Need a quick game boost by you guys

JoshMcAwesome · 2013-11-03T23:16:04+00:00

first keep up the good work, always improve yourself and focus on the the positive things in your life. second, cut off your ex, she wants to bring you down (successfully), she knows she is doing that with telling you her stories ... you have the potential to get women who treat you much better, focus on the things that will bring you further to them. Work out harder, socialize more and last but not least kick your AA in the A and enjoy your life

HappyJerk · 2013-11-04T00:19:58+00:00

Dude if you're not over your ex you need to have complete no contact. She shouldn't be able to just come into your life and "introduce" you to her ex-boyfriend. She is just doing that to feel like she has power over you. You need to cut off all forms of communication until you are completely over her.

Secondly, everybody hits slumps. Your confidence is low and you are hurting. You'll get over it like everybody else does.

iBeMike · 2013-11-04T04:01:53+00:00

Cut that leech out

Pibe_de_Oro · 2013-11-03T23:31:32+00:00

You've no need for a woman to stay in your life after a breakup. Get rid of her. Especially if it was a bad break.

You've got the right idea, working on yourself, that is. However, there's no reason to fear approaching women, or to make excuses for yourself. I think instead of plowing through your "AA" (whatever. Man, just call it being a bitch) with more women, just focus on being social and chat up whoever, even if talking to strange guys on the streets make you feel gay.

Eventually, doing that, you start to want to be social for being social, and not because you want to get laid. From there, things like flakes and shit don't really bother you as much

chriscalo123 · 2013-11-04T03:52:00+00:00

Hey man, this is completely normal.

The thing you have to do is you have to find the motivation to "get over your ex". A lot of the time we just don't want to because we want to hold on to all the loving moments we've had together. (Because thinking about them makes us feel good).

That's why we don't want to let go.. and it ruins our emotional and physical health for a long time.

It's perfectly fine if you need more time. Remember ONE thing though.. it's all about what you focus on. You ABSOLUTELY need to control your FOCUS on a daily (hell, on an hourly) basis to think about the good things in your life.

Focus on the beautiful women that you meet (think about their qualities, the good things in your life, etc). If you can do that, then you'll be golden.

bettereveryear · 2013-11-04T04:36:58+00:00

I promise you, you will be better. Focus outside of girls and more on getting your life together right now. Everything else follows.

When that's done: If you're a sedditor- try meet other sedditors in your city. It's just fucking fun to talk about pick up at the bar- it's like a secret community of guys with game.

Don't bitch about your girl to him, just let the two of you guys groove into it and pick up bitches.

1vibe · 2013-11-04T11:38:28+00:00

Try something completely different... Way out of you comfort zone. Something you find hilarious.

Title	Need a quick game boost by you guys
Author	Pibe_de_Oro
Upvotes	14
Comments	16
Date	November 3, 2013 9:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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