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| 2 | BDSM defence loopA sexual assault/abuse survivor who intentionally re-traumatizes themselves and "feels better" afterward has taken a step back on the road to recovery, because they've essentially just tricked themselves into halting the (painful and chaotic-feeling) processing/healing of their previous trauma by forcing themselves back into survival mode. I think you just described something I didn't know how to..😳😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingThank you for saying it is rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingI did the exact same thing (we decided to engage in this with no safe word) and..it went about as healthily as you'd expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingSo two people engaged in a rape fantasy with no safe word set up? And she very clearly wanted it to stop but he didn't stop. You guys are saying it is rape? Im asking because this happened in my life and this is horrifying to read but I feel less alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:18 AM |
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