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One thing that helps me with nervousness is to look at what the worst case scenario is: You might lose out on a job, bomb with a date, etc.. Very rarely something will irrevocably alter your life. Even the flu shot / needles? Whats the worst case there: You might cry, yell out of pain, become unconscious. But you are at a clinic, taken care of and at the end of the day go back home like you left it. When I did civil service, I messed up a blood donation. Wasn't my fault, nobody told me on how to…
/r/becomeaman10/04/14 08:54 AM
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German here, where're you from, Bro?
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:10 PM
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Sorry dude, you're pushing way too hard with your advice. Quick tangent: Male Fashion Advice is one of the most helpful communities in general. Why warn against them? Yes most people there are skinny already, but every poster gets help there with his questions regarding style. Their FAQs and Styleguides are without equal. But in general: The advice for any kid desperate to lose his virginity is simply: Don't be desperate. You're a guy, nothing physical will happen to you. I'd feel strange poppin…
/r/seduction20/02/14 04:29 PM
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Not a lot of info on your part on what was said that makes you think she seemed to lack confidence. I wouldn't press the issue but would not distance myself. Maybe she had a bad day. Work stuff, stuff with the kid whatever you do not want to talk about with a new / developing partner but occupies your mind. If kids are involved it takes a lot for her to become serious. She will need to introduce you to the kid. And that is something single parents (rightfully) do with a lot of wariness. if you a…
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:36 PM
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Dude don't be pissed. You already learned from this. While it was satisfying to punch a cockblocking douche and I would have applauded you for this, you noticed that this didn't get you anywhere in her pants. Still: I salute you for doing what I wanted to do often. The move would had been to let him cockblock all the way and then, when you catch her in a moment alone go "Damn girl, can I check your ID? Don't want to get in trouble for hooking up with you after that kindergarten stunt" - the deli…
/r/seduction25/01/14 08:35 PM
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dude i tried a joke - judging by the downvotes I failed miserably. Honestly I would have lost interest in the girl after the 25th shittest, but that is just my attitude, OP did nothing wrong
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:25 PM
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You put up with all this for some pussy? You're a stronger or hornier man than I am
/r/seduction23/01/14 07:09 AM
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Alfredo sauce and garlic bread won't higher your chance to get laid though. It might come off creepy to invite a first date from tinder over to your place. Suck it up boy. Depending on where you're form the looking at foliage date is free and works, looking on christmas decoration etc... But yeahr, dating is not cheap - get a better job or date less
/r/seduction20/11/13 02:17 PM
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Haftpflicht 4 life!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:57 PM
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just interested, are people in the US not insured for that kind of shit? We have obligatory insurance in case you break other peoples stuff. You drop their TV or what ever, you call your insurance and get it replaced. Your fees get up for a while, but well the OP's case - thats what those insurances are for
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 12:55 PM
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Dude you are me. 28yo, 6 y LTR ended (although 8 months ago), working really long ours, not really liking my job. Be comfortable with yourself. If you love reading try joining a book club. Step out of your comfort zone. If you hate your job start looking at other opportunities. Do something that you never saw yourself doing. Try parachuting. Hell take walks downtown occasionally. Change up your schedule. Dont dwell on the past and the lonely feeling. You're born alone and you'll die alone. It's …
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:56 AM
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wow dude, you got me pumped up and ready to run through a brick wall. thanks, bro!
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:35 AM
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Yes! People who are prone to cheating are more jealous and suspect cheating. Because they know what people can be hiding. Wouldn't blame the guy anyways. His wife emasculated him and he is in a bad place. Hope he swallows RP asap. How come ugly / fat chicks are so prone to cheating? Is it the attention they crave?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 11:35 AM
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don't think there are many sedditors in germany though. but thanks for the advice
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:57 AM
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aye aye, done that
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:56 AM
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thanks bro
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:56 AM
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thanks bro. working 60 hours hasn't made socializing any easier though
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:56 AM
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thanks bro. you're right, i need to cut every contact. being friends obviously doesn't work
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:56 AM
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great advice bro! I need to hit the gym more. Gonna hit the weights after work today
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:55 AM
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Just act confident, say Hi I'm XYZ, here to pick up <her name>. Make some polite small talk if the girl keeps you waiting. Don't stress. You're not in Texas, the dad won't be cleaning his shotgun before you ;)
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:59 PM
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Padeborn being Westfalen is kinda dry. Try out Münster (or other student-towns) like Cologne. Way better chicks.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 03:27 PM
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German here, the girls are generally not as outgoing as the US. So you might want to tone it down a little. They still like a confident guy and enjoy kino, but really direct stuff might not have the right results. Ulm is a great town and Southwestern German chicks have the hottest accent. I had some thing with a girl from there once, still get horny when I think about her dirty talk with that accent. Lovely
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 03:26 PM
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Why are her parents involved? Pick her up from her place. be nice and well mannered. Try to impress her mother (if both seem a little hostile). The dad is usually tougher to win over, since he fears that you will bone his little princess. Show them that you are well behaved and no threat and you really really like her daughter and will treat her well. Try to bring up that you study hard, have some goals in life and a smart / little boring / conservative kid. Don't sweat the parents, she is a tee…
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:17 PM
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Do something you're better at than her. Darts, Pool, etc... Girls dig the "explaining" and its great for kino. Ice-Skating is great if you can do it a little and she cant. Don't show off but be confident and patient with her.
/r/seduction30/10/13 01:22 PM
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Rheinland represent! Really posh girls breathing "do not look at me" in Düsseldorf everywhere
/r/seduction30/10/13 01:19 PM
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can confirm. Girls love that move. If you think about it, guys try to kiss a hot girl all the time. If you're the one guy being so confident in his game, that you basically tell her "you think you're good enough to kiss me? try again" you get her attention. Now she really wants to prove that she is good enough
/r/seduction29/10/13 09:57 AM
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EDIT: She's telling me now that she said that because she didn't feel special and if she's the same as other girls, I might as well fuck them while she's gone. DO NOT MARRY HER. SERIOUSLY DO NOT MARRY HER. Women like that are insane. Jealous, manipulative, lack of confidence. They will cling to you and suffocate you with their insecurity. Was dating such a girl once. All the "well fuck other women then if you want to..." stick. DO NOT DO IT. You'll ruin your life.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 09:26 AM
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Dude, don't worry. Enjoy your time, but don't get sucked into deep. Yes, you will end up heartbroken someday, but you will enjoy the ride. Don't marry, don't get her pregnant. Enjoy your time and the butterflies. There will be a heartache following but that will end as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:44 AM
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dude you must learn that facebook is not the thing to ask a girl / give a girl. You need her number, not her Facebook.
/r/seduction25/10/13 06:59 AM
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nice game, but you should have gotten her number. Drop your number at her car with a little inside joke. "Miss you stalking me. Follow me to the coffee shop? #1290129102 - name"
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:35 PM
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like a boss. congrats bro
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 02:55 PM
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Great job, a little critique though: Her: Yeah the city does look pretty from here. Me: My name's Ryan and I like to adventure. What's your name? Not a smooth transition. Why did you drop the adventuring? Just say "Hi, I'm Ryan. Lets go to the rooftop bar" Good job, a little tad too aggressive for my taste, but you would have gotten her, if she had no bf.
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:26 PM
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you shouldn't give a fuck. Its your personal choice. Never experienced a girl being turned off either way.
/r/seduction18/10/13 09:33 AM
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Don't care about other women yet. Care about yourself. Set some goals (work out more, apply yourself more in college / job, learn a new language, pick up a new hobby). Do that and you'll just become better. The feelings towards other women will return eventually and you'll be able to score a league higher than before.
/r/seduction09/10/13 07:00 AM
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6 months after a messy break up: We had a great 6 year relationship, she dumps me for another guy who immediately dumps her, because she lied to him about the whole boyfriend thing. Kudos to the guy. One thing that fuels me immensely is to get the upper hand on her. I work out more, I eat better, I dress and style myself better than before. I made it out of there ok, I am currently getting my mojo with women back, although I still don't have any feelings for them. At least I hook up. Everytime s…
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:57 AM
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Great start and nice FR. A few tips for you: A party where everybody knows everybody is horrible. The best kind of party is where you know a few people who each know a few people that you don't know. The HB7 adding you on FB is a great IOI. Don'T give her much attention. Instead, text her with basic "Hey, been nice talking to you. Am going to XYZ on Friday at 10pm, want to come along?" And just a little personal thing. You seem like you have memorized all that pick up. That's not going to help. …
/r/seduction07/10/13 03:29 PM
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Disagree with quite a few ofthese I never save contacts on my phone Wait,why? Its no extra effort to delete the contact and the message thread Never use emoticons. Don't overuse them, but a ;) can be the difference between creepy and flirty
/r/seduction07/10/13 02:12 PM
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Wow thanks for the analysis, Bro. Figured the 3 fuck ups didn't really help. I still doubt the chance to f-close. Really religious / rural background. The tit-thing is a great point and yes I felt literal heat between her thighs, so I might have really fucked up there.
/r/seduction03/10/13 06:30 PM
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thanks. I figured it a) gets you served earlier, which is great in itself and b) shows chicks at the bar that you're alpha and gives you something to talk about.
/r/seduction03/10/13 06:29 PM
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If she hates texting, call her. Show here that you're alpha. You decide what you guys are doing. And escalate the kino. Holding back is good if you have plenty of rapport with enormous amount of kino. That girl in a club (see my FR) got really into me when I hold back just a little after kissing her. But before "Holding out" I already made myself clear with plenty of kino
/r/seduction03/10/13 06:24 PM
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ouch. dodged a bullet there though
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:31 AM
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Strange vibes, the whole talk about other guys would have been a turnoff for me. Solid game though and the first kiss line is something I will steal from you. However try not to be outalpha`d and dont revert to beta. Outcome Dependance sucks but happens and if successful worth it
/r/seduction02/10/13 06:35 PM
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Dont sweat it. Its pretty clear she likes you. Worst case is you dont get in her pants but you gain SMV by being seen with a hot chick.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:23 PM
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Might be that she is an idiot or she might judge the chances of a fling without rubber. Be persistent and answer like you want to. Its none of her business
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:45 PM
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I wish I were a natural. I tend to do really well with girls if I dont give a single shit about outcome. The whole 'lets speed this up, so either I have a nice evening alone at home or get it in' mindset - if I really care about a girl, I fuck it up or have way too much anxiety to make a move
/r/seduction02/10/13 02:09 PM
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You didn't fuck up. It would have been better to let her give you her number in case "she can't figure the meaning of the tattoo" but she will text you if she is interested anyways. Good job
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:05 PM
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Great job bro! Gonna have a FR after tommorrow night, hopeful that it will be a success as yours
/r/seduction01/10/13 09:21 PM
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Its 80% diet. Eat tons of protein (try 3000 calories a day) and yes big weight low rep is the way to train for size
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:14 PM
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She seemed happy about it and called me her "(nationality) boyfriend". maybe just me but a huge red flag. Is she from another country / exchange student something? Why would she say, you are her "nationalty boyfriend". Why not just "boyfriend"? Smells fishy to me but that maybe TRP speaking. Also judging from post history you are 24 and if she is in that pic, she is quite young. Proceed with caution *edit: ah you're 25 now and she isn't in those pictures, sorry not good at quick stalking ;)
/r/seduction24/09/13 12:19 PM
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gonna give you a short kino escalation ladder I fall back on when I dont feel creative: a) light accidental touches (brush her elbows) b) cheesy gimmick: if no other situation presents itself, talk about travel. mention some yogi in Thailand (other place in the world she has no idea of) taught you hand-reading. Hold her hand, explain what her live lines and whatever shit you can make up mean. If she knows hand reading you're doomed, if not you're free to make shit up. Use general cold reading li…
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:59 AM
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there is only one thing to learn about LDRs: GET OUT! Get out fast, you should have gotten out yesterday. If it is a temporary ldr with a fixed-end-date (she has gone for a semester abroad or something) it can work out. If it isnt, get out. It will end badly, and you are going to develop a case of oneitis. She will either cheat or become so attached to you that you lose any interest anyways. A LDR brings all the bad things about a relationship without any of the good. repeat after me: If there i…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 08:56 AM
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If you want to f-close on a first date get her along with a few friends in a group to a bar. Do the whole 9 yards kino'ing, then have idea on how to get her home. Maybe look for a place that gets quiet and boring pretty early and suggest heading home for a few more drinks. A planned F-close with a certain person is going to have some luck involved since her ASD is going to be on high alert
/r/seduction24/09/13 07:26 AM
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in your scenario go on a few dates (bar / coffee, movies, something else) and then invite her to watch a movie at your place. If she comes, its an f-close. For all the movies I've rented for "movie at my place" dates, I haven't seen a lot of them ;)
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:04 PM
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reasonably clean made up bed condoms, toothbrush (pro-tip have contact lense solution at hand), a bottle of wine (make it reasonably cheap. You won't be drinking more than a glass) / candles go a long way. congrats, you're getting it in tonight
/r/seduction20/09/13 02:41 PM
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I'd just start kino. Her agreeing/disagreeing to a date is a no-win. Even if she acknowledges it as a date, it doesn't mean you won't be friendzoned. If you kino and she escalates / allows escalation you're in, if not you had a funny night and dont talk to her again
/r/seduction20/09/13 02:38 PM
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AA = Approach anxiety SET = a woman / group of women you are approaching the glossary of terms in the sidebar explains all the lingo http://redd.it/pbkwv http://redd.it/pbkxs/
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:49 AM
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Didn't mean to rain on your parade. Loved the post and the "meet new people" message. Talking and "opening" people, either male, hb or unattractive helps and is just fun to do. Cements and raises your social value
/r/seduction18/09/13 12:02 PM
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Great job, bro! However she was ripe for the taking so the amount of difficulty was not that hard.
/r/seduction18/09/13 10:50 AM
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more like allrightletsget.in
/r/seduction09/09/13 08:53 AM
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Think about what girls do? They shop, they go to the movies, they go to the library, they go for a coffee, they go to bars / clubs, the gym etc. Girls are everywhere, I think your problem is finding the right situation to approach. Because while you can certainly flirt in a library (and a lot of hookups happened in student libraries because of the whole 'fuck it, lets get out of here, i'd rather go for a coffee with an ugly chick/dude than read this book any second longer dynamic) it is not opti…
/r/seduction04/09/13 02:08 PM
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