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Which practice needs to stop in the world of dating?

chriscalo123 · 2018-07-23T17:28:46+00:00

I'm curious, things seem to be going well. People aren't peacocking with goggles and funnyhats anymore, we have less people going...

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July 23, 2018

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Title	Which practice needs to stop in the world of dating?
Author	chriscalo123
Upvotes	12
Comments	25
Date	July 23, 2018 5:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9192cn/which_practice_needs_to_stop_in_the_world_of/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/which-practice-needs-to-stop-in-the-world-of.1450428 https://theredarchive.com/post/1450428

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Just hangout with people just like you do in literally every other relationship in life. We treat relationships with women differently for no reason just because of sex. If I go to dinner with one of my guy friends it's not like we set it up like a date. I would never say lets go to dinner friday night just me and you. But we might be hanging out a go grab a bite to eat or I might be going out to eat and just invite a buddy of mine to join me but It doesn't rely on them to come or not.

Now obviously I don't want to have sex with my guy friends but with the exception of sexual advances I treat girls and guys the exact same way. Now I don't know if I explained myself in the best way but I hope you understand what I mean.

It's not that you can't go get some coffee or go on a walk in the park. It's just when you set it up like a date and you make it as if you are only planning on doing it if they come along, then there's a huge difference between a date where you just go get some coffee or just hanging out and grabbing some coffee, even if you are doing the exact same thing.

When you become a lot closer to someone it wouldn't be weird for you to make plans to go out next weekend with some friends or something but you wouldn't make one on one plans unless there was a good reason for it. Really one on one dates are meant for your girlfriend or sometimes special occasions.

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