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| 19 | Saddens me more than I can sayI commented on someone else's comment, wherein they referenced God... so my comment again fits in that context. Your comment had nothing to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:48 AM |
| 31 | Saddens me more than I can sayOr I'm attaching the quote to this subject... this subject being RBG's replacement - who is a woman, who may or may not undo all the work for the advancement of women that RBG has put into motion. Do I think all women are right and should be supported no matter what? No, but in this context it's fitting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:40 AM |
| 33 | Saddens me more than I can sayIt's a quote, and I think you've misunderstood it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:35 AM |
| 55 | Saddens me more than I can sayThere's a special place in hell for women who don't support other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.You’re projecting what you’d like to see but I didn’t insult anyone. I was offended at the judgemental and condescending tone. There are ways to express your disinterest in a subject without insulting those that don’t agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.How on earth can you possibly know what any one gains from anything? To say definitively "you gain nothing from it" is absolutely ridiculous. And how is intuition not a skill? You know nothing of the history of tarot if you are saying it's a "consumerist trend". Why do you assume those that read about tarot or astrology, read nothing else? I've studied scientific theories, and I still find comfort in these ancient practices. Your judgemental and condescending attitude is offensive. No one is dem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:40 PM |
| -12 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.Sorry, are you saying that women who do find solace in astrology don't have scientific understanding, intuition or good enough observational skills? Maybe they just have open minds... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.You might want to read up on the controversy in BORNS history with women. I like his music too, but I've read some shocking accusations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:31 PM |
| 21 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.One time I had a guy beg for it, then complain that he cut the corner of his inner lip, and kept bringing it up like I shouldn't have done it at all. Boy, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:21 PM |
| 4 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Congratulations to all of us who have decided our worth is more than the bare minimum offered by losers! I love this community, and look forward to continue spreading the gospel of truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 25 | This Buzzfeed article shows older celebrities now and when they were 30 years old. This makes me happy as I was so afraid for my twenties to end and for the mythical "Wall" to hit - I see these cherub cheeks on lovely women at 30 and feel good about my future.I like that, and very much agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Horseshit was the buzzword; I’m projecting nothing but using the opportunity to see the side that’s being discussed here, without judgement. You do you, as I just did - but maybe with less offensive words (relax, it’s just a suggestion - you can be an asshole if you want to). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:31 AM |
| 6 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Why can't astrology be allowed to exist the way religion is? So you don't get anything positive from it; does that mean anyone who does is an idiot? While I personally don't use astrological signs as indicators of whether I'll have a relationship with someone, that doesn't invalidate how someone else has experienced astrology in their own life. Personally, I think when you open your mind to something, you recognize elements of it in everyday life. I read tarot cards; am I stupid for spending my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...It’s irrational of you to get disproportionately upset at these women for a discussion that you personally find below you, therefore you’ve decided to “correct” their own thoughts. Get off your high horse and recognise that discussions don’t always have to be rooted in what you perceive as reality, and can instead just be allowed to exist without making others feel stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 24 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...It frustrates me when so-called "intelligent" women assume other women aren't learning, just because they didn't use the same vernacular or aren't focusing on what you think is the "correct" topic. You seem very judgemental and closed-minded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 29 | This should not be normalized 🙄I find that to be the annoying thing about tiktok - most of these videos are about the song they use being their "inner monologue". There are some pretty cool videos with style tips and even therapy help amongst the cringe however. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | This is scary. We need to secure our rights.I like your style! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Ladies teaching each other why we should let men use our bodies to masturbate with when we don’t want to have sex. iT’s LoVe 🤡I'm terrified of sex with men after my last relationship. I've had a lot of bad sexual experiences, but since his emotional abuse was the catalyst to my finding therapy, FDS & changing my "sex is super fun all the time" lie I told myself, I constantly feel like I have to protect myself. It terrifies me how cavalier I used to be about sex & hooking up with LVM. The amount of losers I've allowed in my home makes me thank my lucky stars I haven't been murdered. Coerced & used, yes - but I made it o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Someone talk me out of this insanitySatisfyer Pro 2 - I can't recommend it enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 15 | This is scary. We need to secure our rights.My god, I've been saying that my whole life, and everyone always thinks I'm kidding because it sounds so shallow to them - "You'll change your mind if someone wants to have a baby with you!" No. No. My body is fucking amazing, I have hobbies, I have plans to travel the world, and I want to be that rich, fit, well-traveled lady who looks 40 in her 60s. I can picture my beachfront condo already - or witchy cottage in the woods; I haven't decided that bit yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩Amazing! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 18 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩I got so annoyed at her placating him throughout the story and then in the comments looking for advice on how to be more considerate to *him*. I didn't even DM her like I usually do for desperate cases. She's making her own bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩My bad - just responded above with what I remember. Sorry for the incomplete story!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 64 | Woman spends her own money on a comfortable work chair, BF shows weird controlling behaviour and gaslights her in the process. Red flags everywhere 🚩Shoot, I missed my chance to screenshot it - wonder why it was removed. Sorry for the incomplete story!! She bought the chair after discussing it with BF, who told her it was too expensive and she should get a cheaper chair, as well as "upgrade" the entire desk set up cheaply. She used her own money to get it, all the while he was saying she shouldn't and she placated him by saying she wanted to try it out but might return it. The chair arrived, and he OFFERED to help build it, she said she coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 8 | My own design of one of my favourite quotes ✨The pattern is available!! I have some issues with Etsy so I'm selling them privately. If any Queens want to know more, DM me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 7 | This commission sitting atop some of my female empowerment books just felt right for the photo.Thanks! It was a pattern I bought from Etsy, but all the stitching was done by me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisI meant more when they were already married with a son and she then found out about Oscar. She stayed with him. But I agree that was why she liked him initially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisI think she was afraid of being alone, ultimately. I don't fault her at all, she came out on top by maintaining her standards with Dwight, who she truly did love. She's flawed but aren't we all? Angela is still head and tails better than Pick Me Pam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 5 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisLol and haven't we all been that at some point? Karen won in life overall. Congrats Pam, you got stuck with an immature douchebag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 4 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisOne hundred percent agree. Jim fucking sucked at every stage. He got off on bullying his coworker for goodness sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 9 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisI love how into each other they were - when Phyllis described how they just looked at each other naked for the first time and didn't have sex - it's oddly so beautiful. And the fire never died! They had sex in a bathroom during that double date in a later season. I also love how much Bob looks out for Phyllis - when she was flashed, he took her on a walk to care for her. I'm getting emotional about them now lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 5 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisMinus the Senator debacle!! But we've all made mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 22 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisI once put on my OLD profile: "Looking for my Bob Vance, of Vance refrigeration - all Jims can see themselves out" - Bob is totally a HVM. The first Valentine's Day for them and he gave her THREE floral arrangements and 1 giant teddy, plus probably dinner! Such a lovely man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | If you’re writing a post asking for advice on your relationship, feel the need to google his bad behavior or have endless talks with friends and family analyzing him, it’s a clear sign that you should leave.Mad Woman is a good cathartic song from her new album as well! Her whole album is very good, now that she's out from her sexist old manager's claws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 27 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?I once dated a guy who after a month, needed to "journal his thoughts" about us, because he wasn't ready to commit to one person and wanted to open up the relationship. He thought that I would be easygoing about this. Instead I was a petty bitch who may have gone too far with my response, telling him he could barely please me, what made him think he could handle two women. I also compared his need for more to his childhood overeating problem. You could say I was salty about my wasted time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 7 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻It's the scrotes thing that always comes up. Like, dude, you don't have to be a scrote. You could evolve. Similarly, I've posted commentary on men through my insta, and have had men argue with me, defending themselves as different. Not once did I say "ALL MEN" but that's what they read regardless. If something hurts to hear, maybe there's some truth to it - and therein lies the reason for their rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 4 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻Lol I caught myself mid-angry rant a few times. It's not worth it, as FDS says. I try to just shake my head at the nonsense comparisons/complaints with no actual evidence - and the evidence they might have is clear satire. But I feel that urge! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 11 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsI usually send a PM, just because it avoids any extra commentary from men. But I'm glad we're out there spreading the word! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:13 PM |
| 11 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsWe're having a marvelous time ruining everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 8 | As requested, the Lasagna of Male DepravityLol a call to the needle & thread! I'd love to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 15 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Her new album is her best work yet. Her lyrics are magic. She’s a feminist Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.You’ll get there, love! We’re all learning, and no one is perfect. I still feel that urge to continue conversations that yes, I am well aware are fruitless. But I feel that urge less than I did before FDS, and I’m certain one day the bullshit people say will roll off my back without my needing to be defensive. We just gotta have goals, girl! Keep moving forward; you are killing it 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 13 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.Yes this!!! I really dislike the judgemental comments attacking OP and she feels she has to apologize. This comment here is how it should be done! She's learning, no need to attack her. I hate the "this is so embarrassing for you to waste your time on OP". So shameful, and really disheartening. I love this attitude - much more of a lesson that a mentor would provide. Not judgemental. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 26 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.Don't apologize for learning! I like that you posted this convo for yourself, and going forward you'll know better. You keep improving everyday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:15 PM |
| 2 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.I look forward to those truths being uncovered. More accountability is needed, and the only way to destroy these powerful people is by not shying away from the truth of how disgusting the 1% truly are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 16 | Lvm lol....Me think why waste time say lot word when few word do trick? Save time, more success. Many small time make big time. See world. Oceans. Fish. Jump. China. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 3 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.There’s some lies out there as far as Oprah being directly linked to human trafficking, which has not been proven. But there are differing sources as far as whether her name is on flight logs to Epstein’s island - I have read an anonymous source claiming to have worked on the island as staff and noting her as well as other celebrities on site. Again, not exactly evidence to her participating in the same pedo ring, but I really speculate how much of this was known and covered up by rich/powerful … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.I am so glad it helped! The worst part about this is you know for a fact the guy we're writing about would never spend that much time caring about what's wrong, and just continue blaming us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 26 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Oprah is not a HVW. She has been to Epstein's island. She's no ally to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 43 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.She went to Epstein's island so I wouldn't put her on a pedestal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 44 | Men Who Treat Boundaries like PreferencesI can relate to this. I told my last ex it was important to me for him to communicate his thoughts and feelings towards me. His response: "I'll never be able to do that." WHY did I continue to date him for six more months?????? Idiot pickme I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 4 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.I credit my best friend - after my first time crying to her about all this, wondering what I was doing wrong, she posed the question "Why are you dating him?" and asked me to write out that chart. She's my logical Queen who was trying to get me to see for myself what was wrong, even though she saw it clear as day from the first moment. It still took me months to see everything clearly, even with a damn chart. He never knew anything about my scientific analysis, thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:21 PM |
| 77 | Where is the lie?Zeus is the king of the Gods, and literally the biggest rapist known to man & God alike. Typical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.Was he middle eastern with a affinity for making you feel horrible about yourself? Personally, I think society trains them all up with the porn sickness, the false bravado they maintain about themselves, and the idea that sex is somehow more important than love. We have to keep exposing this kind of stuff though!! They’re not special and they should know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:52 AM |
| 2 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.Thank you so much for the support! I’m sorry we had to deal with guys that treated us so poorly, but I’m so glad we found a community like this that helps validate us and lift us beyond our pain. I’m still healing but bonding with strong women like you helps so much! 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 4 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.It’s still a process! FDS helps immensely, and seeing that strong women here have struggled similarly, but are thriving is really powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 5 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.I’m glad I didn’t send it as well. it was a response to his attempt to reach out post-breakup, and I’m just someone who has to write things down to clear them out. It was cathartic regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 6 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.Don’t worry; this was months ago. I was looking through some of my old notes today and there it was. It’s freeing to let out somehow, and maybe it may help a male lurker see this in themselves and improve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 8 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.Exactly! Thanks, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 22 | I wrote this last fall while I was dating an emotionally abusive asshole, but didn’t have FDS in my life. The first of many notes I wrote about our shitty relationship.Hahaha seriously! I have a SWOT chart for our relationship 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 45 | Woman's BF "playfully" almost drowns her, cue LVM in the comments saying it's "nOT aBuSIve"I really like how all the top comments are telling her THIS IS ABUSE. It's the classic test to see how far he can push her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Oh my god, pressured into sex at 14?! Fuuuuuck I hate this world.I did dm her, but I do that often with no response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:31 AM |
| 16 | As someone struggling with mental illness, I can say that all too many women allow themselves to believe the issue is their illness when the issue is actually the LVM and allow themselves to be gaslit or even gaslight themselves out of guilt. A HVM would never say this to their mentally ill SO. Run.This is so true. My anxiety and depression from dating a terrible emotional abuser led to my eating disorder - I still struggle with maintaining a healthy body weight. These bastards leave lasting scars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.Lol iPhones are kinda creepy sometimes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 21 | This girl supported her “aspiring author“ boyfriend for 4 years, then he proposed and demanded a prenup because he’s actually super wealthy and never told her.... where would you even start??I believe this. My ex very clearly did not think highly of himself, and the longer I dated him, the worse he treated me. My therapist told me this theory and it validates a lot of his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:00 PM |
| 22 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.It says "maybe: jacob", because iphones will note when a name is used in a convo and add the "maybe:". It's not saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 5 | I didn’t read past the title because she’s not asking the right question. Is this right? Is this respectful? Is this love? Those are the real questions.Brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:23 PM |
| 11 | I didn’t read past the title because she’s not asking the right question. Is this right? Is this respectful? Is this love? Those are the real questions.Alllllll of this! The age gap bugged me too - any guy who is 25 or older, chasing after a 20 year old, there's something wrong there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 21 | I didn’t read past the title because she’s not asking the right question. Is this right? Is this respectful? Is this love? Those are the real questions.You're so right about the obsession, based on how long back a scroll he must have done, or worse, he has his favourite women's photos saved for this exact purpose. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 39 | I didn’t read past the title because she’s not asking the right question. Is this right? Is this respectful? Is this love? Those are the real questions.I absolutely agree. I cannot date a guy who would think this is acceptable behaviour, and sadly, I bet almost every man in the world thinks it's "no big deal". If I must, I will just be single to avoid this bullshit gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 9 | I don't belong to anyone...I don't need to be loved by youThis song is killer. If you have time, I recommend listening to her interview on the podcast "Call Her Daddy", where she details exactly how she became the fierce, independent, confident Queen that she is. She owns up to mistakes, and really gets in to what it's like to be a woman that likes sex, but likes working hard more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 20 | Daughter struggles against verbally abusive step-father IN PUBLIC, while her mother cries because she’s worried he doesn’t find her attractive anymore. If that’s what marriage is to some, fuck that.I would love a little more context as far as what they were even "gossiping" about (because I'm a snoop who loves to know all the gory details), but based on what she said, it seemed like a totally irrational response regardless. I just can't imagine having that kind of meltdown on a regular basis, or putting up with it from someone else more than once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Just black aida cloth! It's 14 or 16 count I believe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Another addition to Stitched Strategies - “Actions express Priorities”I had a few commissions but this quote kept sticking with me!! Happy to make anyone a stitched message :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Another addition to Stitched Strategies - “Actions express Priorities”Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Another addition to Stitched Strategies - “Actions express Priorities”It's almost fall! The perfect stitching weather ;P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Just a few LVM showing off their red flags.Haha that’s the one I took a screenshot of for a friend and said but why can’t he want to be a better person without the incentive of “WAP” 🙄😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 15 | Just a few LVM showing off their red flags.Sadly, this is what all OLD profiles look like in my city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:14 PM |
| 9 | Just a few LVM showing off their red flags.They’re all different guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Why is it always the first instinct to ARGUE with a woman’s opinion? I unmatched before his response. So annoying.Lmao his “pizza is arguably more delicious” - than Netflix? Yeah... cause you can only eat one? Jesus what a dunce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Getchu a man who screenshots your convos and makes fun of you to gain fake popularity points from strangers! LVM mocks “gf” who definitely exists 🙄My LVM ex was that kind of dick. He only wanted me because he was afraid I was interested in his much more attractive friend, and since he & I had a history, he manipulated a situation where I felt like I owed him a chance. I ignored how belittled I felt every day, because initially he had said exactly what I needed to hear to "trust" him. I'm grateful that I never opened up entirely for him, and got out before he made irreparable damage to my life, but having someone claim to want you while sim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Trigger warning for extreme cringe lmao someone Is mad their ex wife moved on and is in love.Lots of people judge celebrities on past songs or interviews, which is unfair, but some people prefer their hateful ignorance to learning more in depth about these people. Regardless, I think it looks like Megan is happier, and that's all that should matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Trigger warning for extreme cringe lmao someone Is mad their ex wife moved on and is in love.That's subjective, no? My roommate and I have very different taste in men, but that doesn't invalidate her tastes or mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:39 AM |
| 23 | Trigger warning for extreme cringe lmao someone Is mad their ex wife moved on and is in love.Loved her in Jennifer's Body, which is also an excellent FDS themed movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:38 AM |
| 51 | Trigger warning for extreme cringe lmao someone Is mad their ex wife moved on and is in love.One of them being Courtney Stodden, a pick-me Queen - with whom he cheated on, and she wrote a song about it. Ugh he is such a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:36 AM |
| 14 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.I post the ones that make me yell at my computer screen, so I feel that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 25 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.You are reading my miiiind, sis. It’s hard not to want to “fix” these women, but I always remember that I too have let a piece of human trash take advantage of me - though for way less time. It took my wanting to change, and these women are broken enough to think being with these fuckwits is preferable to being alone in their own apartment, decorated to their liking with all the animals & plants & friends they could want. You’ve gotta reach for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 32 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.So true!! She can have it all. I hope she finds her inner strength 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | No truer words...If she'd rather have it stitched in a hoop, let me know :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 47 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.That's why I post them here, I think. I feel so angry for these women, but also towards these women. They're the perfect examples of what happens when you don't look out for yourself, and think maintaining a relationship (happy or unhappy) is winning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 4 | No truer words...Oooooh I think I'm going to stitch this today! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 3 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for me“A king who doesn’t is no king at all,” - Smash Mouth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 13 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meAppreciate it 😂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 26 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meVaginas are weird but dicks are way weirder. I wish I were attracted to women sexually - it’s a plague in my life being straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 27 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meIt’s funny how often projection is the core of a person’s insults. For example, I’m a person who says out loud compliments when I think them. Once I dated a guy whose “platonic best girl friend” judged me as a fake person because no one could ever be that nice genuinely. It’s so ridiculous but transparent AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 24 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meLoneliness is one of the silliest fears - why on earth can’t your life be filled with love and satisfaction in all kinds of ways and relationships, rather than shacking up and making an unhappy family - just because you “didn’t want to die alone”. You could die any possible way! Odds are you WILL be alone, no matter how many husbands and children you’ve allowed to devalue your life! I’m sure a lot of us here can happily say we enjoy being alone. Thank goodness for FDS 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 24 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meYes! That's where I lost my patience. The entire question is ridiculous. Your FWB... isn't getting you off... what are you asking for, permission from strangers to hurt his feelings? Jesus, she's an idiot if she thinks she's benefitted in any way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 43 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meOne hundred percent I think he's afraid of vaginas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 45 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meExactly how it should be done - test that man before letting him enter you!! Make sure he knows how to make you orgasm without his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 51 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meI disagree that those would be "boundaries". He's just scared of vaginas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 152 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meThat's what stuck with me too!! How on earth did she allow him to get this position without testing out the skills? Why on earth is bad sex better than your own dignity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌That's so kind!! Message me if you'd like - we can chat designs! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Not yet - working on it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄Lol I think I’m fine but thanks for your concern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕My grandmother taught me when I was maybe ten, but it wasn’t until three years ago that I started to really get into xstitch patterns (there are literally every pattern you could wish for on Etsy), and then I started designing my own embroidery pieces. I sold my first one about a year ago; I’ve had a few commissions and I’m hoping to keep building this business! And thank you for your kind words 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Thank you for the tip! Definitely a struggle to overcome that question of what your art is worth, but I really appreciate those words! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕I never felt artistically inclined before I found my medium - just keep exploring any passing interest until something captures you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕It’s so easy! You can do this and anything you put your mind to, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕I am!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Telling men nobody cares about their compliments.Hahaha excellent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 23 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Hahaha I stan a petty queen ;P as long as you still have your pride & dignity overall, a few lapses in grace aren't the end of world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Working on it! If any queens here have tips for a small home business, I’d love to chat. In the meantime, I’m stitching in the sunshine for another post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄I have platonic friends from childhood, so I disagree with that as a “rule”. Men and women can be friends, but the communication and honesty must be present throughout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕I bought the pattern! Make it yourself girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 8 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Thank you!! This was a pattern I bought; anyone can do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕She’s just sitting here gathering dust! I’d be willing to frame it and sell her ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 15 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕It’s an inspiration circle; I keep wanting to post more!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:27 PM |
| 64 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕This one I made a few weeks ago!! Haha I’m posting an older one to give me an extra stitching day 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 11 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄She’s waffling, no backbone. It’s incredibly frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:04 PM |
| 13 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄Exactly how I feel. Like, girl, you’ve already been made a fool. Where is the logic behind letting this piece of trash continue to plague her life??? It’s pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:57 AM |
| 30 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄I’ve had similar violated feelings when I had long term “best friends” tell me they’d been in love with me our entire friendship. That is some heartbreaking garbage, to realise they never valued me, only hoped I would touch their dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:49 AM |
| 52 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄Honestly, the way she wrote it, and her responses show she was an easy target because she is TOO NICE. I'm annoyed at her at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 36 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄No, they are all telling her to get him TF out, and she's oddly still trying to be a nice girl. Nice for what??? He's fucking trash, put him out TODAY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:39 AM |
| 60 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄It's so violating. She's "not cruel" so she isn't even forcing him out right away. I feel bad for her, but come on - how is what he did not cruel and downright despicable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:32 AM |
| 45 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄"falling in love" = can no longer hide my boners, must sleep with you ASAP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:30 AM |
| 11 | Reminds me of the guy I met at a gay bar who asked me to “experiment” with him 🙄Correct - there are two pictures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:28 AM |
| 14 | Telling men nobody cares about their compliments.Hahah - I use a similar - "Thanks! I grew them myself!" First used when I was a teen and a gross old man said "nice tits!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️That would be dope! An above poster said something about vetting any potential customers, and I was wondering how I’d go about doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 4 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Damn right!! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️You sweet thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 4 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Working on a line so all us Queens can decorate with these powerful lessons!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Wow! That's so kind! Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 8 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Definitely a virgin who can't get a girl to look twice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 29 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Hahaha already got a DM from some scrote: “you’re obese; I can tell” lmao gotta love that misplaced anger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️You’ve inspired me to keep going with just this note! Thank you, sis 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Thank you! Same to you, love 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 33 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Working on it as we speak! I want a full line with patterns, but you all will be first to know 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 40 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️We all are; thank you!! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 10 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Thank you! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌“It’s just a joke,” said every asshole ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thank you! I have a wonderful friend who has taken me under her Green Goddess wing this summer - another amazing hobby that has lifted me up - and it’s so gratifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thanks! You should :) I love stitching my favourite quotes & lyrics - highly recommend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thank you!! I absolutely agree; this sub has given me such empowering and inspiring lessons. Love it here 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Great advice! Etsy is totally in my game plan. YouTube intimidates me, ngl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌That’s so kind, thank you. Absolutely I do! Check out r/embroidery & r/crossstitch ! Loads of resources and inspiration there. Pinterest has great free simple starter patterns. I got started by tracing a print I loved and adding some details/texture. It’s addictive, I warn you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌In quarantine, I’ve been cycling out xstitch pieces I’ve bought patterns for (for 6 or 8 inch hoops), which usually take about a week to finish. If it’s something I’ve designed, it can be finished quicker because I have a lot more drive to have my idea fully fleshed out. Amount of colours and size of the material affect the time mostly. I have soooo many tips and love teaching this craft - my grandmother and aunts passed it on to me. If you’d like help, I happily volunteer what I can! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Wow, I’m so flattered. I’m working on my next one today! Can’t wait to share 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thank you! That’s exactly what I’ve spent these last few months doing - creating art, and also making every corner of my home mine. I got out of a shitty, abusive relationship in February, and it was incredibly healing to redecorate to create a space he could never in his wildest dreams imagine; I felt safer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Omg I’m crying, that’s so sweet 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Ooooh I love that - do you mind if I create a pattern for it as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌I'll update you once I get there :) <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Oooh girl, quarantine has inspired this in me. Once I have a solid collection, I'll definitely put one up. Thanks for the support <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌My heart! That's so sweet <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 17 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌I'm open to any other stitchable lessons if any Queens have their own to share! Also open to commissions if you need a specific reminder for your own home :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thanks, Queen 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 12 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Thank you!! It’s definitely a healing hobby. Highly recommend to all Queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 71 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Totally agree. I used to prefer it (over tinder, only) because you could control who spoke to you, but what you just said is the real truth. Your last sentence specifically *chef's kiss* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 18 | Friendzoned men - what are your experiences?Almost every guy who decided he was in my "friendzone" made a move at the exact same time of my life at 22, oddly - or naturally, if you think about it. At the time, I was planning to move abroad for over a year. The weekend before I was set to leave, I went to a party with some highschool friends. I had three different "friends" find some point in the evening to corner me, and tell me they had always had feelings for me. Thankfully, each guy was a weak coward so I easily shut them down with no … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesShe made the choices she did because she was raised by a pick-me, who started her life making her believe shallow endeavors were all that matter in life, thus her Kris' ultimate goal of having beautiful but useless children that do nothing of merit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesI don't think people hate on Kim for a lack of kindness. Her kindness doesn't erase the disgusting things she promotes and marries. That's why she's rightfully hated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 13 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesThat should have been enough for him to be cancelled. That was fucking despicable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 25 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesThis!! LVM can't hide behind anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 40 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesTotally agree. Kim is the furthest thing from a female role model you can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 43 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesListen to "mad woman"; I believe this is referenced in her lyrics - "Women like hunting witches too, doing your dirtiest work for you. It's obvious that wanting me dead has really brought you two together." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 48 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesI think it's part of what comes with celebrity culture; people read so much about these people that they almost believe they understand them fully, and maybe even feel like they are relatable. So the defence of these celebrities comes from a protective space like a friend might for anther friend when they're being attacked, or potentially they see themselves in the celebrity and feel defensive about themselves. Regardless, Kanye is a LVM. No doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 7 | For those of us that have been gas lighted, told we are too much or not enough, or called toxic by a man... delete and block him. Learn to vet to avoid more of thisOne hundred percent agree. She’s a success story for us and I’m always here for her 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 14 | For those of us that have been gas lighted, told we are too much or not enough, or called toxic by a man... delete and block him. Learn to vet to avoid more of thisYaaaaaas - it's a very cathartic song for those of us who have been made to feel like a crazy person. TSwift is giving me newfound inspiration with this album for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Exhibit A - Why I don't use online dating anymoreYou can't deny though that since the internet (not dating apps per se) dating has shifted. Porn changed sexual expectations, making women feel further inferior for not wanting to be slapped around. This helped create hookup culture. Then dating apps took it further, making these sexual encounters "typical" and "normal". One night stands are more prevalent than solid, committed relationships, and the idea that there will always be another woman to find if the one you're with isn't "good enough". … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 10 | Exhibit A - Why I don't use online dating anymoreYou’re right! I just deleted Hinge - it can masquerade as the “dating app designed to be deleted” but all dating apps attract a majority of the same low-effort losers. I don’t want to be On display, waiting for the next idiot to think he has a shot just because he saw my picture. I want to be discovered and pursued! Thanks for the inspiration, girl! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 24 | Exhibit A - Why I don't use online dating anymoreMy ex ALWAYS made jokes at my expense. Literally every fight we had was because I took offence instead of letting it slide. I hate the idea that you can “lovingly” disrespect someone - and it’s so typical of men! Why on earth would I want to love someone who can’t say out loud kind words, but jumps at the chance to bring me down? It’s trash behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:31 PM |
| 7 | Exhibit A - Why I don't use online dating anymoreTotally agree! I can’t stand an adult who won’t bother to learn how to speak or type intelligently. It’s so lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 28 | Exhibit A - Why I don't use online dating anymoreOh my god, that’s a true dream - dating apps have spoiled dating far too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!No judgement at all for disconnecting from that; it's definitely a toxic culture at times. However, I just want to point out that with your original statement, and then your subsequent decision to remain willfully ignorant despite my assurance that learning about her had helped me with my own levelling up, came across a little condescending and rubbed me the wrong way. I'm glad this kind of thing can be discussed, and I certainly wouldn't want you to think I'm gatekeeping or withholding any secr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:35 AM |
| 5 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Thanks for explaining! I thought it seemed like that poster just wanted to argue so I didn’t want to take the time, but I did feel such an urge to defend Taylor. And I apologise for assuming that about the above poster, but honestly, it’s no one’s job to be any one else’s research assistant. If one genuinely wanted to learn, they have all the same access to the internet and would seek out all the information on a topic, instead of just resting on the stories that support their clouded and ignora… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 13 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!That’s exactly how I feel! I think the music industry is tricky as far as avoiding misogynistic and pickme anthems/branding, but she overcame that influence and now takes serious steps to promote feminism, equality & supports other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Totally love your attitude, girl! It’s nice when a misinterpretation happens and it doesn’t have to escalate. Thanks for explaining!! Wishing you the best 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 11 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Listen, I’m not her PR person. I’m just a fan who found a good message in a new song and I’m sharing it with women who might appreciate the message. The fact that you’d rather stay uninformed tells me you were never interested in learning more, you only wanted to be “right”. I don’t want to play that game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Unsure of what you’re claiming I’m doing, besides sharing what I found to be empowering music? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Totally glad you’re open to learning more about her! She’s made a lot of positive changes in her life and I’ve found learning about that has helped me level up myself. Her music has definitely been a big help. However, I encourage you to look into her yourself! I don’t want to seem as though I’m only cherry-picking facts that support my claim. If you’re interested in learning more, please do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Had this guy match with me - I have love/hate for profiles like this, as it’s a quick unmatch, but there should be mods for Hinge in particular, cleaning out the very clearly low-effort profiles. Love how he has a photo of a random woman amidst his own shitty selfies 🙄Literally every post on this subreddit tell you to read the handbook before posting. It’s right there at the top of every page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 11 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Sounds like you’re uninformed about her current self! She has since levelled up in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!It’s a new album. She’s changing things up. Leveling up, some might say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 7 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!A lot of these lyrics I interpreted fairly tongue in cheek. Regardless, just because a discussion occurred on FDS doesn’t mean every subsequent post is going to agree with and uphold what was previously discussed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 7 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!I think the message is more important than the brand or genre an artist chooses to create their music. But just so you know, this album is actually folk and not really pop at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:55 PM |
| 23 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Me too!! I loved "The Last Great American Dynasty" and will be embroidering "She had a marvellous time ruining everything", as well as "fuck you forever" ASAP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Had this guy match with me - I have love/hate for profiles like this, as it’s a quick unmatch, but there should be mods for Hinge in particular, cleaning out the very clearly low-effort profiles. Love how he has a photo of a random woman amidst his own shitty selfies 🙄Have you read the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | I want the pattern for this, for my own daughter's room!It's such a powerful poem - I have it saved as a future project, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | I want the pattern for this, for my own daughter's room!It looks fairly simple! You can definitely find that font pattern - if not on pinterest, there's a cool website that offers some basic fonts - stitchpoint.com. & add your own flair!! There are loads of free floral or other simple patterns on pinterest too. If you need any tips, I make these kinds of things all the time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 13 | Had this guy match with me - I have love/hate for profiles like this, as it’s a quick unmatch, but there should be mods for Hinge in particular, cleaning out the very clearly low-effort profiles. Love how he has a photo of a random woman amidst his own shitty selfies 🙄Lol the “liking” a photo as if it does anything. I recently had an old flame follow my insta, then message me asking why I hadn’t followed him back... like, sorry your bare minimum action doesn’t require a response, bud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Had this guy match with me - I have love/hate for profiles like this, as it’s a quick unmatch, but there should be mods for Hinge in particular, cleaning out the very clearly low-effort profiles. Love how he has a photo of a random woman amidst his own shitty selfies 🙄I would not have known that at all😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | No shade to single parents, but the way this is worded is a huge red flag 🚩Hahahah this made me laugh, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:20 PM |
| 0 | How is FDS manupulative?Why the fuck are virgins more respectable than women who have had sex? That only furthers the FDS point that men like you who prize virginity as some kind of desirable trait, and that comes across SUPER creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 01:01 AM |
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