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Ex-wife has not weaponized kids (18 and 21 at time of divorce) as far as I know or can tell from interactions with kids or her. Daughter took the news like hearing her Starbucks order was up.....zero surprise and zero shits given. Relationship with daughter has improved over subsequent years. Son was not surprised at all; but was clearly disappointed. He mourned the death of our family as did I. I still see daughter occasionally for “visits” in keeping with her nature and our relationship. Son v…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 06:20 PM
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congratulations
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/24 12:12 PM
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The simple answer to why, is because negging works in both opening and in dating and relationships in general. It goes by so many names: busting balls , joshing, kidding…..and on and on. It creates strong feelings and rapport. As SBIii said this is 101 stuff. If you asked to learn something; you’re welcome. If not, please find somewhere else to get your needs met.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/22 09:55 PM
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Been there done all this. The buck is very likely dead. Go look again in daylight. If your in hills , go down to nearest creek in direction he ran. Start search back and forth from there. You don’t get “arrow covered in blood” just by grazing through muscle. Also when hunting from elevation, aim more towards the middle of the scapula. In other words ; your really aiming for the opposite elbow.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 11:53 AM
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Girth?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 02:17 AM
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It’s a helluva drug
/r/askMRP04/11/20 02:24 AM
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I prefer you shut the fuck up , read, and lift for 6 months before saying anything. In other words, exercise some self restraint, awareness, and respect.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 12:15 AM
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Dumb Hitler, more accurately
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:43 PM
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Do you have kids?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 10:00 PM
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This reads very sullen. yes it does, and it's a phase. first anger, then elation that your moving the ball, then sullen/grieving as you let go of the dream the ball would ever go across the goal line that is your own vision, and lastly just plain apathy. when you reach apathy, you're actually ready for a divorce. IMHO, BBJ ain't there yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 01:09 PM
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Deadlifts are agony right now, no matter which type I try (Romanian, Jefferson), but I am persevering through the pain. my experience with back pain (substantial over the years) has repeatedly shown me that i never recover laying on the floor. i have to use a combination of rest and stretching to relax the spasm. deadlifting or squats or anything under load while in spasm is just STUPID though. bjj, ok ....sort of. yoga my brother. everyone is different, but for me Utthita Trikonasana (Extended …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 12:25 PM
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i read this three times, and i cannot tell what you're doing here. are you playing with the gun in your imagination, waving the gun around (aka "negotiating at gunpoint"), or are you actually going to shoot the marriage and move on? IMHO, do it yourself divorce is as dumb as it gets. if y'all in agreement, go together to a lawyer and get an agreement worked up with someone that knows what questions to ask. it's a common tale for DIY divorce to end up in front of a judge, and the judge says "i ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 12:14 PM
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Red has not really provided the details; but 20 and no job or school . . . from what it sounds like? i don't personally know anyone that's came out of that on top. i mean people still need their grass cut.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/20 02:18 PM
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What's the difference btw falling in love and pussy pedestalization? mostly self awareness. "falling in love" is a feeling that resides inside of you; and unfortunately it need not be mutual. when you realize it's a feeling inside; and not really external (that woman on the pedestal) you then understand this feeling can be replicated with many different women. she's not special and neither are you. falling in love is riding a splendid wave. that particular wave is not your life; there are many m…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/20 02:11 PM
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like you i generally learn my lessons the hard way. always have and though it may sound ignorant probably will keep on. i like risk and i like doing things people tell me i can't. when that's your game some time "mistakes are made" so long as no limbs or fortunes are lost or jail time is incurred - it's all good. curious as to whether the two young men have any prospects in life? if not, smart man might just cut bait on that lose lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/20 10:27 PM
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although you're older than me (51); i have a lot of experience with the depth of sunk cost fallacy you struggle with after 46 years (30). So why was I rekindling my anger again? you have not forgiven yourself for past mistakes, or more succinctly: you're self loathing. you conjur the anger to paint yourself as the victim and assuage your ego. What does being a bitter old coot buy me? nothing but pain, and an earlier grave. this is the path to the dark side. just stop it (easier said than done, i…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 11:43 AM
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I agree, that's some real shit from https://old.reddit.com/user/rotkohlblaukraut i could write a book on those ridiculous bars. see "The Cave" by Plato for the OG treatise
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/20 02:25 PM
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Expect crazy or you are not prepared. thanks for the mindset adjustment
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/20 01:29 PM
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solid advice. i'll be mostly gone for the preceding three months, and should be mostly gone for another 1-2 months after. youngest turns 18 in January so that's not really an issue. ideally i'd still be able to stay in my house occasionally until he goes off to college in August; but i got other local options too.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/20 04:59 PM
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get your ducks all in a row can you elaborate? do you mean be prepared to move out immediately or something else?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/20 12:24 PM
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it's simply indifference actual progress
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 01:40 PM
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Not a mod ; it was negative before it was positive
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 09:21 PM
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it's certainly not as generous a tax benefit in your state as mine (unlimited contributions, 6% marginal, and can revolve money in the same year). Still though, i'm guessing you're passing up a 8-10% return on year 1 savings, and similar on gains.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 07:24 PM
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i agree with the opportunities of liquidity
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 07:11 PM
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she's not yours, it's just your turn - some men will never understand this the downvotes, lol - you're the ultimate negative karma whore
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 01:41 PM
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investing my two cents: so long as your liquidity is secure (see below), always max out the 401k - the power of tax free compounding is to important look for low cost index funds (i.e. ETFs). IMO, Vanguard cannot be beat. make sure you're getting the cost structure you deserve as your portfolio value increases. make sure your index's are sufficiently broad, small/large cap, international, bonds dollar-cost averaging ... fancy way of saying disciplined routine investments (paycheck investing make…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 01:28 PM
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i figured (and glad) you'd chime in. "picking up pennies in front of a steam roller" never heard that, but man i really like that one. not surprised by the tale on two of many successes. you can make tons of pretty graphs about the weather, but it really tells you fuck all about whether or not it's going to rain next week or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 12:27 PM
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the irony, that i'm sure you'll miss, is exactly no one cares what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:40 PM
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she’s doing these things to please me versus because she's expecting something in return not my intent to rain on your parade, but "all relationships are transactional". it may be just the D and your time and attention. maybe, but not likely. the flip side of "relationships are a woman's work" is women are usually working on a relationship. this is not your problem though until you want it to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 11:06 AM
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just to pile on the obvious, this outright lying part is horseshit advice and would recommend you not listen to whomever gave it to you. the research you can do on someone these days with almost free tools is amazing, and i'm sure a professional would destroy your dumb ass. reading through all the comments, it sounds like you were "just too much for them". the actionable question is were they just too little or are you coming off as too much in general or just failing to gauge each target separa…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 10:55 AM
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yes this is what you need to do, i just noticed you posted a picture. you look pretty damn good for a middle aged man. sure you ain't beast mode (neither am I) - you got all you need to slay. mindset motherfucker. start failing and you'll figure out it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 08:06 PM
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D can stand deflect just as well as defend. You definitely didn’t Confront him or yourself relative to his Criticism.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 04:32 PM
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after covid just stop for ffs. you could buy a motorcycle right now for practically nothing and free money, and then take a solo trip. i told you go jump out of a plane 1-2 years ago. FEAR is your problem. until you can stop being a pussy, NOTHING will change.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:16 PM
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yep, buying country club membership way better. can do all that and someone else deals with the mess
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:11 PM
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I will be a successful MRP woman/marriage is the consolation prize to be a high value man being his own point of origin. be careful to not put the cart in front of the horse.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:10 PM
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ego deflection, as someone else said "do better"
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:07 PM
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Tyred_Biggums gave you the correct theory answer below. frame is knowing and being exactly who you want to be at all times, but it's also being able to walk away from anything with maybe a little remorse but no fear for the future. my actionable advice is break some plates. give it a little time, they'll push a boundary. don't even hesitate; just smash the plate and move on. she'll cry, your're an asshole. who fucking cares? you need to show yourself exactly how that feels, and that it doesn't a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:05 PM
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Rest assured I’m not him. I don’t have Bezos money, not even close by multiple orders of magnitude. However, I guarantee her pay day or what the D cost him in terms of dollars wasn’t even a second thought. I understand this , money is not happiness.....once you have a lot of money
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 09:05 PM
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Not sure what to make of that dynamic. useful, but not attractive - or a Trojan sized plow horse
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 07:18 PM
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i've witnessed first hand four divorces in my life, two of my father's and two close friends. 2 or the 4 women were what i would call reasonable/pragmatic women and two were psycho/vengeful harpies from hell. my personal opinion is that red-sfpplus overplayed his hand way too hard in the beginning in which, not remembering all the details, he basically kicked his ex out of her house and took her kids. hell hath nor fury and all ensued..... back to my four case studies. all of three of these men …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 01:39 PM
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World is littered with stone cold killers in business who are also totally pussy whipped at home. if you want to see a sick example of this, check out the biography of Buffet. maximum cuck
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 01:08 PM
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I wonder what is MRP username is? LMAO, very doubtful but nothing's impossible
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 01:07 PM
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How do you know you won't do the same thing to the next LTR? the obvious answer is i'm not the same person i was 20 or even 10 years ago. i would say the single biggest change is being a lot more aware of how what i say and do effects those around me. the other obvious answer is the sidebar - i learned a lot that i was not previously even aware of How did you arrive at the conclusion that she is unwilling to follow yours? don't feel the need to cite examples really. it's pretty obvious when you'…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 11:28 AM
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Sometimes it just takes one half, or both, to realize that. i've suspected it for years. always had in the back of my mind that kid responsibilities and then her parents living with us was her mental block, because that's what she told me and tells herself (watch what they do not what they say, i know....). well, all the excuses have been eliminated, and the needle has barely budged. she is who she is; and that's who she is. pliability is not a universal trait in women or men, for that matter. s…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 02:40 PM
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Regarding HoA’s five statements in the second linked post: wife is not anxious, not suffering from depression, not on medication (LMAO), not crazier than AWALT (the opposite actually), owns her shit, and does not lack for sex. I think a lot of men here don’t know that there a fair number of women in this world that are most definitely not “the oldest teenager in the house”. Regarding HoA’s post “Your woman is one of your greatest creations” – yeah, I’ll own that to a point. About a year ago, whi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 02:27 PM
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negative visualization, a stoic practice, for the win. negative experiences can have the same effect. it's the old idiom "whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger"
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 12:58 PM
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not a comeback man, just answering your questions. Maybe your wife is boring as fuck because you annoy her? could absolutely be true. would also explain why she never wants to do anything with me, but then again she doesn't do much other than cook, watch television, read, work, occasionally go for a walk, occasionally volunteer. she has work friends, but not any social life to speak of outside of work. but back to your point, she might really dislike me. pretty sure she'd make a great wife to so…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 11:28 PM
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true for most people, but not all - people i tend to associate with have habit of telling you the truth though whether you want to hear it or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 10:36 PM
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It isnt normal, and people cannot be controlled or motivated like this. this is the truth The goal is willing submission of the MIND with no physical force necessary. and so is this
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 10:20 PM
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How could any woman be a high-value man's prize? in regard to his point of origin, she cannot be Treating any woman like a prize is putting her on a pedestal. every woman i've ever known wants to think she is special to her man. you don't have to actually believe she's on a pedestal to make HER FEEL like she is on one. see gaming; it's not all about negs in LTR IMO a hallmark of BP faggotry is treating women or their vaginas like a prize to win. Worthwhile women assist our mission and bring valu…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 10:13 PM
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Maybe she is just a reflection of yourself? it's certainly possible, but it's not true nor the consensus of those around us. been called a lot of bad things, but never those. openly admit you abandoned her to get what you want says alot it does, can't argue with that Women will go $2M in debt to roast a man they are bitter. not counting on it by a long shot, but yeah I'm willing to bet $2M. it turns out not all women are like that, some are unbelievably practical - like a dude with tits. One who…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 10:05 PM
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pointing out this dissonance of ego with my woman and her accepting it as her truth knowing that she will always be behind agreed on this, can't tell if you're saying she accepts it or this is the overdread problem? What has been proven to me time and time again through her actions is that she is willing and malleable enough to be exactly what I want. Could I have that with another woman? Probably, yeah. you're selling her, and i'm buying it. you could find it i another woman. not rare, but not …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 09:59 PM
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It's a really good question, and one that gets harder and harder to answer; but this feeling is nothing but typical "jump the shark" mindset. Following is copy/paste of my priorities statement for the last ~3 years - i have not found good reason to change it. Enable successful launch of daughter into college and continued success for son in high school and beyond. I’m in the red zone with both kids (daughter in the end-zone as much as anything i can do/not do). To an unacceptable degree, I aband…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 09:47 PM
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i don't want to jump your post in anyway with my own issue, but let me preface my comments with, short of some miracle/disaster . . . i'm lining up to divorce wife in Q1 of 2021. reason, she simply ain't for me or good enough (difference is immaterial) , and short of her being rich - i can do a LOT better. only reason i bring that up is to illustrate i'm not on some value your wife - sanctity of commitment high horse here. now to the point, your response is pure male hamster, especially this - W…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 06:40 PM
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My woman wants the illusion of being the prize and I should probably do a better job of playing into that fantasy, even though we both know she is not. nice post, and a similar realization i came to several years ago . . . although you got 100x the fireworks (from her) getting there. it does no good to climb atop the prize over your woman's dead body (metaphorically). Basically, show more appreciation for when she is adding value. even though we both know she is not. i'm not asking you to put he…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 04:43 PM
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It’s phase, some stay longer than others
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 10:29 AM
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LMAO; someone’s got to fuck them
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 10:28 AM
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Yes read “The Prince”. Sidebar worthy
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 10:26 AM
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Ok, first off, drill down further into the worst case. How long would you have to pay alimony? How long do you have to pay maintenance (i suppose this euro for "child support")? How much would you have left? Assuming she either stays local or moves, do you have good chance on 50/50 custody? What's so bad about having to move if she does? My point in all this negative visualization (read stoicism, let me know if you need more specifics), which you're not practicing enough, has to be taken into fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/20 02:20 PM
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quality work as always, +1
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:57 PM
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vacuum sealers work the best
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:57 PM
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life flexing - good for ya
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:55 PM
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Fear i'd like to hear in gory detail what's the worst thing that could happen if you divorce? worst at like a 95% probability worst. facts and figures, not your feelz. tell me.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:52 PM
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coccyx thanks for the new word
/r/askMRP25/04/20 03:25 PM
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on your first three bullet point - apathy >>>> hate applies everywhere
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:23 PM
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glad you're keeping it. not a violation of Rule Zero at all IMHO. first, if you have kids - in my experience effectively ruling your children and household in the way described above absolutely dropped panties. she wants to be married to the king, and the king rules. second, in the theory of "all women are children" (they're not) this essay applies directly (because lots of adults never grew up). basically, be the king - always
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 03:22 PM
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spook pandemic Haha , there’s a lot of irony in that statement that your Euro ears may not understand
/r/askMRP15/04/20 11:50 AM
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Your advice is sage, but this is in fact not a true statement at all. You can accomplish 2 without 1. You’ll just have other, worse, problems.
/r/askMRP11/04/20 11:58 AM
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i'm guessing you're referring to the FB bury, yes . . . when you post some incendiary shit to trigger the sheeple and don't get a peep . . . yep
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 04:24 PM
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This person actually fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:33 PM
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solutions are almost always simple. IME if it's not, you'd better check your solution again. the problem for most people is execution . . . because their just not capable and can't get past their own ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 11:14 AM
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It eventually gets her off but it isn't great for either of us. how do you know it's not that great for her? IME, most women cum best in cowgirl position, how's that go? how much dominance are you applying? physical dominance
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 10:58 AM
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The University of Oxford were told to bury this paper. the groupthink evident in this crisis is disgusting. i'll tell you what else is disgusting - making decisions based on emotion, fear of failure, and shaming. it's like an epic opera why stoicism, and dare i say TRP (the real shit, not Incel v.2.0) is so needed. i posted a similar study on FB, lol the algorithm appeared to bury it. whatever fuckfaces
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 10:55 AM
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i'll give that a try
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 10:41 AM
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Annecdotally, I picked up a bad dose of flu in February March despite being vaccinated in November. yep, me too. picked it up after walking through a literal sea of people in the Seattle airport March 3rd. one night of fever, followed by 5 days tired and 3 weeks dry cough. wife and son then followed a week later with same thing. i'm with you on the Swedish approach. although not on a personal level, it's maddening on a global policy level that the approach is to basically shit-can the 90% produc…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 11:34 AM
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i think the point that SBIII is trying to illustrate that you mention, but clearly don't understand, is the primacy of frame. in my frame, if i want to fuck, i initiate. as to your obtuse reference to "random girl on street" - yes even then i'm initiating by my approach consistently communicating i'm DTF and think i will fuck. it's true, your going to fail a lot being unattractive. but never the less, you stay in your frame which is you're going to fuck and if this one particular woman won't you…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 11:22 AM
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you've already got a lot of great advice. the only thing i'd add to that advice is just the observation that IME women don't need to event want to cum every time. we're not the same. i'd like to hear more about your technique and understanding on how to make a woman cum. it's not that difficult so i'm guessing you don't know how or your technique is off
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 11:11 AM
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super solid stuff man, would make a good guide/report
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 11:08 AM
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so far lockdown is pretty cool. summer shred going better than ever thanks to zero junk food exposure at work and way lower stress from working at home. already told boss "don't expect me to come back to work like before" after an early bunker strategy mistake; have determined it's better for all if i completely ignore the wife all work day long. so far, only real problem is i have not figured out how to really trim beard properly without barber. tried a couple things but can't seem to stay symm…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 11:00 AM
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More like common sense; you’re POV is illustrative of nothing but you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:15 PM
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Where’s the interaction and polynomial terms?
/r/askMRP03/04/20 09:46 PM
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No shit you stupid bot
/r/askMRP01/04/20 01:18 PM
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You don’t have breath on each other in doggy
/r/askMRP01/04/20 01:17 PM
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As long as your dog consents; who are we to judge?
/r/askMRP01/04/20 01:14 PM
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She gets over it in about 3 min but I feel shit about it. the advice that ChemaCB gave below is solid tactically; but i want to address your mindset. "burden of performance" applies to many things, and parenting in particular. part of your burden is your children will suffer, sometimes you have to make them suffer for their own good. most of the time, their suffering is not your responsibility to correct but their's to endure and overcome. solving all their problems is how useless people are mad…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/20 12:08 PM
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Holding out that they open back up Friday like they said before I go thru the effort of doing something at home. ain't going to happen. just get on with the home gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/20 12:02 PM
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Poetry
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/20 08:17 PM
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Yep , in other words the vast majority of men. “Burden of performance” is a thing for a reason. If you can’t accept this as a man; do us all a favor and just fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:41 PM
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It’s almost like these guys don’t understand plating - I mean yeah alpha bait works better but well played beta bait will also slay ; you’re just going to have to learn how and when to take em of your stringer better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:14 PM
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Whenever I hear this cheaper/ better comment about prostitution- I have to wonder where does this person live and do they have any actual experience with prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:10 PM
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now's your chance to develop some zen
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 12:27 PM
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This diet plan is undefeated
/r/askMRP24/03/20 05:07 PM
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there were no iterations, only changes in your awareness. the wall has always been and will always be all those things although none of that is true in the hyperbolic language used by retards in these parts. it's all about commitment. everyone knows that a non-hideous woman can get banged by Chad well into her 50's. the "wall" is not really a wall, but more of a normal-distribution shaped embankment in the physical world (i.e. her appearance). talking to women of this age, i believe some feel it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:49 PM
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LMAO; most likely you never knew where the goal post was in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:34 AM
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Overall sound advice , I wonder though about this “don’t try to catch falling knives”. If you’re not already wealthy this is sound advice because you could run out of cash before normalcy returns. If you are wealthy; now is the perfect time to catch knives. This is one of the main reasons the rich are always getting richer. I’ve concluded the global financial system is one continuous “mafia bust out” game. Only one way to win that game.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 10:51 AM
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Right on brother
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 10:38 AM
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The internet part made me laugh
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 09:07 PM
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i prefer pussy with a little more room to waller around in. i have fucked a few that pushed em' out and a few that had c sections in the last few years. i'll take the opener gals any day. the c-sections are just too tight, plus i like looking down the gaping hole in those true baby mamas
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 04:10 PM
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Sex with a married woman is unbelievable. because she's been starving for years. ever watch a famished person or dog eat?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 04:08 PM
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If it rips open your whole world, the real problem is your world is way to small and fragile. the irony is it’s likely this is most of the problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 09:59 PM
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Have you fucked pussy that’s pushed out some babies?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 09:55 PM
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i agree with this thesis. idolation is a by-product of the difference between sentience and sapience in regards to ones own conscience.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 07:08 PM
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i heard he went that direction, but don't follow him at all like i told hounddog i don't have any problem feeding my empty life with hedonism. it's never occurred to me at any meaningful level that there has to be "more". don't get this drive at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 05:16 PM
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that's a good answer dog i guess the fact that i fill the empty with all those things doesn't bother me, not even a little why do you find life, minus a deity, unsatisfying?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 05:12 PM
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40 years of empty atheism, Gods word beckons interesting, i don't find atheism empty any more than looking into the open clear sky. what empty are you seeking to fill?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 01:25 PM
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I've always felt like the wife's period is perfect in some ways, yep, one of several challenges that menopause presents. the other major one is that the period provided a monthly reset on sexual tension. i've found this is very important. we both travel frequently so this now provides the reset. however, i've found when we don't this mutual feeling of blase seems to creep in about week 4-6
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 01:17 PM
1

solid answer, although you forgot to multiply 9% in your example for over 100K (barely not enough minimum) for cool lifestyle, and you're down to 0.6%. even if you multiply that by 10 take into account the confounding between body/income/education - you're still talking 1/20 guys making the grade. point being, it's good to be the man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:06 PM
2

the way to stop thinking so much is to just start doing much more
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 05:25 PM
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well, that leaves the subconscious then. personally, and excluding wife-bullshit, i have have not had this problem. pretty sure that every part of my being wants to fuck. do doubt about it. that's not to say i have a 3 minute refractory period anymore, like when i was 17, but first go around i'm jacked
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 02:48 PM
1

this is really the key point to this "science" (every study linked was pseudo science based on subjective measurement systems) discussion. i've never seen so many examples of "watch what she does, not what she says" in a single post. hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:42 PM
1

man that's a lot of bullshit. stop thinking so much and just do what you want. happen to life, not life happens to you
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 01:32 PM
3

taking into account the sidebar discussion, i'd lean towards physical. that being said, you know the cure to mental issues. investigate and purge incongruence. what do you really want? do that when the wife is slow to start, this can fuck with my head (both of em'), Ciallis will power through incongruence at a mild dosage. GoodRX is a good bargain. edit - it's worth emphasizing that mental and physical both play a part. as you get older the physical diminishes and unfortunately reveals the hidde…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 01:23 PM
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something to own - i perform better and harder when women are in the group. skied a total of 24 days this season. got a lot better. goal next season is over 50 days. i don't know if this is a problem, so i'm asking for opinions. throughout the season, being more mindful, i can clearly observe how my endurance, mood, and drive is all lifted by the presence of any female i would consider fucking in the group. literally like flipping a switch on/off. am i gay or is this a feature?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 08:06 PM
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it sounds like your having a physical problem. first, the cough could be more than you think so i'd let that play out (i'm coughing right now and it definitely has an impact). otherwise, it sounds like a physical problem as opposed to a mental problem unless you're just so stressed that you're not sleeping hardly. there a lot of science that says a man's dick is a barometer for his cardiovascular health - so you'll want to start with that. if problem fix that. i know your not overweight or smoki…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:59 PM
2

are you still getting morning wood? are you currently ill? if you fire up some porn you're into do you get hard?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 04:08 PM
1

keep it simple. just adhere to the principle of least interest; and everything will work out just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:51 PM
2

what's something you hate about the discussions and ideas that come about on this sub the thing i find the most disgusting in PPD is people like yourself who are so self deluded as to think they have a meaningful opinion on matters for which they have zero experience in real life. it's no different than telling a soldier fresh from war, what's wrong you big pussy that wasn't so bad. all i can say is experience, life, and pain are the ultimate teachers. i'm sure you'll get yours eventually; and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:32 PM
1

Have you ever been married dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:01 PM
2

WNS got locked out of Reddit. for real? what happened?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 12:48 PM
1

I’m 5’6” on a good day. Between the ages of 15 and 23 (married), longest dry spell was less than 2 weeks / once. Live is USA. Back into it in late 40s; easier than ever to fuck. Sample of 1; but those are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:42 AM
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My son is cocky swaggering fuckbois and he slays. Some people win. Everyone else whines
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:32 AM
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it's a lot of words so you may not be able to understand it. but point of origin. follow the link to Frame as well. not sure whether you're lazy or just real dumb (don't care neither so no need to answer). real dumb probably can't be fixed. lazy maybe. being lazy is one of the most unattractive things you can be in LTR/marriage though.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/20 01:11 AM
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yep, i find that people mean exactly what they say. you just have to set aside want you want to hear.
/r/askMRP29/02/20 12:58 AM
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Solid play
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 09:41 PM
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You can’t be dreaded if you’re actually your own point of origin and know you have options or abundance mentality. You don’t. Work on that. Or just demote her to plate and move on now. I suspect your turn is already over.
/r/askMRP28/02/20 09:32 PM
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Well at least your honest with yourself. Now figure out your point of origin
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 06:07 PM
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Some do ; but a lot in up in prison or just living a bohemian life - think ski instructor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:31 PM
1

Solid reply with the needed nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:26 PM
1

It’s a normal response. Happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:54 PM
1

If that makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:04 PM
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It’s helluva fun ; like somedays the main thing that gets me to work. Women are sending cues all the fucking time and initiating conversation with dudes- sometimes with me and sometimes with another dude that I observe. Honestly don’t understand this alternative universe some people are living in. Like do they ever leave their houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:21 AM
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Not bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:15 AM
2

Never said you have to have a rocking bod to practice a degree of physical self love. On the other hand if your at risk for early death due to unhealthy living; then your delusional about self love. My apologies if that point was lost
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:25 PM
2

The fact you can’t see the grey in its your problem; not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:21 PM
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you are delusional about what self love really means. when you really love something you take care of it and work for it, which requires some level of discipline and commitment. self love is not i do what i want because i love myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:51 PM
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just giving OP a shout out. this thread, and particular the women's comments, have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt why you never LTR a woman that fails the three date rule. she just ain't into you that much bro. she'll figure that back out eventually, and you will suffer dearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:49 PM
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i love sluts, but What does this mean? (in regards to "delusional as a comfort tool") and, Lack of physical fitness yes, but huge amount of self love. the irony, it burns. stop painting yourself into a corner. in other words, your proving https://old.reddit.com/user/Helmet_Icicle point in spades here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:35 PM
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You can’t put elderly men and women in the same locale without banging occurring. Point being - people fuck a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:40 PM
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I’m pretty sure its had a degree of Stockholm Syndrome forever. If you don’t derive some satisfaction at playing life on hard mode the ratio will never be positive. The really sick irony is that most men choose marriage because they think it’s easier than the other alternatives.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 12:07 PM
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Being consistently mean does not work; alternating mean nice is the roller coaster ride women crave. Also most people confuse consistently putting yourself first and having boundaries as being “mean”. Being your own point of origin and using the word “no” will drop panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:09 PM
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So which is it? it's both, it's neither, it doesn't matter. MRP is about building a mental model that wins no matter what those around you choose to do. the mental model of "it's all your fault" is the only model that is actionable because getting other people to change, especially through direct action upon said person, is a fools errand in marriage. from this model, equally flows: your unattractive, become attractive . . . and the mix of alpha and beta that entails and, your attractive as demo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:17 PM
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just like married women still dictate their husbands' sexlives by denial she dictates her sex life, but she does not have a monopoly on pussy. his sexlife can go on without her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:06 PM
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His logic was this: that extra cash you pay is lost (to you, for now) and doesn't lower your payments unless you recast or refinance. this logic does not apply to most (like basically all) mortgages. interest is calculated monthly based on the remaining principal. although your payment does not change, your interest goes down (even if a small amount) and the note will be paid off sooner. that being said, the biggest difference between poor people and wealthy people is LIQUIDITY. in other words, …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/20 12:13 PM
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but I when I called her out about being inauthentic, she withdrew and shutdown exactly where was she inauthentic (and manipulative)? iv'e read it twice, and i can't find a hint of this except in your head
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/20 12:07 PM
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I’d do both for sure
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 11:11 PM
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little push - lots of pull i run my first dance on pretty much the same playbook since highschool, rarely fails me kissing (lot focus on the variation in style), kissing neck, ears, top chest depending on what she's wearing. bear hugs while lifting her off her feet. gentle hair-nape pulling. "you so sexy" talk. not really groping yet she start grinding on me or pushing my face/hands onto her tits . . . let the groping begin i usually take my shirt off first, go signals are her going up your shir…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 04:07 PM
1

will definitely be checking this out in the next 12-24 months, it's on deck
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:48 PM
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No. I resigned last October. uh the old rule is "it's always better to find a job when you have one". you figured it out the hard way, but ffs take the job in front of you. always occupy the high ground, then fire from that position.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 09:03 PM
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in that case, just proceed with sidebar and lift but keep an open mind towards therapy down the road a little. you had some pretty fucked up mental models, or at least their completely alien to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 08:56 PM
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to indent ">" minus the quotations
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 08:52 PM
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I need to work on just being happy. i'm going for being in a "state of flow"; and when that can't be done calm and content. happy is a chimera . relative to the dysmorphia, i got nothing for you. if anything, i have the opposite problem. i look in the mirror and think "fuck you look good" . . . even when i don't. on this job search, do you have a job now? tiny bubble butt this is happiness
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 08:51 PM
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Some time should be no more than a week
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 06:01 PM
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This true / similarity to Latina women btw
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 05:58 PM
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likely covert contracts: they will leave after a reasonable duration this will me more enjoyable than it actually is my wife will accept all the above search in yourself why you don't explicitly set boundaries, in particular for people that don't do well with normal social mores (implicit boundaries), and you will find a covert contract at the bottom of that pit. edit - the contract can be with yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 05:19 PM
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finally
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 05:08 PM
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My response was to laugh and tell her that everyone cries. possibly a troubling response, especially with a non-Western girl . . . who in my experience are less likely to understand that you were laughing with her and not at her. laughing at her when she shows weakness is a no, especially early on. i've had some related fumbles. i doubt this was the cock block cause. you may have just escalated a little to hard/fast and combined with the "i laugh at your feelz" was the death knell. this might be…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 05:07 PM
3

please send me a job application.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 04:52 PM
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No idea how to actually tag people on Reddit sadly. you did I definitely lost frame in one specific situation that I’m still not sure how to handle. boundaries are not just for your wife, they're for everyone around you and most definitely your parents. i can smell the covert contracts you have with your parents and their visit; and it's this that leads to no frame. your parents are going to tell you your an asshole. doesn't matter. I’m still working with debtors for my own delinquent debt as an…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 04:48 PM
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“Memories of previous failures” the breath of the human experience never fails to amaze. i'd like to know if this fear of failure, gullibility, paranoia, and low self esteem extend to spheres of your life outside of sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 04:32 PM
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lmao hard, i often have that feeling of the dog that catches the car, wat do now?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 04:24 PM
2

many LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:03 PM
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This is reality indeed. You can all kinda mean bastard to a woman but the second you show her she’s not special to you it’s done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:00 PM
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those are all good reasons, and come from an actual awareness of what Ltr (emphasis on the LONG) requires to succeed. although The Wall definitely exists, it's overrated as fuck in "the pills". as you say, childless+hotness+chillness is in high demand at all ages for both sex and relationships . . . assuming dudes on phase II of their life are not excluded. late LATE 30s.. and honestly? I have a plan for that, and it's ironclad curious on this. when it comes to children, ain't nothing ironclad E…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:38 PM
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can't (and why would i want to) argue with your life experience or FDS (common sense with edge). i can think of several reasons why, but am curious as to your reason on: I don't want anything serious with them for at least another 5 years i understand the following "it's more fun" paragraph; but your statement seems to eliminate the possibility for the right one coming along or does FDS consider "the right one" to be a fallacy like TRP does. related, do you want bio children someday?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:37 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:39 PM
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If you need MRP to keep your wife in line you are dealing with a shit wife. are you saying shit wife woman, in the sense that she just sucks at adulting and not being a cunt, or are you saying "if you need MRP to keep your wife attracted to you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:07 PM
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I agree with all this too. I’ll note that I really struggle with accepting both these concepts ... the hardest mental model for me to abandon.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 11:22 PM
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A 9+ doesn't need OLD. what a 9+, or any woman for that matter, needs is male validation. a lot of women like to drink from the validation firehose that is OLD, but that's all it is. i want OP to see that a lot of what one can perceive as attraction in OLD can just be the cat playing with the mouse.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 06:27 PM
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i understand SBIII to be making a meta comment that your wife cannot be the answer to your fulfillment. your mission is what you want. your wife is the adornment.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 06:23 PM
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your priorities and overall strategy is solid. however, i sense a level of cognitive dissonance and possibly some bullshit that your either accepting or peddling to yourself and us. your experience with OLD seems odd. in particular, your description reads as "i had several one off opportunities that did not materialize because logistics". in my experience, when you have a live one on the line she'll work her way into the boat one way or another. this is, of course, RP dogma "when a woman wants t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 12:49 PM
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Hammer meet nail. The really sad thing is had OP some frame - he’d be balls deep in both. If you’re going to play in shit test big leagues; best have some game.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 11:39 PM
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I don’t go from buzzed to drunk with any woman I’m fucking. My biggest internal indicator is the feeling of moving from a mental buzz to a physical buzz. I switch from alcohol to water then - which also helps with hangover.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 11:02 AM
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i'm guessing you're offering an answer for "why older people" i think the "why" people do this is simple - it's enjoyable and yes i think it signals hierarchy but this is much less important i think the "why" as to older people is they just give a lot less fucks about what other people think and keeping up appearances. their more comfortable in their own skin. it's one of the joys of getting old in my opinion, a lot of people stop being stuck up cunts. edit - older people also tend to have more …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 01:15 PM
1

why did you date men you were not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:08 PM
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adding a little nuance to this, since tards' going to tard' apparently at least in the circles i run in, it is common for married couples that are friends to flirt with each other's spouses. i've noticed this behavior really takes an uptick with older people (40's and up) and couples that have older children. even if your wife's friend would shag you (because you're attractive); it doesn't mean she wants to beyond a passing fancy or would actually. adding a little alcohol, this type of thing can…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 12:43 PM
1

what do you want in life? it's not obvious to me what your problem is beside RP-awakening self hatred
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 09:48 PM
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nice squat, pay attention other autist . . . you too can fuck your wife even if your just a big strong dancing monkey. the reasons this "worked", and what a lot of guys are afraid of, is her emotions. she's emotional and scared (cue the vagina water works), you provide comfort without judgement (opposite emotions, now she's on the wet roller coaster), you showed your above her emotions by clowning around and going for that ass in spite of her dog bite. i'd say you deserve an Emmy because in spit…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 07:14 PM
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Why do you talk like this? primarily for the lulz, but also to test your frame. from the post it appears you have none; and you confirmed this in the comments. Do you have something meaningful to say? you're an autistic retard, and should work on correcting that. you come in here with a nearly impossible to understand rambling essay asking basic questions; having done none of the work and asking us to spoon feed you the cheat codes. this "life happens to me, what do?" mindset you demonstrate in …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 06:50 PM
5

a good side piece weighs in at 90 pounds so that math checks
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 04:02 PM
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what's really amazing is that we got guys, clearly as retarded as you, getting laid and we got guys that stay with a woman that won't fuck them. clown world
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 03:42 PM
3

4 plates for reps per side or total?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 03:36 PM
1

it shows
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 03:27 PM
1

Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:16 AM
2

Your doubts are meaningless to all. My young kids pre-date phones. I’m quite sure you have no actual idea what your even talking about; which is rife in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:11 AM
1

Besides my own two children; yes I have. Difficult for you is not difficult for all. This is not a difficult concept
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:02 AM
2

inception with JIZZ
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 05:54 PM
2

don't be ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:29 PM
2

gets way better with age. yes a baby requires constant attention and care; but does not require deadlines, dealing with the fucktards in IT, does not require creativity, does not really require alertness. a lot of baby time can be multi-tasked versus talking on the phone, reading, watching television, talking to others. not true for work, except when your not actually working. i'm not saying baby care is easy. it can feel like a marathon that never ends. it's still not even remotely comparable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:54 PM
1

have been, for weeks at a time years ago - 2 kids. cake walk compared to job. anyone who thinks this is difficult has never had a real job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:47 PM
2

It is a full time job! no it's not. not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:24 PM
1

Sound like a complete retard here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:23 AM
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If you are still getting upset internally or externally from denial of sex, you are technically still at dread level 1 faggot. this is correct. proceed.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 06:26 PM
3

i can see (or smell) that
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 03:34 PM
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it's a good plan. This is gonna take a while (two years if the rule of thumb is true) probably longer, you're coming from "train wreck". my only advice is to make your gauge your weight and lifts, and other physical markers (blood pressure) your. your wife is not the gauge.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 03:31 PM
4

your new flair. lol, how did i miss this
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 03:22 PM
2

so she’s kind of makes a fuss over me this is for her parent's consumption . . . just so you know. Pregnant and staying in the in laws house. Sex not really desired from me atm. shakes head . . . i'll never understand this. healthy weight pregnant chicks are so hot. you're in port while a hurricane is brewing out on the open seas; and your response is "i can take it or leave it". let's see how you feel in another 25 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 03:21 PM
9

mostly men, some women Is this just a statement on male thirst; or some genetic argument (probably true too now that I think about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:23 PM
0

Ideology-LMAO . Too ignorant to be worth engaging
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:49 PM
0

Disagree ; even the best LONG TR requires RP. There has to be tension
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:39 AM
1

i'm LMAO at all these convoluted answers. the answer is simple and lies in the question - why does a monkey dance? answer - to get fed. being a dancing monkey is doing anything in order for a woman to "feed" you - "feed" being attention, relationship, SEX. not being a dancing monkey is ordering your life and thoughts around the things in your life that YOU can control. dancing monkey is an allegory for a covert contract the irony is women can sense this covert contract and it disgust them to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:28 PM
1

Not at all ; I have lots of female friends. Always have ; and of course the topics of lovers and sex arises in a myriad of ways. Once again nuance. Any man with any self respect is not going to tell a woman he needs sex because it’s weak and potentially degenerate. “Need” is a very loaded word. OP spent the time to discuss how sex is not a fundamental survival need but a need to have a fulfilling life. Nuance and not assuming the worst of those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:49 AM
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That you believed men asking this question in person is comical; and is illustrative of your arguments online. Zero nuisance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:34 AM
2

no, any accusation of rape or unfounded assault should result in immediate hard NEXT from a safe distance, unless your kids are involved . . . then it get's complicated. Joe Law ain't on your team
/r/askMRP18/01/20 05:39 PM
10

wise, your dick was
/r/askMRP18/01/20 05:33 PM
1

Short men arguably have more chance with above average height women. this is ridiculous. source - me - 5'6" and dozens of women. be short, fat, bald, or loser - pick one but only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:41 PM
1

I mean some women are not low libido And not sleeping around. no there aren't. best case, finding a woman that has a few long term boyfriends. meaning, a woman close to your age, has been with 2-5 guys that she's fucked a thousand times plus throw in 2-3 shorter flings/ONS just because. normal libido women fuck because it's a basic human drive and they can. i'm not into beating up incels; but i think this fixation on n-count is a cope for your own failures in life. i'll never understand how y'al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:28 PM
1

i think the question of how to handle the cheating accusations have been adequately handled, let's take a look at two other issues: I end the conversation with a boundary boundary doesn't mean fuck all unless there is action/punishment right behind failure to ignore the boundary. how are you enforcing your boundaries? She got pissed and called me a "liar by omission", which, in her eyes, hurt her trust and confidence in me. She gave me extensive grief, which I had to put up a boundary, but my ac…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 01:19 PM
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every unhappy wife is a rape victim OP, honestly, the fact that this is even a question shows how far mankind has sunk. get your lawyer lined up, move out, and nuke (divorce) from orbit. you likely don't need therapy. you need to get out and get a better life. history of trauma and has been raped by other men in the past this is an automatic NEXT red flag. damaged goods
/r/askMRP17/01/20 12:55 PM
2

Or versus and ; words have meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:33 AM
0

Usually the operative word thanks for being honest though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:27 AM
1

Some dudes don’t want that and aren’t hoes themselves so why date one? this is great for said dudes so long as they are not expecting a vixen in bed for them. guys complaining that their low libido wife won't fuck them enough/right is just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:08 PM
2

exhibited the quality of being magnanimous the key is withdrawal of it for those that consistently leach value
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 01:04 PM
2

coming here from the alpha side this is illustrative of why alpha is a not an archetype, in terms of putting myself first. i've always been alpha as fuck. doing otherwise does not even naturally occur to me (i've learned to force myself to think of others). on the other hand, i did not have abundance or outcome independence throughout most of my marriage. the guy that has it all, aka "the natural" - he ain't ever heard of the red pill
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:42 PM
2

transparent
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:21 PM
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I’m merely pointing out the cognitive dissonance in men who want women to give them casual sex and then say women shouldn’t be out there having casual sex. in my experience men with this cognitive dissonance aren't actually fucking anyone on any regular basis, ever. it's naval gazing. as far as this post, i luv sluts. sluts that provide relationship value stay, sluts that don't go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:54 PM
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Could you elaborate on your situation? yes, for the first 10-15 years of my marriage, "MY" frame was not a problem. my frame was 100% focused on my worldview and my priorities - literally nothing existing outside of this frame. as you would expect, sex was largely good if not great. however, this was a slow death for her and the relationship because she, and or kids in the early years, were not part of my frame. 15 years late i start to grow out of this "there is nothing but me" frame; and lo an…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 06:43 PM
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I've got or keep grinding away at the difference between First Class and Private Jets i know i'm preaching to the choir; but beware of finish lines. in other words, go for the private jet or some other dragon
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 05:44 PM
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i've conquered my own pothead, but that's not same league as alcohol . . . not even close. i come from a family full of alcoholics; that shit fucks you up in long term ways
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 05:48 PM
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very solid and honest answer. i pretty much have the same perspective, although i'm not sure about recovered alcoholic being a green flag. we say to guys all time time "don't get married, don't shack up; SPIN PLATES". i also tell guys not to do a lot of other things i do, because there not me. most important thing to know when committing a crime, is are you prepared to do the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 05:07 PM
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it's painful to not see your kids. i hope you can resolve this soon. i don't have any personal or even second hand experience in this regard, so have little to offer other stay positive and stoic in regards to the kids. the high ground needs to be your fortress. knowing myself, i'm pretty damn sure i'd be rushing right into another co-habitation/marriage just like yourself. reasons: i like female companionship and pussy on tap. yes pussy is abundant, one that you can stand to be around for more …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 11:34 AM
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It is "all" you need to get laid. In order to have a happy long term marriage you need more. my own personal experience bears this out
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 05:27 PM
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Truly a classic
/r/askMRP05/01/20 09:45 PM
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Practical female psychology for the practical man. The OG text. First though you must realize your wife is a woman ; just like any other woman. Utterly disposable
/r/askMRP03/01/20 08:12 PM
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Knowing a pig farmer really well
/r/askMRP03/01/20 08:08 PM
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Amen , there was a great post on TRP about a 40 something divorced bro. He started spanking 3-4 and then worked his way up to solid 7-8. The point being is there are a plenty of mistakes to be made; stop playing with your dick and start making mistakes and learning from them.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 07:48 PM
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Absolutely
/r/askMRP03/01/20 06:16 PM
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Give me a fucking break - lower the bar and fuck. Nobody starts off squatting plate(s). In other news, there’s levels to this shit.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:59 PM
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It’s a common observation on China / drones. I’ve been reading “Decoding China”; one of the central points is how different non-verbal and basic structures of communication are so different. My point is they may just not understand your cues - but in a Western hotel in Shanghai- that’s some bullshit alright. There bot mentality is apparently a huge problem in every industry. I’ve told my to-be partner that I’m not anywhere as sharp as I was 20 years ago when we last worked together. He basically…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:14 PM
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I lmao at the “bot”. I have wondered on several occasions if WNS runs a sim bot at times
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:05 PM
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'80s back when no one was getting laid all that much this just means YOU were not fucking. no problem with the post; but this is ridiculous. there is no decade, ever, when people were not fucking on the regular. source - me, i'm the same age and fucked all through the 80's; and i'm not a big deal
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:58 PM
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"Hey let's have sex" uh no, straight on physical initiation. you think you're making a statement, but she hears a question. you might not get different results but it still works better.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 02:07 PM
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I will relocate to another country in the next 2-3 weeks, while kids will stay here to finish the school year. So I will get the physical separation that I want, and it will be easily explainable to the children as separation ‘for work reasons’. Eventually, living apart will become the default situation in the kids’ minds, and so the transition will be easier for them. maybe i'm missing something, and it's unfortunate if this a logistical consequence of decisions you already made, but this is ep…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 01:59 PM
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just to be clear are you (or did you) advocating withholding the D because the direction and leadership are not being followed?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 07:24 PM
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There’s a first for everyone
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 10:28 AM
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Alpha as wolf out alpha’d
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 10:27 AM
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guess i was wrong
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:43 PM
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Otherwise she will just keep fucking you because it's all she knows how to do. thanks for this
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:06 PM
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when I started to get redpilled you were in DB whining 2 months ago, just to put this in perspective A couple days later I told her "the fact that you had these experiences with others and not with me is unacceptable. Likewise, the sex is not frequent enough, and there isn't enough variety. You are phoning-it-in, and it stops now, one way or another". sounds a lot like negotiating attraction. on the other hand, a lot of bitches need a heavy shot across the bow. you might be fucking up or might n…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:57 PM
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given your taste - anything by "Highly Suspect" new band but man they fucking ROCK.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 04:05 PM
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Any good MAP focuses on your weaknesses; not your strengths
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 08:36 PM
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Most days I like hard mode (with this one) embrace your internal STFU. going be good days and not so good days, focus on the good. it's when there mostly bad it's time to do something. The divorced mindset-kid thing I’m not sure exactly what you mean? really didn't mean anything, just musing this is a foreign concept to me that I hear about frequently from divorced people.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 08:03 PM
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Six Kids - 7 to 13 yo. i'm confused, these yours, hers, or Brady Bunch? Flirted with my kids' basketball coach, whom I've talked to on tinder before (months ago). It actually went pretty shitty. occupational hazard for you, sure; but in general "the staff" associated with kids is same no go zone as co-workers. i do a lot of risk analysis in my job. one of the mental models is "what's the worst that could happen". if you can't own that, you should rethink your model. risk is never zero. because t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 07:50 PM
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They aren't even vaccinated. da fuck. anti-vaxxers are the stupidest and worst people on the planet.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 07:34 PM
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you're making the assumption that what he says reflect accurately how he behave or really perceives. the only thing dumber than applying this to a woman is applying it to a teenager. my experience with kids, and teenagers especially, you just have to be PRESENT. when the child is ready, he/she will approach the parent. that's when school is open. assuming he's not acting continuously depressed, suicidal, i'd act if nothing happened because that's what happened - nothing but a thot. i've been luc…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 05:40 PM
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All I want to do is tell him everything will be fine and he trust me. I can't. actually, you can. nothing is stopping you from talking, just don't expect him to respond.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 05:28 PM
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She threatened divorce, I said to show me the papers. She threatened suicide, I told her to call the hotline because the next time she said that to me I'd hand her the razor myself. you handled it well. i'd be seriously asking myself why i'm with someone that behaves in this manor; but that's me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 05:02 PM
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Clearly I'm not more interesting than instagram. More work to do. you're putting more into this than there is. she know's where your dick is at that it will be there tomorrow. that is all.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 04:58 PM
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was gave you the only advice there is at this age. do nothing proactively or provocatively, be available, be an example, and be patient. honestly, i think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. 16 yo boys (and girls) are going to do all kinda stupid shit because BF/GF troubles. i branded my ankle with a red hot ankh over some thot at that age. seemed like the right thing at time time, can't recall why. yes it's hard. daughter was "cutting" in the bad days. she did not want my help, in fact …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 04:52 PM
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never heard of this problem with vasectomy. mine was great.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 04:41 PM
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manufacturing plant is located Quzhou, about 2 hours southeast of Shanghai. although it has some cultural significance, it appears to be kinda backwaters city of 2+ M people (hard to wrap my head around those two things in the same sentence). one of my superpowers is that i've never met anything inedible; and i've ate some dubious shit. you're white people stare lol, i grew up a lot in the da' hood. lot's of stares and more than a few "you lost white boy". it's a strange feeling; but meh. 12 wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 03:25 PM
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it's an interesting dynamic for sure, i'll use one example but it played out the same way every time with the conversation playing out over about a week: me - hey i'm going 4-wheeling with a bunch of people next Saturday. it's mostly couples, and I'd like you to go with me. her - no thanks, i'm not interested - non-reason reasons me - ok, i'll find someone else to go her - ok the day before the actual event, her - who are you taking 4 wheeling? me - Sabrina from yoga, i was talking to her a few …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 02:59 PM
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it's a real opportunity which i'm working to not waste, the freedom to make choices with no scarcity. No reason to shoot an old dog yeah, i feel the same way about 1/2 the time. nothing is happening for another year, so i'm just focusing on things that matter right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 02:51 PM
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Are we a online free medical consult now? i'm hoping, not of a lot of advice around from a doctor, with back problems, who lifts anyway!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 02:49 PM
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I’m probably getting laid off sometime soon, but I’m totally cool with that A guy I know (used to work for) has been running a toll-manufacture export business out of China for several years doing about $20 M per year in revenue with essentially zero fixed cost and very low variable. He’s been on/off after me for a few years to come work with him. He called again this summer, and I am most definitely ready for a change. Been a lot of discussions about “dragons” as of late in OYS. I slayed mine 5…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 10:49 AM
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OYS – 12/10/19 Health 5’6” – 165 lbs – 12% BF – 51yo Back to the Bar edition Last summer lower body 3RM PR are DL: 345, SQ: 375, over 18 months ago BP: 225 OHP: 145 No idea what my numbers are now. Have not touched real weights since September. As planned, had MRI in summer of left shoulder (torn rotator cuff due to bone spur), and labrum tear. Had surgery in late September, and he found and repaired a second labrum tear in addition to the typical old guy shoulder tune-up. In different universe …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 10:49 AM
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+1 for nuance required to LTR, it's called hard mode for a reason
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/19 03:35 PM
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Can confirm , I’ve pretty much always got the sex I want .... still can’t stay off my own D. Every man I know well enough to know this is the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:51 PM
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Nailed it
/r/askMRP07/12/19 01:24 PM
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So somebody please help out this fool. basically, you know nothing about women and are very likely deeply unattractive, read the top stickied post in askMRP for the simpleton version of what all is wrong with you. Is it her fault for treating me like shit? doesn't matter, and no Am I an idiot for ending up with a browbeating shrew of a wife? yes, 100% Should I make it work? there is no "it". you make you work. after that the relationship is her role. Should I make her make it work? no, doesn't w…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:29 PM
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when I know deep down it’s not everything I want their a definite yin/yang to personality traits. in other words, when you go for some of those positive things your wife misses you're also going to get some the negatives she's missing. in other news, you can't design people and thinking their is this perfect unicorn out there is a BP fantasy. that being said, in hindsight i can see clearly i went for safe bet dude with T&A model because i had a shitty track record managing more feminine and impu…
/r/askMRP04/12/19 09:28 PM
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since the age of 15 (now 51), never had any problem getting women to fuck or enter relationship. i'm pretty damn short to boot. longest dry spell was 3-4 weeks when wife was about to drop a pup. as others have pointed out, definite past problems with keeping a woman by being to nice and clingy. have learned my lessons the RP way. that being said, over half the women i have banged i met or was "handed off" to a woman i had been banging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:03 PM
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i feel like this will be more important when i have to look down more. right now i'm looking around and upwards for the most part. this is true, but given that this is not your inborn approach it will take some time to cultivate authentically. it's never too early to be a magnanimous son of a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 01:50 PM
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yet another hurdle I need to get over on my journey there is a large part of my life, which will grow to a sizable majority when kids leave / job changes / retires, that for all intent and purpose my wife is completely incompatible and/or non-functional because some things about a person are innate regardless of how much we talk about pliability of women so getting over that hurdle requires me to either convince myself i want a life that i know i don't want. it's really ridiculous if you think a…
/r/askMRP04/12/19 01:40 PM
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CEO is the owner in that case, start looking for the exit and a better job immediately. her peeps know they got their back, and they're likely undercutting you. sometimes it's best not to play. but I need to figure out a mechanism to telegraph that I am interested in leaving without publicly revealing why well for starters, $4 MM is not really a big number so you could go with "looking for better opportunities". also, assuming you can handle it diplomatically, i'm not sure there is any problem w…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 04:17 PM
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that's a lot of air travel, would love some trip reports from the destinations. congrats on the new position and fat stacks. but prefer a softer approach glad your figuring this out. it only took me the first 20 years of my career, so your way ahead of my slow curve. as long as it's not compromising your speed, it's a complete win. i'll point out that as you ascend the power structure people below you become more and more fearful and avoid speaking truth to power. the soft approach allows people…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 03:46 PM
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i'm not in any C-level position; but i'll give it a shot. do you have any bolder options: do an end run (do you have contacts on the board?) and try to get your boss fired? bypass and fire some of these bozos anyway? Sex: Nonexistent, once a month at best. I should have grabbed that girl's number. (you should have taken her to the car and banged her in the backseat) i see a common theme throughout your post. your entirely too willing to put up with way too much bullshit. put yourself first and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 03:37 PM
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focus less on her, and more on be attractive, don't be unattractive
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 02:58 PM
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you're math and approach look about right. it's not that complicated as an employee though. their are "procedures". in my case the payout is one year salary. Extra credit: get hired back as a consultant at the same rate. LMAO, you know the playbook. well over 50% of people like myself that get terminated are hired back within 12-24 months as consultants, making the same money, and similar benefits with an overall cost increase to company since now their is a middleman (i.e. the "consulting" comp…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 03:58 PM
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why does she deserve me? a very wrong way to frame the question. the only question that matters is what do you want, and what are you willing to do or give up to get it. Instead I choose to never know. Because I'm married IMHO, you'll never figure this out by cheating. You'll have to end the marriage and move on to really answer this question. a big bet in the blind.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 03:24 PM
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acunculur you spelled it wrong, but thanks for teaching me a new word "avuncular". this word very much described my position in my wife's family. LMAO And one guy lept to his feet and started an expletive filled rant. you handled it well, and from what i can gather your role/profession is "one of those guys" (aka - a turnaround consultant). i've had a lot of experience over the decades with those guys. my only critique is the need to hide true agendas. i have a hard time believing that these peo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 02:28 PM
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The thing is all the lambs in the room are thinking “I hope this guy keeps talking , because otherwise I’ll have to talk or endure that uncomfortable silence”.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/19 08:29 PM
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Absolutely - both my wife’s family (usually at my BIL) and mine (at my mothers) does this. Funny thing I play bad cop at both - throwing a flag when (usually a woman) wants to bust balls on someone’s gratitude “wasn’t good enough” I was grateful “for not being in pain right now” I find retirement roast to be the most cringeworthy of these types of public speaking
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/19 10:08 PM
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I just assume most people won't give a shit maybe, but probably not. depends on the demographics and crowd at your T-day. I don't accept that some social structure gets to dictate when I'm thankful. we were discussing the other day why the vast majority of men at the pinnacle of society are (or have been) married, ignoring the megalomaniacs LOL. pretty damn sure the majority of those men do not subscribe to the above outlook, at least not outwardly. as op pointed out in the end, there are many o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/19 01:17 PM
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the story of your grandfather is solid. we do this in my family as well, and it's a worthwhile tradition for a lot of reasons. Tell the people who are coming . . . if you're the host or discuss this with the host first. cook should always be respected.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/19 01:00 PM
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LMAO , not exactly a ringing endorsement
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/19 05:29 PM
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sounds like your husky has too much energy. have you considered hooking him up to a sled? seriously, a lot more physical activity and competitive sport. in particular, i would recommend swimming. nothing will wear you out like an hour or two of laps.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 01:35 AM
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kids the most important thing is that you WANT to be father. it's a lifestyle and commitment. it's new highs and in a lot of cases new lows. wife i wouldn't worry about the bi-sexual thing. i know two guys that have your gig for over a decade. issue of MMF has never come up. then again, both of these guys are alpha as fuck. i'd pose the same question as SSS, does she have the mommy gene. does she really like children? also, you should engineer some travel or other tribulations to stress test her…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 06:15 PM
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Have you noticed that there are no single male leaders in the world? i have noticed this, and would like to hear why you think this is. is it a trapping of respectability or normality, or is it that men who chose to be forever single are not in fact grown men and are unable or not driven to ascent to the heights of power?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 06:11 PM
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build map i'm trying not to be glib, but i think regular blowjobs would be more help with your anxiety more than SSRIs. you may want to give CBD oils a try before dulling yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 05:37 PM
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doesn't mean much. just proves that if a woman has a man in her life, she has to deeply respect him and need him to not be miserable. she'd be better off with no one as opposed to a loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 12:59 PM
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Agreed, no one respects a fat slob
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:51 PM
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Yep , I’ve turned attractive on/off/on/off/on over the course of my adult life. You’d have to be asleep to not notice the difference in how all women, including your own mother, treat you differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:03 PM
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suicide increases 2x when 40 year olds get implants? did not know, but am zero surprised. grasping for straws that hard will break your heart.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 06:22 PM
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thanks
/r/askMRP07/11/19 01:07 PM
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I don’t even notice shit tests or comfort tests or whatever the fuck she is doing I just am authentically me. and only then does it really work, authenticity is the keystone of attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 12:38 PM
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some serious clit there. i'd like to hear more about this. asking for a friend.
/r/askMRP07/11/19 12:28 PM
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this gave me a chuckle because someone else concluded, "well i guess that's as hard as my dick will get without aneurysm"
/r/askMRP06/11/19 07:14 PM
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i agree with this; but I think most women have to have a lot of trust in the man before saying "will you rape me" i also feel ya though, sometimes daydream about going back to my 18 yo self and saying "bro you need to beat the pussy up like you own it"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 07:12 PM
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Agreed. She was cheating on her second husband with me at the time. Also a potential factor, we've always had this "i'll be there for you vibe in our relationship" and we've hurt each other multiple times over the decades and always makeup. I think she thought she could get away with, and did sort of. I don't think you are done with this one yet in this regard. Will be interesting to see if she keeps amping up the agression after you won round 1. Watch your 6
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 05:42 PM
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yes, in fact the rule was no hitting in the face at all. my body slam was into a wall, and not the floor. i did not use maximum force, but it clearly took her breath away allowing me to gain the upper hand. she clearly enjoyed it; but never asked for it again. when i inquired she said she had "scratched that itch"; and we banged many times after that. have not for uhhhh 6+ years but we're still good friends. she says "you're the standard by which i measure all men". i've had plenty of very rapey…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 05:09 PM
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man you're just not getting it. it's none of her business, and you should give exactly zero fucks what anyone thinks about it you're making a mountain out of a mole hill, when in fact there is no mole
/r/askMRP06/11/19 05:01 PM
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1/2 of a 5 mg pill. i bite it in half, taste pretty good but i love tart. i find if i take more than 10 mg a day it gives me a headache. my doctor calls em' "male vitamins" lol
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:59 PM
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great post. i have rape role play with one woman over the years, a woman i have known and fucked off/on my entire adult life. we've played this game twice. i can fully attest to: She was 100% invested my experience differed though in that once the struggle got intense she threw the rules out the table and punched me in the mouth, so i body slammed her. i didn't come equipped with all the tools you had. as you say it was very difficult to pin her down, ultimately pinning her head down into the co…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 04:55 PM
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she has consistently said sex feels different and she doesn't like it and has blamed it all on my TRT lol, bitches thinking they have pussy sensing super powers. i have not hid TRT or Ciallis, also didn't proactively bring it up. no surprise, she has on a few occasions. treat all as the shit test it is, agree and amplify is the way on this. you can't really blame a woman for shit testing you on this subject as you are literally taking drugs to man up. my go to "everybody dies, better to burn out…
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:42 PM
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I don’t ; but whether it is required or not depends as much or more on her than you
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 12:07 PM
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I’ve dated girls who don’t verbalize their sexual desires like that 1, she was talking to her GF not a guy she wants to lock down 2, and more importantly the fact that girls you dated don't verbalize like this is 100% a YOU problem and not a "them girls" problem. they sense your fragility in this regard like a blood hound and don't talk. men who don't give a fuck hear this type of thing frequently, especially when your'e the side piece.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:37 PM
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adding to bbj comment on "she sounds cooler than you are" 11 n-count at 26yo for a hot gal is not that high. let's assume she started at 18, probably earlier actually, that slightly less than 2 dicks per year which is pretty standard for "i've had some boyfriends" and not standard for DTF any hot guy. all you faggots concerned about your bitch's n-count, consider the alternatives: she so ugly or annoying that she repulses men she's so hung up religiously that she feels like she has to have permi…
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:33 PM
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why so abrasive in this discussion? no i have not had sex with a man, although i've had sex with men and women together. how can you know what different levels of excitement are like? well, i know what my own levels of excitement are like, and i assume that is fairly transparent to my lover. also two people into each other tend to feed off each other's excitement, so if she's amping up my excitement and being excited that's a pretty solid indicator. if you have a lot of experience with different…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:57 PM
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it's also about the man's enjoyment of the sex and his appreciation of the naked female form yeah, i understood that part too. not sure why you think i didn't. of course, the best is when your totally mentally consumed by your lover. it's almost a form of tunnel vision where nothing else in the room or world exist. A man who watches porn doesn't cum as hard i'd agree with this for a porn addict. i would also say i probably don't cum as hard in round 3 of a tyrst as in round 1. doesn't get distra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:37 PM
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ok, so i read you're "how i know men watch porn or don't". i understood every word of it, and i understand how "typical porn sex" is not good sex from the woman's perspective in particular. the "fingering" being a dead giveaway is true, and made me chuckle. i do everything the "right" way - "right" being she gets her nut. my maturation pre-dates the ubiquity of video/online porn and i would say i was taught from reading "Penthouse forums" other than just self-taught - i.e. being aware and in tun…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:13 PM
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i'd like to hear about these experiments? how can you tell the difference. not asking for a porno blow by blow but please be specific on the differences you perceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:58 PM
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it's a heart warming story for sure. suggest you read some more because what you label as the "main event" is not a main event in any way. more like your own personal "turning point". to the on lookers mystified by the speed of this turnaround, never forget that OP is not operating in a vacuum. there is his wife. the speed of the turnaround is just as much a function of him as her, presuming he actually did the work. she is obviously hungry for leadership and keenly aware of being replaceable. a…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 12:28 PM
2

People I know that grew up on a lean foreign diet or we’re raised in such a “foreign” diet household- dozens. People that after being exposed to western fast-crap food started eating that way regularly- zero (including my own kids). These people think a Big Mac is “disgusting” when you haven’t been raised on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:16 PM
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Gross , I don’t eat processed food from boxes if I have a choice
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 06:06 PM
1

ewww no
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:45 PM
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Works better when you can be self critical too underappreciated sentiment. without this part you're just douche dumb fuck, not that douche dumb fuck doesn't get laid on the regular
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:39 PM
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Do not let anyone ever fuck with you again. i would add anything to this description. i find the attitude "tomorrow i will rise and kill it" gets me through so much. No failure, no financial problem, no fucking nothing has hurt me like losing sight of my pride, my integrity, and my self-respect. the devil in the details is do you or others define self-respect, really? once it's you it's up to you and you alone how you define self-respect. for me that's about winning - achieving whatever i set my…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:31 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/user/SBIII, i'm with B_R here. at the end of the day, winning matters the most. only you know the details; but at the end of the days winners are remembered and losers are forgotten. there are a few historical exceptions where the great won by losing; but it's rare and their mostly dead as a result.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:17 PM
2

And self immolation Reddit style . I’m convinced the problem with the youth of the nation is failure to fail often at a young age. That and insufficient beat downs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 01:32 AM
4

Think we found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 12:06 AM
2

Don’t want either, but honestly not sure which is harder to raise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:47 PM
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but I don't give a fuck about those people right on, 75% of 8 billion is plenty to work with
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 04:03 PM
1

My personal experience disagrees with you. i'm impressed, no /s. your personal experience is of course a result of your frame. i thought as you did 20 years ago. while i still believe i'm incredibly persuasive (my track record proves); i've also learned their is a sizeable minority that are not buying it at all. You don't think your average person could understand that a ton of people treat marriage as a finish line personally, i've come to the conclusion that the majority of people are comforta…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 02:53 PM
1

others have no right to judge you aside from action of staying or leaving. not sure why you're putting up with this years later. either she gets over it and moves onward and upward or she GTFO
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 02:06 PM
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it's all good except this Finding chad would be like striking gold right now. stop fantasizing about other people solving your problems. chad has no interest in your fat boring poor wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 02:01 PM
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from this comment; i'd advise you that you have a huge blind spot in regard to how persuasive you can be in IRL with the general public. the vast majority of people have their mind made up before you "frame" anything. self awareness, much less being open to an argument outside of the paradigm, is incredibly low among the proles. can't wait for you to get involved with the PTA or like organizations.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 01:52 PM
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the answer is obviously both, i'm with rpg on this one, thinking you can do a thing is not substitute for actually doing a thing EVER
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 01:42 PM
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so passive aggressive; you can't even take feedback on the internet from randos. it's really no wonder your marriage is as you describe. not a wall of text btw, not even close. a wall of whining, yes. let's talk about power? and who you think has the power in the relationship? this one is easy. "i have the power" her: blah blah blah, you "i have the power to leave"; and get up and leave. this is the summation of power you have. if you're unwilling or unable to exercise it; then you're her bitch.…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 12:59 PM
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My work at the moment is to continue to internalise and apply what I'm learning. Facing up to the fact that this marriage might be over and I need to get my ducks in a row for that. Visualise alternatives and lightly planning in other words, navel gazing. your work should be the sidebar (check you're reading) and lifting (fail, no mention). get your ass into the iron temple or fuck off. occasional meet ups you do you bro, but i'd be putting a PI on that. as you tell the story, i'd say >50% she's…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/19 11:53 AM
2

i think what your missing is contained herein
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/19 05:14 PM
3

Even then you may fail. That’s the point. Except failure now and understand what outcome independence really means
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 05:55 PM
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I am anxious because if I stop trying to make an effort then it's over. two things, you have no proof at all as far as i can see that your effort is working. definition of stupid is doing the same thing and expecting different results. second, you know that a great many wives will not turn around until their convinced you believe it's over.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 05:01 PM
2

1% of wives cheat - LMAO. Some people will believe anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:32 PM
2

+1, LMAO
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 01:08 PM
4

just so you know, salty pendantic is not attractive to women. it screams "try hard"
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 01:00 PM
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in answering a question like this, my first thought is "am i wasting my time". in other words, are you being a pedantic salty retard (wasting my time) or you're just a man-child retard genuinely asking this question. a quick review of your post history (ROFLMAO btw); yielded the answer in this statement from your wife: “I need time in between sex to build up to be horny”. you see, when a woman is really into you she will DEMAND that you "fuck" her for hours . . . like 4-8 hours. "fucking" is mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 12:27 PM
2

Having trouble with the concept?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 10:32 AM
2

this is the money shot Because these data were collected over time, the authors were also able to assess the reverse possibility—that declining marital satisfaction was predictive of less sexual desire. However, this was not supported by the data. in other words; attraction cannot be negotiated The authors suggest that women’s sexual desire may function not only to facilitate reproduction, but also to enable pair bonding. if only it were so simple, IMHO - women meme a personality that is not tru…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/19 12:23 PM
1

no. 1 search for married red pill on google; but you knew that. algorithm my ass
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/19 05:33 PM
3

Circumference
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:35 PM
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Could there be an innocent explanation sure, the most obvious one being that she has installed worked related app (Outlook for example) that requires routine passcode change. cell phones and social media is the work of the devil. i know because my middle name is Satan. i'd never be in a LTR/marriage with anything less than open phone/SM policy. i'm not suggesting you snoop her phone, but it's a tool and she starts hiding her special hammer . . . there's a reason. the fact that your conflicted ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 04:12 PM
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You’re not as smart as I gave you credit for. Oh well never mind
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 09:13 PM
1

Good answer, keep it up. Make sure you getting involved in some clubs/activities/scenes so you can learn to extend rapport deeper, and more importantly to break rapport
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:56 PM
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but money doesn’t factor into your SMV came here to say the same thing, but If your using money as a lure, you’re fishing the wrong way. once she gets to know you, much less LTR/marriage agree 100%. however, i think money, and more exactly an expression that you actually live the "lifestyle" that money affords is a major lure . . . especially with 30+ women and on-line. mind you it's just bait, and you have to establish your not just beta bux quickly. tldr: every woman want alpha-bux your though…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:39 PM
1

Because I'm battling social anxiety. this word suggest you're doing something about. what are you doing about that
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:36 PM
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thanks for the advise. I would find some HGH and hop on. any ideas on where to start. i'm not queasy about needles like some guys (lol), i switched to injections in January and love it. i am queasy about injecting myself with something from "questionable sources". Now I realize it is all evolution of myself. no argument here. i'm coming to peace with "a difference in values/priorities is sometimes just too great to overcome the fact that you get along just great"
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 01:27 PM
3

calibrating FLAIR
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 01:15 PM
2

You need to be prepared for that. TRT ends as many marriages as cheating does, if not more. Once you really start feeling like a man again physically, forget about it. I think there is considerable truth to this, and even when not pushing 1000+ levels like you, The naysayer would say "hey dumbass, you took these drugs, fucked up your head and nuked your life . . . don't do drugs". On the other hand, combining "that old risk taking, belly full of fire masculinity" with "wisdom of age" seems like …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 01:11 PM
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the 80/20 is incredible. is this based on some pay me now versus later formula; and how you got out of alimony?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 05:42 PM
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Gotta say I don’t understand what you just said at all
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 01:02 AM
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Not so much unwilling as not designed to: her upside is you’re available to move furniture and her downside is you kill her. Orbiters orbit because they’re weaker and smaller than what they’re orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 10:27 AM
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A pedantic and meaningless difference relative to the actual decision
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 10:11 PM
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i found this to be an odd question. how do you not interact with women, their like everywhere. looking at from the percentage of time i'm interacting with other people, about 1/3. work is a pretty male centered operations (petrochem); but plenty of lady folks around. i spend lots of time with wife. then there is kid/sport/school stuff which is choke full of women. i have a few lady friends that i'm not actively trying to fuck. yoga is full of women. like i said, they're everywhere. I mean how of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:49 PM
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I make my own privilege; and lots of it. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:05 AM
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Yep , I was 15 . He got picked up less than 30 minutes later . Police took my statement and never heard about it again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:36 PM
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Have you ever seen a woman hit at home or in your friends/family? no Have you ever seen a woman hit in public? Did you pull out your hero cape and jump in? Did someone else who wasn't required to (bouncer, cop, etc) and appeared to be a stranger to the parties intervene? yes, no one punch and she was laid out Do you think, on average, men are stronger than women, both for dealing or taking damage? average man is way stronger than average woman, and can take more damage Have you ever lost your te…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:05 PM
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Logistically, things were difficult when are you going to stop telling yourself this matters at all. unless you or she was out of town the entire week; it's total bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 01:05 PM
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that was a lot of words about your feelz, for which no one other than you care about and you care too much. it's not complicated. when your wife serves you dinner, you might be appreciative but that does not make your dick hard and want to fuck. no, it's her tits and ass and demeanor and the way she brushes up against you. just replace those things with how physically imposing you are, your frame, and they way you game her. not being the man (plow horse) of the house can definitely fuck up your …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 07:41 PM
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you're commenting to the OYS bot, not the poster. learn to Reddit ffs
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 07:36 PM
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why should it?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 10:59 AM
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Because your not your own point of origin and seeking validation
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 04:55 PM
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never provide comfort unless it's asked for, although the asking is seldom explicit but implicit through body language, tone, and demeanor. then provide just a little. you providing comfort when it's not asked for her is actually you seeking comfort from her, and your hamster telling you the opposite. nothing dries up pussy like a man seeking comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 04:11 PM
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DeadsandSushi a woman that used to post here. it's a compliment IMHO. on the one hand i agree with you. i consider myself a successful MRP, and i basically skipped DL8-10; and just fucked the THOTS. my dad always told me, never pull out a gun unless you intend to shoot someone and never shoot someone if you don't intend to kill someone. in regard to "negotiating attraction"; you're applying your man thinking to a woman. DL8 is about secondary attraction - it's a woman thing, not a man thing. DL9…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 11:11 AM
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it's telling that you think any of us want to convince you of anything. it tells me your a special snowflake that thinks he's the center of the universe because that's how he was raised. no one cares about you. you reap what you sow.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 10:51 AM
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i provide comfort... wayy to much comfort answer this question - is she explicitly asking to be comforted? is she seeking you out for a hug or comforting words?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 10:18 AM
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solid as fuck, Whisper says the same thing right here imho, dread game is the only way to elicit "desire" although it's just as likely to generate only "willingness".
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 07:32 PM
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Wife clearly knows I'm plating. i'd like to hear how you know she knows That's a sign I should probably do something new. yep
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 01:03 PM
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the hug is to comfort https://old.reddit.com/user/MightBeNiceGuy
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 12:59 PM
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it's not really humanely possible to look away
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 02:41 PM
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nah, i'm cool as a mofo. anyway you can lawyer out of the 70%. you're more dedicated to your kids then me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:39 PM
1

This is NOT TRP act like a bitch, get treated like a bitch is definitely TRP. nobody owes you nothing is definitely TRP. yes, women (and men for that matter given the opportunity) will cheat for no other reason than "muh feelz". meh, onto the NEXT one. Half of marriages end in divorced yes, but divorce rate in first marriages probably peaked at about 40 percent for first marriages around 1980 and has been declining since to about 30 percent in the early 2000s as far as the rest of your "how so",…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:07 PM
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What's your point? a solid plurality if not majority of people have not had, by your own account, such a shitty experience with the opposite sex. so assuming your experience is really that bad, and that your experience (excepting your EX is off the curve) is not actually normal and you just see it as this bad - there are three possible explanations: you have terrible luck, lol you attract and/or select for shitty people you drive good people away, and they do what you perceive as bad behavior, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 11:29 AM
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You nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:05 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:00 AM
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The key to living happily with a man is to lose the expectation that he'll be just like you and will care about the things that matter to you, and accept him for what he is and enjoy what he actually brings to the table. can't argue with that; but They simply don't care and don't even notice if things are kept tidy. is not true. lot's of bros are tidy and some to OCD level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:54 PM
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In fact the only thing I could see that they had in common was their number of chromosomes ngl. the most obvious thing they had in common was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:44 PM
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i was going to go with murder, but sure there's an old saying of which they're are many variants "if it weren't for pussy, they'rd be a bounty on em"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:47 PM
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there are several good post on MRP and TRP about vetting. my issue is/was not vetting. wife is a bangmaid of the highest order. at 50 still very attractive, very classy, solid worker/earner, not a cheating whore, never deadbedroom, fucks me like a champ now that i got my shit together . . . and she's pretty boring. like cam; i think it would not be an easy thing to replace her, nor her $2 MM nut. so not poor vetting, but rather poor understanding of self. i thought i'd be able to change a woman …
/r/askMRP13/06/19 01:48 PM
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that's why we're not TRP sidebar
/r/askMRP13/06/19 01:33 PM
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it's hilarious; because it's how slow people play. dancing around the thing for days before doing the thing or walking away.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 11:26 AM
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agree that profusely sweating makes you feel way better afterwards. it's really amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 11:22 AM
1

taking loans to pay off other loans sounds like an incredibly bad idea. downsize everything immediately. your ship is sinking; and it's time to unload. as far as the rest, i don't understand why you put up with it and i'm tired of beating a dead horse.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 11:12 AM
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yes, maybe different woman though
/r/askMRP11/06/19 06:27 PM
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She was just being flirty. agreed that you played that one correctly, it's a woman's slow burn initiation and it's up to you to keep the embers glowing through the day. flirting through the day then closing at night or when the kids are out of the way. It was a big deal for me to take the step - glad I worked through it. if you say so, bro. your flair really does work. when i was plating i would meet for a low key day game date just to meet and greet; but any date in a hotel was basically me clo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 05:37 PM
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philosophy come close before or since you need to get outside of your own belief system more, none of this material is original or novel - Greek Stoicism and Eastern religions to just name a few. If a divine being didn't write it, who did? men smarter and deeper than you. just as there is always a man faster and stronger than you, there are also men so much more intelligent that you are unable to even comprehend their thinking. the need for people to think that they, or their particular belief s…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/19 12:54 PM
2

point of cruelty pretty much where i'm at. it comes down to you can't expect someone to conform to your unicorn vision of a woman. in other words, you can't design people.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/19 11:32 AM
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How about the classic pressure flip? "Why do you think that?" thanks for this, probably the best answer and has the virtue of being simple. i've never tried this in this situation so definitely will give it a whirl Let her dig her own grave hmm, she's more likely to smash me over the head with the shovel as to start digging a hole for herself. i don't get this very often, once in the last two years after a rash of it post DL12. however, over the decades her playbook is always the same. she'll fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/19 11:29 AM
1

Depending on the circumstances; this might be the right approach
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/19 01:44 AM
2

Grocery store is great
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:35 PM
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probably one of the most important lessons, or changes in mental states, i have learned in MRP is to either say what i really mean (and be congruent) or STFU and let my actions talk. still though this is a tough call, on the one hand, it's just a comfort test and you provide the comfort and move on knowing you left an opportunity for her to do better on the table on the other hand, it's a shit test to see if you're really man enough to clearly state your values, and by failing it you're showing …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:56 PM
2

Is that true?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 01:01 PM
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gonna come at this from a couple different angles. first, upon reading your post i had the same thought as MitW about your lifts and overall improvement. it's kinda "meh". it's been proven by many that getting to that next level of size and strength has limbic impact on female tingles. on the other hand, i don't subscribe to the idea that you have to be a fitness model to get fucked by your wife or any woman for that matter. only you know if MitW critique that your looking for your participation…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 11:52 AM
1

Which is why it can't be stopped. who wants to stop it? it's the most hilarious part of MGTOW, the idea that anyone gives a fuck about MGTOW. i think it's great. men who have no business reproducing - not reproducing. also, these men are a solid net positive for the economy. keep up the good work prole.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 11:18 AM
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"you know, I don't think you would have chosen to be with me if you had the option now" what was your response?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 11:12 AM
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god, or gods for that matter, fails on the simple test of what is the least plausible, and most convoluted, explanation for everything - god what is the most plausible explanation for god - man
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 11:09 AM
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puerile you might be more careful with the words you use, lest the irony overcome your pedantic machinations designed to validate your own belief system. religion is about power, and most acutely at the personal level. faith is a surrender to powerlessness; and it is this same powerlessness in the face of forces and fates that man does not understand and cannot control that drives the need for a higher power to which surrender is required. Galileo, Copernicus, Newton stop digging, now you just a…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 11:07 AM
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If there is a God there isn't. always fails me how any RATIONAL man believe in the sky god. pure projection Her response to the dread so far has been underwhelming. either she doesn't believe the threat is real or doesn't see it as a loss.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 04:51 PM
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IMHO, the need to label or categorize oneself is a clear indication that you have no frame and are not your own point of origin. to quote Popeye "“I am what I am, and that's all that I am.”" to quote myself "I do what i want, that is all"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 02:21 PM
1

She knows I’m unhappy with our sex life (she has known this for a long time) but I think this is the first time she’s seen that I’m willing to upset the status quo in order to change it and to make myself happy regardless of what she does. all she's seen so far is you talking issuing ultimatums. i'm with MitW, you're negotiating attraction. but ok, your put the shot over the bow. from now on, actions not words. step off the starfsh and say nothing. when she ask, don't make a speech . . . just st…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 02:11 PM
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you're lift numbers are really strange and weak. strange in the sense that your DL is way too high for the squat. what program are you running. are you lifting to failure? da fuq is going on? Planet Fitness back in February LMAO. if you can't be more serious about your life than this, just fuck off. Just started Androsurge and adding Primasurge with it. cursory Google search on these products indicates marketing and junk science. TRT for dumbasses. at 48, get your T checked in a lab and proceed …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/19 12:59 PM
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don’t all these labels just add up to “turbo slut” aka fuck anything you want Whatever floats your boat but your approach seems centered on validation by others - not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:49 AM
1

the point you think I want to prove is proving itself the point that's really being proven here that guys that do not see themselves as ugly can fuck. true story, i had this French studies abroad roommate one summer in college. this guy was probably 5'8" (maybe), skinny, and legitimately ugly . . . . and , he fucking slayed. i would purposefully go out with him to wingman, pickup his leftovers. he had the accent and he was confident.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:51 PM
1

Short , fat, or bald - pick one but no more Assuming your not deformed or to picky yourself , I think the window for acceptable male facial features is very broad Also , be a winner not a loser
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:16 PM
1

not sure about ugly, but short af - 5'6" on a good day. also have a huge head - like the largest helmet available fits snugly. i'm 50 and my longest dry spell since 15 was a few weeks, maybe a month when wife was prego. i've been jacked, fat, jacked again, fat again, and finally jacked again. jacked/fat = pussy on/off for short guy
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:22 PM
1

This is the correct attitude, and the one incels are missing.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:18 PM
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That last part is key. Everyone wants what they can’t have
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:24 AM
1

Slang for trophies
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:22 AM
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One the best descriptions of frame I’ve read. Also explains why psychopaths have such great frame
/r/askMRP26/05/19 12:27 PM
2

Probably, depends on OP and his wife. nAWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 03:54 PM
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All women can be mounted
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 11:32 AM
0

Lol , I’d like to see this discussion. It doesn’t exist anywhere but in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 01:06 PM
1

Staring down the business end of kids starting college choices. the two most important parts are: where will they succeed (as opposed to what's the best school) and how much will it cost. unfortunately, the cost is about as transparent as a sheet of drywall. you have to pick some horse and ride em' to the bitter end to get the final answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 12:18 PM
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Glad someone else gets it
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 07:04 PM
1

correct me if i'm wrong, but your not that old/married long and most importantly an like ManInCharge you never really showed her your omega/beta side for years?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 01:41 PM
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i'm disappointed that homos are downvoting this response. fact is that it's a possible explanation. not a very probable one; but light years from unfeasible too.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 11:20 AM
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I’ll come back to this post tomorrow; but I want to leave this right here https://reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/baxqte/the_thing_you_really_want/ Hey Reach I’m back in the MRP saddle. First some housekeeping, the above link is to the TRP comments. Here the link to the original post. Second, thanks for making this post. You pretty much summarize what was rolling around my head for a few weeks after the “The Thing You Really Want” post. Not going to sugarcoat it, that post from Whisper was a 2x…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 11:17 PM
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you're making great progress. keep at it, all. I cave manned her because I wanted to orgasm, maybe I should have walked away but I chose not to. you did what you wanted in that moment. don't second guess yourself. also your priming the pump about as hard as you can. if her engine doesn't start . . . not your problem. the thing you really want
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:55 PM
1

solid analysis. like a bratty kid, any attention will do, even if it's punishment
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:44 PM
2

the irony of your new flair kills me
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:42 PM
1

Wife: "your sister buys our kids shit cheap gifts" i get this type of stuff sometimes, my answers range from: "so", "yep", "huh", "i know", or if i'm feeling frisky "you should call her and tell her to stop sending us shit" the point being IDGAF, and it's not my problem ever notice how the sexiest most powerful guy in any movie or story is almost always the least talkative until something important needs said, aka "the strong silent type"
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:41 PM
1

you kids and your new fetishes. now i'm really interested. i'm with red. teach us your Jedi ways
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:33 PM
1

PFP is a great read. Very informative, actionable, and my favorite part you can tell authors really love women for everything they are and are not.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 05:23 PM
2

😭
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 01:37 PM
2

E3D ???
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:55 AM
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Build your inner game. Be willing to take a risk. getting in early to answer the question "but, scurve how do". the answer is be willing to fail. you'll quickly learn that you can recover from any failure that does not kill you; and that failure just doesn't really matter. You wouldn’t believe me if I told you I had a good college educated girl want to get tied up and fucked with a knife. i'm assuming this was rape-play?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:50 AM
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behold the power of the interwebs
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:46 AM
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Do you think it is possible to convert a "normal" woman? if you really have to ask a question that is this ignorant, there is little hope you could ever handle such an arrangement
/r/askMRP10/05/19 11:45 AM
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I've been analyzing it for days and mulling it over in my brain and I just don't know what I could have done better. fuck, i lmao on this entire post. basically, Bambi learns water is wet and is appalled. appalled i tell you! I'm clearly still beta bucks listen dumbfuck, every woman everywhere wants Chad with a side of beta bucks or beta bucks with a side of Chad depending upon the individual woman. all women see men as a resource to be extracted, even the strong independent ones. the key to suc…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 11:24 AM
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Start living you’re life as though she doesn’t exist - hard boundaries when she’s being a cunt, start dating other women secretly or openly, or divorce her. Tactics don’t matter much as strategy which is live the life you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 03:57 PM
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Doesn’t take a doctorate to know which one you want to be either
/r/askMRP09/05/19 03:11 PM
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The part where you actually jump in the water over your head. When you do and learn that you don’t drown, you’ll figure out what it really means to not be a scared little bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 02:53 PM
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I know the answers to this, it's like i have something to prove to myself. that's what you tell yourself. truth is FEAR. you're a scared little bitch; and get treated like a bitch accordingly I know that someone will be along soon to tell me to bang strange to fix it but I'm not there yet. whatever, act like a bitch get treated like a bitch. oh yeah, go fuck some strange I invited the wife out to lunch, it wasn't fun she bitched about everything. ......blah blah blah keep dancing monkey. the onl…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 01:17 PM
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Athol had a heart attack do fat things win fat prizes
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 12:49 PM
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I never really understood how upper dread levels were not negotiated attraction. i agree, and it is not unanimous among mods/EC as to whether these are useful tools at all. it has definitely worked for some men, and not others. it's often said in both here and in general laws of power discussions, that issuing an ultimatum is inherently done from a position of weakness. i agree with this; but in a lot of cases i think it's worth the effort for "reasons". you do it once. terms are met or conseque…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 04:43 PM
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I don’t really think marriages are good for maintain sexual attraction, specifically for all these reasons. well duh, that's why it's called hard mode. like almost everyone ever, you want to have your cake and eat it too. sorry, that's a bluepill dream. the greatest lie of the blue pill is that intimacy and romance are the same thing. they are in fact, opposed to each other. i have come to peace with the fact sex/romance with this woman i've known now for 30 years is never going to be the same (…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 02:56 PM
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you sound boring
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:50 AM
4

blowjobs >>>>> "i love you"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:49 AM
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i've run this play multiple times. it always backfires. i give her comfort when she comes to me asking for it. otherwise, i give her the dick and stay aloof. it pains me to say it, but being an asshole most of the time appears to be the most effective strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:45 AM
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I did skip some dread levels and didn't "follow the plan step wise", but hell, I needed to take some kind of action for myself and do something to rattle the cage and move the chains forward those comments were overwrought. you went through 1-6 just fine. as far as i'm concerned what you do after that is up to the man. you got attractive and put yourself to her. she had her opportunity. after that point you play the game for maximum gainz as you see fit. may not have been taken seriously and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:41 AM
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45 years old other than her money, you're utterly wasting your life and time on this bitch. i'm with https://www.reddit.com/user/SBIII, 99.9% of woman have an inner slut. maybe you got a 0.1%'er. doesn't matter because the chances of that changing for you are like 0.1 * 0.1% or 1 in 100. yes good sir, I'll put my life on black six except odds on black six are 1 in 36. like i said though in your main post, slay some before letting her go but just please drop the delusions that she's ever going to…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:26 AM
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Haven't noticed a theme though. FUCK, you're slow. FEAR is the theme dumbfuck
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:16 AM
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I’ve made an effort to bring back the beta activities that went missing before “the event.” i'm not sure what you mean by this. beta is providing comfort. either way i'd be very careful with setting up an quid quo pro in either of your head's in this regard. it should be something that oozes back into the relationship rather than comes rushing back in a a result of her spreading her legs. lot of reason i'm sure you can figure out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 12:15 PM
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I try not to read too much into it but I've always thought motherhood was her get-out-of-jail-free card for poor girlfriend game and funny that it seemed to be her immediate reaction. i lmao hard on this one. yes immediate reaction is always closest to the truth IME. however, i doubt she sees it that way at all. rather, "i've reached the stage in my life where i enjoy being a mother more than a GF (to this man or in general . . . i'll let you ponder; but not too much)" She actually skipped part …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 12:09 PM
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I don't believe women have a rock-bottom to hit as men do before something kicks in and they feel the impetus to change i agree 100% with this observation. i don't understand why it is that way beyond - solipsism and "i must be the victim" of something.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 03:35 PM
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had people stumbling over themselves to include me in their groups. It amazes me to this day, and it keeps expanding and getting better. yep i've noticed that too. am on opposite end of it. buddy and i run local chapter of our state kayaking club. anyone of any physical merit shows any interest and we're basically on them with offers of "here use our gear for free", you need a ride, etc. it just a fact that 95+% of people these days do not want to do anything. it's sad Spent a couple of nights a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 03:32 PM
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Instead of getting high I would read the Bible not a dig on you specifically, but I'll never understand this not uncommon leap. it's a thing, but just seems ridiculous to me. i've met more than a few of these types, and then they have a common air about them - flaky . . . as in seeming very sure of themselves but faking it. I think she bought a beta plowhorse on purpose because that’s what she wanted. assigning way too much agency to what is essentially a child, which i don't normally apply to w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 10:40 AM
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regression to the mean you're missing the point. yes, let's hope your mean does not regress to it's previous state; but you need to understand that not every bang is going to be awesome. the average should go up, but around that new higher average you're still going to have some knock your sock's off super nuts and some so-so-so "i could have had a latte" instead of bangs. expecting an LTR to perform at the level of a new relationship forever is just being ridiculous, or if that's what you want …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 06:45 PM
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Wife actually asked me first, so we got into it. first off, i'd really like to know what got her to ask. given your description of her and the marital dynamic seems really unlikely she initiated the conversation out of the blue you seem aware of this; but just in case the only thing this exercise in negotiating attraction accomplished was assauging your feelz when you cheat . . . which i don't have a problem with (the assauging). you gave her notice that she get's the first shot but not the only…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:38 PM
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thick always does the trick
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:14 PM
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It was our anniversary week. She did nothing for me. I got her flowers and a simple card. Made plans and took ½ day off from work to go out. She made an excuse she didn’t have time to get anything. Just like my birthday. I cried like a bitch in private. Guess she isn’t attracted to me. it's a long story, but i bought my wife a diamond ring for her anniversary this year. it didn't even occur to me that she did nothing for me until i was reading your post this morning.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:12 PM
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one of many reasons we're always saying "stay out of your woman's mind" Men, pretend you're the brazilian helicopter pilot so your wife can cum. if this is happens once in awhile, and she gets her nut off it . . . . i really have zero issues with it. i've been known to replace my wife with her sister in my head while i'm fucking my wife. on the other hand, i don't do this a lot and i don't have to do it to bust a nut. if you have to do this kind of thing all the time, you're doing it wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 02:22 PM
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teaching women how to enjoy sex after having been alpha widowed ewww, gross
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 12:43 PM
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boy that was depressing to read. she's grown ugly as fuck and sounds miserable - muh victim just drips I talked to him about it, and of course I gave him a chance to look at the whole book. In the end, he didn’t change anything about that chapter. at least Bill didn't DEER and apparently knows how to STFU. Bill clearly has his mission(s); and it works for him
/r/askMRP25/04/19 03:47 PM
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some people don't give good oral, period. some people are just lame if it's important, find someone that can suck
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:54 PM
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My experience is clearly not average and I’m ok with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:47 PM
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I'm amazed she could sense my frustration with literally no external signs not amazed at all. in fact this fits female standard operating procedure to a T. you were actually set to get some somewhere else, and were therefore actually outcome independent and not needy. this is what fires up the bitches, a man with options. now figure out how to be that man 24/7
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 11:44 AM
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don't know if you took some writing courses, or it's spill over from your IRL coaching; but the "counterfeit" you writing style is much improved
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 11:33 AM
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I’m saying your survey results are bullshit you probably made up; and only someone with no actual experience in the subject matter would believe these results. I’ll wait for your citation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:15 AM
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It’s one of many reasons, all simultaneously, don’t be pedantic or simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:46 AM
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“Locking down” doesn’t refer to you fucking other guys or not, it refers to a steady source of sex for the husband without him having to go through the effort of wooing a new woman. Of course, nothing could be further from the truth than this male view of love forever. It’s much much harder to keep your wife attracted to you over decades than to seduce a new woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:36 PM
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I don’t base my life or desires on survey, but I do know what satisfies me and what doesn’t So what you’re saying is that couples that have more than average sex are less happy. You’re either not married or just not very bright, and at a minimum should avoid discussing anything of a statical nature
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:29 PM
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I wouldn’t refer to once a week as dead , but yes very unhappy. Personally, I would divorce in those conditions unquestionably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:06 PM
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it's a strange thing, yes their is the meme of the old married couple that sleeps in separate beds and presumably never/rarely fucks. on the other hand, i do not know a single man (esp. young men) that doesn't view marriage as "locking the pussy down" among other virtues. in other words, "i'm getting married and mid-life i look forward to a near sexless relationship" said no man (or woman i'd presume) ever. so yes, EVERYONE presumes it drops off from 10 times a week but NO ONE presumes it become…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 06:45 PM
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i'm 50 and married how common is a dead bedroom? totally dead? less than 10% . i know 3 who claim to have not had sex for years. they're miserable, only staying together for kids or money. on drip feed? 1-2 a month, over 50% guys that are otherwise happy in their marriage but feel like they don't get enough . . . the other 40% only 1/10 claims to have pussy on tap. these men are what you would probably call assholes and cads. in other words, treat em' mean to keep em' keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 06:33 PM
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The only place I'm getting close to you is Overhead Press. yeah, i'm a little weak there because left shoulder needs a rebuild. i had to lay off OVHP last four months of 2018. got a cortisone injection in January which allowed me to move back up to my PR (145) but the shot is wearing off, and i won't go over. see doc next week when i'll get another shot and schedule my MRI. will lay off OVHP though through summer to save shoulder for wakeboarding. plan is shoulder surgery at end of summer. witho…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 04:11 PM
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Girls i think this might be the operative word. i see a lot of endorsed/vanguard/scion of Brodin bros in TRP basically saying i got this stable of top shelf plates that don't mind sharing. for the girls riding the cock carousel, i can believe this and those girls got their plates too. for married women, i can see it too. you're the side piece, and she don't mind sharing quality meat. for single women (i.e. greater than roughly 28 yo), per Rollo's schedule of mating i don't see it at all. i'll ac…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 03:02 PM
1

Hey , I’m a hopeless romantic (RZD told me so) for women not fetuses
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 02:05 PM
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“Anything outside my worldview either dosent exist or is a source of bemusement.” credit goes to WAS actually, but yes i luv this frame so did the dog stay with you or not
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 11:37 AM
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lighten up bro, and enjoy that sweet sweet poontang my biggest advice is that you try to maintain a mental position outside of yourself observing your feelings and actions, but not in a judgemental way. just observe. if you have not already, read "The Cave" by Plato. enjoy it and take your thoughts slowly. you're like the man who has wondered through the desert for a month and just now got some water
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 11:26 AM
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Olympic level bro. wouldn't go that far, abs are barely visible now at around 15+% BF SQ(345), DL(295), BP (225), OP (145), ROW (165), one arm curl (45). all 5/3/1 working weight except DL and curl (8), not max. i don't fuck with max and i intentionally keep my DL low with 5 reps every set (volume) because of historical lower back issues. bone structure/mass makes a big difference in comparing people. my shoulders are as wide as my dad who is 6' tall. have had comments on large my hands/ankles/w…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 11:00 AM
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gantt chart or GTFO
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:50 AM
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not sure even a high value man gets to have his cake and eat it forever this is the conclusion i've come to.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:47 AM
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think you nailed it here. like i said, this will all be over in the fall when you D is done and she figures out she's not shopping for a white dress.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:42 AM
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+1 on the haiku it would be totally normal for red to not have enough mental bandwidth at this point to allow for creeping desire, or he could just be a psycho retard
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:37 AM
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fucking is easy. bitch management is the real game
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:35 AM
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I believe I should stay that course and just be a full time Chad. so long as that's what you want, knock yourself and the pussy out. It all gets so boring though. but, you've shown multiple times your somehow conflicted in this regard. i don't thinking fucking new/hot girls gets boring. i think sorting through all those ho's to find one that you would want to see at all, even harder more than once is boring and tiring. you've also complained about the time and effort it takes to keep even 2-3 pl…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 10:33 AM
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Agreed, I’ve had two of mine aborted. 10/10 would do again
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 07:38 PM
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You're welcome, btw 10 months sounds about right for getting bored. you'll probably make it through the summer and she'll drop you in the fall. not that you should care; and i know you don't. back to old fishing hole for a new fish
/r/askMRP23/04/19 07:13 PM
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huh, thought you were lot smarter "Blah, blah, blah, you are annoying/" she's saying some variant of "fight me" or "fight for me" (aka prove you luv me) and you respond with "meh" "fight me" is easy, basically "so am i; but what are you" or agree and amplify. "fight for me" is more dangerous water's because you can't deer or supplicate for real. you can supplicate in jest, which is my go to in this case. basically, "your so wonderful, i can't figure out why you keep me around, oh yeah the big fa…
/r/askMRP23/04/19 06:20 PM
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I still worry about hurting my wife. fuck bro, i know this hamster so well. you're so worried about your wife's feefees that you won't take action now and cheat; but you're not so worried about her feelings that you'll give her a big speech about how you might someday nuke her whole life from orbit with a big fat D-bomb. you're not scared of hurting her feeling, you're scared of hurting your own feeling/interest. But maybe that’s the point. excuse me? what's the point now?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 06:03 PM
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I just think abandonment is her big fear/anxiety point. so if this is actually true, her actions tell you that she is confident you either can't do better or wont' do better. i'm not really sure that women distinguish the difference or care
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 06:00 PM
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I'm personally anti abortion. for your kids or other peoples kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 05:50 PM
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i once witnessed two women, both intelligent and very level headed, bitch to each other about one's husband has to pay alimony/child support to his POS ex and the other one bitch about how her POS husband won't pay his alimony/child support. much support, zero irony detected
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 05:49 PM
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a classic
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 05:45 PM
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But I'm ready to stop and accept the consequences. you really don't sound very ready. uh . . . the consequences. your wife can be replaced by many many other women, not a consequence. your kids, there's some consequence 50% dad. your money, 1/2 of that is gone too. at least be realistic about the consequences. this will come out of nowhere for her really really unlikely. like WNS says, women aren't stupid. she knows you're not happy. it's just not important enough for her to do anything about, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 01:03 PM
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Kindergarten nice work captain.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 11:41 AM
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why STFU is the first step only. the next step is to own your thoughts and actions wholeheartedly; and actually be your one and only judge (read WISNIFG, and learn all about it). my go to answer for any "why are you" shit test. "i feel like or that's what i want to do". i give no further explanation, and if she persist i rapidly pressure flip and start asking her why she isn't doing it if appropriate, or A&A and start making absurd reasons as to why i'm doing it. point being "I AM DOING IT". btw…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 11:38 AM
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coasting you hit it right on the head here. coasting = death of soul.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 11:30 AM
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i'm with you, BAN HIM, BAN HIM, BAN HIM, BAN HIM, BAN HIM,
/r/askMRP23/04/19 10:26 AM
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videos where someone puts tape on a cats paws to the interwebs ..... lmao. i'm not trying it though, cat's have good memory and are naturally vindictive
/r/askMRP23/04/19 10:25 AM
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Can the experienced guys tell me if I flipped her on switch? hysterical bonding. you're ACTING like a man with options that is looking for the exit ramp. What do I do to keep it on? stop acting and actually be a man with options that has one foot out the door at all times. in other words, actually do all this I even made up goals and guidelines for myself, workout and career shit. and, then their's your hamster 5'6' 170lb, not fat, not cut, I work construction i'm 5'6" 170lbs and am cut. i also …
/r/askMRP23/04/19 10:18 AM
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Or is this the dark side of the long road of beta behavior? this mostly, but i will say two other significant factors are: cultural acceptance and broad knowledge of the Duluth model - police come to house husband is going to jail if he lays a hand on her, no matter who started it more importantly honestly, the increasing portrayal of women asserting dominance in a masculine-physical manner in movies and TV
/r/askMRP23/04/19 09:58 AM
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I accompanied Babysitter to her first prenatal appointment. She’s about 10 weeks along. lol. i missed that you knocked up the Babysitter. why isn't she aborting? Babysitter was equal parts amused, annoyed and offended by my insistence for testing if you read her right, solid chance it's yours I can’t say I felt immediate kinship with either of them half of my good friends, i didn't even like when i first met them
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 09:46 AM
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muh nut you stupid bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/19 07:25 PM
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because most of the time it's just a token resistance to see if you're man enough to just take what you want from her. a big part is also convincing herself that she's not some slut that just gives it up to every Tom, Dick, and Harry. it just happened because you were so special
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/19 02:58 PM
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demonstrate >>> explicate every day with everyone
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/19 10:50 AM
1

Same as pulling weeds in the yard. Every year I gotta do it. as much as i hate weeds, i like this analogy. taking it a step further, the place i move into next will have no yard or someone else that does it. fuck the weeds. Paradoxically the older they get it seems the harder they are to get, too. all per Rollo's schedules of mating.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/19 10:50 AM
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either i never grew up or have narcissism down pat, because it's a daily struggle not to just go be a care-free boy every day
/r/askMRP21/04/19 12:56 PM
1

57 better later than never. seriously, you're probably in top 10 for oldest in MRP being freshly red pilled. relative to your age and back strain, be very careful with a progressive weight lifting program. you definitely want to get into some serious mobility exercises - yoga and related. there's been some recent good post in 60 DoD; but research lifting for strength and mobility. I had written a victim puke letter to the wife about our lack of physical affection much yet sex on a constant basis…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/19 12:28 PM
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I hope this is just a blanket statement. it's not I doubt an arbitrary age changes that. it will. it's not arbitrary though. it depends on the kid; and to a lesser albeit still significant level the parent(s) the relationship will change a lot as she moves into her teen years and then again more slowly as she transitions to an adult. this is not to say she's going to turn into a raging cunt-monster but you will be removed from your pedestal. Guess I will know in a few years. you will indeed
/r/askMRP20/04/19 02:29 PM
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oldest daughter (11) the time when your daughter will follow any lead is almost over. lead yourself first, then your wife . . . your daughter might start following when she turns 19-20
/r/askMRP20/04/19 12:03 PM
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Would you scorch earth if your LTR cheated yes. just because i can do something doesn't mean you can. life is not fair, and i'm ok with that.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 04:14 PM
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reading that dried up my vagina so bad
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 04:07 PM
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not even a slight worry she would cheat on me or anything one of the strongest tells that OP has no sidebar, or is just retarded
/r/askMRP19/04/19 10:38 AM
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Agreed. If you study that sub-group, you will find they were already in a position of being a valuable man. All that was missing was exertion of authority and DNGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 04:19 PM
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more on the boiling frog analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 01:11 PM
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this prognosis and advice is correct 8-9/10 times. however, worth noting that there are a fair number of guys in here for which their wife purposefully bought a beta because they want a beta husband (not necessarily lover) for REASONS . . . that don't matter. in that case, she has to go
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 12:33 PM
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Do it for the manlets. yeah, lol
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 10:17 AM
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all worthwhile women have orbiters. nothing to see there if your leading and she's taking care of you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 03:16 PM
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now you're speaking sense again yep, that's a real bummer. probably not totally safe anywhere, but at least i don't live in NY/CA - apparently the our two dumbass capitals hopefully, the man will crack down on this anti-vax bullshit
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 03:15 PM
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what’s the actual process for enacting that change? let me repeat myself, to you, for the upteenth time. EXPOSURE pick some things you are afraid of; be they physical endangerment, telling your wife no, telling your wife to suck your dick, whatever. do that thing, endure whatever flack results, wake up a day or weak later and realize you can't even remember that bad feeling. rinse and repeat while steadily escalating the stakes. I had way more fun this time around. two possible, probably conflat…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 12:36 PM
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But do any of you guys have a take on why she's doing it? for starters, stop asking why and start sexting. i don't mean send her dick picks. the visuals are for you. send her short text that setup a sexual narrative (note there are many narratives). sexting game is the easiest because it's at slow speed. as to why? nobody, and women in particular, do nothing in a vacuum. she either read about it, saw it on TV, or most likely her friends were talking about their sexting escapades and she want's a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 12:30 PM
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importance of ego death are often the same guys who preach irrational self-confidence i recommend are large heaping scoop of both. maybe it's just me but it's completely obvious how these two things work together
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 12:23 PM
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normally you speak sense; but this is completely incorrect other than being careful to not whip their head around the first 6 months, there completely portable. so light too, even with the plastic carrier (with the cool forward facing handle) it like carrying around a case of beer
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 12:14 PM
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Still, it was an incredible experience - mostly because it reminded me of what's possible. you sussed out that optimal logistics make for optimal experience; but have you considered that this also applies to your wife. when was the last time you dropped the kids off at grandmas and went on vacation with the wife alone. note i'm pretty sure this won't be a panacea; but at least you'll determine where the high water mark is with her and you. also worth noting that the lack of fear, because there a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 12:07 PM
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nice work overall plating maybe it just a pet peeve of mine, but plating means your dick went into one of her holes. anything else is someone orbiting someone
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 05:23 PM
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there's some good reason for the saying all's fair in love and war
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 07:11 PM
1

It's worth noting there were many skirmishes in the conflict, where we would each go back to our corner after another round. i did not drive the conflict to resolution through words, i just kept on taking over more and more. action is what wins the battle.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 01:24 PM
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That’s what I did. In my frame, I run the finances. She can either choose to be a part of that or she can choose to leave. I’ll be fine either way. It was a watershed moment for the “relationship” when she figured that out.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 01:09 PM
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not so much. at some point, you're going to have stop bobing and weaving and start trading punches like Rocky who clearly doesn't give a fuck about getting clubbed in the face. Wife: what are you doing? Me: finances Wife: why are you doing that, I have done it for years. (Mouth noises, C4 landmines being set) Me: i want to, now you're not then just fog on that fact. for me it wasn't a debate or an opportunity to A&A. it was a hostile takeover of the company. frame: anything outside of my worldvi…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 12:41 PM
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Sorry, that can't be summed up in less than 2 sentences. However, I do agree even having to ask this community for advice is beta to begin with. it's obvious from this post that you have no idea what you're talking about. here you go: Alpha generates tingles in a woman; and beta generates comfort for a woman. Neither is bad; and both are required for successful LTR. You coming to this community has nothing to do with you being beta or alpha. It has everything to do with the fact that your action…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 12:17 PM
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he's actually pretty beta in your view; but obviously not in her view. tell me in two or less sentences your definition of alpha and beta
/r/askMRP14/04/19 12:00 PM
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The male hamster is hard at work with this one. nailed it. OP is a pretentious cunt, even by the standards of AskMRP. i lmao in almost every paragraph on the level of delusion he's applying to this thot and himself. OP is the walking example of the Bambi-Natural that is seduced and consumed by a woman and spat out
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:57 AM
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Can you elaborate? you see yourself as alpha, whatever, in regards to your post it doesn't matter at all. it's all relative, compared to her drug dealing/torturing people ex you're a cut little puppy. all this talk about how she's telling you your alpha, normal people with normal intentions don't talk like this. she's playing you like a fiddle, dumbass
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:53 AM
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Here is one of my biggest challenges. The wife has always managed the finances. you're getting a lot of good advice from SBIII; but just wanted to chime in you'll never be "the man" without controlling the treasury. develop a plan that has an endpoint of you being in complete control.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 11:41 AM
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I want to improve asap some guys come in here that we're really alpha back in the day and just got fat/lazy/boring, they start putting work back into their life and shazam life improves ASAP. you're most definitely not this guy, so kill the idea that your life is going to get measurably better ASAP, because you're going to have to grind. I have a good looking body, and 5'11, 150LBS, 11.7% well your not fat, and probably good looking when dressed. however, you're an inch taller and 5 pounds light…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 11:34 AM
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yo mods, just wanted to report a broken AskMRP post. OP says he can see it; but it's not in AskMRP as far as I can tell. i'll get back to you later OP
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 01:31 PM
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your link is to a removed post
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 12:47 PM
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that i know. probably doesn't apply to OP but in my experience A woman who wants to be fucked, but also wants to withhold it NOW in other words, a woman/wife will often "flex" her power for no other reason than "muh feelz" or to demonstrate agency
/r/askMRP12/04/19 11:43 AM
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A woman who wants to be fucked, but also wants to withhold it. Genius line and so true. not that i'm arguing at all, but why?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 11:06 AM
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did the Cut your shit thing on askmrp link is to a "removed" post? i'll get into this more when you respond with the cut the shit post. honestly this OYS is ALL OVER THE PLACE . . . like you sound schizophrenic
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 11:02 AM
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our situation will remain the same after we get married. L O fucking L. nothing remains the same EVER. the real question is can you own yourself and your action in such a way as to properly manage the change; and have you vetted properly also - your woman has agency too, never forget that
/r/askMRP11/04/19 07:24 PM
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no one cares why, the world only gives a shit about performance
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 07:17 PM
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fair enough on not scared she just wanted to be carried. could be, more likely "i like my dad's attention, or let's see if i can manipulate dad" someday when you have a boy, you'll see how different the dynamic between father-son/daughter and mother-son/daughter is
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 07:14 PM
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boy the Ritz looks sweet, didn't know about this. grandkids seems more appealing now. totally agree on the sentiment. Disney/Orlando is one of those things, Vegas comes to mind too, if you're going to do it . . . do it all the way. would also add to always, ALWAYS, buy the fast passes. guess i'm just a dick, but i love looping people in line.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 02:01 PM
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Shit is shady as fuck. lol, yes it is an incredibly bad deal by any measure. my stepmom (and by association father, although it's all her money) is into Wyndam big time. she's a CPA and seems pretty smart. feelz over realz all the way. back in the day wife and i used to go on free time share trips all the time. good deals, and we had this inside game/joke where we would try to get the salesman mad enough to lose his shit or kick us out of the talk. there breaking point was usually when wife woul…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 12:26 PM
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username finally explained . . . lol
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 04:15 PM
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I need guidance on this. well first off, keep your foot on the gas. in other words, keep withdrawing attention until she has moved into your frame which is presumably "we fuck". second, initiating is not rocket science or calculus. pick her up and carry her to the bed. jump on and jump in when you feel like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 11:37 AM
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glad to hear you escaped alive. sustained a Stage 2 Dislocation/Separation of my right shoulder from the BJJ tournament not that i'm glad you got hurt, but whenever i read something like this from an older guy it affirms my decision to stop that silliness - in spite of the fact that i loved it. i'll have a lot more time in just a few more years. what's your thoughts on fighting sport least likely to generate injuries? and the kids (which I have custody of) whoa, great news. she rolled over or yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 11:29 AM
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weight it the most obvious issue. be more specific on what your going to do about it
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 11:20 AM
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I treat my dick well ; and my dick treats me well. Stop making it so complicated
/r/askMRP06/04/19 08:35 PM
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Was the prolapse also the cause for no sex prior to the surgery
/r/askMRP05/04/19 08:02 PM
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the first worldwide recession huh? yeah that worse than normal, but meh. recessions are like the perennial of the economy. they come and they go; and will forever. i would agree that marriage loosely and household formation in particular are tied to economic activity. fuckery though, nope. fuckery cannot be negotiated. the cause, to me at least, is glaringly obvious: social media in general and OLD in particular. just as globalization of the economy increased the propensity towards a winner take…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 12:37 PM
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it's an excellent point, and several years ago i made it a point to tell people this exactly when asked to do something this is not a priority for me i have more important things to do and lastly, i don't want to do that
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/19 12:13 PM
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Can’t be greedy on the ready
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 06:22 PM
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A nice 2000 3 bedroom pad with zero yard with exposed concrete and HVAC preach it brother
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 04:09 PM
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even when it crosses into another season-sport. what i told my son. on the field the ref is god. don't fuck with him; that's the coaches job story time - listen up [https://www.reddit.com/user/ImNotSlash](ImNotSlash) when my son was around 11 (guessing) we went to a soccer tourney. second game of the first day, we got this ref that for whatever reason just had my son's number. he's always had a real knack for drawing fouls from other kids (he ain't afraid to trade a lot of paint while steeling t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 02:53 PM
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well written DNR check, got it. the real problem i see is these take forever to die degenerative diseases . . . alzeimers, parkinsons, etc. my mom thinks i don't know what i'm talking about; but to me lead taste a lot better.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 02:49 PM
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sadly, it's not even close to the record
/r/askMRP04/04/19 11:07 AM
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dying happy, or even just content, rather than suffering. yes this is one my goals. experience indicates to do this with any degree of certainty though requires one take his own life. again, short of the large caveat above - most elderly people i know are severely deluded, often to very ill effect on themselves and everyone around them. so . . . . going out with beautiful overseas bride who nurses you into the grave so she can then step over your body with all your leftover cash and prizes does …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:03 AM
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Either will work but leaving is best. Keys to not go Rambo don’t ignore her or hide from her when your home, just don’t seek her out and give her your attention you should already be building a busy life outside and inside your home . You’re not avoiding her as much as you have better things to do then hanging out with loser bitches Ramp up slow and steady. If you raise the heat slow enough the frog doesn’t know it’s being boiled
/r/askMRP03/04/19 10:39 PM
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related
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 05:27 PM
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Letting him fail is really really really fucking hard! that's why you get paid the big bucks The gym thing was simply me not wanting him to get hurt. I'm dealing with my own very minor injury and I'm pissed. I don't want him ripping his bicep off. Overprotective? Fine! make sure he is in a rack or has a spotter and the weight is secured. at his age, very unlikely to get hurt. I'm not ready for my son to grow up. you sound like a woman. your feelz don't matter and will make the situation worse. i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 03:13 PM
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Having trouble finding a way to enforce boundaries with live in LTR. there is only one way to enforce boundaries. remove your attention. if this is of no value to her, then you have your answer.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 03:07 PM
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confused 22 year old for all but he sharpest, redundant she does hide her phone sometimes and is VERY, VERY protective of it every time I'm anywhere near it at a minimum she's entertaining a flock of orbiters. good chance she has a side piece. she's become a lot more confident but at the same time she says things like "I know you want to break up with me" or "I know you don't love me". i've seen this movie several times. definitely has a side piece. she has her hand on a new branch and wants to …
/r/askMRP03/04/19 03:04 PM
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what's the p-value on these stats. asking for a friend
/r/askMRP03/04/19 02:58 PM
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die happy goals
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 02:53 PM
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i getting the sense listening to this report, that you're having a really late start in actually being a father or you just suck at it or you don't suck but you're having trouble adjusting to teenager phase in any event, understand this. everybody everywhere every time whats to do everything on their own terms. period. now when your with another adult, they feel and are empowered to just do their workout or stop fishing or go home whenever they feel like it. your kids probably do not naturally f…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 12:21 PM
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I'll never understand the guys who have increased libido and yet turn down sex. Yes, I know it's duty sex, but you can go caveman and get yours at least. yes. plus if you can actually fuck, a lot of times what started out as duty for her ends up being really good for both. focus on the nut grasshopper.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 12:04 PM
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definitely some sample selection in effect a girl losing her shit like this is a major red flag in my book. what's she going to do when the ref red cards her kid?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 11:55 AM
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you're a smart guy, so i assume you understand you and Rollo are in violent agreement. i don't have SnapChat; but yes some pics on FB/Insta generate DM within hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 11:52 AM
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"I'll read whatever the fuck I want to. correct frame barbell platform fixed that correct medicine suggest you outline your biggest weaknesses (fat+drunk) and make sure your MAP is targeted to fix the biggest issues
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 06:17 PM
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daughters and mothers, always a fountain of red pill truth, because they can be
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 06:11 PM
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all i can say is, lordosis position made my day we're all just a bundle of water, flesh, and neurons
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 06:33 PM
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Available data is based on genetic testing non-paternity events , not survey results.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 06:01 PM
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You reward your wife with your time and energy, you punish her with the withdrawal of it. when done consistently, this works so well. even though it's kinda obvious, i'm often amazed how effective it is
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:56 AM
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Why do you think that is? successful bros like to breed, AND CAN
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:54 AM
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the answer is always in the arc
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:52 AM
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in France, you could be right. the "tryst" is point of pride in French culture. everybody wants to be player, until it's time to do player shit . . . . lol . . . like raising someone else's spawn also, people's hamster on 23andme/ancestry not being accurate for paternity. maybe this was true when these companies started, but nope now. their technology is more than adequate now to determine paternity. also, there's a fair amount of stories about the uncle actually being the father.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:39 AM
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if you want see more of this stuff, go to the 23andMe or ancestry subs and search "non-paternity event" or "NPE" or my favorite "mom lied" word to the animals that haunt this sub, don't be red pilling or trolling these sites ffs. also worth noting the obvious, probably a high level of sample selection bias in people that go on reddit to emote about their results
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:35 AM
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Yes, that's why i think it's 40-50% at a minimum. no study has ever found rates even close to this high. rates in the 30 are about as high as it gets, and this is only for certain groups of people
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:31 AM
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in the US, there are also huge disparities by race, education, and wealth . . . shocking i know
/r/askMRP01/04/19 11:29 AM
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Yep and France is well known for very high levels of cheating. The genie can’t be put back in the bottle though, Spanish companies doing brisk business on mail order
/r/askMRP01/04/19 01:17 AM
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really replying to this post for the larger audience because you and your post both look gay as fuck on a general tone level, the way you discuss your daughter as though she was another plate is gross as fuck and you'd be smart to refrain from this frame of thinking. i'm going to assume you're an autistic faggot rather than a pedo; and point out that a lot of what TRP teaches is true for all relationships and not just sexual relationships so to answer your question: you cannot negotiate attracti…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 01:24 PM
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but I figure it's contributing to the huge disparity in my lifts there is no disparity because your not actually performing a squat. that hard part of squat is stabilization of all that weight in all three dimensions. not saying that machine is bullshit, just saying you should actually squat too (with a lot less weight btw)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 11:04 AM
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15% BF. Bench 155 X 5, Squat 110 lbs x 5 are you still working the SL progression or you failing yet? deadlift? monk mode because I will not take duty sex not a fan of married monk mode; but your owning it and it appears to have done you some good I continue to struggle with my verbal diarrhea. explain? i did not see examples of DEER in your OYS. throughout this OYS, i think you're over-analyzing your own game. do and say what feels right to at the time; and give zero fucks. it's necessary to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 10:58 AM
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Do you think it's about the words? Think again. It's about how you say ityour actual inner dialogue. Nothing else matters. nice work bro
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 10:23 AM
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username checks out
/r/askMRP28/03/19 02:24 PM
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at the heart of these deep feelings of incongruence and shame is not knowing yourself and what you really want in life. also, learn to comment correctly. you commented to your own post
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:22 PM
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you got it half right. only the awesome can handle AWALT. the rest hide behind it.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 02:16 PM
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they call it "fishing" and not "catching" for a reason. if you don't like fishing, you ain't going to have any fun
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 12:42 PM
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My main issue is her doing things behind our back that she clearly knows are not allowed. on this we agree, you drew a line in the sand and she crossed it. consequences have to be incurred or your line is meaningless. but you need to understand that at 11, your lines are going to become increasingly meaningless. instead of ruling by dictate your going to have to rule by narrative (like with any other adult). in other words, make sure she understands the consequences of her actions to her (not yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 12:39 PM
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I am curious as to why some of you instinctively yell “sidebar!” well to sum it up, "you know nothing John Snow". in other words, you may have read it be you internalized nothing . . . . starting with the most central principles - "you are your one and only judge" and "you are the prize" and it just goes on. what you missed in the sidebar is most everything. your comment to https://www.reddit.com/user/SBIII is the most ironic of them all. one of the main reasons to post in OYS, in particular whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 11:48 AM
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you're playbook after getting caught was pretty much the worst possible playbook. see also "don't do the crime, if you can't do the time"
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 11:40 AM
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I feel like it is more accurate to say low SMV women tolerate affairs from alphas yep, or to put a finer point on it . . . women without better options
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 11:30 AM
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Some topics and perspective still apply. of course, which is why provide OP the advise he was seeking Of course some of us aren't stupid enough to ever marry the only reason to get married is to have and raise children. you obviously want the best genetic female material and character that your SMV affords. we all agree that marriage is a contract that favors the woman. given the "best genetic female material and character" has agency why would such a woman raise children in an arrangement that …
/r/askMRP28/03/19 11:25 AM
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winning is always easy, it's the losing part that changes the stakes and characteristic of any game or enterprise.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 11:13 AM
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Why risk it, far as I can see. i didn't really know what risk was until i had my own kids at 30. at 16, shiiiit i ate risk and cummed excitement
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 05:05 PM
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What do you count whiskey dick as? yeah, you fucked her and assuming you just couldn't finish you probably fucked her pretty good. now that we got that out of the way, back to your post Leave retreat affairs as retreat affairs this is the nut of your entire first paragraph that she instinctively knew, and took you a few months to figure out. you took each other for a tryst, and she got her fill but was willing to sign you on a full time orbiter. likely, you ruined future lays with this woman in …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 03:13 PM
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You've been trying to rationalize it for months. totally agree. the stronger the mind the stronger the hamster required to override it. i knew he'd figure it out though because that splinter in his eye wasn't going anywhere
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:40 PM
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I don't even check on it anymore once your RP aware and have sufficiently stripped away your ego, you don't need to check because it'll be glaringly obvious if it matters at all
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:34 PM
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i didn't go that far because telling kids these days to not send/receive nudes is the equivalent of my mom telling me not to sneak out the house and fuck Cindy in the backyard on the picnic table. just be smart about it is my advice. it's an interesting question i don't feel like googling (hello NSA/FBI) - is underage to underage nudes a crime? i'm sure it's been tested, and i'm guessing the results were mixed
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:30 PM
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Disclaimer: I am posting to a married RP sub because we are effectively in that kind of relationship. i don't mind you posting, but i LOL so hard every time someone says live in GF = married. that's like saying my nephew visited for a few weeks and now i have kids. no you don't. you're not married until the ink is dry and the judge is standing next to you with a gun pointed at your head . . . then you're married. she wants you to shoot the puppy. go forward with your plans without her. go minima…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 11:29 AM
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Tried, failed, but I'd probably try again in the future. just to be clear, did you fuck her or did you not?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 11:19 AM
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flair checks out hard
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 11:12 AM
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Daughter did something she shouldn't have done on the phone we let her use. would like to hear what exactly she did and how old she is. maybe i'm too liberal; but i tend to look at the cyber world the same way as the real world. i did a shit ton of things i either shouldn't have or at least my parents would no want me to be doing as a teenager. mistakes were made and lessons learned. just because the cyber world is more transparent to us doesn't mean we should look. my 16yo son turned on "icloud…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 11:06 AM
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we old timer i know always, "who the fuck is we, you have a mouse in your pocket" point being, in most things either i'm going to do or you're going to do it. I is for initiative. The we is in execution assuming they follow I.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 10:57 AM
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hey dumb fuck, there's this old saying for a reason "it's always easier to find a job when you already have a job"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 08:34 PM
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maybe i'm just not alpha enough, but pretty sure this is the operative word tolerating i'm not really into "tolerating". either get on the boat or get fucked
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 08:32 PM
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Sounds like you got it figured out. Now execute. So many levels to STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 06:44 PM
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at the end of the day, i don't know how you can fuck someone your not attracted to. if you ain't fucking her, there isn't any point in being with her. seems pretty obvious.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 05:37 PM
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whenever, i feel any sense of ego/butthurt i STFU. sometimes that means STFU and just answer the question. Just don't feel like it because she's been a huge bitch. never thought about it this way, but i guess this is a silver lining of having a high libidio (horndog or sexmonster as my wife calls me) i'm never too mad/upset to not want to bust a nut
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 05:33 PM
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She just constantly talks about how "gassy" she is. just to be clear, do you mean flatulent or bloated or both? check your diet woman. "Look - this relationship is not meeting my need for sex and intimacy. We need to do something about it." aka "negotiating attraction". if you want to actually communicate what you're going to to about it, replace We need to do something about it. I'm going to look elsewhere. and, then do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:48 PM
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first, nice work with the brevity. IMHO, your mission statement is too subjective. in particular, Become the best version of who I am. who are you, and are you happy with that? if not, is becoming the best version (subjective as fuck btw) of it what you really want emotionally available to everyone I encounter without ego huh? no one is without ego. why not just be emotionally available? this does not equate to emotional tampon her asking you were you're going is not a shit test. the first A in …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:39 PM
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not that you need my validation, but +1000 on your approach here. failure will always be the most effective teacher
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:30 PM
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lol, i recognize that writing
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:28 PM
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from you're OP However “success” has always seemed to track with the ongoing downslope in physical attraction. Leading me to the sneaking suspicion that I am in fact also a dirty validation whore. so onto that nuance around your rather cryptic first statement. looking for validation will certainly be a turnoff; but could be that you were over-communicating details, not leaving enough blank space for her hamster to feel in whatever drama she sees fit. lastly, to state the obvious just because the…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:26 PM
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Full sister, four step sisters, six step brothers, one half sister, and one half brother. I got the family bush instead of a tree. lol I'm tight with my sis. More like a uncle to my two half's. Tolerate the steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 06:47 PM
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The struggle for mental acuity is real
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 02:25 PM
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maybe we just have completely different worldviews but i LMAO at your youthful naivete, and lack of understanding on sibling dynamics (if i remember correctly, you're an only child?) sibling different in age like more than 10 years are not playmates-best bros. the relationship is more akin to an aunt or uncle. not saying there isn't a strong bond; but there is no comparison to sibling separated by 2-4 years (optimal IMHO). on to the naivete . . . you will not have the same energy in your 50's or…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 11:00 AM
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wife gets pissed when I hire maids.. lots of hamstering reasons. her feeling are her's to own. of course she gets pissed - you just outsourced her. assuming you're not digging yourself a financial hole, the solution to your problem (your house is a mess and kids not minded properly) is blatantly obvious hire a maid/nanny and your wife's feelz about that are her problem. again though 9 weeks. give it some time; and make sure you have the value to demand value. when you do hire the maid, consider …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 12:28 PM
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“I ask no favor for my sex,” Supreme Court Justice says. “All I ask of our brethren is that they take their feet off our necks” you may find this RGB documentary interesting. lol, on Rolling Stone, who obviously didn't actually watch the movie, or can't correctly ascribe a quote anywho, it an enlightening and fairly even handed look at second wave feminism. it's a subject i'm conflicted on. on the one hand, muh daughter and mother (from whom i heard real life "the man" keeping the woman down sto…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 12:19 PM
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can you outline their cost structure, including the meds
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 08:37 PM
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SorcererKing said, You need to strike the balance between setting boundaries and enforcing them vs. just going Rambo. and, asked me to check your rambo. after reading your original OYS above, i can see why. what stands out the most - week 9 i guess your a voracious reader to suck down that much sidebar in 9 weeks, but it's possible. i figure you been working your physique for a lot longer because that type of improvement is not possible in 9 weeks, or am i mis-interpreting the 9? Attraction to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 08:33 PM
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How will I know when I am? when you get there it will be so obvious. focus on the now
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 08:12 PM
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Username checks out
/r/askMRP22/03/19 03:15 PM
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and i thought i had the one and only true snowflake. it's really a toss up between the chicken pot pie and the sex as to why i stay edit - true story. several weeks ago son and i came back from ski trip, wife and her sis had left the day before to deal with her parents. wife was to be gone for almost two weeks. few days later i was whining to a couple friends that i missed Ms. P. they said, and i quote "what no chicken pot pie and BJ when you got home? welcome to our life!" (they're both married…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:01 PM
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Got anything more for him? not really. never had this problem. my woman owns her shit to the max. to extent it is a problem, i have the opposite problem. we all know a wife is not attracted to a husband she does not respect. the degree of ownership required to maintain respect from such a woman is not for the weak or easily tired.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:21 PM
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if you have that first sentence, the vast majority of people want be lead by such a man the only power is over yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:16 PM
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I haven't crossed the line of no return lol. you're not going to Mars on a one way rocket. maybe i'm just an amoral sociopath but there is no "line" from which i cannot return. feelz come feelz go. Why haven't I been able to create my slut? let's break it down be attractive/don't be unattractive man are you getting IOI from other women. have you played some catch and release, flirting . . . and had to release. in other words, do women in general find you attractive? if not, go back to step 1 abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:59 PM
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The last two sentences is a preemptive DEER. "our family" goes because she needs to internalize the standard
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:36 PM
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Is frame something that gets flipped on like a light switch when you finally have this rock solid world view and confidence to back it? Or is it something you can exercise, build and grow? both. there are moments (epiphanies) where your worldview changes to more accurately reflect reality, who you are, what you need and want and the difference between the two, and what your priorities for these often mutually exclusive wants are then there is strongly do you actually believe this worldview, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:30 PM
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half brother and sisters is not the same thing. i have very possible variant except full blood brother . . . not from another mother at least
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:14 PM
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maybe i'm not the best source because i've never had bronchritous; and maybe i've been sick enough to not go to work twice in almost 30 years. wife/i/kids are genetically gifted in this way it seems. but, allergies lead to inflammation and drainage in the respratory system. seems like a big open sign for infection
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:13 PM
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he's referring to Steve. it's not all about you bro
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 11:38 AM
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And if that's the biggest challenge in my life... life is pretty cushy. agree that is your biggest challenge. find that i spiral to lame head space when i don't have some challenges. The only thing I'd want is kid number 2 hope you do this. 2 is 4 times as much fun as 1. also, i think you do a serious life long disservice to your kid by making them an only child. thanks for the tip on MTT, sounds interesting. are you involved in any IRL games. i'm in two poker groups and occassionally go to hold…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 11:15 AM
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More smart ass, it’s good. totally Tossing in the towel on barbells, gonna focus on other things. i would not go that far, but yeah you should research strength+mobility as opposed to strength only
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 11:03 AM
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Every year during spring, I get a bout of acute bronchitis. start taking allergy medicine now. generic Zytec is the best (for me)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 10:57 AM
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I've only met one woman who answered that question with wife. like i said, no surprise there all my plates were mistresses because i'm married. Also, every woman knows that being a wife is boring. Being a mistress is fun. and yet to a woman, they want to be married or at least someone's LTR. to a large extent, the point of dread is to make your wife into your mistress. pretty sure we agree though it's a weak facsimile to the real thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 10:54 AM
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fair enough, you'll be a foreigner playing a concert in a rock band. if you can't work that into some local poontang i don't know what to say
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 10:48 AM
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Every night with me is date night. this so much, our new favorite date night is grocery shopping. game her, chase her around the store, on and on. when the boy is not home, good chance for sex on kitchen table
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 10:44 AM
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No doubt it’s a great opener because it’s filled with tension; as she’s torn by competing emotions in and the various scenarios upon which her answers would differ; and of course it’s rise’ because your implying she might be a cheating whore Sometimes I think you use this statement-question in an odd way though, which makes me think one of us has a hamster. If you ask a woman would you rather be married to this loser or mistress to this winner ....duh mistress. If you ask a woman would you rathe…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 08:38 AM
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You know that this question presumes she has no other option, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 08:04 AM
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Yes I was assuming wife , but wanting to win is the key. Even in that case; I’d assume unmarried is better since there’s more in the table to win
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 07:42 AM
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i've followed InChargeMan story pretty closely, and at first i was tempted to buy his assertion. less so after some more thought. the question hinges on how you define hinges on how you define "the kind of sex". trying to think of the right word; the best i can come up with is "submission" but i think there is a better word. having experienced it on multiple occasions in my life i would describe it "her giving everything she has to the point of being someone she is not" in order to have you. it'…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 12:49 AM
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Defy Medical OMG. i'll be investigating this service. i have a very cooperative doc; but state pharmacy laws really tie his hands. i also agree with your assertions on training for strength. i haven't suffered injuries as a result of weight training except for a strained back muscle once in many many years. however, from the standpoint of optimal athleticism in water sports being "bigger" is not really an advantage.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 12:25 AM
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Already got it from my mom
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 02:49 PM
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i'm going to assume you're not in a western country, where rates of oral herpes are significantly lower . . . but yeah you're hysterical and badly misinformed. read this and educate yourself. 50-80% of the adult US population has oral herpes.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 02:31 PM
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lmao so hard. this is great. mom gave me such a gift (mouth herpes)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 02:28 PM
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water, and people mostly, always follow what appears to be the easiest path. it's why being a top 10% man isn't really that hard
/r/askMRP20/03/19 02:21 PM
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great check-in, i concur with it all, especially: Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Lift. STFU. Sidebar. (this is the program guys, don't make it into quantum physics) pretty extreme infidelity on my part, and it got exhausting Guys, if you're over 30 and your T is below 600, get that shit taken care of. (yep, aim for 700. switched from Axiron to injection in January and am loving it. i inject 1/2 every week instead of whole dose every 2 weeks. much less variation in energy level; and sticki…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:40 AM
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Never hire a lawyer outside of the county of your suit. solid advice. from what i hear, a lot can depend on your lawyer and the judge being in the same country club, preferably same tee time
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:26 AM
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non-existent feelz to put a finer stoic point on it, the feelz are not non-existent. they are to be experienced without being overwhelming or controlling. i attempt to look at these feelz in the third person as though i'm outside of myself. just like surfing a wave, you don't control the wave but you control your actions on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:24 AM
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What percentage? i'd guess around 20 but who cares? it doesn't matter. internet dating website which site?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 06:33 PM
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I pull away, and she chases a bit; she tends to initiate when I'm starting to get irritated. i churn through this cycle pretty regularly too, although me pulling away usually has more to do with general annoyance of her nature as opposed to failed initiation. i think this dynamic is pretty normal in any marriage; and is not something you should see as needing eliminated. rather learn to surf this wave instead of being rolled by it. i'm intensely curious as to whether woman are completely cogniza…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 06:31 PM
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solid win. thought you were married longer than six years
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 06:15 PM
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believe what you want when tingles fall from the sky i don't go "not these tingles" your STBX is your sworn enemy right now, and looks like rightfully so. RZD has no enemies because none of these people can hurt anything but his non-existent feelz.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 06:09 PM
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from the OP, I let her get outraged for me, and for some reason, having a common enemy also gets her in the mood. i think the point of the SM part of the post went over your head. RZD doesn't give two fucks what FB bitches or his whore mother thinks of his values. it does however provide drama (aka tingles) to his wife though. the point is that a man operating in his own frame profits (tingles/mood) from the storm swirling around him.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 05:51 PM
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very additive response to OP agree that it is best to assume a "universal positive regard", i look at this in several ways. first, it's the simplest explanation for other actions. second, i've learned to assume "mistakes were made" is most likely the result of ignorance and/or sloth (both in all their forms) as opposed to malice. i find your framework of universal positive regard concept helps me approach them from a cooperative, "how can I help you?" to be the best for children, for whom i have…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 01:56 PM
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there's captain-save-a-ho, and then there's mega-save-a-ho (you) probably because it will be easier, focus on just taking the babysitter's pussy without being her emotional tampon.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 11:09 AM
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how to handle an overbearing mother , just wives, and I'm sure we all have one. speak for yourself faggot. i lined my mom out when i was 15
/r/askMRP19/03/19 11:06 AM
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it’s a thought process. Drilling the techniques takes the emotion out of exchanges. Then when you stop getting tongue tied, your brain stops getting frustrated. everybody wants to be a gangsta until it comes time to do gangsta shit. - Tony Soprano enjoying something requires competence, competence requires practice which is not always enjoyable - my wife
/r/askMRP19/03/19 11:05 AM
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believe it. John and Dave are still in my desk.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 10:53 AM
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the fascinating thing about reddit is that no one knows who you are the irony is that it's the people IRL that know less about who you are because a lot (most?) people are not congruent with their actual values and persona IRL. that would be the other common denominator among alphas - utter congruence and comfort with who they are.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 10:51 AM
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sometimes i think the quality of a post can be determined by how much dick waving it engenders. by this standard; this post is standout. with the very unhealthy exception of I have no expectation of others to live by my own personal values. i have pretty much lived most of my adult life per this method. i will tell you that results are a very mixed bag. as long as you have the competence and drive, gotta say being a Sociopathy, Anti-social personality disorder, Narcissistic personality disorder …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 08:44 PM
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any issues with weakness/recovery once the anestesia wore off?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 08:18 PM
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Don’t let your past tear down what you are continually building. a powerful message, and one that i have to remind myself of frequently. As surprising as her tone-deafness not surprising at all, very common and my mind when to this narrative about 2 paragraphs into your story. my dad had same issue with his dad who flew the coop at 2yo. same with a best friend who had to disown his mom after his mom would keep dragging the entire family down to support his addict brother. I registered on a natio…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 07:26 PM
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go on, i'd like to hear more about this
/r/askMRP16/03/19 10:59 AM
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This specific take blows my mind somewhat. Might be the first time the concept has really hit home it's not something i'm proud of at all, but i was in my very late 30's when i first realized that all the people around me were not doing the things they were doing largely in reaction or because of me. sad but true
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 10:31 AM
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i consider the term "opening up your marriage" to mean you're both explicitly aware either of you or both of you are smashing strange. cheating is your hiding the strange smashing and larger affair totally then there is this grey area that folks around here like to talk about, and also what i did. in this grey area you communicate your opening up your side of the marriage but not explicitly and instead with plausible deniability. the up side is everyone gets the feelz they want. the downside is …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 10:50 AM
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She went off alone and I did not follow. interesting, your OYS is starting to shed the bravado you were filleted on last week and get down to YOUR actual problems. good. on this and your failure to initiate . . . can't be afraid to fail. it's called "burden of performance" and it's a man thing. look it up on rollo. "No" last night and got a reminder we fucked at the weekend. Aha! She does keep score. no she doesn't; at least not in the way men do. see Red's post on MRP for further information. s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 10:43 AM
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In a nutshell: my stay plan is not my go plan. yeah, that won't work and you won't be HAPPY. i get what your saying on would you marry or even GFE your woman right now. i will tell you what has worked for me. i focus on RIGHT FUCKING NOW; and try to avoid past and future thinking. right now my primary mission is raising kids. she fits into that mission nicely. when my son goes off to college in just a few years, my primary mission will change. she'll have a chance to be a part of that; and i'll …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 10:31 AM
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Reposting in OYS since I got crickets in askMRP. da fuq? you removed your post; and it was only a day ago. needy bitches going to bitch? Duty BJs 2-4x/wk, initiated mostly by her (acts of pity / guilt - she's good at sucking but it isn't the submission I require). how do you know it's duty. how do you know she's not aroused? it sounds like your seeking validation from sex and that your comparing your sex life to pornography Since she's identifying as asexual watch what she does, not what she say…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 01:43 PM
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your wife sounded like quite the catch in a great many ways she is. i'd say her only real fault's that i did not have a major hand in leading her to, are her absolute devotion to her family above all else; including her own family. the rest I agree with but I also need to be honest that I saw my wife's sniper rifle (using your metaphor) and just plain didn't like the view. And I am not sure that is ever going to change. i've lost track of my own metaphor, to what you referring about in my wife's…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 01:21 PM
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Spock dies. It’s from second Star Trek movie. No worries though , he gets reanimated in the third movie after Khan launches the genesis device.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 06:36 PM
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what from single red pill content do you all reject toward your married red pill lives DON'T GET MARRIED, oof. actually, i'm not against marriage for me; but probably am for you. just because some can, does not mean all should. also, read this https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 01:38 PM
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So why do I post this? i'm glad you did. i find it very interesting. i also find it fascinating the extent to which you, steal toes, and others play chemistry with your body. details on dosage and full field report would be great.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 01:31 PM
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It's worth noting that about a third of the new things we try are failures ... but my frame is that's just part of the fun. It also adds an extra emotional edge to the proceedings. this is the key that https://www.reddit.com/user/resolutions316 has never been able to get his head wrapped around. it's ok to fail. you rise tomorrow and do it again or try something else. it's been awhile, but i remember recommending to him that he take up an X-sport where he has to face the pit in your stomach feel…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 01:17 PM
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But I’m skeptical of my ability to hide me too learning that many of them are engaged in human trafficking don't believe the hype
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 12:58 PM
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My own OYS was on the up on Mrs R for once (Sun). Cooled somewhat (Mon). And this morning (Wed) she woke me at 5am with a drama of her own making and the whole thing would have been different... really I try and avoid the whole issue as at least one of us would read like we had bpd. i struggle with this too; and IMHO it shows a real weakness in our frame that our view of our wife is so fickle. it shows that we are still buffeted by the winds of her emotions. we, obviously, both have work to do i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 12:54 PM
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Maybe not always to me, but she is a good person. this is both good and bad. i think it's very useful to look at how a person treats both the lowliest, the highest, and the people that they espouse to value the most. i think this basically defines that person. with that definition in hand, compare how they treat you to their average persona. that is a nutshell is what they really think of you!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 12:51 PM
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not to be glib; but Spock says, “Logic clearly dictates that the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few.” Captain Kirk answers, “Or the one.”
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 12:43 PM
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i'll honestly never understand guys like you. i've never dated or wifed a woman that i did not fuck frequently because i would simply NEVER tolerate it. you don't want to fuck? sure, i'll go find someone that will. this dick ain't going to suck itself. looser's gonna lose is all i can surmise
/r/askMRP11/03/19 11:07 AM
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Are there mental techniques that can be used to stop this thinking? focus on building your own life and career outside of your wife's frame. note by "focus" i mean actually do these things. beyond that you'll eventually wear yourself out thinking about your wife's train; and it will just get tiresome and boring . . . which incidentally is how people dwelling on the past come off. How can I get dread level 3 going without increasing my wifes childcare workload? there are a lot of things you can d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 11:00 AM
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i didn't see anything in here about lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 10:40 AM
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no
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 10:36 AM
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She initiates very little women are responsive. it is known. it's very likely that she's subtly initiating; and you're not noticing it because you're butthurt that she's not initiating like a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 10:33 AM
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Quality A&A
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 11:14 AM
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Any insight is welcome. IMHO, these conversations are her "thin edge of the wedge" used to shift the frame to you to "us" . . which is womanese for "me" i fucked all that up in the beginning. over the last several years, i have become an utter dictator in regard to any and all financial decisions. last night was a perfect example: me: here's your new credit card. i already took the old one out of your purse. i'm changing our "point" system, this is how were handling our son's credit card. some d…
/r/askMRP08/03/19 06:16 PM
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It does appear that some women have more natural "bounce back" than others, so assuming your mother took care of herself a tour through the family album will be insightful. If she didn't, you may want to look though some of your aunts, etc. my wife and i have two kids. no bullshit, i find her just as or more attractive after kids. she is a very small woman, and kids filled out her tits and ass nicely (wife goggles on, check). i've got some girth so i think her opened up pussy fits me perfectly n…
/r/askMRP08/03/19 06:01 PM
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as the sages noted; time has a way of wearing everything away and i determined i actually sort of like my wife. the sort of is i like her company and demeanor. not so much on her priorities in life. i will also note that fucking a bunch of other women for 9 months also removed a lot of the resentment. got all the crazy pussy i could stand; and figured out it really wasn't as important to me as i thought. than again, i'm 50 so you're mileage may vary on that last one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/19 01:18 PM
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man that's a classic
/r/askMRP07/03/19 06:56 PM
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Man in the World pointed out that this is really just me seeking external validation. yep, and i'll point out the flipside of this is you think you're the center of the universe and your wife does everything in reaction to how you are/behave (projection their too). the fact is she might not want to fuck for a whole lot of reasons, the vast majority of which have nothing to do with you. the trend is more important than any given data point. agree with MitW about not being grey as to whether you f…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 05:40 PM
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it appears to occur when you have truly developed your own frame and aren't just faking it but your wife still is living in her frame can confirm
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 05:34 PM
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if the effect is the same i can't tell any difference in dick power over 1/2 5 mg tab and eating a handful of them (was looking for that 4 hour boner and ended up with a 4 hour headache). i do think there is something to be said for taking it consistently.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 01:24 PM
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could be totally wrong; but i'm not seeing blowhard liar. i'm seeing level 9000 nihilism and imposter syndrome. Child abuser having seen a real child abuser (step mom #1), i beg to differ. OP lost frame badly, but pulled back before crossing the Rubicon. IMHO
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 12:39 PM
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awareness and cause-consequence triggers will be better developed by then probably, but you'll have other problems to deal with. in particular, outside (your family) influences. expectations of an authoritarian regime losing, and wrong battle at some point in the teen years Punishment even at its best, does not develop the positive behavior the parents wish. agree 100%
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 12:35 PM
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but it made me nauseous can concur, nauseous with a solid headache. i bite the 5 mg pill in half and chew it up most days of the week. doesn't taste bad and keeps it strong and long. thanks for that website below. prices are great. you have used them? curious as to why your going to "usa drug store" and paying euro. i thought you guys had cheap meds over there? also i lol'ed hard on the "professional" grade Viagra and Ciallis. so many joke angles on that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 12:29 PM
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Easy picking
/r/askMRP07/03/19 02:16 AM
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Gay as hell. Did you think even think maybe she wants the D but not the bug. Worst case she wanted to take care of you because she values you;and you just told her to shove it except you couldn’t even do that right. I hope I run into your wife this week. I don’t need to kiss her to take her ass.
/r/askMRP06/03/19 10:56 PM
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i have a couple thoughts on this. first and foremost, trouble with my daughter has taught me a degree of humility that i or those around me would have never thought me capable of. it also taught me to really accept that some things, and certainly most people, are out of my control. lastly, it taught me there is no such thing as unconditional love. everything has a breaking point. to SorcererKing's point every child is different, and even the same child will react differently at different ages/ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 06:25 PM
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I dont know how y’all have some much to update on week after week? it's called ruminating; and it's not very fun to do or watch. kinda like watching grass grow, but the grass is brown and has grubs
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 12:58 PM
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not understanding what the difference between being forced to be in one place for an extended amount of time and, Removed his toys both are essentially forms of timeout, assuming you didn't set the kids toys on fire. how you figure removing toys is psychological abuse
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 12:50 PM
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look for the good outside of their usefulness to you - you self centered bastard
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:50 PM
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Three. ahhhh. this is good. i would not consider tantrums to be "abnormal you should seek professional help" at 3. keep on keeping on captain, and make sure FO is on board with "we don't negotiate with terrorist" game plan. i will also point out that the "i'm not getting my way, must destroy everything" apple did not roll far from the tree. also - you'll be AMAZED how much easier being a parent the second time is. basically "our kid is freaking - meh, he'll live". I underestimated him. possible,…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:47 PM
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One word - transactional
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:36 PM
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metoo
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 02:35 PM
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i'm with Tyrone, definitely smash and dash
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 01:24 PM
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other than your mom, and i have my doubts about her, no one is on your team.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 01:19 PM
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when i first started working here, people did that for real. lol. work used to be so much more fun.
/r/askMRP05/03/19 12:30 PM
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Deeper: feelings of inadequacy or impostor syndrome?. i'd say this at the root of a lot of your problems. i have thought this applied to you on several past post. takes one to know one. Ego talk: they are a bunch of spergs. it sounds gay; but try to see the positive in people rather than negative. it really doesn't matter and it's a much more positive/easy frame to navigate.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 12:28 PM
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I tried raising my voice, he escalated, next thing I know I am roaring and shaking him. I am not trying to distance myself from my actions, I literally felt disconnected. well brother, i'm confident in saying most fathers have been here. the feeling of being disconnected from yourself in this moment is probably the worst part, and i'm guessing the mental prelude to terrible outcomes. like you i pulled back in that moment. you're solidly on the right track. my thoughts: use of physical force as p…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 12:19 PM
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i've lost count of the number of supervisors i've had (20+). i'd say about 25% of them were to some degree like this asshat Ben. here's what i've found. about 1/2 of them are new managers swinging their dick around; and need to be calibrated by someone like me and other senior professionals. the second 1/2 are psycho retards; and they got to go. the initial approach is the same. i assume a frame where i am above them. i tell them no (like you did . . . i thought your dialogue was fine although y…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 02:32 PM
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Other women won't fuck me either. i don't believe this. there are plenty of thirsty bitches out there. she won't look like Princess Di but she's DTF. don't let perfect be the enemy of the good.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 01:51 PM
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Ashkenazi Jews who are the product of wealthy merchants marrying Roman women. i follow the 23andMe sub for all the "mommy lied" stories. i've noticed a very disproportionate number of these stories and the "my ancestry is totally different than i was led to believe" ends up being the paternal lineage being Ashkenazi Jewish. Seems like Levi stays pretty busy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 05:25 PM
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cage is way better. can be used as a spotter for multiple lifts. pull up bar. accessories for other exercises. save your money until you can afford the real thing
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 01:13 PM
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we can respect each other respect is earned, not given. read about the male social matrix The whole concept of redpilling is to teach people a new way to look at life. the irony is that your being schooled in this thread relative to your helpless, spoon feed me momma, attitude; and your choking on the lesson. there is nothing more offensive to a woman's sexuality than helplessness.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 01:09 PM
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it's an ebook dumbfuck
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 01:05 PM
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Dread level 3 is opportunity this is the central point of your post, and while it's true and i endorse the message; if it's your only reason i fear you may be a dancing monkey. the larger goal in DL3 is that it's a tool, one among many in the praxeology, to become your own point of origin. i would argue, strongly, that becoming your own point of origin is what really ignites her tingles. if your not sub-communicating that she is easily replaceable than you're not there yet. i would also add that…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:40 PM
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But to answer the point, yes but also nothing about any of this is particularly alpha. agreed. leadership, success, being a great dad are all orthogonal to alpha UNLESS they result in status as perceived by women. it depends on how you leverage these things, and quite frankly it depends a lot on the woman because different women (and cultures) perceive status quite differently. i don't know how many times, ways, we need to say it but alpha is not an archetype. it is a set of behaviors and demean…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:24 PM
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i like this post. i'm curious, what do you do with people that don't give two fucks whether you fire them or not. asking for a friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 12:32 PM
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I’m sure there are too. I have personally known a fuck ton of women to have abortions and miscarriages, including my wife on both counts, and in spite of the traumatic physical pain involved in both be utterly over it in hours or days like it never happened. Just as in war brides , women have been loosing babies and moving on since the beginning of time. I know your a fan of lions fucking. Watch some videos of primates loosing a infant. Takes less than a few days to move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/19 01:03 AM
1

You underestimate how cold a woman’s hamster can be!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 09:05 PM
1

It sounds like pretty much everything where someone else’s time and resources are involved
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 08:53 PM
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You may have missed reds almost weekly OYS barf on his on going ass fucking he’s been receiving. Having watched this play out several times IRL; none of it is surprising. Makes good reading for anyone suffering under hubris that they can control the process
/r/askMRP21/02/19 03:29 PM
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Super solid OYS. Would make a good post .... loneliness and surfing your feelz RP aware
/r/askMRP21/02/19 03:26 PM
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Her money is a shit test , and one that should be nuked from orbit. My response last time I heard this , “no babe it’s all my money, you work for me now” - broken record and ACT accordingly. If she has a problem with it she knows where the door is in the house.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 12:00 AM
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although on a meta level this article is in support of overt hypergamy, i agree with WAS and resolutions316, that there is more to it than just that. it's a big assumption, but let's assume that hubby in this story is satisfying her hypergamy. he's hot, has some game and secondary selection going on, has some frame (the AF side of things) and is bringing in the bucks and comfort (the BB side). their fucking often and everyone's getting their nut. what is she still missing: “limerence”—the initia…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 01:43 PM
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I’m dated in this regard. Never heard of this toon
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 09:11 PM
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Yep , obvious key is to make em feel special. I ❤️ sluts
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 09:08 PM
2

Tell us more about burnt pies
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 04:17 PM
1

Direct hit to muh feelz
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 02:32 PM
2

Agree with wife you’re an utterly different person now. New you is better.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 02:31 PM
1

Yeah pay attention if she’s noticing
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 01:20 PM
2

Another solid analysis - on rape fantasy
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 01:14 PM
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This is all spot on with exception of your not accepting hypergamy as the foundation of the SMP. We agree that a LOT of the manosphere falsely conflates it with the slut boogeyman. Tell , how do you define hypergamy?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 01:10 PM
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The applicability of the old paradigm depends a lot on whether your wife will return to work or not.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 04:01 PM
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I do several times a week and yes the table is served; although there is not the level of socializing as appears takes place in CrossFit
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:20 PM
1

I said nothing about bux. You know you can fuck em without getting married right? Something about horse and water
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:51 PM
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Ahhhh, so not so much involuntary as selective beyond your capabilities. Two things - it doesn’t work and that way and you have to start somewhere. Fuck some uggos and work your way up the ladder
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:36 PM
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I'd become beta omega (aka a POS). ftfy. alpha and beta are the two orthogonal sides of the male attractive coin. alpha makes her wet and beta makes her comfortable. omega is just gross and useless.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:37 PM
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voice of experience
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 07:23 PM
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So ask me why I’ve been doing crossfit 4x a week think we've established the why in this thread. might head this way. been thinking i'm really as big as i want to be versus my real passions - skiing, kayaking, wakeboarding.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 07:23 PM
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Nope. didn't figure. i've read a lot of GLO recent post railing on commodity fetishists. i'd say it get it and am guilty of it. what can i say, i like my toys. having no existential purpose is the problem "existential" is one of the $10 words that have different meanings to different people - so i looked it up. from Wiki - "An existential crisis is a moment at which an individual questions if their life has meaning, purpose, or value. ... This issue of the meaning and purpose of human existence …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:20 PM
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yeah not all that. i'm just torn between my love of bacon and rule 1 - be attractive/don't be unattractive
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 06:52 PM
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i just got out of a meeting with senior VP and his minions. it was so in inauthentic i wanted to vomit. guys i know in pharma still party.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 06:38 PM
1

if you some interesting hobbies, plenty of opportunity to warm approach
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:35 PM
0

Jews are better than most at a lot of things. Preaching to the choir here - but it's a basically a conspiracy of success. Losers going lose.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:21 PM
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They have no religion, they have no God, they have no greater belief than the objects they accumulate. first, are you saying having no god or religion is problematic?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:17 PM
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What is the advice that you found here that helped you the most in your journey you're not special
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:06 PM
1

how much do you weigh?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:04 PM
5

get your T checked
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:02 PM
2

start with an orthepedic surgeon that specializes in hands. rebuild may be possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 05:58 PM
2

bacon scented beard oil huh. i'm intrigued
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 05:52 PM
5

the students are angry young men with the lower end of the distribution being teenagers. the instructors are older men, and we are not angry
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:43 PM
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this guy is ugly as fuck. somehow managed to get married and have a kid. i see hideous looking dudes with wedding rings on all the time. how do you not see this moving around IRL?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:27 PM
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yes, many. i would say the arc of the relationship under performed significantly though compared to post TRP
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:20 PM
3

"know your audience"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:18 PM
2

only Pro to add would be multi-tasking. see your kids and bust a nut in the same trip.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:12 PM
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solid play
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:10 PM
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redpill does not think women are evil. evil lies in the difference what society teaches women are and what they actually are.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:53 PM
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google - "why doesn't my wife love/fuck me anymore?"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:46 PM
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This is a boundary we both set in the beginning be specific, and explain this boundary you both set. it sounds like no interaction with the opposite sex.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 04:24 PM
1

seriously i'm sold. i think with the boy driving himself i might be able to work this in. 2020 goals.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 04:21 PM
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open bars it saddens me in our company, and i think most of the manufacturing industry, this is rarely a standard practice anymore. i would say that open bars and kegs at company boondogles is an important factor when choosing and industry or company to work for.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 04:19 PM
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i look forward to this post, because i subscribe to the stay plan = go plan; well aside from pumping and dumping every single mom i can.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:17 PM
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lmao. plenty of girls that have their husbands name TATOO'ed cheat on said men. the necklace is to impress other women not ward off men, dumbass
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:07 PM
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suddenly more interested in CrossFit
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:03 PM
2

Jehovah’s Witness wife curious, do y'all have any weird sexo-religious things like the mormon's majic undies?
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:00 PM
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leverage pussy why didn't i think of this. there's a reason you're the chief
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:57 PM
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in awe of the power of this sub. feel like i've found find MY religion. cue angels with horns and shit.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:55 PM
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not sure why but your formatting failed real bad. experiment with it (i.e. edit this post). you might find this useful
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 01:52 PM
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it's a funny indicator. i can remember just a few years ago getting really upset that wifey did not meet my "expectations" on my birthday. now my birthday doesn't even really exist to me as a thing in my head.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 01:49 PM
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this tone looks good on you. it will serve you well when you start managing people.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 01:43 PM
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same team is important. team discussions on the strategy are handled out of site of children. She’s not cruel; versus says mean things other than you acknowledging she's not whipping them with a coat hanger, i can hear your hamster squeaking. raising your voice with children should be used very sparingly as continued use diminishes it's impact, and you're teaching your kids a whole raft of bad behavior. i suspect your wife is using a lot of "you are ......" language to shame and belittle them. i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 01:35 PM
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for plates, yes always go for the highest smv possible in any given moment. for LTR, redpill dogma is to pick a girl 1-2 points below your own smv. women date up (i.e. hypergamy). picking a LTR above your league most likely won't end well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:07 PM
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Any holiday where I have to work is not a real holiday.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 11:52 AM
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Wrap and Re-gift the dumbbells. She’ll blow you for sure.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 11:51 AM
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says mean things to the kids EVERY. SINGLE. WEEK. i don't know what the solution is; but you need to nip this in the bud fast. turns out very badly in most cases. don't think you have to ask me how i know
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 06:21 PM
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Think benevolent king
/r/askMRP12/02/19 01:33 PM
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ding, ding, ding we have a winner my Saudi plate was insisting her husband was gay, except when she was with him. she'd go back to Saud a few weeks later she'd be sending me an email that he's not gay. she'd come back state side; and within a week he's gay again. the hamster knows all
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 12:32 PM
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If you’re a desk jockey , see if you can get a desk that moves up and down so you don’t sit all day. Sitting is terrible for your health.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 09:43 AM
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If you ain’t fucking her she ain’t a plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 02:32 AM
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You can lay on comfort to the point of absurdity. As long as it’s not coming from a point of neediness it’s all feelz to her.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 05:39 PM
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it can be a shit test or a comfort test. depends on the context and her demeanor. i've had both multiple times. if it comes from the position you fucking up then it's a shit test. if it comes from the position of her adding value it's a comfort test. same rules apply - shit test are about YOU and comfort test are about HER
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:45 PM
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Haha I bet . The lack of self awareness is really a sight to behold
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 03:43 PM
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OP - makes post on "being stoic" comments - meh (note not "taking a pop at you", just pointing out your projection onto others is not shared by said others) OP - starts lashing out - so much stoicism so much frame i'm with https://www.reddit.com/user/Kpwn88, this place never disappoints for the lulz post is rambling - reads more like /showerthougts. that last paragraph quoting Marcus is cool; and would have been a great jumping off point for a FR illustrating how you implemented these principles…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 03:35 PM
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couldn't agree more with this post. i have one thing to add. the other key ingredient behind "betaization" is plain old SLOTH. generally speaking, men are capable of much more greatness than women. were also generally capable of much less than women. this duality between drive and sloth is much greater in men. a man gets married, thinks he crossed the finish line with that pussy on lock now, and just lays the fuck down. pretty soon, the woman has to be the man in the marriage on now you're her b…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 03:21 PM
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more important to practice the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 02:04 PM
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This is threatening and painful to the ego - very few women have any strength to let go of their egos. the single nugget of truth in this otherwise pile of nonsense. IMHO, a feature of women in general is that once their ego (self view) is pierced they all collapse into a heaping pile of sobbing emotions. i consider my wife to have one of the strongest frames of any woman i ever met; but the half dozen times in 30 years that her ego was really pierced she literally went in to the fetal position …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 02:03 PM
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definitely deload after 3 weeks off. fact of the matter is you just have to commit to it. i'm busy as fuck, and travel a lot. i almost never miss lifting. when travelling i play with whatever they have at the hotel gym. My back and neck are pretty stuffed as well, so I've got to train within my capability there. stretching, chiro, and yoga is the best I read stories here about people squatting 100kg within 2 months of starting SL5x5 most of those people either have a history (maybe years ago) of…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 01:39 PM
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solid analysis, and congrats on your flair. i was just thinking a few days ago that you needed it. it's a point i make over and over to bros on OYS, if the ordinance your dropping is not moving her increase the size of the ordinance. people in general, and women in particular, always see themselves as the righteous victim. nothing substantial happens (on her end) until the "i'm fucking this up" alarm goes off in her head.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 05:45 PM
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Not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:29 PM
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I think there’s a genetic component to it, but personality and experience in life is more critical. I’ve known plenty of ugly men that slay because they were confident and very masculine. A common factor is they faced significant challenges/hardship, failed , and survived to fight another day. Your line of argument and discussion in this thread smacks of someone who is young , has little experience in the field , and has not actually been allowed to fail enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:43 PM
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Getting a can of beans from the top shelf gasses him
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 03:02 PM
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Some guys find fat preggo women attractive. checking in. oh yeah, loved fucking her doggy style while reaching around rubbing that big belly.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:30 PM
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it goes on your dick
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:19 PM
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what's wrong with your lifts? you talk about deloading already. unless you have some major illness or no testosterone at all, something really wrong their. they're average woman level?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 12:10 PM
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Sticky a post at the top and will nominate in the thread. Lowest score wins ....sort of
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:13 PM
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your skill in bringing out the fag in weak men is impressive, kudos to you.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 04:35 PM
2

Fuck off and read the book
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 03:08 PM
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I thought she was using it as a power move to control me. no one can control you, if you don't let them. control can be an illusion that you provide her . . . before yanking it away . . . major tingles. have you read "The Prince" by Machiavelli?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 02:57 PM
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shit testing is foreplay for women.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 02:45 PM
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huh. that sucks hard. Get home and she's got a shitty attitude. guessing here . . . her girls are mean girls. she's not keeping up with Mrs. Jones whose husband is a doctor and taking her to Tahiti next month. just to be sure, when she got home and was shitty . . . did you give her a chance to vent all her negative feelz. not judgemental - just stand there and take it until she gets to the point of really getting what's bothering her off her chest? when my wife is shitty-quiet - i'll sometimes p…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 02:43 PM
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she'll only share them if she is comfortable you're not judging her. read practical female psychology.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 02:34 PM
2

lol, all the bravado melts away after being slammed to the ground.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 02:00 PM
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Despite having to keep quiet with my folks across the hall, we've had sex four times in the past seven days. She even initiated one of them. What the actual fuck? nice. never really got this problem that a lot of bros seem to have. fucking with family near (like in the other bed in a hotel room) is one of my wife's kinks. that and when i was in highschool/college i fucked a lot of girls in the basement/family room while their parents were upstairs. only got busted once . . . hahaha her mom just …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 01:43 PM
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i can't tell whether you're resetting or not so why don't you break down this last 3 days in more detail. to me reset means few hours later or next morning i drop back into my frame - which is i'm enjoy life and killing it and fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 01:38 PM
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Last night, my wife asked, “Do you love me?” I paused . . . blah blah blah overthinking it. "yes, i love your ass", she responds with some variation of "no i am being serious" . . . "i love your tits too"
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 01:29 PM
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I had my dick in her mouth last night and she shit tested me during sex. I ended the session and she cried man, your a dumbfuck with no frame. how's about you smash the shit test and then smash her ass. we got some spergs around her but you're like some new breed of super retard. do you live under a bridge, and like goat meat, is what i wonder?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 01:24 PM
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well then it's a tough break for both of you. [https://www.reddit.com/user/Countpudyoola] advice above is the best. move on with your life but keep the door open.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 09:24 PM
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Bundy better than Hitler pretty sure Hitler has way more kills
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:17 PM
1

my frame is i fuck a lot. if wife don't want to be a part of it, that's on her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:16 PM
1

hyperbole good. for the record, i fully endorse suicide for the terminally ill. that's my plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:13 PM
1

And yes no shirt me is looking pretty decent. carry on, and apologies for calling you out (again probably) versus the scoliosis, repeated back injuries etc to your question: I’ve often wondered why TRP guys focus so much on power programs over hypertrophy. Power lifting is cool but the risk doesn’t seem worth the reward. to paraphrase "Mark Rippetoe" of Starting Strength - power requires mass and mass begets power. the sexual theory is that size/strength engenders tingles. this is especially tru…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:07 PM
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but more comfort “take me away with multiple orgasms” kind of sessions good. all this sounds like the tragedy has not caused her to go crazy and start looking for a "different branch". your basic strategy should be the fun loving rock that pulls her back into your positive frame and out of her shit frame. ultimately she may need some therapy, sounds like she may have been projecting things into her father that never where . . . so she lost the man and the dream (the fucked up part). don't be her…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:55 PM
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I simply mark him as "Don't waste your time" with an RES tag can you explain this tool. i have no idea what your talking about
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:49 PM
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jury is still way out on whether https://www.reddit.com/user/Financial_Metal is a cunt or not. still smells fishy to me
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:45 PM
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solid explanation, main event triggered before man was ready to smash it. another reason to slow your roll, and boil the frog slowly
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:37 PM
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my primary suspicion is that bros start "winning" and revert back to the lame ways, and she's like "oh, he was just pretending to be a man".
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:34 PM
1

is she just in a sullen mood, or not fucking anymore?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:32 PM
2

me too, never reply to any test with a question unless it's in total jest. i mean jeez, i really don't want my wife's opinion on my attire.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 08:24 PM
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you might find this post https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5613we/repost_and_update_the_death_of_your_sos_father/ , by RZD helpful
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:14 PM
2

I wonder what happened to the guy who was an ex-TBP troll funny enough, i ocassionally think about him too.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:12 PM
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shes forgotten all about what was bothering her in the first place. standard protocol for handling children's tantrums
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:03 PM
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Bedding a woman that is being shamed by another man is the ultimate in shooting ducks in a barrel. OP should share her digits Edit- Also I love that name so much “hey Zeus” - you’re being called god in two languages
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:04 PM
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Answer this question please - did she pursue medical schools in the DC area and not make it before exploring options 1000 miles away?
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:01 PM
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Slut shaming your woman , or any woman for that matter, is so lame. Better watch out for Jesus when you’re in Mexico.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 03:51 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-male-social-matrix-back-to-sandbox.html?m=1
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 11:10 AM
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you might enjoy the death of santa The truth is something that you cannot avoid forever. agreed. it's very painful too. I am happy for the OP but he already knows that in the back of his mind he failed in his mission. i tend to agree; but the fact of the matter is you and i do not know what is in his mind. one of the most powerful things i have learned from TRP is the extent to which we project our own desires and fears onto others. i suggest you read Plato's "The Cave" for further insight into …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:58 PM
2

double spacing is your friend in formatting you're lifts suck dog balls. i'm 11 years older, 8" shorter, 40 lbs lighter and my lifts are all heavier, albeit with less volume. would your fuck you in the mirror? honestly these numbers and your %BF don't really add up unless you have some hormonal defficiency i'd get that in order before d-bombing your wife
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:35 PM
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I find it very difficult to just rest when I'm sick. Always feel self-conscious about my wife stepping up to do shit I usually do, all that. not me, i'm the prize. good opportunity for her to serve me like the king i am. got shut down. Don't blame her though. me neither. be the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:29 PM
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u/Perseus i don't have a winged stallion; but am a Greek philosopher
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:24 PM
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It was also not my first (meltdown). were you or are you under any psychiatric care? I blow my brains out. sounds like not a bad idea. ps - suicide is the ultimate loser move unless your terminally ill. i'd rather suck a dick than kill myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:22 PM
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By summer 18, the rope finally pulled and yanked my wife back into the bedroom. The sex was good and frequent. That lasted about a month, then bang - the walls went back up again and we were back to co-habiting parents. Not just a wall though - a "don't even fucking touch me" fortress. so we've seen this several times. what happened? if anyone else wants to chime in how this got fucked up, would be good to suss out.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 09:12 PM
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+1, dudes downvoting can fuckoff. Analysis is solid. Btw , I have my wife on a pedestal....one that I’m fully capable of knocking over whenever I feel like. She looks pretty up there, right NOW.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 06:46 PM
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😂
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:15 PM
1

It’s a bitter pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:11 PM
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you'r welcome. i think the move out of MRP, and social media in general actually, is a very good one. Furthermore, I want to help people. I want to work with people and know that I made a difference in their day. If I make less money, but know that my efforts are going towards a greater good, I'm cool with that. If my wife isn't, well she can fuck off. My journey is going in this direction and this journey is about me. assuming your still looking for it, i think the above is the most likely game…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 12:47 PM
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rule zero Marriage Post MRP lot of flowers and rainbows in this post. i love both. as has been noted by many in these parts, a man has to drop sex for validation and bare down to just sex for sex that he wants. i'm going to assume you have killed the validation part. so after that, are you getting the sex you want or are you still frustrated. i think i know the answer reading this post (no); but i don't want to assume.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 12:33 PM
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Its a double standard as it should be because it’s easy to be a slut but its hard work to be a man of value. i would also add it's a double standard because the two sexes are not the same in regard to mate guarding and attraction. as much as it might hurt her feelz, a woman is turned on by her high value man having options. not true for men. sorry . . . biology
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 07:51 PM
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SO how does a married man keep his wife on her toes without him becoming an adulterer? do what you want everyday, there's more than one way to not lock yourself in a cage
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 06:01 PM
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only someone that doesn't fuck would say something this retarded.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 05:57 PM
2

had the same thought. their's a fox in the hen house
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:52 PM
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very solid response to OP I now see that she is always looking to manipulate me for her benefit or test me because she isn't trusting me in the moment if I am off my game at all. i would only add, don't hate the fish for swimming and doing other fish things.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:48 PM
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Especially in the moment. it's a process, not a destination. keep grinding. life doesn't get easier, you get better. I can't stand non-logic ; I keep falling in the same trap. read Pook after you get done with NMMNG and WISNIFG. logic is overrated. I've already failed. not telling you to break up, but you need to embrace the possibility of failure to move forward. not sorry
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:38 PM
1

I've finally finished reading the red pill. how did the ocean taste?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:35 PM
2

if you have not read it, i think you might really like the book "Letting Go"
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:32 PM
1

solid progress on game
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:31 PM
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I generally haven’t initiated unless I know she’s keen. i'm a fan of initiating when the iron is hot or more often warm. going along with dropping your ego (in the last paragraph . . . good catch) try initiating on weaker signals or "glitches in the matrix". make a mental note of her more subtle cues. i found when i became less inwardly focused (ego . . . meeeeee) this cues became obvious. worth noting they're also more whimsical . . . meaning you have to be super chill on being rejected so as t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:29 PM
1

Very bossy, wanting to do their work for them. My kids are smart. i hope your coaching on being more gracious. life is full of retards. sometimes that retard can be your boss, or the cop that pulls you over. being kind and gracious when it's in your own best interest is an important skill
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 05:24 PM
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welcome back you are your one and only judge, but i have mixed feeling on this OYS. on the one hand, you have clearly made great strides in your frame and point of origin. this has made you a lot more content, if not happier. you have clearly de-linked validation seeking from your wife's behavior and sex, which knowing how hard that is to do myself is a monumental achievement. of course, this so my actual desire level is starting to emerge. I don't need sex every god damn day. has resulted. in o…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 04:06 PM
2

If you’re actually tired, you’re doing it wrong. If you’re bored that’s a different issue,
/r/askMRP30/01/19 10:02 PM
2

Is that really how simple it is? yes
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 02:09 PM
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Personally, I’ve never met anyone from the internet IRL that I didn’t end up laying pipe in. That being said ; I don’t think chucks suggestion is too gay. At the end of day bros are bros
/r/askMRP26/01/19 06:31 PM
4

Did you fuck her last night ?
/r/askMRP25/01/19 02:37 PM
3

sounds like the hamster is ready to be lead out of the maze
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 04:53 PM
1

I may need to tell her better to demonstrate and explicate
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 04:52 PM
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it ended 2 weeks ago, the other guy said he wouldn't leave his wife and kids for her her branch swing failed. just know their most likely not done fucking. give it a few more weeks, she'll rationalize one more time and he'll string her along for that ass. i don't think you need to ask me how i know.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 03:44 PM
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seems i led you into a trap, and now you're getting gang banged by https://www.reddit.com/user/Cimbri, https://www.reddit.com/user/weakandsensitive, and https://www.reddit.com/user/The_Litz the meta-level answer is "you are your one and only judge" (aka give zero fucks). if this is truly your frame you pass all shit test no matter what you say or do (this is what people mean in this sub when they say "neo, you no longer have to dodge bullets", and it's also what i was referring to in the "Skywal…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 02:55 PM
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I want her to pack her shit up and leave. is this because you find significant fault with her (i.e. a child, can't own her shit, crazy, etc.), she's not meeting your "needs", or her mission doesn't fit into your mission? as opposed to being calculated or malicious this is really rare. i used to go around thinking people were out to get me because i'm a bit of a narcissist and i thought i was the center of the universe. the more accurate explanation for what people are doing is always their eithe…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 02:19 PM
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if she doesn't do it most of the time, i would not even bother asking. just do it yourself. there's a message in there for her somewhere
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 05:10 PM
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I am not more intentional with her. i'm guessing she was inferring that your "presence" is lacking. "presence" is actually paying attention to someone; and in doing so validating there feeling. this is oxygen to women; and especially your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 04:06 PM
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oys deleted, username checks out
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 03:57 PM
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doesn’t really know how to respond to it well, then lead her to respond to your world, in other words it's as simple as the breakfast. tell her what you want. give her an assignment, more responsibility. one thing that comes up regularly is my wife asking “do you love me?”. IMO, this question is more of a statement. the statement is "i'm bored a little, give me some feelz". stop thinking about and stay out of her head. my only advice in this regard is to be unpredictable. A&A a lot, sexualize, g…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 03:55 PM
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grateful to the wife for sorting it all out for xmas / birthday to me this, and your relationship update, says she wants a winner and wants you to be a winner. she just doesn't know what to do with a winner. i'm guessing she comes from some fucked up family background. I sometimes think i should talk and call the wife out on it, ask her if she is depressed and try and get her to the doctors. ffs don't do that. MitW already expounded on why and how. in addition to the tightening rope metaphor you…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:45 PM
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Usually met by dagger eyes. winning. just to be clear, i'm not saying this because i want you to hurt your wife. you're winning by making feelz and mystery
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:36 PM
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I'm here to watch people fail. you're in the right place
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:27 PM
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I should have called her on her original bitchy comment this was a compliance shit test. you failed. tell me how you could have better handled it because "calling her out" (i.e. nuclear response) is only one of your tools and the one you should use most sparingly. “Are you trying to start an argument?” why yes she was. you sound boring as fuck. we don't really argue with our wives because it's like sucking on the barrel of a gun; but we do fuck with them. again, how could you have handled this i…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:25 PM
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The guy does trigger me. practically a definition of frame loss. watch a Bill Belichick press conference - hounding by a pack of people trying to trigger him . . . Bill's response "meh"
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:12 PM
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my dad has never felt or acted less then and this is why he slays. Source - i'm your dad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:19 PM
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it's not an unfair comparison. in both cases there was a lot of ups and downs, if i was guessing. brings to mind "if you can't be good, be lucky". your flair btw, LMAO
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 08:34 PM
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In general I prefer inspiration and wonder as a motivator, rather than discipline or desire for power or prestige. what's the source of this thinking (i.e. book, etc.)? sounds intriguing
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 05:40 PM
1

You ever just do it blatantly? yes, when there's hotties around. i have never even bothered to hide it. can't think of why i would really
/r/askMRP22/01/19 05:27 PM
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If OP was high value she never calls him out overtly for checking out other women. Period. so this is why i never get called out?
/r/askMRP21/01/19 07:22 PM
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"yes, see anything you like"
/r/askMRP21/01/19 01:50 PM
2

Engineers wear short sleeved shirts. They can’t help themselves. can confirm. in our defense, it's hot during the summer when you put Nomex coveralls over the top of all this. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 01:44 PM
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Thanks for this solid advice. I have a lot better understanding of "style" and some homework to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 01:39 PM
1

she get's really bratty, trying to create drama and push me away some.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 01:30 PM
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Peak blue actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:54 PM
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I'm truly wondering how many other married RPers here have happy, successful marriages? married over 25 years, together almost 30. the first 10 years was great; but i got soft and then it wasn't great. back on the horse now. marriage very happy and successful now, best it's ever been in fact. I would "do whatever the fuck I want whenever I want" me too, always have been through both good and bad times. Extremely low drama, low maintenance and an amazing woman. me too, i would say she only has on…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 07:42 PM
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Your wife will never tell you you’re fucking up because a true keeper “would just get it”. and, also, she can't admit to herself she picked a loser because she's a special princess whose loser detector would never fail her. however, her actions will betray her true feeling every time. tingles don't lie, at least when it comes to alpha fucks. a RP aware man, ego in check, can spot the signs a mile off.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 07:10 PM
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I may be misremembering but didn't you do something like that once? yes, see my first post I'm not going anywhere while I've got kids in the house being a single dad ain't the end. this attitude will hold you back some. I have been business as usual since then, but it's been a tough week (illness, work stress) and I haven't really initiated. stop making excuses. fact is fucking and attraction has very little to do with stress level. see my post on family therapy for an example
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/19 02:18 PM
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some great information. thanks. developing "my style" is something i want to get into more. i'm a professional, but in a chemical plant, so it's not exactly boardroom territory. do you have suggestions or any rescourse-ideas for developing style in a more blue collar setting?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/19 02:12 PM
2

70% of that would put you in the top 95% of western males. it's really amazing to watch how strong he is compared to much larger men
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:01 PM
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isn't that the reigning cross-fit champion? man absolutely puts in MAX work; but he's also genetic beast mode to be winning at that level
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:53 PM
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pik-a-dildo, is that you? But that doesn't go over well here. not sure about this. successful well written FR are normally well received, although it's the norm of the male social male matrix to always prod for weakness and hierarchy (IRL, too ...)
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:43 PM
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Wife constantly brings up how she’d be disgusted if someone that ugly liked her. she might be a hag, but your wife is threatened Any better approaches? "i bet she fucks though"; point being an ugly woman with a functional vagina is 100x better than a model that won't let you touch her
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 08:56 PM
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ahhhh, i see you have yourself a pretty basic woman then. for the most part this is her emoting her feelz too. standard practice is to attentively listen, cheer her on and boo the villians. do not tell her how to feel or solve her problem unless she specifically ask for your help. in that case, think in terms of "coaching up" a little girl.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 08:22 PM
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most of the time it's her making up stories in her head not an issue for a plate, but this level of crazy is a major red flag for LTR
/r/askMRP17/01/19 07:12 PM
2

his setup is weak, but his frame is strong
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 07:09 PM
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learn how to operate your baby first. you have a long way to go before you get to "kids"
/r/askMRP17/01/19 03:54 PM
2

My weights are in my garage
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 03:35 PM
1

fitness it's a force multiplier, but not the force. frame is everything
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 03:31 PM
1

have you tried adding creatine?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 03:28 PM
1

feminist love being choked. fyi
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 01:37 PM
1

the thing about DL10, even accidental/premature, is that's it's highly damaging (to you) if it's not backed up with solid action/frame. it's an idle threat. you should be following this event with implementation of your vision, and a lot more initiation. if she doesn't fuck then she either doesn't believe your threat or doesn't fear the consequence.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 01:26 PM
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NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, SGM, RM, TWOTSM nobody wants to read WISNIFG. it's one of the most important books (you are your one and only judge) and tactically useful. get to it. you're wife clearly wants you to win; and be her king. as you mention, that makes it a lot easier. suggest you read the post of gettingmymojoback. similar story.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 01:14 PM
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what is your calorie intake and macros? i hate tracking and weighing food. i don't know. my diet: three eggs or a quest bar in the morning with coffee 1/3 of rotessier chicken for lunch protein shake after work while lifting whatever wife cooks for dinner - typically some meat, vegetables, and sometimes potatoes. some fruit or nuts at night. i use this to titrate my weight up and down. another protein shake at night if i'm bulking. i lift every other day, sometimes four days in a row F-S-S-M. i …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 01:10 PM
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just get it
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 12:48 PM
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It’s the difference between true insight and mental masturbation intended to explain failure
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 12:11 AM
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yeah, i incorrectly glossed over that. maybe he didn't, or maybe he just that deep. i think a lot of women really do not see the possibility of you leaving them for a host of reasons. to the extent that she now sees this as a real possibility, he moved the ball forward
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:15 PM
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cat came into the room and i can see she is clearly more interested with the cat then me. Pulled my pants up and said I got other things to do. you guys don't fuck because you want validation, not fucking. you and the cat should have double-teamed the wife. cat's love people fucking. get both kids pat tested. IMHO, every father should pat test his kids and have a divorce lawyer on standby. buying a house in a shit marriage? da fuq? Chad is her boss. all attractive women have orbiters. make sure …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 12:50 PM
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In fact I'm not sure I've ever seen any adult cry like she did. it's quite the spectacle huh? blubbering and wailing. did she blow snot bubbles? you were there, so ask yourself these questions: was she mourning or manipulating? was she primarily talking about how she's been better since last year, or was she talking about you? depending on the answers; you may have actually moved the ball forward
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 12:40 PM
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I think I passed it not really, but yes you did better than apologizing told her she was this is the moment you fucked up. never, ever, tell a woman how she is or should feel. a surfer rides the wave. he doesn't tell the wave to change it's shape. told her that I am done with this conversation you fucking up again, essentially waving the surrender flag the goal of a shit test is be unflappable or amused at most. my wife's favorite line when i take the negging too far, or she just wants to powerf…
/r/askMRP16/01/19 12:33 PM
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good progress. keep your foot on the gas
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 05:39 PM
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OYS – 1/15/19 Health 5’6” – 170 lbs – 14% BF – 50yo Current 3RM are DL: 335, SQ: 345, BP: / OHP: not worth mentioning, but back in the game Been cutting since late November, holding steady on lower body. New year, new insurance, strong start on medical issues. Saw orthopedic on left shoulder issues. Current diagnosis is bursitis/arthritis aggravated by BJJ issue two years ago (separated shoulder). Got cortisone injection week ago, and restarted OHP/BP this last weekend. Weak, but no pain. At thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 03:26 PM
2

Lot of words to defeat your own hamster (male solipsism). Focus less in the why,and more on the how.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 11:41 AM
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This fundamentally changes how I see her. that's your problem, not hers. fag
/r/askMRP14/01/19 04:06 PM
1

so long as is this is her mission, and not your's, yes
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/19 04:03 PM
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Username checks out. OP is being played. Once she tires of this game, and she will, his turn will be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:22 PM
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Do i just forget them? yes, forget and fuck or forget and fire. either way, forget. give no fucks.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 07:49 PM
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My wife is a CEO. Advanced techniques are required. yep, hypergamy demands it. you must always be "better" than her
/r/askMRP11/01/19 07:47 PM
2

"Saving a Low Sex Marriage" (see SIDEBAR)
/r/askMRP11/01/19 03:57 PM
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social media bullshit of keeping up with the Jonses brush up on stoicism. you sound like a woman. as WAS said, the only thing that should be holding you back on family vacations is time. there are lots of low cost options. your time and attention is what is really valuable to your family. if it makes you feel any better, the chances that any of those FB people are getting road head is very low.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 03:34 PM
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you're getting it
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 02:30 PM
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Going forward I am going to have to dedicate a lot of time to this, out to late 2020. having just launched one to college, i know it takes strong oversight but it should be oversight of a process being spearheaded by your daughter. time to put away the helicopter. She was a little miffed that she did not cum her usual multiple times i lol'ed at this. yeah, all plates are dissappointed if they don't nut a half dozen times. i did the one and done once, and it rained shit test like a hurricane unti…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 02:11 PM
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For example as her job she helps people die and is not phased by this. fuck bro, talk about burying the lead for how many months? sorry about your luck (not really), but you're going to have to use some heavy ordinance to get through this bunker.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 02:04 PM
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In an imaginary world with a more compliant woman, I might be open to that. your expectations are all pretty normal. this sentence through me for a loop though. are you saying you've never been a completely degenerate animal in bed with a woman? not judging . . . diagnosing
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 01:58 PM
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hearing her talk I realized I'd been kidding myself: definitely not what did she say? Prevailing logic seems to suggest I should manage my expectations regarding how that is likely to change going forward. not sure where you read this defeatist bs? prevailing logic is it's hardER mode. understand that you'll never get what you want if you don't derive your expectations in life independent of others, and then work backwards about how they fit (or don't fit) into those expectations. this is your "…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 01:49 PM
3

The cost is the burden responsibility and performance. learn to revel in the suck
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 01:37 PM
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100% correct. yeah, it all fits together with "kill the puppy" scenario. suggest you search that term in MRP, TRP, and Rollo. there's some good stuff out there already on it. the opposite of love is not hate; it's apathy. the hardest of hard mode. decision date well first off, other than you delivering the terms of her surrender after she bends the knee their's not a lot to talk about. communicate through your actions. second, don't look at as a date. it's a process. as Stoney is fond of saying …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 10:21 PM
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i think you nailed it. main character is acted upon is a key point, and relates to how women generally view the world (i.e. it acts upon them and it's not their fault). also a central tenet of romance novels. the key is to not be afraid of your wife's emotions. stoke the fire instead of seeking to suppress it. i would only add my reply to another OP below
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 10:14 PM
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I still feel that she owes me sex because I give her commitment. I cannot get over this thinking. I feel like if the sex stops I need to run out and either get a divorce or have sex with another woman. Covert contracts all over the place. she, nor does anyone else, "owe" you anything. drop that mindset. people either value your time and attention or they do not. that being said, i'm going to fuck at a frequency and style that i want to fuck taking into account that it might always not be right "…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 02:01 PM
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i'm going to discuss the question you asked me in another thread reply (Now, what sort of heavy emotions are we talking? The content in this thread is great but it relies on you already having sex. We are sleeping in the same bed but not having sex. With our younger kid sleeping in between us. Yep. Gay as fuck but blue pill me thought talking and taking things slow was best approach post affair discovery. Actually it gets worse. I got her to move from spare room into our room again months ago by…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 01:40 PM
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Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history? no, arguing with hamsters just leads to more hamsters.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 07:05 PM
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you've gotten some excellent advice from WAS and HOA around determining if your wife is likeable and operating from abundance. follow that. i get a sense that your past the anger phase and effectively resetting. how's it going with game. are you polarizing, making strong feels?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 04:09 PM
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It gave me meaning. i agree, and it was the main "emotional" reason i had kids. i was getting really bored even though my life was full of work and activities. i started having these dreams/nightmares where i was standing on an endless frozen lake; and did not know which way to go. kids fixed those "problems" lol
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 01:44 PM
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my goals just make sure their all your goals, and not goals to make some specific woman do something or become something she is not. you shouldn't speculate about what's going on in your wife's head; but i can because she ain't my bitch. it all sounds like a power play to control you. when you have the chips, call her bluff. until then utterly ignore her bluff . . . by this i mean literally don't even acknowledge her words.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 09:04 PM
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I could tell she was feeling obligated you can't tell shit John Snow. one of the most important things i've learned from TRP and Reddit in general, you have no idea what's going on and no business in other peoples heads. you're mostly seeing projections of your own thoughts. suggest you read Plato's "The Cave" until your eyes bleed. a key turning point for me was when i stopped asking myself WHY does my wife do this or doesn't do that? the only thing that matters is that is what SHE want to do, …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 07:44 PM
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given that, all this talking is very counter-productive. implement your financial vision and tell her what it is. it's not a discussion. it's you doing and informing. stop negotiating attraction. be attractive. initiate. if she ain't passing muster, tell her your going to smash strange and smash it. stop talking about divorce. your discussing logistics and she's using power talk. next time it comes up, tell her "i already have my lawyer, his name is Mr. X. if you're feeling froggy, jump. otherwi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 07:28 PM
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she objected to separating our finances and said that we might as well get a divorce. i know some guys here go for the separate finances; but i'm with your wife on this one. what's the point? what's the vision? seems like setting up one of the jumbotron score boards to me. furthest i would go in this regard would be joint finances with a his/her no questions asked slush fund. i've done all these variants; and where i have landed is: it's all my money. yours, mine, ours, it's all mine. i call the…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 06:58 PM
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You need to be in choir-boy mode. some really solid advice for red. based on how hard it for me to get TRT and the fact that all this stuff is "Tier 3" - i would assume (maybe wrong) that Red's gym bag is in violation of some statues. search and seizure after STBX drops a dime followed by court narrative of "roid-monster" sounds like a solid play for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 06:43 PM
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it just didn't go well nice, that's the idea. but she drove me fucking crazy maybe you know this, maybe you don't . . . but fact is their might have really been nothing "wrong" with her . . . and you were just not able to manage your bitch. either way, answer is the same - don't get married i don't want to open the "wither marriage box". my point is don't jump out of an airplane without knowing how to operate your parachute. whether the parachute doesn't open because it was defective or you don'…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 06:32 PM
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i'm upvoting it hard as i can
/r/askMRP08/01/19 06:25 PM
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wow, broseph . . . tough times. "My lawyer told me to go to the police and file a report" in so many words. Meh pretty much sums it up. your strategy and restraint has been solid in this regard, but i do want to ask this one detailed question. that I yelled at her, and some other sappy shit. did you? was this after papers? had you played it 100% deadpan/sweet would it have made any difference. I have a half assed plan though for you guys to review overall the plan is solid and well thought out. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 06:23 PM
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+1 on this comment. man's discussing divorce with wife and your focused on the whey protein. not sarcastic
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 05:52 PM
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I'd find out her views relatively discreetly. hiring a PI before you get married. bold move cotton. seriously, this is a solid play on gayest post of 2019 right out of the gate. her "views" are utterly meaningless and will shift like the dunes over the years of marriage. not to mention, in the words of Mike Tyson: “everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth” meaning that your actions and frame within the marriage day to day are infinitely more important than her "position" on housew…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 05:36 PM
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before I’m ready no one is every really "ready" for the first child, because no one ever really knew what they were getting into the first time. it's why people with kids always say (or want to say) "you have no idea what you're talking about" to people without kids. not that this matters. do it and lead. reality you determine and set your reality. this is you're frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 02:11 PM
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If you expect your relationship to come before the kids your in for a rude awakening. kids are HUGE deal, and when they are infant-toddler it is difficult to prioritize time/logistics for anything else besides them . . . in particular for both you and wife unless you have a strong support network (i.e. extended family). however, i think it's imperative to set the frame of you, and your marriage above your children. you and the marriage are the foundation upon which the children are built.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 02:07 PM
3

the irony is deep
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 05:10 PM
3

+1 on flailing
/r/askMRP07/01/19 03:15 PM
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The videos are great. First off , each to his own, but she’s not that attractive at all for an early 30s childless woman. Kinda mousey looking. On the other hand, I find her persona to be very normal and not really bad/bitchy. I know lots of women just like this; and there just completely sad and delusional. Trapped really, by the disconnect between their vision and their reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 01:09 PM
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Slut
/r/askMRP05/01/19 05:22 PM
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ComSec as has been well documented, Apple is your enemy. possibility for sharing and location tracking are abundant. phone and home PC are number one ways of getting busted these days. suggest you get a burner or only work from a non-home PC. Forensic stuff tell her not to where any/lot perfume. your car will smell like a whore house if you smash or even spend a lot of time in car. go through the car when your done to check for evidence. suggest you don't smash in car. get a cheap hotel. first, …
/r/askMRP05/01/19 01:39 PM
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i can only see one potential advantage of an older gal (at your age) for marriage/LTR. she is either past the baby rabies or her kids are grown and moved out. taking out the special snowflake sauce she's obviously feeding you, problems with an older woman include but are not limited to: as you mention, her attractiveness is likely heading for a cliff. this cliff will likely come faster once she locks you down unless she's a true blue fitness fanatic. suggest you check the family/photo and see ho…
/r/askMRP05/01/19 01:28 PM
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Her apologizing is a good sign.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 11:43 AM
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data shows no correlation between income and divorce da fuq you say? anyone with any exposure to a broad section of society know this is utter horseshit. here is a cornucopia of stats. there is a fuck ton of cross-correlation obviously, but basically low class people get divorced at a LOT higher rate than high class people.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:46 PM
1

really great progress and your lifts are great. suggest you add to your goals something like "game wife more. just be more fun and light hearted"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:28 PM
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seems like the iron is hot. you need to start leading her to the sex you want. have you read SGM?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:22 PM
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for as big a dude as you are, your lifts are lagging. maybe it's commitment, your program (add weight and reduce volume . . . ), your nutrition, or your T is in the basement. an observation. I setup a meeting with my lawyer next week. good. every married man should know where the exit is and what it looks like. I want to seriously explore D/s, maybe it’s a way forward for us. Any ideas on how to approach that would be helpful. use your Google-fu. there are some excellent forums and websites dedi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:20 PM
2

not weird at all. when you respond to actual events you're the hero, when you respond to her feelz you're the zero. you are your one and only judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:06 PM
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i don't thing gate-gate (hahaha) was too bad. sometimes a bitch (or a child) needs to be put in her place. one key is your frame and demeanor. ice cold to calculated anger is what you're looking for. the second key (that a lot of guys struggle with) is to maintain frame after you hurt her feelz. that's the goal, let her soak it up, and maybe she'll learn to stop being such a cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 09:04 PM
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the wife that cried wolf
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:41 PM
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she'll come to hate you for it yep, this will never die and OP's ass will get sore from sitting on the fence before her's does
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:40 PM
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Wendler 531 is where i went after SL. Probably move to nSuns this summer. Words about whether or not value is provided are ringing in my ears. the value of what she does can be managed/changed/manipulated quite a lot. the value of who she is unlikely to change very fast, and cannot be manipulated by you. if the second one is the real problem, then finding a different pony may be best
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 04:04 PM
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beta bux could definitely be you're dad; but it's just as likely that a woman that runs her life like your mom does has more than on thug in the woodpile. use some common sense.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:39 PM
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Not sure how much longer I want to go on with SL5x5 as there are lots of machines and exercises that I watch that I would like to do. conventional wisdom is you should be changing up your program every 6-12 months. unless your injured, machines (exception for universal gym) are gay. free weights is where real power and CONTROL are developed. The holiday period is tough on a relationship. only if your relationship (and/or you) sucks. holidays are tits if you keep the holidays in your frame. There…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 03:37 PM
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resented is the surface level emotion you're feeling. below it is fear of being inadequate. let go of the fear, and becoming your only judge is a cakewalk. She has a habit of visualizing problems like these that, in my opinion, generally feature very low survivability for the whole group. Then she makes up rules to mitigate them, even fractionally. I find it wildly irritating when she tries to impose those rules on me. well that is another kettle of fish. the example you used was very reasonable…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 03:27 PM
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my wife will come to me in a panic over something that's not panic-worthy borderline AWALT behavior
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 03:12 PM
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You and your dad and your sister should all get 23&me tested.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:37 PM
1

Apparently it’s your wife giving you permission to go somewhere unsupervised. It’s a thing in the SE United States.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:37 PM
1

the truly sad part is when you meet them together, and you see how she literally treats her lesser half like a child.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:15 PM
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Height: Are you naturally alpha, or do you have to work for it? i used to think this, but the parade of 6'+ guys coming through MRP shows it doesn't mean shit in LTR/married.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:13 PM
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Persaeus say "Wife who puts husband in dog house, soon find herself a different house."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:10 PM
2

man cave another cringe phrase along with "kitchen pass" (barf)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:06 PM
1

I would be in the dog house for months peak cringe. there is no dog house.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 08:50 PM
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why the fuck did I do that? you know why, and say so yourself. it was your ego. in particular you feared your wife's judgement, because you have not fully embraced all aspects of "i am my one and only judge". one of those aspects is being able to see when you are wrong, and accept that other's pointing this out does not mean anything other than you were wrong in that moment. accept that you are not infallible; and that this fact is meaningless. a car could in principle mount the kerb at any poin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 06:21 PM
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I went for a public action date on #1 with some making out in a park or truck ; but no dick. It was fun to tell them they’d have to wait. In that way ; they come to the second date with an express ticket to pound town
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:33 PM
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Yep , date 2 is the best. When plating in 2017, I expressly said no on the first date to check for crazy and build more tension.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:21 PM
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My thoughts exactly, the tradcon gay replies in this thread indicate the herd needs to be culled or at least a lot more attention to the sidebar. I had (would have) the three date rule. If her ass ain’t up by then , she’s either not attracted enough or somehow defective.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 06:41 PM
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Start posting in OYS, and ffs don’t impregnate this cunt
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 06:22 PM
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It really depends on where he lives. If he’s in that Bay Area , he can’t afford rent on 126k
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 06:18 PM
5

Reeeeee ROFLMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:52 PM
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Quality A&A, not sure what’s up with the gay downvoting. I think the point your missing in questioning the call for stats is that OP is obviously incapable of throwing his balls around like he should. “The program” for which the stats measure is the means by which OP develops frame, and grows some balls.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 03:58 AM
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You’re not wrong , but we can’t all be as cool as you. What’s your point besides the pot calling the kettle black?
/r/askMRP30/12/18 03:50 AM
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I remember when I could squirt that far. I got to pick my target bro. Gonna have to go for the baby maker
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 02:40 AM
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Mouth , snatch, ass, or it doesn’t matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 01:08 AM
1

Right , I’m getting all chubby
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/18 04:20 PM
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if you’re worried about money.... This tit for tat framing is gay as fuck and really shows what a nice guy you are. Correct answer to her questioning your decision is to simply state. I bought myself cigars. Any further inquisition should be met with fogging , amused mastery, and agree and amplify while sexualizing her criticism.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 02:13 AM
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Unless she really fucked up , you reset every day. Men don’t stay mad. Got better shit to do
/r/askMRP29/12/18 01:51 AM
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No ones questioning your catharsis. We are questioning marching on your own dick with all this talking. Whenever your talking to someone there’s always a couple base reasons: the lulz - pure entertainment assertion of dominance or submission communication of information communication of intent persuasion punishment of the guilty and or seeking absolution Am I missing some. What do you hope to accomplish in communication of your pain and suffering?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 06:18 AM
2

The more withdrawn the woman , the heavier the emotions required to break her out of her own attachment to the old paradigm.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 06:05 AM
2

Rollo’s account does not show suspended like Risn’s does
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/18 10:00 AM
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This is actually the point your missing . Pulling her head down on your dick or telling her to get off her ass and cook dinner is for you. “Her time” is for her and what she wants to with it is solely up to her. It’s not for or up to you.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 11:58 AM
1

i'd be ok with Havana
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 07:18 PM
2

your last OYS was 14 months ago; and as far as i can see you have not owned shit one when you going to stop sucking and start lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 05:29 PM
1

if it were not for the smell of rusty nails, i enjoy a good blood bath every once in awhile
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 05:23 PM
3

No insider trading because it’s not a publicity traded company.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 03:06 AM
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lol, i've turned wife down on a hard initiation by her once in ~29 years. it was the fourth time in the afternoon; and i was tired. i thought she was going to cry.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 08:06 PM
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I am looking for the best way to "fake it" prior to the "make it". always, it's called building on success from positive feedback High value: he was just messin', okay to relax. Nothing further to be done about it. higher value: "my pussy seems to no longer be calling the shots. i wonder why he isn't so thirsty? maybe i need to increase pussy power to reel him back in". now she's in your frame, and the hamster works for you now!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 07:11 PM
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Most of the guys here said she's damaged and too dangerous and I should get out ASAP. yep, while standing by that i'd say your doing a better job OYS and being captain save-a-ho than any other captain s-a-h i've seen. for real, not being salty. hope it works out; but also hope you have some hard dates/stops built in
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 07:08 PM
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Do you trust your friend to captain the ship? yes, he has a (so far) 100% track record in his industry. this is however, his first major startup Does the new structure of the company put enough constraints on him to reflect a loss of confidence yes, actually it will
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 06:55 PM
1

Alpha Widower i don't really have anything to offer on this. i've slept with more than a few women that were much wilder than wife, could suck the chrome off a ball hitch, hard initiating . . . you name it. i never think about any of them in any serious/comparative way. call it wife goggles, oneitis, or whatever but i am still REALLY attracted to my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 05:50 PM
1

but that wouldn't necessarily communicate the lack of intention, as she would still see it as her successfully resisting no? the way bros think they can outsmart a ho on sex never stops being comical you have to actually enjoy the flirting without sex instead of stalking her to see if she might be DTF (thought congruent with actions). btw, there will be a lot excellent opportunity for A&A when she pushes back. as you mention you have be truly outcome independent. this takes time to change your o…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 05:44 PM
1

he's like 6'4 tall or something
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 04:26 PM
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you've gotten plenty of great advice for getting back on the horse. something to keep in mind though. stop falling off the fucking horse. this demonstrates to those around you are pretending and not real.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 03:14 PM
1

really solid comment
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:08 PM
1

there is no convincing pussy, there is only attractive and unattractive of which technique, game, and dread are all components. is there any way i could convince you to suck my dick? i didn't think so. are needs, not wants if you haven't already, going to suggest you give up porn for 6 months. it distorts the lines between want/need sexually IMHO. i found that when i stopped comparing myself to other (porn and TRP); and disconnected validation from sex that my sexual needs are actually pretty si…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:05 PM
1

reminds me of the guy that had an insane (relatively) overhead press. turns out his job was lifting truck trailer doors a thousand times a day.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:53 PM
1

On close, back to the wife, guess who now wants to go to the fucking concert with me? so take her. never seize defeat from the jaws of victory
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:48 PM
1

I'm seriously trying to help you here, not shit on you. i appreciate the input. you couldn't shit on me if you wanted to, so no worries. Yes, and you know it, or you would not have presented it. yes and no. it's not so much that "i know it". more like i'm always open to other views; and i know myself well enough to know that hubris is one of my flaws. it's the yang to the "self confident" yin. you make an excellent point that the only fact that there's 550k laying on the table; and this is the m…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:42 PM
1

that video is pretty spot on
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:17 PM
1

send wealth into the next generation beyond the grave actually opposed to this concept. i made mine; and have given my children 10x the headstart i ever had. they need to get their own. besides i'd rather go out in a coke fueled orgy on a yacht Any mention of Annuity, walk out. yeah, good advice wife and i met with a Northwestern Mutual financial planner 2 years ago. we laid out all are finances and plans ahead of time, and then had the meeting. he said "you folks have this so well designed alre…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:14 PM
2

pretty deep, would love to see it sussed out in a post
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 01:56 PM
1

because I chase excellence and not her, because I drive my life and she loves to follow, because I am a man other men want to be, because I am social and fun to be around good, good, good . . . because I have told her if she doesn't suck me off, that is fine... completely up to her... but I have other places to be and other women to meet, because she has the choice... she can suck me off and keep me, or not and lose me faceplant. there is no telling, there is only doing. listen, some women aren'…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 01:51 PM
1

top kek
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 01:40 PM
1

would highly recommend some days-length minimum trip time with kids sans mom. i think camping, backpacking is the best because it completely removes modern distractions. something magical happens when it's just a father and his kids
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 01:36 PM
2

The “light switch effect” is well documented in the sidebar female feature
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 01:01 AM
1

i was thinking of lubrication my shower is a glass box, but i see your point
/r/askMRP19/12/18 07:43 PM
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i thought you had some solid comments, so should be good yeah, if anxiety is one of your issues. OPSEC should be a major concern. what kinda device(s) are you using?
/r/askMRP19/12/18 07:41 PM
1

talk about burying the lead, damn i was, and am still am at some level, thinking SharpestMarbel has the best advice below. however, if your wife is fucking up your relationship with your kids because their going to hell that's an actual problem
/r/askMRP19/12/18 07:13 PM
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jack off in the shower overrated place to jack off
/r/askMRP19/12/18 07:09 PM
1

Leave in 300K of shares and immediately move the 250K to low risk until the LTCG rules kick in the investment is through a IRA, so LTCG does not apply as i understand the tax laws (no expert though). i will pay taxes on the gains as regular income. i understand this is not an advantage as (esp. after 2018 tax law) LTCG rates are substantially lower than my incremental tax bracket (even in retirement, assuming i want to burn through this money . . . i do). however, there is the the advantage of d…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 06:55 PM
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OYS – 12/17/18 First World Problems Two years ago (when I was in Chile skiing), made the decision to invest 100k from my IRA into one of my best friend’s pharma startups. Business plan (FDA and trademark stuff) went well, and I invested another 100k last year. His business plan has continued to progress well, and now his startup is being bought up through a complex deal by a pharma-venture capital firm. I need to decide by the end of the year to sell my 200k worth of shares for 550k; or stay in …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 04:23 PM
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More intellectual boredom/differences and a strange reversal of communication styles. Mine just simply doesn’t talk and cannot seem to express the most basic emotions without anxiety. i find this very interesting. have you ever posted on it in OYS?
/r/askMRP19/12/18 04:10 PM
1

yep, he has it backwards
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 03:52 PM
1

i LOL'ed hard on this. reminded me of the state of the union speeches. drying up vagina's for 1000 miles.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 03:51 PM
1

it's very common, and it arises from two male behaviors first, bros get butthurt when shot down; which can happen for a thousand different reasons - 1/2 of which have nothing to do with said bro. see above comment from MitW for how this works out second, bros are thirsty horny little dogs (i should know). sure you start in with a little sexy interaction with no intention of fucking; but then she starts playing along flashing you the green light and you're like fuck it's on and metaphorically (or…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 03:48 PM
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but let's not pretend that you don't have a long list of history of suck let that comment from WAS soak in. she's a mirror with history. back when i was in your stage, i made myself reset the "butthurt counter" back to six months everytime i got butthurt (based on the hurt, not my interpretation of whether she noticed which we all know is a male hamster)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 03:42 PM
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