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It’s not okay. The problem is that society isn’t based off of Reddit. Most people here will agree it’s fucked up. In society it’s been kind of established in music, movies and social culture that big dicks are hailed as being superior. Despite most relationships being with average sized men, women will typically never boast about how her hookup, boyfriend, husband has an amazing small dick.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:27 PM
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Dude find a new therapist. All my therapists have been young, vibrant and really interested in actually helping me. Find someone younger rather then older.
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:07 AM
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Idk if it would benefit me socially. I definitly would get looks and most likely be seen as crazy or a weirdo/creep. I get that it would be better then tensing up but idk if it would be better for my public image and I’d probably never return to that establishment again.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:34 AM
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This is what me and my therapist are trying to work on currently. She mentioned that belief is the hardest thing to do. I mentioned to her that I can look in a mirror and keep repeating positive affirmations but if I don’t believe it than what good does it do. She mentioned a study that proved that you can’t “fool” your brain into believing something and that it has to be genuine acceptance and submitting to that belief in order for it to actually stick. Which makes sense because I’m not stupid,…
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:32 AM
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Idk if that would work. I take advice very literally and If I let out my thoughts without thinking it would very much be “Jesus Christ this conversation is fucking ridiculous. Look at how many people are here. Why is that guy wearing such a stupid ass shirt. Great. Now I’m an asshole and I’m an asshole because I decided to take advice from someone on an online forum to just let my words spew the fuck out without thinking. Anyway, how was your week?”
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:11 AM
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I feel like multiple women have made eye contact with me at the gym. I’m not in any way close to what the other guys are at, muscle and athletics wise. So I’ve figured they might just be looking to see if the area is free or anything around me is free for them to use.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:17 AM
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I have my life together. That’s the issue. I’m 33. I never got out of my socially anxious and awkward phase. Now that I’ve got my shit together, financially Atleast and career wise. I’m now trying to figure out this part of life. Which sucks cause I’m way too old to be having this mindset and mentality.
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:24 PM
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I feel that. Gay guys always like me. Women don’t even look my way, and I look around and people watch pretty often when I go out.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:16 AM
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Then the meds aren’t working. The only thing that made my anxiety go away was a combo of Paxil + Abilify. But it destroyed my dick game and therefore was essentially useless unless I was going to dedicate my life to just giving women oral. Just an fyi. It made me less socially anxious and awkward but it didn’t change weather or not I had game and how to talk to women and Keep them interested. There’s not a single pill that will give you game.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:21 AM
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Depends on the cruise line. I’ve only been on Royal Caribbean and I find them to be the best. Just hang out by the bar and pools at night and you’ll definitely be able to talk to someone. If that’s not your thing. Go to the lounges that are scattered inside. There’s usually a few cool cocktail ones.
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:18 AM
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That’s a good one. Keeping that in my back pocket lol
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:15 PM
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Thanks man. Currently trying to fix the low T and high prolactin issue. We will test again and see if they balance out after.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:01 PM
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Given the sub we are on. Common sense isn’t so common here.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:09 PM
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Generally speaking. There are no rules. You don’t have to do anything that people say. You can go out and try at the gym. The problem is that you have to understand that it has to be natural wherever you approach. If it’s the gym then it has be natural interest or some kind of compliment that gives you a reason to approach. The gym is a very tricky spot because women are there with skin tight clothes. Everyone’s sweaty and everyone’s working out. It’s a pretty dangerous area when it comes to try…
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:50 PM
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Funny enough. I went to Karaoke last night and I noticed this as well. One of the guys from my meetup went to sing and even though it was horrible, the point was that he still did it and chose a song everyone can sing to. Immediately got some ladies approaching him after he was done.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:55 PM
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You know how much money they can be making if they jar those farts tho?
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:09 PM
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As a white dude. I think this is the answer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:01 PM
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You have to realize most of these guys are also very social. They probably have a friends circle that also is very social. Getting into one of types of circles can greatly improve your odds of hooking up.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:33 PM
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That’s what I’m hoping for. I know it won’t solve everything but I wonder if it’ll help a bit with just my headspace and feeling like I can tackle some of my issues.
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:26 PM
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Being true to the best version of yourself is what creates confidence. There is no separation. If you are trying to be someone else then you don’t come off as confident. You come off as inauthentic and that’s very noticeable. If you are your truest self and you absolutely love that version of yourself with no excuses. Then you will be confident and you will radiate confidence because you will never hold back who you really are.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:20 PM
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Gym 4 times a week, healthy lifestyle jogging, weightlifting. Eat healthy with lots of water and no excess sugar. Very little alcohol. They are determining it could be a pituitary tumor. So I’ve got an MRI next week to check. If not it could possible be a genetic thing.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:48 PM
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I’ll see how I respond to it. Unfortunately I have horribly low test levels. Below normal. So my doctor is advising for it since it might help with my ED, Brain fog, confusion and how slow I am. On top of that I don’t gain muscle at all. I just burn fat and get skinny. Which sucks. But I am hitting the gym. People said it boosts confidence too. But I wonder if that’s tied to the no fucks attitude.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:49 PM
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I figured as such. Do you know any good YouTube videos of infield footage?
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:37 PM
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Because it lacks confidence and it sounds like you wouldn’t be fun. If you’re a virgin but a fun person to be around then the willingness to actually give you a shot goes up.
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:48 AM
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I feel like I’m somewhat on the spectrum and I always wished it was scripted but at the end of the day conversations just will never be scripted as we hope. The only script you can really use is the ice breaker. After that, it’s all about winging it by actively listening and asking questions while being playful and fun. It does take a lot of work but “just be confident” isn’t as simple as people make it seem. It’s really telling yourself everyday positive affirmations. Looking in the mirror and …
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:22 PM
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I think it went from being more about “strategy” to being more about self confidence and just being yourself. I remember PUA when I was younger and it felt totally forced and scripted. Now it seems the community is building men up with self-esteem, goals and facing your fears.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:02 PM
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This is pretty much it. There’s never going to be a script. You just have to wing it and give it a shot. Some convos will be boring and it’ll stall out. You just have to go with the flow and try to keep talking but have to keep it fun and entertaining.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:35 AM
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Number 2 is absolutely crucial for guys who are struggling. If you’re in your head then you’ll almost never approach. Love yourself, understand that you aren’t the ugliest person in the world and then the confidence will slowly come.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:30 AM
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I’d also add that you should absolutely love yourself. Be happy in your skin. If you go out and you deep down think you’re awkward, ugly etc. Then you’ll never have the confidence to really learn how to approach or talk to women.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:28 AM
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What men are you talking about because you have to include class into this. How far back in history? The only reason simps exist today is because women have finally realized how absolutely powerful having a pussy is. Combine that with make-up and social media and any average chick can get a massive following on Twitter, twitch or whatever. Simps exist today because of social media and the access to free pornography. OnlyFans only made things worse because now massive amounts of dudes just sit ba…
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:53 AM
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Damn. I’m in my 30’s and this really resonates with me a lot. I had a horrible upbringing due to an overbearing, verbally and physically abusive mother who took her anger for my father, out on me. It really makes sense why I feel that women are a threat somehow and how years of fearing them, not talking to them and seeing them as different has completely made me horrible with them. I’ve had 3 relationships but I’ve never approached women and I’m starting to realize that a lot has to do with the …
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:54 PM
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Exactly. I blame the simps to be honest. The women are just milking the market, something I’d personally do too if I could but overall it’s the other men who are showering these chicks with attention that are ruining it for guys who are trying to meet and date these women.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:59 PM
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I’m 33 and I’m similar to you. Like everyone else is saying. You’ll still manage to get the same results but it depends on how determined you are to change. A lot of seduction is really feeling confident, comfortable and happy in your own skin. I’ve learned that it’s really more about courage and taking risks and getting better at social skills and understanding how social norms and body language work.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:33 PM
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We already know that. I think the only reason is because sex sells and lots of guys want to just fuck em and that’s it. Wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with any of them but I wouldn’t mind hooking up with one.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:07 PM
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I live in Connecticut. Lol. There’s no surfing here lol. But yea, I guess I can tone it down. Idk. I feel like the meetup groups are people who I just can’t vibe with at all. There’re all friendly people but they are like “too nice”. Idk if that makes sense. I guess the best way to describe it is that all the guys are socially inept, more than I am because I actually do well in the meetups. But it’s like nerdy engineers who have really intelligent humor I guess? None of them workout except for t…
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:40 AM
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Unfortunately I’m not witty or really intelligent? I’m actually rather slow in thinking. It takes me a few seconds too long to really hear and think about what someone is saying and then responding.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:18 AM
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Tinder in the early days was how I got into relationships. Today tinder is not how I remember it and I get no matches at all. I’d rather try out in person because I’d love to just master that skill and get over my fears instead of hoping an app could do it for me.
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:40 AM
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I actually am relatively fit. And dress well and do groom myself. It’s probably the only thing I’ve got going for me. I just personally don’t think my face is attractive. I also don’t socialize a lot. Which I think is the issue. I don’t have a lot to talk about because I don’t really have many opinions on things. I try to stay off social media and don’t care for the news or anything currently happening.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:34 AM
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Besides hi, how’s your night going. That’s all I can think of.
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:51 PM
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Probably a combo of the two. I still struggle keeping conversations going even with bartenders.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:51 PM
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I’ve tried meetup groups and the people just don’t mesh with me. I feel like they’re too polite or too soft? If that makes sense. It’s hard for me to be really myself when the people are afraid of using cuss words. On top of that idk where to really meet people. I feel like everyone goes out to places in groups. So all I’ve got is bars and maybe an out door event like a concert or food festival.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:13 PM
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That’s the conclusion I’ve always known. It doesn’t matter how much I read and how much I try to prep myself up. At the end of the day nobody is going to hold my hand and take me to an attractive woman and say “here ya go mate. Talk to her”. I have to just dive in and just do it. It sucks because this wall comes up immediately when I think about doing it and I psyche myself out every time.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:06 PM
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It does yes. I’ve been trying with “safe” women. The safe ones are the bartender, the cashier etc. My biggest struggle is talking to women who aren’t “safe”. Those are the women that are sitting next to me at the bar. The ones that aren’t working.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:59 PM
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If it gets me to become a fuckboy then I’ll take it. Better than being a socially autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:38 PM
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But you still smashed? Clearly redpill men became sexually attractive. The end goal is sex with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:27 PM
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I dated a single mom for 3 years. Was a great step-dad. Did absolutely everything for the kiddo. She still cheated on me with a hung dude. There’s no winning sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:17 PM
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Best thing is Testosterone therapy for men. It’s the closest they’ll get to be somewhat chad. But that’s only because it’ll help them workout and get a great physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:08 PM
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This is literally me. Not obese but wide hips and thicker thighs. I always wondered how many women pass me up because they notice the gross mutation my body has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:22 PM
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It’s unspoken word sometimes. The guy that hooks up a lot will be more respected. Be invited to more parties, will get drinks bought for him and will be invited out for guys nights where dudes just go to bars and try to score. The guy who doesn’t fuck will not be invited or respected. They’ll be overlooked and discarded to the side because he’s a puppy that hasn’t gotten trained yet. Most of the time, the training is self taught. Other dudes won’t help you score. You gotta learn that yourself. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:49 PM
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