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“Not wanting to be sexually abused is hating men” Male nature
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:53 PM
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The world leans much further right than we think. I’ve been saying this for ages but people don’t believe me. Conservative women don’t appreciate being cheated on or men who are flakey and weird. Conservative women aren’t reading the red pill and saying “wow what wise and noble gentlemen”. Conservative women don’t hate women. They don’t read men bashing women online and say “amazing!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:12 PM
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The tea app is to find out who cheated. Not to find out addresses. The address feature is a feature on a bunch of websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:48 PM
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I didn’t say that’s what you do. I am saying this information is publicly available if you’re in the USA. I can send you one of these websites. There are thousands of them. Some are free some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:28 PM
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I PM’ed you if you want a website that you can check to see this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:25 PM
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No this is not a scam and this is almost everyone that I know. Maybe you have a common name or don’t live in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:22 PM
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No our addresses and phone number etc are all publicly available unless we manually opt out and people can still find them if our family members don’t opt out too. And it’s very hard to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:50 PM
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You can find almost everyone on the internet. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:49 PM
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Did you know that you can easily google people and find their name and address? Did you know that there are tons and tons of websites where you can look someone up by their name and phone number. I have found people with just a first name. Their address and phone number etc. it’s not really easy and this only happens sometimes. But the search function on the tea app is just a basic version of these websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:49 PM
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Clearly what men wanted didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:49 PM
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It isn’t a “club” it’s skills and activities like dance, gymnastics, art, music, theater, and sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:24 AM
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This isn’t about fitness. This is about social skills, talents, and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:55 AM
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Then she can split the caregiving amongst men in her polycule. She would still have primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:54 AM
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Any parent who is uninterested in taking their kids to extracurricular activities and sports due to the inconvenience of it all is a shitty parent. Imagine not wanting your kid to learn gymnastics because it’s too stressful. Obviously don’t force the kid to do things they don’t want to do, but it’s an immense privilege to learn a new skill that can possibly pay for college or even be a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:00 PM
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If he has a high notch count, he turns himself undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:12 PM
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The woman would have custody. The man is free to explore because men don’t really want the responsibility of child support or custody. The state can support the kid financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:11 PM
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No I am saying why would he have custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:54 PM
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That’s why we should shift the perspective and make it “having as many men as possible is desirable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:52 PM
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Well just as the man is seen as already valuable by other men, the woman with multiple partners will also be seen as already valuable by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:50 PM
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Well in the harem, men can compete with each other for the Queens attention, so this would fulfill their nature. This will also allow men to connect. Women love socializing and connection, so polyandry would be easy for women. And the men can date other women too as long as they aren’t stealing opportunities from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:49 PM
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Why would he have the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:47 PM
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Because women would desperately be trying to build their harems to be more popular and socially praised. 4 men vs 100 men. 96 more men get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:45 PM
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No I view it as a solution to male loneliness and rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:15 AM
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Well yeah that is why multiple men is seen as high value. Because the woman would have to be highly desirable and youthful and beautiful in order to have a large harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:14 AM
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Now the broke dudes can be part of a harem. Even multiple harems at once. They would increase a woman’s status since 100 partners would be seen as high value and desirable, even if the men are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:13 AM
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They aren’t 304’s, they are respected members of society with an agreed upon relationship dynamic and everything is done for free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:12 AM
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If those men become a status symbol then they can become desirable. Let’s say a woman would have just had sex with 4 men in her entitle life. Now, in this society, her having had sex with 100 men would be seen as highly valuable and sexy and desirable. This means that 96 more men who may have been overlooked would now have gotten laid . It’s a win win situation because these men can also kind of be polyamorous as long as they don’t hoard women from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:11 AM
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Multiple guys told me that the reason they do things like marriage, start a family, etc etc is purely for sex and if they didn’t have to do these things, they wouldn’t. If the men feel possessive over 1 girl, they can also branch out and go for other girls, so long as the other men in society feel that they aren’t getting overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:09 AM
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It is a solution, and men would be viewed as status symbols. Having like 100 men would be seen as high value so a lot of men would be getting a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:08 AM
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Not just eliminate the stigma, but make it a status symbol to have multiple men in a sort of harem, but the men can also date around if they want to too. However, men dating around would be slightly frowned upon as potentially taking attention away from other men. But still okay and not a grave sin of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:07 AM
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The “loser” guys can try to join another “hive” and have multiple women too. And since men would be a status symbol lower value women wouldn’t mind being with a guy who has another woman. Also, men don’t like spending too much time with women, so it would be a way of allowing them to feel that they aren’t “emotional tampons”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:06 AM
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Making men a status symbol will make them desirable and dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:04 AM
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“The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.” Proof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:02 PM
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The study says it: “The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:01 PM
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Facts say otherwise: “The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:01 PM
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The bald 5’2” Indian janitor will date someone equally unattractive. That is what upsets men. Also, why wouldn’t you want someone who doesn’t want you as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/xv3Rubw7jpQ Shoutout to all the men who said that this isn’t mainstream. PBS literally reported on the manosphere. It’s mainstream. Even his dad and brother became red pilled for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:12 AM
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Dating sucks. It sucks for everyone. Women go through it too, though you men taunt women when they go through it. Pick better women 🤷‍♀️ it’s hard to have empathy because women get ghosted all the time too. At least women don’t taunt men about it. That’s life. Move on and go back on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:56 PM
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8 dates long periods This is 2 months maybe 1 month. Also how tf is he going to find a rotation of women if he struggles to find dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:13 PM
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Then don’t whine about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:53 PM
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Oh you claim they don’t want them enough, my bad!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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He didn’t date her, but her friend. But you do reflect male delusion if you think that he’s looks matched to a thin conventionally attractive woman. Nabela Noor is his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:51 AM
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It’s bigotry. You do not need to “criticize” an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:46 AM
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Stop shitposting. I understand you think I am bashing men, but I can link you to the multiple men who insisted that this wasn’t hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:50 AM
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Isn’t that what men tell women to do? Go for their looksmatch so that they find men who treat them well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:49 AM
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This dude is a womanizer. <image> Unattractive men also behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:48 AM
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https://youtu.be/YV6hsyqdt_E This guy has a pornography addiction According to the men here, since he’s obese and ugly, he should be a virtuous saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:49 AM
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<image> Male nature is insisting that this isn’t hateful towards women then claiming to be a nice and good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:47 AM
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There isn’t an Orwellian construct of language. It’s right there. He says: Women enjoy ripping into men’s insecurities (aka cruelty) Women invalidate men (dismissive and mean) Women gaslight (women are emotionally abusive) Women lack self awareness (women are dumb and ignorant) Women are hypocrites Women are cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:45 AM
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He is a “safe” option. Women aren’t men. Women build attraction over time while men have stringent standards and if a woman doesn’t meet them, she is classified as a pump and dump or placeholder or a wife that he mistreats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:52 AM
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Nurses and teachers in the Bay Area make over $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:01 AM
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Why do men always over inflate how attractive other men are? Do you guys not have eyes? He clearly isn’t a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:01 AM
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Men always over inflate how attractive other men are. He is absolutely not a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:59 AM
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The men here don’t realize how desperate women are for a good man. He looks like he would be wholesome and too unattractive to cheat. He looks like he would have a decent job and be nice. But clearly he has problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:47 AM
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The most popular men. If I looked at the most popular women I would see skinny OF stars with plastic surgery and fillers. This doesn’t mean that there aren’t less popular men who also manage to womanize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:38 AM
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<image> This guy went viral on tiktok for being a serial cheater. As I said earlier, “AWDTSG” groups should be a bastion of hope for men. This guy is not a chad. At all. And he is a womanizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:06 AM
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Are you saying men are degenerates?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:58 PM
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Because men reluctantly settle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:58 PM
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Then don’t claim women don’t want a good man!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:52 PM
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Men have always wanted much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:30 PM
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Then men need to stop with this hypocrisy and whining that women want a man they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:26 PM
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Yes it is. He’s calling women cruel hypocrites. That is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:11 PM
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He literally describes women as cruel hypocrites. What a disgusting way to speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:10 PM
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Wonderful men don’t go about ranting about how women like abusers on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:11 PM
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<image> She is kind. She also sings very well. Would you date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:10 PM
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Why dont men keep it in their pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:41 PM
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If only men didn’t whine that condoms reduce their sensation and insist that if a woman doesn’t have sex with them then she doesn’t find them attractive……
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:30 PM
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They go on these apps because they don’t want a man who is sleeping with other women. They don’t consider it an ego boost at all. And men blame the shit out of women for being cheated on. Even you claim women like to be cheated on or with men who have multiple partners because it gives them validation. It’s better for her to check for herself than find out later and have men humiliate her and say it’s her fault for picking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:29 PM
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Very weird that you claim men are victims of misandry when you say extremely hateful stuff about women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:12 PM
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They don’t dox people. They say something like “lmk if anyone is sleeping with my man”. That isn’t doxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:09 PM
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Or they call women who get abortions violent murderers. They mock single moms then when a woman gets an abortion they use that to claim women are more violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:07 PM
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Where is the porn in the tea app? Anyone who posts porn there would get banned automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:05 PM
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🤦‍♀️ If someone ghosts you at date 8 just go date other people. This isn’t rocket science. I got ghosted by a boyfriend. It isn’t the end of the world. I gave it a week or two then rebooted my dating apps and searched for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:47 PM
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Anywhere. From anywhere. You guys act like a verbal promise to be exclusive is a wedding. It isn’t. If I am meeting a guy multiple times then I expect him to only be dating me and me only him. It’s hella gross to go on more than 2-3 dates with someone at the same time as multiple other people. It’s also gross to have a relationship be developing and actively scoping other girls out for dates and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:57 PM
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Yes an acquaintinship makes them non strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:56 PM
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You can give them a compliment and have a conversation then when you see them again have another conversation. Do this a few times and then ask them on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:49 PM
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But it’s much more successful when you get to know someone and have a few conversations with them first. It’s amazing how men get defensive and act like cold approaching is the method to success, despite women telling them repeatedly that it makes them uncomfortable. How many cold approaches have you done this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:48 PM
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Cold approaching strangers has a drastically lower success rate. Men need to stop making complaint posts like OP’s when women literally tell them that they don’t want strangers cold approaching them. An acquaintance is not a close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:21 PM
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Talking and having sex with multiple different people are completely different ballgames. Having multiple “talking stages” or dating multiple different guys for the first 1-2 dates is normal and is NOT having sex with them. Having sex with multiple different guys is not common. After 2-3 dates, some sort of exclusivity talk needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:17 PM
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It’s also dramatically less likely to succeed. Men need to stop making posts like OP’s. We get it. You guys have a passion for cold approaching strangers and don’t like that women don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:32 PM
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Don’t accuse me of being a bot because you dont have a good answer. Going to a domestic violence shelter has a long waiting list and can take months. Men say an easy way to escape DV is to go on tinder. So if the DV shelter has a 3 month waiting list and the woman doesn’t want to go into the streets, a man proposed that she go on tinder and find a new guy to take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:30 PM
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I didn’t say “friendship”, I said “acquaintanceship”. This means you talk to the person 2-3 times and get a sense of if they are attracted to you or not, and if they are single and childless. Women generally don’t want complete strangers approaching them. The original post we are all commenting under is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:26 PM
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Shelters have waiting lists that can take months. Especially domestic violence shelters. Do you not realize that you cannot just walk into one? They are usually full. For many women, escaping domestic violence means living in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:23 PM
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How is rejecting someone being hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:15 PM
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A BDSM sex party is not your local grocery store. This is a party of people who want to have sex. I am not sure how this upset you so much that you made a post about it. And I don’t understand men’s passion about cold approaching strangers. When I said that the best method to meet women is to build an acquaintanceship and then ask them out after a period of time, men got OUTRAGED and insisted that the best method overall is to cold approach strangers. But then when women say they don’t want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:09 PM
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Just as FB bot Chad is more likely to use women for casual sex, the hot Stacy is going to be more likely to bully men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:16 AM
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This is a non sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:09 AM
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So you saying good girls doesn’t exist is not really true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:28 PM
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*women who men find sexually attractive despise men for that because men are drawn to abusive behavior patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:23 PM
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So you agree that women don’t despite men who open up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:50 PM
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Ok well most women follow your command.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:27 PM
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So we agree that the girls are still good and good girls are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:26 PM
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I don’t despise men who open up. I am simply stating facts. Men want women who are emotionally unavailable and mistreat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:44 PM
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You talk about how women who are “good girls” don’t exist because they’re “down” for certain men. Aka willing to have sex. Meaning you believe good women don’t have sex and sex contaminates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:43 PM
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But you don’t seem to deny their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:30 PM
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If you were a woman, men would tell you that you’re beta buxxing your current partner and found the old partners more sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:26 PM
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Then there you go. Don’t whine about how women don’t like vulnerable men when you’re attracted to toxicas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:21 PM
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Is a woman no longer good to you if she’s willing to have sex with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:14 PM
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Why are you dating or friends with someone who dismisses your feelings? Men constantly blame women for mistreatment and abuse and accuse women of liking said abuse and mistreatment. Perhaps it’s the same for men. Perhaps men choose toxic and dismissive women because they find these characteristics attractive then claim to be victims when it backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:13 PM
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No I know myself that it’s true. Most women are more desperate than men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:29 PM
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I guess it reflects women are more desperate than men think and their standards are quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:13 PM
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No a bastion of hope that if ugly guys can cheat, ugly guys can find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:06 PM
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No it doesn’t. The men there are unattractive. It should be a bastion of hope to men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:59 PM
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lol I thought men weren’t getting matches on dating apps so while they aspire to get with a younger woman they are stuck with their agematch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:56 PM
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He literally was a man saying this about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:19 PM
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I am not shitposting nor saying satire. I am repeating what men say about men and dating. It’s literally what the guy in the video was saying. Less than 1% of women meet their standards. Meanwhile that guy is attempting to derail the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:41 PM
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I am not race baiting but not all women can be white, and no one can age backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:40 PM
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No shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:38 PM
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I want to travel as much as money will allow. I also like to do things like try new restaurants or do day trips or hiking trips to places nearby. I wouldn’t be happy with a man who doesn’t want to do at least some of these things with me and who gets moody if I do it by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:51 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK5VYvEOTNz/ Even red pill pages agree with me. This one proved men only want the top less than 1% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:34 PM
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They are dating unattractive women. Unlike the men here who hyper fixate on Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:20 AM
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As I said; Be brave like me. You can put a wig on and pretend you’re a woman. And go see what’s up on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:32 AM
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The men there were fat. The guy isn’t ugly, just fat and average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:31 AM
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Literally pop a wig on and jeopardize your identity being stolen by 4chan like I did and go look at the men posted there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:31 AM
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Key word: Initially They can change their minds and realize he’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:31 PM
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I joined the app and I have never been cheated on to my knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:31 PM
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It’s not 2010 anymore and most women do not take pleasure in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:29 PM
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Nothing is trickling down these are just unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:23 PM
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<image> You can’t possibly say this is a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:22 PM
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What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:21 PM
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Do not despair. The chads of the tea app have none of those features and are very diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:20 PM
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No it isn’t. A man is not a product but a human being. And if a man is sitting there saying “omg I can have sex with other women if I want to so if my wife doesn’t put out I am going to cheat” then he isn’t a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:26 PM
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Then the standard for being a Chad is very low and easily achievable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:11 PM
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That isn’t hostility. Nothing I said was hostile. I am simply pointing out that women are cool with dating unattractive men and find unattractive men handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:09 PM
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Being used for casual sex or as a placeholder isn’t exactly happiness or good treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:08 PM
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It sucks but he may have also actually cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:08 PM
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The men are FAT AND UGLY AND UNATTRACTIVE TOO. They are getting with their LOOKSMATCH. I thought the men here were angry that women didn’t want their looksmatch? Now you’re proving to me that men don’t and supporting what I have always said: men are hypergamous and don’t want their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:10 PM
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Yes they would. We aren’t men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:09 PM
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And those guys are creatures too. So it’s like a looksmatched pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:53 PM
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I am not the one posting these men. And posting it on Reddit to say “look how ugly he is” versus posting it on tea app with a caption “this guy has a wife” are two radically different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:38 PM
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They don’t give reviews. They literally just say one of three things: A) “here is Johnny from tinder. Is anyone else dating him? We may make things official soon and I want to make sure he isn’t cheating on me or anyone else. Also I want to make sure no one was abused by him.” B) “here is Samuel from Bumble. I dated him for 6 months and we even had sex. I found out he has a wife and another girlfriend! Stay away from Samuel!” C) “here is my ex boyfriend Tommy. He abused me and beat me. He lovebo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:29 PM
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Most of the men here just want Stacies and claim anyone who isn’t a Stacy is a slumpbuster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:25 PM
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I am not going to dox the men on the tea app and risk getting banned from both Reddit and PPD. It seems to me that you have a hard time believing that unattractive men can be womanizers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:20 PM
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What bizarre mental gymnastics. Women select who they want to select. A metric for how good a man is is not based on how many women want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:16 PM
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It should be a message of hope for men who believe that only chads get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:14 PM
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That’s not how we determine if a man is good or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:10 PM
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No it’s a composite of the type of men on these apps. I conclude that you find this man so unattractive that you can’t possibly believe he is a womanizer. You think I am lying or making this up and are upset that I am not posting the actual men from that page. It shakes your world view that only chads can cheat. But this is reality. Men who look like this are more than capable of dating multiple women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:10 PM
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Source: MY EYES.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:05 PM
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No but plenty of women do. <image> This is an AI version of the men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:05 PM
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Then it completely proves hypergamy wrong and it proves that women like their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:04 PM
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I’m not going to post the actual people. But I am glad we both agree that the men are not really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:03 PM
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And there you go. He also has 3 girlfriends and financially depends on one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:55 PM
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No shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:55 PM
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<image> Here is an AI version. This is not a real person and it’s not inspired by any specific one person. It is a combination of the people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:54 PM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:46 PM
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<image> Here is a ChatGPT generated version of what the men look like on the tea app. This is an imaginary person who is AI generated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:44 PM
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Yeah so many young and hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:39 PM
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I didn’t say the majority of men are cheaters. Don’t put words in my mouth. I did say that if a woman gets cheated on, men blame her for not vetting properly. This app helps women vet. The men on this app do not look like NBA players. <image> This is a Chat GPT version of the men on the apps. If these men can be players, then anyone can. THIS IS AI AND NOT A REAL PERSON.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:37 PM
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Sounds like this is more of a familial issue and complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:30 PM
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No they aren’t. I wish I could post screenshots. These are bottom of the barrel men. This should be inspiring and uplifting to the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah then they get cheated on or hurt and men blame them for not vetting them properly and even accuse them of liking abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:26 PM
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So you agree with me that men can be players if they stop hyper fixating on the Stacies of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:25 PM
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Well these men are ugly and unattractive and look like losers so it seems to me like the bar to be a Chad is super low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:24 PM
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The guys on that app are super ugly so it’s proof that any guy can be a player and it proves that the 80/20 rule is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:23 PM
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No they weren’t. They were dating ugly men who were even worse looking than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:22 PM
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Absolutely not. Most of these men on that app are bottom of the barrel losers and not at all attractive. If anything it proves that women like unattractive men. This should be motivating, inspiring, and a message of hope to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:22 PM
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Then that is a rough 20% because these guys are old and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:19 PM
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Except for these men are not the top 20% of men. They are mostly unattractive loser types. If anything the app shows that women are desperate. Men should take this as a message of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:18 PM
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No it isn’t at all. It’s “is anyone else dating this guy?” Or “this guy cheated on me”. Most of the guys are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:16 PM
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No but just pop a wig on and they will let you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 PM
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Except they aren’t. These men are really truly ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 PM
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So now you’re moved the goalposts from OP’s claims that women just want Chads. These guys are not chads. They are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:56 PM
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Go on the are we dating the same guy groups and tea apps. The men getting pussy are ugly and old and loser types. This should give you hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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Then her husband has to do the bulk of the housework and cooking and cleaning. I want a gender swapped modern dynamic. This means that just as the modern woman works full time and cooks and cleans and lives as a homemaker after work, I want this with the genders flipped. I want my husband to be a homemaker after work and I will go exercise at the gym while he’s doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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After work, the man comes home and watches tv or has a nice workout at the gym. His wife, who also is working a full time job, comes home and has to prepare dinner, cook, clean, and take care of the kids. I plan to have this with the genders swapped so I can maintain my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 PM
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Most men don’t do the majority of the housework. I expect whoever I marry to do most of the housework, regardless of who works more because men are stronger and have more energy and can do things more efficiently. While he’s cooking and cleaning, I plan to work out 2 hours a day to maintain my weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:51 PM
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Lmfao no it isn’t. I wish I could put screenshots too. I live in a big city area and these men are ugly. They are not chads whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:50 PM
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These guys are ugly. They don’t look like they have multiple options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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Have you seen the men on these apps? They look like Walmart goblins themselves. Most of them are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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Not all of the guys there are cheating. About half of it is women saying “hey I met this guy and want to make sure he is single and not actively dating anyone else or in a relationship.” Despite Redditors insisting women enjoy sharing a man, most don’t. And if a woman comes forward and says “hey that’s my boyfriend!” Then most women would be disgusted and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:48 PM
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Considering that a man here told me that women have no excuse for being abuse victims because they can just search for men on these apps to screen them, it sounds like we are obligated to be on these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:46 PM
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I’ve been saying this for years. Most men find most women unattractive and the average woman is unattractive. Most men want a top 20% woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
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Men leak their girlfriend’s and wife’s nudes on 4chan on a regular basis so I am not sure why you think this is a “gotcha” moment. A guy here even posted a woman’s sexual texts with her first name and face and no man gave a shit and when he was called out by a woman he got defensive and insisted that no one here knows her so it’s okay. Men have never been good at maintaining privacy and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:44 PM
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No these guys are loser types who look like if they miss 1-2 paychecks they will be struggling with homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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This isn’t a gotcha. The men there truly are ugly. You should say “wow! Us men have hope because look how many ugly men are able to cheat on women!” But no! Instead it makes guys bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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Yes most of them are ugly. It should be uplifting, motivating, and inspiring to the men here that so many ugly men can be players but instead they choose to throw a tantrum. These are NOT CHADS on these apps. They are weird looking loser types.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:41 PM
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This is an ignorant comment though because there is a wide range of men on the app, most of whom are unattractive, and most of them look like they are one or two missed paychecks away from homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:39 PM
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No they aren’t. I went on that app and it’s filled with ugly looking loser types. If they can find multiple women, then so can most men. These findings should be motivating, inspiring, and uplifting. It should be a beacon of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:38 PM
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No they didn’t. The app is filled with ugly looking, weird looking, broke looking, loser looking, oftentimes old men. They aren’t Chads at all. It should be a source of inspiration for the men here that so many women are so desperate because some of those players are super ugly. If these weird looking men can be players, anyone can. And I live in a major metropolitan area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:37 PM
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Those men should hop on the tea app because most of these men on there are not chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 PM
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If women are shallow, why are so many of these player men so ugly and weird looking and old? I am not impressed by the men on there and I am in a big city where there are a lot of Chad/ Stacy looking people. There are old and ugly and impoverished looking men on there. If anything, the app is a testimony about how non superficial women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 PM
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Apps like this specifically exist because women DONT want to date the same guy. They literally go on this app to ensure that whoever they are saying isn’t dating someone else at the same time. They also go on apps like this because they don’t want to be mistreated or abused. Also, instead of being bitter and accusatory and trying to make this a “gotcha” moment, be motivated and uplifted and inspired because MOST OF THE MEN THERE DO NOT LOOK LIKE CHADLY MEN. A lot of these men who supposedly have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:32 PM
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https://cybernews.com/cybercrime/sister-hong-scandal-telegram-tiktok/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:56 AM
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What’s the PPD stance on Sister Hong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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I think a lot of young men hate and resent women. Examples include believing non virgin women are worthless and resenting women who are overweight. I think most men tend to hyperfixate on young and beautiful women and are repulsed by their age and looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:29 AM
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However you agree that without a lousy husband who is a burden, it gets much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:03 PM
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And how did he come to that conclusion? Usually women gain weight when married due to exhaustion and stress and a husband who is a burden unto them. When the husband is out, she’s less exhausted and stressed and can focus on her health and weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:02 PM
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Those who don’t aren’t interested. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:53 PM
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How many cold Approaches have you done in the last week? It seems men preach about how cold approaches are superior but don’t actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:42 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/zy0jsyF5yP Yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:27 PM
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I am okay with it too. If we don’t get married after a certain period I would just leave. I am not sure what your “gotcha” is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:21 PM
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Then don’t advocate for women to be stay at home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:20 PM
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No they don’t. Women are much more likely to end up homeless after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:20 PM
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I get accused of hating men for simply repeating what men say about men, and far less dramatic things. For you to claim most women are bad is hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:11 PM
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Basic politeness is not soft. It’s basic politeness. Then men have the audacity to wonder why women go for abusers when so many of you defend abusive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:06 PM
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You could say the same for men who don’t make enough money to support a family. My dad worked 3 jobs to support us lmfao why are you so lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:04 PM
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Sounds like she was a Stacy if you put up with that. Men usually don’t put up with abuse unless they are attracted to the abuse or find the woman so hot that it doesn’t matter. This is how women get treated and spoken to when they are abused, so I am simply demonstrating equality since a lot of men claim women don’t value or demonstrate equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:01 PM
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Saying “no thank you” is NOT THE SAME THING as aggressively popping their balloon. I would just tell a man “sorry you’re not my type” but yall have a difficult time understanding how to do that and believe that aggression is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:54 PM
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Having sex with someone and basic niceties are completely different things. It seems to me that you think that sex and being a baseline level of polite are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:53 PM
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If a man thinks most women are bad, it means he hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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But you think most women are bad. That is hatred. It is bigoted and reflects a bias against women. It’s disgusting. Be accountable. I would have more respect if you just owned up to it and admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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It’s much harder to lose weight with a man who is a burden and who makes life more miserable and difficult. It’s amazing how little accountability men have for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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I understand that you think it’s piss easy, but it’s much easier without a man who is a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
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That is a disgusting way to speak of your ex wife. You clearly didn’t find her attractive. What exactly did she blame you for? Was she exhausted and overwhelmed? If so, you being gone made her less exhausted less overwhelmed, and better able to handle her emotions without food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
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It isn’t factual. It’s just hatred of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:45 PM
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Maybe it’s because men repeatedly tell women they are unworthy of marriage so they lower their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:44 PM
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A good man doesn’t walk around saying the majority of women are unworthy of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:40 PM
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Yet you want a stay at home mom so your kids don’t go to daycare, rendering her homeless in the event of a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:37 PM
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I refuse to have kids, live with someone, or intermingle finances until I am legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:37 PM
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So then don’t whine about child support and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:36 PM
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Why don’t you associate the weight gain and being unattractive with aging and stress and childbearing? Why do you blame the woman for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:35 PM
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Sounds like it’s a better idea to just break up than propose. Also engagement means nothing. Until we are married, I am single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:34 PM
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Good men don’t have this mindset though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:33 PM
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Then they aren’t good men lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:32 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:16 PM
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I am sorry you can’t differentiate between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:15 PM
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As the other person said, people are entitled to basic politeness and human decency. Any guy who gets upset about this is a potential abuser because he thinks that this takes a great effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:15 PM
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Sounds like you’re dodging accountability. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:39 PM
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I linked many resources that many popular organizations consider it to be a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:26 PM
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Men who actively use slurs against others are abusive men and not exactly good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:19 PM
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<image> You literally said he did great, showed power immediately, established a standard, and filtered out everyone but his best prospects. That is condoning the aggressive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:18 PM
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Except for you insist that the man in that video isn’t abusive, that he didn’t do anything wrong, and rejecting him on the basis of his rude and aggressive behavior is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:15 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tranny https://www.transgendermap.com/guidance/resources/words/slang-slurs/ https://glaad.org/fact-sheet-for-reporters-derogatory-slurs-referring-to-transgender-people/ https://queer-voices.com/lets-talk-slurs-on-the-term-tranny/ It absolutely is a slur unless you identify as trans yourself. And no, if a woman did that to an ugly guy, women would say she was being rude and mean. At least you no longer are trying to argue that you don’t encourage women to date abuser…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:15 PM
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Then a good plan to avoid abuse is to avoid men who are rude and disrespectful, like the man in that video. If he can publicly behave that way with strangers, he is more than capable of doing worse when he knows the woman or in private. And yes you do. You repeatedly say he is doing a good thing and he isn’t bad. Therefore, you believe rejecting him on the premise of being a potential abuser is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:06 PM
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It is. It is emotional abuse to be degrading and rude. Do not encourage women to pick abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:04 PM
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No he was rude and aggressive and displayed potentially abusive behavior. You guys gaslight the fuck out of women here and actively encourage them to pick abusers. He could have just said “sorry that’s not my thing” when it was time for them to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:02 PM
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Shouting at a woman is verbal abuse. Doing so in public adds am extra layer of abuse because it involves public humiliation. Also you can choose to not date someone transgender without being rude and aggressive about it. He could have said “sorry I am not into trans women” when the time to talk to each other came up. Calling transgender people “tranny” is a slur and reflects potential future abusive behavior. In this series, you don’t pop someone’s balloon for them. They pop it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:01 PM
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You literally put women down and blame them for picking men who engage in aggressive behavior in your comment from yesterday. Now you’re gaslighting women and encouraging them to pick a man who engages in rude and aggressive behavior. This is hypocrisy. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:57 PM
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<image> No he was rude and aggressive. You admonish women for picking toxic men yet actively encourage women to pick toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:55 PM
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<image> Here you are admonishing women for Picking abusive men. Yet you are actively encouraging women to date potentially abusive and aggressive men who rudely and aggressively pop someone else’s balloon. You also call single moms “whores” which is abusive and toxic behavior. You can choose to not date single moms without being a monster about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:55 PM
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You can have a preference without being aggressive and rude about it. He was both. These are signs of an abuser. You are encouraging women to Pick toxic and abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:52 PM
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It’s amazing how men tell us to “pick better men” than in the face of outright rude and aggressive behavior gaslight us and insist that it’s justified and not rude or abusive at all. The guy was rude and aggressive. He crossed a boundary and popped her balloon. He could have gone about this in a more polite way, such as saying “sorry trans women are not my type” but he had to be rude and aggressive. Maybe you find abuse attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:51 PM
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You’re proving OP’s point. You can choose to not date someone without being rude about it. He was being incredibly rude. He could have just told the lady “I am not into trans women, sorry” when it came time to chat and see who is compatible or not, and then moved on, but he chose to be rude and pop her balloon himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:49 PM
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If a man is opposed to marriage, then he isn’t a good man lmfao. A good man believes in marriage and aspires to get married one day, or, if he isn’t interested in getting married, stays celibate and doesn’t dangle marriage like a carrot on a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:46 PM
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Can you word this more clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:44 PM
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Yes it does. You were reaching in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:08 AM
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What kind of neglect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:08 AM
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So you did have the acquaintances thing yet resent when women suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:47 AM
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We there you go. It’s a bad faith argument. You are claiming abortion is violence against children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:51 AM
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I understand that you’re pro life, but it only makes sense to be pro life if you’re also pro robust social services programs for single mothers so that they are incentivized to keep their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:42 AM
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…… do you mean abortions? Show me a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:41 AM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:38 AM
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But you openly said that you don’t approach and that you instead were approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:38 AM
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Show me the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:35 AM
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It does matter because men are still the violent ones. And plenty of men become stay at home dads and homemakers. You must have to be willing to be with a woman who is unattractive, older, and a higher earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:57 PM
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Men are the ones who are more likely to victimize each other in violence. And women work less hours and take more time off to take care of the kids and the home. They still work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:49 PM
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It could be anywhere from a few days to someone you see daily to a few months to someone you don’t see daily. An acquaintanceship is like the most superficial and beginner form of friendship. It’s someone I make small talk with and who I see around, but who isn’t involved in my personal life. I don’t necessarily hang out with them them outside of the setting that I met them in. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/acquaintance https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/acquaintanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:29 PM
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That’s why I am talking about being an acquaintance and not a close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:05 PM
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I read the whole paragraph. Stop being condescending. Your first advice was to be particularly handsome so that women approach. This is the only advice you have taken. Presumably you’re particularly handsome and alpha/ Chadly. Your second advice was to cold approach women. However, you didn’t take this advice nor have any success to report with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:39 PM
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But you also didn’t cold approach. Your only advice is to be particularly handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:36 PM
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Men can earn more money. Women can’t age backwards to be desirable. Take comfort in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:32 PM
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But you didn’t even take your own advice regarding gold approaching strangers. It looks to me like most men want to cold approach then get upset that most women don’t like this method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:23 PM
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To me that doesn’t sound like the magic method you make it out to be and that acquaintanceship is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:17 PM
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So you didn’t cold approach your wife either but you believe it’s the best method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:16 PM
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How many cold approached have you done in the last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:11 PM
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So how many cold approaches have you done in the last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:11 PM
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I have been on that apps and all it does is prove that everything men say here is wrong. Some of these serial cheaters look really unattractive. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJsbXzNygDo/ This guy looks like a thumb, and he managed to get two attractive girlfriends. He is not from the app. He has a semi popular Instagram page. If he can do it as a non Chad and all these weird looking guys on the tea app can do it, that should be uplifting, inspiring, and motivating to the men here who feel inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:22 PM
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And they are abusing them. Bullying is verbal abuse wherever you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:15 PM
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Interesting response that indicates that you believe abuse is justified and acknowledge that abusive men don’t always look or act a certain way. I am glad we are now on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:15 PM
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Also most of the men here are verbally abusive and they don’t look like tattooed gang bangers. Most of them don’t have a criminal record or overt substance abuse. Yet the men here are verbally abusive and cause drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:10 PM
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This really shows male ignorance and naivety because those aren’t the only men that abuse women and cause drama. Examples: https://www.instagram.com/redbeardrants1 This guy doesn’t look like that and his entire page is devoted to humiliating and putting down western women. https://www.instagram.com/p/DMOZoEUSPp4/ All of the bitter and angry men on this post look like normies. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLwj0Z8Mkjj/ All of the men insulting this victim and calling her names look normal. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:05 PM
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You meet them at social activities where strangers WANT to interact like a social dancing club or church or a political group or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:34 AM
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Also it’s amazing that you claim that I hate men yet you hypocritically call women a “maze of trash”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:50 PM
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Most of the comments were men claiming that cold approaches are superior, and it was the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:49 PM
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Despite your seething comment, you said absolutely nothing to argue my point. Men tend to enjoy humiliating women online. Even you chime in by making hateful claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:39 PM
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I am not stereotyping men as being awful. I am very clear with my intentions in my post. I am saying that men claimed en masse that cold approaching is the best way to meet women. However, I think many men resent that most women do not appreciate a cold approach and prefer a warm/ friendly approach where they get to know the guy a bit before being asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:31 PM
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It isn’t passive aggressive and it was most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:57 PM
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Being overtly cruel and aggressive is blatantly worse than simply ignoring DM’s. No accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:47 PM
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You don’t have to want to date someone to be civil to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:40 PM
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Do you want me to sit there and count them? It was the vast majority of men. You are being condescending and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:40 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:39 PM
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<image> I don’t think you realize how nasty men are capable of being, especially online.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:53 PM
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What does budget control freak mean? Does she have to ask your permission to buy shampoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:43 PM
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<image> Friendly reminder that men enjoy humbling and humiliating women. Men think that being insulting is having a preference. He could have just swiped left but he wanted to hurt her and humble her. As evidenced by the meme, men think it’s Chadly to humiliate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:40 PM
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I am not backpedaling at all. I also made it clear that I meant ACQUAINTANCESHIP and not a close friendship. You seem to struggle to differentiate between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:38 PM
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It was a lot more than 3. It was like 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:37 PM
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No I describe it as becoming acquainted and getting to know a woman for a couple weeks before formally asking her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:35 PM
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Did you cold approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:33 PM
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Wow, what strong and angry language (as evidenced by using terminology like “bullshitting your point down our throats”) over common sense advice like “she’s just letting you down politely” and “you’re not obligated to be friends with someone who you have unrequited feelings for”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:15 AM
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I think men should become acquainted with women and get to know them for a little while before asking them out. A multitude of men got offended and angry and insisted that cold approaching is the best and most efficient way to meet women. I suspected that most of these men don’t cold approach despite praising it as the best and most efficient way. I think that this comment section proved me right. Most men aren’t cold approaching and were just mad that I offered a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:03 AM
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So you cold approach a bunch in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:45 AM
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I agree that this is the best way but a lot of guys got mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:56 AM
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I agree but a lot of men piled onto me saying that meeting through mutual friends and social groups is a waste of time for men and cold approaching is the superior way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:56 AM
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So you want to cold approach but it hasn’t organically happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:25 AM
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Good luck kind stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:09 AM
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You didn’t call anything out. I didn’t contradict myself and I made it clear that men were telling me the complete opposite of what I believed. I gave men the opportunity to express their truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:09 AM
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Where did I say anything of the sort? I told you that you can take comfort in feeling Chadly. Surely that should make you feel complimented and alpha and manly. Isn’t that the point of soft cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:03 AM
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So you just don’t want the women around you and use that as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:02 AM
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Success rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:01 AM
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So why are t the guys here saying they cold approached mountains of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:00 AM
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But by a long time I meant a couple weeks and men lost their minds over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:00 AM
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So like 1 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:59 PM
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Sounds like I was right in my original thread and your attempt at a gotcha was unwarranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:59 PM
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So getting to know the women around you is a better method.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:58 PM
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Sounds like soft cheating. I guess you can take comfort in feeling like a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:25 PM
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So how many have you cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:00 PM
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So you believe cold approaching is the way but don’t partake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:59 PM
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So why not “warm approach” and get to know women over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:46 PM
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Does your wife know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:44 PM
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You tell me. Men are the ones who insisted in the last thread that getting to know women over time is a major waste of time that leads to the “friendzone” and rejection. Men are the ones who insisted that the most effective way to get dates is to approach tons of strangers at a time and to cold approach a bunch of women. I personally believe most of these men are not cold approaching in bulk. But they tell me otherwise. I am allowed to change my mind and say “oh yes I guess men are running aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:44 PM
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And you asked both of them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:42 PM
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<image> You literally said that this is what you want. To get to know women over time. You accuse me of “bad faith” yet it’s bad faith to immediately backtrack on what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:41 PM
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Did you cold approach your current gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:39 PM
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If I am wrong then why did most men insist in my last post that getting to know a woman over the course of a few weeks is a major waste of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:39 PM
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It didn’t “prompt” them to respond. Men who agreed with me had the opportunity to contribute, but didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:38 PM
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Ok but when you were single, how many women did you cold approach each week? And did you cold approach your current girlfriend? Clearly you believe it’s a superior method.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:37 PM
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How long is a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:36 PM
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I meant one out of most men here. You’re the only one that practices what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:31 PM
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So why do men insist that this is the superior way to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:30 PM
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Who were these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:30 PM
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Accusing me of being malicious is a personal attack. You want to get to know women over time, but then that isn’t what the men in this forum say. They say that if the woman rejects them then they are stuck in the friendzone and that getting to know a woman over time is a waste of time if it doesn’t work out, meaning that it is something they don’t want to do. Bars, clubs, concerts, and parties do not attract the type of women PPD men claim to want. If you want a shy conservative woman, she isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:29 PM
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Why? Isn’t it the most effective method according to men here? Why does it have to be on a trip? What methods do you use locally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:27 PM
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How many women have you cold approached this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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Yet most men didn’t and most men even got upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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How many women have you cold approached? And I repeatedly made it clear that men are to do this with multiple women. Not “putting their eggs in the same basket”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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I understand but the thread was composed of men and almost all the men were at a consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:20 PM
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Well “planting seeds” was what I described and overall most men believed that I was wrong and ignorant and wasting their time and that cold approaching is the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:18 PM
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So why is it that in my last thread men got so defensive and angry when I suggested getting to know women over time and insisted that cold approaching hundreds of women regularly is the only way to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:07 PM
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So in 50 shades they don’t even have BDSM sex the first book and the guy makes her write all her limits. And she doesn’t like it so she runs away and cries. In twilight they don’t even have sex until marriage in the last book and the sex scene is glossed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:54 PM
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sexual tension porn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:53 PM
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Not really. https://www.goodreads.com/blog/show/2887-the-100-most-popular-romances-of-the-past-three-years-on-goodreads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:06 PM
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Can you list some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:57 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:39 PM
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https://www.goodreads.com/blog/show/2887-the-100-most-popular-romances-of-the-past-three-years-on-goodreads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:36 PM
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<image> Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:58 PM
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Then enjoy a higher rate of rejection and women being more likely to find you a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:51 PM
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Why couldn’t they continue the conversation in a place that isn’t a private hotel room? There is always a sexual connotation with going to someone’s room or house.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:50 PM
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Then switch to a different church
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 PM
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What I described is the middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 PM
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Ok well you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:47 PM
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An acquaintanceship is not a close friendship. It’s a casual friend at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:45 AM
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Other guys here equate small talk to catcalling strangers and propositioning women to come to their hotel room at 4 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:45 AM
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An acquaintanceship is not the same thing as a close friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:44 AM
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Watson described socializing with other attendees at a hotel bar until 4:00 a.m., then announcing she was tired and going to bed. After this, a man from the group followed her into an elevator and invited her to his room for coffee, which she declined.[36][23][39] Watson drew a parallel between the incident and her conference talk on sexual objectification the night before,[35][36] saying, "Guys, don't do that".[23][37][36][3] Why do you equate small talk with inviting a woman to your hotel room…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:43 AM
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An acquaintanceship is not a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:42 AM
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So you cold approached a bunch of random women and asked them all out on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:41 AM
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Not true at all unless you’re going to orthodox churches because men tend to enjoy orthodox Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:41 AM
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Then all she’s going to do is say “wow that man is rude”. You aren’t teaching her a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:01 AM
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Yes. There is a guy here saying when he socializes with women he has no idea of how to tell if she’s interested in him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:00 AM
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Yes women communicate interest. I understand social cues are hard to read but if a woman likes you then it’s obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:00 AM
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No that was the premise of the conversation. Using your language, not mine, don’t wiggle out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:22 PM
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You don’t wait around, you actively get to know multiple people and see who seems like a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:36 PM
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<image> Except for that is what you said and for some reason you confound small talk and gaging if someone is interested with cat calling. Don’t try to wiggle your way out of this bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:33 PM
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In the process you also talk to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:01 PM
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What I described has a higher success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:01 PM
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This is an acquaintanceship not a close lifelong friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:00 PM
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It’s the description of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:00 PM
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This is how you find out if she is married. You aren’t forming a close lifelong friendship it’s an acquaintanceship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:59 PM
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This is an acquaintanceship not a lifelong friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:58 PM
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The ball isn’t 100% in her court. You’re deciding if and when you will make a move. It’s in your court. She can decide to do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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The lady knows you so you can gauge if she’s interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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It isn’t camping as a friend until she finds you attractive it’s getting to know her and see if she views you as a romantic prospect or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:56 PM
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That’s if she rejects you. If she rejects you, or you sense that she isn’t into you, then keep a polite distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:55 PM
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Yes you can just be polite and learn to read social cues if she feels uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:55 PM
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You don’t have to stay friends with someone who doesn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:54 PM
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It’s not romantic it’s getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:53 PM
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Yes. She CLEARLY SAYS DO NOT GIVE YOUR UNSOLICITED OPINION ABOUT HOW A WOMAN LOOKS Saying “hello” is not giving your unsolicited opinion on a woman’s appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:53 PM
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It’s very easy if she’s around your looksmatch and agematch and seems into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:52 PM
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People are much more receptive to acquaintances than strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:51 PM
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I now have a Redditor insisting that men who say “nice ass” when catcalling women don’t have bad intentions and have good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:23 PM
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If she likes him then she will want to keep seeing him and will either continue the same walking path or notify him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 PM
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Yes. Go to a different activity and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:13 PM
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No it’s not. A lot of you guys have autistic interpretations of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:13 PM
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It isn’t socially unacceptable and there is something you are misinterpreting like the guy who thinks catcalling and saying hi are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:07 PM
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That’s life and saying. You spend time talking to multiple people and “wasting time” until you meet someone you want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:06 PM
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Did you even read what you posted? Do you want me to copy and paste it? Her post is about not catcalling. She isn’t saying don’t say “hi” to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:05 PM
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Nothing I described is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:02 PM
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That’s why you don’t cycle through the group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:01 PM
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That’s why at some point during the chats you ask “are you single”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:00 PM
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Both you and her will get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:59 PM
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I know that his intentions are bad if he shouts “nice ass”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:58 PM
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This is a social skills issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:57 PM
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You literally go for people that already have the same habit like going to the gym at a certain time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:57 PM
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Church? religious places. School. Gym. Social activities. Dance club. Meetup groups. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:56 PM
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One out of most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:56 PM
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They are looking for husbands, not casual sex. That doesn’t mean they are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:55 PM
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They didn’t like him to begin with but didn’t want to be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
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How did you give up your life? Aren’t you doing other stuff and talking to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
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That’s the point of talking to them and getting to know them over time. Thats the entire premise of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:01 PM
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Then don’t be their friend. Just keep a polite distance. Often women say “let’s just be friends” to politely reject someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:01 PM
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Well good to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
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Obviously you just go for someone who is there to socialize and who isn’t deeply religious. Lots of women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
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Then you’re asking for her number in a non romantic sense and that matches with what I listed in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
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Small talk is not stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
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No it isn’t. It sounds like you want to lie by omission. “She didn’t ask me so I won’t tell her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:57 PM
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This is why you don’t make a deep and profound friendship. It’s an acquaintanceship. This also gives you time to see if she seems into you. If she doesn’t, then keep distant and just be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:56 PM
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Ok so you have friendships. If you cold approached them, they likely wouldn’t be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:55 PM
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Because the culture is different in non western places. I’m surprised they have sex easily as I believed that in Africa women are much more conservative about having sex than in the west. There also is likely a larger sense of community than in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:54 PM
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It makes you a realistic option in her eyes rather than a creepy stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:53 PM
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Because they were just being polite my friend. They literally were just rejecting him in a nice way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:52 PM
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Don’t date exclusively for the first 2-3 dates but after that you should pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:52 PM
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She’s more likely to think you’re creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:51 PM
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None of them are men around my age. I do talk to men at the gym and church and actively seek social activities to meet others. A few of my friends do a dancing group and have met men there. Others have through church.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:50 PM
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These aren’t engineered random interactions these are intentionally trying to talk to someone who you see regularly. It isn’t stalking if it’s a place you regularly frequent as a part of your regular routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:49 PM
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Sir You are in Kenya. Kenya is known for being more conservative about sex and has a completely different social scene than the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:44 PM
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Asking out strangers at random nightclubs and bars will have less success than asking out women who you know from your social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:42 PM
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Numbers are much better with building an acquaintanceship then asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:39 PM
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I don’t know my neighbors and still say hi when I walk by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:39 PM
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You don’t have to be religious, and you aren’t limited to church. Church is an umbrella term for synagogue, mosque, etc. It sounds like the men here are just lazy and then get shocked when cold approaching strangers doesn’t work as planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:38 PM
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And the cold approach method is going to get a shit ton more rejections and women thinking you’re a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:37 PM
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If you already got to know her in your social circle, then it’s time to ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:37 PM
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Then she’s more likely to say “no” because you’re a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:36 PM
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What? It sounds like it’s a lazy approach. You see a cute woman at the gym or school or something and refuse to get to know her after doing a bunch of mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:32 PM
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It’s not a good idea to become acquainted with a bunch of random women at the same gym and ask them all out at once. But one lady at the gym, one at church, one at the run club, one at the swing dancing group, etc. then you will have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:31 PM
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Churches are literally free and a lot of them have more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:29 PM
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Most men here have not approached a ton of women. Most of them have maybe asked out 1 or 2 women IRL (not online) then gave up after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:29 PM
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You aren’t forced to be anyone’s friend. You can choose to not be friends with someone who you have unrequited feelings for. You can also build an acquaintanceship with multiple women at the same time. Cute girl from the gym, cute girl at church, cute girl at the singles social group you found on meetup. Talk to them and see who is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:27 PM
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Saying hi is not creepy. You just do a head nod or hello. It depends on location, but people generally say hi to each other in their neighborhood. The advice I give is to build your own social circle. Go to social activities. And the gym has a group of people who go there regularly. You can get to know them and befriend them. If a woman doesn’t seem interested then just keep your distance and don’t talk to her much beyond polite pleasantries. If she seems interested, talk to her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:26 PM
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Then you drop her politely. You say “oh okay, lucky guy” and then move on. She could easily say yes to a date then string you along as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:24 PM
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This sounds like an excuse to not talk to women. It sounds like you lack understanding of social cues like being a little flirtatious but not so much that you make the person feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:24 PM
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You don’t have to be friends with these women, you know. You aren’t in a friend zone unless you choose to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:22 PM
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You can talk to and get to know multiple women at once. Just don’t do it all at the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:21 PM
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No it increases your chances even more to get to know someone. She knows you aren’t a threat and can hopefully see your good qualities that you hopefully have. It also gives you a chance to learn if she’s a single mom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:20 PM
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You can do what I described with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:20 PM
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I agree but men get mad and claim women are bitchy and selfish for feeling this way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:19 PM
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So you chose to defend sexual abusers by claiming their intentions may possibly be pure and wholesome. Lmfao. Catcalling is a form of sexual abuse and anyone with a modicum of common sense knows this. I guess you could argue that 0.0000001% of cat callers have a pure heart and just want to declare that they find a woman beautiful and make her feel complimented. You got me on that one! 99.99999% are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:54 PM
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Except for it isn’t. It’s accountability. Your comment isn’t a “gotcha” my friend. Catcalling is sexual harassment and wrong. It’s sexist propaganda to insist otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:39 PM
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My intentions are obvious: Accountability And the intentions of a catcaller are obvious: Sex Asking for sex from random stranger women is a bad intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:14 PM
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Except for it portrays women as stupid, vapid, unintelligent, and gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:00 PM
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<image> Zero accountability. None whatsoever. You literally say right here So they push themselves onto a guy like me who is only going to use them for sex and eventually ghost when I'm loaded with new prospects. I also used to be that fat guy none of them wanted only too come crawling out of the woodwork when I got lean & muscular. So l'm now feeding into the attention I never used to get as I went from maybe 1 to 2 matches every few months to 10 to 20 matches every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:50 PM
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You literally brag about how you use women for sex and sex alone because you don’t find them attractive enough for a relationship. You talk about how you’re bitter that fat women didn’t want you when you were fat so now you punish them by using them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:48 PM
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If you’re single, IG is a way to keep in touch with certain men like a guy you talked to on tinder or a guy you have a crush on that you met in your life. Depending on age, some women use social media to meet a man. Selfies and cute pictures are a way to present yourself to family and friends as well as to potential dates in a tasteful fashion. When you’re in a relationship, you don’t need to catch the eye of the guy you matched with on tinder or your gym crush. There is nothing deceptive about …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:41 PM
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I don’t know why some men promise to rescue their girlfriends but then don’t support them in building a career and independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:33 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/MIQZheh3Jj Already this is a typical PPD response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:32 PM
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I don’t know what this has to do with demisexuality. They are already in a committed relationship, and have been for 1 year, so they presumably already know each other well enough to develop sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:58 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:29 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/QLtt2QUFIU PPD man dream relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:42 PM
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I clearly point out that it’s the content of what he said AND the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:15 PM
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The study doesn’t say these women were lesbian. They can be bisexual and decide they want to just be with women due to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:38 AM
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But medicated women aren’t the ones who will overreact and have behavioral issues. Unmedicated men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:35 AM
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<image> It seems to me that you’re dodging accountability. Why do you use mental health medication use as a way to prove that women are not wonderful? If this wasn’t the point of your comment, then what did you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:28 AM
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How does mental health medication affect how wonderful a person is in any way, shape, or form? Why do you use mental health medications as a way to reflect that women may not be wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:26 AM
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<image> Is a 16 year old a woman? And before you falsely accuse me of changing the topic again, here is the much earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:25 AM
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You present them taking mental health medications as a flaw that makes them bad and non wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:43 AM
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Is a 16 year old a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:42 AM
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So are the majority of shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:42 AM
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But you’re also basing this on what you believe and not reality. So who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:22 PM
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Having kids with a ton of different women is kind of BPD behavior for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:21 PM
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Well at least you can take comfort in the fact that you’re aloof and may feel alpha as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:21 PM
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Tbh it sounds like he had BPD too and could understand her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:58 PM
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Don’t men complain that men’s mental health isn’t taken seriously enough? So why taunt women for getting mental health treatment? Instead you should encourage men to take treatment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:36 PM
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No it just says that women who are in female female partnerships are more likely to have experienced abuse but it doesn’t say from who. I believe it’s mostly from male exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:32 PM
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Male response to emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:31 PM
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So what signs did you ignore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:30 PM
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What red flags did you ignore before it got to this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:29 PM
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So you’re saying 16 year olds are most valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:26 PM
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So you are saying minors are most valuable to rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:26 PM
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I explained it’s the language. Not just the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:56 PM
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It still reads like a revenge fantasy. Men are angry that it’s unacceptable to cold approach strangers and feel a sense of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:55 PM
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It’s the language he uses: Crying women on TikTok bemoaning how men no longer approach is the clue. The rules have changed. These women failed to return the serve. They probably didn't even notice they were approached in the first place. After years of app exhaustion, rejection, and being the sole drivers of courtship, many men have sub-consciously decided: if it's not mutual, it's not worth it. The passive luxury for shy women being pursued no longer guarantees outcomes. Now, both quiet types h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:30 PM
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More than anything else this sounds like a revenge fantasy against women who don’t want to be approached by strangers in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:07 PM
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The issue is that he starts with 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:00 PM
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Most women are not hubristic and arrogant, and saying “I am a 10” is not that. It’s a saying women say to reflect that they have value and confidence in how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:34 PM
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Leave it to men to think catcalling is a simple act of niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:38 PM
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I believe the comment got deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:31 PM
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That isn’t disgusting. Women need to make sure they don’t end up homeless or in poverty after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:30 PM
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Stop deflecting and derailing. Men constantly tell women not to have self esteem that is too high and to stay humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:28 PM
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Yes because they won’t be at their prime anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:56 AM
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I didn’t. There you go again making up fake stuff and deflecting. And going on a witch hunt, which violates the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:11 AM
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This is a child you are speaking of with a group of children. He is not a man, he is a boy. They are not women, but girls. And you have no way of knowing that he had a 5some or was dating all these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:34 AM
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How do you know that these high school girls were having a 5some with this high school guy???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:31 AM
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How do you know that he had a 5some? How do you know that these girls weren’t just friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:31 AM
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I’m sorry to hear. However you can take comfort in the fact that you are a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:09 AM
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Don’t you have a ton of casual sex despite the cancer issue and being in financial distress? Doesn’t this prove you wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:59 AM
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I didn’t say the women don’t know what they are doing? I said they do the paperwork. Usually because the men are too lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:10 PM
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Men complain about women vetting. Men actively tell us that it’s ok to date a man who uses prostitutes. Men encourage us to date men who are broke or in poverty. Men actively encourage us to date men who hate women and who are red pilled or inc*ls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:04 PM
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Disgusting comment for you to make considering I never condoned anything bad and you’ve done nothing but harass me repeatedly for days now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:55 PM
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/porn-consumption-rates-among-young-adults-underreported/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:53 PM
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No they aren’t because erotic literature is not the same thing as porn. Porn is bad. And it’s wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy more than 70% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:42 PM
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I don’t think good women have unrealistic expectations. But most women have realistic expectations. The OKCupid study proved this. Unattractive men replied less to unattractive women in the same percentile as them than the other way around. 66% of all male messages went to the top 33% of women while female messages were evenly distributed. So most women are realistic while most men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:42 PM
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It isn’t hypocrisy. https://palife.co.uk/news/half-of-women-reading-more-erotic-literature-during-lockdown/ Less than half of British women were reading literotica in the last year at the time of survey. Meanwhile almost all men regularly watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:36 PM
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That isn’t reality though. The reality is women are extremely realistic and men are not. The OKCupid study proves that women were open to dating everyone but men were not. 66% of all male messages went to the top 33% of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:25 PM
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What state? Porn is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:10 PM
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Why don’t you address how you enthusiastically derailed the conversation and deflected, as usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:09 PM
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Good men don’t view women as having massively inflated expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:02 PM
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Women just do the divorce paperwork. This doesn’t mean that they are the ones who want the divorce or do betraying things like cheating. Women get alimony when they become a stay at home mom. If you don’t want to pay alimony, then prepare for a wife that isn’t a homemaker and prepare to share the housework and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:02 PM
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Smut is a niche literary genre. Meanwhile almost all men watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:00 PM
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If you aren’t on the same page then don’t defend his comment. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:59 PM
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<image> It absolutely is what we were talking about. This is what you chimed in on. He literally talks about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:28 PM
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What do you think the majority of male porn watchers do? Sing musicals? They madtrubate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:14 PM
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So then don’t defend saying boys don’t want something serious at 18. Either you do or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:03 PM
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A celebrity crush is not the same thing as actively watching naked people and mastrubating to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:02 PM
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My friend <image> Here is one od your fellow men like 3 comments down saying women should settle down at 16-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:54 PM
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Men also enjoy degrading how women look on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:53 PM
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Good men don’t think women as a whole treat men poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:52 PM
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“Men just want to mentally cheat on their wife. Men are not bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:51 PM
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I don’t think good men have this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:50 PM
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No good father would want his daughter with a man who writes angry rants on Reddit about how hypergamous women are and how western women are inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:49 PM
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I thought men hated women with high self esteem who believe they are 10’s lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:47 PM
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Men get bitterly angry if a woman had a non serious boyfriend in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:44 PM
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It is not hating men to state facts. And why do you derail the conversation to the scum manifesto? Where in this thread is that book brought up? Unless you admit to witch hunting and trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:42 PM
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Yes that’s called a joke. Old school and splitting are self contradictory. Men claiming that they don’t care about our achievements and careers then expecting us to split the bills is also self contradicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:40 PM
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Think about it this way: Attached men are more Likely than single men to want attached women than women may want attached men or single men may want single women. Also watching porn while married is not decent or good behavior. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:47 PM
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So you’re just making up a roundabout way of saying that you believe that women are less mature than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:04 PM
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I don’t think women are more mature. I think women are less cruel than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:03 PM
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No need to make personal attacks in defense of pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:43 PM
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False. It’s degenerate and exploitative in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:21 PM
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And what about older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:21 PM
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First of all, you don’t want to argue about romance vs smut because there is nothing to argue about. I corrected you on the definition. Second of all, even if big porn stars like their job, they are still being sexually exploited for money and they aren’t the only ones performing in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:06 PM
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I am okay with living with MY parents but not with his.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:05 PM
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And? These countries have severe financial issues. Do you dream of America having the same financial issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:39 PM
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You do. You claim women developmentally stagnate by watching the same vapid television show (love island) for 20 years and having no deep conversation topics. This implies that you believe women are stupid and immature. If you were trying to get another point across, then simply explain it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:38 PM
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Romance books are not the same and it’s delusional to make said claim. First of all, romance is not SMUT. SMUT is sexual lit erotica. Romance is a love story. Romance focuses on the plot and characters, and does not have detailed sex scenes. SMUT focuses on sex and explicit content. Second of all, books do not have actual live human beings who are possibly being trafficked or abused or underage. The “performers” aka the characters are entirely made up and not being touched or sexually abused. Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:36 PM
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Then you should have made a gender neutral argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:30 PM
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Where is your source though that western women are allergic to financial independence? And why only western women? Women from non western cultures are more likely to want to be homemakers and provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:28 PM
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If you want to split a bill, you need to make sure the woman has a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:27 PM
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False. A lot of places have multi generational homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:27 PM
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This is a so if you’re not looking for a relationship then why should women take your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:26 PM
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Most men are not decent. See the porn prevalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:24 PM
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Right after you made your little accusation that women act as if they are grown up and that men are not, a MAN chimed in and acted as if men are grown up and women are not. You cannot make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:23 PM
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All men’s responses: “I am not like that. How dare you show me evidence that I am like that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:22 PM
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So basically you are the genders flipped version of the original comment. <image> You believe men are grown up, enlightened adults while women are stupid little works who need to be trained like puppies. You are like a middle school man who talks about how girls their age are so immature as if you are better. Acting as if the other sex is just children is one of the best ways to see that someone is not mature themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:21 PM
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For example, look at this post from the ADHDWomen subreddit. Sounds like this woman's therapist tried to give her real advice when she was complaining about how she "literally cannot move" when it's time to clean her room. The therapist said "just do it", most likely out of disgust over her constant excuses. Do you understand that if she could just do it, she wouldn’t be going to a therapist? She clearly has some kind of mental block, and she needs to work on it. How disgusting that you would in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:17 PM
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It’s called “I can fix him”. Women are thought to say the same phrase with men who have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:57 AM
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So you agree with me that the manosphere is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:13 PM
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Just because a woman has a conventional job and looks normal doesn’t mean she magically is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:55 AM
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Most homeless shelter beds are for men, and women’s domestic violence shelters always have along waiting list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:56 AM
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Describing women as selfish and cruel and rejecting great and amazing men due to their self absorbed cruelty and hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/incels-elliot-rodger-misogyny-far-right/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/jake-davison-plymouth-incel-blackpilled-loner-kills-5-in-uks-worst-mass-shooting-in-11-years/ For every woman that does this there are many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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They aren’t. Unless you want a woman like blue face’s baby mamas then go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:23 PM
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<image> Men bashing single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:32 PM
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<image> Here is a man claiming women want to share a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:22 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_Manifesto?wprov=sfti1 IT LITERALLY SAYS THIS IS SATIRE OR PARODY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:20 PM
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<image> This man was angry when I said that he shouldn’t call women landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:19 PM
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Quote me where I say men are monolithic hivemind. I don’t. What I am saying is that IN GENERAL, men speak to us this way online. Harsh, hostile, and aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:18 PM
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He’s literally questioning that women aren’t having sex. He believes men aren’t having sex, but women are. Thats why he doesn’t say “oh that’s not really true that both men and women aren’t having sex”. He says “it’s not true that WOMEN are not having sex”. That’s because he believes women aren’t sleeping with the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:18 PM
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I meant casual relationships with a man who they know is in a relationship of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:29 PM
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That is an indirect personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:45 PM
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<image> Here is another typical male response. Why should we have sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:23 PM
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I didn’t say that. You lament and claim to be a victim because women aren’t sympathetic. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Vix665BbRJ Yet when presented with why women are not sympathetic: male cruelty, you dismiss and deflect. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:16 PM
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I didn’t say we are perfect. I said that the men here are aggressive and cruel. You’re deflecting and making excuses because you know I am right. It’s very hard to have sympathy when this is the male outlook here. This is from like 5-10 mins ago. <image> You guys want to bully and “pwn” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:12 PM
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Here is the study, which you did not link me to. I had to search for it. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103109001048 This study was a survey done in 2009 on university students for school credit. The women simply said “yes I would want to date this man” more often when the guy was labeled as married or in a relationship. The authors of the study claim this is “mate poaching”, but the study doesn’t let me read the questions they asked. Saying “oh yeah he seems like a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:10 PM
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<image> It’s not that we don’t care. It’s that you guys speak to us this way. This is not your comment. But this is a typical PPD male response. He didn’t like that I said he shouldn’t call women “whales”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:54 PM
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I feel bad for men who struggle to date. But women are also struggling. Most American women are not young or thin enough to be attractive to most American men. Men don’t want to admit this and get angry but then these same men complain about how fat American women are and how women expire after 30. A lot of the men here claim to be good men who are simply lonely, but then are abrasive, hostile, aggressive, and downright cruel. They enjoy taunting women and putting them down. Examples off of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:51 PM
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I feel bad for men who struggle to date. But women are also struggling. Most American women are not young or thin enough to be attractive to most American men. Men don’t want to admit this and get angry but then these same men complain about how fat American women are and how women expire after 30. A lot of the men here claim to be good men who are simply lonely, but then are abrasive, hostile, aggressive, and downright cruel. They enjoy taunting women and putting them down. Examples off of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:50 PM
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Link me the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:40 PM
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The red pill and manosphere is mainstream. These may be the “bottom dregs” but it’s also a huge portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:38 PM
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Believing most or a sizable portion of women want to share one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:37 PM
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How disgusting to think most of a sizable portion of women actively want to pursue married men or men who have a relationship already. And knowingly, not unknowingly. Then you guys expect us to feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:35 PM
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Well there you go. You don’t feel sympathy for women and believe they are naive (aka dumb). So why should we feel anything for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:19 PM
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So you want sympathy for men’s trials and tribulations but then make a disgusting claim that women are all sharing the same men (either intentionally or being stupidly deceived). Then you dismiss what a woman says by saying “you’re a woman”. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:19 PM
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You expect us to be sympathetic to men’s situation, then make the disgusting claim that the majority, or at least a significantly large portion of women, are all having sex with the same men and either are happy to be cheated on, enjoy casual relationships, or are too dumb to realize they are being cheated on. If you want sympathy, don’t mix it with false accusations and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:17 PM
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Then don’t make some snarky statement about how women don’t have a moral code
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:46 PM
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<image> It’s an attack on her character.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:36 PM
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<image> Men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:28 AM
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“How dare you say the men of PPD hate women, they just think women don’t have any morals!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:28 AM
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We have no way of knowing which rich man is just trying to be a benevolent benefactor and which rich man is going to P. Diddy us. Rich men can pay for very attractive women, and most women aren’t attractive to most men. Rich men pick the women that poor men would pick if they had money. Aka the top 0.0001% of women. We have no idea which man is actually rich and which man isn’t. We don’t know which man won’t pimp us out or who isn’t an undercover cop. Many of us don’t want to do disgusting sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:52 PM
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Ok then don’t call me a misandrist when I say men say that men envy abusers and believe they are hotties who can get away with abuse. Men don’t envy the abuse, but they do envy abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:35 PM
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Yes it is. It’s prejudice. The men here don’t want to admit their hate because they don’t want to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:34 PM
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<image> Yeah no these are the top posts for “women” on PPD. All prejudiced against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:54 PM
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Oh he’s just a nice guy if he was a Giga Chad she would be blushing and flattered What men here would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:50 PM
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Aren’t you both conservative and waiting until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:47 PM
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Ribs don’t have joints
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:47 PM
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The overall sentiment here is that women are selfish egoistical bitches who reject good men based on superficiality and stupidity. That is hate. Saying you fear men because they have done hurtful things to women is not hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:46 PM
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It is nothing compared to what is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:44 PM
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LOOK AT THIS FORUM AND THE MEN IN IT. IT IS SIGNIFICANTLY WORSE AND IS STILL HERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:43 PM
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No they don’t. Holding men accountable for saying awful and disgusting rage filled stuff about us is not “hate”. You guys say the most awful things about women here, and get away with it. The behavior is even welcomed and encouraged. Calling you out is not “hate”. A hit dog hollers and being held accountable for saying something cruel and nasty is not hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:23 PM
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What a hateful and disgusting view of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:19 PM
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Women here do not hate men. Women here are shocked and disgusted by the way men speak about women. Calling women whores with inflated egos and superficial bitches is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:15 PM
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Calling women bitches and expecting them to aggressively pursue you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:12 PM
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Men think getting away with mistreating a woman means that she really likes him and finds him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:02 PM
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You accuse women of lying “stop the cap” and call them “superficial bitches” in the way they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:01 PM
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He was saying her opinion is worthless because she is a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:00 PM
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Except for you describe the fat women as “whales” which is a) shallow and b) bitchy (mean). So I am not sure why you feel victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:45 PM
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Why do the mods turn a blind eye to personal attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:27 PM
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So as I said, men confound women who tolerate abuse with treating those men well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:23 PM
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No they don’t. Most men think that they accept their level but they really mean a young and thin and attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:54 PM
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A lot of these men believe they deserve attractive 20 something’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:08 AM
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You literally say in your comment “the great majority [of the men here] are good.” Now you’re back tracking. <image> This is how the men here speak. This is a reaction to a typo. Good men don’t speak this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:16 PM
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Good men don’t view women as vapid, superficial, and cruel. Good men don’t have a prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:32 PM
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Except for it’s not true, and saying “all the good men are taken” is not “where have all the good men gone”. Most men just are not good. This forum has a ton of self proclaimed good men who hate women and are not good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:34 AM
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I think men are incredibly shallow and women are much less so. An unattractive man can win over a woman with attention, kindness, support, and respect. An unattractive woman will never be able to win over a man with attention, kindness, support, and respect. A lot of the “red pill truths” are just men projecting their problematic nature onto women, who have a less problematic nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:33 AM
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That is “women are shallow” no matter how much you deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:21 AM
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It is a form of approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:38 AM
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Well also I am friendlier with married guys because I assume they won’t hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:33 PM
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The red pill is inherently hateful towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:30 PM
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Except for his answer was that women who go online don’t get approached. They do. Online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:29 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/k36UNmisPks This guy is a house husband Notice how his wife is fat and unattractive? That’s the trade off men aren’t willing to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:59 PM
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It’s not a negative stereotype. It’s a clapback and a cutesy answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:07 PM
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What a disgusting way to view women. Saying “why are all the good men taken” doesn’t mean you want to get a married man to cheat on his wife with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:04 PM
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I do too. But 2 guys were insisting so hard that women casually grope men on the subway and that it’s normal behavior due to women lusting wildly after married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:03 PM
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That doesn’t mean women want him to cheat on his wife or leave his wife for them. It also doesn’t mean women will be so uncontrollably horny that they will grope the guy. Most women are repulsed by a married man who wants to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:54 PM
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What? Representative of your dick? WTF is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:45 PM
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Men on this forum insist that women want married men so badly that they can’t help themselves and just sexually assault (grope) men with a wedding ring on on the subway. When I said that this isn’t normal behavior for women and the lady is insane, unstable, and morally bankrupt, the MAN insisted that she is not, and that she is a representative of female desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:35 PM
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Yes there is. If men say it women can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:30 PM
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It’s a clap back to “boys will be boys” it’s not a way of infantilizing oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:00 PM
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Saying “I’m just a girl” doesn’t dismiss that in any way, shape, or form. Just like the 9 year old girl in the Middle East is married off to a 40 year old man because “men will be men”, the woman can joke “im just a girl” because she has a fear of driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:48 PM
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You only date the men who message you online. Thats how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:35 AM
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If you aren’t advocating for it, don’t propose it as a viable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:14 AM
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What other explanation do you have? That these are sane and stable good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:08 PM
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So what? They developed it because an ex or a crush brought them into it? Who cares? They aren’t going to be complaining about fish pictures. They may find the man holding the fish unattractive, but they aren’t going to say “his picture sucks because it’s a fish picture”. They just will say “oh I don’t think that guy is attractive” and swipe left or move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:00 PM
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I didn’t say “women aren’t a monolith”. I said “women who say that they are into hunting and fishing and muddling aren’t the women complaining about men’s fishing pictures”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:51 PM
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But you agree the guy is a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:50 PM
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Mental gymnastics. Either the married men who are going to hooters and watching porn and getting sugar babies are unattractive and can’t get laid or degenerates who are extremely attractive and their wife chooses to be with him. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:19 PM
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I am not. You’re being rude and condescending and verbally abrasive with the insistence that nice normal sane women are the women who want married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:17 PM
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As I said: It’s delusional to think that the same women who are into hunting are the ones complaining about fishing pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:15 PM
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It’s delusional to think that the same women who are into hunting are the ones complaining about fishing pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:15 PM
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So you are saying that women shouldn’t date men who like fishing because they are violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:13 PM
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It is divided my friend. Who the hell goes for a married man? You’re insisting and insisting that nice stable mentally normal women go for married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:13 PM
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So you say it’s justified because he isn’t getting laid and it’s the wife’s fault. The implication is that a sizable amount of men are like this. But then you also admit that he is a degenerate. So a sizable amount of men are degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:07 PM
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“I blame women for men being degenerate”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:03 PM
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Bro why are you insisting that normal women go after married men????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:02 PM
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No I understand that there are multiple women. I am saying that all these women are mentally ill degenerates. I don’t understand why you think sane stable happy non degenerate women are going to run around sexually harassing a stranger on a subway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:34 PM
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It isn’t a “no true Scotsman” argument because they are real women. But they are mentally ill and deranged. It’s delusional to think that happy healthy sane women want a married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:33 PM
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That’s what men would say to their wives/ gf’s. “It’s just a coffee shop”. I am not saying I agree I am just providing the male response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:32 PM
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<image> They updated it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:07 PM
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Explain pornography and the sugar baby industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:06 PM
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But men are more capable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:03 PM
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So if it’s just about the wings and harmless fun, why can’t women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:02 PM
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They literally make a kids menu <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:00 PM
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But what exact benefit are these men getting at hooters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:59 PM
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Tell <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:56 PM
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This isn’t a strip club it’s a family friendly restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:54 PM
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You get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:53 PM
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Hooters and Pecks are not strip clubs, but family friendly establishments. The uniforms that the servers wear is just a cute outfit and not sexual at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:52 PM
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At Pecks, they don’t strip. It’s a restaurant, not a strip club. They advertise themselves as family friendly and encourage moms to bring their daughters. They even have coloring sheets and crayons. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:51 PM
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At Pecks, they don’t strip. It’s a restaurant, not a strip club. They advertise themselves as family friendly and encourage moms to bring their daughters. They even have coloring sheets and crayons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:51 PM
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So you believe Hooters benefits you and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:50 PM
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I agree that it is disrespectful but apparently some men insist that it isn’t and they just want the wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:49 PM
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What if she didn’t? I don’t think the women in the video were going to Pecks or whatever the equivalent is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:41 PM
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Yes I lay the blame at the woman. But you seem to find it amusing and an ego boost and proof women want married men rather than exposing it for what it is: a mentally ill degenerate woman who violated your safety and put your wife and you at risk. But oh well, at least you can brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:41 PM
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I read it. Groping a stranger on a subway is mentally ill and degenerate behavior. It would land most men in jail. But when a woman does it, he suddenly believes that it’s because of his irresistible good looks and wedding ring and not because the woman is a mentally ill degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:39 PM
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Wanting sex outside of marriage or a serious relationship is degenerate. Maybe you remember these women fondly but a lot of men have contempt for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:38 PM
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So you advocate for women to post their boyfriends and dates on that page? Most men find it a violation of privacy and disturbing. But here you are advocating for women to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:38 PM
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Oh but you’re okay with it happening to your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:36 PM
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Stay in what lane? It’s morally bankrupt to expect your wife to risk prison or injury just so that you can have an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:08 PM
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Because it’s like a secret fight club. Men not expressing their beliefs doesn’t mean they don’t hold these beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:07 PM
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You are delusional if you think married men who are looking to cheat advertise that they are married. Do you think that the married men on dating apps put a sign on that says “I am married!”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:07 PM
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Well we come full circle because this supports my point that I always say: men who use prostitutes have a messed up view of women and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:06 PM
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As the men here say, go on a dating app and swipe and pick the one who matches your values. You portray men as degenerates who cannot wait until a serious relationship is established before risking having a child. This is misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:04 PM
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Just the threat of calling the cops is enough to scare most away. You seem to have gotten an ego boost from the situation, hence your reluctance to do anything and making your wife endanger herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:25 PM
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These are foundational RP beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:23 PM
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https://www.ryanhart.org/who-cheats-more-statistics/ Where are you getting these statistics? 20% of married men and 13% of married women cheat. And you’re moving the goalposts. You said “women generally” but now admit that it’s a tiny minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:22 PM
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See? Men view a relationship as “utility” and don’t value it for love and partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:13 PM
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AS I SAID: And again the women rated the men with the good-looking gals as more desirable than the single guys. RATING A GUY AS MORE ATTRACTIVE IS NOT THE SAME THING AS PURSUING HIM. Show me proof that the majority of women actively seek and pursue married men!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:13 PM
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Then you should have threatened to call the cops on her instead of sitting back and watching while your wife puts herself in danger!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:10 PM
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You can get used for sex if you are seeking a serious relationship and the men is lying about wanting the same thing so that he can get laid. A serious relationship is not “utility” unless the man is a degenerate who sees no value in a serious relationship or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:09 PM
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Married men cheat though. Men are only as loyal as their options. Married men will actively seek outside women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:08 PM
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Show the study. Saying “that guy is attractive” doesn’t mean you intend to date him or pursue him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:08 PM
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Literally that is the foundation of the red pill and what they perceive as “female nature” and “female behavior”. Plenty of men want sex and marriage with women they hate because it’s a power struggle. Look at Afghanistan. The Taliban hates women but still marries them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:07 PM
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That isn’t “queen treatment” it’s standard dating treatment. Besides forgoing hobbies, which no one should do. Men taunt women who have been abused and tell them it’s their fault, that they like abuse. But when a woman expects good treatment, men taunt her and say only the hottest women deserve to be treated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:05 PM
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Women who want married men are mentally ill. The vast majority of women do not want a married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:01 PM
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You are delusional if you think there’s a way to tell who is married and who is not on a dating site unless he has a ring on or pictures with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:00 PM
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Most women don’t want a married man. It is prejudiced against women to say this. The few who do are mentally ill and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:59 PM
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What was stopping you from bluntly saying “leave me alone. If you don’t go away, I am calling the police”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:58 PM
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I have had married men DM me and try to talk to me. Fact is, if a woman is desirable enough, men will discard their wife and not consider her a barrier for entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:57 PM
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Wait so you were groped on a subway and believe that instead of the woman being mentally ill and a degenerate that she found you irresistible because you had a wedding ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:56 PM
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It’s sarcasm. I am a normie and look normie. Normal looking women also have the right to expect good treatment. Every woman deserves a man who finds her very attractive even if she isn’t. Someone who truly likes you will find you attractive and treat you well, even if you aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:52 PM
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that absolutely is the implication. You clearly believe you are being ripped off if you pay for a date but don’t get laid. Thats why you advocate for the use of prostitutes. For guaranteed sex. Because all that matters to you is sex. Not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:50 PM
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The foundation of the Red pill is that women are selfish, egotistical, cruel, and superficial. It is hatred for women. If most men are red pilled then most men hate most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:47 PM
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Notice how you make a personal attack with sarcasm? Men taunt women who go through abuse and mistreatment, but when a woman expects to be treated well, men also taunt her and encourage her to select for a man who treats her poorly because “only really hot women deserve to be treated well”. And since you appear to believe that only really hot women deserve to be treated well, then that indicates that a woman should expect good treatment if she wants assurance that the guy finds her very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:42 PM
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Who is saying that? That is the entire premise of your comment. And again, you want a woman who pays her own way but hate feminists. Guess who will pay their own way? FEMINISTS. Conservative anti feminist women will not! They want a traditional man who is at least open to the idea of providing financially for a family! You degrade and taunt feminists and western women but they are the ones who will meet your expectations!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:38 PM
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You agree with him on principle. That means you agree that most men are red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:37 PM
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So you agree the manosphere is mainstream and most men hate most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:34 PM
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Exactly. When I say that the manosphere is mainstream and most men hate most women even though they don’t publicly announce it, I get gaslit and dismissed. But most men hate most women, and the manosphere is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:34 PM
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No it’s not. Every guy I have ever dated did this and I wouldn’t date them if they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:33 PM
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Or they are like me and don’t want to be pumped and dumped and also are morally disgusted by degeneracy and men who want to have sex outside of the confines of marriage or a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:32 PM
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You hate feminism but fail to recognize that non feminist women are the ones who expect men to pay for dates because they are looking for a man who is willing and able to financially provide for a family and takes pride in doing so rather than consider it simping and beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:32 PM
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That’s literally the red pill belief system that most men hold. Most men resent paying for dates unless they get sex in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:31 PM
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“I don’t hate women! I just think paying for dates entitles me to sex! I refuse to pay for her wings at Chili’s unless she sleeps with me!!!! I don’t hate women!!!!!” Bro I make any guy I date wait at least a year, if not longer, and I also expect the guy to pay for the first few dates if he really likes me. The men I date are 30-50 years old and if paying for dates brings them to poverty then they aren’t marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:30 PM
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So you agree that the red pill is very popular and most men hate most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:28 PM
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See? As I said. Most men hate most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:28 PM
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Most men are to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:27 PM
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So why do so many men insist the red pill is niche and dismiss me when I express that hatred of women is extremely prevalent in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:27 PM
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So you agree with men when I say that most men have some sort of red pill belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:26 PM
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I believe the vast majority of men hold at least some red pill beliefs and that hatred for women is very common in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:26 PM
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Oh I thought the majority of the men here (and a handful of women) insisted that the manosphere and red pill are a small tiny niche of the population and that I am grossly exaggerating the magnitude and severity of hatred for women have. The men here (and a handful of women) enjoy dismissing me when I say most men have at least some manosphere beliefs and that hatred for women is widely prevalent throughout society even though we don’t hear them saying it out loud. Now we have a post saying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:25 PM
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Untrue. You could make the argument that you need to be rich due to inflation to have a very good quality of life or to get a woman who looks like a supermodel. But normie women love normie men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:06 PM
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How do you know these women have low n counts? Because they dress modestly? Once upon a time my family member went to a party at a top california university. Tons of nerdy, geeky, kids from races you would stereotype as being conservative were snorting cocaine and doing other drugs. I have another family member who is a doctor. They have some doctor peers and med school classmates who literally do ecstasy and psychedelics on their days off. No one would expect this from a nerdy, conservative loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:27 AM
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Women as a whole do not abuse animals. Women also as a whole are not narcissists with inflated egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:31 AM
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Then the men here get mad when I say that this forum is a forum where men hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:28 AM
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“I don’t hate women, I just think women are incapable of taking care of pets”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:21 AM
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“I don’t hate women, I just think they shouldn’t be allowed to own pets because I believe they are incapable of unconditional love”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:19 AM
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I would call the police and press charges, especially with the interaction on video. I also would never talk to that man ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:17 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLx9EoPOK8N/ Sorry to spam but MEN SAY IT. MEN SAY IT ABOUT THEMSELVES. MEN ARE OPENLY HYPERGAMOUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 AM
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I don’t know if I am allowed to post it here, but I can make you a collage of the men in that post saying women who are 23 are the same as men who are 38.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:05 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DL1IEbgJK4h/ See? ITS WHAT MEN SAY ABOUT THEMSELVES.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:01 AM
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This is based on what men say and data. <image> Men talk about how even if they are old and ugly they want a young beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:56 AM
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The real reason is that men are the ones who grumble and shout about hypergamy and who are prejudiced against women. I hold men accountable. They are the hypergamous ones. Not women. Furthermore those ladies are the mens’ wives. Despite what men here say, women are often desperate and will put up with disrespect (ie their husband going to the grand opening of hooters) just to avoid a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:44 AM
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I do deny your claim. You were attempting to make a personal attack, and I chose not to acknowledge it. Since you’re trying to metaphorically taunt me, I will report it for wha it is: a personal attack. And there are plenty of places with good chicken. It is delusional to think the men are there for the food and not for the thin, attractive, significantly younger and more beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:27 AM
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Why are all these old men going to hooters to ogle young hot women and not to the golden girls night club or something? Why isn’t there a market for a golden girls night club?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:25 PM
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Shiver me timbers 🏴‍☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:24 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/u433-xBgnBk Male hypergamy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:50 PM
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Weasel talk for “men are unable to be wooed by kindness and compatibility, hence they don’t understand when women do”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:21 PM
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Supreme gentleman core
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:20 PM
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No it’s not. You’re trying to weasel in your own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:19 PM
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Most women just want a man who has a good job that can meaningfully contribute to a family. Sure a benevolent multi millionaire who gives us all of his money would be nice but most women know that most men aren’t multi millionaires and that most multi millionaires are weird. You’re 19, so it’s ok if you’re broke. But have some kind of realistic school or work plan to build a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:24 PM
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You are making an assertion. You believe women in general, or most women are like this. It is highly prejudiced and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:20 PM
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It isn’t about looks. It is because you were attracted to women who are unusually hot and didn’t want to be accountable for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:22 AM
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You’re claiming it’s an undeniable fact that women shittest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:14 AM
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Where is your evidence that MOST are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:00 AM
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WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS WORKED
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:57 AM
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WOMEN WERE ALWAYS IN LABOR
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:57 AM
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“I don’t hate women I just think that they are all trying to be men and I also am going to drag trans people into this”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:19 AM
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That is an autistic joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:18 AM
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No I am not. It’s a simple question that you should be able to answer since you so confidently touted this article as proof that women like abusers. Characteristics like “charisma” and “confidence” are very different from characteristics like “walking up to a random lady and calling her a worthless b”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:18 AM
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Can you explain what this means?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:34 PM
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This is horrendous and terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:54 PM
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I’ve always believed that AFBB applied to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:53 PM
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https://socialwork.institute/psychological-basis-of-counselling/prejudice-psychological-roots-bias-intolerance/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:48 PM
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I asked what specific characteristics did these guys classify as dark triad? Charisma? Everyone likes charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:48 PM
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Some women do. Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:47 PM
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https://socialwork.institute/psychological-basis-of-counselling/prejudice-psychological-roots-bias-intolerance/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:55 PM
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Prejudice is a form of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:51 PM
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Meanwhile men make direct and focused attacks as well as generalized ones. For example, when a woman says she was abused, men taunt her and say she must have liked the abuse. Men classify taunting fat and ugly women as simply having a preference. If a woman is a single mom, men taunt her and say she deserves to be a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:49 PM
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More prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:45 PM
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It isn’t a lie because you genuinely believe it. You aren’t lying because your intention is not to lie. But you are spreading falsehoods that you believe are true. That doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:45 PM
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. To explore the attractiveness of the DT personality to the other sex, 128 women rated created (male) characters designed to capture high DT facets of personality or a control personality. Physicality was held constant. Women rated the high DT character as significantly more attractive. The article has a paywall. What specific characteristics did these women create?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:57 PM
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<image> Men speak like this about women. Men are cruel. I can get more proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:55 PM
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It’s not a lie. It’s delusion and fantasy and prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:54 PM
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It’s a shoulder touch. If she pulls away or brushes your hand off then you stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:50 PM
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Men here: how dare you say we hate women you bitter feminazi! Also men here: if she ever has casual sex ever in her life before we even met then she is cucking me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:48 PM
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What are the selfish reasons? If it’s for a paycheck then sorry, as long as you have honesty and integrity with your work it’s ok then even noble jobs like working for a shelter are for a paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:57 PM
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So you admit to trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:41 PM
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No they aren’t. They are shocked and disgusted by the things men say and men get offended that women respond instead of looking at the floor sadly and saying “sorry sir”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:41 PM
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This is women hate. Women HATE. HATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:39 PM
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It isn’t descriptivism. It’s hate. Dark triad traits are not always visible and people are not always even aware of their own dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:37 PM
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Do women like this just not exist? Superficial, vapid and manipulative women have no influence on the dating market or society in general? Have you opened a women's magazine or been to a nail salon before? SOME WOMEN are like this. MOST are not. It’s hateful to generalize all or most women. And I have been to salons and read magazines and they are not like this. A fashion magazine is not meant to be a work of literary art. It’s about clothes and makeup "Radicalising The Romanceless", please read…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:43 PM
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This isn’t “gotcha”. The men here are notorious for being vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:37 PM
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You don’t have to find someone attractive to not bully them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:36 PM
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You aren’t “calling out” women. It’s misogyny. Be accountable. It’s disgusting to say women are superficial, vapid, stupid, manipulative, and cruel. And it’s disgusting for you to expecting women to sit there and say “yes sir” and not stand up for themselves when they hear such hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:36 PM
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I am not gender neutral. Men are cruel to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:16 PM
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You can have preferences without degrading women who don’t meet them. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:16 PM
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“Women in particular” are not manipulators. Some women are. Most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:12 PM
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He should then say “people are all manipulative” instead of focusing on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:32 PM
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The red pill is a misogynistic hate group. The premise of the red pill is HATE for women. It’s the ideology that women are superficial, vapid, stupid, manipulative, and cruel. The Red Pill believes that women even like abuse and are attracted mainly to men who are narcissistic bullies. They believe that women cruelly reject any guy who isn’t conventionally attractive then swarm around men who are. The Red Pill believes women are manipulative and do “shit tests” that the man needs to overpower an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:12 PM
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“the red pill isn’t misogynistic!” “women are manipulators who control the dating market!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:07 PM
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https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/erinmhk-twitter-pics-discourse-erin-marley-klay-bikini-photos Even Know Your Meme has unearthed the world of men who bash and insult how women look on social media. Manosphere is not a niche group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:47 PM
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https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-03-31/police-misidentifying-domestic-violence-victims-perpetrators/100913268 https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-26758565 https://www.thecut.com/2021/09/gabby-petito-body-cam-cops-fail-domestic-violence-victims.html Weeks before Gabby Petito, a #vanlife influencer on a cross-country road trip, was reported missing, and before her remains were discovered in a national forest in Wyoming, the 22-year-old found herself crying uncontrollably in the back of a police car. On Au…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:07 AM
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This doesn’t make any sense and doesn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:03 AM
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What do you mean by step up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:36 AM
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When men describe women as vapid, superficial, narcissistic, selfish, and cruel, then it’s not judgmental to ca them misogynist or in*el.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:22 AM
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Why are dead bedrooms significant to you if sex is the same thing as stocking a shelf?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:11 AM
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No you didn’t. You were trying to save yourself. You view sex as different from stocking shelves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:04 AM
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Interesting because you just said sex is like stocking shelves but now you assign value to it and believe it devalues women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:00 AM
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Are you joking? They are degenerates because they want to pay for sex? But someone selling sex is not a degenerate? Precisely. Unless the person selling sex is simply doing it because they get off on it and no other reason We don’t live in a society where minimum wage jobs can support a family. Yet many men and women still manage to support families without selling their bodies. What if a man can’t afford to start a family or date women because he works a minimum wage job and he wants to pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:56 PM
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Are you joking? They are degenerates because they want to pay for sex? But someone selling sex is not a degenerate? Precisely. Unless the person selling sex is simply doing it because they get off on it and no other reason We don’t live in a society where minimum wage jobs can support a family. Yet many men and women still manage to support families without selling their bodies. What if a man can’t afford to start a family or date women because he works a minimum wage job and he wants to pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:56 PM
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First of all, the men aren’t being exploited. They are horny. They are degenerates. They are degenerate enough that they want to pay a lady for her body. Second of all, prostitution is notoriously hard to study because it’s illegal in a lot of places. If you want, I can link you a bunch of articles about trauma and prostitution. We do not live in a society where a minimum wage job or even two minimum wage jobs can support a family. Places like homeless shelters have long waiting lists and are of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:25 PM
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So you agree with OP’s post that no woman should be excited to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:20 PM
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<image> Interesting that you are upset that men are supposedly antagonized but you are actively antagonizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:54 PM
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Washing your face is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:41 PM
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So no oral sex in marriage got it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:35 PM
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But what did you offer her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:55 PM
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Society doesn’t. Men do. Look at Rick and Morty which men made. Men are the ones who ridicule the dad, Jerry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:53 PM
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What are women getting out of it? You list nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:52 PM
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Even you fail to explain what men offer their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:00 AM
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You list nothing a man offers in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:00 AM
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But you don’t really explain what you offer her in a marriage. The only qualification you present is that some women want to get married and pester their boyfriends for it. OP describes women who are excited and desperate to get married as living in a fairy tale land.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:58 AM
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Sex which is highly intimate and personal and can be traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:14 AM
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And what exactly was the purpose of your hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:46 AM
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Absolutely. Are you going to try to twist this around and try to ridicule sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:45 AM
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So men aren’t loyal by nature then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:28 AM
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One involves intercourse and genitals. The other doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:20 AM
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Sounds like she was witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:19 AM
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Making a personal attack I see. Nowhere does he mention social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:18 AM
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First of all, for every woman for whom this is just a fun job, there are 1000 who are in some kind of bad/ desperate situation. Second of all, even if it’s fun and they are ok with being exploited, they are being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:17 AM
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But they don’t just watch one woman for life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:15 AM
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Explain porn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:22 AM
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Yes they are jealous of abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:07 PM
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No because he has a nice face or eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:06 PM
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I understand. Men think these men are the ultimate chads because they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:05 PM
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Unattractive men not being picked doesn’t mean that women value men who have a bunch of women. It just means they value attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:01 PM
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Popular men are popular. This is not preselection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:00 PM
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They are only said by women because they know that is how men get their sense of value. Men admire people like Andrew Tate and Dan Bilzerian and Tony Toutouni who have multiple women and consider them highly successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:55 PM
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Well there you go men envy them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:52 PM
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I get called misandrist for saying men envy men who mistreat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:57 PM
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I get called misandrist for saying this is how men think but men envy and admire the men who mistreat women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:50 PM
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Then I get called a misandrist for saying men are not loyal by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:49 PM
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Men envy abusers. Straight from a MANS mouth. Yet I get called misandrist for saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:46 PM
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Straight from men’s mouths. Men envy the baby daddies of single moms. It’s not misandry for me to say it when men say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:46 PM
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MALES are the ones who assign value to sexual desirability. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:40 PM
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What a weird take to have over a TikTok page. Should every family with kids post their DNA test results on TikTok so that you can win a Reddit argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:32 PM
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It’s also extra repulsive to women to have sex with men they don’t want to have sex with. Having sex with a woman who they don’t want to have sex with doesn’t involve penetration, making it less painful and less unpleasant for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:30 PM
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You are delusional if you think men don’t do this to women. Having sex when not aroused is the same pain you would feel when having anal sex against your consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:25 PM
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https://news.sky.com/story/cost-of-living-crisis-pushing-more-women-into-sex-work-and-unable-to-refuse-dangerous-clients-12675932 https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/sex-work-coronavirus-poverty-b1769426.html https://worldmetrics.org/prostitution-facts-and-statistics/ https://care.org.uk/news/2022/10/mums-turning-to-prostitution-to-cope-with-cost-of-living-crisis-research-shows However, your question is a trap. It is notoriously difficult to study prostitution since most prostitutes …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:24 PM
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That picture is from like 2009 or something it just shows an average body type and already a man said she is a whale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:17 PM
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This woman has been married to him for years, has two children who are teenagers, and is from a conservative culture, so she likely didn’t date a bunch of guys before her husband. Yet it’s not enough for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:16 PM
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Exactly. Average men don’t find average women attractive. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:14 PM
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They very often are forced. Whether with trafficking or due to desperate circumstances. Those who enjoy the job or simply don’t want to work a 9-5 are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:30 PM
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Except for as I said before: Women get penetrated. if a woman is not aroused sex can hurt. And even if she is, if she is doing it with a bunch of men all day it can get irritated and hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:29 PM
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He was being sassy and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:27 PM
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Her with no makeup <image> She has celebrity tier good looks. He’s not. Men are just entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:29 PM
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Why does he speak to her this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:27 PM
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<image> Statistically this is average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:02 PM
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This is what I mean when I say men settle for women they aren’t attracted to and then treat them poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:58 PM
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The ideal man is prime Liam Hemsworth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:54 PM
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Men penetrate women. If the woman isn’t sufficiently aroused, it will hurt her bad and be irritating. And even if she is aroused, daily sex multiple times a day every day causes pain and irritation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:53 PM
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Well there you go. You admit having sex with people you aren’t attracted to is on a completely different plane than a regular job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:51 PM
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Then men need to say it instead of bluffing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:45 PM
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No it doesn’t. You’re essentially saying women should sit around and meekly accept abuse like they did for so many years and suffered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:44 PM
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<image> so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:43 PM
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I literally answer it in my third sentence. Stocking shelves is not the same thing as having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:42 PM
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No I am not. She has an insane face card. He has an average dude face card.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:41 PM
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They weren’t. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:54 AM
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On ppd they do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:48 AM
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What a cruel and ignorant response to what abuse victims go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:48 AM
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Tell this to the guys who said I was being misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:29 AM
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Women don’t get to grind til 50 for a transactional relationship. If no one wants her when she is young then she has no hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:28 AM
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And men settle for older women because they can’t do better. And the world keeps spinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:28 AM
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No I don’t. I am a woman. They likely changed their minds or found another guy. They aren’t conspiring against you. It’s pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 AM
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If they don’t answer you just message someone else. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:52 AM
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My friend It is delusional to think that these women are conspiring to try to get a double message.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:50 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/v7VNxqNT0d Don’t call me delusional. He doesn’t say he has anxiety here. Just that he doesn’t want to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:12 AM
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You just said you’re there for an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:10 AM
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If you use it as a self esteem boost then why do you care who messages you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:07 AM
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The good news is that women are used to men being hypergamous so when you’re 50 you can find a young woman. If you make enough money you can find one in the USA. If you don’t you can go to a third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:03 AM
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Just as you don’t want to go out and try to meet women IRL because it takes too much effort maybe going through messages they don’t have an interest in answering and I matching them takes too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:08 AM
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So you complain about lack of attention on dating apps but then don’t want to take accountability and try other modes of meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:06 AM
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How many have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:05 AM
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Well there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:49 AM
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I can if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:45 AM
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But what do you do in bars? Have you joined any cooking classes, churches, running clubs, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:42 AM
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Male nature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:17 AM
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How many IRL methods have you tried to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:16 AM
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Why are you asking feminists this? I am not a feminist and I hold this view. I simply don’t view stocking shelves and having sex with people on the same plane of activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:16 AM
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Misogyny isn’t. Misandry is a response to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:11 AM
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Just as it is not too late for a 30 year old woman to find a good husband (even though men insist otherwise) it is not too late for you either. Especially since you are a man and even if you don’t get your life together until 50 you can still find a wife to reproduce with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:11 AM
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That reflects a biological urge to spread their seed. Aka a biological aversion to loyalty and not be a present parent for a bajillion kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:05 AM
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It’s a defense. Men talk about themselves with misandry and women repeat it. See the example of men saying they naturally aren’t monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:04 AM
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You may be an exception to the rule. Do men not watch porn en masse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:32 AM
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If you’re under 25 ish (not a hard limit) AND in school or at a starter job, then you are ok. Or you live in a very high COL area where it’s the norm for people to live with their parents or roommates into adulthood. If you don’t then it’s time to make a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:20 AM
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Yep everyone has their preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:12 AM
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Except for he really is and is proudly mistreating a woman, and believes she deserves it for being hypergamous and he is justified because she would reject him in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:11 AM
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Nope. Justification. Men say and do much worse and at a greater magnitude. Women are justified because they are defending themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:10 AM
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That isn’t what it says: Whataboutism or whataboutery (as in "but what about X?")[1] is a pejorative for the strategy of responding to an accusation with a counter-accusation instead of a defense against the original accusation. I am not making a counter accusation. I am making a defense. I am saying it’s justified because men do multitudes worse. Making a rude comment about height is not as bad and is justified. Men say shit like how women deserve to lose the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:09 AM
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I don’t claim to be pro equality. I call out men for what they say. Men say bad thing about themselves so I simply repeat them. If men say noble things about themselves, I’ll repeat it too, but I have yet to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:07 AM
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What a hateful thing to say. That women bring pain on men who don’t have looks, financial status, and social status. Regardless of how true you feel it is, it is hateful and prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:04 AM
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You literally describe women as not improving and bringing nothing but pain. That is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:28 PM
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There you go. It’s prejudice, stereotypical, hateful, and rude. If women were all pursuing high status men and no one else, most of humanity would be half siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:27 PM
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For every women that do that, there are 1000 men who say: Women are superficial and vapid Women cruelly reject nice guys due to how superficial they are Western women are fat and ugly Women enjoy abuse which is why they stay Women enjoy being strung along by handsome chads Marital rape is not really a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:23 PM
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I didn’t have to go 8 months past. I searched in the search bar. You describe women as stupidly and with delusion going after some hot toxic guy who mistreats them and incapable of intelligent or critical thinking in dating. You describe women as superficial and cruel to unattractive men and subservient to attractive men. That is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:11 PM
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That is extremely misogynistic. You saying “nuh uh” doesn’t change it. He describes women as hypergamous, which is hateful. He also describes women as stupidly simping after high status men until they get hurt, which is hateful. It is straight out of the pages of Laura Bates book. And the age of the comment does not matter. I type key words and find the comments easily. There is no digging required. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:04 PM
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<image> 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:02 PM
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That isn’t what I am saying. I am saying the men here and across the manosphere (aka men’s spaces on the internet) say disgusting and worse things. With greater magnitude, severity, and cruelty. They are have no right to complain about “misandry” when they do and say much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:51 PM
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<image> 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:50 PM
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Your comments are extremely misogynistic and it’s hypocritical to complain about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:39 PM
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This entire forum is misogyny and the men here have the audacity to complain about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:39 PM
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Men can earn more money. Women cannot age backwards or change their face. Losing weight is very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:29 PM
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I think most men hold at least some of these mentalities. The manosphere is a large and bustling community that continues to grow. It is not a niche group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:11 PM
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It’s only entrapment if he can legally prove that it’s entrapment. If he can’t, then it’s him attempting to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:10 PM
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So you’re telling me that in your ideal world, I can just tell my husband I want an open relationship. Don’t get this in writing. Encourage and even help him find a date on dating apps. Again, don’t get this in writing. Then, when he goes on a date, get proof of him cheating. Boom. Felony. Easy solution to get money and assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:47 PM
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<image> Fresh from a man. Where is the nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:36 PM
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<image> Once again, where is the nuance here? Men dream of being passport bros so that they can live this lifestyle. They consider it the ultimate alpha dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:32 PM
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What exactly is the “nuance” here? I am quoting what men say. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:27 PM
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Women’s shelters have months long waiting lists and the police doesn’t take DV seriously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:06 PM
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I became pink pilled. I learned men are extremely picky to the point of mockery and cruelty. Especially when it comes to age and weight. A lot of men view themselves as victims of women having too high standards. Yet when you actually talk to these men, they are just angry that young beautiful fit women don’t want them. Men consider financially providing for a family to be simping or beta and view homemakers/ SAHM’s as gold diggers Men envy abusers and believe that the woman must have been deepl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:04 PM
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Although “not all men” There is a population of men who definitely get jealous and intimidated when a woman outearns them by a significant amount. Usually these men are “loser” types who do not earn a lot to begin with. As long as the guy has a stable and well paying career, and works hard himself, then he is fine. Per this website: https://www.gigacalculator.com/calculators/height-percentile-calculator.php 5’10” women at age 25 are in the top 0.43% for women’s height in the USA. Meanwhile a 5’1…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:51 PM
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DV shelters can have weeks or months long waiting lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:36 PM
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Why do you assume that all men are so smart that no man at all would say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:35 PM
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There are multiple men here saying that they will avenge themselves and the lack of attention they got when they were young on dating apps by only dating young women when they are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:36 AM
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Have you called DV shelters? They have waiting lists. You can’t just get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:47 AM
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Then it’s extremely useless advice. It doesn’t offer a path of escape and just belittles her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:47 AM
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How tf is she supposed to replace the abusive man without escaping him first?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:23 AM
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Society does not have strong support for women who are DV victims. At one of my old jobs I had to call a bunch of DV shelters and they all had months long waiting lists. And this is in a blue place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:58 AM
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Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:57 AM
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Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:57 AM
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Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:57 AM
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Because using a random man as a strategy to escape abuse is a terrible strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:56 AM
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Here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:54 AM
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Literally some guys believe that is the way to go for women and that women live life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:54 AM
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It’s been multiple guys on the internet who use it as an excuse to say they have no sympathy for female abuse victims
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:25 AM
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I agree but men act like this is an easy solution
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:25 AM
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Why do men think this is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:24 AM
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And if she is financially dependent on the man? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:20 PM
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Where is she supposed to go while resolving it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:39 PM
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Is it or is it not a red flag???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:27 PM
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So you agree that ever raising your voice is abuse. Many men don’t and get mad when a woman immediately breaks up with a man who yelled at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:18 PM
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<image> No you said when she realizes he’s a psycho A man who uses prostitutes is a psycho Why do men gaslight women and actively discourage them from ditching men who use prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:16 PM
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Because men actively gaslight women and encourage women to ignore these red flags that you mentioned. For example, a woman who ditches her boyfriend because he has a history of seeing prostitutes is seen as a judgmental b by the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:01 PM
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Men make it out that they are all good samaritans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:00 PM
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How is she supposed to escape?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:00 PM
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I got one guy here in the thread who does as if now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:58 PM
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Men literally say the “tinder” part. I don’t see the issue with it. That isn’t what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:58 PM
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The first guy to say he would out of like 20 and you believe it is realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:57 PM
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So what are some red flags? Whenever I say yelling at your girlfriend is a red flag, men say I am being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:56 PM
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No they say it even beforehand. I have always said men who use prostitutes are a gigantic red flag and men get defensive and encourage women to dismiss it as a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:54 PM
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So you believe that it’s a realistic solution
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:54 PM
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So it wouldn’t really be out of goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:53 PM
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They tend to have months long waiting lists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:53 PM
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Not really once I had to call a bunch of DV shelters for a job I had and they all had long waiting lists. It is not as easy as men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:52 PM
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So why do men act like this is a viable solution for women who are experiencing abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:46 PM
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So why do multiple men say this is a solution for women who have experienced abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:35 PM
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I have seen it at least 3 times. Many men say they don’t have compassion for women who are abuse victims because all those women need to do is go on tinder and find a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:34 PM
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So why do men claim that all a woman who is an abuse victim needs to do is go on tinder and find a new man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:33 PM
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So why do men say “all a woman needs to do if she is experiencing abuse is to go on tinder and find an average looking non abusive man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:29 PM
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So why do men say this is a solution for women who have experienced abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:27 PM
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So why do men act like this is a good solution for women want to flee abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:26 PM
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So why do men act like this is a realistic solution to escaping abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:25 PM
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My friend 70’s music is beyond my scope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:40 PM
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one successful celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:27 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DXha2y4ZPJ This is the original comment. Which you denied. You are now proving me correct. Most women aren’t considered family worthy to most men. Furthermore, https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/jirL9UdSB4 This is the comment where your entire premise was that 40 year olds are all old and twice divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:02 PM
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A 5’9” 200 lb 38 year old man will have a dramatically easier time than his female counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:59 PM
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Women love dad bods. Jack black has an admirer base.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:59 PM
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So you agree most men don’t find most women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:59 PM
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Irrelevant? That was the premise of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:30 PM
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<image> Men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:30 PM
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This is when they are 21 but after 30 it changes. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:27 PM
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40 year olds aren’t twice divorced old people. It isn’t 1980.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:23 PM
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“They have to lose weight and dress better and wear makeup. Then we will find them attractive. We just don’t find them attractive as is! Hope this helps!” It doesn’t. It proves me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:22 PM
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<image> And here men are reflecting that even if they are old, they prefer women in their early 20’s. Everything else is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:22 PM
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<image> In that same study, when the LEAST ATTRACTIVE women messaged the LEAST ATTRACTIVE men, they had lower success than with the genders flipped. Least attractive woman messages least attractive man: 35% success rate Least attractive man messages least attractive woman: 45% success rate Medium woman messages medium man: 45% success rate Medium man messages medium woman: 52% success rate Men are less responsive to their looksmatch when they are average and below on the normal curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:20 PM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20180406045814/https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e <image> 66% of male messages went to the top 33% of women. Low ranked women were less likely to get answers from men on the same percentile. And this is based on percentiles. And this same study showed that even old men preferred 21 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:14 PM
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Most in*els are that way because they want young hot women, not middle aged women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:07 PM
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Most women don’t look young! You guys just so easily prove me right. Most men don’t find most women attractive! Men need to stop claiming otherwise and be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:03 PM
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Exactly. Thank you for proving my point. Men view the women around them as mediocre then play victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:02 PM
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Loved and lost means the guy loves you back and treats you well. Not loved some guy who used you as a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:01 PM
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If you eliminate babies/ kids the average age gets HIGHER. That means the average woman is like 45 or something. You are delusional af if you think dating ends at 35 or this is the only age range that dates. MEN who are 35+ want women in their early 20’s. They don’t sit down and say “welp I am old now I am not going to date anymore”. Women date too. It’s male hypergamous nature to think that dating ends at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:00 PM
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From men. Watch how men describe skinny young conventionally attractive as “mid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:58 PM
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“Average” to men is a model with no makeup on “Average” in reality is a 39 year old 5’4” 174 lb woman. Which most men find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:56 PM
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How do you know the guy isn’t just stringing her along for sex or as a placeholder until he can get something better? How do you know the guy isn’t with her because she has money? And what exactly do you define as troll-like? Most men consider most women troll-like just for being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:55 PM
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Attractive women have it easier than men. Most women aren’t attractive to most men. The average age in the USA is like 39 and most Americans are overweight or more. So no, most women don’t have it easier. Only attractive women have it easier. When a woman is unattractive, men deliberately do things like use her for sex, string her along, treat her like a second class citizen, and hurt her. Men deliberately lie to, mistreat, and manipulate women who they find “mid” aka attractive enough for sex b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:49 PM
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No it won’t. There just are less women than men on dating apps. Instead of trying to encourage more women to join the apps, you guys want to have a population imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:31 PM
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How tf are adult women growing 3 inches??? And if a man is old, he is dating up by dating a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:08 PM
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Why should women do it if men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:50 PM
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I don’t see anything about settling in there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:29 PM
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Does the woman know the man doesn’t find her attractive enough for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:30 PM
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Does she know that he doesn’t find her attractive enough for marriage? Does he tell her this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:25 PM
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When women pursue men, men will say yes to entertain them, even if they aren’t attracted , because they will happily use the women for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:24 PM
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Does she know that he doesn’t find her attractive enough for a relationship? Was he honest with her that she just isn’t beautiful enough for him to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:23 PM
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No I got the point. Online dating is notorious for being mostly men. So men who don’t get matches on dating apps aren’t victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:53 PM
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Pink pill truths: Male attention is worthless because he may be trying to use you for sex. In which case, it means he doesn’t really actually find you attractive. Being used for sex means the man finds you just attractive enough for sex but not for anything else. Men consider it gold digging to want a man who has a stable job. Men don’t want their agematch after 30. Middle aged men, elderly men, etc. ALL of them want younger and more beautiful women. This is hypergamy. Women should focus on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:50 PM
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Does the woman know she is being used for casual sex because the man doesn’t think she’s attractive enough for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:46 PM
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So then don’t claim men don’t get any girl and that you can’t even get 1 girl. It’s not true. Men get women. Just not the women they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:45 PM
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No he thinks he’s too good for the girls. It doesn’t mean he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:44 PM
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Women do find you attractive. Just not the women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:44 PM
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Using a woman for casual sex = not treating her as a human
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:23 PM
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So even you get dates when you go out and make an effort and dress up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:22 PM
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I am glad you do this. Many men find these women attractive enough for casual sex but not attractive enough for a relationship. So they aren’t grossed out by the women, but they also don’t really like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:22 PM
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No it sounds like you’re the hypergamous one. You consider yourself too good for the women who like you and you look at them as beneath you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:13 PM
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Men tell women ALL THE TIME that they should date on personality, not looks, and that women are too superficial. Why does it upset you when you get equal treatment? Don’t the men here claim women only want equality when it suits them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:11 PM
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Men want to use women they consider their lesser for casual sex. Not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:10 PM
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Literally that guy says he gets MULTIPLE dates but they are all from women he finds unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:09 PM
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This is why it’s laughable when men act like them swiping right on tinder more is some sort of virtue and proof that they are less picky than women. Men are incredibly picky. They just use unattractive women for sex. Men are even more picky than women when it comes to looks for anything outside of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:08 PM
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So you get women, just not the women you want. Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:08 PM
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It sounds like you have rejection trauma and didn’t realize girls liked you when you were in high school. It also sounds like you believe being a homemaker is the same thing as being a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:10 PM
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Most women are overweight in the USA. This means that they already aren’t considered marriage material by most men. The average age is 39 for women, which is too old to be considered marriage material by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:33 AM
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Yeah he is less attractive than her hands down. Men refuse to acknowledge it because then they would have to introspect on their own hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:11 AM
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No they weren’t. He is a plain average man. She is young, thin, and hot. Men are hypergamous by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:08 AM
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To men, a 5 is a woman who looks like a model without makeup on. Never forget that men said that the wizard Liz was looks matched to Landon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:02 AM
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Considering that most women aren’t attractive for most men to want to commit to, I am not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:50 AM
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For women, not having casual sex comes easily and doesn’t require discipline because we don’t have as much testosterone as men. This unintentionally makes us more virtuous. For men it requires discipline because testosterone makes them degenerate by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:36 AM
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I am repeating what he is saying. Nothing here is an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:36 PM
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Testosterone = degenerate nature and lack of self discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:35 PM
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Wait until marriage or a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:51 PM
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Then don’t pay her or sleep with her? How are you a victim? Just say “I am not interested” or ghost her and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:51 PM
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It’s still a disgusting view of sex. You’re conflating love, attraction, and relationships with “payment”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:51 PM
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I am saving this article as a resource
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:50 PM
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Ok that’s also a messed up view of sex. You guys just have messy views of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:59 PM
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“want a pussy without dealing with the cunt that comes attached to it“. It is what it is. Ok that’s a messed up view of sex and a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:59 PM
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These are still red flags. He has enough money to attract women, but doesn’t want commitment = red flag. He has bizarre fetishes that are gross or painful = red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:57 PM
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That doesn’t mean go buy it from a lady who wouldn’t be there for free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:53 PM
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This is a very messed up view of women and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:03 PM
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Then you only like her for her looks. Looks >>> everything else for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:25 PM
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Easily it’s buying that’s worse. Most sex workers end up doing the job out of desperation. The people who choose to do this job because they are truly passionate about it or simply don’t want to work a 9-5 job are the tiny minority. Almost all of them deal with sexual abuse/ exploitation, violence, stigma, and higher risk for violence, even if they did choose to do this job. Men who buy sex tend to have warped views of sex and women. They tend to believe consent is something that you can buy. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
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Tbh if you’re both ugly and broke and fat and old then it’s a pure form of love
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:39 AM
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A woman knows she is truly loved for who she is when she is poor, fat, ugly, and old and a man chooses to be with her and treat her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:51 AM
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Yes men are hypergamous by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:39 AM
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Source: this entire forum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:38 AM
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<image> Right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:37 AM
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Stagnation is refusing to be civil with your wife/ girlfriend. Stagnation is NOT demanding civility. Men struggle with accountability. Even you deflect and try to change the subject to be about aging instead of making it about respect and kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:15 PM
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So you agree that men lack accountability. Say something politely and clearly instead of using a mean spirited analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:01 PM
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Kind of like how passport bros are hypergamous and can’t stand their looksmatch so they go to another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:22 PM
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Male nature in a nutshell. Accuse, attack, and blame women for male toxicity. Anything to blame the woman and absolve the man of guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:21 PM
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If I were to call you dumb, I would get a ban here for being uncivil. Yet you advocate for calling your girlfriend dumb. You can just say “what you’re saying doesn’t make sense” and get your point across clearly and in a civil fashion. It’s not that hard. Why do men lack accountability!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:00 PM
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He can stop her from operating in delusion by not being rude and degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:59 PM
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n count of 1 made out with heavy petting 4 guys LOTS OF EXPERIENCE THATS NOT FUN ITS LIKE BEING FAT YOU HAVE TO COMPENSATE IN SOME WAY It’s an n count of 1 and yet you compare it to obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:58 PM
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Calling someone “dumb” is not kind. And the analogy he used was harsh. He was comparing her to a rooster who can’t fly but is so delusional, dishonest, or stupid that it refused to admit it. Not only do you refuse to take accountability, but you defend yourself. You imply that women are foolish, undeserving, and entitled for wanting to be treated like adults but then defend calling someone dumb as if your life depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:50 PM
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Making out with heavy petting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:03 PM
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The post made it clear that he didn’t ask and just assumed she was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:03 PM
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You have a post in your post history that your pregnant wife says you’re making personal attacks. Just so you know, calling her dumb is a personal attack. It shows that you lack accountability that you continue to defend this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:02 PM
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Calling your girlfriend “dumb” is not treating her like an adult. I don’t call any of the adults in my life “dumb”. I also suspect if your girlfriend called you dumb, you wouldn’t humbly look at the floor and say “oh I am so sorry. You are so right. I am dumb!”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:59 PM
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<image> This is the analogy you’re defending. He is saying that she is so DUMB that she is like a rooster that claims to be an eagle either due to stupidity about how stupid he is or delusion. When women said it’s a rude and mean way to speak to your girlfriend, you said that these women are engaging in “social manipulation”. You called calling out how mean this analogy is “crafty” and you said that the woman should “correct the behavior” after taking an insult. You said calling this out is to “…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:57 PM
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She had 1 sexual relationship and 4 make out sessions but in men’s mind it’s basically 5 partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:53 PM
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“Women don’t care about men’s mental health. I think a woman with an n count of 1 who made out with 4 guys is a ran through slut who deserves divorce and a lawsuit”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:52 PM
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I already have 2 guys responding saying the guy was right, and these are western Redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:52 PM
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They are. Already I am reading through my replies and some guy is saying “he deserves better. She lied to him”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:48 PM
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“Having sex with one guy and making out with 4 is so slutty and that woman sucks!” Male mindset. Then they complain that women don’t care about men’s mental health. Why should we care when they berate us for having an n count of 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:48 PM
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“Making out with heavy petting is the same thing as sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:47 PM
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I usually see fat women with fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:05 AM
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Now I found an Instagram post of a guy who was a virgin who married a woman who had an n count of 1 and fooled around without genitals coming out with 4 guys and he’s having a crash out and considering divorcing her. He didn’t think to ask about this before marriage either. She was loyal and devoted and loving and kind. All of her experiences were long before they met. He feels betrayed and disgusted. Men in the comments are writing shit like “a woman’s past matters” and “have an affair” and one…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:03 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKD8Qiwu0tW/ I guarantee you he had obese girls liking him and he didn’t want them or notice them because they were invisible to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:53 AM
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You’re doing a lot of mental gymnastics. It sounds like you said something offensive which is why you gatekeep what you actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:54 AM
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The example you used was pretty rude. You refuse to provide another example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:53 AM
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Since it’s so tame why not share it? You don’t need to share details. If it’s that tame it should be self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:20 AM
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I don’t understand why you’re gatekeeping the actual analogy that you used
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:19 AM
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Why do you think it’s acceptable to call your girlfriend dumb with an analogy in an argument? If you truly think your girlfriend is a moron, perhaps you should find a new girlfriend instead of insulting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:18 AM
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First of all, a pot isn’t a chicken. Second of all, you can say “you are contradicting yourself” instead of trying to indirectly call someone a hypocrite. Third of all, saying “you are contradicting yourself” is miles different from saying “YOU ARE STUPID AND EITHER YOU REFUSE TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT OR YOU ARE PURPOSEFULLY PLAYING DUMB”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:16 AM
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The average is like 37 for women and 42 for men. It’s roughly 40. You are deliberately ignoring this to suit your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:22 AM
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It’s a horrible and disgusting analogy. You’re saying that she not only is dumb, but is so unaware of or dishonest about her own stupidity that she is like a rooster that hits its head and claims to be like an eagle. You could just directly tell her “I don’t think this is the best decision for you ” or “I don’t think you are as qualified as I am to make this choice because I have experience doing xyz”. Instead you use a degrading analogy and then play victim when she doesn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:08 AM
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You insulted a bunch of people and don’t take accountability for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:52 PM
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Calling random women “piggy” is emotional labor too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:46 PM
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Are men who call strangers on Reddit “piggy” good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:43 PM
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img If it double posted, it means that I didn’t have good connection. Surely with your level of hostility and snark you would understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:35 PM
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So Mr female accountability on display, you’ve moved the goalposts from “women work very little compared to men” To “well they work like 30% less”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:34 PM
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<image> This is the original comment you are defending. You literally called this “female accountability on display”. Where is your accountability? Did you not read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:30 PM
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Women spend more time at home and make more mess. Homemade lunch/dinner is not the norm anymore, and has not been for some time. Did you not see your own table!?? Married women work on average 37 hours a week. They aren’t homemakers. "Women want to get rid of men." Anyone can sprinkle some poop on a fan, not a parlor trick. This doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. Men resent alimony and child support meaning that women need to work and support themselves instead of being housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:54 PM
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Male accountability on display: “I don’t want to pay alimony or child support!!!! HOW DARE YOU WANT TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT 😡”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:43 PM
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Male accountability on display: “I don’t want to pay alimony or child support!!!! HOW DARE YOU WANT TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT 😡”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:59 PM
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<image> more than 35 hours a week, almost 40 men average at 45 very little 5-10 hours a week difference Bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:58 PM
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