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MOOD FOR LIFEZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:42 PM
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QUEEN SH*TZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:42 AM
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QUEEN SH*TZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:38 PM
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STRATEGYZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:56 PM
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STAY WOKEZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:11 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:06 AM
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NAH, SISZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:49 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:55 AM
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DISCUSSIONZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:13 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:35 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEZayelle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:46 PM
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LVM think they deserve a medal to be a functional parent... How about no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:10 AM
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Thank you for the clear explanation. I didn't take into acccount the size of your country, and the way that suing people is more used there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:31 PM
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Wow. You don't have the "non-assistance to person in need" clause? I'm French/Swiss so our system is definetely different, but if you don't help someone in need, and they die, you will go to prison. The more I learn about laws, the more I think they need to be changed... Like how can Marissa Alexander who went to prison for a warning shot be locked up and this guy, depending on how Gabby Petito died, even though he never did anything to help keep her safe or advance the investigation, might walk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:54 PM
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Whatever he did, resulted in her death. It could have been his lack of cooperation when he came back (people could have saved her then), he could have killed her there, he could have done many many things. But he was her fiancée, she died and he was completely unbothered. Also, didn't he steal her van? If he wasn't guilty, he would have announced she was missing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:18 PM
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I can take out so many cases where the man walked free or almost because he was white, heard about Broke Turner the rapist for instance? Some black men have been in prison for a longer time than rapists even though they were just using drugs. How is that not part of a broken system? Also, check out the ratios of people who live in USA by ethnicities and the ratios in prisons. White people, especially men of course, do get out way more easily than any other races. And if they really thought it wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:55 PM
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Let's be real for a second, how is the system allowing white men to escape so easily? Or how come whenever they are convicted their sentences are reduced? The system is fucking broken. There is no justice for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:03 PM
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That or white men can do whatever the fuck they want without repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:01 PM
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They must be blind if they really don't think he killed her. There is no reason to come back without your fiancée, not signal her disappearance, refuse to talk, and then hide, like the coward rat he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:52 AM
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Perfect, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:30 PM
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DM have been close since forever but how do you prevent getting followers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:12 PM
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There is hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:55 AM
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so they attempt to ban birth control and access to safe, legal abortion. These people are truly despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:25 PM
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You can not win. They do not know anything about empathy or logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:10 PM
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They seem to never be able to decide honestly. Most confused people ever... 0 logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:03 AM
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I understand, you got petty because he was pressuring you. But it's just insane that he is still the one who got annoyed at the whole situation. He came, you didn't, but you timed him, so he is the one upset? Big lol. Hope that you never get coerced into sex again, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:00 AM
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Oh he felt bad but he is the one who came? Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:40 AM
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I know right! Who cares if I come or not? After all, sex is defined as "penis in vagina until male ejaculation". Women don't need to come. /s Imagine if women stopped sex in the middle because " they just came", there would be riots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:44 PM
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FeMaLe OrGasM is a MyTh bUt WomEn cRaVe sEx JusT bEcaUse TheY waNt BabiEs. ThEy WiLL BaBy TrAp YoU. StAy WoKe KiNGs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:41 PM
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BuT doN'T YoU kNoW ThAt sEx is BenEficiaL fOr bOth mEn aNd WomEn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:45 PM
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My pleasure, it's my mothertongue and I still make mistakes, French is tricky. Haha! Hope you can try it some sometimes, it's truly amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:19 PM
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Love to see French in the wild! Had to say that "surprise" is a female word (yes, this is stupid, welcome to French where everything has a gender) so you need to use "Quelle" as this is the female form of "Quel". To make it even more authentic, add a space between the last word and the '!'. Like this " Quelle surprise !". And voilà, you are now French and can eat chouquettes everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:10 PM
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Because if women collectively start saying no, LVM will have no choice but to level up or die alone. The more women join FDS, the less chances they get at ending up in a 0 effort abusive relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:15 AM
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Haha, they are scared. The more women join FDS, the less chances they have at abusing a naive partner. They hate us because if it keeps going that way, they will have a choice to make: get better or die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:12 AM
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Such a nice graph! It's so constant it looks like a linear regression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:19 AM
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Thank you for your explanation, this is on point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:06 PM
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Do you mean: if he is ready to make sacrifies when necessary, despite his principles? I would love to add but I wabt to be sure I understand what you mean properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:44 PM
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Yes, I will definitely add all of this later today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:39 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:31 AM
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You are right, u\Phoenix__Rising2018 gave amazing examples, I'm going to add all of the good stuffs later today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:28 AM
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Best decision ever. And it's on point, I am going to add all the good ideas later today, when I get some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:26 AM
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Thank you for this, I was struggling to find more day-to-day examples, yours are perfect. I am sorry for your back, I hope you managed to recover. What a terrible person he was (and probably still is)...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:05 PM
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That's an excellent point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:40 PM
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This is very true! And this fake kindness is absolutely cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:37 PM
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BuT mEn aRE tHe prOtEctORs. Lol, LVM sure aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:50 PM
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The only HVM in the scientistif community I know of is Pierre Curie. He refused to get the Nobel price unless his wife would get it too. The Nobel Price Commitee gave up and gave it to both of them + a third person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:17 PM
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Why sorry? His wife took part in the writing of his "relativity theory" but got no credit, she even scored higher in maths than he did. He also cheated on her. And he was part on the Manhattan project. What a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:58 AM
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They often are. Remember that the best vengeance is to live well and happy, that would really piss him off. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:57 PM
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Shame on him and his friends. It's good that the trash took itself out. Be free and go shine, you diamond!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:39 PM
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Perfect then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:20 PM
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I don't have a better advice than avoiding him the most you can, getting the courses done and then a job. And moving out asap. Know that it's not your fault, he is the one who should fix this issue but he is taking it out on you because he is weak and selfish. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. Sending you sisterly hugs, if you want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:19 AM
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This guy really is a predatory POS. "Sorry I am a guy" he says when he talks about asking underaged girls for twerking videos. Oh, so you agree, it's all men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:42 AM
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I am so done with this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:25 PM
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Done! Thank you for the info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:12 PM
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Thank you ❤️ I just donated. It's not much, but it's at least something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:40 PM
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Thank you for the advice! I used to have a gun (pistol) for defending myself, just in case. But the country I'm living in right now wouldn't allow me to have one. The death whistle is a brilliant idea. I need to get myself some things like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:44 PM
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I hope so too. I am truly disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:01 PM
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This one, which is their "apology" video, is still disguting af. The video 🤢🤮 CANCEL THESE PILES OF SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:37 PM
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I reported their accounts from everywhere. How is this shit allowed to be on social media? Oh yeah, because it's only violence against women, and therefore no one cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:35 PM
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Oh no! Anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:31 AM
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I am so angry at this. I am fuming that women are losing freedoms left and right. I am frustrated to not be able to do shit about it. I hate this fucking system that keeps oppressing women and the way that one step forward is followed by two step backwards. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:24 AM
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This is truly important! I hope he stays consistant in his care for you, because we van never stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:42 PM
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So true. This is good to hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:34 PM
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Sorry you had to deal with that. Happy you ditched the dead weight. Hope you are better now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:17 PM
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Good points! You can also get yourself some pompom-glittery safety keychains: like on Etsy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:16 PM
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Men are WAY more likely to leave their sick partner than women are. There is even a study on this. That's why we vet, ladies. How does your man act when you are in pain? When you are sick? When you are too tired to function? If he doesn't take care of you now, what will happen when shit hits the fan? He will leave you, that's what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:29 AM
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Exactly! They never outgrew the toddler stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:35 PM
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It's because they have become weak as shit. Tough times make you strong, easy times make you weak. Men don't face any of the sexist shit we have to deal with on a daily basis. They'll end up like Carthage after the Punic Wars: destroyed because they were too busy enjoying themselves (porn + video games + sitting at home all day).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:15 PM
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I guess they are both singles and trying to date. The man says he doesn't want anyone crazy (RED FLAG: if all of his exes are crazy, it's because he gaslight them so much that he made them crazy), he doesn't properly know how many kids he has, says that a woman with a baby daddy (so a single mother) is a dealbreaker while having 5 baby mamas of his own. Like, the fuck? This is audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:01 AM
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That's so true: an apology without a change in behaviour ultimately has no value. It's good that she actually took action. That's good advice, thank you. Haha the desperate puppy part was me when I double texted her because she wasn't answering after a few days 🤡 No more of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:01 AM
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Yes, you are right. Thank you for sharing your story, it helps <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:04 PM
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I will most likely do that if she contacts me again. I'm not reaching out to her at all anymore. The fact that I am living in another country helps. Yes, I agree, but she also then apologized a lot, said it wasn't what a friend is supoosed to do, and we then had a call for several hours so I let it slide. I think my main problem is that I don't understand her inconsistency, but at the end of day, it's just taking my energy for no reason. Yes, this is a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, but it's really weird because she is also apologizing profusely when she messages me again and took it upon herself to have a several hours video call with me last year. She also tried to come to see me during 2020 (I live in another country since 3 years) but I refused because of covid. It's like she is trying to salvage the relationship just at the moment when I had given up on it. If she really didn't like me anymore, wouldn't she just stop contacting me altogether? Or she might just be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:30 PM
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My former bestfriend has the habit of leaving me on read or answering after 2-3 months. Even when I reached out to her because I was seriously ill and needed support, she then reached out and apologized but didn't change her behaviour. So I stopped messaging her first. When she messages, I will answer her after 1-2 months. I can't block and delete as I am still emotionally attached to her, and also we have a few friends in common and I think it would create unnecessary drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:06 PM
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Mood for life! Edit: especially because these scrotes will never listen to a woman, no matter how right she is, they need other men to put them down, because they are animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:29 PM
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This is so true. My fiancé will call out/trash talk LVMs as much as me, and he will do it to their faces. Seeing LVMs getting put back in their place by another man is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:49 PM
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Oh no! Anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:40 PM
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I am sorry you went through this. And yes, this shit is not forgivable. I had to work on my anger however, I was having episodes where I wanted to go burn his house down, with him inside. One thing that helped was imagining how I would get my revenge, over and over again. And then I realized, I do not need to seek revenge, as it would consume me. But I would rather wait for karma to do her job. After all, the guy's shitty lifestyle is going to catch up with him, one day or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:23 AM
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I totally agree with you. My ex raped me, I will never forgive him. I'm waiting for karma to hit him real hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:09 PM
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You need to post them to FDS super fan, sis. I would love a good laugh 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:25 PM
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If you take pleasure in inflecting pain to your partner, you need to get admitted in a psych ward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:18 AM
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A whole book? So many words just to say that they have 0 empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:10 PM
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All of us at FDS I hope! Great way to prevent getting the real disease: LVM leeching off of you your whole life, before discarding you like the used tissues he wipes his dick with after cumming on pictures of teeanagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:01 AM
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Any disease that affects the woman enough that she can no longer be a bangmaid 24/7 would do honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:28 AM
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Exactly! Who tf does that in the kitchen?! Go take a damn shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:31 AM
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Older women look so well put, elegant and fierce! I can't wait to hit the wall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:30 AM
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Alexa, play "Obsessed" by Mariah Carey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:46 AM
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They are so delusional that they can't realise this: women have bank accounts now, we don't need them anymore, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:39 AM
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Yes, they want to break her spirits. Make her submissive to them when all these women craved for was independence. LVMs make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:27 AM
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Yup. My attraction to men is approaching 0 K, the temperature where life can't exist because everything is frozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:36 AM
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I really thought about this when I was in my early 20s. I don't have an "urge" meaning that I could live a happy life without having children, but I truly desire 1-2 (depending on how awful pregnancy is). I've always loved children, taking care of them, teaching them stuffs (I was a martial art teacher when I was a teen). I had great parents and I would love to live on the other end of this relationship. Also, I have 0 pressure from my fiancé or my parents, who all support my decision on the mat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:59 PM
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It's never the same. The numbers don't lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:44 AM
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This is fucking heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:29 PM
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Wow. I am so sorry this happened to you... What a pathetic man. Luckily, YOU can do MUCH better than that disgusting excuse for a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:21 AM
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Yes. That's why we need to vet. Have "fuck you" money, and a good support system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:20 AM
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I am so sorry about what happened to your mom. This kind of thing is awful...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:18 AM
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Or a woman who is too tall. Or not conventionally beautiful. Or too fat. Or old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:39 PM
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This is a good point, as the best way to know if someone is really HV is consistency through time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:49 PM
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It's good to see this, because most of the men leave when their wife becomes disabled/seriously sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:11 PM
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This is a really good post. And the feminism part is so on point! Many men will shout that they are for equality but will also be at your throat for "generalizing men" and "picking stupid battles". Plot twist: they never consider women their equals, and they most likely never will. Time to run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:47 PM
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It's all because of projection. Women getting the same rights equals them losing privileges, and they don't want this to happen. They hate feminism (especially rad fem) because too many women would stop taking their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:27 AM
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Aaaaaaand that is why I have 0 male friends. Because they never consider me as a human being, rather they see me as another completely replaceable vagina-boobs appliance. Fuck that, I don't need this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:14 PM
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Yes! They can die mad, I'm out of fucks to give anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:40 PM
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That's why my PM are shut. I don't have time to deal with scrotes' sad frustrational and desilusional problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:35 AM
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My pleasure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:17 PM
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I'm sure there are some! I found mine thanks to other podcast, Spotify suggestions or by googling "French feminist podcast".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:17 PM
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La leçon par Pauline Grisoni: Pauline invites people who failed something and the guests explain what this failure taught them and how they learned from it. I love it a lot because it makes you reflect on how your "failures" might have actually helped you in a way that you had not seen before. She invites famous women such as Marion Séclin (feminist activist), Stéphanie Gicquel (high level athlete), Pénélope Bagieu (comic artist) and even her mom, who talks about her previous relationship with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:52 PM
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I know amazing podcasts, but they are all in French.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:34 AM
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I really love this illustration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:27 PM
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So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:22 PM
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She will also take care of the majority of the chores and childcare. It's still equal though... because he is working so damn much. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:05 PM
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I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:53 AM
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You are 100% correct. This is frustrating as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:16 PM
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The "motherhood mush brain" is actually a thing, and it's kinda scary. When you are pregnant, the brain rearranges some grey matter in order to make you a good mother. But the process can take long (like a few years) and leaves you with a "cloudy mind".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:50 PM
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When he is 18, he is a boy. When she is 18, she is a consenting adult who should have known better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:08 AM
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I know, right? My whole reality has been shattered. The cake is a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:44 PM
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Oh no! What a surprise! Women are... telling the truth... about men's disgusting behaviours? Crazy, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:33 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. This man belongs in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:35 PM
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The problem is that scrotes don't care if you look dead. Look at the number of women who have been raped while black out drunk/after someone slipped something in their drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:13 AM
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I feel for you, sister. This is a fucking awful situation. And I know that you are scared, but you did so much already, you deserve happiness. Prioritise your safety, become the best version of yourself, the one that isn't dragged down by a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:05 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is insanely fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:56 AM
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Same sis. Sending you hugs. I know how much it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:07 AM
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As another queen stated, these are only the reported numbers. I can't imagine how much it really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:59 PM
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Yup. And be careful of pickmeishas also, they won't have your back in case anything happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:11 PM
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I know right. This disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:45 PM
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Let's not forget about the extremely high rates of marital rapes. Approximately one third of women report having 'unwanted sex' with their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:47 PM
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You couldn't even be comfy in your own house?! What a jerk. My fiancé tells me I'm sexy wether I'm wearing a cute dress or baggie pants and a t-shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:54 PM
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They think they are gods and women are trash. Projection can make you see the world in a fucked up way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:13 PM
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Yup, he went to jerk off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:12 PM
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Already 30 dislikes. LVM really have nothing to do with their lifes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:13 PM
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Please, tell me that this guy is being kicked to the curb in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:30 PM
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Thank you for the reference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:26 PM
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I think they cook the pasta, add oil/butter and then put everything in the glove. Hop in the shower and masturbate in pasta. They are talking about it on some french forum actually OMG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:23 PM
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I know right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:49 AM
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OK. slowly fades into bushes So concerning, on so many levels. If only they could stop pestering women and keep fucking their fruits and pipes then, DAMN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:26 AM
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Is the McChiken thing for real? I shouldn't be surprised actually, I also heard about putting pasta in a shower glove...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:00 AM
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I can sadly totally relate to that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:28 PM
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Yup, that's why my number of male friends is 0. They aren't really your friends if they can't have empathy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:27 PM
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So sadly true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:08 PM
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Even those who don't personnally abuse anyone, they are part of the rape culture. They are dismissive of victims' feelings and actively fight against feminism. Either you call out your buddies for their shitty behaviour or you are not better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:51 AM
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They are scared of how much power we have when we unite and collectively say no to their bullshit. The problem is, the more misogynistic they are, the more women will join us and these sexist men will end up alone, discarded from the genetic pool. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:13 AM
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Exactly! I sometines pretend that I have to guide my little sister, it helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:28 PM
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Yes sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:34 PM
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Did they just compare these pictures to child porn?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:21 AM
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So true... they can't stop finding new ways to show how low their moral compass is. It is currently displaying negative values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:14 AM
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Yup. I initially wanted to donate my body for science. But after learning what they were doing with dead bodies, it's a big fat NO for me. I'll go down in flames.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:13 AM
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On point! I mean, the guy leaves even if it's his own child, couldn't imaging him staying for another guy's baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:14 PM
27

It sounds like preschool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:39 PM
78

Until you apolize?! WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:45 AM
10

Really nice design! Random side note: I'm weirded out because it's called "Women's Day" in English, while in French, it is: "Intetnational Women's Rights Day".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:25 AM
7

I mean, I really love shoulders/neck scratches and all but I would hate it if my fiancé was saying that he was treating me like his dog. It rubs me the wrong way. And yeah the "I love my dog more" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:02 AM
23

So true. I stopped wearing shorts and dresses because the amount of added stress from creepy men is insane. I look like a tomboy now, and while I may get less attention, nothing can completely shoo them away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:15 PM
51

Exactly! She is not asking too much. Just from the wrong man 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:21 PM
2

Dear RussianCat26, you are so right. I thought about what you said, and changed my mind. I edited the original comment. Thank you for pointing this out to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:57 PM
58

I agree with you, generally speaking. But this man is middle-aged/old and seems to be in an arabic speaking country according to the writing behind him (I would guess Pakistan but not sure). So he has most likely been born and raised to believe that women were inferior to him. The fact that he takes some of his time to go out and spread a message that doesn't affect him at all, in a country where women have even less freedom, makes him a king in my eyes. He is not your average "I'm a male femini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:01 PM
39

Shoutout to this king! Edit: RussianCat26 is right, this should be considered the bare minimum. I was blindsided by the fact that this behaviour is so uncommon in men. Thank you for pointing this out to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:34 AM
17

I figured, but it made me laugh 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:29 PM
44

for licking attractive men Hm hm, I see what you did there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:36 AM
24

Thank you so much for posting this. It was a really interesting watch. If you think of it, MRA don't want to share their burdens with women they just want to complain (are they French?! I can say that, I am French.) about how being a man is more difficult. Coughs in statistics about harassment, abuse, sexual violence, rape, feminicide, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:43 AM
18

The same kind of thing happened to Pauline Harmange's book "I hate men". Some scrote tried to get it canceled, however, it got published and republished and translated in several languages. So, nice one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:13 PM
126

Some men bashing FDS on reddit was the exact reason I ended up here. They were saying how toxic it was, all I found was a bunch of women supporting each others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:59 PM
147

I apply FDS principles for EVERYTHING: love, friendship, work... FDS is about being respected and cared for. It's also needed in friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:01 PM
17

Yup. You are completely right. But also they completely "forget" (aka they don't care) that the mother just pushed a human being out of her and needs supports (meals, rest, love, care...). Like they expect the women whose body has been through so much to take care of a baby 24/7 and healing at the same time? Where is the empathy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:35 AM
23

My thought exactly! So we already know who is going to buy dinner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:05 AM
47

I adore your username. I see flying elephants now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:13 AM
38

The fun part is that... some men (like one of my ex-friend) advocate for no paternal leave. Because, you know, it would send the message that men also have to take care of their children and it's out of the question. What a pathetic man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:52 AM
21

Me too 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:52 PM
73

Yeah and the worst part is that the guy posted in this thread but he also took the time to add hateful comments to a few additional threads. So basically he wrote around 15 hateful comments about a successful business woman who raised and supported her children alone because her husband bailed. Because WoMeN aRe LEeChEs. The fragility of his ego 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:51 PM
32

I can totally relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:43 PM
101

Oh and of course, there was some scrote bashing her in the comments... not a word about the dead beat father though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:51 PM
123

Seen on another sub but I thought you should know about her. She is the one who found the name for the Slinky, advocated for it to be cheap so less fortunate children could still have it as a toy, turned the company around, raised and supported her family at a time where women had just started working in the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:50 PM
2

Oh, nice one 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:14 PM
32

Because our society constantly catters to men's feelings and actively contributes to male entitlement. Pop culture teaches them that a woman who says no is a challenge to conquer and a direct humiliation to their masculinity. As long as men are not made responsible for their own actions instead of brushing it off as them being just boys, men will keep feeling entitled to women's time, attention and bodies to the point they will murder them. Even in newspapers, when a man commits a violent crime …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:39 PM
21

What a badass Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:16 AM
70

Exactly. And with the lockdowns due to covid, men have become more enclined to become violent (more men beat up their partner and killed their wives/ex). Vet vet vet ladies, or you might just marry your future murderer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:19 AM
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This was shared on twitter by historian and author Tracy Borman. Friendly reminder that you are way better single and ALIVE than in a relationship with an abusive LVM who will do nothing but hold you back and cause you harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:44 PM
138

Studies have been made, women prefer men who look stronger: sculpted muscles or bear men are the hype. The dad bod seen as conventionally sexy is just scrotes' pathetic wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:08 PM
75

Because if you smile more, it definetely means you want to suck his dick... Like honestly, a guy in my bachelor came to tell me how girl X had smiled at him and asked me why she was doing that because she had a boyfriend. The guy was 30. I didn't smile anymore while looking in his direction after that. The same guy was making love stories in his head because a girl he saw on the train looked at him. Truly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:06 PM
135

Too many men see a smile and think "Oh yeah she wants the the D". No dude, we are just enjoying life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:58 PM
41

Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:56 PM
166

And that is why I cut off my male "friends". Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:37 PM
1

I've worn makeup only a couple of times in my life, and only the weird kind (like black lipstick). I've always dressed in a tomboyish way and don't wax/shave my hair. Guess what? I'm a successful master graduate doing her PhD. My choice of clothes and the way I keep my hair has not had any impact what so ever on my success. However, it has exposed LVM all over the place as they really had to make a comment to me about "How I look like a lesbian, should be more feminine." "How they would never fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:25 AM
7

Him, his family and friends. What a tragedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:53 PM
12

This is very important, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:19 AM
10

OMG. My heart is melting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:33 PM
101

If OF and SW were so empowering, men would do it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:33 PM
11

Yes Pam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:07 PM
6

Technically, it depends of the quantity. Let him choke on several liters of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:22 AM
18

This is terrifyingly on point. I am so frustrated that these scrotes can go around, abusing and hurting women, without any consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:20 AM
74

The fuck?! And for sure this guy will not suffer any consequences...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:12 PM
2

Yes. Please stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:42 AM
31

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:56 AM
14

Preach! PS: I also want my own damn magic carpet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:24 PM
21

Do you need a man who enables the suffering, abuse and rape of women and children? Do you need a man who lies to you, for weeks, without any feeling of guilt? Do you need a man? No. To all of these. Break-ups hurt but you are so much stronger than this. Go to your support system (family, friends, even FDS (I'm here if you need to talk)), take care of yourself, start a new hobby, try a new recipe. Discover yourself, love yourself, level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:39 PM
13

You are spot on. Such a good answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:17 PM
5

Thank you! I hope you are also doing well ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:04 PM
19

I did that 🤡🤡🤡 My ZVM was the leechest of them all. Owing me several thousands dollars because he was too lazy to get a job. Also, he lived in filth, was "unable" to eat healthy meals, managed to fail his college 3 years in a row and ended up raping me. But don't worry queens, since then I dropped the dead weight, moved to another country, got my master degree and now doing a PhD! Oh and I'm getting married to my HVM fiancé this summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:13 PM
69

They throw that around like they are carrying all the misery of the world on their shoulders. However, they do not know that: More women suffer from depression than men. More women attempt to kill themselves than men. The only reason why the rate of death by suicide is higher in men is because they are using more drastic measures (jumping from a bridge, gun) than women. So many of them have the emotional range if a tea spoon. They simply don't care. A source among many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:53 PM
8

Yes it is. But as I said, you can still do it by lying on how much time you have been trying. I think they just consider these tests pointless if there is no obvious problem. But has it has been stated before, the significant decrease in sperm quality/numbers is worrysome and they might change their ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:17 PM
14

But I'm not sure you can do that? In my country you must have tried for a year before being allowed to take the tests. But obviously you can lie about the amount of time that you have tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:03 PM
33

Well it's not called RAP (Rythm And Poetry) for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:20 AM
6

I love it so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:15 PM
55

Another big red flag imo. It's not like you are both inexperienced and don't really know what to do, he is 37 and it had been going on for a year! If he had really cared about you, he would have showered you with amazing foreplay. Seems to me like he only cared about his own pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:59 PM
42

That's true. One of my friend's ex reacted very badly to their break ups. He went to my friend's place and threw everything from his room outside, furniture included. Luckily the police arrived not so long after that. My friend was unarmed. Edit: unHarmed not unarmed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:24 PM
89

He sounds awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:18 PM
136

Also, if sex is a need, they can fuck each others. The gender shouldn't matter too much as they really NEED it. If I'm starving and there is food I don't like on the table, I eat it anyway. So they can go fuck their buddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:57 PM
9

I am so sorry for your loss. If you you need someone to talk to, I'm here. (I blocked my direct messages but you can come back here anytime and post a comment, I'll message you then.) Sending you hugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:02 AM
8

Love this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:59 AM
2

Fuck, this is hard. You don't have access to any ressources? Can you hire a nurse? Do you have family close by?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:58 AM
10

Sadly, yes. You said you tried, she won't listen. You can't save her from herself. At least, don't burn yourself if you try anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:06 PM
31

Nah sis, bad grammar can be a HUGE turnoff when it stems from a lack of effort. The guy doesn't have any trouble with the language, he just doesn't want to spend more time on elaborating sentences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:04 PM
12

I also had similar experiences. But I was younger (around 23). I have no clue what they think but it's not okay :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:00 PM
2

Sending hugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:59 PM
1

Do whatever you feel is best for you at the moment. Be kind to yourself. Focus on your study. Try to redirect your energy whenever you have distracting thoughts (easy to say, I know).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:58 PM
3

Sending love your way. PS: I can recommend writing a gratitude journal to help feeling better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:56 PM
22

It's normal to feel down after a breakup, but you know what? Focus on yourself, do things that you always wanted to try or that you miss doing. Pamper yourself, catch a movie, read a good book, get some nice food. Soon enough you'll realise that you dodge a huge bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:52 PM
1

It makes sense. I am happy to know such communities exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:24 AM
5

That's really good to know ! I have quite a bad view of christianity but this gives me hope. I didn't know about this prayer. Absolutely disgusting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:07 AM
4

But the books on which the whole thing is based is absolutely sexist, no ? (I have never read it, so you might know better than me.) The first woman created from the rib of a man ? Eve committing the first sin ? But it's great that some places are embracing equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:04 AM
13

I can completely understand the feeling. I was born catholic too but became quite annoyed with the whole deal fast enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:57 PM
116

Also, catholic women can't even become priests (or cardinal, pope etc). And there has been a considerable amounts of cases where priests were raping nuns and forcing them to undergo an abortion. Religions are sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:01 PM
28

This last sentence is spot on I think. Many male ex male friends of mine admitted that they masturbate thinking about their female friends, including the guy I considered my best friend. NVM sexually objectify you, that you want it or not. I'm so happy to have moved out from my home country and cut them off. My time is too precious, I don't have any to waste on disgusting people who can't see women as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:48 AM
39

Exactly what I was thinking ! Movies are made by consenting adults. His logic doesn't even go past the first level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:59 PM
27

Definetely. Don't hesitate to "fight dirty" if your safety is compromised. Your life > any stupid honor standards you may have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:19 PM
33

If you have nothing and he is closing on you, punch his throat. As hard as you can. It will take him a lot of time to start breathing again properly, he might even need medical attention. Last resort use only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:38 PM
68

What the fuck. Everything in this is disgusting but the "right to finish" is the rotten cherry on the worms cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:31 PM
46

Love to hear that ! You broke the cycle. Keep it up !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:29 PM
3

The people mocking him for that are telling on themselves: they see women as pretty trophies, not as people. I just wanted to point out that he wasn't helping women but rather enabling the violences that men are perpetrating on them by doing nothing. But I don't care about his wife being older, apart from the fact that I believed he was groomed as she was his teacher and that is yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:02 PM
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Honestly, what the fuck. I hope YOU are now fine and healthy and weren't too bored. Much love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:20 PM
2

That's very true. The governments have also been using media to deflect people's attention from the fact that they are useless by feeding people a narrative were immigrants are the bad guys (even though they are just a tiny part of the population). According to them, immigrants are taking their job while also living on government money. They don't even make sense but who cares. Racism has been rising every year all over Europe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:00 AM
3

Have you seen the debate between Le Pen and Darmanin ? When she was like "I could have written this book.", talking about his book on separatism. They wanted to avoid the far right but they went right into it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:26 AM
6

Don't worry, you can't know everything. He also promised that no one would be sleeping on the street anymore in 2017. Well, the opposite happened, more and more people ended up sleeping on the streets or being under the poverity line. Even students have to get soup from associations as so many are starving right now. A few years back one of them even set himself on fire because he was too poor to keep living. France is NOT a civilised country. They are just trying to make it look that way but Go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:22 AM
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Yeah but he also lied about wanting to "put women rights first" during his term and did nothing of the sort. He chose Darmanin (who was and still is under investigation for abuse of influence and sexual harassment AKA he coerced two women into having sex with him in exchange for his help, using his status of mayor) as Minister of the Interior for instance. Half of his ministers are under investigation for fraud/sexual harassment and such btw. Women keep getting beaten up by their partner. Women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:49 PM
5

Thank you ❤ Have a beautiful day 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:24 PM
2

So true 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:38 AM
161

Some of them even give TP vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:53 PM
6

I love your energy !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:25 PM
31

Exactly ! Women are told to compromise, men are told to stand their ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:18 PM
123

Also, if her partner actually CARED he would have seen right away that she was not into this and he would have stopped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:52 PM
14

Words to live by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:25 PM
5

This killed me 🤣 Btw, happy cake day !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:57 PM
55

It's a lot of words to say "strong women don't want to fuck me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:37 AM
44

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:46 AM
41

Damn, you rock ! You are a Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:27 AM
22

I already blocked and deleted the three guys who I knew were pro Trump. I don't need garbage people in my "friends list".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:34 AM
106

I love FDS mods. Their comebacks are gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:57 PM
26

I love FDS mods. Their comebacks are gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:57 PM
3

I'll have to check this one out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:53 PM
2

You made me laugh xD You are not 12. You are hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:07 PM
2

You're welcome :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:06 PM
2

Well, I took the test when I was like 12 so I hated coffee back then and love it now ^ But I agree, coffee allows you to function "properly" it saved my life during exam periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:48 PM
3

I'm sharing this link with you then: Here is the full test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:44 PM
13

I agree. But she also made treasurable videos were she explains how she had to get an abortion because of some LVM who treated her like shit and is trying to warn women about this. Or her video that explains how to recognise the signs of an apology being manipulative. But I would definetely not recommend her whole content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:17 PM
6

My pleasure. I honestly don't know how "accurate" this can be thought of. I think it can be very unreliable depending on your own culture/life experience. But it's interesting that they also associated cats with sexual partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:14 PM
7

Fun fact. I went to a "mental preparator" when I was competiting in martial arts. She made me do a tibetan personality test. She asked me to sort out 5 things (ocean, coffee, cats, dogs and rats) in my order of preference. You can do it yourself, right now, and then read the result. The meaning: Ocean is your life. Coffee is how you view sex. Cat is your partner personality. Dog is your personality. Rat is the personality of your enemy. So men who LOVE dogs and HATE cats are telling on themselve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:44 PM
12

This is great to hear ! I wish you lots of success in your life ! And always remember, LVM not recognizing your value has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact that they do not consider women as human beings. They consider them as their toy to do as they please. By enforcing boundaries, you are elevating yourself from this toxicity and deciding to put yourself and your happiness first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:35 PM
21

I totally agree with you. Sometimes she is SO on point. And sometimes I'm just like "nah sis". You should be proud of yourself, it's not easy to recognize destructive behaviours and change them. According to the way he acted, this man is definitely low value. You fell for his "potential", we have all been there. But ultimately, having LVM living in our heads rent free, prevents you from leveling up and/or finding a HVM. I'm so happy that you are getting stronger and levelling up ! It's a hard pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:51 PM
32

Oh my God ! She needs to be saved ! Her husband is a manipulative scrote who doesn't give a fuck about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:18 PM
2

Exactly ! I don't blame anyone who likes to check out guys, but I wouldn't like if my partner was doing it because I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:45 AM
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Not at all. When I was a teenager (I'm approaching 30 now) I would have a quick look but not anymore. I don't lust over men bodies, so many of them are LVM anyway and it puts me off. I have to be attracted to someone's soul to feel any kind of desire towards them. My fiancé is amazing in every possible way, why would I check out common rocks when I have a diamond at home ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:59 PM
4

Yeah they are hypocrites. And it also means that they do not consider their partner as their equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:30 PM
13

Right ? I see SO MANY posts on Reddit where women are bashed for being "insecure" for not being okay with that. But fuck that honestky. I know what I want and I don't take shit from anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:15 PM
5

Ok thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:59 PM
6

I have a stupid unrelated question but how do we change our flairs ? I thought it was assigned by mods ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:30 PM
33

It's a no from me. Honestly, either I'm the only one or he'll have to see me leave. I don't check out other guys. I don't watch porn. I expect the same level of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:14 AM
105

This !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:01 AM
70

This is just... too much... she is a child fucking hell !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:10 AM
12

Preach !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:24 AM
5

Thank you for this ! It's a great reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:58 PM
169

Me too ! But if you check the relationship advice subs, you still get a lot of "YoU aRE ContRoLLinG anD iNseCurE" as soon as someone is against porn. It's insane how normalized this abuse and rape filled industry is nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:23 AM
2

Yes exactly. I use the same strategy. Sadly, LVM will have more respect for another man than for the disinterest of a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:56 AM
3

I put my fiancé in almost all of my profile pictures (he does the same, same kind of pictures). Not because I don't want alone pictures, I also have some, but because it drastically reduces the male attention I get. It also sends a constant reminder to any guy who is messaging me that I'm not interested and that my fiancé being twice his size, he better not try anything funny. Couple profile pictures is my shield against creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:52 AM
11

Yeah it would make more sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:46 PM
17

Haha so true ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:20 PM
172

Chill out Laura. You need a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:36 AM
5

I absolutely LOVE your username !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:36 PM
17

I don't know how to clean some specific items either (like stuffs I don't have in my home and never had to clean) but guess what, I can use google. I guess everytime these scrotes try to use google to get info on anything they end up on pornhub. Shocked pikachu face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:04 PM
7

They sure do 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:36 AM
18

I bathe in LVM tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:01 AM
5

Your dad, and so many more, are true life saviors ! And I love to know that so many care !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:57 AM
36

Plot twist: they discover they have NO power on this sub and get double mad with a side of threats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:18 AM
15

I think I'm going to cry. I see so much awful shit all day online that I forget that good people exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:03 AM
97

"Women are too emotional!" "Women are too cold!" Pick one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:26 PM
5

This is scary as fuck. I hope you are safe and away from him. That's why I avoid men. Too many are sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:49 PM
7

Oh, not "people" ! Only women, anyone who isn't white, handicapped people etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:53 AM
11

Because they do not have any empathy. They do not even consider women to be human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:58 AM
62

YES QUEENS 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:30 AM
274

Also, notice how the people trying to hold these scrotes accountable for their disgusting behaviours are... WOMEN. And they contact their... employers or FEMALE relatives. When will men hold each other accountables ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:08 AM
24

Ex now but it was her boyfriend at the time of the convo I think ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:28 PM
23

This guy was a huge goldigger. And as careless as they make them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:20 AM
11

Thank you for calling me out. I didn't realize I was victim shaming. She definetely sees this reaction as normal, or even as laughable, so your analysis about abusive relationships sounds right. My comment was not well put. What I meant is that she is not safe with this man. I just hope she realizes this is not normal and she leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:10 PM
4

Yes !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:48 PM
1

I can easily understand why, it looks really nice :) Congrats !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:32 PM
1

Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:31 PM
6

Preach !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:53 PM
15

I could really see this happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:50 PM
33

I honestly don't know. I'm flabbergasted that she decides to stay with him after cheating and seems completely fine with the way he "handles" frustration. The lack of self-respect is strong with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:35 PM
129

This is truly scary. But this woman is putting herself at risk by frustrating this guy. He cheated, what more do you need ? Boy bye !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:24 PM
3

Acknowledging that this is a lack of care/interest from this girl's partner would lead them to realize the lack of interest/care from their own partner. It's easier to fake it till you make it for them. Sadly, they'll never make it. They'll just get their heart broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:49 AM
39

If I was her, I would buy him some Disney princess shirts. Go Mulan ! Joke aside, I would never accept this blatant disrespect: "I care so little about what you like that I'm buying you t-shirts with a game you hate. Also, I have no creativity so I'll always buy the same gift, pretending it's a romantic/cute gesture."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:26 AM
3

Pretty ! What stone is this ? I see some purple reflection ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:22 AM
13

So beautifully put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:42 AM
28

They simply don't consider women as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:09 PM
1

Thank you ! Yes, do not worry about me <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:23 PM
2

She does apologise but it's always the same excuses and then it repeats the cycle. And it's not like she has too much to do, she doesn't even have a job at the moment. I still love her to heaps but I have to adapt and stop texting her back immediately for my own good. I just care too much and it feels like she can't even spare two minutes for me (while being active on Facebook/Instagram).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:39 AM
1

Hey, the thing is, she has always been doing that even before I moved. And sometimes she would tell me she forgot to answer and I was like okay that happens I guess (but it actually doesn't happen to me because I have a weird reminder in my brain that I have to answer X or Y) but it's not the case here as I messaged her on 3rd, 10th and 17th October while she answered me on 3rd December, or she forgot to answer 3 times ? But delays are getting longer and longer. When she is depressed, alone or w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:19 AM
3

Well, it was a few years back and I moved to another country so I was always finding excuse for her. She did truly cool things for me like letting me host my birthday party at her house because my house was kinda small, defending me when another girl started saying shit on me behind my back, was there to listen to me when I opened up about being raped by my ex... but still, the time she takes to answer me just doesn't sit right. If she wanted to she would. It doesn't take more than 2 min to answ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:26 PM
22

I completely started applying this principle to my whole life as well. My "best friend", at least she used to be, didn't respond to my texts for TWO MONTHS where she blew up my phone with more than 10 messages. I didn't respond. I'm waiting 2 months too. She messaged me again on Christmas and I still didn't respond. She'll get an answer in February. Let's see how she likes a taste of her own medicine. Also, I've been very patient, but she usually takes days or weeks to answer me, so I'm done wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:05 PM
7

Ding ding ding ding ! Goldigger alert !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:34 PM
33

Men: shocked pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:33 AM
2

Exactly. Patriarchy kills everyday. Feminism kills no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:52 PM
11

Funnily, women "hating" men don't: abuse, rape or murder them. The opposite however, isn't even remotely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:21 PM
5

This summer only and you are THIS GOOD ?!?!?!?! Congrats on leveling up, it suits you 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:23 PM
66

Never blame yourself sis. The abusers are at fault. Not you ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:25 AM
9

Wow 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:48 AM
32

Always trust your guts. You subconsciously pick so much information that you instinctly react to. It's there for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:50 AM
7

Thanks ! You too Queen 👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:39 PM
21

Good that you stopped. What a waste of time and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:36 PM
44

Haha did they look disappointed ? Or they just didn't care ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:08 AM
12

Congrats !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:51 PM
5

Love this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:43 AM
87

Here you go 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:22 PM
6

I would buy tickets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:14 PM
10

I will ! So hyped for this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:59 PM
13

Grandfather and granddaughter even !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:08 AM
2

Exactly. No don't worry sis !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:40 PM
22

LVM always try to gaslight you into thinking their behaviour is the norm. It's not. And even if it was, your are allowed to be against it and to have your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:50 PM
7

He rated her enthusiasm ! She should smile at all times. WHAT !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:17 PM
40

Looks: 0/10 Personality: 0/10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:16 PM
32

You can't save people from themselves. But I think there are things you can try: Pretend you need to ask her for advice for a friend of yours who is in a bad situation and describe a situation similar to what she is living. Ask her what she thinks your friend should you. Then tell her that she is the friend. This is because taking a step back can help you visualize things better. She might be too scared of being alone/not financially dependent and that's why she stays. Help her find a job maybe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:25 PM
7

Oh, I love that !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:04 AM
3

I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:04 AM
44

And also: but fAlsE AccUSatIoNs RuIn lifEs. Oh yeah but rape is fun and doesn't give you trauma or PTSD or fuck with your views about your worth and sex. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:20 PM
1

Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:21 PM
11

Good point ! I should look into that thank you ! Bonus: men are weird 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:21 PM
20

Yeah, let's blame women for everything. Even the way men decide to act... pathetic argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:29 PM
32

Hence the "forever" girlfriends... :/ So true !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:28 PM
39

Spot on ! (Also, I just got an urge of dying my hair purple after seeing her magnificient hair colour, must... fight back...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:43 PM
73

I honestly don't know. The funny part is that he would be the first one to make his girlfiend a big villain if she dared do that to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:06 PM
193

Spot on ! These men get so angry (AKA emotional as fuck) as soon a woman decides to not follow patriarchy scheme. They get enraged simply because women, who have been oppressed for centuries, are finally starting to be treated as equal. I have seen feminist pages flooded with insecure MRA, who absolutely need to use these platforms to talk about THEIR problems and how THEY have it worse. Their blindness is riduculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:47 AM
178

Yup. I had a talk with a guy about relationship and I was saying that I wouldn't stay with someone I couldn't see a future with. And he told me he wouldn't have any problem staying several years with the same woman even if he knew he didn't want her as his endgoal. And he didn't understand how I could not think the same way. Ok bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:11 AM
2

I would love to join ! Thx !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:23 AM
11

Wow. They deserve to be slapped. In the face. With chairs. I am truly sorry this happened to you. I stand with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:00 AM
4

Well done Queen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:55 AM
75

What an embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:29 PM
23

Wow. This guy really doesn't know how to stop. At least you are now free from this scumbags parade 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:53 PM
3

Thank you for sharing Queen 👑 I love to see women from everywhere standing up for what they want instead of settling for unhappy and one-sided relationships ! Stay amazing !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:04 PM
4

Good come back 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:04 PM
89

Exactly what I have done. And it feels great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:43 AM
15

Yes this is true. If you are interested there is another study that states that attractive couples are 26% more likely to have daughters than sons. Which means that over time, women will keep being more and more beautiful while men will not. So women are scientifically more attractive than men. Here is the link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:24 AM
7

Here you go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:00 AM
22

This is really awful. I hope she will manage to get healthy relationships views from other family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:18 PM
99

There was a study on attractiveness that proved that attractive people underestimate their level of attractiveness while ugly people overestimate it. The "attractiveness" level was based on the participants given notes to each others and themseleves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:35 PM
43

ShE IS NOt mY tYPe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:33 PM
77

It's easier to blame another woman than accept that the man you love and invested so much of your time/energy on is a NVM. It's truly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:32 PM
7

I recently ended a similar friendship. But not because of porn, because of victim shaming in rape cases. And a HUGE lack if empathy. I would advise you to find a fan group for the specific game you play (there are tons on Facebook, I follow the Overwatch one for instance). And ask for someone to play with you there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:38 AM
76

I have been raped by my ex after 3 years together. It was awful. I was crying the whole time. I said no to sex. I said I was too tired from work as I was working as a waitress on the week-ends. I removed his hands. He didn't care. Afterwards I ran to the bathroom to clean myself. In my country rape is not about consent but about violence. So I didn't have any proofs and according to the law I wasn't raped. The worst part is that I started blaming myself for it and ended even completely forgettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:48 AM
4

And that is why so many women stay silent. Because they are too scared of having to handle another shitstorm after the abuse. They know many will not believe them, a point of crucial important for them to be able to get back on their feet. That is why I cut relationships with anyone who does anything of the sort. I simply can't stand this rape culture anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:00 PM
14

Exactly my thoughts !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:23 PM
3

I get it honestly. It hurts, but it leaves space for new friendships to be made ! If you felt down everytime, you were right to do this. Friendship is supposed to be full of love and support, not a chore. My "best friend" has also let me down several times, mainly because of her lack of consistency in messaging (like she doesn't respond for several weeks, sometimes months even though she is active on social media, just with other people) while I was responding to her messages right away. But I g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:53 PM
40

Exactly ! I don't have time to waste on people who don't even care about what I feel or express. It's just pointless honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:34 PM
46

He wants a therapist and will dump her the second he gets better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:33 PM
95

And that's why the first person we should give this to is: ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:31 PM
1

I'm SOOOOO hyped for this ! Go Cassie !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:23 PM
44

And then we are the emotional ones 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:49 PM
13

Stay strong queen ! You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:55 PM
42

You did right. If lying is so easy for him, what else is he lying about ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:57 PM
4

Also, the blatant lie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:54 PM
170

Well technically it was even his PARENTS' job. Stop blaming women everytime a man doesn't have his shit together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:37 PM
9

Hahahahahaha thank you for this. I'm never going to listen to guys ratings ever. They are obviously blind and delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:35 AM
16

They are so funny. We ALL know, women are way more beautiful than men on average. There are even studies about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:46 PM
2

Don't be too harsh on yourself, you are aware now and started your journey to become the vest version of yourself. And this, is beautiful. Thank you for your kind words ! I wish you all the best, dream big ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:09 PM
8

I don't think they will care. I don't even think they remember it or acknowledge it as such. But I know one thing: you harvest what you sow. Their actions will have consequences on the rest of their life. They will pay, one way or the other. The POS NVM that is my ex won't achieve ANYTHING in life. All he does is playing video games, while being surrounded by trash. He refuses to eat most foods unless it's fast food. He is already getting health issues from his lifestyle. His lazy ass almost fai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:09 PM
4

Stay strong sister ! We stand with you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:33 PM
82

Love the "Why are you tanning ?" "Awesome, speak then" "Bye now". You rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:51 AM
1

Well, they conpare FDS to red pill, I don't. But yes, the red pill is digusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:15 PM
2

That's so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:48 PM
3

I think these women exist, we just don't know about them. Feel free to share if you have any good songs, I would love to discover new ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:26 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:21 PM
15

I love this post ! Please share amazing songs made by amazing women ! A few artists if you want to check them out: Chika - My Power Angèle - Balance Ton Porc (French) Chilla - Dis-Leur (French) LEJ - Summer 2020 (English, French, Spanish) Sara Socas freestyle (Spanish) Olox (Siberian russian ?) ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:34 PM
40

My phrasing was bad, but I meant that with the attitude he had (not caring about what she felt, gaslighting her), it would have escalated in something much worse if ShE HaD CoMmuNiCatED aND ForGiVEn. And getting peed on by your husband and his friends is already below rock bottom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:55 PM
71

The problem here was not the pee in itself (even though WTF!!!), it was how he decided to completely disregard her feelings and gaslight her. She made the right decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:34 PM
2

So true 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:41 PM
30

You aren't allowed to do anything when you are a woman. You'll always be doing it wrong. When I understood that, I decided that I would just do whatever the hell I wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:11 AM
12

Yeah. At least it was taken down... The worst part is, there is SO MUCH porn content on the internet but scrotes need to violate women's rights and privacy to experience sexual pleasure apparently. These men disgust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:42 AM
51

I wish gay dudes would start talking about those guys in that way. They would have a taste of their own medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:30 AM
7

Why not call them weak ? And lacking self control ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:09 AM
16

Yeah, it's definetely not the bikini's fault. On top of that, we have all experienced being fully dressed and gawked at as if we were naked by disgusting men in public places. So I'm pretty sure that they can pretty much see any woman as a sexual object for that matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:00 AM
75

I honestly believe, and this is heartbreaking, that some men do NOT consider women as human beings and therefore can't experience empathy towards them. Some horrifying article about how sexist men see women in bikini as objects: Bikinis Make Men See Women as Objects, Scans Confirm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:37 PM
6

Wow. So the men are cheating but the women are the bad ones in her head ??? WTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:19 PM
6

The level of brainwashing she has been sumitted to is over 9000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:05 PM
45

Oh I know those. The ones who like to say they are just using logic when they are actually demonstrating that they have the same ability to feel empathy as a tea spoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:35 PM
38

My bad, they are saying that FDS doesn't get that the law does not protect pedos. Not that children should get raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:25 PM
102

I do not get it ? The comments say that they don't want gay youth to be raped by pedos. How is that a bad thing in ANY way ?! How is that something that can get critizied exactly ?! They want children to get raped ?!?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:14 PM
3

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:36 PM
4

Perfect 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:53 PM
6

You are so much stronger than you think. LVM put you down. Time to go up !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:19 PM
31

Block and delete queen ! Btw, it's international toilets day also today 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:12 PM
15

Yup. She should just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:05 PM
20

Sounds terrifyingly true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:05 PM
49

No I mean to do exactly what he is doing: finger on the ass, anal sex jokes, requesting anal... I know she tried to talk about it and he said no, but so did she, so I feel like she could show him how it is to get pressured into doing something you don't want to do. But in all honesty, she should just throw him with the garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:28 PM
40

She should try to initiate anal sex on him. Let the tables get turned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:01 PM
4

That's clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:52 AM
10

Press on his username and down it's written "block accoubt" ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:51 AM
23

Hahaha I also got that the other day. Made me laugh. "These women having opinions and such !"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:00 PM
2

That is so weird... I hope you can get this resolved, but I have no clue how...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:01 AM
2

From FDS ? Did you receive a notification ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:09 AM
67

I did. What an amazing woman and artist !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:34 PM
5

Italian ladies are so awesome 😍 Thank you for sharing this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:34 PM
6

YOU ARE A QUEEN 👑👑👑 Stay strong, you will be so glad you did that in a very little anount of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:13 AM
112

He added an edit: she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:52 AM
157

She broke up with him actually :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:51 AM
4

Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:01 PM
6

This is such a cool idea you had ! But yeah OLD doesn't seem like a great way to get HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:51 AM
3

Wow. The audacity of NVM... I love how you didn't even bother and just decided to end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:56 PM
24

Yeah exactly. Men are already obscessed with dicks (drawing them everywhere, penis jokes, sculptures and cults etc.) anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:38 PM
22

Disgusting. Objectifiying women in any circumstances: ✅ Having less empathy than a tea spoon: ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:36 PM
4

Wow. This is nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:23 AM
15

I don't know if you ever considered writing, but you are gifted. Your story moved me. You have overcome so much. Congratulations Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:22 AM
6

Asking the real question here !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:04 PM
9

True that. Everyone would be happy that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:52 PM
44

Oh my God. If they don't want to be a dad, they should not have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:18 AM
20

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:11 PM
1

Oh thank you ! I was actually scared to read this ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:30 PM
3

Is this satire ? He expects her to even shave him ? Lol, he van't take care of his own hygiene ?! Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:04 PM
20

I mean, what the point in having sex if the guy can't make you come anyway ? They would for sure not like it if we were stopping before they were done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:58 PM
4

They saw women become indenpendent and managing to take care of their career, home, family etc. so they decided to become slobs ? I really can't understand how you can become like this and be other 15 years old...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:57 PM
9

I mean... the guy is 40 years old... What the hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:31 PM
13

This is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:15 PM
14

I completely understand. She crossed a big line there. I also had to end some longterm friendships and it tore my heart but I feel better without these people now. Stay strong queen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:58 AM
46

It's very sad but you did the right thing... how could a "friend" disrespect your mom like by victim shaming her ?! She has a serious problem and needs to reflect on herself. You are better off without her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:22 AM
4

If guys don't get enough sex they can fuck each other. And leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:34 PM
4

Perfect !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:11 AM
10

Shame on me but it's my fiancé who called me out on my sexism towards women. He made me realise how brainwashed I was and how sexist my male friends were. I had always excused their views before and agreed to them, not anymore. But yes, fds is definetely proving to me every day how great women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:04 PM
44

I used to feel that way, then I opened my eyes: women are fucking queens AND I'M NEVER GOING TO FORGET THAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:12 PM
6

Removing the condom during sex or pretending you have one when you don't is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:09 PM
7

Oh okay ! Thank you for the update, I would definetely I've tried finding that in vain later '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:37 PM
7

Thank you for this info, I didn't know ! Yes, it definetely needs to be used more then !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:31 PM
16

There is a flair just for him ? This is wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:23 PM
9

Exactly what I was thinking !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:02 AM
1

That's really fucked up. They were making sure to talk in English when I was here or my fiancé was translating when more people were there. But his mom seems to like me, she even gave me a gift for my mother and gifted me a blouse in my favorite colour (she gave it to my fiancé's brother so he would give it to us when he visited).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:02 PM
9

He just came to Europe in like 2017, he was born and raised in India. But his family is also very good (I'm white and I expected some racism from someone at some point but nothing of the sort happened they were all so nice and still are).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:17 AM
10

They do exist. My fiancé is from India, we met when he was studying in Europe. He is not sexist and is shocked when I tell him some stuffs my european male ex-friends used to say/do etc. Maybe we have met SO MANY NVM that we can't see that there are HVM even among us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:26 AM
1

Nope. It's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:42 PM
1

Oh yeah. I follow this account which posts generally great content but I was also taken aback. I mean it's bullshit. I have always made the first move on guys (yeah I know it was bad, I didn't know FDS at the time) and I got rejected several times. Did I start stalking, abusing, raping, murdering men ? Hell NO. What the actual fuck ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:39 PM
3

They really have nothing else to do in life ? Sad 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:30 AM
70

Women will come here themselves. Don't worry about it. I started checking out this sub after I read some hateful comments about it on r/relationshipadvice. They were all saying how FDS was about hating men and red pill but all I could find was posts about empowering women. So I decided to join 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:00 PM
16

Beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:59 PM
4

Yeah I just read that. The AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:22 PM
6

This is so sick 😨😨😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:16 PM
37

That's one of the reason why I like FDS. It's very refreshing to be treated like a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:11 PM
2

Why Goethe ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:30 AM
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