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| 2 | fuck me!! i regret that i did not pull all my guts and talked to that girl in my class today. i just missed an opportunity. fuck!!You can reframe this... imagine that every time you don't talk to a girl, you're essentially building up a level of discomfort, regret and pain. Don't speak to 1 girl? 1 out of 100 in terms of pain... Don't speak to 4 girls? 4 out of 100 in terms of pain. Eventually, you'll get to a point where you've accumulated so much pain, it pushes you over the barrier and you do something about it (approach). You'll feel great (Regardless of the outcome) and then you can start up again. After a while, you'… | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Finally! How I got out of the friendzone (hit gym, delete number, new clothes)Well said | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Need advice: good looking guy with ZERO self-confidence with womenYep, 100% agree. Not being the "nice guy" as you mention isn't about becoming a dick. In fact, you can still be a nice guy ... just a different definition of it. A nice guy can be a guy that's confident, a protector, a leader, a guy that genuinely cares about people & the world. That's sexy AF. But... in most cases, the "nice guy" that people are talking about is the guy that's overly nice to women in order to get them to like him. You'll find a lot of passive-aggressive stuff, manipulative stuf… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop looking like I want to murder people?It's all in how you really feel... animals can sense if someone is a threat OR if they are playful. You want to be genuinely playful and people will pick up on it. (Women also tend to be more perceptive than men when it comes to these small cues. Evolutionary traits that allow them to detect danger faster than men because they are historically a little weaker... so they rely on being EXTRA perceptive and social.) Long story short, change the inside and it will reflect on the outside. Right now i… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Good advice | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What I learned after going on over 75 (sometimes painful) Tinder datesI respect your choice! Hey man, that might be the best for you. However there comes a point in your life where all your best friends are getting married and having children. So you get new friends... And then THOSE friends are getting married and having children, while the first batch of friends are having their second child. All I'm saying is there comes a point where you start to understand why your parents got together. | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What I learned after going on over 75 (sometimes painful) Tinder datesYeah man, I'm in my thirties and finding a girl to settle down sounds fairly good right about now. After 10+ years of fucking around, I'm doing good at the moment. You get burnt out of dating... ask any dating coach. This is a reflection of that. | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)Quick tips: - Talking is like a muscle... you have to warm it up. Start talking to strangers and you'll built up strenght. Talk about future, present and past. Put yourself out there and do interesting things. Everything else becomes easier after. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Same problem every time I go out aloneHey man, there are going to be bars/clubs/places that are more suited to meeting people and other places that are not. It's normal that people at bars know each other... however that doesn't mean they don't want to meet you. The point of going out is usually to be part of a larger interaction (otherwise, staying inside with someone you know is cheaper/more convenient). People are BORED! They want excitement, they want someone fun to come in and be interesting. That's your job, no matter where yo… | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Now that I've overcome my AA, I worry I'm being too handsy and engaging in too much eye contact. How do you know when you're doing too much of a good thing?I just read this thing on WayTooSocial about proper handshakes and how you should be feeling out the other person. I'm a firm believer that micro-calibration is the answer. Experience and paying attention to people's reaction will let you know when you can push further or when you should pull back. That said, it's ok to make make mistakes when you're starting out, we all do! Even if you 'do too much', you'll eventually find out with experience. | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 12:41 AM |
| 3 | What other subreddits do you recommend to complement /r/seduction?Definitely /gainit and /malefashionadvice | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Improving Your Looks With Accessories... What they say about you and how to pick'em.Yeah, the opposite of the fedora | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 12:59 AM |
| 3 | I just really prefer being alone - and it's an issueYou usually develop a taste for these things. If you've had poor experiences in the past, then it's normal for you to feel this way. Sometimes we have so much fun 'being alone' that being with other people doesn't seem as pleasurable. That's usually because we've had so much practice at being alone that we became REALLY good at it. When dealing with girls, if you haven't developed the enjoyment of 'being with a girl/human being', then you'll be craving the things you do when you're alone more. (… | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake ItI love this and I completely agree but... it's funny (and messed up) how it's easy to talk about this once you've gone through it and it's VERY difficult to say it when you're in it. There actually is merit to 'becoming better with women'. You become more confident, expand your horizons and push yourself further than you ever have before. Honestly, I don't think anything can replace that. That said, once you've "done it", then it's amazing to go and become the true man that you want to be. You s… | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 09:50 PM |
| 2 | If this encourages just one of you, then I've succeededyeah man, I love how you LEVELED UP with that rejection instead of taking it the wrong way. Every time you adopt this mentality, you become stronger and stronger. Honestly, you won't be the same person in 2 years from now, and that girl might even change her mind (and honestly, it won't even matter by then.) Congrats, rejection isn't that bad... it's only the meaning that we give it that dictates if it's good or bad. | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Had this exact Gchat conversation with a buddy. Takeaway: some guys have NO IDEA how to set real standards for the women in their livesDude that was awesome, way to show him the way. It's also nice that he listens instead of resisting everything you have to say. Kudos! | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Most of the girls that connect with me are in relationships -- how to avoid this?Love this. Honest approach | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 10:52 PM |
| 2 | The answer to 50% of the questions on r/asksedditWell said! | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if I don't know what that's like?Hah, I'm not an psychologist, but as far as I know, you cannot think of 2 things at once. Therefore your mind would always be alternating amount thoughts which means you can have seances where you only believe one thing. Right now I'd assume that there is a lot of back-and-forth, but ultimately, we would want to stay more on the side of certainty. (Let's say we can achieve an 90% ratio of "I'm the shit, everything I want comes to me". Then you'd be good :) | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if I don't know what that's like?Brent Smith says something a little out there... but it applies to this: You won't get there as fast as you want... you'll get there as fast as you will. Somewhere in there, I don't believe that you actually believe it in your mind. Not easy, I know. (And sympathize) | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 08:11 PM |
| 2 | How can I have an abundance mindset if I don't know what that's like?I've only felt "true" abundance a few times in my life. (As in... you feel absolutely ANYTHING is possible) and it's an amazing feeling. I would definitely work towards getting there and when you finally do, savor the moment. That said, you can easily become 'pretty abundant' where you feel there are thousands of opportunities every day. That's where I live most of my life at the moment. (After a lot of work!) :) | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if I don't know what that's like?It's a crazy paradox: You can develop an abundance mindset by working at it... but you're working to "not want" something in the future. Tony JUST wrote about this Create an abundance mentality: Illustrated guide to escaping scarcity where he outlines that faking it while you make it is one of the better ways to go about "seeing what it's like" to be truly abundant. This stems off modeling behavior and tricking the mind into believing a new reality. (Athletes also use modeling to train and execu… | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:45 PM |
| 1 | A Beginners Guide for What to SayWhat video is amazing! | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Good responses to "Are you guys dating?"All good answers, would come again! | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Willpower is like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it will become. The inverse is also true, the less you use it, the weaker it is.You can develop willpower over time but you actually get less willpower throughout the day (and rest will usually replenish it). Now this is somewhat of an oversimplification, but that's why it's easier to workout first thing in the morning... and when it's 6pm, you don't feel like starting to work on a new project. (But instead, you're compelled to watch TV/play videogames). Interesting things happen at 2:00am though, (or RIGHT before you're about to go to bed) where you suddenly want to start … | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:37 PM |
| 4 | The benefits and limits of being clever.Oh man, that's hilarious... lol Keep it up ;) | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 06:32 PM |
| 11 | How to respond to a "How old are you?" shit test?These things aren't always "shit tests"... they are just normal questions that people are curious about. (Usually if she asks that it's because there is some level of interest) Imagine this, you're thinking of buying a TV... so you ask "what's the price?" It's not a shit-test, it's a question that allows you to proceed further. The RIGHT answer to it is not a number, but how much you OWN YOUR ANSWER. If you're 18 and you're PROUD of it, then you can say it super confidently and she'll react well… | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How to keep her interested?If you're worried about keeping her interested, you have the wrong mindset. (Scarcity mindset) Instead, you should be excited to have a hell of a lot of fun over Christmas... and give her the gift of missing you. (Thanks D.D.) | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 03:30 PM |
| 0 | [META] IMO, the quality of this subreddit is going in a downwards spiralThere is very little "new" content in the world of seduction (There can definitely be some innovations, some new tricks, fun videos and so on... but it's not like we're radically changing things). Thus... if you've been around for 1+ year(s), you'll quickly realize that the stuff that keeps on being upvoted to the top is catered to newbies that don't know better. Even though I agree with you that Seddit changed over the past years, it's not a drastic "OMG PEOPLE ARE ONLY POSTING SHIT" change. Th… | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | 22 secrets to social succes. Seriously, read itWhoa lots of hate... (I suppose having a spelling mistake in the title doesn't help) I read the article and it has a lot of good points. Hell, the guy starts off by saying practice as his #1 thing so I can't hate on that. It's a little generic though. The problem with these lists is that sometimes you just can't go into depth on a subject (and trust me, as a writer, I'm guilty of that as well). But compare this article to something on WayTooSocial, Girlschase or a video by Tyler and it's just a … | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Reflecting on my year long journey in seduction and why, yes, you can do it too. A long story filled with tips and tricks I've used.Yeah, mine is like 200+ pages long and it's CRAZY to re-read it from time to time. You realize all the stupid things you've done... but then again, you do find that you do some amazing stuff as well. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Things I Wish Seddit Would Have Told Me When I Was 20Don't be needy... even if you think you aren't, you probably are. Love your life, you only have one. Girls are f'ing crazy sometimes, just learn to roll with it. Work out... there's a reason everyone says to hit the gym. Money is awesome, if you can get it, life becomes easier. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 11:10 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Upcoming AMA with Brent Smith and Jason Treu next Wednesday, Nov. 6th at 12pm PSTBrent Smith is THE MAN, love his stuff | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 07:16 PM |
| 14 | Reflecting on my year long journey in seduction and why, yes, you can do it too. A long story filled with tips and tricks I've used.You know I used to carry a journal and I'd write all my FR in there ;) Regardless, good job on pushing yourself. It only gets easier from here! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 07:15 PM |
| 2 | I seem to get oneitis for every woman that shows me the tiniest bit of attentionExactly this. This guy knows what he's talking about! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 07:14 PM |
| 2 | "You're not like any guy I've ever known :)"She's crushing on you hard man! Good stuff (assuming you like her back!) | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Best way to approach a girl in a class who sits with friends?The worse place to 'learn game' is to test it in environments where you'll see people over and over again. Honestly, the best place to talk to her is going to be outside of class. Run into her, "hey, you're in my class... and you seem interesting. I'm Fuel_for_fire" But like I said, you want to avoid practicing with people you see regularly. Instead, I would recommend practicing street, bar, club game until you can build up some confidence, posture, tonality that will give you the confidence to … | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Need a quick game boost by you guysHey man, this is completely normal. The thing you have to do is you have to find the motivation to "get over your ex". A lot of the time we just don't want to because we want to hold on to all the loving moments we've had together. (Because thinking about them makes us feel good). That's why we don't want to let go.. and it ruins our emotional and physical health for a long time. It's perfectly fine if you need more time. Remember ONE thing though.. it's all about what you focus on. You ABSOLUTE… | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Dating girls that flirt with everyone?They can be fun but can also be a complete mindfuck. I mean... you can be doing everything right and wondering why she's flirting with another guy. This is likely going to drive you crazy. If ever you do, it's important to take charge, hold your frame and lead because she's going to lead if you don't! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 01:25 AM |
| 2 | The Skill of Self Confidence"Without the skill of self confidence, we are nothing" Awesome quote | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 12:49 AM |
| 2 | The Skill of Self Confidencedamn, cool share. thanks and have an upvote ;o | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 12:47 AM |
| 11 | I just cut myself off from reading all "pickup" related material and did the 100 set challenge in one month. OMFGUpvote for you even if The Game was highly entertaining. I just finished writing about the shit I would tell myself at 20 again http://www.waytoosocial.com/sociallifestyle/things-i-would-have-wanted-to-tell-my-20-year-old-self/ And I should add to the list "PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE" to that list because of this post. It's true that you can know everything in the world but damn, if you go out and practice it, THAT'S what's going to make the difference | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 12:23 AM |
| 2 | I just cut myself off from reading all "pickup" related material and did the 100 set challenge in one month. OMFGYou're completely right, go out and do it. The only issue is when the guys say: "action action action" but they forget where they learned the basics. Mark Manson's Models is amazing, Dj Fuji is great and there are a few other things I would watch as well. After that, go out and practice! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How to make the most out of lifeTo a young man: Start working out... now (see /r/fitness). It's an investment that lasts a lifetime and it will help you in absolutely every area of your life. Take your current weight (let's assume average) Imagine you put 1lbs of muscle on per month... doesn't sound like much. But if you're young, imagine doing that for 3-4 years. How would your life be different if you had 30+ lbs of extra muscle and ideal body fat? You'll thank yourself for the rest of your life (and get laid a hell of a lot… | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 03:58 PM |
| 2 | I Got Laid and Played so Very Many TimesWell written Mr. Tony :> | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 12:09 AM |
| 1 | [Female FR] Awesome is what awesome does!awesome read, very entertaining ;) | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 04:38 PM |
| 11 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouWhat's wrong? First, self-promotion. Why doesn't everyone submit their own content? There's no lack of dating websites out there. Second, you go to his site and there's an immediate pop-up for the newsletter along with promotion for his product. This is exclusively commercial. Third, this is a generic article. I looked at it, it was fine. The information is standard, nothing new. Nothing worth posting about. Fourth and the most important point... The original votes were manufactured by bots or a… | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:31 AM |
| 29 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouSomething's suspicious when this has an immediate 40+ upvotes within 4 hours when other stories have 6... maybe 7. Oh, not to mention the site is filled with advertisement. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Grr...need to ventI have dealt with a lot of guys that get no results and I cover a lot of this in my program. For now on, here's what you want to do: Go buy a notepad and a small pen (like this: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ef7AKnB3XSQ/SliXRI6OWOI/AAAAAAAAHvc/S0UWLp6EL9c/s400/microsoft+Notepad+2007.png ) After each interaction, write down: small details about the girl (name, hobbies, what makes her unique) What you could have done better (things you should have said, additional kino, etc) What you did that was good… | /r/seduction | 07/12/10 06:55 AM |
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