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I don't think it was deleted, it's just almost a year old and it's archived so we won't lose it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 03:26 PM
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(500) Days of Summer is an interesting watch with a trp lense. It's almost realistic too, being a movie about getting over oneitis
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:39 PM
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Read multiple books on game and form an opinion for yourself. Models is excellent, and sets a foundation for your mental health and confidence so that you can internalize the right mindset to truly enjoy yourself while out meeting girls. The book doesn't feed you things to say, but it gets your mind right. Books like Bang or Day Bang by Roosh have a top down approach, where they only cover strategy and verbatim things to say to girls and nothing about altering your mindset. The book The Rational…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:01 PM
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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson, same author who wrote Models.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:39 AM
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You should also check out The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. It's basically a millenial's take on Meditations.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:19 PM
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If you're finding yourself looking for validation of others, consider only looking for the validation of 5 year old you and 50 year old you.. If 5 year old you met you and watched tour actions, would he think you were crazy cool, or a jerk, or a loser? Would he want to grow up to be you? If 50 year old you met you and watched your actions, would he think you're a stupid young man, or the kind of young man that is investing in his future while simultaneously enjoying himself and living in the mom…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 03:37 AM
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The only two people you need to impress are 5 year old you and 50 year old you
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:56 AM
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This is perfectly normal, you're doing fine so far. Good job blocking her off everything. Personally I would suggest looking into Stoicism. It would help you with anxiety everywhere in your life, not just your ex-oneitis. For a easy read, check out Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. For a more advanced read, check out Marcus Aurelius' Meditations. The latter is literally a journal from a Roman Emperor who was considered the father of Stoicism. Mark Manson's Subtle Art doesn't eve…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:21 PM
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If it's causing you to feel like a needy little bitch, then yes.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:25 AM
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Think of it like an exorcism bro. This person has shared occupancy with your brain for some time, evicting her is going to be a series of physiological withdrawals/chemical misfirings. Acknowledge that for the next month or two, you may have episodes of helplessness, despair, sorrow, and full on depression. The best thing you can do is, when those emotions start flowing, let them go. Towards the end of the wave, acknowledge that you're experiencing the pain of self pity, and then get up and ment…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:23 PM
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Whenever you're nervous just say to yourself “i am excited." It helps you channel the nervous feeling into an excited feeling, because you should feel excited to be there.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:34 PM
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http://archive.is/lNFHh Here ya go
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:25 PM
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How do you recommend using this method to kick a porn habit?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:12 PM
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And a burning feeling when you pee
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:33 PM
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Your brain is going to be playing a lot of tricks on you in the near future. A lot of chemicals are gonna get released that will make you feel like shit. You're feeling like you're going through withdrawal of a drug. Be aware of what's going on and have the strength to stay strong and not act on those hormones. Keep up your progress bud.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:07 PM
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Thanks for posting, FRs like these keep me motivated.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 04:54 PM
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Why does public opinion matter to you so much?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:09 PM
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Yes you're still a beta bitch if you let her disrespect you like this.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:46 PM
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Here's your honest opinion: based on this behavior behind your back, she WILL fuck this guy before she breaks up with you . Don't even bring it up when you break up with her. But you're not gonna listen to me there, you're probably gonna bring it up. When she says “I'm just being nice" you shut that shit down with “You know that shit isn't appropriate while in a relationship."
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:43 PM
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IYRTITL Drake is fine. J Cole is naturally red pilled, he learned every AWALT lesson the hard way.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:58 AM
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I don't think the betabux guys are working as hard as you think they are with all their spare time not spent in the gym. They don't have more money because Beta Bux spend all their money on giving women free shit. You working hard, working out, advancing your career and getting more money is also helping you not being Beta Bux. By not being Beta Bux and not spending your money on women, you have more money than beta bux
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:07 PM
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Great progress, you're heading in the right direction
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:36 PM
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Oh wow
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:31 AM
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In the words of /u/D-White, this comment is important because you WILL have ups and downs for the next couple months: Think of it like an exorcism bro. This person has shared occupancy with your brain for some time, evicting her is going to be a series of physiological withdrawals/chemical misfirings. Acknowledge that for the next month or two, you may have episodes of helplessness, despair, sorrow, and full on depression. The best thing you can do is, when those emotions start flowing, let them…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 11:24 PM
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I didn't know I needed this thread. Great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 12:44 PM
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I'll agree that Models by Mark Manson covers the kind of things you say for cold opens. There's no lines you need to memorize at all. You just need to say whatever the hell comes up in your brain. Typically for me it's something with her outfit. I see a girl has a choker on. I wonder “Wow are chokers back? What is this 1998?" So I walk up and say “Wow are chokers back? What is this 1998?" Then maybe crack a joke or two about listening to back street boys. Have you ever taken a creative writing c…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 06:52 PM
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Damn. Yeah, you realize that was a mistake that could have been avoided. Keep your head up from here, you know how to recover. Value yourself. Don't be afraid to demote her.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:59 PM
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Did you show insecurity to her at the time?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:38 PM
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“Oh, I love it when other guys do my job for me. Now I never have to compliment you"
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:53 PM
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There's too many stories out there of Soldiers and Marines murdering both the wife and her lover once he finds out.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 05:43 PM
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TRP doesn't blame women for our problems. How would blaming women help us socially? It's not like they're going to change. TRP blames ourselves for our problems and calls for self improvement. TRP is just viewing the world a different way, and then choosing to adapt to it.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:05 PM
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Tone is everything with those comments, they work better in person. If you say it the wrong way, you'll come off butthurt. Say it like you expect her to laugh and say “Nooooo staaahp"
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:01 PM
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“Oh I love it, another guy doing my job for me." “Sweet, now I never have to compliment you" Quick edit: make sure your tone is very light, and do something like petting the top of her head
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:48 PM
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"Think of it like an exorcism bro. This person has shared occupancy with your brain for some time, evicting her is going to be a series of physiological withdrawals/chemical misfirings. Acknowledge that for the next month or two, you may have episodes of helplessness, despair, sorrow, and full on depression. The best thing you can do is, when those emotions start flowing, let them go. Towards the end of the wave, acknowledge that you're experiencing the pain of self pity, and then get up and men…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:31 PM
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Third year was the toughest. I'm also engineering. About to enter my fourth year.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:23 PM
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That makes sense. Freshman year is a cluster fuck for everyone. I bet you know quite a few people that failed a few classes. The next few years people will drop out and fail out. Provided you keep your grades up, the only people around you will be those that can find the balance. Work on yourself and you'll find them soon. Your second year will be miles different than your first.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:37 PM
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What year are you? I didn't find the balanced friends until my third year.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:17 PM
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But how can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:05 PM
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A narcissist needs the validation of others, that is where the insecurity stems from. Think of the person (guy or girl, doesn't matter) that posts nothing but bullshit selfies on social media. Imagine how much it would fuck with that person if not a single person liked their next selfie. That's the difference between narcissism and healthy self love.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:41 PM
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She's literally picking out who to fuck first when she leaves OP
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:00 PM
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The original thread that comment was posted in was for a guy who had been cheated on by his wife, so suicide was in the discussion, but I left that part in just in case. Glad to hear you're getting better every day, I went through the exact same shit where my brain kept betraying me and going back to her. It's like an exorcism, it'll go away.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:27 PM
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In the words of /u/D-White : Think of it like an exorcism bro. This person has shared occupancy with your brain for some time, evicting her is going to be a series of physiological withdrawals/chemical misfirings. Acknowledge that for the next month or two, you may have episodes of helplessness, despair, sorrow, and full on depression. The best thing you can do is, when those emotions start flowing, let them go. Towards the end of the wave, acknowledge that you're experiencing the pain of self p…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:09 PM
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That War Brides thing really only applies if the invader stays and settles there. Even then, the first instance of sex is definitely rape. I get what you're going for, but Genghis Kahn killed, raped, and moved on. He didn't settle with his war brides long enough for them to psychologically switch over.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:05 PM
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Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders. Above all else keep those grades up. If your grades suck, that closes a lot of opportunities for your future.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:52 PM
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Props to you for admitting to oneitis and not wasting a whole text wall on bullshit about her. No girl should be your focus right now and you already know that. Sounds like you don't have a lot of control of what's in your fridge, but you do have control of your caloric intake. Eat less. Start suggesting you want snacks such as mixed nuts and peanut butter instead of chips. Stay the fuck AWAY from soda. Always do water. Download apps like “100 Push-ups" “200 sit-ups" and challenge yourself with …
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:35 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of overly complicated answers. There's two mating strategies a man has to ensure he passes on his genes. Fuck ALL of the women, and hope that a fraction of your kids survive the wild. Some may live and many will die. Or fuck ONE woman and dedicate your life to ensuring that your children with her survive. Thus, oneitis, and your genes are passed on.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:33 PM
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It sounds like your actions have been on point so far when you held frame letting her go. She's nothing but a girl you used to bang. That's it. Hold frame when she comes back with this boyfriend. Your subconscious may be betraying you, but you have the power to control your actions. If anything, the boyfriend will feel insecure as fuck knowing you took his girlfriend to pound town AND had the balls to reject her commitment. He'll probably realize she's not LTR material too.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:43 PM
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Models is perfect for that.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:51 PM
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Talking less. I used to talk too much and puke out too many details about myself. Women like being able to figure you out.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:49 AM
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Bang and Daybang by Roosh, Models by Mark Manson, all good reads that are books. Bang and Daybang are specifically about game. Models talks a lot about altering your mindset first, then later it glazes over actual x's and o's of game. For an even quicker read, a Collection of blogs from Heartiste.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 07:47 PM
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The short answer is that you need to stop comparing your life to everyone else's.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 07:58 PM
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You're flip flopping between two extremes, here. You're being a “nice guy" when you're texting her how you still like her and all that bullshit. You're being a narcissistic asshole when you talk about “utilizing her" in the future. What those two extremes have in common is that those are both needy personalities. Stop being a needy person. You DON'T need her. Be your own man, find other women to bang, and find other classmates for homework help.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 06:44 PM
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Check out this comment on a thread where a guy was cheated on his wife: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4ns4wu/caught_wife_cheating_its_over_how_do_i_get_over/d46nvj6 This applies to any form of oneitis, really. It's natural for your brain to be doing this to you. You'll get through it man.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 06:38 PM
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Of course they're not actually equivalent. But you are still literally jerking off to someone else fucking a girl you'd rather be fucking yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:26 PM
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Someone in a thread the other day changed my perspective on it. He said something like: “Porn is another form of being cucked. You're jerking it to another man fucking a woman you desire."
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:00 PM
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Sorry for the blanket reply, but that's just something you'll figure out yourself when you get there.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:52 PM
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I'm around your age and recently went through the same transformation over the past two years. My process was: Find the pill, get dumped by LTR Read Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, internalize it and become a cynical anger phase narcissist. People didn't like me anymore because they knew the beta me, but hey I didn't like this version of myself either. Read NMMNG but didn't have that big of an effect on me. Meet and almost LTR another narcissist, that was my wakeup call because she was a reflect…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:10 PM
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That line to get her number is flawless. I'm stealing that.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:37 PM
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Rap music and Kendrick were examples and some of my particular favorites, I told him to check out everything. The movies in particular can give OP examples of alpha behavior to help him get rid of the weird vibe. Watch The Great Gatsby and see how suave Leonardo DiCaprio is. Watch Braveheart and see a natural leader fight for a cause, AND fuck his arch-enemy's daughter. For a personal example, seeing Man of Steel 6 years ago caused me to take pride in my chest hair when I saw Henry Cavill proudl…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:24 PM
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The sex could be great for a number of different reasons. It could just be that you turn her on THAT much. The right alpha could convince the most religious girl to try anal. Or this girl is a slut just like you're fearing. Just take a closer look at the other red/green flags.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4ns4wu/caught_wife_cheating_its_over_how_do_i_get_over/d46nvj6 This comment was posted earlier this week, for a guy who's going through something way worse (especially since he's financially tied.) But it applies great to any case of oneitis. Don't take her back, and think of it like an exorcism. She's toxic to you and you know it.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:29 PM
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Watch her actions, not her words. Just be ready for the possible repercussions of people finding out about this.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:59 PM
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I'll tell you something I've learned out of the book Models by Mark Manson, you should definitely check that book out. Watch more movies. Watch the top 20 IMDB movies, listen to music far outside of your comfort zone. Check out Kendrick Lamar if you haven't already, especially if you never listen to rap. Read classic books. The point to all of this is broadening your horizons. Expose yourself to more culture. I don't know you, but it sounds like all you know are videogames and the music you perf…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:51 PM
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It sounds like in terms of taking care of yourself, women are your top priority. That has to change. Take care of yourself for a goal other than women.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:45 PM
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Yes, you can't put the pressure on her to be the one to cheat. It has to feel like an accident to her.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:24 PM
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That depends on a lot of things, including if you know the boyfriend, where the boyfriend is, and if that's something you want to get involved in. But if she has a boyfriend, then it makes perfect sense why her end of the kino stops when you're alone. She wants plausible deniability, she wants to be able to say “it just happened! He seduced me!" It's up to you to escalate.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 02:55 PM
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Are you trying to escalate when you're alone? Because you should be.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:13 PM
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It's called "thinking with your dick", I don't recommend it
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:10 PM
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That's not true at all, especially not for men.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:25 PM
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However you can make it work. There's a chance your studies will take up too much time anyway. Just remember that your prime is at 30 or older, not 21. You've still got a lot of grinding to do so that 30 year old you can thrive.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:03 AM
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Your interests, I mean. In terms of clubs. Social circle may change a lot. If you can finance it, I do recommend joining a frat.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:50 AM
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I wouldn't know unless it were my own school, which is most likely isn't. Don't think about it too hard. Pursue what interests you, and that could easily change from year to year.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:17 AM
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I'll tell you more about my situation, I think it'll help you: I knew this girl had guys and girls in her social circle, and liked hanging out alone with the guys a lot. I hook up with her a couple times, suddenly she's never hanging out with those guys ever again, she's making me food all the time and displaying plenty of green flags. So I say “why not, short term relationship. The winter is cuddling season anyways." I keep my head on straight, knowing what I might be getting into. A couple mon…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 07:23 PM
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You haven't even had your first class yet. This is one of those things you'll play by ear. You'll know what the right decision is after your first semester, or first full year. Personally, I'd choose something to broaden social horizons like a club in order to make more friends.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:51 PM
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I've been in a similar situation to this before. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. You're correct about not saying a word to her about it, that reeks of insecurity. Try to find out if she's had any history with any of them. If she hasn't, and she stops hanging out with them to keep hanging out with you, then consider the red flags with the green flags and make your decision from there. Quick edit: Her not getting along well with the other girls is an issue though. Never date…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:48 PM
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That's pretty fucked, I won't lie... Radio silence her for sure. Don't let her see a single emotional reaction out of you. She cannot know that this is fucking with you. Have a talk with the friend.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:17 PM
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You can't save them all, bro. Sorry to hear it.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:23 PM
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So judging by your initial post, I'd say you should do more sidebar reading. Before you make even a single move on this girl, start reading Models by Mark Manson. That'll teach you everything you know about not being a needy person. I'd avoid a one-on-one thing, I really think that's forcing the issue. Have your initial meeting be in a group setting. Don't force a thing, just have fun with the group and engage in small talk from there.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:47 PM
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Sounds like she doesn't want to come off as a slut to her friends. Or if you haven't hooked up, she's embarrassed of what her friends would think of her talking to you.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:38 PM
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I need more details... are you going to meet her at a party? Does the friend actually expect you to have a date with her?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:27 PM
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Yes, especially if she gives you that look in person. If she looks at you like she thinks she's “too smart to be a god-fearing Christian," it's most likely the thousand cock stare.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:16 PM
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