Pichuco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Being alone just trigger some form of dread about being gay		Pichuco	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 06:55 AM
0	Women are low effort in everything but looks		Pichuco	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 12:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Is it worth it to totally reinvent myself? I think you could just start working on little pieces, not a complete change over night. For example I found out i hated how uncomfortable much clothes i had were. So i started to look for comfortable yet fashionable styles. I found out i was more confortable and also i knew I had my style (it took me quite time to evaluate many things and be kind of bold), i got mostly compliments of this new found style. And at s certain point, it is liberating, as i say, i did my homework, found some clothes …	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/21 03:25 AM
1	Misconceptions about having "confidence". I think all about confidence is pretty counterintuitive... It's seems that confidence is to be bold, but nowadays i think it is to be bold just not for the sake of it, but in some control or semi controlled environment. I think the most important aspect is to be social and seek the environments where you can be more you, and there confidence is just more natural, and maybe for outside people it seems like really bold. For example, people that go usually to clubs and dance and just are all about …	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 03:08 AM
2	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. I would like to know when I miss it and when it was nothing, it would be a great super power. For example some girl, in the grosery store, ask me if i found the store to be overcharging, i responded, and then she went away. To sad as she was really fine. Nowadays i hope it is something like that in the ones I like (little desperate right now: yes).	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/21 04:39 AM
2	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. Yes i think i understand your point and totally agree. Really bad daring advices started with my parents and television! And then no good guidance or help. Then i started to give meaning to what had happened to me in the past... And again seeked this zen nonsense, or at least this fake zen. Like why not just fun and expect to thing to happen naturally. But maybe as you said we are to focused on getting girls one way and totally loose the sight of what's going on around you. Of course I'm sure i …	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/21 04:35 AM
1	Simple Rules for Social Confidence I feel much the same and in need of such rules. But many times i fear the bad consequences of holding to some rule.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 02:21 AM
1	I cannot overcome my subconscious misogyny. Very bad comments so far. I can relate, sometimes i feel the same, as i feel just looking at women can bring me trouble, or just get hurt.	/r/ExRedPill	11/10/21 05:49 AM
2	Women are low effort in everything but looks That's some great insight to remember. I've been frustrated and sad. I just return from some club. I don't even know how to be around. I couldn't even bring to look at the women there. It was a "harassment free stablisment", there were a lot of women dancing alone. Yeah, like i would even try to get near. It seems pretty frustrating.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/21 04:19 AM
1	Women are low effort in everything but looks I don't know, in a way she is, but also pretty smart and educated woman.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 03:20 PM
-1	Women are low effort in everything but looks I like your answer. Yes, i was supposed to be smart and good for intelectual actives, but really i think i might not be that smart, but a hard working dude, and no one can tell me otherwise. So that's why i talked about low effort and not intelligence directly. For example, i wasn't good at languages, but i put so much effort and time until i figure it out. I cannot help to think of many people as low class uneducated impolite fools, and i guess that include women.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 02:40 PM
0	Women are low effort in everything but looks Well that's more like it. I like to be dramatic, so i can get answers. Many times I had this kind of thoughts, and i think there is some true in them, but i acknowledged that mostly they are just the fruit of resentment and really don't help me. Also in the same line of thoughts of the post, i would say most hobbies are pretty lame and low effort as Astrology, or just made up. Also i frown upon when I see women playing soccer, how can they play so badly? But everything i do is spected to be perf…	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 02:16 PM
1	Women are low effort in everything but looks Great argumenta so far Your Englishhhh baaad lol "My wife has a pH" yes it might be just as stupid as you	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 01:51 PM
-4	Women are low effort in everything but looks I was looking for some counter arguments, so maybe I can leave this toxic thoughts behind, but it seems people is too literal here.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 01:42 PM
1	Women are low effort in everything but looks My main language is Spanish, and i think the text perform its means as i can see in your reactions.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 01:40 PM
-6	Women are low effort in everything but looks English is not main language, but it seems as I'm able to comunicate with it. I suspect you are not quite smart aswell.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/21 01:38 PM
1	Are red pilled men just desperate for a way to get women to like them? Always saw many guys just meeting a woman on a dance club and making up, but i was never able to pull it up. And from there i experienced horrible things from women.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/21 05:57 AM
-4	What is actual "alpha" and "beta" behavior? There's a lot of hierarchy in society and social groups, and people just follow that kind of thing like animals.	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/21 02:19 PM
1	Being alone just trigger some form of dread about being gay Oh yes, but it seems like a ghost always chasing me, when I'm not able to find any female sex partner for a long time.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 07:17 PM
1	Being alone just trigger some form of dread about being gay I kind of innerly disdain talking about LGBT, i usually dislike lesbian, and gay people i can respect but just make me think of those 80 movies stereotypes. Always hated the mannerism, i guess there s was a thing. When I was a child my mom worked as a teacher at some high school, there was this super gay profesor my mom always had something to criticize or mock, the little i remember he was kind of nice, funny and cheerful, her mannerism in his voice was quite noticible and a thing in itself, ki…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 03:31 PM
1	Being alone just trigger some form of dread about being gay I feel I'm not free to explore things lately... I explore inner things and intelectual things but almost nothing with other people. Pandemic now is really important, but I was already in some form of isolation before. Time passed and i with time it seemed as i got more hits and chances from gay people and never by woman. I was condemned.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 03:25 PM
1	Being alone just trigger some form of dread about being gay Quite the opposite I'm quite old, 40 yo. But I'm kind of and adult child (now i kind of understand that sub). Ii live by myself and all, my parents are just pretty ingrained in my head... So everything i feel needs to be pretty controlled. Really i enjoy being heterosexual tbh, but in some many years of struggling to find sex woman partner you can imagine in 40 years i have many doubts. Being the prototypical 80's gay we saw on movies, i would dread to be anything like it. Aside from my parents,…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 03:22 PM
5	Leadership I (40M) think in many places the woman is who always take the shots, but they make it look like it is the man decision or leadership as it is what is expected as society. About leadership, in my current state of mind i wouldn't dare to lead anyone as i have trouble just leading myself. I would love some strong woman that lead me all the way! There is the chance that many of those Wonder Women are out of my league, but i try to keep up my game.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 06:34 AM
0	how many women in this sub? i guess I should, can you expand that though?	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 12:35 AM
1	how many women in this sub? Thank for your great answer. I feel I'm kind of waking that path you are describing, or trying at least. But sometimes i feel really overwhelmed, i just expend a lot of my energy to avoid getting into the anxiety depression panic dread of death vortex. And my endeavours are also pretty exhausting and really, really high. Sometimes i feel like i might died and not accomplish anything. But well, once you die does it really matter?	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 08:38 PM
1	how many women in this sub? Thanks, yes that makes sense.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 03:12 PM
1	how many women in this sub? That's good advice, i ve been working in authenticity. But i still feel women are some sort of wild life that flee on may perturbation.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 01:17 PM
1	how many women in this sub? Of course i meant astrology, autocorrect chance it.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 01:07 PM
0	how many women in this sub? Yes i have some sort of that, but i don't feel like settling for a lower standard.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 01:05 PM
1	how many women in this sub? I don't know, i ve surrounded myself with all kinds of people. Women i kind of respect intellectually and are nice looking never give me any sign or queue or nothing. I got light brown skin and in many times in my life I've been fat, so i guess they don't think I'm of no value. Its pretty frustrating. But well.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 08:12 AM
-1	how many women in this sub? Yeah, i mean, it is true that most women put a lot of effort in look and following social norms. Lately I've been trying to appreciate did, but as a matter of fact i think low of this superficial traits... I really cannot appreciate women beyond thinking of them for sex, i cannot imagine a interesting woman saying something interesting right now, they seems just boring and jerk off material.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 07:10 AM
0	how many women in this sub? I'm 40 and i usually clueless about women... I realized I showed some typical described as nice guy/incel behaviour. It was mostly because of really bad parenting, bad social development. But well. The thing is, I'm still clueless... It seems as no women is ever attracted to me, so i have.no idea of any sign... Also women in that aspect seems like wild animals to me. Sometimes i think I may have a little attention and then it seems there is no "eco"... And also i feel like a fool, the other day …	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 06:18 AM
-2	how many women in this sub? Of course women life is different than mine. Just having the chance to have some hook up and choose sexual partner with no real effort. So having free sexual encounters is like having a free massage session. If i have to have the same i would have to pay for a massage or foe sex,.just for having that phisical interaction. Hope that what i mean is clear and i might add I'm not an English speaker.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 06:07 AM
-3	how many women in this sub? A part of me still try to convince me that women are lesser, unsofisticated beings, and i just think on all the times i experience many bad experiences around them. I guess many of them were as good as many men from the same ecosystemz and many times i kind search for that in an unconscious way. But many times when women here addresses some of my claim and issues i feel really glad... Later on I might think they are just ugly fat women or some guy impersonating a woman, but well. I don't trust p…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 06:00 AM
1	Question: Who has it easier in finding relationships/casual dating Women or Men? Everything is easy for most people. In other case they wouldn't be able to do anything.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 07:44 AM
1	what does 'incel' even mean anymore? But psychopaths are really social persons... Most normies falls for their stuff.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 07:13 AM
1	what does 'incel' even mean anymore? It seems as calling someone tryhard	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 07:09 AM
1	Low value pilled man here Is there some emotional license?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 07:08 AM
0	Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"? How can you fall for such a lie?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 07:01 AM
1	So what is the true point of this sub? I think this place perfect to just let off some resentment i have for women so maybe someone can help to deconstruct.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 06:55 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything That's great i thank you a lot. Going to think about all this!	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 07:41 PM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I wanted to share just one maybe more personal advice (i mean, or something particular) And that would be: Keep doing it (for example playing an instrument) Study it Listen to what you play Go to listen to the ones that play really well Memorize everything you can Practice slow Seek guidance Read a lot about everything involved TRY NOT TO SKIP ANY STEP (then Skip some step) Then practice again from level 1 Really experience your practices Practice in your mind, practice with other instruments Da…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:26 PM
3	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything It is amazing the more you learn the more you can execute your will in reality with the resources at your disposal. Have a great networking, some resources, ideas and you can do a lot of stuff.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:04 PM
4	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Sí, acá se habla español. Ah bien ahí! Bueno yo seguramente si hablara con vos estaría pensando en lo buena que estás al ser profesora de poledancing. Aunque seguramente tendría que interesarme más en tu título en sexología que mencionaste.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:01 PM
1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything What about first interaction on OLD apps... It seems woman needs to be thrilled with some amazing line... I m kind of tired of trying-hard and coming with stuff that then it is percibe as idiotic... So nowadays i kind of say hi and some simple not bold stuff, and it is boring. It is super hard to know what would be spontaneous or something... And that s another experience i had. I sing for some girl when we were chatting via WA and she said she felt i was an idiot.for doing that. I mean women ar…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:55 PM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Now I'm just with insomnia and pretty desperate for answers and understanding about these issues. Well but i would say that right now has nothing to do with any other situation. I don't care about a reputation here, as matter of fact this account is to just post about this sad stuff or just whatever. Don't look to be love, i kind of look to be hated.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:43 PM
4	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Well i must thank you, i could sleep and i was kind of neurotic. I spend all night thinking about this, here the sun is up again. What i mean by Courty Love was this https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courtly_love I percibe you as a reddit user, but you are in another country so you might be a robot to me (sorry sometimes i express in hard ways but it seems the best way to show how i feel or think). If you were someone i may meet and not a robot or not who you claim, i don't know. But see this is w…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:36 PM
3	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Oh yes! If your are 15 you have a whole life and much opportunities. I'm just a sad fuck that didn't realize what was going on with social relationships until it was to late... But if you take care of this things at your age you can be very happy. I'm kind of happy as i try to resolve things. I would say have fun! Don't let people make you feel bad, prevent it or be aware that they are doing it. Always try and learn things. Learn a lot of things. Learn how to cook a lot of dishes. Learn how to f…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:28 PM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Yes with time i try to do it like that. Problem is Everytime I think of an strategy i feel fake.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:22 PM
1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything It something really hard to me as i kind of grow thinking into Courty Love, and many films about "and then you got the girl" Sometimes i try to think in woman as a tiny man with less hormones and feminine traits, with some tendency to childish behaviour. But this may be weird. I also many times I found out i really don't care about the person if there is no signs of attraction.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:07 PM
3	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Yes it was really bad, i was like thirty something, and i say why this lame shit keeps happening.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:59 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I really don't understand seduction i think it is always a mess... My problem usually is getting a date. After I get a date I'm usually happy and i guess I'm seductive but i wouldn't know what the fuck is that. But then everything depends on my picture on OLD and I'm doomed... When I'm able to talk or lead I'm good. If I have a date, everything is good, and i usually i do good. But when I go around it seems I'm the ugliest fucker in the world... Or maybe it's i don't follow some kind of script t…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:33 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Also don't know how to go from thinking woman as a inanimate object to seduction, it feel pretty hard. And at 40 years old and with pandemic it seems i don't know new people anymore, and people are know are in environments that really i cannot do anything... Like i don't even cant start to think when to flirt as i have not even a conversation with some available and attractive woman... If seems like a lost specie to me.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:23 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Who doesn't want to be accepted loved etc? Of course. Well that sounds nice but wheres the sex? Sometimes I would want to just pay for sex and think in other stuff. Of course I don't have the money.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:08 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I feel like woman are super strict on social norms, in order to get to them you have to follow some strict unwritten codex.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:02 AM
3	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Oh don't worry i be been dealing with those kind of thoughts or scapism aswell since childhood. I guess it all has to do with some form of untreated trauma. What I'm meant by seeing stuff in others i meant (sorry English is not my first language) is that you said "I'm ugly" i also wonder if I'm damn ugly and that it. But what i meant was that there are a lot of fitness woman with average or even "ugly or manly faces" but to me just some feminine traits and a hard body is so hot that i would be r…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 10:52 AM
1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Here people is bad educated and violent, so everything is possible. But i don't invade nobodies personal space. It is true that I'm always checking girls, it was my big thing to fantasize.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 10:07 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I don't know, there is to much trauma when I was a little kid. Felt too mocked when trying to be open about my feelings. I went to visited a girl from my classroom and she kind of have her way with me, i was so ashame I couldn't react... I wasn't fat as a little but it got fat at prep school, so suddenly i realize I was doomed. I guess all the fat kid has to live. I got thin or thinner from time to time and i was able to "bond" with girls, but have my first girlfriend at 25. From 20 to 25 i paid…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 10:04 AM
1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I never invade nobodies personal space, why do you say that? I didn't understand why you point that about being distracted by attractive people, should i avoid them?	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:53 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I have a bunch of close friends. Why?	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:48 AM
-1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I go to the supermarket and dig some (some more younger) cashier. I have some female neighborhoods i also dig. But i think I can never do nothing about, to the point that i don't know if I even want anything. I just want a good time and i just bump into suffering.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:46 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I feel exposed, vulnerable, when Im afraid somebody would find out it I'm attracted. I feel i might get insulted because of it, or something will acuse me of being a pervert or wanker.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:43 AM
1	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Once I have some woman insult me because I checked her and flirt with her. We were camping and she was presenting some kind of circus show, i said some kind of lame line,.pretty inocente while checking her. And she started insulting my manhood like " oh you think you are going to get laid here? Lol". Well maybe she was a fucking bitch, or it is always me? Also i feel like I might be acused of a pervert any time... I don't know were i can be at piece and talk to a woman with no issues. But i gues…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 08:55 AM
6	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I have a hard time when I get thrilled or a little exited by any girl, usually i feel like "oh yes she was being nice because she wants to sell me stuff", and i start getting like thrilled and then you find out next to her is her boyfriend, and then i feel like I could be mocked and hurt... Also i feel like a fool, or i feel like I fall in the woman scam. For a starter	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 08:48 AM
3	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Sometimes it is easier to see stuff in others... Im really crazy about fitness girls, and also i have a fetish about muscular girls, so if there was a girl like you with some muscle, I'm sure i would found it totally hot and i would really love to meet. So maybe be aware that somebody would have this kind of turn on thing by one of your trails. Don't know if it is helpful at all, but well.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 08:40 AM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything I'm in my 40 and I've been alone for a long time. I had some relationships but i kind of sabotage with the "I can do better vibe" and then i could meet any girl (or should I say women?) That wanted to date or do anything, this made me feel bad and i kept going into a big depression. And then when I wanted to start living again, pandemic started. So nowadays i don't know what to do. With desperation i went to OLD apps, i got some matches i must say i wasn't really thrill... And also the ones that…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 08:34 AM
2	The dangers of the “numbers game” “cold approach” method red pill coaches spew I always felt like a crazy person when trying to practice approaching (just asking what hour it is not really needing it). Really bad thing to do...	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/21 05:54 AM
1	The dangers of the “numbers game” “cold approach” method red pill coaches spew Yeah after a long time of struggling i kind of finally understand that there are no shortcut, most of the time you have to follow strict social rules, most of them make sense... In order to know someone you have to meet in a certain an very special way, it is really random. And the more I live, it seems that usually the best is to do less... There's no way to make someone interested, i would say in a resentful way. Usually it s best to follow peer pressure and do nothing weird never, as people d…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/21 05:53 AM
0	What’s up with redpill and their distain for black women? I guess the beauty standard of western civilization is a white woman. Black woman brings all issues related to woman but also they are worst as they may see as less feminine, more savage, and of course not white.	/r/ExRedPill	13/07/21 04:19 AM
2	Anxiety with women I must say i found a lot of monstrous women, tormenting me in some varios forms like the one told by OP or when trying to flirt or just talk, of just being around.	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/21 06:07 AM
2	Screw RP dating advice . Reality is a lot different and doesn't work like that. Yes, here is the same. It is more common to see some regular looking guy with some absolutely not hot woman, it seems they had to settle for something.	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 02:32 PM
7	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. that women in general are held to far more rigid social standards than men are. Yes, since childhood, and lot of years before men, women are thinking about socials when we men are just goofing around and dreaming about what we see in many mythos.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 08:14 PM
1	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Any other sort of backdoor strategy and rumination leads to bitterness. Bending yourself unnaturally out of shape, realizing it's bullshit, and then trying to figure out what you are in the aftermath. Exactly this, I’m so tired of trying to have control, like it was some form of chess. It is in some subtle way, and in a general aspect, and I would love to dominated, I guess is the find that I would love most, but it is almost impossible to be fully aware of everything involve, and the fact that …	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 05:53 AM
2	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Hey I love your post, and even though I not quite agree with your point, I agree with or empathized with many of the arguments. I don’t agree with the point as I know I am one of those nice guys, and I totally understand that the nice guy thing is just a charade for fear of being rejected, so you act just extra nice so you won’t have problems with anyone and it’s the way to try to please the person you are interested in. Yes I guess I’m not that bad, but I discover this, I grow to be a coward ab…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 05:23 AM
0	Is this Red Pill or Not? I love reading this kind of post, just take some anxiety away from me. I mean, realizing relationships are so simple yet so complex. There’s no formula and you can’t really control much, I would say. Maybe you can control some basic aspects like personal fitness, don’t smell, etc, but then it seems you cannot force shit. Most relationships I had happened when I was thinner and it didn’t feel like a huge task. I mean simple people get together all the time. Common sense tell you that if you are a…	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/20 07:00 PM