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LIES MEN TELLGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:23 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:38 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:46 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:34 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:33 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:39 AM
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PICKME CULTUREGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:28 PM
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#JustLVMThingsGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:45 PM
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SCROTES MADGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:05 PM
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NAH, SISGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:14 AM
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LibFem LogicGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:36 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:18 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:47 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:57 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:23 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨GrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:57 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:11 PM
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PICKME CULTUREGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:17 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:54 PM
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RANTGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:52 PM
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GrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/askFDS28/05/21 02:25 PM
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LIES MEN TELLGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:45 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:35 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:41 PM
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LibFem LogicGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:45 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:34 PM
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NAH, SISGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:40 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:39 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:25 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:26 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYGrapeJuiceEnthusiast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:27 PM
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"Treat others how you want to be treated" only applies to people and as well all know, women aren't people, silly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:53 AM
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And the worst part is that the scrotes who fall for these scams are too stupid to realise the PUAs are giving them shitty advice. Nope, I guarantee they just blame women even more with every rejection and become more hateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:46 AM
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If you manage to find the thread you'll see that women disagreeing with the hivemind are being called bitches and OP isn't disagreeing with the use of that word. I'm not surprised that she's only white knighting for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:27 AM
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I've definitely seen men referring to the need to "train" women (see the entirety of the Red Pill). It's interesting how when men want to train women, it's usually to do something that selfishly benefits only them. "How do I train her to do anal?" or "How do I train her to accept me flirting with other women?" Meanwhile women are like "How do I train him to wipe his ass after he takes a shit?" or "How do I train him to help out with the baby?" If women are constantly trying to train their boyfri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:25 AM
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Yeah you're right. I thought I would mention it cuz I know some commenters were mentioning FDS in the comments saying "omg those FDS bitches enjoy emotionally abusing men!!!" and I don't want to give them any more reasons because I genuinely agree with the sentiment of the post. Not that my comment above will change their minds of course. Whatever we say, they won't be happy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:22 AM
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I've definitely heard it. However, it's not a widespread phenomenon like the pick me makes it out to me. 99.99% of the time it's older women trapped in unhappy marriages that make comments like that. Unless OP is 50 years old, I really doubt she's seeing comments like that on a regular basis. And even if she is, who fucking cares? Yeah, they're annoying, but nowhere near as bad as what men say about us. I see at least one misogynistic comment per day such as referring to women as "dishwashers" o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:18 AM
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This is hilarious. There's definitely a tendency for some men on the internet to make unsolicited comments on women's appearances. I actually made a post about this on FDS a while ago (check my post history) about how it's disgusting how men on Reddit think it's ok to just casually rate women in the comments of their pictures. I know that an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind, but sometimes I think if we do it back to them they might finally realise how shitty it feels and they'll fuckin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:16 AM
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I think it's more of a "boomer" thing. One of the comments linked to some books about how to "train your man". I'm Gen Z and I've never heard any woman talk like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:09 AM
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There are far too many for me to share. It will take too long. I know I can't share the subreddit name but if you type in the exact title of her post into Google you'll find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:47 PM
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Lol I'm not even joking, one of the comments was a man saying "Women and men just have different standards of cleanliness. While socks on the floor might be messy to you, to him he probably feels proud of how clean it is!" and she replied like "Oh I should have considered that. Thanks I'll keep that in mind! 😁" She's probably cleaning up after him as we speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:32 PM
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Very true. If you are ever at the point where you legitimately feel the need to "train" your partner, for your own sake as well as his, just end the goddamn relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:27 PM
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And before the male trolls and lurkers start commenting: obviously I agree that you should not be treating other human beings as dogs. Plus, "training" men to actually do the chores or take care of the kids or whatever is a waste of time because they should be doing it anyway! So I agree with the sentiment of this post. But this woman is obviously looking for validation by posting something so glaringly obvious. This post seriously made me roll my eyes at how popular of an opinion it is. And des…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:21 PM
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We need guns but for women only. I see absolutely no reason why men should have guns. Women are more likely to use them just for self defence. Of course we'd still have background checks to ensure a female ex violent murderer doesn't get hold of a gun but female violence is so rare that we don't have to worry about such a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:39 AM
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I didn't bother reading it. At least most scrotes have the courtesy to keep their testerical rants to 3 or 4 lines but this brainlet thought we want to read an entire paragraph of his bullshit? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:37 AM
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That sounds amazing. If you have the time could you DM me the name of the group please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:36 AM
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Yep I was thinking of doing the same to group photos of males posted on Reddit just to make a point but I don't think I could do it. It's just so objectifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:47 PM
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This is so trashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:31 PM
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Very true. All my female friends and I who game have other hobbies. I personally game a maximum of 2 hours a day and that's only after I've completed all my dissertation research/writing for the day, housework, other responsibilities, read my book and drawn in my sketchbook. I know so many dudes who have gaming as their only hobby and it's really pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:18 PM
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Men are always going on about how women are too weak and incompetent yet want to draft us... Make it make sense. Anyway, I don't see why we should be punished for wars that men cause. War is caused by male aggression and ego. Women as a whole are peaceful and don't enjoy violence so again, why should we get involved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:14 PM
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I've got a feeling this is a fake post because it has all the fake AITA post tropes (OP obviously being the most reasonable person, entire family is mad at them for no reason and blows their phone up with messages etc) buuuut we have all seen real scenarios with selfish men expecting their minimum wage earning girlfriends to pay 50/50 while they earn a 3 figure salary. Imagine seeing someone you're supposed to love struggling financially and just throwing your hands up and saying "Welp nothing w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:07 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:15 AM
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Sex drives everything they do. It's so pathetic. It must be so sad being constantly ruled by your genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:34 AM
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I definitely think it's a form of emotional cheating, maybe not quite as bad as physical cheating but if you're wanking to photos of your girlfriend's friends you're definitely not loyal, that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:03 PM
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Well you'll be horrified to hear that that is exactly what happened and the boyfriend said he'd break up with her if she fantasised about his friends 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:59 PM
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I'll PM her the link but I already messaged her before begging her to ignore the gaslighting and she didn't reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:23 PM
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Logic is not men's strongest point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:20 PM
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I can already imagine the replies if the genders were reversed and it was a man posting about his girlfriend masturbating to his 6'2 kind, attractive friend with chiselled abs: "You need to leave the thot, king. Bros before hoes." 1,000 upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:53 PM
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It's either "not all men" or "all men" depending on if the situation suits them. Man accused of rape? "Not all men!!!' Man is creepily possessive of his property - sorry I mean daughter and doesn't want her to date? "All men!!!" Man doesn't want to give up his creepy porn/masturbation habits? "All men, it's not just me doing it!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:47 PM
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"Well he actually told me if he found out I did the same [referring to her masturbating to his friend] he would break up with me. So I don’t think he could handle me doing that or anything even remotely close." You just can't make this shit up. I'm done commenting on the original thread, I've angered a lot of scrotes and reading their LVM coomer replies is lowering my IQ. I hope the OP will read my comments and realise she doesn't have to stay in that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:32 PM
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Very true. Men will never stop acting this way so it's up to us to stop giving any men who act inappropriately our time of day. That is why men are so terrified and hateful of FDS. They don't like it when a group of women decide that they won't be putting up with this shitty behaviour anymore and that their standards will be high from now on. They know that the more women do this, the lower their chances of getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:28 PM
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I saw only one man in the comments be honest enough to say he'd feel uncomfortable if his girlfriend masturbated to his friend and for that reason he was on OP's side. ONE MAN. The rest are lying and would definitely flip out if it was reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:03 PM
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Exactly. Don't sacrifice your mental well-being just because "every man does it". Just leave. It's not worth staying in an unhappy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:53 PM
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But if a woman calls a man a scrote all of a sudden it's not dark humour, it's misandry!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:47 AM
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The only time I was on Tinder I was 19 and had just gone through a massive break up. I was slightly overweight due to anti depressants and I had a bad haircut because my hairdresser screwed up (lol tragic). I hate numbers ratings but at most I was maybe a 5 out of 10. And yet when I decided to subscribe to tinder to see how many swipes I had gotten it was somehow in the hundreds within a few hours. Can't remember what exact number but over 500 and it just kept increasing. Like wtf. I'm no Megan …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:39 AM
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This is the time to focus on yourself and your friends and family. Break ups suck but at least now you're free from the trash. Welcome!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:26 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of the mental health impact Reddit has had on you. Thank you for all you've done for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:25 PM
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Hmm now that you say it the red hearts are suspicious. I really hope these posts are fake for the sake of the woman in the story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:53 PM
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This is the 4th relationship advice post I've seen today that has made me question if males are even human at this point. I don't understand how male abuse of their wives, girlfriends etc is so common that there's several posts a day. It's just disgusting. So upsetting. It's so rare for women to do stuff like this isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:20 PM
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She is definitely beyond help. Asks for advice but ignores literally every single comment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:30 AM
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Lol of course the person who commented that was a male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:29 AM
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I don't want to be mean but how do women nowadays have so little self-respect that they just put up with this? The moment he asked her to get a completely unnecessary surgery is when she should have left him. She really needs therapy if she thinks she should be putting up with this behaviour from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:28 AM
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Yeah it sucks. Until men start seeing women like human beings I don't think straight men can be friends with straight women. Women on the other hand are definitely capable of being friends with men. But to them all we are is potential sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:20 AM
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If you're annoyed about women getting excess attention stop giving us excess attention 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:48 PM
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Feminist: "there's a sexual violence epidemic against women and I think that we need to stop it and -" Male: "WELL AKSHULLY SHUT UP BECAUSE APPARENTLY MEN EXPERIENCE SEXUAL VIOLENCE AT HIGHER RATES THEREFORE WE ARE MORE OPPRESSED." Okay but who do you think is committing that sexual violence against men? Cuz it's not women doing it. This isn't the "checkmate feminist" you think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:47 PM
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The only sex workers I'm excluding are the ones who seem to take pride in helping men to cheat on their wives. I've even seem some "bragging" about how people who criticise SW are ugly and are jealous sex workers are "desirable". I wish I was joking but I have seen sex workers brag about this stuff on Twitter and they do not have my sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:26 PM
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Wtf? Why can't we do both? Teach men not to rape but until they get the idea through their thick skulls that it's not ok to rape we should encourage women to learn to defend themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:34 PM
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My stance is like this. I do highly encourage women to take steps to keep themselves safe but if something happens to them and they were let's say drunk or dressed provocatively it is not their fault and they still deserve our support. Because at the end of the day we have human rights and it's not legal to assault someone just because someone was drunk or showing a bit of skin. It's so depressing we have to take so many steps just because men act like animals. But like I said if any libfems are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:30 PM
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Oof. Yeah this is why I don't have male friends these days. Can't trust them. I'm so glad you removed that creep from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:08 PM
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Yeah this is some extreme attention seeking right there. Dude you're meant to be the logical and smart gender. Be smart and do a Google search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:47 AM
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The fact they think because they have no dignity and don't mind millions of people seeing their gross dick pics therefore women should be ok with having their nudes leaked is even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:43 AM
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TRUE. I am yet to see any FDSer, libfem or radfem to say violent stuff about men like they say about women. Or threaten death/murder. Anti-porn women have to deal with daily harassment and being sent violent porn footage yet I've never seen a woman go on MGTOW and share porn of a man being r*ped. Like even if a woman hates a man so what? We don't want to take men's rights away we don't want them to be hurt. Literally all we want is for them to stop their violence and stop their hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:05 AM
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Men be out there committing like 99% of violence and atrocities like human trafficking, pedophilia etc and then act like surprised Pikachu when women decide they've had enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:03 AM
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A lot of men literally see women as subhuman and they have the audacity to get mad now there's backlash from women. Obviously I don't hate every single man but I hate men AS A GROUP and I am wary of them until I get to know them better. And even then I'm still wary due to how many male psychopaths are out there. They pretend to be good men but they're really not deep down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:02 AM
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No idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:50 PM
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When I was 17 I had a pregnancy scare and there was a young people's sexual health clinic in my town that could do pregnancy testing for free. And while I was there they threw in some free std testing. The doctor was asking me about my sexual history including multiple questions about my boyfriend at the time and whether he had any male partners in the past. She said it was because men who have sex with men are at higher risk of STDs and therefore she needed to know because therefore it would pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:56 AM
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What did the comments say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:22 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 Ladies this is the supposedly "logical" gender. Wow I can't believe treating someone with self-esteem like shit will cause her to leave you. I'm shocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:20 PM
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I usually agree with 99% of the advice posted here but tbh I feel like "he sent me 3 messages in a row" has got to be the most arbitrary reason to block and delete a guy. Fair enough if that's your standard but how is this objectively a red flag? Or objective advice that women should be following? Edit: I should probably say it does depend on the content of the messages. If he keeps spamming you with "wyd ;)" then yeah yikes. But if he's talking about something interesting and he's split it up i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:57 PM
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RIP - he truly was a good and talented man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:22 PM
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There's a reason why The Mummy is my favourite film 😍 (also my bisexual ass thinks Rachel Weisz is stunningly beautiful)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:05 PM
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Not to take away from your experience but to be fair men themselves probably make it more difficult to form emotional connections with them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:04 PM
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I think a lot of males find it emasculating to clean, cook and just be hygienic as well. That's why you rarely see women living in absolute dumps, meanwhile scrotes like Shane Dawson are ok with having bottles of piss lying around their room (I wish I was joking). They literally think it's a woman's job to do that stuff so if they don't find a pick me to act as a maid in their relationship they'd rather live like a hobo than actually clean up a bit.
/r/askFDS04/06/21 05:02 PM
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I mean same (apparently) but I'm not saying it applies to INTP/INTJ women, just the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:01 PM
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Idk if this is how he dresses normally or if it's just for the photoshoots but I love his style. Very classy. It's really attractive when a man is stylish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:33 PM
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They scare me so much because imo males don't even want kids because they genuinely want to be parents and want to raise a kid and love a kid. They just want kids for stupid reasons like "To PaSs On My LeGaCy". Which makes it so much worse. Like you're really doing this to your wife so she has a kid you'll probably interact with once a month? Ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:24 PM
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I wasn't surprised to see males joking about it in the comments section as well. One male said all the people giving advice were "fat feminists".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:22 PM
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Because MBTI requires someone to answer question it offers you an insight into how they view themselves. It can definitely be useful for that reason. I think astrology objectively is not accurate because it just goes off your birth date however it can be really fun for people so I say let them enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:12 AM
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I actually do want to see a man's MBTI. Ladies, stay away from men who think they're INTP/INTJ. They're obsessed with seeming logical (we all know men who think they are logical are actually emotional but they're misogynists so they think everything a man does is SmArT and RaTiOnAL) and act like emotionally stunted pieces of sh*t because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:04 AM
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Very true - I didn't think of that. It just makes it so much more horrific. He sounds like a psycho if he makes fun of people when they've clearly experienced extreme pain and fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:04 AM
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And then they wonder why courts don't give them custody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:00 AM
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This is why I'm never having children. If I had a girl I'd have to worry about the scrotes she'd grow up to date. If I had a boy I'd have to constantly dread the day he turns into a scrote. Even if you try to raise them to be decent they'd become misogynistic just by hanging around other boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:09 AM
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I really doubt it, if you go on TikTok it seems 90% of the gen Z girls on there are into kink and support sex work. If you say anything against that they call you a prude and vanilla. I think gen Z is doomed tbh. Gen Z males are the most misogynistic generation yet and gen Z women and girls the most brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:35 PM
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Yikes. It's subtle indoctrinating stuff like this that's most dangerous to our young women and girls. It attempts to normalise prostitution and turn it into something light hearted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:20 PM
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Pretty sure it's satire. I love Always Sunny. The men on the show are all LV but it encourages you to laugh at them for their lack of value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:23 AM
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I mean even if he's not cheating (doubt it) he is still very disrespectful. Have some self respect, woman. What are you doing grovelling to a man who disrespects you like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:26 AM
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This is very interesting. I always noticed this but it's nice to see research backing it up. Males bond over the degradation of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:36 PM
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Yet if we say men are trash because they cheat there's uproar. Even though they admit to it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:49 AM
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They always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:19 PM
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Now the challenge is to find a woman who isn't libfem. It's hard enough meeting WLW as of course most people are hetero, but it will be even more difficult to find a woman who is bi/lesbian AND is kink critical, porn critical etc. Sad times.
/r/askFDS28/05/21 03:53 PM
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I've never been with a woman either. But to be fair I've only been with two males romantically/sexually and I'm 21 so I've got many years ahead of me to figure out if I really am bisexual (which I definitely think I am but I still kind of think I won't know for sure unless I date a woman. I wasn't even sure I completely liked males until I dated one. I thought I was asexual before that lol) I think I'm kind of similar. Like I often find males initially attractive and as we all know if they're po…
/r/askFDS28/05/21 03:14 PM
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I'll check out that subreddit and also febfem. Thanks for sharing them. I'm so glad there are women in similar positions. I really wish I didn't feel like this because obviously there are males who aren't degenerates out there. It is probably statistically impossible for them ALL to be awful so of course there's HVM out there who enjoy normal healthy sex. But at this point I just feel like porn has ruined my perception of all male sexuality and I can no longer be bothered to go through the effor…
/r/askFDS28/05/21 02:49 PM
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My problem is even the idea of having sex with women feels wrong to me because of porn etc. Which I know is illogical because women don't do the shit males do and I don't need to worry about the woman I'm dating being a violent porn addict.. but it's almost like male sexuality on the internet has just put me off ALL sex. Kind of like trauma to some extent, I don't know.
/r/askFDS28/05/21 02:31 PM
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I used to like anime because I think the style of animation is beautiful but I quickly went off it because I realised 99% of anime has gross sexualisation in it. I like a few anime that I rewatch but I find myself never starting any new shows because I know they'll probably contain the sexualisation of little girls to some extent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:15 PM
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Disgusting. This is why I will never support or endorse cosmetic surgery. The whole industry is disgusting sleazy men profitting off women's insecurities. Is this who you really want to give your money to ladies? The solution is to love yourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:56 AM
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Jesus Christ the folders. Must be so exhausting constantly thinking about sex. Males really are ruled by their genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:00 AM
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I'm an older gen Z (21 almost 22). What I don't get most about my female peers is how they'll casually say stuff like "omg men are trash" and then they'll go home and watch misogynistic rape porn and go on about how empowering it is that their boyfriends choke them. cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:21 PM
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It's not discriminatory to have a sex preference when dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:44 PM
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I think a lot of women (especially my age - Gen Z) are very naive to the true nature of men. Many of them are pure evil. They seem nice on the outside but they let their guards down when they have anonymity. That's why every male on the internet is a scumbag and posts awful shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:16 AM
20

Scrote: "Hey beautiful how are you?" Woman: doesn't respond Scrote 2 minutes after his initial message: "Fuck you you dumb slut you're ugly anyway!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:11 AM
9

Notice how they don't regret the Red Pill due to the damage they caused to their ex girlfriends. Nope it's all about them. Me me me. Men are 🗑️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:08 AM
5

Those who are not emotionally mature enough to dedicate themselves to one partner can all fuck each other. But they should leave the rest of us alone and stop shaming us for our perfectly normal boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:09 PM
3

This is why I will always be against women getting plastic surgery. Why are you spending £10k to get your boobs (which are already perfectly fine - small boobs are not less feminine or less beautiful!!!) done for the satisfaction of some gross slimy males? When you could actually spend that money on improving YOURSELF and your experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:44 PM
7

Fucking hell are scrotes even human beings at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:34 PM
15

This is EXTREMELY naive. The police is majority male and won't give a shit if you've been raped. A lot of victims say that the process of reporting their rape feels like a "second rape" due to how awful it is with the police treating them like some sort of liar. Please do some research before shaming women for not wanting to report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:33 PM
55

I think even if the Wall did exist for women it's still okay because many women give birth multiple times and it's not fun for the body to go through. Or they age due to the stress of having to tend to scrote manbaby husbands. What excuse do males have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:14 AM
36

My God if a man published a video saying he won't take a woman on a date if she won't agree to go skydiving with him I just move on with my bloody life because those are his standards and if I can't meet them then so what??? Males really need to get over themselves. This woman is allowed to have standards and if you don't meet them just walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:25 AM
99

They're always whining that nobody ever gives them compliments but then make fun of women for giving them compliments. Male logic. It just doesn't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:20 AM
464

Yep. This is why on Reddit they have subreddits where they rate women like Scarlett Johansson a 6 out of 10 (which they view as average) even though she is stunning. It's so when non-celebrity women see those ratings they think "well if Scarlett Johansson is average then I must be revolting" and their self esteem and confidence goes down. When you're feeling less confident NVM feel like they can neg you into dating their ugly asses. DON'T FALL FOR IT LADIES. These are classic LVM Red Pill tactic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:17 PM
48

I saw a post on relationship advice yesterday where a woman was complaining that her boyfriend (who either used to or currently has a porn addiction - can't remember which) said that loving sex felt gay and he preferred it when they just "fucked". What. The. Fuck. Fellas is it gay to be affectionate with your girlfriend? Thankfully the comments all told her to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:53 AM
18

Men shouldn't be allowed to hold positions of power if they're animals, then. Somehow women know not to act like savages... I hope this woman will get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:33 AM
407

Yes this subreddit is definitely more toxic than the Red Pill where they share tips and tricks on how to rape women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:20 PM
203

Oh definitely. You can feel the saltiness in every single response. They're so mad she wouldn't even look at them if they were to meet irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:30 PM
119

And then they shame us and call us sluts if we have no standards. This woman obviously isn't going to sleep with just any dude. She's vetting for HVM. But nope, that makes her a bitch apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:26 PM
527

The comments are full of scrotes trying to cope by saying she's "ugly" or a "bitch" and that they wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. Lmao we all know these virgins on Reddit would all cream their pants if they saw this woman. She is attractive. Typical males, bringing down a woman's looks when she makes a valid point that they don't like. Edit: Also I went through the comments and there must be HUNDREDS calling her a "bitch". Like jeez, men are trash. It's shocking. If someone has standards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:07 PM
37

She's like 12 years old in the books though :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:39 PM
11

What? Sis is the man in the image personally harassing you because I don't get it. If a man is a NVM and harassing you expecting you to have sex with him despite looking like a troll then yeah feel free to roast him but my point still stands that it's fucked up we've now resorted to doing what men do. I remember a while ago women on FDS were against all those scrote subreddits where they rate pictures of women and they'd always score them as way more unattractive than they actually are for stupi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:31 PM
15

Umm yeah, you're allowed to have preferences. Feel free not to date men with pointy noses if that's what you find unattractive. We should never settle and we should always go for what we find hot. But I don't see how stooping down to men's level is going to help? When I think of why I'm proud to be a woman I always like the fact that our gender is able to find men sexually attractive without objectifying them or degrading them. And if we find a man unattractive we don't broadcast it or try to de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:22 PM
18

What has happened to this subreddit? Can we not be like men criticising every single feature like the person is some sort of object...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:16 PM
10

Men who have to pay women for sex are usually absolutely repulsive and have no attractive or redeeming qualities. And yet sex work twitter is really out here bragging how they have to suck those smegma infested penises so they can pay the bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:45 PM
17

All women who are against porn need to collectively start shaming any scrote who watches it. The idea of a man watching porn is so disgusting and unattractive to me. How much of a loser do you have to be to masturbate to videos of people having sex (usually not sex, more like rape) like some sort of creepy voyeur? So fucking disgusting. Men's worst fear is women laughing at them. If we point and shame they'll stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:21 PM
68

The misogyny is jumping out in every tweet. I'm at the point where I no longer feel sorry at all for willing sex workers. They're handmaidens, plain and simple. They know they're misogynistic but don't care because it's all about the money for them. No respect and I won't give two shits when they cry about nobody wanting to hire them in 10 years. I'm gonna save my feminism for women who aren't pick mes and handmaidens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:14 PM
3

I play League of Legends and my god I often wish only women were allowed to play that game. The male players are so childish, petty and angry. They can never take responsibility for their mistakes in game and take it out on other people. I also don't get why they get so angry over a game. I want to rank up like everyone else but at the end of the day IT IS JUST A GAME - don't get so mad just because you're losing. Toxic male gamers need to grow up and seek some therapy and anger management.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:05 AM
6

Wow fuck this woman. She is literally producing CP. THIS is the type of "sex worker" we're talking about when we say they're setting women back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:44 AM
29

There are definitely some women who genuinely enjoy casual no strings attached sex with many men but the problem is that liberal feminism tells young women and girls that it's empowering to put up with shitty sex with bad men. How many of those women who "enjoy" and partake in casual sex are actually orgasming on the regular from their sexual encounters? How many of their casual sex partners actually give a shit about female pleasure? How many of their sexual partners aren't rapey scrotes who wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:40 AM
73

I'm really conflicted. She always made so much effort to hide her body and wear baggy clothes and now she's apparently happy showing everything off? I'm not sure I buy it. I obviously don't know her personally so idk if she was pressured by scrote higher ups but it's a possibility. I just hope she's happy with her decision to take part in the photoshoot and feels comfortable. Maybe she just wanted to experiment with a new style?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:32 AM
18

Ugh reminds me of Nocturnal Animals. It features the main male character's wife and teenage daughter being kidnapped and then raped and murdered, and the film just HAD to show off their naked bodies with blood almost artistically placed on their bare bums and breasts. It felt like it was an image designed for male masturbatory purposes. Fuck that movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:08 PM
-3

I get that but she seemed to suggest anyone who plays games has a pathology. I'm not denying scrotes are wayy too obsessed with games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:41 PM
41

Well we know he used to dress like a bum which implies he probably went around wearing t shirts with ketchup stains on them and jeans with holes in them so he's definitely a 2 at most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:29 PM
135

Yeah imagine not thinking your partner is a 10. Why are you even with them if you don't find them completely attractive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:28 PM
5

I never said I'm attracted to gamers. I don't think 99% of men are capable of being gamers while also having other hobbies, a job, bodily hygiene and being able to keep their house clean. I've literally had one boyfriend who was a gamer but kept his gaming to a healthy 1 or 2 hours a week and that's it, the rest were all complete addicts and I had to dump them. They're just too immature to keep their gaming activity to a normal amount and that's a fact. I just think it's harmful to imply like yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:13 PM
17

I don't get why you're focusing on him gaming as if that's the red flag here and not the fact he uses an objectifying misogynistic ratings scale to talk about his girlfriend. Of course a lot of scrotes and LVM are game addicts but many women (and some men) can play video games without becoming addicted. There's no indication in her post that he's a game addict so why focus on that as if THAT'S what's wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:43 PM
3

Foreskins?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:14 PM
13

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:30 AM
33

Why are males like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:26 AM
7

In my experience they just start spewing racial slurs and swearing at you 🤣 But the faux intellectualism is annoying as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:11 PM
102

Thankfully almost every single comment is telling her to dump him although I wouldn't be surprised if those commenters are all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:46 PM
393

"I don't want to seem toxic" - no it's not toxic to have these very normal boundaries. I hate how libfems have made it so if you're uncomfortable with your partner fucking other women you're a "crazy insecure girlfriend". I've seen a libfem shame a woman who was uncomfortable with her LVM subscribing to the OnlyFans of a woman in their friend group and the lib fem told her to stop being so "insecure" because "maybe he was subscribed to support a sex worker's small business." (Pretty sure I poste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:44 AM
10

There were about 50 men. So 50 fucking men just left the classroom and did nothing. 50 men is absolutely enough to run at the gunman and tackle him down. Protectors my ass 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:52 PM
35

Exactly. Men on Reddit aren't some mythical creatures. They're ordinary men: the ones we have to interact with in our day to day lives. They're our brothers, fathers, sons, coworkers, doctors, teachers, bosses etc. That's why it's so scary. 90% of them are like this and Reddit is such trash because it allows them to anonymously voice what they've always believed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:21 PM
2

A scrote with the words "following r*tards" in the name of his account started following me after this post and his comment history includes comments trolling FDS. He is too stupid to realise all he has done is prove my point 😂😂😂 Male logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:05 PM
1

Fucking disgusting. Is there any way we can report that post? Maybe the authorities could get his IP address idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:46 PM
1

Oh god in that case that's absolutely terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:45 PM
3

Women are just as bad as men though /s Clearly not as no woman has ever been this deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:40 PM
5

I feel like this is fake. How is he so easily getting into her house unless she just leaves the door unlocked during work? Fake or not though this is disgusting. If it's just a piece of creative writing then shame on him for being so gross. If it's real then I hope he gets jailed. Porn has clearly destroyed his brain either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:36 PM
10

He's inserted food into his mouth thousands of times so what's the difference if it's a gay man's penis? No big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:15 PM
7

Is it a male child? Then it's bad. Female child? Then it's fine to r*pe... it sounds gross but I bet they genuinely believe that as well 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:14 PM
2

The ironic part is the only people I see online who resort to insults and rage swearing in arguments are men, usually 15 year old boys but a lot of the time grown ass men, but we're the angry ones 😂 @ male lurkers: just because you disagree with a woman or she said something you don't personally like doesn't mean she's CrAzY or AuTiStiC. She starts threatening violence or using slurs? Maybe then there's something wrong with her but I very rarely see women doing that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:11 PM
10

Male logic lmao. This post is evidence their brains have been rotted by porn. Not only is it misogynistic but also incorrect and makes no logical sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:03 PM
17

Well you see men are actually human beings so it's wrong to degrade them but women aren't so who cares if they said no /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:02 PM
37

Would love to see how the scrote who wrote this would react to being raped by a big burly gay man. He's not a spoiled aristocrat princess so he should be fine with it right? ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:55 PM
11

Lol only 1% of men are rapists 😂 it's AT LEAST 50%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:27 PM
15

Twitter as well and anywhere else where they can post anonymously. I've decided to just stop engaging with males online as most of them can't say anything of value. Of course there are males who can have respectful conversations but the vast majority will just use slurs/insults or go through your account to find something to insult you on, be it your selfies, mix tape, art etc. There's just no point even trying to debate them as most of them seem to be so inherently hateful, and even if I manage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:13 AM
13

Wow that's so unhinged of you /s Yeah it's just not okay how they do this stuff. Why do they have to make us feel like there's something "wrong" with us simply for having an opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:04 AM
14

Ugh that's horrible. They don't realise how badly it reflects on THEM when they say stuff like that. They really think everybody has no empathy just like them. If they start using ableist insults you can pretty much assume you've won the debate as clearly they can't say anything of value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:03 AM
87

I don't think there's anything wrong with being a manhater. As long as you're not being violent or advocating for violence then it's not hurting men in any way, except their egos of course. Women's hatred of men is very different to their hatred of us. We just want them to leave us alone and stop hurting us. They want to commit violence against us and take away our rights. They're two very different things. And if a man proves himself not to be a misogynist then I'll respect him. But for now I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:01 PM
42

I can't imagine anyone who puts so much effort into having uncomfortable sex has a satisfying sex life. They're lying to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:29 PM
15

Clearly it's because men are oppressed and the evil women hiked up the insurance rates for men /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:01 AM
2

Wtf is this a thing only in the US? I'm in the UK and I wasn't aware this is just legal. Granted I'm only 21 and I don't have much life experience but it's insane to me websites can just publish your name and address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:37 AM
78

Again proving the man who wrote that is the actual fake geek, not women. Real nerds would look at that cosplay and be highly impressed about how much time and effort was put into it because real nerds actually appreciate cosplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:10 PM
33

There's a significant difference between black women calling women karens and men calling women karens, which is what we're criticising it. I've seen them call black and Asian women Karens. It's their way of shutting down any woman they feel is too "uppity" for their liking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:24 PM
194

I wanted to tag this FDS Rescue Mission but she seems too far gone at this point. All of us here know it but I guess the lesson of the day is yet again don't settle for scrotes who watch porn. Jfc I'd be so mad if I found out my entire sex life was based on my man watching other women get fucked on camera. Arguably it's kind of a violation in some way???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:24 PM
13

Men can dish it out but can't take it. That's why they call it "dark humour" when they spout misogyny, racism etc but as soon as someone makes a fucking joke about men (which isn't even harmful because they have all the power) they fucking lose their shit. Like why are you annoyed when I make fun of you all for having small dicks and ED? It's just dark humour, lighten up. So emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:58 PM
13

Lol I dared to suggest this in a supposedly leftist sub one time and got downvoted into oblivion. Men need to accept their gender has a major issue with violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:18 PM
5

Ovarit isn't women only. More men have been joining in the past month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:10 PM
19

Please don't, we'll get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:03 AM
373

Do you remember what he looked like? I know they're not reliable but consider making a police report. Spitting is assault and during a Pandemic he could have infected you with Covid-19!!! This is very serious. I'm sorry that man did that to you and I hope you'll be able to feel safe walking in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:02 PM
64

I saw a thread on StupidPol where a scrote was saying women are irrational for fearing sexual harassment and rape at night, referencing the recent protests in the UK. And said men experience more violence so us silly women need to stop "acting oppressed." Fucking hell. First of all, WHO causes that violence? It's not men. If men wanted to stop violence against men so badly they'd collectively work together to stop it. What are women meant to do about violence against women considering it's men c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:30 PM
6

I wouldn't say Myers Briggs is like astrology. Astrology is pure pseudoscience because how in the hell are there 12 personality types influenced by the planets? At least Myers Briggs takes into account your personality traits although at the end of the day all your personality type shows is what you perceive yourself to be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:14 PM
154

Almost all men, especially on Reddit, do not believe there is a violence against women problem. And if they do believe it they'll find a way to justify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:11 PM
8

Am I missing something? Nothing here particularly screams out to me as LVM writing style. I think y'all just don't want it to be written by a woman because it makes it even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:31 AM
32

Zero Suit Samus is an example of how we can't have nice things. God forbid we have a female character who doesn't exist to just be porn. No, we have to take her out of her cool armour and sexualise her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:24 PM
59

Yandere Dev is trash. He made a game set in a school where you play as a school girl and encourages you to use the camera to look up her skirt at her underwear... I get it's a game based on an anime trope and a lot of anime is trash and sexualises under aged girls but that doesn't mean you have to use that trope as well. He's a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:58 PM
4

I've seen calls for it to become a hate crime but is there an actual bill in Parliament for it? Until there is we're very far off it becoming a reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:25 PM
25

Where is this happening? What country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:09 PM
26

They always tell on themselves. You'd think for a group of people that are supposed to be more rational and logical than us stupid feeeeemaleees they'd try harder to hide how rapey they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:08 PM
29

"OMG WE'RE NOT ALL LIKE THAT!!!' finishes with a threatening sentence implying we should just accept it because men are stronger You're not helping your cause, so-called more logical and rational gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:06 PM
72

It's a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:05 PM
9

This Dominique woman is way beyond a pick me. What she's doing is evil. I hope she's getting the backlash she deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:24 AM
1

Unfortunately the rules state men are allowed to post there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:01 AM
4

Lmao ok on one hand I feel bad for her because obviously it's awful to be a woman and get sexually harassing comments about how you should be spanked but at the same time I have to laugh at how her attempt to be a pick me clearly failed because she's getting abuse. Hopefully this will be a lesson for her. You can try to be one of the boys all you want and shit on women with them and they'll still hate you. I really hope Dominique will see the male feedback she is getting and wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:03 PM
10

I love how so many of us here are married or in committed relationships. I don't really find myself needing a lot of the advice but it's just nice here because everyone is so supportive and I love knowing everyone here is a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:00 PM
23

The police aren't so good themselves. In the US 40% of male cops are domestic abusers. I'm sure it's the same elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:47 PM
1

I get that but if you don't even need to be a feminist to join then what's the point? I made a post there about how straight men aren't their allies and some lib fem sounding woman started lecturing me about how "men have their own problems such as mental health". F*CK off with the sympathy for their problems caused by the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:54 PM
4

There's an FDS website
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:37 PM
6

Personally I'm not a fan of Ovarit. 90% of the content there is about the T word. Any posts about other female issues like sex work or porn don't get as much traction. Plus it isn't even a female only space. There was a post recently by a man that was quite sexist and mansplainy and loads of comments were praising him. You don't even need to be radfem to post there (a lot of commenters said they didn't identify as feminist).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:34 PM
277

Maybe Vice should set their sights on subreddits like The Red Pill (which I assume is where this post came from) instead of making up BS about how FDS encourages its users to abuse men. You'd never see a post like this in FDS saying "date a less attractive man who you don't even like so you can manipulate him into doing whatever you want, including sexual stuff he would normally be uncomfortable with."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:17 AM
11

I'm curious why groping or grabbing of body parts such as breasts or the privates hasn't been included in the definition of sexual violence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:14 AM
5

Gaming Circlejerk is very liberal compared to other gamers. They usually call out instances of racism or sexism so I assume they're trying to make fun of neckbeards with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:12 AM
1

I don't understand what this meme is trying to explain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:11 AM
5

I thought that as well but it could also be a pick me trying to seem LoGiCaL by writing like a scrote. Either way this is so embarrassing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:01 PM
14

This is so attention seeking that I'm genuinely embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:34 PM
109

God the dead fish phenomenon is an absolute joke. They're really incapable of evaluating themselves and their performance, aren't they? "Bad in bed? ME? Impossible. I'm gonna shame the woman for not being into it and wanting to get it over with as quickly as possible."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:25 AM
4

Wow, and people dared to say that romance is dead /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:02 PM
16

I've come to the conclusion that pick mes were born without brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:30 PM
28

Yeah what an idiot. Nobody's forcing you to study and get an education. If you want to be a pick me go out there and be a pick me - there's too many men out there who want a mommy bang maid. I'm sure you'll find one easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:39 AM
65

That's an insult to dogs. Dogs are so much nicer 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:30 PM
16

Men love dark humour until women joke about men being rapists or something, then all of a sudden it's the end of the world. Sorry it's just "dark humour", or is it only funny when it's at the expense of women and minority groups?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:17 AM
15

That's not misandry - it's justice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:20 AM
197

I don't get the "women aren't funny" phenomenon. It's just such a random thing to claim??? It's like if women all collectively decided that men can't sing or something like that. It's really bizarre. I suppose it is probably hard to find somebody funny and laugh with them if you see them as subhuman. And like you said they only find jokes made at the expense of more vulnerable groups of people funny. Women tend to stay away from rape jokes, racist jokes etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:25 AM
16

I saw someone get called a simp for loving his wife. Wtf? I'm convinced men are all gay at this point because they clearly have no romantic attraction to women and I doubt they're even physically attracted to us with how much disgust they treat women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:19 AM
10

This is sad. It seems Gen Z males are going to be extremely misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:18 AM
11

Pick me and simp are different though. Pick Me is used for women who actively bring down our whole gender for male attention whereas simp is just used for men who are nice to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:17 AM
18

I get it's meant to be self depricating humour but if you recognise you're "pathetic", do something about it. Your future gf deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:52 AM
2

I saw you posted this on Blatant Misogyny as well. Funnily enough I got banned from there for criticising DDLG and BDSM for being pedophilic and misogynistic lol. Nowhere is safe on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:33 PM
98

For real. Her reaction is bizzare but I think it can be attributed to internalised misogyny. She agreed to a traditional marriage so maybe she thinks women just have to put up with this behaviour?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:37 PM
15

I can't link to the subreddit due to the anti brigading rules but if you Google the title of the post I'm sure it might come up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:32 PM
188

Yeah too many comments were saying "yass Queen hopefully he'll treat you right after that!" instead of showing concern at the verbal abuse he subjects her to. It's not funny at all, it's just sad she has to lock herself in her bathroom to get away from her shitty husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:26 PM
579

Unsurprisingly her "traditional" husband is verbally abusive as well. "Traditional" is just a euphemism for misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:19 AM
9

Actual insanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:14 PM
22

For the LoGiCaL aNd RaTiOnAL gender they really lack critical thinking skills don't they? Men, if you want to gain custody more often, stop being shitty absent parents. I've lost track of the amount of dads who don't even know their own kid's birthday or don't know their allergies and just expect their wife to take care of everything. Additionally, if you want to be arrested less often, stop being violent, aggressive criminals. Women are on the whole much more peaceful. Be more like us if you do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:11 PM
10

Ugh how dare women want to spend Valentine's Day with someone they're emotionally, sexually, romantically etc compatible with instead of just picking this guy off the street. So unreasonable /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:07 PM
10

I think you're reading into it a bit too much. Older people struggle with technology so maybe that's what happened. As a 21 year old student my classmates and I often struggle with getting to grips with Zoom so I imagine it must be harder for those who didn't grow up with technology. As for how the filter got on there, maybe a child last used the account? I didn't even know filters were a thing on Zoom before this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:59 PM
34

I'll care when they stop being porn addicted misogynists. Until then it's their problem to try to sort out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:37 PM
94

I think if we include types of rape such as coercion and "oops I put it in the wrong hole" the number would be a lot higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:58 PM
7

Wow men really love sharing tips and tricks on how to rape women and then have the audacity to screech NOT ALL MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:22 AM
2

For real that comment made me so angry. She sounds absolutely traumatised and that absolute piece of shit had the audacity to say she only "seemed to have a bad time."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:17 PM
3

So he jumped her in a hallway and started touching her without asking for prior consent and these troglodytes are wondering why she didn't say no to him? At that point he had already demonstrated he was capable of force and violence. She was probably scared he would beat her or worse if she said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:14 PM
4

Straight from the horse's mouth. I know this gets said a lot on FDS but for any newbies here who might not have seen it: if a man suggests anal, dump him. Men want to do anal to hurt and dominate you. The appeal of anal is that it is painful and degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:07 PM
8

I'm sorry he cheated on you but now you're free!!! Please make sure you get tested for STDs though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:03 PM
20

That was bizarre to see. Just because Jordan Peterson rejects liberal feminism doesn't mean he's a good man. I really doubt any man is capable of rejecting lib fem for the same reasons we do...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:43 PM
3

Male attention is seriously a drug to some women. I also don't understand the desire to show off your body constantly to creepy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:44 PM
14

I agree. It's like saying to boycott men who watch YouTube because there's half naked pick mes on there, when it also has cute animals, educational content, art content etc. Literally every platform on the Internet is going to have naked women as well in some form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:40 PM
12

Bit of a difference between some cave paintings and the vile shit that modern porn portrays...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:03 PM
18

Unfortunately it's not just men who do this. I've seen tons of grown women gaslighting teen girls into accepting porn usage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:02 PM
10

I remember my first bf when I was 16 (we broke up when I was 19) was SO HUNG UP on his ex and was going on about how he could never fully love someone again after her. I was a pick me back then so said nothing but the entire time I was just thinking: dude. You two were "together" for 5 months when you were 15. You met online and you never met each other irl. I get she cheated on you but it was barely a proper relationship to begin with and now you've somehow had your heart broken for life? Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:53 PM
12

Personally I think there's a difference between putting on some makeup every day and paying thousands of dollars for non-reconstructive surgeries which is what OP is referring to. Sure makeup and bras etc are performative but at the end of the day they are mostly harmless, whereas with surgery you are paying some sleazy male surgeon to reconstruct your labia/nose/boobs/whatever - all surgeries which carry risks - when you could spend that massive sum of money bettering yourself by spending it on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:26 PM
11

Yes! That's a risk, especially if he's the type of guy to go to clubs where women are drunk and easier to coerce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:48 PM
8

Yep. It's misogyny, plain and simple. Funnily enough I just saw a post about a non consent kink on the Blatant Misogyny subreddit and got down voted into oblivion for saying men who are into these kinks are misogynists and the lib fems who support it are enabling them (check my post history lol). Even in a subreddit about "blatant misogyny" people still defend this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:42 PM
41

Personally a high body count in a man is an extreme turn off. Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually misogynists who like to "collect" sexual encounters so they can brag to their buddies. It's like that guy on Love Island who said he had had sex with like 300 women or something dumb like that. How many of those women actually came? Men who do a lot of one night stands don't care about women's pleasure. They're just in it to objectify women and show off to their friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:06 PM
6

Katy Perry DID hit the Wall and become an ugly hag a long time ago... if you're a pedophile. Any normal man is capable of finding women above the age of 30 attractive. These men are telling on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:44 PM
8

If you're cool with men being violent towards women then no you're not a fucking feminist. Jesus christ how has the definition of feminism been watered down to this extent? It has no meaning. Everyone and their granddad can now identify as a feminist, doesn't matter if their actions are actually pro-women or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:24 PM
25

This is exactly what I thought. Did he really think we were gonna read this and think "ok we are no longer FDS feminists - I think I really want to settle down with a 5'4 incel with a micropeen." Like nah this douche has just confirmed our views even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:35 PM
16

I'm an Eastern European gal in the UK. I spent the first 7 years of my life in a Balkan country but don't have a Slavic name (my name is from the country my dad comes from so you can't guess I'm Slavic by looking at my name and I don't have an accent). When I was doing my A Levels in sixth form there was a guy who was notorious for being in all the debate and political societies and being massively pro Brexit and pro UKIP. He had strong anti immigration beliefs. Despite that he had a MASSIVE Eas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:39 PM
13

"I'm also all for women doing things that make them feel good." This sort of thinking is how we got choice feminism and it's why women are in the mess we're in right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:34 PM
26

I love the whole "men are logical and rational, women are crazy and hysterical" stereotype. All you need to do is go into any online game and see how they rage at the smallest things to get proven wrong. I started playing League of Legends recently. All you have to do is do ONE wrong thing and they'll start swearing at you and frothing at the mouth 😂 NONE of my female friends have ever raged at random strangers in online games. We can all keep cool. There is such a huge difference between female…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:56 PM
105

I hate the term "hit it" or "hit that" to refer to sex as well. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:44 PM
214

This is why we don't do one night stands. Why tf are you risking getting pregnant or getting STDs for some dude who will probably rub your clit for 5 seconds and then jackhammer you for 4 minutes before never seeing him again? I need some research on what percentage of one night stands result in actually satisfying sex for the woman because I doubt it's high. The types of dudes who do one night stands usually don't give a shit about women so why do women keep taking part in hook up culture with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:30 PM
7

So like I get everyone has different aesthetic preferences when it comes to jewellery but this ring is so tiny it's almost invisible. You might as well just not wear it at all because it makes no difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:26 PM
87

Society has failed women. Imagine being raped by your husband for years and you can't even tell him to stop let alone leave. People should have taught their daughters to never accept this behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:15 PM
31

Reddit tells women they're trash for not wanting their husbands to do violent anal to them and that they deserve to become divorced but when a man lies about raping 11 prostitutes then oh it's his body his choice, why do you care 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:13 PM
11

He probably wonders why he's single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:09 PM
5

I saw a post on Reddit once where this guy was trying to get nudes from, in his own words, an "ugly chick" and was saying he thought she might have nice breasts so was sweet talking her to get nudes from her. Ever since then I've been highly distrustful of any compliments from men because they might not even mean it, in fact they might think the opposite but are saying nice things to get something from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:38 PM
27

Yeah there's now a bizarre phenomenon where pick mes have somehow convinced themselves that males watch porn to support women or sex workers. As stupid as it sounds it is unfortunately true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:31 PM
33

Yes I was going to reply to Kate saying this but the comments were turned off!!! You are 100% right. Like I said in another comment a lot of men are happy to settle until they can find a woman who looks like a porn star. Just because he's staying with you it doesn't mean he loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:09 PM
22

You're right. At the end of the day this could apply to anything not just porn. He has violated her boundaries and has made her uncomfortable. THAT'S what matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:54 PM
38

"You expect your boyfriend to live in the same house as you? Stop being so controlling you insecure hag. Have you ever considered he lives with his friend and has sex with her every day because he's letting her practice her sex moves so she can make better OF content? He is merely supporting her career. You need to be more supportive of your man."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:54 PM
70

Haha my husband is a future serial killer. Aren't men so hilarious teehee 🤪🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:51 PM
2

I think it's a coping mechanism. It's much easier to pretend it's only men who are misogynists when in reality a lot of women are sexist as well. Pretending that pick mes are men larping is easier because it makes us feel less alone like we're not the only ones who see the insanity that's going on. I get a lot of the commenters have pointed out she types like your typical male Redditor but I genuinely do know women irl who refer to women as females and men as men. I don't think it's that unlikel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:48 PM
34

It's awful advice. They always say "They're with you for a reason!!" Yeah and that reason is he's settled for her until he gets to have sex with the Only Fans girl. The pickmeisha really underestimates how many men will settle for women that they don't fully want. A lot of them need their mommy bangmaids to survive in life so they'll settle for a woman that doesn't meet their messed up standards while jerking off to porn of the women they actually desire in their spare time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:38 PM
100

Yeah it's like having a man whose female friend is a prostitute and when his wife confronts him about the prostitute friend giving him a blow job he just says "Oh I was supporting her career." I wonder if Kate would be okay with that 🙄 Another reason why the argument is BS is we all know how men view women who enjoy/like sex, especially sex "workers." They jerk off with one hand and point and judge the woman making porn with the other hand. This man did not subscribe to her OF to give her suppor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:10 PM
46

This is way beyond just a porn addiction. That's bad enough already but he's addicted to the porn of a woman he personally knows and is "friends" with. He is going to cheat on the OP with this woman if he hasn't already, or he at least wants to. This isn't okay at all. I also told her to dump him because look at how insecure this scrote has already made her. I feel so bad for her tbh she deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:02 PM
42

This woman is delusional and lives in a fantasy world. There is maybe a 0.000001% chance this man subscribed to her OF to "support sex workers" or some BS like that. I guarantee he wants to fuck that woman and immediately will do so if he gets the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:00 PM
141

Porn addict whose brain has been frazzled. Ok Kate you can date LVM if you want but please don't try to pressure the rest of us into putting up with this behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:59 PM
82

I meant to say woman in HIS friend group but I can't edit the title. This was some of the original post: " I was dating and living with my boyfriend for several years, and believed that he was the one. About a year ago or so, I met a girl is in his friend group that made me feel extremely uneasy. I asked him to unfollow her on Instagram after meeting her because her photos are extremely provocative. While she is free to post what she likes, I didn’t feel comfortable with him looking at this cont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:57 PM
0

First you call a woman a bitch then you use "female" and "guys" in the same sentence. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:25 AM
0

I didn't include that because you can see it yourself in the image. I also posted a comment immediately after I made this post because titles have a character limit and I can't include everything I want to say in a title... check the timestamps if you don't believe me lmao. I posted a comment 53 minutes ago saying I did not condone the deletion of the videos before any comments were posted. Edit: girl why are you down voting me? I literally provided evidence I posted a comment disapproving of he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:22 PM
4

A lot of people here are micsonstruing everything I've said. First of all I do not think the fiancee should have deleted the files. It is cruel, mean, immature and just doesn't solve the problem. Despite that I can't blame her for being jealous. Just look at the way he talks about his ex vs his fiancee. He dedicates several lines to how amazing his ex was but nothing about his relationship with his fiancee. His family seem to adore her as well. Who wouldn't feel second best? Let's have some empa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:18 PM
5

Honestly this was what I thought but maybe I could have worded it better. Why this woman is still sticking around I'll never know. What is deleting his files going to do? You can't force a guy to love you more than his ex. It comes across as desperate. I get she is jealous and he she's allowed to be but you can deal with that by leaving the relationship. She needs to accept he hasn't moved on yet and this guy needs to stop getting into relationships while he is still mourning his ex. Both of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:13 PM
2

You pretty much just repeated everything I said. Her jealousy is justified but she shouldn't have deleted the files, and she should have broken up with him amicably. If you look at the timelines it is very likely he rushed into this engagement. He is 27. He was with his ex for 13 years. Let's say they started going out when he was 12 or 13 because that seems more plausible than 10 or 11. So if she died when he was 25 or 26 he has only had at most 1 or 2 years to mourn his girlfriend. And in that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:00 PM
-1

Wow, calling women crazy bitches. How very FDS of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:51 PM
-1

Did you read my comment? I'm not condoning her deleting the videos. I'm complaining about Reddit calling her a crazy bitch for feeling jealous. Her jealousy is justified, her deleting his personal files is not. I don't think it's fair to get engaged to someone when you're still mourning your previous partner but also she should have acted like an adult and broken up with him amicably instead of deleting his videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:46 PM
-3

I don't think he is an asshole. My problem is more with the Reddit comments, 99% of which were calling her a crazy bitch. I don't think it's insane to feel second best to someone's ex girlfriend. They never even broke up. She DIED. Clearly he still has feelings for her. Her jealousy is 100% justified imo. Yes, she was wrong for deleting those files. I don't blame her for being jealous as he obviously isn't over his ex and he clearly rushed into the engagement but still, his fiancee should have g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:45 PM
8

You can peek the comments section by Googling the title of the thread. You'll find it. Not trying to condone her deleting his personal files. She should have broken up with him instead of doing that. But he is wrong to get engaged to a woman when he is clearly still in love with his ex girlfriend. It is so unfair to his fiancee yet I only saw one or two comments pointing this out. The rest were calling her insane, jealous and telling OP to run. How disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:28 PM
2

Andrea Dworkin had a husband. She clearly didn't practice female separatism. Is she a fake radfem then? FDS is vaguely GC yeah but it's more anti pornography, anti sex work and anti kink than it is GC. I would say those are fundamentally rad fem beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:44 PM
4

Bingo. When it's not discussing dating, I believe FDS should be all about levelling up and improving your position in society. You do that by encouraging women to become educated or start a business or whatever, not with surgery. If you really want surgery then do it, but let's not pretend it's some empowering "yasss queen" choice by promoting Vindicta on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:11 PM
49

There is something wrong with these men's brains. How is degrading sex the first thing your mind jumps to when you see an innocent photo of a bunch of young friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:09 PM
71

Ffs what is wrong with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:03 PM
11

Finally someone said it. I don't understand how so many people on FDS support a sub like that. All they care about is wasting their money on plastic surgery so some scrote will like them. It's textbook pick me behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:36 PM
3

I don't think anyone here is a bad feminist for getting surgery. It's very common to be so self-conscious to the point where no amount of therapy or body positivity can change it. Surgery is a solution for that. But I don't think it should be encouraged or advertised on FDS. I am firmly anti-Vindicta for some reason. Ladies PLEASE, instead of going on that sub, feeling bad about yourself and then spending your hard earned money lining the pockets of some scrote surgeon who gets all his income fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:29 PM
3

Being anti plastic surgery doesn't mean I'm pro female separatism. I like most of us on FDS want to find a husband or partner some day, but you don't need plastic surgery to do that. Encouraging and even getting plastic surgery is only going to attract shallow, appearance obsessed LVM who probably got their idea of what a woman should look like from porn. A HVM won't care if your philtrum is 0.001mm too long but instead Vindicta hammers into you this idea that if your face isn't scientifically p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:25 PM
23

This might be controversial but I don't think encouraging plastic surgery to the extent that vindicta does can be compatible with feminism. At the end of the day FDS is a radfem sub and whenever I've seen people defending vindicta on here it's just made me raise an eyebrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:55 PM
67

This is what I don't get. They "decided" to be single so why are they mad if a woman is deciding to focus on herself as well? They're so silly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:06 AM
334

Imagine being genuinely mad about a woman buying herself a ring. These men need to get some help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:32 PM
3

We need more studies on how many men are doing this sort of stuff and are into rape. We always see studies on how many women have been assaulted. How about for once someone finds out how many men are rapists/support rape?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:38 PM
17

I feel like getting presents THAT horrible must be on purpose. Did he want to break up but didn't have the courage to do it so he just got her awful gifts hoping she would break up with him instead? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:19 PM
14

There is no saving that woman. One of her recent tiktoks is about her "man" picking her up by the throat and carrying her upstairs. I can't even imagine how many issues her and her bf must have if they're both into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:11 PM
40

Unfortunately there's 3 times the amount of Pick Mes as smart women on TikTok these days. I remember this one PickMe posted a tiktok about how she was in pain crying during sex and her boyfriend didn't stop and just kept calling her a slut and she had to go to the ER for a bruised cervix. She kept saying IT'S OK I CONSENTED and was calling anyone concerned in the comments (including me) vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:14 AM
3

Sometimes I think it's good she is no longer alive. She would be so sad and horrified at what has happened. So many porn addicts. So many lives ruined by porn. It's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:04 PM
5

Lmaoooo why on earth would a woman who I assume is straight want to explore a fetish that involves ogling at women in yoga pants??? Even a bisexual woman would probably be like nah that's weird. What is wrong with kinksters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:01 PM
11

Imo it's not a lack of intelligence. Maybe she has self-esteem issues or is too scared of being single/"alone"? Because judging from her comments it seems like she knows what he is doing is wrong but just puts up with his behaviour anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:58 PM
266

"I think her thoughts and projections made me do this" It's not my fault at all! It was her thoughts and projections making me go on that random woman's profile, type out the words "send nudes" and hit send. I'm an innocent victim here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:58 PM
32

The sex workers I have a problem with are the privileged upper middle class ones who go on about how "empowering" and "easy money" it is, almost as a recruitment tactic so other women so it as well? The reality of sex work and prostitution is not glamorous at all. So many women who do it do it because they literally have no choice and yet you get women on Twitter being like "Oh you want a Birkin handbag? Just start an OnlyFans on the side! You'll easily get £10,000 a month!" Please shut up. Priv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:00 PM
20

Ugh yeah. It's annoying when women get feminism wrong, or what I perceive to be wrong, but at least they're women. When men start going on about how stuff like kinkshaming is anti-feminist my soul just leaves my body. It's not for you to decide!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:11 AM
38

Super well worded! HVM will perform feminism by being respectful, caring about women's issues like abortion rights, not watching porn etc. Everytime I hear a guy going on about how he's a "male feminist" I just roll my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:03 AM
11

So basically a euphemism for friends with benefits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:39 PM
29

Wtf is cuffing season?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:59 PM
41

Agreed. At that age there is no excuse for this stupidity. "Oh my boyfriend asked a 15 year old girl to wear a buttplug for him. Should I do anything?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:33 PM
16

She edited her post to say she sees more hate against men than hate against women on the Internet. Yeah, because a woman on Twitter saying she hates men due to all the trauma she experienced is worse than men with their 2 million porn videos and pictures, half of them probably non consensual or revenge porn, the other half probably coerced in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:12 PM
29

I'm actually so embarrassed for her. No amount of simping for men will make them respect you. They still want to degrade you. I'm willing to bet her male friends were "there for her" because they just want to fuck her. She seems young so hopefully when she grows up a little she'll realise the difference between women hating men, and men hating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:51 PM
93

Not a single post or comment about women's issues in this guy's Reddit profile. Just say you're a meninist and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:45 PM
52

"Need me a wife like this" - and they say we're the gold diggers 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:09 PM
113

Unfortunately, sexuality isn't a choice. If it was I firmly believe 90% of women would become lesbians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:19 PM
61

He acknowledges men are mostly trash but unless he spends his free time campaigning for men to stop being misogynistic then he's still LV. It's one thing to recognize you're the privileged gender - an impressive feat considering most of them believe they're oppressed because PayPal banned PornHub or something - it's another to do something about that privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:19 PM
6

Personally I think she is putting up with some behaviours that even women know aren't right. Women have been brainwashed into accepting porn but I don't think we've quite been brainwashed into putting up with men spending $450 a month on non-essentials. It's kind of common knowledge that it is not ok to be in a long term relationship/married and spend a ridiculous amount of money per month on something that isn't essential like food or rent. Most women would leave if their boyfriends started spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:45 PM
6

Yeah her post implies she'd be ok with it if he only spent $30 a month on it instead of $450. Nah girl, it's not just the financial side of it that should be concerning you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:39 PM
15

And even if he actually does have anxiety, how dare he pretend that what he is doing is a method of therapy. If he actually cared about treating his anxiety he would seek therapy or go to a doctor or ANYTHING but give thousands of dollars to some woman on OF. If he actually does have anxiety it is so disgusting to use it to manipulate his gf into putting up with his porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:38 PM
44

This seems kind of fake to me. So the cousin's been doing porn long enough to have made enough money to pay for several plastic surgery procedures and somehow managed to keep it from her husband? Her husband doesn't know but her cousin somehow does? Surely the husband would have found her sudden income highly suspicious and questioned where the income for the surgeries was coming from. This reads like an incel revenge fantasy fanfiction to me. For real, some MRA was wanking as he wrote this, lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:24 PM
4

What even? Male attention really is a drug for these pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:00 PM
6

I get what you're trying to say but this would be just as bad even if her hair wasn't curled and she had no makeup on. Being glam doesn't mean high effort and no makeup doesn't mean lazy and no effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:59 PM
7

So this person's dad made 0 effort at picking presents for his own kids and it's apparently meant to make us smile? Uhh ok...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:56 PM
8

God I hope this is fake because the alternative is worse. How can a family be so evil? They're awful human beings. She really needs to leave. Her bf is abusive and his family is just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:43 PM
58

I'm finding it hard to feel sorry for her tbh. He's been paying for Only Fans girls for months and she just puts up with it? Jesus christ grow a fucking backbone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:04 PM
299

Imagine having a bad diet just to spite the feminists. Pathetic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:01 PM
41

Even once a day is very excessive imo. That's at least 1-2 porn viewing sessions a day. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:59 PM
205

"Erotic masseuse" jfc woman what are you doing in this relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:06 PM
1

First of all, we don't know how long they have been dating. If it has only been a few months then it would be normal for this topic to just come up now. Secondly, are you not concerned about him "joking" how she should die? Yikes sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:03 AM
1

Gen Z is even worse because they've all been watching hardcore porn from the age of 9 and now their brains are rotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:01 AM
3

The fact she noticed his camera was out but she felt too uncomfortable to tell him to put it away? And she's asking if she's right to be mad? Somebody please save this poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:51 AM
31

Yep he's probably lying. And even if he's telling the truth and isn't participating he's still ok being friends with men who trade nudes like they're Pokemon cards. Disgusting. He's just as complicit in the sharing of the revenge porn as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:37 PM
34

Yikes. I commented on the thread letting her know that what they are sharing is probably revenge porn. Unless of course the women they knew consented to having their nudes shared, but I highly doubt it. And I told her even if they did consent it's still disrespectful to be in such a group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:29 PM
26

The post has been deleted. What did the group chat have in it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:10 PM
230

The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:57 PM
153

And the worst part is it's not just future serial killers and psychopaths getting off to this shit. It's your average male. The people subscribed to these subreddits are your brothers, fathers, male cousins, uncles, male bosses, male coworkers, male medical staff, male teachers etc. And that's the terrifying part. Ugh. Male sexuality isn't about sex. It's about causing as much suffering as possible. What a depressing world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:37 PM
48

SWERF? More like JAPERF - john and pimp exclusionary radical feminist. I've literally never seen any so called swerf actually attacking sex workers or saying they don't care. Any criticisms made about the sex industry come from a place of concern but apparently that's exclusionary 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:55 PM
4

Your response was completely reasonable. It's just males being male. They'll always stick up for each other. Try not to take it personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:51 PM
31

FDS is great but I've seen some questionable comments from people sometimes where they've supported some shitty behaviour just because a woman is doing it. Not saying the woman in this post is being shitty for wanting her own closet- I think it's a tough situation because his gaming room does also serve as an office so it has a utilitarian purpose, but she is valid in wanting her own space. The posts I'm referring to are like this one post a few months ago. It was a man complaining that his wife…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:49 PM
141

I'm childfree as I simply have no maternal desire. I would be happier without children. But even if all of a sudden I felt like I really needed to have kids I still wouldn't. I'd be so scared if I ended up having a daughter. It's such a dark world and with how depraved males are becoming due to factors like porn I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I had a daughter and something bad happened to her. I also wouldn't be able to live with myself if I had a son and he assaulted a girl. Of cours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:21 PM
62

I definitely noticed that lib fems are so vitriolic to radical feminists to the point they say stuff like we should be curb stomped. Whereas rad fems kind of just acknowledge we disagree with their feminism but our feminism still protects them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:18 PM
15

Cool. She probably did all that and more while planning the gifts two months in advance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:29 PM
151

When I first heard of FDS everyone was going on about it as if it was a woman's guide on how to abuse and manipulate men. And then I actually went on here and found that FDS in a nutshell is teaching women that we shouldn't be afraid to dump and block any male who is bad for us. Whereas Reddit would say "Oh you're being literally physically abused? You need to communicate and get couples therapy", FDS would tell you to leave. Because life is too short to CoMmUnIcAtE with awful men who don't care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:28 PM
3

I just want to comment on how The Wall used to be at age 30 but has now been lowered to 25. How fucking low will it go? I bet 5 years from now incels will be saying women hit the wall at 15 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:31 PM
37

Why are they making fun of the Nordic Model? How can you call yourself a feminist if you don't support it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:41 PM
77

Because they're genuinely stupid. They're too dumb to see that we don't hate sex workers, we just hate males who use women's bodies like sex toys which is what Johns essentially are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:40 PM
68

I was following this leftist meme page on Facebook. Sorry I mean "leftist" as I don't see how you can be left wing if you're against women. Anyway they posted this meme about how sex workers are braver than our soldiers. True, but that's not the point. Some of the comments were going on about how it's disgusting to shame men who pay for prostitutes and that there's nothing wrong with accessing a service 🤢🤢🤢 Like fuck off. I'll never associate with males who have payed to rape women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:39 PM
57

Why should we care what "Ashley" thinks about FDS? Let's not give LVM the satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:23 PM
39

Honestly, with the state of males these days I'd rather get given this adorable animal than get married 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:40 AM
12

I hope there's a parallel universe out there where males aren't scrotes obsessed with sex. My parallel version of GrapeJuiceEnthusiast would happily be playing Cyberpunk 2077 without all the disgusting male gazey oversexualisation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:47 PM
10

Basically the game costs £50 but is worse than games that came out in 2013. As a gamer I find the whole situation quite funny and I say this as a fan of the cyberpunk genre who was looking forward to it coming out. A lot of gamer males base their entire identities on individual gaming companies. They thought because CDPR made this then SURELY this game would be a masterpiece, hence the meltdowns when it's actually not a masterpiece at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:46 PM
15

There's actually 6 dick options. 3 sizes and each one in circumcised/uncircumcised. But only one labia option of course 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:43 PM
54

I feel bad for him but he needs to take a break from dating until he has processed his grief fully. Even if it takes a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:35 PM
13

Go on my comments history and read what she's saying. Apparently it's internalised misogyny to criticise women for supporting porn and watching violent porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:34 PM
44

Yeah they're acting as if we're trying to ban a flavour of Doritos that we don't like 🙄 Obviously something like that would be ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:43 PM
43

True but at the same time I hope these males don't get a significant other. Their brains are so rotted by porn that no woman deserves to have to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:42 PM
95

Ehhh I went through her post history to determine this. Definitely a woman. I know it's probably easier for us to pretend it's always men larping as women but we need to accept there's a lot of women out there who genuinely believe this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:13 PM
81

Her comment history includes absolute gold like how she enjoys sexist jokes about women being beaten up by their partners. I hope she got picked lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:38 PM
95

I thought they were "visual creatures". Go on, go and visualise something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:31 PM
97

For real. Pick Mes can go to hell. They're almost as bad as the scrotes doing the violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:23 PM
18

The funniest and most ridiculous BDSM term I've seen was "ethical sadist." Lol yeah as if there's an ethical way to beat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:19 PM
117

People in the comments are saying "Omg but every website has abuse on it! Even YouTube and Twitter!" Ok but YouTube and Twitter don't exist for the sole purpose of hosting porn, and porn is inherently degrading and abusive in the vast majority of instances. Even videos that aren't blatant CP or revenge porn such as from official production companies probably have some rape in them. There have been a lot of instances where a porn actress would get raped on video and she gets told if she complains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:51 PM
106

It's just insane how we've gotten to a point where choking your partner until they black out is considered normal or even vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:23 AM
11

I don't think it's the fact he has a hobby that's the problem (not sure I'd call screaming at Fifa a hobby though), it's more the fact he tells her to shut up which is very disrespectful NVM behaviour. And we all know how addicted to gaming males get. If they'd play a few hours a week max it would be no problem but we just know the bf she's talking about plays it for hours on end and neglects his household duties and anything else. Edit: sis why are you down voting me? You're defending some NVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:14 AM
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I commented. Hopefully she'll consider what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:28 PM
7

Eww he did it in front of the kids??? Omg that should be considered child abuse especially if some of the kids are girls. What a disgusting example to set for young kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:15 PM
114

I just want to comment "hun, you've been dating for 2 months - he's not your other half. You can dump him" but I know I'll be down voted. They are both acting extremely inappropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:13 PM
14

Funny how payment for males must always be sex. Can't they ask for something a bit less degrading like she bakes him cookies? Or he does it out of the kindness of his heart? Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:42 PM
128

I didn't find this on her twitter but in a screenshot. I went on her twitter to find her original tweet which I haven't yet but I found this: "Anyone else’s boyfriend wake up at 6am for work and make an absolute racket, switch the light on then leave a wet towel at the bottom of the bed 🙂🙂🙂🙂" God he can't even put his soggy towel away by himself wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:04 PM
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Like we get it Collette, you have no standards. But don't try to bring the rest of us down to your level by planting this idea that this is the type of behaviour you should expect from a partner. YOUR bf may be a LVM who games 19 hours a day and never gives you attention but there are HVM out there who aren't that disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:29 PM
17

Lmaoooo no real woman would ever send "pussy pics" to some random person on the internet. Real women are usually too embarrassed to show their husbands or boyfriends their genitals let alone random people. A scrote definitely wrote that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:49 PM
12

As a 21 year old university student who is in a relationship I am proud to say I have never had a one night stand because I know I wouldn't gain anything from one. I simply do not understand what the appeal for women is. I have only had sex with 2 long term boyfriends and in the past did sexual stuff with a friend I had feelings for (we weren't dating - I was 19 and a pick me. Never again). Yes us women get horny too but just get a vibrator. With one night stands you're unnecessarily risking STD…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:40 PM
20

Wow, threatening to send dick pics. They really care about empowering women don't they /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:33 PM
43

OH MY GOD so that explains why they went after Gender Critical, PPF and are trying to shut down FDS but never mention TwoX and the other libfem subreddits. They know they can't skew the narrative here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:31 PM
23

He looks exactly how I thought he'd look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:17 PM
88

Bruh males are ridiculous. They could have looked at what Mastercard and Visa did as an opportunity to reflect on their life choices. You know, something like "if PornHub is repeatedly being boycotted then maybe I should consider why... oh it's because of child porn and the rape of women? Yes that's immoral..." But instead they keep doubling down. God forbid it becomes a bit harder to view their rape content! Wtf is wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:14 PM
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That's what I thought. Isn't that why we vet? Obviously we can't trust them 100% but why would you even have someone you have so much distrust for in your life. That doesn't sound like a marriage to me. It sounds like being acquaintances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:49 AM
15

Men are disgusting jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:47 AM
43

This has to be the most bizarre fan fiction I've read lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:12 PM
29

I can see this is in a Facebook group. Any chance you could DM me the link so I could see what the other comments are saying and maybe DM the poor woman to tell her it's not her fault?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:34 PM
181

Absolutely unbelievable. We're all collectively being gaslit into believing it's our fault if we didn't CoMmUnIcAtE that we don't want to be violently assaulted. I genuinely feel so sorry for all young women and girls today. Violent depraved sex has become the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:33 PM
29

I was banned for criticising BDSM. Go on my comments history if you'd like to have a laugh. One of the kinksters was genuinely arguing that they're "oppressed." Yeah males who get off on beating women are SoOo oPpReSsEd /s What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:51 PM
33

He's called Matthew Barnett. He deserves a slow and painful end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:30 PM
5

I don't get this. All he's done is prove everything we say about males to be true. Male logic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:28 PM
400

Please tell me you'll be divorcing him??? No male should be talking to his wife like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:56 PM
124

I sent her a message informing her that she is in an abusive relationship and that BDSM is not normal. And that you shouldn't have to say a safe word for someone to stop raping you. Hopefully she'll listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:57 PM
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My husband is a violent rapist with anger issues but apart from that he's an amazing man! Edit: after reading the replies to the post I would like to be launched off Planet Earth and never return. "DID YOU ESTABLISH A SAFE WORD???" Wtf? Nobody should need a fucking safe word to have sex jesus fucking christ. She was literally crying and he didn't stop. What is actually wrong with our society that BDSM is seen as something normal and not something done by violent degenerates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:41 PM
61

I've been watching anime since I was 13 and the majority of series I've watched have had some sort of sexualisation of underage characters or misogynistic tropes. All the anime I've watched have been more "mainstream" or more "popular" as well so please don't say I'm letting basement dwelling webs dictate my opinion of what anime is. Just gonna list of the top of my head all the things wrong with some anime I've watched: Naruto: really sexist and outdated attitudes towards the female characters,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:25 PM
51

Lol I hate the "She's actually a 2,000 year old vampire so I'm not a pedo for masturbating to her!!!" thing. And in No Game No Life she literally is 11 years old. They don't even do the "well actually she has the mental age of a wise centuries old woman but has the body of a child..." trope. I've noticed that as well. If anyone says "Jotaro is hot" they get crucified on the internet even though he is drawn like a 30 year old man and it would be easy to mistake him for being a grown man instead o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:07 PM
83

Not all anime is jiggle physics and underage girls but you have to admit most anime series have that in some form. Obviously American/Western media has problematic elements like that but if an American studio came out with something like No Game No Life, an anime where a 9 year old girl gets sexualised, the backlash would be immense. Just look at what happened with Cuties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:49 PM
315

Anime as an art form has so much potential. I love animation and art but it's such a shame 99% of anime has misogyny and pedophilia in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:33 AM
5

I started watching Community recently and was considering making a post about Jeff and Annie as well! It's so disgusting. She's like 18 in the first season and he's double her age. She deserves to be with an attractive 18 year old guy not a 40 year old scrote with a fake law degree. Also what is it with the show always going on about how "handsome" Jeff is? I feel like it's part of the "old men = attractive" propaganda that's been forced down our throats in recent years. He's not attractive. Don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:09 PM
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that's less time left for your hobbies, your dreams and the things you want to accomplish in life. This is always on my mind when I see lib fems saying "Yass queen do all the labiaplasties, boob jobs and BBLs you want! It's empowering!" Idk how much those procedures cost but they must be in the thousands. Imagine if we all just stopped doing those procedures to look more attractive to males and instead spent the money on advancing our goals, advancing our education or even exploring the world? W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:50 PM
17

I'm pretty sure this is why people like Arthur always shit on people, especially women, who are childfree. They personally regret having kids, hence why he thinks the kids are too much, and they want everyone else to be as miserable as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:25 PM
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Completely agree. There are lot of dangerous males out there. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of incels lurk every thread so we need to be careful not to post any identifying information. Also, thinking about it from a business side, if other people find out your art account/website is run by someone who is an FDSer then they might boycott your art due to us being MiSaNdRiC or some bs like that. So just be careful of being cancelled and losing revenue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:42 PM
13

"We are not against discussions about women's struggles" - where tf do they think women's struggles come from? Who do they think are the consumers of porn? It's impossible to talk about women's struggles without criticising males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:37 PM
62

Exactly. It's a form of revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:30 PM
150

Oh right, THAT subreddit. Last time I went on that 2 or 3 years ago 90% of the posts and comments were from Red Pill scrotes. Surprisingly enough women don't really enjoy "debating" whether or not we should have rights which is what most of the posts were like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:29 PM
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I mean I can understand why they don't want FDS related content as this subreddit is mostly for women who are dating or would like to date whereas WGTOW is for women who would like to remain single. But just likening our whole subreddit to "perpetuating harmful stereotypes" or "male bashing" is dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:28 PM
367

Idk what PPD is but males who rate women purposefully rate them lower than they actually look. It's to bring down the self esteem of every single woman. They think if they call Adriana Lima ugly then we'll all feel worse about ourselves and then lower our standards and go for trash ugly males like whoever wrote this. Just ignore this type of content. It's literally made to rile us up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:14 PM
102

Notice how he compared her to a car: an inanimate object. Gross. He literally just views her body as something to masturbate with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:41 PM
14

Lmao what??? I can't comprehend how desperate for sex he must have been if he was agreeing to that stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:38 PM
41

I've always wondered why women argue with males in their DMs and messages? I'm the type to block any random male as soon as he messages me, even if the message is just an innocent looking "Hi how are you?" on Facebook because I know what their intentions are. I don't even let them say anything creepy to me by letting the conversation progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:36 PM
106

Because to Pickmeishas, money and male attention are more important than women being treated fairly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:33 PM
28

The craziest thing about 2020 is how prevalent paedophilia among males is but it never gets talked about. Like, women are just expected to be 100% hairless apart from the hair on their head and their eyebrows and this is just considered normal for some reason? Nobody ever questions why their boyfriend expects them to have a full Brazilian wax all the time or why female leg hair is considered "disgusting" and "unhygienic" but men's even hairier legs are okay. Nobody ever questions why schoolgirl …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:22 AM
16

It's porn shot with soft lighting and good cinematography to make it look more "romantic." It's still just as trash and objectifying as regular porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:19 AM
7

All the old-school feminists like Dworkin must be turning in their graves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:17 AM
8

I can see why you got banned actually. You said age play is a violent act against women which is actually false because DDLG is really liberating and feminist! You should try it some time. I feel so empowered when my 56 year old boyfriend gets a boner when I put on a diaper and pacifier and say "gooh gooh gah gah". So stop kink-shaming me you SWERF! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:16 AM
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Most people prefer a comfortable lie over the truth Omg you really nailed it. This is liberal feminism to a T. It's too depressing to admit what the true nature of the world is. It's too awful to embrace that the porn industry is disgusting and that most males, as a result of consuming that content everyday, are therefore misogynistic. They'd rather just pretend that everything is okay and that it's EmPoWeRiNg than accept that most males have disgusting views about women and sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:13 AM
10

Liberal feminism these days basically exists to benefit men. FDS exists to benefit women and doesn't take male BS. Therefore it must obviously be anti-feminist /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:11 AM
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Really? You don't have ANY sympathy? I get that you mean she should have vetted and that she has maybe exhibited pickmeisha behaviour in the past by allowing this but you're in victim blaming territory at this point. The bar is mainly so low in 2020 because a lot of males are pathetic as you said yourself - it's not our responsibility to raise the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:06 AM
4

It's because of "BrOs BeFoRe HoEs."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:04 AM
6

She literally is just an object to him. Nowhere in the post does he mention her personality or how much he loves her for HER. It's constantly about how she's so hot that she's "out of his league." It's really telling about the way he views her as a trophy wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:03 AM
5

Dark humour = offensive comments about every possible group of people except straight white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:01 AM
4

It's so gross how he puts the responsibility on HER. You shouldn't just cut those friends out "if she wants you to" - YOU should want to cut them out because they basically threatened your wife! What a spineless PoS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:00 AM
5

If this is how they talk about her when she's around then imagine what filth they're saying behind her back that her LVM husband isn't standing up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:57 AM
9

The only thing they can ever think about is sex. Rational and logical gender suitable for politics btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:28 PM
17

My kink is kink-shaming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:43 PM
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Yep I posted this here as a precaution. I see a lot of women look past their boyfriend's/husband's friends when in reality the people you surround yourself with say a lot about you. The guy in this post acknowledges they often dehumanise women, yet he's still friends with them, so obviously he's okay with women being dehumanised. Thankfully it seems like the wife has realised this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:39 PM
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I'm posting this here because this post heavily reminded me of my first relationship. I was 16 or 17. I'm into gaming so I was playing some game with my bf and his friends online. I think it was my first time meeting them and most of them were nice but there was one guy making sexual comments about me that made me really uncomfortable. He made comments about me "choking on my bf's dick" for example. I found it really disgusting and when I told my bf after the call he basically didn't care. He ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:38 PM
9

Exactly. If she feels disrespected then that's a good enough reason to end a marriage, even if other people wouldn't find what happened disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:33 AM
30

It was her parents' hot tub??? That just makes it even worse. It's extremely disrespectful to his in-laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:56 PM
128

Lmao what? They say that as if males don't have a choice when they pee in hot tubs with their non-consenting wives in. If you're so afraid of marriage because of this just... don't pee in hot tubs???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:55 PM
53

I'm really proud of her but the comments section is concerning. Too many scrotes and pick mes are shaming her for "ending a relationship over something so minor" and are saying "are you just going to end every relationship over a fight?" Dick is abundant and low in value. You know how the saying goes - there are plenty of fish in the sea. She'll find another relationship. I don't understand why people are so against divorce. Why should someone stay in a marriage where they feel disrespected just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:53 PM
52

One of the comments: "If you are seriously getting a divorce over this, both of you are too immature to be married in the first place..." This was commented by someone who posts in the Jordan Peterson and Ask The Red Pill subreddits lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:50 PM
9

This is exactly what I thought. I felt bad for her at first but lost all sympathy upon finding out she makes her literal 6 year old daughter help out with the parenting. What a horrible example to set for a young girl. The poor kid is going to grow up thinking it's ok to be treated like crap by your husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:40 PM
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Lemme guess: "YTA. You should be flattered that he even has sex with you at all instead of cheating. You're obviously a prude as you don't like being treated like a blow-up sex doll so if you want him to show you affection you need to try out anal and BDSM. Also have you tried communicating? YTA btw you're so selfish and ignorant of his needs."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:33 PM
37

That's what I thought at first but consider that men do this thing where they pretend to be really incompetent at something so their wife gets annoyed and does it herself and then proceeds to never ask him to do it again. It's like in that episode of Friends where Monica asks Chandler to wash the cranberries and he gets the washing up soap out to do it - they do stuff like that on purpose. I highly doubt he doesn't actually know 3 and 4 year olds eat proper food or that 18 month olds need their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:58 PM
3

Ugh this Tweets and the comments from the males under it are why I'm going to be childfree forever. Imagine going through pregnancy, a usually unpleasant process, for 9 months and now you're in labour. You're nervous, scared and in pain. You're terrified something is gonna go wrong or that there'll be complications. You definitely know it'll be some of the worst pain you've experienced in your life. All you want is someone to comfort you through it and what is your actual first child of a husban…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:46 PM
4

Aww diddums he's going through so much stress. Give him a break! Fatherhood is so difficult. Changing a nappy once every 5 months can be extremely difficult for males. I'm surprised he hasn't already had a breakdown that's how difficult it is for them. SHE should be the one comforting him. /s if it wasn't clear lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:42 PM
66

Why the fuck is a pornsick male writing articles for a WOMEN's Health Magazine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:30 PM
118

Ugh this 6 year old isn't going to have a childhood because of this piece of shit. Imagine being 6 years old and being a better parent than your literal father. She's gonna spend all her time having to take care of her siblings and barely get any time to enjoy her childhood years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:05 PM
109

Wouldn't be surprised if they're Christian/conservative as those sorts of people are more likely to think women should be breeding mares and pop out as many kids as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:58 PM
108

If your husband is so incompetent that you're having to ask your SISTER to co-parent then maybe that's a sign the marriage was a failure... Not that he's incompetent. He knows that diapers need changing. He just acts clueless so his wife will do everything for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:33 PM
3

How can they always talk about being the rational/logical gender when they experience something called "post-nut clarity"? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:18 AM
13

They wrote an article about how to have anal before. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:10 AM
6

As soon as I saw the title I instantly knew this would be Teen Vogue. This is the same magazine that was telling teen girls to have anal and how to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:10 AM
5

I don't even understand why she's posting. She answered her own question - she admitted herself he's friend his brain and ruined his dick watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:08 AM
13

I just went on his page and he can barely type out a sentence in English despite (I assume) being born in America. The superior gender loooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:04 AM
5

Right? It'll mess up her pH balance. Yeast infection in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:59 PM
8

Okay that's enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:58 PM
2

Lmao we all need to start demanding that! I'll watch you play CoD for 5 hours as long as you watch me digitally paint on my PC. Have fun watching me meticulously shade an eye for 2 hours! Maybe then they'll realise how ridiculous it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:22 PM
13

For real. The fact that he was talking to his friends on VC as well makes it even ruder. At that point he might as well just kick the gf out so he can hang out with his buddies instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:00 PM
36

Eww. The classic LVM tactic of making you out to be a bitch to turn his friends against you. Glad he's an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:04 PM
66

I'm probably gonna annoy some males by sharing this post here but gaming is literally one of my primary hobbies and I still think "dates" like these make you look like a massive loser!!! Stop neglecting your girlfriend to talk to your friends over VC while she just sits there twiddling her thumbs. If you really feel like you have to play games while in her presence instead of actually interacting with her at least have the decency to play something co-op.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:58 PM
86

Playing video games together? Fun night in. Your boyfriend playing video games with his headset on talking to his friends and maybe turning his head and giving you a kiss every 1 hour to make you think he hasn't forgotten your existence while you just sit there watching? Nah. And I agree. She had fun this one time but now she's established that she is ok with him basically neglecting her when they're together. Now every time they have a night in he'll be talking via mic to his friends instead of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:54 PM
23

It IS boring especially if it's a game where there's no narrative or story. At least some games require you to make interesting decisions - Detroit Become Human comes to mind. However just watching someone play Fifa or something like that is mind-numbingly dull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:52 PM
35

I can't reveal where this was posted but let's just say it was in an advice subreddit. From that you can really tell how much of an attention seeking "pick me" post this is. Her whole post basically boils down to "I'm ok with my man neglecting me for his vidya for hours on end! Men, the updoots are to the left! Give me attention and validation please!!!" without asking for any sort of advice anywhere, leading me to think this was posted purely for male validation. Her replies to people gave me m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:39 PM
56

It does really annoy me how women are expected to take up their boyfriend's/husband's hobbies (addiction in this case) but you never see people telling men they should start taking an interest in their wife's fashion shows or art or yoga or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:19 PM
436

How do women put up with such manchildren? She needs to divorce him for her sanity and for her daughter's wellbeing. This isn't a good example to set to a young girl. If she stays with him her young daughter will think it's ok for a husband to treat his wife like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:10 PM
30

Males: "Why does feminism exist? Why do feminists hate males???" Also males: *do stuff like this*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:33 AM
23

Yep I was saying this in another comment of another post but I'm always seeing pick mes going on and on about "men's issues" (which is a waste of time because men's issues are almost always caused by males) when you never see males rallying to end rape and sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:32 AM
3

Yeah honestly 5 and 6 are good points. So many males think it's "gay" to have a skincare routine or moisturise or actually take care of themselves when it should be the bare minimum. Bonus points if they actually put some effort into fashion and maybe get a nice scent like women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:25 PM
29

Why do women waste so much time and energy fighting for males? I've never seen a post going like: "I'm a hardcore meninist and these are some of the things society does to women that I absolutely hate: I don't like it when people shame women for taking ages to orgasm during sex. I hate it when people shame women for their labia size. It's wrong to shame women for their height/weight/breast size/butt size. I don't like that women are shamed for their body hair. I wish women didn't feel like they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:21 PM
61

I wouldn't be surprised if the comments saying it's rape are from women. Most of the time males don't care enough to give advice to posts by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:46 PM
121

The fact that this is even considered a controversial opinion has made me lose all faith in males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:40 PM
42

He has already fully raped her - several times, both with his fingers and his penis - which is even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:35 PM
207

Thankfully a lot of comments were saying it was rape. Faith in Reddit very partially restored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:59 AM
101

I didn't know what to name the title so I'll just type out my thoughts here. Everyone is probably fed up of seeing 50 posts about male depravity every day but this one just made me really depressed. I feel like there's several posts like this on the relationship subreddits every day and they're all the same. Woman has a boyfriend/husband. If the post is sexual then the male is either already raping her or is trying to get her to do something she's uncomfortable with. Woman has no self-esteem and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:53 AM
100

If sex work was real work and it was so empowering and easy and non-consequential, there would be just as many male prostitutes as there are female. But there aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:20 PM
53

It's impossible to try to understand male logic. It just doesn't make sense. Men advising each other to pump and dump women = good. Women helping each other to avoid this nonsense = BAD!!!1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:24 PM
35

Yet more examples of males admitting that they're trash and yet they still have the audacity to get offended at FDS for exposing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:23 PM
13

Yep, female gamer here. Me and my female gamer friends can all function as human beings. I've never been so addicted that I've neglected my social relationships, work, education, upkeep of the house etc. It's just one of my hobbies. Also I don't think it's the games that are the problem, otherwise you'd be seeing loads of female NEETs who just mooch off other people all day. It's males and their addictive personalities that's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:17 PM
5

There were definitely scrotes who were into "rough" sex before but I feel like it was definitely frowned upon and people would think you're weird if you suggested doing anal or whatever. Nowadays sex has to look like something out of a wrestling match or you're "a prude."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:12 PM
7

Age gap? Check. Abusive boyfriend? Check. Woman who has 0 self-esteem to the point she doesn't consider that her enjoyment and safety should be the priorities in her own life? CHECK. This is 90% of relationship_advice posts in a nutshell. It's scary how common these sorts of relationships are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:11 PM
4

I only recently started to get into properly learning to cook. I'm 21 and I don't want to be one of those university students who just order pizza everyday. But even when I didn't really know how to cook I still knew how to make basic meals like pesto pasta, chicken parmesan, spaghetti carbonara, or meals involving some type of egg - poached, boiled, fried etc. I feel like these are pretty simple meals that anyone can make. There's no excuse for ordering takeout every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:00 PM
8

This is probably true for every hobby. I'm into gaming and there's always a lot of talk about "why aren't there more female pros?". I don't know, maybe because little girls' parents don't allow them the free time to build up their skills by allowing them to play video games? We're instead expected to do chores and do our schoolwork. I remember I was banned from playing video games as a kid but my parents would gift them to my male cousins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:57 PM
63

Right? Males always make comments like "Hurr durr I hate my wife." Why propose then? Why go through the ceremony? Unless your wife was holding a gun to your head forcing you to marry her then you have no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:48 PM
130

They don't actually hate being married. Quite the contrary. They benefit from having an emotional support bangmaid. They just pretend they hate it to look macho their stupid friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:47 PM
3

I loved knowing something about him that no one else did What kind of logic is this? Would she be elated if he confessed to her that he's a nonce because it's something only she knows about him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:29 AM
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I think when they're roasting a man they come up with more creative and original material whereas when it's a woman it depends on if she's attractive or not. If she is, then the roasts are all "you're a slut, you must have daddy issues, you have no worth besides sex etc", if she's unattractive it's all "ugly feminist, land whale etc".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:55 PM
8

Yikes. Males always go on about how feminism is "women wanting to be men" which is ridiculous but I feel like in this case she really is trying too hard to be a man. Women are the gender who are more capable of love and building emotional bonds. I hate how liberal feminism is trying to get women to have 1000 one night stands a year and never build emotional bonds just like men when I feel like that's against our nature. There is nothing wrong with being in love. It's not "basic" at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:53 PM
8

What do you mean no advantage? The benefit is how empowered and liberated you become! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:28 PM
5

Idk. I see where you're coming from and there probably are some older men out there who aren't creeps but I still get very uncomfortable when I see a 30 year old woman with a 45 year old male, for example. Most of the time if a male is with a much younger woman it is safe to say he is a creep. There's a reason why women closer to his own age don't want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:38 PM
61

I was thinking that but I didn't want to say it as it's kinda harsh (but true). She's saying it as if everyone has to have sex on the first date because there's "nothing to do", like it's some sort of problem plaguing everyone who dates. No hun, I think that's just a problem YOU'RE facing that YOU need to work on... Either that or she's going after the most mind numbingly dull LVMs imaginable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:35 PM
25

Jesus Christ I thought this woman couldn't make something worse than her article I shared earlier today. This just takes the cake. At the end of the video she at least recognises it was "sad behaviour" but judging from her more recent content she still seems like a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:31 PM
65

For fuck's sake it's not women's job to fix men!!! It's not our job to stop them from going crazy and murdering people by having sex with them!! Professional therapists and mental health specialists exist for a fucking reason - it's to help people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:54 PM
27

The obvious moral arguments aside, biologically speaking they SHOULDN'T be attracted to little girls. Despite what the scrotes say about little girls being "more fertile", teenagers are much more likely to have complications during pregnancy or have something go wrong during childbirth. It makes much more sense for a male wanting to father children to choose an adult woman to be the mother, but they don't because adult women aren't as naive, vulnerable and malleable as younger girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:51 PM
20

It's sadly not that rare for parents to give 0 sh*ts about their daughters. Just look at how many countries worldwide allow parents to marry off their pre-teen daughters to men twice their age. At least it's not that popular in the West.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:49 PM
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Nothing else to do? Wtf happened to having conversations and getting to know another human being? Big yikes. Her self esteem must be at rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:13 PM
25

Yep. Red Pill and MGTOW only got quarantined but female spaces like Gender Critical got fully banned. I wonder why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:41 AM
134

I follow Vogue because sometimes they post good articles about fashion but over the past few days they have constantly been promoting this FWB article. The last straw on the camel's back was this article promoting age gap relationships. This is some peak lib fem dating advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:37 AM
37

Any sub that’s as misogynistic as fds is misandristic would be deleted so fast. So why are The Red Pill, MGTOW and the 1,000 rape porn subreddits still up on Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:22 AM
465

BuT FDS aNd ReD PiLL aRe ThE sAmE tHeY'Re TwO sIdEs oF tHe SaMe cOiN!!!!1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:59 PM
2

Yep. I won't deny that there are a lot of women here who are fed up of males or even hate them (justifiably so) but our strategy for males we dislike is to just... pay no attention to them. Meanwhile MGTOW and TRP in particular hate women so their way to deal with that is to... harass and abuse women. Just leave us alone if you hate us so much jesus christ. You'll never see a post on here about how to force a male to do something he doesn't want to do. You never see any posts about how to blackm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:28 PM
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Yep nowadays it's mostly women promoting this shit and that's the sad part. Liberal feminism must one of the most insidious obstacles in the fight for women's rights yet. It promises empowerment, freedom and equality when in reality it's for the male benefit. For example, take sex work. I think we would all agree here that sex workers should be protected and respected like every other human being. But in lib fem ideology that's not enough! Now if you're uncomfortable with your boyfriend paying £…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:24 PM
60

$2000 dollars a month AND a guarantee that you'll never be hired by a real employer if you decide you've had enough of OF? Wow that sounds like a dream job right there!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:13 PM
47

I find this funny because usually it's males who see politics as entertainment. This is because it's never THEIR human rights that are being contested. It's never "Should males have bodily autonomy?" No, it's always women's bodily autonomy and abortion rights being debated as a hot issue. Why would women see politics as entertainment? We vote because if the wrong person gets elected our rights literally get taken away. Males can vote for anyone because they'll never have to worry about that. Any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:11 PM
6

Definitely. Obviously there are exceptions, with some women over 30 (such as my own mother) still being pickmeishas but I feel like the more life experience you have, the more you know what you deserve and the more you can stand up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:44 PM
36

I was just adding to your point because I wanted to emphasise how literally any woman could just walk down the street or go on Tinder and find a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:42 PM
10

Women "lose their appeal at 30" because that's the age around which a lot of people truly have their sh*t together. Women over 30 are wiser and less susceptible to male BS. Why date a woman over 30 when you can date a naive 20 year old still at university? To scrotes, vulnerability = attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:38 PM
15

And if women do gain weight or become saggy as they age most of the time it's because they gave birth, something that most of the time permanently changes your body. Whereas males have no excuse for being obese or saggy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:36 PM
71

The only times I've been on MGTOW and Red Pill etc was when I first heard of them so I went there to familiarise myself with their strategies so I know what I avoid. I maybe reported one or two posts that were genuinely advocating for violence against women, such as ones on how to overcome "last minute resistance" during sex - aka how to rape a woman who doesn't want to have sex with you - but apart from that did nothing. I didn't spam their inboxes with death threats, didn't mass report. I neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:29 PM
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You don't even need to be attractive or a high-value woman to get laid. An unattractively obese woman who is also mean, ignorant, uneducated and just generally an unpleasant person to be around could probably get laid because males genuinely have no standards. They'd fuck a bottle of ketchup if they could fit their dicks in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:25 PM
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Do they not have better things to worry about? Like the 500+ rape porn subreddits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:07 AM
25

I love how she had to specify "from a girl" just so she would definitely get that sweet sweet male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:37 PM
8

You're definitely right and we should be criticising the song for that but the point is that males aren't criticising the song for glorifying BDSM and other practices which are harmful to women, but they're criticising it because they saw two women in very little clothing having fun in a music video and being sexy and they're angry because that's "slutty" or something. The song is super controversial because it's two women rapping about how they want to have sex and enjoy it and apparently we st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:18 PM
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I agree and unfortunately I don't think she'll ever just say no and leave. She has a lot of past trauma from her ex being a rapist and clearly has no self-esteem from a life time of coercion. I hope she can seek help somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:58 PM
35

It would work if they saw us as equals. Unfortunately they see themselves as too "superior" for anal sex. That's why if we suggest they receive it they think it's fundamentally wrong and don't see the hypocrisy in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:54 PM
27

I want to message her but I'm not sure if that would be against any rules. There are a few people in the comments saying it's rape but they're marked as "Controversial" so I think the scrotes are downvoting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:53 PM
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I can see you're an FDS Newbie so as a general rule we are anti-anal sex for women here. There are many reasons why, including the ones I have already stated such as males intending for it to be degrading, but other reasons include that we have perfectly functional vaginas that give us a lot of pleasure so there is no point letting a male put his dick into what is and should be an exit hole when we don't even have prostates up there like males do. It can also be extremely dangerous for the healt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:23 PM
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Lol I saw a post on relationship_advice once where this woman's scrote would constantly keep pressuring her for anal and she'd give in once a month and absolutely hate it, but then after a while she actually started enjoying it and then around that time the scrote mysteriously started to lose interest in it. Hmm I wonder why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:15 PM
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Obviously it doesn't have to be painful, but I'm just saying that the appeal of it for males is that the majority of women find it painful and degrading. Obviously it isn't painful if you do 5 hours of foreplay and use an entire bottle of lube and he has a 4 inch dick but sex shouldn't take that much prep to just "not be painful." And males would probably rather it is a bit painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:13 PM
49

There's a disgusting scrote in the comments saying she's "trash" for "lying to him about liking anal" and that he should "divorce him". Why do they have so little empathy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:08 PM
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In fact he gets off on her not enjoying it. The whole appeal of anal is that it is painful for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:15 PM
239

I genuinely feel so bad for this woman. She already has a lot of trauma and now her scrote husband is raping her only 6 WEEKS after she's given birth. I wish I could help her somehow. She needs to divorce him immediately for the sake of her and her baby but the comments on the post aren't emphasising that enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:00 PM
5

Pretty sure this is an ironic meme judging from the use of the Joker but it's still sad because there are males out there who unironically believe this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:17 PM
75

Sex used to be something that teenagers would enjoy discovering with their partners. It would be intimate, fun and loving. Nowadays sex is more violent than something out of a WWE match and at least that shit is staged. I remember when I was in high school a few years ago some girls in my school who must have been 14 at most were being pressured to do anal and they hadn't even lost their regular virginity yet!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:15 PM
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I don't think it's controversial to say they're born this way. They've been violent oppressors for thousands of years. I think it's time we stop pretending they're "socialised" this way and accept they're the less empathetic, more animalistic sex. Obviously there are exceptions but it's true for the majority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:13 PM
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If I have to be "patient" and "trying" for half an hour to be able to do it at all, that's not something my body is supposed to do sexually. This needs to be on billboards everywhere. I'm so fed up of scrotes and lib-fems saying "Anal is so great! All you need to do is go on a highly specific diet, have an enema every time before sex and then spend 5 hours doing anal foreplay <3" Like please actually bog off. Sex should be fun and easy. If I have to spend a bunch of time preparing for something …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:10 PM
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Males: *use violence and rape to scare women into lives of servitude, therefore limiting their access to education and knowledge* Also males: "We can't believe women haven't invented as much stuff as we have. We must truly be the smarter gender!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:14 AM
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Yep I've seen a lot of the "women can't love men like men love women" rhetoric on The Red Pill. Which is just hilarious to me because their whole ideology is about how to abuse and manipulate women into having sex with them. Oh that's true love right there /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:12 AM
8

Males are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:32 AM
3

Taller men can have stretch marks too. I knew someone who was 6'4 who had a massive growth spurt when he was a teen and got stretch marks on his back from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:40 PM
47

Right? Leonardo di Caprio must be dating his 30th barely-out-of-the-womb girlfriend at this point but of course he never gets any criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:36 PM
46

Definitely. Women are earning more than ever so there is even less pressure on men to be providers. So what exactly is so difficult about marriage for males? There are literally studies showing that married males become happier over time while married women become more miserable. So what exactly are males complaining about? Marriage 100% benefits them instead of women. I'd say those 80% of divorces initiated by women are probably caused by their scrotes either being abusive or being shitty husba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:34 PM
108

Oh my heart truly breaks for the poor men /s If they don't want so many women to initiate divorces they should be better partners: Stop cheating Stop sitting on your ass all day playing vidya or watching sports instead of, you know, actually doing the childcare and upkeep of the house. Stop watching 10 hours of porn per day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:30 PM
8

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:41 PM
201

Ugh how dare we not want low effort dates /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:48 PM
33

Right? He's not "capable of loving multiple people." He's an immature little manchild who's too emotionally stunted to commit to one woman. That's all it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:39 PM
374

Males: "WOMEN SHOULD BE TRADITIONAL AND STAY AT HOME AND HAVE LOADS OF KIDS!!!!!!!!" Also males: *shame women for their natural bodies after giving birth to kids*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:29 PM
41

I don't understand the logic. Why would having a preferred dick size mean all you have to offer is sex? I have a preferred gouache paint brand that I like to use, doesn't mean all I have to offer are my paintings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:46 AM
60

It really is a waste. Imagine having a girlfriend who is talented, skilled and creative enough to make these colourful clothes for the sole purpose of making kids happy and NOT appreciating it. She's a ray of sunshine and yet she's stuck with this miserable git. She deserves so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:14 AM
37

It's not even the "joke" itself that's the problem (although it is obviously disgusting and offensive). It's also the fact that he knew she would find it hurtful, hence why he was initially trying to stop her from finding out what it meant. And when she did find out he wasn't worried about her feelings being hurt. Instead he just bonded with his friends over how mad she was and actually found it funny. He has no respect for her as a person. I don't even know why he's married to her as he obvious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:53 PM
29

Literally every single one of us could get laid within the hour if we wanted to. This is true and is also the funniest reason why the accusation that we're somehow "femcels" is so funny. Males are constantly going on about how we have "female privilege" because we can get sex "so easily". They always bring up "The top 80% of women go for the top 20% of men and the other 80% of men will literally have sex with any woman who looks at them because they're So LoNeLy." And yet despite this we're some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:36 PM
30

I don't think it's a specific breed of men on Reddit. I would go as far as to say most males are like that, but obviously they don't show it irl or their families and employers would know. Reddit on the other hand offers them the anonymity to speak their true opinions with basically no repercussions hence why it seems like all males on Reddit are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:30 PM
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I keep saying this again and again. It's not unpopular opinions at all. It needs to be renamed to "Opinions that 99% of males secretly hold that they know are offensive and wrong", although I guess that's not as snappy. ACTUAL unpopular opinions (like ours) get censored. Edit: also don't bother trying to educate them. They'll never change. Scrotes will be scrotes forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:52 AM
56

There are plenty of equivalent nicknames, all of them dick related, that she could resort to. But I hope she won't spend any more energy on this piece of shit. She needs to divorce him, take all his shit and take the kids. And bless the female friend who told her, she needs to be treasured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:35 AM
11

Things males think are rape: Being grabbed in an alleyway at night by a stranger. Unless you're wearing slutty clothes, then you were asking for it and it's not rape. How DARE you show off that sexy ankle! Things that are also rape along with being grabbed in an alleyway, but males probably don't think these count as rape: Getting her drunk or high to have sex with her Not stopping when she says stop "Accidentally" putting your dick in the wrong hole Doing sexual things to her while she's sleepi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:08 PM
10

Ugh don't even get me started on this. The whole "there are 780 genders and you must respect all their pronouns!" thing is the 2nd reason why liberal feminism is making things worse for women, the 1st being "sex work is real work." No we're not "uterus havers" or "period havers" or "breast possessors". We're WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:02 PM
15

Absolutely shocking /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:57 PM
24

This is one of the many reasons I'm childfree. Most males want kids (usually for some BS reason like "to pass on their legacy", not because they actually like taking care of children) yet treat the mothers of their children/potential children like crap. This woman is going to go through a 9 month pregnancy, potentially risking her health and life and definitely taking the risk of her body permanently changing for the worst (I'm not referring to stuff like stretch marks from pregnancy but more li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:16 PM
3

You nailed it. That's kind of what I was trying to get across in my post. I don't think women spending half an hour every day changing their features using foundation, concealer, contour etc is "empowering" at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:02 AM
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False rape accusations are a joke everywhere in the world. Males always go on about how "life ruining" they are. "Life ruining" my fucking ass. Actual convicted rapists and sex offenders who had overwhelming evidence against them are doing well in life so how exactly are accusations ruining any lives? Look at how many women have accused Donald Trump of rape. It was all over the news prior to the 2016 election and he got elected anyway. Literally nobody cares if a male is a rapist. That Six in Ni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:59 AM
54

No brainwashing going on here. We're just waking up to male bullshit and they don't know how to handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:55 AM
8

The whole "women all hate each other" phenomenon was a lie made up by males so they can justify their hatred of us. "It's not our fault if we hate women - even women hate women and they know each other the best, so it's ok for us to be misogynists!!!" That's the kind of thinking they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:54 AM
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I don't think she's completely lost like someone like Jameela Jamil. Reading and listening to Emma I get the feeling she does truly want the best for women but she's scared of not pandering to men because of the backlash she'd get. It's still damaging to feminism of course but I have hope that she'll get her shit together in the next few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:52 AM
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The funny thing is all the Reddit dudes actually hate her despite all her male pandering. I've never seen a male talk highly of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:49 AM
15

As someone who wears a full face of make-up almost every time I go out, I think the beauty industry is disgusting and I wish I had the confidence to stop wearing all the make-up I do. I used to be someone who full-heartedly believed that I wear make-up for myself, not for men and not to be "pretty" or whatever. But then I realised that the only parts of my make-up routine I actually get joy out of are eyeshadow and highlighter/glitter. I love wearing a different colour of the rainbow every day a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:53 PM
38

Males bond over misogyny and porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:01 PM
10

I am at a point where I think most "straight" males aren't even attracted to actual women. They're only attracted to an extremely sexualised, pornified and childish idea of femininity. Why? They hate real vaginas and labia and prefer to have sex with buttholes They hate natural bodies and prefer those who have had boob jobs and BBLs They hate women's natural body hair and want 100% of our body shaved/waxed apart from eyebrows They just hate women and everything about us in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:20 AM
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Lol this is like males constantly going on about how disgusting vaginas and labia are while being obsessed with anal and wanting to stick their dicks in an asshole...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:15 AM
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There are so many problems with this that I don't even know where to start. First of all, a lot of people define themselves by their hobbies. For every woman who says "I like baking" there's a man who says "I like watching football." So I don't really get his point in that regard. Someone saying "I like [insert hobby here]" doesn't mean they're saying "This hobby literally defines my entire personality and I have no personality traits." They're just trying to have a fucking conversation like a n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:57 AM
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The vagina sort of works like a pencil sharpener. Every time a penis has sex, the vagina makes it a bit smaller. The more women a male has sex with and therefore different vaginas he has sex with, the quicker it gets smaller. Males, keep your dicks nice and big for your future wife. Stay virginal and pure until marriage :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:50 AM
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To be fair she's completely right about that part. If your boyfriend/husband is watching porn then he's a scrote and you shouldn't be together. Dump him and find someone better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:27 PM
34

She's so brainwashed. Of course he's not thinking of her while he's wanking to some porn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:46 PM
26

Nah there's actually a lot of women out there who think like this. We shouldn't lie to ourselves by saying a man secretly wrote this. I have had female friends who are genuinely this delusional and support porn to this extent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:43 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. You made her stay pregnant thinking you'd get a stay at home wife/bangmaid who would do 99% of the childcare and it backfired. You didn't want an abortion so deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:46 AM
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It's actually so insane to me how it's fucking 2020 and we're at a point where gender equality should be at its highest, yet we live in a world where anal, choking, slapping, spitting and punching are considered vanilla. Women are collectively being gaslit into thinking these things are "normal" and exist in a vacuum. It's being forced down our throats that these males with DDLG, BDSM and rape fetishes are actually just normal, lovely people and just because they want to do those things "consens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:03 AM
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Males commit over 90% of violent crimes including rape and murder. Millions of people have lost their sense of fun due to being raped or murdered by a male. Bit of an extreme example to clap back with but it's true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:16 PM
49

Penguins and swans have better morals than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:45 PM
7

Ugh some "communist" men are the worst. They're all pro porn, pro "sex work" and think it's ok for males to just buy women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:38 PM
20

What the f*ck is wrong with males jesus christ Why would anyone type all this crap out? He needs to be put on a watch list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:29 PM
105

"Ugly ass hoe" yet he was the one asking for her Instagram so he could jerk off to her pictures in the first place. "You must have mental issues" yet he's the one frothing at the mouth at someone refusing to give him her Insta... Male logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:46 AM
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If women loved serving men the whole ideology of feminism wouldn't exist. Surely if women just "naturally" loved being inferior citizens then there wouldn't be millions of women around the world fighting against the patriarchy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:40 PM
17

Yep. Can we reserve the term "pick me" for women who put other women down to get male attention? Let's not victim blame. This poor woman was raped (yes, sexual coercion is raped) and instead people are going on about what a "pick me ass bitch" she apparently is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:46 PM
26

Male depravity knows no bounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:44 PM
30

Thank you! I can't believe some of the comments on this post. "She caved and let him go to town" - that sounds like sexual coercion which is sexual assault/rape, but instead of being sympathetic people are labelling her a "pick me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:42 PM
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This sounds like it was written by a male. But anyway there ARE males out there who watch porn. Is the percent of males who don't watch porn probably ridiculously low? Yes. But that doesn't mean we should have to settle for trash who DO watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:41 PM
24

The entire "simp" phenomena just reinforces how males don't see women as human. It's them basically admitting they only say/do positive things to/for women for sex. Any male who isn't violently beating up women gets labelled a "simp" nowadays, because they only (pretend to) respect women if they think they can get something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:37 AM
15

Compliment each other then? What's stopping you? Oh wait they can't do that because men think showing any affection or emotion makes them "gay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:56 PM
4

I kind of just use incel to describe any man who is misogynistic, sees women as inferior and is entitled to sex. To me incel is more of a mindset than a lifestyle so a Red Pill Man who says he has sex (whether he actually does is debatable) can still be an incel. The way incels and Red Pill Men talk about women and relationships is basically the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:12 PM
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So he expects this rich woman who can afford to pay cleaners and chefs to spend hours every week cooking and cleaning but it's okay if he's never done it in his life? Ok scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:04 PM
20

Red Pill men are incels who (allegedly) have sex. I say allegedly because all their posts about how they did anal with 7 women in one night sound like creative writing exercises so I'm kind of sceptical about how much sex they're really happy. I suppose they're incels in denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:42 AM
10

She needs to wake up. The reason why he's mocking her for being in love with him and wanting to spend her life with him is that deep down he knows he's shit and has no value and probably finds it ridiculous she wants to be with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:52 AM
43

Shit like this makes me wonder if males are even capable of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:47 AM
46

Is this supposed to work? If a male did this to me I'd just think he's extremely rude and leave him at the bar lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:32 AM
13

You nailed it. For a lot of men the appeal of having kids is the knowledge there's someone with 50% of his DNA, that's why they put no effort into childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:06 PM
85

There were a few comments saying things like "You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel!!!1" No. It's been 7 years already. What is telling him how she feels gonna do? He knows she wants to get married, he just doesn't care. He enjoys her doing wife shit for him and he didn't even need to legally commit to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:03 PM
13

You don't even need to read the post. The age gap in the title says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:00 PM
6

If I didn't know this was written by a man I'd probably chuckle and see it as making fun of how ridiculous it is that 50% of the population still doesn't see women as actual human beings but I don't think he meant it like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:46 PM
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If you ever feel bad about your labia just remember there is nothing wrong with having protruding labia. Men are only obsessed with vulvas looking like slits because most of them have some sort of paedophilic tendency hence why they want women to have no body hair, tiny labia etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:49 AM
30

Okay sorry that I'm normal and don't need to be held upside down at gunpoint while being electrically shocked every 5 seconds in order to cum. I guess I'm boring and vanilla. Not like this girl though - she's soooooo much cooler than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:56 PM
13

A teacher told me this when I came to her crying at the age of 11 about a boy that was mercilessly bullying me :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:08 PM
90

I wish men actually saw themselves as rapey emotionally damaged bullies. Maybe then they'd actually start working on themselves and become better people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:27 PM
12

Not just gymbros. I stay away from any overly sporty men. I'm a university student and any guy who takes part in university sports, especially the really macho ones with toxic masculinity environments like rugby and hockey, are a hard avoid for me. I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't be looking to date them but I don't even talk to them out of politeness or for the purposes of friendship. I find sporty men or gymbros are super misogynistic as a result of the high testosterone environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:24 PM
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I always wondered where the whole "women aren't funny" thing came from, and then I realised that males consider peak humour to be rape jokes at the expense of women and penis jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:26 PM
15

This man is pure evil but he got what he deserved in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:16 AM
14

I don't get women who have casual sex and "enjoy" hookups. I seriously doubt these one night stands are giving them good, satisfying safe sex. Loads of women in committed relationships struggle with their boyfriends not being able to make them cum so it's probably safe to say a man who plans on hooking up with you once isn't going to care if you're enjoying yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:17 PM
15

For real. I've always wondered why female gamers can have it as a hobby but also have a life at the same time while male gamers get completely addicted. Me and my female friends love gaming and even built our own PCs but we also have other hobbies, have good hygiene and clean homes and would always choose hanging out with our friends or partner over playing a game. I can't say the same for 99% of male gamers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:13 PM
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For real. I'm a gamer myself but it's an immediate red flag if a man spends more than an hour or so a day playing. So many male gamers are completely addicted and ignore important things in their lives - nah I'm not dealing with that neglect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:11 PM
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I don't think they're capable of love. Maybe 3% of them can actually feel love but the rest can only think about their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:11 PM
9

I'm at the point where I can't be bothered to try to like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:50 AM
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Even if it wasn't him and his friends who did it she needs to dump him immediately for his reaction. "Was the sex at least good?" Scrotes aren't human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:31 PM
2

Lol I thought they meant they were pro single mothers when they said that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:36 PM
24

Right! They should try going on the exercise bikes with loose wide leg pants. That'll end well! /s We literally need leggings/yoga pants as they're more practical during exercise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:49 AM
6

I'm childfree and 99.9% sure I will never change my mind but in the unlikely event I do change my mind I'll go out of my way to find a woman to raise my kids with (I'm bisexual). What are the benefits to raising children with a man? Because I can't think of any. You'll get left doing 95% of the actual childcare and housework while he maybe changes a diaper once every six months and expects to be congratulated for the bare minimum. You get no time to yourself because you take care of everything w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:33 PM
11

Ok so now we have to add sleeping positions to the list of things that mean you're asking for it, on top of the clothes you're wearing, if you've drank alcohol, the size of your breasts and/or ass and if you made eye contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:29 PM
15

This is always what I say but scrotes are too fucking stupid to understand. So I'm assuming these women are fantasising about being "raped" by a hot guy and the "rape" itself is enjoyable because they've been groomed by porn into thinking women should be submissive. That still doesn't mean that woman with a rape fantasy would be ok with it if some random scrote from Reddit just showed up to her house randomly and raped her??? They wouldn't be consenting to having sex with that person, or to that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:27 PM
12

I was going to say this. If they had done this survey let's say 60 or 70 years ago the number of women with these "rape fantasies" would probably be much lower due to the absence of porn corrupting people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:25 PM
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Lmao I love it when a scrote gets rejected by a woman and then they say something like "Well you're ugly anyway!" Why are you going after her if you think she's a "4" in the first place? They're so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:13 PM
51

Most males *in the world are misogynistic. God how I wish it was just males on Reddit who are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:33 PM
14

Yep Kendall has definitely had work done and I still hear people going on about how she's the "natural Kardashian sister." It's disgustingly harmful. It's giving young girls the impression that they just naturally glowed up after puberty when it's not the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:14 PM
10

I didn't even consider it that way until you said it. Thanks for giving me a different perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:57 PM
28

It really is an awful subreddit. I left that subreddit feeling self conscious about "flaws" I never knew I even had and was even considering surgery so I would be more attractive. Then I realised: what is the point??? I am in a committed relationship. I'm no Megan Fox but I'm above average in attractiveness and can find men who are interested in me. Sure I don't have the 10/10 scientifically perfect beautiful face but I still look cute and there are loads of absolutely stunning women who would o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:48 AM
8

Right and what will you do when he leaves you when you get ill or when he finds a younger woman? This is why FDS first and foremost encourages women to focus on their education and career, and be self sufficient. Men don't love us the way we love them. The majority of men are LVM and we can't trust them to stay faithful or loyal in a marriage hence why we need to be our own money makers for when they inevitably do what scrotes always do and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:41 AM
11

Yikes this is some pick me shit. Why are you out here wanting to be a first mate? Be your own captain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:11 AM
1

Also he shares her photo and insinuates she's unattractive. In what planet is this woman unattractive? Scrotes these days are so pornsick that they see a normal woman not wearing makeup who hasn't been face tuned + doesn't have surgery and lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:27 PM
160

Why is it always 3/10s who think it's ok to rate women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:30 PM
16

I'm not into astrology and I think some women take it way too seriously. It's fine as a hobby but when I see women excusing their shitty actions with "oops I'm a Virgo" or whatever it's just quite embarrassing. Also I always criticise people who take religion seriously, especially those who use religion to justify awful things like misogyny, so why shouldn't I treat astrology the same?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:31 PM
33

She's been around long before Belle Delphine so she's one of the original pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:01 PM
109

Shoe is the biggest pick me in existence. Her relationship with Armoured Sceptic was a disaster which you can Google.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:17 PM
64

I'm pro sex worker i.e. women who are sex workers are human beings and should be treated as such. They should be liberated and saved from this "profession." I am anti sex work being glamorised and anti women being encouraged to go into sex work as some sort of "empowering" career. I'm also anti males paying for sexual services, and pro labelling them as the rapists that they are (by this I mean men who pay prostitutes are rapists.) Seriously I am so fed up of people trying to normalise men who p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:31 PM
59

For real. I see positive posts about males here and they're always fantastic things. The other day there was a man who single handedly went around saving people after there was a tsunami. He went against official orders and went to his flooded house to save his wife, and then went and saved his mother. Everyone here was saying how he's a great human being and congratulating him for his bravery. Meanwhile positive things about women in TRP are shite about how they found a woman who will give them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:44 AM
22

The only similarity between FDS and the manosphere is that both have people who dislike or even hate the opposite sex. The thing is though if someone in FDS or women in general hate males it's just completely justified. They commit the overwhelming majority of violent crimes in the world. The majority of women have experienced some sort of abuse, rape or harassment at the hands of males. They are the perpetrators of awful things such as sex trafficking and rape porn. If someone in FDS hates men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:42 AM
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My view on anal is that yes there are probably women out there who genuinely do enjoy it. Like maybe 2% of all women enjoy it. But we should still refuse to do it. Why? Men who ask to do anal don't care if we enjoy it. In fact the reason they actively ask for it is because they know 98% hate it. If the PickMe writing this genuinely believes whatever scrotes she's having anal with care about her pleasure then she's stupid. The entire appeal of anal is to degrade and oppress women, full stop. Also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:43 PM
129

Ok PickMe enjoy having to wear adult diapers at 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:39 PM
3

You've clearly never drawn before if you think art is a "basic talent" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:00 PM
10

What Facebook group was that??? Wtf please report it what kind of group is telling women to kill themselves over their genitalia??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:34 PM
10

Males literally refer to women as "roasties". If they get to see women as lesser for actually having slightly longer labia than the ones seen in porn then we should be able to have penis preferences. Plus a small penis actually impacts on our ability to have sexual pleasure so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:32 PM
33

We need to stop posting anti-FDS Reddit comments/posts on here. I understand it's funny to roast their stupidity but they're just looking for a reaction. I don't know about you but I don't care about the silly opinions of NVMs so let's just ignore them and not give them the satisfaction of even discussing their tantrums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:12 PM
13

I remember one of the Rate Me subreddits rated Liv Tyler a 5/10 and Nina Dobrev a 6/10. Ok so if those women are considered average by Rate Me's standards then us normal people must all look like Nigel Farage then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:02 PM
22

Aww don't insult frogs by comparing them to this scrote. Frogs are actually cute! In all seriousness it is always the men who weren't blessed with a good appearance and should focus on working on their personality doing the negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:01 PM
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Oh yay let's gaslight yet another woman into thinking that she's the problem /s "SeEk PrOfEsSiOnAL cOuNsELLiNg!11" God males really are incapable of taking any responsibility are they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:37 PM
26

Please don't tell me men are actually saying if you're against rapists you must be one yourself... The logical gender am I right /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:52 PM
107

I know that it is really unlikely that all men are awful because statistically a percentage of them must be good but every day I believe more and more that they're just violent and misogynistic by nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:20 PM
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Males always pretend they're against rape but are just against women who "make false rape accusations." They're always saying "Well if you can PROOOVE that man raped someone we will hold him accountable!!!1" Here is a male literally admitting to raping someone and, not shockingly at all, they're still somehow defending him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:11 PM
171

Call them women not "girls" you absolute nonce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:21 AM
13

When I first meet a man I'd say I mentally rate him "yes: he is my type and I could be potentially very attracted to him" or "no: he is not my type". I haven't ever felt immediately physically attracted to someone. I have to get to know someone. Also if I find someone attractive I find them attractive. There's no "scale" of attractiveness - it's subjective anyway. Plus it is dehumanising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:56 AM
9

It is actually ridiculous how many leftist men are also misogynists. They're all "EQUALITY FOR EVERY RACE, EVERY SEXUAL ORIENTATION, EVERY GENDER IDENTITY, PEOPLE ALL OF DISABILITIES, PEOPLE OF EVERY CLASS!!!" but are also obsessed with BDSM, are probably poly amorous and treat all the women he cheats with like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:28 PM
18

I genuinely can't take anyone who says they're into polyamory seriously or respect them. Just say you're too immature to stay faithful in a relationship and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:17 PM
34

"I'm polyamorous"? More like "I have struggled with commitment issues my entire life. I am too emotionally stunted to get to know one woman and love her hence why I have cheated on all my previous partners. I see women as sex objects to collect like trophies. I'm glad there is now a woke, trendy and leftist term to describe this severe character flaw of mine."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:47 PM
2

In which century does this man live that he has to regularly deal with 7 foot tall tribesmen invading his village? I didn't realise cavemen had internet access. Anyway this "test" thing is so ridiculous that I can't even be mad. It's so funny. They will literally spin ANYTHING you do into you somehow being attracted to them. You get a restraining order on him? Oh you're just testing him to see if he'd break the restraining order for you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:45 PM
23

There was absolutely nothing sexual about the original video. Yes she was wearing some short dresses but there's nothing inherently sexual about a woman showing some legs and collarbone. It boggles the mind how overly sexual stuff like WAP is allowed but THIS is what gets demonitised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:40 PM
45

She should go on a massive follow spree of really buff sexy male Instagram models. She should "accidentally" get caught liking their pictures and saving them on her phone. When the scrote gets annoyed she should dump him for being a hypocrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:33 PM
2

Why are men like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:24 PM
11

It's not a sexual orientation thing at all. I wish it was. But it isn't. These types of men are obsessed with anal because they know the vast majority of women hate it. They get off on ignoring a woman's perfectly good vagina and clit which will actually give her pleasure and instead fucking an asshole 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:25 PM
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Yeah I don't get how she thinks it's out of character? They had anal 2-3 times month despite him knowing she didn't like it. He's never cared about her sexual pleasure. A high value man would never let you do something you don't enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:16 AM
75

Huge red flag if a man likes anal. Run immediately especially if he asks for it more than once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:14 AM
60

Polyamory is the woke and trendy way of saying "I have cheating and commitment issues."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:56 AM
25

To be honest at 19 me and my friends recognised how creepy the focus on young girls in porn is so I can't really excuse how much that girl is defending the pedophile. The signs are all there and she's just "okay" with it? She needs to get a grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:31 PM
13

I'm finding it hard to be sympathetic as well. He is obviously a pedophile and at 19 years old you're mature enough to realise that the stuff he's into is fucked up. Does she not have any brain cells? Like imagine your boyfriend only cums when you pretend you're 15 and just being ok with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:28 PM
4

Thanks to the fact that you can post anonymously on Reddit I can now safely say the vast majority of men would rape if they 100% thought they could get away with it. How can there be so many commenters that just think it's okay? Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:25 PM
18

Because women being fed up of men raping, abusing and deceiving us and sharing strategies on how to weed out misogynists when trying to date is the same as men sharing tips and tricks on how to rape and abuse women. Obviously 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:22 PM
28

I get that. I used to do that but it does take a toll on your mental health after a while. It really is shocking how much these people hate women and not even for any justifiable reason. We're not human to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:20 PM
45

90% of the shite written on TRP seems like a creative writing exercise. Like yes of course a woman let you have sex with her AND her twin after you said you'd rape her and then ditch her body in a dumpster. That's totally believable 🙄 There's so many stories there that are the creep going up to a woman, saying disgustingly rapey shit and then all of a sudden she's aroused and has to have him. In reality she would probably get away from him, block him on all social media and tell everyone she kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:18 PM
47

You're doing God's work. Personally I can never visit the manosphere. While I obviously know how deranged and violent the male sex can be it's a lot worse seeing the way they talk in women in an environment without women. It's disgusting stuff. All of them need to be put on a watch list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:15 PM
53

Friendly reminder that The Red Pill only got quarantined even though it encourages this sort of abuse of women while Gender Critical got fully banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:08 PM
23

I could only see MGTOW2 when I searched for it. Weird. Edit: I found the subreddit but not that post. Looks like it got removed lol. What a pathetic subreddit though. So Gender Critical gets banned because women had unconventional opinions on gender. Meanwhile MGTOW lowkey advocates for the genocide of women and for them to be replaced with sex dolls and it only got quarantined. Women having opinions bad!!! Men wanting to commit hate crimes ok though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:09 AM
13

Also I thought MGTOW got banned? Where did you find this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:08 AM
53

Please do it, leave us alone and go your own way for once!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:04 AM
47

I bet a lot of schools don't even teach consent education. Sex education at my school was the stages of pregnancy, menstruation and how to put a condom on. Nothing about consent, female pleasure or how porn is all fake. The lack of consent education in the system is failing women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:04 PM
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"My boyfriend rapes me. This is kind of frustrating." WHAT. THE. FUCK. So many women have been brainwashed to just not care if the men in their lives are hurting them and it's actually so depressing to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:43 PM
1

A lot of people's point here is that yes she offered solutions but they're so extreme. For example a lot of couples enjoy sleeping in the same bed so they can cuddle. If one partner decided to just stop sleeping in that room understandably the other would feel hurt. There was a middle ground she could have picked. All she had to do was maybe use a torch or small light instead of using the main lights, stop using her phone and drinking coffee in that room and maybe prepare a few things the night …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:51 PM
1

If you say so 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:49 PM
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I don't feel attacked. I just have empathy and I understand how he feels in that situation. As someone with a sleep disorder I understand how bad it would be for someone to be woken up at 5am. Even if he doesn't have a sleep disorder it would still be really inconvenient. OP hasn't displayed any misogyny or fuckboy behaviour in his post so I don't see the point in going against him for no reason. It seems people like yourself and a few other commenters in this thread are going against him here b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:29 PM
-1

"Actually has a sleeping disorder" - are you implying I don't actually have one? 😂 Most of the other commenters on this thread agree with me that whoever posted this and comments like yours are unreasonable and lacking empathy. Also "you need to calm down" - yikes that's some LVM language right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:21 PM
-1

These comments are absolutely ridiculous. So because he doesn't want to get up at 5am he's a bad guy? Have some empathy. Let's not stoop down to the level of LVM. He could have a sleep disorder for all you know. "Just go to bed earlier" - I know as an insomnia sufferer I can't fall asleep before 1am and if I got woken up at 5am after 4 hours of sleep I'd tell someone to kindly f*ck off if they said "just go to the gym". This is partly why FDS gets a bad rep. Most of the stuff said here about men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:54 PM
14

If sexuality really was a choice 90% of women would choose to be with other women. But unfortunately we can't help who we're attracted to :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:25 PM
10

Yeah just because it's FDS doesn't mean we automatically need to take the woman's side. 99% of Relationship_Advice and AITA posts do feature LVM that did something awful but this is an obvious exception. We don't need to make up reasons he did something wrong just because he's a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:17 PM
24

Idk I'm on the guy's side for once. I'm a really light sleeper and suffer from insomnia so I'd be quite annoyed in the same situation as I know I wouldn't get back to sleep after being woken up. If he's telling the truth I'd find it rude if someone woke me up at 5am by turning on all the lights instead of using a torch or something, being super noisy etc. It's quite inconsiderate. There are times where I've had to get up hours before my partner in the morning and I made sure I had all my things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:55 PM
1

Lol I saw that tweet. She's not even wearing any suggestive clothing (although if she was good for her). All she did was dye her hair and put on e-girl style makeup. All a woman has to do to get called a thot/whore/slut these days is fucking exist. We can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:51 PM
3

When WAP first came out I heard that it stood for Wet Ass Pussy and I saw everyone praising it on Twitter for being so empowering. I hadn't actually heard the song yet or seen the lyrics so I thought "Oh this is going to be a song about how women do enjoy sex and get sexually aroused as well. That's good!" Because there's still people out there who see sex as something that is done TO a woman, not something we can actually enjoy. So I went into it with positive expectations. Then I actually sat …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:49 PM
13

This has to be fake. There's a lot of pickmeishas out there but surely nobody can be this stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:43 PM
54

Males know it's 100% wrong to do this. If all women collectively decided to go on Instagram, follow 200+ male soft porn models with chiselled jawlines, perfect abs, broad shoulders, muscular legs etc and spend hours per day ogling at them and giving them likes and saving the photos onto our phones they'd get so insecure and rightfully so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:19 PM
16

Sis what? He is openly sexist towards women who are 30+ and ogles younger women despite being married and you still think he's a good friend and decent husband? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:16 PM
27

I hate LVM - it's not my problem most men are LVM. When I do come across a man who isn't a misogynist I have no problems with him :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:32 PM
4

FDS always emphasises the need for close female friends but I've been struggling with this due to the existence of boyfriends. My best friend for example got a new boyfriend a year ago and since then we have barely talked. It's so depressing because even though I'm in a relationship I still make so much effort with my female friends. She on the other hand literally spends all her time with her new boyfriend. Also I want to say I don't think he is controlling her or abusing her. I've known this g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:21 PM
3

Thank you for reminding me about this statistic because everyday I get bombarded with images of cellulite free women (who have obviously had it photoshopped away) and then I feel bad about mine even though it's a fucking secondary sex statistic and the vast majority of us have had it since puberty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:19 PM
14

Ffs I'm fed up of arguing against this shit. If males are oppressed then it's their own fault. Look at who holds most positions of power in society (hint: it's not women...) I mean it has literally been proven there is a wage gap. Males love bringing up "WELL WOMEN JUST CHOOSE LESSER PAID JOBS!!!" even though studies literally admit there is a gap of around 7% that can't be explained by anything else, so it must be caused by employers consciously choosing to pay their female employees less than …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:16 PM
7

It sucks because Reddit gives the illusion that there are loads of female only subreddits! Like TwoX, TrollX and Feminism. But then if you did a little deeper it turns out they're all modded by trans identified males ie men. RIP GenderCritical it was so great. FDS is awesome but I still come across some lib fems who get offended if you mention some gender critical ideology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:17 PM
5

Every time someone says "sexuality is a choice" I will show them this. I really wish I could choose to not to be attracted to males after reading this. This is so disgustingly abusive. I hope she can get away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:04 PM
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Is he referring to the fact that FDS is anti BDSM? Shaming women for not wanting to be beaten, how very woke of him /s Not sure what he means here as he couldn't provide any evidence or examples of us being pick mes. 99% of men are trash misogynists so if I'm going to have to put up with one he should at least be providing to make up for my suffering lol. There's nothing wrong with being an unmarried woman and it's stupid how they make it out to be some sort of insult. Unmarried women have been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:45 PM
14

I hope this will have a happy ending (i.e. she divorces his gross ass)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:33 PM
47

I actually find this so funny because it's the 1 millionth example of males knowing they're trash and admitting to it. And yet they still get so annoyed if women get fed up of males being rapists. Here they are literally admitting to being predators but if we say the same thing suddenly they're all "NoT aLL MeN". Male logic lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:30 PM
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Oh my god that subreddit is a cesspool. So many scrotes and pick mes putting down the bodies of mothers and women who have given birth. "EWWWWWW STRETCH MARKS. EWWWWWWWWWW THEY GAINED A BIT OF WEIGHT. EWWWWWWWWWWWW HER BOOBS" etc Please shut up. It's valid to be scared of birth due to how much your body will change but having stretch marks and gaining weight are completely natural things and loads of women who haven't given birth have experienced it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:26 PM
5

Yeah I don't like it either. It enforces the idea that we should be submissive or "feminine" with someone we trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:15 PM
106

"Girls" and "man" in the same sentence 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:48 PM
20

Lol you're so right because now that I think about it this whole "slim thicc" thing only became a trend once the Kardashian-Jenners started getting Brazilian Butt Lifts or whatever surgery it is that gives you a massive butt and hips with no hip dips. So despite the fact they got procedures to achieve that look all the young women are being told a lie that yes they too can achieve this look by just doing some squats at the gym! No. I doubt the Kardashians did any squats to get that look. They go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:15 PM
30

I have a BMI of 19 so I can't really get any slimmer without becoming underweight and yet my legs, thighs and butt are still really large compared to my waist and arms. As a pre teen I thought I was doomed and really fat because the massive trend back then was the thigh gap. Now I'm "slim thicc". Wtf can people make their minds up? I hate how women's body types and body parts are trends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:07 PM
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Yep I can't believe how normalised it has become to go through these serious surgeries just to meet today's beauty standards. How many young women are risking their lives getting Brazilian butt lifts or sacrificing their wellbeing getting breast implants? Even more "minor" surgeries like nose jobs can cause a lot of pain. All for what? Some scrote who'll probably change his mind about what he finds attractive in a few months time? Of course I can't say this outside of FDS because all the lib fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:00 PM
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You made the best decision. So many women with boob jobs have reported falling seriously ill and only getting better once they had their implants taken out. No woman should risk their health just to be more "attractive" to males. And let's be honest, if a male finds implants, which look unnatural most of the time, more attractive than the natural female body then there's something wrong with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:55 PM
9

Some males literally believe that women aren't sentient. There was a reddit post from a scrote a while back saying that women aren't sentient and to convince him otherwise and he was saying he found it hard to believe women had any thoughts, interests, ambitions or hobbies outside of their husbands. So yeah some males literally can't comprehend the fact that we're independent human beings lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:28 PM
18

Women have always been attacked for having any standards at all. Just look at the "nice guy" phenomenon. We have a load of men out there who think they are entitled to the woman they're pursuing (more like stalking) because they were mildly "nice" to her. How often have you seen a woman get asked out by a man and she turns him down and then people shame her for not "giving him a chance, he's so nice"? I know it's happened to me, it's happened to my female friends and I've even seen female Reddit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:20 PM
9

We all know she won't though :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:11 PM
3

Sis, I hope you mean EX boyfriend after that incident!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:10 PM
3

I went on the contraceptive pill right before I went off to university for the first time. I was having extremely bad periods. I'd basically be on my period for 8 days, have a 3 day break and then be on my period again. This went on for a few months and I was starting to get really exhausted and fatigued to the point I became anaemic. So I was put on birth control and it helped. Now I've always had some mild mental health struggles but I swear since then it has gotten so much worse. I really wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:08 PM
1

You're right, they shouldn't be dating, but they are. When I was 11 years old a lot of my peers were "dating." Some were having sex at 13 years old. The unfortunate truth is that kids are gonna be interested in other kids so we should at least help pre teen girls instead of pretending they don't date at all. Saying we shouldn't be giving them any information at all because they shouldn't be doing it in the first place is like sex education just being "don't have sex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:54 AM
4

These are great! I'd just like to add one correction. You said "why you shouldn't date men more than 3 years older." If this is for teens and pre teens I think even a 3 year age gap is still too large. A relationship between a 14 year old and 17 year old would be really concerning. For people this age it should be no more than 1 year imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:50 AM
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Yeah she completely glosses over the fact he basically tried to poison her. How much of a pick me do you have to be to not be concerned over the fact this man tried to purposefully give her stomach problems?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:35 AM
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Yeah as someone who's lactose intolerant this would be an instant break-up for me. It's NOT pleasant being lactose intolerant and ingesting dairy. I'll have to deal with nausea, stomach cramps and diarrhoea for hours. The scrote probably knows this is what people with lactose intolerance go through and enjoys watching her suffer. And it's really concerning how the woman seems more concerned about him having a tantrum over the dishes. Yes that's awful but what about the fact he essentially tried …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:30 AM
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This is what I tell myself every time I'm feeling self-conscious and I'm considering a cosmetic procedure. If an old rich man will profit off my suffering then I'm not doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:26 AM
32

"I don't like it when gay women hit on me." Well I have fantastic news for you scrote - they're GAY, so they're not hitting on you in the first place! Anyway this human bag of excrement definitely needs to be put on a watch list or investigated. I wonder how many women he has already assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:44 PM
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So she went for a health check up and she was at most only a little overweight? Let me guess she is 3kg overweight and just looks a bit chubby? You'd think from the way he was describing her in the first few slides she was morbidly obese and could barely move from being so unhealthy. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:04 PM
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But the OP says they're a 20 year old woman. 20 year olds usually don't have kids so I'm inclined to believe it. I'm 21 and a lot of women my age are massive pick mes and would agree with whoever wrote that. There is always the possibility a man wrote this but we have to remember a lot of women genuinely do believe this "men are more oppressed" bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:20 PM
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I love how she had to point out "I'm a feeeeeeeeeeemaaaaaaaaleeeeeeee btw." Wow I hope she got picked /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:12 PM
6

In what universe do women "lounge by the pool sipping margaritas"? The reality is most women work 2 full time jobs. The first full time job is the one she gets paid for. The second full time job is the one she has to do UNPAID when she gets home from her actual job. They cook, clean, take care of the children and make sure all the errands are sorted out while the scrote gets to kick back and play his vidya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:52 PM
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Lol I didn't even notice this. The only excuse for having a girlfriend of 7 years is if they started dating when they were 14 or something like that. Edit: I got notifications on my phone for a few comments saying "WHO ARE YOU TO SAY HOW LONG IS TOO LONG TO STAY A GIRLFRIEND" etc that I can't see or reply to. I'm guessing they were either posted by males, pick mes or those who are new to FDS. If you subscribe to FDS and read a few posts you will come across the term "forever girlfriend." If a ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:42 PM
68

Countless studies have shown that unmarried women are much happier than married women. But sure, all the single 40-year old women are gonna be "crazy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:41 PM
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On one hand I'm pleasantly surprised that a male has recognised that the reason why women say "all men are trash" and are suspicious/afraid of them is because of males' awful behaviour towards us. But on the other hand all I saw in this post is ME ME ME ME ME. "I can't find genuine friendships with the opposite sex - fuck you!!!" Ok yes that's very sad but do you know what's more upsetting about our present reality? All the women whose lives have been ruined because of male predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:59 PM
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Well by pointing out she didn't have her nails done and saying "put yourself first" it kind of implies that women who don't have their nails done don't put themselves first. Which isn't true really. I tried having my nails done once and I didn't find it comfortable so I just don't do it anymore. I can still take care of myself while ignoring certain beauty rituals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:31 PM
5

I always make sure I wear giant over ear headphones when on public transport. Most people (ie women) see this as "don't talk to me" and respect that but I've had so many old men sitting next to me or near me on trains just start blabbing to me despite the headphones. When I was 18 or 19 I'd take them off and listen to be polite. I haven't been on public transport for a while due to the pandemic but next time I'm on a train and some old dinosaur starts talking to me despite the headphones I'm jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:30 PM
48

I mean I agree she's a pick me but not every woman wants to have her nails done lol. I can put myself first without having my nails done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:23 PM
19

Funnily enough her new book just got advertised to me on Facebook. The majority reactions were laugh reacts (by men of course). 99% of the males in the comments were crying about how it was "male bashing." One scrote was crying about how there's a societal war against men and that feminism teaches women to ignore their femininity (i.e. feminism says you no longer have to be a mother, housewife or sex slave to a man). On Amazon the book has 1 review and it's 1 star from Paul, who wasn't even a ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:18 PM
17

Someone on FDS posted a study a while back suggesting that performing circumcision on babies literally changes their brain for the worst. It's horrifying. If men want to get circumcised when they're adults and can consent then they should be able to but doing it to children is disgusting. Obviously if there's a medical necessity then it should be done but most of the time there isn't. I still wouldn't compare it to FGM though. At least circumcised males can still experience sexual pleasure. FGM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:41 PM
22

I remember when Laura Bates came to my secondary school when I was around 15 years old to talk about her Everyday Sexism book. All the boys I had to sit by were whispering about her tits and making really degrading comments. They were literally at a talk where a woman was describing her experiences of sexual and street harassment and they still couldn't stop sexualising her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:26 PM
61

Hahah whoever wrote that was 100% crying as he typed it. "Wahhhhhhhh FDS said men are trash :( we need to get it taken down!!!!!! Imma just ignore the hundreds of subreddits that encourage and celebrate the abuse and rape of women tho."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:44 PM
47

I live in the UK so I've never had a partner with a circumcised penis - it's just not common here - and tbh I'd prefer it to stay that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:04 PM
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Men love shaming any woman who doesn't have completely tiny or pink labia. If they get to call women's vaginas and vulvas "roasties" or "roast beef" then we should be able to have penis preferences. And also the size and shape of a penis impacts on our sexual pleasure whereas nothing about the appearance of a woman or her vulva can stop a man from having an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:03 PM
43

I love Jenny Nicholson! She makes a lot of videos about fandoms that are very male-dominated so I imagine she must deal with this constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:58 PM
6

Yeah I think it's a bit harmful to imply that if someone is up at 3am they're not being a productive member of society due to the possibility of it being a sleep disorder. But obviously if a man texted me wyd at 3am I would be suspicious and ask myself is he just horny? If it's a man chances are the answer is yes lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:12 PM
3

Ehhh I disagree with number 6 of the chatting phase. Some of us have insomnia and other sleep disorders. Overall though this is accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:00 PM
5

Personally my first time didn't hurt at all. I was with a partner who I trusted and did foreplay before any penetration happened. Being relaxed, properly aroused from a lot of foreplay and feeling safe will massively reduce the chances of it hurting. Even then it might hurt a little bit but as long as you are relaxed it shouldn't "hurt really bad."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:00 PM
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This is so bizarre. WHY did he think it would be a good idea to go on about some (probably made up) orgy he had with some women? Men these days really know how to woo women /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:44 PM
14

Ewwww well at least he showed his true colours early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:43 PM
61

I want to preface that this occurred when I was 19, had recently broken up from a 3 year relationship, didn't know FDS yet etc. So my standards were lower. I met this guy at a house party. I was really drunk and he was more sober and he started flirting with me (first red flag). Eventually he asked me out on a "date." I guess he was kind of attractive and we had a lot of interests in common such as literature and video games. So I was like sure, hoping I'd become more attracted to him once I got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:40 PM
11

Not just "holes." Bitches, hoes, whores, thots, females, birds, chicks etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:23 AM
8

Pffft if they think these requirements are a "long list" they'll start frothing at the mouth once they see mine hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:22 AM
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I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:16 PM
4

Idk I definitely don't like the way pick mes have reacted to the song. Any woman criticising it gets "owned" with the comeback that she must have a "dry ass pussy". I can't really put into words why that bothers me but it does. So not being sexually aroused 24/7 makes a woman lesser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:42 PM
2

As someone who really enjoys cooking and baking I'd happily make meals for a spouse/partner but you'll never catch me doing a man's dirty laundry. Do all the laundry you want sis but he'll still probably cheat on you in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:50 PM
18

Asking for anal is a dealbreaker for me as well. A guy being obsessed with anal is just such a red flag. It automatically tells me the man is pornsick, doesn't care about my pleasure and wants to hurt me. Funnily enough I go to university and my university has this anonymous confessions page thing. I was in an FDS mood and I submitted a confession saying a straight man asking for anal is a red flag because men are into anal because they know how painful it is for 99% of women. Of course all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:29 PM
48

What is Chrissy Teigen actually "famous" for? I had never heard of her until I saw some people I follow on Twitter retweeting her. I'm guessing she's an "influencer" from how much time she spends tweeting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:20 PM
12

The UK would be a far better place without Daily Mail and The Scum (Sun).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:15 PM
9

They are completely devoid of love or empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:11 PM
6

Men would happily fuck coconuts (and they do). Of course we're pickier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:10 PM
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I definitely find it very attractive when straight men care about having good hair, skin and a good sense of style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:53 PM
6

Even if a woman couldn't get laid no matter how lonely she felt she still wouldn't be an incel. I find it very hard to believe that there are women out there who wish death and rape on men for not wanting to have sex with them. Meanwhile there are hundreds of thousands of incels on the internet who unironically believe that the government should "provide them with girlfriends" aka give them women to rape and terrorise. Edit: also women have actually been raised to see men as human beings and not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:32 PM
19

Imagine accusing someone of being low IQ while thinking female incels exist lol. Women have do not believe themselves to be entitled to sex the same way males do. We never have and never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:21 PM
173

Ew Daily Mail celebrity headlines are so disgusting. It's always "*insert female celebrity here* SHOWS OFF HER BUSTY FIGURE as she swims in A BIKINI SUGGESTIVELY." No she's not "showing off" or being suggestive for you you creeps. She's on the beach minding her fucking business while creepy male paparazzi follow her around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:39 PM
14

I hate the recent attempt at normalising polyamory these past few years. I've seen so much shaming of monogamous people or if it hasn't been shaming it's been trying to convince people that nobody REALLY wants monogamy. We've just been CONDITIONED to believe we want monogamy! Nah no thanks. I'm 100% monogamous. It is 100% natural and to be honest I lose respect for people who go on about how polyamorous they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:36 PM
12

I 100% agree. I know we are socialised to pander to men from a young age but there's a point at which you need to realise that the situation you're in is fucked up. I see so many posts in relationship advice that are like "Oh my boyfriend sexually assaulted my child but I love him so dearly. What should I do reddit?" Jesus Christ leave him what the fuck are you doing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:29 PM
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Men like this are why women should stay safe and avoid Only Fans. The unfortunate truth is that there are so many men who would love to use those photos to blackmail you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:26 PM
3

Same. I thought "Wow, the Red Pill is still up but FDS is deemed more hateful than that?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:47 PM
18

Exactly. Why is it bad for us to vent about men when they're the gender who commit the most violence? We have a right to be upset about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:42 PM
21

Karen started off as a meme to shame privileged white people who are rude to customer service. It was still a bit misogynistic at the start - I doubt it's predominantly women who harass staff, let's be honest - but not as bad as it got. Now if you're a woman and dare to have an opinion or stick up for yourself you're a "Karen"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:42 PM
14

The fact that nicegirls even exists makes me cringe so much. There is no female equivalent to the nice guy phenomenon and anyone who thinks so is stupid. Women do not feel they are entitled to sex from men the same way men think they are entitled to sex from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:40 PM
27

So, women who share advice on how to avoid men who are trash are now somehow comparable to incels who literally want to rape and murder women? Ok Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:39 PM
12

It should be renamed to unpopularopinionsthataren'treallyunpopularbecauseallmenhavethoseopinions lol. Every other thread is "Guys, men are actually more oppressed than women" with 30k upvotes. And occasionally there's a pick me posting something like "We women need to stop bashing men so much. They go through so much!!!" with 70k upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:38 PM
6

WeLL ShE DiDn'T hAvE tO AgReE tO pAy FoR aLL tHaT sTuFf. hE iSn'T iN tHe WrOnG. Yes I suppose she technically could have stopped working two part time jobs but then they'd be hungry and potentially homeless and at that point they'd be calling her heartless for not paying. We can't win lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:59 AM
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I would agree but she probably had an emotional attachment to the dog at that point. Obviously I can't know that but if it was me I definitely would lol. But yeah if he bought the dog, he should get off his unemployed ass and do something. What was stopping him from getting a part time job so he could afford it and still keep up the "I'm poor" charade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:52 AM
25

This is the unfortunate truth. If it was "socialisation" then why has almost every society throughout human history been extremely misogynistic, even when they had no contact with each other? I seriously doubt men in Ancient Rome and societies in the Asian continent were trading tips on how to oppress women. Nah. This is 100% nature as opposed to nurture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:34 PM
19

I get it's a "joke" but it's so irritating how they have to put sex into literally everything. They're unhealthily obsessed with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:25 PM
2

Yeah at least then she can get his money, leave him and get some therapy to get over the abuse in that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:54 PM
22

she sold her most prized possession to save the life of his (he's the original owner) dog?! All the while he's sitting on money?!! The funny thing is when this got posted on Instagram loads of men were commenting "Why is she complaining? She should have just let the dog die if she didn't want to use her own money to pay for the surgery. Why is she complaining???" but I bet if she did actually let the dog die they'd all be calling her a psycho and saying "SEE, WOMEN ARE EVIL! DOGS ARE MAN'S BEST …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:25 PM
24

I'm not spiritual but for her sake I hope heaven exists so her soul is resting peacefully there. She's in my thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:22 PM
105

This was so hard to read. I frequently think about the millions of women who have lost their lives due to the depravity of males. She was so young. She probably had such a bright future ahead of her only for those subhuman scum to take it all from her. The sentences they got were far too lenient. I'm usually against the death penalty but those males don't deserve to be alive after what they did. May she rest in peace. And your point about porn - 100% right. Rape and porn aren't about sexual plea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:03 PM
6

For real. Women as a whole just don't do shit like this. Like it just doesn't even cross our minds to be this abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:41 PM
6

Even if it's fake he's still seriously messed up for fantasising about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:39 PM
2

Men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:39 PM
62

Exactly. He clearly didn't love her at all if he was ok with her being devastated over having to sell her dead mother's violin, a possession with a lot of sentimental value. I don't know how much dog surgeries cost but the cost can't have been more than 0.00001% of his wealth. You're just straight up not a good person if you have that much money and refuse to help. I hope she called the marriage off and dumped him. If she got married to him he'd continue to make her work multiple jobs. What if t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:17 PM
46

Gross. And of course they don't do any housework or childcare. So the woman in their relationships is paying for everything AND doing all the labour at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:42 PM
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They always claim "nobody cares about men's mental health" but I'm willing to bet that 90% of the time it's other men bullying men for showing any emotion that isn't anger. Also I just googled women's mental health and it came up with 623 million results. Men's mental health came up with 924 million results. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything but obviously there are a lot of people talking about men's mental health so they need to stop using the argument that "society" doesn't car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:39 AM
6

I remember when I was 9 this group of girls in my class were all friends and they called themselves the Foxy Sexy Ladies. Like wtf. Why are 9-10 year old girls referring to themselves as "sexy"? This was in 2008-2009.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:13 AM
139

This is why it's a waste of time sticking up for men's issues. They'll never do the same to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:38 AM
21

I'd post this in PinkPillFeminism if it wasn't banned but I thought it would belong here as well. After watching Train To Busan I went on my IMDB account to give it a rating and decided to check out the other reviews. I probably viewed 20 reviews and 50% of them were objectifying the teen character who is probably meant to be 16 at most. It's so disgusting how they're just unashamedly sexualising this SCHOOL AGED character. Don't even get me started on the fetishisafion of Asian women going on h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:38 PM
3

I watched When Harry Met Sally because everyone goes on about it as if it's the epitome of romance. I hated it. Harry was an obnoxious rude annoying misogynist and Sally was way out of his league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:57 PM
6

The OP is actually a male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:08 PM
28

Men out themselves as awful people every single day. So many of them admit they'd be out there raping women if it wasn't for porn or the law. And then they have the audacity to throw a tantrum when we say men are trash. I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:33 PM
10

My bad I forgot the part where it said he comes home from work. But still my point is pretty much the same. If the mother can work all day and be a responsible parent there is no excuse for him to just sit on his ass after work playing games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:48 PM
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Same here except both my parents worked. My mum did pretty much 100% of the parenting at least during the years I can remember - it might have been different when I was a baby. Especially during my teen years she did all the cooking, cleaning, disciplining, helping me with schools, advice on friends etc while he would sit back and game. The only interaction he had with me was yelling at me for getting "bad" grades, aka I got an A instead of an A* a few times...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:08 PM
1

Right so he expects her to be submissive and slave away all day cooking and cleaning for this man and his 3 children as he obviously isn't going to put in any work but she somehow has to have her own source of income at the same time? This man is genuinely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:33 PM
12

No PC is worth $15k. Which is worrying because that means he could have gambled away the rest of the money or spent it on cam girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:26 PM
7

They don't realise you can have fun interesting sex without it being a boxing match. Like you said light spanking spices things up because it can be a really pleasurable sensation but to them that's not enough, if you're not covered in bruises the next day the sex is too vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:21 PM
8

Typical male only wants a kid for the Kodak moments. Screw doing the actual childcare and responsibilities. He only wants to be there to attend the kid's football games once a month or have birthday parties once a year. Once again all the meaningful childraising falls to the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:17 PM
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I was thinking that as well. With $15k you could get 2, maybe 3 high end PCs (idk what the USD conversion rate is so I'm just guessing here) with the very best components. He probably bought one PC and spent the rest paying for Only Fans subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:11 PM
130

I hate boomer humour. If you hate your wives so much stop fucking proposing to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:25 AM
24

I'm speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:20 AM
12

If he doesn't text back within a day he's just not interested. Block and move on. Nobody's trying to be a "mean girl" by pointing that out. It's just the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:17 AM
9

This is so true. I often see women in arguments saying something like "Shut up your eyebrows don't match" or similar things. Not every woman is into makeup or eyebrow grooming and that's okay. No need to use it to show she's "inferior."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:15 AM
6

How delusional is she? Liberal feminists are in major denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:21 PM
21

When I look back at my pick me days I feel proud of myself for growing out of that mindset as many women unfortunately never do. Don't beat yourself up over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:42 PM
2

This made the scrotes soooo mad. I got a notification - it was an essay so I didn't read most of it but it started out with "it's not a man's job to pay for your drinks" and ended with "incel pig." I assume it got flagged immediately for being posted by a male as I can't view it. My point still stands. Women aren't free trained mental health professionals so it's not our obligation to fix broken men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:56 AM
8

Wtf an hour is such a ridiculously long time to make someone wait even if it's not in the rain. You dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:28 AM
33

I will never support prostitution or any type of sex work. It is the abuse and violation of women plain and simple. It contributes to misogyny and objectification. If one woman is on sale then we all are. Unfortunately lib fems are stupid and they see statements like this as an attack on the sex workers themselves. Nah I'm criticising the system and the men who consume porn + pay for prostitution as well as the pimps organising it. Why would I criticise sex work for being abusive and then attack…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:49 AM
28

She mentioned in the comments that he and his friend had watched porn with black women participating in rough sex 🤢🤢🤢 So you are right that he is straight up racist and he probably has other racist beliefs that he didn't get from porn but also we can't deny that porn often enforces very racist stereotypes and people probably become more racist through watching porn because of the stereotypes in porn, e.g. black women and slavery, east asian women being submissive etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:26 PM
382

We're not their therapists. We're not their mothers. We're not their counsellors. Why is it ALWAYS OUR JOB to transform shitty criminal porn addicted men into functioning human beings? I'm so fed up of this. It's not my fucking job to turn shitty cheating rapist men into good people. I'm not going to sacrifice my own wellbeing in the hopes that he's gonna change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:30 AM
86

The fact that liberal feminism has convinced women to put up with polygamy/polyamory/whatever they call it is an actual joke. Only men benefit from this set up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:34 AM
99

Of course there's scrotes on the original post criticising the comments telling her to dump him. "OH SHE SHOULDN'T REFUSE TO SEE HIS POINT OF VIEW, OH IT WAS JUST A MISTAKE." Edit: thank god she dumped him, I was worried those comments would convince her to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:22 AM
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Clearly a porn addict. I'm so disgusted. I feel so sorry for young women having to deal with males whose minds have been rotten by sexist racist porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:08 AM
13

Nobody should be casually insulting someone else like this but it's extra ridiculous when men who are ugly themselves do stuff like this. Like take a long hard look at yourself first before spewing shite like this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:03 AM
46

Unfortunately they view dating and having sex with women as some sort of game. Just look at all these websites where they share nude pics of women they've been with. Sex to them is all about high fiving their bros and treating women as collectables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:01 AM
74

It just proves our point that men who want anal want to do it because they know it's painful for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:39 PM
7

So not only is he a misogynist but disgustingly racist as well... 200 miles away is not far enough for this woman. I hope she never meets him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:20 PM
2

Ok well I've seen stunning girls in my university get cheated on so it's not just celebrities.The point remains is that whether men are trash towards you doesn't depend on your appearance as this guy believes. The overwhelming majority of men are NVM or LVM hence why we need FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:10 PM
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We need FDS because stunning women like Beyonce still end up with ugly men who cheat on them. You could be the least fat and ugly woman in the world and you could still date trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:00 PM
4

Why is nobody in the original post commenting on the fact that this daily oral sex will be replacing PIV? So the only sexual action she'll be getting will be something that won't even give her pleasure... Her fiance is a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:48 PM
4

I was going to say just avoid male dominated subs and go to female dominated ones but that's not even going to help you avoid anti-women subs. There's a lot of male-worshipping pickmeishas in subreddits like TwoXChromosomes and TrollX - in fact I don't think those subreddits are even modded by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:38 PM
17

Curiosity doesn't justify financially contributing to the objectification of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:58 AM
5

At this point I can't even feel sorry for pickmeishas. She must either be mind numbingly stupid or have some sort of cucking kink otherwise WHY would you pay for your boyfriend to get lap danced on by other women? Her fault either way jesus christ. This is what you get when you try to be the cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:57 AM
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Never debate with men. You just can't win with them. They'll always start debates with "Should women have rights?" and when you get frustrated about having your human rights discussed as if it's a fun game they'll use that as evidence that we're "too emotional" or "not logical enough."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:49 AM
43

I'm confused as to how this tweet should be understood. Is he pointing out how fucked up it is that men only learn to "respect" women once they have a daughter by showing how women don't need to have a son to respect men? Or is he saying "Why don't women respect men????!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:48 AM
10

Of course this is on unpopularopinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:49 PM
2

Yeah I hate how everyone just focuses on the fact that the woman in the BDSM relationship consented. Like ok there are a lot of pick mes out there so I am willing to believe they consented. But WHY is nobody talking about the fact that there are men who get boners when their gf/wife dresses up as a baby and says gooh gooh gah gah??? I don't care if their partner consented. Something is seriously wrong with anyone who can get off on rape, pedophilia (this includes school girl stuff) etc. Of cours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:21 PM
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Men: "Women are so catty! Female friendships don't exist because they all secretly hate each other! Also men: *make fun of anyone with mental health issues calling them pussies or girls because feeling any emotion that isn't anger is apparently "feminine" and then complain about the male suicide rate, also refer to any affection between men as "gay" and then complain about not being complimented*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:17 PM
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but we also don’t want to downplay how dangerous it is or glamorize it as a profession to an unrealistic degree. This is what I hate most about liberal feminism. I firmly believe that everybody should be discouraged from entering into sex work because of how dangerous the men who consume it are. I understand that some women go into it because they have no choice and I fully support them and want to be protected so they can get out of that as soon as possible. But I've seen people on Twitter post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:12 PM
6

Those other things you mentioned don't involve rape, violence and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:10 PM
5

The way I see sex work is women engaging in it should be protected but the Johns and Pimps consuming it should be punished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:08 PM
12

Unfortunately they use "sex work is real work" to brush off any complaints at the abuses that sex workers go through. I've pointed out how women shouldn't be encouraged into doing sex work because of how awful pimps and johns are and I got called a SWERF and of course got told "SEX WORK IS REAL WORK."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:07 PM
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Sex work is work like being an assassin is work. I mean sure they make you money but they're jobs that involve people being hurt. I know it's not the best comparison but just because something "is work" that doesn't mean it should be encouraged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:05 PM
11

I read somewhere that males think about sex every 3 seconds. I used to think it was ridiculous but after seeing places like 4chan and Reddit I think it may be true for the vast majority of males. These people are meant to make the better leaders? Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:02 PM
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Men on Reddit (and irl as well) literally don't see us as human beings. We're just boobs, asses and holes to them. The best thing to do is avoid male dominated subs (so almost all of them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:00 PM
2

I was born in a country in the Balkans but I've lived in the West since I was 6 (I'm 21 now). I can confirm that there are a lot of Eastern European fetishists out there. When I was doing my A Levels (for people in the US that's the exams you prepare for when you're 16-18 years old) there was a guy in my class who was alt-right and a Brexiter: one of those types who wanted to "get the immigrants to leave our country" or whatever. Thing is though he ONLY dated Eastern European girls. Bonus points…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:37 AM
127

"Breath restriction." If you're gonna do it at least have the balls to call it what it is: strangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:59 PM
72

When it's men doing the first 3 it's "dark humour". They can dish it out but they can't take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:14 PM
23

Lol if a man said "I like to degrade and harm women" the libfems would be frothing at the mouth but if he adds "because it gets me off" to the end of the sentence all of a sudden they're all "OMG YASSSSS KING THAT IS SO WOKE, PROGRESSIVE AND EMPOWERING. PLEASE NOBODY KINK SHAME THIS DELICATE SEX POSITIVE MAN ❤❤❤🌸"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:23 PM
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This is what I hate about people who cry about kinkshaming any time you criticise kinks. Lib fems do it a lot. Why do they think kinks exist in some sort of a bubble? If a man can only get off if he's roleplaying rape that says something massive about the sort of person he is, but you can't say that bc it's "kinkshaming." Similarly we can't question whether women who are into this do it as a result of trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:04 PM
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That's what I meant. Those things existed back then but if men were into them they were more likely to keep quiet because anal etc were thought of as weird. Missionary sex used to be thought of as vanilla and maybe using something like a feather was thought of as kinky. Now violent anal with punching and slapping is considered vanilla. It's so fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:10 AM
72

MGTOW are incels who can't admit to themselves that they're incels. They think they've voluntarily decided to stop dating and having sex with women. In reality they just hate women because they can't get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:39 AM
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I feel so sorry for the young girls of this generation. They'll never know what normal loving sex is like. They've grown up on a culture where choking, slapping and anal is vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:36 AM
124

So women should be shamed for having sexual encounters because men have no standards??? What logic is this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:45 PM
2

I hate men. We can't even trust our own partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:25 PM
47

So he can't even afford to move out of his parents' house but expects women to quit their careers and slave away for him? Ok Avishek Saha. You're clearly delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:55 PM
27

As a woman with anxiety I'd be happier at home so I guess the pick me is right in one regard. But when at home I'd ideally... still be doing work or my profession, not cooking, cleaning and being a sex slave. I'd rather die than dedicate my entire life to serving some manchild. Like I've gone through 16 years of education and I'm about to do my Masters degree. I'm not giving all that up to be a housewife to some man who probably can't wipe his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:42 PM
6

True. If we were all biologically amoral and hated other women wouldn't the woman on woman crime rate be much higher? Like in prisons for example. Idk what female prisons are like but I bet my kidney they're far less awful than male prisons... But sure being male is like a fraternity. They're all BFFs and are united.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:11 AM
2

They hate women so they spew this nonsense that we all secretly hate each other, that way they can justify their misogyny. "Well they hate each other so it's ok for us to hate them right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:07 AM
14

I'm 21 and I find the idea of dating a man in his 30s + so disgusting. I get icked out thinking about dating someone who's over 24 let alone a middle aged bloke. But sure they're in ThEiR pRiMe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:24 AM
18

I live in the UK and when men hit their 30s they become bald and overweight. If you've ever been to a pub you would have noticed they all look like Phil Mitchell from EastEnders. They think because male celebrities like George Clooney look good at their age all men age like fine wine. George Clooney only looks that good because he was hot when he was in his 20s. And he was hotter when he was younger anyway, defeating the whole idea of their "prime" being 40 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:23 AM
13

Personally I'm childfree as I have no maternal instincts and have just never felt the urge. But even if one day I all of a sudden want to be a mum I still wouldn't because it is so difficult to find a man who will actually be a good husband and good father. No thanks I don't want to give up 100% of my free time and life taking care of my child while he sits back and watches anime/plays games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:06 AM
46

"Why didn't you communicate to him before hand that you don't enjoy being stabbed? Men aren't mind readers how was he meant to know you don't like grievous bodily harm? YTA."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:04 AM
24

JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE wItH hIm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:03 AM
29

Fucking hell, not to sound like I'm victim blaming but what is up with women on relationship advice? They severely under-react to every situation. This woman's man could kill her mother and she'd still be saying "I'm not sure if I'm in the wrong here?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:01 AM
11

Every time I see the phrase "life on easy mode" left by an anonymous commenter I automatically know it's a male commenting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:59 AM
24

Ew men are so disgusting. There's already 3000+ subreddits dedicated to their fucked up fetishes but noooooo that's not good enough for them. They have to bring their gross kinks into women's spaces as well 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:58 AM
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I could be walking around buck naked and that still isn't an invitation for a man to touch me in any way. Why do men think human rights just stop applying if you're wearing less clothes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:54 PM
18

I'm confused - what's the context?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:53 PM
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How is it our fault that we actually have standards? Men literally admit to swiping on every single woman without even looking at the profile. Meanwhile we take our time and pick men we think we'd be compatible with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:26 PM
5

While I agree that the "women is crazy" stereotype was propagated by males, this was obviously posted by a woman. It's a makeup, fashion and beauty account for young women. And I actually do see young women going on about how "crazy" they are with their boyfriend and it makes me cringe. You're not crazy. Unless you have a serious mental disorder or something like that then chances are your feelings are 100% valid. It's an internalised misogyny thing for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:31 AM
1

Yeah I've seen women posting about their experience with rape or sexual assault get really creepy PMs. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:09 AM
6

I always wondered why men are always the ones complaining about having to get married and complaining about their wives even though they're the ones proposing. They essentially want a free bangmaid: someone to cook his meals, clean the house, do 99% of the childcare, provide free emotional therapy and of course sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:07 AM
232

I hate the phrase "hit it" to describe sex so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:22 PM
92

Why are some men so bad at Tinder bios??? He's probably wondering why he's been on it for 6 months and had 0 matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:04 PM
10

This isn't my conversation. I found it on Twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:31 PM
3

I like anime but I'm a firm believer that 99% of anime is trash and One Piece is part of that 99%. I can't blame you for giving up on it. And as someone who likes anime and games I find it so annoying when i see men trying to force their girlfriends into their hobbies. They just can't accept that maybe their gfs just don't enjoy games. Giving gaming related gifts to someone who isn't passionate about it is so thoughtless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:43 AM
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Also can I just add what some of the scrotes on the comments section of the Twitter thread were saying. One male contributed this: "Some women like to be dependant on another man. Wether it's seen as a sign of weakness or not it's really a choice. Any weaker woman or stronger woman can make a choice that is the reality of things." UGHHH WHY DO THEY ALWAYS HAVE TO TURN SHIT LIKE THIS INTO A BDSM SITUATION? No he doesn't want an insecure woman as a sexual thing. He wants a woman who feels shit abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:10 AM
12

Some men have meltdowns when their gf/wife cuts her hair to above shoulder length so imagine their reaction to seeing a bald woman or even a woman with a shaved head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:14 AM
35

Found this on Twitter btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:35 AM
5

Idk what the original post was about. I assume it's about body issues or an ED or weight hardships. This sort of misogynistic trolling is awful but especially heinous on a post like that. Hope OP wasn't affected by his comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:07 AM
45

It definitely seems like he's trying to get her to react negatively as opposed to just being a creep who wants lewd pics. Not that trolling is not as bad. They're both equally bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:03 AM
39

How do men just not experience shame? I'd rather die than comment something like this on another person's post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:02 AM
6

A lot of women definitely have lower standards than they should have. Now obviously trashing other women to get the attention of a HVM is still awful but when I see women being pick mes in the hopes of getting a man with a criminal record and a porn addiction I feel so baffled. We could all do so much better and I think we definitely put up with shit behaviour because we've been taught we need to get a man before we hit the made up "Wall" at 20 or whatever age it is these days (it gets lower eac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:25 AM
7

There is nothing inherently wrong with any of the things you do. In fact sewing, knitting and cooking are very useful skills to have and are quite fun. He just hates those things because women enjoy them. Also I hate how we are always expected to take up our man's hobbies but they never show interest in ours. Like we're supposed to happily start watching Bleach or whatever shitty anime he watches, meanwhile they'd never even consider learning about fashion/art/any stereotypically feminine hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:18 AM
27

There's a chance she could be a mega pick me and happily went with the plan, but yeah if not then I feel so bad for her holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:57 AM
7

From a young age we've been taught that male attention and approval is all we need in life. No wonder there's so many pick mes. I find pickmeishas annoying but I always try to remember I used to be like that as well and I had to learn feminism and realise there is no point in putting down women so some mediocre man will like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:43 AM
18

Wait do they actually use women's longer queue times in bathrooms as "proof" that we're inferior? Male stupidity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:23 PM
8

I've been wondering this myself. My female friends and I all love games. We've all built our own PCs. However we all have other hobbies like art, baking, some of us play sports etc. My mental health is shit and I still manage to do stuff other than game all day. Meanwhile all the male gamers we know literally don't do anything else... And they'd always pick a game over spending time irl while my female friends and I would rather hang out together. Why do men get SO addicted and just neglect ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:53 PM
21

Only recently? The whole of relationship_advice since the dawn of time has been men being trash to their female partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:24 PM
1

Shit like this makes me wonder if men are even capable of having feelings. Some of them are genuinely subhuman. Hope she gets out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:08 PM
3

Video games are great in moderation. Obviously this doesn't apply to trash like CoD or Fifa but some of them are great for socialising, developing your team working skills and can even work your mind. I've really been enjoying playing Ace Attorney and Cities: Skylines during lockdown. I don't think playing games automatically makes a guy a LVM and it is getting tiring seeing this mindset on this subreddit as it basically dunks on those of us here who enjoy games. 1 or 2 hours a day isn't anythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:00 PM
1

To me video games are my equivalent of watching Netflix when you don't want to be productive. My actual proper hobbies are drawing, painting and photography and I spend a few hours a week playing video games if I just want to relax. I do love video games, some of them are works of art, but I feel second hand embarrassment seeing people (let's be honest it's only men though) spending 18 hours a day playing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:52 PM
6

Men: Women complain about men being bad because their standards are low. They need to just learn to recognise bad men and go for the good ones!!!!!! Women: create FDS to teach women how to do this Men: THIS IS HATE SPEECH!!!!!!111
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:12 AM
1

There's probably men calling him a simp for saying that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:33 PM
2

I don't think r/itsafetish has been banned either (they just set it to private). I think that subreddit might have a significant number of male users so I'm not shocked it didn't get banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:07 PM
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