Person6550 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If a girl is giving me a BJ, should I cum or is that giving her validation ha yeah I mean that is a giant obvious stage, I guess I didn't need to detail it as to why.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 06:26 PM
1	Oldman curious about IG God damn I swear to God this is how it works. It's depressing. Definitely don't be on the far end of the long weak game though. That does come off pathetic. But being a good person seems to always punish you with women.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 06:19 PM
1	Oldman curious about IG Man I just stay off all that stuff. I don't have any socials. Guess what, I get woman all the time asking for snap, or IG, or something. I simply tell them I don't have it, all I have is my phone number for texting. And so they give me their phone number. Problem solved and straight to texting or calling. No soicial network BS. No competing with a 1000 other men on their Instagram or wherever.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 06:15 PM
1	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term Bro it's the worst balancing act ever. Who knows, one minute they like it, the next they don't. It's like you never know. One day it's too much, the next it's too little. You can't win. I think wait for her to say good morning or goodnight. I'm going to start doing that. If she says it, you do. Don't do it anymore than she does. Because I've always been the one to do that. And was consistent with it. Day in and day out. And it doesn't seem to work. Probably loses it meaning so much and becomes r…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 06:05 PM
10	If a girl is giving me a BJ, should I cum or is that giving her validation LOL	/r/seduction	14/05/24 06:00 PM
17	If a girl is giving me a BJ, should I cum or is that giving her validation I'm sure this is all in jest. But I can tell you, as someone who rarely ever cums when having sex, I like to make sex last as long as possible, and please them as long as I can. Plus I worry about getting her pregnant if we are not at that stage yet. So I usually just have sex until I'm exhausted and won't cum. But that is how I like it. Women love the sex but hate when I don't cum. Especially if they asked me to cum in them. They feel rejected and as if I am not pleased by them or don't find th…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 05:59 PM
1	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term I just really hate how women seem to constantly assume when one man does does something, it must mean exactly the same thing that the last man that hurt her did. I run into this all the time. It drives me crazy. I'm not him, I'll never be him. It doesn't necessarily mean the same thing. I mean I kind of understand it sure, you have to learn from mistakes and be a little Leery. But they all seem to date the same bad men with bad behaviors, and when a decent guy comes along and does something, the…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 05:37 PM
3	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term Something that I have not seen mentioned yet. Women want approval, and validation. If they feel they aren't approved of or you're not happy about something in relation to them, or they are unsure, it drives them crazy, they feel flawed and want to prove themselves to you, at the very least they don't want to leave something left open with no closure and you thinking they are the problem. It's like a little girl wanting her fathers validation. Which really does carry on into adulthood unfortunate…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 05:26 PM
1	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term It really makes no sense and is so frustrating. Like sorry I have feeling and care? And now everyone says you're a bad man for it. Like what the f. Sorry for being human, here let me play games then to reach my goal and stop being who I am.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 04:53 PM
3	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term Could not have put it a better way.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 04:51 PM
5	I love it when they play hard to get but you still win Not everyone is a Greek God, some people have to work on it. Plus you have no idea if it's just this gal. Had they chosen the other one, maybe it would have been the same and he'd gotten the easier girl.	/r/seduction	12/05/24 09:20 PM
15	Listen boys, it's going to be rough for a while. It'll hurt and embarras you and you will want to give up It's different for everybody. If the reward is not worth all the effort and pain, sometimes it's better to just go enjoy other things in life, use that energy and drive to make yourself something better. Build your own kingdom. Sometimes you can dabble in it, and test the water here and there. Keep it light. But if it's totally bringing you down and you're putting huge effort and time into the pursuit, it might be best to take a long break. Some guys have stronger emotions too, it's rough feelin…	/r/seduction	12/05/24 03:42 PM
11	How do you date in your 30s to find a LTR? Your age is fine. But as you age you gotta have the finances. And the older you go the more single woman are single moms. It's crazy how many women are in their 30's and single moms and don't want more kids. 5'8 is going to add some extra challenges but can be overcome. When you're young and good looking, it's not as bad, if you're getting older, not tall, and don't even have the finances to flash a great lifestyle at them, it gets a lot harder. having kids is a huge deal, they want to know they…	/r/seduction	12/05/24 12:32 AM
98	Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girls I've had my share of female friends over the years. To me it's just exhausting. To much work and drama. And they are never very good friends. Not loyal at all. If most of them get a boyfriend or something they dump you as a friend. If you keep it really shallow and light, it can be ok. I used to have gal friends I'd go out dancing and watchin local bands with. Nothing deeper than that. Personally I just don't have the energy. I have just enough energy and time for a relationship girl and that's …	/r/seduction	11/05/24 08:36 PM
0	I’m in desperation mode. Please help. That's rough man. I feel for you. I think you're just going to have to get better first, without dating. Because right now, every time you get rejected, it's only making things worse. It's bringing you down more. Go do things you love, with people you like, have fun again. You'll be back to your good ole self. Also you had a girlfriend for 2 years. You may be interacting with the new dates in a way that seems girlfriendish and you don't even realize it. Because it came natural to you while with …	/r/seduction	11/05/24 03:07 PM
4	Why did she ghost me all of a sudden? Yes real life, if you can set it up, make it happen fast. And you know I came to the conclusion yesterday that I need to be calling more often from now on. Text way less. Something about calling that puts you into a whole other category, seems way more real life. And if she misses your call, it gives a dopamine hit way more when she hears your voice and message than reading text. You get more ingrained in their actual life. I feel like taking things offline as soon as possible and limiting other…	/r/seduction	11/05/24 03:03 PM
2	The 5 Pillars of Seduction 9/10 times one of the first questions I get is "what do you do for work". It matters a lot. Not just the money, they want to know what the title is so when they tell their gal friends or parents, it sounds good. And they are are fishing for what kind of income you got coming in. They also want to see you on vacations, driving nice cars and a nice house, they want to put themselves in that lifestyle. They always want to trade up lives. It's way more important than you seem to want to believe.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 10:25 PM
3	The 5 Pillars of Seduction I can't ever get away with that. They non stop text and it can get exhausting. If you let up at all they move right on to someone else that will text them constantly and immediately. I swear it's built into their DNA to keep males so occupied they have no time for other women or even anything else. A constant connection that ingrains her into your brain. I guess if you're super handsome top man you can get away with not texting, because she'll always leave that window open. But she won't like it…	/r/seduction	10/05/24 10:07 PM
14	Toxic wingman? I had a "friend" once, he was terrible with girls. But I tried to include him in gatherings. So he could fit in and have fun too. One day I invited my gal friends out to see a movie. But he goes and calls them all earlier and changes the plans, and doesn't invite me. Of course they are like what the hell, where is (me). He was always jealous of me and women. Any chance he got he'd try to knock me out of it. Stupid of him since I was his only ticket to get close to any. Some friends just suck dud…	/r/seduction	10/05/24 01:14 AM
2	Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connection I think you missed the moment honestly. And that was your shot. It just becomes awkward after that. I wouldn't be too much of a try hard on this. If you could run into her somehow and things strike up, that could work. Otherwise, I'd say don't stress over her and let things flow. There are a million others you'll run into every day. And some day when you're back there, if the magic happens again, be ready. But don't waste all your brain and time thinking about her right now when you won't even n…	/r/seduction	10/05/24 12:37 AM
1	(M29) Been told twice in a row recently that they didn't want to continue a sitationship since they were jealous of me dating other girls but didn't seem to want a relationship either. Throwing me off my game The damage may already be done. It bothers her, but she doesn't feel you're exclusive material either. Or doesn't feel she'd actually be able to trust you. They grew feelings for you, but they know that is dangerous and will end in more pain later and know it won't work out. So best to end it.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 12:27 AM