Pickledsundae Archive

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1	What actually makes a man feel “naturally confident” in social situations? Meditation, buddhusm and reading Alan Watts and Mark Manson has helped me a lot. I know I'm good looking too and work out, but knowing the more you seek something you feel you lack within, the more you'll be chasing your own tail. Paradoxical but accepting yourself and, as someone else said, being blase or unattached of outcomes is best, but takes giving a fuck about more important things than "feeling confident"	/r/seduction	20/05/26 05:18 PM
1	To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks.. Haha glad you keep in touch	/r/seduction	20/05/26 05:13 PM
63	Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple. Not gonna lie, anything relating to netflix sounds like it may trigger Me2 PTSD in some chicks considering how profilic "Netflix and chill" was. I do believe your 'magic line' really is a gem, though; helps preempt anti slut defense and flips script. Personally, what always works for me, even when said after first date going well is saying how she likely would lose in a game of Jenga, or some way of teasing and playing into competitive spirit and going back to your place to play jenga, usually w…	/r/seduction	20/05/26 12:53 PM
1	you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter Imo I certainly have had even the most basic banter and teasing backfire with, not necessarily dumb, but extremely insecure, unfunny, girls. Truth is, not worth the teeth pulling to bang someone you wouldn't enjoy spending time with aftewards	/r/seduction	20/05/26 10:25 AM
1	you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter Haha gotcha hope you found some you like or can make your own	/r/seduction	20/05/26 10:23 AM
1	To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks.. She your wife now?	/r/seduction	20/05/26 10:20 AM
1	What is the best response to rejection? "princess says wat" "Flaky McFlake flake says what" "Gayy" "Woof" alongside dog meme "Smell ya later" "That's not what your mom said" All these make me laugh but, as one of the first comments emphasized, best thing is to learn to be okay with not needing to respond to these and move on	/r/seduction	18/05/26 12:04 PM
1	you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter Sure thing	/r/seduction	18/05/26 11:30 AM
1	you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter Hey sure thing. Just remember everything said with smirk and that bold is better than boring (but needs congruence with confidence, so best start with phrases that you find funny and can actually rehearse in mirror and see your self saying)	/r/seduction	18/05/26 10:20 AM
1	No-nonsense dating app pickup line to secure a date within a day or two "you look like a serial killer"	/r/seduction	28/04/26 12:05 PM
5	so my friend introduced me to a girl whom he was chatting on hinge and offered me to set me up with her and i said ok. Yeah. No matter your age, best let the woman say what you are if you're not looking for something serious	/r/seduction	14/04/26 11:43 AM
1	Opening Hinge Messages I've gotten some really good replies but yeah it still comes down to what to follow up with	/r/seduction	13/04/26 03:37 PM
5	you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banter This guy gets it. I have a whole list if you're interested in more comments cocky/funny like his: Banters - Talking and Texting Remember, all of these are said in a light-hearted confident way. SMILE DAMN IT. Do NOT make them feel insecure, it's not negging. I'm really easy to get along with once you learn to worship me You and I would not get along. Luckily, I'm a moral rock. - If conversation starts to get sexual ❤️If things get fiesty argumentative ❤️ We would be bad together, all fights and …	/r/seduction	13/04/26 10:30 AM
2	I pretended to be rich on hinge Hajah you're the man this is awesome	/r/seduction	10/04/26 05:30 PM
1	Any good cold openers for sharing? A simple yet surprisingly effective one I got two numbers at a local bar last Friday was "excuse me, are you single?" If they say yes and/or why do you ask, you can then follow up with something like "well then, I ask because you caught my eye and I just had to come over and say hi. I'm "name' by the way" Totally singles out the singles and saying they caught your eye isn't an over the top compliment. Just be sure to ask it with gusto; if you're feeling a bit nervous, I guess you could add somet…	/r/seduction	10/04/26 02:14 PM
1	What makes a woman really into you when she’s only attracted? Something to remember is you've gotta strive for an emotional connection through building rapport. Do you have any routines in your arsenal to use? If not, lemme know; many old school pickup artist routines seem canned and cheesy, but some are quite effective and make you stand out as a guy in touch with his emotions.	/r/seduction	10/04/26 02:06 PM
2	She seemed really interested in the moment then went cold on text Tbh I don't see how this text would do much to help reignite interest, and may come off as butthurt. Even if I am feeling butthurt in a situation like this where a girl gets cold on texting, I strive to at least entertain myself, and sometimes actually get renewed interest/replies sending the following: "Out of all the (insert first and last name)'s I know, I think you're my favorite" "I forget, are we fighting and, more importantly, am I winning" "Welcome back if you were on vacation/jail/kidna…	/r/seduction	10/04/26 01:53 PM
2	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? Kinda hate you didn't even suggest anything in lieu for OP	/r/seduction	25/03/26 03:25 PM
2	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? Hahha glad you dig em. And bingo, that I did. Got many notes; lemme know if you ever need a dating app Name Pun Poem opener lol	/r/seduction	25/03/26 01:02 PM
14	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? I use some pinging messages that at least entertain you and demonstrate outcome independence; I'm quite cocky funny from start, so proper calibration required for some of these (these are ones I've actually used, some simply because I thought response no matter what was unlikely and I found it funny, but sometimes actually worked) (This one is GREAT) Out of all the (first name) (last name)s I know ... I think you're my favorite I can't believe how much I'm not sick of you. I'm glad we stay mil…	/r/seduction	25/03/26 12:27 PM
1	Kissing and making out on date is rookie move Sorry if someone already brought it up, but one need not forget to hammer home strong rapport building; if she's still only in attraction and/or comfort stages when you make out, id say she's more likely to flake second date because of the aforesaid sexual pressure. If you build a strong rapport and emotional connection (love test routine, deep questions into her passions/family, being vulnerable yourself and getting her to be through disclosure, etc.) then the making out can strengthen the emot…	/r/seduction	11/03/26 02:19 PM
1	Did my first fist approach while grocery shopping went bad Bro thank you for this post 🤘	/r/seduction	08/03/26 07:50 PM
1	appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships? Know any real estate buddies? Many of them do networking happy hours monthly after work. I've had great success that way.	/r/seduction	18/02/26 01:23 PM
1	Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear?? A bold move after some of the "personality/vibe check" banter texts to gain familiarity and comfort, I used to pull was to do the following: Opening message "hey there, name. Let's play truth or dare; you pick first" If they say "truth" I say "what are the actual 10 digits to the cellular device in your hand" If they say "dare" I say " I dare you to lemme know the 10 digits to the cellular device in your hand" Also, if you're not sure what to open with, I compiled funny punny name pun poems for …	/r/seduction	04/02/26 08:14 PM
3	to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself. Haha no problem. Said with a smirk, def gets a laugh. And if they find it weird, quick way to not waste your time on someone who doesn't have a good sense of humor	/r/seduction	04/02/26 12:31 PM
70	to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself. "the voices in my head told me to come over and talk to you"	/r/seduction	02/02/26 04:45 PM
2	Those of you who don't get rejected... Beat around the bush to get to it!	/r/seduction	30/01/26 10:21 AM
1	23 year old virgin Learn to do things for ends in themselves, and not means for an end. If you can reorient your metrics of success towards improving your process and not fixating on results, that can help you become more outcome independent. My goal in approaching women is to have fun, not to get a number or date. Going up to simply anyone when you've a smile on your face and engaging in conversations helps take off the pressure when it may happen to be someone attractive because you're essentially flirting/teasi…	/r/seduction	07/01/26 01:54 PM
1	Who else is going out for NYES? I mean yeah, so long as you do it with a smirk and confidence. Hell, if you're mildly good looking and confident, you can fucking pull the "come here often line ;)" ironically and have good results	/r/seduction	30/12/25 12:29 PM
2	Who else is going out for NYES? Rooting for ya man! Starting small's great cause it helps ya not take the whole approaching thing too seriously and relieved the pressure so that you find yourself simply going up to people that seem relatable or interesting. Not only helps loosen you up to approach either the hot girl(s) in the group once you've met potential AMOG or less attractive friends, but helps get you noticed by other potential approaches as being social, outgoing and likable.	/r/seduction	30/12/25 12:27 PM
1	How to respond It's a reply you can use in more situations than you know, and get more drinks tossed in your face than you'd think	/r/seduction	29/12/25 10:57 PM
-3	How to respond This demands an Agree and Amplify response. Something like "damn straight I am. Tho I'm going easy on yeah; don't wanna get you pregnant"	/r/seduction	29/12/25 08:44 PM
1	Who else is going out for NYES? I hear ya man. We tend to stand in our own way of positive progression and breaking free from negative feedback looping thought patterns. I wonder if it may help you to think about the worst that happens is; I'm guessing you're afraid of rejection or seeming awkward, and that is okay. I know it seems cheesy, but something I've learned that is much better than learning "game" that has you imitiating something or someone that you are not, is practicing some vulnerability but in a self assured, sel…	/r/seduction	29/12/25 07:10 PM
1	Is this message I am sending boring? Try this on for size: "you look like a serial killer" Is a great opener; warning: may confuse the shit out of girls who take themselves too seriously, but for the flirty fun girls out there, it immediately sets a role playing vibe	/r/seduction	29/12/25 03:59 PM
-2	Who else is going out for NYES? Woof man. Do you not understand how easy of an icebreaker that is? No need to memorize an opener, and allows you to get kino in. Lemme ask ya something: what are you feeling that makes you not feel hopeful and feel like you wouldn't have a fun conversation?	/r/seduction	29/12/25 03:55 PM
2	Who else is going out for NYES? Something fun you could do to easily approach girls is to buy a bunch of glow sticks that have the connectors to make bracelets and just simply go up to a hot girl or group of girls and say something like" hey, I noticed y'all could use some help starting the new year out with more glowing, brighter vibes" (then put the glow stick bracelets on them for breaking kino tension before shaking hands) Chicks love that kinda shit. It's a great opener for any party like situation, especially Halloween o…	/r/seduction	29/12/25 02:24 PM
3	How do I stop caring? This right here!!! Love me the Camus reference. Also, this quote by him helps remind us of how important focusing on being mindful and present in the moment is because both the past and future don't actually exist: the only time is now: "If there is a sin against life, it consists perhaps not so much in despairing of life as in hoping for another life and in eluding the implacable grandeur of this life." Albert -camus	/r/seduction	29/12/25 02:18 PM
3	Social Routine Question: who the hell told you you're a 5.5 in the face? Take that at face value Gym classes, run clubs, especially those that start and end at breweries. Do you live in a city? Also, networking happy hour events are great and lowkey; you'll usually get a name tag so it's super nonchalant introducing yourself to someone ("your name tag says Jessica but your vibe tells me you were a Veronica in a past life". These events usually are hosted by realtors, young professional groups, charities, and s…	/r/seduction	28/12/25 09:34 PM
2	Heeeelp My advice would be: 1. Absolutely ensure there's zero chance of not being able to get it up rock hard (DM me if you want suggestions on sites if ya know what I mean). The anxiety I've gotten from the one or two times I somehow couldn't get it up and of not having something on hand just in case is crazy 2. Foreplay is important, even if she's already hot and heavy; start with kissing and tonguing earlobes, mouth, neck, moving down to shoulders, around nipples, switching from one breast to the oth…	/r/seduction	28/12/25 06:22 PM
1	Did I ask out too soon? Id say a good rule of thumb is to chat about culinary and alcoholic interests in a flirty way because it then makes the transition into asking her out somewhere that much more natural when y'all been getting to know more about what foods and drinks and places y'all enjoy. Something like "I'd go grab Mexican food with you, but I'm scared the cops will end up involved because you can't handle your tequila" or randomly through in: "SUPER Important question" (after she says 'what is it?', say) "wine…	/r/seduction	24/12/25 12:56 PM
1	To text her or not game A great opening text to someone that is guaranteed to get a laugh and respark interest is: "Out of all the (her first name) (her last name)'s I know, I think you're my favorite"	/r/seduction	23/12/25 02:16 PM
1	I am sick of not being able attract women Great comment. Gonna add that acting like she's the one seducing you and misinterpreting things as sexual here and there goes along way in making her both laugh and get turned on. Cocky/funny and push/pull tactics go a long way here too to spice things up and make it a more fun dynamic. I have compiled a list of a bunch of situational comments and lines that work real well when timed properly. Even slightly backhanded compliments like "you look really good, but it could just be the lighting" or …	/r/seduction	23/12/25 01:18 PM
5	Showing emotional intelligence on profile A great way to show emotional intelligence on first date is to go the School of Life way and ask early on, "...what makes you mad?" And share vulnerabilities early on. Of course, done in a confident manner that shows you're self aware and accepting of your flaws, and don't pretend you're perfect. You'd be amazed how quickly people open up when you allow yourself to be vulnerable	/r/seduction	23/12/25 12:59 PM
1	Newton's Third Law of Emotion Yeah we often forget that once rapport is established, to still break it occasionally: "you look absolutely stunning.....looks up and around but I dunno, it could just be this lighting"	/r/seduction	20/12/25 02:02 PM
1	Excluding touch, in what ways do you subtly flirt? What are some things you'd do for a girl you're interested in and not for a girl you weren't? Got me a laugh	/r/seduction	20/12/25 01:57 PM
1	Good conversations but zero attraction , what actually kills sexual tension? I concur with this sentiment. It sounds like the focus needs to not even be on the conversation perse, but on being playful, cocky funny	/r/seduction	19/12/25 02:42 PM
1	How do you guys approach From the side works best in my opinion	/r/seduction	19/12/25 02:40 PM
3	I Tried 100 Pickup Lines, These 3 Will Get You Dates And when her ex and estranged in-prison father's named both John...	/r/seduction	19/12/25 02:39 PM
2	Make this make sense Fuck. That's some 3d chess moves if so	/r/seduction	18/12/25 11:24 PM
3	Make this make sense Fuck. That's some 3d chess moves if so	/r/seduction	18/12/25 11:24 PM
1	Make this make sense Meh. Care to delve into how that's childish? If anything, he was realistic	/r/seduction	18/12/25 11:23 PM
2	Make this make sense Lesson is: move on....but send a fucked up funny meme as the last reply so you at least end on you're own chuckle	/r/seduction	18/12/25 11:22 PM
2	Pull-Pull Primers? Push pull won't necessarily get investment if your conversation and rapport game is off; more important is working on connecting with her on a deeper emotional level, and ensuring you weave conversations into less traveled grounds, away from small talk.	/r/seduction	18/12/25 02:28 PM
11	I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss. How is your kino escalation? How much push and pull teasing are you doing?	/r/seduction	18/12/25 02:08 PM
5	I think I'm deleting Tinder Bag em Borat style	/r/seduction	17/12/25 03:06 PM
7	I think I'm deleting Tinder Btw just had a date not long ago with a Kazakh girl: apparently bringing flowers may not actually be a simp move on first date and sometimes is expected	/r/seduction	17/12/25 01:09 PM
11	I think I'm deleting Tinder Curious, how y'all manage to get banned lol I used to say some pretty outrageous stuff, like opening first message as "You look like a serial killer" but somehow never managed to get banned	/r/seduction	17/12/25 01:08 PM
1	Opening Hinge Messages Gotta stand out and i find it fun making them	/r/seduction	14/12/25 03:25 PM
1	Assuming emotional connection and sexual chemistry, will asking a girl to be exclusive turn her off, or do they typically like it if the guy initiates that discussion? Actually so true. I've offended several girls on a first date by being too cocky/funny to more insecure types. But hey, even though it would've been nice to smash, not sharing a sense of humor is such a red flag to compatibility	/r/seduction	12/12/25 05:12 PM
1	Assuming emotional connection and sexual chemistry, will asking a girl to be exclusive turn her off, or do they typically like it if the guy initiates that discussion? I dig this. Essentially boils down to jerkboy teasing and the opposite of approval seeking. Bold over bothered.	/r/seduction	12/12/25 02:21 PM
3	Opening Hinge Messages So, I have had great success with this strategy: because girls dig something that stands out from boring normal openers, when I used to use dating apps, I always would always send them a funny short poem with their name (and incorporating their profile/picture details if possible), usually used in a punny way. Nearly always, they loved it, and then id make conversation focus on something from their pictures or profile. To get the number after building a little rapport, I would do a "truth or dar…	/r/seduction	11/12/25 03:18 PM
2	Reality Check When in doubt, assume it's a shit test and take things sincerely, not seriously	/r/seduction	10/12/25 02:11 PM
1	The dark side of this game This is well said	/r/seduction	08/12/25 12:51 PM
2	The dark side of this game I say it showed her true colors if that somehow "turned her off"; that isn't a girl worth pursuing if she doesn't reciprocate. I met this attractive blonde Russian girl last week at a networking event and immediately hit it off, went out with her Friday, even came back to her house (we just hung out in her garage couch, heavy make out and drinking). She insisted I Uber and even called and texted to make sure I made it home at like 0130. Made sure the next day to time me coming back over when she…	/r/seduction	08/12/25 12:50 PM
5	Escalation advice Bro. It kinda sounds like you both have so much sexual tension you don't need to overthink escalation. Also why the fuck is she coming over and sleeping over? Help you with what, take a load off?	/r/seduction	04/12/25 05:50 PM
23	How I turned Instagram story replies into 4 dates this month Dick pix	/r/seduction	03/12/25 08:16 PM
1	21M no experience, no confidence, afraid of rejection Where do ya live? Also, have you tried the Meetup app?	/r/seduction	03/12/25 07:18 PM
1	21M no experience, no confidence, afraid of rejection Hi there. I would recommend joining a run club at a local brewery. You'll be with like minded people since you exercise and the beers after the run will help boost your confidence. Simply go with the mindset of making friends first and foremost, don't even pressure yourself to get numbers anytime soon. Just show up and you'll become part of the group and the genuine relationships you form will boost your confidence significantly. Although you could then try seducing girls in the run club, my adv…	/r/seduction	03/12/25 06:58 PM
1	How do i improve my dm game ? Holy paywall	/r/seduction	03/12/25 02:50 PM
1	How do i improve my dm game ? Interesting. You mind sharing this tool of yours?	/r/seduction	03/12/25 01:31 PM
2	How do i improve my dm game ? On Facebook, I make sure they look at some of my stories first then open with "So, I've a confession to make", which peeks interest. So, on Instagram you might then say "So I know Instagram's more bout dank memes than finding the girl of your dreams, but I only wanna say you're seriously stunning and seem down to earth. I'd love to take a chance to see if we click". Hope that helps!	/r/seduction	03/12/25 01:29 PM
1	Hey would you say instagram is a waste of time what are the chances a girl will reply to you back in instagram ? I have had great luck adding random people with mutual friends on Facebook. My strategy is this: If they accept, immediately and consistently (like 1-3 short videos and/or picture with you, every or every other day) post stories of you doing cool interesting shit that shows off what you enjoy doing. For me, it's currently been cutting pumpkins with my katana, shooting my bow, playing guitar, and doing martial arts. Include as many doggos as possible, too. Try not to be obsessive about it, but be…	/r/seduction	01/12/25 03:35 PM
1	Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validation Pre selection baby	/r/seduction	01/12/25 03:15 PM
0	Dating Coach? 10 years old hahah He pulling em girls on the playground and getting allll the cooties	/r/seduction	26/11/25 06:51 PM
4	Is there a way to boost self esteem? If you're depressed and not interested in dating, then that should also mean you are more outcome independent of how the interaction with these women go, and shouldn't give a fuck about how you come off (but, of course, while always being respectful and kind). Think about it, you don't have anything to lose if you aren't even worried about trying to get a date, so just experiment and approach girls. PM me if you want some good resources. But it's confusing as to why you want to, as your post ref…	/r/seduction	26/11/25 05:41 PM
1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? To help deal with the possible oneitis/ obsession you may get when hitting initial success, I highly suggest you remind yourself that this endeavor is icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Even a remote job part time will help wonders because it will help your confidence when one of the first things a girl asks about you is "what do you do". Additionally, I highly suggest you watch YouTube videos on meditation and do meditation breath work in those moments you got the girl's number but she's t…	/r/seduction	24/11/25 02:27 PM
3	ONS ruins soul and mind Suns out, puns out over here	/r/seduction	19/11/25 05:03 PM
13	I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs. Lol that's not like the usual gentleman clubs	/r/seduction	04/07/23 07:29 PM
0	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? Omg this is one of the most cogently concocted explanations of women who say that phrase imo	/r/seduction	20/04/23 05:13 PM
2	How to deal with a low effort person? I love using this text as one last hurrah: "Lemme know when you're free so I can make sure I'm busy"	/r/seduction	11/10/22 12:30 AM
1	What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar? (alternative gets back pickup line: "for the record, im flattered y'all roofied my drink(s)"	/r/seduction	03/10/22 02:59 AM
8	It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourself Best comment ever	/r/seduction	30/09/22 03:50 AM
1	Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekend Location totally important here, too. Fuck, social acceptance / validation via joining college clubs or really any networking lead to better overall social outcomes and thus lead to better N/K	/r/seduction	31/08/22 05:06 AM
5	You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things? I totally scrolled past per usual this... I came back because omfg... SKINNY DIPPING. It's one of the easiest ways to get literally anyone to tell you their life story, as it relates to... Stripping their clothes off Props to this guyyyyyy ...... Ps piercings and or tattoos may even behave best as easy pre-skinny dipping questions?	/r/seduction	31/08/22 02:39 AM
2	The number one trait you need to get laid. Hey, no problemo man! Yeah, baby steps are exactly what I need too when I'm trying to implement a new habit. Lol currently, it's meditating 5 minutes a day, whicch I'll increase once it's become more inveterate. It's definitely daunting and disheartening when you try taking huge leaps towards change instead of smaller, more bite size steps that you gradually titrate up! Wish ya the best of luck.	/r/seduction	23/05/21 09:15 PM
2	The number one trait you need to get laid. Ah, I'm curious, are you from the middle east? What is your background? I'm not sure how much you've jumped into pickup artist stuff yet but that mark Manson book is your best starting point/ lily pad IMHO. I've spent ALOT of time looking up Pua stuff and I find myself going back to Models. One big theme I respect of his is learning how to view people as not as means to an end, but ends in of themselves. This is important because it helps avoid coming off as creepy or needy, and outcome oriented…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 06:41 PM
2	The number one trait you need to get laid. His book is quite comprehensive. Although it may not specifically deep dive into kino, his focus on inner game and habits that will skyrocket your confidence will help you more than specific kino guides.... THO specific kino guides have their place, too. How do you do on the handshake with girls?	/r/seduction	22/05/21 05:05 PM
1	What are some things you can do to seem more attractive? Make sure to keep extras in your close by windowless van!	/r/seduction	11/02/21 11:10 PM
1	It’s 2021: Go For It Hahah omg I just started watching this! Also, the lockdown has definitely made it been a while so everythings slowly but surely becoming sexual to me.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 12:37 PM
1	It’s 2021: Go For It "Going scorched earth" Is that a reference to being hairless down there?	/r/seduction	07/01/21 07:46 PM