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Do you have a few passages handy, you think the bible depict the gender roles as they should be well? I distincly remember the scene with Maria Magdalena and the anointed feet and the scene in the book of Matthew where Joseph finds Maria was pregnant and promply considers leaving her in secret (after an long paragraph selling the idea of the patriachial line from Abraham to Jesus implying Joseph is indeed some kind of biological father) requiring an angular intervention. Do you see these scenes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:18 PM
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Not 30+ but this sub is the source of some dark amusement. Similar to how some would watch a soap to see the drama unfold or used to read mad orange ape tweets to laugh at the latest malarky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:24 PM
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Is this a variation of "There is no such thing es good and evil, only power and those too week to seak it." [JK Rowling] or is yours the original quote which got a persiflage cameo in the children's book?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:05 PM
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In my opinion to have preferences what a partner looks like or behaves like is fine and very normal. To tie those characteristics to a race instead of an ethnicity or a phenotype is questionable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:28 PM
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Run it by me step-by-step please: Is your claim a foreigner is unable to fit into your society not because of his vastly different cultural background but because of the way he looks or because of some other inherent quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:23 PM
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Ethnicity contains not only phynotypical 'looks' aspects but also strong cultural aspects. Isn't it a flawed perception of reality to only categorise people by their looks entirely disregarding how their lookalikes from the other side of the globe have very little in common with them? Eg a traditional living Sherpa and a modern African American will have very little in common, as won't the builders of Stonehenge have with a modern British citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:17 PM
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The idea of races is scintifically outdated, yet people use it nontheless. Racism is not happening in congruence with reality but with the idea of reality, the worldview, the racist individual has. To give you a less loaded analogous example: Many people agree the world is more or less a globe. This can be proven in many different ways and is generally considered true. Yet unironical flat-earthers exist, for in their worldview the earth is flat. If your argument holds true, that racism can't exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:02 PM
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Race and racism as defined by Merriam-Webster. When unironically using an outdated and scientifically flawed conept, how is it not questionable. When not talking about genetics, tell me then, oh wise one, what makes a group of people a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:35 PM
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So any race that is concerned that its race might die out is racist?? Yes because thinking about humans in races is racist. Humans show depending on their ethnic group a diverse genotype and different frequencies in genetic variants. This results in the different phenotypes we see around the globe. But to start defining races - which is defining a race based on a set of phenotypic features humans display - remains in the spirit of the Nuremberg laws and is the mental child of a racist world view…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:48 PM
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Oh we had 'sex education' it was just very basic and technical. I learned much more during a one day workshop as a teenager than several years of biology lessons. And PE was down to 90 min on one day a week and like in grade 8 and 9 aditional 45 minutes on another day. Parents who didn't make sure their kids joined a sports team or encouraged kids to go outdoors with their friends had potentially very inactive children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:08 PM
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We love to entertain you. What gave you the idea I was a conservative though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:53 AM
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Oh what makes it so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:52 AM
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Meh, only my country? I need at least the entire EU to really get things done. But lets see: no more likes/dislikes on social media: I'd claim it's bad for the health of my citizens when they get those dopamine rushes again and again just because someone liked their picture/video/whatever. It's entirely ok and encouraged to use the comment section though teenagers will have to sit through a sex and relationship education class. They will likely feel very akward during the entire class and many c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:18 AM
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Can confirm, works for all genders. I think it's a human basic desire to be seen as who they are and to be seen in a positive light/feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:06 PM
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The USSR lost 13% of their population during ww2. And the medals were awarded for 7+ children. This is more like encouraging women to go all out with childbearing. Statistics of birthrate in FRG and GDR. I see clearly higher birthrates in GDR after the introduction of the pill. Why are sustainable birhrates so important on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:39 AM
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Is it already propaganda to point out that even though live in general was shit there were some aspects that were better than todays society? Isn't the nuanced regard of history what protects from propaganda concerning it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:25 AM
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You're entirely to generous with your social experiment. - add some free healthcare, childcare and elderly nursery homes for everyone. To finance those cut the income drastically - cut the income drastially down: considering an Ostmark was 0,1 Mark and approximately 1 Mark = 0,5$ and an average income was 1300 Ostmark(=65$) an income of 100$/month to account the inflation sounds justified -suddently realise your poor workers and farmers don't have enough money to pay for their food after they pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:15 AM
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In my land, once a baby is born both parents have rights and responsibilities. Most men don't want to get their ONS pregnant only to pay alimony for the next 18+ years, it contradicts the idea of casual, inconsequential sex. By that logic, men too have an interest in not getting their partner pregnant. Hence men carry their share of responsibility for propper contraception. Once again, if the contraception is succesfull, the desired result is already there and there no final option for women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:06 PM
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With successful contraception there is no veto power women could take. By deciding to use a condom men can drastically decrease the chance to even be in the position of possibly becoming father against his will. Wouldn't you say the moment the man decided to forgo responsible contraception (either taking care of it themself or making sure the partner was responsible with their birth control) the man is accepting the possibility of pregnancy? Women might have the last choice after two people mess…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:48 PM
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How about HUMANS bringing up contraception, safer sex and consent before having sex and not only hoping it works out well? Are you trying to say contraception is only in the realm of female responsibility or is there some other gem of meaning hidden in your rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:24 PM
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As far as I know there is no birth control for men on the market, why don't you link me which preparates you mean when speaking about issues of sterilization . If you read my original comment again, you'll see me appeal to men for them to wish for male birth control - for if there is a market it's more likely the research is funded well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:14 PM
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No I'm curious what you consider a wrong as opposed to a mistake or a mishap. I think,given your previous answer, you differ those more stricktly than me, for in my understanding minor mishaps or errors are part of those little everyday wrongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:12 PM
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I admit I wouldn't want to be in either of your shoes, both having a partner that can't admit being wrong and a partner that can't let go sound unpleasant to me. It's not my beer though and you two have apparently found a way to make it work. Out of curiosity, do you have an example what admitting you were wrong is for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:38 PM
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So in a hypothetical setting, what would you say to your partner: It's your turn to go shopping but you forgot to get the most important ingredient for dinner. Your partner asks you where you put said ingredient, for it's their turn to cook dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:54 PM
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Can you back that up with some sources or is it hearsay from your part? As far as I know it was mainly the moodswings that stopped the studies on a previous prepaprate. Personally I'm particularly excited about the approach targeting the retinoic acid receptor alpha (RARA) to prevent sperm reaching maturity. This idea is independend from the testesterone pathways and likely the previously reported moodswings in other contraceptiva have no reason to manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:48 PM
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Which is why reading the labels is sooo important. If one decides they want to put them onto the body it should at least be an informed choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:27 PM
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It's very easy to land in uncanny valley when getting plastic surgery. Also most plastic surgeries are not aging well and have to be maintained/redone after a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:14 AM
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You can talk with her beforehand how she sees the risk of pregnancy and what she wants to do. The minority of women will lie. And you can wear a condom, drastically decreasing chances for an accident. Also you could demand the pill for the man is finally developed, there are some very good approches available that are not developed to a compound because the market is not big enough. Or you let some sperm get frozen and get the snip. There are options you can take, no need to paint yourself as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:58 AM
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Only 1% of all free time sportlers are using them. The consistent users can be spotted well by their massively overdeveloped neck/shoulder party. I avoid those men at all costs and many of my friends do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:46 AM
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You're right that question allone is not sufficient. But I think they're trying to catch those problems by asking "Did you have more than three intimate partners during the last year", too. There's always a host of questions about the sex life when donating blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:57 AM
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Some pretzels (mainly Southern Germany and Austria) are filled with butter. They're absolutely delicious. I'm surprised nobody made the 'filling your pretzel with my butter' joke, yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:35 PM
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In my opinion, sex within a permanent couple is commited. If the guests are permanent too, they are commited. If the guests are changing, sex with them is casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:21 PM
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From the side of risks to catch STDs the couple is taking when having guests in their relationship yes. (Stricly speaking, sex with changing relationship guests would be casual, sex within the couple or one or two permanent guests would not be casual) How the couple itself sees their guests, would be up to the couples discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:11 PM
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Whenever I'm at the blood donation centre the questionaire asks "did you have sex outside of a commited relationship?" I think this question captures the essence of casual sex perfectly, and I consider everything outside a commited relationship as casual sex. That is to say a partner one has casual sex with can progress to a partner one has commited sex with, as the relationship progresses. I know couples that are married on paper, but each have their own stable relationships, that are in my eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:14 PM
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Well then as this is a debate sub, point out where you think that I'm in the wrong and ideally back it up with a source. If I'm clearly in the wrong, that should be an easy exercise, right? Inverted comas ('') are as far as I know a generally accepted way to convey sarcasm in text
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:57 PM
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Are you doubting the historical accuracy or have you missed the sarcasm, when 'promoting' these 'solutions'?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:24 PM
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Just, no, that's not how humans work. Wishing for early birth rate high birth rate high marriage rate early marriage low divorce rate While at the same moment requiring a fair solution for all will not work. With a massive effort of propaganda, one can temporarily rise the birth rate, but it does nothing for longterm stability of relationships. There are some amoral 'solutions' that are history proved to 'work' but who would want these: Cutting rent to very low prices and limit number of housing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:09 AM
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Is it a cultural thing then? Or is it very targeted bride marketing that shifts the preception of the brides? I remember when my brother married his wife how annoyed she was by the added price to all things marriage related (like nice shoes=80€, but oh you want the same model in white=150€) I read somewhere that the average budget for Western European mariage is ~15k€. Granted usually most people can arrive by car or train and don't have to fly over half the continent, but that shouldn't add tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:13 PM
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Perhaps culturally dependand. If the marriage occurs during the early stages of the relationship (like after 2 or 3 years of meeting each other) it's more of a celebration-of-what-will-be than a celebration-of-what-we've-build-and-cherish, and celebrating what will be is imo much more vulnerable for fairy-tale excesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:31 AM
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Those prices are insane. All that for a party with friends and family. One can have an all inclusive wedding (nice location, music, catering, etc) for a fraction of that money. Is there a reason marriage calls for extravagant spending that exceeds the couples budget?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:27 AM
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I believe both genders are suffering unrealistic standards. What I've witnessed myself or learned from talking with friends and family is the dichotomy of consequences. On the one hand by not-conforming to the beauty standards one is more likely to become invisible to the environement or cause some ire targeted at oneself. (I'm thinking here about an overweight person allowing themselves to enjoy a coke or an ice or a piece of cake. Countless people will take thís as an invitation (to my shame s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:16 PM
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Clearly visible in your picture is the steroid neck, with ridiculously puffed muscles. Of course beauty is highly subjective and we like what we like. In my eyes, those are a warning sign to stay far away from those men though. Doesn't the FDS handbook contain a paragraph about staying away from broiler-lookalike gym-goers, though? If you have to advertise steroids, why don't you add a paragraph about the dangers* it comes with? *Steroid use may cause: inducing acne, inducing wateriness in tissu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:03 PM
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Perhaps truly asexual and aromantic people haven't had them. But these are usually not who those folks are looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:16 AM
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I've to confess I don't quite understand your problem. You have a well-paying job and started to hit the gym. What conflict are you facing when you are working a creative-and-mental work job and have a physical activity hobby? I mean you should have 40-50h/week work (or perhaps 60-70 assuming you're US based) and take I guess like an hour a day to work out. Do you have such long commuting hours or is there some other time conflict in your schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:31 AM
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To sweeten up the waiting time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:28 PM
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If it were FDS it would have been written from her perspective, how the forever boyfriend finally started to talk marriage only to have the forever boyfriend fail to CoMMunIcAte (not sure if I spelled that one right, the capitals change forever) by presenting ridiculous, handwritten, unreasonable prenup. She finally found her QUEEN energy and FDS and marched out of the door. Add a few swearwords of choice and flag with LevelUp or HeAintTheOne2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:24 PM
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I've got an auroral light. Well at least it's bright in the elevator and I can read something while waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:13 PM
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I'm happy for you that you took the step to see the psychologist. Isn't bulking about eating an excess of calories and protein to gain massive amounts of muscles and than loose the extra fat in the following training phase? Aren't there other training concepts that have a more moderate caloric intake during the weight gaining phase, you can try?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:16 PM
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You look like a perfectly fine normal dude to me. The angle and lightning you took your photos in is a bit unflattering and I'm unsure if your t-shirt is so crumpled on your shoulder because you're holding your arm at an angle to take the pictures or if another size would fit you better. That being said, I don't believe you need plastic surgeries. Im hearing you when you say you feel self-concious after negative coments about your looks. If i may offer my two cents though, I'd recommend you to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:53 PM
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Really interesting, thank you for sharing! Another cool feature of eggs is, that they won't choose the quickest sperm but chooses one out of the quickest group of sperm. Sperm and egg exchange information via chemotaxis (a bit like smelling at each other) and the egg allows one sperm to permeate it's membrane and actively blocks the attempts of other sperm to pass through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:52 PM
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What I've experienced is how my taste in men is aging with me. I believe the reason for young women to prefer young men is, that they are on average just well matched as a pair. (Much better than a jung woman with an ancient man.) To believe all women are crazy for the muscular silverbacks is in my opinion a RP bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:07 AM
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Well actually she could try washing it without soap. The vagina is self-cleaning and most soaps are harming/killing the good bacteria that are responsible for a healthy vaginal flora. Disrupting them increases the chance for yeast infections and the like (and no more nice smell). Well actually you could try a bit of a sporty activity bevore sexy times, just enough to break a bit of a sweat. Usually fresh sweat is what carrys all those sexy semiochemicals, while old sweat can smell a bit stronger…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:26 AM
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What a pickup artist considers as 'good women' is not necessarily what FDS sees as a HVW. That being said, this strategy is not about going to a dancing school in order to meet men, but to connect a personal passion with the oportunity to meet new people (potential friends and men alike). What one is paying for are the lessons not the men, one is investing in oneself here. If one doesn't care about dancing, this strategy is not going to work. With online dating, men can hide in online anonymity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:57 PM
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sounds lovely 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:42 PM
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Eh, blackberries and blueberries usually come in bushes, not trees though. Take a second look before you try to eat your 'blueberry'?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:39 PM
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That's true, some guys are like this. When taking the time to get to know the whole group and understanding the dynamics, they'll likely show their red flags though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:34 PM
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I'm living in my bluepill-bubble and many of the women I know are in monogamous relationships. Based on the single women I know though, I'd say some of them like to occasionally hook up or have a little fling. It's more of a once in a blue moon than a constant thing though. I have no idea what women living in other soziocultural bubbles are up to, though. Recently I read an article about the men-deficit in some american colleges and the resulting insane frequency of moresomes and hookups, and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:28 PM
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That sounds great, I dance swing myself and can't wait to get back to it. I hope covid will give your area a break and you can try it out soon. I'm afraid the dudes will always be a mixed bag, but swing dancing has (in my area) really great socials, many of passionate ones are participating. (Don't wory, you'll likely only need a few hours of lessons to partake and will pick up a lot on the floor.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:26 PM
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It depends on the partners name. If one partner has an unfortunate name or a really beautiful/special/fitting last name I'd marry away from the unlucky name and to the lucky name regardless of gender. (In my case, ther's no way I'd take a garden name like Miller, Schmidt, Dubois, Jacobs or Nielsen.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:21 PM
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Thank you, they look just like what I was looking for. I haven't seen one, but my gym is huge and perhaps the trainers can point me to something like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:41 PM
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Get them by the dozen and have one every day ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:39 PM
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Thank you, will look into the upper body exercises. Not sure if rowing machine will work, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:50 PM
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Thank you. I hope I can go swimming in a week or too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:48 PM
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Question for all who work out regularly: Do you have some exercises you can recomend? I hurt a tendron in my foot and now my usual regime won't work in the next six weeks, but I want to keep at least some stamina and not spend the next 12 weeks after building everything up anew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:47 PM
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Both gaming and anime have a very wide range from 'Deeply inspiring art' over 'goofy entertainment' to 'very problematic content'. IMO both can be problematic when consumed in excess (thusly massively wasting time) or when consuming highly problematic content (I'm looking at you childporn anime and mindless amok videogame). I think in moderation (like a shared evening with friends or occasionally to relax) they are a hoby like many others. That said, many games are developed to hook their consum…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:01 PM
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Some more flags: being on the phone while driving driving while under substances/alcohol or overtired not using their seatbelts not using blinker light/blinking last second driving inattentively in areas where children/many pedestrians might happen to be on the road (eg housing areas, areas around schools, shoping mall parking lots) driving very unsmooth often accelerating and hitting breaks closely following one another not using their mirrors and shoulder check when turning or overtaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:21 AM
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Look up Vogue covers or perhaps a Miss Universe compilation. Arguably these women are considered beautiful, yet we see many with more pronounced apples of the cheeks and weaker cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:23 PM
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The eyes are large, but close together. One couldn't fit a whole third eye in her eyes distance. The cheekbones just looked defined to me, if looking to the left half of her face they are visible in front of her hair and not part of a smooth concave line.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:26 PM
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What I find interesting is that you've picked for both faces ones that have hints of very high testesterone levels. Both faces have (for their respective gender) very well definded cheekbones and jaws, and eyes that are slightly more narrow than the Dureresque ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:43 PM
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If men try to apply some form of AWALT to individual women for most women this model will be illfitting. I read in the red pill explanation threat some bucketlist including a lot of points what tendencies supposedly all women show. Simply by existing and knowing myself I can deduce that is not truly all women, this argument is usually countered with 'the majority of women' or some variation of thereof. Let me illustrate with a quick example why, even in the case that the 'majority of women' argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:42 PM
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Thank you for the lovely discussion idea of pushing asteroid. I'm afraid one limitation will be the time, that thing needs to be detected ages in advance, but we will have some fun playing it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:36 PM
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And it is so badly written. I took a sneak peak into the book one time and uuurgh it's like the writer is trying to verbally dance ballet, but all the dancers are wearing cement shoes and also boxing gloves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:29 PM
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I might be spoiled with my city then. Here is a great bar that is barefoot only. But perhaps provocing touching hands situations might help. Like chinking glasses (and holding glass very vertically upright) or showing a picture of something on the phone or asking for him to pass salt/pepper/olive oil/napkin/whatever is slightly out of reach for you. Or have you tried the moon/star/skyline/cloud gazing? Point something remarkable out and take their hand to point to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:22 PM
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That would be to much touch to quickly for me. What about the little touches like when giving the other something brushing the others hand and making eye contact at that moment or touching the other slightly at the underarmarm or when barefeet or on socks slightly letting the feet touch? Have you tried those?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:01 PM
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Expensive. And likely not possible to change all satelite orbits that way. But better than not exploding asteroid. Other solutions we found during discussion: (1) Best case: detonate the asteroids behind but only giving tiny impuls not breaking it to pieces and change orbit marginally to crash it into the moon. Asteroid itself will serve as shield in direction of earth. (2) ok case: if Asteroid is made up of very soft matter, bevore exploding bomb has time to permeate into Asteroid and explosion…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:24 PM
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This study30357-6/fulltext#.Xchefiv5vwk.twitter), based on last names+matching y chromosome, about the paternity in middle Europe (Belgium+Netherlands) during the last 500 years comes to a result of ~1% of foisted children. This study on the other hand mentiones rates of ~2% Englishmen, 1.6% Middle Easteners and 8.2% Africans, each unsuspecting the parentage might be amiss. I remember reading a study like ten years ago how in latin america ~10% are foisted children, but this might as well be con…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:44 PM
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The Hulk existing is truly a marvel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:12 AM
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Some. Although I haven't heard a good one with a babel fish in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:55 AM
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There is no atmosphere in the space. When igniting the bomb in space the phenomenom will look like a star much brighter than the sun and the gama radiation will spread unimpeded. While we on earth will be fine because of theterrestric magnetic field depending on the distance other sensible infrastructure might be fried by it (Like the ISS, or a hypothetical mars colony or even sattelites in higher atmosphere.) Even though it's fair to note that satellites and ISS also have to be hidden from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:51 AM
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Thank you for your advice, but as I tried to describe in original answer to discussion prompt I dated in my extended social circle and am now happy in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:14 PM
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Am I misreading you or are you trying to imply some blackpill narrative how I'm too picky and the average guy stands no chance? The discussion prompt asked after our greatest dating difficulties (= finding partner I share interests with) and how we overcame them (= dating in extended social circle).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:13 PM
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Yes, it's crappy behaviour. I mean, I'm culturally biassed, because I was culturized with being exclusive first, and then if everything is peachy have the relationship become official. (Serial dating is not the norm here and would cause many raised eyebrows if not agreed upon bevorehand.) But if I were to become official with my partner and find out he had a bedwarming FWB along the journey, I'd be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:57 PM
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My theory is different types of nerds form their own clusters. And I think there are some kind of evolution steps too. I remember being in my late teens and early 20s and the 42 jokes where everywere. And now, when I interact with young nerdy students, you bet someone will crack a 42 joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:55 PM
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I'm flattered but not interested, darling. (And I'm just a girl next door. No major flaws but nothing special.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:43 PM
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a) I'm a nerd. I like discussing things like if the streaming waters grade of turbulency influences the taste of coffee or how an atomic blasting charge would have to be positioned on/in an asteroid aiming for maximal efficiency while simultaniously shilding well against gamma emission. I love mock-diskussing 'problems' like flat-earth physics or GOT physics (Not marvel physics though, they're downright bogus). b) I'm also very outdoorsy. I want to hike and bicycle and jog and surf and canoe and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:40 PM
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Those who carry heavy or are handycapped. Moving a mountain of documents, being very preagnant, being obese, having a broken leg, the elderly, ... Also absentminded or lazy folks may use the elevator. Other question: in a non-high-rise building why using the elevator up but not down?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:38 PM
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Contraceptive failures happen, you're right. But in that case it is infinitely better to be with a partner who agrees with you if the next step is either 'lets see if we get a baby' or 'morning-after pill, pregnancy test, abortion if pregnant'. To knowingly sleep with a woman who favours the other option than oneself is to accept that option in case of contraceptive failure. Just like we accept the chances of being in an accident when driving a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:04 AM
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What is your point? I pointed out current law as it is in my land. If 5,9 per 1000 women is limitless to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:53 AM
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Do you feel masturbation is something to be ashamed of? If you allow it to be, solosex can be so much more than just quenching a need, but an oportunity to explore your body and your desires. You can play with yourself, try a new pattern of movement or if the other hand feels more interesting today. Sex is a learned behaviour and what movents we learn during masturbation often reemerges in partnered sex. Imagine during solosex times you find this wonderfull new way you like to be touched. Then d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:43 PM
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Usually this is justified because the health risk of pregnancy but in this case there is none This is likely regionally dependend but in many lands with liberal abortion laws abortion is legal during first trimester for any reason (after a consultation and time for consideration).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:21 PM
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Wanting to have sex is natural. But being responsible and use a contraceptive of choice should be natural too. For example the netherlands have one of the lowest abortion rates in the world, despite having liberal laws concerning abortion. The reason for this is the very solid sex education for teenagers and easy access to contraceptives. An adult man who makes bad contraceptive choices (like insisting not to use a condom or claiming to be sterile or stealthing or ...) should have to accept his …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:14 PM
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But how did the woman end up pregnant if the man doesn't want children? Wouldn't it be much better to decide 'no children' before sex and choose an adequate contraceptive method? Carelessly impregnating a woman and then trying to slink out of responsibility is immature and needlessly cruel to the resulting child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:52 AM
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Very respectable reason not to have childern, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:29 PM
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For what reason not to watch porn to masturbate? To keep the own fantasies alive and explore were they take oneself as opposed to mindlessly consuming what another has though before and acted out before. And at least to me it is a huge downturn if the partner tries to reenact what they've seen in porn and only seem to follow a script and it is a much closer and more personal experience to explore the own fantasies together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:12 PM
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Cyrillic (mainly Russian or anything you get your hands on in slavic languages?) and German at the same time. You sure have fun with grammatical cases then. Out of curiosity what would you consider harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:05 PM
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Thank you for clarification. The idea to get a PhD without a masters degree sounds odd to my ears but with a 4 year beachlor degree programm (opposed to a 3 year beachlor + 2 year master program) they're likely bound to go into greater depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:56 PM
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To Example 2: Why is porn a requirement to masturbate here? I don't see why men need to watch porn to satisfy themselves and not simply use their own imagination or look at a few suggestive print media pictures for inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:50 PM
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May I ask you a question about American education? As I understand it most Americans get a High school diploma, that allows them to college what many do. And then some go on to University to get their masters and (if they want to) their PhD or am I missing a step in education here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:38 PM
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Normal looking face is a good thing. Is the 30k pre or post taxes and insurance? In my land roughly a quarter of the income would go if it's pre taxes and 1.9k/months to live on is a bit on the tight side of things. With the other stats ... no offence but if I were single with my 5ft11in and a BMI of 21.5 I'd rather stay single and wait a bit for a looksmatch partner with similar education.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:28 PM
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That is no longer necessarily true. Nowadays with FCMB (fetal cells in maternal blood) a bloodsample of the mother is enough to determine the foetus DNA and with it the paternity. It is completely risk free for the foetus and the mother gives only a little bit of blood. Especially for high-risk pregnancies this has become a great riskfree screening tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:01 PM
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What a lovely variation of 'would you either sleep with chad or romance your loving beta'? First lets consider what average is in the context of this question. When 'average' is a term for 'my looksmatch and social equal, in my age group and has about the same height', dating and loving average is a great experience. If average is a sugarcoating term for 'averagely overweight, more than a decade older than me (because lets face it, with a live expectancy of ~80 years the median man is probably a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:10 PM
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It depends on the reason why the embryo was to be aborted in the first place. If it is a high-risk pregnancy like an actopic pregnancy but the parrents are otherwise hoping for a baby carrying the child to term in a mashine would be a godsent. If the embryo is to be aborted because the contraception failed and the woman carrying the embryo doesn't want a child at the time, carrying the embryo to term in a machine changes nothing. The woman schould still be allowed to make the decision to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:31 AM
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It's not so much worrying but more making sure one doesn't get into a situation that warrants real worry. For one it is a huge difference if you're dating a stranger from dating apps or something like the friend of a friend you've met on a hicking trip or a BBQ night. With the stranger I feel more wary and take all the little precautions like making sure a friend knows I'm dating tonight and will check in after the date or making sure not to drive with him in his car or not going on a walk in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:34 AM
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I haven't kept up with battery developement in the last few months, the last think I read were like the discussion of lithium based (more time already spent developing + higher energy density) vs natrium based (cheaper materials + longer live expectancy) for future developement. Is there a breakthrough in view that unites a long service live, high energy density and small weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:14 PM
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Initially I was just adding to the joke, but if you want to discuss it seriously, I don't think we'll have them either in the foreseeable future for the energetic costs to fly with a car remain much higher than the costs of building a bridge. What might happen though are self-flying drones to deliver into remote areas or make real quick (extra expensive) convenience deliveries. I think in urban centres cars will become rarer for the cities building density raises and more public transport and sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:54 PM
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And replaced in other parts of the world due to wage differences. 14h/day working on smartphone assembly is not my dream job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:14 PM
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And be replaced by new ones, why shouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:05 PM
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Isn't it a good thing though that people will be free again to take on new problems? So many people have dreams what they want to do if they only had the means, why shouldn't they go to pursue those if given oportunity. (To stay with the example of the doctor: The diagnosis is quicker and more specific, no he has more time to supervise the patients personalized treatment.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:42 PM
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Do you have some examples for people that are working brain-only jobs? I can seriously only think of the like of accountances, tax authorities and the occasional overprized manager. Many other jobs using brains I thought of also require some amount of latheral thinking skills, like the 'doctor who needs to take a second look at things even though the modern MRI analyzer bot already concluded it had to be Lewy body dementia and not parkinson desease' or 'the programmer whose hardest job is not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:22 PM
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That's why we have to wait so long for them. First the cars self-driving abilities have to properly develope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:56 PM
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I challenge your idea the end of work is near on basis of all the previous industrial revolutions, which after bringing first a period of unemployment and misery soon after resulted in a plenthora of wealth and new jobs. I assume this initial crisis will be managed equally good and bad as crisis prior. There will be a rise of alcoholism, poverty and domnestic abuse, posibly a rearangement of social order (either small scale like etablishment of statutory health insurance or big like enitrely upr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:55 PM
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What I remember of the 2015 New Years eve in Köln is mainly the anti-imigrant narative. Do you have some headlines or video sniplets showing that this 'German men' thing happened in German mainstream media and was said by women and was not in fact some men-written headline in the rainbowpress? Do you have an example what taxpaid things are mainly consumed by women? I'd assume in most lands tax is proportional to income and working women are paying their fair share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:37 AM
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A quick sneakpeak at wikipedia will tell you, beards today exist for during human history they've actively been selected for. On the other hand in some regions a cultural preference for cleanshaven men has been etablished. In conclusion beard-or-no-beard is down to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:24 PM
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OPs discussion prompt has been about methods of manipulation not responsibility. I've said no word about responsibility but spoken about methods and patterns of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:27 PM
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Show me the quote. If not said a word about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:23 PM
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.This is about whether 18 year old women are responsible for their sexual decisions No, this discussion is about whether unhealthy relationships can get formed by means of manipulation. You seem to deny this categorically. I strongly disagree. We can circle this another 30 rounds of answering each others coments or let it stay like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:10 PM
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You are basically saying an 18 year old woman is a child. Is that really the argument you want to make here? Please don't put words in my mouth I never said. Is it 'just good game' if the predator conceals the spouse and children waiting at home? Or future fakes whatever the other wants to hear? Invents a new exciting backstory for themselves or exaggerates their own grandeur and importance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:06 PM
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Your worldview is so comfortingly black and white. Would you describe your morality as nihilistic or as strong morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:00 PM
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You're saying 'good game' is the same as ruthless manipulation? Every healthy relationship has boundaries that mustn't be crossed. The person doing the grooming hollows the existing boundaries out and shifts them, disregarding the groomed person, thus making the relationship unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:55 PM
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This has nothing to do with age or agency, more with predator's skill and victims gullibility and inability to enforce their boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:39 PM
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Would you prefer to see it applied to a 90 yr old millionaire conned out of their money? Same story, different setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:36 PM
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Of course they can. I'm not questioning their prowess to be an adult or their legal majority merely pointing out the pattern (explicitely worded gender-neutral) of grooming. In my eyes young women are expicitely at risk to be groomed because so many sexual predators prefer young women making the ratio of predator/victim higher that for a 40something or a 60something. The best defense against this are solid boundaries and a functioning social circle. I think there are both healthy and unhealthy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:32 PM
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Is you question how grooming works? Choosing the victim. A good victim has soft or spongy boundaries and is a loner or on the fringes of their social circles Recruitment. Make initial contact and start gaining victim's trust. Filling a need. Show trust and favorism (if possible), make elaborate/expensive gifts, validade victim and make them feel special Isolation. Isolate or alienate from peers, family, other confidants. Sexualation. Ease victim into sexual practices of choice, validation and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:42 PM
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This saddens me too. Most of the agricultured land is used to grow animal feeds. If we were to reduce our meat consumption (ideally down to an average of 300g=2/3lb per week ) many of the fields could be returned to bushland or forrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:56 AM
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It's quite an assumption to say that marriage is the most important day in a woman's live. It for sure is a very beautiful day, but important? In my opinion more important days are the days your children get born and the days your parrents pass away and you sit next to their bed easing their passing. Important is the day you have a livechanging realisation or idea. Perhaps the day you meet your future partner or ace the interview for your dream jobs. Important days are like planting seeds, marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:55 AM
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I think I've expressed that one badly. I tried to agree with you how men often make the first move and thereby men=active and women=passive. What I tried to point out though, is how in the course of dating both partners seem to be passive and active depending on the day, the situation and the context. And was therefore wondering what a clean execution of a happy active/passive relationship looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:24 PM
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While in dating many women prefer the men making the first step, I've yet to see it translate into a healthy and happy longterm relationship. What is it like and about in a longterm relationship? Seeing that here are some men and women well acquainted with the concept, I think I'm missing some obvious patterns that mark those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:13 PM
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I feel a bit like an circle seeing a square for the first time. Can some of you submissive women describe to me, what 'being submissive' is like for you? I don't think I've ever experienced it nor do I know any woman who describes herself as submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:55 PM
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What let's you think a blind eye used to be turned on cheating today any more than in past days? Please share your source or a solid line of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:59 PM
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Do you have a source for your claim how back in the days: - most women went frigid - most men had an affair or the like Can you also add what century you're thinking about here? Also, I know no women - and believe at least for women living in a socio-economical bubble like mine - a man who can't keep it in his pants is not marriageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:54 AM
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Thank you for the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:46 PM
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If I were to channel my inner pickme: -I'd point out how the-stone-has-to-be-diamond is an Americanism that came over the great pond and threatens the sacred act of choosing a ring truly suiting the bride -I'd agree how terrible child labour is and how we have to rethink our mindless consumerism -I'd describe how marriage is a dated tradition and how I believe symbols of love and legal obligations should be separated If I really wanted to pull the impressive arguments -I'd add how gold is too va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:09 AM
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I think beyond the 50s most women will be too turned off and the relationship at that point would be purely transactional Fun story: romance in care homes for the elderly is strong. It hapens quite often that the nice lady hits it of with the charming gent down the floor, holding hands, kissing, sneaking into each others rooms. Otherwise I agree with you dating, relationships, ONS, marriage is all possible in the ages beyond 30. Possible kids are (hopefully) so grown then that they can stay alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:43 PM
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To generalize her clients to the general pop would be inacurate, to use her experience when interacting with the general pop on the other hand more accuratete, no? It might be just occupation bias or it is a sharper view trained by work seeing the general population in a clearer light.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:42 PM
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You're right what she gives is an estimation based on her experiences as a therapist. I'd call her opinion an educated guess though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:36 PM
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Actually I've no idea what the website is about. I know the psychologist from her youtube channel and looked up the interview I once listened to. She freelances as a speaker so I assume that interview guy booked her to promote his own stuff. Does it change what she says though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:27 PM
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No, all women are perfect in any way we can be. We wake up like we were just peeled out of an egg. As cute as a cat when bitching about the news and the colleagues during breakfast. As charming as a chipmunk when cussing out other driver while risk-driving to work. As smart as a skunk when womansplaining the obvious to our coworkers. As personable as a peacock when bragging about our new BMW during lunch. As entertaining as an emu when joking with our boss. As unique as an unicorn when throing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:34 PM
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I've no idea what prices are like in Italy. I've seen a obscenely priced soft ice for 10€ in denmark, 100g branded chokolate for 50ct in germany, 1kg of oranges for 1€ in spain, had an amazing dinner meal in Poland for 5€ and usually pay ~12€/kg for beef. I think the one time I tried Angus Rib Eye, it was priced like 5€/100g, and you're right if I were to buy 10lbs of it I'd pay a fortune. (Good thing I prefer filet and limit myself to 300g/week.) Prices within the EU vary greatly, and hopping o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:43 PM
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Enjoy your meal. I enjoyed discussing with you seeing how our wordviews differed drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:12 PM
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But why would anyone need to be a millionaire? I know from rags to riches is the american dream, I don't see though why that much money is required to lead a happy live. There were even studies done, that wealth exceeding a certain level does not contribute to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:47 PM
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There’s hardly anyone in the upper middle class. Then what did you mean? Social climbing is kind of hard to compare in US vs EU. We don't even have food stamps in my land but unemployment benefits for basically anyone. Do you have a source for your claim? The data I found is not speaking for the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:40 PM
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The problem with Narcism and DSM-5 are the requirement for the affected to feel significantly limited in their abilities to partake in everyday live. (In short, they have to feel 'sick' to allow a diagnosis as 'sick'.) Yet in everyday live we call people who make our lives miserable and follow the characteristic narcistic behaviour patterns to a T often narcistic. When quoting the 30% I was refering to this personality pattern not the clinical diagnosis. Here is my source. The info you're lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:38 PM
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All right, thanks. In that case and in light of the very high standard derivation of IQ tests I don't particularly care about my partners exact intelligence. I want him to be able to keep up with me and me to be able to keep up with him. I see myself as kind of on the smarter side and wouldn't want a partner on the dumber side of things. (Like assuming I score an IQ significantly >100 I wouldn't want them to score significantly <100.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:17 PM
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I'm not familiar with the term G-factor. Is it used synonymously with IQ or is the meaning broader? (I found it comes from 'General intellignece', but like in the next sentence the text switched over to the IQ which I believe has to do with logic and pattern matching and spacial imagination and so on.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:10 PM
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The darkness and cold can be met with D-Vitamins and nice hot saunas and winter hols in the south (like spain or greece) to mitigate the winter depression. (And of course real depression treatment if needed.) The weather seems so mundane though, that I'm not sure that it would count as enough constraint to justify u/NeitherManner's claim of "same shit"iness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:58 PM
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How do you define upper middle class and do you have a source for your claim? These are the Lorenz curves for Denmark (a wealthy EU land) and Hungary (a not so wealthy EU land) and here is the US Lorenz curve displayed. Note how the 50% of the US income is taken home by only 20% of the workforce while in the EU lands about 35% get to share the upper 35% of the income. By that logic there are about 75% more EU people upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:41 PM
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Why should I hate you, just because we have a discussion? What is poverty for you? And what status symbols are lacking in an average home that it would be seen as poor? For me, poverty is struggling to put healthy food on the table, living in cramped conditions, struggling to pay monthly bills, missing money to partake in social live (not able to go to the zoo or the cinema or the pub to listen to the live band ...). By this standard about 16.5% are at risk (those people who don't have aequate s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:04 PM
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What is intelligence in the context of this question? Is it just the IQ or the whole bandwidth like social grace and empathy, artistic gifts, linguistic grasp ...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:16 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know what risk faktors causes so many to get sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:09 AM
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Perhaps you're seeing Europe inacurately here. There are the big tourist traps like Amsterdam and Hamburg but it mainly stays in its niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:33 AM
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Even though it is legal, it is not happy fulfilling work. A prostitute in Western Europe gets ~30€ per client if she's not a premium prostitute. This money has to be shared with the pimp and/or bordell. There are lots of jobs you can do for minimum wage that are safer and better for the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:31 AM
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On average your citizens say they're mainly happy though. In this report, they're even happier (report includes the US).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:55 AM
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True. Don't get me wrong, we have bills to, but a great lot of money gets extracted by taxes which are scaled by income.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:37 AM
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It's part of our understanding of social justice. You can either have very few people get very rich or many people get a little rich. When you're middle class, you can fully participate in public life, you're contributing your share to the society (taxes) and concentrate on the important aspects of live without hamstering to amass more and more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:34 AM
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But you don't need to be wealthy here to lead a happy successfull live. To be middle-class is a thing in Europe. (Being poor of course sucks everywhere in the world.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:51 AM
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An estimate I read assumes about ~30% of the general US population being narcists, which is higher than an estimation for Europe. (Induced by a diferent parenting culture and the described social anxiety of success/fail and a crumbling middle class.) Personally I believe the red pill views, especially the transactional aspects of it, are very attractive for narcists. Furthermore the assumption that society forms the dating rituals sounds entirely reasonable to me, as further evidence for this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:39 AM
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also stalky flowers stalky flowers can be a rose left on your windshield every day while you're at work (checking up where you've been during the day), a massive bouquet left over night (checking up if you're home), flowerbombing at the workplace (all the coworkers will tell you what a catch he is and how lucky you are, helping him gaslighting you that he is a 'good guy' while he's just marking territory). Getting some flowers gifted is nice, but if it becomes excessive and invasive and reminds …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:09 AM
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In the afforementioned bar situation your comment would score as 'dismisses opinion or experience of others' and I'd be gone. Expand your statement to an argument and we can discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:52 AM
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For me the line is when he can't take a no as a no when he gets too handsy too quickly when he uses pick-up lines or tries to neg when he can tell a well rehearsed story but stumbles through the followup question when he dismisses the opinions or experiences of others It's situational. Either the guy seems genuine or something sets either my idiot, my asshole or my PUA detector off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:03 AM
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At first, let's note that it is entirely possible to initially atrakt some men just by being myself. For me the art lies in inviting mutual attraction in - to meet potential partner in a context I would expect them to partake in. Eg: say I enjoy outdoor climbing and canooing. If it is important to me that my parter has a interest in at least one of those activities, climbing at my local boulder hall, canooing in the local canooing area, joining groups with same interests and so on can be great m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:19 PM
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Uff, how cheap is it in your area to build a house that it is rebuilt every ~70 years? The one I'm living in right now has about 120 years and some of the nicer homes in the quartier have been around since 1850 give or take a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:47 PM
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There were raping Nazi soldiers, just as there were raping UdSSR soldiers and raping US soldiers and raping Japanese soldiers and I assume this list can be expanded to (nearly?) all ww2 participating nations. Yet not all soldiers from a nation were rapists, obviously. If a woman was unlucky enough to encounter a rapist, I doubt he would have let her go, if she didn't 'consent' (and more like called over his like minded peers to hold her down.) or to willingly give yourself up A blushing virgin g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:39 PM
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And AMALT if you insist on AWALT - we all have raping, plundering, murderous men in our ancestry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:16 PM
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It wouldn't necesarrily have been your head. It could have been your daughters head or your little sisters head and the clear implication 'you do it or we take her'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:03 PM
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Let me guess, in your headcanon of history all of Heer and SS were equally terrible killing rape mashines and all the allied forces were heros in white armor who could do no wrong? Rape is a terrible war crime that happened through all of history and the Allied forces are just as guilty as the Nazi forces there. It blows my mind how you seem to blame the women for being forced to make the terrible choice of (a) be raped and die and see all the kids die as well (b) "agree" to be raped (= legally …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:13 PM
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Status is very subjective and not an absolute thing. To flex being a video game leader on a woman will result in many cases in instant loss of interest. (Because for many gamers are associated with cellar dwellers, bad self-care and lack of longterm planning skills.) Some women might be interested, mainly because they enjoy the same game or a game like that one. Wouldn't it be dead boring if live was a single player video game? Up live expectancy to infinity, grind flexing-muscels-nicely for 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:36 AM
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I'm not debating that there seems to be a general gender specific preference for different kinds of toys. But my point is that strong gender-specific advertisement in toys cements an idea what a gender is like that is otherwise not as strongly and quickly transported. Do you remember the year with the fidget spinners and how every kid wanted to have one? The same trending force mediated by advertisement can be seen in childcare groups and suddenly every boy wants RoboMcLaser or every girl SuperM…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:24 AM
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Love. This may seem highly naive to some of you but hear me out. While true love is something that takes time to evolve, an initial feeling of 'being in love' [godness, how do you native speakers say this? A strong feeling for sb that is more than the typical fancying and more than the butterflies and rose tinted glasses] usually accompanies new relationships for 3-6 months. In this time strong red flags and a general incompartibility may cause the feeling of falling out of love. After those 6 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:36 AM
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And I don't believe pointing out Harry Potter is a way to show that men and women share the same interests, because there are shows that onlyappeal to men and shows that only appeal to women. As you've pobably noticed while reading, I'm not a native speaker so there is always the chance I worded something oddly. But I was speaking about Legos, the building block toy, not movies. The idea behind this example is to show how once gender targeted advertisement is removed most kids just enjoy playing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:53 AM
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I think we can agree on looking for equality and rejecting inferiority but I'm not sold on the wanting of a overall more competent partner. I will of course accept if this has been part of your life experience and hope you will accept mine too. I really like your closing statement as it seems to be a fascinating phenomenom if it is cut loose from premature conclusions about society. Thank you for this very civil, reasonable and moderate discussion and perhaps we will run into each other again on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:40 PM
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You raise a very good point with a possible psychological hypergamy pattern in women. I feel confident to say that willfull incompetence is something I find very unattractive in humans and love watching and learning from masters in their trades and crafts. Odly this is how I view men and women. I allways thought this is because I'm naturally curious. Of course curiosity is probably wired into our brains as it is so valluable for our survival. It is also true that I want a partner to be competent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:10 PM
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Evolutionists always project based on assumptions. Not so fast. "every few generations we reorder the relationship between genders (either gradually or abrupt as the movement of '68 did.)" Name an example of this in US/European history prior. To visualise our more recent history is something we do far to seldom. Thank you for your question I'm glad you asked. For US history, looking up the flapper movement in the golden 20s (with liberated women that were dancing swing (scandalous at the time) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:55 PM
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What was dating like for you in Asia? Were you viewed as $$man or the exotic adventure? (I read it's a thing for young japanese women to sleep with a western man at least once in their live?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:50 AM
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On the matter of psychological gender differences I believe that with the onset of puberty (and flooding the brain with sexual hormones) we see some differences between the genders. I also believe that within each gender there is a huge psychological variation. I imagine all the dimensions of psychological differences as overlapping bell curves (:= each parameter gets plotted for each gender, likely looks like a bell curve within a population resulting in two bell curves) where the extrema might…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:11 AM
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Are you unhappy with your results or with yourself perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:03 AM
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Huh. Interesting. Did you take a test to reveal your big five bevore? Like a few years ago? I think I did one in my late teens and remember scoring as a slightly neurotic introvert. EDIT: Truly? Rage downvotes for this comment chain? And for such innocent comments too? Head over here, stranger of the internet, and lets have a discussion about whatever bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:56 AM
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Perhaps you're looking for stability because you feel you're lacking it in your live and I'm looking for stability because I like drama in small doses only?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:48 AM
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I would say blue - because I'd like to have a partner on eyelevel with whom I build my live together. ( partner should be what many here see as a typical betabucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:45 AM
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Im average in Extroversion (54), Agreeableness (56) and Conciousness (46) and a high scorer in emotional stability (84) and Intellect/Imagination (88). It feels consistent with my ideas what a happy relationship should be like: stable long term with dashes of exploring the world together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:32 AM
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Now, no attractive man – in the entire history of ever – having foundhimself at a gathering with lots of different women around, spotted thefat chick across the way and said to himself, “I’m going to chat up the fat chick and see if she has a WONDERFUL PERSONALITY.” Just to be contraire, this is the venus of willendorf a figurine from paleolithic europe and her completely exagerated features were likely part of some kind of fertility fetish. And these are The three graces from Rubens (a baroque …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:06 AM
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Well that's good for them, if they're keeping it to a defined place only people willing to play by their rule-set have to encounter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:38 PM
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I'm from a western European land and living in my little bubble of STEM+two-income-households+ecosensitive-outdoorsy-lifestyle - the first thing a foreigner needs to know about dating in this part of the world is, how going on a date with each other contains expectations of being exclusive with each other. Even if one is not in an official relationship the norm is to see only one partner at a time and other forms of dating need to be communicated else they're seen as being dishonest - In my soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:10 PM
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No need. I'm in a relationship, not dating. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:32 AM
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which is less useless than the average How about not dating for a while then? If you think all women are useless and most are trash on top of that safe us all the time of the day and take yourself out. Personally I believe there are quite a few toxic, deranged or unfaithful men which make dating needlessly difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:15 AM
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It's my personal opinion (that I don't have data for) that these are the types of women that leave OLD. That's my impression, too. Why date online if the extended social circle has hot pre-screened singles?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:46 AM
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Can you expand what male competition and female competition are? My best idea what your're talking about is sports, but that doesn't soud right. Is number two, how wealthy women do not want a relationship with less wealthy men? I think the US income distribution (assuming you're US based) still favours men. but they need a man to earn more and to actively improve her life to be attracted. I don't see what the problem here is. Isn't the point of a relationship to enjoying being with each other an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:29 AM
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I never had the idea to analyse the depth of it, was more like an 'oh, there it is' - and in case of penetrative sex a cue to adjust the position as I don't like the feeling of it beeing hit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:05 PM
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The change of mucous is obvious as is the opening to allow the passing of uterine lining. Is it really so weird not to notice the change in position of a few cm in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:01 PM
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"I am a "6" so I should be slamming pussy with "6" women." That "6" they're talking about is probably only their "looks" assessment. For all we know, they are a 2/10 in Presentation, Presence, and Status respectively which is a combined grand total of an SMV of 3. I never quite got the hang how looks and apparently behaviour too can be captured in a single number. I mean I get that 5 is an average looking person, but can we quickly recapitulate the maths governing this? Is it more like a bell cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:24 AM
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That is a good thought. Are men on average with higher libido though? Or know relationships with a higher-libido woman and a lower-libido man no equivalent to laying-down-and-thinking-of-england?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:17 AM
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Another reditor already quoted this paper, but the numbers supplied there clearly show it is not just biology: Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%). If the orgasm gap existed only due to biological reasons we would expect to see the same orgasm-frequency with lesbian women and heterosexual women. In light of this I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:50 AM
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I'm happy you are living in a land without such a thing, I can assure you in my land it is very real and letting it get extinct is still a work in progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:20 AM
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Society is nothing more than an extension of our biology. We are just smart apes. We are physical creatures acting out our physical programming at the end of the day. We are apes. We also have medicore eyesight, a nearly nonexisting sense of smell, weak hearing, our teeth are still halfway in evolution, we climb badly and run slowly, we have very insufficient insulation when naked, impractical proportions upon birth and a ridiculously long childhood. Our only outstanding quality is our great abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:38 AM
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The sort of rationality I was talking about was unemotional, pragmatic and mechanical rationality. The type involved in the formulation of Law, Mathematics, Physics, Technology, Logic, Rational Thought, Judicial systems, Ethics, etc. Personally I believe the logic of Law and the Judical Systems is highly debatable and riddled with loopholes that are exploited by a wealthy minority. Ethics on the other hand are studied and discussed by both genders. Eg the German Ethics Council is made up of 10 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:39 AM
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Would you not call leading female politicans dominant? I'm quite sure they didn't get their offices by asking nicely. Even though the US has yet to see a Ms. President, other parts of the world have and have had their highest positions held by women. And do you truly see dominance (controlling, prevailing, or powerful position especially in a social hierarchy as defined by merriam-webster) as a exclusively positive trait? I can think of many scenarios where the desire to maintain ones dominance …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:43 AM
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Masculinity itself is the sum of all typical traits found in men to a much higher proportion than they are found in women. So although women also have the trait of courage it is men who display this trait for more often and more dominantly than women do. Therefore a sense of appropriation of this trait is bestowed to men and masculinity because they hold a monopoly on these traits. Masculine traits include leadership, strength (physical AND mental), courage, curiosity, rationality, virility (Vig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:35 AM
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I didn't take the question as a genetic one, because what is really there to discuss then? The main differences between men and women are imo in the testesterone level, the imune system, and the brain structure. Men have higher testesterone levels in general, this sadly seem to be correlated with a more violence prone behaviour. Women have a better imune system, that's generally nice but sometimes not when suffering autoimmune deseases. Both general brain versions (mens greater mass vs womens be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:01 AM
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Let me ask you this why do women more sexually attracted to men in red shirts? What liquid inside of the body is red that would signal to a women exactly the traits mentioned? The reverse is true, too. Men are more attracted to women wearing red. And while the association to blood is indeed interesting (Does this mean a woman on her period or during childbirth is more attractive to a man? I don't thing a man covered in fresh blood is attractive to me. Depending on the situation I would either ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:27 AM
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Some 'learning experience' it was. Anima and Animus is such an outdated and useless idea, why would anyone want to remember it? In my response to OP I was tackling the list of traits he stated are seen as masculine traits by media outlets. That all those traits can be shared by women is implicit. I added my two cents where I've seen those traits cause problems in mens lives. For women to suffer the two types of stereotypical toxic male behaviour is of course possible but a bit rarer. For the une…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:39 AM
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Please give me the highlights the wikipedia enterance is endless. I'll read up paralelly to this, but I wouldn't want to miss some key message.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:54 PM
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Can you give me a quick recap what Jungian is? I heaven't heard the term before. Then I'll answer your question in detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:49 PM
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Yes it is. strength - This is a good or neutral trait I think. Makes life easier sometimes. lack of emotion - this can be toxic. Keeping ones head in a dificult situation is a good trait to be shared by both genders. Constantly lacking emotion and burrying them so deep in the psyche they're no longer accessible is very very bad in my eyes. It might cut the men of from experience the full richness of life or might disable them to read social clues and interact well with their environement. Self-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:33 PM
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Ah, good to know. Sadly I can only think of a bunch of negative examples here but not a single positive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:37 PM
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The average adult woman is 5.3 feet 170 lbs. She is not aging well. American, right? I never understood how you as a society could be so careless with your wight. I get that perhaps I'm previleged here that I grew up with healthy food and healthy eating and sport habits. But seriously you guys over there should loose wight on average, it just drags you to an early grave. For the roles then, I'd like to have an modern partner on eyelevel then. And while more income is allways nicer then less inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:10 PM
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No of course not. I can't of course speak for all, but in my circle, the 'standard approach to dating' was a handfull of LT-relationships (we're still figuring out who we are and what we want in our twenties so not every LT relationship results in marriage), a few miserable dates or date series and perhaps a few one night stands, depends on the person really. I believe the woman described above is the salty explanation of men, who can't hold a fullfilling longterm relationship for dear life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:31 PM
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Are you sure you should flag purple and not red? Your questions read to me over-generalizing and patronizing, just by reading them I'm very glad we're likely never going to meet. You are assuming all woman are like this. It seems to be a major fantasy on this sub, that all a woman does in her twenties is sleeping around. I can assure you not all of you are like this and in my field (STEM, more men than women), in University it was a bit of a trend to see couples formed within the faculty - most …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:04 PM
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I think both genders can ghost bevore and after sex. I had a one short fling once with a guy - and I think I made it very clear that I was not looking for a relationship or a continual arangement but rather wished to remain single bevore anything happened. Post sex, that guy just wouldn't stop messanging me and even begged to see me again. Having been a good bit younger and naive back then I tried to let him down gently, telling him that while we had a good time, nothing was going to happen agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:27 PM
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In my eyes porn, prostitution and pickmes are only loosely related and my concern with these differ. Pickmes are -in my eyes, has there ever been a general definition?- insecure and desperate women that believe they need to meet a mans every need and even disregard her own needs if necessary. I think the idea behind this is, if they were only good and pleasing enough, the man would suddently come to love her and help her meet her own needs. This I see as a problematic behaviour that brings a pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:49 PM
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Wow. Thank you for pointing it out once more. Even if I intelectually know it, it blows my mind again and again. It reminds me to not migrate to the US, even if I might get 1.5 times of my pay here, it would just be eaten up by crap like this. I just thought, someone might want to cut the profit margin (and the quality offered) and create a low budget version, because staying at home for lack of feasible alternative must hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:34 PM
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In short no. I don't want to have a partner that is not physically attractive to me. He doesn't have to be classically handsome but if I can't see something in him that speaks to me he might be a great friend but no relationship will happen. (The list of your character traits is important too. If they don't fit for me, we won't be seeing each other.) If my partner wouldn't see beauty in me, I feel like this is an imbalance that would doom us long term. Even if I were deeply enarmoured with him, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:04 PM
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What is up with the food? Is that meatballs with waffle? Is it really a thing somewhere in the world to eat that combination? If this is the attention to detail to expect in that 'relationship' ... even my terrible pickme-self would have noped out of that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:32 PM
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What do you ladies think about the last paragraph? Will we compromise our morals if we feel our classic feminine competencies challenged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:14 PM
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It reads as if he just used his racoons to get some kind of reaction out of you? He brought his racoons, you set them up in the dark in the closet, you go to your date -> racoons are still alone, they are in a new area with strange smell and it's suddently too dark. + they got stressed out by the car drive. -> racoons gain nothing by this but get stressed Has he ever come clear what went through his head with this action? What a weird thing to do from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:56 AM
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It is elaborate work to tell if someone is an addict or just a high-frequent user. Not everybody is willing to just out themseve on a questionaire. But sure there are more % that waste their days watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:31 AM
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Oh! That is a brillinat observation of yours. 😯🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:20 AM
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Right? This normalisation of so many things. Porn is doing all the work for them when they masturbate (set a situation, supply a dialogue, action and reaction...) all they have to do is consume and train their brains to see and expect so many vile things. No wonder it bleeds into their daily lives if they spent hours in a certain mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:19 AM
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Come again? I have heard both 99% of all men ~ and all men watch porn. I think it's two chips of the same block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:13 AM
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At one point in life, sure. It is so easy to stumble into something and most people are curious at least once. But to actively decide to consume porn - I think that is what the studies measured (I think somewhere in the methods they must have specified which timeframe the data cover)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:04 AM
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But surely he uses his dude wipes once in a blue moon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:06 PM
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Will baby diapers be numbered too, you think? And if baby uses to many for a day ... he/she doesn't get one?! Hope he is doing the laundry then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:04 PM
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Blacklisting porn sites in the FritzBox might have interesting results too. While quickly troubleshooted it is selective enough that everybody can still read the news or listen to some music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:55 PM
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American gods has some very good observations about human nature. To cheer you up, have you seen S3E5 yet? Without spoiling to much, Bilquis has her moment and raises from the pickmeism to an empowered godess. It does her so much more justice than the book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:00 PM
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For most women it is. (For some it is more the area around it though.) Yet he has to listen to her is she wants it dabbed, rubbed, fondled, licked or whatever it is for her. It was once really off-putting to meet his ex in bed when he would not listen to me but rather tried again and again what his ex liked. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:53 PM
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That is a lovely article you have there thank you for sharing it. 🧡 My post is based on an episode from a german sex podcast - I was originaly hestiant to share it due to the language barrier but here is the link if somebody is interested: https://www.zeit.de/wissen/gesundheit/2021-02/geschlechterrollen-sex-orgasmus-luecke-mann-frau-queer-sex-podcast Absolutely, telling and showing our men what we love is the only way they can satisfy us better. And if it is hard to them - they better be extra a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:47 PM
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Please, let me add: 4. You're such a nerd. • You're not supposed to have a successfull career in a "male field" • Something must be wrong with a woman that has a evolved sense of humor exceeding the basic feceal or sexual humor 5. You're crazy. • Don't see through the gaslighting. • Don't ever have a creative or unique view on anything. In fact, don't have original thoughts either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:32 PM
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Have you looked up the recent findings concering the health of IVF children? In 2018 a paper concerning the blood pressure and the aging of the kids blood vessels gained a lot of attention. It found higher blood pressure and could show in a mice model it went hand in hand with a premature aging of blood vessels causing a higher risk in cardiovascular deseases. I haven't kept up with the research, so perhaps look it up yourself if those findings could be confirmed or were refuted. Here is a link …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:22 PM
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You are a queen. 🤣👍🧡 Way better to be your kids hero then ego-stroking that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:04 PM
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Oh that makes sense. An Australian told me she had trouble hearing the nuances of a, e and o and as such some problems learning my language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:53 AM
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I grew up in a German-speaking area. To just note their preferences down sounds like a very level-headed solution. I feel like our infamous love for bureaucracy might have had a hand in the way here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:22 AM
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Thank you for the examples. 🧡 I will definetly keep my eyes on the woman-women-phenomena (and then roll them knowingly when I spot it). Do you believe those problems exist because those men don't want to emphathise with women and as such can't see us as individuals and get confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:52 AM
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That is really interesting! Have they already included the option of the 'diverse' gender (third gender/ other) in your country yet? How do you call them at work? In my land all job ads now have to include for which genders they are designated so they are all marked with m/f/d (male/female/diverse)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:46 AM
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Thank you for your insight 🧡 I actually recently taught my parents how I am no longer a girl but want to be called a woman. It's so low key aggravating to be called a girl or a girlie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:39 AM
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That is lovely. It warms my heart to read about it. Thank you 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:24 PM
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We have something called it "Herrentag" (Gentlemans day) in my area - literaly a day of getting drunk on the streets with the boys, no women or kids allowed. (I'm sure a blowjob in the morning to get him started is still appreciated.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:26 AM
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In my corner of the world valentine's day is an "imported holiday" and not as important as I assume it to be in the US. Women's day I believe is our equivalent here, and yes we do love the flowers. BTW, how come that men who do not believe in Valentines day/Womens day also seem to not care about other peoples birthdays/namedays (especially not about presents) or personal anniversaries? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:18 AM
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This. So much this. Thank you for the reminder. 🥰 I had a short relationship with a Mr. So-much-potential-but-so-little-to-show. Luckily I grew tired of his negging, lovebombing and eternal rescheduling. The only memories of him that stay with me are: the night we met, an endless sobstory, the pain of realizing how I am to him but a means to quiten his inner deamons of lazyness and could-have-beens and the glorious day we broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:52 PM
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Uuuuurgh, what did I just read? 🤮😨 Just why? Thats pure sadism. And it should be rape, too. She withdrew her consent by begging to be cut out. What would a judge say to this, you all think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:08 PM
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It looks to me like a huge oversimplification. If her father is a HVM, takes his role as a father serious and helps his daughter grow as a person- thats definetly beneficial, because if having one well parenting adult in life is good, then two might be even better. But the thing with how well she relates to "all men who come after him"? Oh boi. This feels more like something likely to happen, if the father messes his job up and causes unresolved issues that accompany the girl through life. The m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:44 AM
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I'm so happy for you. What a great success in standing up for yourself and not letting his crap get you. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:39 PM
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I'm so happy for all of you, finding your strenght to walk out of your situation. My last straw looks so tame in comparison and to this day it amazes me how I could braze through a ton of red flags but get this one right: We had a talk about honesty and gaslighting -also known to him as white lies- in our relationship, and I voiced my wish we would work on our relationship and communication. He petulantly told me, he didn't want to - and that was the moment I felt so disgusted by him I had enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:08 AM
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Thank you for sharing this with the girl and with us. That is so wholesome . I love how you are planting this idea in young heads helping them grow into wonderfull confident persons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:26 PM
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