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Pfadfinderei/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 09:10 AM
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I love your perspective of the last couple of sentences. You're right, but I still think it's dreadful that she is such a genuinely good person and was discarded like that. But I guess your dad deserved losing her because of his mistake, too. If that makes sense. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 02:22 PM
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Please don't take this the wrong way, but are you insinuating your mum deserved to be cheated on? :/
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 01:56 PM
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How did it go for your mum after? Did she find someone else? And your dad? My biggest fear is being an exemplary wife to the wrong man. "Sailing with the wrong captain for the best part of your life" comes to mind. :(
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 06:17 AM
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I think this illustrates beautifully how well-rounded a woman was back in the day where expectations were made and met, in comparison to the women today who will joke about their incompetence as if it makes them cute.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 06:22 AM
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The post was from TRP so it's from a RP guys point of view. I'm definitely aware, but I think what he said (Women can change when they are molded to by strong men in their life) is more true than the initial post. Even men have different ideas of the world and women and I don't think many genuinely believe that women are incapable of change. It's just not an easy task, and maybe many women decide it's too much effort (entitlement). Like you said, they claim to try but they don't "waste" their en…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 12:04 PM
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While I understand what you're saying, I don't really see the logic behind it. Surely, both are susceptible to displayed attraction from the opposite gender and both are equally responsible of acting upon it. I'm finding it hard to believe that in today's society, a husband-boyfriend-father-partner is suddenly invisible to the carousel-riding girls that do frequent the sort of place he'd hang with his mates at. He's bound to be targeted and he's bound to be interested (even if it's just a fantas…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 11:51 AM
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The first comment thread is far superior to the original post. Everyone is capable of change; some embrace change easier than others. Certain things are easier to change and some are just so deeply ingrained it seems like a wasted effort. But women are very much capable of change. Doesn't this sort of speak against RPW? There may not be unicorns, but if all women were incapable of change, there would be no RPW because we'd be so indoctrinated by society that we would not rise above all that. Or …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:09 AM
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I don't mean to question your answer, so please keep that in mind. I just want to hear more of this reasoning since it's a little alien to what my friends/family tell me. a) If a woman dresses up to go out with her girlfriends, drinks and parties at bars/clubs, it's a no regardless if she does it to have fun and socialize with her girlfriend and not to flirt. I'm thinking she might dress up a lot to impress her girlfriends too, considering that's how a lot of us women work... If a man is in the …
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:37 AM
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and overwhelmingly moreso Scandinavia It's ridiculous here. If I could complain about one thing about living in Sweden, it's the social necessity to conform to 'politically correct' opinions or ideals.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 01:16 PM
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Likewise - I have a hard time thinking you'd look anywhere near unattractive without make up :) you've got nice, feminine features. And it's brave of you to dare doing that! Another thing that helped me was thinking that,"if I scale down on my make up during day to day interactions, he'll be more likely to stop in his tracks and admire my efforts when I put a full face on 1-2 times a week". So you make that effort special, something he can appreciate - men like variation and a lot can change dep…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 04:33 AM
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I say to scale it down gradually. Find ways around your heavy make up that will make you look fresh but not overly done up. Prepare him for the change. For example, lay off the eyeliner and start tightlining your upper lashline instead. Lay off eyeshadows and make your eyebrows softer. In time, the transition from make up > naked face won't seem as daunting. My boyfriend says that even though I am beautiful with make up on and he's proud to have me on his arm, I'm more expressive without it and …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:47 AM
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Wear braids to bed, it does wonders to keep your hair in check and it always comes out so smooth and shiny when you unfurl them :) like a cheat mode to never having bed-head again.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:38 AM
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You're such an inspiration! May I ask more closely how you submit in daily life (not only the bedroom)? Financial, managing the household/family et cetera?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 06:00 AM
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That sounds like a good intro to a book! Quirky, charming, very adorable.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:12 PM
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This is along the lines of what I wanna do! I mentioned in another comment a sort of diary/journal to track progress with daily tasks and long term tasks. I'll see if I can make a pretty of it, too :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:10 PM
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Very apt. I was thinking of making a journal with 3ish actual tasks after work (today it's: wash and iron SO's shirts, clean and dust basement and lay out a track for dog to sniff) plus long term goals such as "be more emphatic to his hardships rather than my own"/"be more verbally grateful" and I can tick the small tasks off daily whereas I just add the long term goals to each new "week" until I feel I've reconditioned the behaviour. This way I get to feel daily accomplishment and long term pro…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:08 PM
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Oh I love re-reading old conversations! It gives me the same nostalgia I get from wearing the scent I wore when we first met. Warm feels and fondness all around.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:40 PM
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I always (semi-jokingly) tell my SO that if ever I am being a little ms grumps, he should just do me. Sex solves all problems!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:23 AM
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I might sound crazy, but I fear if this ever becomes the norm for women (to go tittybare), it might over time seriously de-sexualise women. Consequently also damage our girl game. To me, that's a catastrophe. Just look at how we've gradually "undressed" since centuries ago, how shoulders and backs and legs have become less sexual (not necessarily less arousing). Women need to be alluring. Men need - want - to wonder what her boobs look like. It's initial attraction. Sexual curiosity is so fuckin…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 02:04 PM
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This just isn't plausible or practical in today's households (the double income kind). I'd rather make sure I look great au naturale (take care of skin, hair and body) so that whenever I do my make up I am stunning rather than just good looking. Men like variety. I think it's also a sort of girl game to keep a few cards up your sleeve to pull out when you want to surprise or please your man - be it lingerie or neatly done make up. I can definitely go from looking genuine and innocent to provocat…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:29 AM
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I finally thought this was a post that shared my issue in having a higher libido than my SO. :P That said, she's pregnant. She's carrying your child. Be gentle with her. This is your moment to be supportive of her challenge. Don't go about demanding sex, try to seduce her. Don't grope right away, start with something that would relax her and maybe touch her innocently-but-suggestively and see if it tickles her fancy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 10:55 AM
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Oh absolutely. Both first hand and among friends! I can't blame people for wanting to work on things rather than getting the hell out; it's painful and you've invested a lot already. But if you're willing to stay with a man for many years, best find one that makes the journey as smooth as possible. Even a perfect match will have bumps. I'm happy with the man I am with, so I treat it as a LTR even if it technically isn't.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 03:04 PM
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Now I'm only 7 months into my own relationship but it got pretty serious right from the bat. I'm with a man who was actively looking for a life partner, his main goal in life is to create and sustain a family home. We moved in together after a month and a half of dating and have been living together ever since. This is my second relationship (first lasted 4 years) and his second (only lasted 1 year) so I have more experience than he has. Of course it's scary to not know if he'll stick with me af…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 02:09 PM
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Isn't dating a sort of assessment for marriage or LTR though? Surely it's a very important phase.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 05:27 AM
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Hmm... I'm a home-goer which means I have a lot of energy to spend throughout the day and into the evening. I crave intimacy when my SO comes home. My SO, on the other hand, is doing 7-5 manual labour (electrician). When he comes home, all he wants to do is to eat, nap for an hour, eat dinner and cuddle to some TV. He usually is too tired and has his mind elsewhere so sex isn't on his mind until I suggestively flash a boob or grope him. We have no issues with our sex life. It's active and varied…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 09:24 AM
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I can't decide whether I want shorter hair (above boobs) or just let mine grow. I am a natural chestnut/brunette but blonde suits my personality better and my SO prefers blonde. For some reason I have quite a few hairs pics. :P Spring/Summer 2012 - Filter, so only shows length. Fall/winter 2012 Spring/Summer 2013 My natural colour! I have no back pic from today but it's about as long as the above pictures, doesn't seem to grow after a certain point. I'm still blonde but have some form of an ombr…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/14 01:03 PM
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Standard fare for most women I know is to gossip and whine about their relationship. To tell intimate details and joke about this and that. To vent about things that make them unhappy. Of course it varies wildly between ages and levels of maturity, but I recall my ex's mother talking poorly of her husband when I asked about certain character traits my ex had. So I can't say for sure, I just know that RPW advocates being the best you can be for your man and in many ways that is to maintain a posi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 06:01 AM
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kids who compare their fathers to one another, i.e. I bet my dad could beat your dad up, etc. This made me chortle, ahah. Very astute. That said... I don't know how long you've lurked here, but I've seen several posts that advocate bragging about your man. For example; don't put him down in front of your friends. Don't complain about the annoying things he does. Don't joke about his fallacies. Speak highly of him always. The things he does, or says, that make you happy. It's all about making an …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 05:07 AM
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Care to elaborate what you think of it?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 03:57 AM
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So out of curiosity, why would you want a committed relationship in the first place?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 05:44 PM
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Hi Man. Genuine question - if your lady kept you wholly satisfied in all/most areas of life, would you still feel capable of cheating on her? If aforementioned chance of an unworldly hot woman hit on you while out drinking, could you do it?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 03:40 PM
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They don't sugarcoat anything and are not prone to make their posts more "reader friendly." Very true, but I still think there's a distinct difference between being honest and brash and being plain offensive at times. Personally I don't give a shit because I have no interest in conversing with any other RP man IRL or online - I'm just saying that their way of expressing themselves is likely more responsible of the negative attention than the value system in itself. They put a degrading connotati…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 07:20 AM
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Out of curiosity! Did you think it seemed RPW at the time you read it? Or did it hit you just now?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:45 PM
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I see it as I am meant to be with my SO not because fate says so, but because we say so. Staying together and being content together is hard, honest and happy work. It isn't high school romance anymore but true love far precedes any of that fairy tale bs anyway ;)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 02:39 PM
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I'm a little critical of how the RP community expresses itself at times, and I think this is what's responsible for the negative attention TRP/RPW has garnered. They see the very aggressively opinionated TRP community and then the lesser antagonizing RPW movement and assume that we are fear-stricken women caught under a man's suppressive rule. I'm sure there are people who genuinely disagree with our value system, but I think many are simply misled because of the negative connotation that has co…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 09:28 AM
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Consider that today, people like you and I are at an advantage. Many women now enjoy the privileges of being a woman in a modern, 'forward thinking' society. They make demands of what they perceive is equality, and write off many qualities that many men value in a relationship for this sake of self-perceived equality. If you are the type of woman who will make your man feel comfortable, happy and relaxed around you, you have already given more than most. This resounded with me when my SO said th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 05:50 AM
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I guess this sorta happened in /r/askmen. I'm not as "aggressively" RP as others but I identify with the mindset of nurturing my man and relationship to best benefit us both. Seems this mindset is more attractive to men than many are willing to admit after the RP label comes into light.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 05:39 AM
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What makes me so sad about all of this is that when this form of verbal abuse is used, there's no respect for one another left in the relationship. In my eyes (and experience) you can't have love without having respect. Why would you even want to be with someone you don't respect and admire? A world doesn't exist where my SO and I call names or make such hurtful claims. There are just so many factors in a relationship that depend on respect, admiration, trust and comfort. I was in a really drama…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 10:04 AM
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I think ironing is an exceptional skill to have. Same with sewing, even if it's just to repair something small. Could you elaborate on why you disagree?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 11:19 PM
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I don't think that you have to hit the wall at 30, in the sense of becoming sexually undesirable. The glow of youth will fade: there's no saving that. But you can still have class, elegance, grace and beauty. In Richard Yates novels, he often writes about how a lot of women grow more beautiful with age. Not because their features drastically change, but because they know what comes with being a proper woman (lady). Keep a good skincare routine (a mild cleanser and generous moisture - all the way…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:24 AM
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I don't really agree with this. No matter what woman I'm with, there will always be someone younger and hotter. There's been times when I had amazing sex with a gorgeous woman I was dating and right afterward, we go out to get food. In less than 10 minutes, I'm checking out other women. I understand what you're saying, but what I mean is that personality has a huge impact on attraction. I've only had serious relationships with two guys, but they've both said that they can acknowledge objective a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 05:07 PM
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I can relate so much, but I think we have to do our best to remember that we are 10s to our men and that's what's most important here. I understand the frustration, the desire to be perfect, but it's a destructive limbo. I've been put on a pedestal too many times for my looks and it puts such awful pressure on you to be perfect all the time. So I have days or weeks go by where I feel like the dullest, most average person in the world and I look chubby from certain angles or I have a droopy eyeli…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 02:18 PM
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The wall at 30? Really? I find some women can be gorgeous/desirable up to 40... Have I misunderstood the concept of 'hitting the wall'?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/14 08:47 PM
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