, even better. 3rd- working in philanthropy seems really rewarding and taking classes and learning all kinds of things seems pretty cool but at one point you have to use some of those skills to build yourself a safety net. If he drops you for a young hot thing, you have to at least have some type of investments or something idk The odds of me marrying …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:55 PM
1

I’ve been single 33 years. Cats gross me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:25 AM
3

Don’t men choose who they approach though? No guy approaches me so I assume men don’t want me ( I’m ok with that) but I think men have more agency than you give them credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:23 AM
0

This was years ago, I don’t know who the guy is. I think he was in the Eastern US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:19 AM
1

Am I deluded? Where did showing any delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:18 AM
8

Look, most people bat out of their league whenever they can. I’m pretty realistic in that I like handsome men but I’m below average so I don’t even talk to them lol but guys here act like dudes aren’t trying to hit on women out of their league. A few years ago a guy posted a pic of himself and the women he asked out. He didn’t understand why they rejected him. Bro was asking out women in the 7-8 range when he himself was a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:38 PM
2

Family is from Mexico but I was born in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:44 PM
13

I have rights and opportunities my mom never thought of having. I think you’re underestimating how entrenched conservatism is in some communities. My mom married at 16 and popped out her first born at 17. You know what she tells me? Don’t marry if you don’t want to, get with a guy who values you, also tells me to not have kids. I’m not opposed to having kids, but at least I have the choice that she never thought she could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:35 PM
1

Eww Hugh grant is not a attractive to me at all. Someone I find attractive around his age in that pic is Jensen Ackles or even Jack Quaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:01 AM
1

Would a really handsome guy actually fuck an ugly woman? I find that hard to believe. I’m slightly below average and even average guys ignore my existence. The only dudes interested are married or homeless old men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:07 PM
2

My only guy friend met his wife at work. So, definite yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:40 PM
1

Gosh! I wish I could tell stories like this but I get super side tracked and then forget words or relevant info.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:01 PM
1

What makes a good story teller in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:56 PM
2

Have seen it in real life so many times and it’s the reason I laugh at all the Chad memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:24 PM
1

What do you do in your free time? Do you consider yourself boring or interesting? What kind of hobbies/interests do the women/men you’re into tend to gravitate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:24 PM
1

Oh! I wonder if I make these guys feel awkward, maybe I’m sending subconscious signals that I’m attracted to them? I am professional and courteous to them but maybe they’re picking up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:44 AM
1

Well, I think I’m ugly but from far away I look good. I’ve been told by people I’m pretty but I don’t really see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:43 AM
1

I find this hard to believe because they have such handsome faces and they are on the taller side—they’re either in their mid to late twenties or 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:42 PM
1

I was on BC for a year because my Dermatologist forced me to get it for accutane. I was on the mini-pill due to being petite build. BC helped with pms and it helped my cramps a lot. I had no cramps while on BC and now that I’ve been off it for 6 months, I still don’t get bad cramps like I used to. I’d say it helps a majority of women but it definitely sucks for some too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:40 PM
1

When I see that I feel really envious but in a good way. Then I feel slightly sad cause I know a guy will never find me that attractive, but at the same time I feel a little bad for her because she probably gets too much attention and then I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:32 PM
1

For me? It’s funny because I’m not very feminine but there are a few days in a year where I love to get all dolled up and wear a nice pretty dress. Skincare and makeup fascinate me even though I wear makeup like 5 times a year. I like that the women in my life are all super helpful and accepting. I am a short woman and I feel that it’s more acceptable to be a short woman than a short man. Although, I will say that both my brothers who are short haven’t had issues in life because of their height,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:30 PM
1

Some people are more fertile than others. So I think BC is the better option for some and natural is good for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:27 PM
4

Running into phenomenon where some of the cutest guys/men are really awkward. Why do you think that is? They are all single. Are they all waiting for an extroverted women to make the first move? Sucks I’m shy and ugly-cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:26 PM
1

These all sound awful. D or A sound better than the others. Let it be know that id rather be single than have any of these, but if I had to choose, probably A. The only thing I’d have him do is apologize to all the women he treated badly. Also, what does “treat badly” mean. If it ever escalated to physical violence, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:22 PM
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They think it’s worth it if the woman is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:14 PM
10

Quieter and doesn’t like to be the center of attention Open minded but not so open minded that they like weird sexual stuff and hard drugs. Curious about the bigger questions in life. Family oriented and he will have to like my family, otherwise it won’t work. Liberal leaning but not extreme in either direction. Good sense of humor (he doesn’t have to be funny, just want him to be a little silly sometimes and to find things funny often) I don’t have a lot of time to write more in detail but this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:17 PM
1

I read it in my psychology classes but this was about a decade ago. Maybe things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:15 AM
2

Women in general have an internal locus of control and men have an external one. Key words are “in general” men have more testosterone and more likely to harbor anger/aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:16 PM
2

Don’t know how old you are but most guys I knew in their late 20s back in 2017(my age) were already dating someone steadily. The few guys who wanted to keep playing the field are now struggling to date because younger women aren’t that much into dating them, women their age are partnered up already and single women like myself don’t really date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:12 PM
9

Could it just be that you got older?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:09 PM
1

I think it’s great for people who have kids together. I also think it’s great for people who really genuinely believe they’ll be together until death. Other than that, marriage serves no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:08 PM
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Where do you live that average men only get women when they’re older. I see family members who are in their early 20s dating around. The chubbies with the chubbiest and the skinny with the skinnies. I actually have one cousin that’s 6’1” tall and she got a 6’2” boyfriend, so the talls with the talls too. This is why I can’t wrap my head around all the angry “average” men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:40 PM
1

With the black couple- she has a bigger face and he has a little face, both look fine, just unconventional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:30 PM
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Nope. I wasn’t on dating apps to begin with but if I was I still wouldn’t because I’m not planning on sleeping with any random dude. Birth control and condoms exist. I just thought I should answer because people will look at the “yes” answers and surmise that all women are doing that. For the record, I’m pro-choice, but I’m also conservative when it comes to family planning and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:24 PM
2

In the first picture, it looks to me like the guy is a little on the lower end of average but he’s not ugly. The women is slightly above average in my opinion but she’s wearing sunglasses and a hat so it’s hard to tell, she very well could be below avg. but she has nice skin. The second pic, they are both above average folks, I bet they’re were hotties when younger. The third picture- the girl is cuter in my opinión but not by a lot. They are both slightly above average. The fourth-the gay coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:15 PM
1

This doesn’t have the effect you think it does. Men on here often imply that women “aren’t yours, it’s just your turn” or “mug hypergamy”, answer the damn initial question or don’t answer at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:02 PM
2

Are average men really satisfied with having an average woman? Do you think that if he turned into a Chad overnight he would likely stay with her? Please list what you think an average guy and an average woman looks like? Do you have sample pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:07 AM
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Men like you? What do you look like or act like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:31 AM
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Seems like boys tend to be more at the extremes. Back in high school,most of the smart people (good at Calculus and physics) were girls but the boys who were smart were extremely good at these subjects too. Like, they didn’t even do the homework good. However, the dumbest peeps also tended to be boys, though there were girls sprinkled in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:29 AM
3

Had a softball coach who said he didn’t like coaching boys as much because they were “know it alls”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:24 AM
1

It really isn’t though but I don’t think I can convince you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:39 AM
1

No, unless I was wanking to Henry C, which I haven’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:22 AM
1

I find these places oddly comforting . I have family that lives in those areas and they are cool. Kind of miss the way Bakersfield used to be, new little shopping centers, new houses, segmented by fields and empty grassy lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:59 PM
1

Not really because I’ve never fantasized about Cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:11 PM
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Modern rom coms suck but the older ones are better and I haven’t watched a romcom in years. I guess the only equivalent would be watching a movie with a really “hot” guy like Henry Cavill when he was younger. I’d give that up. I have a Reddit obsession so I guess if he asked me to stop going in Reddit so much because I realize it’s a bit unhealthy to be on here a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:44 PM
1

I don’t read romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:49 PM
1

In my experience, people really can’t tell apart what’s real and what isn’t. I work with a bunch of women who’ve gotten boob jobs and the amount of men who think they’re natural is 100% lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:16 AM
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I’m a 32 year old woman who’s never been intimate with anyone. I have small boobs and the amount of distress I’ve felt about it over the years means that I don’t want a potential boyfriend/partner to watch porn for a few reasons. -most porn feature very young women (I’m no longer young) -most porn feature women with bigger boobs than myself (most of them are surgically enhanced in a way that looks natural because their surgeons place the implant under the muscle) -porn is voyeurism. Average joe’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:03 PM
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It’s not that I reject femininity, it’s just that I’m not very feminine (at least from my perspective) It’s the same with men—some guys are more feminine, others are more masculine. I’m not rejecting femininity or masculinity, I just am who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:18 AM
1

Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:15 AM
8

Well I’m a woman and never get attention from anyone I find attractive so, the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:45 PM
1

What do you mean by treat worse or better. Are the women just not fawning after these men or are they verbally abusive? Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:43 PM
2

Men peak at 35? News to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:00 AM
2

Of people I know, probs 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:08 PM
1

No, wtf? That’s like asking me to become attracted to short, chubby, bald dudes too. Don’t treat them like shit or call them names. Doesn’t mean I should marry one. Forget about them, pursue the girls you want, no one’s going to shame you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:03 PM
1

Bro, I know average women who have been led on by average men. Chad isn’t the only one having casual. Average men do it too, maybe not as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:00 PM
1

I don’t watch tik tok, ignore em
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:43 AM
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I don’t think it’s the fact that women are older, it’s the fact that youth is valued by everyone. Youth is alluring both in men and women. The ego boost from getting a younger person is equal in both older men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah, I think if I don’t end up having kids and getting married, I’ll probably get giant boobs and become a gym bunny while seducing younger men and donating my time to charity causes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:12 PM
2

In a way, I think you are right. Personally, I pay for things often for other people because I make enough money. I would probably pay for my own drink/food on a first date with a guy. So this doesn’t really apply to me. However, I do experience some hesitation when it come to bisexual men. Not sure why, just the thought of them being attracted to even more people on earth sends alarm signals. Bi men probably have a higher n-count than straight men too and the thought of some dude’s dic* in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:48 PM
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He said he likes them with their natural skin color. Think of the woman from Ex Machina—she’s Swedish but if she said she was Spanish or from Latin America, I’d believe it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:47 PM
1

I prefer skinny guys to muscular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:44 PM
1

I’m curious what people similar to me are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:50 AM
2

eh, I don’t have any guy friends, except one from work. I’ve helped buy him a cake and have given him a gift before for his birthday. I don’t expect anything from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:48 AM
1

What are all the single people doing on the weekends these days? Do you eat out a lot? Do you cook everyday? Fast food? Can you state your age and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:21 AM
1

Yes. That doesn’t mean I want to be with them and why I haven’t pursued anything with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:44 AM
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Yep. Seriously beautiful. Those are the most popular and get the most upvotes on Reddit too. It’s not just porn, it’s everywhere on this site too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:11 PM
5

Bro, in what fucking universe is dating a guy halfway across the states or the world feasible. Not only that, most of these guys try to send you dick pics and want you to engage in their fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:33 PM
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Yeah, I’m interested in knowing too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:28 PM
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I haven’t done the apps simply because it feels incredibly unnatural to me. I hate the thought of a guy simply swiping on everyone and then deciding on me because I’m his only choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:25 PM
1

You’re a lost cause. You’re talking to the wrong woman. I guarantee you that I make more money here than most men who post here. I don’t care how much a guy makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:01 PM
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This isn’t what most women want. I’ve seen you post before about the unattractive girl you’re banging. I wish she knew how you express yourself about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:12 PM
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I guess I’m ugly because I’m below average. No boobs, and weirdish face. Invisible most of my life until now. When I was at my ugliest (age 19-24) some men would literally hate talking to me for any reason whatsoever, you could see the disgust in their face. I don’t date nor do I talk to men in any romantic way. I know a guy will resent me forever if he feels like he had to settle for me. The thought of a guy getting off on porn featuring beautiful women while he’s in a relationship with me make…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:04 PM
1

Is your name Larys Strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:39 AM
1

Fake tits at that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:53 AM
2

Are yo saying the Average man will have to settle for below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:05 PM
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None of my aunts were happily married, most were abused and cheated on. They were stay at home moms who didn’t really have an opportunity to go to school (immigrant women from a conservative culture). Had they had the education and opportunity to separate, they would have. The men were definitely happy to have a wife at home who they could take their anger out on and someone who have their children while having side chicks. Don’t think my aunts even had access to anti-depressants. Thus, no data …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:32 PM
3

I don’t really have many friends. I buy gifts and do favors for the ones I do have. I’m not expecting sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:26 AM
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Who’s complaining, I’m sure as hell not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:04 AM
1

I think they shame men who call women “landwhales” and insult fat women. No one is telling you to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:27 AM
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What else will they say? guys on here keep saying women are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:26 AM
2

No one thinks Lizzo is attractive. What they are saying is that Lizzo represents a different standard, doesn’t mean women are saying men should find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:37 PM
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Honestly, I do think more women put more effort, even if they’re chunky. I also think this is a response to all the men saying women constantly go for guys above their league. If women hear this, don’t be surprised when they say shit like this. I’m a woman and I find about 10 guys attractive out of about 100s I work with. Now, these are just guys I see around. It’s different when you interact often—attraction can be built.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:33 PM
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I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’ve never slept with anyone. I am really introverted so I might seem a little unavailable. Don’t know how to cook, hate cooking, but I would do it for the right guy hehe I’m lazy af, though if I’m not depressed I usually clean and get everything done. I’m a really good employee though, not lazy at work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:20 PM
1

How old are you? I’m 32 but Pokémon was a thing in 1998.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:20 AM
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Nope, you don’t understand that most women don’t see a guy and think “wow, he’s fuckable” He had pretty eyes, that’s all. There have been men I’m attracted to, as in, I want to go talk to him and keep looking at him and want to touch his arms/chest—but I don’t really think about being with him intimately unless we are already acquainted. I have a lower sex drive than most women so maybe im not the best person to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:49 AM
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Not really, if she’s already friendly with you, if you shoot your shot she won’t find it creepy, she might just avoid you after because she doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:20 PM
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Yeah! There was a Hispanic guy with tan skin and beautiful green eyes at a Starbucks drive through and I told him he has beautiful eyes. I was not hitting on him. He was in his early 20s and I was 30, I was just complimenting him, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:14 PM
5

8 years seems like at stretch. A guy in his early thirties is often ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:42 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:58 PM
2

Why to your chagrin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:59 PM
1

Men of PPD: you ever attracted to older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:47 PM
2

A lot of high value women didn’t work for it. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:45 PM
0

You don’t understand. Women are being taught self acceptance because for so long it’s been the opposite. I’m a woman, almost 33. It’s been the complete opposite for women up until this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:00 PM
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Nah, as a woman you’re told you have to be pretty or guys don’t like you. You have to cook and clean or else guys don’t want to marry you. Try to be submissive and let him lead some of the time. Also, 50% of the men married into my family cheated and or frequented hookers when their wives were at home taking care of the kids. That’s enough to make women redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:58 PM
3

Where are these hundreds of men messaging? Are you guys only going after hot women? Are you guys average or or above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:26 PM
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I don’t date but I would take it to mean, don’t touch inappropriately, don’t bring up sex (at least in the first 2 dates), and don’t check out other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:28 AM
1

Ok? So what does it matter? My brothers are “manlets” too and they have women. Why so much hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:44 PM
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Money itself doesn’t attract me to a man though. Women like men who have something going for them. Prince just oozed a quiet confidence. Look, my dad is 5’2” and he’s had women obsess over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:40 PM
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Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, and Idris Elba. The only guy I find ridiculously hot is Henry Cavill but he was even more beautiful in his 20s. The other one is Arnie Hammer before his whole cannibal debacle. He was peak perfection in the movie “The Man from U.N.C.L.E.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:35 PM
0

Yeah, never saw much in him. Like I can look at him and think, he’s objectively hot but he’s not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:29 PM
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Did you see the women he used to pull? He had hot women all the time. He oozed confidence and sensuality and he was talented, women like that shit too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:28 PM
2

None. One was offered it once but she turned him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:38 PM
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It’s crazy how this is basically what women are told since birth. Women are red pilled since birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:46 PM
2

Ive never had sex and I’m almost 33. I’m a little below average in looks (not overweight). I live in an area with a lot of Hispanics. Most of the women I know have slept with 5 or less men, in my immediate circle, all have slept with 3 or less. Lots stayed with high school sweethearts. Of the few who have slept around, one is white, and the other is in her 40s. I think that extroverted women who like to post on social media a lot are probably more likely to sleep around due to liking that valida…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:17 PM
2

Im scared of never finding love but I’d rather be alone than be with someone I’m not into. I think it’s a bit selfish and cruel to rope someone into relationship when you’re not really into them. There are things I’m more fearful of, like when my parents pass away, or any of my siblings passing away. We all die alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:08 PM
1

Face? Idk my face is my biggest hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:26 PM
3

I understand the disgust feeling, Not all the time, but sometimes a guy in his 50s will stare at me, like will look me up and down and I feel disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:25 PM
3

You hate ugly girls? I understand not being attracted to them, but hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:06 PM
1

Im a woman and maybe your hormones are more in tune with a woman’s hormones. I’m not saying this to be mean, I say this because I consider myself below average in looks (I’m a woman) and I don’t get interest from any guys I’m into. I only get interest from fat guys or men in their 50s. I was told I was cute by younger men, but not enough for them to want to date me. Who I’m attracted to has no bearing on who I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:58 PM
3

Is a high n-count really all that common for people? I can’t wrap my head around this. Most people I know have 5 or less, and in my immediate circle it’s usually 3 or less. I only know a few people in my life who I’m almost 100% sure they’ve been with around 20 people but those are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:26 AM
1

I think they’re looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:25 PM
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Uhhhh, he’s the least attractive to me. Keith is hot because he’s tall and he’s the funniest and most masculine (without trying). I forgot the smaller ones name but he has a cute face (his fiancé is out of his league), and Eugene is hot af but he’s not really my type. Ned is the worst looking in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:23 PM
3

Instead they threaten to shoot people. Happened at my job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:56 PM
2

Well, personally don’t care for Daemon (he killed his quick witted wife). I used to simp for Cristin Cole but he’s a psycho now so now I thirst for one-eyed Aemond. Not all women. NAWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:54 PM
2

I don’t have a fetish. My fantasy is having a long term relationship with a guy who loves and desires me as much as I desire him while we’re 100 percent loyal to each other. Haven’t had this happen, nothing close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:30 PM
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I think they do, but mostly when they are younger, from grade school until age 25. So many dudes who were fat or just plain ugly had the biggest crushes on the prettiest of girls. Just because these pretty girls were nice to them they thought they had a chance. Now that these men are older I think the reality really set in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:25 PM
3

I think a lot of women who have been sheltered may not know men’s true nature and they might actually need the Pink Pill. I’d be willing to bet that women with autism or extreme social anxiety/ ADHD would benefit from this. As a teen I was never interested in dating yet I had a few crushes—but the guys I had crushes on always ended up dating women with big boobs or lighter skin and light eyes. Made me think all men wanted was white women with big boobs and the ones who didi’t were just settling.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:00 PM
1

I could totally see Mark Zuckerberg cheating on his girl eventually, if he hasn’t already. Rich men can’t keep their D in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:54 PM
1

Connor Murphy probably already had some time of mental illness. I know people who have gone through the experience and haven’t had his reaction. It’s not advisable if you have any form of bipolar, Schizphrenia, and/or epilepsy. Connor is an interesting case in that I always thought he was a lil’ bit unhinged. Sometimes I think he has some type of personality disorder which I can’t really pinpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:58 AM
3

Probs just a bad trip. Next time try ayahuasca with the help of a Shaman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:54 AM
1

Most bouncers I ever saw were chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:16 AM
1

You’re right about the brewery thing. I don’t like beer anyway so that’s not an option for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:15 AM
2

Hmm, seems like hot men tend to be wealthy? All those places are relatively expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:12 AM
1

Two questions? Where do hot/attractive men in their late 20s to late 30s tend to hang out and congregate? What do the hot men on here do in their free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:12 AM
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I make over 100k and I don’t mind a guy who makes 50k as long as he’s responsible with his money and I find him attractive both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:41 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:18 PM
2

You think people are idiots for being insecure about porn? Like, obviously you are entitled to that opinion, but can you elaborate if you have the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:25 PM
1

Your profile pic insanely cute
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:04 AM
3

How the hell do they treat you like a grandson? I’m 32, does that mean I’m going to feed you beef stew and bake you oatmeal cookies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:49 AM
2

All the time now. Sometimes I’ll think a guy is an ince1 and then he casually mentions his girlfriend/wife/children. The ones I think are deadbedroom guys are the ones who act all thirsty around the cute women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:46 AM
1

Monogamy is a fucking joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:39 AM
1

I’ve never gotten a lady “boner” by seeing a naked guy or even a shirtless man. For me, face and frame are very important, from there, if I can picture myself cuddling, holding hands, caressing his hair, and kissing him—that tells me I’m sexually attracted to him, but I’ve never gotten a “hard-on” by just looking at a guy. I’m a bit lower libido than most women though so take my comment with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:54 PM
2

What percentage of women do you think actually do porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:46 PM
8

I can’t control what men do but for me it just makes me insecure. The women are are hot and I’m not. How am I supposed to compete with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:42 PM
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It’s not about “can afford” it’s between what you really want and being single. Being single is 100x better than being in a lackluster relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:20 PM
3

I agree. The guys on here have way higher physical standards than they let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:29 PM
1

Do you reckon most men are feeling the way you do? Disappointed they can’t get women above their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:58 PM
1

What was it about those 2-3 women you liked more than the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:55 PM
2

You only trying to smash Stacy is your problem. Leave Stacy for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:49 PM
3

So is it really about the nerdy short guy getting the hot girl? It’s not about the nerdy, short guy getting his equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:40 PM
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The question itself denotes a lack of tact and social ignorance. There are other ways to gauge what a woman brings to the table. It shouldn’t be a job interview. In my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:35 PM
3

She only slept with him once and he lied to her about wanting commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:15 AM
3

. She has ended their communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:14 AM
3

I wasn’t, none of my friends were. We aren’t great looking though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:29 PM
5

No. Im 32 and i recently had a conversation with a 22 year old woman. She was drunk and was crying about some dude. She showed me a pic of him, skinny fit dude, short, and ok cute face. She’s curvy (not fat), and beautiful face. What did I tell her? Do not fucking pursue a man. He will use you. He already did use her. She wants a relationship, but he’s never going to budge and he just keeps breadcrumbing her. I told her if she wants to pursue, she needs to make sure she vets him correctly (ask o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:22 PM
4

My “standards” are really innate. I like tall men with slim faces. I used to think I was asexual because I was never around these type of men so I had no sexuality. As soon as I changed jobs and was around these type of men, I realized that I’m just very picky. I don’t think they’re standards, because it’s not something I have control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:41 PM
22

Attractive women. Y’all forget uggos exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:11 PM
3

Yeah, I can’t take these guy seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:24 PM
1

Oh that’s entirely true. I generally like slim men a lot more. Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:55 PM
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