| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why. | Conversation | PersonalRush5892 | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 11 | Chasing older women on Tinder? | Fundamentals | PersonalRush5892 | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 05:34 PM |
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| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?I have a theory. It's more simple than that. Every human being on earth is raised with the perception that tall = authority,leadership, and confidence. Movies/media plays a part in this but it's more simple than that. Every single man and woman are taught this at child hood. Why? Because your entire childhood, where you develop deep, ingrained, subconscious views of the world, the people who were in authority, leadership positions, and seemed confident they were all adults/patents. From a child'… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Same goes for any disadvantage you have no control over. Sucks but nothing to do but do your best. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Chasing older women on Tinder?It's funny to watch people do mental gymnastics to avoid this conclusion. When I talk to my friends about my issue they act like it's the biggest mystery in the world. They will even say they don't believe me. They will do anything to avoid the conclusion that height has any affect on odds. They have gaslighted me my entire life while providing zero insight on how to move forward or get what they consider a normal reaction. I've been aware for a very long time it's not a death sentence but a sim… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Yeah, been there and done that. First, I'm not attracted to that body type. It's something they have control of but they are too lazy to do anything about. I've had 2 GFs who were both taller and bigger than me. Justified it because of personality, chemistry, that sort of stuff. Not obese but overweight. It was more of an issue for them. When I would work out and get in shape it would make them feel self conscious. They always encouraged me to just stoop to their level. If I dressed nice for a d… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Only been on this sub for a few weeks. I have a very very active social life and go to the bars plenty. Used to go to the bars 4 to 5 days a week for most of my 20s. I go to festivals, parties, bbqs, and always get out on the weekends. Trust me, I do not live on these apps just theorizing like many other redditors. I spend most of my time in the real world. I'm checking this sub cause I'm not progressing despite plenty of real life trial and error. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Well they would have to engage the conversation to find that out. Pretty sure I'm saying Hi in a normal way lol. I have a great personality that makes me popular among most people who know me. I'm very very social. Just single women shut it down before it gets past the introduction. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Chasing older women on Tinder?30s is the new 20s. They don't seem any different. As long as they stay skinny and somewhat attractive, they seem stay stay just as entitled and shallow. I'm asking about going after 40 to 50s lol | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Just DM'd you. Luckily I'm not Virginia AF. I've had 3 girlfriends and hooked up several times in my life. Unfortunately those girlfriends I felt like i got lucky with after years of trying and I feel like I kind of settled (great personality but not my choice for physical attraction) and the only girls I hooked up with that I considered average attractiveness were all foreign women in Europe or Mexico. Never been able to replicate in the states. I just have to play the numbers games for 2+ year… | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Also, I'm sure you're right that my game needs improvement. Kind of obvious. Just no idea where to go from here. I've asked many friends for advice and they all seem clueless as to why I'm having any issue getting even a friendly conversation going. These girls just keep there shields at full and stare at me like a deer in headlights. They dont engage the conversation and its clear there is a lack of interest in talking. They all just chalk it up to "it must be your vibe" but they can't explain … | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Chasing older women on Tinder?I've had dozens of people check my profile and they all say it looks great. Rarely get any critiques. I try to change it up every now and then. Maybe you could take a look. DM? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Going to a bar tomorrow. What’s your go to opener or opener style?This is exactly my issue | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why.I do tend to feel negative in my downtime simply because it's an ongoing issue and everyone I ask for advice from seems clueless. When I go to the bar I'm usually in a good to great mood. I do feel anxious before I start approaching but once I decide to start making moves my mind goes blank, and I just go. I walk up and introduce myself and make a comment or try to get the ball rolling. I don't actively have negative thoughts in my head while I approach. Also, the negative thing isn't chronic. F… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why.I definitely think in the past few months I've gone overboard on being the funnest person in the room. I've totally been putting way to much pressure on myself to improve results, but it's because it's been such a long/dragged out process. The more I try and the needle doesn't budge, the harder I try. I need a bit of a reset and just relax | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why.Cool story! | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why.I'll check them out. Thanks | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | having trouble getting the conversation started and no idea why.All these videos are about how not to run out of things to say. I don't have this issue. My issue is they don't engage and it's not a conversation if I'm the only one talking. Also, can't keep it going if they just stare suspiciously in silence and don't respond or reciprocate. They will not even act friendly for 30 seconds. I'm a great conversationalist. I do it for work and make a lot of money doing it. I have several dozen friends and make friends in most social settings, but when I try to ta… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:18 PM |
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