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4

Are you seriously getting offended over some colors on her face, REALLY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:11 PM
6

It's not her. Her voice is way... deeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:03 PM
5

We're living in a time that makes you feel lucky for being alive, especially in those countries with a high mortality rate. Dating in a pandemic is simply DUMB and way, way too risky and doing that is stagnating all of our efforts in eradicating this stupid disease. Also, let's be real a relationship that exists solely on the internet is usually nulle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:45 PM
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why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:36 PM
2

Thanks. I like how it seems from the gameplays and such. I'll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:35 PM
4

I saw comments defending his cheating as in she's not so aTtRaCtiVe anyway. I wanted to bulge my eyes out. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:03 PM
3

Ah, crap. Sorry, my bad. Still.... is creepy as fuck nonetheless. Well... from what I saw, he molds women of all ages from what I viewed on his "camps" or whatever the hell they were? I followed him in HG until the realization kicked in: his advice consists on doing so SO MUCH work and it annoyed the crap out of me, plus the cheater thing put the cherry on top lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:57 PM
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I, on the other hand, model 3d sculptures and clothing and such in zbrush, so yeah... you could say that I spent a little too much time creating those props. I'm interested in games such as Horizon zero dawn, The Last of US I or Ghost of Tushima. I wish there was a simulator-war-history-accurate type of game but all I know there isn't one ... YET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:54 PM
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That's the almost- 40 dude that dated a 19-21 yrs old and ended up cheating on her, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:33 PM
121

But why should I care about his unwashed, weird looking, std's caring noodle when I can have a wonderful career and a brilliant dildo, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:45 PM
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I wish there we're dudes that played video games like me- occasionally and had multiple hobbies aside and a fulfilling life, but it's usually the opposite with them. The downright addiction, time and money spent on fucking pixels kinda scares me. I mean.... I'm doing 3d sculptures for games and maps and stuff but money comes off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:34 PM
12

This damned planet HAS always been a living hell since day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:30 PM
6

I'm in my 20's now. This shit still happens. Ugh, I hate it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:24 AM
5

Making the public sympathize with the psychotic killer. Sounds familiar, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:20 AM
5

UFF for fucks sake, Cyberpunk is a laggy average game, so overpriced, literally the mechanics, the aesthetics etc. is so overdone it annoys the crap out of me. The only thing that adds: oh bo ho customizable genitalia and SSR. THAT'S ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:16 AM
23

And if you manage to lose weight don't you think they'll find another thing to sexualize about you? These scumbags sexualize everything that has a pulse and a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:00 AM
5

Yucky dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:53 AM
30

Don't forget the anxiety that goes away with you know.... lOokInG perfectly snatched for a POS that doesn't wash his ass properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:25 AM
16

Of course he doesn't like that. He's working in a factory and probably this woman was the breadwinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:22 AM
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Why the hell women in higher education go for those lowlifes is beyond me. In my experience dudes like this scumbag are just pure trash, I'm tired of society yelling "but give these men without HG a chance" bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:18 AM
24

You can try this: I use multiple layers of shapewear, spandex and other related undergarments and midi/long skirts. Good luck trying to get those off easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:10 AM
1

Haven't heard of it but thanks! I love the artwork. I'll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:01 AM
2

Beastars! I forgot about that one heh. Thanks I'll check those out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:00 AM
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I honestly think that a HVM would have been of HV from the start. Why do I say that? Oh, not only your generation is garbage. I'm in my 20' and the same shit happens. The overall image of a dude in his 20's? Barely has any hygiene, alcoholic, addicted to video games and Netflix, has terrible life goals and management skills, isn't respectful and isn't monogamous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:53 PM
3

Eh, I hope so. But, at this point the man that I want is simply an unicorn even thou my requirements aren't unrealistic. *sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:49 PM
2

And you probably we're surrounded by simple minded people that get off laughing at the word "penis". I can't find a better explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:47 PM
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I'm glad you like those. I stumbled upon Mononoke by mistake and I was wondering if there's something there similar ...and I highly doubt it. :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:45 PM
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You are talking as if rape doesn't exist for fucks sake. Some are downright abusive. Either forcing her, manipulating her into it or simply put doing things sexually that don't make her comfortable. You can't deny it, this shit is so wide spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:43 PM
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I watch anime as well, but occasionally cuz the "new" stuff is mostly garbage. It depends on what he watches and obviously it shouldn't turn into an addiction. There are some good oldies: Mononoke, anything from studio Ghibli, Cowboy Bebop, Inuyasha, Ghost in the Shell, Death Note and so on. Pretty much the old school stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:21 AM
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What misogyny when it's in fact the truth? I've encountered multiple guys like these and fitted the bill to a T. MULTIPLE and aggressive after being nicely rejected. I'm referring to the "oh bo ho I was treating her like an decent human being but she didn't dropped her panties" type of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:12 AM
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HAH. As if the Philippines is doing so good poverty, human- trafficking and corruption wise at the hands of a man! What the fuck is this shit-head saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:05 AM
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I'm in the same boat. Simply put: lack of empathy, respect and understanding. I'm triggered by certain sexual acts (even thou I didn't experienced b's, but still) due to past trauma and abuse as a kid. Do they care? Hell, no. Do I lose any type of respect for them and manage to get the hell as far away from them? Hell, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:48 AM
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The fact that so many literally CHILDREN under 18 are sexually active considering ALL the risks makes me sooo uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:33 AM
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No, those men are just fine if they don't waste their life away on being a bum and actually learning, thou they're not my preference due to many reasons mentioned bellow. I meant educated as in proactively reads and has a curiosity in finding knowledge, but hell having a bachelors degree wouldn't hurt, isn't it? In the past I give these men a chance. What did I get? Someone who couldn't understand me, my need for learning and usually disrespected me way worse than those more educated. So no, nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:16 AM
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Do you know what makes me sad? They're bashing on the person who actually STAYED.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:11 PM
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BUT it should be the STANDARD. The majority of you are deplorable even in the fricking hygiene section for fucks sake. And why the hell would I want to date a dude that isn't STABLE? I invested so much in myself, education, life skills, fashion wise and so on, so it's normal. How about you stop feeling sorry about yourselves and start living life and going to therapy, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:05 PM
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Ah...what do you know? They wanna live under a bridge starving and still expect us to consider them as a mate. Hah. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:02 PM
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Blame the stupid media and pop culture for that. Some of those "nice guys" wouldn't whine here if they actually get laid, so in other words they're pretty much salty for not playing, even thou that means abusing other women, not like they would care anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:00 PM
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I don't know the type of women you hang out with, but the majority of women in my life, myself included are TURNED OFF BIG TIME by those stereotypical "bad-guys", I want a monogamous family based on respect and honesty not.... headache. When it comes to these women that have no self-respect and are abused by men, here's your answer: decades of bombarding with pop culture and media, books etc. based on "bad boy" falls for the girl and changes. I hate those things and I grew up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:54 PM
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Honestly, I would rather never have sex than getting a surgery or bleaching my pubic area for men. It annoys the crap out of me that some people (thanks porn) are considering the "normal" aesthetic/smell of a vagina wrong. I hate them so much for normalizing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:46 PM
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And God forbit you have a full cabinet of makeup, skincare and all that good stuff.... they whine that it's a "waste of money and space" even if it's not even HIS MONEY. They expect us to look flawless without even trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:39 AM
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I'm considering being an owl lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:35 AM
2

I wish you luck. I, on the other hand, gave up on people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:33 AM
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I'm in the same boat. A ton shit of hobbies keep me occupied, maybe it'll help you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:59 PM
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Relatable. LVM's and Pickmes are the reason why I'm choosing to be alone, so from "hating to be lonely", I've ended up like "I absolutely love being by myself." Why? I have a ton shit of hobbies that need to be cultivated and people didn't actually added value to my life, they just took, abused and discarded me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:54 PM
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When he always tried to dismiss my traumas and kept telling "You see I have my issues too" and shit like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:47 PM
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I think history has the answer you're looking for, but the past was more fucked up than today, we have to admit that. It's human nature to be going on a downfall if there are multiple stimuluses that pretty much favor that, plus a lack of empathy before hand makes it even worse, it doesn't matter the time frame we're in. Nowadays, porn is just another "modern" tool that produces a ton shit of money on modernized slavery or you can call it a revisited version of one of the most old "profession" e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:14 PM
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Your statement falls at least in my case. Why? I'm not addicted to games, I play them pretty much 30 min a day. Everything used in excess pretty much is bad...so? I do multiple hobbies/actual work and extra stuff so I don't see a problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:56 PM
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The dispenser with soap put in the men's restroom at my college is always FULL, even in this time. The thought of touching a man makes me puke, seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:09 PM
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Let's be real... the majority of them don't genuinely have it nor do they care. That's why a man will never fake "empathy" on you if the said woman isn't "fuckable" enough in his eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:05 PM
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It annoys me how some idiots keep bragging "oh bo ho women didn't evented shit", when the reality is that even thou women we're oppressed back then, history still HAD some brilliant feminine minds that created stuff and contributed to society in every area, but the vast majority are put under the rug. Also, the rest of them we're occupied with raising the fricking planet. We're the ones who raised the society as a whole...that's a pretty big responsibility to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:47 PM
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Games can be really good in developing certain skills, IF you don't become an addict, of course. For example, I've developed my navigation and orientation skills, my reaction under stress is managed better, I can spot certain stuff way faster than before and it helped me with my memory and planning stuff in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:35 PM
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I'm glad you found a way that works for you. I wish I didn't have my lame ass memory, so that's why I write it down in the same day as the events happened. I tend to forget traumatic stuff and flashbacks keep coming back after a few weeks/months passed by. But, slowly just like you I've started to recognize these mistakes, as in pathologies keep repeating.... so in a way I'm glad lvms and pickmeishas have the same tendencies/lame scenarios. I regret the effort, time and money put in these dirtba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:01 AM
2

For the future: You can try something I do as well... I tend to not read people so well in the moment so, I write down everything questionable they do + the good things and balance them somewhat. Once you have a red flag you simply RUN. It's more easy for me this way to analyze their behavior. I do this with everyone in my life and oh boy.... this made me realize that people aren't worth shit 9/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:41 AM
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Hey, at least there aren't many. I lurk here often so yeah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:21 AM
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She's seriously trying to deny your ancestry? Really, now?:))))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:06 AM
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"doesn’t want to deal with the guilt of knowing he hurt your feelings", or not even that... I don't think they care...these scumbags are trying to avoid direct confrontation, most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:12 PM
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Butthurt much, huh? I was trying to suggest the type of boots/heels that I wear, so hey maybe she feels ok in them, maybe she didn't try chunky ones, so NO I never had the intention of forcing her to do that lol. And for your morbid curiosity, I wear make-up out of the norm and certain clothes that are deemed "too much" because GASP I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:27 PM
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Oh god.... this piece of shit really doesn't want to grow the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:43 PM
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Hey, I personally wear thick/bulky heels/boots and my feet are just fine. Maybe, this will help you as well? Idk. I'm trying to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:36 PM
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I don't know if it's "laughable" much for ones that don't use those programs/aren't in the same career path but... photoshop wise-didn't knew shortcuts, still he deemed to know more about this program than me (haha), kept pestering me that i sHoUlD paint a certain way digitally (even thou this dude's art isn't even that great to begin with), the dude was pretty much a noob, barely knew the interface. The same story with traditional art as well, but another dude. If you're wondering who they are,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:00 PM
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Hm... graphic arts, photoshop stuff or mostly art related stuff, or history of arts. I had many scumbags try to pick fights with me over... well known stuff for fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:25 PM
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Submissive? EW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:23 PM
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Some sick fucks already do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:39 PM
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I know men that work/study in "art fields" and they are the same misogynistic pieces of shits like everyone else. Even those shame women oh how they dress or put make-up on their face. You can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:37 PM
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Trust me even the college dudes are the same, or even worst. Video games and porn addicts, alcoholics, slackers that skip classes to stay with the boiz, very bad at managing money, can't dress up like an adult, shitty hygiene and the list goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:00 PM
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And why the hell are you staying in it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:28 AM
9

I would beat the crap out of him with a baseball bat if someone did that to me...hell if I'm lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:27 AM
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Sweat pants? EW. I avoid men wearing sweat pants as the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:05 AM
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From what I've heard she can't go back to her country, right? I mean those scumbags will stone her to death, plus the death treats this girl received are.... ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:01 AM
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Maybe the filth that shithead and the kids created in the house? I mean how useless can you be? Even the kids (pft teenagers) do the same, they don't help around at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:38 AM
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The only good example I know is my father: he took care of his immobilized dying mother for 9 years until she died in his arms and did pretty much everything. That's the only example....in rest many damn stories of LVMs like this prick, even in my own family, To be honest.... stories like these make me wanna stay alone forever, I don't need extra burden in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:35 AM
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I'm sorry for the experience you had to endure. Men 99% are trash and I can attest that from... experience. Dudes my age have no fucking excuse, even my dad has more value as a human being than those lazy scumbags. The only one that wasn't a bum is him. He took care of his dying adoptive mom in his 30s, pretty much being the caretaker of everything. He still does the same at 68 for us as in trying to make things for us easier, even goes to work while I'm trying to finish my phd, offers to get st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:26 AM
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And usually comments like this come from unkept and dirty gorillas, that have no idea how to groom their beards...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:43 AM
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I guess the "generic stuff" from the "glow up" trends such as: take care of your body more- take long baths, use lotions, scrub, perfume, work out, shave if it makes you happy, make your skin look like glass, wear fluffy clothes, always look snatched when going at work/uni, get yourself some nice high-quality jewelry, now this is for the "body" part. What I am trying to say: You can't really change the fact that humans need physical intimacy, you just can't, but that doesn't mean that we should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:07 PM
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I have one example in my family of a single mom that was almost killed by her ex- husband, besides that, the "fAThEr" was never around and dumped all their money on whores and abandoned the kids at a young age. The mother stayed and continued studying and get a PHD and masters degree and had/has a very good income. Guess who the boys prefer? The piece of shit that almost killed their mom with a fucking knife and was always present at my parents house, hiding because this psychopath was looking f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:42 AM
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I use multiple platforms for that: Youtube or Pinterest. Make-up wise... I follow Wayne Goss, Alexandra Anele, Regina Picturresque, Snitchery or Pony syndrome. Skincare wise I follow mostly asian channels, Liah Yoo being one example. I use stuff from the Ordinary btw. Affordable and good for my skin. Fashion wise... I think you should start with pinterest and see what you tend to like more. For example I've got an interest for vintage/punk (more toned down)/classy combo. I follow Rachel Maksy, K…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:01 AM
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And if the vaccines fail... so what? He'll wAiT 10 years to see if he loves her? Fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:40 AM
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UGH. I hate how normalized this shit has become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:39 AM
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Imagine being so butthurt over a woman that gets fine things for herself. I'm going to shower myself in fine jewelry and clothes, invest a ton shit of money in my hobbies, buy a house and you dumbasses can die mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:06 AM
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Ugh... that "regret" is so well known for me as well (at least in the past), so don't overthink it too much...just think this way: you have no reason to feel like shit. Why? Those scumbags are the ones who treat others like crap and have NO remorse. Fuck them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:21 AM
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Don't tell him anything, BLOCK AND DELETE, or else he'll just laugh in your face. Trust me...they don't care at all, and it SHOWS. I have one thing to tell you: DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON GARBAGE. If he did something bad in the past, the same shit will repeat in the future. PERIOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:54 PM
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Oh fuck, I wish I wasn't right. The fact that STILL in 2021 are sects/religions/societies whatever that practice this (i mean c'mon it's still incest even thou they're not so close in the family branch) ...for fucks sakes. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:48 PM
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How the fuck can you say that your own child has a crush on HER COUSIN? sweet home Alabama, much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:20 AM
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Do you know what bothers me the most (I've saw it many times even in IRL). Those dudes are seriously not going to pick up their partner after work (or anywhere)? REALLY now? How much of a pussy can you be? Especially, knowing that as a woman going out after 6pm is kinda a nightmare. If I was a man I would be making sure my woman is home safe, but yeah I guess that's just too much to ask "modern men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:08 AM
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They're trying to live their porn fantasies isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:46 PM
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Their reaction: What's with that pandemic of gold-diggers? WAH WAH now women expect me to put on my big boy pants. WAH WAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:37 PM
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My biggest fear in becoming a teachers is not being able to make them respect me, I mean I don't have a problem with 3-12 years olds but speaking of middle schoolers or (especially) HG.. just ugh. I say that because I remember the way boys treated/talked about that "hot" and young teachers and I HATE IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:48 AM
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I wasn't like that a few years ago (I'm 21), but hell I don't have anything to prove/give to those people as in I'm not obligated to tolerate them, especially their rude behavior so... fuck em' all. They didn't contribute in my education. These people are strangers to me. fashion topic: you can try shapewear, they had some seamless black/nude shorts and they do wonders. Same goes for bodysuits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:45 AM
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And people love shitting on FDS- oh no we are the BAD GUYS. I hate people so, so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:53 PM
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She's just playing the "my way is the only way" card. I had many relatives like her and that's exactly the reason why they're not part of my life anymore. Nobody's dictating my way. They we're belittling me all the time because of my tastes, my choices, my body or anything, really. (for context I'm a mix between vintage and punk/rock so i don't give a fuck). Don't get me started on how much shit they gave me for wanting to become an art teacher. Also, she's trying making noise between you and yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:40 PM
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That hits way too close to home. Ugh, I wish I ditched my lvm "fRiEnDs" since 9th grade. At least I made that step in my first year of college (pre-FDS).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:40 PM
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Look into materials and how the jewel is designed. Usually stainless steel is the most cheap and durable (i have chunky, armor/plate-type rings and i'm going onto the 6 year of wearing them and they look as new), silver works well too but keep in mind that necklaces (at least in my experience) just... broke, maybe i bought them too thin, also gold (but the downside is that some can be allergic to it, and of course, the damn price, plus I would feel bad if someone stole it, you know, something SO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:30 PM
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So basically, 90% of jobs huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:01 PM
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They sexualized everything from glasses, turtleneck sweaters or pigtails for fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:53 PM
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Blame porn. On one hand you have the teacher-student dinamic (usually 35 yrs old women+ with 15-20 yrs teenagers) is one of the most searched categories on porn sites. Also, I know a lot of desperate pickmeishas irl that eventually have been/are still in a relationship with their students. Disgusting. Yikies, those boys are literally kids compared to these women. On other hand you have those mini-scrotes that have no respect for their teacher and end up sexualizing her to the max either in grup …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:46 PM
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I just wanted to show others what could happen (i'm not saying it's the 100% outcome) but.... just keep in mind, you know. Don't end up like me kinda thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:35 PM
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I hate their kind. Those are the same people that would have the nerve to tell a kid that their sexual abuse is a lie or whatever (it happened to me, I know other cases as well). Keep in mind that constant anger/stress can lead to diabetes for example (or other diseases), I'm speaking from experience. Trust me... if it impacts you in a bad way (anger) it's not worth it. Indifference is. I wish I could rewind time and not give a flying fuck about those who hurt me, instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:36 PM
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I almost agree with you, unless this anger can make some women end up with diabetes (or any disease) from it, speaking from experience which I deeply regret. I regret not choosing indifference, frankly or at least stoic principles. I ended up with diabetes due to intense stress that never left me, pure anger at the way people in my life treated me and that was it. Was it worth it? Hell no. Indifference is a way, way better comeback, at least in my case. If anger is the way to go for others.. be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:30 PM
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Seriously.... what the fuck is with those sexualized comments directed at you? HIS DAUGHTER. What the fuck? Please for the love of God talk with someone about this (your mom doesn't seem a good idea tho). I have a bad feeling regarding this shithead. No sane man would talk like that to a literal CHILD, especially his offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:13 PM
5

Please, tell me you bailed on them eventually and gtfo as away as possible from that sick fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:00 PM
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He sounds like those scumbags that love not letting you have their seat in a bus/metro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:54 PM
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Porn isn't the same as illustrated sex scenes (ex. Japan comes to mind), if you think about it it wasn't so "hard-core". Why? The information is limited, compared to 30 min of violent porn as it is today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:51 AM
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I've met guys like this (rare af) but they reeked of narcissism, entitlement and any bad characteristic you could imagine. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:14 PM
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What equality, scrote? I still fear for my safety EVERYWHERE I go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:03 PM
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I find attractive a man that wears flamboyant clothing, cool warrior/style eyeliner/eyeshadow or has long and clean hair braided in cool ways. I wish. What do we have instead? poor hygiene, shitty haircut, 24/7 sweatpants Samuel. Yey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:45 PM
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But...this shit didn't even EXIST in the past, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:39 PM
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If we're playing by the evolutionary pSyChOlOgY card... shouldn't women be the visual ones? I mean look at how men dress and smell, look at their shitty apartments. They SURELY aren't visual by any means. Women as a whole on the other hand...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:36 PM
7

If that's the case... it's just sad. Who knows? Mediocrity never fails to... surprise me in a not so good manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:28 PM
3

I'm in my last year rn, about to graduate (license). I had an insane amount of classes (8 am. to 8-9 pm.), it was pretty much impossible, plus my public transport was/still is shit :'). At least when I'll get to the next level (master's degree), I'll be able to get a part-time job due to a much more flexible and not so stressful program. Yey. Oh, and thank you, I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:26 PM
2

At least we're in the present, right? Not stuck in communist propaganda anymore and hell... I'm glad. From what I've heard (in my country at least, idk about the others) back in the "good old days" there we're an incredible amount of pressure on victims of sexual assault to get married to their rapist. Makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:19 PM
1

Thank you for the idea. I've always wanted to volunteer but didn't know how and my old low-self esteem persona didn't want to get in the way/mess stuff up. I think I'll feel like a fish swimming in water among those "looney" folks- I'm one of them (aka graphic designer/illustrator). Heh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:15 PM
3

Look, I'm from Europe as well, so I know our backwards thinking (especially in the east). But, for God's sake fuck them all. They're simply retarded and can't stand people that don't conform to the "standard". Buying a home is a BIG ASS INVESTMENT. What the hell is so hard for people to grasp lol. Nothing can go south. "Worst" case scenario you rent it and get extra money. I plan in the following 4 years to get my own apartment as well. I'm tired of hearing at 21-almost 22 "when you'll get marri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:40 PM
8

A house is a waste of money? Are they retarded? You can literally get a ton shit of money on rent if you decide to move out or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:34 PM
3

I hate this stupid mentality. Those women are the ones that end up with NOTHING if things go south. As if you can't rent that apartment for some extra cash lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:33 PM
1

Good for you gal. That's my goal for 2021 and forward. I started doing some of these steps you've been mentioning but still... I can't take a job bc my uni schedule is so stupid. Ugh. I can't wait to graduate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:28 PM
4

It doesn't matter that you're not the "skinniest chick". You can dress up for your body type and look bomb af (ex. vintage pieces, elegant skirts and jumpsuits). I'm chubby as well and but still, people compliment me all the time for the way I dress and do my makeup. But still, clothes and shoes wear out more easily than a house does (especially designer ones that are made of plastic). You can always replace them with a couple of pieces that are made of good quality materials at a reasonable pri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:13 PM
11

I'm focusing on myself for now. "Relationships" can wait, at least until I finish college and get my master's degree. I've tried making meaningful relationships with people but heck, pickmeisha's and lvm's are EVERYWHERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:29 PM
30

I saw a couple of examples of HVM parents/single parents raising their kids the best they can but... the kid turned out not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:26 PM
7

Yet, they expect women over 25 to look exactly like they were at 15 or something, not to look like a healthy adult. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:11 AM
24

I don't know your age but I'm in my 20s. 99% of guys treat us like trash. They also are gaming/porn/maybe gambling addicts, extremely lazy, lacking hygiene and don't believe in monogamy/relationships bc they prefer hookers. The women that have them warped around their finger are the "baddie" ones that pretty much treat them like crap. I honestly don't see them as husband material, heck even friend material, nothing. That's why I'm never getting married. They always end up cheating no matter what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:08 AM
7

If you stayed... trust me, hitting you would have been the next step at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:57 AM
10

Well, that's a lesson for me I guess: NEVER EVER get in a car with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:54 AM
4

UGH, i know the struggle. The fact that this stupid, unrealistic "standard" comes from balding, unkept gorillas that don't know how to FUCKING wash themselves properly, annoys the crap out of me. Same goes for "you're a wOmAn, it's your obligation". Fuck off dudes... our ancestors fucked for centuries without being shaved 100%. So, what you wouldn't fuck women if there was war time and they couldn't because logical reasons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:26 PM
3

I like it! If you want to watch some OP digital artists look up Marco Bucci, Ruan Jia or Andrew Redding (wholesome traditional artist).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:09 PM
10

Those scumbags can't understand that some of us are sensible down there and shaving completely will ruin everything, huh? I hate that these scumbags expect us to be all bald down there. I get so irritated and it itches so much, I can't stand it. Plus I'll get infections easily if I was trying to match their stupid ideal of a vulva from porn. ps. that comes from the gender that fucks fruits/ socks or any weird food/object lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:50 AM
10

I'm bisexual, but I'm afraid of getting with a woman. Why? Because in my backwards country you could get fired for it, plus me wanting to be an art teacher doesn't help. Ah, and my family sucks, too. Yey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:46 AM
49

They can't even fix a door knob but still "I have vIkInG roots".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:29 AM
37

Hey, the more women wake up the BETTER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:17 AM
2

I used to love that show too in my teenage years, but still I had certain characters/couples I couldn't STAND. Now, that I reviewed the show recently.. oh man. It's something else. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:15 AM
14

I'm talking about people in general IRL that ask this, not dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:11 AM
18

I don't know if it's in your case as well, but I can't associate with men due to them being boring af. They're generally addicted to porn/video games/ drinking/ talking shit about others/ mocking people. That's all. I literally DON'T have anything to talk with them. Also, their lack of basic human respect for me shows so yikes no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:06 AM
6

HAH. A gold one. I mean it's logical... Idk why it's that concept so hard to grasp to certain women/men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:58 AM
25

I always wondered this... what do you tell people that ask you "what do YOU bring at the table?". I know that people love using this phrase (not necessarily romantic interests) if you God forbid have standards and say that: hey I want a x amount of characteristics in a man. This stuff always caught me off guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:56 AM
3

I forgot that lol. Monica was one of my fav characters from that show, but hell I can't stand her boyfriend/husband. I just can't with those relationships that are based on "sarcasm". Don't get me started on her parents. The show makes it clear that Ross is "the favorite one" and Monica is just the ex-fatty with a not so wow "job". I don't get it... I don't see anything utterly wrong with her personality/her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:48 AM
9

OK, those two are the worst. I mean for the whole seasons they just... broke up and made up again and again. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:44 AM
62

I'm the only one who can't stand that couple? I mean it's like 90% Chandler being mean/sarcastic to Monica and a rare "cutesy" moment. That's all. Let's not forget that Chandler treated her like shit when she was overweight. Still, if she remained fat in the present, I bet he wouldn't even look in her direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:49 PM
3

But still, you can break that "cursed" life. I'll do the same. Unless, I'll find a HVM, which btw is like an unicorn in my country/generation.. my changes of finding someone like that are SLIM. My family is like yours tbh. The only exception are my cousin, who is the definition of HVM and my father, in rest... pure trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:13 AM
5

I can't wait to move out after uni and have my first Christmas alone. UGH. 2 more years to go...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:28 AM
8

Imagine being so butthurt about some colors used to accentuate certain features lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:25 AM
46

Ugh. Men manage to turn me off so MUCH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:02 PM
11

I love your nails!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:38 PM
2

Ugh, i feel bad for anyone that had to deal with those scumbags. My uni is full of them, I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:36 PM
17

You are aware than a HVM wouldn't even RISK IT to begin with, right? Doesn't ring a bell? I'm not saying that he's the lowest scum, but hell let's just hope that in this "waiting" period he's not going to do something that affects you badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:34 PM
44

He sounds like a horrible partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:14 PM
2

Oh my, but they have "hObBiEs", such as "gaming 24/7", jerking off, porn, collecting gaming stuff worth of hundreds of dollars, watching mainstream garbage on netflix and so on... yet soap doesn't seem a hobby to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:00 PM
15

That and I'll pour coffee on them from head to toe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:10 AM
2

Poor hygiene, filthy apartment, not treating me with respect, lying, being a smart-ass, lazy, not having a job, the 50's slave wife - modern women combo mentality, doesn't look after me if i'm sick, expect me to do everything, doesn't put effort into gifts, trips, dates, not motivated, not having hobbies, poor fashion taste, game addict, not supportive, uneducated, doesn't read, doesn't clean up after himself or always trying to start a fight with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:02 AM
11

C' mon, we CAN'T win. Look at those body wise trends that come and go. Don't blame yourself... I mean if the 90'-2000 "ideal" was still here/happened now, you will be fetishized for being skinny, right? Look at the 10'-90', the extreme differences for the "ideal-body" per decades. Sick, fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:52 AM
22

That creeps on young women... and cheats on them. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:18 AM
13

Elliot Scott and Mathew Hussey. Their advices and "strategies" sound more like a lot of work on our part and for what? And WHY? Also don't get me started on how Hussey cheated on his 19-20 yrs girlfriend, him being an pushing 40 creep. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:16 AM
4

I think you can make millions with that idea, lol. I don't get men. Wipes are.... just wipes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:13 AM
1

Do you know how I'll stop it? By not being with ANYONE ever. It's not worth it, at all. I've developed diabetes due to stress caused by people and this is another reason of -why- I'm afraid that me entering a relationship will make things even worse. Plus anxiety, depression, paranoia. I hate that I allowed myself to get sick. Speaking of porn? I can't watch it. It triggers... memories. Mainstream porn is literally rape scenarios/ incest/ teacher-pupil dinamics / disgusting kinks/ abuse. Whoever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:38 AM
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No, you don't. The probability of ending up with an abusive, cheating piece of shit was HUGE. Don't get me started on divorce or how society pressured you to "give in". Now, you can work, have a property, a credit card, a career, a way WAY better medical system than in the 50', the criminality rate nowadays is lower, life expectancy is way better now and so on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:10 PM
19

What's next? A cardboard box as in "hey, babe i've got our own house." 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:06 PM
44

Don't insult dogs like that. Dogs are loyal, cuddling with you, wanting your attention and a good companion for life. Men on the other hand... no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:03 PM
24

All of those things are fucked up anyway. Men in my life (plus those shared here on the internet/fds etc.) showed me that empathy isn't a thing for them at ALL. It doesn't matter in which kind of media PH, violent porn, certain disgusting kinks are portrayed (illustration, animation, comics, books, porn etc.), those things will eventually fuel their paraphilia, maybe "normalize" it for them, pat them on the back "oh look i'm not so abnormal as society tells me I am". See their failed attempt at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:56 PM
54

Those are the same scumbags that watch hentai with lolis in it and say "uh but it's not rEaL, IT'S JUST A CARTOON/ANIME".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:14 AM
2

Are you kidding me? I was aware of the camera hidden in the damn shelves or something like that but this... this is something else. Wtf. Ffs these idiots are so "innovative" in terms of depravity, in fact it fucking sucks. Imagine if they put this amount of effort in something... productive, but no they are trying to violate us in any way and live their fantasy porn. This phenomenon is becoming so spread... and no, I'm not babbling, you have porn as proof. MILLIONS of revenge porn on the interne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:37 AM
41

Hey, think about this. You can do EVERYTHING on that list for yourself, now, that's what I did anyway. Besides that, this is the standard you can set for yourself: if a man doesn't do everything you've done for that piece of shit, bye BOI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:02 PM
22

Not a boyfriend or anything, but a male-friend that i had a crush on. (yeah, yeah, I know, 3 years ago, pre fds, I was an idiot) A personalized leather sketchbook with carved details made from scratch by me, even the papers sorted out, cut and sewn all together and oh boi... that fucking leather was so hard to penetrate with a fucking needle. I couldn't fell my fingers for a week. :') Besides that scumbag... I made similar items for my "friends" at the time as well. They weren't worth shit. I fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:50 PM
1

:')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:02 AM
5

Look, I don't wanna be cruel, but frankly put people in general are unempathetic idiots and don't care if something happens to you, especially men and I speak from experience. I wish there was an utopia of "everyone is nice to everyone" but reality is another thing. I suggest you make some cleansing in your friends circle and I really mean it due to the pandemic of lvms and pickmeishas. And no you are not crazy, you are not exaggerating, simply put those people aren't worth two shits. Nowadays, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:51 AM
9

This is one of the reasons why I'm so afraid of being intimate with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:37 AM
17

Eh, I'm 21 and I can confirm that men in my age range are pretty much porn, video games and/or gambling addicts, alcoholics with no personality other than "hey, look this is mUh CAR that I can't afford, and hell I'll even eat canned beans for 10 years until I pay for it" or "I don't need monogamy, I love prostitutes, marriage is rApInG men WAHWAH". So yeah.... disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:03 AM
23

Besides porn or pop culture, social media.... I think their mom doing everything for them chore-wise and inflating their heads with "oh son you deserve an idiot who is gonna do EVERYTHING for you, even wipe your ass" as if they're the next coming of Christ. That woman created an useless idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:56 AM
12

The "mall" thing happened to you? If so... what the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:50 AM
3

Love doesn't feed a family or pay the bills, c'mon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:47 AM
5

If this fucker hates cApItAlIsM so much he should try for communist China or NK. I'll assure him that he'll run back home in less than a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:21 AM
6

I love your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:12 AM
3

This pathetic piece of shit really was thinking of making you quit your career (plus I'm assuming you put more than 5 years+ of hard work in it) for what, exactly? Starving under a fucking bridge and living in a cardboard box with him? Hah. The fucking audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:52 AM
6

Funny how they call me "picky" and shit when my requirements are exactly what i bring to the table as well. I mean... what the fuck dude is soap and deodorant so hard to use, having a job, respecting me, being educated, reading books, being a nice person, having a fashion sense, having a fucking life, hobbies and so on? Yep. I guess it's too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:44 AM
41

I think I'll adopt one kid, until then I'll make for me and the said child a stable home, big salary, check my mental state etc. I honestly don't see good dads among the men my age range. They're useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:19 PM
3

I'm glad. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:51 PM
4

She's the reason why I'm obsessed with vintage stuff now. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:05 PM
23

That's why I'm really considering NEVER getting with someone. The majority of dudes around me aren't even marriage material, anyway. I would rather adopt a kid and raise him/her as a single mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:23 AM
7

https://youtu.be/mPm1F9EfW0A Thank me later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:10 AM
3

It depends on what you play. There are some types of game genres that are pretty much interactive movies with choices made by you or some have nice artsy aesthetics . That still doesn't justify their damn obsession. I play video games as well but spent more time on doing my own games instead or evolve my graphic design/ traditional art/ crafts/ jewels skills, but still I have a whole lot of other hobbies as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:06 AM
28

The majority of comments on her channel are a bunch of young chicks yelling "YAS QUEEN this is so eMpOwErInG and "not like other girls". It makes my stomach turn. There are a few that say straight to her face that she's a pickme and a bad model but eh... those are a few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:41 PM
45

Well, yeah. Look up her YT channel.. you'll see why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:07 PM
2

I guess I will, when I'll move out when uni's over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:40 AM
1

Well, in my experience the "mean chicks" (that still have this mentality in uni, "mean" as in not in a good way) get dates after dates. Meanwhile I've got 1 and a half dates in my life (I'm 22 and I've dropped my old pickme self around... 2 years ago), so yeah I don't get how some women can get multiple dates, and as I saw some comments around here I'm not the only one. Sigh. I still don't get it. Maybe the cause of my lack of experience in dating is that I'm not a "party girl", smoking and havi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:38 AM
16

I bet if you scarred him in an altercation you will be the one to face jail time. huh? Fuck this stupid society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:37 PM
9

I'm glad I found this sub. I can finally yell: MEN ARE FUCKING TRASH! especially the old scumbag who tried to rape me as a kid but didn't manage to because I beat the crap out of him and scarred his cornea. Hell, every time I've tried telling someone "close" to me... simply put: I was deemed a lying-exaggerating-whiney bitch. Because of that... I'm super paranoid and don't trust people in general. I've tried to change but... people demonstrated me over and over again, that they aren't worth two …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:32 PM
10

Sorry, but I'm curious. " I live in a country that is a literal hub for human trafficking" are you speaking about a country from eastern Europe? That's literally what we're known for all over the world, "the best whores" that are ACTUALLY trafficked by their families/partners, kidnapped from the streets or due financial reasons (our salaries and corruption are the worst).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:26 PM
12

Don't forget about the "there's no "wifey" material women out there, only whores", even thou there are plenty of "wifey" women, men will make up excuses to not be interested in them (she's too fat, ugly, not my "type", doesn't dress like a slut, isn't "fun" bla bla bla).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:20 PM
1

I feel you. I feel ashamed by my old doormat/people pleaser self, so much so I actually despise the old me. I can't believe how I've been treated by people in general/especially men/my crush at the time. That happened 3 years ago. Now I'm 21 going on 22. What the hell I was thinking back then? I'm glad I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:07 PM
16

"Failing our boys" my ass. ALL my male colleagues are so addicted to video games and porn, they'll end up skipping classes to play/watch those things. Don't get me started on being drunk daily. They literally have time for every dumb shit but school. I don't even get it. How did these types of dudes end up in a college? Literally they're dumber than a rock and if you ask them "hey, what's the last book you've read?' they look at you dumbfounded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:37 PM
16

Ugh, it your story hits so close at home. I don't really have the guts to ignore their calls, but maybe someday I will. I dislike my other relatives because they're always... idk how to say... unstable, I guess? They talk shit, fight, get back together, all giddy and happy and then ...the cycle repeats. It annoys the crap out of me because personally I can't hate someone now and then pretend that I'm happy seeing them. It really sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:20 PM
16

It makes me tremble for real... those stories are so damn common that it hurts and no one does anything. If I think about the women in my family... they are in the same boat as those described by you. It makes me really consider never marrying anyone. I wanna break that stupid chain of never ending abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:53 PM
25

That's why I cut everyone (except my parents) out of my life. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:45 PM
2

The problem is that even thou we have fds standards finding a HVM is fucking hard. I barely met one guy that is even DECENT and that says alot about guys in my age range, the things that we are demanding (aka normality) are basically the description of a unicorn in today's world. That's how bad it is. I had to deal with pickme's as well. I've radicalized myself to say so thanks to fds but still, I was a massive people pleaser in the past and the scars are still there. I feel... ashamed and it we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:36 PM
9

I didn't mean that. I was talking about women who have been filmed by their bf during sex without their knowledge/consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:24 PM
5

Nah. He looks like your typical stoner-skater BOI type in hg that shames "prudes" and virgins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:46 PM
8

Ugh, my colleagues in uni are like this too. If you don't look like a porn star-IG model combo you LITERALLY don't exist to them and they treat you like trash. It doesn't matter if you have good teeth, hygiene, dress nice, are educated, have a FUCKING personality, hobbies, nice skin, a nice body smell etc. They'll literally choose the opposite or down right catcall you. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:41 PM
13

I can confirm that about my colleagues. They are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:39 PM
9

I'm in the same boat as you. I simply ignore them now. I've WASTED so many years of my life trying to befriend and understand them... big mistake. They are trash and cheap. I make sure to occupy myself with whatever distracts me. I'm stress free, my pocket is full, I'm not stuck in "friendships" that put me down or judge everything I do. I might be more selfish now but hell the present me is way happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:43 PM
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I will never date a man who watches porn. Plus revenge porn is another reason of WHY I'm so afraid of dating someone. Just imagine... you're having an intimate moment with your partner and then boom you broke up and end up on a porn site. This shit has become a phenomenon for fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:12 PM
2

The blatant disrespect those idiots have for everyone is so common and sad. I had some guys treat/talk to me as if I was their "bro" as well or if not that... simply being ignored, mocked or gaslighted. I hated that so much, disgusting being the key word. I personally turned kinda... asexual due to their behavior. Manner wise-yeah... totally true, same goes for fashion sense, taste in anything or hygiene. I wouldn't waste my time with dudes in their 20s. I'm 22. I know what my "peers" are like a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:02 PM
5

I agree with some of your points but, I think it's a cause, not the only reason. For example, even before porn was invented rapists still existed. Men in my dad's generation (he's 70) didn't have porn and still we're pieces of shits. I really think violent porn is a consequence of literally the entire hatred toward women and kids accumulated throughout centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:48 PM
5

I love her visuals. So different from the mainstream bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:46 AM
1

Pre-fds i was brainwashed and pressured by my peers at school to watch porn. I didn't know better, I was a stupid 12 yrs old, still I found it disgusting but not at the same level as today. It became more clear after the abuse I've suffered in my teen years. I was an idiot. Post-fds (21) - I don't understand how someone can watch porn/hentai in general. I CAN'T. I tried watching one video and couldn't resist more than 30 sec. It disgusted me to no end. The plot in those abominations usually is r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:50 AM
2

Give them the minimum of 30 yrs jail time. They wouldn't fucking dare to touch anyone ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:35 AM
3

Not ONLY censored... let those scumbags get a nice ass "trip" behind bars and throw the damn key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:34 AM
10

The depravity of men/young boys doesn't surprise me anymore. I will never forget one incident. I was walking down the street a year ago and a group of 13-14 yrs olds we're passing by. Guess what they kept yelling? Something about wanting to gang rape one of this dude's sister, making jokes about it and laughing (also i don't remember everything they we're saying but it was pretty clear that she was a minor as well). I wanted to yell at them but stopped, hell those scums we're WAY taller than me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:04 AM
12

I guess you're lucky if you had HVM in your college. "Men" in my uni aren't men- they're still overgrown toddlers, that are havin' a blast stringing along chicks, treating women like trash, drinking until they vomit, miss classes to go and play video-games in the dorms together, are broke, cheaters etc. Same story goes onto the nearby universities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:33 AM
9

If I was a man, I would be ashamed of not knowing how to fix stuff around the house, change a fucking bulb, hit a nail on the wall, having basic hygiene, a high education, good taste in everything or any basic adult skill required for a healthy individual. My goal would be to become a respectable citizen. I don't understand men that can live without those things ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:24 AM
6

I don't get it. Even if I was a dude I would be offended by someone jokingly saying sexual innuendos about my mom, so wtf is wrong with men in general? I never saw women joking about fucking your parents wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:21 AM
12

Even if I was a dude I would be offended by someone jokingly saying sexual innuendos about my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:20 AM
4

It doesn't surprise me one bit tbh. America also had the most vicious serial killers in the previous century, exaggerated violence in general. Also... history says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:32 AM
5

Do you know why eastern European women end up trafficked? Usually, our salaries are absolute crap compared to the west, college costs a ton shit, same goes for utilities, rent, men usually abandon their wives and boom: epidemic of single moms or those scumbags aren't even in the workplace, nepotism, now you get my point. Another one: being sexually exploited at work is common, either you do that or you get fired. Another one: women are tricked into this shit being made the point of "hey, i have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:28 AM
5

I agree on the men part. What annoys the crap out of me is that no one does a thing to stop them/shun them en masse anymore. See "Cuties" for example. These fucks are trying to normalize this degenerate behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:22 PM
-2

I know personally a case and hell I can say with all my being that she's a fucking predator. A 40 smth divorced woman being in a relationship with a 20 yrs old (present). They've been in a relationship since this idiot was like...16-17? Before all that she was his "mother" figure-mentor something. Trust me. I saw a couple of depraved women. They are usually teachers. Fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:03 PM
68

They don't believe in "trafficking", in their eyes every single woman out there is a hoe that wants it, or that's what men of all ages think about women in post communist countries (aka eastern Europe). This is one of the reasons of why I'm afraid of getting with someone, simply put women here are not safe. You can check the statistics on domestic violence/rape/murders and convince yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:49 AM
9

Please tell me he didn't use the blade part.... I wanna puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:29 AM
2

Hey, it's never too late. I have colleagues in my uni (35+, art field) that are studying now whatever they wanted in their youth but couldn't because their parents/situation wasn't favorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:28 PM
5

Oh great, they are all the same. Happened to me as well. I don't wanna be near men for too much other than professionally...in rest, not worth it. I had my fair share of scummy pickmes that treated me like shit, but nothing compared to how men treated me since ...forever basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:17 PM
21

That's why I wanna stay single forever and avoid men as MUCH as possible. The majority of men in my life treated me like absolute crap/tried to touch me or didn't react in any way when I was assaulted on the streets/bus. I simply can't trust them, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:07 PM
10

Let's hope that this scumbags doesn't follow you there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:22 PM
16

I don't understand their logic...how can that be empowering if those that see/fuck you DON'T and WILL NEVER respect you as a whole human being?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:49 PM
4

So I guess the degenerate that downvoted you felt offended by the fact that you didn't respond "positive" enough to that depraved scenario, huh? Oh well, someone's triggered, I guess. Also sus if you see that you suck. (sorry this stupid game is everywhere haha)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:38 PM
2

I feel sorry for you. I hate ignorant people and bystanders so MUCH. I'm so tired of men saying "not all men are rapists", but still they are just BYSTANDERS, so nothing will ever change... fuckers. I carry a bunch of heavy rings on my fingers and in worst case scenarios a box cutter in my pocket (my uni area is full of gypsies and homeless thugs so...yeah). I can't wait to get my license, yet being in uni doesn't help me getting a car cuz it's expensive. :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:30 PM
4

Well, let's be real...it's gross. Nothing will change my mind, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:32 PM
6

It infuriates me that those scumbags roam freely even in public transport and try touching young girls and yet... nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING happens to them. It happened to me multiple times (it still happens to this day, so...from 8 to 22-present). What did the others around me do? They yelled at me for beating the crap out of that degenerate (usually the old hags defend them). Those around my age laughed at me. I feel so powerless. I've become so violent because of these circumstances, so if I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:28 PM
3

I had men like this piece of shit comment on women going to the gym. Those are the same scumbags that don't want to help their partner/mom/sister carrying stuff from the grocery store/around the house. I have some of these in my family. I hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:07 PM
7

She is locked up? What the fuck is this? And pedos that killed kids/rapists that killed their victims...get almost nothing or 5 years at best. I fucking hate our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:01 PM
8

Is that scumbag that made "the destruction of daisy" or smth like that? Man, if I had any power I would wipe them all out of the face of Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:56 PM
1

Are you talking about mama max or anxiety war, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:54 PM
2

Of course they feel like that, you have the "audacity" to not follow the pre-made toxic norm anymore. Maybe those girls feel like the "freak" now who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:28 AM
14

What you do with your body is only YOUR business. I'm in the same boat as you, plus i haven't even had my first kiss at 22, eh i didn't had anyone worthy enough anyway. I've had my fair share amount of "shaming" for being a "prude" and such... but hell, I'm not losing anything. STD'S, meh or abusive sex, possibilities of pregnancy, he-treats-me-nice-then-sex-then-bails thing etc. Let me tell you about the pick mes that gave me alot of crap in a discussion (idk they just had a conv about sex and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:25 PM
4

Salut! I hope you've had a good time with them! And regarding the main topic... It is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:19 PM
12

Romania. I'll be blunt. Our men 90% are trash, meanwhile our women are gorgeous, educated, career oriented and so on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:52 AM
7

1 year of constant effort put into us, many dates, activities spent together and, of course, no red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:50 AM
8

I don't wanna tell what to do with your life but... if my mom did that to me, oh well... I would've cut her out of my life for REAL, right now. I don't want to be rude for calling her what exactly she is.: a whore, who puts dick above her kids. I hate them, my country has plenty of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:31 AM
1

Well, if that helps you in any way, I simply attempted to stop because no one would give me the same 1. and 2. c'mon the majority of scumbags that act like this aren't worth my time, my nurturing side nor my energy. Fuck them all. Pickme's and lvm's alike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:08 AM
2

So...what are you waiting for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:29 PM
5

How sociopathic and twisted can you be, wtf? I mean.... they put so much effort into this bullcrap, instead of bettering themselves, going to therapy, learning basic adult skills etc. I wouldn't have imagined this. I saw them lazy in general, but I guess I'm still not getting over the fact that "hey, people are not nice in general, especially men, if you let them .. hell gets loose". I'm still trying to get over my "giving the benefit of the doubt" past. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:29 PM
5

" Some men can even pretend to be what you want for a short period of time to get what they want from you ". - ok, I didn't know that. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:24 PM
2

Ghosting happened to me with people in general... it's downright rude, an insult to my respect and time, a lack of manners and character. I think it's my generation's new "normality". Also... the guys in my age group - I would just call it quits for good. The vast majority of men (20-30) that I know are pure TRASH. I guess wanting your partner to have a perfect hygiene, nice, clean and neat clothes/shoes, a stable life, job, mental health and to show you respect and stuff like that, is too much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:22 PM
4

Why do you accept this shit, really now? He's dictating your life NOW. First, the stay-at-home-dad for a few months/years (c'mon he'll make sure that period will increase), then you giving up on your motorcycle and then what's next? Giving up on monogamy or stuff like that? What exactly does he do to keep him around, huh? He seems useless to me, plus a men leeching off a woman's income turns me OFF completely. Plus....this scenario wouldn't surprise me: he leeches you off for years, makes you lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:58 PM
11

When they do the "i can't wait to see u" and then ghost ... it's usually the case in which the scumbag found someone else to bang in the meantime/has many other options, right ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:51 PM
4

UGH, what the hell? This is common sense and basic human decency and yet this shows exactly that the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:49 PM
1

That piece of trash send me this EXACT same message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:19 PM
3

He didn't believe me, told me that I've made this up, or that I'm exaggerating stuff. I left at that and never spoke to that piece of trash again. It happened last year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:00 PM
5

What the fuck? Prove HOW? These scumbags lack any empathy whatsoever. They aren't worth two shits. I hope you found better company. When I told a male friend of mine (i know, i know) that I was molested at 11 by an old hag he didn't believe me. What the hell can I say now? I fucking hate people. Every time I finally opened up to "friends" about my trauma... boom, vanished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:59 PM
44

The worst feeling is when people genuinely don't believe you/are trying to minimize your traumatic experience or simply put don't give a flying fuck about your existence. Same goes with you being finally comfortable enough to tell someone (especially your partner/friend) your trauma and hell gets loose. That's why I made an oath with myself: to never tell anyone irl about my past, especially men. It only got me pain and dissapointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:30 PM
28

And yet the average looking dude WOULD NEVER date a chubby/fat woman or someone similar to the girl-next door trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:22 PM
3

I'm the only one that almost throw up at the sight of his toilet? UGH wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:15 AM
6

I was wondering the same as well. I saw how men respond to love and marriage discussions in general, the concept of settling down and monogamy (even my cousins or colleagues from uni). This is the answer as it seems like. They hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:40 PM
7

In an utopian world that should be the norm, without any risks of course. It's really sad that it isn't the case... sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:14 PM
11

Me neither, and those factors I've mentioned before make me wanna stay celibate forever. Their behavior let alone wouldn't get me in their bed anyway. The vast majority of men in my life treat/and treated me like shit, ignored me anyway, unless they wanted something from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:30 PM
22

Am I the only one that has a genuine fear of sleeping with men in general? I mean besides the possibility of being choked or slapped etc.... I'm just fearing that men can film me while doing the deed. That thought terrifies me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:46 PM
3

Wait until I tell them (or finding out) that I'm an illustrator, jewelry craftsmen, photographer and all the other hobbies that I have...I'm suddenly deemed boring (or I'm too mUcH) by men because I'm not a party hard chick or simply because I like feminine stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:40 PM
3

Oh, let's be real. These scumbags wouldn't do anything EVER for anyone, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:15 AM
67

Women hit the wall after 35 my ASS. The majority of women who are over 35 that I know...guess what? They are all groomed, educated, well put together, interesting to be around, fun, not negative, have a strict hygiene, look overall beautiful and attractive, hobbies, are empathic, have a fulfilling job etc... Those women are my role model (I'm 22). Men i know over 35 ...oh well, the vast majority of them look like a thumb because hygiene, a moisturizer, nice clothes, reading books and perfume are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:53 AM
3

I was referring to the jewels for the most part but heck your point is good too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:43 PM
28

I'm the only one who thinks that he got those "expensive" things on huge ass sales, either they are fake, bad quality and cheap or simply put starved himself a few months to afford them for impressing the "hoes" as he puts it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:28 AM
8

I knew a few guys like this bish. He sounds like that idiot who lives paycheck to paycheck, starves himself, only consumes beer and frozen pastries, barely having any furniture, but hell he's spending 70%+ on "expensive" stuff (purchased on 50%+ sales anyway) and let's not forget that his daddy usually covers his ass sometimes. What a sad life to have. Also his grammar and the way he speaks makes me vomit. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:26 AM
12

Yet they are the ones that whine if other men are buying their partners an expensive ring for example, calling him a sImP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:11 AM
7

Ow fuck I ALMOST skipped that. :)))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:00 AM
14

I know guys who are ADDICTED, skipping uni classes to play endless hours and stuff. I honestly don't get their addiction. It would have been a different story(hours spent wise) if the said person made his own game or modeled/textured assets for that game. I play games occasionally when I have time (maybe 1-2 hrs every few days), but hell I'm getting bored easily by them, so i actually prefer creating them (concept art, character design, 3d sculpting etc.). It seems more fun than hitting a random…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:54 AM
6

Maybe you can bring one of your hobbies with you while you eat. For example (pre-corona) i was drawing on the daily in aesthetically pleasing coffee shops/restaurants/parks/nice gardens etc. It WAS the most amazing time. I miss that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:27 AM
8

I think "I'm enjoying life rn and forever" was better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:25 AM
5

Hmmm...it depends. Until corona hit... i was on the daily in aesthetically pleasing coffee shops and restaurants drawing and eating there. It was the time I was the most....happy. I really hope this weave will pass us soon. I miss the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:22 AM
6

Nah...not because they're "cool", it's just poor education and those idiots usually trash the public transport as well or....anything they touch. I'm from eastern Europe and from what i've saw only the older men spit, gypsies or ...we have a term for another category of people and google translates it as that "lower-class suburban punk" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:48 AM
59

Yeah like what? 1% at maximum? FUCK OFF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:35 AM
9

22 here. I can relate. The difference between me when i entered college and when i'm about to finish it....man it's huge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:35 PM
5

I remember there was a time (2015 i think) where these weirdos didn't call me a "rEaL fEmInIsT" bc i wasn't such of a man hater (i mean at the damn extreme, the equivalent of men wanting to make women slaves and incubators) and my lack of positivity toward hardçore porn wasn't "empowering". Ugh ,fucking weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:24 PM
159

Please, tell me he's an ex.:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:16 PM
2

Yeah....pretty utopic but I honestly don't think there is someone like that out there from the men I've encountered so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:32 AM
17

I'll accept that 50/50 bullshit when I wouldn't have to fear for my own safety (on the streets/in the elevator/public transport etc), when he'll put the same effort into his clothes/hair/perfume/hygiene/hobbies as I do+ doing the same chores around the house since we'll be two working adults. That's the only "scenario" in which I'll accept 50/50, but let's be real....it's like rare, extra rare, basically a wild unicorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:23 PM
97

Remember the first woman that participated in the Boston marathon (67') or something like that? Guess what? Men pushed the woman and tried to make her fall and so on. That says alot about our counterparts.:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:19 PM
2

Oh , I get it now. "people can act nice and normal for long periods of time before they show their true colors"- maaan this hit me up like a ton of bricks. Let's just say that I found myself in that situation way too often, always ending up frustrated that i can't stop people from acting nice for a few months/a year max and then... poof hell gets loose and i get the worst treatment. It's a thing you've experienced only with boys or with people in general? I guess I'm just unlucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:38 PM
28

I dislike therapy because everytime I've got it they tried to rush me or simply didn't believe me/told me that I'm exaggerating. Let's not forget the price ....oh man. 100 euros+ for dissapointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:08 AM
6

Yeah, I've experienced it before and frankly... I don't give a fuck anymore about people in general. Also .. it seems like he hates your guts. How did you classified him as a "friend"? I can't understand how certain people can act this way and not feel bad for fucks sake...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:05 AM
5

Well, I hope you'll find a partner that actually acts like an adult and loves you. No one deserves such a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:38 AM
50

I'm curious... how exactly you ended up being attracted to this guy in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:01 PM
22

I have many men in my family exactly like this. No way in hell i'll end up with someone like them, I would rather die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:03 PM
2

Korean and japanese men have those traits but hell.... many americans/europeans (from what i saw) make fun of these guys for what exactly? Not looking like 36 when you're 18? God gawd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:19 PM
6

I kinda agree with 3, 5 and 6. 3- that's a thing you can't change at all- but hear me out that doesn't give them the right to use their insecurities and project them onto us. 5- i personally love men that put effort into their accessories (i'm visually driven so....if the dude has a fashion sense, clean, tidy clothes, a good perfume, jewelry, a nice color scheme overall that makes the whole package aesthetically pleasing ...oh well- that's my turn on). I wish it was more socially acceptable for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:13 PM
2

I agree with you. I saw many "relationships" or fwb like these and they seem predatory af as in the power dinamic is freaking obvious and bordeline creepy to me, I don't care if it's a elder woman or a man in charge. Psychologists debate whenever or not to label it as a paraphilia so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:05 PM
12

Please, tell me you're joking. Stories like these make me not want to be in a relationship with anyone, let alone marry them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:22 PM
2

I wouldn't call them "children"... I mean the vast majority of kids i've worked with (artsy stuff) are not evil and some of them showed more empathy than a grown ass person such as trying to comfort someone that got hit or stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:56 PM
10

I don't fucking get it. Have they been so brain-washed by hardcore porn so empathy isn't a thing for them now or what? I can't comprehend that. I'm sorry you've had to endure this piece of shit. I've been in a similar situation. I opened up to a piece of shit lvm, a "friend" (yeah, i know, big dummy me) after 2 years (i was almost molested by an sleazy bastard, thankfully i beat the crap out of him...and i was still traumatized by it) and he said that i was overreacting and whining too much. I l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:37 PM
23

22 here. A vast majority of men in my age range (20-30) are addicted to video games, getting drunk day and night, wasting time in pubs and have terrible hygiene.:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:18 PM
10

But still... snowflakes are trying to get us banned. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:49 PM
3

They kinda did already with another subreddits....what if we make a discord or smth? I'm so tired of things getting away from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:31 PM
24

fds in a nutshell: hey, i bought myself a ring/i'm making myself something yummy or hey, don't let other people take avantage of you or hey, look up for these signs of disrespect and leave asap at the first red flags, hey have boundaries and focus on your life/carreer etc incels/mgtow/red pill/ask relationships etc. in a nutshell: hey, look i think women should have their rights taken away and end up as incubators, how to trick women into dating you, women have too many rights hur hur hur, women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:06 PM
5

Oh god.. Well.... the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:53 AM
68

Well, I'm from eastern Europe and I can confirm that our men are trash from multiple perspectives: -almost everyday you can see 1-2 women killed by their partners on tv (don't get me started on domestic abuse or pedophilia....it's a huge issue here) -they pretty much treat women and kids like shit. examples: they close the door in your face, they shove past you on the street, they take your sit in public transport/nor giving you a sit, they catcall you even if you're 9, if you're unattractive by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:11 PM
5

So have you blocked his ass already or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:52 AM
32

22 here. You're not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:35 AM
132

"both genders suffer from the same issues" uhm, actually no... you don't feel like shit/nor feel threatened almost daily (day and night) on the streets/public transports/cornered places/elevator as we do. You don't get stalked or killed for rejecting someone. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:23 PM
11

Regarding this topic ... i kinda lurked the incels forums out of curiosity (10 min was enough for me) and man oh man shit stings. The overall picture? Dudes who don't want to have a job, hobbies or do anything in life really, but complain and call women "foids" for not giving them a chance. That's their subs in a nutshell. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:44 AM
49

And yet if someone did that thing to them they would lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:12 PM
6

Nah. You better don't. I eventually shared my experience of being sexually assaulted as a kid with a male friend (i had a crush on him, UGH) i've known for 2.5 yrs and....let's just say it didn't go well at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:41 PM
30

So...this piece of shit instead of getting his wife something nice, he's going to use 2k for prostitutes. Being a rational adult seems like a foreign thing for these idiots. "He's monogamous" my ass. Stories like these make me never want to marry anyone wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:17 PM
13

The cause of: *suicide: shitty society, it affects us all * homeless: i can understand if it's a kid or an old man that was pretty much abandoned in his last years, or the dude is stuck in a war zone, i get it, but if the dude is young and has 2 hands and can work...fuck off.:) *homicide victims & violent crime: the majority of the scumbags that harm others are men (it was proven time and time again statistically and let's be frank ...women appear everyday on the news killed at the hands of men,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:54 PM
3

*fuck people in general actually... i've took so many blows from girls as well :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:31 PM
3

I know exactly where you're coming from... i was in the same place as you we're a few months ago (situationship) so.... i ended up being like "hey i wasn't the shithead here thou so fuck this chump." Maybe you could try journaling...it helped me alot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:12 PM
9

Maybe not per se...but when he knows you like him and still takes advantage of you...oh boy is somewhat close to "cheating" (i mean it's as worse on the scale of deceiving etc) as in you have to be a piece of shit to do that. Again.... why do you feel unworthy of a bumhole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:07 PM
8

"Unworthy of him"? Are you kidding me? A fucking liar and a cheater isn't worth two shits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:26 PM
8

I hate the fact that I'm powerless in these kind of scenarios... I'm sorry for whatever bad experience you've had to go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:27 PM
10

I hope you dumped his ass after that middle finger, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:05 AM
102

I'm almost 100% positive that this little piece of shit is watching porn as a hobby already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:12 PM
1

The thing is... I'm living in the town already so not living in a dorm (i'm kinda glad bc the dorms in my country suck ass), but yeah, I've been trying for 2.5 years to make friends but nothing budges. Long story short, ghosting or using me for a thing or two and then bailing on me, pretty much is the standard when it comes to people. The ones from the dorms see me as an outcast and never invite me anywhere and the ones from my hometown have been my peers all throught out high school aka my bull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:57 AM
2

I feel you about the face part, I'm an artist and the face and the overall "aesthetic" of the dude is pretty important to me as well (in the terms of how the dude takes care of himself, how he dresses, behaves etc). I'm attracted to beauty, smell, nice things, fashion etc, so finding a guy like that seems like finding an unicorn, especially in eastern Europe. Guys in my age group (20-25) barely meet my requirements, even the fact that they smell like shit/don't pamper themselves grosses me out. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:36 AM
15

C'mon let's be real, in most cases they'll defend the joke of a man his father is and justify the violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:12 PM
7

You are aware that some "boy toys" will always see you as an old desperate whore that grants him sex with no effort/commitment, right? You are going to be their lil' gossip over a beer in a bar. I saw that all over the internet and irl as well. They enjoy milfs over younger chicks bc it's so easy to them to have sex. Those individuals say that commitment, relationships and effort aren't their thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:57 PM
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These depraved porn derived kinks actually gives them a pet on the back or validation don't you think? Let's not forget that out there are teachers that actually DO THAT and fuck/end up in a relationship with their students. I know a few cases irl: 2 girls that slept with some teachers (high school and 5-8 grade), an idiot who is in a relationship with his HG teacher even today. Guess what? These "teachers" are still setting foot in that school, the consequences being next to nothing. We are liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:15 PM
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Blame porn. It's full of teachers-role play there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:10 AM
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Of course, games are not cheap, think about the effort put in that game. I study graphic design and I saw what it takes to make a video game actually, so no wonder is so expensive, it's a thing that's developed for years and the individuals that worked their asses for that specific game WORKED years to no end to develop their skills. Concept art, script, character design, environment design, 3d models, painting the 3d models, animation, script bla bla bla... the fact that people get addicted to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:47 PM
1

Thanks for your input. I already started doing the self care thingy a few months ago and it boosted my confidence... sadly it isn't really enough, it doesn't replace the need for basic human interaction (sigh). I consider getting a dog or a parrot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:24 PM
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Hey...uhm i'm exactly in the same spot as you we're rn ...minus the guys part. Does it get better in the end or?.... I've tried to put myself "out there" but the only thing that i've got in result is people using and discarding me... i don't know what to do anymore. I'm tired of being no one's option ever, tired of ending up all alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:59 AM
10

His grammar and spelling ...UGH, it hurts my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:59 PM
30

You did good. I stopped following trends or whatever is "hot" or deemed attractive to society for the matter just because it doesn't suit well with me and my personality. For example i love everything that comes with vintage fashion even though idiots stare at me weird because "i dress up like their grandma" and don't show up so much skin . yikes. I also quit fast-fashion and spend my money on quality pieces that aren't made of shitty materials even though i'm labeled as a "high-maintenance" chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:41 AM
1

Respectful, clean, well groomed, empathetic, supportive, educated, monogamous, someone i can talk to about everything, puts effort in our relationship, doesn't lie, cheat, steal, has a job and pretty much isn't a piece of shit. I also meet the same requirements so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:47 PM
1

Nice !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:26 PM
3

Same thing happened to me... i tried to post about my experience as a rant and ...idk just letting everything out. It was about my ex dumping me for his hg teacher (we're in college now) and how it took me aback. Guess what? The next day it was deleted, yet shitty posts regarding kinky hurtful shit, pedo/incest shit, shaming women in general or things like "i want women to not have rights anymore wahwah" are allowed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:24 AM
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I noticed something btw....he usually wears really nice clothes and dresses up like a grown ass man for his age (22) in the good way, but today he was looking exactly like a kid (t-shirt and shorts) and comparing that witch with him and shit....man it creeps the hell out of me. Now i have a problem ...due to people like him i have huge ass trust issues in pretty much anyone. I've tried to open up to people but yeah.... nothing .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:47 PM
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Yeah... i figured that out. But hell I've never ever in my life saw someone so deceptive and pretty much a lying piece of shit. You know what's funny? He had the audacity to make fun of my chubby rolls for like 2 times. Guess what? She has PLENTY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:48 PM
5

I dare you to walk in an art school/ college .... is full of very talented ladies that actually surpass the middle ground- level wise. The only reason that women didn't get out there in the past is men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:57 AM
4

Who the fuck raised you, BOI?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:52 AM
7

Well in the end you have no choice but to choose the things that serve you, right? In my experience I've got so fed up with everyone's bullshit, disrespect and lack of compassion over the years that i ended up all alone. I was alone when a car hit me, when my parents health got to shit, when i was abused as a kid or when I have had surgery done or any crisis related scenario. That's the reality. For example my parents are old and ill, they're going to die someday (i'm 21 btw): I already know how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:25 AM
3

Let me guess....he was either cheating on you or he had pedo related material on his phone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:54 AM
1

Have any of you all seen men acting like shit towards women in public mannerism-wise? Or it is just my meh country and the way our men have been raised here (Eastern Europe for anyone wondering). What do i mean by that? Well stuff like closing the door in my face, pushing me aside to go ahead of me, taking all the seats on the metros/buses etc., snarking and all that shitty behaviour. I hate this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:16 AM
1

Yeah. Electric chair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:54 AM
1

Oh GOD. Has anyone else saw his nails? Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:48 AM
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