PaulaJMM Archive

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1	My gf accused me of being stuck in RP beliefs, which led to a fight between us, and I’m not sure what to do here. People don’t generally get better when they get married; they tend to relax and be more of who they are. If she’s already using your past against you to shut you down in an argument, you can expect more of the same. She’s learned that she can win by changing the conversation from the issue at hand. If you truly are not using RP rhetoric and tactics, then stop defending yourself against the accusations and let her know you won’t discuss the matter unless it’s being discussed honestly.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/20 05:06 PM
8	Incels need help They are bad people, though. You don’t wish rape, murder, disfigurement, and general devastation on people just because they don’t satisfy your urges on demand by being simply misguided. You have to be a pretty shitty person to do that.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/20 04:56 PM
5	Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community? You got it. Men that argue about waiting for sex in a relationship are only thinking with their dicks. I’d bet money that they are the same ones who throw around the term “cock carousel”. If someone can’t wait to see if there’s a connection - an actual connection beyond the butterflies that come with a new potential relationship - then they aren’t in it for anything but sex. Sex is treated as nothing more than a way to get ones rocks off anymore. People are all too ready to engage in the most in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/20 03:52 PM
2	How long should you wait before opening up about deeply personal things? Thisssss! Never, ever, EVER give a man a weapon to use against you! I don’t care how HV he is, he WILL use it against you. Maybe he won’t use it directly, but he will use it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 03:53 PM
22	Not sure I'm part of the redpill (advice) Do you really want to spend the entirety of your future relationships speculating on how best to manipulate your partner? How to best harm her self esteem to make her more desperate to prove her worth and earn your affection? How to best hurt and scare her just enough in order to bend her to your will? How to artfully keep her in a state of dread and expectation? How to throw her just enough crumbs of affection in order to keep her hope alive but not enough to relax with you and feel secure in y…	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/20 03:42 PM
3	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Do you use your right hand or your left one for that?	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:55 PM
2	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Of course I do! It’s apparent no one else does. Why else would you have turned into such a nasty tempered, foul mouthed cretin? Aren’t you happy? You just wanted attention but you got attention AND pity. Score!	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:44 PM
3	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Cranky little guy, aren’t you? Do you need a nap?	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:32 PM
4	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Ooooh, you mad.	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:22 PM
4	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Is trolling the only way you can get attention? Poor little fella.	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 01:38 PM
7	I played the game, and I lost it. Need advice. Men like you want everything your way all the time and become abusive when you don’t get it. You act like bratty 2 year olds and have the nerve to say women act like children. Your actions are childish, selfish, abusive, and show you refuse to accept personal responsibility for anything when the relationship gets hard. Remove her privileges? You don’t have that right. You don’t have the right to “check that behavior” considering yours is so reprehensible. Chances are you don’t even have a relati…	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/20 02:20 AM
17	Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship? I especially like it when men say it. They seem to think life without them is tragic. I think about the differences between widows and widowers. Widowers tend to be sad, grumpy, stinky old men who need their family and neighbors to look after them and make sure they eat, bathe, pay their bills, etc. Widows, on the other hand, mourn and then get on with life. They finally get the time to look after themselves and enjoy freedom. They date, go out with friends, spend time with family, enjoy hobbies…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 06:39 PM
1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I live in a town of a population of just over 2,000. That number doesn’t sound so insignificant to me. Maybe it’s just a number for you but as someone who has a daughter, a mother, stepmother, friends, family, neighbors, and various other female acquaintances, the fact that “only” 2,000 in one year alone were murdered by men is not a small thing. Even in my small town, it’s happened to women, some I know, some I don’t, and one who was a friend. Shall I tell her family that her death was an insig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 04:12 PM
1	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? Doesn’t it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 04:18 AM
1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Oh no! An anonymous keyboard warrior insulted me in the internet? Whatever shall I do?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 02:01 AM
1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Once again with the assumptions and insults. Triggered much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 01:45 AM
-1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Men are when they choose to be. A lot don’t choose to be. Ya sound like ya can’t have a conversation unless ya throw around insults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 01:39 AM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society No, I shouldn’t have said that to you. I had my dander up. My apologies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 01:18 AM
1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Do you copy and paste your every word from MRA sites?!? You have some nerve to talk about someone else having a fundamentally miserable experience. M	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:42 PM
4	Discussion: If people can wait to have sex for pragmatic reasons, what about the opposite? I think feeling pressured is a big part of it. Not necessarily physical coercion, although that is sometimes a factor. There’s the feeling of “if I don’t, he’ll just get with someone who will.” Having low self esteem can play a part, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:26 PM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society My distrust is for men in general. I don’t trust all women - not even close - but I feel safe around most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:15 PM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society No, I don’t believe women are as inherently selfish as women. Some are. Hell, a lot are. I just think more men are. My opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:13 PM
1	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society You asked if you could be justified in feeling the same about women. I told you you could feel however you wanted. I don’t care if you feel that way towards women or not. How is that not answering the question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:11 PM
4	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I understood completely. I’m saying men generally choose to have 50% custody only to avoid having to pay child support. If child support were completely off the table, most men would be perfectly content for the mother to have full custody. If they could walk away free and clear, most would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:03 PM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Pedestalize? Oh lord. MRA speak. It doesn’t matter what I say, does it? You’ve already decided that, what’s the phrase you fellas like to use? “women go through life on easy mode” or something to that effect. Women have always, by and large, been held accountable for their actions and those of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 10:00 PM
3	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Men are the primary victims of crime by other men. It isn’t women committing most of these crimes. A man who is murdered is will most likely have been murdered by a man. A woman murdered will almost likely to have therm murdered by a man. I didn’t say most men hated women but enough do to make it scary. How are we supposed to know which is which? I read some of the stuff that men say and I can’t help but think that I or my daughter is running into them in public at some point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:52 PM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society You can feel however you choose to feel. Just don’t blame women for what men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:43 PM
2	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I didn’t say you said men think it’s ok. I said men blame what they do to women on women. You’re the one making shit up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:25 PM
0	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? Lots of editing you did there, buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:23 PM
3	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Well, you’re in good company. Reddit is absolutely fraught with misogyny, as is most social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:04 PM
3	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I don’t think they are inherently evil but I do think they are inherently selfish and that makes it easier for a lot of them to be evil. I don’t hate men but I do have a deep distrust of them. I’ve seen and heard too much not to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 09:03 PM
5	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? 🙄🤡😏 Girls, want to chime in and let us know the last time you’ve heard/said/thought “I don’t think he’s attracted to me any more!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:53 PM
9	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society The proof is in the pudding. If men didn’t have to support their children, they wouldn’t. If child support was done away with, most men wouldn’t choose custody, shared or otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:42 PM
4	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society There are good men but there are a LOT of bad men, too. Most of the bad ones don’t start out bad. All too often, an abused woman will say “he used to be so nice” or “he was so good to me at first”. Men put on an act until she emotionally involved and then pull the rug from out under her feet. And yet, women are blamed for having been mistreated. She should have known he was going to be shit even if they’d not how he was in the beginning. Lots of misogynists also have women in their lives and it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:38 PM
5	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? When referring to a woman’s looks? Or how much he’d been drinking? Yep, heard it. Women tend to blame themselves for him not being hard, not him. Your “exactly” was ANYTHING but exact. Nice try, though. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:30 PM
3	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I don’t hate them; I’m just not naive any more. I see the things men say about women and realize the contempt and hate they have for us. It’s fucking scary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:23 PM
3	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society I can’t argue that. Most women would be much better off in life if they left men alone altogether. No sense in ruining your life in the hopes this one is actually the unicorn he’s pretending to be instead of the common jackass he probably is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:15 PM
3	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. I pity you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:07 PM
10	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Blaming women for men’s selfishness? Typical. If a man is a poor father, he and only he is to blame. Men aren’t helpless, they just tend to put themselves first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 08:07 PM
3	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. Do you honestly think sex proves chemistry? I don’t think men hire prostitutes because they feel chemistry with them. You can have sex and feel nothing for the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:44 PM
1	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. I guess if it’s only about getting your rocks off with someone, it IS the only way. Some people think there might be more to it than just getting their genitals serviced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:42 PM
3	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. You can’t figure out if there’s chemistry unless you dip your wick?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:37 PM
9	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Of course you do. You hold women responsible for their own actions and yours. Men blame women for everything. Man rapes woman? Her fault, must have been what she was wearing. Man kills woman? She drove him to a breaking point. Man kills multiple women? Poor guy must have gotten divorce raped in court. Or just been rejected too many times. Or any number of reasons. Man embezzles from his company? Wife nagged him into it. Your ex was crazy? Well, that’s just how women are! Her ex was crazy? Well, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:30 PM
11	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society Men blame women for everything. Misogyny is nothing more than male entitlement thwarted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:01 PM
21	Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society More men would bail completely if they didn’t have to pay child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 06:59 PM
4	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. Your argument is 100% straw man. You are arguing with what you wish I had said instead of what I actually said. I clearly said it was important but not the only thing that mattered. Relationships aren’t made because of just sex. You have all kinds of relationships that have nothing to do with sex. Relationships can be working ones. They can be made of common interests. They can be ones of mutual respect. They can be bonds with family or friends. Do you have to have sex with your friends to have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 05:16 PM
3	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. Heaven forbid you men end up with a woman who gets sick, has surgery or has a baby with you. “Doc says you can’t have sex for 6 weeks? Fuck that, I’m outta here! No relationship is worth that!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 04:04 PM
4	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. If he sees you as only something to fuck, he’s more than welcome to move on to other women. He isn’t worth the time if he has no more control over his base desires than a common mutt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 03:57 PM
6	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. It’s a good thing men don’t treat their friendships the same way they do potential relationships. “You know, Joe, I like hanging out with you and all and we have a blast together, but if you don’t bend over for me soon, I can’t be friends with you”. What is wrong with doing normal couple things while waiting? Does sex have to be the number one thing a man wants from women 100% of the time?!? I get that it’s important but does it have to be the ONLY thing? How about hanging out? Finding hobbies y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 03:21 PM
14	The "3 month rule" for women, and the "3 date rule" for men, doesn't apply for genuine LTR's. Waits 3 months to find out he’s a minute man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 02:55 PM
2	Does it matter if a woman makes more money than a man? Looks like you triggered some of the menfolk, OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 11:37 PM
1	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Nice straw man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 10:53 PM
0	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Imagine, just IMAGINE if you’re someone who only cares about getting your rocks off and doesn’t give a fuck about anyone but yourself and your “bros”, getting a flesh light and not trashing women who don’t want to be used for sex. Whoa! Using an inanimate object instead of treating women like one?!? What a crazy fucking concept! It’s almost as if you could just get your nut and not have to treat women like shit!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 10:34 PM
6	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. You’ve reduced relationships down to nothing but transactions and said emotions aren’t valued right after saying that “regular guys care very much” about a woman’s enjoyment of sex. How can you care if it isn’t something you value or affect anything in your physical world? You pretty much proved that it’s about seeing women as nothing more than living flesh lights. It’s not about humanity, it’s about sticking something in a wet hole. After all, pussy is physical while emotions that come with hum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 06:15 PM
1	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. People who talk of “Chad” are the LEAST likely to care about women as people and are they most likely to think women owe them something for showing the most basic of human decency to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 06:04 PM
9	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Sex takes time. At least, it should. I guess she’s out at least 2-3 minutes. Men who would use someone just for sex aren’t going to waste their valuable time on her enjoyment. Funny how you put value on time and money but not emotions. And yet, women aren’t supposed to want a man’s time and money - the things you consider to be the only things that matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 04:54 PM
5	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. There’s a difference between desire and just dropping a load. When a man sees a his friendship with a woman as being in the friend zone, no, she isn’t receiving friendship. If he’s only hanging out with her in hope of getting laid, he isn’t her friend. He’s pretending to think of her as a friend and biding his time until he gets the sex he feels entitled to. Do you only hang out with your guy friends in order to get something from them? If you really believe women get something positive out of b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 04:45 PM
6	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Then be validated when women use you for money. They are validating you because you they find you motivated enough to have a job. Be validated when they friend zone you. They think of you as an actual person who might care for them instead of someone who’s hoping to get laid. Be validated in the way I think you should be validated because it’s validation in ways most women don’t receive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 04:28 PM
10	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Man: being used for sex validates women Woman: no, it really doesn’t Man: yes it does. I said so many times. Typical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 04:06 PM
8	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Repeat it until it becomes truth. Right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 03:56 PM
9	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. It stems from the argument that women shouldn’t be offended if they are harassed when rejecting someone wanting to use them cuz “hey, at least he wanted to fuck you”. Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 03:42 PM
12	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Funny how you think being used by a man is a good thing because she gets to be used for sex. Fucking WOW! No net loss? She gets to feel like absolute SHIT by the one who used her. She gets to be treated like shit by the one who used her. At best, she’ll be ignored. She’s likely to be laughed at, mocked, scorned. She’ll be considered used/damaged goods. Definitely not gf or wife material. He’ll consider her dirty for having had sex with him and yet, not consider himself besmirched in any way. He …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 03:39 PM
17	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Wrong. It’s only validation that there’s a spot between the legs he’d like to use for a few minutes. Period. Men will use women the same way they’d use toilets - a thing in which to drop a load. It’s not necessarily because he finds her attractive; it’s because he finds her handy. There’s absolutely NO validation in being used for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 03:23 PM
10	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Men get butt hurt over being used, too. They don’t want to be used for money. They don’t want to be “friend zoned” and be used for their time and emotional support. You can all agree that being used by women is a bad thing. Why, then, can’t you understand that women being used for sex isn’t a great thing for women? You truly seem to think we should appreciate being used since it means we are getting sex. Being used for sex isn’t a privilege. We aren’t “getting to be used” we are simply being use…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 03:01 PM
10	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. How is what I said entitled? Men throw that word around way too much. Men admit to thinking of women as having no redeemable qualities beyond having vaginas. How is being nothing but a vagina considered a good thing? How are we privileged and entitled for being viewed as nothing more than living flesh lights? It’s absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 02:46 PM
17	Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity. Why do men think women should be flattered that men would just use them for sex? Being considered just good enough to be a wet spot for him to stick his dick is not this wonderful privilege men think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 02:16 PM
6	What is so wrong to use women sexually and dump leave when you're bored? Is this just another woman bashing place? That’s pretty much all it seems to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/19 09:35 AM
14	I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't change Intimacy with someone you hate? Are you confusing intimacy with sex.? You want sex with someone without paying for it. Fair enough. However, considering you “hate” women, you aren’t wanting intimacy; you want sex. You want to be able to use a woman for sex. Isn’t that shallow? On that note, why do incels harp on the idea that women can easily get sex. Do you think being used for sex is a good thing? Plenty of women are passed over for relationships because they aren’t considered physically ideal…	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/19 09:55 PM
3	Can someone please help me accept this?? No one can tell you how to get over it. Either you will or you won’t. If you view this as an unforgivable sin, you’ll never get over it. If you view it as something she’s not proud of but did to get through college without amassing a huge amount of debt, you may get over it. If you view it as her being like you and everyone one else and having something in their past they aren’t proud of, you can get over it. Just don’t hold onto her AND hold on to your disgust and disdain. That’s not fair. She …	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/19 10:05 PM
2	Can someone please help me accept this?? I’m guessing she saw that he was prone to such double standards and was afraid. Or maybe she’s so ashamed she couldn’t. Or maybe she felt that since they were so good together, it wouldn’t be a big deal. Who knows. She should have ‘fessed up early in the relationship but she didn’t and like her past, that isn’t going to change. I hope OP realizes that everyone, including him, has done something in their lives of which they are ashamed. He can give the forgiveness he would want for himself or he …	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/19 03:17 PM
5	Can someone please help me accept this?? Can you imagine the response if a woman said “I found a man who treats me like a queen but he went to strip clubs 12 years ago. How can I get over it?” Do you think the response would be anything other than “It was 12 freaking years ago! Get over it!”	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/19 02:57 PM
4	Can someone please help me accept this?? Oh please. I’m pointing out the hypocrisy in judging her as though she’d prostituted herself for heroin. Men aren’t held to the same standards. If he had a male friend who had stripped to pay his way through college, he’d likely have shrugged it off and not thought less of him. Hell, if the buddy or any man had a multitude of sex partners in the past, it wouldn’t be considered an issue! She didn’t have sex with multitudes of men but he’s viewing her past as though she’d lived as the most base an…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/19 02:52 PM
5	Can someone please help me accept this?? Lack of comprehension much? I distinctly advised him to let her go if he couldn’t let it go. You pretty much said the same thing I did. If his standards mean he can’t forgive her past, despite believing she’s damned near perfect for him NOW, then yeah, he should leave the relationship. He made no mention of ending the relationship, just needing help in accepting it. If he wants to keep the relationship, then yes, he needs to get over it. Do you think it’s fair to either of them for him to dwell …	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/19 02:03 PM
11	Can someone please help me accept this?? Do you judge the men who watch strippers so harshly? How about porn? Do you watch porn? Have you watched it in the past? Do you get that she wasn’t having sex with her customers? She was performing. Do you get that men can have sex with a multitude of women and not be judged at all, much less as harshly as you’re judging her despite the fact she wasn’t having sex with the customers? If you find out your friends have visited strip clubs, will you be as disgusted? Will you flip your shit if she we…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/19 04:27 PM
8	Trying to redpill detox You can move on by taking responsibility for yourself and deciding to do better. You treated a wonderful woman like crap and then got angry with HER when she no longer loved or trusted you. You ignored another great woman while you chased the one you mistreated and then got bummed when you finally decided to throw her a bone and found she wasn’t still enthralled with you. No one wants to be the consolation prize in a relationship. In both instances, you blame the woman for your poor actions. Yes…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/19 01:20 PM
5	Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him? If the child is eating, wearing clothing, living in a home, has use of electricity and water, getting necessary medical and dental needs met, has any extracurricular activities and/or entertainment, uses any school supplies, has birthday parties, goes to birthday parties, uses any hygiene/toiletries, is insured, gets haircuts, gets Christmas/holiday gifts, or any of the other numerous expenses that come with having a child, the CS money is being used for the care of the child. Having children in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 07:34 AM
8	Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him? Men don’t get it. They truly believe that married women don’t own anything - that all assets belong to the husband - and that the division of said asserts are her getting half of “his” stuff. Then, they believe that they are being financially raped by having to support their children! Mind boggling. What is it about feeding, clothing, and generally providing for children that particularly outrages them? Do they believe that if they get custody, there will be no expenses involved with raising the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 05:40 AM
3	CMV: While men do cheat, a man would be far less likely than a woman to try to justify their cheating in such a shameless, selfish, pathetic manner as below ("should have been more empathetic towards her internal conflicts and supported her through her journey") No, it’s being expected to take responsibility for the actions of men that we hate. No matter what men do, they blame women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 05:25 AM
10	New here.. having trouble with macho boyfriend He isn’t chivalrous; he’s controlling, misogynist, and abusive. Imagine your best friend telling you her boyfriend can’t tolerate her disagreeing with him. What would you tell her? Would you want to raise a daughter in a relationship where only men have a voice or a say in any matter? Don’t walk away from this relationship, RUN from it and never look back.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/18 11:39 PM
41	I want to have kids, but my husband has some conditions... So, he gets to control the pregnancy, control your appearance, and control the entire upbringing of the children? I’ll bet he means that he’ll control how YOU take care of the children. Men who have such little regard for their wives don’t usually lower themselves to do something they consider women’s work - too demeaning. He wants you to forgo the experience of pregnancy just so you remain aesthetically pleasing to him and he doesn’t have to be inconvenienced by the quirks that come with pregna…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/18 12:01 PM
1	Help keeping calm during a fight Right. Because husbands never overreact and treat their wives like crap. She’s doing what the RP men want and taking the blame for everything - including his behavior.	/r/RedPillWives	09/11/18 02:54 AM