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| 2 | Is it a bad idea to message a girl you're acquainted with on instagram/facebook that you saw come up on bumble/tinder but didnt match? | PhilCollinsInGenesis | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 02:56 AM |
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| 1 | Non pick up book genres to readHow to win friends and influence people is always recommended here. It's a great book but you should also know that you need to mix in some stories and information about yourself in your interactions, which isn't discussed in the book since it's from a sales perspective. The four agreements is pretty thought provoking and insightful. Sun tzu art of war is a classic. The enemy which he is describing is a metaphor for any obstacle in your way. Anything by Malcom gladwell. He's very popular and has… | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Non pick up book genres to readRecommendation? | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 07:27 PM |
| – | Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean?Yeah, hungry for that D | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 03:32 PM |
| – | How To Do Push/Pull – Using SuggestionI like the concept but if some girl told me this long winded story about something I'd hate (let's say baking.. I have 0 interest in it no matter how EXHILERATING it is for her) and she ended the whole story by telling me I'd hate it (which I definitely already do) and then changed the subject on me I'd be very fucking confused and put off but would still reply with "no i wouldn't hate it!" just so she wouldn't feel bad, but it wouldn't make me like her or baking any more. I'd take your example … | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 08:52 AM |
| – | How can I approach in a classroom setting?Might have to wait for an opportune moment after class. Wait until something interesting happens in class or a test is coming up. Then catch up with her after class, say hey can you believe THING happened today? Or the test... Hey have you studied for the test next week? I'm heading to the coffee shop now to get an early start if you want to come with. If she says no because she's busy and she's into you, she'll give you another time to meet or you can ask for her number to make plans to meet up… | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 05:55 AM |
| – | How to do nightgame if the music is too loud?Tldw : pretend like you know the girl? 5 minute video and that was the suggestion. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 12:07 AM |
| 7 | How to escalate in a short time?Barricade the door with a desk and tell them they're not leaving until they agree to hang out with you. Or you can talk to them before class starts, ask them if they want to grab coffee after? | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Want to win her back but shes's giving me mixed signals. How do I proceed?This is the hardest option but the right one. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Which seduction books are the best for the following topics?1 and 3 are best tackled with topics like How to be a better conversationalist / how to not be boring and how to keep conversations going on forever. Practice asking your friends things like why they feel the certain way they do about a topic. Look up the FORD acronym and build off that. 2 look up how to open sets. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 11:50 PM |
| – | Are you (truly) ready for success?Plan B? I must have missed the chapter in Models about keeping early stage abortion pills in handy so you can offer her one in the morning with her toast and OJ. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Keeping attention on tinderYou're thinking about it all wrong. Pretend the roles are reversed. She asked you out and you accepted. Then you don't hear from her for a few days. Naturally your brain is going to be stirring - what's she doing? Why isn't she texting me? What could she possibly be doing that's more important than me! I want her! I can't wait to see her! You've already made your intentions clear by asking her out and showing you like her. Playing the waiting game introduces tension which is exciting when radio … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:49 PM |
| – | Let it go - how to walk away and still get the girl. Models series, F-CloseHow old is she? | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:43 PM |
| – | Cancelling and rescheduleSounds like you're just trying to manipulate her or trick her into liking you even though she's already made it clear she's not ready. The first joke might be cute and funny but if you persist she might stop talking to you altogether. If you really like her and want to have a chance, you gotta give her space. Guys think it's beta to not pursue a girl or assume she's playing hard to get but this isn't the movies, and she's made it pretty clear she doesn't wanna date. Even if worst case scenario s… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 09:06 AM |
| – | Keeping attention on tinderNever text a girl everyday in between dates. Get her excited about the date, set it up then radio silence until a day or two before the date. Open with a callback to whatever you guys were initially having a convo about or send her something funny or a random story that happened to you today(or anytime in your life and say it JUST happened, who gives a fuck) , but hold off on the confirmation until you get a positive response. Opening with, hey we still on for tomorrow? Gives a girl an easy out,… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 08:59 AM |
| – | Cancelling and rescheduleNa sounds like you played it cool, it's all just on her end. I'd tell her you totally understand and don't want to rush her into anything. If you have feelings for this girl, you should also let her know you're looking for something more than friends and if she wants to try again later you'll be around. Then I wouldn't text her for awhile or else you risk getting friend zoned. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 08:49 AM |
| – | Cancelling and rescheduleIt's possible you didn't make the date exciting enough from the get go or were too needy in the interim by texting after the date was set. For example, setting the date should get her excited and imagining having fun with you. "how do you feel about hot chocolate and people watching at coffee shops?" "you definitely seem like the competitive type... How's your pool and dart skills?" And then when it's time to set the date... "are you free at 4pm on Wednesday?" be specific with your time. Rather … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:11 AM |
| – | How to get a girl to think about you nonstopGreat video and love all the content you're putting out. You're doing amazing things for the community! | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:57 AM |
| – | First date tips?Hate to admit this but I'm a shitty kisser so I youtubed how to kiss. There was a how to video of a young kid and girl and he suggested taking your hand, running it over her ear/hair toward the back of her head and pulling her in. That way you control the situation, kiss length and she will know it's coming. Actually tried it out the other day and it worked perfectly. I went on a first date with some other girl about 2 weeks ago and if I had done the move while we were saying goodbye I could hav… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 05:55 AM |
| 11 | Should I move on?Of course you're needy as fuck by even writing this. Don't worry dude, I was there too. Wait until the weekend is over and then on Monday hit her with the Hey! I'll be downtown on Wednesday hanging out at the x coffee shop around noon, if you're free we should meet up. From there you can gauge her interest. If it's a flaky response like, hey sorry I'm not sure. Or I think im busy, and she makes no attempt at picking another time to hang out, it's probably over. You can say okay, let me know when… | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 07:35 AM |
| 6 | 30+ guys without this32 year old male. 0 success with women in past, never had a girlfriend. Lost 25 pounds in the past 6 months while gaining muscle. I'm pretty built now and girls definitely notice me. Currently dating two very attractive women, and got the courage to ask a girl out at a wedding who was checking me out. Seeing her in 2 weeks when she's in town. I read tons of seddit and Mark Manson books. Watched the YouTube videos that get posted here all the time. My big problem I've overcome is neediness. I wor… | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 07:21 AM |
| 5 | What indirect openers do you roll with in bars and pubs and stuff?I think the tip I read on here was to make statement of facts. "You look like the kind of girl who is into rock climbing/country music/ballroom dancing" "you look like a pediatric nurse" "you look like you've read every Harry Potter book in existence". The weirder more obscure you are the better. Then they'll ask, why do you say that? And you say... No reason. Then you switch topics. She'll keep wondering in her head what made you say that and she'll return to it later in the conversation, thus … | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 04:47 AM |
| – | What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this?Thanks for the reply! I have a different question but I'm not OP... Do you like seeing a guy posting things on social media about his life? Things that show he's not needy / has his own things going on, or keep it to a minimum? | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 04:40 AM |
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