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4

Life is about balance. Monk mode is for individuals that have so far to climb, they have little extra for anything else. So maybe you've climbed and grown enough to get where you want to be and achieve your goals. Maybe you haven't. Maybe take a break and step back so you can confidently make that estimate. This is something you need to decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:16 AM
1

You're looking at it from the wrong direction. You need to increase your SMV. Be. Attractive. You don't need to show intention or interest. You need to be attractive and pursue your goals.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:40 AM
6

There's nothing about the Red Pill that says you can't be polite like a normal person. That said, don't be someone's doormat.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:40 AM
7

You're 21 and you're half way through med school?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:33 PM
2

You're asking for an external force to provide you with discipline... gross. That is a flat out admittance of character weakness and an unwillingness to change that. As soon as your private drill sergeant goes home, you'll immediately revert back to your old ways. You need to spend time thinking introspectively, determine what kind of man you want to be, and what you need to do to achieve that. Start with mediation. Only you can change who you are.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:17 AM
1

What do you do? Did you go to college?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 11:45 PM
3

Monk mode should be reserved for people with near zero SMV. People that are obese, for example, who need a year or more of intense self-improvement before the average girl would even look twice at them. Unless you're in that position, no, you shouldn't behave that way. Especially in uni, which is probably the greatest opportunity for networking and improving social skills than you ever will again. Rethink your strategy.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:18 PM
5

A lot of garbage advice in this thread. There is a ton of knowledge to learn here, but take what you will and leave the rest. Higher numbers of sexual partners is highly correlated (>0.8) with marriage failure rates and difficult pair bonding. Nothing wrong with living a more traditional life. That said, don't hold back from improving yourself or fooling yourself into thinking you'll find the One and she'll just unconditionally love you regardless of your SMV.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:42 AM
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Impairment of pair bonding is more strongly correlated in women but it's definitely present in both sexes. Sex is great, but not with tons of different people. It is one of TRP's greatest mistakes, IMO
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 04:37 AM
1

This is a moral question, so morals can't be left out of it. You want morals left out of it because then you don't have to think about the moral consequences. Seems pretty clear you know what you should or shouldn't do here, but you want faceless, pseudo-alphas to give you a pass so you can put your guilt onto them. Pretty weak shit, IMO.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 04:55 AM
1

Compensation depends largely on knowledge and experience. Emphasis on experience. Individual resumes are the main bottleneck towards winning contacts, so when my resume starts being the prime reason that we won the job, your compensation level will tend to reflect that. Takes strong negotiating but the leverage is on your side since my employers to priority is retaining me. I've also been able to make a fairly strong niche for myself, partly luck, partly hardwork. In my first couple years, we ha…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:43 PM
4

Those definitely matter to an extent.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:02 PM
14

I am a Geologist specializing in engineering and hydrogeology. I work for a third party consulting firm. I am extremely knowledgeable as to the construction and installation of wells, shafts, walls, and other construction related earthworks. Annual salary $75k, 6 years experience. Mastery: My clients and subcontractors request me by name because I know what the fuck I'm talking about and I know how to get the job done when unknown and unanticipated conditions arise. I've built a reputation becau…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:16 AM
2

How old are you and how would you rate yourself on the 10 scale?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:38 AM
1

How old is she?
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:20 AM
2

That assumes a lot. Weaker people deserve our pity. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:15 PM
2

TRP is a community of individuals. We trade information and discuss events; we argue. The market place of ideas ensures that the quality rises to the top, and the garbage sinks to the bottom. It's a slow process, and what rises and sinks will vary between individuals. As others have said, consider what you find here with an open mind and decide for yourself which parts you need to improve yourself. Don't accept everything said here blindly, and don't immediately throw away the parts that make yo…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 06:10 AM
10

Hive mind. If someone in the group decides "you are not worthy", the rest of them will agree in fear of becoming unworthy themselves. They are weak minded. They live in fear such that they cannot be their true selves. Pity them. Mourn their loss, and move on. Seek out strength.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 03:48 AM
1

Focus on your studies and consciously work toward your future. If you're lucky enough to go to college, make it worth while. There'll be plenty of socializing, you won't have to seek it out. The socializing is easy, it's getting the most out of your time there that's the struggle. Source: reaping the benefits of my own advice
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:20 AM
3

Clearly he isn't over his ex. You can't be in a relationship with someone that is still emotionally invested in someone else. I am not advising you to break up, but you should pause the relationship and let him know it won't continue until she is truly in his past.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 02:52 PM
7

Some single mothers are without a father figure for no fault of their own. But regardless, children from single parent households are more likely to end up in prison, do more drugs, commit crime, have lower average IQs, and in general participate in more destructive behavior. Like 80-90% of men in prison are from single parent households. Some women become superheros and do well by their children. The vast majority, despite being well intentioned, are more likely to produce deviant children. It'…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:22 AM
8

Incorrect use of AWALT. Don't attribute everything to AWALT or you potentially end up blinding yourself to their true motivations. That kind of perception comes with age and wisdom. This could have happened for a number of reasons, no good in speculating. Hold frame, abundance mentality. When you see her again, act like everything is gravy, it's beneath you. If you must ask her why she flaked, keep it simple, "hey, you never came by the other day...". Let her make excuses. Don't ask her why she …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 11:30 PM
2

Some hard pills to swallow: Date men older than yourself. More than 5 years older. This, IMO, is going to be your best shot of you're looking for long term stability. Men who are your age or younger will generally fall into two categories. They will either use you for an easy lay (more likely the younger they are, speaking from experience), or they will be too beta and/or unattractive to think they can do better. I don't want this to be callous, but at 40, you're not a 25 year old prize anymore.…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:29 PM
1

Virtue signaling! Thank you, I couldn't think of the term
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:26 PM
14

Supporting traditionally marginalized groups is any easy way to make people feel good about themselves. Sure, it's a righteous cause, but when you devote yourself to it, it just shows that your unwilling to consider or take a stand on much larger, more complex issues. It's karma whoring for simple people.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:19 AM
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"Ya, we're done. Pick up your stuff... Etc etc" Elaborate: Abundance mentality. This is the kind of bullshit no one should put up with. If you have Abundance Mentality, you won't either.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:39 PM
2

Have you browsed r/raisedbynarcissists? Good place to start. Number one goal is becoming fully independent. Then she can either conform and accept your life, or get the fuck out of the way.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:43 AM
1

Of all the men I look up to and look down to, it has nothing to do with their heights. Why are you trying to "assert your dominance"? What does that mean to you? In many cases, you'll never be able to do that. All you can do is be your own man.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:32 PM
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The only way to know is to make a move. If she accepts, she's interested. If not, don't orbit, drop her.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:27 PM
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Make her find to you, take it or leave it. Accommodate too much and you'll look thirsty.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:46 AM
3

You have two aspects of yourself that can be improved, the mental and the physical. The answer to, 'How do I improve one aspect?' is always 'Improve both'.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:28 PM
1

I was 20 and balding. Still had success. Shave your head (buzzing it down with shears will suffice), lose weight, and lift. Then focus on your mentality.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 02:23 PM
1

Your post was the first thing that came to mind. I almost thought OP was parodying.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:01 PM
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This pity party your throwing for yourself is gonna keep you from achieving your goals. Blaming external forces for your own failures does nothing for you.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 10:59 PM
12

It's a sin to be rejected because everyone at your school is afraid to be rejected. You're like 17, so that's normal, and it's also why she's single. Rise above it. Move on to the second hottest girl in school and ask her out. Also, assess your own SMV. If you're a weak neck beard, she's right, you don't exist. Also, don't text. Talk to her in person and look her in the eye.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:44 AM
2

Wear a condom? What do you have?
/r/askTRP08/01/17 08:02 PM
2

https://youtu.be/um3EmS9DKsI This video discusses a lot of the actual statistics for what you're asking about. Best of luck
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 01:53 AM
4

Why delete her from social media and phone? Just go silent.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:54 AM
2

Piggy backing on this. OP is a piece of shit that can't reliably attract women and fears losing his steady girl for fear of being totally without access to sex. This is the opposite of abundance mentality. Ten to one odds, if LTR caught him cheating, he'd be balling his eyes out, begging forgiveness, and promising to be a good, loyal beta male the rest of his life. Regardless of whether any of that is true, his actions imply that it is.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 10:35 PM
4

Then you'll need to start shutting down her shit testing or you'll continue to slide. Beta is never worth it.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:44 PM
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Genuinely sounds like she's way more trouble than it's worth. She wants a beta she can control and manipulate. You're only choice of action is to do what you want to do and she can come along for the ride or get the fuck off. The more she controls your actions, the more beta you'll be. Are you fucking this girl?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:28 PM
1

Up until now, I use my electric shaver once a month, keeps it down to a reasonable level. At the moment though, I'm lucky because I'm dating a girl that's into bald hairy guys. But yea, if I was focused on game, I'd be spending way more time on it.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:17 PM
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You're 5'9" and you're 10-15 pounds overweight. You're not an 8. 7 tops. Also, pretty faces go a long way. If she's fit, then she's probably an 8 or better. You took her out for sushi, she got her free meal, and she moved on. If she was into you, she would have reached out or responded. Accept that. All of this from a guy that considers himself a 6 at best. Bald, overweight like you, hairy fucking back, and only been lifting since January. Be brutally honest with yourself and it's a lot easier t…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:51 AM
1

Explaining yourself is a part of your mindset. Changing that requires some introspection. Start with letting go of always explaining yourself. If your going to inconvenience someone, don't bother them with the Why. Just tell them what is. Tell them the facts of the situation and let them deal with it. It's a part of holding frame. Reality is a part of your frame, do not willing step into the frame of others.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:05 PM
4

Almost every study on the subject confirms that a stable, monogamous relationship is critical for raising well rounded children. Marriage success is also highly correlated to low n-counts. Monogamy has logical merits if that's something you desire. I want a wife and children someday. That's my personal preference and I use TRP to achieve those ends.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:13 AM
2

Immediately downgrade to plate. Never should have been LTR. Cheating is the ultimate relationship sin. Past cheating, IMO, it's grounds for a break up. Doesn't matter how alpha you are or how beta he was. Eventually, a better alpha will show up and she will cheat if she is able.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:45 PM
2

I don't see any good answers here so I'll give it a shot. She is have post-coital guilt because she's been raised to believe that sex is reserved for marriage. This is neither good nor bad, but if you want to keep seeing this girl then you need to come to a resolution. Without just marrying her on the spot, you need to convince her that, barring any massive red flags or major changes to the relationship paradigm, you fully intend to continue as a faithful, monogamous partner until marriage somet…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:54 PM
1

I've pondered this scenario before, just like OP. I think you nailed it, great perspective here.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:40 AM
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How people vote with their feet and with their dollars is the surest way to see where they stand..
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 03:17 PM
1

Cycling. Hills will give you awesome legs
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:02 PM
1

What I said has very little to do with the modern institution of marriage.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:38 AM
2

A girl is always submissive to her Alpha
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:55 AM
1

Why is your goal to party and "get wasted" with 30-somethings? That does nothing to improve your life and/or increase your SMV.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:09 PM
1

Like other people have said here, your family will only drag you down with them. Lead by example, or leave them in the dust, same course of action either way. Get a degree that's worth a shit. Finance, engineering, CS. Don't go for something that only makes you happy. Go for something that is satisfying, fulfilling, and makes you money. Your hobbies can make you happy. Then focus on getting your own life together, be stable, be independent, and lift. Some people are dealt shitty hands, but in li…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 05:57 PM
1

Wrap it up. You'll catch something.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:14 AM
5

IMO, plates should not be interacting or meeting your friends and family. It sends mixed signals to both parties.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:09 PM
3

Don't do it. As others have said, you have nothing to gain. On the other hand, by letting go of your pent up grudges you can use this as an opportunity to grow into a more developed human being. An opportunity to remember a time in your past when you rose above the petty slights and learned to instead focus on your own personal improvement and not on tearing down others.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:29 AM
3

Agree here. "Ya, you're pretty vanilla, but it's good enough for now."
/r/askTRP15/08/16 08:23 PM
1

You should only feel bad if you intentionally deceived her. In your own words, she was ripping your clothes off. She wanted the D as much as you wanted the V. You feel guilty because the BP in you thinks that because you mated with her, you owe her a relationship. This is the same flawed logic that causes BPers to be crushed by women they thought they could be with who only wanted to fuck them.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:28 AM
1

He'll just have to live and learn like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:32 PM
1

When he up and left after she confirmed that she wasn't going to give him what he wanted, he demonstrated abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:55 PM
4

Abundance mentality isn't about always having 4 options in a given night. It's about always knowing you can catch another fish.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:36 AM
2

Disagree. This is just cynicism. She was trying to bring him into her frame, and he avoided it. He did the best he could with his situation. She'll be contacting him, or she straight up wasn't interested.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:34 AM
1

Sorry but... HWP?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:33 AM
6

In the situation he described, this is definitely rape. Rape is not Alpha.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:07 AM
5

Because you walk down one path doesn't mean the other paths close, unless you were passing on another opportunity for that group. All paths have resistance. Do not allow yourself to become lazy by waiting for easy opportunities. Acquiring the highest quality women requires overcoming the most resistance.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:45 PM
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Abundance mentality is not an excuse for passing on an opportunity. Like saying you never have to ask a girl for her number because there'll always be another girl to get a number from (I went through a phase like that early in my RP journey). I'm not sure I'd call this an issue with frame, but you definitely allowed him to control the situation, and that created a potential negative for you. Edit: In this instance, I'd probably call it a cock block. It seems like that was the guy's intension.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:51 PM
2

She's in your social circle, so plating her was your first mistake. But then why hard next just because she's pressing for commitment? Hard nexting is for disrespect or infidelity. Hard nexting without cause within a social circle will make you the bad guy. You haven't offered details though, so maybe that's irrelevant here.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:36 PM
2

It was totally unverifiable. Did he threaten you personally? Did you confirm the threat through another person? You can prepare yourself mentally, but you let hearsay dictate your actions. You lost control; that's frame.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:52 PM
1

He's right. Tried the websites and tinder and it's a clusterfuck. You might be able to get some tail out of it, but you aren't going to find any quality. It's all quantity.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:45 PM
11

This. She's tallying up a list
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:43 PM
-1

Lost frame. She set up a test and you failed. In the future, their baggage doesn't matter until it interferes with your life directly. Ignoring her bullshit would have told her that it is beneath you. It wasn't, and she knows that now.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:42 PM
3

She failed to show you any kind of respect. In fact, she tried to tear you down. This is where you Next her without giving it a second thought.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:28 PM
1

I'd go because weddings are fun and easy to Game. But, exams are important. This is more a question of priorities.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:26 PM
2

As long as your not one of those self-righteous types that goes on rants about why your life choices are superior, you'll do fine.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 06:08 AM
1

It is irony?
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:41 PM
19

OP, don't do this.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:21 AM
2

No, it's not used that way in relationships. You can just say exclusive, if you're talking about relationships. Mutually exclusive only ever means two conditions that each make the other impossible.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:15 PM
62

This is the hilarious answer, and I hope it's 100% correct.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:34 AM
5

Mutually exclusive refers to two things that can never happen simultaneously. Having one means not having the other, and vice versa. They are mutually exclusive to one another. Just FYI.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:33 AM
1

You should have let it be. Or ignore, and try again a week later. If she doesn't reply to the second attempt, soft next. If she's interested, she'll respond. Whining about not being respected will not get you respect, you need to earn it.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:33 AM
4

It's not about the career necessarily, it's how you go about it. Are you aggressive and dominant, or passive and submissive? Are you driven, or are you floating? I consult in the construction industry. Being aggressive and dominant in my advocacy for my client is why they keep hiring me. Being a docile wimp won't get me invited back if my purpose is to defend and fight for my client.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 08:23 PM
1

SMV is subjective. Some girls are gonna dig them, others won't. Stereotypically, "bad girls" are probably gonna like them, "good girls" won't. If they're done tastefully, they'll probably either add or be neutral to SMV. That said, I don't have tattoos, but when asked, I usually say that I would for the right life moment, like for my children or completing an Ironman, something like that. TL;DR: Just don't get a face tattoo.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 08:07 PM
1

I like Freedomain. I think he discovered TRP recently himself because he talks a lot about SMV now.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:52 PM
5

TRP is not wholly about playing women. It's also about self improvement, confidence, and motivation. Those are things that everyone can utilize, regardless of orientation.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 06:35 AM
3

I'm going to suggest a different approach here. The Long Con. Are you in college? Are they paying the tuition and bills? And you're living with them? The harsh truth is that your not independent enough to do what most people are suggesting here. Burning this bridge could be voluntarily making the next 10 years exceedingly more difficult that it should be. You'll extract way more than $30k from your parents through college. That said, I don't know the details of your relationship with them. You c…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:21 AM
3

Not worth it. Bail, wait til she wants to hook up
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:01 PM
3

Sounds like the problem his friends had with his ex was really a problem they had with him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/16 02:50 AM
2

She's 19, that's still childhood in my opinion Lol. The fact that she's a virgin or lacks experience is nothing special. Keep escalating, you'll get there.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:26 PM
2

Cultivate comfort and interest. That's all you can do. She may be looking specifically for LTR interest, but if it isn't religiously motivated, you won't be waiting until marriage. How old are you both?
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:21 PM
10

Thank you. Cortisol is not something you want to purposefully generate.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:31 PM
1

If she is a virgin, you need to figure out why. If she simply has reached that level of commitment/relationship, then you need to build that comfort and trust. However, if the answer is religious leanings, I would recommend bailing. No unicorns or snowflakes.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:28 PM
1

When you return at the end of summer, downgrade her to plate.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:34 AM
1

For me, it was video games and pot. If I have them around me, I'll use them. My only solution was throwing them out. Deleted all my games off my computer and threw away my weed. It's the only way I could get my shit in order on a consistent basis. Just do it. Life is short, killing time is wasting time, and there's no time to waste. Oddly enough, I don't have this problem with alcohol. I have beer, wine, and liquor in my apartment, but I touch it maybe a couple times a week, and never have more …
/r/askTRP07/05/16 01:14 AM
1

You're extremely violent? Maybe get that checked out first
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:31 PM
2

Ignore it. Text her when you want to hook up
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:20 AM
2

That's true, but it's his issue to deal with. She's clearly riding the carousel.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:42 PM
5

No reason to next her.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:11 PM
2

The girl is like family since we go to the same church Mistake number One
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:40 PM
1

Girls are on their phones 24/7. Don't read into it. I'd copy paste the message, if she does see that you sent it twice, it means you only put effort in once. That's not needy, she'll recognize that the first message wasn't seen. Waiting a couple days is smart, but too long and you'll seem aloof
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:51 AM
1

If you sent the message before she accepted, it's sitting in her "other" message box and didn't send a notification. I'd probably roll the dice, copy paste into another message, she'll get a notification, you'll get your answer. Unless she was infatuated with you, she won't message first
/r/askTRP23/04/16 01:59 AM
2

Did you send the message before or after she accepted? If she hasn't accepted yet, your message is probably still in her "other" messages folder that don't send notifications. So you can roll the dice; send her a message now that she's accepted, and will send her a notification, but she may see you sending multiple messages, and you'll come off as creepy/scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:13 PM
2

Yea, you're not worth listening to
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:08 AM
1

It goes both ways
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:03 AM
20

This is the only response. No one wants to put in the time, the rest of us do it anyway.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:11 AM
2

Then before you message her, just friend request her. If she accepts, she's open to communication... Or she excepts all friend requests and is a Facebook slut
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:07 AM
0

ITT: Lots of cynicism. The Red Pill has taught me that, contrary to the Blue Pill beliefs, women are actually not that different then men from a sexual perspective. Society merely teaches us different perspectives. On the whole, yes, women deserve our pity. They are smaller, weaker, and more restricted by society than men (not even counting the biological restrictions to bare children like mensuration). Most women will never understand why their promiscuousness results in a poor quality of life …
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:00 AM
1

I take a Men's One a Day, Under 50. Seems to work
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:53 PM
1

If you commit to someone and decide to cheat, you're a dishonest piece of shit. If you want to fuck around, spin plates.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:52 PM
4

That's not what is meant when they refer to alcohol as a depressant. Alcohol depresses certain neurological functions, rather than stimulating them. However, drug use in general and depression tend to go hand in hand. Just FYI
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:50 PM
5

Why not get it from your mutual friends? It's also unclear how you weren't able to get her number. If she was interested, she would have given it.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:55 AM
4

Relax. You're young. I did the same CC gig, and it was the smartest thing I ever did. If you're going through the same thing I did, you're not going to have rich parents to pay for your college so you can party and bang chicks. Get a degree in something fucking useful, then make yourself successful. College for me was work 7 days a week and maybe get two days off in a row once or twice a year. Now I'm a geotechnical consultant, making more money than I've ever dreamed of, and I've built myself o…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:48 AM
4

At the very least, you need to escalate until she shuts it down, then move on. You close the deal, or you don't. Unfortunately, at the stage your at, those are your options.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:46 AM
1

I second this. She wants a leader. What OP needs to look out for is if it's a ruse to lock down commitment.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 02:49 PM
3

Are these the only two girls that exist? Why are you letting other people dictate your options?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 05:09 AM
-2

Go. You control what happens.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 04:59 AM
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You can't demote a 3 year LTR to a plate when you've been to social gatherings with her family unless you want to be the bad guy real quick. He has the upper hand, she's the promiscuous one in this scenario that's throwing away the relationship. There's no reason to flip the script here. Just bail and move on.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:11 PM
1

Get tested.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 04:59 AM
1

10-4
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 07:12 PM
0

My mistake. Seemed relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 03:28 PM
13

Then assume I was being sarcastic.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:49 AM
2

Both, I suppose. How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:29 AM
3

You got it all figured out, dude
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:22 AM
4

Freudian slip. He's afraid of becoming a boyfriend/husband to someone that did porn.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 04:46 PM
1

Dude, it's a retail job. When you're barely eating, you might as well shit. Your words.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 04:41 PM
1

She's tearing you down so she can stay on top. That means you have the upper hand. Don't acknowledge her negatively. As others have said, she will learn.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 09:43 PM
7

This is one of the few posts on TRP that's actually helpful, insightful, and without obvious motives. Upvote for you!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 07:23 PM
1

Only if wars were the result of joblessness and involuntary abstinence, but I have no reason to think those correlate.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 05:46 PM
2

Percentage of the populace or percentage of those that commit suicide? Much more significant in the latter
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:46 PM
3

I don't think PTSD from decade long wars is small potatoes, but I see your point
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:33 PM
5

Girlfriends and jobs might not be the only issues here.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:40 PM
1

That's true, to a degree.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 07:25 PM
1

Depends if they are happy and confident with who they are. If that isn't working, then they aren't. Imposing values on children is what you're referring to.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 06:54 PM
1

You haven't seen Pregnant Baby.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 04:43 PM
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If rearing children is your goal, statistically children are most likely to be successful if they come from a married mother and father (haven't seen statistic on same sex couples, but I'm inclined to think they are successful at similar rates). Single motherhood is the worst thing that can happen to a child. It's a tough spot because a lot of the MGTOW vitriol in this thread has a kernel of truth. The wrong woman can take everything from you. So be careful, but if this is what you want it's wor…
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