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| 5 | So I have nothing but gratitudes and I promise to continue to even BE MORE coachable! | Red Pill Example | PepelePeaux | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP and coachable. Have had progress in many ways but need advice getting rid of this chick or what to do | PepelePeaux | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:51 AM |
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| 2 | Kevin Costner's STBXW says $248,000 in monthly child support isn't enough. Men, here's yet another shipwreck on the rocks whose only purpose now is to warn others.With a prenup? Geez | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Best thing to do after a divorceThis was my first gf starting in HS and all through University. My brother calculated how much time my Freshman year I spent at her school vs mine and it was 70%ish...No thank you's nothing much really for all I did. Just..."Why haven't you saved money?" (B/c I'm paying for school and paying to visit and spoil your stupid ass! - I should have had the balls to be real like that back then! Fucked me up for all relationships after for a long long decade+ b/c my Disney fantasy of LOVE was shattered … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | What is your perception and view of women in general after your experience being married?I've been thinking about the dog part lately lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Laws are so broken.Bartender here. I had a friend same line of work, so our take home on avg was 4k a month. much less some months lucky maybe another month. Regardless, he had an ex with two wonderful young ladies and he did everything he could. We would help babysit when it was his weekend. But this exwife, found a guy, had good pay (nursing career) found a man who already owned a nice home and did well. She was living it up. Had her income, new man's life and property and SUPPORT and my friend had to pay 2/3 of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Over night bagsI'd bet it was... But just stay away from the negativity and drama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Over night bagsI had an ex give me back the last of my things in a bag. She made her cats pee in it and that was awful. I just threw it away. I learned to stop trying to understand a bad person. Life has been great ever since and karma ate her alive. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | EX gf came out of the woodworks after I got accepted into medical school?Date me bud... Least you'll know you're getting fucked lol | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 10:39 AM |
| 5 | How do I go about asking a LTR if she's cheating without sounding insecure?F that. Just leave | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 35 | Always save your text conversations, record conversationswomen's weapons of choice, poison or character assassination. Happened to me too. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:34 PM |
| 17 | Always save your text conversations, record conversationsWhat are your favorite subreddits? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:33 PM |
| 6 | My experience being married to a BPD woman - in gory detail.Jesus? Tell your story of how the hell you got out. You could write a book probably. Glad you got out and hopefully got her arrested | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:25 PM |
| 8 | I'm a obese, shy male. Need some help./r/ketogains | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How to practice kissing if I never kissed?Just kiss a girl how she wants to be kissed. You feel it and it works. If she wants your tongue down her throat, you'll know bc you're paying attention. If she just wants sweet kisses, she'll show you and you'll know bc you're paying attention. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:33 PM |
| 2 | A letter to my sonthanks for the letter, I'll take your advice myself. Good shit. Cheers | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How should i respond to this girl on tinder?This...it took me a second when if first hit tinder but yah friends to them is not so direct/ obvious fwb | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?Beyond positive thinking. Great book | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend weight gain problemDitto | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | My game is better when i'm more honestFace palm lol. Thanks for clarifying | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | My game is better when i'm more honestWhat's the nuke? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why does her cheating upset you?You feel betrayed, by it also bruises your idea of you. Essentially hurting your self image. We all handle that differently. With the red pill I have found understanding that truly has helped...but be cautious, if it happens to you, don't be too quick to think you're immune | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Genuine communication. Don't be creepy. Be funny and witty and coffee first (no pressure). Have fun with the process | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Should I forgive LTR or next?This...drop her. I just had a potential LTR who I was about to LTR install tinder and have phone sex. Only reason I found out was bc I drunkenly forgot my phone in an uber. Gave me innocent access to her phone and saw stuff, got curious. She swore it was her own fucked up thinking that she needed validation and tried to make excuses. A one time mistake. As much as I wanted to let it slide and move forward, dreaming of a better connection....the old me would have let it slide. I'm different now..… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Pretty sure my wife is cheating. For those who have been in similar situations, how did you moniter her phone?Lying, behavior patterns; if she recently picked up working out, getting dolled up more often but not for you, pep in her step somehow...but not for you....subtle but real things. Not one is conclusive but more than one and you're a sucker if youthink there's smoke without a fire | /r/askTRP | 01/06/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Fwb wont meet me in private anymoreThat's a long time. Next | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | anyone else's gut telling them that the actual blue pill was that men in their 30s with their shit together get laid a lot?You're in your twenties...talking as if you know what it's like to be in your thirties. Worry about what you control, be outcome independent, add value to yourself as much as you can...and life is grand. Even in your thirties. Trp at thirties (myself for example) has been amazing and I've doubled my numbers with women (another area I'm adding value to and learning more with each encounter sex god method). Just enjoy where you're at and going | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementI dont' think you're wrong but i think you took too quick a look at TRP. it's more about improving yourself FIRST. the women follow (if that's what you're looking for). I've been reading TRP and found so many things insightful in restrospect (hindsight) and so many things are on the money. I won't ever treat women like they're a piece of meat or anything but that's not what TRP is asking for either. TRP isn't about seducing women, it's about understand the "social" understanding b/n gender roles… | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementdon't be judgemental. read b/n the lines. don't be too quick to assume and tell people what they should be acting like | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementI had a friend once tell me "you need to fuck that other girl...then immediately fuck your ex. at the end, ask her how (the other's pussy tastes like)" something i wish i had had the courage to do and it would have been worth it and deserving....but alas, not me or my style. But YOU just gave me a glimpse of the glory that may have been. Cheers to you sir. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingHow to pick up girls if they think you're good looking... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Fuck ItThis | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/17 01:23 AM |
| 2 | She not the one, how do I break this off?This. Just say it nother guy that you stayed and the relationship you want, she would have left with you. "It's over" (be strong, no hope no chance for takebacks) | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Step sister as possible plate?you watch too much porn bro | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 07:03 AM |
| 5 | What's the meanest or most manipulative thing you've heard from an LTR?"least he doesn't need to hear i love you all the time" crushed me and thank God for TRP | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | If women despise betas why do they commit their whole lives to them?it's not about commitment, it's about "using someone" (cake and eat it too) | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | What to do with old acquaintances that knew you before the change?they preferred you in reference to their comfort zone. "if skinny shy awkward dude is the same thing fair enough. but it's about perspective. in this situation...only yours matters. keep on keeping on | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Is there any way of getting out of drinking or smoking in college?"can i get a club soda and cranberry?" club soda lemon and lime. noone will think you're not drinking. smoking? just don't who cares | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Suicidal Friend Tells Me About TRP After I Give Him AdviceThis is awesome. Cheers to you and your friend. Even if he finds out about this, it would be welcome. Sidious and Maul....this is how it truly happened. :) "At last we have our revenge. At last we will reveal ourselves to the Jedi!" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Trying to swallow the red pill.You can't stop yourself from having emotions. EVEN if someone pissed you off, guess what. You're human. You have them....but you have a choice (fight or flight). It won't be perfect at first, but learn to be bad and then one day you'll get better. And then better, and then one day you'll be good and a master at talking to women, job, hobby whatever you choose deserves your time. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?You can't stop yourself from having emotions. EVEN if someone pissed you off, guess what. You're human. You have them....but you have a choice (fight or flight). It won't be perfect at first, but learn to be bad and then one day you'll get better. And then better, and then one day you'll be good and a master at talking to women, job, hobby whatever you choose deserves your time. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Trying to swallow the red pill.It's scary. Can you change the feeling in your current state? No. Knowing that, do it anyways. Just do it anyways! Be outcome independent. Then go for it. Say hello. Results be damned. And then again, and again and again. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How to be social after years of being a shy anti-social blue pill?Put yourself out there. Activities and keep growing | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 07:04 PM |
| 0 | LTR initiates breakup with methis | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?your own self "limiting" belief. If you already believe something yay or nay, then it's already true regardless of real possibilities... | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Should i break up with her?that is a shit ton of drama!! wow for your sake.....swallow the pill (like i'm fucking trying...i wish i was your age when i had come across this) and man up. read the sidebar and work on yourself. pre-pill tho.....that's some weird drama that doesn't deserve any more of your attention (imo she probably got that guy to do that and stage the whole thing.....regardless that is games and drama and READ the fucking sidebar) move on :) cheers and gl | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Stuck up girl thinks she's above blowjobswhatever you get at the beginning of the first 6 months, is what you're going to get more of later. Plain and simple. what makes you think you can change someone? she has her ideals already and is literally TELLING you what is going to happen. spare yourself, hard next | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I just got firedI've only been a bartender for 16 years and there is a difference b/n a corporate restaurant/chain vs a local single bar ownership. It's a profession and you proved my point (if you kept reading lol) | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.dude, don't pass this up. follow up. Let me tell you one thing i do know The financial services industry has one HUGE hiccup. Whether shit is up and down which is automatic.....people's number 1 complaint is follow up from an advisor. They're always looking for new clients to get paid. While that is debatable....listen to the root of the issue. Follow up. Be different. Things weren't perfect but they never had to be. Take a chance and follow through on date two and expand yourself if at the very… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | I just got firedthis.... the fifth step bro. money! | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I just got firedMy first real professional job was Bennigans. I went from server to bartender and it was years in between. Multiple locations but same passionate place. Quick disclaimer....people have opinions about this but let me tell you. MOST years have been fantastic income wise (paid for my own school, supported myself and saved up quite a chunk to waste later on a South America trip (not waste, you know what i mean). Personal choices for me. Today, inflation has had an effect so in general hot spots are … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How would you respond to "do you just want sex" text?How do let them know no relationship is possible | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 11:41 AM |
| 1 | First date adviceHow do get someone to leave with intentions on plating | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How can I be happy knowing that I will fail? (I can't maintain a smile)create change. add value to all areas that matter to you. new things. new experiences. think long term. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Got an awesome new job that doubles my income. Should I move out of dirty roommates apartment?This | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Go down on that bitch. Stand out. but for God's sake....take the chance and at the worst you have more experience. Cheers good luck | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | My parents won't let me do lifting because I'm 16. any alternatives?Make your next goal 100 push ups in one set. Push yourself | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 04:56 AM |
| 2 | 24 y/o virgin, went to prostitute, got soft dickBreak the barrier. Do it again. And again. Regardless of how you feel. Be outcome independent. Remember you will get laid again and again and again. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on LTRTotally agree on the pure disrespect. You were caught being human with emotions but from the RP pov, have to get power back for yourself, but remember outcome independence. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Best way to drop bodyfat %?ketogains. Calories In and Calories Out will also be the equation but this works. lost 60 lbs in 4 months. 23 lbs in the first 3 weeks. i've gained muscle, and got most of my old strength back. Your energy levels are different and something to get use to but worth reading the sidebar for knowledge and what to do/expect. Works....just like TRP does. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 06:25 AM |
| 7 | What to do if you find out your SO is cheating on youWhat are you gonna do? Teach the child what it's like to be in a bad unhappy marriage? That's the example you wanna show? I say you divorce, remember that's still the mother of your child but put your kid first. Be amicable but that's it. Go find someone amazing and show your kid what a real relationship is supposed to be like | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 08:39 AM |
| 2 | How do I improve my speech?Read more. Groups like toastmasters too. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Compared to high school, what types of guys do MOST beautiful women end up going for in the real world?I miss dating when younger. People genuinely dated bc they really liked the person. As you're older, other factors play in. My biggest turn off one and an exaggerated situation cuz must people aren't this bad, but I had a girl ask me how much money I had saved up on a first date. Pretty tacky but an example of how dating can be as we get older. There's just so many more factors that come into play | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 08:40 PM |
| 3 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laid"Just the tip?" | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Tested out the ideas in Dale carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People, very postitive resultsIt's only disingenuous if that's what's in your heart. Notice he said genuinely listen. Care what people have to say. If you're looking to expand in these areas, it's a great read but the intent isn't malicious and the rewards with people are great. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | 5 Conversation Mistakes That Turn Women OffCaptain obvious article here...Lemme line up to get the book | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 04:58 PM |
| 6 | good icebreakers for when you first meet a girl?So do you like stuff? | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Asked out a 10I learned from girls to lie and say "I have a girlfriend" while I'm working. I'm a bartender and it happens alot, so telling someone you're taken makes it super easy. I'd be willing to bet she's single. I'd keep talking to her on a very chill level (still less tho) but not ask her out again or anything. For all you know, she said no cuz she's so used to doing it but also wanting to focus on her priorities. Doesn't mean you wouldn't become one... | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?No it's not, if you handle a problem that you know is a problem before it's a problem....guess what. No problem. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?I think it's weird to pretend girls are blind/dumb and can be led to wherever you want to take them just by acting like it's "normal." If you handle their objection and confront it you're more likely to get a response which favors you getting what you both want; intimacy (short term or long term). You're on tinder, sooner or later that "comfort" stage up...you're choosing to ignore it and hope to 'score.' I'm attacking it. To each his own, but i think the chances of succeeding for most guys is h… | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 07:49 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?"Well I'm feeling really good about this. As soon as you feel comfortable, I'd like to call you?" Kinda forces the issue but in a good way I think. GL | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Dating Solo & Rebuilding a LifeI personally don't think you need a big social life to date and keep dates. Definitely need a hobby for yourself and things that are yours. That will make you more attractive but at the end of the day...Women want to be chased but they don't want to have all of you immediately. They get bored and I think that's what's happening with you. Good luck | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)Tell em their hands are wrinkly...trust me. She may not cry then but she will when she gets home | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Got my first number!Dont do coffee...you might as well friend zone yourself | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, i'm 5'6 and i was wondering is this a deal breaker for a lot of women?Yes it does but there are so many women out there that you will find plenty that it isn't a deal breaker with. Some women love a huge penis. So what, I'm above average but barely. So what...It's their preference. i prefer a woman with a tighter vagina. Think I'm kidding?? I fooled around with a girl that I could practically fist...scared the shit out of me. Not kidding...nor judging. Own the glory that is YOU and trust me...it'll all work out | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | She's giving me signals I don't understandAsk her. If she isn't straight...she's immature and playing games. Move on | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 05:30 AM |
| 2 | I just had an epiphany about tinderYou're in college. Women are around you twenty four-seven. Social events are all around you. It's on you honestly that you didn't take advantage of such opportunities previously. Tinder is just one avenue of communication that's honestly unnecessary where you're at in life. Try using tinder after college when all these opportunities aren't around...You may feel differently. You may have to actually learn game or how to actually talk to a girl. Tinder is straight to the point for sure....but peop… | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I don't have an issue making friends with girls but I seem to struggle with being sexual with any of them?Make the move. Plain and simple. I'm gonna assume you have ten friends that are girls that you are describing. Go out, chill seems great but never cross the line. You think it's them not putting it out there but that's not true. My point is this. Women don't do something they don't want to do....atleast not until they gain some personal confidence/self worth themselves (whole other post lol). So when they go out with you. They're there, they want to be with you. Now not all situations are like t… | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 02:01 AM |
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