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Right!! People are trying to spin it into a private matter. No, we needed to know this information, especially when he was claiming to stand up for women. He was using his platform to manipulate women. In fact, he used one of the women’s trauma as a badge to brag about his sexual skills. Nah, call his ass out. You can’t be an ally if you can’t be held accountable for your actions. Ain’t no way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:27 PM
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And another disgusting part is he used another female tiktoker, AuntKaren, as a human shield. She defended him when people were mentioning it in the beginning. The whole situation is gross and disappointing. But I’m not surprised. Men will always find ways to disappoint ya. It’s sucks, though. Because he had a good platform going for Native Americans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:13 AM
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Not fan of Kim but I wouldn’t wish this situation on nobody. It’s scary and sad, especially with kids involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:11 PM
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So, you want me to stage a coup and become the ruler? Because that’s what happened to majority of the Kings back in the day. Just saying 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:21 AM
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It just boggles my mind. My male cousins, thankfully, did amazing. Close friends husbands did great. Hell, one friend’s husband got off from 12 hour shift, got haircut, cleaned up, & able to take his wife on wonderful date. Like, it’s not hard. They just don’t give a damn now. And these women are just accepting crumbs. Just to say they have someone on Valentine’s Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:07 PM
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Loudly too. I had one guy tell me that he didn’t do relationships. He liked keep things casually. He was shocked when I didn’t want go out on a date with him. Nah, I want someone who wants to be serious. m Dodged a major time bomb with that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:11 AM
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What bothers me the most is that the girls aren’t viewed as human beings. A lot of the guys were saying, “Look at my pretty girl.” Like, she was an object. A possession to their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:50 AM
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I was questioning my sanity. It just screams, “Narcissistic relationship.” The girl is just pretty object. His show and tell project to make all the other guys’ jealous. No, thanks. I am happy with my single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:30 AM
174

Exactly. They’ll buy something from Target for Boys’ night. But night with their wives? Meh. No effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:46 AM
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It doesn’t even have to be a suit for me. Just a nice shirt and fresh haircut is sexy to me. Effort makes swoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:18 AM
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Cringe. My family would’ve shamed his ass so bad. Especially, my grandmother. I can hear her read, “Somebody go to JCpenny’s and buy him some slacks & a shirt!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:27 AM
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I used to be disgusted but they keep picking the worst men possible. “Well, I don’t wanna be alone.” It’s frustrating & depressing at the same time. We need to teach our kids self worth & respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:35 PM
45

My coworkers. Most of them are side chicks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:57 PM
3

This one has to be fake. I want it to be fake. Because ain’t no way I would continue to deal with a fool who does this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:03 PM
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I’ve seen some rough looking 20s olds in my lifetime. So, I can get that part. But not googling him before the sexy times? Nah, sis. Let’s think clearly out in these streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:57 PM
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Right?! That’s the first thing you do with any guy you meet off a dating app now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:26 PM
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There’s no logic to scrotes. He wants her vagina. That’s why he lied. He doesn’t see her as a human being. She’s his toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:24 AM
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And don’t post what type of man you’re looking for on social media. In fact, do not add him onto your social media until you think he’s a HVM. They’ll use your socials as their plan to reel you into their arms. He’ll magically become your “knight” but reality, that fool is your nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:22 AM
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Did this thought process last year. Ended up getting promoted & buying my first home. I stopped worrying about dating & focused on my goals. Happy New Year’s!!! I hope everyone can find the drive to accomplish your goals. You don’t need a man to find your happiness. Find yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:35 PM
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This is why I don’t even send a selfie. I am not a man’s trading card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:31 PM
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Been asking that for ages. Especially, when it comes to women being abused. The sad part is her family fought so hard to protect her. The system fails women all the damn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:35 PM
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I feel sick. This isn’t love. This is Stockholm syndrome. I hope nothing else happens to her. Because this is fucked up situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:54 AM
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Wait. Please, tell me he didn’t do a nonchalant “Oh. Okay. Let’s stop having sex, then?” to her. Because that’s what it sounds like she’s describing to everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:58 PM
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And that’s why I cringe when guys ask me for selfies. I don’t want to used as hot commodity for bragging rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:42 PM
10

….If they ever do a Hello Kitty collaboration, it’s over for me. I would lose my mind. But I heard so many good reviews. It’s rare to find something that’s worth the price now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:40 AM
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Gawd!! I just got put onto Le Creuset. And they do limited edition dutch ovens for holidays season. Phew!!! I would die a happy lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:51 PM
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I cringed when people were stanning their relationship. Like, no!! This girl is a baby. A child bride!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:34 PM
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I guess, Covid changed his heart. But knowing him, he’s probably using the child to attract some new girl. He was paying his child support but interaction with kid was almost nonexistent, according to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:31 PM
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We’re in the “talking phase.” I just had a weird feeling about this friendship because a) she would text him while we were hanging out, b) needed some help, & c) always commenting on his post if he tagged me to something. So, when that situation was revealed to me, I was like, “Oh. Knew it.” Dodged a bullet because he refused to do anything for that poor baby until recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:27 AM
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I feel like she woke up too late. His whole image is super controlled. Hell, he bounced back from the whole “let’s make a racial slur hip in Taiwan!” incident. I hope she’s got a good support system that’s has no involvement with him. She’s going to be fighting her and her kids’ life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:55 AM
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Yup. I pulled back from him. He ended up getting her pregnant. Huge shit show on Facebook. Just phew! Don’t ever let a guy talk you into a “friends with benefits” situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:51 AM
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I was told that OLD is for people who are genuinely looking for love. Nope. Dead ass wrong. I’ve encountered too many men looking for booty calls, fetish hounds looking to play race games (I fucking hate porn), or married or non single men who are cowards & pieces of shit to their partners. I feel like dating apps cater to only white males’ interest. It’s not safe for women of color. It’s emotionally traumatizing. I refuse to get back on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:28 AM
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I knew his marriage was suspect. When he announced their engagement and her age, I did a major side eye. His career has always been well calculated by his media team. Now, I’m waiting on Jay Chou to have some type of scandal. Because his wife is super young too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:09 AM
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If you have to record his reaction to an argument, it’s time to fucking go. His reaction to this situation was not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:06 AM
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Don’t ever add them to your socials until you’ve vetted and confirmed he’s worthy hvm. Seriously, I had one dig through my socials and was love bombing the hell out of me. Freaked me out so bad. I almost put something up about using sex toys on my men but my relatives on there. It would’ve been mad awkward. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:50 AM
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……Holy shit!! Let me use that line. Going to disturbed some souls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:58 PM
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That’s all I was running into on dating apps. And ran me off completely from them 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:07 AM
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Chocolate queen has been a favorite amongst the “racist” in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:05 AM
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Unfortunately, this is normal thing with girls now. Inviting them over their homes for first dates. (Baby, no.) Casual sex with your best tricks to consider you for the running of girlfriend. (Again, why?) They’re becoming lvm’s wet dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:43 AM
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Same. Last year, I gave up on it & ended up nailing some life goals. I tried out Tinder this year & was just bored with the men. I just look at them as lifeless. There’s no depth to their conversations. So, I’m okay with rolling solo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:02 PM
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1) If he’ll lie about his income, imagine the lies he’ll try to use on you to cover his manipulative bs. 2) Why are you moving in with him? Seriously, what benefit are you getting from moving in with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:11 AM
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Kanye has reportedly deleted Kim o his socials. But killing part about it is he’s been dating models since their divorce. So, typical male butthurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:05 PM
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-you’re being difficult. Men don’t like a woman who talks back. no kids?! You must be a freak in the bed. -you like weird shit. -you must be gay because most girls like me. -you bought a house? You living by yourself? Man, you wasting money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:57 AM
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I guess, we have to disagree because a man who shows empathy and support towards others is high value to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:29 PM
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Looks fade. Heart will always remain the same. Plus, most of the hot Hollywood guys have plastic surgery to keep up appearances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:22 PM
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Pierce Bronsan- He defended his wife, Keely, when the press made some horrible comments about her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:40 PM
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Rick Moranis. When his wife passed away from cancer, he pulled back from Hollywood and raised his two kids as full time single father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:58 PM
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Simple. You cut them from your communication. I had friends who would throw shade until I finally stopped speaking & engaging with them. It’s toxic and not worth energy to fight back somebody who’s got issues. My best advice, if you can’t avoid this situation, act emotionless as possible. Don’t respond it. Just stare at them. Make them feel uncomfortable. A jealous and catty spirit can’t handle a person who’s unbothered. They want a reaction to make themselves feel good. Don’t give it to them. K…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:59 PM
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And I oop!! Because this sermon is too damn good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:01 PM
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…..I knew, he was acting too good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:02 AM
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The OG Gossip Girl- Any pairing on that show. Any character on that show in a relationship. Except for Dorota and Vanya. They’re only sane couple and non toxic couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:17 PM
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That breathing concept will be a shocker. Women no robot?! How could this be?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:38 AM
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Please do. I work around a lot of men and some of the things they do behind their wives’ back is horrible. Only three of them are true HVM in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:03 AM
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I added one guy onto my page and the “love bombing” began. It was bizarre. Every post mimic mines. The biggest red flag was when I started posting about supporting “black lives matter,” and he was against it. He truly wanted me to cut my blackness off and dilute myself for his liking. Nah, buddy. I can’t do that. I learned my lesson. It also scarred me from dating apps too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:44 PM
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……I hope this is fake because this is so crazy and scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:09 PM
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I mean, it would be an amazing trait, though 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:02 PM
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“I’m looking for a man who can match my vibrations and energy. He also has to match my morals.” That’s my typical response. And I never describe it to exact detail because men will try to transform themselves into being that “dream” man that I would want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:18 PM
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And don’t forget; you can never be difficult. You gotta accommodating no matter what or else you will be judged!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:37 AM
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Truth!!! They’ll jump from woman to woman, seeking attention. They’re low key manipulative too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:09 AM
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I hate it too. But sometimes, you gotta let an idiot know that he has no power in over you. It’s okay to flex that energy and demand the respect that you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:47 PM
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True. True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:21 AM
39

Same. I have no desire to try anymore. It’s like going into Target and buying useless shit. You blew $300 on bunch of disappointments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:47 AM
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I died when I scrolled down and saw his face. This is a perfect meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:01 PM
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I had a “guy friend” pulled this shit. He thought I had a crush on him and started getting real social media flirty with me. Killing part; he has an entire girlfriend. The girl cooks him meals, meeting the family, and hanging out with his friends. When he found out, it wasn’t him. He got weird and started making shade Facebook post towards me. He blocked and hidden himself from his snapchat stories. But hangs around my facebook to see if I post anything. Like, what the fuck? His true colors were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:47 AM
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I don’t get why they think shit is okay. It’s super abusive but you can’t say anything. “Oh, just jealous of their relationship.” No, I’m seeing manipulation and emotional abuse. It’s sick and twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:32 AM
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Thank you 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:39 AM
7

You look angry. You should smile more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:42 PM
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The pandemic has turned me into a workaholic. So, I’m going to treat myself for once. I’m going to get my hair, nails, and put on cute outfit. Just wanna enjoy myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:03 PM
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“You’re being difficult.” “You’re getting emotional.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:58 PM
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It’s my birthday month. So, I’m debating if I want to do a staycation in my local or drive to spa. I just wanna relax and chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:57 PM
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Gawd. I was called difficult. Like, nah. You’re not going to handle me any type of way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:29 AM
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This is me, right now!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:27 PM
2

A lot of drama. In the words of my grandmother, “When their noses open up and smell the fresh air, they’re going to want something fresh and new.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:20 PM
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The killing part is that most of these pandemic relationships are going this nonsense now. It’s scary how people are super codependent of each other during this time. The fact women are accepting this mess as a thing & trying to make excuses for these dudes’ behavior. I can’t. If love is about being emotionally manipulated and codependent, I don’t want it. You keep that ish over there, please!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:34 PM
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Because they’ve created a codependency on each other. A lot of “couples” who met during the pandemic are like her situation. It’s weird and toxic on people don’t see that this ish isn’t heathy. Like, you guys need to stop and look around at yourselves. Quit settling for craziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:28 PM
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I did the same thing recently. I will no longer be using them in the future because most of the men on there are looking for trophy girlfriends. I’m not trophy. I’ve got a full time job and don’t have much time to run behind some guy who’s using me for bragging rights. Too old for it. Plus, they want you to change your values but they refuse to change their values. So, I feel you, sis. I hope you enjoy your level up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:30 PM
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Me with any anti Covid debate. Like, you’re really trying to spin this issue into a political conspiracy. Okay, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:48 PM
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Well, talking to a friend, it’s like a power & narcissist thing. Their egos are so inflated that logic is pretty much gone. I don’t try to get LV people. I will distance myself. Just think it’s weird & childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:22 PM
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Insecurities. That’s the only reasoning for it. I have guys mad at me for not engaging with their flirtations. It’s weird and funny. The killing part is that they’re married or are in “committed” relationships. In fact, I have one guy who only post his girlfriend online, whenever I have conversation with another guy friend. It’s so fucking funny to me. Like, my guy, you went got a girlfriend. I supported that. You continued to talk to me like a friend. I kept it, friendly. I truly believes he th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:34 PM
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2 + 2 = 4, sis. It’s not that complicated. They’re fucking, baby. Cut your losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:29 PM
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So, I’ve pissed off a man again. Oh, noes! Apparently, I’m supposed to be impressed with how treats his current girlfriend or whatever. But he got big time mad when I posted on my facebook and snapchat about couples who have to announce their love on social media. It’s childish & screams, “attention seeking.” If you’re genuine about them, tell them to their face. That’s my opinion on it. Now, I have been labeled as “evil,” for exposing a narcissist’s plans. Woe is me. Seriously, I don’t get the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:12 AM
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Please. I dodged a major bullet last year. He was interested in dating me but something was always off. When I started posting about “Black Lives Matter” on my Facebook, he magically started post about social activism doesn’t work. I started questioning him about some of his post. He got super defensive. “You guys shouldn’t get emotional about race issues.” “The media spreads lies to divide people.” All my sirens went off. Especially, when catching his friends and some family liking some of his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:00 PM
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It’s really bad now. My standards aren’t high. However, these dudes are super codependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:20 AM
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Mood right now. I’m tired of bending over backwards for bare minimum. I’m just going to enjoy leveling up, traveling, & building my own future. I don’t have time for low value bs from dudes now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:57 AM
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Using their supply as trophy. A lot of pandemic relationships that I’ve seen formed are doing these type of stunts right now. The narcissism is amazing now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:55 AM
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Or difficult. I refuse to change myself to meet your low standards. You either you’re ready for me or nah. If not, get out my fucking way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:36 AM
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Same. I take meeting the family as a serious business. Like, we’re talking about marriage and future together. I have never met any of my ex boyfriends’ parents for that reason. Nor add the family onto my facebook. It’s way too much for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:44 PM
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I just show my parents the messages from dating apps. “Phew! Baby, we get it. Don’t invite anyone of those dumbasses into your life.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:04 AM
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I was talking about his direction of his Tiktok’s now. When he first started TikTok, he wasn’t this cringe. He was actually funny. But once he got popular, his content got really grimy, cringe, & desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:27 PM
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My male coworkers do it to me. It’s annoying. “What’s the name of your perfume?” Deodorant. That’s all they need to know about what’s on my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:56 AM
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Same. He got too damn annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:54 AM
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I find myself unimpressed with them. Especially, now. FDS has helped me from needing a man to wanting one. Especially, now. I know the red flags. I had five guys pursue me during the pandemic. I politely rejected them, due to work & restrictions options were limited. You’re only option was eat at their home or your home. No, thanks. That’s too much. Way too soon. Magically, these dudes found girlfriends who are going beyond & above the pickmesha duty to these task for them. They’re with these me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:14 AM
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It’s sickening how people are trying to sugarcoat it. The guy killed a bunch of women because he was having a bad day? Do you know what I do when I have a bad day? Work out, Go for a drive, Journal, Hug my dog, or Indulge on my favorite comfort foods The last thing on my mind is taking a fucking life because I can’t deal with the fucking world. It was a hate crime. Period!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:26 AM
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Racism too. Because I had a guy try to play that game about it. He was cussed out and rightfully blocked to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:37 PM
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My dog and I are cool. We don’t need a man with psychological issues. We’re gucci.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:08 AM
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Narcissist like control. Being Able to take down a woman that they view as a challenge is a turn on for them. So, showering them with “glitter & bullshit” to get what they want is normal strategy. Dating is a narcissist’s Hunger Game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:01 AM
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Dodged that bullet. I wanna feel bad for the new supply. I mean, girlfriend. That discard is going to break her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:53 AM
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It’s a thing now. A lot of guys will promise a girl whatever her heart desires in order to feed their narcissistic’s ego. Once the girls start putting pressure on them, he discards her & debuts his new supply to his lies. It’s disturbing & mad creepy. A cycle of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:49 AM
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It’s like a new level of “commitment phobia,” to me. I just seen an increase of it during pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:32 AM
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It is. I cringe when I hear other women say to me, “I wish, I had your body. You’re petite and good amount of curvy.” We gotta teach our girls at young age that our bodies beautiful no matter what size or shape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:21 PM
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Yeah, it’s depressing. Fashion Nova’s models are prime example of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:19 AM
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I was labeled, “difficult.” Because I was working a lot, pandemic had restricted places to eat, and having high risk parent and sibling. Getting some “ding dong” was last thing on my mind. As first, I was hurt by it. But then find out, he had another girl wrapped around his fingers. I just laughed at it because he proved me right about him. It’s not his first time playing this game. So yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:47 AM
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It’s mind blowing. Posting pictures of their dates. Inviting random men into their homes for first dates. The guys posting their anti covid thoughts. Like, girls. The boy is clearly doesn’t give a fuck about safety of others. He won’t give a fuck about you and your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:18 AM
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Remind yourself every negative thing he has done to you. He is an ex for a reason. Remember, that reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:08 AM
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He thought he was protecting me from another person by trying to control my work assignments. It ended backfiring against him. He got nice write up from the union & upper management. I just sat back and kept my mouth shut and allowed the fuck up happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:18 AM
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I don’t know what’s worst; somebody fucked that troll or people takes this troll seriously. I want off this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:48 AM
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This is her thing. She’s attracted to older men. I see, she finally sink her claws into one who’s financially stable. And powerhouse in the music field. She’s calculating pickmesha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:49 AM
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Jesus. This is heartbreaking. I hope she can break away from him. I hate hearing these stories. Too many young women get wrapped in the fantasy that they don’t realize he’s grooming them into their fucked up life plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:47 AM
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Sounds like a dream. Sign the fuck up, sir. I like a drama free life. But can we make it daschund puppies. They’re my jam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:13 AM
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I wanna be an owl instead. “Who?” Because who in the fuck told you come in my forest, you little fuck boy?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:43 PM
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Deal with it is pretty good too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:26 AM
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She contacted his job and let them know about his behavior. They’ve removed her comments from their Facebook’s page. But she should’ve made a police report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:59 AM
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No clue. Site might be acting up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:21 AM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJw7aw34/ This is the only update on the story. It’s so messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:48 AM
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The sad part is a lot of women are coming forward and saying they’ve been in similar situations. 18 year olds to mid fifties. Seriously, I know it’s buzzfeed and all, but we need to have this dialogue out there. Especially, now during pandemic. Domestic violence cases have increased. People are getting desperate and lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:43 AM
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The fact that it’s a thing scares the hell out of me. A lot of girls were coming forward on Facebook and her tiktok’s comment section with the same experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:49 AM
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Ladies, be careful out there. Please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:00 AM
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I ask about a time in their life that changed them. Bad or Good. Also, what did they do to learn from that experience. I want to know if they know how to handle life in a healthy manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:20 AM
7

Listen to her latest song, “Deal with it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:26 PM
8

I cringe when people have each other in their relationship status on Facebook. This one created a new reaction for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:30 AM
101

This!! I got called “difficult” because I don’t wanna do what someone wants to do. There’s a pandemic going on, sir. I’m not risking my life for somebody who’s not consistent & got “concubines” in stock. Gone somewhere with that chaos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:38 PM
45

Yes. Majority of the men in my area will sell their nut to date a nurse. Why? They’re considered to be kind, motherly, & make good money. The next ones on the list are waitresses. Men gravitate towards them because a) girls who need help, b) willingly do anything for money, & c) free food. Any woman whose in retail, government, or other job will be considered high risk because we don’t have time to deal with their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:51 AM
2

Seriously, why are women dating during the pandemic? I don’t get it. The desperation is loud and scary now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:15 AM
10

It’s so fucking bizarre. The killing part is that most of them work for the government. I’m like, “Woah, chill. We can’t post that stuff on the internet.” But they’re creating this weird “civil rights” movement of stupidity. I can’t handle it. I try be to open minded to other people’s opinions but this mess right here has gone on full psycho. These people truly think they know more than a scientists, doctors, & nurses who are dealing with it. The arrogance and stupidity is so fucking draining. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:56 AM
16

The new things now is anti covid-19 conspiracy theories. Seriously, I had to unfollow a guy for that nonsense. Just some straight up tin foil shit. His dumbass girlfriend sitting there applauding like a fucking seal. People have snap, crackle, & pop. I want no parts of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:56 AM
6

Please educate them on her. I feel bad for the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:19 AM
8

That’s what my mom use to call them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:52 PM
15

I don’t have problem with them, having female friends. However, boundaries need to be placed on the friendship. Because I know it’s a wrap if I did that for a guy friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:08 PM
12

I agree with the statement. I’ve seen so many girls post their boyfriends. Hype, tag, or post them on their pages. Meanwhile, you look over at the boyfriends’ page. Not a damn thing. Not even picture. The only acknowledgment that she gets is the “in a relationship” tag on his page. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:50 AM
5

Well, I just ask or go facebook digging. That’s how I found out about one guy and his girlfriend. They’ve been in relationship for month but yet, he was in my dms chatting with me. The killing part is that he only put up their relationship statues when me and him were joking around publicly on Facebook. It’s amazing how men operate on social media and think no one sees it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:38 AM
87

1) Anti Covid-19- Seriously, if he believes that the virus is fake and this is just government trying to control us, I’m running like hell. That’s too much crazy for me. 2) Negative- Life sucks. You’re going have to good and bad days. If you’re always complaining about how much your life sucks, go to therapy. I’m not a therapist 3) Dismissive. Don’t do it. If I can give listen to your point of view, I want the same respect too. Your word is not final, motherfucker 4) Captain Save a hoe. Let some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:31 AM
9

This!! I allowed one guy on my facebook after years of going back and forth with each other. Life happened and genuinely felt bad about always putting things on hold. Shit, that was a warning from god. This motherfucker has women in rotation. I started adding things up and realized that he was in relationships while talking to me. He’s currently in relationships now. He was talking to me while meeting this girl at her job or whatever. I wanna warn her but anybody dating in the pandemic doesn’t d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:57 AM
127

She has. She’s probably called and sent a friendly “Hey! It’s me! I hope all is well. Just checking on you!” text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:59 PM
1

Good. Focus on yourself for right now. A high value man will never let you risk your life over some weak peen and weak stroke game. Because that’s all he was going to provide to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:34 PM
6

Girl, you’re going to be the baddest butterfly. Focus on leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:42 PM
4

I changed it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:49 AM
15

Same. When the quarantine first hit, I had guys come out of the woodwork expressing interest in me. I would vex them out. When I wouldn’t take their bait for dates (Seriously, these dudes were waiting for women to ask them out.), I wouldn’t take it. Guess what? Now, they’re magically in relationships with some girls. All I can do is laugh at it because you already know, they’re not genuinely in love with each other. It’s a sick game of not wanting to look lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:18 AM
10

Of course. It’s going to be a beautiful disaster once the covid-19 is under control. Somebody is going to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:46 AM
16

If you’re horny and desperate, you’ll find a way. Seriously, I’ve counted three relationships formed during pandemic. People aren’t dating for the sake to find genuine matches right now. A lot of lonely people hooking up with equally lonely people. Once this lockdown is over, it’s a wrap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:05 AM
75

Personally, I wouldn’t date right now. There’s a lot of desperate males looking for attention, due to the lockdown and quarantines. They’re not looking for genuine relationships. They’re just trying to find anybody willing to fuck until the lockdowns are over. But if you must date in this pandemic, virtual date and question the hell out of them. Maximum three dates. Feel them out. Ask them those hard questions you would ask on a normal date. Talk about Covid-19. If they’re indifferent, think Cov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:47 AM
6

Mood for life!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:02 AM
2

Posers. Definitely the posers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:59 PM
1

System Of a Down gets okay from me. They call out people on their bs. But talking about guys who listen to metal and whine about how nobody in their life gets them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:42 PM
9

I don’t understand men. They ignore the obvious and continue with their plan. I’m all for men watching their sports but dude? I don’t wanna be apart of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:09 AM
10

Very. Football questions drive me up the fucking wall. I use to put it in bold letters. “No Football” But they’ll continue to ask those questions about my favorite team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:35 AM
41

“Metal heads” have proven to be dicks. Very whiney & arrogant. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:28 AM
18

Oh, hai. That was me about three year ago. Except the mom part. Now, if my brother would’ve pulled this shit, he would’ve talked about for years. My mom doesn’t play grimey games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:13 AM
233

As someone who lives around an Air Base, this is scary accurate. They need to do a reality show called, “90 Day Military Marriage.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:26 AM
18

Defenses?! What normal person thinks it’s okay to invite a total stranger on four day trip to get know them? That’s a beautiful and delusional fantasy, dude. I hope, you blocked and deleted him. Just huge red flag right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:33 AM
38

Oh, most definitely. Because who wants to take photos with trucks’ parts? Not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:14 AM
143

Southern pickmesha. Forever loyal to Butt ugly Bubba. Why? We don’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:53 AM
11

The original price for the digital edition is $400. That’s what everybody going after right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:02 AM
9

Very selfish. Sorry, I don’t wanna bring a child into the world yet. I don’t wanna put them through stress and dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:52 PM
111

....My coworkers have these issues but I’m the weird one for not having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:51 PM
244

His mom needs to beat his ass. This woman is trying to bring a smile to kids’ faces during a rough time. She loves her job. That’s rare. He’s a total bum. She deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:31 AM
1

You’re pushing a real live human out of your body and someone is telling you hush? Nah, it’s a wrap. As soon as these wounds heal, my first solo trip will be an attorney. Shush!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:36 PM
7

The whole point is to motivate people into wanting the best. Belittling them while they’re paying money to you is not it. It’s like any job dealing with the public. Customer service goes a long way. Plus, fitness is a word mouth type of deal with clientele. Nobody wants to deal with an asshole trainer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:35 PM
121

Go to a new gym. Don’t waste your money nor energy on some toxic idiots. The longer you stay there, the longer you’ll feed into their toxic energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:15 AM
62

I had a guy pretend to be anti trump but asked questions that a trump supporter would support. After prodding and not being satisfied with his answers, I ended things with him. Well, ghosted him. The killing part is he’s running for state representative and he showing his true colors on campaign trail. I am so glad he’s going to lose. My point is you can find the truth by changing your questioning & trusting your gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:41 PM
9

Same. I’m not therapist and not here to help you unpack that trauma from the 10th grade where Josie rejected you or whatever, guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:45 PM
16

Just basic common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:41 PM
102

This is why you ask those hard hitting questions in the talking phase of dating. Fuck, the whole “opposite attract” thing. Get with someone who has same political views as you. That should be a must in relationships “goals.” Seriously, he’s probably said some misogynistic stuff in the past and she’s been ignoring it because “Hee Hee. That’s just bae.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:05 PM
34

Just unnecessary lies. Story time: I had one guy lie about his whole relationship status. He had a woman and her child living in his damn home while he was deployed. Talking to me during the deployment. I found out by googling. Dumbass had an open facebook. (Ladies, google his ass. If he’s got a facebook profile, look at it and investigate. Be that meddling kid!!) This woman visited his parents for Christmas. I didn’t say a word to him that I knew he was a liar. I waited until his ass came back.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:45 AM
164

If he only text you at night, his main girl is asleep. You’re the side piece. If he just stops texting to you and texts become sporadic, his main girl is not mad at him anymore. Just say no to military men. They got a lie for every thing. If he hangs out in bars, he’s not it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:00 AM
2

Oh, I won’t be going to one. After talking to a friend who’s been one, it’s not worth the hype. I am okay with not achieving that bucket list goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:46 AM
6

Uh, the mom needs to get her ass in gear. This grown ass man (Personally, this relationship would’ve been forbidden from day one) is showing up to the school, using emotional black mail on her child. All types of charges and alerts need to be on this piece of shit immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:19 PM
16

See, that killed my desire to go to one now. Home has been the only option for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:06 PM
17

That’s scary and accurate. Just needs one with POF. Phew! That place was a nightmare!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:12 AM
4

.....This is me right now. I really don’t care anymore. Too many guys in my area have ass backwards ideas of relationships anyways. I don’t wanna be the side chick, somebody’s sex checklist card, nor baby mama. I can’t deal with all the drama. I like peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:25 PM
14

Because they like to be loud. It’s an ego thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:18 PM
2

Interesting. I hope, he treats Shay with respect. Not the biggest Bella fan, (Phew! The way they got into wrestling and how people try to hype to be the “greatest female wrestlers. Different topic, another time.) but I wouldn’t wish that controlling and toxic relationships on anyone. Anybody who makes you sign 21 page contract, in order to live in their house and be in love with them, needs to get their head examine asap. Seriously, I hope, he’s in some type of therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:38 AM
3

Because every girl wants to scream over loud ass t.v. or band in some shitty ass bar. Seriously, my standards aren’t high. Lord forbid, I want to have a conversation and get to know a man before trusting him with my heart. Forgive me, ya raggedy bitch. Also, why in the hell are you worried about our business? You need worry about your fiancé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:58 AM
5

It’s weird to me. I know, one guy who doesn’t like condoms but he shuts up about getting tested. Like, my guy, what in the entire fuck is wrong with you and logic?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:57 PM
27

Girl, youtube her. There’s a slew of evidence about how grimey she was. This girl was desperate. She wanted to be Shannan badly. I wouldn’t be shocked if she’s still talking to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:27 AM
1

These lunches are awesome. I need to step my lunch game up. A bag of Doritos is not cutting anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:07 AM
1

She wouldn’t. Just random pic of food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:08 PM
5

He ded. There’s no coming back from that “holler fail.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:56 AM
4

I just ignore it. But i’m going to use that as my response now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:52 PM
5

Bunch of them have been popping up lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:18 PM
65

Oh, her brothers had a word with him. Plus, she knows his older sister and mother. He’s dumb but not that dumb. She’s protected. She’s blocked him everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:39 PM
223

Not me. A mutual friend’s sister. I hollered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:15 PM
328

This is not me. This is a mutual friend’s sister. She gave me permission to post it after talking about the audacity of men. This girl is 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:14 PM
71

It was a toasty burn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:38 PM
7

If you can afford gucci and dior, you can afford to fix a glass on your car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:27 PM
4

End up in his collection of bodies. Because the girl who he was having affair with, she could’ve been his next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:35 AM
54

I hope, this is a joke. Because there’s so many embarrassing details to it. I wouldn’t even shared the story to no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:34 AM
16

I’m too disgusted. I would’ve done anything in my power to get her out of that car. His ass needs to be in jail forever. What kind of sick fuck puts their car over a child?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:00 AM
25

But we can’t say anything about their fascination with barely legal women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:25 PM
20

We have a reality show in the States called, “Love after lockup.” These women are attracted to their good looks and easily swayed by words. But once these guys (and ladies) come out, things change & their shocked by the jail birds’ actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:19 PM
18

He can correspond to anyone through letters. He’s in isolation in the prison for his own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:57 PM
101

I would support a documentary on it. Because I don’t understand the fascination with guys who are a threat to society. It doesn’t turn me on. It scares the shit out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:02 PM
100

And Scott Peterson. It just mind blowing with all the resources and warning signs that they’ll still flock to a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:54 PM
13

I don’t think it was one woman. I think it was multiple ones because that’s the common game in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:19 AM
19

I truly believe he was a “hobosexual.” (a person who dates for sole purpose of having a place to stay.) I wanted no parts of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:30 AM
36

Yes. Seven kids who looked like a year behind each other. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:44 AM
61

About 60% of the men with OLD in my area. I had one dude lie and say the kids in his picture were his nieces and nephews. He forgot to change his facebook’s caption. “Daddy with his seven angels.” That was the fastest blocked and profile delete that I ever done in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:05 PM
21

Gawd, Kail. That girl has disappointed me so many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:00 PM
91

Fear of being lonely is the common tone that these girls use when you ask them. Personally, I feel like you’re already alone if you have to beg for someone to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:41 AM
17

Whenever somebody at work ask me, “Why I don’t hang out with anybody?” I point to this movie. I don’t wanna be friends with people who snark and talk shit behind me. That’s toxic and gross to me. I am okay with my three friends. I don’t need a crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:29 AM
39

Don’t mention sex at all in your profile. When they switch conversation to sex, that’s when you drop your opinion about it. Until then, play your profile like a poker game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:26 PM
5

Because they don’t expect us to do that. Unfortunately, us. girls, have revealed that we don’t like dating multiple men and will continuing to date one guy until we’re official with them. They’re using that to their advantage. So, we need to change the dialogue. We need to be able to have at least four guys in rotation. We can have options too. Men have been doing it for years. It’s our turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:48 PM
73

Several reasons but the main ones I’ve noticed; they’ve got a girlfriend and interested in you being their side chick. If you initiate contact with them, they can twist the dialogue around and say, “Oh, I was being friendly, baby. That’s all. I feel bad for her.” they want you to chase them for bragging rights they’re lazy and expect women to do the work. But that’s what I’ve dealt with in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:42 AM
25

Exactly. The obvious and stupid stunt pulled amongst men on OLD apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:35 AM
28

must understand “Black Lives Matter” ready to discuss race and privilege must have a job can’t blame social media on everything that’s wrong with world optimistic outlook on life doesn’t smoke (weed too. Can’t do stoners.) doesn’t believe in any sexist shit has a job if they do have a kid, the child must be the main priority. The mother and father are cordial and co parent well. Must be super active in their child life. Like that kid is calling you every day. one kid only. has close relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:32 AM
88

He’s dating her but trying to sugar coat it. The relationship is fresh and he’s not feeling it. Block that ass and pray for that girl who’s entertaining his confused ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:24 AM
42

I’m accepting the fact. My standards aren’t high. Just be a decent ass human being is all I ask for. But men in my area, lie or keep you in the back burner because afraid that they’re going to miss out. My heart doesn’t want to play those games no more. It’s draining. If he appears, cool. If he doesn’t, cool. I’m just going to focus on loving myself and hanging out with people who care about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:08 AM
18

People don’t realize that this type of sex play is dangerous. What if this fool gets the courage to actual play out that sick ass fantasy? Who wants to be known as the woman who gave a sick fuck the courage to fulfill his sexual desire? We’re always talk about protecting females and embracing our sex behavior. But this is not it to me. This screams, manipulation and greed for personal sake. She’s trying to twist and excuse his behavior. No, call someone and put that motherfucker away. It’s mind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:48 PM
10

Some fuckery. That’s the only way I can explain it to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:22 PM
97

.....I just want to fight her. This isn’t helping anyone. This is low key helping their fantasy. Just what in the fuck?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:14 PM
21

I take any ex stories with grain of salt. It’s always a lie. “She cheated on me,” No, you broke up with her and tried to keep it friendly because you wanted keep on your sex rotation. Sis, got smart and said, no. Got new boyfriend. “We’re good friends,” So, why did she call the cops on you and called off your engagement? Liebities is what they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:46 PM
56

This is a great way to start a marriage 🙄 Seriously, I couldn’t date anyone with that much baggage. Plus, his story doesn’t add up. Because it screams like he’s still messing around with Baby mama. She (The baby mama) pissed that he’s stringing her along. I pray for the kids, though. They have to grow up in fuckery and dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:26 PM
64

Or, sends peen pics. Gawd, the shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:50 PM
5

You didn’t do anything wrong. Your ex is complete immature asshole. He wasn’t crying over the relationship. That fucker was crying because he can’t have access to you and your body anymore. This was a guilt trip phone call to get you back into his clutches. If he truly cared about you, he would’ve asked questions about your mental health. Not about your relationship. Block, delete, & continue to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:38 AM
14

Block, delete, & live your life, sis. You were option. Not a priority. His backup isn’t doing what he’s want. He’s coming back to you because he’s mad at her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:34 AM
4

Apparently, women use dating apps wrong. From what I got told by one disappointment of male, it’s purely for fucking. They’ve created weird ass rules to the system. I’ve been unmatched because I didn’t want to come pick a guy up. So, yeah. Fuck them apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:25 AM
12

I know, guys who literally move girls into their homes, play daddy to their children, & introduce them to their parents. And still say that the relationship wasn’t serious. It’s weird & sick to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:10 AM
42

Not Cleetus the Slackjaw yokel having the audacity to rate someone?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:25 PM
15

Ew. I hope, she doesn’t entertain him anymore. He’s going to be bouncing between her and the ex. Plus, he’s got financial issues. Girl, we don’t do sponsorships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:44 AM
38

She is. She’s raising him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:02 PM
8

I cringed. Uh, you leave his ass, sis. Let the squirrels, deer, antelopes, or whatever else lives out there have his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:59 AM
16

So, I recently found out that a LVM that use to talk to on a dating apps is running for Congress. I am tickled by it, because he was preaching a whole different story to me. I am so glad my “creep” vibes are strong. Just amazing how men will say anything to get a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:56 AM
36

What in the meth hell is going in this picture?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:07 PM
12

Excellent. Only the strong can survive. May their odds be in their favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:32 AM
19

.....He really needs to stop tweeting. Breathing too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:12 PM
17

Me. This is my life now. Plus, my nephew told me that I can’t have any kids. He doesn’t want to share me. I’m fine with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:02 AM
15

The best way to avoid this mess from happening again. Write it out on paper and tear it up. Or put it in your phone notes. That’s how I avoided embarrassment and wasted energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:29 PM
24

People always wanna talk negatively about how social media ruins dating. But I have to disagree. It’s saved me from so many red flags. For example, I added a guy that I used talk to years ago onto my facebook. I never added him before because I always suspicious. And I was right. This boy is whiney as fuck. He complains about the quarantine. (Against it and anti mask.) He complains about people getting offended over offensive jokes, however, this fool will have a fit if you say anything bad abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:26 AM
2

Nah, he was gross. It boggles my mind in the lack of consideration and respect that they don’t show towards you. However, you do anything that’s wrong (ends up being super minor) it’s like you’ve pissed on their bloodline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:53 PM
39

Just reminder; If a man doesn’t think your job isn’t important enough and starts acting childish because you don’t text him 20 times a day, drop his ass. Ain’t nobody got time to be a cling on. Make money, sis. We’re grown. Contact one of those 20 concubines you got on your Facebook profile, my guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:55 AM
12

I hate the term. No real friend would never put in you in that position. I just call it what it is- - fuckery. Because that’s truly what’s going. A lot of dumb fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:48 AM
3

I won’t. I am okay with being a villain in somebody’s lies. The truth always comes out and makes people look dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:43 AM
5

Recently, I found out that a snake of human being was masquerading as my friend and running telling a particular group of people that I don’t care for my personal business and spreading lies. It’s super high school to me. So, she can be invited to their parties or outings? (Okay, sis. Super childish and weird.) I’m not going to confront her on it because it’s not worth the time and energy. I’m over dealing with toxic people. Just cutting all ties to her. Just treat her like a random stranger on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:39 AM
134

That’s why I quit dating apps. Men don’t wanna put in effort in a conversation. They want girls to pull teeth to find out about them and play like “The man” on Facebook. Then, they have the audacity to get mad at you for ignoring their Facebook’s post and not throwing your panties over their “witty” post. There’s 49 girls who are liking and loving your post. Please, entertain your harem while I put your page on mute. I’m at “throw the entire male population away” stage in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:56 AM
22

Bring it up, nonchalantly. “Oh, wow. Just reading this article on #metoo.” Just poke and prod them for answers. That’s how I’m eliminating guys who don’t wanna talk about the BLM movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:12 PM
9

....If he wants to embarrass himself in front of everybody, have at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:42 PM
11

I’m surprised that people are surprised he was doing this mess. He would brag in every interviews about groping & fondling women. So, my bs alarm was right. I’m glad the sicko is going to learn today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:43 AM
8

Oh, I like how you operate. I just tag her in the post and ask questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:57 PM
30

It’s funniest but saddest thing I’ve ever seen on social media. I feel bad for the girl but making him sweat bullets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:25 AM
43

I’ve done this mess. “What a beautiful couple. I hope God continues to bless you on your FAITHFUL marriage/relationship.” Phew, the dms start popping like a disco after he sees that alert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:23 AM
9

.....See, this is a sign from God. I’m not signing back up onto no more dating sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:31 AM
6

That was my boss question. He was like, “There’s no fucking way I would let my wife buy my gun & act like a brat.” The guy was a decent 6.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:42 PM
36

Girl, yes. I use to work in a popular sports store. Every hunting season, here comes Pickitany and Ain’t Shit boyfriend ready to blow her money on a gun. One girl joked with her boyfriend about buying her ring for doing all the sweet stuff for him. Like, living rent free while he was in between jobs (Girl, what?!) He looked in her face and told her, “Babe, don’t do that here. You know, how I feel about marriages and shit!” I was so floored. She laugh it off and paid for it. You could see the emb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:19 PM
56

God, this is every southern girl during hunting season. I use cringe when they would come into my old job, doing that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:10 AM
2

This screams, “Dear Penthouse,” There’s been some doozies but this one screams fake to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:01 AM
37

His setup is weak like his nonexistent stroke game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:49 PM
97

Girl, that’s not normal. Abort mission. Cut all contact with him. He’s not empathetic and will bite you in your ass in the future, if you continue to interact with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:37 AM
3

By starting small & picking something easy. Like cooking a meal or reading a book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:18 PM
6

By dating myself. I set personal goals for myself once a month and try to accomplish them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:21 AM
16

At least, you’re recognizing it now. That’s the first step in avoiding lvm. You just need to step back from dating and reevaluate out on why you pick these type of men. Try to find a pattern on why you’re so attracted to these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:27 AM
45

Girl, shut down completely. You’re a ghost to him now. Do not engage when he comes running to you. The only way to quit this behavior is cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:47 AM
54

For me, “this was my emotional support friend who lives about 6 hours away with her son. I’ve known her for years. She’s been to my grandma’s house and met my mother and sister. We went to a football game together. I don’t hide her pictures on facebook” Yeah, I am thankful that my spidery senses kicked in with that one. In the “never” zone you will go, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:49 PM
5

It’s insane. “Oh, he keeps shitting on the rug” Girl, if you don’t kick his ass out and sue him for ruining your carpet, I’m going to scream. My nephew is 7. He knows better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:08 PM
10

At least, he didn’t say, “I won’t you.” With hearts eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:48 PM
55

Plus, HVM will let you know when he’s ready to be monogamous with you. Go out and live your best life. Guys do it all the time. We should too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:19 PM
23

I wouldn’t pay a dime. If he wants to act like an animal, he can live amongst them in the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:14 AM
70

....This trend of men pissing everywhere has disturbed my spirits. He’s a goner if he pisses in my good tupperware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:53 AM
26

I believe, he is both of them. He’s a miracle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:27 AM
0

I say meet him but proceed with caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:12 AM
19

Yup. Energy suckers is what I call them. It doesn’t have to be romantic relationships either. It could friendships and co workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:13 PM
9

Taking intuitive. I feel like I’m always engaging the conversation and keeping it going. So, I need to learn how not be so dominant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:53 AM
24

I don’t take any food commentary from any guy who eats frozen pizza. That’s what his diet probably consist of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:14 AM
16

It’s insane to me. I’ve dated guys who were down for doing it all. But marriage? Cold feet. I know guys will move women and their kids into their home but claim that the relationship isn’t serious. (He even introduced the girls to his parents. WTF! Don’t do this mess if you’re not ready to be happy family.) Like, how is this okay? I’m glad my friend opened m her eyes. She said the only reason why she stayed with him because she didn’t want to be lonely. They’ve been together since her first year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:23 AM
126

Happened to a friend. Dated for 10 years. Bought a house together (Thankfully, it’s in her name.) She came home one night from work and caught him Facetiming with a friend. He ended up getting that friend pregnant too. (Told her he never wanted kids. Surprise!) Some dudes ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:19 AM
11

I would’ve said digiorno’s pizza because most of these guys don’t know a good thing in their life. Dominos might be too high class for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:28 AM
8

I love how we turned this post into a beauty recommendation thing. It’s just beautiful to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:29 PM
5

Thanks! I’ll check them out after the quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:38 PM
27

That lip gloss is bomb!! Very impressed with her line. It is hard to find stuff for my skin tone. Colourpop works but my Ulta has limited selection & everything I like is always sold out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:08 PM
293

I got rid of the Party City’s clown makeup and upgraded to Fenty Beauty. I deserve better and worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:55 PM
37

I couldn’t do it. I got one fool who slipped up and told me how he handles relationships. I almost fell the hell out. How do you invite girls to live in your home, introduce them to your parents, and claim not to be in a serious relationship?! The fuck?!? Nobody deserves that disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:38 PM
63

That’s not accident. That’s a police report and breakup waiting to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:38 PM
11

There’s no rush nor timeline in losing your virginity. When you’re ready, you’ll know. Just make sure it’s YOUR choice, not his choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:06 AM
6

Good grief. It’s sad. The lady was minding her business and wham! This dickwad decides to force himself on her. I’m glad we got the truth, though. People have romanticized this picture for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:49 AM
23

The same people who have an opinion are projecting their insecurities onto you. When someone makes a negative statement about you, just smile. You’re ruffling somebody’s feathers because you’re shining like a diamond, fam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:27 PM
12

I always thought this pic was kind of weird. Everybody would always complain I was being negative but there’s no passion in that kiss. I always thought it was forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:24 PM
9

They haven’t. They’ll do that whole “Whoops. We’re sorry about raping your women and here’s wreath to your people.” ceremony to save face. But putting it in books? Nope. Thankfully, there’s a lot of youtube videos on the subject with interviews from survivors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:22 PM
10

She didn’t learn from her first marriage. Good lord, girl. You got money and daughter to worry about. Leave that boy alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:07 AM
18

She’s right. I was going through a couple of years ago. I was tired and people weren’t getting it. So, I just slowly cut people off and don’t regret it. They’re mad but hey! I can only save me from toxic energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:05 AM
4

Them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:56 PM
17

In the words of my mom, “The only thing open late at night are Walmart, Denny’s, & Legs.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:45 PM
17

What in the fuck is wrong with these men?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:38 PM
79

Oh, hell nah. The audacity of some fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:36 PM
32

WoMEn R RoBOtS!!! ThEy No GeT TiRed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:07 AM
34

I support this message. Every time the main girl doesn’t do what the LVM wants, he’ll entertain one who’s on rotation. Don’t do it, sis. Leave him on fucking read. Show him you’re living your best life and don’t have time for his lame ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:40 PM
5

For reals. I have one guy friend who complain for about restless and bored. I had to roll my eyes and leave him read. My guy, your random girl of the season just tagged you on Facebook. Please, get the fuck over yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:06 AM
3

Don’t give me ideas. I will get enamel pins and wear those bitches with pride at work. Because I cannot stand those pickmesha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:22 PM
28

You don’t say anything. You just stop talking to them full stop. Block or delete. Don’t give them access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:47 PM
160

If he truly interested, he will do the work. He will be the first to text, call, dm, & etc. Don’t waste energy on a fuckboy who’s keeping you on the back burner. Ain’t nobody got time for that energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:34 PM
6

More like queso. A good batch of queso
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:31 AM
20

Ugh! When you find out he’s a disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:35 AM
53

No. They’re still getting easy fucks. I know one fuckboy had a girl randomly show up to his house. (Girl, Facebook tagging with heart eyes. If you only knew, sis.) i just rolled my eyes and shake my head. The kicker is that he doesn’t like condoms. Okay. Catch the rona and the clap together. I’m just going to sit back and laugh at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:35 PM
38

....Oh, sis. Get that motherfucking ass for fraud. I’m so disgusted and upset for her. Phew. I wanna fight him in her honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:30 AM
12

She’s mad at her mum for something that happened in her childhood. She probably thought her mom was doing rich wrong. Or something in that her mother’s relationship triggered her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:20 PM
92

Her own insecurities projecting onto you guys. She’s low key jealous that she doesn’t have the drive you guys have. Somewhere in life, she was taught that only way in life that she can possibly survive is by having a man. Not for genuine love. As means of survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:20 PM
14

We don’t know this man. He was kicked out of our sign when he posted that shitty ass profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:48 PM
40

As a black girl, thank you, sir. We didn’t want ya limp dick, fucked up mustache, & deformed baboon looking ass no way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:47 PM
10

Echoing the group. A “Fuck You” message may sound good out loud but long term. Never again. If they don’t have the balls tell you what’s up in person, they don’t deserve any attention from you period. Good nor bad. The best “Fuck You” is silence and moving the fuck on with your life. Let him be another girl’s headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:39 PM
134

If he doesn’t have the time to text you, you don’t have the time to worry about it. Always keep your options open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:04 AM
4

There’s a lot of those relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:50 PM
37

Probably not. We’re living in a society where people are only allowed express one emotion; happy. We’ve vilified any other emotions. It’s okay to be mad, sad, or depressed. We’re not robots. Keeping that shit in will destroy you in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:42 PM
10

It’s fucking wild to me. People are dying & you’re worried about getting your dick wet? Gone somewhere. It irked me so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:30 AM
6

I haven’t been here in awhile due to being essential employee. My updates; -went to the store and was literally hit on by some dude sitting in passenger side of his friend’s ride while putting away my groceries. Who in the fuck thinks about sex during pandemic? Are you not getting it? -added snapchat victim on my facebook for torturing. Found out that he has fuck toy who doesn’t know she’s a fuck toy. She came over for a visit during quarantine. I want to warn her. But I’m minding my business. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:45 AM
66

My friend kicked her husband out. He staying with his family but she was sick of him for awhile. He was texting other women while she was trying to take care of the household. In fact, he had sex with one of his side pieces while she was dealing with her mom in the hospital. (Almost had a mental breakdown when he had stroke.) The final straw was in he wasn’t following the quarantine rules. Driving her daughter (not his kid) around like nothing was going on. Her kid has weak immune system. She ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:15 PM
7

The fuck is a red neck smile? Because the red necks in my area barely have teeth. That’s attractive to LVM now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:17 PM
6

I’m slowly but surely learning. I’ve gained my voice and not afraid to use it now. i have a right to protect my happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:13 PM
39

I’m 35. My biggest fear is getting locked down in boring & loveless marriage because i followed the crowd. i am thankful every damn day that I’m happy & single. A lot of these men have psychological issues that I am not ready to deal with. I am not therapist, ATM, nor next on his list of concubines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:55 PM
3

Nah, I’m not endangering them to that toxicity. They deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:03 PM
8

Me right now. Get out! Thanks for the doritos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:07 AM
16

Gawd, I know two girls getting played by a guy. Both of them admitted that they sleep with him without a condom. Now, they’re having weird ass competition about who gets his attention the most. Seriously, I never signed up for this circus. But I don’t want to be associated with these clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:33 AM
9

Jesus....this sermon is on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:31 AM
120

Yup. During my pickmesha days, I was always the purser. I was making efforts while they’re barely putting in the minimal. Now, I just sit and ignore or respond to messages days, weeks, months, or years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:49 AM
13

When I dodged that bullet, phew. He wanted to play with two of us. I opted out and allowed him to play with her. Now, he’s stuck playing daddy and trying to figure out how he’s going to afford a big ass wedding. (He’s not going to marry. He’s going to pick a fight and force her to dump him. That’s what he does.) Meanwhile, I’m just over here being cute and happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:37 PM
19

He’s embarrassed? Nah, sis. You should be embarrass because he’s playing your ass for a fool. The fuckery on this planet....phew. I can’t stand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:26 AM
12

That’s normal. Some women have allowed men to call them, hoes and bitches, as terms of endearment because that’s what they’re use to. The mental illness and cognitive dissonance in dating and relationships is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:34 PM
3

Same. Whenever people describe themselves as hopeless romantics, I cringe. It’s misused a lot in describing life fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:49 AM
5

I knew it was suspect. I read it twice and still didn’t comprehend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:19 AM
14

I was over this story when she said she met him at a Mcdonald’s Play place. Now, sis. That should’ve been your first sign of this will end in fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:40 AM
5

This sermon on this Sunday. Amen. Let me praise dance on this sub!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:36 PM
42

I have. Especially, for myself. The guys in my age range are something else. They want you to be their forever girlfriends but no desire for marriage. Okay, with buying a house with you but walking down the aisle is no. It’s bizarre to me. I have no desire in playing house with a fuckboy. I also don’t wanna play “halfies” with a kid. I’m traditional when it comes to dating and relationships. Sorry. I don’t wanna join the “millennial” dating rules. I’m okay with being single and happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:57 AM
2

Dating apps are breeding ground of Lazy LVMs. Tread lightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:51 AM
8

Same. Like, my guy, you don’t wanna rumble with me. I can go for years not talking to someone. You’re not special with ya Powder looking ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:30 AM
53

He’s hoping to bum off people or hit fast food joints. I wanted to break his soul but Imma need some entertainment for the next 2 weeks. He’s not going ask me because; 1) I’m going gloat in it, 2) he likes junk & I try to eat somewhat healthy, & 3) I charge $14 for paper plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:55 AM
157

And some ramen noodles. They’ll magically have that and some eggs from last year. (A guy friend was telling me this mess while he was making fun of everybody in the grocery store)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:26 AM
19

She sounds like about majority of the girls who I went to high school with. I am so thankful that most of them are on a Facebook block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:59 PM
1

Just put it in some rice...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:26 AM
21

People are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:31 AM
76

Yup. I dealt with it in high school. It got to the point that I didn’t talk to people at all. It doesn’t stop either. I’m still dealing with it. Society has strange hate boner for black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:30 PM
24

Do they have a go fund? I have some coins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:51 AM
21

.....I’m not wasting my groceries on a bastard. So, nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:25 AM
7

I know. I would get a bunch of them dming me about how good they can fuck me and I would always hit back with “You’re virgin, huh?” or “This is a Wendy’s, sir” I would get blocked for trolling or reported for being offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:15 PM
9

Oh, gawd. Is that from Whisper? It’s not even a dating app but people treat it is. You can post anything about Mcdonald’s and some random will come in your dms talking about their dick or whatever else. Just cesspool of ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:07 PM
68

That’s all she did. She got scammed into situationship without realizing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:27 PM
26

Negotiated?! She was setup from the jump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:26 PM
9

Uh, these expectations are normal and realistic. I’m afraid to ask what your friend’s expectations are for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:01 AM
9

I laugh at it. This classic tactic to see how far a guy can get in your pants. “How can I make this girl jump for me?” I just roll my eyes at it and keep living my best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:26 PM
44

It means you need to drop his ass and find somebody else who will appreciate you. Never change for a man. Change for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:32 AM
25

There’s isn’t it a bad time. Men are basic with their decisions. If he says he just wants to fuck, that’s it. There’s no “what if” scenarios. There’s no regrets. There’s no take backies. His mind is made up. Real life is not like a movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:54 AM
61

Why is it the go to sex problems is hiring or adding a third person? Maybe, I’m being too logical. But I would get issue looked at by a doctor or therapist. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:35 PM
2

Been there and done that. Every time their plan backfires, I tell them this; “If you have to fight for their attention or love, break up with them.” Seriously, a person who loves you will try to work it out by communicating their thoughts. I don’t play the mind tricks with nobody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:13 AM
9

Be gentle on yourself. You didn’t feel appreciated in the relationship and so you broke it off. Applaud yourself for knowing your wants and needs in relationship. Right now, just breather from dating, cut all contact from him, and level up your self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:11 AM
15

My wisdom teeth surgery went well. Well, technically, don’t know. I was asleep for majority time and woke up in my bedroom while my mom was checking on me. Any ways on the love front, Snapchat OLD boy got silent. Sending a message and playful banter to cold distant. Why? Don’t know. A girl was too busy preparing for surgery and hanging out with her brother on his birthday. The torture will continue...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:07 AM
15

Pfft. I’m petty. I would’ve sent him a picture of myself on every ride at Universal. Grinding every character actor I see. Don’t get me started on his “there’s a virus” excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:20 AM
19

Don’t do it.Those guys are not looking for long term. They’re looking for accessories and warmers for their dicks. Just throw away dating apps period. There’s nothing on those things but disappointments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:41 PM
12

You’re going have to prepare for that. He doesn’t want a relationship with you. Never will. He’s going to move on several times and not give a damn. Right now, you need to stop worrying about this asshole and find something else to worry about. Read the handbook or explore the forum to find out ways to avoid this situation again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:21 PM
51

Lost cause. He told you what he wanted out of you and he got it. Once he sensed you catching feelings, he bounced. His mind was made up from day one. He didn’t want you the person. He just wanted a replacement for keeping his dick warm. Harsh but it’s reality. You have to accept that he didn’t want you. Learn from it & be more careful next time. Quit expecting a casual relationship will lead into something romantic. It won’t. Just pump & dump situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:05 PM
35

He wasn’t serious about you. He got whatever he wanted from you & bounced for his selfish reason. It hurts but be thankful they gave you opportunity to move on & be happy. Find something to get your mind off of them. It’s going to take awhile but at least, free from an user.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:57 PM
30

No, you can’t. The best bet is just moving on and not falling down that rabbit hole again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:45 PM
48

You’re not damaged goods. If he didn’t want you, oh well. Just have to heal your heart and move on. Take a break and be gentle to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:16 PM
103

By building up your self esteem. You have to remind yourself daily that you’re a total bad ass & if he doesn’t haven’t got the balls to tell you why he’s not interested in you anymore, his loss. On to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:01 PM
2

If he lies about a ring, imagine all the lies he’s been telling her during their relationship. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:29 AM
7

This!! I use to take it as a compliment but now, it’s a trigger. It’s an one way ticket to fuckville. Black girls got it rough already. We don’t need anymore judgement and negativity, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:38 PM
2

I just go to any local college bar in my town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:30 PM
5

It’s not hard. I’m not clingy. All ask for respect. You embarrass me out here, Imma going hurt your soul. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:43 PM
12

Just once! One time. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:41 PM
4

So, basically fuck all Dating apps in 2020? Got it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:37 AM
45

.......Beam me up! Fuck these humans & stop the planet. I want off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:36 AM
6

The killing part is that these girls are on each other friends list on Facebook. Book smart but common sense is gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:00 AM
27

I don’t have a degree. However, I do plan on working towards it. I do have a good paying job and some college education under my belt. I refuse to date a guy with no drive in his life. I know guys who refuse to get a job because they don’t want anybody cutting into their time. They will quit good paying jobs because they can’t party on the weekend. The fuck? Okay, become entrepreneurs. Be your own Learn a trade or something. But don’t come sniffing over here thinking you’re going to live free wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:47 PM
30

Very frustrating. It’s ass backwards. You’re look at your daughter like a piece of livestock. Meanwhile, you’re ignoring her mental health & trying to teach her how to survive on her own. Okay, that makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:40 PM
52

Very low. It’s like a slave mentality to me. My cousin is classic example of LVM. Love him to death but he’s toxic to women. He has no job, smokes weed, parties, and has five kids from five different women. Every woman he has dated or impregnated have degrees in Nursing, Biology, or Engineering. My soul drops whenever I meet these girls because I wanna shake the shit out them and tell them that my cousin ain’t shit (Thankfully, his sister, grandpa, and grandma says it to them. But everybody thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:33 PM
95

Yes. I get told on daily basis by coworkers and family members. “You need to stop waiting so long to have kids” Uh, kids are huge responsibility and not bringing one into the world to appease because you did it too. or “Why don’t you like so so? He’s a good man.” Because he’s a womanizer and has domestic violence charges from his ex girlfriend. They claim they want the best for you but not realizing their best for you is setting you up for life long toxicity. No thanks. I am okay with being sing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:58 PM
136

Nothing wrong with that. You want to be with someone who’s your equal. You wanna have something in common with them. People look at me crazy when I tell them I refuse to date a guy who has children. I don’t have kids. I can’t relate to the struggles of being a single parent. I also not going to be stuck in the middle in some parenting drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:45 PM
7

So, I should call out for work, huh? Just kidding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:40 PM
11

.....He was Mount Olympus’ Donald Trump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:53 AM
15

Zeus turned his side chick into a cow to hide from his wife/sister. But Hera was described as an evil spiteful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:47 AM
1

...That’s why he’s got three kids and huge debt. Don’t take anything serious enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:22 AM
18

It’s rough out here. Some days, you wanna date. And then, something in the news makes you go what in the hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:20 AM
15

Is it his hand? A sock? Some blow up doll from Spencer’s? Because i hope no human is willing to ride that. Bobby Hill looking ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:18 AM
10

Every time I hear something about ole boy I used to talk to. Good luck playing stepdaddy. We already know you ain’t going marry her. Probably gotta new girl on back burner now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:21 AM
12

Louisiana boys are the worst!! They think they’ve got game but ain’t nothing but bullshit & lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:03 PM
10

Well, sugar tits is mad awkward. I gotta think on my feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:28 PM
8

I can’t stand it either. So, I hit back with something super awkward like cutie ball sack or smalls. We wanna play games. We’re going to play, my guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:25 PM
28

Wait, what?! Is this a thing that people do now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:22 PM
12

Yeah, we get blinded by anger and love but nobody is that blinded. Check your emotions before you confront someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:20 PM
117

Yes. You’re doing too much, fam. You gotta perform an orgy before you guys go to Applebee’s. Shesh. Keep up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:17 PM
44

Ask? Girl, he’s going to do it & not tell you. He was feeling you out. Break up with him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:14 PM
45

Its just going to make him want her more. I wouldn’t even question the other woman. They get lied to as well. I wish, we, as women, would point the blame at their partner/spouse/husband/sperm donors when they cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:12 PM
28

The correct question should be, “Where can I find all the single HVMs at?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:13 AM
5

Child Abandonment and adultery. She can get their health insurance back. The mortgage on the house might be tricky. But sis is going to be alright with the right attorney. The judge is going to fuck him up so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:58 PM
4

Experienced it. Nope. No sir. You too, Aries!! Maybe, some of them Pisces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:08 PM
9

That’s awful. Also, a judge is going to drag his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:22 PM
13

I don’t know. I just know it’s not my ass. I’m not going halfies on a baby for the sake to feel normal or feed my biological clock. Children is huge responsibility. It’s takes two to raise a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:17 PM
24

I stopped at Scorpio. Nope. Nope. NOPE!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:15 PM
2

Uh, I haven’t been here long but I’ve never seen anyone shamed fo their choices. So, telling the truth about somebody’s decision while they’re seeking advice is slut shaming now? Okay....weird assumption. This sub never made feel ashamed of my choices. It’s like having a group of sisters giving you tough love and looking out for your well being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:00 PM
35

Feel your pain. I’ve been keeping to myself lately. Everybody has been so needy & draining. I get accused of you don’t invite me or don’t call me. I try to be respectful to everybody and their time.(Most friends are married with kids or single parents) But some days, I say, “Screw it! I just go by myself.” I’m just over everybody and hang out with my dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:08 AM
8

With work kicking my ass and my upcoming surgery (It’s minor. Wisdom teeth need to come on out.), I don’t have much time to text and talk to Snapchat dude. In fact, he contacted me about a random snap I posted. Interesting thing about it, he contacted me on my off day. Before anyone freaks, I didn’t respond right away. I ended up taking a nap. I woke up and gave a bland response. This torturing thing is working in my favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:16 AM
1

Everyday before work, I give myself a pep talk in the mirror. “Girl, you got this day in the bag. Don’t nobody get under your skin. You’re not perfect but you’re just right for yourself.” At night, “We made it! You handle yourself like a boss. I’m proud you!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:09 AM
1

Dodge a bullet sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:16 AM
14

Must have a job Must not be bitter about his exes Must be willing to talk race and privilege Must believe in grooming. (Doesn’t need to be a metrosexual. I’m okay with a few grinning concerns) Has some type of relationship with his family (unless they’re super toxic) Drug and Tobacco free (including weed. I can’t stand the smell of it.) Not a raging alcoholic (You can drink but if you have to be drunk every time, we hang or go out. Nah, bruh.) tolerance for dogs Knows how to act in public (if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:55 AM
45

In words of my grandmother, I think the fuck not, ya gutter butt son of ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:44 AM
3

And a cop? Abort mission, sis. This mofo got some secret shit going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:37 AM
9

Which branch of the military? Because they’ve got their weird ass ways with OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:01 PM
5

The friend who’s generally concern about their mental well being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:04 PM
18

After horrible experience on dating apps & dodging hobosexual at my job, I was seeking advice on dating on reddit. Most of it was side eye worthy and wtfish. FDS popped up in one of my searches and boom! Been hooked ever since. It has saved me from going FULL ON pickmesha on a certain situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:17 PM
133

Well, damn. I need to be suing a couple of dudes for pain and suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:12 PM
7

None of my friends know about my sex life. For years, they’ve tried to pry it out of me. They will never know because it’s my right. I don’t talk ask them about their sex life. I’m one of those people who doesn’t run tell other’s business. Not my right. Not my story. Whatever you tell me in private is between me and you. It’s respect thing for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:36 AM
36

Self love is not selfish Quit setting yourself on fire to keep others warm. Not everybody you want deserves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:13 AM
17

You’re listening to a pickmesha. She doesn’t think clearly on relationships. Whenever she tries to talk about your relationship, roll eyes and quietly remind yourself that girl is projecting her issues onto you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:09 AM
35

Stop telling a gossip your business. One thing I’ve learned in my adult life, you never talk about your sex life with anyone. Not even your family nor good friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:06 AM
3

I’m okay with it. They already know my views on dating and never tried to push up on me. They’ve actually helped me catch some LVM. So, I don’t have problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:18 AM
50

Oh, hell nah. His ass got to get the whole fuck out the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:21 AM
15

I know. Just ughhhhhhh!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:16 AM
36

I don’t know. Yeah, I was super pickmesha but when things didn’t add up. I was out of the situation. You don’t need permission to leave a relationshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:10 AM
36

She also said he admitted to having sex dreams about her. So, yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:06 AM
39

She doesn’t want to hear it. She’s truly trying to find another answer for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:03 AM
11

I am thankful that I don’t fit the criteria for these dudes in dating apps. Not missing anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:25 AM
18

This is so me right now. I’m just over everything. I don’t wanna date. I’m just doing my thing. Enjoying my life. I hate my job but it’s providing the lifestyle that my dog deserves. She’s bougie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:20 AM
9

First, you’re not his emotional support animal. You have no obligation to him unless you were close to his dad or any kids with him. Secondly, if you do feel the urge to email him back, offer him some condolences and number to a therapist. Keep it icy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:45 AM
23

“Because I haven’t found a guy who matches my energy,” is my go to response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:21 PM
5

It is. It’s mainly new girlfriends or former boyfriends watching your page like a hawk. They’ll screenshot or share a status into messenger to show the other person. It’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:13 AM
2

Holy hell. I’m sorry you had to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:03 AM
5

It is. The fact that we normalize & ignore this behavior is more frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:48 AM
26

They still want access to you. Somebody is talking to him & telling your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:29 PM
5

...Gross but it’s the internet. The only place they think their cyber dick can give them power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:00 PM
11

Exactly. I don’t wanna be turned on because he took out the trash or gave the kids a bath. I want to be turned on because I genuinely love this man. His presence should excite me. I’m going to hype him up when he does something. But not rewarding him like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:47 PM
22

This is why sex shouldn’t be used as a gift nor reward for doing basic shit. My heart hurts for her. I hope people were calling him out on his shit and telling her that she needs to let that motherfucker know that she spent hours on trying create a sweet moment for you while taking care of the kids. Her falling asleep should be the least of his worry. Divorcing his ass, getting her a good man that loves her kids (the kids love new daddy), & finally getting some real good sex ( one minute men wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:11 PM
6

Resume to normal. If he’s interested, he’ll let you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:48 PM
10

No clue. I given up on asking men questions. But you can break the cycle by teaching your son that when someone does a nice favor for you. You return the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:24 PM
19

Happy Birthday!! Take this moment as learning lesson. There’s nothing wrong with having a heart. Just learn you gotta stopped expecting you from other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:18 PM
40

When he says, “he looking for a ride or die” woman. Run like hell. Because this is what going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:08 AM
47

Same. I can’t do it anymore. I’m all for being weird but some dudes confuse “weird” with “fucked up.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:19 AM
4

I do need some art. Especially, when they’re posting selfies on their Snacpchats 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:41 PM
27

I just stand there and go, “Okay, so do you want me to take him off your hands or something? Because I need some clues on what in the fuck you’re babbling about?” It’s like they want you to be impressed and jealous of them but you either 1) don’t care, 2) feel bad for them, or 3) confused on why are you spilling this info on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 07:03 AM
14

LOLOL I almost threw my phone!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:09 AM
2

I’m obsessed with it. I even bought the candle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:44 PM
34

Is it wrong that I like ignoring LVM with their social media attempts to get my attention?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:39 PM
14

I keep it professional. Learn how to not to respond and react to their lame attempts of wooing you. Just be so deadpan and icy with them until they can take the hint. If you get labeled as a bitch, oh well. You’re a bitch that’s happy and enjoying life without their dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:29 PM
5

Maison Marigela’s “Lazy Sunday” & Prada’s Candy Collection have been my go to scents right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:19 PM
6

Bitch, I’m adorable! I’m going to have my ugly days. But I love myself. That’s all that matters to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:15 AM
20

Gawd, they can make one disparaging comment about women and their dating habits. Okay, you suck but I’m going to live my best life. But if you make comment about them, you’re dead to them. Long winded facebook post on how wrong you are and how they hate dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:53 PM
7

Same! The magazine articles on it were insane. It was like “The Rachel” craze except everybody hated it. I felt bad for her, though. I think asked about it on TRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:00 PM
28

Gawd, I would hate watch this show. Didn’t her crush sleep with her best friend? And she had that horrible short haircut one season. I need re hate watch this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:09 AM
18

Nope. He hated his job. That was his excuse, whenever the questions about their relationships would pop up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:41 AM
20

....We’re doomed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:35 AM
37

“Well, all the girls I’ve dated have cheated on me!” More like they had their options open because you were giving mixed signals. Seriously, he was moving girls (with kids) into his home, flying girls in across country, & inviting them to his parents. But they weren’t serious because his job took up his time. Okay, my guy! They didn’t cheat. Chicks had a escape plan and leveled up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:33 AM
3

Oh god. I would’ve blocked his ass on the spot. I had one try to hug me because I was speaking to an trucker who knew me. He stood there (Like, he was up on us.) and listened to us joke. When I had to leave, this fool follows behind me and tries to get me to hug him. I shouted at his ass, “What in the entire fuck are doing?!?” He tried to explain himself but I shut him down told him that was creepy. Then, that night he sends some random memes as an apology. I ignored it because a) that was creep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:26 AM
12

Well, at least, the wife left. Most of them will stay and compete with the younger girl for his attention. Meanwhile, his ass is glowing with male pride that his dick getting to vaginas and mouths on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:44 PM
7

It could assortment of things. But from what I’ve seen and experience, it’s their social and home environment. Our society has twisted relationships with perfection. Everything has to perfect or else. If it’s not perfect enough for our standards, we must eliminate it from our spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:40 PM
138

Because we’re allowing it. A lot of girls will get in agreements with men because we’re afraid to be alone. Instead of being honest with ourselves, we’ll play along and hope he’ll change his ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:27 AM
97

.....I swear, men are getting weird and clingy now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:21 AM
2

Ha! I hope not. The last two years have been eye opening life lesson. I stopped being Nice and started being real with myself. Yeah, a lot of people were mad and confused. But my mental health is important. It takes time but hey! Just remind yourself that you’re human, not perfect, & it’s okay to make mistakes. Forgive yourself and you’ll be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:15 AM
10

I’m dealing with something similar. Ignore his ass. If he can’t tell you what he wants, he doesn’t deserve your time. You can either block, delete, or customize your snapchat story to where he can’t see it. When he mentions your snapchat, keep it ice cold. One word answers and change the subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:54 AM
1

Aww, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:35 AM
52

Scott Discik. I don’t know how Lionel Ritchie was cool with it. My dad and uncles would’ve had some words with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:17 AM
58

Not a relationship. Just talking to a guy in general. I was always making conversation. And I realized, “Wait, why am I doing all the work?” Seriously, if you don’t want to talk to me, why continue to engage in conversation? Take off your snap or whatever. So, I’ve been pretty much given up, stopped talking completely, and living my best life. Not going to waste my best jokes and food puns on someone who doesn’t appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:18 PM
52

Actually, it’s helping my confidence. I use to be a super pick me & nice girl. I was setting aside my own comfort to please others. Meanwhile, I’m standing off to the side, setting myself fire on to keep them warm. I’ve stopped it. (I did have a pick me moment but thankfully, the members on encouraged me.) I’ve started to say no when I’m not interested in what’s suggested or not comfortable with. The guidelines have made me happier. Plus, I am okay with being single. My goal in life isn’t to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:56 PM
5

It’s like I’m PMSing minus tears and chocolate. This LVM is going to get a bill from me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:41 AM
10

It takes time. I have my days where I’m like, “Fuck him. Let turn this Lizzo on!!” and the next day, “I wanna love ya, baby!!” I’m slowly growing into myself. We’ll get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:37 AM
15

Thank you for reminding that I’m bad ass chick who deserves someone who enjoys my videos about noods. I will not waste my food jokes on him no more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:55 AM
29

Still trying to stop my pickmesha ways. One minute, he wants to talk. The next minute, crickets. One minute, he’ll watches my snaps. The next, crickets again. I give up. Just going to let homeboy simmer. For reals, this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:33 AM
19

I’m here to help lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:07 PM
152

Seriously. I cringed at Facebook’s post over it. “My man made me dinner” He’s living rent free with you, sis. “My man took care of the kids” Uh, you guys made them together. So, yeah. He’s supposed to be there. “My man wiped his ass today” That’s it. Imma block you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:20 PM
3

Linkedin? You’re horny over a guy who gave out a Linkedin profile? Not facebook. Not Instagram. Not Snapchat. A Linkedin. Girl, he’s either married or taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:43 PM
17

...My radar is on point. It’s always a loser with demands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:11 AM
41

Meanwhile, African American girls like myself are happy to be eliminated from this creatures’ radar. We don’t want his limp dick and possibly broke ass, anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:42 AM
56

That whole hashtag has taken me out. “I chew his food.” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:51 AM
12

I am that friend who needs to her internet taken away, sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:01 PM
17

See, don’t tell me this now. Because Imma make everybody wheeze with laughter and spit their drinks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:41 PM
18

My bad! I can’t help my mind...😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:14 PM
130

When you poke holes into their threesome plans. Nah, buddy. I want the sausage up in you too. Everybody going to ride it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:03 PM
1

I would’ve got a restraining order with history. You begging for sex on your birthday got to be most lamest shit in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:50 PM
32

It’s been my therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:32 PM
134

Well, that explains why I had one dude call me, “ cold hearted,” but still wanted to be in contact with me. He still wanted a chance to fuck. He will never get it, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:23 AM
2

Always! I’m not expecting A list looks. But at least, be attractive to me. Also, wear some clean clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:16 PM
9

Same. I’m not bold color girl but this works perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:50 PM
8

Nah, you need to hear it. That’s how you avoid these fucking situations. Seriously, stop chasing after these fuck boys and focusing on building yourself. Invest into your well being. Checkout the handbook in the about page. If you need more resources, ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:44 PM
7

That’s why she gets a pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:44 PM
18

I was lonely and people pleaser. Thankfully, I stopped myself before anything got serious. I would’ve been a bigger fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:29 PM
20

Holy hell. She needs to break up with him right now. This shit is not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:27 PM
46

She was inspiration. Minus her dating her step brother but I still stan her for having standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:53 PM
3

It makes sense. He reveals personal stuff about himself and magically disappears. Something spooked him aka girlfriend/wife. This is why i support googling and facebooking people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:27 AM
35

But she’s empowering us, guys!!! Sliding her digits in and out of coochie is ending terrorism. insert eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:00 PM
15

He was caught by his girlfriend. He was hiding his evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:27 PM
56

Apologize?! I’m in my own damn house. You came in without shooting me a phone call or text. Nah, everybody would be all types of motherfuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:14 PM
5

That’s my biggest no no. I find most potheads annoying. They have to announce and brag about smoking it. You’re not cool. You’re annoying & smelly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:18 PM
44

Nah, his dick would’ve been hanging from a flag pole. And you call my daddy? Oh, nah, son! You’re dead dead to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:03 AM
8

Roll with it. Keeping it in makes the situation worst. Let it out is only way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:08 AM
58

It’s disrespectful. It screams he doesn’t value her. She’s just emotional security blanket for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:48 AM
7

...Imma still blast the “Lemonade” album when I’m in my mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:21 AM
101

Wait. She’s eager to get married but has accepted being a girlfriend for 13 years?! That’s the problem right there. She’s a pickmesha and don’t know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:32 AM
2

I have more respect for hobo than him. His types were blonde nurses with homes. ( I was complete opposite. A black chick with a government job.) He knew how to con his way into your heart. Except for me. I was labeled as too cold hearted for him because i didn’t play his game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:12 PM
6

He was. Every three years, new girl and her address. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:59 AM
10

Well, I almost had a pickmesha moment this week. (Here comes long ass back story. Get a snack & drinkie poo, sis.) Long time ago, I started talking to a guy on OLD. He seemed cool. He kept up with my banter, similar interest, & can hold conversation that didn’t involve sex. We could never meet because our jobs. I was doing 10-12 hour shift with one day off. He was military and currently getting ready deploy. We agreed to meet when he got back. While he was away, something in the back of my mind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:58 AM
29

This one guy I talked to and rejected (He was hobosexual clown) posted a pic of himself, best friend, and random girl on Facebook. I just hearted each pic and left comments like, “Oh, my god! Ask her where she got that top from?” “Her belt is cute....Dillard’s!” “OMG! I have those earrings!! She’s got good taste.” He was shocked by it. He stopped posting pics of her. He tried to slide in my dms but got ignored. Then, removed from Facebook. We don’t play that shits here, fuck boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:04 AM
25

The killing part about this mess is that she was a bridesmaid in Beth and Dog’s wedding. This bitch has no fucks. This is level 80 pickmesha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:23 PM
24

One of the daughters did say something about it months ago. I thought it was bs but she called it from day one. I’m side eyeing the woman. I couldn’t date a man who recently lost his wife. I would push him to get therapy. He doesn’t need pussy right now. He needs to be a psychiatrist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:55 PM
24

My uncle did the same thing. He couldn’t cope with being alone. He refused to admit that he needed therapy. (Military is still shit when it comes to mental health.) He was so blinded by her pussy game that ignored all her red flags. Thankfully, he woke the hell up after his new wife’s son tried to beat up my little cousin (The lady was raising psychopaths. It took an act of God to not whoop that kid’s ass at my cousin’s graduation. The male side of the family was pissed when she told us this inf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:32 PM
17

Phew!!! This is me right now. Trying my best not to go off but just going to keep it icy. Over the bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:31 AM
10

Some straight up bullshit. 16 years of watching an man baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:28 PM
4

Good luck in Shanghai!! I’m planning a trip to Japan next year with a group of friends. We’re learning Japanese and researching the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:24 PM
17

It is. However, this is reality of OLD. People have twisted it into something horrible now. Pickmeisha and Fuckboys have ruined it for the rest of us who are genuinely looking for that real love. Instead playing into the game, I’m tapping out and enjoying life. My dog loves me. That’s all that matter to me right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:12 PM
27

I have. As black woman, OLD are a nightmare. We get stuck with bottom of the barrel; fetish hounds, hobosexuals with too many kids, & chauvinist. Too many are looking for harem recruiters and I’m not with the shits anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:03 PM
3

I caught myself last night. A guy I use to talk to on dating apps is one of my snapchat buddies. He use to watch my snaps until I sort of took a dig at military men. I guess, he’s still sore about that. A year later. But he still talks to me in my DMs. He’ll watch my snaps, sometimes. But he’ll keep his snaps hidden from me. I almost went into full pickmeisha mode but stopped myself. It’s not worth it. I’m just going to let his ass orbit in hell. And he wonder why I ghosted his dopey, wishy wash…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:47 PM
13

It’s salvageable. You just have to step back and stop overthinking everything. Let him contact you when he’s ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:19 PM
23

His backup plan. That’s what men do now. If old girl don’t act right, new girl will do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:13 AM
64

They still fucking. But good for you on peeping game. He sounds like a hobosexual in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 02:37 AM
44

Because persistence will make you drop your panties or some shit. Us, silly girls, don’t know what’s good for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:20 AM
4

Walmart. She’s not picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:11 AM
26

As a black female, I feel your pain. But I’m going to give you the advice that was given to me; Work on you. Learn to love yourself. Dating apps weren’t meant for us. As in women who are looking for genuine love and support. Delete those apps and focus on building yourself. HVM will find you. May not be soon but he’s going to find one day. Until then, build yourself up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:15 PM
33

Nah, she needs pain and suffering for time lost. Seriously, it took him ten years to propose and remained engaged for 3 years? Now, sis, you should’ve left at the 3 year mark. You basically played housewife to a fuckboy. Just tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:28 AM
48

Not an ex but a guy who was trying to get in my pants for years. (Thankfully, it never happened because my senses be on point.) He put in a transfer to be closer to his g/f (Never mentioned her to me, btw. Rarely posted about her on Facebook.) He finally gets transfer and moves in with her. (Did I mention she has a kid? Pre teen boy. Hormones + you’re not my dad= good times?) Things didn’t go down as planned (She didn’t get a ring. According to the rumor mill) and now he’s trying to transfer bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:19 AM
13

Why the fuck are you lying?!? Ooo OMG!!!! Why the fuck are lying?!??! Seriously, try a new age. At least, 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:14 AM
7

Oh, god! The text tone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:09 AM
14

Me during my pickmeisha days. God. I was a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:14 AM
7

When somebody loves or admires you so much that you have no faults in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:32 AM
14

It’s scary. You’re not allowed to be human. If you show any other emotion, it’s wrong in their eyes. Then, they’ll try to make you the villain in the argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:31 AM
8

Nah, he wanted it take. That’s a lot of money to be shelling out. Plus, he needed her busy with the kids while does his asshole shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:03 AM
58

.....That’s some good acid he’s taking. Because i don’t see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:51 AM
25

I don’t get how people think that adding a third person to their dying relationship is going save anything. You just making it worst. But then again, he wasn’t shit when they were on the show. She was obviously a trophy wife to him. I’m shocked he went ahead and had kids with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:49 AM
25

You did right. It hurts because you wanted him to be on the same page. However, you can’t force someone who’s not ready for what you have to offer. The hurt will go away. Just pat yourself on the back for sticking to your needs in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:05 PM
18

1) What a rough looking 23 year old 2) He seems like a one minute man who violently cries after one jerk of the hand. 3) He’s never touched a body before. Except his own on the holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:33 PM
19

He was. He had history of violence against women. He kept getting off because his sister was a cop. He killed this girl on Facebook live. All because his girlfriend told him he needed to fix this problem. See, I’m all about calling assholes but proceed with caution. If there’s another woman involved, do not contact her. She don’t know you. She’s not going to look at the situation with clear mind. Her automatic reaction is to defend her man and view you as the competition. She’s going to use info…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:27 PM
104

Not in the real world. Most women will side with their men. They’ll come up with all types of excuses for him. All receipts prove to her that she has competition and better step her “A” game. Meanwhile, the guy will either sit back and bask in the glory having two women fight over him. Or worst, it will drive him to go insane & kill the side piece. Instead of snitching, start blocking & stop talking. It’s safer option. We had one girl in my area try to expose a guy and he ended up killing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:35 PM
33

Yup. I got called that by one dude who wanted a FWB. When i refused to do it. I was called all types of dirty bitches and crazy. Meanwhile, he had a whole girlfriend in another city. He’s got an amazing storytelling skill. Because I wanted to know what else i’ve done to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:32 PM
2

Yes. I’m more concerned about him being financially responsible. Just because he’s making bank doesn’t mean he’s investing or saving it wisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:57 AM
28

See, I would’ve freaked him out. I would’ve told I was going to chopped him up and feed him to some farm animals. Because i don’t like watermelon & support Farm animals. I like getting blocked on OLD by pervs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:31 PM
9

I got burnt out last year. I was so over it. The only ones who wanted talk were the race fetish hounds and poly wives hiding behind their husbands accounts. I’m on hiatus on dating. I’m focusing on myself. Planning trips, focusing on my waistline, & looking into going back to school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:26 AM
18

It’s not a hood thing anymore. I’ve seen it amongst white people with good paying jobs. I know a girl who dated a guy for 10 years. He cheated on her most of the time. When she finally caught him, he ended up moving in with one of the girls who was on rotation. It’s not a race thing. It’s a “men ain’t shit” thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:59 PM
18

A person who dates solely for a place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:07 PM
37

Random male coworkers who magically appear in my air space when they find out that I’m single with no kids. Never mind the fact that most of them are the following; 1) married with kids. 2) Divorced and not paying for child support. 3) Married but want a side chick 4) Hobosexual looking for the another house to ruin. 5) Have a girlfriend but she’s lives far away. And if you reject them, they’ll tell the biggest lie on you. “She’s a bitch,” “Man, I think she’s low key gay,” & “She wished she had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:02 AM
12

This is straight up emotional blackmail to me. I’m all for trans rights, however, you cannot get upset at someone for not wanting to continue the relationship. That’s unfair for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:40 PM
2

My mood for 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:20 PM
51

If i could turn back time & slapped the shit out of myself, I would do it. Pickmeisha me was horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:46 AM
5

I’m normally supportive. However, this mess is not helping us. This is setting us up for hobosexuals’ takeover. We can’t let them bastards win 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:14 AM
5

Guys view as dating as a competition. They won’t admit it to us girls, because they’ll know we won’t go for it. They’re afraid of us reacting negatively. Anyways, Guys on dating apps will arrange multiple dates with girls to see which girl is worthy of their attention. They’ll keep doing this process until they’ve run out of dates. If they don’t contact you within two days, they’ve move on. If you do contact you after the two day mark, don’t respond. Instead of feeling discouraged, just shrugged…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:01 AM
9

What kind of bird s.h.i.t. is this nonsense?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:48 AM
24

You’re being too nice to garbage. He sounds like a complete little shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:44 PM
90

Because I like my sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:09 PM
16

This is what guys do. It sucks because it’s so manipulating and they don’t get how fuck up it is. I had one guy try this shit on me and ended up backfiring on him. (Why do men have their Facebook accounts open for the world to see? Just dumb) I ghosted on his ass so quick. Anyways, it sucks but be thankful. He’s someone else’s problem now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:37 PM
11

When you find your self worth and shine bright like a diamond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:48 AM
37

Plot twist; He thinks she’s a blow up doll and going to store her under his bed. For reals, these new dudes and girls are something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:04 PM
6

She’s still with him? Because this is obvious “Fuck you & your bloodline” situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:51 PM
10

Ugh! Why do people put their children in dating profiles? Especially, the gross ones. Just feel like you should keep your kids’ identity private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:17 PM
2

He’s ready for a relationship. He’s honest on what he wants & needs. There’s communication. He’s not on any bullshit and won’t drag you into any of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:45 PM
24

I had one add me on Facebook and literally analyzed everything i posted and liked. When I realized what he was doing, I started putting up traps & started trolling him. I did this mess for like a month until I got bored with it. I called him out on it. He was trying to play the “sweet guy” card. It backfired. Because what sweet guy with a girlfriend would put this much energy into finding out so much about another girl? (He also never mentioned his girlfriend who lived 7 hours away. I had find t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:56 PM
6

Pffft, this is half of the women at my job. It’s amazing what women do to be “kept.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:05 AM
1

Update on #2: Nope. Dudes really need to locked up their Facebook’s page. Then, wonder why women don’t wanna deal with ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:24 PM
6

This week’s life lesson; 1) It’s okay to mute your friends when they’re posting passive aggressive post on Facebook about their “relationship.” 2) Remember that former OLD crush you added on Snapchat? The one you ghosted & regretted? might be a HVM? And wanted to apologize to? Hold off on it. Feel the situation out. 3) Not everybody at your job is your friend. Make your money & go home. 4) It’s okay to say no. 5) Denny’s got a good ass nacho plate. Highly recommended it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:49 AM
23

Her question should be, “how should i break up with him?” This is just eww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:46 AM
12

Same but I worked with the girlfriend and knew about his STD. He blocked me when i called him out on it. Then, he had the nerve to have his kids as his profile pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:42 AM
31

You can always do image search. Most of them will link to a Facebook page with their real legal name. That’s how i caught a catfish and extreme cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:20 PM
19

I google in a heartbeat. It saved me from so many red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:18 PM
13

This isn’t new. They’ve been doing this mess for years. They’re just dumb enough to post online or talk about it openly in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:35 PM
4

I don’t even want to go halfises on a baby. Imagine creating a manbaby that does this crap. Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:04 PM
2

Just be easy on yourself. You’re going to have your good and bad days. You remind yourself that you’re human and doing the best you can in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 07:16 PM
5

Yeah, I’m not getting good vibes from this situation. It seems like you’re a conquest on his hit list. Cut all contact with him. He’s not genuine, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:46 PM
22

So, he’s trying to compete with the kid? Because that’s most weirdest and nastiest flex in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:53 PM
6

.....This is me. Analyzing every post. Checking out so called female “friends” who comment on every post. (Side note: Why do they have 200 female friends?! Are you playing pokémon with women, sir? Trying catch us all?) To wanting throw yourself off a fucking cliff when they make whining post about women don’t want them. Ugh....I hated myself during those time. (Still do since we found each other on Snapchat. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:32 PM
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