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If you think your ideas are right, stand your ground. If not, make necessary changes as long as its not too late in the project. You can still agree with their suggestions without being submissive. As long as you are assertive, own your shit and explain yourself properly it doesn't really matter. Just don't let your group projects turn into massive gab sessions where nothing gets done.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:08 PM
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I’m lucky enough to be in a state where everything is open and has been since May. Been able to hit the gym and do all my normal stuff no problem, just need to wear a mask in places where they mandate it. If you can, I’d seriously consider moving to a more remote area that doesn’t have ridiculous measures being taken for “safety” reasons. These lockdowns go against human nature and are ruining a lot of peoples lives. Just my two cents If you can’t do that, then get creative with your workouts, g…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:12 PM
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We want what we can’t have. Definitely psychological
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:54 PM
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Yes. Set up plans
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:19 PM
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Rejection is always better than regret. I don’t remember the girls who rejected me. I DO remember the ones I was too scared to ask out and cringe whenever it comes to mind.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:26 PM
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I’m sure that some people you were friends with were just insecure losers and had a crabs in a bucket mentality. A lot of jealous haters out there. HOWEVER, if I were you, I’d take a step back and see how you’re handling yourself in social interactions. Are you flaunting all of your success in person and/or on social media? Bragging about all the cool things you have? Being a dick or belittling people? Only talking about yourself and not acting interested in others? If so, then your actions are …
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:36 PM
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There’s this girl I met at the strip club who said I was sexy. I paid her $300 for a private lap dance but I didn’t get laid. Is this a shit test? She said that for sex I need to pay over a $1000 and follow her Onlyfans but she said that she was giving me a discount because she thought I was cute. I started working out last week and I think my gains are really starting to pay dividends. After I pay this money, should I LTR her? Serious answers only please.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:02 PM
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Same to you man! Keep grinding
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:51 PM
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You’re right in that it depends on the person. At the end of the day it’s about trusting the process. For some people that requires sky high expectations like magazine level shape, for others it may be about gaining or losing 10-20 pounds. Set high/good expectations for yourself and have the patience to take it one step at a time. You’re not getting a 6 pack after 1-2 sessions that’s for sure.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:40 PM
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The incels and blackpills take over sometimes and it gets ugly. It’s not particularly difficult to break the top 20% in the vast majority of areas. That said, it is important to set really high standards for yourself, no matter where you are. If your goal is to simply “look healthy”, odds are you will take liberties in your routines and end up with a more skinny fat look. People need to be aiming for magazine level shape because it keeps the discipline and drive to continually be better to set t…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:25 PM
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They’re absolutely right that women go for predominantly the top 10-20%. What they don’t tell you is that as long as you take care of yourself hygiene wise, work out (you don’t even have to be shredded, you just need to look healthy) and don’t go full sperg you can easily land in the top 20%. Once you get your feet underneath you, you realize how easy it is to find people and it becomes a self-perpetuating success cycle.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:02 PM
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Casino Royale is a classic. If you got the time I’d even consider looking at some of the older Bond films as well. Each actor puts their own little twist on the character that you can pick up on. Daniel Craig is awesome, but for people who are a little more animated/a tinge goofy like myself, trying to adapt to Craig feels a little too unnatural, at least at first. I found myself resonating with Roger Moore a lot more as a result. Make sure the way you go about your life is on your terms and fee…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:36 PM
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A few things I’d recommend: Confident body language: 90% of communication is non-verbal. Stand up straight with your shoulders back, make deliberate movements that make you seem calm and relaxed. Approach every social situation as one where you’re there to have a good time, not with an agenda or ulterior motive. If some loser snipes at you, stand up for yourself but don’t get worked up about it. For everything else: watch James Bond movies. Obviously it’s fictional and they spend years writing o…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:19 PM
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Low testosterone could be part of it. That said, I think it mostly boils down to having extremely low confidence, self-esteem and self-respect. There’s not a lot of stuff out there these days that encourages men to be the best version of themselves. When people lack proper mentorship, coupled with maybe some dysfunctional home situations, you get people thinking cuckolding is something they “deserve” and try to embrace it.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:47 AM
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Accepting TRP and putting in the effort to make yourself the best version of yourself takes a lot of hard work. A lot of people, whether we like it or not, just don’t want to put in the work necessary and would rather stick their head in the sand in hopes that some beautiful unicorn princess will come along and validate their decision. It doesn’t help that we’ve raised a generation of pussies who were always rewarded simply for showing up. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. It’s especially str…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 02:42 PM
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Anything James Bond
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:56 PM
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All I can tell you is that before I started lifting, it was a miracle if a girl was genuinely attracted to me. Trying to get even a date was a struggle. After my noob gains, I literally just had to show up to bars and women would approach. I even had an old friend of mine who had not seen me in a year tell me “wow, you’re actually attractive now” unprompted. Nowadays, I just have to hop on Bumble and I can get with pretty much any girl on there as long as I don’t act like a total sperg. More tha…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:50 PM
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I used to be in your shoes. I felt incomplete/lonely without a woman by my side. Then a few years ago, I got great advice, and I eventually snapped out of that toxic mentality. Women are not responsible for your happiness. YOU are the sole person responsible for YOUR happiness. Always remember that. Develop hobbies, enjoy life for what it is, do whatever you want to do, socialize and most importantly, develop a mission you wish to achieve. Mine at the time was to bulk up because I was 6’6 180 lb…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:18 AM
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A few thoughts based on my experiences: 1) Fixating on this will only make it worse. Relax, enjoy your life, keep kicking ass and the bounces will start going your way. I find the less you want something, the more of it you will get. Sometimes when we want something really badly, we tighten up and forget how to be ourselves and be human. When I fixated on getting laid and my n-count, I failed. When I stopped giving a fuck, I found myself getting laid pretty consistently with little effort. 2) Co…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:50 PM
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Seems like massive disrespect to me. That should be for your eyes only. Confronting her on this is a colossal waste of time though. I’d pull back attention for a little bit and if it comes up make a joke about it or make fun of her for doing that.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:40 PM
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After a few exchanges, either do the pull away or set up plans. Wait 20 minutes minimum after her first text, then reply. After that, if she’s replying quick, do a few back and forths. At this point, you should either pull away (stop replying, do this one if she’s not near you and you can’t set up plans) or if you know she’s in your area, set up plans.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:14 AM
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Actually yeah now that I think about it you’re making the right call
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:08 AM
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If you only got your shot during class and can’t chat her up after class, ask her either before class or slip her a note or something. Or you casually ask her if she wants to study for an upcoming exam together. Hell don’t be afraid to go for the ask in class either. Remember that most of the people in your class probably won’t give a fuck or forget you did that 2 hours later. Rejection is better than regret. If the anxiety is too strong chat up everyone around you to try and get a study group g…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 04:13 PM
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This post is cringe... Ouch... You’ve been played. It happens. That said, “I’m at your city” is not the text you send in that situation. Gives her a very easy out. At least try to set up plans on the first text next time...
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:05 PM
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Get on the dating apps if you haven’t. Get 3-5 good photos of you and use it as a stepping stone. Bumble is particularly solid. On that one, I find if you’re good looking you basically just have to show up and not be a complete sperg, and you’ll get at least a few dates. At the very least it’ll be an ego booster for you. Easy first step
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:07 AM
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Not sure I can link other articles here but just Google either “Tinder elo score” or “sgould I always swipe right on Tinder?”” and you’ll see a plethora of articles on it
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:51 PM
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Learn how to tell good stories. That’s the key. I have the same personality but what did it for me was having funny stories I could tel about the crazy things that have happened in my life.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:17 PM
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You delete you account and start up a new one either via Facebook or your phone number
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:02 AM
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There are 3 traits you need to avoid being with women at all costs: 1) Needy 2) Boring 3) Awkward I’m sensing major neediness from this post. If you haven’t already, I’d take up dancing lessons. Great way to stand out especially in Latin America. I used to think exactly like you did, but what changed is I calmed down and stopped getting so emotionally invested in all of this. Take a deep breath, relax, don’t get emotionally dependent on your results, enjoy what sounds like an awesome life, and m…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:47 AM
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I’d only recommend either outlet if you have 3-5 great photos of yourself. I say that regardless of height. A decent bio helps too and if you’re worried about height you could make it humorous. Photos are CRUCIAL on these things. I haven’t been on Tinder in years and don’t recommend it to any guy outside of the top 5%. Bumble they can list their height and you’d be surprised at the amount of women on there 5’2 and below. Hell I matched with one who was like 4’6 or something like that. At the ver…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:33 AM
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A few comments on this 1) Tinder is awful. Basically most girls on there get a barrage of dicks and unless you’re in the top 10% you won’t get the light of day from the most attractive ones. I’ve had way better luck with Bumble. 2) Watch out for smoke and mirrors - If you see no photos of them boobs down, odds are they’re a fatty. If you never see them smile, odds are they have bad teeth. If they’re only posting photos of them with their friends, they’re probably the ugly one. Everyone gets burn…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:16 AM
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I don't really see anything too crazy here in terms of IOI. Sometimes people get bored on the job and start talking with the people they are working with. That said, if you see something that I don't and are confident that she is into you, try setting up plans with her outside of work.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:31 PM
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I didn't spend a penny on her
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:39 PM
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I agree -1 on the TRP. For clarification though, I was fucking her most of this time and she never said she wanted to take things slow. Just that she liked me and wanted to see where things went.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:06 PM
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You can if you want. Usually if my friends bring along chicks I chat them up and see where things go
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:27 AM
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I would take certain things he does that you think you can naturally apply to your life without seeming awkward. From my experience, the best way to meet girls is through friends of mutual friends. That way, you have social proof, you have built trust with them right off the bat and since you don't know them particularly well it makes it easier for you. Dating apps are okay too so long as you have good pictures and can handle rejection well. Surround yourself with good people, focus on being the…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:06 PM
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I'd look into custom stuff clothes wise if that's the case. Otherwise, try developing a build that fits better on either size. When you find shirts that you look good in, look for clothes of that similar style/build Classes are always iffy because they are forced to be in that environment with you, so they aren't voluntarily spending time with you. If you are going to ask chicks out in a class, make sure you have built up a good rapport with them before doing so. That could take days, weeks or e…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:33 PM
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1) It's all about balance: if they barely know you, and you ask them out, you will come across as really thirsty and turn them off. What I mean by "forcing the issue" is you seem to be a bit too aggressive and trying to get their number/set up dates. When talking to girls, relax, enjoy the conversation, tease them, but don't go into every single interaction with the expectation that you will be asking them out on a date. Take a slow cooker approach, set up plans with groups of people, build soci…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:18 PM
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A few things come to mind: 1) You seem to be forcing the issue way too much. Your focus in class and at the clubs shouldn't be about girls, it should be about having a good time and doing well in class. When you focus on yourself and not getting laid, it makes you a lot more attractive to girls. Coming across as thirsty or needy is the single easiest way to turn someone off regardless of looks. 2) Lift more. If you already are lifting a lot and still not getting results, consider going full bald…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:03 PM
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I've definitely had that before, so has pretty much everyone at some point I'm sure. The reason why you are having this is because there's a small part of you that still believes that some kind of crazy miracle is going to happen and that you will end up with her. You need to do something or see something unfold that will remind yourself that there is an absolute ZERO percent chance of it working out or happening again. Once you snuff out any hope in your head, you will lose the oneitis almost i…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:19 PM
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I would do the thing I mentioned first, and then if you do happen to have the downtime, throw him a bone every once in a while. That should be priority number one, try to diffuse it in a polite way. ​ Also, if he gets pissed at you, think about it this way: if he bitches to upper management, what is he going to get you in trouble for? For doing your job? For being productive? He's just going to look like a tool if he reports you for telling him to do his job. Most people are fair and understand …
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:45 PM
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Any time he approaches you or any of your teammates, you should say "I got some work I gotta really buckle down on right now, I'll come talk to you later when I am done with all of my stuff." Then proceed to never approach him to chat. If he keeps pestering you after you say this, then take it to HR or confront him about it. Who cares if he hates you for it? You want people to like you, open up a hair salon. You got a job to do, that's your purpose there, he should be mature enough to understand…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:36 PM
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They either want to retain you as an orbiter or want to keep banging you. Continue playing it cool (nexting mentality), but eventually make an attempt to set up plans. If she bails, it's the former and continue the next, if she's down it's the latter. ​ ​
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:04 PM
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