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| 1 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedWhat is the benefit of B complex and why 4 eggs? Wouldnt that lead to cholesterol? Genuinely curious cause I am game for both but eggs Ive constantly been told and have read that you should only consume 2 per day. Enlighten me brother | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are true alpha males inherently selfless?Not sure I understand what you're asking bro. If you mean after that moment in time where I was meditating alot, it was mostly me getting tied up with side hustles and gymming and what not. I still have days where I wish I could just ditch everything and go live that monk lifestyle. Not in a way that id be escaping but more so in a way where everything feels so mundane in our day to day lives and society as a whole seems to be so lost and misguided. We are so much more than they make us believe. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Are true alpha males inherently selfless?Sad that you get downvoted. For me TRP is more so understanding female nature, you dont have to be married to one thing. You can be spiritual, RP aware and practicing SR. The latter is important because it gives you perspective on the things that matter and makes you realize that sex is a small part, there is so much more to life. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Are true alpha males inherently selfless?Not at all. Once you let go of attachments and learn to connect within you will naturally steer towards enlightenment. There are bumps along the way but you see life for what it is. There was a period of about 6 months where I would meditate daily for 3-4 hours split between morning, mid day and evening time and I recall this moment in my life to be the most peaceful and settling time. I would feel all emotions in its intensity similar to how when I was a kid, however, I would be unmoved. It cou… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I follow stoicism or epicureanism?Its an extension of who you are. If stoic values speak to you because of how it frees your mind then go that route. On the other hand, if you live for the moment and pleasure and endorphins are what you seek, then go the other route. Most people think they want the latter when they have yet to experience that mental freedom I speak of. The reason Stoicism complimente TRP is because as a stoic you are not influenced by your emotions, they come and you feel them but you identify them as a feeling … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Before RP, you feel like youre 2 steps behind them, afterwards you feel like youre miles aheadYeah, after coming back to this and reading it its pretty cringy. Lets pretend I never said any of this gay shit okay? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 25 | Why do some of the women I go out with start acting like little girls, literally? How do I nicely tell them that I don't find it cute?If they are submissive yes, but the anime try hard cute voice is a huge turn off. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:29 AM |
| 16 | Why do some of the women I go out with start acting like little girls, literally? How do I nicely tell them that I don't find it cute?Yeah FBI, this is the guy right here. He's the one youre looking for. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:28 AM |
| 3 | How are you guys leveling up during this time?Making meditation a daily habit. Picking up new hobbies like guitar. And focusing on side gig. Learning about crypto (playing with small amounts to get exposure in market). And lifting regularly which is an obvious one. Basically prioritizing 1. Health 2. Wealth 3. Relationships. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Which non-athletic hobbies have fulfilled you the most ?That feeling when you finish learning a song you thought forsure youd never be able to play, few things can measure up to that feeling. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Which non-athletic hobbies have fulfilled you the most ?+1 this. Its so challenging but you see your progress daily even if its slow, it sort of builds that discipline. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 92 | Girlfriend and parents died in 2020, I can't take it anymoreTo add on. Dont resent that pain, allow it to be there and feel it in its entirety. Do not resist the pain, it's the resistance that cause us suffering and misery. I cant even begin to imagine having one of those things happen but all 3... I am so sorry for your losses bro. The fact that you reached out here shows that you want to persevere and live the best life in memory of those loved ones. The fact that you're still able to hold yourself together and want to overcome these trials speaks volu… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | What is it about the stoic vibe that women like so much?Point is you understood what I was trying to say. I'm not sure why you are having an aneurysm over it. Relax bro, not all of us are English Majors. In the future if youd like to provide constructive feedback, try not to come off as a complete dweeb. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 10:02 AM |
| 2 | What is it about the stoic vibe that women like so much?He made many points, all of which except the last bit made sense. I specifically said "the last bit". I'm not sure why that was so difficult for you to comprehend. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 11 | What is it about the stoic vibe that women like so much?The last bit is very confusingly worded but that's well said. I dont even think you need to give the illusion of anger, it doesnt matter if it's an illusion or real if they cant tell the difference. Rather than showing anger, a face of disappointment or even overtly saying something to showcase it will prove to be much more powerful without losing frame. In a sense, treating them like a child that did something they werent suppose to. They will feel the need to win you over and not disappoint yo… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Why do women try to change you, if they just end up hating you once you’ve changed?Reminds me of The Book of Pook. "Woman like free birds that fly around freely and are wild and unpredictable. Birds that dont like to be in cages. Only wounded birds are needy and fly into cages" (talking about commitments/relationships). | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:28 PM |
| 101 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatShawty a lil fatty. She my lil Mooo thing. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Accidently reacted (emote) to exes message on GCHAHA. Thank you, that's the sort of feedback I love to hear. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:21 PM |
| -1 | BRUTAL! My red pilled normie friend was bragging about his Tinder game then this happened! This woman was not turned on, she was actually disgusted and played along to bait him lol.Woman act on emotion, men act through logic. The very fact that you are so appalled by TRP is because it evokes emotions in you that conflict with your reality. That's perfectly fine and it's definitely hard to see outside your reality, the thing is you should respect others reality as their own and in the same way you wouldnt like others to be pressing their views onto you - you should also give them that same respect back. As far as generalizing a whole group of people based on the fact that t… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Positive and beaming or cold “alpha”Yeah bro, be in your element whatever it is. This can change at any moment. For me in most social settings nowadays I'm lowkey and reserved because I dont feel the same way as I used to about people and relationships of any sorts. I try to be pleasant to be around and try to have a good time without compromising that internal peace, which if you've felt it in its purity - nothing can beat that sense of tranquility. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Positive and beaming or cold “alpha”Yeah, what I'm trying to say is that a guy who is "life of the party" will naturally have those things. However, the silent type that people usually see are the ones who lack confidence, insecure or socially awkward - these guys dont have those things most the times. If you have the same confidence and demeanor of the "life of the party" guy while being silent, you can also get great results. From my personal experience, especially at parties - you already have relationships with people there, t… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Positive and beaming or cold “alpha”Yeah man, theres so much more to it then just being silent. For instance, how your standing/sitting (posture), the way that you are conversing the few moments that you do speak, what your wearing and overall just youre appearance. The same way that I used to be afraid to talk to woman (because I valued them so highly solely based on the fact that their girls) is the same way that woman look at me. Just your presence alone is enough to make their hamster wheel spin. If shes in her head about you,… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:49 AM |
| 33 | Positive and beaming or cold “alpha”You've never had girls approach you and ask something like "why are you so silent?" or even just look at your direction constantly trying to understand you? In both circumstances, it's safe to say that they want to fuck with you. So like another person mentioned here, going with your true state is probably the best cause you will look comfortable and not tense. For me personally, I meditate and am quite spiritual so most times I am to myself. Youd be surprised how well it actually works. There w… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Potential FWB?Facts man. Funny enough shes actually tried to get me alone with her several times at parties and what not. Theres no question whether I'd be able to hit it, I dont know if I want to be that guy though lol. Her boyfriend is a chill dude which may be the only reason I'd probably not escalate this. Fuck the validation man, I hate feeling good based on what others think of me. It's actually annoying cause I hate feeling that validation dopamine hit, my body just reacts but my mind is like "fuck me … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Potential FWB?Is that how you are with woman? I've never had to tell any girl that I like them. Fuck that playground bullshit. She knows when I fucking eye rape her. This girls personality is like a fucking anime character, I couldn't take her serious if I wanted to lmao | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | My deleted askTRP thread about frame and social engineering! (I am a skillful master at both)I can't always give you attention, okay? Daddy has other things to tend to aswell | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | My deleted askTRP thread about frame and social engineering! (I am a skillful master at both)Dude quit stalking me, if you want to ask me out just do it | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | My deleted askTRP thread about frame and social engineering! (I am a skillful master at both)Solid deflect but the ... thing kinda bitch vibes ngl. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 11:44 AM |
| 2 | My deleted askTRP thread about frame and social engineering! (I am a skillful master at both)Self depreciating humor is whack. I try my best to steer clear of them cause you can look autistic and sarcastic/butthurt when you do it, especially in person. Stoic/silence approach works much better imo, with some A&A and deflection. If frames based on your reality vs others, then how do you deal with situations where you find out you are wrong and have to essentially accept someone else's ideas as reality based on facts? I have a good idea on how to respond, but I'm curious to see what you ha… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:51 AM |
| 12 | How to tell plate they’re working out too much the wrong areas?I wouldnt go there imo. If shes a plate who gives a shit what she does long as she sucking on that schlong. If you want to point it out I'd say something like "Damn X, your upper half startin to look like Ronnie Coleman, I'm going to need some pointers from you". Lowkey though, for me its girls with broad shoulders. Like I don't care how hot she is, if her shoulders broad instantly makes me think of a drag dude. Although I may be able to overlook it if it's a gymnast, for reasons I need not say. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:39 AM |
| 3 | My deleted askTRP thread about frame and social engineering! (I am a skillful master at both)Ahh, a man who likes to suck his own schlong and then parade about it. You are definitely your own in that regards my friend. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyYeah agreed. But at the same time, you look at your past mistakes and see what drew them away. I definitely would not go back to being like my old self with all that I've learned. I wonder if they feel the same in regards to not feeling the same connection with other guys. I still see my ex at work and I still feel the connection but I just focus on my shit. I'll see her engage with other guys that she seems to be interested in (might be dread game on her part), but she doesnt look at all like h… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyYeah forsure man. I dont think you ever really move on from oneitis, you just become desensitized to woman. And also usually it acts as a reminder for you to not put your finger where it will get bit again. It sucks but it is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyThe person that's always going to be there is yourself. Find solitude within and you will never NEED anyone. People will become complimentary to your life, rather than a necessity. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Just lost a family memberCant live in the past bro. We all wish we could have done things differently. As one other person suggested, learn to meditate and let your deep feelings and thoughts surface. It also seems like you are carrying some weight, so if you want to vent or just talk, hit me in DM. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 08:55 AM |
| 7 | Just lost a family memberIt doesnt hit you right away.... the fact it happened a week ago shows that you are still somewhat in the shocked phase. It's perfectly normal, but seriously take time to grieve with your family. It will greatly help with the healing process. At the same time, whoever may be reading this.... please take care of your parents. Whatever else you do or dont do, make sure you show them that you care in any little ways you can. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Just lost a family memberAccept the pain. It's okay for you to feel whatever you are feeling. Be patient with yourself and take time to grieve. Be thankful for the time you had with them and carry their legacy. Losing someone close to you is when you really gain perspective on life and what truly matters. I hope that the healing process is easy for you and wish you the absolute best. Stay strong and be the person they would have wanted you to be. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 07:51 AM |
| 5 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyWell said. That point when you find out that they will never love you the way you would want to love them, is when your perspective changes. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Going to the gym for the first time, need adviceAsk for help if you need. Make friends and try to enjoy your time there. Dont think that people are looking at you and judging, they all focusing on their own shit so unless you're dressed like a clown - you'll be fine. Remember that everyone started somewhere so dont look at others peoples mid-end stage and compare it to your beginning. Get them gains bro. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Is fapping to porn beta?Look at his response bro. This guy didnt want an actual answer, he wanted to feel reassured about his addiction. What I have learned is people who want to change will change, on their own accord. You cannot reason and explain things to people to inspire them to change, not unless they are ready. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 11:03 PM |
| 261 | Stopped a porn addiction, now horny as fuck all the timeThat's your brain rewiring itself. When those thoughts come dont sit around and feed it. The thing is, a mans sexual energy is strong. When you dont jerk it and blow that energy off, it stays inside you ready to be transmuted towards your purpose. This is your drive. Find a new hobby, work on a side hustle or go workout. You'll see how you will be way more driven and you'll get a much greater sense of joy and fulfillment from these things. Imagine your sexual energy like a faucet thats always ru… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosI try not to judge them because we all had to go through that to come out a better man. It's part of the journey. When I was like that, I used to wonder why girls would enjoy conversing with me but would always fold when it came down to dates or 1 on 1 time. Its cause when you give them the most valuable thing they're after in you (your attention) without them trying, they dont feel the need to put any effort to see you. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosIt was an observation but for discussion value I had to spice it up a little ;) Among many other changes I've made in my life, it shows me that I am on my purpose and dont care for external validation. Truly a great feeling when you no longer need others approval to feel secure of yourself. Its liberating to say the least. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosAmen brother. Thank you for the straight answer. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosI dont blame anyone but that's just how it is. And I agree, like many things, the change has to come internally. You cannot force someone to change solely off what you say because it will not stick the same as if they were to experience things and figure it out themselves. A great example is that most of us have probably heard the saying "nice guys finish last" but it didnt stop us from being nice until we ate figurative shit from woman and realized that those sayings actually have meaning. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosYou explained it to them? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosProbably. I'm past it. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosNot sure I understand, could you elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosGood. She tries to hide it, but most of her anxiousness comes from the fact that I hardly speak to her, just like most of my other female colleagues. It makes her feel unsure about herself. It feels like when I'm working, shes on edge. She will find dumb reasons to come ask me things just for the attention. I'm indifferent towards it but I guess she just wants me to be how I used to be. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosAppreciate the input. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 11:27 PM |
| 25 | Does physical attraction become less important as you get older?Its opposite. Naturally as you age people start to care less about how they look. Usually its cause they dont have the time or motivation to workout after work or a busy day. But most it not all of physical attraction is based on how you take care of yourself, if people see that you have let yourself go they covertly will get the message that you dont care about how you look and dont respect yourself enough to take care of yourself. Now when most of the crowd is letting themselves go and you com… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosYeah, it's more so that I've become very aware of it. Im alot more in tune with covert language so perhaps that's why. It's more of an observation but for the post I had to spice it up to bring some discussion, it seemed to work. There was alot of great feedback and most were raw and merciless. Just the way I like it haha | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosTrue that. I dont even care about appearing alpha. There was a point where I was making concious efforts but nowadays I just do whatever I feel like doing, saying no if I want to and overall just being me without being scares of any judgement. I dont feel like 2 different people anymore around friends and family/alone. I feel one now and it feels awesome. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosWhat I needed to hear. She can ride the carousel to the moon, was done with her shit long ago. Dont know why she hasnt got the memo. Really shows you how stubborn girls can be for what they want. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosI've just become very aware of it, not necessarily annoyed. Like a few here have mentioned, it's good because it makes you stand out. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosCause I work there too. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosNo they lack self respect so they feel the need to give endlessly because they dont value themselves. This is a typical nice guy frame. Everyone's been there at one point. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosGreat reply. I really ought to be more mindful of them living rent free. Even if it's for a few moments, it shouldnt effect me. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosThat's some great input. Do you think I'm being a dick? Whenever we do need to talk about work, we speak normally. It's just I dont put any effort towards her. No teasing like before and at most we communicate with our eyes. I can see that she still has feelings for me cause she gets visibly nervous around me and we have these intense eye contact randomly while working. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosThat's very insightful. There was a point where I did ignore her but nowadays I genuinely dont give a fuck. She knows. The clipboard writing was her admit of defeat. When we were together she would doodle on it and I would always start a convo about it. It was a test but it's also her trying to get those same vibes back. Nope. I also dont want to give any girl the satisfaction that they've done enough to hurt me that I'd actively ignore them, dont think it's possible for me to get hurt like that… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 10:01 AM |
| 10 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosThat's awesome man, wish I had RP knowledge in HS. The more I understand about RP the more I realize it's about how to be a man than it is how to attract woman. Woman will respect and submit to a guy who respects himself. I've also noticed how girls are far more submissive/feminine in their tone now when speaking to me. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:53 AM |
| 12 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosAmen brother. These guys are pussy whipped, she will tell them to do a task at work (she has no authority) and they listen simply cause they lack the balls or RP knowledge to know what it really is. Shes tried it on me so many times and my lack of reaction and silence is enough for her to lose frame. Its honestly so satisfying but it's also unreal how these girls will test you. But funny story, I remember a few years ago before I knew anything about RP, I had a crush on this girl at work and wou… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:20 AM |
| 19 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosWhat's funny as shit is I'm friends with most of them, so most the times I will not approach them but once in a while I'll just walk in and a bro convo will spark where she looks out of place. Pretty satisfying cause she will usually walk away with a random dude while looking like shes not enjoying their convo at all. This girl is beyond unreal. She approached me on 3 different occasions at work (3 different days) and asked me "can we talk", this was right after I told a coworker that I was look… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:10 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with injuriesBeen there. Worked out for 6 years and got a really bad trap/neck injury that made me scared to lift anything for nearly 2 years. Made me fall into depressive shit and I was a complete mess those 2 years. Learned to deal with my mental health (first and foremost, this is your foundation). During that time off I learned alot about managing stress and releasing the tension I put on my body from years and years of overthinking. Regardless of how you take care of yourself physically, if you dont hav… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassed myself with flatmates. How do I recover?Amen. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassed myself with flatmates. How do I recover?Honestly bro, just move past it. Dont keep bringing it up and talking about it, even by apologizing you are keeping it fresh in their minds. You've apologized already and getting her all that shit was a bit excessive, but they see that by treating you worse and worse you are showing more and more of your insecurity towards yourself (shit test of sorts). Right now the best you can do to control further damage (to your own rep), is be indifferent. They think that you will continue throwing yoursel… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 51 | How do I become obsessed with success and start doing what I need to do to move my life forward?To add on to this. Understand what dopamine is, and how instant gratification is the biggest hurdle for success. Learn to say no to instant gratification and instead do things that your future self would thank you for. This can be taking care of your body, eating well or focusing on your career/side-hustles. The idea is dont be an addict for Dopamine. Learn to say no to cheap pleasures and do things that are difficult. Start small and build up, dont instantly try to switch your life 180 cause th… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 06:21 AM |
| 0 | LTR broke up with me.I mean. You saying "fuck off" is basically telling her she hurt you bad and you're butthurt. If you said it in a polite way I'm sure it wouldnt have been nearly as bad. Something like "I dont see you as a friend. I dont think thatll work out. Take care". And then think of her as dead to you. She would have reached out at some point where you could have steered her towards becoming a plate. Theres so much things you have to keep in mind. For instance, ask yourself if you want to be friends or you… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | LTR broke up with me.Lol I work with her too. She texted me last week asking if "we" can talk next week. Mind you we broke up 11 months ago. Shes tried everything in the book. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 0 | LTR broke up with me.Acting defensive and explaining yourself. Stop DEERing, he wont want to fuck you if you be a little bitch. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 11:36 AM |
| -2 | LTR broke up with me.No. Literally all you have to realize is that woman act on emotion. And that when she breaks up with you (telling you she doesnt want you to be in her life anymore) the most respectable thing you can do is say "ok" and give her that. So cutting her off in a way where you are like "fine, if you want to break up - I wont ever talk to you again" is very different from "If you dont want me to not be in your life, then sure I will give you that". You arent being butthurt, you are giving her what shes… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 11:30 AM |
| 5 | LTR broke up with me.Yeah. Remember that when she chose to leave you, she chose to not have you in her life. Girls act on emotion without thinking much about the consequences, she will almost certainly start questioning her decision once she sees the consequences. Another thing is that woman are stubborn beyond imagination, if they miss you and want to get back with you while you're doing no contact - they will do some crazy shit. Needless to say, focus on yourself and dont rely on other people for your happiness. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 11:23 AM |
| 30 | LTR broke up with me.[Deleted] | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How long do you push when gaming?I think you gave her all the validation she would've needed to come to the conclusion that you wanted to fuck her/found her attractive enough. Almost pedastalising her and she didnt give you shit. Remember to engage the convo in a way where YOU are the prize and are providing an opportunity for this lucky girl to possibly get to fuck you. So if you're trying to grab her number or something go at it in a way where youd like her number to get to know her cause right now you're somewhat undecided w… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 08:02 AM |
| 4 | How often are heads actually getting laidNo its cause it's your style + you've probably done it a few times. I cant speak on RP but in every other thing that I've become good at (sales, guitar, sports, even lifting) I've adopted different things from different people and got my own style that works for me. It works for me cause it's natural and effortless. I think being genuine and not trying to play off a script will be much better than trying to execute a method without really being genuine. In terms of lifting, when I've tried to do… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidIf it fails just tell her that her mom is hotter anyways. This will get hamster wheel turning and she is bound to beg you for a threesome with her mom. Trust me bro, it works. While you're at it probe and ask if shes ever thought about a 4 some and get her dad involved too. Family bang. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 6 | How often are heads actually getting laidEasy as that eh? I feel like even if you follow this to a tee, you will fail miserably unless your body language is also on point (eye contact, smile etc). Its good to know though, definitely going to try to mix this in with my own thing. Especially cause no girl would ever turn down a game of any sorts, unless she doesnt find you attractive at all. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 01:23 AM |
| 6 | How often are heads actually getting laidWhat would be considered as sexual topics? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to reply....Yeah, forsure she knows full well that I dont really give a shit about her so that message has been recieved on her end. But it's one of those scenarios where she has asked me multiple times. The first time I brushed it off cause I know it was a shit test bait to get me to ask her what it is. I didnt, second time she actually grabbed me by the arm and I had to leave so I left without any interest into what she wanted. The third time she texted me soon after the second time, so at this point I sa… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to reply....She left me. I thought I was so slick, playing all my cards right but it's so fucking cringey the shit I told her and did for her.... that's partially why I dont blame her lol. The only thing I did right was ironically the last thing, she offered up friendship which I took and immediately next day called her and told her that I dont see her as a friend and cut off all ties outside of work. Guess that's all that took for her to start chasing again, cause she immediately regret it. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Forgot to reply....Felt the same. Honestly with RP texting nowadays, I just text whatever I want without giving a shit about what they may feel. So in this context, I dont feel like saying sorry is justified - I didnt do anything wrong. Simply missed a message which happens, if she probes then I'll give her that extra detail. I like being direct, especially with woman I'm interested in. No bullshit, straight answers - especially over text. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to reply....Cause I have to work with her. And I see how damaged she has become as a result of me going full cold on her, I am all for RP but I'd never want someone to hate themselves or think that I hate them. So I try to do what little I can to show that I am human while also applying RP teachings. In this case, I dont hate her and am not upset with her. So I want to respond in a neutral way where she gets this vibe. Beyond RP, I also want to bring positivity not leave a trail of destruction on my path. I… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to reply....Yikes... I legit didnt see it lol. But I responded with a "Yeah". This is an ex... no bad blood but I feel like "sorry I missed this message, this week is fine" is too much for me. Either way it's too late but tell me that's not a completely retarded answer lol. On the fuck part, I dont know man. There are days where I'm like fuck that shit, but on other days - I'd be down to go down that path with all the knowledge I've gained about RP. I think I'd be 100x more equipped and able now. But you do… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to reply....Bro, I didnt see her text till today. Like no joke lol | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Forgot to reply....I do care. I dont have hate in my heart for anyone. No matter how much they have wronged me (she didnt really do anything, I was just BPed as fuck). Forgive others for myself cause I dont want that weight. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | For those with IBSNice. To a life well lived~ | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | For those with IBSOfcourse, because you are afraid I might get through to you. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | For those with IBSSure, if that's how you see it then you are hopeless. Theres alot more to life than jerking your meat. If you constantly train your brain to be a slave to your emotions and desires by jerking it anytime you feel the need to. This form of ultimate pleasure has a way of making everything else in life feel less than. So nothing will compare to that pleasure and you will not be able to appreciate the smaller joys. I'll give an analogy so you understand. Imagine someone who is just getting by in life… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | For those with IBSTo each their own bro. If you feel that strongly about it then you do you. As for me, that's a hard pass. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | When they cant let go....Yeah, I shit you not I'm starting to see how literally AWALT regardless of age, culture etc. They all want a good time and their decisions are extremely reliant on their emotions/mood. Ever since RP, and I started understanding woman I stopped talking to them openly as I would with some Male friends, its helped me so much because I actually have respect from them. They see me as a happy guy who has himself well put together and has a purpose beyond woman. It's funny cause when they realize you w… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 0 | For those with IBS"Three weeks". Yeah, so let's imagine you are a crack head for the past 10+ years. Every single day you smoke crack. One day you decide you want to be a better man and find joy in life again, so you decide to stop. You give it a shot for 3 weeks and see no immediate benefits so you revert back. Similarly, how the fuck do you expect your body to recover in 3 weeks from the damage you've caused it for what I'm assuming is well past 10+ years? If anything you stopped right before a good milestone w… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | When they cant let go....I dont think I mentioned anywhere that I was looking to get back with her. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:10 PM |
| 0 | For those with IBSIt's ironic because based on your reality (which is the same as probably 95% of dudes out there), you think that whatever you've been told from mainstream media about masturbation and sex - that it's all factual. Reality is that we have been on the skeptical side (where you are), and we have given it a try (with alot of self control, which I know you're having difficulty with), and have seen the benefits. You cant tell me the sky is green when I've gone out and seen the sky as blue myself. Simil… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | When they cant let go....Bro, shes Arab. They are the definition of bat shit crazy. Normally I'm not one to generalize a whole group of people, but I can safely say that Arab woman have egos as big as Everest and are ruthless. They are like sharks, as soon as they smell weakness.... you're done. What I can say though is that they are so fun. Never a dull moment. If you tame them, they can be the most feminine and submissive type of women out there... with you atleast. They will still be bossy, I run this shit vibes with… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 0 | When they cant let go....I dont focus on feeling good. I just seek calm and peace within myself, that feels 10x better. When you get that validation the dopamine you get is something you have no control over, however, being mindful and aware of it sort of helps to not let it feed your ego. Honestly bro, I should have done that moon walk thing. In the moment I was trying to get someplace quickly after work so I didnt even really think before I said what I said. She was visibly upset as she swayed her head forward and wal… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 08:22 AM |
| 0 | When they cant let go....Nice, I passed. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 1 | For those with IBSNah man. You think you know shit but you look equally as stupid from the other side. It's all about perspective. I dont doubt that it's a real condition but what youd be surprised to find is that MANY conditions are caused by stress build up. When theres tension in neck, chest areas especially if you suffer from anxiety etc, it can limit the blood flow to areas like the stomach which will affect how you digest and process your foods. Similarly, ALOT of other medical conditions are caused by simi… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 01:43 AM |
| -3 | For those with IBSTry meditating and not fapping. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Stole her shitThis is far too amusing to be real. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Nofap and coming on too strongNo man, the reality is you have an addiction as we all did at some point and have convinced yourself that it is fine because it will not make you feel so bad about yourself when you do it. But remember acceptance is always the first step. Ask yourself why you do it. You do it because it makes you feel good for moments and you like the way the dopamine and endorphins feel afterwards. In this way you are training your brain to always think of sex, everytime you see a woman your brain instantly thi… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 04:25 AM |
| 14 | Nofap and coming on too strongYes, the mind is powerful and will fool you into believing things that fits your narrative. The reason you feel like shit after you jerk off isnt because you're paranoid about your T levels, it's because your mind cant differentiate you actually having sex with a woman vs jerking off. Once it realizes you didnt actually fuck a woman you feel unaccomplished, like you cheated. Why? Well, understand this. As humans our 2 most primal instincts are to reproduce and survive. That is why woman are hype… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 4 | First time in LTRToo funny. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 3 | i’d rather just not deal with womenYou wanna know how to tell if you're truly in monk mode? Ask yourself if you want girls because of how they make you feel about yourself (high value, ego etc), if it is then you need to work on yourself cause your confidence goes beyond just having abundance - that's the cocky ego confidence. For natural confidence you need to let go of trying to surround yourself with friends/girls simply for how they make you feel about yourself and instead learn to accept yourself and devote to becoming the b… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | i’d rather just not deal with womenElaborate on the 5 stages please | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | yes or noBro, trust me when I say this. Its 100% to make me jealous. Theres basic things girls do body language wise that can tell you whether shes interested and her goal. Like the fact that she puts on a full face of makeup and does her hair and shit for when I'm back? And constantly trying to look her best when I'm working? Before I had stopped working due to covid, I saw her at a party and she "drunk" messaged me immediately after the party to spark a convo. She would constantly match her breaks with… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | yes or noNot the way you think, it's that shes nervous around me cause I make her anxious. Oddly enough I feel it a bit too but I just do my shit and am unphased by it. But woman are emotional, she is driven by her emotions so if she feels anxious to talk to me then obviously she will try to avoid it unless I make the effort. Shes tried to make me feel jealous but it works the opposite, It simply tells me that im high value and she still hasnt gotten over me. I could care less if shes fucking all the dud… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | yes or noIs it really that one size fits all though? I completely believe everything you're saying but I'm genuinely curious whether theres not even a slightest chance that it works out. I know I'm probably holding on to very little hopes and over analyzing but you're telling me that exes arent able to rekindle and make it work longterm? I know I'm sounding like a dumbass but literally just want more perspective. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | yes or noWell, I focus on work. But the first time we spoke I teased her a bit. That's about it. No flirt. But bro listen, it's like revenge. Idgaf but to see someone who I put on a pedestal so hard and her treating me like shit back then and by gaming her and refusing her friendship offer the pedestal has flipped. She has so many thirsty dudes chasing her and she still directs her attention and focus on me cause I genuinely dont give a fuck. At this point its like I'm a monster to her cause shes terrifi… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | yes or noFair enough. Would u ever give a girl another chance? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | yes or noBro how do I work with her then? If she starts to tease and flirt? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 02:55 AM |
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| 11 | One girl sent me a picture of her and another friend of hers (also a girl) and asked me to choose one. Best answer?Egg her on before by being like "that's easy" and then when she asks what, follow up with "neither of you". Ultimate, idgaf about ur shit test reply. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How to act with girl mocking me?[Removed] | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 8 | Recently broke up with a high SMV LTR and now other girls seem like trash...?[Removed] | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend and her girl best friend talking about hot friend.Bruh. Trust me when I say this. If you're worried about losing her then you're going to lose her eventually. Remember it's just your turn and that showing weakness will ultimately turn her off. Like the dudes up there said , go lift, find new hobbies, challenge yourself and look at growing as a person. If your #1 priority is your girl, she already knows and she will find someone who has his shit together. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 12:36 AM |
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| 1 | Do Alphas make girls feel threatened/unsure?Something we can agree on. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 02:26 AM |
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| 2 | Applying TRP to friendshipsSorry your response wasnt worthy. Some loser replied to it though | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 11:19 PM |
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| 1 | Could basic replies such as “what are you going to do?” be considered shittests?I think it's best to treat everything a girl says as a shit test. They are curious, curiousity is good because it keeps them thinking about you. You have to simply be direct and not give off too much info so as to keep them wondering. Its best to be broad. And always remember that less is more. You dont have to read into every little thing she says, in general she wants to understand you so that you are no longer a mystery. As for any shit test just remember to - not respond combatively, defensi… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Spirituality and TRPLikewise, I wish you the best on your journey aswell! | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Spirituality and TRPThat's a good way to look at it. I can definitely see the obsessive part of spirituality sort of fading into what is a simply a way of life. It's a part of process I believe, initially when you get enlightened you feel as though that is your purpose and #1 priority that takes control of your life. But ironically, being spiritual is to let go of control and becoming mindful. I am at that awkward stage where that obsession has faded and I dont necessarily have to think about spirituality anymore, … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Spirituality and TRPCan you elaborate on the 80/20? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Spirituality and TRPThat's interesting. Being attached to unattachment is still attachment. Haha really puts things into perspective. Oddly enough, I recently realized this aswell. Before I would always be mindful to not let my emotions control me, rather I would try to maintain the inner peace by trying to always be aware and not be influenced by the emotions. But spirituality is all about growth and I realized that being able to let go and allowing your emotions to take control sometimes without bein afraid is sp… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 12:04 AM |
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| 6 | Shit test from friendAhaha | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Shit test from friendAha | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Shit test from friendAhaha | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:05 PM |
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| 1 | Shit test from friendYes. I think right now, she isnt getting attention and is home so shes looking for the validation I used to give. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:00 PM |
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