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I've been told "I love you" by multiple guys after like 1 or 2 weeks, I've been told by a couple guys we could go ring shopping right then and there (after I had already ended things or they knew i just wasn't invested).... the vile things these losers do bc they think it will appeal to us. Love bombing, future faking, and saying literally any damn thing to get a woman to sleep with them, not leave, whatever. Words are meaningless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:51 PM
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Yes, OP, this may seem harsh but this is all true. I got married at age 36 and dated a lotttt before then, and dudes like this DO NOT CHANGE. You know you have said all this to him before. Time to accept that he is not worth it and your deserve more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:38 AM
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Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:20 AM
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In not anti beard (provided it is well trimmed and kept clean, not some nasty scraggly shit) BUT you have got to at least see pre-beard photos before any kind of dating because who knows what he's hiding under there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:40 AM
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Totally agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:26 PM
4

All James are asshole, imo😆 ladies HATE cool James, LLHJ, over here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:00 PM
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Imagine a world where men had vasectomies and had to prove themselves worthy to get a reversal 😆 we'd solve all world problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:26 AM
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Remember, we don't ask dudes about exclusivity- they need to be the ones to bring it up. And dudes should want to do something sweet and romantic for your birthday/ a social occasion. She should've blocked and deleted instead of even trying to ask him what the deal is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:19 AM
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Yes! We should NOT be leading the direction by asking about exclusivity, etc. We should A. Be looking at their behavior to see if it aligns with this, such as he sees you every Saturday, introduces you to friends, holds your hand in public etc, but also B. He should bring it up. My hv husband brought it up like 3 weeks into dating by saying "I called you my girlfriend when talking to a colleague, I hope that's ok?" I didn't act all giddy and thankful (though I was very happy) and just played it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:52 PM
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Yuppp which is why block and delete is SO important! Every single dude I seriously dated tried to get back with me after the breakup, to include saying we could go pick out a ring right there and then if I wanted. In hindsight, and after finding FDS in my 30s (now married to a HVM and 38) I should've gotten rid of them way earlier/ never dated after the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:01 AM
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Yupp, I had a guy I met on OLD years and years ago who lied about his height. I brushed it off and lo and behold, months later, things end when I find out he's cheating on me. If it's so easy for them to lie about something fairly trivial, imagine if it's something big
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:44 AM
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Unfortunately, I found only extremely flaky women, and/or pickmes on bumble bff. I met with one woman one time, who somehow got her car stuck on a ramp in the parking lot, then spent the happy hour flirting with every male server in the place...I thought that because she was a physician she would have some brain cells but apparently not. so embarrassing to be around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:21 PM
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Exactly wtf logic is it that they don't think that them sucking other guys' dicks or taking it up the ass would be the equivalent? Probably bc in their twisted minds they think women "enjoy" sex work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:10 AM
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A straight dude in nail polish is def virtue signaling to a pickme libfem who will create a whole narrative about how "he's different"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:27 AM
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Back when I used to do online dating, it was disgusting how 99% of men say their age range is all the way down to 18, but never older than their own age, and rarely even their same age. I'm talking like 40 year old men saying they'd date like 18 to 28, allll the tiiime. Immediate delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:16 PM
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Just realized I wrote almost exactly what you did lol. But clearly-I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:55 PM
158

Exactly. Plus she handed over to these guys what not to do, instead of filtering them naturally. This "scott" may have just written "hey" and nothing else if she hadn't prompted him. Also, taking her profile down immediately... I would not consider this FDS dating at all, really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:54 PM
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Same, and I really wish more women would abandon this patriarchal practice. It's annoying having to give both last names, but then explain we are actually married, cut various forms, etc. Once a hotel made a huge deal about the reservation being in my name but the credit card in my husband's, because the last name wasn't the same. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:53 AM
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The audacity of this nasty scrote! Who even knows if his "hall pass" story is true. I bet after he gets sex, he'd suddenly be like "my wife and I are working on things now." As she said, getting laid as a woman is cheap... any woman can find someone to fuck her.. it's not a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:01 PM
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100%. I've had men of my own background/ similar background tell me they are just "playing around" with white women but really want to marry similar kind. GEE how flattering they you actively have a live-in girlfriend that you want to cheat on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:42 AM
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Yup, we're their property but fuck if they ever tried to actually pursue us (those within their group) with true intent. Losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:40 AM
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You're amazing at decoding 😆!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:57 PM
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Many of us here were once pickmes who didn't yet know the good word of FDS. I think we need to spread the message as much as possible! Literally changed my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:42 AM
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Exactly, since when have men went out of their way to actually listen to a woman for anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:21 AM
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Yuppp, I have more stories of disgusting comments and attempts at groping from homeless men (I suspect some of them by choice) than I can count. But you're right, people get so up in arms about saying they're nasty creeps. I will help homeless women as I assume most experienced harm at the hand of males but in my opinion, a majority of homeless men are/ were probably assholes that dug themselves into their hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:27 AM
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Yes! Thanks to wise women who broke the cycle and spread the good word of FDS lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:37 PM
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Totally. I almost exclusively dated men who were good on paper- wealthy, well educated, well dressed, owned their own homes, etc. But they thought that was a pass/cover to therefore be vile abusive cheaters because of course what 99% of the world sees is exactly just what's on paper. Nobody but those who date them see their true evil misogynistic inner workings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:27 PM
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I've found that dudes who have reached adulthood without even TRYING foods from different cuisines are usually more "traditional" aka close minded morons who stick to misogynistic ways of thought and who are too stubborn to see the world in any lens other than their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:20 PM
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I love this 😆 it's a fact that if every man on the face of the earth disappeared tomorrow, the human species would continue as long as we could access existing sperm banks. But without us women, dudes would fight or bomb themselves to destruction before even just dying out of old age. They need us, not vice versa!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:10 PM
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Ha ha ha they might even hate "balding" more than "bald." Def gonna use "you've got balding energy, short king" for everything, always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:09 PM
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😆 love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:06 PM
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Great post! Nice to see positivity in this realm, as well! My life changed completely because of FDS principals (went from one abusive asshole to the next, to valuing my worth and am now married to a hvm) and I'm hopeful it will for many more young women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:52 PM
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Hookups give men 100% of what they want - no strings, selfish release for only themselves the vast majority of the time. Definitely does not serve us and instead brings risks and emotional devaluation! Beautiful queen with a message I hope will spread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:11 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:16 AM
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I've read and re-read this book and highly recommend 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:01 PM
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Every Single scrote i went on a date with in the past who claimed to have a female "bestie" had slept with her. Some of these women are so blind or afraid of the answer to not just ASK if they've slept together. Even if they haven't, trust and believe at least one, if not both, of them wanted to at some point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:52 AM
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Keep up the good work! And if he comes crawling back, you'll know to ignore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:02 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:40 AM
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One thing to note from the article, the author goes on and on about the great scientific etc accomplishments of men... but women were actively not allowed to go into those studies or careers! So even then when he's self congratulating for his great epiphany, he's an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:11 AM
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My user name? Yes! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:47 AM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:34 PM
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https://www.wsj.com/articles/college-university-fall-higher-education-men-women-enrollment-admissions-back-to-school-11630948233?reflink=mobilewebshare_permalink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:01 AM
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I agree- nothing wrong with catching up if you want to and if it's convenient to you. But don't let him turn it into a pseudo date. If he wants an actual date, he should put in the effort for one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:29 AM
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Hahaa the exs in the picture are the worst/ best because the idiots use it to signal "this is my level of how attractive you must be to date me", which is prefect in using to instantaneously filter a loser out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:15 PM
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Smh. I had an ex whose family did the same thing... and I'm not even East Asian.... UGH if I had known then what I know now I'd be OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:22 AM
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Are you me?😆 yuppp, I'm exotic... like a jungle bird or leopard... not an individual human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:53 AM
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Totally understand. I thought the same thing for quite some time- would no longer date white men as they just. don't. get. it. But there are still good ones out there and, depending on where you live, it may be next to impossible to only date non-white. As I'm sure you know, even within ethnic groups there is racism so it really boils down to vetting vetting vetting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:57 PM
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You're much wiser than i was when i agreed to go on a date with a tall, handsome gastroenterologist who also had chicks drooling over him at a party... and he had us split the bill at the end (my entree was like 15 bucks, so would have been nothing to his salary) and then after that he had the audacity to try to invite himself up to my place. F that. So 100% agree with your bottom line message!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:15 AM
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Its so sad seeing the billions upon billions that women spend on expensive, painful, and damaging procedures, treatments, and products in order to conform to what the media tells us that will make us attractive to men. And for the women who think "no, having my lips look like a baboons ass makes me feel powerful!," we really must be honest with ourselves about the source of where the idea to look like that, and why, really came from. Why are men not spending billions on these procedures? If men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:37 PM
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And 99% of men think he is a god for doing so, and would do the same if they could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:27 PM
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The US created the taliban and gave power to osama bin laden to fight the soviet invasion of Afghanistan in the 1970s/80s. The Us should have the responsibility of remedying the issues after creating a monster that met their needs to stop soviet expansion, at the cost of Afghan blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:45 PM
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Exactly. For those who don't fully understand, becoming a billionaire is exclusively done at the expense of those in poor countries through unethical business practices like not having fair trade, or using cheap materials and factories which destroy the environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:36 PM
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God forbid this moron find another career that he is more happy with. That's exactly the mentality of these privileged fools- if I don't get exactly what I want when I want it, then I'm throwing it all away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:29 PM
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I love when the ladies on here decode scrote BS. This makes so much sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:24 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:00 AM
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Excellent read and yes, many pickmes are SO offended by the book. I re-read it (and The Rules which is MUST read)periodically even though I'm married, to keep the lessons at the forefront
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:41 AM
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Instead of leveling up, as more women become more educated and more independent, they whine and pout and spew hatred. We women have bettered ourselves in almost every measurable way, while men get worse, so the gulf is getting bigger and bigger when looking for a mate who is equally educated/ financially independent, etc. It parallels the spurt in racism: those who had power are losing it and they're mad about it. Thus also all the mass shootings by unhinged males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:25 PM
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😆😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:29 PM
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Money down, this dude will find someone else and be married within 1 year, after her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:10 PM
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Good for you! Unfortunately many pickmes will jump at the offer but they've got a lifetime of unhappiness unless they level up. I rejected multiple dudes who were very similar to what you described here and they ended up marrying chicks who literally needed greencards smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:24 PM
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This whole post has me audibly laughing 😆 you ladies are the best. Hope these nasty stank dicks die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:16 PM
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😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:14 PM
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Or they don't scrub or wash properly. I've known multiple dudes who just use their hands to wipe around a bit and then expect the soapy water to trickle down to the rest of their body. Like they don't use abrasion or actually clean the soles of their feet etc. Plus the whole driblets of pee thing in their underwear bc they can't bothered to be decent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:13 PM
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Facts 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:42 AM
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All the Rules book states to not bother with couples therapy for all the reasons mentioned in the comments. If you are at that point, then no amount of talk will change the dude. Only drastic action
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:58 PM
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I bet. Smh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:37 PM
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I know multiple people who work in health care and have all told me how grown ass "men" frequently rely on their wives to remember their medical history, medications, etc. Like, the Dr will ask a question and the dude turns to his wife to know the answer, or has to legit call his wife. I asked if they've ever seen the opposite and they all said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:09 PM
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If he had enough care to try to lure women into sex (or pay for it, who knows) then he should have given a fuck about hygiene. I guarantee this freak never got a woman off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:47 PM
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😂👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:42 PM
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😂 perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:41 PM
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Excellent advice! Miserable people will only bring you down! And pickmes are, in my opinion, worse than men. It's hard making new friends with each passing year into my 30s, but ultimately better off removing the toxic ones than keeping them around for fear of lonliness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:03 AM
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An exercise in active listening 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:00 PM
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You're a shero 🙌🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:59 PM
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Whoever recorded did it at like 2x speed. The original is way easier to understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:03 PM
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You just gave me a flashback to my abusive ahole lawyer ex. Everything became some legal bs during an argument. Shudder. Thank God for fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:24 PM
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Weekend I was mugged and beaten in the streets while grown ass men were around and did NOTHING, Id say rejecting these pathetic creatures had nothing to do with it. Most men are absolute cowards, and completely self- centered, regardless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:44 PM
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Yes!! 👑I've literally been told i don't have emotions... can you imagine, the same sex who claim women are overly emotional, driven by hormones/pms, irrational... now are telling me to be MORE emotional. That's because the more in control of ourselves and our reactions we are, the least they expect it and they in turn show all the emotions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:32 AM
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Great points and totally agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:24 AM
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Exactly. The Rules book states to never live with a guy until or unless engaged and the wedding date is already set and location deposit paid for. That's what I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:29 PM
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I gave a total dadbod with dead end career a chance once, thinking maybe I'll swing the pendulum from what I had usually dated, and even HE ended up cheating. So 100% agree with OP-- anyone, regardless of looks/body can be just as much of an ahole so don't assume they'll be anything nicer or more decent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:54 PM
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10000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:06 PM
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If women were doing mass shootings at the rate men actually do, we would be in internment camps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:58 AM
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100000% agree. Violent, misogynistic, machismo-loving cheaters who are very frequently also racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:51 AM
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Smh you just made me have realizations/flashbacks to my pre FDS days and the dumb shit I tolerated. The shame lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:25 AM
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I generally don't want a dude's opinion on anything in life BUT I have received excellent dating advice in my past from a couple guys I knew (along the lines of taking things slow to get to see who the guy really is), and I think the main reason is because the majority of women are pickmes and their advice is the absolute worst. An FDS woman's perspective would be best, of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:51 AM
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Exactly! All men are a crap shoot, you might as well get with one who is financially secure with a real career, to not add "financial instability" to your list of potential issues you may encounter. At the absolute least, women cannot date anyone who makes less than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:12 PM
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If only pickmes understood that we collectively as women can demand this. But as long as they give everything away for nothing, it will continue to be an uphill battle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:06 PM
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Exactly! As we can all see with our own eyes, the vast majority of very wealthy men get with women much younger and more attractive than they are, and usually are not women who were particularly well educated or wealthy on their own. They LOVE gold diggers IF they can afford them. Also, how many good looking and/or wealthy guys do you ever see with not attractive women? Know why they aren't?-- because they have options and therefore do not choose to get with someone they don't want. So if women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:39 PM
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Perfect! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:07 AM
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Real question: what should a woman say when a guy asks this, other than just "no"? In the past, if a dude asked this, I'd pay my half and never see them again. The price of knowing he's pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:36 PM
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Maybe a new post should be about major world religions and misogyny throughout history and present, based on the actual texts vs what men have implemented
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:57 PM
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The vast majority of problems with religion stem from all major world religions being male- dominated and within patriarchal societies. People really hate on Islam without also acknowledging that it allowed many rights for women far before Christian societies, such as allowing women to own land, divorce, receive education, etc. Organized religions as a whole are problematic but the main cancer is always men and what they are able to get away with, at the heart of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:50 AM
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A lot of this is because the majority of women want to get married, but it's up to the dude to propose. So if a dude is in his 40s and single its because he has not proposed to anyone, usually bc 1. Nobody wants his loser ass enough to even date 2. He thinks he's a player and has an abundance of time to keep wasting, but the reality is no decent woman would want him and he'll be left with mail order brides or gold diggers, if anything. Bc God forbid they date their own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:26 PM
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I love this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:23 PM
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Facts! There is no such thing as platonic male friendship. Notice they never hang with the multitudes of non conventionally attractive women. What a coincidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:02 PM
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I would just outright call them on it back in the day. Like "oooohh you're doing negging now. Pretty transparent and pathetic. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:02 PM
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Is this a covid thing or were walking dates suggested pre covid? These fucking losers. Pickmes will take anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:29 PM
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Exactly! They don't do jack shit to pursue with any real intention when you're single, but the second you are with someone outside of your ethnic/ racial background, you're a "traitor" or looked down upon. FUCK THAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:38 PM
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👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:43 AM
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After reading All the Rules, I didn't do jack shit for my now husband, as I had wasted on so many men before. Those assholes all took their improved self esteem, wardrobe, styling, home decor, etc that I brought to their lives for the next (always younger) chick. Husband only got those benefits after marriage, and even then, it's stuff that benefits us both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:55 AM
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So hard to go in the face of family, friends, society, damn near 99% of people! I was told a million times to not be "picky" etc or given atrocious dating/relationship advice by people who supposedly meant well. And now I can say with absolute certainty that they don't know SHIT and are all in awful relationships while I married a hvm at age 36. Never settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:49 AM
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🙌🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:05 AM
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Lol exactly, these morons have nothing to lose and will say/ do the same shit to 100 chicks and eventually, 1 pickme out of them will give in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:17 PM
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When I was younger, I would date guys 8-15 years older than me and didn't think much of it because the guys were still relatively young at that age, too. Then one day I was on a flight for work and the couple next to me was a woman who was probably in her 50s and had to be the total caregiver for her older husband. She was still vibrant and he was unable to do much at all. I was like NOPE and never dated older again. When you're in your 20s it's sometimes hard to think alllll the way into the fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:37 PM
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Wish all parents knew this. Sigh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:59 AM
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I hope loser dudes never figure out what fds ladies are looking to avoid noting in online dating profiles because then they'll change what they write, while still being losers. Hopefully they all keep their dumb shit like this, or wanting something "causal" or "into kinks" etc etc in there to make filtering easier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:42 PM
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Lol 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:34 PM
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😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:33 PM
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Never thought of it that way! Seems less sinister in this scenario hehe 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:33 PM
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Lol. If there were ever truly "porn for women" it would be like a dude comes over with carryout from your favorite place, gives you a massage, eats the puss, then leaves you to have your dinner in peace 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:20 AM
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The other day I realized like 75% of my white exs/dudes I dated ended up marrying brown chicks of varying backgrounds (latina/ Indian, etc); I am a POC.... not sure what to make of it other than they really had a type and that type is not their own ethnicity/race, but not black.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:14 AM
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I agree, plus there needs to be the option for the woman to say "no thanks, I'd rather have a ring thats my own." My ring was my husband's grandmother's, but 1. It's a very good quality diamond and platinum ring 2. I also made it my own by adding in additional stones/design 3. I don't think everyone gives that much of a shit about showing off a ring/supporting debeers. 4. The grandparents had a happy marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:12 PM
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Seriously, what is up with these losers and all their spare time to go out of their way to read stuff on here and comment/ message? Get a real education, a real job, learn some skills, read a book, go workout... they're so pathetic that instead of investing in fixing their issues, they put effort into harassing us. I tell my husband stuff from this sub all the time and he doesn't get upset because he knows it doesn't apply to him; he just shakes his head at how sad dudes at large are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:15 PM
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Wtf. Studies have shown men are more likely to cheat if the wife is the breadwinner. Let another reason why we CANNOT date or marry beneath us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:09 PM
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Yup, my poor friend lost her mom to cancer when she was an undergrad, and her dad remarried within less than a year. It's caused lasting strains on the whole family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:06 PM
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I had to cut a pickme friend out of my life because she started to show her true jealous, competitive colors. Pickmes are perpetually and will bring you down to their level if you allow it. Years later, she's 38 and still doing the same stagnant online dating bs and chasing men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:15 AM
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I'm going to use this term from now on! Pickmes and libfems are, in my opinion, worse than men. And I've found I cannot explain logic to them whatsoever. Why are their minds so shut??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:10 AM
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Onwards and upwards! Losers like that will remain stagnant and unhappy, but you've got the knowledge now to know better and do better by yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:03 AM
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Toooo true. Feels like I'm reading about my own past smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:24 AM
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Real question: how do women in this sub feel about drag queens? Is that considered an extension of this thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:05 PM
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Yes, def say nothing about it and see what he does. If it's not a romantic gesture/ gifts, then he can be gone! I dumped a loser on valentines day because he wanted to go drinking with his brother that night... after he told me that, it was C YA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:42 AM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:08 AM
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100% agree. If you want a relationship, you have to put in the work to put yourself out there and vet, but ultimately it will just happen or not. I met my husband at age 34, after I'd worked through accepting that I would most likely be single and would need to build strong friendships, family ties, hobbies, career focus, etc. Then we connected out of the blue and 4 states away from one another (wished him a happy birthday on Facebook as we'd gone to the same high school) and the rest is herstor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:41 PM
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Prize heifer! lol. I once had a nasty old man at a bar come up to my bf at the time, shake his hand and say "i been lookin at all the wimmin in the bar and you got yerself the prettiest one..." So repulsive in too many ways to list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:08 AM
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Of course men have a MASSIVE way to go, but unfortunately the pickmes are equally abhorrent, to me. Men are able to get away with much of their bs because other women tolerate and even convince themselves they like the way men behave. One story of a million that comes to mind for me is a chick I knew who met a guy at a bar, he bought her 2 drinks, and she was beside herself with how "amazing" that was and thought it was "so cute" that he then started immediately pestering her saying he, legit, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:34 AM
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It has been shown that males over estimate their confidence while underperforming, while women underestimate themselves yet preform better. So there's a big gulf there-I have not gone to a male dentist, doctor, anything for many years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:35 PM
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Yup, I connected with my now husband 2 weeks after a wasted 2 year relationship with a loser. Nobody owes a loser another second of their time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:15 AM
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Huge step, congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:31 PM
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It's crazy how many people were shocked I didn't take my husband's last name (mind you, we got married last year, not like decades ago) and yet here I am shocked that women even still do this practice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:56 PM
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Wow hadn't thought of it this way. Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:44 AM
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