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" building friendship with women is an effective way to reach a romantic relationship " but also " women hate when their male friends approach them and they get devastated knowing the person they trust had ulterior motive " You should have been very direct from the beginning. Let her know that you like her. You were too careful and girls like masculine guys who speak clearly and know what they want. You were too direct, dude! You can't tell a girl that you like her that soon. You have to learn t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:47 AM
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I understand the study, but it’s just not my experience as a bi male. Literally never had an issue getting a female partner. Did those women know you're bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:36 AM
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Once, a girl I was getting to know and with whom I was getting along very well, punched me in the temple for no reason, without any warning, just because. My brain hurt for the rest of the day. Damn, how helpless I feel remembering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:25 AM
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Your comments are so surreal (and I don't mean that in a good way).... A person who has probably had to endure all sorts of insults and mistreatment for not conforming to the roles and expectations assigned to his/her/its body is making fun of men who question certain things about approaching other people (a typically masculine role). Do you realize you are being an absolute and massive hypocrite? Seriously... Don't you realize? It's like a vegan in a restaurant making fun of a vegetarian becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:22 PM
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Whatevs, fucking redpiller. Go to simp on Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:51 PM
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Explain why the world should cater to your feelings? And this is evidence of an arrogant, onboxious dude who tries too hard to act tough. Funny how by giving you a taste of your own medicine, being rude and caring very little about your feelings, you now try to get all eloquent and civilized. What hypocritical people this sub has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:39 PM
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Explain why your stupid questions should matter to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:25 PM
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Storytime: an attractive woman met a man who meets the Chad and TRP alpha definitions simultaneously, 6'3, good looking, great in bed, aggressive, macho, etc. they start dating. He leaves town to visit his parents and tell them that he thinks he's found a great girl. At that same time she fucks both his best friend* and another guy she knew from some class she took --- at once. Were those dudes also "chad-alpha type"? Or just average (or below average) guys? What happened after the bomb touched …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:54 PM
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There is no way to know that. After 24, people can lie and say they've already had sex. I have this theory that there are a lot of virgin people saying they're not virgins out there. I don't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:23 AM
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For a long time I have thought as you think. These days I've realized if I want to be absolutely sure that none of those bad things of your list will happen to me the only thing I can do is to take the path of celibacy. On the other hand, if I really want to have romantic and sexual experiences, the only thing I can do is to accept that all the bad things you list could happen to me. It's a matter of taking the risk. I don't know if the above is a new pill but it has been a revelation to me. ​ I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:07 AM
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When I came to this sub, a little over a year ago, I was a very angry person; I even enjoyed trading insults with whomever, of course, I also suffered that process. Now I feel much more balanced. I don't know exactly what happened but I'm not so full of hate anymore. I doubt it was because of this sub; rather it was in spite of this sub. Now I'm here partly out of curiosity and partly to read other points of view (after all, that's the slogan: "question what you believe"). Anyway, I don't plan t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:34 AM
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While I think there are decent people on this sub, I agree you can see a lot of persons here taking off their masks, saying what they really think about virgin dudes, unattractive people, neuro-divergent people and people who strays far enough from the "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:39 PM
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Well, I'm not sure. Both seem terrible to me, no doubt. But... A gangbang can be carried out in not so humiliating and ruthless way. Facial abuse is, by definition, always humiliating and ruthless. I think it would hurt me more to see an hypothetical partner in a facial abuse video than in a "normal" gang bang. Edit: This is very subjective. I suppose it would hurt other people more to see their partner in any of the other "sub-genres" you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:30 PM
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Well, what can I tell you... It seems that group sex is a common fantasy of many people (women included). If you add money to the fantasy it's to be expected some women will decide to participate in filmed gang bangs. It's also to be expected that some of the women who participated in such videos are going to keep it as a secret. It's very human to try to avoid the consequences of certain acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:26 PM
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why no facial abuse I wouldn't be sure saying facial abuse is preferable to a gang bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:13 PM
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And the most disturbing thing is there is no real punishment for the people who carry it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:31 PM
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Anyway, while I'm still not sure it's the worst possible act, paternity fraud does rank very, very high on the evil-o-meter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:30 PM
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Good point. You got me thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:11 PM
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I don't get it, you acknowledge men have assaulted you get you think the biggest threat to you is a few bitchy comments. The girl is saying she nearly committed suicide due to bullying from another woman and you reduce that to "bitchy moments." This sub is unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:57 PM
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For me, the only things above paternity fraud on the evil-o-meter are kidnapping, rape, torture and murder. Thus paternity fraud remains one of the worst acts a person can do to another. I suspect you don't see it that way (mainly because you don't run the risk of suffering it) and I also suspect you might even "justify" paternity fraud. I hope I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:52 PM
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Why is it so difficult for so many women to answer questions directly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:12 PM
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Mad Men isnt full of criminals. Uh... I haven't watched any of those works but I know two of them are about criminals. You know well which of the two I was referring to. Anyway. I'm not going to justify something that is just as questionable wherever it comes from. It's also questionable that it's common for male characters to cheat on their partners without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:10 PM
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So for you it could be a problem if the dude is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:03 PM
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If you pay for a prostitute who is often being forced against her will to sell her body and often times underaged you are a piece of shit. This is more or less what I think, that's why I would never go with prostitutes. ​ I’m in public safety and you really wouldn’t say stuff like “but it’s okay, I’m paying for a service” Several times I've heard this "argument." Under such flimsy logic, paying a person to kill another person is also "just paying for a service." ​ if you’ve seen the things that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:50 PM
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Having such a relationship would be a dream for me, but I don't think it's possible. Since I was 12 years old I realized all relationships at my school fell into that dynamic of "let's see who ends up dominating" and mind games and all that stuff . Over the years that perception of relationships has only gotten worse. It seems only in series and movies is where you can find couples that make you envious. I think all the couples I meet in real life make me appreciate my singleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:56 PM
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It's okay. I wasn't asking in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:45 PM
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Hypocrisy is a core characteristic of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:27 AM
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u/meangingersnap u/operation-spot Under this logic then, for you, there is no problem if the dude is a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:21 AM
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I haven't watched any of those works but I know two of them are about criminals. Criminals cheating on their partners seems kind of... predictable to me. Despicable, but very predictable. I guess they do a lot worse things than cheating and nobody in the audience bats an eye because that's expected when you watch a story about criminals. In the fictions I talk about, women protagonists are quite normal people, even exemplary, but they end up cheating on their partners and it's not shown as somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:32 AM
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It doesn't matter if it's realistic or not (and I was imagining this as one of those youtube "social experiments"). Nor is it so unlikely that, in certain contexts, people will start asking questions about these topics. Society (women included) tend to treat a man better when he is known to be sexually experienced. Being a virgin dude, on the other hand, can come with some ridicule and scorn. This is coming from someone who has lived it in his own shoes. So I still think what I said at the begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:16 AM
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Well, it could be. Haven't paid atention to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:23 PM
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You said women are unempathetic with people of other races?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:19 PM
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I agree with you but I'd add the wokeism. Pills and wokeism will be in history books.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:59 PM
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Don't build your standards upon 17y/o redditors who're wasting their youth by arguing etiquette instead of having fun with actual people OP, pay atention to this. Don't take reddit that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:38 PM
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Constantly we consume media with men cheating and it's no biggie. I'm not buying that. Give me examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:05 PM
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I already answered you in the other comment you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:34 AM
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So your belief is based on what? what you WANT the world to be like? Uh... From what I observe and have observed throughout my life? Why does it bother you (plural) so much that I simply want to keep thinking what I think despite a study saying otherwise? It's weird and aggressive. This isn't even a matter of life and death. What's the big deal if I think men and women cheat on their partners to the same extent? Relax a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:17 AM
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That's just what I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:13 AM
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Cause women are wonderful!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:57 PM
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Harems that take place in fantasy worlds are the ones with protagonists like you describe. Harem animes that take place in the real world (without magic or powers or anything heroic) tend to have boring protagonists with nothing remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:49 PM
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It's weird lol If a girl I'm dating told me I had to fight her eleven exes I'd just end the relationship right then and there. Early rolling of credits, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:51 PM
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Red pill dudes say women are much more prone to leave their husbands (or cheat on them) when things get difficult. Women says men are much more prone to leave their wives (or cheat on them) when things get difficult. Both parties have fancy studies to support their statements. Who do I believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:44 PM
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Women are better at it than men. I disagree, even if you show me fancy studies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:38 PM
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I was pillsplaining. Well, I recognize this was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:04 AM
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I think that's the reason so many men fail in dating. You can't stand there and expect women to throw themselves at you. I don't understand why you're telling me this if my flair says I'm "Reddish Purple Pill" and I didn't suggest real life is like harem animes but, well, womansplaining is always welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:51 AM
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(how emotional of you) Are you trying to shame me by resorting to the masculinity-femininity duality? Those spells don't work on me. I was simply giving my opinion. If you have studies that refute it, good for you. I will continue to think men and women cheat on their partners to the same extent and surveys are not effective in studying this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:37 AM
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Although with Hollywood movies there's no dynamic range in terms of looks. Everybody, unless they're explicitly supposed to be pig ugly, is a stud. So the nerd is probably Chad with glasses and messy hair. I recently visited a friend and he decided to show me one of his favorite movies... It's about a high school boy who has a big crush on one of the popular girls. The guy is a brainiac who creates a time machine that he uses to make the girl fall in love with him. And yeah... he's totally a cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:17 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:08 AM
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I have no data or evidence, it's just what I think. People lie in surveys about sensitive topics and that makes the results questionable. I believe women and men cheat to the same extent and I am not interested in seeing surveys about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:06 AM
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Lol I know what the blue-pill is, dude. Calm down a bit. I talked about harem animes because, interestingly, they coincide with the blue-pill idea that you can be attractive to women even if you have nothing notable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:03 AM
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On these issues, surveys have no weight for me. If you ask a lot of people if they have cheated on their partners, it's to be expected a lot of respondents will lie, even if you reiterate everything is anonymous. If you ask a lot of people if they have been cheated on, many will lie to you out of shame, even if you reiterate everything is anonymous.​
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:55 AM
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There are lists online of "movies where the nerd gets the girl", which I assume are a reasonable starting point, but because I don't know movies I have no idea how relevant or noteworthy those movies are, in this context. I'd say that at least half of movies and series aimed at men and boys consist of a not very graceful dude (he may or may not be a nerd) who gets the pretty girl in the end. Problem here is OP might counter-attack with something like this... "Well, it's true that the protagonist…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:41 AM
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while in other contexts it scares me how insensitive women can be. Well, a good example of this is how women tend to be so unempathetic when it comes to homeless people or beggars. In my life experience, I've found men are much more empathetic to these types of people. And as I said in my first comment, I feel many times women's empathy is just an act: The same woman who cries at the sight of an injured kitten might be completely indifferent if there is no audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:23 AM
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I don't know if you genuinely misunderstood my message or if you are pretending to misunderstand. Let's say it was the former. ​ Society as a whole value men according to their sexual success. Two men introduce themselves to a group of women. The first man says he dated X number of women throughout his life. The second man tells the girls that he is a virgin who hasn't even had his first kiss. Who do you think is more likely to be treated well by the group of women? Women has something to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:11 AM
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Dude, I don't think anyone here (no matter how much free time he has and no matter how passionate he is about pills discussion) will go to the trouble of putting together a well-documented compilation showing examples of blue-pill in media. Don't know if that's what you're looking for but it sounds a bit like it. There are countless stories in the media and many of them, I think most of them, are made up of both blue-pill and red-pill ideas and moments. Interestingly, the only type of fiction I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:54 AM
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Women are generally more empathetic than men. It's a scientific fact. Saying that something is a scientific fact doesn't make it a scientific fact. And what I just said is a scientific fact. Anyway, it's not very clear to me how something as subjective as empathy can be measured scientifically. In my (subjective) experience I don't find women to be more empathetic than men. I think women are good at faking empathy in certain situations, while in other contexts it scares me how insensitive women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:30 AM
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This one is pretty hard to believe. You are saying that men have a higher sex drive, are programed to be polyamorous but its women that cheat more? I don't know dude. I believe both genders cheat to the same extent. Maybe decades ago it wasn't like this but now we have dating apps and social media; both things make cheating easy (and tempting) for women. Whereas, according to me, most men cheat on their partners with sex workers. Speaking of blue pill media... Have you noticed how common it's fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:18 AM
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I don’t want sex I want to be productive It's not good to try to be productive all the time. I hope that's not the case for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:07 AM
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That sex rules your lives in a way I’m glad it doesn’t rule mine. Women has something to do with this. Society as a whole value men according to their sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:04 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:55 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:32 PM
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Can you have friends and don't like to talk with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:15 PM
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Most of the time yes... Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:47 PM
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It’s not some thing you think about doing, it just happens. That's not my perception. Always find it too rehearsed. Anyway. Is not the end of the world, I just dislike flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:20 PM
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Is not that natural for some people, including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:17 PM
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this is what happens when we uphold a version of masculinity that makes it embarrassing to be vulnerable For me, flirting as a man, has nothing to do with showing vulnerability. In fact, I feel it's precisely the opposite: an attempt to show off (hyper) masculine and chad and all that stuff. Subjectivity always intrigues me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:17 AM
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Don't know. I just think it's cheesy and forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:03 AM
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​ "Reddish purple pill" or "Magenta pill." I discovered the red pill by chance on the Internet while reading about love-shyness. That was about 4 years ago. Then I kept discovering more pills until I came to this place. Humans can be awful. Women are human. Somewhere in between. I am much less susceptible to being manipulated and disrepected by women and by anyone. I have lost two female friends because of arguments about pills. I don't know if this is a bad thing either. I didn't go into this u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:59 PM
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What is the worst that can happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:42 AM
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Dude, I just turned the computer back on because I felt so sorry to leave you without a reply, all alone. Here I am. I see you. You exist :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:37 AM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:24 PM
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I would also not like to meet any of the people I have had problems with in this post and that includes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah you are. You are doing precisely what you are complaining about. No, I'm not. It's as embarrassing for people on the spectrum I'm not autistic. This is the third or fourth time you have suggested it even though I made it clear from the beginning that I'm not autistic. ​Aren't you using it as an insult? ​ If you don't like flirting, don't do it. I had never had that idea!!! You know something else? If I don't like something I have the freedom to say I don't like it. If the (non-offensive) ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:05 PM
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I already answered you below. You asked the same thing twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:53 PM
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I'm not attacking anyone directly and I'm not belittling anything. I'm just saying that I find flirting embarrassing. If I like X musical genre and someone says that they don't like X musical genre because it's cringey I wouldn't be offended. All of the above is very different from saying: "You only hate flirting because you hate yourself beacuase you're autistic." Now that's a direct attack and an offense. You know something?... It's funny how three decent people, so typically developed, so fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:47 PM
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Then don't say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:34 PM
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Why? Is that what you’re doing here? More projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:27 PM
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Have you ever had conversations with women where you guys are just talking and you were smiling because you were genuinely having a good time talking or laughing because it was actually funny? Yes, I have had those moments, but that doesn't count as flirting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:09 PM
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Before trying to help others, seek help for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:07 PM
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Flirting isn't normal interaction to me, but I understand each person has their own definition of "normal".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:52 PM
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Yep. Being offensive and then shielding yourself by saying "hey! I wasn't being offensive" is a very typical attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:50 PM
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I mean I'm mostly thinking "god he must be boring to talk to at social gatherings" Well, you're thinking wrong... because someone who thinks all flirting is cringe must not make for a fun conversational speaker. and that way of thinking is quite weird. It's like being suspicious of a person who doesn't like pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:46 PM
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This is starting to look like you’re just here picking fights with people. Interesting. Have you heard of a psychological phenomenon called "projection"? I'm sure you'll find it very interesting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:43 PM
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I didn't read it that way Well, I did read it as an insult and since it was directed at me it makes sense that, in this context, my subjectivity carries more weight than the subjectivity of a third party. No, I wouldn't be surprised if any of the PPD or TRP men were on the spectrum, as typically developing people rarely suffer the problems of relating to the opposite sex or paying grifters for content. And this sounds like mockery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:39 PM
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It would be a genuine question if it didn't come with this... I have no idea what you’re experiencing but it feels you’re just projecting your own dislike of it onto the world around you. Anyway, you're already at a point where you're going to justify whatever this person says or has said to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:35 PM
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I have no idea what you’re experiencing but it feels you’re just projecting your own dislike of it onto the world around you. Yeah, sure, dude. You weren't trying to be offensive here, of course you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:31 PM
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Good question, I don't know. I guess just letting it happen through normal interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:27 PM
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Both styles of flirting cause me cringe. The flashy, pompous, fancy one you exemplified and the laid back, cool, trendy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:15 PM
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sorry for the cliche but you must really not be social at all. I am not as social as I would like to be. I'm not as asocial as you think I am (and maybe as you'd like me to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:09 PM
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This person is not "discussing autism". He is using it as an insult (which should not be allowed). Nice try, friend. And no, I'm not autistic. Would you and this person have a problem if I were?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:05 PM
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curious what your interpretation of flirting is lol Flirting: Uh... flirting. Almost every time I see or hear a person initiating a flirtation, whether in real life or in some sort of fiction and no matter what the outcome is, I get a cringe punch. I think it's pretty clear here what I mean by "flirting." Showing a person that you have romantic-sexual interest in her/him through various actions or comments that may be more or less daring or more or less direct. Sorry, I'm not going to follow thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:00 PM
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Are you artistic or anything? Yes, in fact that's my occupation, I'm an artist. If the word was "autistic", I think the mods will like to see your message, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:52 PM
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I recommend separating your ideas into paragraphs. That way it's easier for people to be interested and understand your message. Regarding the topic: I think in these times, as you rightly say, men have abandoned women... but women have also abandoned men. The only thing both genders want is the opposite gender bending to its will and worldview. It's not a matter of understanding and cooperation. It's a matter of imposition. At least that's how it feels to me. Both genders have abandoned each ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:45 PM
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Ok. Then things will carry on as they have. I just don’t wanna hear any more men complaining about how men don’t have rights like women do then. Do you really think hundreds of thousands of people (maybe millions) will stop complaining just because one person asks for it? As someone already told you, and as annoying as it may be, people have the right to complain. If you can't tolerate it just stay away for a while (or forever) from spaces where complaining is common. I agree with you that it ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:19 PM
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How about forcing the scum who impregnated someone else's wife/girlfriend to take care of HIS kid(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:30 PM
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As a man, in today's society I feel constantly watched in public spaces and if I do anything remotely suspicious I will have a bunch of people ready to save the day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:14 AM
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Can you really use them like chin pillows?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:23 PM
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I challenge you to make that question post. "Question for men: Would you dislike or would you like women to have a more active role in dating?" Or anything similar. You won't make it because you're afraid of having to swallow your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:17 PM
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(Damn, seriously people in this sub have such strange ways of arguing). ​ Oh, so you believe fantasies are reality? Dude... “I wish someone would rape me” A man saying this is a person expressing a sexual fantasy. “I wish someone would rape me” A woman saying this (or something like this) is a person expressing a sexual fantasy. You can verify that rape is a relatively common fantasy among women if you consult surveys. As an anecdotal backup I once met a girl who, in one of those truth or dare g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:51 PM
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I tried it and that happened more often than not, and others have similar experiences. If a man tells you women don't like him because he has tried to aproach several times you would probably tell him something like "stop being such a coward and keep trying!" You've tried taking the initiative with some men, it hasn't worked and you're pretty sure all men have a problem with that. Do you notice the inconsistency in these two paragraphs? It wouldn't bother me if a woman took the initiative. If I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:41 PM
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“I wish someone would rape me” Rape is also a common fantasy among women. Despite this, society takes rape against women seriously...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:49 PM
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While it's true an attractive woman receives better treatment than an unattractive one, the difference is not that great. The way society treats an attractive man and an unattractive one is abysmally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:19 PM
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Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely not care about others... and expect for people not to think that sounds kinda crazy or entitled. Dude, this usually happens after you were an empathetic man who genuinely cared about others, listened to their problems and tried to help, but you realized when you expected others to empathize with your issues you only got indifference or even mockery. As these types of experiences accumulate, your empathy dies or goes to sleep and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:04 PM
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Men set it up this way because they liked it, gives them more control over who to date. Hahaha! What?!I'm sure most men would have no problem with the idea of women playing a much more active role and starting to take the initiative in dating. For me, the very passive role of women is due to three reasons: They are indeed terrified of rejection. They feel they are too cool to approach a guy. "I'm the prize!, they have to seek me out and win me over, never the other way around, darling." They don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:54 PM
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I get your point and kinda agree, really, but men starting worthless is the distorted belief of almost the whole society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:39 PM
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So you hate incels but also chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:24 PM
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I just don't understand why you insist to pretend that these men aren't using this to numb themselves. Because it is a lie. If by numb you mean using those things to have fun for a couple of hours I agree (now it's a crime for men to have fun?). If by numb you mean a total escape from reality... Well, that's not true. Just to clarify:I have nothing against video games, but I think we'd all be better off without porn (at least removing the live action thing). Anyway, this is not the point. If it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:37 PM
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Have you never had a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:30 PM
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but they still watch porn and play video games. And this is relevant because? If you're going to tell me that men in relationships don't do these two things I'm going to laugh. I don't deny most incels play games and watch porn (as well as a large portion of humanity, including women). What I deny is they spend 26 hours a day doing it and that's the reason for their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:23 PM
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The literal ONLY decider as to whether its “enough” is if a woman chooses to be with them. Then it doesn't make much sense for you to have an opinion about these men unless one is trying to have a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:13 PM
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What exactly do you think your average incel does ? Most incels are normal dudes. Not monsters who spend most of their time locked in their basements playing video games and watching porn. If many of them do not approach women, it may have a lot to do with the fact women keep repeating they hate to be approached. those things do work and they will numb you despite the fact that you still want to be with a woman. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:54 PM
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Say what you want. You're just showing that you're a person with the empathy of a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:21 PM
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Whatever, dude. There's no point in this. Under your logic it will never be enough. These men will never try hard enough. It's funny that there are men who don't need to do much to get partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:19 PM
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Very easy to say when you are a person who has never had a problem finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:15 PM
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That is not possible. Right. A big part of features women find attractive are features that can't be worked on, unless you're willing to undergo surgeries (and have the money for it).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:14 PM
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Ok, well if it doesn’t vanish their desire to find a partner maybe they should harness it to make themselves desirable? And here comes the myth that men can't find a partner because they spend 18 hours a day playing video games and watching porn and bathe once a month. So sick of this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:09 PM
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Given all this, why is this a major issue now compared to previous decades or centuries? I’d love for someone to explain this to me. Because it is positive to care about people's well-being. For millennia, slavery was totally normalized and it is good that this is no longer the case. Decades ago many problems that women had were not seen as problems, but as everyday things. But, of course, when it comes to men issues no one cares. You're proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:02 PM
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I dunno, they’re pretty numbed with porn, food, drink drugs and starfield at 30 frames per second (lol) I'm so sick of hearing/reading this. No, dude, most men aren't numbed with that things and they can't vanish most men's desire to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:56 PM
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All of them, dude :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:28 PM
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If you can't be attractive you can always be angry Let me correct it, dude, because you spelled it all wrong. If you aren't attractive you can always remind people about the absurd royal treatment attractive people receive and thus trigger them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:47 PM
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Dude, I don't care about you empathy at all. Funny you think that could be relevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:26 AM
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It seems like the only angry one here is you. I'm just dozing off. ZzZzZz...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:19 PM
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I am really curious how you know the entire context of the relationships around you for you to draw these conclusions. And the same can be said of you when you claim most average men with partners have healthy relationships. Or does your logic not apply if we use it against you? Are men around you disclosing that they are being cucked? A lot of stories on the internet make you suspicious. In my real environment there are rumors. Are they confiding that they are being used for money or not having…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:13 PM
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What are your sources for these bold claims? I see it all the time everywhere. What are your sources for saying this is not the case? In the end it's your word against mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:53 PM
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"And, don't know about you, but I've found attractive people (like jocks) have better morals than the rest."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:46 PM
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Many of the jocks were also quite intelligent and social. Here, people... Observe the halo effect in all its splendor. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:37 PM
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ZzZzZz... More mental gymnastics for not recognizing that, quite simply, looks are the most important thing and it doesn't matter if you have an awful personality or character, as long as you have looks women will line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:34 PM
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There's plenty of regular average dudes in relationships as well Relationships where it's not uncommon for these poor guys to just be flesh and blood ATMs. Relationships where sex is had once every six months, if the guy is lucky and fulfills his beloved's every whim. Relationships where it's not uncommon for the guy to end up a cuckold. You always forget to say all of the above when you talk about these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:26 PM
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So now it's the ChAraCtEr... Yeah, sure. You guys always come up with something new when someone proves your arguments don't hold water. In a few weeks or months someone will prove that character doesn't matter either and then you guys will come out with some other fancy word ("it's not the character it's the PsYchE!") and so on until the end of time. ZzZzZz... I only crush on men I find funny and charismatic, and nothing's stopping those men from also being toxic or abusive. Well, thanks for te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:40 AM
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Oops, I think I hit a fiber.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:14 PM
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I hope someday you stop being such a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:13 PM
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Why don't you show us examples? Because I don't take orders from you. If you are so interested, look into it on your own. You keep saying this but you have no proof, it's all in your head. Please, show proof that every man who has been accused of harassment is unattractive. It's not in my head. I see it all the time. People treat ugly people like dirt. People treat attractive people like royalty. And, again, if you are so interested, research it for yourself. You can start with the halo effect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:06 PM
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who didn’t act like a piece of shit when he didn’t get what he wanted Have they learned this from you, women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:55 PM
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Clearly your opinion. But, things that are considered criminal acts have laws against them. Show me the law and I'll believe you lol. It's hilarious that you feel you can just declare something is considered a criminal act and then just give your opinion and think that proves something. The fact that a law is not written does not mean that it is not there. The fact that a law is written does not mean that society will comply with it. There are plenty of examples on the Internet about allegations…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:38 PM
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Well luckily an unsuccessful or unattractive man approaching a woman is not considered a criminal act. It is. If the guy is handsome it's flirting. If the guy is ugly it's harassment. Inc*ls are not considered bad people because they are unsuccessful in dating, it's for other reasons. Nah, I'm pretty sure it's from not being able to date. In our ridiculous society having a woman (or many, if you can) is the biggest status symbol and good behavior for a man. It's like a little star on your forehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:18 PM
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Considering men who are unsuccessful in dating to be bad people (misogynistic, sexist, racist and all that) and considering a criminal act when an unsuccessful or unattractive man approaches a woman are very unfair things and I wouldn't mind if society did something about it. Of everything else, there's not much to say...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:02 PM
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And men here could inspire a lot more empathy from women if they actually tried displaying some themselves for women and didn’t use such hostile and demeaning language when stating their grievances. The problem here is you can show empathy and nothing guarantees you will receive the same treatment and be listened to. Enough times it has happened to me that I have listened and empathized with women's problems and suffering. However, when I think my turn came and I started to talk about my afflict…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:29 PM
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but that doesn’t involve tolerating toxic reactions like anger. These "toxic reactions" usually arise after someone tries to downplay the suffering of these people. When a woman with a satisfying sex and love life says to a guy who has never in his life received at least one compliment "Come on, sex isn't even that important, stop being so whiny and dramatic" it's very hard not to get an angry reaction. And it's quite common, at least in this sub, for most women, and some men, to do this. I've a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:36 PM
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I don't care about your biased science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:01 AM
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Women put in hours to do there makeup and look good? You do this for yourselves and, above all, to avoid being criticized by other women for not wearing makeup (sorority!). No man forces you to wear make-up. Finding a girlfriend is more difficult than ever because women now have ridiculous standards...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:59 AM
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Most men think they are more physically attractive than they are Let me correct that title for you: Most women think they are more physically attractive than they are You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:07 AM
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It is what it is. At the end of the day, life is not meant to be fair. Some people will always have more advantages than others. It's so funny, I always hear this from the most privileged people. People like you. I wonder if you would be so okay with that whole "life isn't fair" philosophy if you had been at the bottom of the pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:00 AM
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Sorry. I don't take orders from unempathetic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:50 AM
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Oh, I understand empathy, fully and completely. Nope, you don't. If you understood it you wouldn't have written the garbage you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:49 AM
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And women are not entitled to men's efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:46 AM
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u/Dstar538888 Empathy is putting yourself in the other person's shoes and trying to understand his or her suffering. I know this concept must be alien to both of you but make an effort. Empathy, for example, is being a woman with an active sex and affective life and refraining from telling a lonely man: "come on, dude, sex is no big deal, stop being a crybaby." Empathy, for example, is not trying to minimize the suffering of others. Empathy is learning to be silent or to speak up when the time i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:42 AM
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You convince no one with your arguments. I don't think you even convince yourself. Justice is a human matter (or a matter of minds complex enough to conceive of right and wrong). There is no justice in a lion devouring its prey. Nor is there justice in a male dolphin raping a female dolphin. There is no justice when a human being does something horrible to another human being and (whether or not there is divine intervention) what is expected is that other humans do something about it. That's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:26 AM
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Biology is not above justice. Think about that until something clicks in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:06 AM
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Man is not the only one who determines the "genetic quality" of the offspring. Pretty obvious, isn't it? You can have a handsome father and an unattractive mother and be an unattractive person. I'm not a genetics expert, but I think it's even possible to have two attractive parents and be an unattractive person. So it's not impossible to be an ugly guy, son of a Chad, raised by an average or ugly man. Anyway. Here you're talking about past generations: in those times this was more fair, kinda. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:52 PM
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But we see ugly, poor, and short dudes who are dating and married IRL. It happens. I suspect many of these men are cucks. I prefer to be lonely than being a cuckold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:25 PM
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u/LingonberryLost6118 If the dude is ugly or average is arrogance, ew. If the dude is handsome is cOoOnFiDencE. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:54 PM
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Better morals tend to create a lack of options. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:43 PM
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but I doubt you’ll believe me I believe you. I think feeling wanted is important but a lot of men seem to believe sex is the only way to feel wanted. I've always felt it's a risky move to try to give up sex because eventually years might pass and you might realize you really need it but it would be too late to do anything about it. Anyway, looking at the big picture it seems many young men will have no choice and will have to try to be happy without romance and eroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:23 AM
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I always say this but men tell me that relationships are a human need and therefore their insane focus on it is warranted. Never had a partner? Are you a virgin? Only if you answer both questions with a yes you could suggest romantic and sexual relationships aren't necessary. No one is dying because celibacy but affective and erotic interaction seems to be something crucial for the mental health of vast majority of humanity. It's okay if you are part of a minority that can live well without this…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:59 AM
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I've read several of your comments and you show a lot of conformity to that whole "it's perfectly natural that only few men reproduce" narrative. I wonder if you would show the same conformity if the roles were reversed and it was your gender that had guaranteed loneliness and sexual frustration. Just out of curiosity... Do you accept without so much trouble those biological and psycho-evolutionary issues where women have the disadvantage? Or in these cases do you think society should go against…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:20 AM
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Karma bit me in the ass because I married a woman who was just with me to support her, and got shitty starfish sex, and discovered she lied about all the sexual stuff she did in the past. I think you deserve even worse than that for all the damage you've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:07 AM
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Also, it's ridiculous how married men, or men in relationships are immediately labeled as not being a part of this issue. Whenever there is talk about cheating there must always be someone who suggests or claims the person being cheated on is to blame. You cannot justify infidelity. You simply cannot. If you're dissatisfied with your relationship simply end it and then look for someone else. Hiding behind something like "I cheated on you because you were no longer a good partner" is one of the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:04 AM
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Well, the woman who created the concept set that time. It doesn't seem so little to me from a normie point of view. Average people don't usually stay celibate for even six months, do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:42 AM
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And by martial arts, I mean styles that involve active sparring such as Boxing, Karate, Wrestling, BJJ, or Muay Thai. -Let's risk to suffer brain damage in order to increase our attractiveness with women! -Yay! I think practicing martial arts is a very good idea for several reasons, including developing confidence and becoming more attractive. If you don't plan to become a professional sparring is a pretty bad idea to me. It's practically an actual fight where you're risking a lot and getting ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:35 AM
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It's annoying because it's obnoxious. Simple as that. Don't try to use mind tricks. Whether or not you have a bunch of potential partners, you have every right to be as picky as you want. What's obnoxious is creating a bunch of insecurities in others, just like these women are doing through these videos. The number of times I haven't taken an umbrella with me and ended up soaked precisely because I know women find it effeminate for a man to protect himself from the rain. Now I don't care, give m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:11 AM
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This must be before Tinder. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:54 PM
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It's true. The original concept was devised by a woman: "If, despite wanting to, you haven't had any romantic or sexual interaction in at least six months you can consider yourself an incel." That was the original idea. Now the concept has become so warped that most women will use it against you when you disagree with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:05 PM
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True. Just world fallacy is for men. With women is somenone else's fault (often men's fault) and everyone has to do something to make things easier for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:52 PM
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Using an exception as an example is a bad idea. Just out of curiosity... Was the guy successful in his quest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:19 AM
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On this very sub you have men talking about how Chad gets things 10 minutes after meeting a woman. And this is a lie? Genuine question...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:22 AM
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I have sympathy for non misogynistic incels, truly, which is why I ask what the solution is, because I can’t find one no matter how much I think. Don't know. You can't force any woman to partner with a dude. No matter how lonely and good person that man could be. If she isn't attracted then nothing. At the same time you can't deny that a high enough number of incels can become a real problem because, as I already said, emotional and sexual interaction are very important for the good mental funct…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:14 AM
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I mean it’s a lot easier to put a roof over someone’s head than to find someone to fuck them when no one wants to. It doesn't matter which is easier, what matters is that no one cares both cases. And thanks proving my point, it's hard not to think you actually hate virgin man after this. Not to mention one is essential for survival Totally agree, though affective and sexual interaction is usually a pillar for good mental health and good mental health is usually a pillar for good general health a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:02 AM
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Most homeless men do not have access to Internet and even if they did, they would prefer to spend that time meeting their most basic needs. I doubt very much that the opinion of homeless men towards women, other men and society is very positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:48 AM
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It's always the guys that want any woman off the street at the drop of a hat that are both dangerous and bothersome. I've never seen that but I guess I have no reason not to believe it. ...asking women to accept casual sex proposals that YOU KNOW harm them is definitely not the way to go. It's never been a long-term friend who is genuinely interested in dating me I don't understand why many women find it so outrageous when a friend starts showing interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:36 AM
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Well that's why it's not a good idea to spend much time in places like this. Once you understand more or less every concept and the general workings of straight intersex dynamics you better go on with your life, now with this knowledge. I just come back here from time to time out of pure curiosity and yes, with the exception of a few posts, everything is pretty much always the same: men lamenting their loneliness, women gaslighting, lots of hate in between....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:23 AM
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someone or several people repeatedly begging me for money/favors/sex I can't give is just uncomfortable. That goes beyond doing nothing. For a person who has all their basic needs met (food, water, shelter, hygiene...) it can be annoying to deal with a person who begs for at least a fraction of those things. I get it, but, at the same time, do homeless people have another option? Should homeless people who have no way to improve their condition simply stop bothering us and starve or freeze to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:15 AM
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u/houstongradengineer Although I dislike talking about virgin men and homeless men in this way (because it can be misunderstood as a comparison, and in this sense I think homeless people have it worse), I would like to add something. Normies love the just world fallacy: if you have a good life it's because you deserve it; if you have a bad life it's because you deserve it. To most average people being a virgin man means being an unpleasant and evil person. The funny thing is there are no shortag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:04 AM
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And the things said in those posts are the same every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:43 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:31 PM
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"We women are not a hive mind." They proceed to act like a hive mind...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:50 PM
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All the ridicule you can find in the entire media about male virginity. As someone else already said, the fact that one of women's favorite insults to a man is "incel" or "virgin." The fact after a certain age it's very difficult to find a partner if you are a virgin man. The fact that after a certain age it's in your best interest to lie if you are a man and remain virgin. The mere existence of this post counts as another proof. And I could go on and on and on and on...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:36 PM
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Dude: Society hates virgin men. It doesn't matter if they tell you otherwise a million times (their actions are what matter). It doesn't matter if a lot of people contradict my comment... Society hates virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:56 PM
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there are even extreme cases like College Gangbangs. Dude, could you talk about this more, please? I'm intrigued and want my daily dose of outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:39 AM
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All I was saying earlier is that this stupid fucking topic, which gets beaten to death, revived daily, and beaten to death again and again on PPD, is a sign of narcissism and self centeredness of the guys here. women aren't obsessing over male abuse victims, only as commodities for women and not as people deserving of sympathy or empathy. and posting "men like evil, intense, hot/crazy women only because they're evil" daily here. Women, as a group, do not even take into account the victims of abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:47 AM
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u/UltimateMelee123 Well, it makes some sense. It is my understanding that in Hellenic and Romanesque cultures the pinnacle of beauty and eroticism was not young women, but young men. In our culture today there is no shortage of songs, poems or any kind of stories declaring women to be the most beautiful creature in creation, while men, well... I also think it would be beneficial if we, as a society, stopped fawning so much over the physical beauty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:43 PM
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I don't think men are on some moral high ground we are just less picky and more realistic in the short term. In the long term i think we tend to be more unrealistic and want the perfect girlfriend before we get married. I hadn't looked at it this way but it makes some sense, though... Don't you think women are doubly unrealistic? Men are more realistic when choosing a mate: "I'm an average guy and I like that average girl over there." And somewhat idealistic in imagining a long-term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:17 PM
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Because most people like evil people (even if they deny it) and that's why we have the world we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:56 PM
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But if I didn't have to treat men like people, I wouldn't and I would be so happy treating them like dirt! Why can't I be a Stacy huh? Feel bad for me. It's soOOOoo unfair :( So you think I'm jealous of those Chads who can treat women like crap and still have all the sex they want with them? Uh... You skipped this part of my post? Look, in the end, we all have the right to be attracted to whomever the heck we want, no matter how twisted that may be. If you like evil men, why not just recognize i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:47 PM
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I knew it! And everyone saying I'm crazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:23 PM
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You just proved my whole point. Thank you for that. This is the last response you will ever get from me in your entire life. See you never.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:22 AM
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There is no point. Whatever I answer you, you will discard it because it's no longer a matter of understanding me but of contradicting me. That's why I'm smarter than you. Stop bothering me. Read that person's reply a thousand times and maybe you can understand where the contradiction is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:50 AM
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I feel like you think you're really clever and intelligent. Smarter than you (and most people in this sub), yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:45 AM
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Let's say a girl becomes bad. The woman won't give a damn how the nice guy feels about her evilness. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:12 AM
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Yeah, yeah dude. You know me inside out (you don't). I know who to count on when I want to make a post that has nothing to do with me into a post that (without any basis) is about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:08 AM
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Damn. It always amazes me that the sadsack side of red pill doesn't just get woke and hang out with us weird artsy/indie/alt kids. I read this shit and I realize I seem to live in an alternate world, then I remember why I never step foot in a club or sports bar. It DOES smell like asshole in there and I probably WOULD strike out with the women there. Surprise, dude! Just graduated from an art college (as a second degree, I'm not that young). From my experience, things are more or less the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:00 AM
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I recognize this is a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:55 AM
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It's contradictory because she seems to suggest most women are attracted to evil men because "attraction is amoral." Shortly thereafter she suggests men are to blame for preferring women who prefer evil men. You suggest most women prefer evil men and then you say those women are a minority that non-evil men should ignore. There lies the (huge) contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah,thats my point and I didnt even say women are nice to non-evil lol Of course you suggested women feel pressured to play good girl role with men who aren´t evil. That's just what your first comment says! The reality is women tend to be cruel to non-evil men, while they show their most simp side with the worst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:43 AM
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I think this is true, but I would add that status gives you a much much more indulgence. I agree. Status can give you indulgence but not as much as beauty. Your status has to be stratospheric to have the same level of indulgence that good looks would give you. You need to be a celebrity or a millionaire to be able to compete with a pretty face and a tall, muscular body. By the way, in my previous reply I forgot to add I suspect most women would prefer a handsome and evil man over a handsome and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:37 AM
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The funniest people on the internet are those who think they know you inside out after reading a few paragraphs of your authorship. You are part of that group. At no point have I ever talked about my situation. You don't know if I have a girlfriend, if I'm married or if I'm even interested in having a partner. You don't even know if I'm a lonely person. This post has nothing to do with me. I'm simply saying it's somewhat ridiculous to want to offer solace by saying "evil men succeed with women n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:29 AM
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My idea is women like men with good looks no matter how evil they are. Since attractive men get so much approval and indulgence it is to be expected they are so confident and outgoing (in the same way, society often treats ugly people like dirt and it is to be expected they are insecure and lonely). I'm not quite sure if a normal or ugly man can be very attractive to women if he starts acting like a cretin (just like many attractive men) but there are many people who advocate this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:04 PM
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When I read the pain of a man who can’t get any affection and has no friends I’m not thinking “yes! All these men wanna bang me I’m so great!” I’m thinking “wow this is terrible, it was never like this 10 years ago. Something’s going on here. This isn’t normal.” Maybe you don't think so and empathize (good for you). I suspect most women do use these rants just as feed for their egos. I'm not saying men shouldn't express their sadness and frustrations, but perhaps they should do it in private and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:55 PM
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Dude, are you on meth? Or do you simply need to improve your reading comprehension? At no point did I suggest that I scare you. In your first replies you tell me I use the anonymity of Reddit to talk about these issues and I tell you I wouldn't be scared to talk about these issues without a mask, but it seems like you would be scared to do that, you're projecting onto me, nothing more. Did you get the point or do I have to slow down even more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:53 PM
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No one is saying that women don’t care about moral quality of a man as long as he is coOonFiDenT and sTrrroOonG. This is an assumption you're making based on their statement. Uh... "Bad men are not successful with women because they are bad but because of their high level of self-confidence." It's difficult not to interpret this statement otherwise. Most horrible people don't automatically showcase their dysfunctional traits. Yeah... The old argument that evil men are successful with women becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:46 PM
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Yeah, yeah. More gaslighting. The point is, in the end, women prefer evil men. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:33 PM
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The problem with this inferences is fat they are based on cherry picking. In the last two weeks I've read "it's not that bad men are successful with women because they're bad, but because of their great self-confidence" dozens of times in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:31 PM
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The point is men like you assume that the good looking and charming guy is inherently more "evil" than the average sexless. Well... yeah. I think attractive people (of both sexes) tend to be meaner than other people. Because of the halo effect attractive people receive more leniency from society and their virtues are exaggerated. Attractive people realize they can do quite cruel things and receive no punishment for it. People in general are very simp when it comes to dealing with beautiful peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:29 PM
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I forgive you. But if you're going to give such a short answer that adds nothing to the discussion I don't understand why do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:22 PM
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So you are accepting that you prefer bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:20 PM
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This has nothing to do with me saying "I'm a nice guy!" I don't even consider myself a good person. Nice try. Learn to read. The only point I'm making in this post is that claiming "bad men are successful with women because they are so self-confident" is as depressing as claiming women like bad men because they're bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:02 PM
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I was already laughing in your face before you wrote this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:57 PM
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Yeah so,when I did say women are nice to non-evil men? Really??? Women like bad guys because they don't feel pressure to be good girl with them lol Women do not feel pressured to act like nice girls in front of men they are not attracted to. (People in this sub have very strange ways of discuss)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:02 AM
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Having a different opinion or not being aware of things is not gaslighting. I know that. Please Google the term before using it. Nope. Because I already know what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:52 AM
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Well, that was fast... and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:45 AM
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It's not like women are very nice to "non-evil men" either. I would say it is the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:40 AM
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I don't care. I don't even consider myself a good person. What intrigues me is that need to do so much gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:37 AM
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Cute that you think I care what you think or what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:34 AM
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The heck are you saying, dude? Reddit is anonymous. As if you weren't also using that anonymity. And I'm not afraid to talk about these issues without a mask. It does scare you, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:31 AM
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Also improve your writing because it's difficult to understand what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:29 AM
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Ha! True.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:26 AM
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Show your work. Do you want studies, statistics and all that? I'd better give you this (an excerpt from one of my posts): 15. Research War It's not uncommon in this sub for people to share statistics, studies and all kinds of information from formal sources to back up their statements. It's also not uncommon for all this material to be dismissed by other people. This bias works as follows: "This research agrees with my worldview and is done with a lot of scientific rigors; therefore, it is the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:25 AM
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Nobody is just going to magically see you and recognise your deepest truths there, cowering in a corner like a little grey mouse. Did someone say projection? You're behaving as though you don't actually want to know anyone. I don't want to meet anyone. At least no one like you. And so you remain unknown. And who the heck are you, Mr./Mrs. Super Famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:18 AM
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Unpopular men regard popular men as villains. They aren’t reliable reporters. Normal people tend to be very indulgent and exaggerate the virtues of attractive and popular men (it's called halo effect). So sorry, these people (especially straight women) don't make reliable reporters either. Men aren’t “evil” just because they are successful with dating. I agree (you're not saying anything revolutionary here. dude). Bad men are bad men for physically and verbally abusing other people, for messing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:12 AM
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This is all people, not men. No one thinks it's going to happen to them. It's hilarious that you want to make all of these excuses for men and then pretend that women don't feel the same. Well, yeah, I recognize you have a point here but at the same time no. Many times it's easy to tell when a man is bad and many times women choose him anyway. It's not the same as trying something with that girl who reciprocates and seems good but she will cuckolding you. Evilness in men is usually much more evi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:04 AM
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i hate when posts just start with a really crazy assumption. can we please show how women, as a general whole love criminals and murderers before arguing about why? The fact I have exposed a topic that seems very common in this sub doesn't mean, in principle, that I agree with it. Improve your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:52 AM
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If most men are chasing and want those women it makes them cucks attracted to evil by the same logic you use to say that women are attracted to evil rather than some overlooking it. They really want those women. There is also the fact that many of these men are completely blinded by the Women Are Wonderful effect and are unable to listen to even the slightest criticism directed at women without considering it misogyny. Didn't you think of that? One of the key points of cheating on someone is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:48 AM
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Your logic is that most men are cucks that want evil women that are going to cheat on them. Wut?! Hahahaha! Dude... My logic is that most women don't give a damn if a man is evil as long as he is "strong and self-confident" and it seems many women even like evil men. Your view is that men who aren't evil should stop giving these women attention but I'm telling you the problem is that most women are like that. You really don't get it???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:27 AM
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Men can be faulted for chasing those same for the exact same reason. Why are men trying to get with those women if they lack morals? Because, I told you, it seems that most women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:18 AM
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Has nothing to do with "women wanting evil men". Totally agree, but you were the one who brought the discussion to this point. Some people don't care about character. That goes for men and women. A lot of people apparently and it seems especially women, because the "we don't like bad men for being bad but for their self-confidence" argument I've read it a bunch of times around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:12 AM
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No, I didn't know, because it's not true. I think it is. And even if it doesn't that doesn't change the fact most straight men have very vertical relationships with women (the verticality is in favor of women, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:00 AM
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Choose one. Who are they with?? Uh... both? That a woman cheats on her boyfriend or husband is the most common thing in our times, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:53 AM
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Most men aren't those things and yet most men are also in relationships proving you wrong. Most men are in relationships where they are somewhat like servants to their partners. I did a post about it some months ago. I suggested no amount at all. So, yeah, most women line up for evil men...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:50 AM
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Why are men trying to date these evil women that want bullies, murderers, cheaters or whatever else? Because it seems that most women are attracted to this type of men? These shouldn't be women anyone wants, but you clearly care. If it seems that most women have these preferences, what can I do? D: Attraction is amoral. You contradict yourself a lot in such a short answer. You tell me attraction is amoral and then suggest women who seek bad men are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:40 AM
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See where? Anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:04 PM
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I dont believe the vast majority of women know or care about this. Men talking about and lamenting their chronic singleness has become more or less mainstream in recent years. And, again, they don't care in the sense they would like to solve it but they can use it as ego feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:37 PM
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I dont know about the other guys but the stuff I talk about here and express I would never do in real life. Why is it difficult for you, guys, to understand that, in this issue, anonymity doesn't matter? Women read that a lot of men are desperate for intimacy and sex. This causes their already quite inflated egos to inflate further and this has consequences in their "real life" behavior. Anonymity doesn't matter here. If you lament your involuntary celibacy in public spaces women will use it as …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:22 PM
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You and many women consider even the slightest criticism directed at you to be misogyny and you tell me men are self-indulgent and self absorbed? You would rather hyper-focus on trivial shit like “Women are self-absorbed” That is misogyny. So I have no right to criticize the majority of women because of a criminal and violent minority of men with whom I have nothing to do? I guess this makes sense to you but not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:10 PM
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Or are you just basing this on some videos on the internet? I base this on what I see most men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:03 PM
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Men do not owe women protection. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:32 AM
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Yeah, I think I exaggerated a bit, didn't I? Actually, women give themselves a solid 20/10 in attractiveness level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:28 AM
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Your ideas sound great on paper (on the screen rather). Bringing them to reality is another matter. Your words reflect a dance between longing and resistance, the desire to connect and the struggle to find balance. Rather, it's the struggle between the desire to connect and the desire to respond to the aggressions of a hostile and indifferent system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:08 PM
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They are losers too. Like you. I guess you're at home here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:59 PM
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That’s not how it works. It works the way I tell it to work. vast majority of men are doing fine with women Quite questionable. Anyway, it's true that most men have had sex at least once but of all those only a loser minority do virgin shaming and you, my "friend", are part of it. if you can’t get any one you’re losing hard If your self-confidence is so fragile that you have to make fun of "the biggest losers on the planet" to feel good you're losing in the hardest way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:52 PM
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It would be more like... "Stop expressing your sexual frustration in public to stop feeding the egos of people who don't care about you."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:42 PM
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or vent to other guys who share your frustrations. And do this in private, not in public spaces like this where women can read about your sexual frustration and use it as feed for their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:38 PM
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Or maybe you've just been lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:34 PM
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People who do virgin shaming are the biggest losers in the galaxy :B
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:33 PM
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I actually posted it here first ;) And criticizing women is not misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:32 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:45 PM
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Hey, considering the number of Ukrainian women tweeting from the front lines, they kind of have the right to point and laugh at the guys who fled. Nope. Men go to war: What a horrible thing. Men being men. Women go to war: How brave. It is admirable. The cowardly men who fled should learn. To end this beating, I'm sure the number of ukrainian women fighting is fractional compared to the number of ukrainian men fighting, many probably against their will. It's also likely that many of these women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:44 PM
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If you actually believe that anything men share here is impacting the way women perceive men, generally, you're over-inflating dramatically the importance of what truly is a very niche and small corner of the internet. Men expressing their sexual frustration is something that has become more or less mainstream. Never tell people not to access and share something vulnerable, when men do that, it's actually brave of them and helps them individually heal because they're speaking with their own voic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:37 PM
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So we aren’t allowed to complain cuz we’re men? My speech is not a "MAN UP!" speech What I'm trying to say is that lamenting in public about your involuntary celibacy sends a message to women and that message is "look how much men need us to be happy", "of course they need us, we are the best!", " we women are wonderful!" Am I explaining myself well now? Maybe men should talk about this with each other and in private or maybe only with women they trust a lot (a mother, a sister, a very close fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:31 PM
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But I agree with the second part, it probably does make women feel more central than they should do when we’re spoken about as both the ultimate route and also somehow salvation of men’s issue. Yes. Here I can see that you understood my central point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:36 PM
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I think you answered your own question in your statement. I didn't ask any genuine questions in my post. It was all rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:23 PM
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Most men have an overinflated perception of their own attractiveness and the sexual interest that women might have in them. Nope. Just like i said, there are enough normal women to date. Where are they? I literally never had to deal with inflated relationship market value women. Just because you have enjoyed this doesn't mean it's the norm. Good luck and exceptions do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:48 PM
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Expressing that you are sad and frustrated because you don't have a girlfriend does have consequences in "real life." As I said, publicly lamenting your involuntary celibacy inflates women's egos and that's a consequence that goes beyond social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:37 PM
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I’m talking about actual relationships not one night stands If women are having casual sex with the most attractive men it is to be expected that many of them are not interested in traditional relationships and that leaves a lot of men out of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:34 PM
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Or are you one of those people who just assumes that every guy who's struggling is some NEET neckbeard who plays anime visual novels and never showers? Yep, she thinks that way. What girl wants to date a boy who has zero friends and spends 4 hours a night playing video games and all he can “make” is hot pockets? What girl wants a man who hasn’t cleaned his shower in the past 5 months, pisses on the toilet seats and complains that women have it way too easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:25 PM
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Human history, most of the time, has been "only the royal family and some of the nobility matter", so don't give me the narrative "in the past all women were slaves and all men lived very well."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:17 PM
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Look up the origin of marriage. Literal property. There are countries in the world today that still see marriage rape as a completely legal thing. Didn't you read this part? And I'm not saying women didn't suffer injustices before or that they don't still suffer them. ​ Men fighting men for other men. Idk what to say about that. Did you know that not all men who go to war do so voluntarily and that, during wars, the leaders were sometimes women? :D Did you know that ukrainian men who refused to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:08 PM
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I hadn't looked at it that way but it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:51 PM
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As apposed to the 70 thousand years of the "Men Are The Only Ones That Matter effect?" That has never been a reality. Who have always been the ones who are sent to die in horrible ways in wars and who have always been the ones who have received the most protection? And I'm not saying women didn't suffer injustices before or that they don't still suffer them. But I think nowadays the system does favor them too much. So, your advice to people who feel disenfranchised is to shut the fuck up because…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:44 PM
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the amount of men I meet who do just that is insane Well, there are men like that. That they are a majority... I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:33 PM
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Oh. So if I have hobbies, a friend group, and a clean shower... then I'm allowed to complain? You shouldn't complain. It inflates women's (already inflated) egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:31 PM
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I have a a large friend group, good job, hobbies, cooking, cleaning. And a lot of men also have this and still can't get a partner. That whole "you can't get a girl because you don't shower and play video games all day" narrative is already so burnt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:26 PM
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to be brutally honest a lot of men don’t seem to realize that they bring absolutely nothing to the table. What do you bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:17 PM
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Of course. You can lament your involuntary celibacy anonymously and then in "real life" wear your mask and make everyone think you're having sex. This doesn't change the fact that, by sharing your sexual frustration online, you've already contributed to inflating women's egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:08 PM
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Just because you're a liar doesn't mean we all are. This is the last response you will ever get from me (and by the way, you never gave me the list I asked for).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:07 AM
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I ain't doing none. With very few exceptions aside, I haven't done any of this myself, but that doesn't mean that everything I say isn't common in male-female friendships. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:55 PM
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(and it's women who usually end up paying for more things, caring about gift giving and bringing food and the like). Nope. Not my experience at least. Especially the "protection" thing, which I always find funny - protection from what? "That guy over there is looking at me and he's suspicious. If something happens you have to protect me." "You have to take me home. It's getting dark and something could happen to me." "That animal (dog, cat, racoon, whatever) looks aggressive. Walk ahead of me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:53 PM
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But realistically it's usually the woman. When you are friends with a woman, as a man, society (and the girl herself) may pressure you to: -Carry her things -Protect her in dangerous or potentially dangerous situations -Take her home -Pay for things -And more I look forward to your list of things that make you think women give more in friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:45 AM
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Many men (who don't spend all day locked in their basements) will tell you that being friends with a woman means giving too much and getting too little. This is also part of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:18 AM
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I think exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:19 PM
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but if you run into a coworker at the coffee station and don’t acknowledge them, because you can’t fuck them…… 🤷🏻‍♀️ And that wouldn't be respectful (which I think is the key word in my comment). Just because you are not friends with someone doesn't mean you ignore them or are rude to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:24 PM
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It's on the men's side. Nope. You are not entitled to a sexual interaction because someone enjoys a conversation with you. But I do have every right to walk away from that person (no matter how much she enjoy my conversations) if she isn't interested in sexual interactions with me. Are men entitled to sex? No Are women entitles to friendship whit men? No It's that easy. It begs the question "Do you even like women?" Outside the context of dating and the possibility of sex. You can like women in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:16 PM
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Ooh no, women want friends who are men. The horror!! The fucking entitlement of women wanting friends instead of men always wanting sex. OoOohhh, no! A straight dude wants to have sex! The horror! The fucking entitlement of this man! Just as men are not entitled to sex (something I've heard a thousand times, and agree with), women are not entitled to male friendship. If tomorrow all women in the world decided never to have sex with anyone, men would have to learn to live with it. If tomorrow all…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:50 PM
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They're complaining that men only ever talk to women if they think there's a chance they could fuck them. Is there anything wrong with approaching a person because you would like to have romance or sex with her/him and then walking away if you realize there is no way? To me there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are respectful. And OP is right in saying being friends with a woman, as a man, usually comes with a set of duties. Moreover... many times it has happened to me, and I have also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:29 PM
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But women are allowed to feel hurt by their behavior, too. So when a woman loses a male friend because he realized didn't have a chance, she has every right to feel sad and complain on reddit, but when a man is rejected by a woman he has no right to feel sad and complain because "women don't owe you sex, dude, get over it." ??? It's a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:16 PM
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This is one of the strangest posts I've ever seen on this sub. You really excelled... Not even 1000 years of feminist brainwashing could remove the humiliating feeling of giving it all to a woman just to get a few crumbs from her, while other dudes just have to exist and stand there to get everything they want (and more) from any women. The brat should be raised by the guy who fertilized the egg. If you bring a little human into this world it's YOUR obligation to take care of him/her. To propose…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:37 PM
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It's okay. Your father sounds like a good person. I'm about to leave. Just to end the discussion I'd like to keep remarking I think most women are bad at handling criticism and that it's not men think sex is the only important thing in life but when you've never had it, or haven't had it in a long time, your mental health deteriorates. See you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:38 PM
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Dude, I believe you. You don't have tattoos, you don't drink and you didn't have a hook up phase (and I didn't even say these things were bad; maybe just the last one I find it distasteful). That wasn't the point of my reply. You are approaching it all in a personal scope and here we are discussing in a global context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:22 PM
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Z-pill should be based on the idea that the sovereignty of the individual is not protected by society but rather that sovereignty is something we have to have for ourselves. So in this sense.. Z-Pill could be considered the struggle for individual sovereignty against a cruel and hostile world seeking to exploit you. Definitely a dark pill. This could be a good summary of my post.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 06:17 PM
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Well, I guess you could be right.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:12 PM
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men should be criticized for sending unsolicited dick pics. Like how the eff did that ever become normal. Absolutely no one is saying that sending unsolicited photos of your genitals is something acceptable that should be normalized. What he said was that men can accept a reasonable criticism towards certain common behaviors of their own gender, while you can't: women always end up justifying any female behavior no matter how toxic it is or decide to insult the sender of that criticism, calling …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:56 PM
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Sounds like a video-game character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:31 AM
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We can talk. It's all I can do to try to make you feel better.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:20 AM
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Sorry. It's just that his avatar is ambiguous.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:07 AM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:01 AM
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Haha wut? They say that?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:44 AM
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Are you a dude or a girl?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:35 AM
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This. It is like being in good physical health. When you have it, you don't care. When you don't have it, you crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:16 AM
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I bring my company, my attention and my existence to the table.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:08 AM
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In PPD one person told me that it would have been better to make separate posts of the best points and I agree. The "problem" is that, right now, I'm making several changes in my life and one of them is to take some distance from these places at least for a while. Maybe when I come back I'll make separate posts of the most interesting "fragments".
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:46 AM
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I am the specialest 11.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:32 AM
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Thanks
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:31 AM
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I've been accused of this. I don't think I mean to brag, but how exactly am I supposed to use my anecdotal experience, like lots of other people do, without anyone noticing that it's been good? Depends very much on the context. If I were to write a post asking "How many girlfriends have you had?" or "Can you give me tips for talking to girls?", clearly, you're not bragging. On the other hand, if a post doesn't have much to do with talking about your romantic-sexual history, it does feel very for…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:30 AM
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I'm specialer
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 11:55 PM
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I'm an 11
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 08:04 PM
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The wall is invented. Men’s obsession with youth is driven by porn. And women's obssesion with hegith is driven by...? That doesn’t make women being violent okay. Tell that to all the people who say it's no big deal when a woman harasses or beats a man. Dating is a numbers game. Dating is a numbers game for men. If you are a woman all you have to do is exist and eventually you will get a partner. Of course, I think men are pretty much to blame for this. Women wanting bad guys is immaturity. Poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:27 PM
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In a few months... Final Pill XVI
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:56 PM
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A guy friend I recently had a crush on for years rejected me, and even though he still wanted to be friends, it wasn't healthy for me to hear about him dating the hot tinder girls he rejected me for. This is one of the main reasons why I think it's not a good idea to remain friends with a person who has rejected you. Very damaging to your self-esteem. The other reason is that if you remain friends with that person and that person behaves well (and doesn't talk to you about his/her romantic-sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:51 PM
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At no time did I claim that men are more rational than women... Read that part again more carefully and you will understand what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:10 AM
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Don't do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:02 AM
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Come on, dude, it's only about 1759 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:24 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:56 AM
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Your personal experiences tell you men are worse at accepting criticism. My personal experiences tell me women are worse at accepting criticism. This is a dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:54 AM
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“Too long didn’t read” u/No-Boat5713 Sorry, dudes, but you'll have to read the whole thing or just let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:42 AM
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So the only reason men have for living is for sex? I would say no but also that it's one of the most important things for almost anyone (maybe for you too but it's easy to judge from a probable abundance). Think of something that on a psychological level is very important to you and then think you can no longer have it. Even if that's not the only thing in your life, not having it will cause damage to your mental health. Also, almost everyone, men and women can’t take criticism. I agree but wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:37 AM
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There are a lot of stories of how the unattractive girls are often the meanest. Stories I don't know. On the other hand, I have experienced or seen firsthand the bad actions of attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:29 AM
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Exactly. She deflected the whole discussion and went to who knows what grounds. u/Cethlinnstooth Society says if a woman harasses or beats a man there isn't so much of a problem because she's not strong enough to rape or kill said man. I say that harassment and hitting are negative (even traumatic) experiences that should be taken seriously, even if they go no further. If for whatever reason I'm a much weaker man than any woman and I go to the street to grope and beat women it would still be a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:24 AM
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They do. They don't. In this point I was talking more about real environments. Not virtual. The grapes are very sour. I know that. Many times people say that grapes are sour as a cope. Many times grapes are actually sour. We don't take criticism that is obvious nonsense from lazy men unwilling to do anything except whine. You're proving my point, so thanks, I guess. I'm quite sure the men here won't be doing any of that anyway. And that's fine because, as I said, we men are not obliged to risk o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:14 AM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:04 AM
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You seem to think you are above red pillers I don't think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:03 AM
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Ugly people and pretty people have an equal chance of being evil. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:01 AM
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I agree but I did this because I don't want to spend so much time on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:00 AM
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Don't know what terp is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:51 AM
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The New Deal 🤝 enslaving high earning men for the benefit of tough guys and their little harem of loser females. Can you explain this in more detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:04 PM
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Go outside. That's my plan. Why are you so angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:47 PM
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Also “feminine” societies don’t necessarily care about the wellbeing of everyone equally. "Femenine" societies care about the wellbeing of women (especially white straight women) and the wellbeing of handsome men :B
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:27 PM
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This is (more or less) the theory behind lesbian separatism. It is an interesting question: what kind of society would women construct if they had complete power to do so? Everything would be and would have been more or less the same. The only substantial difference I can think of is the color of the Nazi flag would have been pink, black and white instead of red, black and white. Ah, and nuclear explosions wouldn't have the shape of a mushroom, but of a heart or something like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:13 PM
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You are just deflecting attention away from my arguments. I'm telling you that you're doing exactly the same thing you criticize (fearing introspection and blaming others) and when women have problems for some reason it's everyone's fault and we all have to change for them, but when a man has problems it's all his fault. Don't avoid this discussion, you know you can't win it? Cretins absolutely fuck. Cretins fuck, marry and procreate. Cretin men get with cretin women. Nope. Cretins are with all …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:38 PM
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You not being able to socialize is a you problem. Not a society problem. There are no systemic barriers preventing you from socializing. You are not being discriminated against because you are a (romantically unsuccessful) male. That all people see a man as a potential rapist and murderer is the man's problem? That many women consider you harassing them if you approach them to talk, ask them out, compliment them or try to flirt is only a man's problem? Of course, all of this happens when you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:27 PM
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It's not that we downplay it. It's more like, what more do you actually want from us? Do you want us to slide in your DMs and offer our bodies? Because that's never going to happen. Hey... >No, I'm not saying lonely men are entitled to sex and women are obligated to provide it. And yes, you downplay these conditions. It would be nice if you would stop doing that and maybe that would be enough. Right now I can't think of what else you could do. If you are an adult, it's your responsibility to fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:18 AM
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then they are hypocritical too. Hypocrites like most of humankind. Just look at this post and check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:33 PM
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Are you and men in general pursuing unattractive women with great personalities? Well, we could ask the same question to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:12 PM
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What comes across as a “douchebag” to other dudes can be flirtatious or confident or naughty to women. Nope A dude who knows he's stronger than many other men around him and constantly uses this advantage to intimidate or physically abuse those men. A dude who doesn't mind having sex with women who have boyfriend or are married. A dude who makes fun of other men's physical flaws. A dude who has no empathy. A dude who doesn't mind trampling on others to get what he wants. That's the definition of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:12 AM
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And another thing you’re not considering: women want the guy that other guys respect or fear. So no matter how much of a scumbag you are, as long as other men fear or respect you women will line up to be with you... WOW! That's very encouraging and speaks VERY highly of women! I have so misjudged them all these years D:
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:00 AM
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So you're telling me that sweetened blue pill also sounds like radical ideology to you? I didn't expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:58 PM
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Problem here is Blue-Pill isn't seen as a radical ideology but as the default ideology: -Women hardly care or not at all care about looks. -The only thing you need to find a partner is to be yourself and be kind. -Most people are good. -Cheating on a partner is a very strange phenomenon. -Feminism is good and we should all support it. -There's nothing wrong with virgin men. ​ And, well, I could go on and on but you get the point. The ideologies that are considered radical are those that contradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:29 PM
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This is my take: What Red-Pill says is true. Since there are billions of people out there and the same number of factors are involved in human relationships it's not surprising there are some exceptions that contradict the "rules" (rather the descriptions) of the Red-Pill. This to me is the manifestation of the Blue-Pill. From both pills obviously emerges The Purple-Pill. Which to me is a very reddish purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:18 PM
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If you don’t think working towards your relationship goals with self improvement or accepting what is available to you is an option what is? Nothing. There is simply nothing left. Self-improvement doesn't usually work for getting a partner (funny how you ignored almost everything I said about it in my previous response) and you can't resign yourself to accepting what is available to you if nothing is available to you. ​ Men are going to have to learn to pick another option that is available to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:09 PM
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Hehe great way to allow women to be unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:54 PM
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Here we go again... Men’s desires are not more valuable than women’s freewill. Men can want whatever they want but they can’t expect to be given sex just because they want it. Life doesn’t work that way with anything. Did you skip this part? >No, I'm not saying lonely men are entitled to sex and women are obligated to provide it. ​ All of it is just desires that you have to work towards so why is sex seen differently? You have to put time and effort into yourself and your goals to achieve them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:29 AM
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but not all people are like that. Most people are like that and that's enough, and more than enough, to have the world we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:05 PM
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My problem with all this self-improvement stuff is that you can perfect yourself all you want and there's still the likelihood you're still as lonely and virgin as at the beginning, while other men leave much to be desired in every way but have no problem finding partner(s). As example, you said you spent five years in celibacy because of an abusive relationship and it's strange how most women have one or more stories of relationships like that: If it's really necessary to be the best version of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:58 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:29 PM
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Sex with a hooker is unsatisfying because the pleasure is only one way. You want a women to orgasm, lust after you, get turned on. u/Financial_Leave4411 Why can't women understand this? Women also seem to forget prostitution is illegal in most parts of the planet and if you hire these services the odds are not low that you are paying to practically rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:22 PM
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Did you read this part? >My personal situation (whether I'm a kissless-hugeless-handholdless virgin or an accomplished porn performer) is irrelevant to this post. I'm talking about something I see happening in a global context, not in my individual context. Was your advice directed at me or was it a plural and indeterminate "you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:18 PM
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You will never get people to empathize with your plights if you won't acknowledge theirs and vice versa. It's just basic human psychology. The problem here is I have shown empathy for the suffering of others (whether men or women) and when the time comes and those people should show their empathy towards you it turns out that they don't, some even make fun or try to hurt you through the vulnerability you've just shown. As time goes by you live more experiences of this type and that hardens you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:13 PM
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Women need to stop with recommending therapy whenever this issue is discussed. Not all problems require therapy. I agree. I would sometimes even say psycho-therapy can do more harm than good. Also keep in mind most "mental-health professionals" are quite unprofessional and I say this from experience. In the end when you visit a psychologist you'll most likely receive poor care and spend no small amount of money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:54 PM
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If you are consistently failing in dating its because there's something else you need to work on Or maybe you are too unattractive. Or maybe you've just been very unlucky. Or maybe the standards of women around you are too high. I agree: many times the problem is yourself, however, it doesn't apply to all cases. It's not uncommon to see men with all sorts of toxic attitudes who still get plenty of female attention, so... ​ You choose to be miserable or you choose to improve yourself, even in ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:50 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:36 PM
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When I defined Chad that way, it was a response to the expectation that Chads are the only men that can sweep a woman off her feet. That's simply not true. I would really like to believe this is true but at this point I'm not so sure. If you compare everything an average man has to do to get a girlfriend with how little an attractive man has to do to get a lot of women interested in him... In the end it feels like the average man is negotiating something akin to attraction (more like convenience…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:45 PM
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Blackpill: Humankind is very lookist. My looks don't meet the criteria humankind demands. That makes me feel angry, sad and hopeless because I'm going to have a hard and lonely life. Bluepill: Everything Blackpill says is a lie. Looks hardly matter or don't matter. If you are good, confident and have an interesting personality you can achieve any social experience you want. White pill: Humankind is very lookist. My looks don't meet the criteria humankind demands. That doesn't matter to me. Someh…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:31 PM
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f you define "Sir Chad Chaddington" as "a guy who meets basic standards of hygiene and respect", then you're absolutely right. Nope. The definition we give him is a tall, handsome and maybe muscular guy. That's it. Suggesting most men are rejected for having poor hygiene or for sending unsolicited photos of their genitals is pure gaslighting. Most men have acceptable hygiene and most men do not digitally harass. All artificial justifications for not accepting that most women kinda drool over Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:12 PM
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Dude, I just can't believe it... I'm taking a look at the sub and there are a lot of quite attractive women. I'm sorry but I can't believe these people have never had anyone interested in them. I remember in my first college there was a girl who kept saying how ugly she was and how no man was interested in her. This person's Facebook page was full of "I'm so ugly!" memes, things that ranged from self-mockery to self-pity. The funny part is she was quite attractive and had already rejected severa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:56 PM
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Running away when you run out of arguments. A classic!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:15 AM
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Just don't do it on a subreddit for DEBATING. Debate often consists of pointing fingers, criticizing and even protesting. Confrontation of ideas. Did you know all this? Or what does debate consist of for you? That a group of women get together to make statements and a group of men get together to unconditionally approve and adore those statements? Bwahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:08 AM
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Of course, because we men, as the men we are, cannot protest when a system that is completely out of balance harms us. That's unthinkable. We have to resist in silence and abnegation anything, no matter how absurd it is, because that's what men do! I'm sorry but that's not happening. Not anymore. If you, women, spend lot of time protesting for a thousand reasons (some justified and others ridiculous), can't we do something similar? I know how much you would love for most of us men to suffer quie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:58 AM
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In one of the comments below someone says days ago they were encouraging a guy to commit suicide, so they don't seem so harmless to me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 06:20 PM
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Interesting you agree with most incels and late bloomers on something you experienced and suffered yourself. Doesn't that get you thinking further?
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:26 PM
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Anyway, how are women supposed to know if a man is a monster? It's not like it's announced. It's not strange after a certain period certain men start to become known as cretins, bullies, womanizers, cheaters, abusers even beaters... And yet many women still seek them out, so many times it is announced and despite this they continue to be sexually successful men. Anyway, I have to go, if you answer something maybe I'll answer later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:21 PM
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Women are drawn to strength and confidence. If a man displays these two qualities women don't seem to care that this same man is pure scum, so in the end it's still as hopeless as simply stating women like evil men. As long as you show "strength and confidence" it makes absolutely no difference if you are a monster: women will line up. There's not much to discuss here, dude, we have abysmally distinct opinions, and you're already starting to add virgin shaming, which has made it all worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:01 PM
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So they are armored
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 07:54 PM
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I've had one psychiatrist (who is my favorite so far) straight up tell me that the damage is done. What do you think is the "cut-off age" for not ending up like this? Early 20s? Late 20s?
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 07:43 PM
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Is there nothing that can be done to get IT closed?
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 07:35 PM
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My worldview more or less coincides with these studies: human beings are very prone to lookism and women seem to prefer violent, unempathetic and misogynistic men, I have never seen a good man with remarkable sexual success while I have seen the opposite. Could I be wrong? Maybe. I'm not so arrogant as to think I have the absolute knowledge, but in the end one ends up leaning to one "truth" or the other. If you think humankind isn't prone to lookism and women don't show a predilection for evil m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:11 PM
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Some people say the classic "take a shower, dude" advice that many women give to lonely men is just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:37 AM
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I already did, "bruh"... The fact there are studies and research suggesting or showing we are racist by default does not justify racism. u/wes_bestern
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:32 AM
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I think we should try to be the best we can be, even if our "genetic programming" pushes us to the opposite. For example, I can understand from a purely pragmatic point of view it's best for a woman to marry the guy who has money and get secretly pregnant with the tall, muscular, handsome guy. However, this is unacceptable from a moral and human point of view and, at least for me, this is all that ultimately matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:14 PM
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That's the trick: it doesn't matter what kind of studies I show you because you will always say they are not convincing for some reason or another. The key is the studies that align with your ideas are the ones that actually have all the scientific rigor and objectivity, while those that question your way of seeing the world are the shoddy, unreliable ones. This is a bias I see all the time and into which all people fall, whatever their idelogy. I call it "the war of studies."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:30 PM
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Any evidence presented to you is going to be rejected, so this is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:13 PM
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There is plenty of anecdotal evidence of normal women who end up choosing the bully or the criminal, so as hopeless as it is (I know it is) it seems women are hybristophiliacs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:01 PM
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Your first two points have nothing to do with looks, though. Those are behavior-based. Work on your reading comprehesion, dude Scientific Blackpill is an extensive collection of facts supporting the idea that humankind is tremendously aspectist, with hybristophilic and ephebophilic leanings. Hybristophilia is behaviour-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:57 PM
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How do you know he's "scum" just because he's a gang member? Is it impossible to be a gang member, who doesn't murder and doesn't steal? Really?...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:41 PM
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Are women attracted to crime? Or to a man's assertiveness and strength? The fact that a woman doesn't care a guy is scum because he's "strong and assertive" is still as hopeless as simply saying women like criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:30 PM
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Stop making 1 to 1 comparisons between men and women. We are biologically different. Also stop looking at female attraction through a male lens. Translation: Stop questioning women's questionable attitudes. Stay quiet in a corner and let women do what they want, even if what they do affects you negatively and unfairly. ​ That isn't to say that women don't value hot men, it's that their attraction (at least initially) is more diverse. How is it possible women have more varied tastes when only a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:21 PM
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My last (but not first) psychologist (a woman) told me to hire prostitutes to stop feeling so lonely. She also told me I should take psycho-drugs because, otherwise, my problems (feeling lonely and angry from time to time) would sooner or later cause me to have a violent psychotic attack... I'll never in my life go back to any "mental health professional". I'm much better off working on this issue on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:05 PM
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Well, at least she wasn't your girlfriend and you didn't like her. Knowing this the experience isn't as twisted (although it's still outrageous) and she probably did it out of spite she felt over your rejection. How pathetic (her).
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:37 AM
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Most human have a fascination with the idea of cheating on their partners. I think in our society women have more opportunities to carry out that idea.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:31 AM
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I wouldn't hang myself. You shouldn't either. Don't ever give anyone the satisfaction of knowing you killed yourself for them. The thing to do in these cases is to take it maturely, walk away and apply the law of ice to the people who hurt you. This is the boring option (though perhaps the best)... Or you can also plan a revenge that will make the people involved regret for the rest of their lives the hurt they did to you. This is what I would do.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:26 AM
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Women want to have an enjoyable sexual experience as well and it’s kind of hard to do that when you have to instruct the guy or he can’t last for long. It’s just a hurdle most women aren’t interested in facing. What I state in my post goes beyond this. Most women don't want to be with a virgin man because they think sex will be awkward, fast and boring. I think to some extent this is respectable (although I disagree and will address this issue later). What I find outrageous is women, and society…
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 03:13 AM
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She was your girlfriend? Did you like her?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:41 PM
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I've had couples literally have sex on my passed out body just to remind me of my place. Could you explain this? You've had women having sex on you with other men while you are blackout???
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:24 PM
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Pre-selection consists of the attraction that arises in most women when they discover a man is capable of attracting other women. The more women a man is able to attract, the greater the effect. "If so many girls are interested in him it's because there must be something very good about him." This is a big reason why womanizers can remain womanizers and this is also why lonely men tend to be increasingly lonely:"if no woman wants him it's because there's something very wrong with him." ​ You’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:41 PM
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Other women may be looking at your wife and thinking, “it must be something 🤨” This is exactly what is known as "pre-selection."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:21 PM
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Sex is not a big deal for those who get it. Sex is a big deal for most people, both those who have it and those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:59 PM
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I agree that in a relationship between a random dude and a partnered woman she is the one who is mostly to blame. I disagree that he is innocent, he is also despicable.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 10:52 PM
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a male stripper or some rando who hooked up with a married woman is not at fault of anything, if something he is just exposing the garbage. This is the praising I'm talking about. You're even saying he's doing something good (!?) Of course he is doing something wrong and deserves the same hate cheating women receive.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 10:32 PM
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If you hate women for cheating (and maybe mostly because one cheated on you) and then you applaud a chad who has sex with women who have boyfriend/husband, to me you're some kind of cuck.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 10:20 PM
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That doesn't make sense.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 10:07 PM
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What real world experiences have influenced you? In my real environment I've always seen the most questionable men usually have a partner or don't have a hard time getting into a new relationship if they're single. Almost all of the men who have treated me badly (some really badly) without reason are people with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:14 AM
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I continue to strongly disagree. Out there there are a lot of men who can't get partners largely because of their lack of confidence. Are these men bad people? We can also apply it the other way around: there are plenty of men who, despite not being very good people, have had numerous partners because of the confidence they project. A person can have a golden heart but if he/she was born with the bad luck of being very ugly or with some deformity and has suffered bullying during his/her developm…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:50 AM
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No one is saying this. You basically just straight up constructed a misinterpretation of what people have said and called it a day. At no time did I state anyone said that... That was the conclusion I came to when I heard this: "It's not we prefer bad men; it's just those types of men usually display more confidence, charisma and (insert any other quality) than good men."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:34 AM
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I couldn't disagree more, but I guess that's the point of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:28 AM
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What do you consider to be bad things? Treating others badly. Treating other people cruelly. Being ungrateful. ​ What ought you to be doing to help others? I have long felt my path is to help people, in some way or another. But I've always put it off because I'm lazy, selfish and a coward. This year I want to give it a try, as soon as I finish college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:49 PM
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I've done all kinds of bad things in the past. I don't help others as much as I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:04 PM
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Here I'm speaking within the context of the discussion I'm having with this person. He/She has ended up falling for my initial premise that certain masculine traits are more important to women than morality. The rest of the replies in this post indicate women do care about the morals of their potential mates. However, looking at the real world it doesn't seem to me that good men are the most successful in romantic or sexual matters. In the end I'm not quite sure what to believe or think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:01 PM
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I avoid anyone (no matter their gender) who can bring negative things into my life. Farewell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:41 PM
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Drinking alcohol or smoking weed doesn't make you a bad person, although both drugs can definitely lead to questionable actions. I like to drink and I don't consider myself a "bad guy", so no. -Treat others badly wihtout reason (especially weak men). -Lying to women to have sex with them and then dump them. -Having sex with another man's girlfriend or wife. -Commit crimes Those are the things for me define an immoral man, and you don't have to do all four to get such a status, one or two is enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:36 PM
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If many men see women as sociopaths, perhaps you shouldn’t be trying to date sociopaths That's precisely what I do. I avoid anyone (no matter their gender) who can bring negative things into my life. If you don't like reading texts that question women's behavior and think all ideas you dislike are propaganda, perhaps you should avoid this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:30 PM
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So in the end it turns out twomen do prefer immoral men or morality hardly matters to them. It's strange that you contradict yourself in your replies. In the first one you seem to say the whole "women love bad guys" thing is a myth, but in this last comment you seem to acknowledge it's true... Edit: You meant "aren't" instead of "are" and now you've corrected that, my reply doesn't make much sense anymore. No problem, it was just a confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:16 PM
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Twice in a row? On a manosphere sub? I think not This sub is far from being an androsphere sub. It's not allowed to create posts about incel or black-pill ideologies. There are a lot of women in this sub, which is rare in androsphere places, and one of the mods is a woman. If there are so many questions similar to mine is because many men realize certain things or perceive certain things (perceptions which may be right or wrong) and we come to discuss about them in a place that is precisely desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:08 PM
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They are the nice guys because they bury all their own desires and try to guess what will make other people happy. They don't see how that's just a form of manipulation, that makes them assholes too. If you think you are describing me here, you're wrong. I don't even consider myself a good person, but I want to be one. Many of us men ask ourselves these kinds of questions because we realize, many times, straight men who seem to have the most success with women are those with the most questionabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:49 PM
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It's not agenda; it's coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:29 PM
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Everything I've read from you in this series of replies reinforces my (perhaps mistaken) idea that most normie-blue pill people hate people who don't fall into the neuro-typical and don't have a typical life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:49 PM
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The first is absolutely true. The red pill's supposed big claim to fame is that they made men realize women actually have opinions and care about appearance which...who told you they didn't? And the "it's all about personality and confidence" is a gross distortion of what is actually said, which is "personality and confidence matter a lot, just like appearance." I disagree. Like many men, I received a quite blue pill upbringing and constantly heard looks weren't relevant for women. "Men are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:53 PM
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I disagree. Red pill and black pill ideologies seem to become more mainstream year after year and surveys say young people are having less sex than they used to. Both of these things seem good indicators to confirm the current dating landscape is somewhat underwhelming. ​ This is not the truth, it is just bad for THEM. Nothing has changed, dating has always been hard for those that are unattractive. For the average person and above its fine. The more attractive you are the more options you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:44 AM
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