Oh Holy Hell

myousername · 2020-11-11T04:11:04+00:00

His comments on his own post make it SO much worse:

I never said she was my property, but she usually cooks dinner and does laundry for us both and hasn’t been.

I don’t think she’s mine, but no I don’t like the way guys stare at her. I obviously don’t take her opinion into consideration since she dresses so ridiculously.

I’m wrong for lying absolutely. I don’t see how I’m wrong for expecting my feelings on what she’s wearing to be taken into consideration though.

You think it’s appropriate to be in your 30s and wear a dress with the ABCs all over it to the grocery store?

If she wants to wear that childish stuff to school, then whatever, but she should have more dignity in public.

I’m hardly insufferable, I just think she should dress more like an adult when we’re out in public.

MakeURegret · 2020-11-11T02:23:29+00:00

“She hasn’t spoken to me or done anything for me since.” 😑

Only Sherlock Holmes could’ve seen this coming.

chateauduchat · 2020-11-11T02:21:35+00:00

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q----q · 2020-11-11T02:42:40+00:00

He's clearly jealous.

Of a schoolteacher.

Not for being promiscuous. Or bitchy.

For being likeable.

I hope she has property in her own name...

Maude2010 · 2020-11-11T02:52:01+00:00

Unsurprisingly he’s a decade older than she is.

At least he’s getting skewered in the comments.

Skittleschild02 · 2020-11-11T02:31:49+00:00

His mom needs to beat his ass. This woman is trying to bring a smile to kids’ faces during a rough time. She loves her job. That’s rare. He’s a total bum. She deserves better.

eluriaeve · 2020-11-11T02:25:03+00:00

Throw 👏🏻 the 👏🏻 whole 👏🏻 man 👏🏻 away!!! What a useless waste of oxygen.

bananamuffins2222 · 2020-11-11T02:52:49+00:00

The mom seems ok, what the hell happened to the son?!

Also dressing up for kindergarteners is awesome! I love it.

Platipus6 · 2020-11-11T03:52:25+00:00

hahah

Scrote murders her joy, passion, creativity and reputation. Points the finger at his mother.

GF calls a discussion.

Crewmates discover he lied.

Scrote was ejected.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-11T03:00:19+00:00

I feel like a man like this could piss in the middle of the living room floor with guests present and then write this exact same post. "Am I really such a big asshole here?? Was I really wrong because I don't think so."

Ghost_namesake · 2020-11-11T03:03:34+00:00

He's trying to control what she wears

He's JEALOUS

He's lying

Bing, bang, boom, toss out the trash, girl!! That's heading into abusive behavior territory.

Sewud · 2020-11-11T03:33:31+00:00

I really can't imagine a woman being so insensitive to her partner. I love that this sub collects evidence that men are indeed worse than women and it's not all in our head.

ModernDayOracle · 2020-11-11T03:40:56+00:00

I hope the next 'weird' dress she makes is one that says 'you're dumped' in big fluro letters and she wears it when she turns up to move her shit out.

sassylittlespoon · 2020-11-11T03:57:29+00:00

Reddit is awful today. Everyone was calling this woman an asshole for having her mom in the delivery room instead of her husband. Another thread is people ripping a woman who wants to leave her two year old with her husband to care for sick family and he’s “not capable” so it’s her fault of course and what if her baby dies, how would she feel?

I have no faith in humanity today.

PhinandPw · 2020-11-11T03:11:49+00:00

She sounds like a fantastic teacher! Truly a gift to the students. Please ditch the excess weight girl you’ll feel so much better!

RiasXgremoryX · 2020-11-11T02:42:08+00:00

WTF is this? she's a preschool teacher! how is she supposed to dress? like TeacherBae? This guy is an absolute clown and he doesn't deserve her at all.

4E4ME · 2020-11-11T04:38:58+00:00

He said she isn't carrying herself with dignity when she goes out to the store. Because he believes that she is a reflection of him when she's out on public, and he's embarrassed of her dresses with ABC's on them. Meanwhile I bet she encounters a lot of smiling children and parents. It's not like she's dragging herself around in sloppy sweats and unwashed hair for god's sake.

I really hope she dumps him. He clearly doesn't like the things about her that she likes about herself. She deserves SO much better.

keep_my_stuff · 2020-11-11T07:44:38+00:00

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karichar · 2020-11-11T03:33:54+00:00

thankfully the comments on the original post are also roasting him instead of praising....whatever the fuck this is

AffectionateEchidna5 · 2020-11-11T03:29:49+00:00

Please tell me the comment section lit his ass on fire.

kaoutanu · 2020-11-11T04:33:05+00:00

On the off-chance this isn't a troll, it's pretty easy to see why he's still single at 43.

okcool_12 · 2020-11-11T04:41:49+00:00

Kickhimout2020!!! 🎉

riricide · 2020-11-11T04:38:01+00:00

I unsubscribed to that and all relationshit subs. Can't have my blood pressure ready to hit the roof everyday. I really cannot imagine how someone can lack so much self-awareness. He's such a blatant asshole. I hope she wises up and dumps his whiny, manipulative ass yesterday.

rhyth7 · 2020-11-11T05:13:18+00:00

Agegap and complaining about how a teacher dresses, uses mother as scapegoat, doesn't expect girlfriend to be decent person enough to apologize to someone, mad at fallout of being caught.

jayda92 · 2020-11-11T11:08:55+00:00

I'm a teacher as well. Sometimes I come home smelling like some science project, with clothes dirty from painting, stains for digging through mud, a little fingerprint on my cheek for stamping with ink and some flowers in my hair because they think I look pretty that way.

My ex laughed about it. Always ridiculed me to his friends with all the stuff I was doing while still getting payed shit. While pretending that he loved it that I was a teacher, to everyone around us. He hated my job and he thought it was shameful for me and everyone involved, since I'm upper middle class.

My bf is gonna play Santa this year. He loves it when I work late/hard and he helps me with cool creative assignments for the kids. He helps me collect materials to spark interest for my lessons. Sometimes we laminate for a whole evening while he cuts the figures. When I'm making lists, he always knows the name of some student I'm forgetting at that moment🤭 My bf has a high up management position, but he spends his evenings helping me make cool lessons.

mercybenelli · 2020-11-11T04:11:13+00:00

Unbridled narcissism

2020-11-11T03:35:39+00:00

I hope she dumps this fool.

elainejay82 · 2020-11-11T04:39:27+00:00

I bet the students love her clothes!

They are worth more than the man is. I hope she leaves him.

wayward_woman · 2020-11-11T06:28:06+00:00

She sounds like a great teacher! The teachers I had as a kid sucked and didn't care whether kids were engaged or not. Teachers like this woman are rare and should be cherished! They are a treasure to kids in our failing public school systems!

This guy is definitely the asshole. He sounds like an immature, superficial brat. She should definitely dump him and block him.

NurseRatched2099 · 2020-11-11T04:35:02+00:00

That girl sounds like an awesome teacher

taele1996 · 2020-11-11T05:46:44+00:00

She’s a friggen preschool teacher!!! Bruh I would love it if I saw my teacher all colorful like that. I’d think it’s cute

Softrito · 2020-11-11T05:51:22+00:00

Sometimes I wish I was a man; this woman sounds lovely, creative, and smart.

mirodus · 2020-11-11T07:56:16+00:00

First of all the age difference

Magnolia_Mirage · 2020-11-11T10:48:53+00:00

I don't get it. Shouldn't he be happy she dresses as a preschool teacher?

After all, he is acting like he's one. 🤔

Lafort · 2020-11-11T05:11:44+00:00

Lol I was just WAITING for someone to repost this here. Ppl in the comments of that original post were talking about its got to be a troll! As if men couldn't really be like this!!

Half_Halt · 2020-11-11T11:01:24+00:00

"Am I really such an asshole here?"

(Samuel L Jackson voice) "Why, yes. Yes he was such an asshole. Here, and always."

azureangel35 · 2020-11-11T11:33:35+00:00

She is already a HVW, needs to come here with us. Bet his mom wishes she could break up with him too 😂

Silverpool2018 · 2020-11-11T10:36:10+00:00

What a useless insecure, man child. Lying by taking his mom's name.

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-11T12:32:35+00:00

"EDIT: I’m sure you all will be pleased to know we broke up tonight. She said I’m to controlling and narrow minded so she broke up with me."

Good!

margitaolympia · 2020-11-11T08:58:27+00:00

🤡

Lavender_flow · 2020-11-11T11:01:29+00:00

This is SO made up. This is some basement troll who wants to get people on Reddit all riled up. All of this is made up. It is so obvious in the way he is wording things, he is literally trying to bait people. Dont fall for it.

punyhumannumber2 · 2020-11-11T04:49:13+00:00

He sounds fun

thenotoriousaep · 2020-11-11T11:47:04+00:00

Where is this woman and how do we save her?

akashyaboa · 2020-11-11T12:22:45+00:00

I agree that she should take into consideration what he says about her passion and dump his dusty old ass already.

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-11T12:30:17+00:00

LOSER!

nenindis · 2020-11-11T14:17:26+00:00

There has been an update. Apparently, they broke up. Yasss, Queen! I am so happy for her.

iaintgonnacallyou · 2020-11-11T14:16:39+00:00

I. Am. Furious. Absolutely speechless. The fucking audacity!!!

oscine23 · 2020-11-11T19:23:12+00:00

Of course he's not impressed that his gf has an awesome personality that she wants to make her students smile, that she's obviously a great teacher, that she MAKES HER OWN DRESSES, for God's sake, and even called to apologize to his mother when she did nothing wrong. These men don't deserve us.

entpgirl415 · 2020-11-11T17:28:02+00:00

That would have been the moment i BLOCKED the mfer, leaving my text messages open for closure lmao.

Consider_the_Horses · 2020-11-11T18:01:16+00:00

That sub needs a script that answers "Yes, you are the asshole" to every male asking a question there.

Pterodactylandi · 2020-11-11T23:11:47+00:00

Ok but like does he not realise that he doesn’t have a girlfriend anymore?

2020-11-12T01:36:51+00:00

What a loser. A man who can't appreciate a woman who wears (and makes) fun dresses is worthless. FunDressLady needs to be honest with herself - she has no room in her life for this kind of negativity.

Chammalia · 2020-11-12T14:38:22+00:00

Omg, that woman is so so cool. And you can tell by how the students and parents love her and the effort she puts in. Anyone that have seen the show wanted a teacher like Ms. Frizzle!! And this amazing woman even makes the dresses herself, as a hobby, and even do matching masks as well. And he has the audacity to not appreciate her and encourage her hobby and the effort she puts into teaching the kids. What a NVM.

BetterToBeLonely · 2020-11-12T18:49:07+00:00

I can't believe this guy is 43.

BetterToBeLonely · 2020-11-12T19:06:07+00:00

This reminds me of the time my STBXH was mortified over my outfit of Sneakers, t-shirt, and sweatpants. The fact that I wore it while running behind a double jogging stroller on a jogging trail was completely lost on him. He didn't own any exercise clothes at the time since he rarely peeled his ass off the couch.

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Title	Oh Holy Hell
Author	CrownWaster
Upvotes	550
Comments	112
Date	November 11, 2020 2:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jrza1i/oh_holy_hell/
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