PhinandPw Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible? You need to vocalize you’re not ready. If you’re not comfortable doing that then you shouldn’t be sleeping with this person anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 10:41 PM
62	Oh Holy Hell She sounds like a fantastic teacher! Truly a gift to the students. Please ditch the excess weight girl you’ll feel so much better!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 03:11 AM
9	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you Where the hell do you live? Because I live in NYC and no one does that...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 02:52 PM
35	Three profiles in a row on Tinder 🤮 I’m deleting my OLD profiles, anyone with me? I am genuinely curious who swipes on these dudes after reading that trash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 12:43 PM
71	I think I hit the goldmine here. “Imagine how a man feels thinking that you are scared he will rape you.” I went on a (first) date precovid and he ended up squeezing my ass at one point. I FLIPPED out and told him he did not have consent to touch me(we hadn’t even kissed yet so idk wtf was wrong with him) and that what he did was sexual assault and he looked at me and said “Assault?!! But I would never do that!”. And I was like well you literally just did. He proceeded to get upset and tell me “he’d never do that he has a sister etc” (lol ) like trying to get me to forget what just happened a minute…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 08:01 PM
4	Don’t even let them get to the punchline of their shitty pickup lines 😂 The worst part is she’s going to get called a bitch for this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 10:20 PM
61	When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sex This is horrifying on so many levels	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 11:12 AM
14	For anyone who’s struggling or feeling vulnerable after leaving a guy just remember.. Needed this today!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:49 PM
4	This is what I’m saying next time a LVM interrupts me Yep and the fact that Trump was interrupting him to try to throw him off and get him to stutter to make him look bad/unfit is deplorable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 12:12 AM
12	I casually play a mobile game (I know) and this guy in my group has been getting on my case about me not wanting to make in-game purchases and not being into gaming. He’s stagnant in his career, usually stoned, and “doesn’t like people”- your typical gamer. Like WHY do they care worry about yourself! If this one thing brings you joy that’s all that matters!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 07:55 PM
41	I casually play a mobile game (I know) and this guy in my group has been getting on my case about me not wanting to make in-game purchases and not being into gaming. He’s stagnant in his career, usually stoned, and “doesn’t like people”- your typical gamer. I recently had a guy freak out bc I said I didn’t find that breathing exercises calmed me down when I was super stressed. The way he got upset over something that literally affected him ZERO is so beyond me. Like I don’t understand these dudes...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 07:46 PM
10	Timeline from match to date Agree - if you’re consistently talking everyday for 4 days straight with no mention of a date move on. If it’s been on and off chatting for a week ...that’s like a max limit otherwise what’s the point?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 12:33 AM
21	Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing. I’m glad you enjoyed it and made it for yourself still. Better to know about these losers early on - you’re better off! And now you have nice leftovers tomorrow : )	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 12:23 AM
16	Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄 He did this to cover his face - the less we see the better!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 11:06 PM
57	Nothing but facts When I was on dating apps I saw “ethically non-monogamous” non stop. What a bullshit way of saying you want to fuck other people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 02:59 PM
60	I—???????????? Right? You know it was one Indian girl five years ago and he never let it go!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 10:35 PM
8	Required to drive Y’all around? No inappropriate touching (slapping butt) in public? Honestly better they throw up the red flags immediately - never saw him again, he still follows me on Instagram. I am absolutely doing that to the next one!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 11:09 PM
17	Required to drive Y’all around? No inappropriate touching (slapping butt) in public? I had a guy grab my ass on a first date before we even kissed as we were walking to the next bar. I immediately jumped out of the way and asked him what his problem was, and he responded “I didn’t think you’d notice - calm down”. I should’ve slapped his balls and said the same!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 09:44 PM
20	How do I recover from a guy I was dating ghosting (and possibly blocking) me? This has happened too many times - consider it a huge red flag and move on. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 12:38 AM
17	Exactly!!! Call it what it is. I’m so sick of seeing the media water down their language in favor of pedophiles and rapists 100%!! I would get fired if I had sex in my office, no one should be allowed to especially in government vehicles/spaces etc. if you look it up there’s a very sad amount of cases where it happens with police. Hopefully they get serious justice for this girl!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 10:03 PM
73	Exactly!!! Call it what it is. I’m so sick of seeing the media water down their language in favor of pedophiles and rapists I think it’s legal for police to have sex with people in custody in something like 30 states...which is TERRIFYING. All they have to do is say the person consented. I think he only got in trouble because she was 14. This happens wayyy too much!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 08:59 PM
17	This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged I had a very similar situation happen literally last night. Was upfront about what I was comfortable with, he agreed and then later in the night goes for it anyway. Told him no multiple times and he kept repeating “did someone hurt you? Why are you so guarded? Please know I would never hurt you” like dude no I just don’t want to have sex with you. He texted me today apologizing and asked if he could take me to dinner. I told him he needs to take time off from dating to learn consent. Bullet = do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 10:23 PM