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| 1 | Divorced and singleI went to therapy with the person that we had gone to couples therapy with, which seemed to help me since she had a better perspective of what I had gone through to help me post-divorce. After 4 meetings she told me I didn’t need to meet anymore, so don’t think therapy has to last a long time if you aren’t struggling to cope with various situations. I haven’t seen anyone suggest this, but grow a beard if you don’t have one, as soon as I grew a beard I had all kinds of female at tent that I was n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 10 | help guys 😢“Wanna have sex?” Don’t overthink guys, I promise that will work. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Does it get better?Hey, it gets better, I know trying new things is hard, but try something you know you already like. My situation was similar, in regards to my ex monopolizing my time, so I don’t have many friends either. Also, it’s just different with everyone being at a different point in life than you being divorced. I played soccer growing up, but hadn’t played in years, so I joined an adult soccer league. That’s what I mean by finding something you used to enjoy and then go do that. You know what’s hard? Go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Help I am lostAlso David, and 41, I took the advice another poster gave a while back that David referenced above, and it has made a huge difference in dealing with the emotions I have gone through. Take time to find something you enjoy and focus on becoming a better version of yourself. Sounds like you have some wonderful children who need their father to be there for them in a tough time of their own. You’ve got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/21 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Recently DivorcedFair point. I should have clarified that the void I was referring to is time, and not needing another person to fill the void. Learning to cope on your own is an important step. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Recently DivorcedI totally understand the loneliness that you are describing. I just recently moved out of my family hole and got my own place, now trying to figure out how to build a social group outside of my ex-wife. The pointless and meaningless feeling goes away when you start filling the void; the important part is finding something to fill that time so you aren’t sitting around feeling lonely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/21 09:49 AM |
| 3 | The first nights apartTomorrow is the first night in my new place. Moving everything this weekend. The odd feeling is not knowing how to “be” once that happens. I am so entwined with my kids lives, it will be difficult not to see them every day and figuring out what to do on a daily basis. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/21 12:03 PM |
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