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This is too accurate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:39 PM
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Same here. I paid $5 for coins once and then realized I should never do it again. I only give out free awards now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:35 PM
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Lol this is my ex, who also happens to gets off on beating and choking women and is in a 24/7 Master/slave “relationship” with his fiancée now. But women are the problem, right buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:22 PM
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Ummm... no one taught me this. I learned this fear naturally from being sexually assaulted and date raped by “normal” men dozens of times while just trying to date in big cities. My sexually, physically, and emotionally abusive voiced this same opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:55 PM
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Wow, my pleasure! I’m so glad to hear this—it totally makes posting things like this worth while. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:47 PM
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AMAZING username! 😂❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:46 PM
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It’s genuinely mind boggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:38 PM
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Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:25 PM
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Ugh yes!! I didn’t mention it specifically in the post because it’s so disgusting to even mention, but why the hell are there so many reddit posts about men who don’t wipe properly when they go to the bathroom?? And then literally leave shit stains in their underwear and ON THE SHEETS???? I can’t comprehend this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:24 PM
2

Yes, exactly! 👏 Thank you so much 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:26 PM
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Thank you for correcting this woman. I wasn’t about to give my energy to someone blaming me for my own abuse so I just blocked her. You gave her strong responses and advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:52 AM
2

So proud of your for leaving!!! Hell yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:04 PM
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This is so spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:16 PM
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😭🥰🥰🥰 Thank you sooo much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:02 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to engage in conversation! Keep in mind, I was only with my abuser for a year and a half and I never lived with him. All situations are very different, but I know you will find the path that’s right for you to self recovery and self love❤️ BTW I’m asexual and couldn’t help but notice that you have “Ace” in your username. Are we both asexual FDSers?! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:32 PM
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OMG exactly... they view any perceived weakness as tool they can exploit to control you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:27 PM
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They are so incredibly persuasive and charming. They are great at gaslighting. Like anything you do or say to defy them is just absolute insanity, and then they love bomb once you stop rebelling and give into them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:21 PM
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This is one of the big dangers of joining BDSM communities. You might personally only be interested in certain light/innocent kinks, but you are being thrown into the deep end full of sharks aka sadists. I allowed my ex to do so many twisted, disgusting things to me that make me shiver looking back on. You are conditioned by the community not to kink shame, and to try anything once. The only person I really feel I can share the worst details with are my psychiatrist and my best friend, who is al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:19 PM
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Children being in the picture is a huge thing. Imagine having to share custody with someone abusive... knowing your children will be with your abuser without any way to protect them during that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:11 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:36 PM
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Preach!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:21 PM
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Thank you so much🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:21 PM
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I am lucky to have an amazing psychiatrist devoted to talk therapy. It was a long journey to undo his brainwashing, but it’s all about getting to know yourself and falling back in love with yourself. The first step is recognizing what happened. The next step is understanding how it happened—how manipulative and calculating your abuser was/is, and the steps he (or she) took. The last step is telling yourself how and why this was his fault—not yours—until you actually believe it. Once you’re done …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:20 PM
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smash it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:05 AM
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Take him to small claims court
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:52 PM
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For me, this is the worst part, “He faces up to two years in prison if forensic experts prove she died of hypothermia, say reports citing law enforcement.” UP TO 2 years???? That’s it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:39 AM
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I use these the same brand and they also last me two weeks—they are the ones that have the adhesive on the nail already. You peel pack the little plastic sheet and then press them directly on your nails. No glue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:10 PM
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I do the same thing with the same brand!! I use red, but I love yours so much I might try that color next time I buy more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:08 PM
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THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:48 PM
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There’s an update!!! She dumped him!!! :)))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:33 PM
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This is shockingly common. I was date raped 4 times —twice anally and twice vaginally— and didn’t realize it was rape until thinking back on it. The reason I didn’t realize it was rape was just because it wasn’t violent. “Shhh shh... no it’s fine... you’ll like it...” as they penetrate you while you’re saying, “no.” Each time I would end up just waiting for it to be over because it basically felt RUDE or DRAMATIC to “make a big deal out of it.” It feels so insane to type this but it’s how it hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:53 AM
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Jesus... what a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:03 PM
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Ooohh I worked at a bakery at 23. Once a group of drunk men in their 30’s came in. One asked me how old I was, then when I responded he told me I better be married because I had already aged out. This was in Manhattan and the guy had a southern accent so maybe he was new to New York or something 😂 His friend apologized for him and handed me a twenty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:28 PM
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Once I was chatting with a dude (luckily we hadn’t met yet) and he asked me if I ever experimented sexually with my siblings. BARF AND BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:21 PM
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oh... my... god. Her food looks AMAZING! And he can’t even come to the table to eat with her?!?? disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:43 AM
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Yes please! Story time. Amazing job and stay safe please!!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:41 AM
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THANK YOU!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:44 AM
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Negative value!!! Spraying pee all over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:04 PM
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It’s Cher! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dZsL5R_CR-k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:44 PM
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The quote isn’t part of the song though, it’s from an old Cher interview: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dZsL5R_CR-k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:44 PM
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THANK YOU! He is a HV man but this woman is trash. I can’t believe she left her children to go party and drink. I suffer from depression and anxiety—I have had two very suicidal periods where I couldn’t leave my house. I wanted to attempt so badly but I could NEVER do that to my parents. If I could hold myself back for the fear of hurting my parents half way across the country, I don’t know how this person could actually do this to her own CHILDREN who need her and depend on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:33 PM
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Omg hi 🥰🥰🥰 It’s funny how FDS can help woman in such different situations than their target audience. It’s because the general principles are so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:28 AM
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Please follow this advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:55 PM
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Honestly, you shouldn’t have accepted it when you saw him and realized you weren’t interested. Normally I don’t think that way at all but you are describing an incredibly specific and bizarre situation. Meeting up with a stranger for, as you describe, an illegal and incredibly valuable gift that he worked the whole day to earn for you. And you aren’t remotely interested in him. Take this as a lesson for next time. Don’t meet up for gifts from strangers. Meet for dates to get to know him. Gifts a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:36 AM
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Congratulations on your self discovery! 🎉🎊🎈Everything clicked for me and became so much clearer when I started learning about asexuality. It was like putting on glasses for the first time—everything came into focus finally. I learned from experience that unfortunately for me, personally, love does not improve sex at all. It definitely does for some people on the asexual spectrum! More towards the demisexual side I presume? I don’t know a lot about it, I should do more reading. Weirdly enough, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:10 AM
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Aww wow thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:56 AM
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Ooooh hey!!! 👋 I’m asexual, too! I’m a solitary (don’t want to live with a partner or have kids) biromantic, so I still date men... UNFORTUNATELY for me 😅 FDS is so incredibly helpful to me as an asexual because it helps keep me strong in my resolution not to sleep with men. I used to frequently have sex with men—both with real consent at times, and coercion at other times—to please them or because I felt I had to. As an asexual, it was always horrible, painful, and disgusting for me. It was awf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:54 AM
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Wow he sounds like an actual cave man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:39 PM
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I have the same attitude. I am my own caretaker. At this point in my life, I have finally learned to actively look out for users and abusers. Once one is identified, they lose access to me. The same way that if I was a caretaker for SOMEONE ELSE, I would not allow an identified user or abuser near them. We have to have the same care for ourselves that we do for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:27 PM
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Yes, her closing line considering it really made my heart sick for her child. HOPEFULLY it’s fake or a huge validation post just because she needed some emotional support to help her dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:21 AM
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Don’t worry, she dumped him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:09 AM
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Don’t worry, she did!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:16 PM
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Oh wow... Usually this sub reminds me of my abusive ex, but this video was ME dating my boyfriend that came after the abusive bf. I thought I was falling in love with him because he was kind, he occasionally told me he really liked me, he wanted to hang out with me often, and he respected my asexuality and didn’t try to pressure me AT ALL into sexual activity I was uncomfortable with. All of that in comparison to my abusive ex made me feel like “WOW HE IS AMAZING!” Just for basic entry level tre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:40 PM
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Hell yes! Thank god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:28 PM
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It seems like that was her way of reacting under shock and discomfort, because she already posted an update saying that thanks to her understanding his true motives now, she dumped him 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:28 PM
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The top comment asks, “Are you sure he isn’t trying to murder you for your money?” and her reply is, “Jesus, I certainly hope not! He’s pretty calm, doesn’t seem like he’d kill anyone. We don’t live together, but you’ve definitely given me something to think about haha!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:22 PM
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WOW this is such an excellent point. It reminds me of a good friend of mine. He’s one of the funniest people I know. You always know you’re going to have a great night hanging out with him. Generous, kind, helpful, politically minded. I lived with him with two other roommates for 2 years and he is a nightmare roommate. Stole food from all 3 of us other roomies on a consistent basis. We had to start labeling everything because none of us were willing to confront him—didn’t work. Spent hours in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:16 AM
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YESSSS this has happened to me LAST NIGHT! It was the 6th time since Covid started. I counted 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:12 PM
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My god. I wonder when people do things like this, “Are THIS DUMB? or are you THIS UNCARING?” Does he GENUINELY think this a nice idea that she will like? Or does he literally 👏 not 👏 give 👏 a 👏 fuck 👏 about her feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:14 PM
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Twitter: Ravocountupsosa Facebook: Bella Jones IG: bellalegba77
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:31 AM
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THIS HAPPENS TO ME! I have PTSD from being date raped and sexually assaulted multiple times. My PTSD is triggered by boundary crossing. I get panic attacks, I shut down, or I get extreme rage specifically when a boundary that I have clearly set is violated. I feel like it’s my subconscious trying to protect me. Another similar thing: I used to cry a lot as well when my abusive ex would treat me poorly. He acted like me crying was a huge inconvenience for him because he should be able to treat me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:21 PM
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It’s not even a good joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:03 PM
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You’ve honestly done such a great job at such a young age. I definitely wish I had learned all of these lessons 10 years ago. Very proud of you—you have such a head start in life taking no shits from men at the age of 20/21!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:53 AM
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I want someone to tell her, “You did not coin that phrase.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:24 AM
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“A date is an event, at a place and time. Don’t block off time on your calendar until you have all 3,” This is perfect! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:11 PM
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What??? “5. Hook up with your best friend. It will only bring you closer. It might even end in love, and if it doesn't, it will create an awkward sexual tension between the two of you that will make your lives more multifaceted and interesting.” Edited to ask: Maybe it’s satire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:13 PM
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HELLLLL YES! Nothing can excuse the way he treated you. So proud of you for standing up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:57 AM
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holy shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:31 AM
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😂 Honestly this man is so disgusting, he’d probably like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:13 AM
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I used to believe this trope about men aging better than women. I’m discovering it’s horse shit. I was recently looking at a bunch of facebook profiles of people I went to high school with and genuinely the women looked so much better than the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:11 AM
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This is what I commented to her: NTA It’s good to have standards. Imagine this. On your first date, what would you have done if he had warned you, “When we move in together you’re going to beg me to pee into a mason jar and pour it out and wash it every morning instead of peeing into a water glass and leaving it out all day”? You would have stood up and walked out the door. I don’t know if this is more Foot-in-the-door technique or Sunk Cost Fallacy but you do not need to live this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:24 PM
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RIGHT???? The rest isn’t even necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:23 PM
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And can you believe she actually had to write that post instead of knowing OF COURSE SHE ISN’T THE ASSHOLE!!! hopefully it’s fake. Fingers crossed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:21 PM
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No the comments that I saw have been great!!! Like, “Ew why are you with this guy??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:53 PM
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Hell yes I can. I don’t want a man to take me out on a nice date because I can’t afford to go to a nice place without him. How do these people not understand mating rituals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:47 AM
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Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️ I love how supportive women are of each other in here. So glad to hear about your journey as well! Sounds like you have discovered so much about yourself as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:08 AM
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Thank you so much ❤️ To be fair, with most of my BDSM relationships before this one guy, the BDSM did stay in the bedroom. At the time they were exactly what I wanted. Now with distance I can see that it was unhealthy. It was a form of self harm... just using another person as the tool of choice. It’s hard to explain but I hope that makes sense. I really used to crave it. I reached a turning point in my mental health and I suddenly lost all of my masochist tendencies and cravings—I still have on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:53 AM
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She’s also working from home!!! It’s not like she was furloughed and is at home all day with no responsibilities besides household duties. She’s literally working a full time job just like him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:12 PM
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Yeah people are roasting him. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:19 PM
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The entitled/innocent way he says this enrages me. He’s saying this as though he’s always the one that cooks, so just for once in his life, he would like her to return the favor. Since in reality she does this for him ALL THE TIME, sometimes three times a day, what he is really saying is, “All I want is for her to cook a homemade meal, just for me, EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. All I want is for her to not even take one night off if she is too tired, or even god forbid, just doesn’t feel like cooking.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:18 PM
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This is something I personally need to watch out for myself. I looove cooking, and I even enjoy cleaning beautiful, newly renovated apartments. If I’m in the right mood it can feel like I’m doing one of my hobbies. I also love buying gifts for people. My ex saw this and milked it for all it was worth. Thank god I strongly feel an aversion to living with other people, getting married, and having kids. Otherwise I would have married that leach and been his house slave. He was trying to groom me fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:04 PM
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I don’t understand his point? How can helping out for a day prove anything other than you know how to carry your weight, so you have no excuse not to? Unless he means that she saw that these were things he is doing already every day? Regardless, if she never complained after it’s probably because she realized having to nag him to pull his weight is as hard as doing it herself. Not because he “proved her wrong.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:49 PM
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this made me actually laugh out loud 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:33 AM
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Seriously. Sounds like she loves to cook and he just took all her future joy of cooking away as long as he’s around . He just made it glaringly obvious that he quite LITERALLY views her as a servant, and that she is filling his bare minimum requirements by slaving away for him. She’d have a lot more fun just cooking for herself and her friends in the future. Or better yet, watching her man cook for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:24 AM
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ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:17 AM
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I’m sure the average person with hooks for hands is much more capable of taking care of themselves than this entitled leach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:12 AM
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Seriously. He is such a fool. Instead of thanking his lucky stars that she had gotten into the habit of cooking all the time, he confronts her and asks for an explanation the first time she’s too tired?! His line about her not standing up for herself really kills me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:01 AM
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Seriously. She needs to dump his entitled whiney ass YESTERDAY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:32 AM
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Thaaaaank you. Came here to say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:15 AM
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Great because I personally think the crazy thing to do is screaming at someone and throwing a hissy fit. If someone wants to cause a public scene by throwing a DRINK in my face I’m not going to take the bait. Feel free to have as many crazy public scenes as you like, that’s not how I comport myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:15 PM
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Sorry but you just can’t go around splashing people with drinks. There are consequences to heinous behavior. That’s actually what this subreddit is all about 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:35 PM
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Sorry but you just can’t go around splashing people with drinks. There are consequences to heinous behavior. That’s actually what this subreddit is all about 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:35 PM
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Honestly if someone poured their drink over me TWICE I would be livid as fuck. What would I do with that anger? Call the police because it’s assault to pour your drink one someone (I think?? correct me if I’m wrong) because I’m just that petty. I would never take that anger and attack someone violently. Also... he needs to learn what “defending myself” means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:25 PM
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Wow this is so spot on. It reminds me of how reddit thinks that FDS is a subreddit devoted to like... trying to catch men and steal their money. When in reality it’s a support group where we help each other stay away from men 😂 Block, delete, dump, never again speak to LVM who treat you like shit. You don’t see women on here talking about turning men into household slaves, sex slaves, or punching bags in the bedroom. Unfortunately this is how my ex showed his hatred for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:41 AM
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What the fuck! What a horrible post. It isn’t even funny, which is the worst sin of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:31 AM
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Awesome, thank you! I totally should do that! Yeah I think being truly solitary is not the most common thing so a lot of people don’t really understand it. I 👏 do 👏 not 👏 get lonely. Even during this pandemic, during the three month period when I was home from work and unable to see the guy I was dating (he has since been dumped and blocked 😂)... There were a grand total of two evenings were I was really missing people. I’m basically my own favorite person. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:13 AM
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I’m in my early 30’s and as an adult have never wanted to get married. There’s no reason for me to do so for many reasons. 1) I’m a solitary person and prefer to live alone... forever. I’ve never wanted to live with a partner. 2) I’ve never wanted children. 3) I love the idea of finding a lifetime partner that is like me. Someone that would be willing to live right near me instead of with me. Possibly in the same apartment building, or in a duplex. 4) I’m asexual. I’m not aromantic, so I do fall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:33 PM
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This is actually horrifyingly insidious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:04 PM
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Holy shit, this man sounds abusive AF. Also, what if a fit, submissive PickMe with her own source of income and minivan wants to raise this man’s kids for him but she is 5’6” or god forbid 5’10” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:53 AM
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Seriously what a fucking asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:29 AM
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human garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:11 AM
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WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:40 AM
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FDS is not about getting hot fuckboys to beg for you. It’s about noticing the red flags that OP saw and ignored, and kicking the idiot holding those red flags to the curb. She knew was a fuckboy and still kept talking to him, fucking him, waiting 30+ minutes for him, before letting him into her home to reject him? Fuck that, block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:08 PM
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But you know the difference between someone with BO and someone with stale, almost rotten BO that has almost a hint of rotten garbage? That only happens when someone hasn’t bathed or washed their clothes in a very long time. That’s what this was, not like he had worked out and hadn’t showered after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:46 PM
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This is horrible... wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:22 PM
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Once I went out with a gorgeous man from internet. He was just as tall and handsome as his pictures but he showed up in LITERALLY a stinky sweat shirt and sweatpants. He SMELLED! LITERALLY STANK!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:11 PM
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ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:29 PM
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👏YES 👏 Once I googled a man and there were several articles about him being a dirty cop 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:26 PM
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Prioritize your healing and happiness. Shop for therapists until you find the perfect one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:14 PM
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OMG do we have the same ex? Eerie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:02 PM
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It depresses me that this man will probably never see a day of jail time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:08 AM
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Came here to say this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:08 AM
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That wasn’t the purpose of the subreddit at all. It was a fan page for the streamer. I don’t know anything about streamers but I don’t think it’s a porn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:32 PM
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what’s your point 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:10 PM
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VeeFroggy is a streamer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:44 PM
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He doubles down, asking for people to post sexual thoughts about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:28 PM
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Wow, thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:55 AM
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Which one grandma??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:49 PM
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Ah no, what you’re saying is 100% correct. There is absolutely NO difference in the concept of agreeing to a date with a stranger (who is outside of all of your communities or social circles) no matter where you meet them—OLD, a bar, the farmers’ market, or a museum. The reason I dumped OLD is because I was investing WAY too much time and energy with it. Instead of hanging out with my friends I was going on 1 or 2 dates a week. it was too tempting not to when you had good looking men looking for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:33 PM
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I agree. I was on okcupid for about 10 years but left it behind around 3 or 4 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:23 PM
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Honestly I disagree. I don’t like when men bring up sex on OLD, it just feels ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:58 AM
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All 5 Planet of the Apes movies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:15 AM
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Years ago I would have argued with this. Then I met my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:11 PM
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“He said this happens to all men and it’s normal,” Excuse me... what??? He thinks all men stink “like a dirty toilet” and leave poo stains everywhere?? This is one time where the hashtag #NotAllMen is actually very appropriate 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:16 PM
5

DUMP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:20 PM
10

Wow you summed up my exact experience very well. Thank you for putting this into words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:32 PM
1

I am a lurker, I’ve never actually posted in FDS before. Take it from a woman in her 30’s who thought exactly what you just said in her 20’s. I ended up ignoring alarm bells and frequently getting pressured into doing more than I wanted to do sexually, or straight up assaulted or date raped multiple times. Now I have PTSD and no longer have the choice to ignore these alarm bells because I get panic attacks in place of these small alarm bells. My psychiatrist and I view it as my body’s way of pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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