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I checked the sidebar and it told me to post questions asking for advice here!! I don’t understand why everyone keeps ripping me
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:36 PM
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How so?
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:57 PM
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It’s because of your attitude. You may approach but you’re not fixing the internal shit. Women can sense your god awful attitude and don’t want to fuck a negative Nancy. I bet when you get rejected you walk off and pout about it, instead of smiling and accepting you’re not what she’s looking for.
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:47 PM
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How do you not see something is wrong with the way you think??? Look at how you write!! You’re defensive, you’re defeatist, your entire attitude is negative. You ask for help and then when someone tries to show you compassion and help you, you fire back with negativity and say shit like oh that doesn’t work, woe is me. I’m done with you dude, go talk to a therapist.
/r/seduction08/08/18 03:41 PM
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JFC you need psychological help. Get the fuck off reddit and go outside
/r/seduction08/08/18 12:04 AM
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Lol dude I’m not guessing and I’m DEFINITELY not feeding you PUA bullshit. I’m fed up with you because you haven’t responded positively to ANYTHING I’ve said to you. I am not a piece of work, YOU are. I went out of my way to help you and you just have me a pessimistic rebuttal every single time. I can only give so much advice til it’s obvious you just don’t want to hear it, you just want pity, we’ll I don’t pity you, you aren’t taking anyone’s advice to heart
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:24 PM
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Dude you need to fuck off. I’ve tried helping you sincerely but you just reply negatively to literally everything. Stop spreading your pessimism. Either you want to get better and stop complaining, or you quit, give up, and stay off reddit with your shitty attitude
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:13 PM
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I was afraid of rejection for the majority of my life. Never really dated in my twenties because I was afraid to approach because I just didn’t want to get rejected so I would end up rejecting myself before even giving it a real shot. Now I’m 30 with no dating experience and worried women will deem me as a red flag. I’m trying to better myself now before I waste any more time and just out myself out there. One thing that a few people, including my mentor, have taught me is to be grateful for rej…
/r/seduction07/08/18 08:53 PM
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Yeah, I feel like I may just have to, masturbating just isn’t cutting it anymore and I need it bad.
/r/seduction05/08/18 12:53 AM
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Thank you, that was some helpful advice. I feel like I definitely come off needy because it’s been so long since I’ve gotten laid, and I can probably count the number of times in the past 8 years on one hand. I can literally feel it damaging my mental health.
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:22 PM
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I say women have more options on Tinder because they get more matches. For every 100 matches they get, a guy can only get like a tenth of that. I am working on myself, I’m trying to build a business so I can have the lifestyle I want, but I’ve already missed out on dating and sex in my twenties for the most part, I don’t know how long it will take to get what I want outside the women aspect. It could take years for me to finally get to where I want to be with the rest of my life, but I don’t wan…
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:01 PM
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Okay so I get why you’re saying what you’ve been saying now, because you’ve already talked to these girls online and actually arranged dates. I’ve tried online dating and I can’t even get to a date without being ghosted, women have way too many options and take forever to respond because of this. I hired a dating coach earlier this year and he basically told me to try Day game and just approach women wherever. The only place I’ve tried is at the mall but it was never met with much success becaus…
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:51 PM
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And what if she’s with her friends? How do I get her away from her friends? What if she didn’t drive? Do I talk to just her or all of them? I’m absolutely clueless about how to properly seduce a woman from the very start of meeting her wherever, to getting her to want to sleep with me, I have no idea what it’s supposed to look like
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:35 PM
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I just don’t get how I can go up to a girl I find attractive at lets say, the mall, introduce myself and start touching her and basically convince her to go do something with me away from whatever she was doing.
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:31 PM
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Wait what? How am I supposed to play Rock Paper Scissors or thumb war with a girl I just met? That’s awkward as fuck and makes no sense.
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:18 PM
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Cool, thank you
/r/seduction04/08/18 06:56 PM
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How do you actually DO these though? Like, I have trouble just going up to a girl and talking, let alone touching her. How do you just randomly touch a girl without her being like “ew wtf are you doing touching me? I don’t even know you” I’m so inexperienced with women and flirting, I have no idea how I made it to my age without learning all this stuff (oh wait, yes I do, I was addicted to porn my entire twenties). What does casually touching a girl even look like? Do you stop talking to touch h…
/r/seduction04/08/18 04:54 PM
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Ignore her. She needs to see what it’s like to be ghosted without a reason. If she really wants to see you she’ll find a way to prove it to you.
/r/seduction03/08/18 12:57 PM
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Ok so how do I fix that? I’ve thought like this for so long that it’s made me depressed, I can’t just wake up and not have these negative beliefs anymore. I’ve legit had women on reddit tell me they wouldn’t want to be with a 30 year old guy with barely any experience. How am I supposed to get past that if I’m already miles behind other guys in experience and women expect me to know what I’m doing at my age?
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:25 PM
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That’s their problem, not yours. If they want to take offense because you were more attracted to their friend, that’s their reaction, not yours, and you shouldn’t be concerned with how other people react to you choosing who you’re attracted to.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:06 PM
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Ah ok, thought the NC in your name might have meant that. Nvm then! Haha
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:44 AM
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Yeah man! And thanks, me too haha. Btw, do you live in Carolina?
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:42 AM
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Gah, you’re so lucky. Whatever you do when you get to college, don’t be like I was and stay inside your apartment every night watching porn, getting high, and playing video games. (The getting high and playing video games are actually okay to an extent, just don’t let them keep you from going out and being social). I’d do anything to go back in time to college and redo things differently to get more experience with women so I’m not learning all this shit at 30 years old.
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:30 AM
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Can I ask how old you are? I’m guessing since you said grades that you’re in your early twenties. I’m not judging you for that, but I’m 30 years old and I still have no fucking clue how to seduce women or flirt with them and what not. I know myself 10 times over, I’ve been single all but 15 months of my life, I’ve had plenty of time to figure out what I like and don’t like yada yada yada.
/r/seduction11/07/18 01:55 AM
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Idk, I just can’t grasp how I can meet as friends without making it clear right off the bat I find her attractive and not be friend zoned. I hear mixed messages from all different people. “Just try to make friends, don’t compliment them” and then there’s “go right up to her, introduce and let her know she’s attractive.” I don’t understand which one works and what is better, it’s so damn confusing, and I’ve never had success with either
/r/seduction11/07/18 01:48 AM
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Yeah but like you said, you just get friend zoned. I’ve never been intimate with a woman I was friends with first, I always get friend zoned. It’s like, if I try to introduce touch too soon, I’m a creep or a turn off, but if I wait, I’ve already somehow missed the window, I don’t understand how I’m supposed to go about it.
/r/seduction11/07/18 12:55 AM
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Okay, that makes a lot of sense, but how do you approach a woman and actually DO this? It’s not like you can just go up to her and be like “Hey, I think you’re sexy but I’M the prize, not you, what can you offer me?” She’ll think you’re an asshole if you do that. So what do you actually say to get her trying to impress you??
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:33 PM
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Okay, so what if your IG isn’t full of fun stuff? Granted, I have a handful of fun posts from the few trips I’ve been on, but the rest is just mostly my dog and pictures of beer. My job is boring as fuck so it’s not like I’m going to make posts of that, I don’t have anything interesting to post when I get home from work, and I don’t have many friends to go out and do stuff with. I’m 30 btw and very inexperienced with women. I love IG and this idea but how do I use it to my advantage if I don’t h…
/r/seduction28/06/18 02:55 PM
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This is me. I just turned 30 and lost my twenties to porn and excuses. My problem now is, I’ve used porn as a crutch for so long that now that I want to change, I have no earthly idea where to begin. I can’t seem to go more than 30 days without porn and masturbation, I’ve been single for 8 years so I have no idea how to flirt with women, and I haven’t had sex in forever so I’m worried that even if I DO attract a woman, she’ll laugh at me for my performance. Really though, I feel like my main pro…
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:27 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate this. I’ve never been one to have a low tone of voice and I’m often told my voice is rather quiet but I don’t have control over whether or not my voice sounds manly and I don’t know how to raise my pitch without seeming like I’m shouting. Guess I’ll have to figure out how to work on that.
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:15 PM
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Thanks man! I like this. It could always be time wasted if starting with a friendly chat into finding out she’s not into me.
/r/seduction03/05/18 02:36 PM
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I’ve been starting to approach women after years and years of being single and having anxiety etc. I’m torn between A) doing what you described by just being ballsy and telling them right off the bat they’re sexy/beautiful and B) finding something about them other than their looks to compliment. In scenario A, your intentions are clear and it shows confidence but you’re also just showing that you only came to talk to them based on looks. In scenario B, you show that you probably find them attrac…
/r/seduction03/05/18 02:10 PM
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I can’t even get laid using Tinder. I’m almost 30 years old and have been single for 8 years and can count the number of times I’ve had sex in the past five years on one hand. It’s pathetic. I’m so desperate but I don’t know how to end this essentially lifelong dryspell.
/r/seduction29/04/18 06:07 PM
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yeah, I definitely need to find meetups and new friends because NONE of my current friends like going out and trying new things. Also, I feel like when I get into friendly easy conversations with people I have things in common, they just look at me as a friend and nothing sexual
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:21 AM
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Thanks for the advice. But how do I initiate a conversation with someone I don’t know anything about that I could find striking that isn’t based on their physical looks or appearance?
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:14 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate the help. I’ve gone out to bars a few times by myself and just freeze up every time I see a girl I want to talk to because I don’t know what to say.
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:05 PM
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Yeah, I’ve read a lot of good benefits to quitting porn, like restoring natural confidence and women will pick up on it somehow. I guess I’ll just continue to replace my bad habits with healthy ones until my brain rewires. Thanks for the comment
/r/seduction05/03/18 06:19 PM
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Hey Laz, I’m almost 30 years old and haven’t had a girlfriend since I was 22, only one hookup since then with a friend’s ex who I was comfortable talking to. I finally got fed up of not being good with women and hired a dating coach in December. I’m very introverted and shy when it comes to approaching women and his basic method for me to meet new women is just go around during the day and go up to women and initiate with a phrase like “hey, I just saw you and thought you looked amazing so I had…
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:07 PM
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