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1

Action item. “Let’s go (something you like)” Dare to be honest and polarizing, and stop caring if they get on board. If they say no, say, NP, catch you next time! And stop texting.
/r/seduction10/01/25 06:17 AM
1

It doesn’t matter why. Try looking at them for just a fraction of a second then build up from there…
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:22 AM
2

Randomly ask her to join you in doing something YOU enjoy, once every 3 or 4 weeks. Common or extraordinary. Don’t be overly chatty.
/r/seduction08/02/21 05:37 AM
1

And it means your fucking trying!
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:15 PM
2

Patience.
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:16 PM
5

But don’t make fun of and belittle others. One can be funny without being mean.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:19 PM
3

Doing good things for people is great. The reciprocity should come from them naturally. If it doesn’t, find better people.
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:26 AM
4

When they look at you, smile. If they smile back, walk over and say “hi, How are you!” Simple.
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:55 AM
31

Ask anything. Hi, how are you? What are the listening to? What item is good at this coffee shop/restaurant? Or just say, “I like your - shoes - haircut - whatever. Or, Hi, I’m xxxxx. The question is merely gaging their level of interest. Either they will be resistant (stop the engagement), neutral (keep trying), or receptive(escalate). Say the first thing that pops into your head.
/r/seduction25/08/18 03:32 PM
1

This is it exactly.
/r/seduction13/08/18 03:57 AM
1

Well now. I’d suggest he drop the fundamentalism and have a joyful life, but what do I know. I believe in moderation. I met a coroner once who told me the secret to a long life was moderation.... I took it to heart...
/r/seduction24/07/18 12:33 AM
1

Start talking about what you believe after that. If you believe in that Sharia law fundamentalist Islam BS, you need to find a female fundie. If not, tell them what you do believe. I’d be terrified of fundamentalism of any sort of if I were female. I strongly disagree with those who tell you to lie. For me, in my secular view, lying is unethical
/r/seduction23/07/18 06:09 AM
1

Talk about what you find exciting
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:33 AM
1

If it wasn’t, now you know for sure.
/r/seduction18/06/18 02:59 PM
2

I hate clubs. Daygame or music events are always better for me....
/r/seduction17/06/18 03:43 PM
1

Thai vacation
/r/seduction13/06/18 12:46 PM
2

The hotter a girl is, the less looks matter, to some degree.
/r/seduction10/06/18 03:44 PM
1

Smile at her. If she smiles back, go talk to her whenever.
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:46 PM
15

It is a strong ioi. Definitely could go in for a kiss. Women always know where their breasts are. Like men know what their dick is touching.
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:53 PM
1

I lived in Thailand for two years. Things are different there. I suggest a two week vacay in Koh samui ;) Chaweng or Lamai
/r/seduction29/04/18 09:57 PM
1

Start with models by mark Manson.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:19 PM
0

NEXT!!!
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:12 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:57 AM
1

Thrive on rejection
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:14 PM
1

You can't worry about it. You will get turned down more often than accepted. As soon as you think you want to ask them out, do it. Do not hesitate. Hesitation will kill your energy. Get the words out before your terrified brain has a chance to talk you out of it! Then, try different approaches, experiment, until you find out what is natural for you. Biggest thing is to practice by doing! Hope that helps! Don't worry about getting turned down, happens more often than not.
/r/seduction05/04/18 08:57 PM
6

Opener: “hi how are you?” They’ll either respond positively or negatively, if it’s positive, talk about them. Classes, what are the listening too, what coffee are the getting, what do the want to do after college, sports, whatever, doesn’t matter. Get them talking, not you. When they are laughing or the vibe is good, ask for their number or instagram, whatever is going these days. Can’t ask? Just hand them your phone, you’ll have to say something after that. Talk to everyone, not just girls you’…
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:14 PM
40

Ask out everyone.
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:18 AM
1

She will counter charge sexual assault. Checkmate.
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:41 AM
23

Or, she and that dude intended to drug you (her beer), and rob you.
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:38 AM
2

If she asks why, you say to ask her out.
/r/seduction23/02/18 02:42 AM
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Thai vacation. 2 weeks in Phuket.
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:53 AM
3

Yes. Women get their power when they’re young, men as they get older.
/r/seduction02/02/18 12:55 PM
3

Absolutely do what you want the key is don’t give a fuck!
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:35 AM
1

He buys you a house...
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:26 AM
1

Thai vacation....
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:42 PM
6

3 times max.
/r/seduction24/01/18 06:41 AM
2

You probably already know....
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:27 AM
1

Thai vacation
/r/seduction17/01/18 07:26 AM
1

Both sisters know 100% what’s up.
/r/seduction14/01/18 06:39 PM
1

NP. Catch you next time!
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:16 PM
-2

Yes. And girls have 1,000x the approach anxiety you do.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:11 AM
2

Get control of negative thoughts: Read The Power of Now. Audiobooks on YouTube
/r/seduction23/12/17 10:49 AM
0

And you’re insecure.
/r/seduction23/12/17 07:51 AM
1

Thrive on rejection. Make it fun, exciting and adrenaline inducing. Try different shit. Crazy stuff. Experiment. But most of all PLAY! Don’t be serious.
/r/seduction22/12/17 10:07 AM
1

That’s how she says no... Doesn’t mean don’t stop trying, but def move on.
/r/seduction22/12/17 09:59 AM
1

I usually get downvoted for this, but if I were in one of your slumps (been there), I’d go for a Thai vacation. Phuket. Chiang Mai, or Chaweng, Koh Samui. Flights are cheap now. The culture is 180 degrees the opposite of the US.
/r/seduction19/12/17 04:38 PM
1

I say, “hi, how are you?” Or even, “hi, mind if I chat you up?”
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:11 AM
1

Fits with the power of now. You create your own negativity.
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:07 AM
2

Immediately say hi how are you as soon as I see her, introduce her to new buddy. Have fun.
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:04 AM
1

The power of now
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:18 AM
1

Just say funny stuff - stuff you think is funny!
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:07 AM
2

Just ask her out next weekend.
/r/seduction10/12/17 05:04 PM
1

That said you can also ask her out more than once, especially if you stop caring if she says yes
/r/seduction10/12/17 08:36 AM
1

Either is fine. Venue is more fun. Near her shows you’re a protector. Whatever you feel more comfortable with.
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:03 AM
11

Look at girl if she looks back, smile, if she smiles back you can go say hi, I’m xxxxxxx. Doesn’t mean you won’t get rejected, but it proper protocol, imho.
/r/seduction03/12/17 08:27 AM
1

Thai vacation!
/r/seduction02/12/17 05:22 PM
16

This. Really!
/r/seduction26/11/17 07:42 PM
1

Have you read “the power of now”?
/r/seduction25/11/17 04:49 AM
1

Thrive on failure. You can't get good at anything if you don't practice... a lot.
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:25 PM
2

Try when the vibe is high, don’t wait for the perfect moment, and remember, you can try more than once.....
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:03 AM
2

No. Ignore Tom. Tom is irrelevant. What you really want to do is ask her out. You’re afraid of being rejected. Tough. Man up.
/r/seduction11/11/17 06:04 PM
3

Def this.
/r/seduction05/11/17 09:47 AM
3

There is nothing wrong with you. I would suggest a vacation to Phuket :)
/r/seduction03/11/17 06:38 AM
1

Thrive on rejection.
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:46 AM
1

Next time you see her.
/r/seduction19/08/16 09:01 AM
1

Hi, how are you
/r/seduction19/08/16 08:56 AM
6

Just talk to (and have fun with) anybody and everybody all the time
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:00 AM
2

Dude, those guys are gigalos, though no girl will admit it. Indonesia is Thailand for western women. Go to Thailand. Say, lamaii, or Chiang Mai
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:16 AM
1

Next person you see, say, hi, how are you.... Repeat
/r/seduction21/12/15 04:00 PM
1

I think you should not give a fuck and ask her to do something specific with the very first text
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:48 PM
1

As the Thai advocate here, may I suggest a trip to Thailand. Say, lamaii, Koh samui.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:42 AM
1

Kiss him
/r/seduction05/12/15 05:46 AM
1

I date myself every night
/r/seduction04/12/15 09:29 PM
2

They usually like to talk about their relationship, if that helps....
/r/seduction26/11/15 07:27 AM
3

Exactly. Leave on a high note... While the energy is still high
/r/seduction24/11/15 05:55 PM
0

Well, of my top 10 lovers, 8 are asian. And the last American I had sex with made me sweat off Americans - yes American Asians as well.... Ugh. Italians, though....
/r/seduction19/11/15 09:19 PM
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Do yourself a favor and stick with the Asians, lol. But likely Eastern Europe from what I hear....
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:34 PM
4

Don't wait Til the end of the date to try to kiss her. Wait til your both laughing, say 'come here' and move in. Also, don't trip on it if she doesn't go for it, just keep trying like its a fun game....
/r/seduction29/10/15 02:30 AM
1

Better to feel bad about a bad approach than never approaching at all
/r/seduction27/10/15 07:18 AM
0

Just say whatever random thing that pops into your mind without thinking about it
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:45 PM
1

Haha!! That's awesome! Practice makes perfect! Congrats!
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:39 AM
1

For the next few months, just walk up to girls and say, "hi, how are you" that's it. That's all you have to do. No conversation, nothing. Consider getting those for words out of your mouth a win. Shot will naturally progress from there, you'll see. Fuck it, just say hi. One fucking word. If they say hi back then say, "how are you"? Or "how's your day going" or "I like your shoes" or "heard any good new music lately?". Hi. How are you?
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:48 PM
1

You'll only regret NOT approaching.
/r/seduction17/10/15 09:04 AM
1

I just act a little goofy when exhausted
/r/seduction17/10/15 08:51 AM
1

Look them in the eye. Smile. If the smile back walk up to them stick out your hand and say, " Hi, I'm George, how are you?, although "hi, how are you" is just as good.
/r/seduction17/10/15 08:32 AM
7

Read the power of now. Right now.
/r/seduction17/10/15 06:55 AM
1

My favorite response to "how old are you?": "old enough to be your daddy, lol"
/r/seduction16/10/15 06:36 PM
1

Just f$&@king do it! The women don't care how old you are..... Well, mostly.
/r/seduction15/10/15 03:22 PM
-1

One word for GA girls... Ugh.
/r/seduction10/10/15 04:48 AM
1

Everything in their response will tell you if they are interested, uninterested or neutral
/r/seduction05/10/15 05:33 AM
1

It's easy. Find your passion.
/r/seduction05/10/15 05:24 AM
1

Practice. Experiment with different tactics. Note results. Repeat daily
/r/seduction02/10/15 04:55 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:27 PM
1

Talk to everyone
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:15 PM
3

3 or more days apart. At least that's my general rule
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:54 PM
1

There's a book on how to kill that voice (known as the pain body). It's called The Power of Now.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:17 AM
21

In my view, in other countries, if you just want to fuck, you can legally go to a hooker. so guys don't have to constantly harass women just to get laid. Women can be less defensive.
/r/seduction20/09/15 04:20 PM
1

Thai vacation
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:13 AM
-7

lol. I think there was a study and men think about sex every 30 seconds....
/r/seduction07/09/15 04:38 PM
1

If you like her it means it's time to say, "hi, how are you?"
/r/seduction05/09/15 02:02 PM
2

That's a win.
/r/seduction05/09/15 01:51 PM
2

Hear that little voice that asked that question? It is your enemy. Stop listening to it.
/r/seduction04/09/15 06:57 AM
1

Try it 3 times!
/r/seduction03/09/15 05:07 PM
1

Smile and think about ravishing her
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:17 PM
1

Can also say, hi, how are you? To everyone.
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:45 AM
1

Don't think of it as a one time all or nothing ordeal. Start making passes at her, and don't stop. If your afraid to polarize her, you'll never get anywhere! Next time you guys are laughing together, kiss her. If she rejects you, just laugh about it and say something like, I'll try harder next time!
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:10 PM
2

Just have fun. Everywhere. All day. All night. While your having fun, talk to girls. Hope that helps:)
/r/seduction28/08/15 08:43 AM
1

Fuck no. And try 5-HTP, and/or Tryptophan to combat depression.
/r/seduction23/08/15 08:02 AM
1

Great job! Not just the approach, but your reaction afterward. Thrive on rejection!!! Works for me:)
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:39 AM
2

My take away: be respectful and trustworthy
/r/seduction17/08/15 12:23 PM
149

Nice to give him a tip. Some guys just don't know.
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:42 PM
2

I love you too, baby!
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:33 PM
0

Congrats! What I use all the time if the girl has earbuds in (pro-tip here folks): "what are you listening to?". Then, I either talk about her music, but more often, ask her if she likes my favorite band, lol.
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:32 PM
1

Start by talking to everybody you see...
/r/seduction13/08/15 03:59 PM
0

Not always
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:09 PM
0

Test it now darlin, cuz I love the way you use periods in your sentences... Xoxo :x
/r/seduction08/08/15 03:25 PM
2

Hand them your phone open to the dialpad, they'll either put their number in it or not....
/r/seduction08/08/15 03:10 PM
3

Do not look away. Smile. If she smiles back, go talk to her (as simple as saying, " hi, I'm xxxxx."
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:27 PM
0

Thrive on rejection.
/r/seduction02/08/15 05:50 PM
4

Duh
/r/seduction02/08/15 06:14 AM
1

I really love the way you write and your kind, considerate demeanor. I'd love to hit on you, but, alas, I'm taken... by your... lack of photographic evidence;)
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:50 AM
1

I only started doing this with women to see the reaction
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:01 AM
0

Hey! Somebodies got to move! In my view, beta yields.
/r/seduction27/07/15 04:51 PM
1

Agreed. It's more an exercise for your mind in how easy it is to display alpha traits.
/r/seduction27/07/15 04:50 PM
2

BF = boyfreind
/r/seduction27/07/15 04:40 PM
3

This sounds very solid and ethical. My experience also shows me that all HB's have a BF or two and a list of guys to jump ship with.... May as well be on that list:)
/r/seduction27/07/15 04:35 PM
1

Beard
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:03 AM
1

Look at her and smile, if she smiles back, go talk to her.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:51 AM
-3

Walking down the sidewalk and a girl or group of girls is walking directly towards you in your path. Try not stepping aside and walk right towards them, they will step out of your way.... And look at you. Like, look at you.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:40 AM
16

Yup
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:38 AM
2

Too much pressure on end of the date kisses, I always try earlier, at a high point
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:43 AM
2

Approach anyway and learn from the interaction.
/r/seduction24/07/15 02:08 PM
-3

Yes. "A scratch? I can kiss it and make it better;)
/r/seduction24/07/15 01:58 PM
2

Thai vacation
/r/seduction23/07/15 06:51 AM
0

Start hitting on her hard
/r/seduction18/07/15 03:55 PM
27

You don't have to give it up, just add more women to be hopelessly romantic with. Use it as a strength.
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:40 AM
2

It's fine
/r/seduction17/07/15 07:36 AM
1

Mines, "hi, how are you"? Works fine. If they're interested they'll be receptive, if not, next!
/r/seduction16/07/15 05:45 AM
1

Fuck you. I tip. And fuck you serving poison to people. You should be ashamed.
/r/seduction11/07/15 08:13 PM
3

Say the first thing you think of without thinking
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:43 PM
22

I hate drinking... So, when I go to bars I order "tonic with a twist of line in a small glass"... Then you can ask girls to go have a smoke outside... Good way to isolate. Otherwise, use you day game, approach whenever you see someone attractive, anywhere, anytime.... Concerts are good, coffee shops...
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:56 PM
1

Tip: have it opened to the dialpad
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:46 PM
0

Then, I think about them wanting to fuck me...
/r/seduction30/06/15 04:58 PM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction30/06/15 12:24 PM
8

I look at them and think about fucking them
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:09 PM
2

As I was saying... Just say whatever you want. At first your experimenting. Learning reactions. Most girls will be attracted to you amusing yourself. Don't try to amuse them.... Just let them come along on your ride.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:19 AM
1

When you're talking. I used to second guess myself a lot.... Wonder if
/r/seduction24/06/15 11:03 PM
2

And if you're too nervous to ask for the number, just hand her your phone. After that you'll have no choice! Thrive on the sick giddy feeling you get as you force yourself to hand her your phone. Also, the approach is the win at this point... One step at a time!
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:51 PM
2

Don't think so much. Amuse yourself.
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:47 PM
0

How bout: Hell no!...???
/r/seduction12/06/15 06:38 AM
1

Lol, she's not attractive to me;)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:52 PM
1

Do it. It's your job. And they want you too.
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:35 AM
1

Ask them.
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:50 AM
2

You did it. You Concorde your fear. It's a win. Has nothing to do with the girl... There are millions more. Congrats!
/r/seduction27/05/15 06:27 AM
1

They all have boyfriends guys... Or had, in the case of my SO;)
/r/seduction24/05/15 02:37 PM
6

Flirt wth all the girls... Especially he Freinds ones, regardless of beauty
/r/seduction10/05/15 06:42 AM
1

Repetition. It's like building up cal loses when practicing guitar.
/r/seduction10/05/15 06:37 AM
27

Look at her. In her eyes. If she looks at you, smile. If she smiles back immediately go say hi, my names xxxxxx....
/r/seduction10/05/15 04:48 AM
0

So better to see you with, my dear
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:50 AM
2

Ask questions. Show interest!
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:12 AM
1

Yes. Thrive on rejection.
/r/seduction19/04/15 10:34 AM
2

own it. They don't care.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:29 AM
0

Don't stop treating girls like you did when you were 9.
/r/seduction01/03/15 08:50 PM
1

Never.
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:44 AM
1

At the high point, after a good laugh, there's a moment when you know it's right, you have to capitalize on that and not choke! Also realize that you don't have just one chance. Try early. Fail? Try again. Repeat.
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:38 AM
0

You kill fish?
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:36 AM
10

By asking instead of stating. Woild you like to dance? Vs I'm going to dance, come on!
/r/seduction08/02/15 05:34 AM
0

"Old enough to be your daddy;)" Fail to use this at your own peril. Guess what? This is the one response on this thread that is feild tested and works.
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:33 PM
1

Well, I hope he doesn't get pissed
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:29 PM
1

Holy basil extract. Decreases the stress hormone cortisol.
/r/seduction10/01/15 04:40 PM
2

Tease! :)
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:20 PM
1

Smile with lips closed. Hold eye contact til she looks away. If she doesn't, go say, "hi, I'm xxxxxxx.
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:21 PM
1

Thai Vacation!!!! WooHooo!!!!!! It just so happened that I lived in Thailand for a couple years about 10 years ago. There is NOTHING better for a man's self esteem than a a couple weeks in Koh Samui. PS - this advice always gets downvoted.... but it has worked wonders for many people I know. Including women. PS - where do you live?
/r/seduction27/11/14 08:04 PM
1

Love it! What also works, btw, is just handing them your phone with the contacts open and not saying anything!
/r/seduction27/11/14 07:56 PM
1

It doesn't matter. Women are keyed to emotions. Men are keyed to looks.
/r/seduction22/11/14 10:34 AM
1

My favorite: 'boy, is he gonna be pissed!"
/r/seduction21/11/14 08:08 AM
2

I did. I got it!
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:16 AM
1

....and women at their shittiest.
/r/seduction20/11/14 07:13 PM
1

Great post. Still hate clubs, haha!
/r/seduction20/11/14 07:46 AM
3

I have no problem finding and sleeping with the finest high quality women. I'm not complaining, just stating my personal viewpoint. In my view, the reason hot women go to clubs is to have their ego stroked, to be the prize. To me, it's an ego spa for women. Just no MY thing, if you like it, more power to you!
/r/seduction20/11/14 02:05 AM
1

Yes, I'll take an EDM scene anytime. There it feels like the primary goal is celebrating life, but the primary goal at a club is ego enhancement of dressed up girls.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:59 PM
3

Yes, I do! Just had a minor epiphany about the hottest girls being treated like princesses the moment they approach the door.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:56 PM
9

The club puts the hottest girls on a pedestal. What they are selling is the fact that they have hot girls in the club. Without the girls, they have no business. Very few guys are going to go into a loud club in order to dance with a bunch of dudes and listen to the music. OS the girls get preferential treatment, and the guys are expected to pay $200 just to sit down. Ridiculous, imho.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:54 PM
1

Yes. Live music events are far better for me too. It doesn't help that I hate club music. I guess if you love the music, it would be a very different thing.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:51 PM
6

In general.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:49 PM
5

That seems accurate. Parties are great. Clubs are built to extract money from AFC's.... seems to me! What they are selling at the club is the girls themselves, without the hot girls, they have no clientele at all. This means they cater to them, so the girls are there looking to be pampered. For them, it's like going to a spa for thier ego. They're there for validation.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:49 PM
1

In this order: day game, social scene, live music events. I find live music is infinity better than clubs in that the band is the focus, whereas in the clubs, the girls are the focus.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:45 PM
1

Try a Dark Star Orchestra show.... http://darkstarorchestra.net
/r/seduction19/11/14 10:51 AM
16

do you ever brush against a guy with your boobs?
/r/seduction14/11/14 07:21 AM
2

Def not a Julien fan
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:50 PM
1

Don't talk about it. Show her how much fun it is to be with you. Lighten up. Don't make it heavy:)
/r/seduction29/10/14 10:43 AM
71

Look at her, she looks back at you, smile, if she smiles back, go say "hi, I'm XXX", handshake..... Don't even think about what might happen after that. For now, a win is an approach, not the outcome.
/r/seduction01/10/14 02:54 PM
1

Don't get cocky, kid. There will be disappointments.... just never dwell on them and always move forward:) Nicely done!
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:48 PM
3

Nice tip
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:34 PM
1

Great advice for life in general
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:16 PM
2

Nothing like grabbing her with a ravishing kiss at an unexpected moment! Makes her swoon.
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:51 AM
1

How do you order? I always say "tonic with a twist of lime in a small glass", but it seems little verbose.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:20 PM
1

In fact, sometimes I think it gives one higher status - you don't need to get her drunk to like you.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:17 PM
1

Ha! I had the same issue. It was tough at first, but now I just tell people, I don't drink. Although often you'll find me in a bar drinking "tonic with a twist of lime in a small glass". That's all you need in your hand to make it a non-issue (which it is).
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:15 PM
22

Excellent... Advice, sir.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:13 PM
5

Doctor King, we call him in the neighborhood.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:13 PM
4

Upvote for your dad!
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:12 PM
13

Also, flirt with all the girls, not just the hot ones.
/r/seduction13/08/14 02:46 AM
1

None of your problems are insurmountable. None of them. One step at a time.
/r/seduction12/08/14 02:37 PM
2

Wherever you see them:).
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:34 PM
63

Look. She looks back. Smile. She smiles back. Approach.
/r/seduction02/08/14 11:47 AM
1

Listen to "the power of now" audiobook about 100 times. At least, read it.
/r/seduction28/07/14 12:27 PM
1

Haha! Thanks!! It all makes sense now... But sometimes I make her pout and laugh about it til she does too;)
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:12 PM
17

Nothing DID happen.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:17 AM
1

Yes! Tell me more.... What is the correct response?
/r/seduction25/07/14 05:08 PM
2

"Boy, is he gonna be pissed off!"
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:48 AM
5

Yes, you do. Dont care what happens and just talk to girls.
/r/seduction30/06/14 07:19 AM
-3

I like to pay. But that's me...
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:43 PM
2

The all seeing eye combined with empathic joy.
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:28 AM
2

No. Women are attracted to the emotional state they feel in your presence.
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:27 AM
1

Ie give value
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:24 AM
3

Then book of pook, perhaps
/r/seduction31/05/14 04:12 PM
2

R Greene is a little demented, imho
/r/seduction31/05/14 04:08 PM
4

Women are dying for an excuse to smile, give them one. To practice - smile at everyone, especially them that need it.
/r/seduction29/05/14 01:52 AM
1

It is fun - once you stop giving a shit!!!!
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:30 PM
7

Yes, I get the same thing..... what do I do.... hmmmm. I trick myself into going there without thinking about it, so that I find myself in the situation in what feels like a more spontaneous manner. In seddit speak, what's happening is that you (we) need to be outcome independent. In other words, don't give a shit what happens at the event. Another view is to go into it for self-amusement. Get there and amuse YOURSELF! Don't try to be anything, or feel like you need to entertain the people you m…
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:27 PM
19

Haha - he wasn't quite done with his workout yet...
/r/seduction12/05/14 02:36 PM
1

Just look and them while you're thinking "I'm going to fuck the shit out of you". Think it don't say it. They will pick up on the subcommunication, I assure you!
/r/seduction06/05/14 05:26 PM
1

You're my hero:) How long have you been waiting to kiss me? Great line. Hope u got the digits, lol!
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:17 PM
44

We'll read the sidebar. Don't tell them you like them, show them. Touching is key. Start by touching on the shoulder when someone is laughing (even a friend, just to start). There is a touch/emotion relationship... Touch at emotional high points. Briefly at first... Under one second... Then you'll get the feel for it. Read about escalation. And look inside their eyes.
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:10 PM
2

It's all about the kino.
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:41 AM
1

Keep it funny, which means YOU think it's funny. And, yes, quickly set up the date, no chit chatting....
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:08 AM
1

Self amusement. They look for guys who are enjoying their lives and can bring them into the fun.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:10 PM
1

Have to agree... It sounds lame but I don't know why and I don't care:)
/r/seduction21/02/14 09:12 AM
3

Do something you think will be fun and/or funny. Think it would be fun to invite them to Paris? Do it! Say, "Hey, let's text each other, I don't feel like talking".... whatever! But like if she answered your question, 'what do you do for fun', then say, let's do it! Or, OMG, I've got something so much better! Whatever, there's also this thing called FORD: http://lifehacker.com/5937348/use-the-ford-technique-to-make-small-talk-easier
/r/seduction20/02/14 08:39 PM
1

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU SAY ITS ALL ABOUT HOW YOU SAY IT. That's it in a nutshell!
/r/seduction20/02/14 08:32 PM
2

Today I said, "so, what are you up to today?" Made for a nice convo.... Really, for me, the thing that really helped was realizing that whatever it was that came to my mind, I should just say it. Often times it's not a matter of having nothing to say, it's that we second guess ourselves and think that what we are about to say is stupid or will not be received well. Fuck that shit, just say the first thing that comes to mind - it doesn't matter what - it's especially good if YOU think it's funny!…
/r/seduction20/02/14 08:28 PM
2

How'd it go?
/r/seduction13/02/14 05:45 AM
1

Looks at you. You smile. She smiles back. Or looks away and looks back at you. But guys are right up above, always assume they want you!
/r/seduction09/02/14 08:12 PM
0

You don't need to be. You can have that mindset and be idling.
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:03 PM
3

Alpha - does what he does and says what he says to amuse himself. Beta - tries to amuse others.
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:00 PM
1

I know, my new girl said, "you are such a MAN", just out of the blue.
/r/seduction04/02/14 06:18 PM
3

LOL. Of course it's insane! Because women are crazy!!!
/r/seduction04/02/14 06:02 PM
4

Reputation that you have many girls is infinitely better than a nice guy rep from my experience.
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:57 PM
1

Once you approach, roll off, if the engage with you, then they want to interact.
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:45 PM
2

Needy = taker. Non-needy = giver.
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:41 PM
3

Can you describe how your last 3 lovers approached you, what they were like, and why you broke up?
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:39 PM
1

Read the f-ing side bar --------> All of it. 1) Start talking to everyone you meet, all the time. Did I say talking? Yes, that, but joking and having fun.... start elevating their own sense of self worth..... yours will follow. If it's a cute girl ask for her number or a date.
/r/seduction24/01/14 12:35 AM
3

Foursome
/r/seduction17/01/14 05:04 AM
14

Joke/tease.... Almost give her the validation she is seeking but not quite, so she wants something more from you:)
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:39 PM
2

Start by training yourself that as soon as you see her you say "hi!". Every time.
/r/seduction10/01/14 03:16 PM
1

Talk about whatever is fun for you to talk about. Have fun and then invite them along for the ride.
/r/seduction08/01/14 04:48 PM
1

Look at the girl and say "come find me", as you walk away.
/r/seduction08/01/14 06:59 AM
0

Cuz ur NOT needy.
/r/seduction08/01/14 02:27 AM
1

Only way to solve this is to bang 10 girls
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:30 AM
1

When they look at you and smile, they want you to talk to them:)
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:08 AM
2

And ask her to a specific thing, like another bar, food whatever
/r/seduction02/01/14 07:59 AM
0

And as the OP said, it's not true.
/r/seduction30/12/13 05:55 PM
3

Congrats!!! Thanks for the story:)
/r/seduction30/12/13 05:48 PM
3

Read the side bar ---->
/r/seduction30/12/13 03:44 AM
9

Yes you have a little nagging bitch voice inside your head that is out to destroy you. I suggest reading or listening to "The Power of Now" by Ekhardt Tolle book about 20 times until you internalize the process of destroying that shitty little bitch that hates you (the voice inside that tells you the bullshit described above). TLDR; recognize the voice when it starts. Observe the voice as a third party. Stop listening to it. Kill it. Be thankful for what you have. Also, you may have low neurotra…
/r/seduction25/12/13 06:26 PM
2

Make it feel good is solid advice! Surely, you must get shut down sometimes, what do?
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:15 PM
1

I love those guys:)
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:04 PM
3

How bout, "hahaha, you're a real keeper, aren't you?"....)
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:10 PM
11

Try, "hi, how are you?", smiling and looking deeply into her eyes like you really care. If they are receptive, talk about anything YOU like. Dismissive, turn your back. If they shame you, just laugh, it's on them, not you.
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:52 PM
1

"Hi, how are you?" - my default opener...
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:45 PM
1

Hey, what comes to mind when you picture a train entering a tunnel, lol
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:44 PM
2

Haha. Back in the early 90's I asked my natural buddy what was the best line to use in a woman. (We called them lines back then). He said, just say "hi, how are you?", and her response will ell you everything you need to know... Either she will be open and receptive, and then you can start a conversation, or, she'll be standoffish, and you can roll off. Or, of course, she'll shame to in which case you know it's her, not you, that is acting in appropriately. It's a great opener.
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:40 PM
1

Yes overthinking. Sure it wasn't f-buddy:)
/r/seduction20/12/13 06:40 PM
14

I don't think so. The repetition helped me to internalize your points. Especially like the term creep shaming. Normally guys are doing the best they can. Creepiness is very subjective. Going up and talking to a woman in a club about whatever it is you want to talk about is not creepy. Polite rejection is easy, I never creep shame women who chat me up that I'm not interested in. Women that do this are not worth the time of day, IMHO. Laughing at them is the best remedy for a creep shame, I find, …
/r/seduction18/12/13 11:44 PM
4

You can be the worst dancer on the floor, but if you love it, girls will dig it. I suggest putting on your favorite tunes, closing yourself in your room, and just dancing. Do it for a few hous, then try it at a club.
/r/seduction18/12/13 04:10 AM
5

Have her meet you at your place. Cuz of parking or whatever. Invite her inside for a moment. Then head out. When you come back it's natural to invite her in.
/r/seduction18/12/13 04:05 AM
1

Why does the actor kill it in the audition? Because he is not in his head, he is in the moment so much that he transports you from your life into the fictional world of the character.
/r/seduction17/12/13 11:46 PM
3

Thank you:) seems accurate.
/r/seduction17/12/13 08:53 AM
4

Yeah, somewhat.... There's song about this: Minglewood blues: "I was born in a desert, raised in a lion's den I was born in a desert, raised in a lion's den And my number one occupation is stealing women from their other men" My take is if I know the guy I don't touch. If I don't know him, and he's not there, and she's not engaged or married, well. Alls fair in love and war they say...
/r/seduction17/12/13 08:51 AM
3

I do "the claw" a lot, which I really like (learned it from a man who lived in a cave). It's quite sensual and makes the girls blush and giggle.
/r/seduction17/12/13 08:30 AM
1

Good effort! All I got is if that line about meeting someone awesome isn't working, don't use it.
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:19 PM
1

Read the side bar, lol ----->
/r/seduction15/12/13 07:34 PM
1

It may be that 'maybe later' means 'maybe something more fun than coffee'..... Wait 4-5 days and ask her to something but ramp it up from coffee. Make it a date date, something that you love doing and can lead to kino, etc :)
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:23 PM
2

Great post! Do I see a little Maud'dib in XVI?
/r/seduction10/12/13 03:41 PM
2

Freinds who consider seduction to be manipulative. Meanwhile we go to a bar, and all they do is sit around telling the same tired stories. Sad, really.
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:04 AM
7

I've even been in groups of guys going who are hoping you fail. Why? Because they are terrified themselves of being rejected and it backs up their own reasons for failing to do so.
/r/seduction09/12/13 06:02 PM
2

You too:)
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:08 PM
1

Sit next to or at 90 degrees from her within touching distance. Pick the place that makes that easy.
/r/seduction06/12/13 07:06 AM
1

Just start talking, they'll pull the headsets out if interested but you'll have to repeat yourself, usually.
/r/seduction06/12/13 07:02 AM
2

In my view, 'That guy' is the one who persists where he is unwanted. Try interjecting into a convo but rolling off immediately unless invited to join the dialog (ie they reply favorably to your remark, laugh or ask u a question).
/r/seduction28/11/13 07:59 AM
3

Yes it's good to think of negging as teasing. Like teasing a kid sister you love.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:43 PM
-3

Strength! I love love love love my girls, all of them, truly madly deeply (ok, really just 2 Main. Squeezes) Love thee one ur with like she's your soul mate. At all times during the interaction, approach to close. It's freaking awesome. I think other guys do it differently, but that's not me:)) PS - hahahaters:)
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:40 PM
4

I have a boyfreind then why are you hitting on me?
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:37 AM
1

What time of day did you game? What venues?
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:29 AM
0

I'm a gonna use this, thank you:)
/r/seduction10/11/13 08:08 AM
1

Read about "IHAB destroyers"
/r/seduction09/11/13 08:07 AM
0

Sorry, but most women met their significant other while they were in a relationship with a different man.
/r/seduction09/11/13 08:04 AM
1

Yes, take her out again. She may just be shy about being public.
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:44 PM
1

Tray asking them out to a particular thing or type of thing before he numberclose
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:49 AM
-1

Treat girls like you did when you were a little kid, except, keep escalating:)
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:43 AM
9

Invite them to something or take them somewhere , ask for their number, go for the kiss or more, or, leave (I think)
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:40 AM
1

Try 20 approaches a week..... At least:)
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:33 PM
2

Tell them your dating other women from the very beginning. My new girl I texted "Now, you know I have another girlfriend.... Is OK?" Took about a dozen texts for her to say OK...
/r/seduction04/11/13 04:39 PM
1

Power of now Dharmapatta Models
/r/seduction04/11/13 04:30 PM
1

Try something completely different... Way out of you comfort zone. Something you find hilarious.
/r/seduction04/11/13 11:38 AM
2

Well, I pursue relentlessly til they stop texting. Girl I slept with last weekend has been dating me once a month since Jan!!! Above text, I would not have responded after her response. I take rejections as shit tests, but sometimes they are just rejections.... EDIT: I think you have to be really spotty and aloof in your texting. And when you do to out, talk to other people and girls, leave her with other people, etc...
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:14 AM
0

In my view, what they say works on them is not what works on them.
/r/seduction30/10/13 06:23 AM
1

Something like this. Def worth an honest shot.
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:10 PM
1

Immediately, without thinking, walk up to the girl, put your hand out and say, " Hi, I'm KingGorda"
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:04 PM
0

Read the power of now. Your pain body is killing you.
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:45 PM
1

We all do it at work... But i am not gay... Today, lol
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:42 PM
2

I don't drink or rec it. You did great. Next time remember the 3 second rule - approach the very first girl you see and say anything, doesn't matter. Expect rejection, and keep moving. Also, read "The power of now" - by Elkhart tolle, it will help you kill the nagging little bitch in your head! Why do you listen to it anyway? It doesn't want to help you.
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:40 PM
2

Most HBs have not just a boyfriend du jour, but a line of guys in the friend zone. You can look up "IHAB" destroyers, but generally those claims are best ignored. The fact is most HB's met their significant other while they were in a relationship with a different guy.
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:36 PM
1

No pain no gain. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. That said, after about 100 approaches, the fear that once made you sick, will start to make you feel alive, excited and engaged.
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:31 PM
2

Call or text?
/r/seduction24/10/13 05:41 PM
2

No. Do not put off self improvement
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:03 PM
2

And it makes them feel great:)
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:01 PM
1

Maslow is much superior to circle, IMHO. Very clear. I would add "being present" at the bottom.
/r/seduction24/10/13 12:48 PM
1

And during your day....
/r/seduction04/10/13 07:54 AM
1

"Deep, Identity level change" - Owen Cook
/r/seduction17/09/13 07:49 PM
1

Say, I didn't come out to get drunk. I came out to say hello to women I find interesting.
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:20 PM
3

I do a screen capture of the contact info as soon as I get it... Works for me.
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:17 PM
4

Ignore unless it's a personal Freind. Most women found their significant other while they were already in a relationship with another guy.
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:04 PM
1

Hey, you may want to talk to a professional coach who can observe you in feild. Also, I would suggest to stop trying to have conversations and start trying to have positive upbeat interactions with people, no matter how short they may be. This may be a sentence or 3 or just a look and a smile. Try things you think are funny. It seems like you MIGHT be coming off a needy, in other words, you need their approval to make you feel validated. TLDR; don't have conversations,have fun.
/r/seduction14/09/13 04:38 PM
3

You did do something. More than most:) one step at a time. Next time make some approaches. Feel that anxiety rise up in you, feed off the cortisol and adrenaline and get a rush out of it!
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:56 AM
1

By talking about the stuff your interested in... Knowing a lot about it... And projecting that excitement, regardless of how the other person reacts.... You can also chat about what interests them...
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:47 AM
2

Will this work in a bar?
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:38 AM
1

YouTube rsdtyler
/r/seduction13/09/13 05:28 AM
1

"Not when you get her clothes off, LOL"
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:31 AM
1

IDK, but once you're 18, you can't touch her til she's 18!
/r/seduction07/09/13 01:00 AM
-3

OMFG. Godlike
/r/seduction06/09/13 08:31 PM
1

Nice... Or on her back...
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:26 AM
0

From the inside out, ;)
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:23 AM
1

Not really. Try experimenting with different ways of dealing with it, like saying "I get nervous sometimes when I'm excited" or some shit. Generally though just ignore it. Most girls will too, if not move on. Also realize the most suave guys get shut down all the time;)
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:21 AM
2

Wow. You just spoke to me in a deep and profound way:) So, obviously, you can. Now, did it take some courage to make that post? I've never posted anything so honest. Anyway, take that courage and apply it to your first approach. Read everything in the side bar. Read Models by Mark Manson, watch a bunch of tylerrsd videos on YouTube. And instead of thinking how to have a conversation, instead convey energy and emotion. Go up to someone, say hi, how are you? (or whatever), then roll off, your done…
/r/seduction06/09/13 08:40 AM
5

Discovering this community 9 months ago, it seems to me that the old 'masters' may have first learned MM, and then went off into all of the inner game stuff. I think they have internalized all of the MM stuff, so that their dialog and interactions with women, although not canned, follows a very similar path to MM (in general but not always). That said, it is the inner game stuff that is incredibly effective. However, it was crucial for me to learn about things like shit-tests, negging (teasing),…
/r/seduction06/09/13 01:41 AM
-5

Yeah, I was trying to chat up the hottest girl in the club, outside the club after closing one night. I wasn't really getting anywhere. Then my wing comes up and dancing around singing, "Cha-cha-cha, cha-cha-cha!!!" Which cracked the girl up, double her over so that she crumpled to her knees in front of us giggleing "cha-cha-cha".... Well, got me her number, anyway....
/r/seduction05/09/13 05:15 PM
1

No lies. They don't really care about age.
/r/seduction05/09/13 09:22 AM
1

Best to think of it as what's underneath in an inner game sense, girls are more emotionally keyed than physically
/r/seduction05/09/13 09:19 AM
2

First off, don't wait til the end of the evening. When you're both laughing, stop, look in her eyes and say come here.... then read the side bar! OK - Here it is: "Kissing Be bold when you go for kisses. Try early and often. It's important. Equally important is being a good kisser. Women are substantially more likely to date & sleep with men who are GOOD KISSERS. One common mistake men make is waiting until the end of the night to go for the kiss. Doing this raises the awkward quotient substanti…
/r/seduction05/09/13 03:14 AM
2

LOL, I had sex with this girl 2 weeks ago and called her the wrong name the whole time and she never corrected me!
/r/seduction05/09/13 03:09 AM
23

Obviously, she's not out of your league, LOL:)
/r/seduction05/09/13 03:00 AM
2

Grab onto their hips
/r/seduction03/09/13 02:04 PM
1

Funny, 'cause they're both role playing:)
/r/seduction03/09/13 02:14 AM
1

I just read about the first half - great info. Extremely well written.
/r/seduction03/09/13 02:09 AM
1

Yes! For some reason, some women will let you get all crazy with their neck, even if they are to reticent to kiss. Let's them know it is not about being friends:)
/r/seduction03/09/13 02:03 AM
2

I let them know I have other girlfriends from the start.
/r/seduction03/09/13 12:25 AM
2

From living in Thailand, let me say this is the perception, but the reality is marriage (or the hope thereof) is the way they extract vast sums of cash from the poor "in love" guy before dumping him and going back to their Thai boyfriend/husband, LOL. That said, I've have seen some great successes as well.
/r/seduction02/09/13 09:44 PM
3

What country? I was just on an island..... Just tell them straight up that you are a butterfly and have lots of girlfriends.
/r/seduction02/09/13 09:39 PM
2

No
/r/seduction02/09/13 08:43 PM
4

You can keep a cheat sheet in the phone for your nightly strategies. You can number close by handing the girl your phone with the keyboard pulled up (goota go soon, give me you number and I'll text you out). Make instanotes in her contact (HB8, hiking, nurse, Asian, receptive, neutral, xxx bar) I have an iphone and its easy to do a screen capture of the contact immediately, so I don't forget. Always text immediately.
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:59 AM
1

It is for me. I know that the greatest impediment to my finding love is neediness and acting like my old AFC self. Deep identity level change rebuilds who you are in a way they find attractive and lovable.
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:51 AM
2

As a non drinker, let me say they won't notice. And if they do, I just tell them I don't drink. But always have a glass of something in your hand.. Orange juice on the rocks, whatever.... Bring a bunch of ginger beer or something
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:31 AM
8

+1 thanks all.
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:28 AM
1

How bout an algorithm for deep throats or not, etc.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:26 PM
-8

Say shit that YOU think is funny. Add LOL, HAHA, &:), etc
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:32 PM
2

Outstanding. Deserves an OP
/r/seduction27/08/13 05:14 AM
2

Saw a gambler video where he suggest standing side by side and letting your legs touch...
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:35 AM
5

The core of female attraction is emotion, for the most part..
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:28 AM
5

I was out in Perth for a few months a few years ago. For those who don't know it, Perth has the babes! There's a few hot spots on the planet, and Perth is one of them. Wish I was there!
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:21 AM
2

I suck at texting but I'm getting better. Normally the first thing that pops into your head is the best. Keep it funny, which sometimes simply means ending the text with an LOL, HAHA, or :)
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:47 AM
1

I live in yours HAHAHAHAHA!
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:01 AM
1

OMG stop talking us all to death and kiss him!
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:00 AM
3

More on hookers. Start at Wynn disco - loaded with hookers but also has regular girls. Number close, flirt with, rub all over the hookers (some will make out with you but...). This will DHV you to the hen patrols and make them easier to open. Also gets you in state, since, for the hookers, you literally are the prize. My 2 cents. But in general, Vegas is disgusting, IMHO.
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:46 AM
1

I don't drink , so I use that feeling, those chemical reactions as my social lubricant.
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:15 AM
1

And kino. And let her know you want her.
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:09 AM
1

Thanks for going to the boot camp, those guys give a lot of free shot out and I think they deserve a bit of payback.
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:07 AM
14

Act like you already fucked her, and it's no big deal.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:55 AM
2

touch and be the first to break contact. What I do - meet, hug, step away. chit chat a little. say "let's go", and grab her hand to lead her for like 3 seconds, or immediately after she's following you.
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:54 PM
2

single date.
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:52 PM
2

Technically, that's assault.
/r/seduction20/08/13 09:41 AM
1

We all have this nasty little bitch inside our head that torments us. It's this voice: "I fucking hate myself because of this flaw sometimes. I'm laying in bed, wishing I had someone there with me, and think 'well, whose fault is it that nobody's here? YOURS. IT'S YOUR FUCKING FAULT, YOU PUSSY.'" First do nothing more than identify it when it speaks. Second, stop listening to it. Third, kill it. This is all explained in detail in the book, "the power of now" by Tolle. Get the audio book and list…
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:17 AM
2

My favs: "So do my girlfriends" "Then why are you hitting on me?" "Whoa! Get your mind out of the gutter girl, I am not that easy!" "Don't tell me about your problems, we're having fun"
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:11 AM
1

Disagree. They all have boyfriends. My #1 keeps telling me she's in a 'committed relationship' every time she come over go fool around, LOL
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:09 AM
1

It can be tough and really depends on the severity of the shut Down.... I got a number and a laugh once from a BF rejection with "OK, you can call me in 6 months" or something... Not that anything ever came of it....
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:16 AM
3

Yoga.
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:21 AM
1

Drinks. But I don't drink.
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:20 AM
1

Newbie here - Normally they are on the dance floor to dance so I don't try to engage in convo there, just like "Hi, I'm 1vibe" (handshake, spin her, dance), then pull her off the floor for short convo interlude.
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:18 AM
5

This is a great principle/post. I remember listening to a post by Tyler that said he sometimes approaches women and has no idea what he's going to say, as he's approaching he thinks, "HAHAHA, I have no idea what to say, geez, this might be awkward!" I've used that mindset a number of time to great success. Be comfortable at being awkward says it all, thanks!
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:10 AM
9

I high five when hiking. I never ask, though, just hold up my hand, look in there eyes and smile. Works 75% of the time. Takes a little practice at first. Number closed a model/actress that way.
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:00 AM
1

My favorites are along the lines of: "I don't mind......" or "I'm very discreet" "Thats OK, So do my girlfriends" "Then why are you hitting on me?" "Whoa! Get your mind out of the gutter girl, I just want to go xxxxxxxx!" In general I completely ignore boyfriend comments, I do believe that mostly they are shit tests and HB8+ always have some guy they are seeing. Like just keep talking for a few minutes and ask again.... Monday night I had my favorite keep telling me she was in a committed relati…
/r/seduction09/08/13 04:17 AM
2

You have to re-habituate yourself. Just remember not staring means it's more likely that you can caress them later. That said, there is a point in the convo where the girl will intentionally shift her body in such a way that she wants you to look - but you have to be careful because it can also be a shit test. The response is key, I'm not saying I have it down, but what has worked best for me is to pause talking, check her out in front of her so she knows I'm doing it, look back up into her eyes…
/r/seduction08/08/13 05:18 PM
3

Read this sub and find another, darlin':)
/r/seduction08/08/13 05:13 AM
2

I found it! At least, I think this is it: It's David Wygant http://www.mediafire.com/?aperi484rb1f56b http://www.mediafire.com/?qju9iwmqkawc6cr Hopefully this is it. In it he says when you approach a woman at Starbucks (or similar), you want to become "Starbucks guy", and you conversely can refer to her as Starbucks girl - let me know if this is the right one! What it does is, it creates a persona around you like a character from a Hugh Grant movie. You become bigger than life. Even if you were …
/r/seduction07/08/13 10:21 PM
2

Start by asking directions or the time, has been suggested. "Excuse me, is there a good coffee shop around here?" Anything. Say hi as you walk by the next 10 people, do not wait for a response. Keep walking.
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:14 PM
2

I'm very impressed with your tenacity and ability to control your fears. Well done! Funny you should have anxiety about being the "guy from the supermarket", there's an hour long video around here somewhere explaining why that's exactly the guy you want to be - the guy she's talking to her Freinds about. I even wonder if she knew you'd be at the party.....
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:08 PM
4

And how does this make YOU special?
/r/seduction07/08/13 04:36 PM
1

"At least you have the balls to try"
/r/seduction07/08/13 07:28 AM
2

I suck at texting but here's my 2 cents: "Her: Ahahah if I don't hv plans xD" Was a shit test. I would have tried, "you do now, meet me at x" You put her in control when you said "find out", I think. You can still send "meet me at x", IMHO. Maybe add something funny....
/r/seduction07/08/13 12:07 AM
1

Wow - 2 questions for the naysayers: 1) OK, then at what point in seducing a woman is it OK to first touch her boob? 2) Why is it OK in clubs for women to grab other women's boob's and how is permission obtained?
/r/seduction05/08/13 09:47 PM
1

OK, then at what point in seducing a woman is it OK to first touch her boob?
/r/seduction05/08/13 09:45 PM
1

Hi, I'm sff. Extend hand. Intro wing (he's cool because he blah bblah). What's the best ride?
/r/seduction05/08/13 10:02 AM
1

May I suggest approaching when you don't feel like it. Weirdly enough, it works for me. Not every time, but when it clicks you suddenly get into state.
/r/seduction05/08/13 08:49 AM
7

Oh shit, I did this Friday night. Makeout. 1st base. Penis scratching. Man, I don't even want to post this....
/r/seduction05/08/13 08:39 AM
0

Thailand?
/r/seduction03/08/13 09:41 AM
2

Movies. Verbal games https://www.google.com/search?q=verbal+games&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en&client=safari Tell ME 5 secrets about yourself one of which is a lie, I'll guess the lie
/r/seduction03/08/13 02:31 AM
1

Day game. But I like your method.
/r/seduction02/08/13 06:51 PM
1

Gotta lay some cable
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:36 PM
-1

Don't you guys get to do a short term marriage or something?
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:21 PM
18

I have a wing who is a veteran and been through some deep shit. He's good looking and ripped. True alpha. does not do or care about pickup. We pick up these two girls the other day and all he does is give this girl shit and she can't get enough of it. But it's not shitty shit, it's deep penetrating "little club girl in a mini dress, you don't know enough to have an opinion" kind of shit. She was trying to Qualify herself to him for an hour. They're going out tomorrow.
/r/seduction02/08/13 07:03 AM
1

Leaving them feeling better than before you interacted with them.
/r/seduction02/08/13 06:56 AM
55

So what, you tried to kiss her when she took you alone into her room - who wouldn't? I'm sure she expected you too. You can tease her about this. You can say this if it becomes a social circle issue. You can let all the girls know if they take you alone into their room you will try to kiss them. I think when you got to the room she simply threw you some shit-tests and LMR. Maybe you could have gently, slowly pulled her hands away from her face.... You manned up. You went in for the kiss. You did…
/r/seduction01/08/13 11:17 PM
0

Technically, the answer is yes.
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:42 PM
3

"The Power of Now - Tolle", "Daring Greatly - Brene Brown"
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:25 PM
2

I met my stripper through her sister (who had a crush on me), I don't really know how to game them in a venue, although I know guys who have. It usually involves closing time, and inviting them to party, I think.... That said, my stripper was a stone cold freak. I remember one time she was talking to her mom on the phone and giving me a BJ at the same time;p Beware they most likely have some weird issues.... real fixer uppers!
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:13 PM
9

And don't forget to kino
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:02 PM
5

Oops, I got 4/4 responses on OKC from that first text!!! 2 girls I texted your watermelon/pancakes - no response. 3rd girl I asked what song describes her most romantic evening - texted back and forth a bit. 4th girl I changed watermelon to guava jelly and pancakes to flapjacks - she just texted "orgasm LOL" Good stuff!
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:28 PM
5

Just cut to the chase and ask her out - it's what she's wanting.
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:27 AM
1

+1
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:22 AM
2

Remember HIV is far more easily transmitted by blood than vaginal fluid.
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:21 AM
1

1 vote for lost cause.... But you can go back, walk in, ask for her number, and leave if you must. Anything more, you're just a customer. Dated one stripper for about a year.
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:17 AM
2

Not bad, I might have said, "HAHAHA, just kidding!"
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:06 AM
1

Thanks! I also see these as IOI's: girl looks at me then stands nearby, even with back turned. Girl looks at me then starts talking/laughing loudly, acting crazy. Girl bumps into me/ brushes breasts against me. Then, there's the old girl drops handkerchief or something... In Thailand, women bat both there eyes at the same time (but it really means let's go home together).
/r/seduction01/08/13 04:44 AM
3

Models, again.
/r/seduction01/08/13 02:00 AM
1

YUP!
/r/seduction01/08/13 01:41 AM
3

Why do you go to the club?
/r/seduction01/08/13 01:40 AM
1

I call it the bewitching hour - 12:30am - close, and outdoors afterwards. Don't like to get there before midnight.
/r/seduction01/08/13 01:39 AM
1

The good men are all around you, they most likely don't look like wanna be rap artists or male models. They want to be loved truly, madly, and deeply. Try initiating with shy guys who don't seem to be the life of the party. The more interesting ones will be the alpha-betas, leaders of small groups of male nerds. Many of the best guys I know have a hard time approaching girls, and they even shy away from Seddit or pickup because they think that it is, well, cheating or something. You'll still hav…
/r/seduction31/07/13 09:54 PM
1

Models. Nice guy is a bit hard edged, IMHO. I mean I read a hint of bitterness in it, but that's just me.
/r/seduction31/07/13 04:13 AM
4

Read by MM himself - on audible.com
/r/seduction31/07/13 03:56 AM
2

Stop projecting your future reality on what's happening now, the fantasy future where your happily married with kids. Kill the nagging little bitch inside your head telling you not to touch her - touch her - polarize and be willing to take the loss. You are afraid of losing something you do not have. Then again, what the fuck do I know??? :) PS - and realiZe that your current behavior is self defeating, it's exactly the opposite of what you need to do. Destroy the pattern of thoughts and emotion…
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:22 PM
3

Be honest in your intentions; let the girl know you are attracted to her (including sexually if that is the case) and that is why you approached her. Polarize her; putting the above on the table, you now let her know it is her turn to reciprocate. If she's not interested, move on. It's a waste of your time to continue to pursue, and hers.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:49 PM
2

"Tonic with a twist of line in a small glass" Indistinguishable from a gin & tonic. Had one girl say, "that's why I like you, we drink gin & tonics"
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:11 AM
1

And attract fucked up women.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:07 AM
7

Give up on monogamy. Read "Sex at Dawn"
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:07 AM
2

Try treating every woman you're with like you've been with her for years, or you're married. Assume you're already in a relationship, after all, you are. Let them initiate texts. Always leave them with the last text. Let them develops attraction for you. Don't deny them their innate desire to have to chase you a little bit.... One of my great relationships came from a one night stand... Lasted 4 years
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:29 PM
1

Make her laugh. Be funny. Set up a date
/r/seduction21/07/13 09:37 AM
6

Yes. Women get their power when they're young, and it wains. Men get it as they become older & wiser.
/r/seduction18/07/13 02:42 PM
2

Everything is a reference, I appreciate all.
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:05 PM
1

+1. Tried two girls at once last Thursday. One was the hottest girl in the bar.... Worked.
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:33 AM
1

HAHA! I had a girl back into me dancing the other night and start grinding all over me then turned around, stumbled away and fell down in the middle of the dance floor.....
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:31 AM
1

Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovitt. It don't matter.
/r/seduction13/07/13 10:52 AM
1

Number close. Screen capture contact
/r/seduction13/07/13 10:49 AM
1

Fing brilliant, thank you!
/r/seduction13/07/13 10:45 AM
1

Yes. Approach women you do not want to date. Men too. Just say, "hi, how are you?" That's it. Does not need to be any further dialog.
/r/seduction12/07/13 05:30 PM
7

Just say hi, how are you. If they're standoffish, just roll off. Do it to all. It gets easier
/r/seduction11/07/13 04:09 AM
0

Girl Z. First date no kiss. Setting up second date I told her we were going to kiss at the end of the night. She replied, "if ur that horny I'll not see you". OK, I did not text back, no date. Two months later after she's texted me a few times we have a second date, I get bare tit and a hand job. So, my conclusion is some of their rejections are just shit tests....
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:12 AM
-4

"Its", "they're", please! Personally I loved to be touched, too!
/r/seduction05/07/13 07:19 PM
1

You know what? I lived in Thailand for 2 years. Thai vacation is always refreshing!!! :)
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:03 AM
1

I've kinda gone away from kissing and just kino kino kino....
/r/seduction05/07/13 08:59 AM
3

All hot women have 'boyfriends' all the time. Ignore them (the BF) if you want to play at their level. They do.
/r/seduction04/07/13 10:05 PM
16

my fav - "I have a BF", me - "cool! So do my girlfriends!". In your case: "so do my girlfriends, and they LOVE lesbians!"
/r/seduction04/07/13 05:56 AM
3

You have to move it into the back seat. Although I have laid down the seats and gone for it, again park in the rear. I used to have an old beast with a bench seat that helped. I have a indoor theater I go to that has arm rests that fold up, helps considerably. But I find the theater is great, it's super easy to kino and almost expected that your going to make out. Bring a jacket that you can throw over her legs when she gets cold. Don't ask just toss it over after the movie starts. Then you can …
/r/seduction04/07/13 04:47 AM
-1

Movies actually work for me. Get a seat in the back row.... That's what it's for! And then.... There's always the drive-in.....
/r/seduction03/07/13 07:50 AM
4

Later, pull it out in the bedroom.....
/r/seduction28/06/13 11:19 PM
3

No. Go to where women go to socialize, that's why they go there!
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:59 PM
-3

Never take advice about women from women. They will tell you this, but in reality, my guess is that this woman is going out with an alpha that broke all her rules..... aren't you?
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:54 PM
-5

My women loved to be touched. Thank God.
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:46 PM
1

No, you're not a "nice guy" in the modern context. You are a natural alpha. For most people, what you find easy, is incredibly difficult. Could you describe in detail how you physically escalated in your last sexual relationship?
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:43 PM
1

Odd. But am the opposite.
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:06 AM
1

Wanna know why this FR is so awesome? You didn't start with "what time is it?", you jumped straight to "Hi, I think you're cute!" - Talk about manning up!
/r/seduction28/06/13 04:44 AM
2

Try 5-htp. Its a naturally occurring serotonin precursor available at health food stores and vitacost.com. If you have low serotonin, you will feel depressed. Same is true for Dopamine (try tyrosine) and acetylcholine (try lecithin)
/r/seduction28/06/13 12:59 AM
2

This one. Basically - turn off your inner bitch that is continually telling you how fucked up you are, or how you fucked up, or whatever negative thoughts the little bitch wants to tell you now to make your life miserable. Did I say turn it off? Kill it.
/r/seduction26/06/13 09:44 PM
1

don't imprison your mind with negative thoughts !
/r/seduction26/06/13 09:33 PM
1

Interesting. I used to repeat this to myself in my teens after I read the book!
/r/seduction26/06/13 01:31 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction26/06/13 01:27 AM
33

You mantra for the month: "next time I will not hesitate"
/r/seduction24/06/13 07:49 PM
1

Liked: Don’t give a shit. Not giving a shit is hard to fake and I’ve yet to meet a successful player that cared. Always scout the chicks. If you aren’t picking the right girls that are most suitable and probable to be banged by you, you’re wasting your time. Approach at least 7 girls a week. If you’re not doing this, you’re not exploiting your true potential. Money, cars, houses, jobs are NOT why men get laid – Game is. Get this in your head and you can achieve anything. If you don’t see her aga…
/r/seduction21/06/13 08:12 PM
2

It's a win cuz you did it. It's like riding a bike, practice practice practice. Good attitude, you'll be fine!
/r/seduction21/06/13 07:33 PM
5

At Coachella, I started asking women with bright red lipstick for kisses - had about 6 all over my face. First 2 were rejections, after the first one, the rest were easy. Try to get them on your neck.
/r/seduction19/06/13 04:50 PM
1

How about this? When I'm out on the floor, I try holding my hand out to a girl, if she grabs it, I spin her and get a little more intimate. Seems to work, I've even done two girls at once, then I become the guy that's dancing with two hotties.... But I could use some number/kiss/f-close insight - what is a good way to pull them?
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:00 PM
4

The power of Now
/r/seduction18/06/13 03:49 PM
1

OK, maybe you've flipped the script and are now responding like a woman you are gaming. Perhaps shes rejecting you because she feels "as they keep their interest with me, but I feel like I've already passed the challenge and lose interest really quickly, wanting to move on within days." They feel like you do - what would make one of your yes girls more attractive to you?
/r/seduction18/06/13 03:48 PM
2

Your "flaws" are actually endearing quirks. What you need more of is self generated self-esteem, instead of seeking approval outwardly. One one woman might think of as "creepy", for another it will be exactly what makes you attractive. IMHO.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:30 PM
1

In short, yes, of course, if you leave them feeling good about themselves, even better!
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:39 AM
1

Just say, "Hi, how are you?". If they give you a negative response on that one, you don't want to talk to them anyway!
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:18 PM
1

I think, as critical as natural game is, those materials provide the foundation to build your skills on.... Although I have not read 'body language' I like MM because it gives a clear do A then B Then C methodology that is easy to follow. It gets you into an experimental mindset, where you are able to take yourself out of the interaction and watch the social dynamics that are happening when you talk to a girl. Since you are using a formula dialog, it is clear that her reactions are not based on …
/r/seduction10/06/13 03:39 PM
1

Yes! Try one where instead of talking about where she's from ask ger where she's going. Also, go into one where your mindset is its your intent is to get rejected. Push boundaries.
/r/seduction09/06/13 05:53 PM
1

How bout jokingly, "I'm leaving now, put your number in my phone and I'll text you from the men's room, haha"
/r/seduction09/06/13 05:41 PM
1

1/3 method. Shit, sounds good.
/r/seduction06/06/13 01:39 AM
2

I'd love to know too, you kind of write how I do....
/r/seduction06/06/13 01:33 AM
1

I thought you did pretty good, maybe one question less per message would be better. I would have asked her out after she :p the Baskin Robbins thing. I don't know why she didn't bite. Maybe she took that last line about "riveting conversation" the wrong way.... But no matter. Wait a week and just ask her out for a particular event/meetup/drinks.
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:02 PM
2

Old than pickup sticks, yet strangely, I find myself dating mostly 25-30 year old women. The older ones are like, hardened or something. The one take away from that show is that these guys were at the point in their career where they did not know if they would make it or not. But they did not give a fuck. They gave it all away to us. Came off the stage, hung out, acted normal. They gave value. They did not seek approval. Found some more info, it was at a venue called Club Culture, which, as I re…
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:44 AM
4

I don't know, but unhappy will attract some. I chatted up and HB8 at a cafe today who had a large tatoo on her thigh that read, "sadness is a blessing". She would have loved you!
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:18 AM
-5

Funny. I numbered closed an HB9 actress off the sidewalk in H-wood las thursday started with, "Where do I park for this hotel", moved to "are you a ladyboy?", Number closed, but no text back.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:15 AM
2

I like day game. Try that, too. Minimal effort. See girl. Walk up and say "hi, how are you?" Repeat.
/r/seduction01/06/13 07:21 AM
1

Approach everybody all the time. Don't wait for the hottie, practice on everybody, watch what you do with guys and average women. Do that when you see the hotties. Thrive on rejection Dare to be stupid Learn from every approach. In 6 months I have gone from sheer terror to a number every day or two. Read "the power of now". Tell the bitch to fuck off. Face it you should have broken up with her years ago
/r/seduction01/06/13 07:11 AM
1

Please read this: (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/) "I put her number into my phone. I always ask for her last name, she always gives it to me. Just one more little thing she has "invested". If I haven't built a ton of attraction, I will try to hook a little more here, by saying something like "You're single and like guys, right?" or "You know I'm going to ask you out, right?" They always give an overly enthusiastic "yeah!" and it seems to imp…
/r/seduction31/05/13 04:49 PM
1

I find its critical to let the convo flow int other topics and never worry about finishing a storyline. Then, you can pick up dangling threads if the convo lulls.
/r/seduction27/05/13 04:50 PM
1

"if I don't open her I'll feel like a total pussy for the rest of the week." - good advice, thnx
/r/seduction27/05/13 04:47 PM
3

Got any tips on how he was coaching his students?
/r/seduction27/05/13 04:43 PM
81

Don't be disappointed if you have a high flake rate. I saw the Chili Peppers in the late 80's and only about 20 people showed up, yet they threw down as hard as if they were playing a stadium....
/r/seduction27/05/13 04:39 PM
-4

Pull phone from pocket, walk away texting.
/r/seduction24/05/13 08:19 AM
1

Two weeks ago I simply asked out 6 hotter OKC's on a specific (cool) date as a first message. 1 replied with a yes. A model/actress. K-close. Ask ASAP, IMHO.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:49 AM
1

4 times is nothing. You have an infinite number of chances.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:49 PM
1

Is this true?
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:14 PM
3

Dubai... I would imagine you're into some odd customs there - not to mention laws. I would observe the interactions of others around you - see if you can find someone who is approaching. In the meantime - be prepared to fail, and try some radically different approaches, although my favorite fallback is "Hi, how are you?" Maybe try, "Is it legal to ask a woman out in this country?" or something cheeky like that....
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:13 PM
1

See: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:08 PM
2

try something like these: http://www.amazon.com/Etymotic-Research-ETY-Plugs-Protection-Earplugs/dp/B0044DEESS http://www.earplugstore.com/profmusearpl1.html Play them off by saying you are an audiophile and respect your ears.
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:44 PM
7

You've got to roll the dice. Sometimes your cards aren't worth a dime if you don't lay them down. As far as the exact text..... not sure.... but - http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:39 PM
5

You had me at "Hey Guys"
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:42 AM
1

1) make that tonic with a twist of lime
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:55 AM
13

It's time to take him aside and have that talk.
/r/seduction14/05/13 12:46 AM
2

1) There is a whiny little bitch voice inside your head telling you that you can't do it - kill it, don't listen to it. 2) Approach all the time without fore-thought, a simple, "Hi, how are you" will suffice. 3) Add value to their day - and remember that the interaction is adding value to both of your days. 4) You are the prize. 5)
/r/seduction13/05/13 09:08 PM
1

I have never in my life noticed that about anyone.
/r/seduction13/05/13 08:57 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/seduction13/05/13 08:48 PM
1

anxious to do what?
/r/seduction10/05/13 04:29 PM
0

Wish I lived in Nashville! Good luck, gentlemen!
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:51 PM
8

I was watching some PUA stuff on youtube. James Marshall. He suggests just sitting down or blowing into the group, saying "hi how are you" and then say nothing. Leave an awkward pause for them to engage you. Suggests that the girls will follow the path of least resistance, ie, it's easier for them to let you sit there than to try to get you to leave. If they do say something negative answer with "I guess this doesn't happen to you very often". I don't know... worth a shot....
/r/seduction09/05/13 04:46 PM
0

Sounds like a good plan. will try.
/r/seduction09/05/13 04:40 PM
1

It's all fun, rejection is fun. Experimenting with openers and kino is fun (last night I tried "lets make out"). Really just need to go inside your head and change it there. Try repeating, "I'm having fun" and faking a smile over and over Til it sticks. Use it as an opener. Think of a night out as playing your favorite game. Game. Treat it like a game in your head. When the boss kills you, you get another chance! That said, I don't like clubs very much either... Try to find one with a quiet area…
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:41 PM
1

I'm reading 'models', this guy says that girls fall into 3 categories they are not attracted, neutral and attracted (or similar). The writer suggests that you only go after the neutral, or attracted group, not that the unnattracted group is impossible, just a lot more work....
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:22 PM
1

Change venues.
/r/seduction26/04/13 07:59 AM
1

Do you know any other interesting (bars, clubs, coffee shops, malls, areas, hikes, beaches, concerts, bands, galleries, whatever) around here? Then, which is her favorite? Why? Then tell her about some cool place, thing, event.
/r/seduction26/04/13 07:57 AM
1

The purpose is to not think. To turn off your inner dialog.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:05 AM
1

For me, The key is to turn off my inner chatter, and listen to what she is saying. Be present. Relax. Enjoy. Act like your talking to your best Freind.... You wouldn't be thinking about anything, your just talking. When those negative thoughts come up, pretend they are a TV in the room and tune them out. If your talking, talk about stuff you love. Be passionate. Touch.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:02 AM
2

Practice with girls you are NOT interested in.
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:53 AM
3

Wrong forum
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:50 AM
6

Works great at coffee shops. Sit next to HB. Ask her to watch computer. Return. Chat more. I saw an article about this in Psychology Today many years ago. Tried to find it, but only came up with: "1) Ask a Favor Rather than "putting yourself out there", get the other person to invest a little first. Ask them to do something for you. Make a request. This could even be something small like, "could you grab me a straw"? Or, "could you watch my stuff for a minute while I get a coffee"? Frankly, any …
/r/seduction24/04/13 04:23 PM
2

Take the time to get good pics posted.
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:35 AM
17

My take away is treat them all like a shit test
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:31 AM
1

LOL. Commenting on my own post because she just texted me today after all this time!
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:24 AM
1

"Get your mind out of the gutter girl, what are you thinking!?" Mock shock. I want to take you to the whatever it was. That is my intention.
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:13 AM
1

What I've done is get a girl on each side. Kiss one, then kiss the other one. Kinda scary but it's worked! Then one time, this one bi girl told me she would only go home with me if I took the straight girl she was interested in home too... That was weird. She still never got any from the straight girl, but whatever...... :-p
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:10 AM
2

Interesting. Take your boyfriend to a lesbian bar, kiss him, but also flirt with all the other girls.....???
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:06 AM
1

I want to do a long OP on this, but the next girl you see, walk up and simply say "Hi, how are you?". If she's bitchy, turn your back, if not... Ask a follow up like "do you know any cool xxxxx (coffee shop, bars, restaurants, etc) around here?" That is an easy starter. If that's too scary, say it to three people you know. Then three you don't, but are not really interested in, then try three girls, then 3 HB's. hope that helps......
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:00 AM
1

Janet Palmer
/r/seduction19/04/13 03:52 PM
2

Thread: "hey, do you guys know any other cool places to go to around here?", "What's you favorite place", "why do you like that place", "Lets go!"
/r/seduction19/04/13 03:48 PM
1

Thrive on rejection!!!
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:20 AM
1

NP. "The Power of Now"
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:51 PM
1

Agree, the talk isn't as important as the touching - you can be talking about anything, but when your hand is stroking the back of her neck and your talking check to cheek, she'll know well that the threshold has been crossed.
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:48 PM
5

Good on you! Only advice is to talk to them all, not just the cute girls. Help people have a better day.
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:45 PM
0

Don't flirt with just one girl - flirt with them all! Touch the shoulder or arm within the first 30 sec's. Jump you A1's. Leave a group in A1, go A1 another group, come back to first group for A2, repeat.
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:00 PM
1

Read "The Power of Now"
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:44 PM
2

Try asking where she would like to travel and what they would like to do when they get there. Basically try to take them out of story telling into fantasy. Try asking about their childhood like did they want to be a (whatever occupation) when they were a little girl? Try playing games too.
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:41 PM
2

HAHA! What's karma?
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:55 PM
-1

I think she had decided on you when she said. "You're totally rubbing off on me." After all 'rubbing off' is female slang for jerking off. Which to me indicates she had been masturbating to you. Next day, she breaks up with bf. But WTF do I know....?
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:49 PM
1

"You think I'm fat? Then you won't get to pat the Buddha belly or ride the jade stalk!"
/r/seduction02/04/13 06:16 AM
3

THIS: You have an infinite number of lives. No matter how many times you are killed on approach, you always get another chance.
/r/seduction02/04/13 06:10 AM
2

I agree. He has a deep core understanding of the social dynamics that are happening. He's the scientist of the community, IMHO.
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:21 AM
1

"The cologne has been identified as Acqua Di Gio aka Panty Dropper"
/r/seduction31/03/13 01:17 AM
2

Congrats!
/r/seduction31/03/13 12:11 AM
7

I hope hand-shaking counts! ;-))
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:40 PM
9

The eye game is normal flirting. It's all about timing and how you look at them. I often look at them with a look of interest, and then look away. If a woman is still looking back at you with interest, force yourself to walk over to them and say "Hi, how are you?". If they are pleasant, ask them what cool things there are to do around here. Then ask them to go do it with you.
/r/seduction29/03/13 05:56 PM
1

Touching. Smelling. Kissing
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:37 PM
2

Decide for her.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:35 PM
1

"I told her we're not dating and I don't care." Good enough. Proceed like nothing happened if you want an open relationship. Ask her if her has any diseases if it comes up again. You may need to clarify what kind of relationship you want with this girl in your mind. And with her.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:32 PM
23

Thanks for asking this. I have a bit of trouble here also...
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:22 PM
3

It's not that girl. It's the romanticized notion of the perfect relationship that your in love with, you'll find that in a new partner, not her. That said, I'll play until the relationship manifests.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:59 PM
3

Details, please
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:56 PM
1

I'd say, (and I have no idea what I'm doing), if she contacts you three times without you contacting her, invite her over to an obvious seduction location, like your bedroom, sit her next to you on your bed, touch her, and seduce her, but keep it very direct like that. If she doesn't go for it (aside from LMR) boot her out. Repeat.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:54 PM
5

You done good!
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:49 AM
16

IMHO, yes, and don't limit it to HB's, talk to everyone.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:46 AM
2

Yes, it did!
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:45 AM
3

Thanks! I'll let her know.... wait a second, no I won't!
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:39 PM
1

Thnx HAHA!
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:40 AM
1

OK... She had a photo of herself 'planking', so I messaged, "Hey, Plankster, I'm taking you out next weekend, just don't embarrass me! ;-p 1vibe 818-555-xxxx" She messaged, "Alright, easy enough..." Then texted me and arranged a date - I can give more details if you like when I'm not on my phone. 1) she said she liked my directness 2) she actually said she liked my selfie morning bed head photo! So NO, go straight for the meetup ASAP, IMHO.
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:38 AM
1

Love it!
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:03 AM
1

As a guy, I would LOVE it!
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:01 AM
1

Doesn't get much better that that!
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:01 AM
1

I had an LTR with a girl I met in a bar, one of my best friends to this day....
/r/seduction26/03/13 12:56 AM
2

I just got a number last night using this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RHTlSKMQzY
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:08 PM
1

LOL - good response, IMHO. Or you could have done the old, "Oh, I wouldn't say that!" There is a gay attraction (mate copying) that works with women, according to some research: Guppies: "researchers studying the Atlantic molly, a small tropical fish related to the guppy, found that some smaller, less dominant examples of Atlantic molly manhood have developed a curious mating tactic. To improve their chances of breeding with a female, they will first copulate with other males to demonstrate thei…
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:27 PM
1

See: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:12 PM
0

Where do you post? You have great advice, IMHO.
/r/seduction25/03/13 09:53 PM
5

"Not what my bunny said! ;-)"
/r/seduction25/03/13 09:51 PM
16

Shit or get off the pot, you bunch of keyboard Cassanova's! j/k Just tried it out with 3 of my girls - First response: See: http://i.imgur.com/pPnQBkN.png, and http://i.imgur.com/TxkoZaw.png Second response: Huh? :) ME: I charge money when you think about me like that! HER: Lol HER: U funny Third response: I think you are a good friend (uh oh - sounds like friend zone to me! Good thing we already had sex!) 3/3.... I think I'll try another! PS - Thanks Manowar and TheKount!
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:55 PM
1

AGREE 100%. Thank you Kount and bombs away! See my other post for the 3/3 responses!
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:44 PM
2

+1
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:41 PM
4

WTF. "Sure I can see it working on some girls (kinds you meet at bars)". I'm calling this out for extreme BS. Do you know ANY women that have NEVER been to a bar???? Would you date a woman who has been to a bar? Would you date a woman who has NEVER been to a bar? (I would not).
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:40 PM
1

This is Seddit, not family dynamics!
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:33 PM
4

Tempting to try this on one of my girls.... Does it work?
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:53 AM
1

Oops! Thought I corrected that before posting.... Damn!
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:49 AM
4

How did you ask her out after she flaked? I'm seeing a 9 who "has a boyfriend", and I'm wondering how to deal with it.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:32 AM
2

Here's what I did: Me: Let's hang out this weekend! Her: -no answer- Me: Hey, I didn't hear back from you, so I went ahead and made other plans. I'll make it up to you another time, promise! xo Her: (2 minutes later) Hi there! I was out of town for a shoot, just got back yesterday so now working and editing the pics. How have you been? went on another date, but not sure where it's going.....
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:44 AM
1

Play games. Thumb wrestle.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:38 AM
2

Humans are not autonomous. They are social. They can not replicate without others. They can not live a healthy life without love. Did I say "they"? I meant we.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:35 AM
2

Gawd stop texting and touch the girl she's crazy about you!
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:28 AM
1

That's why they invented IHAB destroyers. i treat IHAB as a shit test.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:09 AM
1

More joy from approaches!
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:06 AM
1

Agreed its the whole point of attraction. Them to you. they already know every guy wants them.
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:20 AM
1

I lived in Thailand for 2 years. Go to Lamaii Beach, Koh Samui. Go to a go go bar. Get laid. (Do not fall in love, those girls will eat you for a snack!) Haters can down vote, but America is a f-d up culture. Make your first a 10!
/r/seduction19/03/13 03:16 AM
1

The important thing to remember is it is a shit test. General theory: agree and amplify. Try different things Til one works. You are a social scientist experimenting in the Feild. It would be great to see what some of the experienced guys have to say. Here's another idea: Say, "awesome, we're having a guys night out! You know what guys do on a guys night out?" Then, if they say "what?", don't answer! Instead say, "First tell me what are you girls going to do? Male strippers?" Then neg them on ho…
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:03 PM
1

No. Immoral is to allow yourself to be alone because you refuse to make the changes necessary to attract women.
/r/seduction17/03/13 06:16 PM
1

The dance floor is a trap.
/r/seduction15/03/13 07:58 PM
10

Thanks! I got down-voted recently for suggesting standing up to a shit test by a bunch of people who suggested buying the girls drinks and did not understand why.... Now I do!
/r/seduction15/03/13 12:38 AM
2

Last woman I asked for advice told me exactly the opposite thing to do from what I should have done! (Tell the girl how I feel). Never again!
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:59 PM
1

Thanks - the last thing I'm going to do is buy them all drinks as suggested above!
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:42 PM
1

Not sure why you're got -5 karma for this, thanks for taking the time to reply anyway :D I don't either, it's an obvious shit-test. The rest of the guys are buying them drinks? That's a sure road to chump-ville, according to the masters..... That's the same thing my last girlfriend told me when I first met her This establishes intent straight away and then I can bring it back to normal conversation to make a connection, Justin Wayne style. Agreed. It also disarms their shit-test while DHV'ing yo…
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:40 PM
2

Strongly disagree. Buying them drinks puts you in AFC zone.
/r/seduction14/03/13 05:37 PM
-6

It's simply a shit test. Possible answers: That's the same thing my last girlfriend told me when I first met her, shit! I suppose you're all models, too! I can't even talk to you any more. (Then roll off) OR "No way! I love girls night out girls! You girls are crazy! Are you going to buy me a drink?" OR Oh, shit, are you Lesbians? Excuse me! Etc....
/r/seduction14/03/13 01:27 PM
10

See: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ Works like a charm! I mean like copy and paste that shit! I have and it's not failed to work! (OK, I make up my own tease.... Basically it's: "If it's loud, or I need to get out of there, I'll leave, but text her immediately with a text that says "good meeting you tonight. I'll see you soon unless [heckle]! :)" where [heckle] is some playful tease, hopefully referencing the night, like "unless you get swall…
/r/seduction14/03/13 03:42 AM
3

Whoosh - over my head!
/r/seduction14/03/13 03:39 AM
1

Very good!
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:00 PM
1

HAHA!
/r/seduction13/03/13 04:58 PM
3

YES, she's giving you an excuse to up the playful kino - grab both her hands and push them down to her sides, then move in and say, "Now, I'm going to bite you" and then, if you get only faux resistance, bite her neck and release her... even if you don't get the bite (and a soft bite, mind you), turn your back and roll off - she'll jump all over you (if she's ready). Don't continue this move for more than 10 seconds - either she lets you bite her, or you roll off. Repeat if (when) she starts kin…
/r/seduction13/03/13 04:48 PM
1

Before I found sedditors, I would often ask what is your dream?
/r/seduction13/03/13 07:19 AM
1

LOL. I just got the same thing from an OKC chick: Before I found seddit recently, I had my first date with an HB9, it was fantastic, made out twice, but in the aftermath I let on that I liked her. Could not get a second date. Found seddit. Asked her out a third time, but with some seddit skills. "When are you taking me out?' neg neg. I get a call from her, she reveals that she met someone and they "really clicked". BUT she wants to be friends. I say I don't care, sure, I have a lot of options. W…
/r/seduction13/03/13 04:42 AM
3

Easiest - Chiang Mai, Thailand (or Bangkok) US - Boulder, Colorado! Santa Barbara, LA
/r/seduction11/03/13 06:14 PM
2

Ask for lips, then neck, then.... ur on your own
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:29 AM
0

Remember that if you really like her, and you want her, and you want that LTR, you must not put her up there. She does not want to be there. She wants to have the feeling that you are the one on the pedestal.
/r/seduction11/03/13 10:43 AM
1

Just today, my best wing and I were sitting at a sidewalk cafe. Two very drunk girls came by (HB9, and her HB7 friend). The HB9 comes up to my wing and says, "I know you!" Wing, "You do?" HB9 "Yes... you're... cute!", then proceeds to get drug away by cock-blocking friend. I shout out after them, "Wait, wait, wait, you can't say that without introducing yourself!" HB9 comes back and as my buddy is introducing himself, cockblock says, "fuck you!" to us, and drags her away. My response was, "That'…
/r/seduction11/03/13 10:31 AM
1

HAHA awesome! ".... Of course, it looks better on me!" (Or her, depending on the girl)
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:46 PM
10

+1
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:31 PM
16

"Hi, how are you?" Is a real easy opener. If they act like a bitch with that one, you know it's them, and not you. If they are very negative, an easy out is "have a nice day", and turn your back. Remember shit tests are IOI's, not IOD's. And I find the hotter the HB, the easier it is for me to deal with rejection. Hit on 8, 9, 10's. Don't worry if you choke, women do not expect perfection, nor do we. Thrive on rejection . The desire for success insures failure.
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:27 PM
2

Thrive on rejection! Sometimes I'll go in assuming rejection. Next time ask for a kiss on the cheek from a hottie with the brightest red lipstick.
/r/seduction08/03/13 05:34 PM
3

You mean your talking to the little nagging voice in your head telling you to hide in the corner?
/r/seduction08/03/13 05:24 PM
11

Rejection is better than Regret!
/r/seduction08/03/13 05:21 PM
1

I concur.
/r/seduction08/03/13 04:49 PM
1

Sorry, no 1st date! I will try this again.....
/r/seduction01/03/13 02:53 AM
12

I've tried this 3 times, got one number, no 2nd date. It's fun if you have a don't give a fuck attitude. Lots of discussion here, go out and do it now, then report back!
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:52 PM
2

This one! Strongly agree.
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:04 PM
8

Do not respond. This keeps the power of text in your hands, and you're signaling disapproval by not answering. Your value goes up. This is a shit test, there may be a more clever, ballsier answer....
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:51 PM
1

You need a Thai vacation! Not joking. Anyone who is really having trouble with women needs a quick re-calibration. Go to Thailand (or Brazil, I hear), where people love to have sex and it is easy to get laid by a super-hottie. It will change your whole perspective, you WILL get your game back. Enough with the downvotes. This works.
/r/seduction24/02/13 04:37 AM
1

The other thing that is very important to remember is to cut the conversations short! When you go to chat up someone (not necessarily a girl), leave at the height of the conversation - tell them it was nice chatting but you've got to go. This will leave them with a good impression of you for next time.
/r/seduction20/02/13 02:33 AM
3

Agreed
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:32 PM
1

I got a "can we do lunch" cancellation after first date make-out, but it doesn't look good.
/r/seduction16/02/13 04:38 AM
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